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NASSIG recycling: Returning the favor
Base Operating Support Contract (BOSC) employees collect recyclable materials on Naval Air Station (NAS) Sigonella, Jan. 9. Recyclables are routinely collected and delivered to a collection agency for processing in downtown Catania. (U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 3rd Class Ramon Go/Released) By mc3 ramon go
NAS Sigonella Public Affairs Staff
NAS SIGONELLA, Sicily – Ever wonder why it appears that the garbage truck “By recycling these materials, we are reducing the volume we are putting in the picking up recyclables does so without separating them? If so, you may be asking landfills,” said Carpenter. “Landfills are overfilled all over the globe, including here in yourself, “why should I take the time to recycle in the first place?” This report is Sicily. As technology progress, recycling used materials instead of using raw materials intended to dispel that myth while informing the community of the many benefits increases energy conservation productivity to generate benefits for the community.” to Naval Air Station (NAS) Sigonella’s recycling program. Base Operating Support Contract maintains the 57 recycle bins scattered Things are not as they appear. The yellow garbage truck throughout NAS Sigonella’s many sites. The truck is under "As technology progresses, contract to maintain a non-overflowing container. Collecting collecting the waste that many spend good time collating what recycling used materials may seem like a hodgepodge operation doomed to ever fulfill recyclables can vary depending on its location; especially on its true purpose, but that is simply not the case. As they begin high-traffic areas in the base. instead of using raw their rounds, recycling trucks collect just one classification of “After we finish collecting all of the recyclable materials, we materials increases recyclables at a time. If it’s plastics, the truck will stop at each go to a facility in Catania where the materials are separated and energy conservation recycling station on site until all plastics are collected. The team made into cubes, then delivered to various facilities that deal productivity to generate will then create a divider inside the truck to make a distinct specifically with only that type of material,” said Fabrizio Rubino, benefits for the community." site manager of Impresa Pizzarotti. separation for the next recyclable type. With the divider in place the truck makes a second round, then third, and fourth until all Carpenter and Capt. Christopher Dennis, NAS Sigonella’s - Cmdr. Deanna Carpenter recyclables are collected throughout the site. commanding officer, along with other base leaders, have “We understand the perception some of our residents have that make it seem taken great strides to reinforce recycling here – a main branch of the “Resource as if the trucks are carelessly mixing the items that many residents are taking good Conservation” one of the three pillars of Sig’ Citizenship – and are committed to time to separate,” said John Rovero, Deputy Public Works Diretctor. “But that is not streamlining the recycling program’s efficiency while continuing to encourage the the case. Our contracted recycling trucks are indeed making good on the efforts community to be better agents of the materials we’ve been blessed with. of the community and getting that waste to landfills where they are being properly The recycling program contains three phases: disposed of and ultimately recycled for the benefit of all.” Phase 1: Interior collection bins and containers that are color-coded with Reclaiming used items is not the only perk to this initiative. Cmdr. Deanna diagrams. Carpenter, NAS Sigonella’s Public Works Director, says the program also makes Sig’ Phase 2: External collection bins and containers that are color-coded with Citizens better stewards toward our Sicilian neighbors and the lands they will call diagrams. "Recycle" continued on Page 4 home long after most of us complete our tours here.
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Direct Line Executive Officer Cmdr. Charles G. McKinney II Buongiorno Sigonella! Happy New Year! Health and happiness to everyone! As we were celebrating the dawn of 2015, our most boisterous (and beautiful) resident added to the festivities as only she can, spewing enough ash to shut down Catania Airport for nearly 12 hours. Unfortunately, this left a few of our returning travelers with headaches caused not by overdoing it on New Year’s bubbly, but by the inconvenience of having to figure out how to get home from the alternate airports of either Palermo or Comiso. Mount Etna will have a few of those moments from time-to-time, but overall Europe’s tallest active volcano is celebrated for its majestic beauty, continuously calling us to gaze upon its snowcapped 11,000-foot tall peaks and glowing rivers of fire. While Sicilians have always held the peak in high esteem, Etna was added to the list of UNESCO World Heritage Sites in June 2013, an honor that officially recognized the mountain’s special culture and physical significance. Etna is also a “Decade” volcano, meaning that it is worthy of particular study in light of its history of large, destructive eruptions and proximity to populated areas (like our community). The goal of this study is to reduce the risks in nearby settlements through mitigating actions. I know that everyone that has been through Base INDOC has heard from our Emergency Management professionals and have been urged to Be Prepared. This includes volcanic eruptions with associated earthquakes and loss of basic services, like electricity and water supply. I urge everyone again to heed those instructions and plan for the worst, and be thankful if it doesn’t occur during your tour. It’s not a question of “If ”… It’s a matter of “When” an event like this will happen. Now, breathtaking vistas and looming danger are serious subjects, but are only part of the attraction. There are many ways for you to enjoy
the mountain, especially during the winter season. If you want to get right to those opportunities skip to the next paragraph. If you’re still with me, here are a few bits of trivia on the volcano. Many historians believe the name “Etna” comes from the Phoenician word attuna, meaning “furnace,” or “chimney.” According to Greek mythology the volcano derived its name from “Aitna”, a Sicilian nymph and goddess of the mountain, and that the thunderbolts for Zeus were forged within it. Classified by relatively frequent “Strombolian” eruptions, Etna’s typical slow-moving lava flows seldom pose a threat to life. This is in stark contrast to the highly explosive “Plinian” eruptions produced by Mt. Vesuvius and Mount St. Helens. However, it is possible for Etna to threaten the community. Historical records show that 77 people are confirmed to have lost their lives due to Etna’s volcanic activity, the most recent being a pair of tourists in 1987. Let’s keep that statistic in the past. As mentioned earlier, there are plenty of ways to enjoy the mountain. I’ve spoken with many Sigonella Citizens that have recently bundled the family up and made the ascent to create their own outdoor adventures in the snow. Sledding, snowball fights, and building “Frosty” topped the list. If that doesn’t appeal to you, MWR offers several sightseeing and participant-based outings. On Saturday they ran a trip aboard the Ferrovia Circumetnea, an old-style railroad that starts in Catania and travels clockwise around the mountain that presented breathtaking panoramas of Etna and a lunch stop in the historic medieval town of Randazzo. This adventure can also be had at your convenience by visiting the Circumetnea website and researching/planning the journey on your own. If that sounds too tame for you, MWR is offering several Etna-based trips this upcoming week including snowboarding on the 24th and 31st, an intense seven-mile forested snowshoe trek
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Comment regarding NEX:
Recently, I was literally overrun by local nationals at the NEX. There were no shopping carts, and the normally pleasant shopping experience had been ripped away. I was under the impression that only ID card holders (NATO and U.S.) are authorized to shop. If this is indeed the new policy, will there be set hours and an increased inventory?
