–
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
jrefrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” ½dkufwifay;cJhaom
(1) 1964 ....... ESif;xkMuD; ydwfqdkY arSmifyde;f aeaomeHeufrsm;ü &xm;MuD;onf blwm&Hk a&SUrS xGufcGm&ef aMumuf&HGUwkefvIyfaeonf/ rxGufcGmí vnf; rjzpf/ olonf rD;cdk;rsm;udk rIwfxkwfvdkufjyD; wnnf;nnf;wnLnLjzifY xGufcGm&awmhonf/ a&SUem; uGufuGufav;om jrif&onfY rDarmif;udk zGifYvdkufonf/ jzwfoef;rIt&Sed f &vmvSsif olYaoG;rsm;onfvnf; qlyGufum olonf wpwp taMumufys,f vmaeonf/ awmifwGif;MuD;blwm&Hk yvufazmif; rD;a&mifrsm;udk vGefvmcJYvSsif olonf olYudk,fol tm;ay;onfh OMooH&Snf wcsufudk nSpfxkwfatmf[pfvdkuf onf/ csufcsif; olYOMooHudk ywf0ef;usifrSvmaom Mobmaumif;csD;oHrsm;[k ua,mifuwrf;jzifYawG;um olonf trSm;rSmt,Gif;,Gif; tm;wufvmonf/ ydí k arSmifyde;f aeaom tarSmifxkMuD;twGif;odkY aoG;&l;aoG;wef;jzifY cGjJ zwf 0if a&mufaeonf/ usaemfonf þ&xm;MuD;\ pufu&d,mtpdwftydik f; wckvdkyif wGJwwGJ\ axmifhzuf tarSmif&dyx f JrS vdkufygae&onf/ usaemf onf yDyDjyifjyifrjrif&onfh awmifwGif;MuD;jrdKUudk trSwfrxifMunfYvmcJYonf/ blwm&HkrS rD;a&mifrsm;onf taemufodkY qkwfajy;um ao;i,fae&pfcJhonf/ jrdKUzufrS vrf;"mwfrD;wdkifta&mifrsm;onf &xm;MuD; ay: zswfueJ vmxdaeMuvsuf? jrdKUMuD;rSm jidrfoufaevsuf? &cdkifbk&m;ysufMuD;\ xkx,fonf tarSmif&dyx f JrS tarSmifrnf;MuD; wcktjzpfjzifh tjrifü jzwfoef;aecJYvsuf? &xm;MuD;onf auGUt&SnfMuD;ü jznf;jznf;a&GUa&GU auGUvdkuf \/ ozef;ukef;&Gm uav;zufrS a&eHqD rD;cGuf rD;a&mifrdSerf Sdefrsm;onf wzswfzswf vma&muf&dkuf cwfaejyefonf/ tarSmifxkMuD;twGif;ü tvif;a&mif i,frsm;onfajymyzG,fr&dS/ þtvif; tarSmif? tarSmif tvif;wdkYonf &xm;MuD;ay:üom jzwfoef;aeonfr[kwf? &xm;MuD; ay:wGif ygvmorSs ouf&dS oufrJhtaygif; tay:üom usa&mufaeonfr[kwf? usaemfYcE¨mudk,fay:üom usa&mufaeonfr[kwf? usaemfh ESvHk;om;ay:wGif vnf; usa&mufaeMu\/ &xm;MuD;um; bmrSs cHpm;&rnfr[kwf/ olonf pufu&d,mjzpf\/ at;jcif; yljcif;udkrod/ tarSmifESiYf tvif;udkrod/ OD;aESmuf r&dS? toufr&dS? cHpm;rIr&dS? ESvHk;om; r&dS? &nf&G,fcsuf r&dS/ usaemfvnf; pufu&d,m wckayyJvm;[k usaemfonf toHrxGufaom ar;cGef;udk ar;aerdjyefonf/ usaemfYESvHk;om;rsm;rSm cHpm;rI rSeforSs qdwfokOf; uG,faysmufpjyKaejyDjzpfaom pufu&d,mayyJvm;/ usaemfh OD;aESmufrSm tarSmifrsm;twGif;ü r&kef;0HY ruef0HY rvIyf&Sm;0H?Y jidrfoufae&aom OD;aESmufrsm; ayyJvm;/ þ&xm;MuD;ay:ü ausmufyef;awmif;rS arSmifcdkxef;vsufrsm; wif&ef vdkufygvmcJYaom? usaemf jiif;qefr&atmif rsufESm emae aom arSmifcdkorm;rsm; ygvmaeonf/ olwdkYudk usaemfrzrf;&ufawmYonfY taMumif;&if;udk &SmazG aerdjyefonf/ olwdkYyg vmojzifY usaemfonf tvkyfjyKwfoGm;Edkifonf/ vGwf ajrmuf&ufr&dS tusOf;usoGm;Edkifonfudkvnf; rawG;rdír[kwf/ usaemfYpdwfum; &xm;MuD; ckwfarmif;aeonf[k rxifawmYay/ arSmifcdkolrsm;? xef;vsufawmif;cGHrsm;? qD? qm;? MuufoGef? vufzufajcmuf? i&kwfoD;? eHEGi;f rIefY ponfh wm;jrpfukefrsm;? *gwfAdkvf? pufacgif;armif;? tnSDerHY sm;? rkqdk;rsm;? om;&dkif;orifrsm;? &GH&SmzG,f&mrsm;? ausmif;om;rsm;? &[ef;oHCmrsm;? vlom; rsm;? ysufqD;rIrsm;? teHYqdk;rsm; ponfh ouf&dSoufrJYtaygif;onf taxG;axG; t&Iyf&yI fjzpfum b,fqDodkYoGm;aerSef;rodonfY a&pD;aMumif;MuD; wcktwGif;ü b&rf;bwm arsmygaeonf[k xifae jyefonf/ tarSmifxkMuD;udk tqHk;tpr&dS euf&dIi;f vSonfY yifv,fjyifMuD;[lívnf; awG;aerdjyefonf/
pmrsufESm [1] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
twefMumvSsif ESif;rsm; ydwfonf;aeonfY tarSmifxJü t&kPfa&mifjcnf rsm;onf vSypGm ysdKYtefvmaeMujyefonf/ q'´Kefacsmif ;odkY a&mufawmYrnf? q'´KefrS wufa&mufvmMurnfY udka&Ta,mufESio fY m;oHk;a,muf? udka&Ta,muf tzGo JY m;rsm;udk pdwfü jrifawG;aerd jyefonf/ q'´Kefacsmif;blwm&Hka&SUodkYa&mufvSsif &xm;onf tarSmifxkxJü jidrfoufpGm xdk;qdkuf&yfvdkufonf/ usaemfonf &xm;t&dSefowf vdkufuwnf;u &xm;ay: rS zswfueJ ckefqif;vdkufonf/ yvufazmif;ysufwaeY&mü &yfvdkufjyD; “'DrSm vufrSwfvm,lMu ... 'DrSm ... 'DrSm” [k usaemfonf aeYpOf atmf[pfaeustwdkif; atmf[pfae&onf/ þ blwmrJh? &Hkyidk frJh? uHx&dkufwmrJh blwmwGif c&D;onfrsm;onf yvufazmif;ysuftwdkif; usaemf&dS&modkY pdwfrSef;jzifY tvJvJ tuGJ uGJ ajy;vmaeMuonf/ “ukefwifp&m&dSw,f q&m” [k c&D;onfwOD;onf ta0;uwnf;u vSrf;jyD; atmfvmonf/ *gwfAdkvf udkatmifausmfonf rSeftrd fqGJjyD; aumif;bdGdKif [efjzifY usaemf tvkyfvkyfaeonfudk xdk;jyay;ae\/ “&ifarmif okwfokwfvkyfa[Y” [k olonf avmaqmfae\/ usaemfonf vufrSwfa&mif;? wefqmvkyf tvkyfrsm;udk tajy;tvTm; tjrefqHk; vkyfaqmifae&if; udka &Ta,muf\ tzGu JY dkvnf; vSrf;Munfhaejyefonf/ udka&Ta,mufESifY olYvlrsm;onf vufrSwfr,lbJESifY &xm;wGJrsm;ay: ajy;vTm;wufa&mufaeMu\/ udka&Ta,mufonf olYom;oHk;a,mufudk &xm;ay: wufcdki;f jyD; oludk,fwdkifrmS rl yvufazmif;tpGef tarSmif &dyfü&yfum usaemfYudk vSrf;Munfhaeonf/ olYajcaxmufü zdeyfryg? olYvnfyif;wGif ykqdk;pkwfwxnf &pfywfxm;onf/ ol\ jyZmwfrif;om;[ef qHyif&n S frsm;onf qDrvdrf; rzD;oifojzifY olYrsufESmay:wGif t&yf&SpfrsufESmü z&dkz&J 0Jusaeonf/ tvkyfjyD;vSsif *gwfAdkvfonf 0pDudkppfred fYay;oHvdk tm;ukefrIwfvdkufjyD; rD;pdrf;,rf;jyavonf/ &xm;MuD; xGufcGmvmrS usaemfonf vlpD;wGJwwGJay: wG,fwufvkdufonf/ usaemfYaemufrS usaemfYudk trdzrf;&ef udka&Ta,mufonfvnf; zswfueJ ckefwufvmonf/ usaemfESiu fY dka&Ta,mufonf ,SOf&yfaerdMu\/ &xm;t&Sdef&vmpOfwGif udka&Ta,mufonf olYvuftwGif;ü uspfuspfygatmif qkyfudkifvmaom usyfwef tEGrf;tausrsm;ESifh taMuGapYuav;rsm;udk usaemfhvuftwGif;odkY vSrf;xnfhay;aeonf/ olYvufrsm;rSm csrf;at;aeaomaMumifhwaMumif;? aMumuf&w GHY kefvIyfaeaomaMumifhwaMumif; wkef,ifaeonf/ “usaemfwdkY &Spfa,muf q&m ...” “wtkyfpv k Hk;vm;” “udkz;dk ausmf olYrde;f rqHk;vdkY ae&pfcJYw,f” usaemfonf olay;onfYaiGrsm;udk abmif;bDtdwfxJodkY rxnfhao;rD tarSmif&dyfxJü olYrsufESmudk &SmMunfhaerdjyefonf/ olay;onfh aiGrSm wq,fhoHk;av;usyfrSs &dSrnf/ olwdkY&pS fa,muftwGuf ausmufyef;awmif;txd vufrSwfrJhjzifY pD;cGifhjyK&efay;onfhaiG? olwdkYonf vufrSwfc twdtusjzifY vufrSwf 0,f,lpD;Edkifonftxd olwdkYarSmifcdkxef;vsufrsm;tay:rS jrwfpGef;Muonf r[kwf/ olwdkY&onfh tjrwfxJrS usaemf? *gwfAdkvf? rD;&xm;&Jrsm;? &SmazGa&;rsm;udk ay;&onf/ usaemfonf olYrde;f r aeraumif; jzpfae onfudk owd&aejyefonf/ “cifAsm;rdef;r oufomyvm;”[k ar;aerdonf/ “'DvdkbJq&m ...” “aq;rxdk;bl;vm;” “tif; ...” “bmtif;wmvJ” “jrdKUudkoGm;xdk;bdkYuvJ ydkufqyfr&db S l;? usaemfwdkYqDrSm aq; vmvmukaewJh vluvJ aq;awGjywfaevdkYwJY” pmrsufESm [2] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“usef;rma&;rSL;vm;” “r[kwfygbl;? jrif;vSnf;orm;yg? tm;udk;&ygw,fq&m? olu aq;xdk; odyfaumif;wm? ydkufqHvJ odyfr,lbl;? q&m0efawG bmawGvdk MuD;MuD; us,fus,f vkyfwJYvlvJ r[kwfzl;” usaemf jidrfoufaerdjyef\/ udka&Ta,mufum; cav;wusdyfausmfausmf auGs;arG;ae&ol/ olYr,m;um; tpOftjrJ rrmrusef; jzpfaeol/ t&G,fra&muf ao;aom om;uav;oHk;a,mufudkyg arSmifcdkvkyfcidk f;ae&ol/ usaemf? *gwfAdkvf? rD;&xm; &Jrsm;ESifY &SmazGa&;rsm;udk &SmazGauGs;arG;ae&ol/ olonf wckckudk eufeuf&dIi;f &dIif; awG;vmaecJYykjH zifY “'DvdkaygYq&m ...”[k t&if;r&dS tzsm;r&dS pum;ajymaejyefonf/ usaemfonf aiGw0ufrSsudk tdwfxJxnfYvdkufjyD; w0ufudkum; olYrde;f r aq;uk&eftwGuf jyefay;aerd jyefonf/ olonf jyef,l&ef jiif;qefaeonf/ olYaiGrsm; tukefr,lojzifY olYudk usaemfu 'ku©ay;awmYrnf[k aMumuf&GHUae jyefonf/ usaemfonf olYudkjyef,l &ef wdkufwGef;ae&if; pdwfarmaerdonf/ aemufqHk;ü usaemfjyefay;onfYaiGrsm;udk vSrf;,laomtcgwGif olYvufrsm; wqwfqwfwkefaeonfudk owdxm;rdvmonf/ olY rsufvHk;tdrfü vdIufvSJaom rsuf&nfrsm; jynfhvmaeonfudk usaemfonf rjrif&bJESifh odaecJhonf/ “'djyifvlawGqdk&if b,favmufay;ay; auseyfMuwmrIwfzl;? wcsdKY rdef;cav;awGqdk&if aiGwif rauseyfvdkY [dk[mygay;&wm? aiG eJw,fqdkjyD; xyfxyfawmif;Muwm? jrcifav;qdkMunfYygvm;? toufq,fYoHk;ESpf rjynfYao;bl;? qHaxmufuav;awmif rxm;&J xm;&J xm;aewkef; [dk[mygay;&vdkY Adkufuav; ylvmwm” [k olu pdwfxnf;rS ajymaeonfudkvnf; usaemfYpdwftm&kHü vmí Mum;ae&jyefonf/ “at;Asm ... 'DvdkbJayghAsm? MunfhawmhvkyfMuAsm” [k usaemfonf rSmMum;aerd\/ “pdwfcsyg q&m? q&mhudk rxdcdkufygbl;? b,fawmhrS usaemfwdkY om;tzawG xef;vsufudk rrdygbl;” “cifAsm;wdkYudk pdwfcsygw,f? cifAsm;wdkY usaemfhudk b,fawmhrS 'ku©ray;bl;qdkwm ,HkwmayghAsm? 'gayr,fh &SmazGa&;awG bmawG rd&if usaemfYrSm wm0ef&w dS mbJ” “[kwfygw,fq&m” “tvkyfjyKwfEdkiw f ,f? axmifusEdkifw,f” olqufajymonfudk &xm;ckwfarmif;aeoH qlnHaeojzifh usaemf rMum;&awmYay/ olYxef;vsufrsm;udk rnfonfhtcgü rnfolrsm; uzrf;zrf; rdrnfr[kwf/ ol\ vSsdKY0Sufcsufudk usaemfvnf;rod/ trSefwGif ausmufyef;awmif; -awmifwGif;MuD; ckwfarmif;ae&mü &xm;ESpfpif; vJvS,fckwfarmif;ae&m &xm;wpif;\ tdrfomwckwGif tay:trdk;ü taygufwckyg&dSonf/ xdktayguftwGif;rS olwd\ kY ypönf;rsm;udk vSsdKY0SufwifaqmifaecJMY u\/ usaemfonf þ&xm;ay:ü arSmifcdkorm; ESpfq,fxufrenf; ygaecJYjyDudk awG;rdum pdwfESvHk;ü av;vHvmaejyefonf/ yif;acsmif; atmifEdkijf rifY? om;rSsm; udkoef;? jrdKUopf udkoef;? ausmufyef;awmif; pdk;jrifY? rnfolawGu zrf;qD; zrf;qD; usaemfYü wm0efuif;rnf r[kwf/ usaemfum; wDbDpD (&xm;vdkufblwmpma&;) jzpfí &xm;wpif;vHk; vufrSwfppf? wefqmrJYypönf;zrf;? arSmifcdkypönf;zrf; ponfh wm0efrsm;udk xrf;aqmifae&ol/ tu,fí wpHkwOD;u &efndSK;jzifh zrf;qD;ppfaq;vSsif a&Smif&Sm;uGufr&dSol/ arSmifcdkolrsm;ESifhvnf; waoG;wnf; wom;wnf; &if;ESD;cspfcif aeMuojzifY rsufpdrw dS fae&ol/ usaemfonf eDjymwHcJwHudk udkifMunfYae&if; þ&xm;ay:ü usaemfum; zrf;qD;Edkifaom tmPm jynfYpo Hk l bk&ifuav;wql jzpfaeonfudk awG;aerd\/ þ eDjymwHuav;jzifY cs,fvS,fcsifovdk &aeEdkiaf om tcGifYxl;&&dSaeyHrk Sm 0rf;om tm;&p&mvm;[k awG;aerdjyefonf/
pmrsufESm [3] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
þodkYjzpfae&yHkrSm uarmufur jzpfaejcif;ayvm;/ t&kPfonf ydkí vif;vm\/ tarSmifESiYf tvif;rsm; a&maxG;vmaejyefonf/ jrdKYvkifodkY a&mufvSsif tvif;a&mif aysmYaysmYtwGif;ü ESif;pufrsm;usaeonfudk roJruGJ jrifvm&onf/ blwmauGUü &xm;qdkuf &yfcsdefwGif tvif;ESifY tarSmifMum;ü t&m0w¦Krsm;onf roJruGJ a&maxG;aeMuavonf/ jrdKYvkifblwmpma&; odef;vGifMuD;onf eHeufapmapmü t&ufrl;aevsuf jzifY *gwfwGJodkY cyf,dkif,dkif avSsmufvmwwfonf/ olYudk,fay:rS ,leDazmif; 0wfpHkrmS npfax;aeonf/ ol\ xef;vsufwJblwm&Hka&SUwGif c&D;onf rsm;onf tvkt,uf wdk;a0SUae Mu/ [dkzufüum; xef;yifrsm;? anmifyif rsm;? aps;qdkifrsm;/ jrdKYvkifaps;wef;ESifY jrdKYvkif&Gmay:wGif ESi;f rsm; ydwfqdkY arSmifa eonf/ usaemfonf þblwmodkYa&mufvSsif vlpD;wGJ wwGJwGJ t0rS&yfum OD;aumif;ZHk \ taMumfwJqdkif0zufodkY tpOftjrJ vSrf;MunfYwwf onf/ taMumf wJqdkifa&SUzuf anmifyifMuD;atmuf&dS xdkifcküH ndKndKUudk awGYaeusjzpfaeonf/ olonf &xm;MuD;0ifvmvSsif usaemfY udkjrif&ef vSrf;MunfYaewwf\/ xdkae&mrS x&yfjyD; olYukefpdr;f awmif;rsm; csxm;&m oHvrf;eHab;odkY okwfokwfajy;vmum olYawmif;rsm;udk a&;MuD;okwfysmwifavonf/ Mumaomf olxdkifaeus þanmifyifMuD;atmuf OD;aumif;ZHkqdkifa&SU&dS xdkifckaH y:wGif rdk;rvif;rD ESif;rIefrsm;a0aepOfwGif olYudkjrifawGY ae&onfrSm pdwfü tpGt J vef;wckvdk jzpfvmonf/ ol þae&muav;wGif xdkifjyD; &xm;MuD;udkapmifY usaemfYudk &SmazGM unfY aewwfonfrSm usaemf awmifwGif;MuD; ausmufyef; awmif;vrf;odkY a&mufvmp uwnf;u jzpfonf/ xdktcgurl olonfvnf; cav;omomt&G,fuav;/ qH&pf qHawmufuav;eJY jzpf\/ olonf &xm;MuD;qdkuf&yfvSsif xdkae&mrS 'kef;pdkif;ajy;vmwwf\/ olYacgif;ay:rS qH&pf qHawmuf qHyifrsm;onf wzGmzGm0Jae wwfonf/ olY vnfyif;ü ykqdk;pkwfwxnf wifxm;um zdk;,dkYzm;,m;jzpfaeonf/ olYyg;ay:wGif ausmufeD em;qGJuav;onf ,drf;u vIyf&Sm;aeonf/ olYyg;uav;rsm;rSm tysdKaoG;opfp azmif;MuGaeonf/ olonf jrdKvkifESiYf wrdkifrsS oma0;onfY ykwD;ukef;&Gmoljzpf\/ olonf zcif rsufrjrifMuD;udkvnf;aumif;? rdcif vlrrmMuD;udk vnf;aumif; olYukefpdr;f a&mif;&aiGuav;jzifY vkyfudkifauGs;arG;aeum armifav;wa,mufudkvnf; ausmif;xm;ay;ae&onfudk usaemfrodcJY/ ol aps;ywfvdkufa&mif;í jrwfaiGrmS oHk;av;usyfrSsom&dSojzifY &xm;vufrSwf udkvnf; 0,frpD;Edkif? ukefypönf;rsm;udk vnf; wefqmrvkyfEidk f/ usaemf þvrf;odkYa&mufp ESif;rsm;a0aeaom weHeufwGif usaemf vufrSwfppfaomtcg olonf tdrfomeHab;ü&yfae&if; usaemfYudk rsufvHk;jyL; MuD;rsm;jzifY MunfYaecJYonf/ usaemf vufrSwfawmif;aeonfY vufudk rMunfYbJ usaemfYrsufESmudkom armYMunfY&if; rsufawmifaumYMuD;rsm;udkom ykwfcwf vIyf&Sm;aecJYonf/ olY rsufESmrSm wjznf;jznf; jzLazsmYvmaeonf/ olonf aMumuf&GHUojzifY idv k dkufawmYrnfhtwdkif; jzpfaecJhonf/ tawmfMumrS olonf wkef,ifaeaom vufrsm;jzifh olYacGs;cHtusÐatmuf tdyfuyftwGif;odkY EdIufaeonf/ vufjyefEIwfvSsif vufrSwfrygbJ usyfwef uav; w&Gufom ygvmonf/ &xm;onf ykvif;acsmif; wHwm;&SnfMuD;udk jzwfausmfae\/ “vufrSwfrygbl;vm;”[k usaemfu toHjrSifYjyD; ar;aeonf/ “[kwfuJY” “tjrJwrf; 'DvdkbJpD;aewmvm;” “[kwfuJY” “'gjzifY zrf;&rSmaygY” “ndKndK ... ndKndK ... jrdKUopfa&muf&if vufrSwfqif;0,fygYr,f? udkp;dk jrifYMuD; vdkufwkef;u ndKndK ig;rl;avmufay;&if orSsm;aps; txd vdkuf&w,f” pmrsufESm [4] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olYtoHrSm wkef,ifaecJYonf/ olYaiGwusyfudk jyefxnfYxm;&ef ajymaomtcg olonf ydkí aMumuf&GHU vmum rsuf&nfrsm;0dkif;vmaeonf/ “'gjzifY jrdKUopfa&muf&if igYaemufuvdkufcJY? vufrSwfvdkuf0,faygY”[k ajymvSsif olonf acgif;wqwfqwfndwfaecJY\/ olYudk zrf;&eftwGuf blwmtwGif;odkY ac:onfudk olroday/ usaemfonf olYtem;rScGmjyD; vufrSwfavSsmufppfaepOfü olonf usaemfY udk pdr;f pdrf;pm;pm; vdkufMunfYaecJYonf/ jrdKUopfblwmwGif &xm;&yfvSsif olonf usyfwefw&Guf udkifvsuf usaemfYaemuf rS avSsmufvdkufvmcJYonf/ “olrsm; vufrSwfr,lawmYbl;av ... 'Dyu dk fqHudk ,lygvm; ...” “wcgwavawmY vufrSwf ,lbl;w,f&dSatmif ,lrSaygYuG,f ...” usaemf &Hkyidk fhpmyGJa&SUodkY avSsmufoGm;onf/ olonf aemufzufrS waumufaumuf vdkufvmcJYonf/ usaemfonf olUudk pmyGJa&SU wGef;y:vdkufjyD; vufrSwfrJYjzifY tyfvdkuf\/ olYawmif;rsm;udkvnf; tvkyform;rsm; csxm; vdkufMu\/ olonf &Hkyidk fu w&m;pGJ&ef “trnf? ae&yf? rdb”wdkYudk ar;aepOf ajzqdkae&if; usaemfYudk pum;wvHk;rSs rajymawmYbJ rsuf&nfrsm;usvmonf/ &Hk;cef;twGif;rS usaemf xGufvmonf/ olonf wef;vsm;&Snfwckay:wGif xdkifae&if; usaemfYudk ausmzufrS vdkufMunfYaecJYonf/ usaemfvnf; trSwfrxifyif &xm;ay: wufvmcJY\/ vufrSwfrJY c&D;onfrsm;udk zrf;qD;&jcif;rSm usaemfYtwGufum; aeYpOfjyKvkyf aeus tvkyfom jzpfaomfvnf; olYtwGufum; ewfarmufaps;txd rvdkuf&ojzifY olY a&mif;ukefrsm;vnf; ysufqD;ukef&onf/ olESiu fY saemfYtMum;ü xdktcguwnf;uyif rjrif&aom oHa,mZOf MudK;rSsifrsm; pwif &pfzYv GJ mMuonfudk usaemfvnf;rodcJY/ þoHa,mZOfrsm;um; olYtvdkvdk ESvHk;om;twGif;wGif aygufzGm;vmMuavonf/ bmaMumifY jzpfay:vm&onf [laom taMumif; &if;\ tpudkum; OD;aESmufjzifY&mS azGí xdawGYEidk frnfr[kwf/ usaemfonf olYrsuf&nfrsm; wawGawG usvmcJYyu Hk dk trSwfrxif awG;rdcJYonf/ olYrsufESm0dkif;0dkif;uav;? olY 0dkif;0dkif;pufpuf rsufvHk;rsm;? olYrsufawmifaumYrsm;? ol\ qHawmufzm;zm;MuD;rsm;udk jrifa,mifrdum olY rsufESmrSm usaemfESifY &if;ESD;cJYzl;ol wOD; OD;vdk xifaecJYjyefonf/ ol\ t0wftpm;rsm; EGrf;ausaeyHkudk jrifaejyefonf/ u&kPmpdwfrsm;onf trSwfrxif jzpfay:vmMu onf/ aemuf ckepf&ufrSs Mumonftxd jrdKYvkifodkYa&mufvSsif olYudk&SmMunfY aomfvnf; rawGYjrif&awmYay/ usaemfYpdwfü i,fpOfu aoqHk;oGm;cJYaom nDruav;\ rsufESmudk owd&ae jyefonf/ olYrsufESmudk nDruav; rsufESmESifY wlaervm;[k EdIi;f pm MunfYae&if; olYudkvnf; nDruav;wOD;vdk pdwfü rSef;qaerdjyefonf/ rMumrD weHeufwGif olYudk OD;aumif;ZHkqdkifa&SU anmifyifMuD;atmuf&dS pmyGJcHkab; xdkifckaH y:wGifyif awGYae&jyefonf/ xdkaeYu olonf ukefpdr;f awmif;rsm;udk oHvrf;eHab;wGif a&TUxm;ESifY onf/ &xm;&yfvSsif &yfcsif; ae&mrSxum usaemfygvmonfh wGJzufodkY cav;pdwfjzifY 'kH;ajy;vmonf/ usaemfonfvnf; &xm;r&yfao;rDü ckefqif;vdkuf\/ olESiu fY saemfonf roJruGJ tvif; a&mifatmufwGif ESi;f rsm;a0aepOfü rsufESmcsif;qdkif &yfaerdMuonf/ “vufrSwfppfMuD; ... 'DaeY ... 