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TABLE OF

CONTENTS

The Education

ISSUE

Get to know your local private schools and daycares. Learn about the latest education trends, the hottest apps and more.

On the Cover Are: Two members of TCAP’s Team

Low-Cost, Compassionate Solutions for Animal Welfare

FEATURED:

56 EDITORS PICK:

The Snake Whisperer of Lantana

ASK THE EXPERTS

10 Inside Community

39 Community Corner

14 Gardening with Complete Solutions

11 Inside Education

40 Chloe Kelley The Soaper Girl

25 Fitness with Jesse James Fit

12 Summer Swimming with

43 Helping Parents with Crying Infants

42 School Days with Valorie McGilvra 61 Dentistry with Country Lakes Family Dental

BUSINESS SPOTLIGHTS 13 PointBank: Everything about PointBank is the Real Deal

17 Primrose Schools: Making Believers Out of the Critics

ARTICLES 07 DKH Academy Serves the

Community for Over 40 Years

08 How to Pick After-School Care www.LantanaLiving.com

Lantana Lightning

18 16 Questions Libby Spears of Bravo Communication and Consulting

21 Local Author Honored at 2019 Indie Book Awards

22 Get Ready for Shark Week 26 FLM Town Hall Has Positive Reviews 28 Sheriff’s Corner with Sheriff Tracy Murphree

30 Hidden Dangers of Trampolines 34 Dress Your Best While Staying Cool 36 Communities in Schools

44 Teen Crushes and How to Handle Them 47 Foodie Friday DFW with Jay Marks Real Estate

48 Local Business Ranked Among World’s Most Elite

52 Restaurant Spotlight: Lambeau’s America Kitchen & Taps

55 All-District 2019 District 5-6A 58 Liberty’s Isom Reflects Back on His Career

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Education Article

DKH ACADEMY

SERVES THE COMMUNITY FOR OVER

40 YEARS W

hat inspired me to become the owner of DKH Academy? I first entered DKH Academy as a parent searching for the perfect preschool for my then-18-month-old daughter. As a teacher in a local school district,

my standards were high, and my search for a school that was accredited by the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) pulled up only one school in all of Denton County – DKH Academy. I started and ended my search after the first visit. It was everything a quality early childhood program could offer.

As a certified early childhood educator

(Q) What sets DKH Academy apart from

Every minute offers intentional and

for over 20 years, I had always carried a

(A) There are many choices for childcare

both inside and out!

who’s been working in the classroom

dream to open my own preschool that exemplified a true passion for making

photos courtesy of Nancy Parra

learning fun and for growing little minds and encouraging them to explore the world around them. After having my daughter enrolled at DKH Academy

for two years, I knew this school was

special. The rest was fate. I knew that the standards and philosophies for

addressing the interests and learning

needs of every child at DKH were exactly in line with what I was hoping to provide in my own school, so when the

opportunity came to become the new

owner, I accepted it with honor! I am only the third owner, and this year, we are

celebrating 40 years in the community!

everyone else?

in our area, but there is only one choice if you are seeking a premier private

preschool experience. We are not a

daycare; we are here to enrich and inspire each little mind and soul that walks into our classrooms. We don’t want to be the place where you need your child

to be – we want to be the place where

you WANT your child to play, learn, and grow! Our teachers are all degreed,

have backgrounds in early childhood education, and most are certified

educators with many years of experience.

DKH Academy is heaven for anyone with a

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We have been fortunate to have been

nominated in the top 3 for Best of Denton County every year since 2011, and have

won many of those years. We are grateful that our families acknowledge how high

we set our standards. We strive to be the best every day!

(Q) How many years have you been in business?

(A) DKH Academy is celebrating 40 years as of 2019!

(Q) What is an interesting fact

passion for early childhood education.

about DKH?

We were the first certified Nature Explore

DKH stand for?”…Well, here it goes, it

Outdoor Classroom in the state of Texas, and we are still the only preschool in

pictured above is Nancy Parra, owner of DKH Academy

developmentally appropriate experiences

(A) We often get the question, “What does stands for Das Kinder Haus.

Denton County officially accredited by

(Q) What is a word to describe me?

the benefits of play-based instruction,

loving our jobs every day, and it starts at

environment that exposes each child

that enters our school. It is a personal

appropriate educational opportunities –

what you do and believing in what you

and create based on his or her interests.

for children!

NAEYC. We are uniquely focused on

(A) Happy. Parents see us all smiling and

and we create a relationship driven

the top. I enjoy every child and parent

to a wide variety of developmentally

relationship, and joy comes from loving

thus empowering each child to explore

provide. DKH Academy is a hidden gem

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Education Article

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he dog days of summer are drawing to a close, which means back-to-school prep is right around the corner. But outside of the typical stuff like buying supplies, showing up for teacher orientations, scheduling sports physicals, and sifting through the latest fashion trends, most parents have one more key item on their to-do list: figuring out after-school care. Just because school ends at 3 p.m. for the kiddos doesn’t mean our work schedules do. For many of us, we’ve still got another

two or three hours left on the clock, and when you factor in the occasional early dismissal, teacher in-service day, etc., that can

create a stressful balancing act for any parent. It would really help

out if we had somewhere safe for the kids to go, and luckily, that’s

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where after-school care comes into play.

Below are a few tips on how to pick after-school care that fits you and your child’s needs:

SEE IF YOUR KIDS’ SCHOOL OFFERS ANY PROGRAMS Before you start looking to the myriad of childcare options

throughout Denton County, keep in mind that many school

districts have after-school programs with staff available as late as

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ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS If you are forced to look outside your kids’ school, write down a list of your top questions ahead of time as you call facilities. Here are a few to get you started: 1. Who is watching my child and what type of training do they have? 2. What schools do you service? 3. What activities do you offer and will my child have time to do homework? 4. How do you ensure all children are getting along? 5. How long have you been in business? 6. What are your hours? another location and will be surrounded by the same people and classmates they see in the halls each day.

CHECK WITH YOUR SCHOOL FOR A PREFERRED-PROVIDER LIST Many times, your school’s administration will have a preferred-provider list for after-school care. Even if they don’t, simply asking someone in the front office may yield a few decent options. This will at least give you a short list to work from while also

providing peace of mind that these

outside facilities have been referred.

LOOK TO COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS Safe and healthy after-school care

can normally be found at community

organizations such as the YMCA, Boys &

Girls Clubs, churches, and more. Many of these

programs are perfect for families who need more

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7. Does the facility cater to kids with special needs? A major concern for parents of children with special needs is whether or not the after-school program is set up to handle children with special needs or learning disabilities that likely require individualized care and 1-on-1 instruction.

THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX The tips above should definitely help you find an after-school program that can meet you and your child’s needs. But if you don’t feel comfortable, a few additional options include hiring an after-school nanny with experience in education or finding a family member or friend who can pick your children up after school – especially if it’s a friend whose kid goes to the same school or is in the same class as your child. At the end of the day, we as parents want nothing but the best for our children. Selecting the right after-school program is another piece to that puzzle, and it takes careful consideration. Rather than wait until school starts, now is the time to start researching your options. JULY 2019 | LANTANA LIVING | 9

INSIDE COMMUNITY NATIONAL DISC GOLF DAY Sat, Aug 3 | Heritage Park Disc Golf Course 600 Spinks Rd. • Flower Mound, TX 75028 Disc golf is one of the fastest growing sports! The rules of disc golf are very similar to golf. The difference being you are trying to get the disc in the basket and not the ball in the hole. Heritage Disc Golf Course is an incredible 18 hole course nestled within the woodlands of the Cross Timbers eco-region. For more courses, Google disc golf course near me. Visit Kidswithouttablets.com for the basics to playing disc golf.

MATILDA THE MUSICAL Jul 26 - Aug 11 | Fri. & Sat. at 7:30pm | Sun at 2:30pm | Oh Look Theatre 1631 West Northwest Hwy. • Grapevine, TX 76051 Matilda Wormwood is an extraordinary girl with a vivid imagination. In order to overcome obstacles the courageous little girl dares to take a stand and changer her own destiny and in doing so, discovers she has some unusual talents and remarkable powers. Matilda’s teacher, Miss Honey, is shy and fragile but through Matilda’s acts of bravery, Miss Honey and her students learn that even though life can be hard, “nobody but me is gonna change my story” so “sometimes you have to be a little bit naughty.” Tickets are $18. To purchase tickets visit ohlookperform.com or call 817.421.2825.

32ND ANNUAL HIGHLAND VILLAGE LIONS BALLOON FESTIVAL & CAR SHOW Aug 16-18 | Unity Park 2200 Briarhill Blvd. • Highland Village, TX 75077 Come out to Unity Park and enjoy the Kids Zone, Food, Live Music, a Car Show, Vendor and Exhibitors Booths and of course the iconic Hot Air Balloons. There is no entry fee to the festival but a $5.00 donation is requested for parking. Festivities start at 5pm on the 16th. Visit www.lionsballoonfest.com for more details.

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INSIDE EDUCATION BACK 2 SCHOOL FAIR 2019 Sat., Aug 10 | 8am-1pm | UNT Gateway Center 801 N Texas Blvd. • Denton, TX 76201 The event serves families with free school supplies and backpacks, health education resources, free vision screenings, hearing exams, haircuts, and more. For more information visit. dentonbacktoschool.org.

DENTON ISD BEST IN MUSIC DISD’s Music Education program is recognized for the 12th consecutive year as one of the “Best Communities for Music Education” by the NAMM Foundation. This award recognizes that Denton ISD is leading the way with learning opportunities as outlined in the Every Student Succeeds Act (ESSA). Receiving this recognition is just one more indication that Denton is a great place to live, work, LEARN and play.

NCTC ENROLLMENT EVENT / OPENHOUSE Sat., Jul 27 | 9am-1pm | FSB Exchange at NCTC 314 East Hickory St. • Denton, TX 76201 The ultimate StartSmarter event – come get details, a tour and assistance registering for Fall 2019 at the NEW Exchange Campus. Students can also apply for Financial Aid and get help from an advisor. Reserve your spot on eventbrite and get your free ticket! Just search NCTC Enrollment Event/ Open House on www.EventBrite.com. www.LantanaLiving.com

HARPOOL MIDDLE SCHOOL SCHEDULE PICK-UP DATES AND TIMES: 6th Grade Tuesday, July 30 9 – 11am Last Names A-L 1 – 3pm Last Names M-Z 7th Grade Wednesday, July 31 9 – 11am Last Names A-L 1 – 3pm Last Names M-Z 8th Grade Thursday, August 1 3 – 7pm All 8th Grade Students 5 – 7pm ALL STUDENTS

FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL FOR DENTON ISD

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Summer Swimming With

Lantana Lightning by Steve Gamel

ulie Heuer’s children were still little when her family

competing in to qualify for an end-of-year All-Star meet.

like she was pretty good at keeping her eyes and

pitted Lantana Lightning swimmers against those from

first moved to Lantana, and like any mom, she felt

ears peeled for fun summer activities for the kiddos.

But even she admits she didn’t have a clue Lantana had

its own summer swim team called the Lantana Lightning. “I had no idea, and you still hear that all the time,” Heuer

said. “Some parents don’t know until registration is over.” With nearly 200 active swimmers between the ages of 5 to 18, the Lantana Lightning is definitely not a

hidden treasure. In fact, it’s easily one of the largest

competitive swim teams in southern Denton County. But Heuer, now a board member, is one of many

officials who refuse to rest on their laurels and are continually trying to get the word out.

So if your kids enjoy team sports as well as swimming, then look no further than the neighborhood pool.

The new format allowed anyone to participate and

Wellington, Bridlewood, Highland Shores, Castlewood, and more.

Though results and pictures weren’t available to be mentioned in this article (check back in our August issue), Heuer said the meet pulled in between 600 to 700 area swimmers. It was held at the Westside Aquatics Center in Lewisville.

“It’s exciting because our meets are usually outdoor

meets,” Heuer said. “This one was indoors, and it is such

a beautiful facility. We are competing against other teams this time. We changed it this year so that more kids could be involved.”

While the swim team is currently on a break so that

many of its older swimmers can turn their attention to the high school season, now is as good a time as any

Lantana Lightning is a member of Swim North Texas and

to sign your child up for next season. Registration for

being a fun, summer swim team for everyone, whether

swimmers and new families.

just wrapped up its 16th season. The team prides itself on

2020 is right around the corner in April for returning

your child is the type that just comes out to swim for the

The team is expected to host its second-annual Polar Plunge

summer or is as competitive as a swimmer can get and practices every chance he or she can get.

There are a few rules, including being able to swim 25

yards and that the swimmer is a resident of Lantana, but the goal is to have fun, learn a few tricks, and be a part of a team. Beginning each May, the kids

practice throughout the week in the mornings in

preparation for dual meets against nearby teams. On June 16, Lantana Lightning competed in its

in February in cooperation with the neighborhood HOA.

Roughly 50 plungers, both kids and adults, came out earlier this year to swim in 40 to 50-degree weather. As part of the

festivities, prizes were awarded in competitions for the best belly flop and best cannonball.

“We are the fun, summer swim team,” Heuer said. “You don’t have to be the best of the

best. We just want people to come out and give Lantana Lightning a try.”

final meet of the summer, the SNT Championship.

If you are interested in having your child be a

a specific time in whichever event they were

at www.teamunify.com.