Response:
On the day in question a Spanish ship was in port at Augusta Bay, and many of its members were shopping at the installation. As I'm sure you're aware, by treaty all designated NATO units have access to U.S. exchanges and commissaries to include ships and aircraft visiting NAS Sigonella. Additionally, many U.S. service members and dependents here are not U.S. born. I ask that our community please be careful in casting assumptions. If you still feel an unauthorized person is either shopping at, or using our facilities, I invite you and all community members to tactfully inform management on duty so they can properly address the situation.
Comment regarding animals off base:
“Where to start… CAPT Dennis? You’ve built a reputation as a man on a mission to ignore, not solve, the animal problem on the base by ordering everyone to “stop feeding the strays” but now your war on animals has a total number of 10 or more on lines, with no shelter, no food, no water, and no one doing anything to help them thanks to NASSIG pressuring the owner of the lot across from the NAS 2 main gate to “clean up the property because it is a problem for the base and NATO”. Since the old man that was there was most likely squatting on the property, his removal makes sense from a legal standpoint I suppose, but the fact that all the people (including my husband) that work on NAS 2 drive past a lot full of dogs being neglected and literally starved on a leash is a deplorable act and one that shows that your intent is to remove “eyes sores” and “problems” at any cost. Certainly the onbase [sic] VET could do something, should do something, knows someone that could do something.
through Rifugio Galvarina that includes a Sicilian BBQ, and a family-friendly snowshoe adventure on Mt. Sartorius. If you would like to immerse yourself in the local culture, many towns at the base of Etna – Nicolosi, Zafferana, Pedara, etc. – offer guided tours up the mountain for all levels of climbers. There are also two ski locations on Etna located above Nicolosi with four lifts servicing 14 trails suitable for all levels. The other ski area is located at the northern resort of Linguaglossa. In keeping with Health & Welfare, these activities are sure to briskly keep the heart rate up and help you achieve cardiovascular endurance. If you haven’t taken part in any of these Mount Etna adventures this winter season, I hope you’ll consider it. You may never again have the opportunity! However, if you take a pass during the winter, there’s always another season to enjoy. To borrow from the famous English poet, D.H. Lawrence, behold the “Pedestal of Heaven!”
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There are two ways to submit feed back to Naval Air Station (NAS) Sigonella Commanding Officer Capt. Chris Dennis: Visit The Interactive Customer Evaluation (ICE) home page on a One-Net computer at: http://ice.disa. mil, All Sigonella services are found under the Navy Europe Listing in the scroll-down menu. Also, visit NAS Sigonella's website www.cnic.navy.mil/Sigonella, go to the "About" drop down menu and click on " CO Suggestion Box". The Signature will anonymously publish comments and responses for the benefit of the Sigonella community. If you are submitting a "BZ", we ask that you provide your name in order for us to properly recognize employee. Please make sure your comments and suggestions are constructive. In other words, "BE NICE ON ICE."
One more item. I spoke with my husband about what his command says about the following topic and he said “you see something, say something” and “trafficking in persons is illegal” – then how do you explain the existence of prostitutes being located within a few minutes of Maranai housing area? You are so focused on threatening people for passing on solid lines between the bases (triangle) that you and the authorities somehow neglect to do anything about the women who are trafficked. Starving dogs and prostitutes – do something.
Response:
Dear Anonymous, your note is a perfect example of why the ICE/CO’s Suggestion Box program is so necessary – in a word, “perceptions.” Thank you for sharing your perceptions and offering me the opportunity to provide information to you and our community-at-large. Let me lead with a few very critical points, the first of which everyone hears during INDOC. We US military, US government employees, US contractors, and dependents are all guests in Italy. As such, we are subject to very real Italian political and legal limits. In fact, not one NASSIG location is considered sovereign US soil. What’s more, NAS2 is actually Sigonella Air Base and the overall responsibility of this base is the Italian Base Commander’s, Col Vincenzo Sicuso. My authorities as US Base Commander are defined and limited by the North Atlantic Treaty, US Title 10, and other DOD/DON policy documents. Simply put, off base in Italy, I can argue, persuade, cajole and plead but one thing I cannot do is DECREE anything to Italian governments, businesses, or citizens. My most critical responsibilities, within my limited authorities, are to achieve community safety and security and base operational readiness and responsiveness. From this, I offer some additional insights. Of course, as a pet owner and animal foster parent, I have no “War on Animals.” I do, however, maintain very significant concerns for the dangers animals present our community. Did you know that in 2014 twenty-two Sig’ Citizens were given medical treatment by our hospital due to incidents with stray/unattended animals? 22! That is terrible. There were many more close calls. This is why my General Order forbidding feeding of stray animals remains in effect. It is also why pet owners must ensure their pets remain under control. As a community, we are morally obliged to attempt to stop stray and unattended animals from attacking our citizens. As for animals suffering across from NAS2 and prostitution around the area, the situations you mention are outside any NASSIG location, and therefore I have no legal authority over the gentleman, his animals, or the prostitutes. It is deplorable the condition his animals are in but neither I nor the US government is behind his situation or the ongoing actions being taken. Our NASSIG US Army Veterinarian, who recently arrived, as an American citizen has no more authority to intervene off base than I do or you do. With specific respect to prostitution, I applaud you and your spouse for taking to heart “see something, say something.” Our NCIS and Base Security work closely with local law enforcement to identify and address criminal issues but ultimately jurisdiction for this type of law enforcement and prosecution is Italian. I do, however, have abundant jurisdiction over US military personnel soliciting prostitutes, which is illegal under the UCMJ. My best advice to all of us is to ensure none of our community solicits services of any prostitute in hopes that they will move on to better economic conditions. One final note on Traffic Safety. Did you know that not long ago the NASSIG citizenry had five traffic fatalities in a single year? Just last year a close friend to our community died in a motorcycle accident involving high speed. No one should apologize for focusing on driving safety. In fact, as indicated below, since 2011 our community has become much safer on the roadways. Of the reasons why, random ALCO-BLOWs, public awareness and citizen reports of unsafe driving continue to be critical to our improved safety.