'DaeY ... olrsm;udk zrf;tHk;rvm;[if ...” olonf tavmoHk;q,f ar;aeonf/ usaemfonf jyHK;aerd\/ “vufrSwfr0,f&if zrf;rSmaygY”[k &,foHjzifY ajymaerdonf/ “'gjzifY ndKndK rvdkufawmYbl;” pmrsufESm [5] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“'gjzifY bmeJYoGm;rSmvJ” “ajcvsifoGm;rSmaygY” “awmif;awGua&m ...” “awmif;awGawmY wifay;vdkufr,f? tJ'g jrdKUopfblwma&muf&if vufrSwfppfMuD; cscdkif;xm;vdkufyg” usaemfonf ol\ezl;udk vufoD;jzifY xdk;usdwfvdkufawmYrvdk &G,fvdkufjyD; &,faerd\/ “ck vufrSwfrygbl;vm; ... uJ awmif;awG okwfokwfwif vlaum vdkufcJYaygY? cifAsm;awmif;awG usKyfulvDrS r[kwfbJ b,fcsEdkif yghrvJ? cifAsm; udk usKyfrzrf;ygbl;? b,fawmYrS rzrf;ygbl;? 'djyifvlawG zrf;&ifom usKyfudk ydu k fqHay;&w,fvdkY rajymygeJY” “wu,fvm;”[k olonf tHt Y m;oifYpGm ar;aecJo Y nf/ olonf q,fjym;apYuav; av;ig; ajcmufapYudk xkwfay;aejyefojzifY usaemf onf ol\ezl;udk cyfomom ykwfypfcYJ\/ olonf olYawmif;rsm;udk &xm;wGJay: uref;uwef;wifjyD; olyg wufvdkuf\/ usaemfvnf; olYaemufrS vkdufwufoGm;onf/ &xm;xGufvmcsdefwGif olESifh usaemfonf wGJayguf0ü eD;uyfpGm ,SOf&yfaerdMu\/ olonf tysdKaoG;0ifppdwfjzifh &Sufaeum rsufESmwjyifvHk; eDjref;aecJYonf/ usaemfonf olYudk ajcmufvSefYjyD; aemufajymif&ef pdwful;rdcJY\/ raemufajymifjzpfbJ olYaps;a&mif;&onfY 0ifaiGrsm;udk ar;aerdjyef onf/ olonf olY&Gmuav;udk &xm;ay:rS vSrf;jycJY\/ olY&Gmuav;rSm oHvrf; ESifY reD;ra0;wGif refusnf;yifrsm;? wrmyifrsm; tkyfqdkif; um ndKYysaeonf/ olonf xdk&Gmuav; twGif;&dS wJtdru f av; wvHk;wGif aexdkifoljzpf\/ “vufrSwfppfMuD; ... olrsm;wdkY&mG vmv,ftHk;aygY? olrsm;wdkYtdrfudkawmY rvmeJY aemf? &Sufp&maumif;vd kYyg” olonf olY&Gmuav;udk vufndSK;xdk;jyaecJYonf/ ol\ rdzrsm; vkyfauGs;aeyHkudk od&vSsif usaemfh pdwfESvHk;tdrfü olYudk av;pm;pdwf? cifrifpdwfrsm; ay:vmaejyefonf/ olonf csrf;ojzifY wbufudk jyifjcHKvdkufonf/ “rif;udk aemufb,fawmYrS udkrzrf;awmYbl; ... wu,fajymwm” usaemfajymonfudk olonf ai;MunfYaeonf/ “rif;emr,f ndKndKaemf ... vufrSwfppf xGef;jrifYwdkY armifa&TwdkYudk ajymxm;&r,f? ndKndK[m udkYnDrav;vdkY Mum;vm;? olwdkY ,Hkygw,f? rif;eJYudkeJY &kyfcsif;vJ qifw,faemf ... armifESrt&if;qdk&ifawmif ,HkMurSm? rif;udk vufrSwfppf&if udk&ifarmifh nDr ndKndKvdkY ajymjyvdkufaygY? olwdkY rzrf;ygbl;? wckawmY ajymxm; &tHk;r,f ... tJ'DvlawG[m emr,feJYvlawGaemf? rdef;rqdk&if olwdk Y zdkYcsnfY xifMuwm? rif;wdkYt&G,fqdk&if tysdKMuD;vSbDvdkY xifMuwm? r&SufeJYav ... udk wu,f owday;aewm? 'DvlawG[m cyfwnfwnf aeEdkiv f dkYawmif wefumrusbl;? awmfMum&if rif;vJ tysdKMuD; jzpfvmawmYrSmaemf? tysdKMuD;jzpfvm&if udkwdkYudkvJ cyfwnfwnfae” olonf rsufESmeDjref;aeum acgif;iHkYxm;aejyefonf/ jrdKUopfodkY &xm;qdkufvSsif olYawmif;rsm;udk uref;uwrf; qGJcsae&if; usaemfY udk EIwfqufae\/ “tarwdkUudkajym&r,f? tarwdkY odyf0rf;omMurSm”[k ajymaeonf/ usaemfvnf; &xm;ay:rS tqif;wGif olYudk acgif;wcsufykwfjyD; *gwfwGJodkY ul;vmcJYavonf/ pmrsufESm [6] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
(2) 1962 ..... eHeufvif;p ESif;rIefrsm; a0aeqJ? tvif;ESifYtarSmif a&m&SufaeqJwGif jrdKUvkifblwmodkY &xm;MuD; 0ifvmcJYvSsif usaemfonfvnf; vlpD;wGJ0wckrS &yfum ol xdkifaeus xdkifckaH e&mudk trSwfrxif MunfYvmrdwwfonf/ xdk&ufrsm;url usaemfonfyif usaemfY pdwfESvHk;tdrfü jidwG,fvmaeonfY pGJvrf;rIuav;udk rjrifEidk f/ olYudk awGYa eusae&mü rawGY&onfY &ufrsm;wGif pdwfü wckck [mae vdktyfaeovdkom cHpm;ae&wwfonf/ olonfvnf; anmifyifMuD;atmuf xdkifckeH Hab;rS x&yfum &xm;ay:ü ygvmrnfY usaemfYudk &SmazGMunfYaewwfonf/ usaemfYudk vSrf;jrif&vSsif olYrsufESmrSm rodrom &Tef;vufoGm;wwfonf/ olonf &xm;wGJay: ukefpdr;f awmif;rsm;udk wifjyD;vSsifvnf; wGJ ayguf0rS rcGmao;bJ awmif;rsm;udk [dka&TUonfa&TUvkyf tcsdefqGJ ae&if; usaemfY udk udk,fa,mifjyaewwfjyefonf/ wcgw&H tjcm;wGJrsmü ppfaq;&SmazG&ef ta&;MuD;ojzifY usaemfonf olpD;vmonfY wGJodkY roGm;jzpfcJY / xdktcgrsm;ü olonf wGJ0rS xGufjyL&yfum usaemfygvmonfYwGJudk vSrf;MunfYaewwfonf/ usaemfESifY rsufESmcsif; qdkifrd MuvSsif olonf &Sufudk;&Sufuef; jzpfaewwfjyefonf/ tjcm; vkyfaqmifp&mrsm; ta&;rMuD;onfY aeYrsm;wGifum; &xm;xGuf vmvSsif usaemfonf ol&yfae&m wG J0odkY cdkwufvmwwf \/ usaemfonf &xm;ajceif;cHk ay:wGif&yf&if; olYudkjyHK;jyum EIwfqufonf/ olYtem;ü usaemf&yfaejyefvSsifvnf; olYrsufESmrSm &Sufovdk jzpfaejyef onf/ olonf usaemfYudk apYapYrMunfY&JbJ qHawmuf qHyifrsm;udk em;&Gufay: odkY oyfwifum tvkyf&Iyaf ejyefonf/ “udk&ifarmifMuD; rygbl;vm;vdkY xdwfoGm;wmbJ” [lívnf; cav;pdwfjzifY ajymaeonf/ “aemufqdk&if udk&ifarmifMuD; tv,fwGJu vdkufvmcJY? olrsm;vJ OD;aumif;ZHkqdkif a&SUucHkrSm xdkifwm udk&ifarmifMuD;awGYatmifvdkY? aemufudk tJ'DudkMunfYvmcJY? anmifyifMuD;atmufucHkav? tJ'DrSm rawGY&if olrsm; rvdkufwJhaeYvdkY rSwfxm;aygY” usaemfonf ol &SufoGm;rnf pdk;ojzifY olYrsufESmudk pdkufrMunfhaomfvnf; olY wudk,fvHk;udk odrf;usHK;jrifae&onf/ ol0wfaeus tusÐrSm olYudk,fvHk;ESifY usyfvmojzifY ab;om;rsm;cGJum tjcm;ydwfjzifY pyfxm;&onf/ wcgw&H olYudk ai;MunfYaerdvSsif olonf rsufESmwjyifvHk; &SufpdwfjzifY xlydef;vmum acgif;udk iHYyk pfvdkufwwfonf/ “tJ'DvdkrMunfYygeJY”[k olYpdwftwGif;rS ajymaeoHudkyif Mum;ae&onf xif& onf/ ykwD;ukef;&Gmudk vSrf;jrif&vSsif olonf ... “tazwdkYu udk&ifarmifMuD;udk tvnfac:vmbdkY rSmvdkufwm? olrsm;awmY rac:csifbl;? olrsm;wdkYtdrfu odyfpkwfwm? &Sufp&maemf? tazwdkYuawmY udk&ifarmifMuD;[m olrsm;wdkY aus;Zl;&SifwJY” usaemfonf jidrfoufpGm jyHK;aecJY\/ usaemfY pdwfESvHk; tm&Hkü vIdif;x vIyf&Sm; aewwfonfudk oHk;oyfrdvmonf/ waeYxufwaeY wcsdefxufwcsdef xdkvIyf&Sm;aerIrSmvnf; ydkí odom vmonf/ tvdkvdk pdwfü armvmaerdjyefonf/ olYpdwfwGif vnf; xdkodkY vIyf&Sm;aeonfudkvnf; tpif;om; odvmae&jyefonf/ wcgw&Hü olYrsufvHk;&JMuD; rsm;tay:ü wckckudk wrf;wae onfhta&mifrsm; awmufyvmaeonf xifrd onf/ “'DaeY ndKndK b,fudk vdkufrvJ” “ewfarmufaps;aeYav” pmrsufESm [7] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“yif;acsmif;usatmif vdkufcJYygvm;” olonf acgif;iHkYxm;&if; “&xm;cawGom ay;ae&&if trsm;MuD;aerSmaemf ... xDaygufrS udk&ifarmifMuD; &xm;cawG tukefjyefay; &rSm” cyfwdk;wdk; ajymae onf/ “xDuaum xdk;xm;yD;yvm;” “tJwmawmY pdwful;wkef;bJ” olonf cav;pdwfay:vmjyefum &,fp&mr[kwfbJESifY vGwfvyfpGm &,fcsif&,f vdkufjyefonf/ olvGwfvyfpGm &,fvdkufoHaMumifY olYudk cav;tjzpfjzifY jyefjrifvmum tapmu ylaEG;vIyf&Sm; vmaecJYonfY usaemfY pdwfE SvHk;rsm; onfvnf; jyefí jidrfoufvmonf/ xdkvIyf&Sm;rIuav;onf cPrSs [kwfueJ aysmufuG,foGm;jyef onf/ &ifxJü aygYyg; &Sif;vif; vmonf/ ol\ vGwfvyfpGm cav;vdk &,fvdkuf oHESifY &xm;ckwfarmif;aeoHonf a&maxG;oGm;\/ xdktoHESpfck a&maxG;aeyHkrmS &TifjrL;zG,f *DwoHwck jzpfvmaeonf/ nae tjyefrsm;wGifvnf; usaemfY&xm;jzifYyif jyefvdkufvmonf/ tjyefüum; jrdKUvkifodkY &xm;qdkufa&mufvmvSsif arSmif&Dqdkif;p jyKvmaeayjyD/ olonf &xm;ay:rS olYawmif;rsm;udkcsjyD; OD;aumif;ZHkqdkifa&SUodkY roGm;ao;bJ usaemfYudk EIwfqufonf/ eufjzefwGif olvdkufrnf rvdkufrnfudkvnf; MudKwif owif;ay; vdkufonf/ “reufjzef jrdKYopfaps;aeY” [k vSrf;ajymonf/ &xm;MuD; xGufcGmvmcJYvSsif olonf OD;aumif;ZHkqdkifa&SUü &yfusefae &pfco JY nf/ &xm;MuD; a0;vmcJYonftxd aemufrS vdkufMunfh aeonf/ olESifY twl OD;aumif;ZHkqdkif? anmifyifMuD;ESifY jrdKUvkifonf ta0;ü jidrfoufusef&pf cJY\/ usaemf cGifY,lawmYrnfYtcgrsm;wGif olYudk MudKwif ajymjyxm;ESifY&onf/ cGifY,lxm;pOfü usaemfYae&mwGif vlpm; wa,mufa,muf 0ifa&mufvkyfudkif ae&m ... olESifY tqifrSajyygYrvm; ...[k usaemfonfvnf; pdwfylaerdjyefonf/ wcgw&HwGifum; olYudkyif MudKwifrajymEdkifbJ ta&;ay:cGifY,l&vSsif usaemfonf olYtwGuf pdwfrajzmifYatmifyif jzpfvmrdonf/ &uftwefMum oGm;vSsif ol usaemfYudk rnfrSs apmifYajrSmfaeawmYrnfudk awG;rdonf/ tvkyfjyef0ifonfY aeYrsm;ü usaemfonfvnf; olpD;cdkif;onfY tvnf wGJ0ü pD;vmum oljrifap&ef wrifxGuf&yfvmcJYonf/ olYudkvnf; ol aeaeus xdkifckw H Gifom awGY&onf/ ol &xm;MuD;udk ai;arSsmfMunfYaeyHkrSm ajrSmfvifYcsuf MuD;rm;pGmjzifY apmifYajrS mfaeyHk xif&Sm;ae onf/ xdk toGifo@mefudk usaemfonf rnfonfYtcgwGifrS arYEdkirf nfr[kwf/ olESifY usaemfonf ta0;uwnf;u wa,mufudkwa,muf pdrf;aeatmif MunfY vmrdcJYMuonf/ usaemfYudk vSrf;jrif&vSsif olonf cav;pdwfay:vmum ae&mrS &kwfw&uf x&yfjyD; ajy;xGufvmonf/ ol\ 0rf;omtm;& jzpfae[efudk zHk;zd [efaqmifxm;& aumif;rSef;rod/ “udk&ifarmifMuD;” olonf vlMum;xJrS vSrf;atmfEIwfqufvdkufonf/ usaemf&yfae&m wGJ0odkY ukefpdr;f awmif;rsm;udk xdk;wifonf/ &xm;xGuf vmcJYvSsif olESifY usaemfonf wGJ0ü rsufESmcsif;qdkif ,SOf&yfaerdMuonf/ “b,foGm;aewmvJ”[k olonf tavmoHk;q,f ar;ae\/ usaemfuvnf; “ndKndK ydkNyD;vSvmw,f”[k trSwfrxif ajymvdkufrd onf/ pmrsufESm [8] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olYrsufESmrSm xlydef;oGm;jyefonf/ olonf usaemfYudk rsufapmif;xdk; MunfYonf/ usaemfvnf; olYudkMunfY&if; &,farmaerdonf/ “uJ ... bmtjypfajymrvdkYvJ” “r[kwfbl;? olrsm;ar;wm ajymprf;yg? udk&ifarmifMuD; b,foGm; ayGaewmvJ? rSefrSeaf jymprf;” “b,fvdkxifvdkYvJ” “aorsm;aeyvm;vdkY” olonf xdkpum;rsm;udk cyfwdk;wdk; ajymaepOfü a'gojzpfvmum usaemfY udkyif qGJ,rf;ypfrnfY[ef ay:vmaeonf/ olUqHawmuf qHyifrsm;udk em;&Guftay: cyfoGufoGuf oyfwifonf/ “udk&ifarmifMuD; rvdkufwm q,f&ufaemf ... olrsm; aoaocsmcsm rSwfxm;wm? udk&ifarmifMuD; rygwJYaeYuav uHaumif;vdkY vufrSwftzrf;rcH&wm? 'DMum;xJ vufrSwfawG 0,fpD;ae&w,f? vufrSwfcawG a&mfay;&r,f? olrsm;vJ [dkvuf rSwfppfudk rsufESmausm rwJYwmeJY 0,fpD;yvdkufwmaygY? tJ'DvufrSwfppfu udkjratmifwJYaemf? t&ufodyfaomufwm? b,fawmYjzpfjzpf t&ufapmfudk a[mifaewmbJ? olYvG,ftdwfxJr,f tjrJwrf; t&ufykvif;ygw,f? udk&ifarmifMuD; t&ufawmY raomufeJYaemf ... olrsm; odyfrke;f wm? tJ'DvlMuD;u vludkvJ &doJYoJY vkyfao;w,f? yD;awmY ajymao;w,f ... olrsm;u udk&ifarmifMuD;udk odyfvGrf; aeyvm;wJY ... jyefvmawmYrSmygwJY? olrsm;vJ tjrifuyfwmeJY vGrf;aew,fvdkY ajymvdkufw,f? yD;awmY udk&ifarmifMuD; rdef;r,lbdkY tdrfjyefoGm;wmqdk? tJwm [kwfovm;” olYyg;uav;rsm; ydkí ESif;qDaoG;pdkYum rdkYMuGvmaeyHkrmS &ifckefvIyf&Sm; p&myif/ ava0SUojzifY olYezl;rS qHprsm;onf 0JysHae\/ þq,f&ufwmtwGif; wa,mufudkwa,muf rawGYrjrif&aomaMumifY tenf;i,f pdrf;oGm;ovdkvnf; pdwfü xifvmrdjyefonf/ usaemfYpdwfxJü vIyf&Sm;aecJYonfwdkYrmS vnf; ydkí xif&Sm; yDjyifvmonf/ usaemfum; olYudk &ifcGit f wGif;odkY qGJoGif;ayGYzufypfvdk pdwfrsm; ay:vmaeojzifY &ifxJwGif ylaEG;vmaeonf/ olonf cav;pdwfjzifY ... “udk&ifarmifMuD;udk olrsm; aeYwdkif;aeYwdkif; atmufarYaewm” ponfjzifY ajymaeonf/ “aemufudk udk&ifarmifMuD; cGi, fY l&if olrsm;udk MudKajymxm;yg? b,fawmY rS rarYygeJY” usaemfonf olYudk Mum&SnfMunfYaerdvSsif qGJayGUvdkufrdawmYrnfudk odvmonf/ usaemfum; pdwfvIyf&Sm; qlyGufwwfol ... euf&dIi;f pGm cHpm;wwfoltjzpf rdrdudk,fudk jyefjrifvmonf/ usaemfonf &xm;ESifY,SOfvsuf ajy;vdkufvmaeaom ta0;rS awmifw ef; MuD;rsm;udk pdwfr0ifpm;bJESifY MunfYvmcJYonf/ cyfajz;ajz;a&GUa&GU vdkufygaeonfY awmifwef;MuD;rsm;ay:ü jrLxkMuD;rsm; ydwfqdkif;aeojzifY tem;owfrsOf;aMumif;rsm;udk rjrif&/ jzLpifcJYaom usaemfYpdwfESvHk;om;rsm;rSmvnf; pGJvef;rIrsm; tkyfqdkif;vm aeovdk cHpm;aerdonf/ taMumif;wckckaMumifh olaps;ywfrvdkufonfh &ufrsm;wGif olYudk jrifawGYvdkpdwfrsm; zHk;uG,fxm;r&awmYay/ usaemfonf olxdkifaeuscHkudk vSrf;MunfYí rawGUjrif&vSsif &ifxJü ododomom [moGm;onfudk cHpm;vm&onf/ usaemfudk,fwdkif vnf; olvdkufcdki;f onfY tv,fwGJ0rSyif vdkufygaerdonf/ olYudk vltrsm;Mum;ü yg&dS rnftxifjzifY &Smrdjyefonf/ c&D;onfrsm; pmrsufESm [9] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
tm;vHk; &xm;ay:a&mufrS ol rygvm[k ,HkMunfvmcJYonf/ trSwfrxifyif olaps;ywfrvdkufonfh &ufrsm;udk pdwfü aw;rSwf xm;rdonf/ &ufaygif; ESpfq,frSs Mumvmaomtcg usaemfonf OD;aumif;ZHkMuD;udk ar;Munfhrnf[k pdwful;rdcJYonf/ pdwfrvHkaomaMumifh rar; jzpfc/Jh ykwD;ukef;&Gm cyfvSrf;vSrf;rS &xm;jzwfarmif;aepOfü usaemfonf &xm;wGJ0rS &yfum &GmzufodkY vSrf;MunfYrdjyefonf/ &GmxJ&Sd olwdkY tdrf &dSrnfYae&modkY rSef;q MunfYrdonf/ refusnf; wrmyifrsm; tkyfqdkif;aeaom &Gmay:wGif rd;k zGJrdk;rIefrsm; qdkif;aeonf/ ykwD;ukef;&Gmonf &xm;MuD;aemufrS ajy;vdkufvmae&if; rrSDEidk fojzifY wjznf;jznf; a0;uGm usef&pfaecJo Y nf[k pdwfü xifvm rdjyefonf/ wcgw&Hürl olYudk cav;[k oabmxm;MunfYrdonf/ cPaevSsifyif xdkoabmxm; aysmufuG,foGm;jyefum olESiu fY saemfonf cspf&nfwlrSsaom cspfolrsm;[k ,HkMunfvmaejyefonf/ wvausmfMumjyD;rS olUudkjyefí jrifawGY&aomtcg usaemfonfyif &ifcek faecJY onf/ xdkaeYu olYudkvSrf;jrif&aomtcg tdyfrufrsm;twGif;ü awGYjrifaeus OpömapmifYruav;udk ouf&dSxif&Sm; awGYjrifvdkuf&ovdk xifonf/ usaemfonf olYudk ta0;rSyif vSrf;ai;MunfYvmrdonf/ olonf anmifyifatmuf&dS cHkwef;ay:wGif xdkifaecJY\/ &xm;0ifvm onfudk jrif&vSsif xdkif&mrSxjyD; &xm;MuD;udk arSsmfvifYcsuf MuD;rm;pGmjzifY ai;pdkuf MunfYaecJYonf/ olYudk,fay:ü qGwfqGwfeDaom tusÐudk 0wfxm;cJY onf/ olonf qHyiftyk fvHk;odrf;vdkufjyD jzpfojzifY vGefcaJY omwvu olESifY wa,mufpDjzpfoGm;jyD xif&onf/ olESifY usaemfonf ta0;uwnf;u wa,mufudkwa,muf vSrf;arSsmf MunfYaerdMuonf/ olonf &xm;&yfrnfYae&modkY avSsmufvmavonf/ rdk;rIef rdk;zGJuav;rsm; wzGmzGm usaeonf/ arSmifysys rdk;zGJr;dk rIefrsm; twGif;ü olYudk vSrf;jrif&onfrSm tdyfrufxJü awGYjrifa e&ovdk jzpfaeonf/ &xm;&yfaomtcgü usaemfpD;vmcJYonfY wGJ0ESiYf olYukefpdr;f awmif;rsm; csxm;&m ae&monf wnfYwnfYusae\/ olonf usaemfYudk atmufzufrS armYMunfYvdkufonf/ ol\ EIwfqufjyHK;rSm pdwfvIyf&Sm; &ifckeaf eojzifY yDyDoo r&dSay/ usaemf onf olYawmif;rsm;udk wGJay:rS vSrf;,lum ae&mcsxm;ay;vdkufonf/ olonfvnf; wGJay: wufvmum usaemfYteD; wGJ0wGif rsufESmcsif; qdkifü &yfaeonf/ usaemfonfvnf; olYudk EIwfqufpum; ajym&efyif owdr&/ olonfvnf; arYae[efwlonf/ olonf jyHK;xm;aomfvnf; usaemfYudk apYapY rMunfY/ &xm;MuD; xGufcGmvmrS ... &ifcek foHrsm;rSm &xm;ckwfarmif;oHESifY a&maxG; aysmufuG,foGm;aeonf[k xifrdonf/ olY&ifcek faeoHudk &xm;ckwfarmif;aeoHrsm; tMum;üyif Mum;ae&jyef onf xifonf/ “ndKndK a,usfm;aemuf vdkufoGm;w,f Mum;vdkY” olu “&Sufp&mawG rajymeJY” [k ajym&if; usaemfYudk rMunfYbJ olYawmif;rsm;udk rvdktyfbJESifY [dka&TUonfa&TU vkyfaejyefonf/ usaemfonf csKyfwnf;xm;cJYaom pdwfrsm;udk tvdkvdkuf vTwfay;xm;vdkufonf/ olYwudk,fvHk;udk ai;pdkuf MunfYaevdkufonf/ awmif;a&TUtjyD; ol jyef&yfvdkufaomtcgwGifum; rsufESmcsif;qdkifaerdMuonf/ olY rsufvHk;tdrftwGif;udk euf&dIi;f pGm pdkufMunfYaerd onf/ olY rsufawmifaumYMuD;rsm;udk ai;MunfYaerdonf/ olonf rsufESmwjyifvHk; xlydef;vmum rsufvTmMuD; csvdkufonf/ olY touf &SLoHudk Mum;ae&onf xifonf/ “udk&ifarmifMuD; ygrS ygygYrvm;vdkY” olYtoHrSmvnf; pGJrufzG,f&m wkef,ifaejyefonf/ pmrsufESm [10 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