Unlike past years where swimmers had to post

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Business Spotlight

EVERYTHING ABOUT

POINTBANK IS THE REAL DEAL by Steve Gamel

Ray David, Jr.

Ray Bowens

Jenny Layne Murdoch

Max Miller

photos courtesy of PointBank

hen a customer refers to someone or something as “the real deal,” they are saying it can’t be imitated or duplicated. In the community banking world, there’s no better example of that than PointBank.

PointBank has been serving Denton

When PointBank recently launched its

REAL as it gets. They have won over their

nothing new for this bank – there were

County for more than 130 years and is as customers with the philosophy that you can do all the same things at their nine

branches that you can do at a big bank but with REAL people who know you and are invested in the success of local communities.

They run a REAL bank that grows and

adapts to your every need, whether it’s a REAL free checking account for you and

your children or being there to give you a REAL fast loan decision to start, grow, or save your business.

Simply put, it’s a REAL Bank with REAL

People who offer REAL Free Checking and REAL Fast Loan Decisions.

“Plenty of banks say they are there to

support their customers, but you have

to be the real deal and show it through

your actions every day,” said Ray David Jr., President of PointBank. “Consumers are

needlessly paying higher fees and being

denied loans by big banks that don’t care

REAL campaign – again, being REAL is

plenty of REAL customers lining up at the door to sing the bank’s praises for a new 30-second commercial.

“I can do everything with PointBank that I can do with a big bank. The biggest

difference is I can look at people and talk

to them,” said Ray Bowens, owner of Kwik Kar Vista Ridge in Lewisville. “I know who they are.”

branches? These are open to the public and bring business owners together to discuss relevant business topics. It’s simply the way PointBank prefers to do business. Visiting one of the nine PointBank branches takes you back to the days of handshake deals with the bank president and employees who know you by name, yet also into the future through continuous product advancements in online banking and account/loan applications and mobile options for both your deposit and lending needs. And it is that commitment to hiring REAL

Spa agreed, “PointBank gets it. There are

people who fit this culture that makes

so many businesses that don’t.”

PointBank the REAL deal.

“When I do come in, I feel like part of the

PointBank is a ‘Member FDIC’ bank and an

family,” added Max Miller, owner of the Cross Timbers Gazette.

And this from Jenny Layne from The Jenny Layne Bakery, “They are there to support

you, and that’s what family does – sending business our way and getting our name out there. There’s no other bank that’s

Equal Housing Lender. If you want to feel the PointBank difference for yourself, visit any branch today and open an account. You can find dates for their business breakfasts at www.facebook.com/MyPointBank/.

willing to do that.”

Speaking of a bank that’s willing to go

stop right now by coming to PointBank.”

you know PointBank sponsors monthly

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business networking breakfasts at its

Kim Cloud Skidmore of Cloud 9 Salon &

to take the time to know their customers. We’re here to tell you that all of that can

Kim Cloud

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Ask The Expert: Gardening

BERMUDA

THINKING Blade: Sharp, Pointed, 1/8” Wide Color/Texture: Deep Green, Dense Growth: Close Cut, High Quality Water: Frequently

hings are heating up. If you’ve notice thin, struggling, or dead patches in the lawn and are looking to make a change, look over the info below. When it comes to grass, there are options – just make sure the options you’re considering are the right ones. It’s always best to consult with a specialist, but the information below might help guide you in the right direction: grasses. It can thrive with at least five

Bermuda grass is great for a sun-

exposed lawn (at least 7 sun hrs per

day). Its aggressive growth habit gives it

excellent weed resistance. That same trait

can be a problem when Bermuda invades

flower beds-planters-gardens. Bermuda is

pretty wear-resistant and drought-tolerant. If you’re looking for a green lawn year-

round, overseeding with rye will provide

hours of sunlight per day and consistent watering. It can be more susceptible to fungus and disease than other types of

grass and won’t take as much traffic. But if maintained properly, it is a great option. Cut height should be 3-4” for optimum

Zoysia prefers a warm, sunny and well-

can keep it short for the summer months,

can take as little as three hours of light

but let it get taller to help retain moisture.

St. Augustine is the turfgrass of choice in warm climates where sandy soil is

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Growth: Slow, from Sod or Plugs Water: Frequently

drained growing site. BUT, some varieties per day. This makes it a great option in

our warmer climate with most of our lawns containing both sun and shade areas.

ST. AUGUSTINE

Color/Texture: Dark Green, Coarse, Spongy

ZOYSIA

that color through winter. Roughly 1/2”-

3”is the recommended cut height so you

Blade: Broad with Rounded Tip, 1/4” Wide

thickness and longevity.

It takes more care than most turfgrasses,

but when its needs are met, the reward is a thick, green lawn. It has stiff leaf blades

and will produce numerous seed heads if not kept cut. Cut height can vary but we typically recommend at around 1”.

ZOYSIA

BERMUDA

ST. AUGUSTINE

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Business Spotlight

MAKING BELIEVERS OUT OF THE REAL CRITICS

by Steve Gamel

f you’re on the fence about which school you should sign your children up for in the fall, the owners and staff at Primrose School of Lantana will gladly sing the praises of their programs and fun environment until they’re blue in the face.

But why do that when what truly matters is the opinion of the real critics – the bright-eyed kids who go there every day. Owners Frank and Erin Lundie, along with Assistant Director Christina Faught, recently shared the results of a 100% non-scientific poll in which they asked several of their students to share the reasons why they like coming to Primrose. The answers were far from shocking and will tell you all you need to know.

“Because it’s so fun! I like to play with the puppets. Ally the bunny teaches us to keep our hands and feet to ourselves. I like to play at centers and eat snacks.” — Lilah

key skills and develop faster. The focus is

preschool. It’s a special place to be a

character development, creativity, self-

Lilah was in the infant room. Now she’s in part of.”

not only on academics, but also fostering esteem, critical thinking, and confidence.

Primrose School of Lantana will celebrate

It’s also a place where the teachers know

“Because it’s my favorite school!”— Phoebe

more than just a school in the eyes of

a diverse background working for other

“Because I like to play on the playground!” — Lily

Balanced Learning® curriculum that

“Because on Fridays it’s Splash Day!” — Logan photography by Your Candid Memories (YourCandidMemories.com)

the beginning, and I remember when

“Because I like to play sticks and wheels and legos and blocks!” — Hayden There are more positive reviews where these came from, but the message is

already clear: the kids like coming to

its fourth year in October and is already so many people. The school offers a

combines purposeful play and guidance in the classroom to help children grow

and learn in a nurturing environment. By

creating a fun and engaging atmosphere for learning and reinforcing lessons

through songs and games, children retain

every child well, all staff members have

schools and daycare facilities, and where every child has the freedom to explore.