I recently stayed at the Navy Gateway Inn and Suites and am greatly disappointed. Even though the prices have gone up, the quality of service has gone down. After checking in, the first room I entered reeked of cigarette smoke, and the bathroom toilet and sink were filthy. There were others issues as well, but the bottom line is that I hope this housekeeping issue gets resolved. It's not fair to pay more for substandard conditions.
Response:
I apologize for the substandard conditions and poor service you received during your stay at our NGIS. This is totally unacceptable. The Housing Director, Nestor Tumulac, has assured me every room is now inspected by management prior to releasing them to guests. Meanwhile, those responsible for not properly cleaning the room have been counseled, while proper room cleaning procedures have been re-briefed to all housekeeping staff. Again, I apologize for your terrible stay, and am sure you will have a completely different experience should you decide to give NASSIG NGIS another chance.
Comment regarding Gas Coupons:
Since I've been here MVRO has not updated insurance and safety inspection files, which in turn causes our allowance for gas coupons to be cut off. Can we please do something to stop this bad business practice? It will save money for those who otherwise must pay Euro at the pump because they have no coupons.
Response:
I apologize for the inconvenience you experienced with your gas coupons, and agree that this process needs attention. I have asked for a full review of the program to make sure the system is operating properly. Thank you for bringing this to our attention.
Comment regarding Security gate guards:
I have seen an increase in gate guards taking their time talking to friends and coworkers while we wait in line to come through the gate. Can we please re-enforce General Order Number 7: "I will talk to no one except in the line of duty."
Response:
Thank you for your comment. While I agree that our gate guards need to stand a smart watch, their duties also require them to provide directions and answer questions, and quite frankly my preference is that they do so in a friendly manner. In fact, very senior Navy officials recently remarked at a noticeable improvement in the professionalism and helpfulness of our gate guards. So while I can certainly appreciate the need for our gate guards to work efficiently, I take a great amount of pride at the professionalism they display.
Comment regarding NAS 1 Movie Theatre:
I have been to MWR outlets with my family and there are employees working there who bring their children with them. Can someone please step in and get the members help with the CDC or SAC to take care of this issue?
Response:
Thank you for taking the time to let us know about these issues. MWR's goal is for every patron to have an enjoyable and positive experience every time they visit MWR venues. MWR management has spoken with the employees and you should not have something like this detract from future visits. If you have any additional comments or concerns, please contact Mr. Bob Froelicher, MWR Recreation Director, at robert.froelicher@eu.navy.mil or 624-0502.
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EDITORIAL Public Affairs Officer Lt. Paul Newell paul.newell@eu.navy.mil Editor M. Todd Butler michael.butler@eu.navy.mil Community Relations Officer Dott. Alberto Lunetta alberto.lunetta.it@eu.navy.mil PAO Staff Writers \ Photographers MC1 Tony D. Curtis anthony.curtis@eu.navy.mil MC3 Ramon Go ramon.go@eu.navy.mil CONTACT US Naval Air Station Sigonella, Sicily thesig@eu.navy.mil DSN 624-5440; 095-86-5440 PSC 812 Box 7, FPO, AE 09627-0001 PUBLISHER Stampa Generale S.r.l., Sig. Bruno Brandi, Publisher, Naval Support Activity Capodichino (Naples), Italy stampagenerale@tin.it Tel. 081-568-7884 Fax 081-568-7887 This civilian enterprise (CE) newspaper is an authorized publication for members of the military services overseas. Contents of The Signature are not necessarily the official views of, or endorsed by, the U.S. Government, the Department of Defense (DoD), or the U.S. Navy. The appearance of advertising in this newspaper, including inserts or supplements, does not constitute endorsement by the DoD or Stampa Generale S.r.l., of the products or services advertised. Everything advertised in this publication shall be made available for purchase, use or patronage without regard to race, color, religion, sex, national origin, age, marital status, physical handicap, political affiliation or any other non-merit factorof the purchaser, user or patron. A confirmed violation or rejection of this equal opportunity policy by an advertiser will result in the refusal to print advertising from that source until the violation is corrected. The Signature is published weekly by Stampa Generale S.r.l., Sig. Bruno Brandi, Publisher, Naval Support Activity, Capodichino (Naples), Italy. Tel. 081-568-7884. Fax 081-568-7887. E-mail: stampagenerale@tin.it. Editorial submissions are welcomed from all Naval Air Station Sigonella departments, divisions and tenant commands. Editorial submissions should be sent to the Public Affairs Office via thesig@eu.navy.mil, guard mail stop #68 or hand-delivered to our office no later than the close of business on the Friday proceeding the expected publication date. All articles submitted by non-staff members will be considered contributing writers.
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New and improved bike rentals from MWR
"Recycle" continued from Page 1 Phase 3: Desk-side recycling – a small container (just like your office trash can) for you to place paper, soda cans, juice bottles and any recyclable items brought into the workplace. Once full the items should be taken to the closest exterior recycling container and sorted accordingly. “We are trying to make it easier by giving people opportunities to choose well,” said Carpenter. “Keeping the recyclable commodities separated is vital to us to turn a large volume of items to the collection agency in Catania.” Unfortunately, this doesn’t always happen. When pizza boxes and used batteries are carelessly tossed into the glass bin, that bin is now “contaminated” and will be discarded as landfill trash despite the conscientious efforts of the rest who properly discarded their glass. “Resources are not endless, therefore, the more we recycle the more resources we will have in the future,” said Alessandra Contarino, quality control inspector for waste management. “Our main goal is to recycle 65% of the trash we produce. The higher that percentage becomes, the more we see the economical benefits by not having to pay more taxes and space used on the landfill while harming less to the environment.” Recycling helps to not only maintain a healthy home and work environment, but a means in which Carpenter said allows this community to be better ambassadors toward our Italian hosts. “The recycling program is your chance to exercise smart decisions that affect the whole community,” said Carpenter. “We are making strides to make it easy to recycle for individuals and we want to build that trust. I [challenge] all of Sigonella citizens to ask themselves, Why not recycle?”