tdrfomrsm; jcm;aeojzifY tjcm;c&D;onfrsm;ESifYvnf; tqufjywfae onf/ onfae&muav;rSm cspfolESpfO;D awGYqHkMu&m uav;[k usaemfYpdwfü xifvm onf/ ol\ t&SufMuD;aeyHkudk &,farmp&m wckvdk xifvmjyefojzifY cyfwdk;wdk; cyfaygYaygY &,faerdjyefonf/ pdwfrsm;onfvnf; ydkí vIyf&Sm;vdIif;xvmjyef onf/ “ndKndKu odyfvSvmwmbJ? jrif&wmudk touf&SLrSm;aewmbJ”[k wdk;wdk; ajym vdkufrdonf/ “ndKndKudk cspfaebD? odvm; ... ndKndKUudk udkcspfaebD? tJwm rif;odw,f rIwfvm;” olYrsufvHk;rsm;onf om;&dkif; orifvdk 0dik f;pufoGm;Mu\/ usaemfonfvnf; ydkí pdwfvIyf&Sm;vmum a&SUodkY wdk;vdkufjyD; vuf ESpfzufudk &kwfw&uf vSrf;vdku fonf/ olonf owd&vmjyD; olYudk,fudk aqmifY&ke;f vdkuf\/ “tdkawmf ... udk&ifarmifMuD;uvJ” aemufqkwfvsuf olu wdk;wdk;nnf;nnf; ajymonf/ tdrfomzufodkY a&mufoGm;onf/ usaemfYudk ausmay;um vlpD;xdkifckrH sm; &dS&mzufodkY oGufoGuf avSsmufoGm;onf/ usaemfvnf; avSum;0wGif&yf&if; pdwfvIyf&Sm;aecJY\/ MudKwifí awG;awm MuHpnfcJYjcif;um; r[kwf/ þodkY &kwfw&uf jzpfysuf &jcif;tay:ü aumif;onf qdk;onfudk roHk;oyfcsifawmYay/ jrdKUopfblwmodkY a&mufvSsif ol qif;ae&pfcJYonf/ naewGif jrdKYopfblwmodkY &xm; tjyefqdkufa&mufvmcJYaomtcg olYudk blwmyvufazmif;ay:wGif rjrif&awmYay/ usaemfonf ae&mtESHUtjym; vdkuf &SmMunfYrd\/ ol wae&m&mrS wufa&mufvdkufygvmvdrfYrnfudk odaomfvnf; &Smíum; rawGY/ &xm; xGufvmcJYrS usaemf vufrSwfppfaq;&m olYudk c&D;onfrsm; tv,f&dS xdkifckw H ckay:ü awGY&onf/ olo nf usaemfYudk wcsuf vSrf;MunfYjyD; rsufESmvTJ oGm;onf/ usaemfvnf; olUudkausmay;um avSom;0ü oGm;a&muf&yfaecJo Y nf/ &xm; ckwfarmif;aepOf tjyifzufudkom MunfYvmcJYonf/ olu wcsufwcsuf ü usaemfYudk rodrom apmif;iJYMunfYaernfudk odaeaomfvnf; usaemfonf t&GJU wdk ufcsifpdwf ay:aeum olYudk wcsufrSs vSnfYrMunfY/ jrdKYvkifwGif usaemfonf olUudkausmay;jyD; *gwfAdkvfwGJodkY xGufvmcJY\/ &xm;MuD; xGufcGmvmcJYvSsif usaemfonf rSefcsyfMum;rS rodrom vSrf;MunfhvmcJYonf/ oluvnf; wrift&GUJ wdkufum &xm;MuD;udk ausmay;xm;onfudk awG Yjrifc&JY ojzifY usaemfonf jyHK;vmcJYrd\/ aemuf&ufrsm;wGif OD;aumif;ZHkqdkifa&SU olxdkifaeus ae&mwGifyif rawGY jrif&awmYay/ xdkae&mü ol Uudk tcgwdkif;uvdkyif awGY&vdrfh rnf[k xifcJYonf/ w&ufjyD;w&uf rawGY&aom tcgwGifum; olu usaemfYudk txifrSm;aecJYjyD[k awG ;&awmYonf/ usaemfonf olaeonfY ykwD;ukef;&Gmudk vSrf;MunfYae&if; olY&GmodkYyif vdkufoGm;&aumif;rvm;[k awG;vm&jyefonf/ olYudk wDbDpD pdefxGef;? jratmif? pdk;jrifh polwdkYu taysmfMuHum &doJYoJYvkyfonfYenf;wl usaemfUudkvnf; taysmfMuHonf[k olawG;xifoGm;rnfudk pdk;&drfpw d f armvm&jyefonf/ þodkY ol ,lqoGm;vSsifrl tjzpftysufrSm pdwfxdcdkufzG,f&m jzpfayonf/ usaemfY tjyKtrlrSmvnf; aygY&Syf&yS fEdkio f nf xifrdonf/ trSeftm;jzifY olonf aeYpOf usaemfYudka&SmifuGif;um aps;ywfvdkufjrJ vdkufygaecJY\/ olonf jrdKYvkifrS twufwGif oHvrf;wzuf rpdefjrqdkifzufodkY ajymif;aecJY\/ tjcm;blwmrsm;wGifvnf; xdkodkY ae&majymif;um usaemfYudk vGwfatmifa&Smifaeonf/ olonf cav;pdwf? Munfpm;vdkpdwfjzifY ckEpS f&uf ausmfausmf usaemfYudk 'ku©ay;aecJYonf/ pmrsufESm [11] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
wnaewGif tjyefc&D;ü jrdKYopfblwm yvufazmif;ay:wGif olYudkjyefawGY &rS usaemfvnf; pdwfaygYyg;cJY&onf/ xdknaeu olonf blwmyvufazmif;tpGef *gwfwGJteD;&dS wrmyifwef;rsm;atmufzuf wef;vsm;ay:wGif wa,mufwnf; xdkifae cJo h nf/ olYudk usaemf onf *gwfwGJay:rS vSrf;jrifawGY&\/ olonf *gwfwGJzufodkY rodrom acgif;iJYMunfYaecJYonf/ usaemf vSrf;MunfYvdkufonfESifY wjydKifwnf; olYrsufESmudk qwfueJ wjcm;zuf vSnfYvdkufonf/ usaemfonf *gwfwGJay:rS qif;um ol&dS&modkYoGm;jyD; olxdkif&m wef;vsm; wzufpGef;wGif 0ifxdkifvdkufonf/ xdkae&mrSm yvufazmif; tpGefqHk;ae&mjzpfojzifY tjcm;c&D;onfrsm;ESifY tvSrf; a0;aeonf/ usaemfwdkY ESpfa,mufwnf; oD;oefYjzpfaecJo Y nf/ usaemfonf twef Mumonftxd olYudk pum;rajymao;bJ jidrfoufpGm xdkifae pOfwGif olY&ifcek foH rsm;udk Mum;ae&onf xifrdonf/ wzuf rsufESmvSnfYxm;aom olYudk usaemf onf ai;MunfYaeonf/ twefMumrS olonf jyefvSnfYvdkuf\/ “vufrSwfppfrvdkYvm;” olonf toHwkefwkefjzifYajymum olYvufxJwGif qkyfudkifxm;onfY vufrSwfudk jyaeonf/ usaemfonf olYpdwfü jzpfay: cHpm;ae&onfwdkYudk trSeftwdkif; jrifawGY& aomtcg pdwfü xdcdkufemusifrdjyefonf/ olYrsufES mrSm ndKUrdIif;aecJY\/ olY rsufvHk;tay:wGif rsuf&nfrsm; 0Jvmaeonf/ vufrSwfjyaeaom olYvufrSm wqwfqwf wkef,ifaeonf/ olu “olonf vufrSwfrJYjzifY c&D;oGm;aeol? usaemfu vufrSwfppfjzpfí olYudkrcspfbJESifY taysmfMuHpnfaeonf ”[k ,HkMunf,lq aecJo h nf/ “ndKndK ... udkY pdwfxJr,f b,fvdkjzpfaew,fqdkwm rif;trSeftwdkif; odzadkY umif;ygw,f? aemufudk rif;udkcspfw,fvdkY b,fawmYrS rajymawmYbl;” usaemfonf 0rf;enf;pdwfjzifY ajymaerdonf/ olonf usaemfYudk wcsufMunfYjyD; vlpD;wGJrsm;zufodkY rsufESmjyefvSnfY oGm;onf/ oufjyif;csaejyefonf/ usaemfonfvnf; olYzufodkY wdk;vdkuf\/ “udkYpw d fxJr,f b,fvdkjzpfaew,f? b,favmuf cspfaew,fqdkwm rif;rodbl; rIwfvm;? udkvJ rajymjywwfzl;? tpwkef;u rif;udk udkYnDrav;vdk cspfw,f? aemufawmY rif;uvJ ydkNyD; vS vSvmw,f rIwfvm;? vSvdkYcspfwm[m tjypfvm; ... uJ ... ajymprf; ... vSwm[m tjypfvm;? vSvdkYcspfwm tjypfvm;” olonf pdwf&IyfaxG;vmovdk acgif;udk,rf;aeonf/ “&xm;acgif;wGJqufyD; &Sefwdef vkyfyD;oGm;bD”[k ajym&if; ae&mrS cyfav;av; x&yfvdkufonf/ “aetHk;av ...” “&xm; xGufawmYr,f ...” “r[kwfzl; ... udkar;wm ajymygtHk;” “bmajym&rSmvJ” “udk,fYudk cspfw,fvdkY ajymoGm;av” pmrsufESm [12] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf wvSrf;ESpfvSrf; vSrf;jyD;rS usaemfYudk jyefvSnfYMunfYonf/ “vlMuD;uvJaemf ... olrsm; pdwfnpfae&wJYtxJ 'ku©ayvdkufwm? 'DaeY i&kyfoD;pdrf;awGuvJ ra&mif;&bl;? yD;awmY &xm; vufrSwfawG toGm;,l tjyef,l ygq,fawGvkyfae&? ukefawGraumif;vdkY oGefypfcJY&eJY waeY av;ig;usyf &HI;aevdkY idkcsifae&wJh txJ” ol nnf;nnf;nLnL a&&Gwfum vlpD;wGJrsm;&dS&modkY oGm;aepOfwGif usaemfum; ae&mrS x&yfum MunfEl;pGm jyHK;aerdonf/ olonf usaemfYudk “udk&ifarmifMuD;” [k oHk;ae&mrS “vlMuD;” [k ajymif;oGm;onf/ “tdkawmf” rS “aemf” odkY ajymif;vJoGm;onf/ ol jyefvSnfYMunfYpOfwGif usaemfonf toHxGufatmif &,farmaerd\/ olonf &xm;ay: rwufrD idkrrJY JY rsufESmjzifYyif EIwfcrf; wcsuf udkufjyoGm; onf/ usaemfum; þtjyKtrltwGuf xyfí MunfEl;pGm &,faerdjyefonf/
(3) 1963 ..... aemufydki;f &ufrsm;ü olUudk awGYjrifaeus ae&müyif awGY&onf/ olonf OD;aumif;ZHkqdkifa&SU xdkifckrH SvSrf;jyD; usaemfYudk MunfYaewwf onf/ eHeuf rIHr0IH g;0g;ü olYrsufESmay:wGif tjyHK;&dyfrsm; oef;aeonf/ &xm;ay:odkY a&mufvSsifrl olonf tcgwdkif;uvdk usaemfYudk wGJ0wGif apmifYraebJ usaemf ol&dS&mwGJodkY ajymif;vm onfESifY wjydKifeufwnf; c&D;onfrsm;&dS&modkY a&Smifwdrf;oGm;awmYonf/ usaemfonf wGJ0wGif &yfusefaecJ&Y if; rausreyfjzifY jyHK;ae&onf/ olonf c&D;onftrsm;Mum;rS vSrf;jyD; usaemfYudk rsufvHk; apGMunfYaewwf\/ usaemf rsufvHk; rSdwfjyvdkufvSsif olYrsufESmudk qwfueJ wzufodkY vSnfYoGm; onf/ &xm;ay:rS tqif;wGifvnf; olonf vltrsm;ESifYa&maESmum okwfokwf qif;oGm;onf/ cyfvSrf;vSrf;a&mufrS rodrom jyHK;jy oGm;onf/ olYudk ESpfa,mufcsif; pum;ajymcGifY&&ef zefwD;ír&/ xdkodkY pum;ajymcGifh &&efvnf; usaemfonf rusdK;pm;csif/ ta0;rSjrifum cspfae&onfY tcspfpdwfrSm MunfEl;p&m tqHk;tpr&dS[k xif&onf/ wcgw&HwGifom usaemfonf olESifY vlcsif;uyfta&Smifü “cspfw,f” [k wdk;wdk;ajymoGm;rdonf/ usaemf xdkodkYajymoGm;wdkif; olYrsufESmwjyifvHk; xlydef;oGm;pOfwGif olY rsufESmuav;rSm ydkíjidwG,fzG,f&m vSvmonf[k xif& onf/ usaemf olYtem;wGif xdkifonfYtcgrsm;wGifvnf; olYrsufESmrSm xdkuJYodkY xlydef;eDjref;aewwfonf/ rsm;aomtm;jzifY naezuf &xm;tjyefwGif c&D;onfrsm;enf;yg;aeonfhaeYwGif usaemfonf olYtem;ae&mvGwfwGif oGm;xdkifonf/ a&Tyef;yifodkYa&mufvSsif waeYwm aiGpm&if;rsm;vkyfí usaemfonf olYwGJodkY ul;oGm;onf/ usaemftem;a&mufvmvSsif olonf usaemfYudkrMunfYbJ rsufESmudk jywif;0zufodkY vSnfYxm;vdkufonf / usaemfonf olESifY usaemfYMum;ü pmtkyfrsm;udk ypfcsvdkuf\/ vnfpnf; jzKwfum acgufodrf;ae&if; olYudk rodrom apmif;iJYMunfY vdkufonf/ eD&Jum &Sufpdwf? &ifckepf dwfjzifY xltrf;aeaom olYrsufESmuav;rSm usaemfYpdwfwGif tpGrf;ukef vSvmaeonf/ olY rsufESmjyifay:ü qHyifEu k av;rsm;onf 0Jae\/ tjyifzufodkY vSrf;MunfYaeaom olYrsufvHk;rsm;rSm awmufyaeonf/ olYyg;rsm; onf rdMkY uGae\/ naeqnf;qmaejcnfaMumifY olYrsufESmrSm ydkí0if;yaeonf/ olYudk usaemfuvnf; EIwfrquf/ oluvnf; vSnfYíyifrMunfY/ wcgw&HwGif jrdKUvkifodkYa&mufjyD; olqif;oGm;onftxd pum;wvHk;rSs rajymrdMu/ pmrsufESm [13] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
xdkodkY pum;rajymaejcif;onfyif wrsdK;pdwfMunfEl;zG,f&m jzpfaejyef onf/ olY&ifcek foHrsm;udk Mum;ae&onf[k xif&onf/ olY&ifxJrS pdwfESvHk;om;rsm;ESifY usaemfY&ifxJrS cspfpdwfrsm;onf waoG;wnf; a&mpyfoGm;ojzifY wa,mufudkw a,muf pum; wvHk;rSs ajymae&efvnf; rvdktyf? ajymaeMujcif;onfyif tydktvkyf[k xifvmrdonf/ &ifxJü jzpfay:cHpm;ae&rIwdkYrmS pum;vHk; aygif; todef;toef;jzifY azmfjyíyif &Edik frnfr[kwf[k xifaerdjyefonf/ &Hzef&cH gürl olESifY usaemfonf [dkzufcHk onfzufcHk rsufESmcsif;qdkif qHkaerdMu\/ ESpfO;D pvHk; &xm;jywif;0rS tjyifodkY ai;MunfYrdMuonf/ usaemfonf ol pum;ajymvmap&ef aemufajymifaerdjyefonf/ olonf usaemf pum;ajymaeonfwdkYudk em;raxmifaMumif; jy&ef vufudkify0k gjzifY em;udk rodrom ydwfxm;onf/ &SufpdwfaMumifY xlydef;aeaom olYrsufESmay:wGifum; MunfEl;rIrsm; jynfYvSsrf;aeonfY tjyHK;&dyfrsm; xifaejyefonf/ rsufESmudk wnfwnfwif;wif; xm;aeaomfvnf; olYEIwfcrf;rsm;ay:wGif tjyHK;rsm; a0Yvmaeonf/ EIwfcrf;rsm;onf wif;xm;ygvsufESifY tay wGefYoGm;aeonf/ “tJwm udk wu,fajymwm” [k usaemfonfvnf; toHudkjrSifYjyD; ajymae onf/ “udk rdef;r,l&if udk wu,fudkcspfwJY rdef;rrS,lrSm? vSvJvS&r,f? udk,fY xufvJ i,f&r,f? jyHK;csifwmawmif rjyHK;bJ aeEdki&f r,f? cyfwnfwnf aewwf &r,f ... “'gayr,fY ,lyD;&ifawmY &nf;pm;b0wkef;u udkYudk rac:csifovdkvdk rajymcsifovdkvdk aewmwdkY? udk,fYudk cspfw,fvdkY rajymwmwkdY udkvm&if vl Mum;xJ a&Smifajy;aewmwdkY ar;ar;yD; &dkuf&r,f? waeYudk em;&if; oHk;cgavmuf tkyf&r,f? tdyf&m0ifwcg tdyf&mxwcg xrif;pm;jyD;wcg ...? udk pum;ajymwm udk rMum;csifa,mif aqmifaewmwdkY? em;udk vufudkify0k geJY ydwfxm;wmwdkY? udkY jrif&if a&SmifoGm;wmwdkY? tJ'Dred f;rrsdK;[m rdef;r,kwfac:w,f? [w¬eDqdkwm tJ'D rdef;rrsdK;udk ac:wm? udk tem;vmwmeJY olYtom;aMuGoGm;rSm pdk;w,fxif w,f ... “udk ,lr,fYrde;f r[m rsufESm0dkif;0dkif;uav; jzpf&r,f? tom;jzL&r,f? uJ ... pum;jyefajym&ifajym ... rajym&if atmfajymvdkuf awmYr,f” usaemfonf olYudk rsufawmifrcwf pdkufMunfYae&if; cyfwdk;wdk; ESpfjcdKufpGm &,faerdonf/ &xm; ckwfarmif;aeoHESifY cyfa0;a0;rS c&D;onfwpk us,favmifpGm &,farmaeMuoHrsm;onf usaemfYtoHtay:ü zHk;vTrf;oGm;aeonf/ olonf em;rS vufudkify0k gudk z,fvdkufjyD; usaemfYudk rsufapmif;wcsuf xdk;MunfYaeonf/ “atmfajymvdkufaygY” [k ajymaejyefonf/ usaemfonf rsufESmudk jywif;0zufodkY wdk;uyfvdkufonf/ “cspfw,fuG,f ... rif;u odyfvSvmwmbJ? waeYxufwaeY vSvmw,f? udk MunfY&wm armaewmbJ” olonf jywif;0rS rsufESmudk qwfueJ cGmvdkufonf/ usaemfESifY a0; oGm;ap&ef olYxdkifckaH emufrDS tay: ausmudk rDSvdkufonf/ acgif;udk cyfarmY armY rDSxm;vdkufonf/ xdktcgwGifum; ol\ ae[efrSm ydkí aMumYa&mYvmonf/ olYtvSonf yef;yk&kyw f kuav; wckESiYf wlvmaeonf/ qnf;qmaejcnfjzifY olYrsufESmrSm a&Ta&mif0gvmonf/ olMum;avmufatmif pum;ajymcGifY r&aomtcgwGif usaemfonf aysmf &Tifvmaerdjyefonf/ usaemfonf rsufESmudk olYzufodkY vSnfYvdkufjyD; EIwfcrf;vIyfjyonfY enf; jzifY olYudk “cspfw,f ... cspfw,f”[k ajymaeonf/ olonf usaemfYEIwfcrf;rsm; vIyfyu Hk dk rsufarSmifMuKwfMunfYaeonf/ ezl; aMumrsm;&IHUum usaemf ajymaeonfY pum;vHk;rsm;udk vdkufvHzrf;qD;MunfYonf/ usaemf yg;pyfvIyfonfYtwdkif; vdkufvIyfMunfYjyD; olonf oabmaygufvmum yg;pyfudk vufudkif yk0gESifYqdkYum &,faecJo Y nf/ twefMumrS olonf £ajE´jyefq,fum rsufESmudk wnfwnfxm;vdkuf jyefonf/ pmrsufESm [14] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
ol\ tjyKtrl "avYp&dkufuav;rsm;rSm pGJjidzG,f&myif/ waeYukefuGsrf;oGm;jyD; nydkif; tem;,lcsdefü tdrfodkYjyefa&mufvSsif usaemf onf tdyf,mxufü ol \jrwfEdk;zG,f&m jidwG,fzG,f&m tjyKtrluav;rsm;udk qHk;prxif owd&aerdonf/ usaemfum; olESifY tdrfaxmifonfb0 a&muf&rnfY &ufrsm;udk pdwful;,Of ae&onf/ olESifY rnfuJYodkYenf;vrf;jzifY tdrfaxmifonfb0a&mufatmif zefwnf;&rnfudk t&if;twdkif; qef;ppfrdonfY tcgrsm; wGifrl pdwfarmvmrdum xdktawG;wdkYudk azsmufzsuf&onf/ olonfvnf; olY rdom;pkudk auGs;arG;&ef wm0efxrf;aqmifae&ol ... usaemfvnf; ta0;&dS usaemfY rdom;pktwGuf wm0efxrf;aqmifae&ol ... ponfY trSefw&m;rsm;udk oHk;oyfrdvSsif pdwfü av;vHum yifyef;vmonf/ olESifY usaemfYMum;ü wG,fwmpdwf oHa,mZOfM udK;rsm;onfvnf; wcsdef xufwcsdef ydkí wif;usyf cdkifjrJvmaeonfrSm ... wpxuf wp tm;MuD;vmaom a&tvsOfESifY wlayonf/ aemufydki;f &ufrsm;ü oluyif jyefí pum;ajymcGifY&&ef zefwD;ay;aejyef onf/ naeydki;f wGif tjyefü jrdKUopfrS &xm;xGufvmcJYaomtcg olonf vlpD; wGJt qif; tdrfomeHab;&dS tayguf0wGif wa,mufwnf; xGuf&yfvmwwf onf/ usaemfonfvnf; olYtem;odkY ra,mifrvnf avSsmufoGm;um olYausm zufrS umqD;&yfvdkufonf/ olonf usaemfa&mufvmaejyDudk odaomfvnf; rodcsifa,mif aqmifae jyefonf/ arSmif&Dqdkif;p tvif;a&mifrsm; azsmYrSdefoGm;csdefwGif usaemfonf olYausm zufrS twefMumrSs rvIyfr&Sm; jidrfouf&yfaecJo Y nf/ olESiu fY saemf ESpfa,muf wnf; pMum0Vm tjyifzufodkY a&mufae&ovdkvnf; pdwfü xifaecJYjyefonf/ &ifxJü aEG;aeonf/ olY &ifckeo f Hudkvnf; Mum;ae&onf xifonf/ olonf tnm v,fuGif;rsm;udk ai;MunfYaecJY\/ rdk;aESmif;ydkif; rdk;rIef rdk;zGJuav;rsm;onf avESifYtwl ygvmMuum usaemfwdkY ESpfa,mufpvHk;udk vmí pOfaecJY\/ usaemfonf toufudk rSsif; &SLaerdonf/ ykvif;wefwm;&SnfMuD;udk &xm; jzwfausmfckwfarmif;aepOfwGif usaemf onf olY *kwfydk;pudk aemuf zufrS iHkYum rxdwxd erf;ae vdkufonf/ ykvif;acsmif;xJü rdk;aESmif;a&rsm;onf wefwm;wdkifrsm;udk nifompGm a0Y ywftdqif;ae\/ usaemfonf olYycH;k ESpfzufudk nifom pGm qkyfudkifvdkufonf/ “cspfw,fuG,f ... cspfw,f ..? rif; udkYudk cspfw,frIwfvm;? cspfygw,f? cspf&r,f” usaemfonf cyfwdk;wdk; ajymaerdonf/ olonf &kef;uefvdkufjyD; usaemfYzufodkY jyefvSnfYMunfYae\/ usaemf olUudk xyfí ayGYzufvdkufvSsif olonf &Suf&SufjzifY *rl;&SL;xdk; &kef;uefonf/ “vTwf .. vTwf .. vTwfyg”[k toHwkefwkefjzifY ajymaeonf/ olY&ifcek foHrsm;udk udk twdkif;om; Mum;ae&onf/ ol &kef;uefvGef;ru &kef;uefojzifY usaemfonf ayGx Y m;&mrS ajzvTwf vdkuf\/ olYa&SUrS ydwfum wm;qD;xm;jrJ xm;onf/ olonf ua,mifuwrf;jzifY olYvufwzufudk vdyfwifaeonf/ olYudk usaemf apmfum;onf[k tawG;a[mif; jyefay:vmae jyefonf/ “'Dvdkrvkyf&bl;? wu,fcspf&if 'Dvdkrvkyf&bl; qdkwmod&JYvm;? 'gu vufrSwfppfu tEdkifusifYwm jzpfaerSmaygY? aoaocsmcsm pOf;pm;aemf” ajym&if; olYtoHrSm ydkí wkefvmaeonf/ pmrsufESm [15 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olYrsufvHk;ay:ü rsuf&nfrsm; jynfYvmaejyefonf/ usaemfYrsufESmrSmvnf; rjyHK;EdkifawmYay/ olYpum;rsm;onf pl;&Sjyif;xef pGm vdSrafY jy;vmjyD; usaemfYESvHk;tdrfudk vma&muf xdcdkuf oGm;aejyefonf/ “r[kwfbl; ... r[kwfbl;” [líom usaemfonf ajymaerd\/ “aemuf b,fawmYrS 'grsdK;rvkyfygeJY ... z,f” olonf &kwfw&uf usaemfYudk aqmifYwGef;jyD; usaemfai;aepOfü tdrfom rsm;zufodkY avSsmufoGm;onf/ usaemfESifY vGwfoGm;rS csmueJ aemufjyefvSnfY vdkufonf/ olESiu fY saemfonf rsufESmcsif;qdkifaeum wa,mufudkwa,muf MunfYae rdonf/ olYrsufESmay:rS t&Sderf sm;onf ys,fvdkufvmae onf/ olYrsufESmay: wGif wjznf;jznf; tjyHK;&dyf tjyHK;aiGUrsm; oef;vmaeonf/ “ol ... ol odyfqdk;wm” olu usaemf Mum;&Hkom vSrf;ajymjyD; yDopGm jyHK;avonf/ cyfjznf;jznf; jyefvSnfYonf/ c&D;onfrsm;&dS&modkY avSsmufoGm;aeonf/
(4) 1964 ..... usaemfvnf; wDbDpD tjzpfjzifY vufrSwfppfaq;? ukefrsm;udk wefqmvkyf? xdk aeYpOf vkyf&;dk vkyfpOf uav;rsm;twdkif;om r[kwf awmYay/ taxGaxG wm;jrpfukefrsm;udk &SmazGzrf;qD;&onfY wm0efrsm;yg xrf;aqmifvm cJY&jyefjyD/ usaemfonf *gwfAdkvf tvJvJESifY wGJzufum wm0efxrf;aqmifae\/ *gwfAdkvf udkpH&ED SifYaomfvnf;aumif;? jrtHk;ESifYaomfvnf; aumif;? cspfaqGESifY aomfvnf;aumif; wGJzuf&onfYaeYrsm;wGifum; *gwfwGJxJwGif t&ufeHYrsm; waxmif;axmif; eHaeawmYonf/ udkpH&D ygvmonfY&ufrsm;wGif tcsdefrsm;rSm aysmf&TifjrL;xl;pGm jzwfoef; ukefcrf;oGm;aeonf xif&onf/ “a[Y ... &ifarmif& ... trSefrmS 'dkY[m arsmufoHk;aumif rD;jcpfxJuvdk aeoifYwmuG? arsmufoHk;aumifrD;jcpf jrifzl;ovm;? b,fjrif zl;rvJuG? tJ'Dwkef;u rif;qdk icGswfuav; &dSt;Hk rSm? rD;jcpfxJu arsmufoHk;aumifvdkaygYuGm? rsufpd ydwfwJYtaumifuydwf? em;ydwf wJY taumifuydwf? yg;pyfydwfwJY taumifydwf? 'Dvdk rIwfvm;uG &ifarmif ... 'dkY 'Dvdk aeoifYwm rIwfvm;uG/ tdkiaf q; ... 0Swf (w) ,lEdk; ...” “Armvdk ajymygAsm” “ig eJeJrl;aevdkYuGm? tdkif0rf(Y w) wlaq; bdkif t*Fvdcsf” olonf “uefY(w),lEdk; ... uefY(w),lEdk;” ESifY a&&Gwfae&if; ZufusdK;usvmonf/ &xm; aqmifYvdkufojzifY olYudk,frSm usaemfY tay: vSJrDS vdkufjyD;om; jzpfaeonf/ usaemfonfvnf; olUudk xdef;ay;&if; t&ufwcGuf udk jznf;jznf; armYaerd \/ “'gayr,fY 'dkYrmS wm;jrpfukefawG bmawG nmawG &SmazGzrf;qD;&r,fY wm0efMuD;awG ycHk;xufrSm &dSw,fuG? tGef(e) &dSL;(v) 'g; ... OD;vnfrokef xrf;aqmif&r,f? 'Dvdk rIwfvm;uGm ... “at; jrJjrJrSwfxm; ... rSwfxm; ... rSwfxm; ... wm0efqdkwm rsm;rsm;MuD; vkyfay;&r,f? 'grS ... 'dkYvdk vkyfom;ol&Jaumif; awGtwGuf vkyftm;cawG rsm; rsm;MuD; usefr,f? 'DvdkrIwfvm; ... uJ tck b,favmuf&yvJ? bmuG ... wq,f ... wq,fxJ ... xyfw&D; ...