“We are silly, but we’re also purposeful,” said Erin, a former teacher, curriculum instructor, and assistant principal.

But again, don’t just take their word for it. Come by and ask the kids.

Primrose because they feel loved by their teachers, and they love exploring with all the toys and lessons they have to offer.

“It’s super reassuring; to hear straight from them that they are happy and thriving –

that’s the reason why we do this,” Erin said. “We see reactions like this every day, and it fuels us. If they are learning and happy, then we are doing our job.” Christina agreed. “It is very cool to see them light up like they do,” she said. “And it’s awesome

to see them grow. I’ve been here since www.LantanaLiving.com

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If you couldn’t do this for a living and pick

16 Questions

LIBBY

SPEARS of Bravo Communication and Consulting by Steve Gamel

a different profession, what would it be? Knowing what I know now, I would have pursued a career in political

communications. My favorite show of all time is the West Wing, so I would have

wanted to either be the press secretary or speechwriter.

What is one thing you would change about yourself?

I think I’ve already changed it, but there

was a point in my life where I realized I was too nostalgic. I had a hard time letting go of relationships that had run their course.

Nostalgia is not a quality I like about myself. What is the No. 1 song you must have on your personal playlist?

I would say anything by Lizzo. If you really want to go old-school, Dolly Parton.

She’s my hero and go-to when I need to pick myself back up.

Would you ever go skydiving/bungee

Whether it is acing the interview, persuading and influencing others, creating powerful messages for your audience, developing your leadership skills or having a tough conversation, Libby is a true educator, liberator, and entertainer. And she’s really good at 16 Questions. In a recent interview with Lantana Living, Libby was gracious enough to dish on everything from her love for helping people to her least favorite house chore, and her guiltiest pleasure.

jumping/deep sea diving/paragliding? My daughter asked me if I would go

skydiving with her when she graduated

high school. I told her probably not, but I’ve been thinking about it.

If you had to fight a bear or a lion,

which one would you pick and why? Probably a bear, because I have this idea

in my head that I could make it my friend.

I don’t think I could do that with a lion, but with a bear, I could probably figure out a way to make it not want to kill me. What is your favorite food? If you said you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life, mine would be

You are clearly a person who loves what she does for a living. What is it about your job that you love the most? I taught college for 10 years in the communication studies department and then had an unexpected opportunity drop into my lap 15 years ago where I went and worked with the executive leadership team for an architecture firm on their public speaking skills. I left that day knowing this was what I wanted to do. Suddenly, it wasn’t theoretical anymore; it was the real deal. What I was doing allowed them to close deals and keep clients happy. I wasn’t getting that satisfaction teaching in the classroom. 18 | LANTANA LIVING

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chips and salsa.

What is your biggest pet peeve? People who use their phone in public in ways that are inappropriate, like

watching a video with no headphones.

Anything that forces me to listen to what

you are doing, and when you do it at the airport, it’s worse.

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f you haven’t met Libby Spears yet, you’re really missing out. Not only is she an amazing person to be around, but for the last 22 years, Libby has studied and taught communication and leadership as it relates to success – first as a university professor at UNT and then TCU. In 2004, she started Bravo Communication and Consulting to help companies, teams, and organizations right here in Lantana and all over the world who know their communication skills are what make or break their success but don’t know how to replace bad habits with proven strategies.

If you had to Karaoke one song in front of a packed crowd, what would it be? Bust A Move by Young MC. What is a deep, dark secret about you that no one knows?

I don’t know if it’s a deep, dark secret, but I think something that throws people off about me is that I am an introvert.

I think people don’t like for me to say that

because it doesn’t hold up to expectations they have of me. At the end of the day, though, I want to go back to my hotel, put on my pajamas, watch something on Netflix, and be alone.

If you had a million dollars, what would you spend it on?

It would be straight up travel. I have 13

states to do by my 50th birthday. I have 19 countries visited, and I’d like to get to 30

in the next five years. And I’d take my kids with me.

What is your least favorite chore? Laundry. If I had someone to do it for me for the rest of my life, it would be the greatest gift.

What is your biggest fear? My girls are 20 and 18 now, but the thing

I’ve always been scared of is that someone is going to kidnap my kid.

What is your No. 1 guilty pleasure? To me, that’s me sitting at home in my pajamas while eating ice cream and

watching Real Housewives. That’s a complete time-waster, and I don’t have to think.

What do you do in your free time? The thing I do the most is read. I probably read four to five books per month.

If you were stuck in an elevator with one person, who would that be?

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LOCAL AUTHOR

HONORED

AT 2019 INDIE BOOK AWARDS press release submitted by Lisa Burkhardt Worley

earls of Promise Ministries is pleased to announce its fifth book, The Only Father I Ever Knew: How

a Fatherless Child Finally Found True

Love, written by founder and Lantana resident, Lisa Burkhardt Worley, was named a finalist in the Next Generation Indie Book

photos courtesy by Lisa Burkhardt Worley

Award Competition.

The Next Generation

Indie Book Awards is the

world’s largest not-for-profit book awards program for independent publishers

and self-published authors. The awards are judged by leaders of the indie

book publishing industry,

a doctor and polo player, died from a

and trials in their lives through the

she was born during a polo match.

speaker and teacher, often shares her

massive heart attack two months before There are 16 other contributors who

share their stories of how God filled the void that their absentee father left.

Lisa is a former national

television sports reporter,

a nine-time award-winning author or co-editor

of eight books and a

Bible study, including the Pearls of Promise

on June 21.

The Only Father I Ever Knew is a book designed to help readers overcome

father wounds. In the book, released

called A Time to Dream, a program that features true stories of overcoming and is a regular blogger on her website,

www.pearlsofpromiseministries.com.

of Insecurity, Christian

national television sports reporter on

God’s Truth During Storms

Cum Laude. She spent 19 years as a

Powerful P: A Child’s Introduction to P Activity Book and Prayer Journal,

The Only Father I Ever Knew: How a

Fatherless Child Finally Found True Love, Knowing the Father Bible study and the three-time award-

winning Stories of Roaring Faith, Volumes 1-3.