NAS SIGONELLA, Sicily -- To provide greater measures in safeguarding the Sigonella community, the installation's Morale Welfare and Recreation Department recently installed a new maintenance and tracking system for bike rentals. The new system will closely record the transfer and upkeep of all rented bicycles from the time of return to the moment of re-issue. Once a patron returns their rental, MWR's certified bike mechanics will thoroughly inspect the bike, perform needed maintenance, and then certify the bike fit for re-rental. Bikes unfit for use will be given additional maintenance, or if necessary, be removed permanently from the rental pool. Once inspection and maintenance is complete, the attending mechanic will sign and notarize the approved bike. "Bikes are a popular rental item we provide
to our community, but they can get ridden hard just as they are intended to be," said Paul Lopez, Sigonella's MWR Director. "This new program is a collaborative effort to best track usage and the maintenance history of each bike rental to ensure we are doing our utmost to properly account for and thus ensure to the Sigonella family that we are doing all we can to protect our members from mechanical failure and injuries that may follow." As MWR continues to improve the rental program, they ask that patrons provide feedback upon return of the items rented. What's more, if there are items you'd like to rent that are not currently part of the MWR rental inventory, and then please send your suggestions to ITT_Sigonella@eu.navy.mil. If you have any additional comments or concerns, please contact Paul Lopez at 6240503 or by e-mail at: paul.a.lopez@eu.navy.mil.
Commander, NAVSUP GLS visits NAS Sigonella Recyclable materials are dumped into a larger container for transport to a collection agency for processing in downtown Catania. (U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 3rd Class Ramon Go/Released)
External recyclable collection bins that are color-coded with diagrams located in front of Building 623 on NAS 2. Recyclables are collected and delivered onto a larger container for transport to a collection agency for processing in downtown Catania. (U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 3rd Class Ramon Go/Released)
Rear Adm. James McNeal, commander, Naval Supply Systems Command Global Logistics Support (NAVSUP GLS), left, addresses Sailors and Marines during an all hands call at Naval Air Station (NAS) Sigonella, Jan. 12. NAVSUP GLS provides Navy, Marine Corps and joint and allied forces with operational logistics capabilities via network of eight subordinate NAVSUP Fleet Logistics Centers (FLCs) based around the world. (U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist 3rd Class Ramon Go/Released)
Need an appointment at the hospital? Call DSN 624-CARE (2273) or commercial 095-56-2273, M-F: 7:30 a.m. - 4 p.m. For non-emergent medical questions that arise over the weekend, holidays, or after office hours, please call 335-578-8077 if you are normally seen at the hospital or 335-578-8150 if you are normally seen at the Flight Line Clinic.
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Saint Sebastian Festival in Acireale
Sometimes, they would tape these objects on red ribbons that are tied on the branches of the stump against which the statue depicting San Sebastiano is placed. Tradition also holds that, in the past, one who would miraculously survive plague epidemics would offer white linens to the saint. At that time, an infected person was indeed required to wear white linen around their neck to show that they carried the disease. Once the epidemic was over, these linens were taped on the pillars that support the carriage on which the statue of the saint is carried in procession. Even nowadays, devotees still wear the linen around their chest and head.
The Festa di San Sebastiano, which honors the Acireale town's co-patron, takes place on Jan 20. It is one of the most attractive festivals held during the winter in the Catania province featuring religious celebrations, music, fireworks and entertainment. The faithful crowd the entire Acireale historic center during the coming out of the saint’s statue. ( Photo by City of Acireale Tourist Office)
ACIREALE, Sicily - "Evviva Sam Mastianu! Evviva lu rizzareddu, Vàddatilu quant’è beddu, li miraculi ca fa” (Long live Saint Sebastian! Long live the curly-headed, look at his beauty and the miracles he performs). This ancient prayer shows how the devotion towards San Sebastiano (Saint Sebastian) is deeply embedded in the religious history of Acireale, an elegant town in the Catania province. Every year, thousands among pilgrims and tourists swarms the streets of the historic center to show love and respect to their celestial patron. Despite being just the town’s compatrono (co-patron saint) along with Santa Venera, whose festival is celebrated on July 26, Sebastiano still gets most of the attention by the Acireale’s religious community. The festival honoring him, which will be held on Tuesday, Jan. 20, is undoubtedly a prominent religious event filled with emotional involvement. San Sebastiano is probably one of the most famous martyrs in the Christian tradition. His martyrdom was a favorite subject of Renaissance painters who depicted him as a handsome young man who kept his dignity and beauty through the pain of the terrible arrows’ wounds and eventually triumphed over physical suffering. Sebastiano was born in northern France around 300 AD. He served as an officer in the Roman army under Diocletian, the Emperor who issued an edict in which he prohibited Christianity. As Sebastiano was discovered to be a Christian, he was martyred in 288 AD. He was tied, pierced with arrows and left for dead; but tradition holds that he survived the arrows, which miraculously failed to pierce any vital organ.
Thus, the arrow, a symbol of the plague, became his identifying attribute as well as his wounds that resemble plague boils. Tradition holds that he was eventually beaten to death. A true hero of Catholicism, San Sebastiano is also worshipped almost everywhere in Sicily, but particularly in the province of Siracusa and in Maniace. Acireale townspeople consider him as a protector against the plague as he reportedly saved the city in times of trouble several times, especially during plague epidemics. According to one tradition, the city was spared by the plague in 1466, and therefore, devotees built a church to thank him. However, the church was heavily damaged as a result of a catastrophic earthquake that struck the Catania province in 1693. But the Acireale devotees did not give up and erected a new magnificent basilica dedicated to San Sebastiano in the 17th century. The Basilica Collegiata di San Sebastiano is among the most beautiful Baroque buildings in Acireale, as well as the most requested local church for wedding ceremonies. Gian Battista Marino, a sculptor from Catania, decorated its façade in the second half of the 17th century in a Baroque style. The church’s interior was frescoed with some paintings by Paolo Vasta depicting scenes from the life of the saint and other masterpieces telling the story of Christ by Venerando Costanzo. San Sebastiano is still been invoked by pilgrims to help people heal from illnesses and thanked for surviving a natural disaster or accident. If a miracle is worked, devotees would offer tall waxes, money and small golden objects.