pmrsufESm [16 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“ig0rf;enf;w,fuGm ... 0rf;enf;aMuuGJ ylaqG;aomu a&mufae&bD &ifarmif ... nDav;? igu &xm;MuD; wpif;vHk;udk ajcz0g;awmfjrwfatmuf xdk; tyfxm; ... yD;awmY rodcsifa,mifaqmifvdkY? arsmufoHk;aumif rD;jcpf xJuvdk rsufpdydwf em;ydwf yg;pyfydwf ae&olyguGm ... nDav; ..? &xm;MuD; wpif;vHk; udk rif;vkyfcsifovdk vkyfaew,f? aumifrawGvJ trsm;MuD;ygw,f? rif; .. rif; [m {u&mZfyguGm ...[kwfbl;vm; ... MuufzMuD;yguGm? {u&mZf MuufzMuD; ... yD;awmYrS ydkufqHuav; wq,fxJ&w,fwJYAsm;? wq,f ... wq,f ... wq,fxJ...? tdk ... tdkit f if(r) ouif;(u) atmY (z) onf [dk;(v) x&def; ... ajymprf;uGm ... a[Yaumif abmufqm &ifarmifMuD; ... tudkMuD;&JY nDav;? rif; igYudk ywfw,fuGm? tdk ... tdkif0rfY(w)wlupf ... yvd(pf)” olonf usaemfY ycH;k udkzufjyD; erf;&ef MudK;pm;jyefonf/ xdkYaemuf usaemfYudk xdk;vdkuf&ef vufoD;udk tm;wif;qkyfudkifae&if; trl;orm; 0rf;enf;jcif;jzifY 0rf;enf;vmum rsuf&nfw awGawG usvmaejyef onf/ “a[Y ... rif;eJYigeJY xdk;rvm;? ratay;av; ... rxdk;&Jygbl;? at; .. aumif;w,f aumif;w,f? rSwfxm;uG? aiG ... aiG ... aiG? aiGqdkwm &atmif&Sm &w,fuG? bmwJY [dkoDcsif; ... aiG ... aiG ... aiGqdkwmbmudkac:w,f? aiGudkom &atmifnSpfr,f? a,mu©r ... a,mu©r ... a,mu©r rsufESmcsdKw,f? usaemfY r,m;u rsufESmcsdKw,f? rl;r,f ... aomufr,f? vrf;v,frSmqJqJ vludkwGJvdkY tdrfxJac:r,f? tdyf&mxJa&mufatmifac:r,fAsmY ... [m; ... [m; - bmwJYuGm ratay;av; aiGr&SmwwfwJY bk&m; t avmif; av; ... t,defra';,s tavmif;awmfav; ... /” “a[Y ... rdk;qdkwm&Gm&w,fuG? rsm;rsm;&Gm&w,f? tck &Gmaewm 'dkYrk;d uG? 'dkY&YrJ dk;? cspfaomrdk;? bmwJYvJuG [dkoDcsif; 'DrSmavuGm a&Trdk; ... aiGr;dk &GmawmY cifysdKarudk owd&w,f a&Tr;dk aiGrdk;&GmawmY ndKndKcifudkowd&w,f? a[Y -a&Tr;dk aiGr;dk &GmawmY xuGm ... xuGm ... u&atmifuGm a[Y ... a&Tr;dk aiGrdk;&GmawmY” usaemfvnf; udkpH&MD uD;ESifY vufcsif;wGJum 0dkif;MuD;ywfvnf uaeonf/ ESpfa,mufom; oHjydKif atmfqdkaeonf/ &xm;onfvnf; wa*smif;a*smif; jrnf aeonf/ usaemfwdkY\ eufwdkif tpdrf;prsm;onf avxJü ysHumoef;um 0Jaeonf/ trSefwGifum; þodkY aysmf&TifjrL;xl;aejcif;rSm tcdkuftwefYrsS omjzpf\/ wcsufwcsufwGif &xm;MuD;udk rnfolawGu &yfwefYppf aq;vdkufrnfenf;[k pdk;&drfpw d fuav;0ifvmvSsif trl;onf cPrSsajyoGm;&awmYonf/ usaemfwdkYvdk yif vrf;eHab;&dS awmMuD; rsm;onfvnf; a0Yuma0Yum usef&pfcY?J aecJYonf/ pifppfwGif usaemfwdkYonf tarSmifxkMuD;txJü avSsmufoGm;ae&jcif;udk &Hzef&cH gü arYa vsmYaeMuonf/ a&SU wae&m&mü euf&dIif; vSonfY tolw&m acsmufMuD;wck wm;qD;xm;aeonfudkvnf; rodjrifMu/ eHeufrdk;rvif;rD? &xm;rxGufrDtcsdefwGif awmifwGif;MuD;blwm&Hk yvufazmif;tpGef; arSmif&dyu f s&mae&mrsm;ü arSmifcdkorm;rsm; onf ykef;vSsdK;uG,fvSsdK; apmifYaeMuonf/ olwdkYurl usaemfwdkYudk 'ku©ay;rnfr[kwf/ olwdkYonf opöm&dS\/ olwdkY om axmifwef; tuscHvdkufMuaomfvnf; usaemfwdkYudk qGJxnfYrnf r[kwf ojzifY tarSmifvrf;ü avSsmufae&aomfvnf; usaemfwdkYtwGuf acsmufurf;MuD; rSm tvSrf;a0;uGmaejyefonf/ olwdkYudk usaemfwdkYonf aiG,laumif;&HkrSsom acsmufvSefYMuaomfvnf; ydwfum; rydwfyif/ eHeufü arSmif&dyrf sm;wGif olwdkYtkyfpkrsm;udk awGY&vdrfYrnf/ vifa,musfm; &dSygvsuf zgxufydkíysufpD;aeaom rat;jrifY? tysdKMuD; trnf,lxm;aom rat;a&T/ &xm;ay:wGifom tdyfwwfaom oif;oif;? EkEk/ rnGefY&o D nf ol\ ydómcsdef ckESpq f ,feD;yg; av;onfYudk,fMuD;udk azgYum wGJESpw f GJMum; tarSmif&dyw f ckwGif usaemfYudk &yfapmifYae wwfonf/ blwm&HkzufrSm rD;a&mifvJYvJY uif;aeaomfvnf; ol&yfae&mzufwGifum; arSmifaeonf/ olYudk tarSmifxJrS t&dyfwcktjzpfjzifY awGY&onf/ usaemf jzwf vmaepOf olonf acsmif;wcsuf[efYvdkuf\/ “udk&ifarmif”[k wD;wdk;ac:vdkufonf/ “b,folvJ ... ra&TOvm;” “raemufprf;ygeJY? 'DaeY *gwfAdkvf b,folvJ” pmrsufESm [17 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“bkef;MuD;xGufyg” “OD;atmifMuD;vm;? awmfao;wmaygY? usru [dkromvm;vdkY &ifxJudk xdwfaewm” olonf taMumufajyum ydócsdef twefi,fav;vHonfY olY&iftkMH uD;ay: vufjzifY zdxm;vdkufonf/ arSmifcdkvkyfaomfvnf; vdktyfonfxufydkí tavsmYray;wwfol? rme&dSoljzpfaomaMumifY tcsdKY*gwfAdkvfrsm; &Jom;rsm;ESifY rwnfY/ tjrJwef;rl;um b&rf; bwm jzpfaewwfaom *gwfAdkvfcspfaqG ygvmonfYaeYqdkvSsif olonf arSmif&dyfxJrS ajcazgYeif;um aemufqkwfxGufcGmoGm; onf/ olonf touftpdwfyif jynfYOD;rnfr[kwf/ olYcE¨mudk,fMuD;ESifY rvdkufavsmaom rsufESmuav;rSm Eke,fvSyaejyefonf/ usaemfvnf; olYeHab;wGif cPrSs &yfaeonf/ ol\ vlomrefwdkYxuf ydkí jyif;xefaom touf&SKoHudk Mum;ae&onf/ usaemfonf olYudk oGm;usdK; aeonfY tzdk;MuD; OD;ay:vmESifY aemufajymifaeusvnf;jzpfum OD;ay:vmudk owd&vmonf/ “b,folawGygao;vJ? OD;ay:vmMuD;aum” “awmY yaxG;MuD; ygygw,f” “tr,f ... ckrS [dkvTJ'DvTJ vkyfraeygeJY rnGefY&&D ,f? odygw,fAsm? b,foleJY rcGJbJ wwGJwGJ tjrJaew,fqdkwm” “awmfprf; ... tarnGefYvJ ygw,f? rnGefYwifvJ ygw,f? udkyu dk fvJ ygw,f” “tJ'gawGta&;rMuD;bl;? rnGefY&D twåabmMuD;udk vlwdkif; rSwfrda eMuwm cufw,f? arSmifcdkvkyf&if zswfzswfvwfvwf &dSrSaygY? aMumifvdk aygYaygYyg;yg;” “usrvJ odwfpdwfnpfwm? oHyk&moD;aomuf&if ydefw,fqdkvdkY waeYudk oHyk&moD;ig;vHk;aomufwm aomufav ydk0vmav? ttdyfqifjcifqdkvdkY qifjcifrS xrif;ydkpm;aumif;vmjyefaum” olonf toHudk xdef;jyD;&,faeonf/ “tckwavmawmY eJeJMunfYaumif;vmygw,f”[k usaemfonf &,foHjzifY ajymaeonf/ “tr,f ... rsufESmuav;uawmY vSygw,f ajymtHk;rvdkYvm;? jzD;raeprf;ygeJY? awmfMum awmYaumifr jrif&if usKyfudktxifao; aetHk;r,f? 'DaeY emewf oD; wifrvdkYwJY vdkufvmw,f” “oluav;udk ajymwmvm;” “[kwfygw,f&Sif? oluav;yg ... ndKndKav ...? udk&ifarmif&JY ra&TOav;” “uJ ... 'gjzifY usaemf MuGawmYr,f” “MuGyg ... MuGyg ...” usaemfonf &,farm&if; xdkae&mrS cGmvmcJYonf/ ndKndK ygvmonfYaeYqdkvSsif xdkodkYyif usaemfYxHodkY wa,mufr[kwf wa,mufu owif;ydkYonf/ olonf arSmifcdkukefrsm;udk rul;bl;ao;/ oif;oif;? EkEkwdkYEiS fYwGJjyD; ausmufyef;awmif;txdum; vdkufygvmaeonf/ tpu oif;oif;ESifY EkEkonf &xm;vufrSwf ,lpD;aeMuaomfvnf; usaemfESicfY ifrifvmaomtcg vufrSwf r,lawmY/ aeYcif;buf c&D;onfrsm; enf;yg;aewwfaom om;rSsm;ESifY av;tdrfMum;wGif usaemfonf olwdkYwGJodkY ul;oGm;wwfonf/ pmrsufESm [18 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
ndKndKYtem;rS xdkifckt H m;wGif xdkifvdkufvmcJYonf/ oif;oif;ESifY EkEkwdkYu usaemfYudk jyHK;jy EIwfqufMuaomfvnf; ndKndKonf usaemfa&mufvmonfudk vSnfYívnf; rMunfY/ pum; vnf; rajym/ usaemfxdkifvdkufvSsif olYrsufESmrSm &Sufae[efay:aeonf/ olonf &xm; jywif;0rS tjyifzufodkYom vSrf;arSsmf MunfYaeum taetxdkif usOf;usyf[ef ay:vGifaeonf/ xdkodkY olu vSnfYrMunfY? pum;rajymbJ aejcif;rSm usaemfYtwGuf MunfEl;p&m wrsdK;vdk jzpfaejyefonf/ wcgw&HwGif usaemfonf olYtazmfrsm;udk pum;wazmifazmif ajym&if; olYudk paewwfonf/ olonf vSnfYrMunfYbJESifY jyHK;ae wwf\/ ol\ £ajE´ q,fxm;&mrS [efraqmifEdkio f jzifY jzpfay:vm&aom tjyHK;rsm;rSm ESpfoufpGJjid pzG,fyif/ rsufESm wjcrf; udkom jrifae&onf/ “usaemfAsm wu,fajymwmyg? oif;oif;wdkY EkEkwdkYudk wu,fcifwm? wcsdKUusawmYvJ usaemfuom cif&wm? usaemfcifovdk usaemfcspfovdk jyefcspf Muwm r[kwfbl;? odyf&idk f;pdkif;Muwm? usaemf b,folYrS apmif;ajymaewm r[kwfbl;aemf ...? odyf&ufpufMuwm? usaemfuawmY 'g[m [dkb0u0#fbJ? twHkYtvSJYbJqdkyD; w&m;eJY ajzygw,f? 'Dvdk w&m;eJYajzrSbJ wefumusrSm rIwfvm;/ bmwJYAsm ... £w¦d0*F H e'D0*F H qdkwm Mum;bl;Muovm;? rdef;r[lbd xdk£w¬dum; jrpf \oabm aumufauGUwwf\ wJY? rdef;rqdkwm r&dSraumif; &dSraumif; rIwfvm;Asm? raygiff;vnf;cuf aygif;bdkYcufwJY ... 'Dvdk rIwfvm;Asm? 'gaMumifYxifw,f wcsdKYrsm; usaemfvmrS rsufESmvTJcsif vTJxm;wwfMuwm? vSnfYawmif MunfYMuwm r[kwfbl;? olwdkYMunfYcsifwJY vlusawmY olwdkYuudk vdkufMunfYrSm rIwfvm;? olpum;ajymcsifwJY vlusawmYvJ em;nnf;vmvdkY em;&if;&dkufcsifvmatmif ajymrSmbJ ” oif;oif;onf yg;pyfydwfjyD; &,fae\/ usaemfonf ndKndKY ycHk;udk qGJvSnfYypfvdkufcsifvmonf/ usaemfonf oif;oif;wdkY emewfjcif;rsm;atmuf wGif xef;vsuf ygryg ar;um olYudkpaejyefonf/ “usrwdkY xef;nufygw,fvdkY ajymyD;wmaum ...” “'djyifvl awmif;xJrSmaum ...” “tJwmawmY wynfYawmfwdkY ravSsmufwwfbl;av ...'djyifvludk ar;Munfh rSaygY” “'djyifvlu t , aewmbJAsm? pum;rS rajymwwfwm” ndKndKonf vSnfYrMunfYbJ yg;pyfudk vufudkify0k g\ESifY qdkYum &,fae onf/ twefMumrS “'djyifvlqdkwm rat;oG,fudk ajymaewm aerSm”[k ajymae onf/ olYtaz:rsm;onf jyHK;um usaemfYudk MunfYaeMu\/ usaemfonfvnf; trSwfrxif &,farmae&aomfvnf; aeYpOf tcsdefESiYf trSs usaemfY&ifxJü pdk;&drfaomu pdwfuav;rsm;onf trSwfrxif jzpfay:aecJY \/ xdk aomupdwfrsm;onf qyGm;MuD;xGm;vmaecJY\/ usaemfonf oif;oif; rsufESmuav;udk trSwfrxif MunfYae&if; ... vGefco JY nfY nwnu awmifwGif;MuD;&xm;ay:wGif þrdef;uav;ESifY e,fzuf &SmazGa&; &Jom;oHk;OD; twltdycf JYMuonfqdkaom aygufMum;vmcJYonfY owif;udk owd&vmjyefonf/ rat;oG,fqdkvSsif jzpfcsifwdkif; jzpfaecJY\/ rat;jrifYvdk vif&dSr,m; wOD;onfvnf; jzpfcsifwdkif; jzpfae\/ EkE\ k owif;rsm;udkvnf; usaemfonf Mum;cJYjyD;/ toufr&SL &yfxm;aomfvnf; þteHYqdk;MuD;rsm;rSm ESvHk;tdrfudk zH;k vTrf; vmaeMu\/ pufqkwfpGm ysdKYtefcsifvmae&onf/ twefMumrS usaemfonf olwdkYtem;rS xvmcJYonf/ vl&Sif;aom tdrfomaxmifYzuf wGJayguf0wGif &yfjyD; usaemfonf ta0&dS awmifajcmufukef; rsm;udk t"dyÜm,fuif;rJYpGm ai;MunfYaerdjyefonf/ ukef;apmif;rsm;? ,mcif;rsm;? awmifukef;i,frsm;ESifY,SOfum acsmif;uav;wckonf &xm;ESifY ab;csif;,SOf vdkufvmae\/ pmrsufESm [19 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
eD;uyfvmvdkuf? a0;uGmoGm;vdkuf/ usaemfum; ndKndKUudk bmaMumifY cspfrdvmovJ[k ar;MunfYaerd\/ pdwfESvHk;tdrfxJwGif bmYaMumifY olvmí jidwG,f vmaecJY&oenf;/ xdk wG,fwmpdwf ork',onf b,fqDu jrpfzsm;cH pD;0if vmcJY&oenf;/ &ufaygif;rsm;pGmyif usaemfYwGif ndKndKESiYf ywfoufonfY aomupdwfrsm; jzifY &IyfaxG;vmaecJY&onf/ olYwGJzuf oif;oif;ESifY EkEk wd\ kY ykyfa[mifp jyKvmaom owif;rsm;udk rrSeyf gapESifY[k qkawmif;ae&\/ onftcsdef tcgwGifum; bmrSs qef;jym;awmYonf r[kwf/ tzdk;wefrde;f uav;wOD; zgjzpfoGm;onfrSm xl;qef;aom taMumif;t&m r[kwf/ &ifxJwGif wajrUajrU emvmae&onf/ usaemfYrsufpd a&SUarSmufü jzpfcsif wdkif; jzpfaeMuonfwdkYudk jrifcsifwdkif; jrifae&\/ ndKndKudk,fwdkif xef;vufarSmifcdkol jzpfvmrnfudk rpdk;&drfír&/ ndKndK\ ,cktcg0ifaiGrmS ukefpdr;f tvkyfudk trsm;u 0dkif;vkyf aeMujyDjzpfojzifY [dkpOfu w0ufrSsom &dSawmYrnf/ ol 0,f,lpm;aomuf&onfY tjcm;ukefaps;EIef;rsmu ,cifuxuf q,fqrSs wdk;jrifYoGm;\/ xdkYaMumifY cktcgü ndKndKwdkYro d m;pkrSm ,cifu pm;aomuf&onfxuf tq ESpfq,fyHkwyHkrSom pm;aomufaexdkif& onf[k t"dymÜ ,f xGuf&dSaecJYayjyD/ olY tdrfaxmifpkrSm olY vkyfpmuav; tay:üom rSDwG,fae&\/ olb,fvrf;udk avSsmuf&rnfenf;/ olY0rf;a&;twGuf ol b,fvrf;udk a&G;&rnfenf;/ usaemfum; touf&SLír&/ ESvHk;om;rsm;onf touf&SLayguf0ü ydwfqdkYum touf&SLvrf;aMumif;udk jzwfawmufxm;awmYonf xif\/ rGef;vmonf? arm[dkuf EGrf;e,fvmonf/ usaemfonf &xm;ESifY ,SOfajy;vdkufvmaeaom? jidrf;at;aeaom aumif;uifjym MuD;udk armYMunfYae&if; aumif;uifjym MuD;udk yifv,fjyifMuD;[k xifvmaejyefonf/ yifv,fjyifMuD;ü rkefwdkif;MuD;rsm; wdkufcwfvm\/ MuD;rm;vSaom vdIif;vHk;MuD;rsm;onf t&m&mudk olwdkYajcaxmufatmuf cseif; um csdK;zsuf acsrIef;ypf&ef ajy;vmaeonf/ yifv,fjyifMuD;twGif;ü vdIif;oH? rkefwdkif;oH? u,fyg,lyg wpmpm atmfnnf;Mu oHrsm; qlnHyGufavm&dkufaeonf/ ndKndKYudk owday;aeonfYaeYuvnf; owday;&ef pDpOfxm;onfY pum; vHk;rsm;onf ESvHk;tdrfrS ysdKYwufvmMuum vnfacsmif;0ü wpfqdkYaeMuojzifY usaemfonf tawmfESifY ajymr&cJY/ pdwfü pl;&SpGm emusifvmcJYonf/ xdkaeYu pum;ajym&ef &dSonf[k csdef;xm;cJYojzifY ndKndKonf ausmuf yef;awmif; blwm&HkteD;rS ukuúdKyif wyifatmufwGif usaemfYudk apmifYaecJY\/ c&D;onfrsm;vnf; ra&mufao;/ usaemfonf olYtem;ü 0ifa&mufxdkifaepOfwGif olYudk bmub,fvdk pajym&rnfudk awG;ír&Edki/f olurl olYudk &nf;pm;pum; ajymrnf xifaeojzifY rsufESmwjyifvHk; &SufaoG;MuGaecJo Y nf/ usaemfYudk r&Jw&J armYMunfYvdkufjyD; &Suf&SufjzifY jyHK;jyvkdufonf/ csufcsif; olYacgif;udk iHYx k m;vdkufonf/ olESifY usaemfonf twl,SOfxdkifaeaomfvnf; cyfuGmuGmjzpf\/ ukuúdK&Gufuav;rsm;onf olYycH;k ay:wGif wifae&pf\/ usaemfonf a0;a0;&dS ukuúdKyifrsm; 0ef;&Haeaom tkwfuefzufodkY vSrf; MunfYaerdonf/ tkwfuef[dkzufü rif;ykef;awmifESifY acgif;xdawmifrMuD;um; ndKUqdkif;aeum usaemfESifY qeYfusifum at;jrae[efay:aeonf/ tay:ü wdrfwwdkufonf ajz;ajz; nifnif a&GUvsm;aeonf/ “ol bmajymrvdkYvJ” olu pwifar;vdkufoHrSm &SufaoG;MuGum? uwkefu,if jzpfum nifom Ek&Gaom uAsmav;wyk'fvkdyif/ xdkuAsmuav;onf jzLpifaom olYESvHk;om;rS ajy;qif;vmaeonf/ usaemfvnf; olYudk rnfrSscspfrdaMumif; av;eufcdkirf maom pum;vHk;rsm; &SmazGa&G;cs,fum ajymae&onf/ usaemfajymcsifaom taMumif;t&mudkrl OD;wnfír&Edkif/ usaemfonf rajym&ufEdkif jzpfae\/ pmrsufESm [20 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“udkajymcsifwmu ndKndK ... tck rif; xef;nufwifaeyvm;vdkY ar;rvdkY? b,fvdk par;&rSef; rodbl;? rar;&ufbl;/ emewfjcif; awGatmufu xef;nuf xnfY,laeyvm;vdkY? rvkyfao;zl; qdkwmudk odygw,f? 'gayr,fY rif;udk cspfwmu woufvHk; cspfoGm;&rSm rIwfvm;? woufvHk; apmifYa&SmufoGm;&rSm? 'gawmY udk qHk;jzwfyD;om;qdkwm ajymyD;bDrIwfvm;? tcGifYtcgoifYvm&if udkwdkY vuf xyfMurSmaygYuG,f? ArmvdkyDyo D oajym&if 'dkY,lMurSmrIwfvm;? &Sufraeprf;ygeJY? 'gudk t"duxm;ajymaewm r[kwfygbl;? rif; xef;nufrwifrdatmifvdkY udk ajymcsifwm rif;vJodygw,fav? xef;nufw ifMu&ifaygYuG,f arSmifcdkvkyfMu&if bmjzpfovJ qdkwmaygY? zrf;EdkifqD;EdkifwJYolrSeforSs b,favmuf rsufESmcsdK aoG;Mu&w,f qdkwmaygY? aemufqHk; wudk,fvHk;yHkyD; vdkcsifovdk oHk;ygawmYvdkY olwdkYudk xdk;tyfvdkuf&wmbJ? 'g[m xrif;iwfvdkY rvkyfrjzpfawmYvdkY vkyfMu& w,fqdkwm udk rodvdkYajymaewm r[kwfzl;aemf? udk b,folYrSvJ tjypfrwifyg bl;? udkodygw,fav .../ “'gayr,fY rif;rvkyfapcsifbl;? rif;rvkyf&bl;? 'Dvdk ydwfyifwm udk rw&m;bl;vdkYxifygw,f? 'gayr,fY rif;rvkyf&bl;? aemufqHk; waeYuG,f... rif; rvkyfvdkY r&awmYwJYaeY a&mufvm&ifvJ 'DrSmuG,f rsuf&nfr0Jprf;ygeJY? tJ'DaeY rSm udk vlowfrdrSmbJxifw,f? 'gygbJ? rajymcsifawmYbl;? armvmw,f? pdwf armvmw,f” usaemfY &ifxJwGif tarSmif t0dZÆmw&m;rsm; ydwfqdkY umqD;aeonf xif ae&onf/ jrif;vSnf;oHrsm;Mum;&jyD; arSmifcdkorm;rsm; apmpD;pGm a&muf&dSvmaeMuonf/ udka&Ta,mufESifY olYom;oHk;a,mufonf xef;vsuf rsm;udk tajy;tvTm; o,f,laeMu\/ vlpD;&xm;ay:wGif rD;&xm;&Jom;rsm;onf tdyaf ysmfcsifa,mif aqmifaeMu\/ ndKndKUrsufvHk;tdrfxJwGif rsuf&nfrsm; jynfYvmaeonf/ olu ... “olrsm; ... olrsm; ...? rvkyfygbl;? ol rvkyfeq JY dk&if rvkyfygbl; ...” ajym&if; ajymae&if; toHrsm; wkef,ifvmaeonf/ olu xdkodkYajymaepOfwGif usaemfum; olYudk wm;qD;ydwfyifrjd cif;rSm rw&m;[k xifvmaejyefonf/ odkYaomf þodkY wm;qD;ydwf yif&rnf[k xyfí qHk;jzwfaerd\/ usaemfonf cHpm;rIr&db S JESifY olYvufwzufudk zrf;qkyfudkifxm; aerd\/ ajymp&mr&dSbJESifY “ndKndK”[k wdk;wdk; nnf;nnf; ac:aerdjyefonf/
(5) *gwfAdkvfjrtHk;ESifY wGJzuf&onfYaeYrsm;wGif &xm;MuD; ausmufyef; awmif;rS jyefvSnfYxGufvmuwnf;u usaemfESifY jrtHk;onf *gwfwGJtwGif;ü xef;&nfrsm; pwifaomufvmcJYonf/ &xm;MuD;onf MuG,f0awmifteD;rS wqpf csdK;auGYvdkufum acgif;xd awmifrMuD;zufodkY ajy;ae\/ “&ifarmif& rD;&xm;zufrSm trIxrf;ae&w,fqdkwm[m acsmuf [dkbuf 'Dbuf MudK;wef;avSsmufae&wmuG? vdrfYus&if t&dk; tom;&SmvdkY&rSm r[kwfbl;/ 'gawmY odwmaygYuG [kwfbl;vm;? 'gayr,fY pm;p&m&dSvmawmY vlqdkwm pm;rSmbJ? pm;wJYvl&JY tjypf vdkY rif;ajym&Jovm;uGm/ “[m; ... [m; ... b,fajymvdkYjzpfrvJuG? yg;pyfxJ vmcGHUawmY pm;rSmaygY uGm? &ifarmif ... b,faeYtvkyfjyKwfrvJvdkY b,fawmYrS rawG;eJYuG? b,fawmY axmifusrvJ? 'gawGom vdkufawG;ae&&if &l;rSmbJ? rdkufvd kY rD;&xm;zuf0ifvkyf wmvdkY owdjyK? olrsm;wumawGxuf pm;&J&r,fuG? &J&Jawmuf pm;&J&r,f? 'gaygYuGm? at; ... at; ... [kwfw,f... [kwfw,f... rSefw,fuGm ... [m;[m;? 'dkY pm;wmav;awGawmY vlodw,f? vljrifoljrif pm;wmudk;uG? &dk;&dk;om;om; pm;MuaomufMuwmudk;uG? [m; ... [m;” usaemfum; jrtHk;ESifY wGJae&pOfü jrtHk;\ tbd"r®mrsm;udk ESpfoufaejyef onf/ “[kwfw,f rdkuf&r,f ... rdkuf&r,f”[k usaemfonf axmufcHae\/ wcgw&Hü jrtHk;onf tifawmus,fblwmrS xGufcGmvmcJYvSsif tvHyif rjyEdkiaf vmufatmif trl;&dSefvGefvmwwf \/