God against the backdrop of her own

a ministry with a goal of helping

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an international radio show program

Theology in 2008, graduating Magna

Burkhardt Worley is the founder

fatherless life. Burkhardt Worley’s father,

and other cities. In addition, Lisa co-hosts

Had: Wrapping Yourself in

in September 2018, Burkhardt Worley, describes the father-like attributes of

hosts a “Level-Up” Conference in Dallas

Studies degree from Perkins School of

the Power of Prayer, The Most Powerful

Hotel in Washington, D.C.

mother. Each year, Pearls of Promise also

award-winning, If I Only

Worley was presented the award by

Goulet, in a ceremony at the Mayflower

in a fatherless home with a mentally ill

Lisa earned a Masters of Theological

Literary Award-winner, The Most

Indie Book Award co-founder, Catherine

personal story of victory as she grew up

devotional, four-time

including many with long careers at

major publishing houses. Burkhardt

strength and love of Christ. Lisa, a popular

of Pearls of Promise Ministries, women overcome dysfunction

HBO Sports and ESPN, was an anchor

for the Madison Square Garden Network in New York City, and was a local

sportscaster at both KENS-TV in San

Antonio and WTVC in Chattanooga. In addition, she serves with Roaring

Lambs Ministries as Director of Special Projects, is Vice-

President of Marketing for Christian Women

in Media, and volunteer at her church, Gateway, as Intercessory

Prayer Leader for

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GET READY FOR

hark Week (airing Jul. 28 - Aug. 4) is almost here, and for all you enthusiasts out there who will be glued to the Discovery Channel, we’re betting that you are counting the days for it to begin, and believe us when we say that we do, too.

by Steve Gamel

Enjoy these fun facts about sharks to get you pumped for the week. Scientists age sharks by counting rings on their vertebrae – Much like counting rings on a tree, scientists can reasonably determine how old a shark is based on its ring count (10 rings equals 10 years old, etc.).

Great whites don’t have the toughest shark bite – Scientists have proven that a nine-foot-long bull shark has a bite force of 478 pounds. A great white bites with 360 pounds of force.

Female sharks generally dwarf male sharks – True story. Their size is actually a good thing since they need to carry shark babies. FYI, some shark species can be pregnant for two years.

All facts below were found on https://www.fisheries.noaa.gov/feature-story/12-shark-facts-may-surprise-you and https://bestlifeonline.com/sharks-facts/

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Fitness :Ask The Expert

HABITS CAN GIVE YOU

EVERYTHING by Jesse J. Leyva, Owner of Jesse James Fit & Outlaw Fitcamp JesseJamesFit.com OutlawFitcamp.com

ant proof that the habits you keep make all of the difference?

Confucius said, “Men’s natures are alike; it

If you aren’t happy with your body, then simply adjust your eating and exercise habits.

is their habits that separate them.”

Here’s how to adopt a habit:

John Dryden famously said, “We first make

1. Decide on the ONE habit that you

our habits, and then our habits make us.” And Aristotle noticed that, “We are what

we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.”

It’s pretty clear that the habits you adopt

would like to develop. It’s tempting

to pick up three or four healthy habits, realistic and doable.

Here are some healthy habit ideas: •

Do not eat after 7pm each night.

What are your habits?

•

Bring your lunch to work instead of

•

Exercise four times a week after

through the same exercise routine, and fall into bed at the same time each night? Or maybe you’ve made a habit out of

eating fast food.

work or in the morning for 45 minutes each time.

eating something sweet before bed,

•

Only eat fruits and veggies as your

as possible.

•

Resistance training three times

avoiding the gym, and staying up as late When it comes to your fitness,

the two habits that define you are your eating and exercise habits.

In fact, everyone that you know who is in great shape has dialed in these two important habits.

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My new habit is to work with a personal trainer three times each week. My three main motivators are: 1. To feel confident in my bathing suit this summer. 2. To have more energy. 3. To fit into my skinny jeans. The obstacles I will face are: 1. Not having the energy to go to my session after work. 2. Not having enough money to pay for sessions. 3. Not having my spouse’s support. I will overcome these obstacles by: 1. Doing my workouts before work instead of after work, so I have more energy. 2. Cutting down on frivolous spending to ensure that I can afford it. 3. Asking my spouse to join me so we can get in shape together.

but choosing just one new habit is

will shape who you are.

Do you eat the same thing for lunch, go

HERE’S AN EXAMPLE:

afternoon snack. a week.

2. Write your new habit down on paper.

Also include your three main motivators

3. Commit fully to your new habit, in a

public way. This could mean posting it on social media, or simply announcing it at the dinner table. Put yourself in a position where you’ll be embarrassed to give up on your new habit. 4. Keep track of your progress. You could keep a detailed journal or simply make a

check mark on each calendar day that you successfully exercised for your new habit. Once your new habit becomes second nature, usually in about 30 days, feel free to add a second habit by going through the same steps.

for developing this new habit, the

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for overcoming these obstacles.

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DEPARTMENTS AT TOWN HALL: • Town Manager’s Office • Economic Development • Strategic Services • Town Secretary’s Office • Financial Services (Accounting and Budgeting Services, Treasury Operations, Purchasing)

• Utility Billing • Human Resources • Information Technology (Includes Geographic Information Services – GIS)

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• Facilities Management

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or a while there, it seemed as though opening day for the new Flower Mound Town Hall was a distant dream. Residents may remember that construction crews

broke ground way back in July 2017, and by December of the following year, only a few staff members had moved in. Employees from the nearby Atrium didn’t settle in until the first week in March. As the saying goes, “Good things come to those who wait.” The new space is 100% open for business and continues to receive rave reviews from residents and employees, all of whom are happy to have all town services under one roof.

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• Communications (including Customer Relations)

“It’s all about the residents,” said Molly Fox, Director of

include new council chambers with double the amount

Communications for the Town of Flower Mound. “They are

of audience seating, a welcome desk in the lobby, 90

able to come to Town Hall and have virtually a one-stop shop.

private offices, and 10 large open office areas. On top

Whether they need to pay their utility bills or pick up a permit,

of that, the entire site has gorgeous outside features,

they don’t have to drive to two locations anymore.”

from the native and drought-tolerant landscaping to the

She added, “We love the new space. It’s been great having everyone under one roof.” The new 46,000 square foot facility is home to 140

entryway sign, flagpoles, and a pond. Having all services under one roof is the biggest benefit of them all.

employees and is located on the southeast corner of

Previously, departments such as Environmental Services

FM 1171 and Morriss Road. It is a two-story design and

and Facilities Management were housed at a nearby

roughly doubles the space of the former site. Additions

location called The Atrium. While not too far away, having multiple locations over the years confused residents who were unsure which location they need to visit for specific services. This will not be a problem with the new facility.

THEY ARE ABLE TO COME

“We have received lots of compliments from the

TO TOWN HALL AND

wall that features a new artist’s work each month,”

HAVE VIRTUALLY A

community, especially about our new public art display Fox said. “We love the new space. It’s been great having everyone under one roof for a much more collaborative environment.”

ONE-STOP SHOP.

Town Hall is located 2121 Cross Timbers Rd. Flower Mound, TX 75028, and is open Monday through Friday from 7:30 a.m. and 5 p.m.

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SHERIFF ’S

CORNER with Sheriff Tracy Murphree

THE NEW JUSTICE MANAGEMENT DIVISION

he Justice Management Division is a newly created division within the Denton County Sheriff’s Office

that will come into effect this summer.