Festival Schedule The festival starts Jan. 20 at 7:30 a.m. with the opening of the little chapel located inside the Saint Sebastian church where the statue of the Christian martyr and the relics are kept. Holy mass is performed at 9:30 a.m. by Acireale Bishop Antonino Raspanti. Later at 11 a.m., the statue of San Sebastian begins its procession through the following streets of the town’s historic heart: vie: R. Settimo, Piazza Duomo, Cavour, piazza San Domenico, San Carlo, San Biagio, piazza San Biagio, Gozzano, J. Da Todi, piazza San Francesco, Petrarca, piazza Dante, Manzoni, Gozzano, piazza San Biagio, Collegio Pennisi, piazza San Michele, Dafnica, piazza San Giovanni, Lanzafame, Turchia,L. Da Vinci, S. Vigo, Mascagni, Ponchielli, Dafnica, San Martino and piazza G. Marconi, Meli. The “fercolo” or float, on top of which the statue depicting the saint is placed, will be taken around by a group of 60 “divoti" (devotees) who perform spectacular maneuvers even running and going up steep climbs. The divoti who carry the float around the city belong to a confraternity boasting an ancient tradition handed down for centuries from father to son. The procession is repeated at 3 p.m. throughout the following roada and squares of the historic center: vie: Vittorio Emanuele, p.zza Carmine, via Vittorio Emanuele, viale Libertà, piazza A. Pennisi, S. Vigo, San Girolamo, Archimede, Quartiere (neigborhood) Mandorle, S. Vigo, chiesa Madonna della Fiducia, S. Vigo, Rossini, piazza Madonna della Pace, Verdi, San Martino, San Francesco di Paola, del Popolo, Maddem, Scaccianoce, Galatea, Roma, c.so Umberto, largo Giovanni XXIII, Currò, piazza Porta Cusmana, P. Vasta, R. Margherita, Mancini, c.so Umberto, piazza Indirizzo, c.so Italia, Veneto, Principe Amedeo, SS. Salvatore, corso Savoia, Caronda, M. di Sangiuliano, Atanasia, c.so Savoia, p.zza Duomo, Davì, Musmeci and will go back to the Basilica at 4 p.m. Then at 4 p.m. the statue is moved to piazza Agostino Pennisi, the old train station area, for the traditional blessing of the “train passage.” At midnight, the statue is brought back to the San Sebastiano church. Firework shows and ringing church bells are performed all day long and throughout the city. The San Sebastiano church is located in piazza Leonardo Vigo next to the Acireale Cathedral. Eight days later, on Tuesday, Jan 27, a smaller-scale festival called “Ottava” is held in the historic center. Highlights include a solemn Holy Mass at 7 p.m. at the Saint Sebastian Basilica celebtated by the deputy bishop of Palermo and the evening procession to be held at 8:30 p.m. in piazza Lionardo Vigo. For more information and detailed schedules contact the San Sebastian Church at 095-601313.
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Career Transition Options announced U.S. Navy divers use advanced equipment for AWF/AWV community in search for AirAsia flight QZ8501
From Chief of Naval Personnel Public Affairs
WASHINGTON (NNS) -- Career guidance for Naval Aircrewmen (Mechanical) (AWF) and Naval Aircrewmen (Avionics) (AWV) affected by the shift from P-3C Orion to P-8 Poseidon aircraft was announced in a NAVADMIN released Jan. 8. NAVADMIN 008/15, directs active duty P-3 AWF/AWV Sailors in Navy Enlisted Classification (NEC) Codes of 8251 and 9402 to contact their rating detailer either one year from their Projected Rotation Date or their squadron's transition conference, whichever happens first. The message explains what career choices are available to Sailors making the transition and was built to help manage community health while balancing an individual's desire to stay in uniform. The message outlines the specifics of how Sailors will work with their detailer to determine open jobs among aircraft type and aircrew positions, along with lateral conversion choices to other ratings and options for separation from the service. This guidance does not apply to P-3 AWF/AWV Sailors who sign a page 13 non-volunteering from the aircrew program as they will be offered ratings based on needs of the Navy. Chief of Naval Personnel and Commander, Naval Air Forces (CNAF) worked to shape a policy that helps serve the mission of the Maritime Patrol and Reconnaissance Community and help Sailors in the AWF/AWV rating make this transition possible and provide them with options to stay in uniform. CNAF has begun a Navy Enlisted Manpower and Personnel Classifications and Occupational Standards (NEOCS) proposal to determine whether to keep the AWF/AWV ratings or return to the previous aviation maintenance aircrew model. The proposal will be drafted by Spring 2015 with a decision expected in Fiscal Year 2016, which will be followed with a message detailing the specific results.
By MC2 Toni Burton
U.S. 7th Fleet Public Affairs
YOKOSUKA, Japan (NNS) -- An eight-member team from Mobile Diving and Salvage Unit (MDSU) 1 onboard USS Fort Worth (LCS 3) is supporting the ongoing Indonesianled search effort for AirAsia flight QZ8501 with advanced Tow Fish side scan sonar systems capable of providing highresolution images of the ocean floor. The Tow Fish side scan sonar system is used to identify objects on JAVA SEA (Jan. 7, 2015) The littoral combat ship USS Fort Worth (LCS 3) the seafloor and provide operates near the location where the tail of AirAsia Flight QZ8501l was accurate imagery for discovered. Fort Worth is currently supporting Indonesian-led efforts analysis. The sonar carries a to locate the downed aircraft. (U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication passive listening device for Specialist 2nd Class Antonio P. Turretto Ramos/Released) detecting an acoustic pulse and is towed behind a vessel between 1-5 knots. The acoustic signal is then transmitted to a computer where the trained operators are able to analyze the feedback. "We can find things as small as a golf ball and something as big as an airplane using different kilohertz spans," said Navy Diver 2nd Class Daniel Clarke. "Should we find targets out there, we will switch over to a very high resolution; we'll go [over the area] very slowly and get very clear images. We can see everything on the sea floor using our computer" Similar sonar systems have been crucial in past operations in 7th Fleet. In early 2014, U.S. 7th Fleet dedicated assets, including Bluefin-21 Sidescan Sonar systems, to assist in the search for MH370 and the Korean ferry Sewol search and rescue operations. "We use this equipment quite often," Said Clarke. "This type of equipment was used in stuff like finding MH370, or in the Sewol [South Korean ferry capsize tragedy], also with finding any type of other aircraft that might have gone down in the past." As one of the U.S. Navy's diving and salvage units, MDSU 1, stationed in Pearl Harbor, is equipped to rapidly deploy specialized dive teams to conduct harbor clearance, underwater repairs and search and recovery operations in any environment. USS Fort Worth (LCS 3) is forward deployed to 7th Fleet and arrived in the search for Air Asia Jan. 3 at the request of the Indonesian government. Fort Worth is operating alongside USS Sampson (DDG 102), which arrived on station Dec. 30, to support Indonesian-led search efforts to locate AirAsia Flight QZ8501.