pmrsufESm [21] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf &xm;ay:ü ,drf;xdk;ae&if; MuufarmufqnfxdyfrS xHk;jzLjzL apwDudk vSrf;0wfjyK&if; olYudk,fol jrdKifxrif;om;MuD;[k xifoGm;jyefonf/ olonf udk,fudk tEdkifEidk frwf&if; x&yfvdkuf\/ awmifwwef; ... ajrSmifprf;&,fwdkY&pfcgacG ... ar"m0Dorifr&,fuG,f awm ... awm ... omwJYajr/ Ak'¨a[ ... a[ ... pHaewJYjrdKifwaMum ... Ekwkef;uG,f [dkpOfu ... aysmfpH&Tif ... aysmfpH&Tif opömoHk;w,f ... uG,f ... iH;k rif; ... iHk;rif; ... jrdKifawm ... awm a[mYatmf .../ “&ifarmif ... wyJYav; ... i,fuGsefMuD;? udk,fawmfjrwf&JYtoH raumif; bl;vm;Asm” “aumif;ygY ... udk,fawmfav;” olonf eufwdkifpudkqGJjyD; rif;om;MuD;[efjzifY qufí [Jaejyefonf/ “i,fuGsefMuD;? udk,fawmfjrwf aemufawmfyg;u wz0g;ruGm a&yla&csrf; urf;vSrf;vdkY ... tif; ... vdkufyg&wmrsm; aysmf&JY r[kwf vm;uGJY? aumif;ygYAsm .. aumif;ygYAsm? 'gaMumifY [dk a&S;pmqdkrsm;u qdkcw JY ,fr[kwfvm;? wynfYaumif; rSef yef;aumif;yefwJY? uJ ... igYwynfYMuD; b,fyef;yefcsifovJ ajymvdkufprf;? awmif;wJYyef;udk csufcsif; jzwfay;vdkufr,f ” anmifwdkblwmrS xGufcGmvmcJYcsdefwGifum; aemufxyf wGifwGifom; aomufvmcJYojzifY trl;&dSefrmS tjrifYqHk;odkY a&mufae&m jrtHk; onf r[efEdkib f J wcsufESpfcsuf xdk;tefvdkuf\/ “rl;w,f ... rl;w,f ... tm;MuD; rl;w,f rjrodef;udk ig,lr,f” [k atmf[pf oDqdkaejyefonf/ “rjrodef;rSm vifeJYAs” [k usaemfonf owday;ae\/ “vifvifuGm ... a[Y ... vufckyf ememwD;ay;uGm? ig ur,f? rl;w,f ... rl;w,f ... tm;MuD;rl;w,f? jrodef;vifudk ig,lr,f” “a[Y ... rl;w,f ... tm;MuD;rl; ... rl;w,f? jrodef;vifudk ig,lr,f” jrtHk;\ tuonfvnf;aumif; usaemf\ vufckyfoHonfvnf;aumif; yif;acsmif;teD;uyfvmvSsif t&deS f avsmYusoGm;onf/ “yif;acsmif;em; a&mufvmbDaemf” jrtHk;onf cyfwdk;wdk; a&&Gwfum olYxdkifcHkodkY avSsmufoGm;jyD; ',def;',dkif ESifY xdkifvdkufavonf/ yif;acsmif;odkYa&mufvSsif yif;acsmif;&Jrsm;ESifY yif;acsmif;&Hkyidk fu &xm;udk &yfwefYum &SmazGMuawmYrnfudk ESpfa,mufpvHk; owd & vmonf/ onftcsdef wGifum; &xm;MuD;wpif;vHk;rSm wdwfqdwf jidrfoufvmonf/ rat;jrifY? rat; a&TwdkYrmS yif;acsmif;&Hkyidk f atmifEdkijf rifYEiS fY rwnfYolrsm;jzpf&m tdrfomrsm; twGif;odkY 0ifa&mufykef;atmif;aeMuawmYrnf/ usaemf \ cyf&dy&f dyftrl;rSmvnf; ajypjyKvmonf/ jrtHk;onf oufjyif;wcsufcsvdkuf\/ “pOf;pm;MunfYuGm 'g[m atmifEdkijf rifY b0ifudkifwmuG? olYudk,fol &Hkyidk f qdkyD; 'kdYqDu tmPmvk,lwmuG? acG;rom; olu olYtbawGtm;udk;yD; &xm; ay:wuf&Sm? [dktaumifawGu raeYwaeYu jyLapmxD;u ta&cGH ajymif;0wfvm wm? a[Y ... jzpfc sif wmjzpfa[Y aomuf*&krpdkufbl;uG? jrtHk;uG ... tdyrf ,fa[Y ... tdyrf ,fa[Y? jrtHk;tdyfr,fa[Y” jrtHk;onf olYxdkifckaH y:wGif rSt D dyfcsvdkuf\/ yif;acsmif; awmjrdKuav;onfvnf; auGYxJwGif ay:vmaeonf/ usaemf onfvnf; wzufxdkifckaH y:wGif vSJtdyyf pfvdkufavonf/ pmrsufESm [22] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
yif;acsmif; &SmazGa&;rsm;rSm xef;vsuf wydómyif rcsef/ yif;acsmif;&Hkyidk f *syk acgif;aqmifum &xm;udk tMumMuD;&yfjyD; &SmazGzrf; qD;aewwf\/ wcgw&HwGif yif;acsmif;rS &SmazGzrf;qD;jyD; &xm;MuD;xGufcGmvmcsdefwGif usaemfonf oif;oif;wkdYtem;ü a&mufaewwf \/ usaemfonf arSmifcdkorm; rsm;\ qkawmif;arwåm ydkYoMuoHrsm;udk teD;uyf Mum;ae&wwfonf/ rnGefY&ED SifY rnGefYwifwdkY nDtronf usaeaom rsuf&nfrsm;udk vlrjrif ap&ef olwdkYrsufESmrsm;udk tjyifzufodkY vSnfYxm;onf/ “uJ ... bmvkyfpm;MurvJ? t&if;vJ jyKwfyD” ajymaeoHrsm; Mum;&onf/ oufjyif;csoHrsm; Mum;&\/ &xm;wGJay:wGif pdwfrcsrf;omrIrsm;onf wae&mrS wae&modkY awmrD;vdk ul;pufjyefYEYo SH Gm;aeonf/ wGJay:wGif jidrfoufaevsuf waiGUaiGUavmifae onf/ rat;oG,f\ &dIufoHudk Mum;&onf/ oif;oif;ESifY EkEkwdkYvnf; olwdkY emewfjcif;rsm;udkyg qGJcsxm;vdkuf MuojzifY usaemfYa&SUwGif idkrrJY JYjzpfaeonf/ rat;jrifYEiS fY rat;a&TwdkYonf tdro f mrsm;xJrS xGufvmMu\/ rD;&xm;&J wyfMuyf ydefyed fyg;yg; oabmaumif;onfY tzdk;MuD;onf ykwD; pdwfae&if; olYtdwfuyfxJrS aiGrsm;udk xkwf,ljyD; rat;jrifYEiS fY rat;a&TwdkY xGufvmaomtcg jyefay;aeonf/ “'gaMumifY igajymwm? eifwdkYyku d fqH r,lyg&apeJYvdkY? yD;awmY igwdkYudk tEdkiu f sifYyD; igwdkYckaH tmufrSm eifwdkY[mawG vmxm;Muwm? ckvdkrdawmY raumif;bl;? ompdeftaMumif;vJ eifwdkYodw,f rIwfvm;[? tvkyfjyKwf&if eifwdkY vmvkyfauGs ;aerSm r[kwfbl;? igwdkYudkvnf; jyefoem;MuygtHk;[m ... ? ckawmY vcsD; ... igwdkYucsnfY eifwdkYudkoem;ae&wm” ndKndKrSm xef;vsufwifol r[kwfojzifY ... þpdwfysufp&mrsm;rSm olESifY rqdkif[k xif&aomfvnf; olUxHodkYyg ul;pufaeum olonfvnf; rsufESm rvef;awmYay/ usaemfonf olai;MunfYae&m yif;uefawmY awmifwef;MuD;udk MunfYae &if; ...“b,fawmY olvJ xef;vsufwifrvJ”[k awG;ae cJ\ Y / awmifwef;MuD;rSm at;jidrf;ae[ef toGifum; ay:aeavonf/ wGJzufodkY rsufESm jyefvSnfYvdkufvSsif olESiu fY saemfonf rsufESmcsif; qHkaerdMujyefonf/ olYrsufESmuav;rSm EGrf;e,faeaomfvnf; olonf jyHK;jy&ef MudK;yrf;aeonf/ olYrsufvHk;rsm;rSm ,cifuvdk &SefYraeawmYay/ olonf ,ckwcPüum; vlMuD;uav;vdk odrfarGUaeonf/ olYrsufvHk;rsm;onf ndKYysae\/ olYpdwfxJrS usaemfYudk pum;aygif; ajrmufrsm;pGm vSrf;ajymaeovdk xifrdae&jyefonf/ tjcm;olrsm;u xef;vsufrsm; todrf;cH&ojzifY ESvHk;aMuuGJaeMuovdk .. olonfvnf; xef;vsufrwif&ojzifY olwdkY pm;0wf aea&;rSm rnfrSs tajctae ,dkifeYaJ e&jyDudk ajymjyaeovdk cHpm;ae&jyefonf/ usaemfvnf; olYtay:ü rnfrSs wG,fwmaerdjyDudk olYrsufESmuav;udk ai;MunfYae&if; &SmazGMunfYaerd\/ olYrdom;pk pm;0wfaea&; udk usaemfwm0ef ,lEdkirf nfY aeY&ufrsm;um; arSsmfvifYcsufr&dSatmif a0;aejrJ jzpfonfudkom xyfjyefwvJvJ awG;vmaerd \/ tcGit fY a&; omaecdkufwGif rdkufrdkufuef;uef; aiG&SmvdkufvSsifum; bmrSsMumvdkufrnfr[k wf/ xdkodkYyif vkyfoifYaejyD[k awG;vm rdjyefonf/ twlaevdkpdwfrsm;onf wm;r& qD;rEdkif &ifxJwGif jzpfxGef;ae \/ tMuifvifr,m; tjzpfjzifY wtdk;wtdrfwGif twl ae&jcif;onfyif edAmÁ ef jzpfvdrfYrnf[k awG;aerdonf/ “olrsm;awmYav ... odvm;? b,fawmYrS xef;vsufrwifbl;? iwfaoygap? 'gavmuf pdwfrcsrf;om&wJY tvkyfudk b,fawmYrS rvkyfbl;” olonf usaemf Mum;&Hkom pum;udk cyfwdk;wdk; ajymaecJY\/
pmrsufESm [23] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
ukvm;arsmwefwm;udk jzwful;aeqJü &xm;oHonfvnf; qlnHaeonf/ olYrsufvHk;tdrfürl [efaqmifwif;xm;&aom rsuf&nf rsm;onf tay:,HodkY vdIufwufvmaeMujyefjyD/ þaemufydki;f &ufrsm;wGifum; olonfvnf; usaemfESifY qufqH&mü &SefY raeawmYay/ cspfolrsm;tjzpfjzifY ayGUzuf,k,jcif; rjyKbl;Muaomfvnf; olESifY usaemfonf wa,mufrsufESmudk wa,mufMunfYum jydKifwl jyHK;vmwwfMu onf/ wa,mufpdwfxJrS ajymaeaom pum;rsm;udk wa,mufpdwftm&HkjzifY Mum;odae&ovdkyif xifvmrdMuonf/ olonf olYtem;ü usaemfvmxdkifwwfojzifY olYeHab;cHkay:wGif awmif;wckckwifxm;um usaemfYtwGuf ae&mvkyfxm;wwfonf/ usaemfvmrS z,f&Sif;xdkif&onf/ usaemfvmxdkifvSsif olonf arSsmfai;aeaom rsufvHk;rsm; jzifYMunfY um rodrom jyHK;jywwf\/ Mumaomf usaemfonfvnf; ol&dS&modkY tvmrsm;vmonf/ usaemf rvmvSsifvnf; olonf jywif;0rS vSrf;vSrf;jyD; usaemf&dS&modkY arSsmfMunfYonf/ aeYpOfvdkyif usaemfonf olwdkY xrif;pm;csdefwGif olwdkYEiS fY 0ifa&mufpm;onf/ anmifwdkudk ausmfvmcJYvSsif olwdkY xrif;xkyfrsm; ajzpm;avY&dSonf/ olonf usaemfYtwGufyg xrif;[if;rsm; ydkxkyfvmonf/ anmifwdkblwmü [if;rsm;0,fjyD; usaemfonf olwdkYwGJqDodkY wufvmcJYonf/ olYeHab; ae&mvGwfwGif 0ifxdkifonf/ anmifwdkrS xGufvmjyD; xrif;xkyfjznfum ESpfa,muftwl rsufESmcsif;qdkif? vufcsif;qHk pm;&csdefrsm;ü...usaemfYpdwfxJwGif MuifpOD; tMuifvifr,m; vdk ,HkMunfaerdco JY nf/ xdktcgwGif olYrsufESmrSmvnf; &SufaoG; MuGaejyefonf/ usaemfonf [if;rsm;udk olYzufodkY wdk;ay;vdkufonf/ olonf rsufvTm MuD;yifYjyD; usaemfUudkMunfYonf/ ol Y rsufawmifaumYMuD;rsm; onf pif;usae\/ olYEIwfcrf;rsm;rSm tjyHK;&dyfrsm; a0Yaeonf/ oluvnf; [if;wzwfq,fjyD;rS usaemfYzufodkY ydkYray;&JojzifY tv,fwGif csxm;onf/ usaemf ,lpm;vdkufrS jyHK;vdkufonf/ “atmf ... olwdkYrsm;usawmYvJ MuifemaevdkufMuwm” [k oif;oif;onf wzufrS cyfwdk;wdk;ajymaeum EkEku &,faeonf/ xdktcgwGifum; ndKndKonf csufcsif; acgif;ikHUoGm;\/ “'gaygYAsm ... cspfpcifp rIwfvm;” usaemfuvnf; cyfwdk;wdk; jyefaemufaeonf/ ndKndKonf rpm;&J raomuf&J jzpfaecJY\/ “ol b,fawmYrS xrif;vmrpm;eJY”[k acgif;iHkY&if; ajymaeonf/ usaemfonf MunfEl;pGm &,faerd\/ xrif;pm;jyD; vufaq;&mü usaemfonf olESijfY ydKifwl wcGufwnf;aq;&ef apmifYaevdkufonf/ olYvufEdIufxm;rS usaemfYvufrsm;udk EdIufvdkufonf/ olonf vufrsm;udk uref;uwrf; jyef&kyfvdkufjyD; usaemfYudk rsufapmif;xdk; Munfo Y nf/ olYrsufvHk; 0if;pufpufMuD;rsm;rSm ta&mif&Te;f vufum &,farmaeonf xif&onf/ tifawmus,fodkY a&mufvSsif “ol oGm;awmYav” [k ndKndKonf wdk;wdk; owday;wwf\/ a&SUwGif aemufqHk; ausmufyef;awmif; blwmodkY qdkufa&mufawmYrnf jzpfojzifY usaemf olwdkYtem;rS rcGm írjzpf/ usaemfonf *gwfwGJodkY ajymif;a&TUoGm;&rnfudkyif olESiu fY saemf a0;uGmoGm;Muovdk pdwfü xifaerdjyefonf/ oluvnf; usaemfYudk olYtem;rS cGJcGm oGm;apYcsifyHkr&/ usaemfYpdwfü olYtem;rS rcGmcsifjzpfaeyHkudkvnf; olonf odaeyH&k jyefonf/ olYEIwfcrf;rsm;rSm usaemfYudk ESpfodrfYap&ef jyHK;&dyf&yd fvkyfxm;onf/ usaemfonf olYtem;rSxvmcJYpOf olonf usaemfYudk vdkufMunfYaejyef onf/ usaemf tayguf0odkYra&mufrD oif;oif;ESifY EkEkwdkYonf wckckajymjyD; wdk;wdk; usdwf&,faeonf/ pmrsufESm [24] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“tJ'DvdkrajymygeJY[,f ...” ndKndK\ajymoHudk roJruGJ Mum;&onf/ “tr,f ... rdndK&,f? olYvlxdawmY emwwfvdkufwm? vGefudk vGefvGef; w,f? rkef;vma&m? 'dkYvJ &nf;pm;xm;bl;ygw,f? 'Davmuf roJygbl;” “oJ&w,fawmf” aemufzufrS ndKndK\ cyftkyt f kyf &,fvdkufoHrSm oHvdkufoH &Tifaeavonf/
(6) ukefpdr;f onfruav; ndKndK xdkrS ESif;onf;xefvmaom aemufydkif;&ufrsm;wGifum; &xm;MuD; ckwfarmif;aeyHkrmS rEdkiaf om 0efav;MuD;wckudk wnnf;nnf; wnLnL qGJ&ke;f oGm; ae&onfESifY wlvmcJYonf/ awmifwef;MuD;rsm;onfvnf; jrLrsm; qdkif;wGvmaeonf/ tjyefc&D;wGif a&Tvifyef;blwmodkY a&mufvmcJYvSsif &xm;wzufab;&dS ae0ef;onf 0ifvkqJqJ usqHk;vmaeonf/ usaemfonfvnf; ndKndKYteD; xdkifckw H ckay:ü xdkifae&if; aiGpm&if;tif;rsm;udk wGufcsufae&if; ndKndKYtwGuf pdwfaomujzpfp&m rsm;udk awG;vmae& onf/ olrajymjybJESifY ol&ifqdkifajz&Sif;ae&aom tcuftcJrsm;udk usaemfonf odaecJY\/ olYtwGif;pdwfrS tvif;tarSmifrsm;onf olYtjyKtrl? olY rsufESmjyifay:wGif ay:aecJYonf xifonf/ þ &ufaygif;rsm;pGm twGif;wGif olYrsufESmrSm waeYxufwaeY ydkrdk rSdefazsmYvmaeonf/ olYrsufvHk;rsn;ay:rS awmufyrI ta&mifrsm;onf rdSefazsmYoGm;\/ ol\ tm;i,fpdwfrSm rsufESmjyifay:wGifvmí xifaeonf/ olonf olYtaz:rsm; &,fp&m ajymaeonfudk &,faomfvnf; ESpfEpS fjcdKufjcdKuf &,faeonfudk rawGY&awmY/ [uf[ufyufyuf pum;ajymonfudkvnf; rawGY&/ twGif;pdwfrsm; tm;i,fvmaomtcg tjyif&kyfonfvnf; wjznf;jznf; odrfi,fvmaeonf / olonf wa,mufwnf; tjyifzufodkYMunfYum ai;aewwf\/ r,fr,f &&awG;awmum tawG;ü epfjrKyfaeyHrk sdK;vnf; r[kwf/ tm;i,fojzifY olY ycHk; pGef; ESpfzufonfyif edrfYusoGm;onf xif&onf/ ol \ tem;zGmpjyKvmonfY aq;a&mifrdSefaejyDjzpfaom tusÐteDrSmvnf; ol\ tm;i,faerIaMumifY ydkí pkwfcsmaeonfxif&onf/ wzufodkYvSnfYaepOf olYausmzufrS jrifae&aomfvnf; usaemfonf olYrsufvHk;tdrfxJwGif rsuf&nfrsm; jynfYaeonfudk cHpm; jrifae&onf/ qDrvdrf;Edkifaom olYacgif;rS qHyifrsm;onf ava0SYojzifY wzGmzGm vGifY ae\/ tkef;qDaps;onfvnf; q,fqrSs jrifYaecJYjyD/ wcg w&Hürl olonf yJqDrsm; okwfvmcJY\/ yJqDeHYxGufvmrnfudk olonf pdk;&drfaomujzpfaeum olY udk,fudk usaemfESit fY a0;qHk; ae&ma&mufatmif wdk;aeonf/ yJqDeHY xGufvm rnfudk &Sufaeaomfvnf; olYacgif;rS yJqDeHYrmS a0Yaeonf/ olY&ifxJü jzpfaeonfY aomursm;udkrl olu ajymjyaeovdk cHpm;ae& onf/ þ&ufrsm;twGif;ü tyef;emjzpfaeaom olYrdcif \ tajctaerSmvnf; aq;0g;roHk;EdkifawmYojzifY ydí k qdk;&Gm;vmaeonf/ “tarYzYdk aq;wzHk az:csifw,f? aq;wzHk az:Edki&f ifawmY aumif;rSm? aq;az:zdkY ydkufqHb,fuvmrvJ? ydkufqHawG rdk;ay:uusvm &if aumif;rSmaygYav” ol awG;aeayrnf/ “tarY aq;wzHkqdk ig;usyf? tar odyfydeaf ebD? nu tar acsmif;qdk; vdkufwm wnvHk;bJ? armvJ armaew,f? igEdSyfay;& ao;w,f? tarY&iftu Hk tom;rS r&dSawmYwmbJ? tom;awG b,fa&mufukefygvdrfYrvJ? armif&if b,foGm; qGrf;cHoGm; a&b,f oGm; aMumifcsDoGm;qdkwmvdk xifw,f? rqdkpaumif; qdkpaumif;aemf? igaq;raz:EdkifwmeJY tar aooGm;Edkifw,f? b,fr,fqdkvm; xrif;iwfvdkY auGs;Owl;pm;Muwm wGif;xJvdrfYuswm tm;jywfaewm jyefrwuf EdkifwmeJY aooGm;w,fwJY? oa&mMuD;cdkif;w,f qdkwmaygYaemf? oa&mMuD;qdkwm r,f'vifvdk[mrsdK;udk ac:wmaerSmxifw,f? tJ'gu wa&mbJ ... pmrsufESm [25 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“'geJYbJ tar aocsifaooGm;rSm? at;av vlawGaoaeMuwmbJ rIwfvm;? jrefjref aoMuawmYvJ jrefjref 0#fuGswfwmaygYav? tar raocifyg bl;? reufu igvmwkef;ubJ tdyf&mxJuvSrf;yD; igYudk tm;udk;MunfY MunfYaew,f? igYudk ajrSmfaer,f? igvm&if aq;ygvmr,fvdkY atmufarYaerSm? taru ajymw,f? xef;nuf av;ig;ydóm wifvmcJYaygYwJY? xef;nuf av;ig; ydómqdk&if av;ig;usyf&wm? aq;wzHk az:Edkiw f maygYav? aumifuav; pmtkyf0,f cdkif;wmvnf; r0,fEdkib f l;? tdrfus&if rD;xGef;p&m a&eH qDvJ ukefaew,f ...” “xef;nufwif&if vlwumudk acsmYae&wm? raumif;wJYrde;f rjzpfoGm;rSm? yD;awmY olwdkYzrf;w,fqdkwm igYypönf; rIwfvm;? igYypönf; udk olwdkYay;vdkuf&rSmvm;? igray;bl;? arSmifcdkvkyfw,fqdkwm raumif;ygbl;av? &xm;ayD; ae&wmawmif udk,fYudk raumif;wJY rdef;rv,fvdk vlawGu MunfYaewm? arSmifcdk tvkyf[m raumif;wJYtvkyf? i&JMuD;&SpfxyfrSm cH&r,fYtvkyf? tukodkvftvkyf? i&Jusw,fqdkwm yGufyGufqlaewJY qDtdk;MuD;xJ udk,fwHk;vHk;cGswfyD; qif;&wm? aMumufp&m aumif;vdkufwm? i&J teD;uav;qdk&ifawmY i&Jt;dk xJuqDawG oGm;cyfvmcJY ... awmifwGif;MuD;rSm a&mif;&&if aumif;rSm? tdk ... tJwmvJ rjzpfao;ygbl;? qDawGudk zrf;MutHk;rSmaygY? qDqdkwmvJ arSmifcdkukefbJ rIwfvm; ...” olonf tawG;awG tvsOfjywfyHkr&dS/ jrdKUopfrS vGefvmcJYvSsif eDndKYaecJYaom ae0ef;MuD;onfvnf; pkyfpyk fjrKyf 0ifoGm;cJYonf/ tarSmif&dyrf sm; oef;vmaejyefonf/ þ&ufrsm;wGifum; olYudk jrifawGYae&yHkrSm pdwfxdcdkufzG,f&m yef;cDsum;wcsyfudk MunfYae&ovdkyif/ olY tem;ü xdkifae&if; usaemf onfyif touf&SLusyfum EGrf;e,fvmae&onf/ olESifY usaemfum; rjrif&aomMudK;wacsmif;jzifY qufEG,fxm;um olcHpm; ae& onfwdkYrmS vnf; ... xdkMudK;rSwqifY usaemfYudk vmí &dkufcwfaeonf/ tapmydkif;&ufrsm;u oljyHK;vSsif olYyg;csdKifYcGufuav;ESpfck tay:ü ,drf; cgvIyf&Sm;um wzswfzswf ta&mifvufaeaom tjyma&mif ausmufuav;rsm; jrSKyfEHx S m;onfY em;qGJuav;onf aemufydki;f olYrsufESm ndSK;rdSefvmcJYaom aeYrsm;wGifrl ta&mifrSdeaf zsmYum npf xdkif;vmaeovdkyif/ waeYaomtcgwGif þem;qGJuav;udkyif olYyg;ay:ü rawGY&awmYay/ em;awmif;r&dSawmYonfY aemufydki;f &ufrsm;ü olYrsufESmrSm ydkí rdSefvmcJY\/ awmufyrI &Tifvef;rIudkvnf; rawGY&/ olYrsufESmuav; ay:rS tvSrsm;onfyif wjznf;jznf; aysmufuG,foGm;aeonf xifonf/ olYem;awmif; cGswfa&mif;vkduf&onfY&ufurl olY&ifxJwGif 0efav;MuD; wck acwårSs usoGm;um olonf vef;qef;aecJY \/ olYtar wGuf aq;ykvif; rsm;ESifY olYarmifuav;twGuf pmtkyfrsm;udk 0,fvmcJYonf/ xdkaeYu olYtem;odkY usaemfoGm;xdkifaomtcg olonf &Tifvef;pGm jyHK;&,fum usaemfYudk aq;nTef;rsm; zwfcdki;f aecJYonf/ “'g armfvjrdKif OD;a&TaMu;aq;aemf ... tppf[kwf&JYvm;? taru tpwkef; u 'gudkaomufwm? aemuf aq;jywfoGm;vdkY? ckawmY q,fykvif;udk wcgxJ 0,fvmcJYw,f? eJeJvJ a&SmYay;vdkufw,f? qdkifu aq;nTef;vnf; zwfjyvdkuf ao;w,f? arYoGm;w,f? xyf zwfjyprf;ygtHk;? ooHeoH uGJatmifzwfyg/ aoaocsmcsm rSwfoGm;rS? aumifuav;u pmodyfzwfwwfao;wm r[kwfvdkY zwfcdki;f wmyg? ajz;ajz;vJ zwfygaemf? pmzwfjrefwmudkvJ odyfMuGm;raeeJY” usaemf aq;nTef;zwfjyaepOfü olYrsufESmudka&SUwdk;um pl;pdkufem;axmif aeonf/ roJuGJvSsif jyefzwfcdki;f aeonf/ oeyfcg; cyfyg;yg; vdrf;xm;aom olYrsufESmuav;rSm csKdjrpGm jyHK;xm;aeonf/ olonf aq;ykvif;rsm;udkvnf; rMumrMum xkwfudkifMunfYaecJYonf/ aq;ykvif;rsm;udk udkifMunfYaepOfü jyHK;&dyfvTrf;aeonfY olYrsufESmrSm awmufy aecJY\/ trSefü þtjyHK;&dyfrsm;onf wcPtwGufomjzpf\/ rMumrDyif olY tvdkvdk jidrf;aooGm;&ayrnf/ “ol emewfoD;a&mif;wm b,favmufusefrSmvJ? oHk;av;usyfaygY? tJwmeJY b,fvdk pm;aomufaevdkY &rvJ? 'gjzifY bmvkyfrvJ? bmvkyf&rSmvJ? pdwfarmp&mawGyg? 'Dpdwfarmp&mawGudk bmrS rawG;wmaumif;w,f” usaemfum; ykdí Murf;xef;cufxefvmrnfY &ufrsm;udkapmifYae&if; þ &xm;MuD;ay:ü vdkufygae&onf/ eHeufydki;f wGif anmifwdk blwmvGefvmvSsif olwdkYEiS fY xrif;vufqHk pm;aejrJjzpfonf/ xrif;wqkyfxJ twlpm;ae&aomfvnf; þxrif;csufvmcJYonfh qefrSm olYemewfoD;a&mif;& jrwfaiGxJrS jcdK;jcH0,f,l&onfudk awG;rdonf/ olYxrif;xkyfxuf wefbdk; ydkrsm;aom [if;rsm;udk rdrdu 0,faomfvnf; olYxrif;udk rsdKrusEdkif/ pmrsufESm [26 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
aemufydki;f &ufrsm;wGif olYxrif;rsm;rSm qefuGJa&mcsufaom xrif;rsm; jzpfvmcJYjyDudk usaemf owdrxm;ovdk aevmcJYonf/ xdk&ufrsm;ü xrif;pm;aeMupOfwGif olonf acgif;udkiUHk xm;onf/ rsufpd rsufESmysufaeonf/ tcgwdkif;uvdk olYpum;oHrsm;udk vnf; rMum;&awmY/ w&ufxufw&uf xrif;0dkif;rSm ydkí wdwfqdwfjidrfoufvmcJYonf/ xrif;twl pm;ae&pOfü aysmf&Tif MunfEl;pdwfrsm;yif r&dSawmY ay/ xrif;0dkif;rsm; rSm tawG;udk,fpDjzifY jidrfoufvmaecJYonf/ “oHk;vGef;wif” xrif;udk pm;&onfYaeYurl þxrif;0dkif;\ jidrfoufaerI rSm pdwfxdcdkufzG,f&m jzpfvm&onf/ xrif;xkyfudk ajzaeuwnf;u ndKndKYvufacsmif;uav;rsm;onf wqwfqwfwkefaecJYonf/ olonf MudK;rsm;udk cyf&G&GajzaecJY\/ &Suf&t GHY m;i,f aeonf/ olY xrif;rsm;udk vltrsm; rjrifawGYrD þae&mrS xGufajy;oGm;csifae onf/ olYrsufESmrSm ydkíarS;rdSefae\/ bmrSsrjrif? bmrSsrMum;? ua,mifuwrf; jzpfaeovdkyif/ olYrsufvHk;tdrfü rsuf&nfrsm; 0JvmawmYrnf xif&onf/ usaemfonfvnf; olYudkrMunfYbJ usaemf0,fvmcJYonfY [if;rsm;udk oGufoGufajzcsvdkuf \/ olYtazmfrsm;onfvnf; ol ydkí &Suf&GHUtm;i,frnf pdk;MuojzifY olYudkrMunfY/ qefcsnfY rcsufEdkiaf wmYojzifY yJESiYaf jymif; a&mMudK&onfY xrif;udk EdIufpm;ae&pOfwGifvnf; usaemfonf bmrSsrjzpfovdk pm;ae& onf/ olYxrif;xkyftwGif;ü tcgwdkif;ygaeus [if;uav; wckckyif rygawmYay/ olonf acgif;udkrazmfawmY/ olYrsufvHk;tdrfü rsuf&nfrsm; jynfYaeonfudk zHk;uG,f&eftwGuf olonf jiKwfoD;wawmifYvHk; 0g;pm; aeonf/ “pyfvdkufwm”[k olu toHwkefwkefjzifY ajymonf/ acgif;armYvdkufonfYtcdkufü i&kwfoD;pyfonfESifY a&mjyD; olYrsufvHk;rsm; ay:wGif rsuf&nfrsm; jynfYvmaeonf/ xdkrsuf&nfrsm;udk cHpm;em;vnfaeonfY usaemfYpdwfürl xdcdkufemusifvmaeonf/ usaemfYpdwftm&Hkürl &xm;MuD; ckwfarmif;vmaeoHonfvnf; aysmufuG,foGm;onf/ usaemfrSm rD;&xm;zufqdkif&m wm0efcHwOD;[laom todvnf; aysmufuG,faeonf/ usaemfonf “tiwf” 0w¦Krsm;udk owd&ae\/ *sufvef'ef\ “acsmufurf;yg;MuD;atmufrS vlom;rsm;” udk awG;rdvm onf/ xdkvlom;rsm;onf ouf&dSxif&Sm; vIyf&Sm;vmMu\/ zwfaumif;&Hka&;onfh 0w¦Krsm; r[kwf/ usaemfonf ndKndKUrsufESmudk rjrif &ufawmYay/ usaemfonfvnf; i&kwfoD;wawmifYudk aumuf,ljyD; 0g;pm;ypfvdkuf\/ rsuf&nfrsm; 0Jvmonf/ “odyfpyfw,f”[k olYudk ulajymvdkufonf/ olonf usaemfu olt&Sufajyap&ef olajymonfudk cHpm;vdkuf&jyefonf/ xrif;udk wGifwGifom; iHkUpm;aeaom olYrsufESmrSm idkcs vdkufawmYrvm; xifvmae&jyefonf/ “rxl;awmYbl;uG,f? xef;nufwifawmY? wacguf ig;ydómavmuf wifawmY” [k ajymcsvdkufcsifonf/ þenf;vrf;rSwyg; tjcm;vnf; r&dSEkid f/ ol xef;vsuf wifaqmifvmcJY&vSsifvnf; olonfvnf; tjcm; jzLpif&dk;om;aom rdef;uav;rsm;vdk trJzsufcH&um a&wdrfepfum rxl;awmYjyD[k ZGwfESpfum zmxufqdk;aomb0odkY usa&mufoGm;&rnfudkvnf; rawG;í r&/ usaemfonf oif;oif;ESifY EkwdkYudk vSrf;MunfYrd\/ þrdef;uav;rsm;rSm a,mufsm;ta&twGuf ig;q,fxufrenf;ESifY tdyfcY&J jyD;udk odae&\/ rat;oG,f? wifwif? rat;jrifY? rat;a&T/ xdkrsufESmrsm;ESifYwuG tjcm;aom rsufESmrsm;onf wckESiw fY ck a&maxG;oGm; Mu\/ olwdkYum; acsmufurÇm;MuD;atmufrS wpmpm atmfaeMuaom vlom;rsm; jzpfMuonf[k cHpm;ae&onf/ pmrsufESm [27 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