The new division will be commanded by

Captain Doug Lee and will be composed of three units including Protective Detail, Bailiffs, and Crisis Intervention Unit.

courtroom. The Bailiffs work hand in hand with the judges during court proceedings and will coordinate with the protective

Officer I positions start at $37,623.00 per year. Visit our website to apply.

Crisis Intervention Unit

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well as the general public.

This unit is our Mental Health Officers.

The primary responsibility is the evaluation of individuals that may be suffering

security guards at county buildings

Intervention Unit is specifically trained to

Deputies will be in charge of the safety

the safety of the individual. The unit works

as the public using these facilities. Sheriff

out their orders as it relates to a mental

understand the threats to the public in

Sheriff Murphree is excited to get this

These deputies will replace the current

from a mental health crisis. The Crisis

throughout the county. Protective Detail

deal with mental health issues to ensure

and security of county employees as well

closely with the Probate Court and carries

Murphree and the Commissioners Court

health crisis.

trained police officers with specific

training in place will make these county facilities more safe and secure. Bailiffs

The Bailiffs are deputies responsible for

the safety and security of the judges and

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If you are interested in a career in Law Enforcement, join our family and be a part of a great organization. Detention

detail to ensure the safety of the judge as

Protective Detail

government facilities and believe having

WE ARE HIRING DETENTION OFFICERS!

unit started. The process of hiring and

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evaluating safety concerns at county facilities is underway.

“This unit will help ensure that our

county employees and the public will be safer when using county buildings.” — Sheriff Murphree

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HIDDEN DANGERS

of Trampolines by Leanne Yocum

rampolines are synonymous with kids and summer backyard fun! They provide endless hours of

entertainment and a myriad of activities

for the entire family, not to mention, it is a

low impact, high aerobic exercise that can improve balance, agility, coordination, and confidence.

We all want to see our children laughing

• Install safety pads to cover the steel

you are not aware. Check under

• Purchase a high-quality trampoline

is nothing that may pose potential

frame, springs, and hooks.

safety net to enclose the trampoline to prevent children from falling off the trampoline and hitting the ground.

• Remove all jewelry and ensure

pockets are empty before jumping.

and having fun! However, trampolines

• Children should use the trampoline

wants to see their child suffer any injury

• Ensure the trampoline surface is

can still be dangerous, and no parent on a trampoline.

Encourage your children to bounce

their way into summer fun by ensuring trampoline safety rules are followed.

• Make

the environment safe for

your children before installing the trampoline. Find a clear, flat area

free from potential hazards, such as fences, poles, hedges, trees, and other equipment.

• Ensure all springs are sturdy and properly fixed in their position, and bolts are well tightened.

ladder to climb in and out.

dry to prevent slipping, which may lead to uncontrolled landings and unnecessary injuries.

• Discourage your children from

attempting stunts such as twisting somersaults, multiple somersaults, backflips, and other acrobatics they aren’t prepared to attempt. You could also enroll them in a local trampolining class to learn trampolining skills ranging from the basics of landing to advanced moves.

• Children may sometimes put objects underneath the trampoline when

the trampoline to make sure there danger while they are jumping. Also, make sure no children are hiding beneath the trampoline.

• The American Academy of Pediatrics warns that children under the age

of 6 are at the greatest risk of injury because their bones are still growing and developing and should not be on a full sized trampoline.

• Always make sure ladders, stools and

chairs are not left near the trampoline. This will help in limiting unsupervised access to the trampoline.

• There should only be one person

jumping at a time. Most trampoline injuries occur when there is more than one person jumping.

• An adult must supervise the children. Children are very clever and daring

and tend to want to experiment more, especially in the absence of an adult.

Let the games begin! Have fun and be safe!

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LOW-COST, COMPASSIONATE

SOLUTIONS

For Animal

Welfare by Steve Gamel

t’s no secret we live in a pet-loving culture. Everywhere you turn, that bond between humans and animals is unmistakable, whether it’s the little girl parading her new puppy through the neighborhood, a businessman taking time from his crowded schedule to play fetch in the park with his golden retriever, or the elderly lady at the bus stop with two kittens curled up patiently inside her oversized purse. Even when we take that long-awaited family portrait, the pets are always included – because they’re family, too.

“Our tagline this year is lowest cost, best care. We really have focused on customer service and honing in on letting people know that we have compassionate, caring vets,” Stacey said.

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We love our pets; they are an extension

little as $25. Spay and neuter services can

intentioned pet owners simply cannot

70-80 percent cheaper than a vet clinic.

of us. But all too often, good and well-

afford the most basic veterinary care such as spay and neuter services, vaccinations, and even dental care.

It’s a scenario Stacey Schumacher has

seen play out once too many times over the years, which has led to euthanasia

and overpopulation at animal shelters. So she created a non-profit called the Texas Coalition for Animal Protection (TCAP),

a low-cost alternative that partners with

full-service veterinary clinics and animal shelters while at the same time photography by Your Candid Memories (YourCandidMemories.com)

filling a void for animals who

range between $35-$65, which is roughly They offer wellness kits where customers can have all shots, microchipping, and

spay and neuter services for as little as

$135. For a kitten, the same wellness kit

can run as low as $85. Both kits essentially cover everything a puppy or kitten would need in its first year of life. TCAP also

works with several animal shelters in the

area to provide spay and neuter services onsite to help service pets owned by

customers who are unable to transport their pets to a TCAP location.

Beyond that, if TCAP

deserve quality care at a price their owners can afford.

“We started at one night a

week in one location in

2002 and have

grown so much

since then,” said Stacey, who as

TCAP’s founder and Executive Director

veterinarians notice

“It’s not our goal to take business from veterinary clinics,” Stacey said. “We see it as a partnership because we’re coming alongside them and offering the basic stuff everyone needs. And if need be, we refer out for specialized care.”

has proudly watched

her nonprofit grow to include

seven locations. “What we do in terms of services is very limited, but we do a lot

of it, and the vets we employ are subject matter experts.

“What overwhelms most pet owners is the

cost factor. They love their animals, but the cost is sometimes unattainable.”

TCAP, which is heading into its 17th year,

is upfront that they aren’t trying to replace full-service clinics. They specialize only in spay and neuter services, vaccinations, heartworm testing and prevention,

microchipping services, and dental work

such as routine cleanings, tooth extraction, and antibiotics. The level of care is equal to what you can find at vet centers but at

a fraction of the price. For example, a full

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photographed above is Stacey Schumacher

anything that

concerns them about a pet –

old or young

Stacey led the Hopkins County Animal Protection League in Sulphur Springs to

– from a health

open a low cost spay and neuter clinic in

they will always

the program in East Texas, Stacey then

standpoint,

the mid 1990s. Based on the success of

refer a customer

founded TCAP. Their locations are in

to a local

veterinarian’s

office for a more

detailed evaluation.