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Journey to Ephesus - a stroll through antiquity By Cdr Sally Butler U.S. Naval Hospital Sigonella
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ave you heard of Ephesus? Amazingly, I had not, but was absolutely astounded by this ancient city in Turkey. Its history is biblical and its impact on humanity, far-reaching. Ephesus was built in the 10th century BC and is said to contain the largest collection of Roman ruins in the eastern Mediterranean. Like Sicily, it was conquered by many peoples and was famous for its “Temple of Artemis”, one of the Seven Wonders of the Ancient World. While the temple was destroyed in 268 AD, the area is still considered one of the greatest outdoor museums in Turkey, and unlike stateside museums that have artifacts roped off the public can walk upon and touch these ruins. Although a mere 15% of the archeological site has been excavated, you will be amazed with the grandeur of the Celsius Library, Grand Theater, Temple of Hadrian, Hercules Gate, and the Flying
Nike (yes…the shoe icon got its swoosh from here). Walk the streets that Cleopatra and the John the Apostle once strolled and you are immediately immersed in history. In addition to the city sites, a trip to this region is simply not complete without visiting the “House of the Virgin Mary” and "the Basilica of St. John the Baptist". It is believed that the Apostle John brought Mary here to live out the remainder of their lives after the crucifixion of Christ. Both places are important places for Christians and are frequently visited on pilgrimages. Mary’s home is a humble church surrounded by spring waters believed to be sacred while the basilica is simply awe-inspiring with its cross-shaped baptismal font and the original tomb of St. John. For memories and a lesson in history you will treasure for a lifetime – visit Ephesus.
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Ristorante Bella Etna The Signature has established the "That's NOT What Right Looks Like" section in order to make the NAS Sigonella community aware of how the command is prosecuting improper behavior, along with the hope of deterring future bad decisions. December: 1 Shoplifter caught at NEX. Loss of shopping privileges for 12 months. January: 2 DUIs. Loss of base driving privileges for 12 months. January: 12 Shoplifters caught at NEX. Loss of NEX privileges for one year.
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NAS Sigonella Second Class Association - Every Second Class on NASSIG is HIGHLY ENCOURAGED to become a part of the Second Class Association. The next meeting will be held on Jan. 23 in building 724 (Upstairs in MVRO BLDG) from Noon - 1 p.m. NEX Tailor - The NAS 2 mini-mart will continue tailoring service every Wednesday from 10 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Please utilize this service. As of Dec. 5, there were only four orders. We will continue this until the end of February, and then reassess this service. EXPIRATION OF 75 DAY LEAVE CARRY-OVER POLICY on Sept. 30, 2015 - Contact your CPC for more information.
DRIVE SAFELY SIGONELLA
BREAKFAST Mon-Fri 6:30-8 a.m. Weekend/Holiday 7 -9 a.m. LUNCH Mon-Fri 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. Weekend/Holiday 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. DINNER Mon-Fri 4:30 - 6 p.m. Weekend/Holiday 4:30 - 6 p.m.
Saturday, January 17 Breakfast: Brunch: Dinner:
Sunday, January 18 Breakfast: Brunch: Dinner:
Eggs to Order, Oven Fried Bacon, Corned Beef Hash Eggs to Order, Oven Fried Bacon, Corned Beef Hash, Roast Turkey Pizza and Wings Night Eggs to Order, Grilled Minute Steak, Oven Fried Bacon Eggs to Order, Grilled Minute Steak, Oven Fried Bacon, Mambo Pork Roast Spaghetti with Meatballs, Baked Chicken Fillet
Monday, January 19 Breakfast: Lunch: Speed Line: Dinner:
Tuesday, January 20 Breakfast: Lunch: Speed Line: Dinner:
Eggs to Order, Minced Beef, Oven Fried Bacon Chicken Adobo, Chef Ligget’s Tempura Fish Chef Mauricio’s Freshly Made Pizza Salisbury Steak, Chef Mario’s Homemade Lasagna Eggs to Order, Biscuits and Gravy Taco Tuesdays Pasta Bar with choice of Freshly Made Pasta Sauce Pizza Casserole, Roast Pork Tenderloin with Gravy
Wednesday, January 21 Breakfast: Lunch: Speed Line: Dinner:
Thursday, January 22 Breakfast: Lunch: Speed Line: Dinner:
Friday, January 23
NASSIG WORSHIP SERVICES ROMAN CATHOLIC • Sunday - 9 a.m. Catholic Mass at NAS 1 Chapel • TUESDAY, WEDNESDAY & FRIDAY
PROTESTANT - NAS 1 CHAPEL • Saturday - 6:30 p.m. Contemporary Worship
Services 11:30 a.m. Catholic Mass at NAS 2 Chapel • SundaY - 11 a.m. Traditional Worship; 12 p.m. Sacraments of Reconciliation / Penance precede each Sunday School Mass • FRIDAY - 11:30 a.m. Catholic Mass at NIGHT STUDY NAS 1 Chapel • MONDAY - AA Meetings 5:30 p.m., second
LATTER-DAY SAINTS • SUNDAY - 1:30 p.m. at NAS 1 Chapel
Contact: sigonellalds@gmail.com or 624-9049
JEWISH SHABBAT LAY SERVICE • FRIDAY - 5:30 p.m. at NAS 1 Chapel
deck at NAS 1 Chapel; Thursday 7 p.m. at NAS 2 Chapel • Tuesday - Italian Class 7 p.m. at Classroom at NAS 1 Chapel • Tuesday - Glee Club 12 p.m. at NAS 1 Chapel • Tuesday - Awana Club 4:45 p.m at NAS 1 Chapel
Chapel Offices: NAS I XX095563975, NAS II XX095869049, DSN: 624-3975, Chaplain Duty: 335-831-4493 RP Duty: 335-786-1950 NAS Sigonella Religious Ministries Department Facebook page: www.facebook.com/Naval Air Station Sigonella Chapel
Breakfast: Lunch: Speed Line: Dinner:
Eggs to Order, Creamed Ground Beef on Toast, Oven Fried Bacon Cajun Roast Beef, Baked Fish All American Grilled Burgers Chef Russo’s Home Made Meat Loaf, Cajun Chicken Sandwich Eggs to Order, Grilled Minute Steak, Oven Fried Bacon Yakisoba, Savory Baked Chicken with Gravy Philly Cheese Steak Spaghetti with Meat sauce, Turkey Pot Pie Eggs to Order, Oven fried Bacon, Chicken Tocino Soul Food Friday Chef Salvo’s Freshly Made Pizza Chili Macaroni, Grilled Cheese Sandwiches w/ Hot Tomato Soup, Chili Macaroni
Effective Jan. 1, from the Office of the Under Secretary of Defense (Comptroller) the standard meal rates at every DOD Appropriated Fund Dining Facility will be as follows: Breakfast: $3.45
Lunch: $5.55
Dinner: $4.85
1. For personnel on night duty, we have implemented a separate sign-in sheet to allow you to get a "to-go" meal for later consumption. Please kindly inform the front desk that you are on night shift. Please be in uniform. 2. Due to limited supplies for "to-go" containers we are currently limiting "to-go" meals to personnel on duty in uniform only. We will inform everyone once "to-go" is available for personnel in appropriate civilian attire. 3. Taking food out of the galley is strictly prohibited unless it is for an authorized “to-go” ticket.