(7) *gwfAdkvf OD;atmifMuD;ESifY wm0efusonfY &ufrsm;ürl *gwfwJGay:wGif wzufcHkrmS xdkif&if; OD;atmifMuD; \ pdwftm&HkrS ydkYoaeaom arwåmrsm;aMumifY xifonf? usaemfY pdwfESvHk;om;rsm;onfvnf; tylxJjzwfoef;ae&mrSyif at;jidrf;vmaeonf/ &ifxJrS tylaomursm;onf &xm;ESifY ,SOfvdkufygvmaeaom yif;uefawmY awmifwef;MuD;qDodkY vGifYpOfoGm;Muonf/ OD;atmifMuD; xHrS pdwftiftm;rsm; &&dSaeovdk xifae&onf/ &xm;MuD; w*sKef;*sKef; ckwfarmif;aevsuf? *gwfwGJrSm ,drf;xdk; cg,rf; vsuf&dSaomfvnf; olonf jidrfoufum ykwD; udkom rSefrSef pdwfaeavY&dSonf/ rsufvHk;rsm;udk rSw d fxm;onf/ ol pum;ajymaomtcgwGifvnf; ajz;ajz;av;av; ajymwwfonf/ olYudk usaemf &onfYaiGxJrS cJaG 0ay;vSsif olonf acgif;udk nifnifomom ,rf;jyonf/ “igYvceJY ig pm;avmufygw,fuGm” [k ajz;ajz;av;av; ajymaeonf/ “olwdkYcrsm rsm;udkvnf; t&rf;zrf;vm; qD;vm; rvkyfygeJYuGm? odyfrsm;rsm;pm;pm; rwifMuzdkYbJ owday;yg? awmf&Hkwef&Hkwif wmawmY ydkufqHvnf; awmif;raeygeJY? wwfEdki&f if rodcsifa,mifaqmifaeuGm? vlqdkwm avmbom; awG rIwfvm;? ololigig ydkufqHawmY vdkcsifMuwmaygYav ...? onf;ajcMudKuf [kwfvm;? ,loifYwJY tcgusawmY ,laygY? aMumufvJ aMumufraeygeJYuGm? 'djyifu wufzrf;Mu jyKMuvdkY rdawmYvJrdMuaygY? igawmY aMumufvJ raMumufygbl;? at;at;aevdkufwmbJ? igY&xm;ay:rSm arSmifcdkawG trsm;MuD; rdcsifvJ rdrSmbJ/ arwåmw&m; yGm;rsm;wwfzdkY vdkw,f armif&ifarmif? arwåmxm;wwfzdkY vdkw,f” usaemfYpdwfrsm;rSmvnf; olajymonfwdkYudk ESpfjcdKufvmaeonf/ vlYbHkavmuMuD;wGif vlom;taygif;onf OD;atmifMuD;vdk yk*¾Kd vfrsm;om jzpfaeMuvSsif tm;vHk; jidrf;csrf;aeMuayvdrfYrnf/ vlvlcsif; trJvdkufaejcif;? vlvlcsif; owfjzwfpm;aomufaejcif;wdkYonf csKyfjidrf;um tylaomuwdkYonf vnf; aysmufuG,foGm;Muayrnf/ ,ckum; usaemfonf OD;atmifMuD; teD;ü aeonfY tcdkuftwefYuav; wGifon tylcyfodrf;rS uif;jidrf;ae[ef cHpm;&\/ usef tcsdefaygif; ajrmufrsm;pGmrSmrl bmrSsvnf;rvkyfwwf? MuHvnf; rMuHpnfEdki?f armyef;ae&\/ tdrfjyefa&mufonfY ntcgrsm;wGif rnfrSs yifyef;vmcJYonfjzpfap usaemfonf tdyí f &kwfw&uf raysmfEdki/f awmifwGif;MuD;wjrdKYvHk; tdyfarmus oGm;um avmuvlYbHkMuD;wckvHk; touftoH uif;rJYoGm;onf[k xifae&csdefrsm;wGif usaemfonf usaemfY touf&SLoH rsm;udk qlnHpGm Mum;ae&\/ xdktcsdefwGifum; tjyifzufwGif ESif;rsm;arSmifyde;f ae\/ aumif;uifjyifwGif wG,f&mrJY Mu,fuav;rsm;onf wzswfzswf vufae Mu\/ oGyftrdk;ay:odkY ESif;pufESif;aygufrsm; wazsmufazsmuf aMuGusaeoHrSm us,favmifaom toHMuD;rsm; tjzpfjzifY cHpm;ae &onf/ olYudk r,lEdki?f vufrxyfEdkiaf o;bJvsufESifY cspfa&;qdkxm;cJYrdonfudk usL;vGefxm;rdaom jypfrIMuD;wckvdk xifaerdjyefonf/ olY rdom;pk wm0efudkr,lEdkiv f Ssif usaemfwdkYum; tdrfaxmifjyKEdkirf nf r[kwf/ olYrdcifvlrrmMuD;? zcif rsufrjrifMuD;? armif ausmif;om;uav;/ þ vlom; 'ku©onfrsm;udk olonfvnf; wm0efrJY ypfy,fxm;cJY&ufrnf r[kwf/ usaemfonfvnf; ta0;&dS rdz tdrfaxmifpkMuD;\ wm0efw0uf rSs,lae&ol? vpOf aiGrsm;wifyadkY xmufyHYae&ol? nDuav;wa,mufudk ausmif;xm;ay;ae& ol/ olYrdom;pkwm0efudk olYarmifav;u ,lEdkirf nfYaeY? usaemfY nDudk tm;udk; jyK&rnfYaeYrsm;rSm a0;uGmvSrnf r[kwf[k awG;ae&\/ xdktcsdef odkYwdkifatmif apmifYarSsmfae&rnfudk pdwfü armae&onf/ aeYcif;zuf &xm;ay:wGifvnf; usaemfonf olYeHab;üxdkif&if; pum; ajymp&mr&dSjzpfum jidrfoufae&\/ “'dkY reufjzefum vufxyfypf&atmifav” [k ajymvdkufcsif\/ xdkodkY rajymEdkifaomtcg tjcm; ESpfoufp&m pum; 0gusrsm;udk &SmazG rawGYawmYay/
pmrsufESm [28 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olESiu fY saemfonf pum;ajymp&mrsm; ukefcrf;aeovdkyif wxdkifckHwnf; xdkifjyD; wa,mufudkwa,muf MunfYvnf; rMunfYrd/ olonfvnf; oHvrf; eHab; awmifajcmufukef;uav;rsm;udk pdwfrygbJESifY MunfYvmcJYonf/ þ&ufrsm;üum; olYtajctaerSm tqdk;&Gm;qHk; jzpfaecJYayjyD/ oif;oif;ESifY Eku olYudk xef;vsufrsm; wacguf av;ig;ydómwif &ef wdkufwGef;vmMuonfudk olonf ai;um rsuf&nfa0Yum em;axmifcJY\/ bmrSs jyefrajym/ rMum;ovdkyif jidrfoufae\/ aemufqHk; ajymvGef;ru ajymvmrS olonf oufjyif;csaecJY\/ “rvkyfzl;? olrsm;ypönf;udk xef;nufwvHk;awmif olwdkY r,l&bl;” olonf rsuf&nf0JaevsufjzifY jyefajymcJY\/ xdktaMumif;rsm;udk oif;oif;ESifY EkEkwdkYonf olYuG,f&mü usaemfYudk jyef ajymMuaomtcg usaemfonfvnf; bmjyefajym&rnfrod/ jidrfoufaecJY\/ “udk&ifarmifMuD; rvkyfeq JY dkvdkY rdndK rvkyfwmyg? udk&ifarmifMuD; ajymygtHk;? olYwdkYtar tawmfrrmaewm? usrwdkUu tdrfe;D em;csif; qdkawmY rjrifcsifbJ jrif rMum;cifbJMum;ae&wm? olvJ wifyapaygY&Sif ...? trsm;vJ 'DvdkbJ vkyfpm;ae&wm? usrwdkYu udk,fydkif v,f,m &dSwmrS rIwfbJ? trsm; rdk;cg;a& aomufawmY udk,fvJaomufaygY” usaemfonf oif;oif;\ rsufESmuav;udk pdkufMunfYaecJY\/ ck ... ol pum;ajymaeonfY olYEIwfcrf;yg;yg;uav;udk ol rESpfjrdKY rowDbJvsufESifY vlaygif; ig;q,fausmfu &rufMuD;pGm pkyferf;oGm;cJYjyD;jyDudk owd&aecJYonf/ “tckMunfYav ... ol xrif;awmif xkyfaeEdik fatmif b,fvdkvkyfae&yvJ qdkwm? olwdkYtdrfom;awGqdk b,fvdkaervJ? 'gawmif oHk;vGef;av;vGef;wif rIwfvm;” EkE\ k toHrSm qdkYeifYaecJYonf/ “[kwfw,f&Sif ... udk&ifarmifMuD; ajymjyprf;ygtHk;? usrwdkY ajymvdkYawmY r&awmYbl;? usrwdkYvJ bmrS rwwfEdkib f l;? 'Dtcsdefu b,folrS bmrS rwwfEdkifMubl; rIwfvm;? udk,fY0rf;pmawmifrS udk,f reJ usJ&Jae&wm? Muufvdk ,uf pm;w,fqdkwmu awmfao; w,f? Muufu,ufvdkuf&if aumufp&m awGYwm rIwfvm;” usaemfonf armaerd\/ touf q,fYoHk;ESpfyif rjynfYao;aom rcifjrav;\ tjzpfudk jrifawG;aerd\/ aemufwblwmwGif usaemfonf olwdkYwGJrS qif;um *gwfwGJodkY ul;ajymif;vmcJYonf/ &xm;MuD;rSm rwkefrvIyf olYpuft&deS ftwdkif; ajy;vTm;aeaomfvnf; usaemfYpdwfrsm;rSmrl wkefvIyfajcmufjcm;aecJYonf/ a0cGJír&/ ydkif;jzwfír&/ wdkufvnf; rwdkufwGef;csif/ olYzmom xef;vsufrsm; wifvmvSsifvnf; uefYuGufrnfr[kwf/ rvGJomra&Smifom wif&awmYrnfudkum; odvmayjyD/ &xm;MuD;onf tifawmus,f blwmrS xGufcGmae\/ i&HYawmif? ivifY pifawmif? zdk;cdkMuD;awmif? aiGwGif;awmif? awmifeDawmif? ajrjzLawmif? bdkYawmif? Muufarmufawmif ponfY oHvrf; [dkzufonfzuf? teD;uyf awmifpOfawmifwef;rsm;ay:ü jrLcdk;rsm;onf rdIif;qdkYae\/ þrdIif;qdkYaejcif;um; pdwfudk jidrf;csrf;aponfum; r[kwf/ pdwftm&Hkudk xdkif;rdIif; av;vHaponf/ *gwfAdkvf udkxGef;&ifonf tyltyif uif;rJYpGmjzifY olYwa&mjym;av;udk xkwfvdkufjyD; oDcsif;wyk'fudk prf;aecJY \/ “&ifarmif qdkuGm” olonf wa&moH? &xm;oHrsm;tMum;ü ajymaecJY\/ usaemfonf acgif;udk,rf;jyae\/ “bmvJuG armif&if aMuuGJaewmvm;? 'gjzifY vGrf;uGm? 'g vGrf;cef;aygY” olYwa&moHum; aysmufuG,foGm;vdkuf? jyefay:vmvdkuf? ysHUvGifYoGm;vdkuf/ ol\ oDcsif;udk cGsJcGsJjypfjypf qdkaeoHrSmvnf; pdwfnpf nL;zG,f&myif/ pmrsufESm [29 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
ndKY ... ndKY ... qdkif; ... qdkif; .../ tHkY ... rdIif; ... &Da0 .../ arSsmfavav ... wdkif; .../ vGrf;yHkod ... axG .../ tcgwdkif;uqdkvSsif usaemfonf oDcsif;qdkrdwwfaomfvnf; onfwcg wGifum; xdkoDcsif;oHrsm;rSm taESmifYt&SufjzpfaecJYayjyD/ “awmfawmYAs”[k vSrf;ajymvdkufonf/ “udkxGef;&if&JY ... cifAsm;u vGrf;ae? vGrf;a&;xuf 0rf;a&;cufw,fAs odvm;? vGrf;a&;xuf 0rf;a&;cuf” olonf usaemfYudk Edik fiHa&;pum; ajymonfxifum wa&mtxdk;udk &yfvdkufjyD; vSrf;MunfYaecJY\/ “tJ'Dpum;rsdK; vGwfvGwfuif;uif;rSm oGm;ajymuGm? igaMumufw,f” olajymaeonfwdkYudk usaemfonf pdwfr0ifpm;awmYay/ usaemfum; ndKndKY tcuftcJrsm;udk usaemf pkaqmif;rdcJYonfY aiGaMu; tenf;i,fxJrS zJYulnDonfudk olvufcHvSsif olYtwGuf wuGuf wcPawmY touf&SLEdkifrnfudk awG;aerd\/ olonf þodkYulnDonfudkvnf; vufcHEidk f rnfr[kwf/ usaemfonf ol\ av;pm;xdkufaom rmepdwfuav;udk odjrifae&\/ xdkodkY ulnDcGifY awmif;qdkonfYtwGuf ol pdwfxdcdkuf&Hkrw S yg; ta&;t&m a&mufrnfr[kwf/ olYudk apmfum;onf[líom xifayvdrfYrnf/ xdkenf;jzifY ulnD&ef pdwful;udk usaemfonf arYxm;vdkuf&\/ &uftwefMumyif olYtcuftcJrsm;udk ajz&Sif;&ef enf;vrf;&SmMunfYaomfvnf; xef;vsufwifonfY xGufaygufwckrSsom&dSonfudk awGYjrifae&onf/ xdkenf;vrf;udkrl usaemfonf zGiv fY Spfwifjy&ufrnfr[kwf/ þ&ufrsm;ü eHeufrsm;wGif olYudk jrifawGYae&onfrSm olY rdom;pk tcuftcJudk az:jyaeonfY pufu&d,mwckvdk MunfYae&ovdkyif xifvm& onf/ olYrsufESmuav;ay:ü xdkt&mrsm;onf ay:vGifaecJY\/ ol xrif;yif xkyfrvmEdkifonfY &ufuvnf; eHeufydki;f &xm;MuD; xGuf vmuwnf;u olYrsufESmrSm tcgwdkif;aeY&ufrsm;uxuf ydkrn dk dSK;i,faecJo Y nf/ olonf olY xdkifckaH emufrSDudk rSu D m tdyfae&if;yif olYrsufESmrSm tm;enf;azsmYrSdeaf eonf/ tcgwdkif;u olYwGif rnfrSsaomujzpfaeonfjzpfap usaemf a&mufoGm;vSsif MudK;pm;jyHK;um EIwfqufavY&dSaomfvnf; xdkaeYurl olonf usaemf avSsmufvmaeonfudk vSrf;MunfY&rHk Ssom MunfYaeonf/ anmifwdkblwmwGif usaemfonf tcgwdkif;aeYrsm;uvdk [if;0,f&ef &xm;ay:rS qif;vmcJYvSsif olonfvnf; olpD;vmcJYonfY wGJay:rS qif;vm onf/ xrif;qdkifa&SUodkY usaemfa&mufjyD; [if;0,faecsdefü olonf vltrsm;udk wdk;a0SUum usaemf&dS&modkY avSsmufvmonf/ usaemfY eHab;ü vm&yfonf/ arSmifcdkorm;rsm;ESifY tjcm;c&D;onfrsm;onf usaemfwdkYudk vSrf;MunfYMu\/ “Muufom; oHk;usyfzdk;vm; q&m” [k qdkif&iS fonf jyHK;jyD;ar;ae\/ “ol ... cP”
pmrsufESm [30 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
ndKndKonf usaemfYudk wawmifqpfjzifY wGufum wdk;wdk;ajymjyD; qdkifa&SYrS vSnfYxGufoGm;onf/ usaemfonf xrif;qdkif&iS fudk vufumjycJYjyD; olYaemufrS vdkufoGm;&avonf/ olonf blwmyvufazmif;tpGefzuf ukuúdKyifatmufusrS &yfvdkuf\/ xdkae&mrSm c&D;onfrsm;ESifYvnf; tvSrf;a0;uGmaeonf/ usaemfonf olYeHab;ü ukuúdKjrpfudk uefum&yfwefUvdkuf \/ olYudk usaemfonfyif jyHK;rjyrd/ olYpdwfxJwGif xl;xl;jcm;jcm; cHpm;ae&rIrsm;rSm olYrsufESmay:üom ay:aeonf r[kwfbJ t&mtm;vHk; udkyif zHk;vTrf;xm;aeonf xif&onf/ olonf c&D;onftrsm; vIyf&Sm;&mzufodkY wcsuf vSrf;MunfYvdkuf\/ ta0;wGifum; &xm;acgif;wGJMuD; jzKwfoGm;um a&pufrS a&rsm;xnfYaeonf/ c&D;onfrsm;onfvnf; usaemfwdkYudk vSrf;MunfYae Mu\/ rD;&xm;0wfpHk 0wfxm;aom usaemfYudkrl c&D;onfwdkif;uvdkvdk odaeojzifY usaemfonfvnf; olYudknSmwmojzifY þae&mü Mum&SnfMumjrifY &yfraecsif/ “bmvJ ... ajymav” olonf acgif;udk jznf;jznf;armYjyD; rsufvTmMuD;zGifYum usaemfYudk MunfYae\/ xdkrsufvHk;MuD;rsmxJwGif usaemfYudk tm;udk;vdk pdwfrsm; jynfYvSsrf;aeovdk cHpm;ae&onf/ olYrsufESmrSm rdkYum wif;&pfaeonf/ rsufvHk;rsm;onf idkxm;[efjzifY tpfae\/ olYtusÐvufarmif; wzufpkwfaeonfudk zHk;uG,fEdki&f ef olonf wbufudk xdkbufycHk;zufodkY ydkí qGJcsjcHKxm;aeyHkrSm pdwfudk emvmaponf/ ,ckyifvSsif olonf ridrk dap&ef pdwfudkwif;xm;ae&yHk ay:aeonf/ olonf acgif;udk jyefiv HkY dkuf\/ “ol ... [if;r0,feJYvdkY ajymrvdkYyg” [k ajymaeaom pum;vHk;rsm;rSm olY vnfacsmif;0wGif twpfwpftqdkYqdkY jzpfaeonf/ “rSmxm;yD;bD? bmjyKvdkYvJ” “olrsm; ... olrsm; ... olrsm; ... xrif; xkyfrvmcJYbl;” “bmjyKvdkYvJ” “tdyf&mx rdk;vif;oGm;vdkYyg? xrif;csufcsdefr&awmYvdkY? tJwmajymrvdkY? ol [if;vJr0,feJY? xrif;vJr0,feJY? olr sm;wdkYwGJvJ vdkufrvmeJYodvm;? ol xrif;awG [if;awG ZGwf0,fvmcJY&if idk&rSmbJ? oGm;r,f oGm;r,f ... idk ... idkrd awmYr,f” ol ukuúdK&Gufajcmufrsm;udk eif;um xGufcGmoGm;aomtcg usaemfonf bmvkyf&rnf rodbJ &yfusefae&pfcJY \/ onfaeY eHeufpm olwdkYro d m;wpkvHk; xrif;iwfaecJjY yDudk rodí rjzpfawmY/ olYtdr&f dS usef olYudkrcSD dkaeolrsm;um; olYxufapmpGm iwfaecJaY yrnf/ usaemfonf ol&dS&modkY xrif;[if;rsm; 0,froGm;awmYay/ 0,fjyD; oGm;cJYvSsif olidkawmYrnfudk trSefyif odaerd\/ &xm;xGufvmcJYvSsif usaemfonf *gwfAdkvfwGJay:&dS xdkifckw H Gif ypfvSJaerd\/ *gwfAdkvf udkarmifMuD;u “rif; aumifrav;udk tdkau yD;yvm;”[k vSrf;ar;aeonfudk usaemfonf jyHK;vnf;rjyrd/ acgif;vnf; ,rf;rjyrd/ t&ufuav; tenf;i,f aomufwwfaom vlat;vlaumif; *gwfAdkvf MuD;onf &xm;xGufcGm&ef tvHudk aES;aES;,rf;jyaeonf/ “&ifarmifwdkYuawmY pGefw,fuGm” [k ajymum olonf w[J[J&,f&if; usaemfYudk aemufajymifvmavonf/ &xm;MuD;onf olYc&D;pOftwdkif; qufvufxGufcGmae\/ pmrsufESm [31] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
ndKndK\ c&D;pOfrSmvnf; arSmifcdkol jzpfvm&efomvSsif &dSawmYonfudk jiif;qefí &awmYrnfr[kwf/ ndKndKum; tcuftcJrsm; vnfyif;ausmfatmif epfvmaecJYjyD jzpfaomfvnf; olYrmeESifYol wif;cHxm;qJ/ olYrmerSm av;pm;xdkufaom rmejzpfonfudk tod trSwf rjyKí &rnfr[kwf/ odkYaomf xdkrmejzifY wif;cHí r&Edkiaf wmYonfY aemufqHk;tcsdefrsm;onf w&dyf&dyf eD;uyfvmaejyDudkrl od&dSae&avjyD/ þaemufydki;f &ufrsm;wGif usaemfonf OD;atmifMuD;\ arwåmw&m;rS aygufzGm;vmcJYaom pum;rsm;udk ykdí euf&dIif;pGm xdawGY vm&avonf/ “olwdkYcrsmrsm; t&rf; zrf;vm; qD;vm; rvkyfygeJYuGm? rawmfavmbeJY vkyfvmMu&ifawmYvJ wrsdK;aygY? awmf&Hkwef&Hkuav; wifMuwm rodcsifa,mif aqmifaeyguGm? rsm;vm&ifawmY owday;aygY” usaemfonf arSmifcdkukefrsm;udk zrf;& qD;&rnf&dSwdkif; olYpum;rsm;udk em;ü Mum;ae&\/ olum; *gwfAdkvfomjzpfojzifY zrf;qD;&ef usaemfYavmuf wm0efrMuD;/ usaemfum; rzrf;qD;vSsif jyóemrsm;udk r&Si;f Edkifjzpf&ayrnf/ “rwwfEdkib f l;av ... olwdkYvJ olwdkY0rf;a&;twGuf olwdkYvkyfaygY? igvJ igY0rf;a&;twGuf zrf;vm; qD;vm; vky f&rSmaygY? ig tvkyfjyKwf cHEidk fygYrvm;” tjyefc&D;rsm;wGif xef;vsufrsm;pGm wifaom twmpef;ukef;blwmESifY eD;uyfvmvSsif usaemfonf xdk*gxmudk &Gwfae&onf/ xef;vsufwifolrsm; rawGYyg&apESifY[k qkawmif;vmcJY&\/ xdkqkawmif;onf rnfonfYtcgwGifrS jynfYrnfrod/ twmpef;ukef;odkY &xm;qdkuf&yfvdkufvSsif 0J,mESpfzufrS awmif;MuD; awmif;i,frsm; &Gufum xrf;um vltrsm; ajy;vmMu\/ usaemfonf uref; uwef; &xm;ay:rS ckefqif;vdkufjyD; ... “xef;nufawG rwifMueJYaemf ... rwifMueJY? tqHk;rcHcsif&if rwifMueJY? zrf;&rSmbJ” [k atmfajymae&\/ usaemf zrf;rnfudk odMuvsufESiv fY nf; olYxufig trsdK;rsdK; usaemfYudk ajymum olwdkYonf ZGwfwifaeMu\/ awmif;rsm;udk xdk;wif aeMu\/ zrf;qD;rnfudk aMumufMuvsufESifY wifaeMuaom olwdkYpw d frsm;udk usaemfonf em;rvnfEdki/f olwdkYudk,f olwdkYyif em;vnfMurnfr[kwf/ usaemfum; onfrSs rsm;jym;vSonfudk rzrf;ívnf; rjzpfawmYojzifY yif;acsmif;odkYa&mufvSsif rD;&xm;&Jrsm;tultnD? yif;acsmif; blwm ukefwif ukefcs tvkyform;rsm; tultnDjzifY zrf;qD;&awmY\/ yif;acsmif;blwm&Hka&SUwGif awmif;MuD;awmif;i,frsm; pkxyfaomtcg awmifyHk&myHk jzpfvmavonf/ usaemf zrf;qD;aeonfudk &xm;wpf;vHk;&dS rsufvHk;aygif;rsm;pGmonf 0dki;f MunfYaeMu\/ zrf;qD;jyD; ukefrsm;udk uwÅm;wifcsdefjyD; &HkydkifxH vTJtyfjyD; jyefavSsmufvmcJYaomtcg xdkrsufvHk;rsmonf usaemfYrsufESmudk pdkuf MunfYaeonf/ xdktxJwGif ndKndK\ rsufESmESifY rsufvHk;rsm;udk owdxm;rdjyefonf/ olY rsufESmrSm usaemfYudkMunfYae&if; pdwfxdcdkufaeyHak ynf/ olYrsufvHk;rsm;onf usaemfYudk olESirfY odolwOD;udkMunfYovdk pdr;f aeMu\/ &xm;MuD; xGufvmcJYvSsif usaemfonf pdwfyifyef; EGrf;e,fpGmjzifY olYtem; &dS xdkifckw H Gif 0ifxdkifonf/ xdktcgwGifum; udk,fpdwfESpfyg; EGrf;e,faeojzifY usaemfonf xdkifckH aemufrDSay: t&kyfMudK;jywf vSJrv DS dkufonf/ olonf usaemfYudk rMunfY&Jovdk rsufESm tjyifzufodkY vSnfYxm;onf/ xdktcgrsm;wGif olESiu fY saemfYMum;ü t&Htwm;MuD;wckj zifY umqD;xm;Muovdk cHpm;ae&onf/ “rwwfEdkib f l;? rwifMuygeJYqdkwm ZGwfwifMuwmudk;? Usaemf rzrf;vJ 'djyifu zrf;MurSmbJ”[k usaemfonf udk,fYudk,fudk ajymae ovdk ajymaerd\/ pmrsufESm [32] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
xdkavSsmufvJcsufrSm ndKndKESiYw f uG tm;vHk;twGufjzpf\/ tzrf;cH todrf;cHrsm;\ rsufvHk;rsm;onf usaemfYudk rsuf&nf0Jaom rsufvHk;rsm;jzifY MunfYaeMuonf/ olwdkYonf ypönf;rsm; qHk;&IH; oGm;Muaomfvnf; usaemfYudk tjypfjrif[ef r&SMd u/ olwdkYonf &dk;om;aom tnmol tnmom; qif;&Jom;rsm;jzpf\/ ESpfeHpyf vHkcsnf0wfum vHkcsnfMurf;rsm; acgif;aygif;xm;Mu onf/ &xm;MuD; ckwfarmif;aepOfü olwdkYonf usaemfxdkifae&modkY avSsmufvmMu\/ olwdkYypönf; b,fa&GUb,frSs ygoGm;Muonf 0dkif;ajymaeMuonf/ usaemfYtay:ü ,HkMunfaeMu\/ tciftrifvnf; rysuf/ “oGm;MuAsm? cifAsm;wdkY Opömu trsm;MuD; rIwfvm;? rzrf;vdkYvJ MunfYraumif;awmYbl;? rwifrDu usaemf awmif;yefom;bJ? ckvdk vmajymaeMu&if cifAsm;wdkY vlawGyg xyfzrf;ae&tHk;r,f? pOf;pm;MunfYMuAsm ... usaemfrzrf;&if 'djyifae&mawGu zrf;MurSmbJ? rzrf;bl;xm; ... ypfpmwif&if usaemfvnf; tvkyfjyKwf axmifus? igY0rf;ylpm raeomvdkY vkyf&wmbJAsm” twefMumatmif usaemfonf vmajymjyolrsm;udk &Sif;jyae&\/ olwdko Y nf usaemfYudk cGifYvTwfum xGufcGmoGm;aeMu\/ tcsdKYonf em;rvnfEdkiMf uojzifY olwdkYawmif;av;rsm;udk jyefay;&ef id, k dkíyif awmif;yefaeMuonf/ “tarYawmif;uav;awmY rzrf;bl;xifwmuG,f? tarYudkjyefay;yg”[k awmif;yefol vnf;&dS\/
ydkufqyf
ESpfq,fbdk;?
tarYajr;uav;
vufpGyf
a&mif;vmcJYwmyg?