“It’s not our goal to take

business from veterinary clinics,”

Stacey said. “We see it as a partnership because we’re coming alongside them and offering the basic stuff everyone

needs. And if need be, we refer out for specialized care.”

Stacey has always had a soft spot for

animals. After working at a pet rescue in

high school, she realized her dream was to

Denton, Allen, Burleson, Fort Worth, Hurst, Weatherford, and Garland. Stacey said that in 2018 alone, TCAP spayed and neutered roughly 55,000 animals, and they go to great lengths to make sure everyone who walks through their doors – on two legs or four – has a great experience. “Our tagline this year is lowest cost, best care. We really have focused on customer service and honing in on letting people know that we have compassionate, caring vets,” Stacey said.

help not just animals but also to help the

people who love them. It all started in her

hometown of Sulphur Springs where there was no spay and neuter program. Stacey took it upon herself to rent a van every month and transport animals from her

mother’s house to a low-cost clinic in the

Dallas area. After work, she would gather them back into the van and transport them home.

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Schools Education Article

COMMUNITIES IN

by Leanne Yocum

as anyone ever inspired you to change your life in a significant way

to be healthier, happier, or more fulfilled? If so, you understand the difference that

positive inspiration can make in a person’s life. Communities In Schools of North

Texas, a nonprofit organization, empowers students with the resources they need to be successful in school, stay on track to

graduation, and graduate ready to succeed in life.

CIS is composed of amazing and

compassionate volunteers who selflessly give hope to the children they work with every day.

“It’s having someone a child can talk to about what’s happening at home or in life,” Pape said. “It’s being with someone who knows your hopes and dreams and encourages you to not only reach them but tells you they know you can do it.” Mentors provide students as

young as elementary age with resources and assets that the community has to offer. Kids go to school sometimes with

good things going on in their life, and

sometimes kids go with really hard and

difficult barriers to get over. That is why CIS begins providing elementary age

“Think back to your elementary, middle,

students access to resources. Research

sort of positive guidance? Maybe a

kids to leave school.

and high school life. Did you have some grandparent, teacher, friend, or if you

shows it’s not just one instance that drives

“It’s a process,” Pape said. “A child gets behind in their reading in elementary

school then in 3rd grade never quite hit the reading level and now struggles to catch up in 5th grade. Although still in remedial reading, they advance to the

next grade. In 7th, it’s tough to make the grades, and they’re hearing things like,

‘you’re never going to do good in school.’ In high school, there are many factors

that are not easy to ignore that piece by piece pull kids out of school, like being responsible for family and working 40

hours a week to provide basic things like clothing and school supplies, or when

necessary, putting food on the table and

providing shelter – all while continuing to go to school.”

Communities In Schools of North Texas has so many layers when it comes

to providing positive mentorship to

students. They are at the forefront of

community involvement and volunteerism. Having a great school world makes kids

want to go to school and stay in school.

They look forward to seeing their mentor.

To that child, there is really nothing better

than knowing they are with someone who cares about them. Be an inspiration in a child’s life. Visit www.cisnt.org for more information.

were lucky enough, a parent?” said Anna Cape, CEO of Communities in Schools of North Texas. “CIS is that partner and resource. It is a safe place for kids to

share their experiences and hopes for

their future. The best way to get to know CIS is to volunteer, which all happens on school campus.”

Mentoring is not tutoring, teaching, or

counseling. It is being available once a week or even once a month to build a

one-on-one relationship with a student. A mentor and child might do an

activity together like playing basketball or eating lunch together, but being

together doesn’t always mean having to do an activity.

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COMMUNITY

CORNER

Service For Veterans Important In Denton County

by Denton County Commissioner Precinct 4 Dianne Edmondson

ith our county’s birthday, Independence Day on July 4, fast approaching, our thoughts turn not only to those patriots who founded America and fought for our independence, but also to those more contemporary patriots who have served throughout modern history to preserve our liberties.

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The veterans who served all of us are owed a great debt of gratitude by a grateful nation, and here in Denton County, we are especially conscious of our obligation to theses heroic men and women which is why our county created a veterans services department years ago,

were victims of domestic violence or

With 45,000 military veterans, the need is strong and the Denton County Veterans Service Office continues to see a growing number of veterans needing assistance. Of 5,376 total client visits in 2018, 25 percent were new veterans. Veteran Community Navigators assist veterans with emergency financial assistance, a place to stay if they are homeless or refer them for mental health care. In 2018, the navigators assisted 280 veterans who received $43,721 in emergency financial assistance. So far this year, Veteran Community Navigators handled 214 referrals with 166 receiving consultation and referrals. About 99 of the veteran households were at risk of becoming homeless, 33 had their utilities turned off or were at risk of a www.LantanaLiving.com

needed transportation assistance ranging from vehicle repairs to gas vouchers or bus tickets.

An estimated 118 veterans were in need of emergency medical assistance so far this year, 54 needed food, 52 needed

mental health resources, eight needed substance abuse treatment and eight sexual assault.

Another 77 veterans needed assistance in accessing veterans benefits whether for pension or medical needs or other assistance. Seventeen sought tax

assistance, 11 needed furniture and 14 sought education resources for their children or for enrolling in college.

The Veterans Service Office is committed to assisting veterans in getting the

resources and benefits they need to

help them and their families lead full,

productive lives. The staff, under Veterans Service Officer Paul Bastaich, works

diligently to answer a growing number of calls for assistance.

In addition, the Veterans Service Office has expanded the number of locations it can serve veterans. Five locations in Denton, Lewisville, Carrollton, Frisco and Flower Mound take scheduled appointments. Veterans or their family members can schedule appointments by calling 940.349.2950.

Among the many programs veterans can seek assistance with are: compensation, pension, disability retirement, death indemnity compensation, appeals to the Board of Veterans, hospital and outpatient programs, Texas Veterans Land Board programs, educational and vocational benefits, debt waivers, obtaining lost military records, SPAN transportation to DVA medical facilities, review of military discharge, claims for insurance payments and burial allowance. A list of frequently asked questions and the answers are available on the Denton County website at https:// dentoncounty.com/Departments/ Veterans-Service/FAQs. In addition, a new VA Behavioral Health Center is now open at 406 S. Carroll Boulevard in Denton – just down from the Denton County Veterans Center. The behavioral health center helps veterans dealing with post-traumatic stress and other behavioral issues. The Denton County Veterans Coalition – a partnership between veteran service organizations, non-profits and government entities – creates a network of available services to help veterans in need. The idea is that all veterans are valuable community assets and should receive assistance if they are having trouble re-integrating back into civilian life. Thank you to all veterans who have served our country in the wars and conflicts over the years. We owe you much gratitude for your service and dedication. If you would like to receive a newsletter, please contact Dianne Edmondson at Dianne.Edmondson@dentoncounty. com and ask to be placed on the email list or call Dianne Edmondson at 972.434.3960. Pictured to the left is Dianne Edmondson JULY 2019 | LANTANA LIVING | 39

CHLOE KELLEY The Soaper Girl by Leanne Yocum

Chloe makes whimsically shaped soaps filled with scents of coconut, mango, coffee, fruit punch, and pina colada, just to name a few. A sure-fire go-getter, Chloe said she got into the business of making soaps after being mesmerized by a few online videos. It looked like fun, but she was also smart enough to see a business opportunity.