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CREDO opportunities DeCA working to fix product for service members shortages for overseas stores and families By DeCA Corporate Communications
By LCDR Edward Erwin
NAS Sigonella Religious Ministries Department
NAS SIGONELLA, Sicily - The Religious Ministries Department will sponsor a number of upcoming CREDO (Chaplains Religious Enrichment Development Operations) opportunities for service members and families. The training events, which enhance personal well-being, strengthen families, and enrich relationships, are absolutely free! All of the weekend retreats, which are hosted at the Sheraton Hotel Catania, provide free meals in a most elegant atmosphere, conducive to personal resiliency and growth. On Feb. 20-22, CREDO will offer a Family Enrichment Retreat, which fosters family unity and cohesion amidst the challenges of separation, relocations, and reunions. The retreat provides exercises that increase quality communication, problem-solving, and family togetherness. On Feb. 27-Mar. 1, CREDO will lead a Personal Resilience Retreat to help participants explore their past, clarify who they are, and where they want to go in the future in terms of individual aspirations. The retreat will empower all to develop the physical, psychological, emotional, social, and spiritual dimensions of their lives. On March 3-4, CREDO will host an ASIST (Applied Suicide Intervention Skills and Training) Workshop, designed to train caregivers in suicide first aid. The class facilitates more competence and confidence on the part of first responders in preventing the risk of suicide in our community. All graduates will receive a certificate for successful completion of the two-day course. On March 6-8, you are invited to a Marriage Enrichment Retreat in which couples can experience group instruction, private discussions, and free time to interact and reconnect as couples. The retreat helps couples to work on communication skills, resolve conflict, and deepen intimacy. On March 8-10, the Women’s Resilience Retreat focuses on the values of respect, trust, and collegiality among women in a stress-free environment. The retreat fosters self-care, family enrichment, and personal development. For more information on any of these workshops or retreats, you may contact the Religious Ministries Department for a more detailed brochure on the specifics of each of these offerings at 624-3975. Because space is limited, we encourage you to register as soon as possible for these exciting CREDO opportunities.
FORT LEE, Va. – The Defense Commissary Agency will begin airlifting essential chill items to stores in Korea, mainland Japan and Okinawa today to alleviate some of the ongoing product shortages in the Pacific. DeCA will use commercial contracted airlift to transport essential produce, yogurt, cottage cheese and other dairy items for delivery to commissaries by Friday and Saturday. Other chilled items will continue to be transported by ship. The commissary agency will weigh customer needs, product shelf life, projected port deliveries and the availability of commercial U.S. suppliers to determine any changes to the products being airlifted, said Agency Director and CEO Joseph H. Jeu. “For the time being, contingency airlifts of critical short shelf life items to Korea, mainland Japan and Okinawa is one part of the solution we’re working to improve the timely delivery of products to all our stores in the Pacific,” Jeu said. “We’re also ramping up reorders and looking at more local source options. And, we also want our patrons to know that there will be no change in price for the airlifted products.” Commissaries in Korea, mainland Japan and Okinawa have been experiencing shortages of many chilled items because orders from the U.S. have been arriving up to 10-15 days late. These delays stem from West Coast port slowdowns related to negotiations between the Pacific Maritime Association and labor unions representing West Coast dock workers. The West Coast port delays have impacted the ability of commissaries in the Pacific to keep shelves fully stocked with sensitive short shelf life products, such as yogurts, luncheon meats, fresh bone-in meat and fresh pork. Frozen and dry grocery products are not as affected by the West Coast port delays because a 30day supply of those products is maintained in DeCA’s central distribution centers in Korea, Japan, Okinawa and Guam. DeCA cannot maintain a 30-day supply of highly perishable items because of their shorter shelf life.
“Although West Coast operations have impacted Hawaii’s commercial shipments, it wasn’t to the degree that shipments to Japan, Okinawa and Korea have been impacted,” Jeu said. “Guam also is supported from West Coast ports. However, the shipping lanes supporting our Guam operations have only experienced minimal delays.” With shipments scheduled to arrive weekly, DeCA officials are asking customers to check store signage for updates. In addition, DeCA advises customers to contact their local store management about a product’s availability status if they don’t see a product they want on the shelf. In Europe, recent problems with product shortages are nearly solved as stock availability continues to improve. By the end of this week, product delivery to stores in Europe will be back on schedule, depending on delivery location. Overall, DeCA sees prompt supply of all its overseas commissaries as its No. 1 priority, Jeu said. “We’re laser-focused on improving the situation for our patrons overseas,” Jeu said. “We’re working very hard to resupply our commissaries and keep stock levels at acceptable levels.” About DeCA: The Defense Commissary Agency operates a worldwide chain of commissaries providing groceries to military personnel, retirees and their families in a safe and secure shopping environment. Authorized patrons purchase items at cost plus a 5-percent surcharge, which covers the costs of building new commissaries and modernizing existing ones. Shoppers save an average of more than 30 percent on their purchases compared to commercial prices – savings amounting to thousands of dollars annually. A core military family support element, and a valued part of military pay and benefits, commissaries contribute to family readiness, enhance the quality of life for America's military and their families, and help recruit and retain the best and brightest men and women to serve their country.
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GAME ZONE Types of Music 1
Find and circle all of the different types of music that are hidden in the grid. The remaining 14 letters spell an additional type of music.