usaemfonf yif;acsmif;&Hkyidk fxH tyfEHcS JYjyD; jzpfyu Hk dk em;vnfatmif r&Sif;jy Edkio f jzifY pdwfarmvm&onf/ “igYom; jyefay;&if &ygw,f? olrsm;awGvJ 'DvdkbJ wifaeMuwmqdkvdkY tarvJ wifwmyg” tusÐyGMuD;udk 0wfxm;um qHyifrsm; azG;azG;jzLaeaom tartdkonf usaemfYajc&if;üxdkifum wwGwfwGwf idkajymaecJY \/ rsuf&nf rsm; okwfvdkuf idkvdkuf vkyfae\/ usaemfonf tartdkudk ayGYxlvdkufonf/ ol ESpfodrfYauseyf&ef rnfodkY ajym&rnfudkvnf; rodawmYay/ c&D;onftrsm;onf usaemfESifY tartdkudk vSrf;MunfYaeMu\/ ndKndKvnf; usaemfYudk ai;MunfYaeonf/ “tar ... aemufudk ig;ydómxufvJ ydkrwifeJY? tarwif&w,fvdkYvJ bolYrS rajymeJY? tarYawmif;udk tarYcHkatmufxm;yg? 'grS usaemf a&SmifwwfrSm” usaemfonf eHab;rS rMum;ap&ef toHESdrYjf yD; wdk;wdk;uyfajymae&onf/ &xm;ckwfarmif;aeoH? tjcm;c&D;onfrsm;\ toHatmuf wGif usaemfYtoHrSm epf0ifaysmufuG,foGm;aeonf/ tartdk roJuGJojzifY usaemfonf xyfajymae&\/ tartdk\ ycHk;ESpfzufudk ayGYxlaepOf usaemfYpdwfESvHk;om;xJwGif &yfa0;ü aeaom usaemfYtarudk owd&aeonf/ MunfndK arwåm pdwfrsm; yGm;rsm;vmaeonf/ tartdkonf usaemfYudk qkawmif;arwåmrsm; ydkYojyD; olxdkif&m tdrfomMum;zufodkY avSsmufoGm; aeonf/ “udkY tareJY odyfwlwm”[k usaemfonf wD;wdk;a&&Gwfaerd\/ usaemfYa&&GwfoHrSm tvGefw&m a0;uGmeuf&dIif;vSaom a'orS jzpfay: vmcJY&ovdkyif/ xdkpum;vHk;rsm;udk &GwfqdkaeqJü pdwftm&Hk wckvHk; qGwfysHYvmum idkcsifaeonf/ usaemfYrsufvHk;rsm;ay:ü rsuf&nfrsm; wufvmaeonf/ usaemfonf rsuf&nfrsm; aysmuf uG,foGm;ap&ef jyHK;vdkuf&onf/ oif;oif;? EkEk? rat;oG,fwdkYonf usaemfYrsufESmudk ai;MunfYaeMu\/ ndKndKonfvnf; usaemfYudk vSrf;MunfYaeonf/ olY rsufvHk;rsm;rSm El;nHY aeMu\/ olonf wjznf;jznf; w&dyf&yd f jyHK;vmaeonf/ usaemfY rsufvHk;tdrf twGif;odkY euf&dIi;f pGm xdk;azmufMunfYaeovdk xifae&onf/ olonf usaemfYzufodkY wdk;a&TYvdkuf\/ pmrsufESm [33] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“[dku tar xrif;pm;&bdkY ... 'Du tarYypönf;awG zrf;&wmaemf ... olY tvkyfrsdK;awmY aumifuav; MuD;vm&if rvkyfcidk f; awmYbl;” olonf tjcm;olrsm; rMum;Edkifatmif cyfwdk;wdk; ajymaeonf/
(8) tay;t,l naetjyef arSmif&DysdK;vmvSsif olwdkYonf usaemfYudk vmbfay;&ef usaemf &dS&mwGJodkY wa,mufjyD;wa,muf a&mufvmMuonf/ usaemfESifY pum; tenf;i,f ajymqdkMujyD; aiGrsm;uyfay;oGm;onf/ udk,f0ef ray:Yway:ESifY vif&dSr,m; rat;jrifYonf aiGay;awmYrnfjyKvSsif usaemfYtem;ü udk,fcsif;xduyf vmxdkifwwfonf/ usaemfY 'l;udk olYaygifESifY xdxm;wwfonf/ aoG;Ekaeaom olYudk,frSm El;nHYae\/ &rufqE´aMumifY olYtom;rsm;onf ylaEG; aevsuf/ olYEIwfcrf;rS EIwfcrf;qdk;aq; &eHYonf oif;jraevsuf/ olYpdwfxJwGif rD;&xm; trIxrf;rSeforSsudk umr "g;jyrsm;[k txifao;um ol\ &rufEdI;qGrI tjyKtrlrsm;onf &Jwif;aeonf/ olonf usaemfYvufudk qkyfudkifjyD;rS aiGay;onf/ “'gbJaemf ... udk,fYvl” olu bmt"dyÜm,fESirfY Sef; rod ajymvdkufwwfonf/ olYtoHrSm aEG;ylaeum ESpfa,mufcsif; uyfajymaeoHrsdK; jzpf\/ olY a,musfm; udkatmifxGef;onf tjcm;wae&m&mü xef;vsuf tdwfrsm;udk pkaqmif; aewwf\/ tcsdKYonf anmifwdkblwmwGif usaemf xrif;[if;rsm; qif;0,faepOfü tem;vm uyf&yfum ay;oGm;Muonf/ udka&Ta,mufonf ewfarmufblwm vzuf&nfqdkifwGif usaemf vzuf &nfaomufaepOfü pmyGJa&SUodkY avSsmufvmjyD; owif;pmudk qGJMunfYonf/ owif;pmatmufü wq,fwefw&Guf xdk;oGif;oGm;onf/ olonf qdkifrrS xGufrD “atmufrSm”[k wdk;wdk;uyfajymoGm;onf/ usaemfonf owif;pmatmufrS q,fwefw&Gufudk trSwfrxif ,lvdkufonf/ vmbfay;onf[k wMudrfwcgrSs rxifrday/ usaemf aiGr,lvSsifom udka&Ta,mufMuD; &ifxJwGif wav;av; jzpfae&onfudk awG;rdonf/ usaemfYudk aiGray;&ao;vSsif olY&ifxJü av;vHaeonf/ usaemfonf olYaiGudk abmif;bDtdwfuyftwGif; xdk;oGif;vdkuf&if; ol vlMum;xJodkY wdk;0ifoGm;aeyHkudk ai;MunfYaecJYrdonf/ olY ajcaxmufrSm zdeyfryg/ acgif;rS qHyif bkwfodkufonf wzGmzGm 0JysHaevsuf/ olYtusÐrSm acs;rsm;aMumifY ndKrGJa&mif awmufae vsuf/ olYausmü acGs;rsm; epfaevsuf/ “usaemf apwemeJY ay;wmygq&m ... olrsm;wumawGvJ 'DvdkbJ pm;ae MuwmbJ? wcsdKUrsm; wGJvdkufwifwm? waxmif udk;&mudk yufueJ ,lvdkufMu wm? usaemfY xef;nufwvHk;rS rrdap&bl;q&m? od Mum;rif; qif;&SmvdkYawmif rawGYap&bl;”[k olonf olxef;vsufwif&m tdrfomtrdk;aygufudk tm;udk;jyD; vufraxmifvsuf &J&Jwif;wif; ajymoGm;wwf\/ wcgw&Hü ndKndKUa&SYwGif olwdkYaiGay;MuvSsif ndKndKonf rsufpdrsufESm ysufaewwf \/ oluvnf; trsm;enf;wl usaemfYudk aiGay; csifonf/ ray;EdkifojzifY pdwfraumif;jzpfum odrfi,fae&&Smonfudk usaemf rawG;rdcJYay/ aiGay;aiG,l vkyfaepOfü olonf rsufESmudk wzufodkYvTJum arSmif&D qdkif;aeaom ywf0ef;usifudk ai;MunfYaeonf/ usaemfYudk tjcm;rdef;rrsm;u vmí a&ma&maESmaESm vkyfonfudk ol pdwf rcsrf;rom jzpfae&onf[k usaemfonf omrefrSsom awG;aecJY\/ pmrsufESm [34] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
xdkYaMumifY rat;oG,f aiGvmay;vSsif usaemfonf olYudk *&kpku d f MunfYaecJY&\/ rat;oG,fonf tarSmif&dyx f JwGif usaemfYeHab;ü vmí wdk;uspfxdkifonf/ ol\ aEG;tdaom udk,fvHk;ESifY wrif zduyfxm;onf/ olY vufwzufudk trSwfrJY usaemfYaygifay: wifvdkufonf/ olu usaemfYudk touf&dSonf[k rxif/ pum;ajymvSsif rsufESmudk a&SUidkufjyD; ESpfO;D om;Mum;&Hk cyfwdk;wdk; ajymonf/ olY toHrSm oHvdkufoH ygaecJYonf/ olonf tjidrfYrif;orD;rsm; xuf toH txm;todkü ydkíawmfonf/ wrf;woH? &dIufarmoH? tirf;r&toH? &rufqlyGufoH? &ruft*Fgrsm; vIyf&Sm;aerIudk txif;om; azmfjyaeoH/ “rat;oG,fwdkYudkav ... wDbDpDawGaum *gwfAdkvfawGaum? &Hkyidk fawG vufrSwfppfawGaum rcifwJYvl r&dSbl; odvm;? &JawGvJ tukefcifMuwm? OD;avmfvDMuD;wdkY? udkysm;wdkY? udkxGef;wifwdkY ... aemf ... aemf ... b,folrS rat;oG,fqDu ydkufqyf,lMuwm r[kwfbl;? rat;oG,fwdkYvJ cifwwfygw,fawmf? &SifYndKndKcsnfYrScifp&m r[kwfygbl;? uJ ... ajymprf; rat;oG,fYudk rcifbl;vm;? eJeJuav;rS rcifEdkifbl;vm;? awmfbD awmfbD? aemufudk &SifYudk pum;ajymr,fYtpm; ausmufqif;wkudk oGm;ajymae r,f? armw,f? &Sifwa,mufbJ rat;oG,fqDu ydkufqH,l&ufwm? oHk;usyfbJ ,laemf ...” ol\ rsufapmif;xdk; rJY&Yx GJ m;onfY rsufESmudk roJruGJ jrifae&\/ ol ae&mrS xoGm;aomtcg usaemfonf ndKndK rnfodkY cHpm; ae&rnfudk awG;aerd onf/ usaemfonf ndKndKUcHkodkYoGm;xdkifjyD; tapmu rat;oG,f usaemfYtem; vmxdkifonfrSm &dk;&dk;om;om; jzpfygaMumif; tpD&ifc&H ef pdwfapmae&jyefonf/ usaemf olY tem;ü vmxdkifonfudk ndKndKonf vSnfYrMunfY/ xdktcgwGifum; &xm;onf tarSmif&dyx f JwGif jrdKUvkifrS wdwfwqdwf xGufcGm&ef tm;,laeonf/ ndKndKonf tjyifzuf arSmifysys xJodkY ai;pdkufae onf/ olonf pdwfü tm;i,fodrfi,faeum jidrfoufaeonf/ wckckudk tqHk; tpr&dS awG;awmaeyHkrsdK;jzpf \/ jrdKUvkifrStxGufwGif rsm;jym;vSaom a&S;a[mif;bk&m;rsm;onf tnm ql;&pfjcHKrsm; tMum;ü jidrfo ufae\/ wdrfaumaejyDjzpfaom uefa[mif;rsm; zufwGif iSufuav;rsm; tkyfvdkufcDs ysHoef;aeonf/ &xm; ckwfarmif;aeoHaMumifY iSufuav;rsm;\ usDusDusm usm aw;oHudkrl rMum;&/ nDtroHk;azmf apwDoHk;qlonf &xm;eHab;ü a0Yusef&pf\/ usaemfum; OpömapmifYrsm;jzpfum ,ckwdkif&dSaeao;onfqdkaom xdknD troHk;azmfxJrS taxG;qHk; tvSqHk; OpömapmifYruav;udk pdwfü xifjrifMunfYum ndKndKESiYf ,SOfMunfY aerdjyefonf/ pdwful;xJü ndKndKU udk,fay:wGif yk0g&SnfMuD;wck jcHKay;vdkuf\/ jydK;jydK; jyufjyuf t0wfrsm;udk 0wfay;MunfY\/ xdkt0wfrsm; 0wfay;MunfYaomtcg ndKndKonf &Suf&SufjzifY £ajE´rq,fEdkif &,farmaejyefonf/ nDtroHk;azmfapwDrsm; aysmufuG,foGm;vSsif xdktawG;rsm;onfvnf; zswfueJ aysmufysufoGm;onf/ “rat;oG,f ... ydu k fqHvmay;wmyg”[k usaemfonf ndKndKUudk &Si;f csuf xkwfae&onf/ usaemfonf udk,fudknGwfvdkufjyD; olMum;&Hkom ajymaerd\/ usaemfYtoH rSmvnf; wdk;oufaeonf/ “udkYudk rat;oG,feJY [dkxif'Dxif xifaerSmpdk;vdkY ajymjy&wm” twefMumrS olonf vSnfYMunfYvdkuf\/ tarSmif&dyf &D&Dqdki;f qdkif;wGif usaemfYudkjyHK;jy&ef olMudK;pm;aeonf/ olY tjyHK;ay:wGif um; ol\ tm;i,f odrfi,faerIrsm; vTrf;aejyefonf/ olYpdwfü xdcdkufaeyHu k dk odaomfvnf; bmaMumifY xdcdkufae&onfudkrl rodEdki/f “olrsm; bmrS rajymygbl;” a&SUrS xdkifckw H Gif xdkifaeMuonfY oif;oif;ESifY EkEkwdkYu usaemfYudk aiGxnfYxm;aom pmtdwfa[mif;ESpfck vSrf;ay;aeonfYtcdkufwGif olonf rsufESm udk wzufodkY jyefvSnfYoGm;onf/ “'gjzifY bmjzpfae&wmvJ” usaemf ar;onfudkvnf; jyefrajzawmYay/ pmrsufESm [35 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
twefMumvSsif &kyfj'yfypönf;taygif;onf tarSmifESiafY &m&Sufum wpwp 0g;um aysmufuG,foGm;ae\/ ndKndK\ pdwfxdcdkuf ae&rI taygif;onfvnf; þtarSmifxkMuD;twGif;odkY ajy;0ifaeMuonf xifonf/ wcsufwcsufü ol\ oufrcsoH ay:vmae onf/ þoufrcsoHrsm;um; tarSmifxJü &kyfj'yf ypönf;rsm;tjzpfjzifY xif&Sm;pGm ay:vmaeonf[k xifae&jyefonf/ xdktcgrSpí aemufydki;f &ufrsm;wGif usaemfonf ... “ndKndKUa&SUrSm aiGray;MueJY” [k tjcm;olrsm;udk ajymxm;&\/ “bmjyKvdkYvJ”[k olwdkYar;Muonfudk usaemfvnf; rajzEdkif/ olwdkY ndKndKUa&SUwGif aiGay;vSsif usaemfvnf; r,lawmYay/ olwdkYonf aiGay;&eftwGuf ndKndKYudkyg a&Smifwdrf;ae&onf/ &uftwefMumaomtcg tcsdKYonf ndKndKUudk rausreyf jzpfvmMu\/ tcsdKUu ndKndKUudk olwdkYtm; 'ku©ay;rnfYolvm;[líyif oHo,0ifvmMuonf/ tcsdKUonf ndKndKYudk olwdkYpw d fcs,HkMunf&ol? olwdkYenf;wl xef;vsufukeful;ol jzpfvmapcsifMuonf/ usaemfY tazqHk;aMumif; tarYxHrS aMu;eef;&jyD; usaemf ta&;ay:cGifYjzifY tazYudk oN*KÐ[f&ef jyefrnfjyKonfYaeYwGifvnf; olwdkYonf usaemfYudk aiGrsm; pkaqmif;ay;&eftwGuf ndKndKrodatmif wdwfwdwf usdwfwdkifyifcJYMuonf/ odkYaomf xdkowif;rSm ndKndKYxH b,fub,fodkY aygufMum;oGm;cJYonf rod/ xdkaeY aeYcif;u ausmufyef;awmif;ü c&D;onfrsm; r&dScsdefwGif olwdkY wawG usaemfYudk aiGrsm;ay;&ef pka0;vmMuaomtcg rvSrf; rurf;rS ndKndKyg vdkufvmonf/ olwdkYonf *gwfwGJay: pka0;wufa&mufvmMujyD; usaemfYudk aiGrsm;pm&if;jyKvkyfum tyfaepOfü ndKndK *gwfwGJwzuf0wGif &yfaeonfudk rodMu/ “rnGefY&D oHk;q,f? a':acG; ESpfq,f? a':a':nGefY ESpfq,f? a&Ta,muf oHk;q,f? OD;ay:vm ESpfq,f” ponfY pm&if;udk udka&Ta,mufonf cJwHjzifY aw;rSwfae\/ “udk&ifarmifYudk ,lwJYrde;f rawmY aumfrSmaemf? rat;oG,fwdkYawmif udk&ifarmifYudk w&ufavmuf ,lyvdkufcsifvmbD? rdk;vif;rS tqdyfcyf owfypfr,f? 'D ausmufqif;wkMuD;eJY Mum&SnfawmY raygif;Edkifygbl;” [k rat;oG,fajymonfudk trsm;u 0dkif;í &,faeonf/ “udk&ifarmif r&dS&if usKyfwdkYawmY aemufvl topfeJYaygif;&rSm &ifav;ygw,fawmf ...? aemufvlu ukvm;qdk? MuufoD;xvdkufwm? rpöwm ataumfemwJYvm;? ydkufqH odyfawmif;wJYvlqdk? usKyfwdkYudk 'Dtwdkif;awmY ypfroGm;ygeJY udk&ifarmif&,f aemufvleJYvJ quf ay;cJYygtHk;? xHk;pHtwdkif;aygY” [k rnGefY&o D nf olYudk,fvHk; ao;ao;auG;auG;MuD;udk vIyf,rf;&,fum aemufaeonf/ “'g udk&ifarmifYtaztwGuf ulwmaemf ... udk&ifarmifYtwGuf ulwmvdkY rSwfroGm;eJYtHk;” [k twifu ajymaeonf/ usaemfonf olwdkYajymqdkaeMuonfudkvnf;aumif; &,farmaemufajymif aeMuonfudkvnf;aumif; tm&HkrpdkufbJ olwdkYaemuf ausmü &yfaeonfY ndKndKY udkom vSrf;MunfYaeonf/ olonfvnf; trsm;udkausmfjyD; usaemfYudk MunfYaeonf/ aeylxJrS jzwfoef;vmcJYaomaMumifY xifonf/ olYrsufESmuav;rSm eDjref; aeonf/ olonf ezl;rSacGs;rsm;udk wbufjzifY okwfae\/ csufcsif; *gwfwGJ wckvHk;ay:wGif qloHnHoHrsm; wdwfqdwfoGm;onf/ wifwifonf usaemfYtem;wGif xdkifae&mrS xvdkufonf/ vltrsm;pkonf ndKndKYudk rawGYjrifbl;onfY olpdrf;wOD;vdk 0dik f;MunfYaeonf/ udka&Ta,mufonf aiGrsm;udk usaemfYOD;xkyftwGif;odkY xnfYae&if; “bmvJa[Y rdndK” [k cyfwdk;wdk; vSrf;ar;aeonf/ ndKndKonf twGif;zufodkY wdk;0ifvmonf/ usaemfY a&SUem;txd avSsmuf vmonf/ usaemfYa&SUwGif &yfonf/ olY tdwfuyftwGif;rS EGrf;ausaeaom aiGpuúL usyfweftvdyfuav;udk xkwfonf/ usaemfYOD;xkyftwGif;odkY olYvufjzifY xnfYonf/ “tapmu pm&if;zwfaeoH Mum;ygw,f? ndKndK ESpq f ,fYESpu f syfvdkY a&;vdkuftHk;aemf” pmrsufESm [36 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olu udka&Ta,mufudk vSrf;ajymaeoHrSm wkef,ifaeonf/ udka&Ta,mufonf usaemfYudk vSrf;MunfYaecJY\/ usaemfu pm&if;a&;&ef acgif;ndwfjyrS olonf em;&GufMum;rS cJwefudk xkwf,ljyD; pm&if;aw;rSwfavonf/ tm;vHk; jyefqif;oGm;Muaomtcg usaemfonf ndKndKYudk cPaecJY&ef wm;xm;vdkufonf/ olonf usaemfYa&SUü &yfae&pfcJY\/ usaemfonf pum;vHk;aygif; ajrmufjrm;pGm ajymcsifaeaomfvnf; pum;p &Smr& jzpfaejyef onf/ xdktcgwGifrS olonf usaemfYudk trsm;enf;wl aiGray;&ojzifY tm;i,faeonfudk usaemf onf odvm&\/ usaemfonf olYaiGpuúLvdyfuav;udk OD;xkyftwGif;rS qGJ,ljyD; vuftwGif;ü qkyfe,fxm;rdonf/ olonf usaemfYudkMunfYjyD; acgif;udkiYv Hk dkufonf/ olonf þaiGuav;rsm;udk &ufaygif;rsm;pGm pkaqmif;cJY&jcif; jzpfonf udk usaemfawG;aerdonf/ olwdkY qefr&do S jzifY xrif;yif csufrpm;&onfY tcgüvnf;aumif; ... olY tar aeqdk;aeonfY tcgüvnf;aumif; þaiGuav;udk olonf roHk;pGcJY/ aiGudk usaemfonf jyefí ray;&uf jzpfae&jyefonf/ “ol bmajymrvdkYvJ” [k olu ar;aeonf/ usaemfonf olUudkajym&ef pum;pr&dSbJ twefMum jidrfaerdcYo J nf/ “rif;aiGudk udk,lw,faemf ...? tJwm aus;Zl;wifwJY taMumif; ajymrvdkYyg? 'gayr,fY 'DwcgbJ ,lrSmaemf ...? 'g aemufqHk; qdkwmvJ ajymcsifw,f? udk ajymcsifwmawGawmY trsm;MuD;&dSw,f? ckawmY bmajym&rSef;vJ rodawmYbl;? tcsdefvJ r&dSawmYbl;? 'Dvdkvkyfav ... tjyefus&if anmifwdkxGuf&if *gwfwGJudk rif;vmcJYtk;H ? tazmfwa,mufvJ ac:cJYaemf? awmfMum vltxifao;ae&ifvJ raumif;bl;? tJ'DusrS at;at;aq;aq; ajymr,f? ck tazmfawG&dSwkef; oGm;awmY? 'DrSm ESpfa,mufxJaewm txifao;aeMu tHk;r,f” ol blwm&HkodkY a&mufoGm;onftxd aemufausmzufrS ai;MunfYaerd onf/ usaemfonf oufjyif;cscJYrd\/ olY aiGudk jyefay;ívnf; rjzpf? ,lvnf; ,l rxm;&uf/ ol aysmufuG,f oGm;onftxd bmvkyf&rSef; awG;r& jzpfaecJo Y nf/ olay;onfY aiGuav;rsm; udk tvdyfrysuf trSwfw& odrf;xm;&ef qHk;jzwfaerdonf/ aemufqHk;wGif usaemfonf olUudk wckckjyefay;&ef awG;rdrS &ifxJwGif aygYyg;MunfvifoGm;onf/ xdkaeYu ausmufyef;awmif;rS &xm;MuD; jyefxGufvmcJYvSsif usaemfYvuf xJwGif olYtwGuf tusÐydwfpwckESifY xrDwxnf ygvm cJYonf/ þypönf;rsm; udk olr,lvSsifvnf; olYrsufarSmufü vTifYypfcJY&ef qHk;jzwfvmonf/ tjyefü anmifwdkrS &xm;MuD; xGufvmcJYvSsif olESifY olYtazmf oif;oif; onf *gwfwGJay: wufa&mufvmMu\/ oif;oif;onf olESifYusaemf vGwfvyfpGm pum;ajymcGifY&ap&ef *gwfwGJ a&SUzuf 0&HwmwGif wa,mufwnf; &yfaecJo Y nf/ tv,f *gwfAdkvf tcef;usOf;uav;xJü *gwfAdkvf udkxGef;atmifonf taotarsm tdyfaysmfvmcJY \/ olESiu fY saemfonf aemufzuf0&Hwm vuf&rf;udkru DS m ESpfa,mufcsif; ab;csif;,SOf&yfu m jidrfoufpGm vdkufygvmcJYonf/ olonf 0&Hwmudkr&SD if; acgif;iHkYae\/ usaemfonf vufxJü txnfrsm; xnfYonfY puúLtdwfudk qkyfudkifxm;&if; rnfodkY pajym& rnfudk rod/ twefMumrS “ajymp&m&dSw,fqdk” [k olonf cyfwdk;wdk; pwifar;jref;onf/ pmrsufESm [37 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
usaemfonf bmrSs rajymbJ olYvuftwGif;odkY puúLtdwfudk xnfYvdkufonf/ olonf puúLtdwfudk iHkYMunfYvdkufjyD; usaemfUudk twif;jyefay;aeonf/ “r,lbl; ... r,lbl; ... olrsm; rdef;rysuf r[kwfbl;”[k jiif;qefae&if; rsuf&nfrsm; 0dkif;vmonf/ tom; wqwfqwf wkefvmonf/ rsufESmuav; rJvmonf/ xdktcsdefü aea&mifudk wdrfwdkufwwdkufonfvnf; jzwfoef;aeum aejcnfrsm;vnf; arS;rSdefaeonf/ t&dyfrMJ uD;rsm;twGif;ü &xm; onf jzwfoef; ae\/ usaemfonf rMuHpnfbJvsuf olYwudk,fvHk;udk &ifcGit f wGif;ü ESpfjrSKyf ayGUzufxm;onf/ ol \ wwGwfwGwf jiif;qefaeoHrsm; onf usaemfY&ifciG fxJü epfjrKyfaysmufuG,foGm;aeonf/ olY rsuf&nfrsm;jzifY usaemfY&iftkrH Sm &TJepf vmaeonf/ usaemfonf olY idkoH jiif;y,faeoHrsm; tMum;ü olYrsufESmudk qGJarmYvdkufjyD; txyfxyferf;ypfaerd\/ olYudk usaemfrnfrSscspfaMumif;?wu,fY arwåmjzifY nDrav;t&if;udkay;ovdk ay;&aMumif;? tpDtpOfr&dS avSsmufajym aerd\/ aemufqHk;ü olYudk ay;í &awmYrnfr[kwf[k odvm&onf/ olonf txkyfudk vTwfcsxm;ojzifY? &xm;vIyfum ckefaeojzifh? usrusef&pfcJYap&ef usaemfonf ajcaxmufjzifh zdeif;xm;ae& onf/ olUudk enf;rsdK;pHkjzifY &Si;f jyaeonfudk ol jiif;qefjrJ jiif;qefaeojzifY usaemfonfvnf; pdwfü xdcdkufvmonf/ usaemfonf olUudk ajzvTwfvdkufjyD; tenf;i,f qwfwGef;wGef;vdkuf\/ “awmfbD ... rif; b,fawmYrS udk,fYarwåmudk em;v,frSm r[kwfbl;” usaemfonf atmf[pf ajymqdkaerd\/ tdwfudk aumuf,lvdkufjyD; tdwftwGif;rS tusÐydwfpudk qGJxkwfvdkufonf/ usaemfhvuftwGif;ü tusÐydwfponf jyefYoGm;jyD; tvHeDMuD;wckudk vTifhvdkufovdk jzpf\/ usaemfonf Muufarmufawmifqnf a&oGif;ajrmif;wl;aeMuaom trsdK;orD;rsm;udk ydwfp vSrf;ajrSmufjyum a'gopdwfjzifY vTifYypfcJYonf/ tusÐydwfponf avpkwf,lojzifY &xm;aemufrS twefMum a0;a0;txd vdkufajy;vmaeonf/ a&oGif;ajrmif; tvkyforrsm;onf atmf[pfjyD; tkyfpkvdkuf &xm;aemufrS ajy;vdkufvmaeonf/ tawmfMumvSsif ydwfpus&mae&modkY a&mufvmMu\/ olwdkY 0dkif;vkae onfudk ndKndKonf vSrf;MunfYae\/ olonf EIwfcrf;udk udkufxm;jyD; tvkyforrsm;udk ai;MunfYae&if; rsuf &nfrsm; 0Jvmaeonf/ “rif; udkYudk txifao;wm ndKndK? udkYudk vufaqmifay;yD; rdef;rodkufwl;aewJY odkuform;vdkY rif;xifwm? aemufvltkyef JYawGY&if 'Dxrdefyg ypfcscJYr,f” usaemfonf a'gojzifY atmfajym&if; xrDudk qGJxkwfvdkuf\/ olonf idk&Iu d fae&if;rS usaemfYvufudk zrf;qGJxm;onf/ “rif;udk ydkufqHjyefay;&r,f? rif; udkYudkawmY olawmif;pm;ay;ovdk ay;oGm;wm rIwfvm;? udkYudk txifao;wm rIwfvm;? uJ ... jyef,lav ... 'D ydkufqHjyef,l? udku 'DaiGudk b,fawmYrS roHk;bl;vdkY qHk;jzwfxm;wm? udkY woufvHk; trSwfw& odrf;oGm;zdkY qHk;jzwfxm;wm” olonf usaemf olYaiGrsm; jyefay;aeonfYvufudk twif; zrf;qkyfxm; onf/
pmrsufESm [38 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf &kwfw&uf usaemfY &ifcGiftwGif;odkY idk&u dI f&if; vSJrv SD dkufonf/ usaemfYcg;udk olYvufrsm;jzifY wif;usyfpGm zufxm;&if; olYrsufESmjzifY yGwfwdkuf aejyefonf/ twefMumvSsif usawmfonf pum;rajymawmYbJ olYvuftwGif;odkY xrD puúLtdwfudk xnfhay;vdkufonf/ olonf cyfzGzG qkyfudkif xm;aeonf/ twm pef;ukef;em; uyfvmrS olonf usaemfh &ifcGit f wGif;rSxGufvdkufjyD; 0&Hwmudk rS&D yfonf/ rsuf&nfrsm;okwfvdkufjyD; ai;aejyefonf/ “oloGm;rSm ... q,fYig;&ufawmif MumrSmaemf? tMumMuD;bJ” ol\ cyfwdk;wdk;ajymoHrSm &xm;ckwfarmif;aeoH? olY oufjyif;csoHrsm;ESifh a&maxG; aysmufuG,foGm;aeonf/ ol qufajymaeonfY tjcm;pum;rsm;rSm olYtoH wdrfoGm;aeojzifh rMum;EdkifawmYay/