She dove head first into the project and, by the end of the day, had researched how to make soap, purchased business supplies using her own money, and was off to the races. Just like that – Soaper Girl was born. “I was watching craft videos, and it looked fun!” she said. Chloe is motivated by positivity and enjoys exploring new ideas and opportunities. She also loves the thrill and exhilaration that comes with seeing if something works, and she didn’t mind dealing with a few challenges in the beginning. Chloe explained that clear glycerin soap is the main ingredient in her product, so the first step is to melt the glycerin. In one of her initial attempts, she proceeded to cut a bar of glycerin into small pieces and place it in the microwave. When the microwave beeped, Chloe reached in with her bare hands. Too hot for her hands to hold, the piping hot container full of glycerin spilled all over her. Luckily, she wasn’t hurt. If anything, the situation made her more determined. “She rarely takes no for an answer, which can be very challenging as a parent. But I believe it will serve her well in life,” said Lori Kelley, Chloe’s mother. “If Chloe wants something, she’s absolutely going to find a way to make it happen.” Because of that perseverance, Soaper Star is now in full swing, and the sky is the limit.

When asked what advice she would give to new business owners, Chloe’s answer was “get creative with it and have fun!” That’s exactly what she is doing. Like any successful entrepreneur, Chloe believes you must never give up, stick to your vision,

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photo courtesy of Lori Kelley

ake one look at Chloe Kelley, and you’ll see a bright-eyed fifth-grader at Adkins Elementary. But what many people don’t know is that she is also an ambitious young entrepreneur and the CEO of Soaper Girl.

and remain focused. Besides running a successful business, Chloe has spearheaded two fundraisers at her school, one for the Red Cross to help hurricane victims and the other as a way to raise money for books for kids in Ecuador. And on top of all of that, Chloe said she is already formulating a plan for her next business venture, which she says will take her around the world. “I want to open a restaurant and call it Food Around the World,” she said. “I would get chefs from different countries to go to my restaurant and cook food from where they came from.”

To learn more about Soaper Star, check

them out on Facebook or email Lori at

kelleyla@verizon.net

for more information.

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Ask The Expert: School Days

EDUCATION & PARENTING Children with ADD/ADHD

by Valorie McGilvra, Certified Teacher and Life Coach

t was 1973 in a Kindergarten classroom located in Upstate NY. A 5-year-old blonde haired, blue-eyed girl (let’s call

her Jill) was seated on the carpet next to

her new friends. It was just after lunch and her teacher was wiping off the counters

with a sponge while her students listened

to a story on the record player. Jill was not, however, listening but instead was talking to her friend seated next to her.

Moments later, Jill watched as her teacher hold the sponge over her head to wring it out. Why? To get this little girl to stop

talking. Did it work? Well, sort of. Jill did

stop talking. She also stopped wanting to

go to school each day. She complained of stomach aches.

Over the course of her educational career Jill struggled with talking out of turn,

impulsivity, and constant daydreaming (today is a diagnosis of ADD-Attention

Deficit Disorder). Teachers would do the “outdated” method of calling her out in

front of the class to cause embarrassment. This did wonders for her self-esteem and desire to go to school.

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All that negative support, lack of encouragement and understanding about ADD/ADHD (Attention Deficit, Hyperactivity Disorder) was always pulling her back from her dreams. But with a determination she managed to change all of that.

She started at a community college, worked full-time until she finally obtained her Journalism Degree from UNT at the age of 27. She worked in public relations until she was 35. Then, after having a child decided to change careers and become a teacher. You may have guessed that I was that little girl Jill. Today, I try to create a learning environment where kids like Jack and Jill can thrive. I work with parents and teachers providing coaching to educate them on how ADD/ADHD affects the brain and work on strategies for raising and educating an ADD/ADHD child. A message to Parents: You do have a wonderful child. But they act differently at school than at home. Teachers have 20 or more students to

teach who are unique and learn in so many ways. Many do not have the training or strategies to reach all the children in their class. They do the best with what they have, but if provided with more information and open communication will do even better. Teachers have chosen a career to work with kids every day (in case you thought it was for the pay). Educators need your help, support and understanding. Tell them about your child, and when you get feedback, please just take it as information to help your child learn. If it is delivered in a way that sounds offensive assumption. Questions to ask your child: •

What can you do so you remember the teacher’s directions?

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Is there another student in class who you could ask to help you?

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When you have something to say in class, how do you share it?

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If a thought pops into your head how do you deal with it?

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When your teacher is teaching what is the hardest thing for you?

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When you start to think about something else what is something you could do to get back to learning again?

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HELPING

PARENTS Crying Infants

Lantan a Resident

with

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earning to handle crying can be tense, frustrating, and upsetting for parents, but success is ultimately satisfying and an important part of the reciprocal interaction that builds attachment for both parent and child.

explaining crying in the first 3 months, as it

4. Swinging gently (never shake a baby).

is age related. The acronym PURPLE was

5. Sucking on a pacifier, finger, or hand.

“Developmental crying” is a great term for

created to teach about this normal crying. • “P” is for peak of crying – babies may cry Sponsored Content

more each week, most in month 2, then less in months 3-5.

• “U” is for unexpected – crying can come and go without explanation.

• “R” is for resists soothing – babies may not stop crying no matter what is tried.

• “P” is for pain-like face – babies appear

Some babies will go beyond typical crying into colic, which is defined as crying for at least 3 hours per day, at least 3 days per week, starting before 3 months post term. Unfortunately, in some cases, colic may sometimes persist through the first year of life. Prescription for “REST:” •

Reassurance - Reassurance that the child is not ill. See your pediatrician for a careful history, physical exam, and patterns of crying.

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Empathy - Exhausted new parents deserve empathy, as well as the acknowledgment of how difficult, scary, and maddening it is to not be able to console their newborns.

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Support - While friends are saying “You must be so happy!” after a child is born, ambivalence (What have I done to my life?) is very common but not easy to admit. Use all support systems, including your pediatrician, at these times of frustration and exhaustion.

to be in pain, even if they are not.

• “L” is for long lasting – crying can last 5 hours a day or more.

• “E” is for evening – the baby might cry