ACAPELLA ACID ROCK ACOUSTIC AMBIENT AVANT-GARDE BIG BAND BLUEGRASS BROADWAY CABARET CHORAL CHRISTMAS CLASSIC ROCK DANCE
DISCO ELECTRONICA FLAMENCO FOLK GANGSTA RAP GOTHIC HEAVY METAL HIP HOP INDIAN INDIE JAZZ LATIN MUSIC LOUNGE
MERENGUE MEXICAN NEW WAVE POLKA PSYCHEDELIC PUNK ROCKABILLY SAMBA SOUL TANGO WALTZ WORLD
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Burundi, U.S. forces enhance regional security for Somalia
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Tips for facing deployment By Fleet & Family Support center sigonella From Focus on the Family
Burundi National Defense Force Soldiers observe as a Marine demonstrates firing from the standing position during a live fire range in Bujumbura, Burundi, Dec. 2, 2014. Marines and Sailors with Special Purpose Marine Air Ground Task Force Crisis Response-Africa trained alongside the Burundi National Defense Force where they advised the BNDF in the disciplines of logistics and engineering for approximately three months from October to December 2014. (Courtesy Photo) BY 1st Lt Maida Kalic Special Purpose Marine Air Ground Task Force Crisis Response-Africa
BURUNDI, Burundi - The Burundi National Defense Force are preparing their soldiers for deployment to Somalia with the help of U.S. Marines and Sailors from Special Purpose Marine Air-Ground Task Force Crisis Response-Africa. “The benefit of our training engagement is building partnerships and capacity with Burundi and the African Union Mission to Somalia,” said Major Luke Sauber, the officer-in-charge of the Marines and Sailors that trained with the BNDF. “By working alongside the BNDF and sharing our knowledge and practices, we are supporting Burundi and AMISOM.” The team of U.S. Marines and Sailors partnered with more than 160 Burundian Soldiers where they advised and trained with the BNDF in logistics and engineering disciplines for approximately 3-months from October through December. “Our company is better positioned to continue preparation for deployment,” said the 7th Sapper Company Commander of the BNDF. “We appreciate the knowledge, professionalism, and camaraderie of the Marine security cooperation team.”
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Theater security cooperation engagements like this one assist partner nations in addressing security challenges and enhance overall regional security through militaryto-military engagements. “Engagements like these benefit all participants,” said Sauber. “They not only create opportunities for partner militaries to increase interoperability, but they also help shape an environment that will promote regional stability and overall prosperity.” The African Union Mission in Somalia is an active, regional peacekeeping mission operated by the African Union with the approval of the United Nations. Burundi has the second largest contingent within AMISOM with 5,432 troops. The country was also the second to deploy troops into Somalia, with its first soldiers arriving in Mogadishu in December 2007, according to the official AMISOM website. Read more: http://www.dvidshub.net/news/151159/burundi-us-forces-enhanceregional-security-somalia#.VLNrycnQspS#ixzz3OaR4Xfhs
NAS SIGONELLA, Sicily - Helpful ideas for facing the pre- mid- and post-deployment stages as a couple. Hopelessness in the face of deployment or TDY (especially when it involves danger or a lengthy period of time) is a common feeling. It's also a feeling you can "do something about." Following are several helpful hints for facing the pre-, during- and post- deployment stages as a couple. Pre-Deployment • Embrace the tension. When preparing for war, it's common for men to become emotionally detached. It's a mission-essential battlefield coping mechanism that allows them to operate and endure under extreme pressure and loss. On the other hand, it's common for wives of deploying military men to become emotionally needy as they prepare to face a long, lonely period of time without their husbands. Mutually and verbally realize your opposite tendencies as you see them manifest themselves. Laugh about them if you can. Compromise and understanding are key. • Be present in the moment. It's all too easy to succumb to the grief of your upcoming separation, to lose yourself in the fears and tears. As important as it is to acknowledge and experience these negative feelings, it's equally important to acknowledge the positive feelings and moments. Take in the beautiful scenery while the two of you drive to the store for milk. Chuckle together when the spaghetti boils over. Tell your spouse how head-over-heels you are for him or her. Live life together to its fullest, purposefully conquering the despair with which Satan hopes to overtake you. • Make time for "couple" time. This is especially key as deployment nears. Depending on your schedules and the advance notice you are given, this may mean devoting as much as a week of evenings or as little as the last evening together. Say goodbyes to family, friends and coworkers in advance. You may find that making love the second-to-the-last evening together allows for a more-memorable, less-hurried/stressed experience. Allow the final evening together and the final goodbye to be something sacred between the two of you, void of outside interference. Remind your partner of important promises you've made to one another. Reaffirm your love and commitment. Set personal and mutual goals for the time apart. Discuss expectations for the final goodbye. During Deployment • Envelop yourself in community. After the initial goodbye, you may feel as if you've been socked in the stomach. You'll find yourself grieving the loss of time together and possibly fearing you'll never see your spouse again. Allow yourself important moments alone to collect yourself, but be sure to find and spend time with others who understand and support you. This isn't the time to become "super-spouse" and go it alone! • Communicate lovingly. Take advantage of every opportunity and avenue to communicate, be it phone, Internet or postal mail. Never end a conversation, email or letter angrily. A small amount of anger combined with an immense distance and time span can eat the two of you up inside. Don't be afraid to be open about your day-to-day struggles and fears. Don't try to resolve a large problem over long distance in a limited amount of time if you don't absolutely have to. When sending letters and packages, consider your spouse's nature. If he isn't a big fan of reading but is looking forward to buying a house, send him letters with pictures cut out of a home-decorating catalog, along with real estate magazines. If he's easily embarrassed, don't decorate the outside of a care package with cutesy heart stickers and mortifying personal nicknames. • Continue building your life together. Some days will be tougher than others to persevere. Despite what others tell you, you don't need to "move on without him" and you aren't "temporarily single." There is much you can do to continue building and bettering your life together while your spouse is away. If the two of you are in debt, look for ways to earn and save to rid yourselves of the financial burden. Learn to bake his favorite childhood foods. Read up on being a mom if you plan to have kids some day. Do something that makes you happy and let him know you did so. (You deserve it, and he'll be glad to know you're taking care of yourself.) Similarly, maintain your health by exercising regularly, taking a daily vitamin, getting enough sleep and eating well. Post-Deployment • Accept the change. When the two of you first married, it probably took awhile to merge your belongings, past experiences and ideals. You were coming from two different perspectives and worlds. Prepare to be newlyweds all over again — in both exciting and frustrating ways. War changes the lives and values of those it touches, including spouses and children of service members. Experts recommend one day of reintegration for each day of deployment. • Look to the future. Pat yourselves on the back! You've made it through an amazing hurdle that many couples will never experience. In an effort to bring closure, sit down with your spouse and pinpoint a couple of positive things in your individual lives and marriage that happened as a result of the deployment: You single-handedly held down the fort while he was away; he, with your loving support, helped bring democracy to a country in turmoil; the communication in your marriage bettered ten-fold. Compile a scrapbook of letters and mementos from the deployment, or frame a homecoming picture. While the two of you will never fully be able to put this experience in the past, you can do your best to view it in a positive light.
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