(9) jyefíqHkawGYonfYtcg … usaemf cGifY&ufapYojzifh jyefvmcJYonf/ xdknaeu olonfvnf; usaemf olYudk awmifwGif;MuD;blwm&HkrS vmMudKaevdrfYrnf[k awG;vmcJYojzifY usaemfay;onfY xrDudk trSwfw& 0wfvmcJYonf/ olYudk MudKwifjrifEidk fap&ef wHcg; ayguf0ü xGuf&yfjy vmcJh onf/ awmifwGif;MuD;ü &xm;qdkuf&yfvSsif olonf tajy;qif;vmonf/ olY emewfjcif;rsm;udk jrif;vSnf;wpD;ay: uref;uwrf; wifonf/ usaemf &yf apmifYfae&m jrif;vSnf;*dwfwzufab;odkY tajy;tvTm; avSsmufvmonf/ usaemfY tem;wGif&yfjyD; ollonf usaemfYudk pum;rajymEdkif jzpfaecJYonf/ usaemfvnf; at;wdat;pufjzifY jyHK;&Hkom jyHK;aeonf/ usaemfYudk arSmifcdkorm;rsm;onf aemufajymif oGm;aeMu\/ olYudkvnf; oif;oif;ESifYEEk kwdkYu “0rf;omaeyvm;rdndK”[k atmfar;ae onf/ olonf olYawmif;rsm;udk ,loGm;Mu&ef olYtaz:rsm;udk ajymavonf/ “ndKndK vrf;avSsmuf&if; ajz;ajz;rSvmcJYr,f? awmif;awG csxm;ESifYMuaemf? 'DvlYudk ppfp&m aq;p&m&dSw,f” [k olYtazmfrsm;udk vSrf;ajymonf/ xdknaerSm olESiu fY saemf ESpfa,mufwGJum yxrqHk; vrf;twlavSsmufMuonfh nae jzpfonf/ olESifY usaemfonf tkef;awm&yfuGuf jzwfvrf;usOf;uav;wcktwGif;rS aps;zufodkY avSsmufvmcJYMuonf/ ESpfa,mufpvHk; wdkifyif xm;ovdk tajz;av; EdkifqHk;aES;um avSsmufvmMu\/ olonf wbufwxnfudk acgif;ü &pfaygif; xm;ojzifY wu,fYrde;f rMuD; wOD;ESifh wlaejyefonf/ ycHk;wGifvnf; vG,ftdwf teDwvHk;udk vG,fxm;onf/ olYtusÐrSm &ufydki;f twGif;urS csKyfxm;ojzifY opfaeonf/ usaemf vufaqmifay;onfh xrDrSmvnf; olYtom;ESifh vdkufzuf aeonf/ olYrsufESmrSm ,cifuvdk arS;rSdefraeawmh ay/ wcsufwcsuf usaemfYudk Munfhonfh olYrsufvHk;rsm;rSm pdefa&mif wzswfzswf vufaeMuonf/ tawmfMumMum tvSrf;a0;vmonftxd olESiu fY saemf pum;rajymrd/ vrf;rSm c&D;oGm;rsm;jywfae\/ "mwfrD;wdkifrS tvif;a&mifESifh a0;&m arSmif&dyf zufrS jzwfavSsmufvmMuaomtcgü &ifxJwGif aEG;vmjyefonf/ usaemfonf olYudk &ifcGit f wGif; qGJoGif;ayGYnSpfypfvdkpdwfrsm; ay:vm onfudk rsdKodyfae&jyefonf/ ycHk;csif; ,SOfavSsmufaecdu k fü olYvufarmif;om; rsm;onf usaemfYvufarmif;udk vmíxdMu\/ olY &ifckeo f Hrsm;rSm þvrf;usOf; uav;xJü vdIufckefaeonf xifonf/ þvrf;ü avSsmufaepOfwGif olUudk usaemf rnfrSsowd&aeonfudk xkwfazmfajymae&efrvdk[k usaemf awG;vmcJY\/ usaemfonf olYtwGuf tusÐydwfp wckESihf olYtartwGuf yef;emaq;rsm; ,lvmcJY\/ vrf;tawmfa0;a0; avSsmufvmjyD;onftxd ray;jzpf ao;ay/ pmrsufESm [39 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
vrf; "mwfrD;wdkifrsm;atmufwGif olESifh usaemfonf rsufvHk;csif; qdkifrMd u\/ ESpfa,mufpvHk; pum;rajymbJ tcsdefudkuf pufu&d ,mrsm;vdk wjydKifeufwnf; jyHK;vdkufrdMuonf/ olYrsufESmay:wGif &SufaoG;a&mifrsm; ajy;aejyefonf/ vrf;qHk;vkeD;rS “uJ ... ajymp&m&dSvkdY rIwfvm;? ajymp&m&dS ajymav” usaemfonf olUudk cyfwdk;wdk; ar;ae\/ olonf usaemfYrsufESmudkMunfY&if; jyHK;aejyefonf/ “ol ydefoGm;w,f” ajymjyD; jidrfjidrfoufoufyif qufavSsmufaejyefonf/ wcgwcgü olYrsufESmuav;rSm wckckudk eufeuf&dIi;f &dIif; awG;aeyHkrsdK;vnf; ay:vmonf/ wcgw&Hü tjyHK;&dyfrsm;onf trSwf rxif jzwfoef;oGm;Muonf/ vrf;qHk;vkeD;a&mufvmrS olonf pum;rsm;udk cyfwdk;wdk; ajymvmonf/ vrf;udk ydkí aES;av;pGm avSsmufvmjyefonf/ “olrsm;udk arhaewmrIwfvm;? 'DaeY ol blwmu vmMudKaerSmvdkY oif;oif;wdkYeYJ tavmif;tpm; vkyfvmcJYwm? vmrMudKbJrsm;ae&if olYudk ac:udk rac:awmYbl;vdkY pdwful;xm;wm? ol vmMudKaevdkYaygY” “ajymp&m&dSw,fqdkwm tJwmvm;” “r[kwfbl;” [k ajymum olonf vrf;auGY"mwfrD;wdkiaf tmufwGif &yfwefY vdkufjyefonf/ usaemfonfvnf; olYtem;wGif ,SOfvsuf &yfaerd\/ a&SUwGif EIif;rIefrsm;Mum;xJü armfawmfum;vrf;rMuD;udk vSrf;jrifae& onf/ vrf;rMuD;odkYtul; um;jzwfarmif;onfY tkwfwefwm; uav;ay:wGif vnf; ESif;rIef ESi;f pufrsm; wajzmufajzmuf usaeonf/ olonf usaemfYrsufESmudk armfhMunfhae\/ “'DaeY ausmufyef;awmif;aps;xJrSm oleJYvdkufr,fY ykqdk;wxnfawGYvdkY 0,fvmcJYwm? tJwmay;rvdkYyg? vlMum;xJrSmawmY ray;&Jbl;? &Sufygw,f? tJwm reufzuf tvkyfqif;&if 0wfvmcJY&r,f? oleJY abmif;bDeJY vHk;vHk; vdkuf wmr[kwfbl ;? abmif;bD0wfvdkuf&if vluydefydeef JY arsmufeJYodyfwlwm? vHkcsnf 0wf&if acsm&JYom;eJY? vHkcsnf0wfvnf; rkef;p&mMuD;yg? vHkcsnfawmif nDatmif 0wfwwf wm r[kwfbl;? wpwdk &SnfMuD;? wcgavmufawmY jrdKUvkifu t&D;ndK wdkYtdrf ac:oGm;&tHk;r,f? tJ'Dtrd fu acG;MuD;u yHkysufyef;ysuf jrif&if odyfudkufwm” ol &,faeaomfvnf; usaemfonf jidrfoufaerd\/ olYvG,ftdwftwGif;rS xkwf,laeaom vHkcsnfrSm aygufaps;jzifY av;q,f ausmfrSsray;&bJ &rnfr[kwf/ olYem;ürl em;awmif;av; w&Hawmif 0,fr0wfEdkif/ olonf usaemf xrDwxnf vufaqmifay;ojzifh olYrmeESifh usaemfYudk atmufusrcH vHkcsnfwxnf jyefay;aejcif;twGuf usaemfonf olYrmeudk OD;nGwfav;pm;vdkpdwfrsm;vnf; ay:vmae&jyefonf/ olonf þvHkcsnfwxnf usaemfYudk jyefí vufaqmifay;Efkif&eftwGuf aomfvnf;aumif; ... olY rdom;pk\ pHk;pHk;jrKyfvmaeaom pm;0wfaea&; jyóem aMumifYaomfvnf;aumif; xef;vsufrsm;udk wifaecJY&ayjyDvm;[k awG;aerd \/ usaemfY&ifxJwGif tapmu aysmf&TifMunfEl;pdwfuav;rsm;onf wjznf; jznf; jy,fum ESif;xkMuD;twGif;odkY ysHU oGm;um aysmufuG,f oGm;aeonf/ usaemfonf vHkcsnfudk vSrf;r,laomfvnf; ... tapmydkif;u jzpfay:aecJY onfY olY pdwfESvHk;om;twGif;rS MunfEl;&TifysrIuav;rsm; aysmufuG,foGm;rnf udkrl pdk;&drfaomu a&mufrdjyefonf/ usaemfonf MudK;pm;jyD; jyHK;ae&\/ usaemfonfvnf; olYtwGuf ,lvmcJYonfY tusÐpESifY olYtartwGuf aq;xkyfrsm;udk xkwfjyaeonf/ olonf xdkwdkufqdkifaerItwGuf jyHK;&,fae\/ olYrsufvHk;rsm; ydkí &Tef;vufawmufyvmaeonf/ “wdkufwdkufqdkifqdkifaemf ... olrsm;uvJ 0,fvmwm? oluvJ0,fvm” pmrsufESm [40 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf auseyfESpo f drfYrI MunfEl;&TifjyrIrsm; jynfYaeonfYtoHjzifY wwGwfwGwf ajymaeonf/ olYykqdk;udkvnf; vSrf;ay;aeonf/ usaemfonf olYykqdk;udk vSrf;r,lbJ oufjyif;csvdkufrd\/ “tJwm ... rif;zdkY&,f ... rif;tarzd&kY ,f? udkay;wmudk rif;r,l&if xm;ypfcJhaemf? rif;ay;wmudkawmh udk r,lEdkib f l;” usaemfonf at;wdat;puf ajym&if; txkyfudk olYajcaxmuf tem;odkY ypfcsvdkufonf/ xdktcgü olYrsufESmay:wGif tapmu jzwfoef;aeonfh MunfEl; &Tifvef;rIuav;rsm; aysmufuG,foGm;awmYrnf jzpfojzifh usaemfonf olYrsufESmudk rMunfhEidk fawmYay/ usaemfonf xdkae&mrS csmueJ vSnfhvdkufjyD; ol tHt Y m;oifYaepOf okwf okwfavSsmufxGufvmcJYonf/ ol vSrf;atmfajymaeonfudkvnf; *&krjyK/ “tdk .. tdk .. ae .. ae .. aetHk; .. aetHk;” ol\ vSrf;atmfoHrSm aemufydki;f ü aysmufuG,fae&pfco JY nf/ usaemfonf tvmu vrf;twdkif; r[kwfawmYbJ olvdkufajy;vmrnf pdk;ojzifY vrf;csdK;uav;wckü csdK;auGYvdkuf\/ usaemfxifonfYtwdkif;yif ol\ ajy;vdkufvmoHudk Mum;&onf/ usaemfonf jidrfouf&yfaevdkuf\/ olonf usaemfcsdK;auGYonfY vrf;ajrSmifuav;udk ausmfvGefum ... “aetHk; ... aetHk;av”[k atmf&if; ajy;vdkufoGm;aeonf/ xdknu usaemfY pdwftm&Hkü olYacHudk Mum;a,mifaecJo Y nf/ ol ajy;vdkufvmjyD; usaemfYudk ausmfvGefoGm;yHkudk jrifa,mifaeonf/ usaemfonf “b0ajymif;avol” [k acgif;pnf;ay;um uAsmwyk'f a&;aerd\/ xdkuAsmrSm usaemfudk,fwdkifvnf; rESpfouf/ usaemfonf wydkif;wp a&;jyD; uAsmudk qGJqkwfvTifYypf\/ usaemf tvkyfjyefvkyfaeonfY &ufrsm;wGif usaemfYpdwfxJü ndKndKY emewf jcif;rsm;atmuf0,f xef;vsufrsm; wdwfwqdwf wifvm aecJYjyD ... [líom ,HkMunfaeonf/ xdkYtwGuf tjypfwif&ef taMumif;vnf; &SmrawGYEidk f/ oluvnf; ol xef;vsufrsm;udk wifae &jyDjzpfaMumif; usaemfYudk xkwfazmfajym Edkifrnfvnf;r[kwf/ usaemfonf olY tem;oGm;xdkifvSsif ollonf &xm;jywif;0rS rsufESmudk tjyifodkY vSnfYxm;aepOfü olY rsufvHk;tdrfwGif rsuf&nfrsm; jynfYvmaeonfudk usaemfonf aemufausmzufrS vSrf;um jrifawGYae&ovdk cHpm;aecJ&Y onf/ usaemfESio fY lonf twlwl xdkifaecJYygvsuf pum;rsm;vnf; rajymjzpf/ anmifwdkodkYa&mufvSsifvnf; usaemfonf olwdkY xrif;0dkif;odkY r0ifawmY ay/ rsm;pGmaom &ufrsm;ü usaemfonf *gwfwGJay:wGifom cdkuyfaecJYonf/ olwdkYwGJodkY vufrSwfyif wufrppfjzpfawmYay/ þ&ufrsm; twGif;ü olESifh usaemfhtMum;ü tpdrf;a&mif cef;qD;pMuD;wckjzifh qGJum jcm;em;xm;ovdk cHpm; aecJ&Y onf/ olonf usaemfY vufaqmifypönf;rsm;udk jyefay;&ef MudK;pm;cJYao;\/ “r,lcsif&if vTifYypfcJYaygY”[k usaemfuajymvSsif olonf rsuf&nfrsm; 0Jvmae&jyefonf/ usaemfYudk ol0,fxm;onfY ykqdk;vufaqmifay;&efvnf; rMudK;pm;awmhay/ wcgw&H blwmwckckwGif usaemf olwdkYwGJa&SUrS vrf;jzwfavSsmufoGm;vSsif olonf olxdkifae&m jywif;zufrS vSrf;MunfYaewwfonf/ xdk&ufrsm;wGif rdk;onfvnf; csdefcg[kwfbJ ndKrJvmwwfonf/ ae jcpfjcpfawmuf yla vmifaeqJü rdk;onf &kwfw&uf rdIif;qdkY vmvSsif ouf&dSoufrJY t&m0w¦Ktaygif;onfvnf; ndKnpfrJyyk fvmMuonf/ þrJyky&f pfarSmifaerIrsm; onf ESvHk;om;udk vmí ta&mif[yfaeMujyefonf/ erdwfqdk;MuD;wck zwfMum; aejcif;udk em;axmifae&ovdkyif/ ndKndKY xef;vsufawmif;rsm;udk usaemf ppfaq;rdonfY aeYuvnf; anmifwdkrS &xm;xGufvmaomtcg rdk;MuD;onf jydKra,mif rJarSmifum &xm;MuD;ay: edrfYqif;usvmaecJhonf/ &xm;MuD;onfvnf; erdwfqdk;MuD;[k xif&aom t&dyfrnf;MuD;atmufrS vGwfajrmufap&ef tm;oGefckwfarmif;aecJYonf/ pmrsufESm [41] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
usaemfonf ndKndKwdkYwGJudk vufrSwfppfvmcJYonf/ olwdkYudk ausmfvGef vmcJhjyD; wGJtv,fodkY a&mufvSsif c&rf;csOfoD;awmif; oHk;awmif;udk xef;vsufygonf[k rouFmjzpfum ajcjzifh uefMunfYvdkufonf/ xdkawmif;oHk;awmif;rSm atmufzufü xef;vsufrsm; ygaeojzifY av;vH aeum uefí vIyfoifYoavmuf rvI yfay/ usaemfonf awmif;wawmif;ay:wGif ajcaxmufwzuf wifxm;jyD; rsuf vHk;0Jum ydkif&iS fudk &SmMunfhvdkufonf/ vlaygif;rsm;pGmudk usaemfonf wMudrfwnf; odrf;Munfhvdkufonf/ c&D;onftrsm;onfvnf; usaemfYudk vSrf;MunfYaeMuonf/ tcsdKYonf ajymvufp pum;rsm;udk &yfqdk if;xm;Muonf/ tu,fí &xm;ckwfarmif;aeoH om qlnHraecJYvSsif tyfusoHudkyif Mum;&rwwf wdwfqdwfaevdrfYrnf/ EkEk? oif;oif;? rat;oG,f? rat;jrifY? wifwifwdkY\ rsufESmrsm;udkvnf; awGY&\/ xdktxJü usaemfYudk pdu k fMunfYaeaom ndKndKYrsufESmuav;rSm a&SYodkYajy;xGuf vmovdk xifvdkuf&onf/ olYrsufESmrSm tjcm;olrsm;vdk £ajE´r&dSawmYbJ aoG;qkwfjzLa,mfoGm;onf/ olYrsufvHk; 0dkif;0dkif;pufpufMuD;rsm;vnf; ydkí 0dkif;puf vmaeonf/ olY rsufESmrSm jzLa,mfae&mrS aoG;rsm; jyefjynfY eDjref;vmonf/ xdkYaemuf rdIi;f npf vmjyefonf/ olu olYawmif;yg[k usaemfYudk vSrf;ajymaeouJodkY xifae&\/ usaemf yif;acsmif;odkYa&mufvSsif tvkyform;rsm; tultnDjzifY qGJcs zrf;qD;vdkufawmY rnf[k olawG;aMumufvdkufyHkonfvnf; uGufueJ ay:vmonf/ olonf usaemf&dS&modkY xajy;csifvm ojzifY olYrsufvHk;rsm;rSm £ajE´r& jzpfvmaeonf/ xdktcsdefwdk puúefYykid f; uav;twGif;ü usaemfonf olYtaeESifY rvkyfvSsif rjzpfawmYaomaMumifY vkyf&onf[k trSeftwdkif; awG; vdkufrd\/ &maygif;rsm;pGmaom tjcm; rdef;raumif;uav;rsm;uJYodkY ol jzpfay:ajymif;vJvmjcif;rSmvnf; jzpf&;dk jzpfpOf uav;rSs aywum;/ usaemf\ Munfvifaeaom pdwfrsm;rSmvnf; npfxdkif;vmonf/ usaemfonf xdkae&mrScGmvdkufjyD; qufvufí vufrSwfrsm;udk bmrSrjrif &bJ cJwHjzifY &rf;jcpfppfaq;oGm;onf/ þwGJay:rS vsifjrefpGm qif;ajy;oGm; vdkpdwfom ay:aecJYonf/ twmpef;ukef;blwmwGif &xm;t&dSefraorDü zswfueJ ckefqif;jyD; aemuf wGJodkY wufvmcJYonf/ wGJ0ü &yfaerd\/ xef;vsufawmif;i,frsm;? txkyftydk;i,frsm;udk o,faqmifum a&MuD;okwfy sm wifaeMuolrsm;udkvnf; usaemf onf wm;qD;vm; zrf;qD;vm; rvkyfcsifawmYay/ ndKndKYawmif;rsm;ESifY tjcm; usaemfYudk today;xm;onfh xef;vsufrsm;udk 0uGuf csefvSyfcjJY yD; ... þ wu,fyif rodem;rvnf &dk;om;&Smaom olqif;&Jrsm;\ ypönf;uav;rsm;udk zrf;qD;odrf;,lvdkpdwf r&dSawmhay/ uHx&dkufwm udka&ToD;onf ajy;vmjyD; “q&m xef;nufawG? xef;nufawG”[k usaemfYudk rsufESmvkyfum atmfajymonf/ usaemfonf olYudk acgif;wcsuf ndwfjyvdkuf\/ csufcsif;yif &xm;onf OMooH&Snfwcsufudk nSpfxkwfatmf[pfvdkuf onf/ rEdkirf eif; 0efav;MuD;udk o,faqmifum &xm;MuD; onf blwmuav;rS wa&GYa&GY xGufcGmvmonf/ xdk &xm; pxGufqJü ndKndKonf olYwGJay:rS qif;vdkuf\/ olUudk usaemfonf trSwfrJY ai;MunfYaerdonf/ olonf usaemfYudk jrifoGm;jyD; wGJay: vSrf;cdkwufvdkufonf/ olYvufrSm rrdvdkufbJ olonf jyefjyKwfusoGm;\/ olY *syefzdeyfuav; rSm oJMudK;jywf usef&pfcYo J nf/ olonf 'kef;ajy;vdkuf vmae\/ &xm;wpif;vHk; olYudk vSrf;MunfYMujyD; AvHk;AaxG; toHrsm;jzifY atmf[pfaeonf/ þtcsdefwdk uav;twGif;ü rnfolrSs oHMudK;qGJjyD; &xm;udk &yfwefYypf&ef pdwful;r&Mu/ 'kwd,tMudrf olonf &xm;udk rSDvmcJYonf/ olonf vufudkifudk vSrf;qGJwufvdkufjyefonf/ onfwMudrfwGifrl vufudkifudk rdrd&& udkifro d Gm; ojzifY olYudk,fuav;rSm wGJvJ qGJygvmonf/ olY ycHk;rS wbufonf jyKwfus oGm;um avt&dSefjzifY &xm;bD;atmuf a&mufoGm;onf/ usaemfonf olYudk csdKif;ESpfzufrS udkifajrSmufjyD; wGJay: qGJwifvdkuf onf/ pmrsufESm [42] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
usaemfESi, fY SOfí &yfrdcsdefwGif olYtom;rsm;rSm wqwfqwf wkefaeonf/ olYrsufESm onf aMumuf&GHY aoG;qkwf jzLa,mfaeonf/ olESifY usaemfonf wa,mufrsufESmudk wa,muf tMumMuD; ai;pdkufMunfYaerdMuonf/ olonf usaemfYudk pdwfjzifh pum;aygif;ajrmufjrm;pGm ajymqdkaeaomfvnf; EIwfrSum; pum;wvHk;rS xGufrvm/ usaemfYwGifvnf; olYudk pum;ajym p&mr&dS jzpfae\/ ajym&ef&adS om pum;aygif;rsm;pGm? taMumif;t&maygif;rsm;pGm onf &kwfw&uf ta0;odkY xGufcGmoGm;MuojzifY xdktcdkuftwefYwGifum; usaemfY pdwfESvHk;om;rsm;twGif;ü bmrSsr&dS/ usaemfonf olYxHrS rsufESmvTJvdkufjyD; oHvrf;ESifY,SOfvdkufvmaeonfY Muufarmufqnf a&ay;wl;ajrmif;rsm;udk t"dyÜm,fr&dS ai;Munfhvmrdonf/ vGifwD;acgiftwGif;&dS tnm&Gmuav;rsm;? ESrf;cif; zHk;qdk;MuD;rsm;? xef;awmMuD; rsm;? refusnf;awmMuD;rsm;? cyfa0;a0;&dS awmifwef;MuD;? þt&m0w¦Ktaygif; ay:ü usaemfrESpjf rdKYaom rdk;MuD;onf ydwfonf;qdkYqdkif;aeonf/ rdIif;ndKYndKY npfax;aeaom ta&miftaoG;onf ESvHk;om;udkvmí &dkuf[yfaejyefonf/ usaemfonf olYudk vSnfYrMunfYbJ “bmjyKvdkY 'Davmuf £ajE´ysuf&wm vJ” [k nnf;wGm; &Gwfqdkrdovdk ar;aecJYro d nf/ “udk odygw,f ndKndK&,f ... rif; udkYudk zGifYrajym&Jbl; ... zGifYrajym&uf zl; ... zGifYrajymcsifbl; rIwfvm;? rif; udkYudk cspfwm[m 'DtcGiht f a&;awG vdkcsif vdkYvdkY udkxifvmrSm pdk;w,f rIwfvm;? 'Dvdkvkyfwm b,fESpfcg &dSyvJ” “q,fcg ...” “q,fcg [kwfvm;” “q,fcgyg” “*gwfAdkvfawGaum ... &JawGaum today;w,f rIwfvm;” “[kwfuJY ay;ygw,f” usaemfonf olYpdwfü rxdcdkufapvdkojzifY bmrSsrjzpfovdk rxl;qef; ovdk jyHK;vdkufcsif \/ odkYaomf jyHK;Edkifrnfum; r[kwf/ usaemfonf oufjyif; rcsrdap&ef xdef;csKyfaeonf/ tjyifodkY zGifYrxkwfvdkufonfY oufjyif ;tylaiGY onf &ifxJodkY jyefvSnfh oGm;jyefonf/ “£ajE´&& vkyfaygY? &JawGeJYaum tm;vHk;eJYaum qufqHwJYae&mrSm wnfwnfrSefreS faygY? olwdkYeYJ ta&mif;t0,f zufpyfoabm aygYuG,f? tjrwfudk tcsdK;us rSefreS fay;aygY? udk ajymp&mawG trsm;MuD;&dSw,f/ pd k;&drfwmaygYav? udk ajymcsifwmawG rif;em;v,f ygw,f? em;v,fw,f rIwfvm;” “[kwfuJY” usaemf olYzufodkY rsufESmvSnfYvdkufjyD; olYycH;k ay: vufwifum olYudk ai;MunfYaejyefonf/ olonfvnf; usaemfUudk tjypfuif; pifonfY? cav;qef onfY olYrsufvHk; 0dkif;0dkif;pufpufMuD;rsm;jzifY jyefí MunfYaeonf/ olonf rsufawmifrcg/ rvIyf&Sm;/ olYESz;l rS qHpuav;rsm;rSmrl av aMumifh wzGmzGm 0Jaeonf/ ol\ tjypfuif;pif Munfvifaeaom rSefom;vdkrsufESmuav;aMumifY olYudk usaemfonf wPSmork',rsm; uif;pifoGm;um nDruav; t&if;vdk xifvmaejyefonf/ “yD;awmYvJ ajymp&m&dSao;w,f” usaemfonf &,foHjzifY ajymaerdonf/ “[kwfuJY” pmrsufESm [43] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“tJwm bmvJ odvm; ... tJwm bmvJ qdkawmY ... udk ndKndKYudk cspfw,f” usaemfonf tdrfomMum;ü olYudk csdKif;atmufrS yifYrjyD; &ifcGit f wGif;odkY odrf;ayGYvdkufonf/ ESpfa,mufaygif; wom;wnf; jzpfoGm;atmif zduyfxm; onf/ olonf [efaqmif&ke;f rSef;odod &kef;aeonf/ usaemfYpdwfwGifvnf; olESifY ESpfa,mufxJ urÇmopf wckodkY a&mufae&ovdk xifvmjyefonf/ ol\ aEG;td eDaxG;aeaom yg;udk EIwfcrf;jzifY zduyfxm;aeonf/ twefMumrS tenf;i,f ajzvTwfvdkuf&if; ... “qif&dki;f usHK;oGif;ovdkbJ? rif;vJ wajz;ajz; ,OfvmbDaemf” [k olYem;teD;uyfum cyfwdk;wdk; ajymaerdonf/ þtcdkuftwefYwGifum; pdwfrsm;onf vGwfvyfaygYyg; vmaeMuonf/ olonf &kef;xGufae&if; ... “oluvJuG,f? olrsm; pdwfnpfaeygw,fqdk? vTwfprf;ygtHk;? armaebD” usaemf ajzvTwfvdkufvSsif olYtusÐudk qGJqefYaeonf/ olYrsufESmrSm &SufaoG;rsm; MuGvmaejyefonf/ usaemfYudk armhMunfh&if; oufjyif; &SLaejyef onf/ “odyfqdk;wJYvl” olu MunfEl;pGm wdk;wdk;nnf;nnf; ajymaeonf/ yif;acsmif;ESifY eD;uyfvmvSsif usaemfonf olUudk tem;rS cGmoGm;&ef ajym vdkuf&\/ yif;acsmif;&Jrsm; &SmazGzrf;qD;awmYrnfudk awG;rdjyD; olonf rsufpdrsufESmrsm; ysufvmonf/ rsufvHk;rsm;rSm pdk;&drfaomujzifh 0dkif;pufvmMujyefonf/ olY&ifxJwGif u,frnfYoludk wpmpm idkaMuG;wrf;waeoHrsm; tjyifodkY xGufvSsH vmaeovdkyif/ olonf tm;udk;rJYpGmjzifY c&D;onftrsm;&dS&modkY avSsmufoGm;aeonf/
tarSmifwGif;rSoHo&m
(10)
xdktcgrSpí olESifY rD&xm;&Jrsm;? *gwfAdkvfrsm; azmfa&GpmG jyHK;um&,fum qufqHaeonfudk awGY&vSsif usaemfonf rdrdEiS fY rnfodkYrsS rywfoufovdk ae Edkifvmatmif MudK;yrf;aecJY&onf/ olonf qHk;cef;wdkifatmif ysufpD;aeonfh wifwif? rat;oG,fwdkYESifhvnf; a&ma&maESmaESm aygif;oif;ae&onf/ &Hzef&cH gwGif rdef;rrIayGol &Jom;wOD;OD;? *gwfAdkvfwOD;OD;? vufrSwfppf wOD;OD;u olYtem;rS rcGmbJ pum;p&SmjyD; ajymqdk&,farm aevSsif usaemfonf xdk &,foH armoH ajymqdkaeoHrsm;udk rMum;csifawmYay/ rjrifcsif/ xdktcgü usaemfonf olYudk vSnfYrMunfY EIwfrqufbJ olYa&SYrS jzwfoGm;onf/ usaemf xdkodkYjyKrlonfudk olonfvnf; pdwfxdcdkufum rsufESmuav; odrfi,faejyefonf/ xdkaeYrsdK;wGifum; usaemfonf ol&dS&modkY roGm;awmY/ “olYudk rvkyfapcsifbl;? 'gayr,fY olvkyf&rSmaygYav? 'g[m a&pD;aMumif; qdk&if olvJ a&jzpfawmY 'Da&pD;aMumif;twdkif; arSsm&rSm aygY? 'DvdkrSbJ olwdkY riwfatmif aeEdkirf ,f? olYtartwGuf aq;0,fEdkirf ,f? ck odyfrMumao;bl ;? olYem;ay:rSm em;awmif;uav; jzpfvmbD? ol t0wftpm;uav;awGvJ jydK;jydK; jyufjyuf 0wfEdkifvmbD? olvkyfwm rSefygw,f? vkyf&rSmbJaygY” usaemfum; *gwfwGJaemufzuf 0&HwmwGif xGuf&yf&if; xdktawG;rsm;udkom xyfum jyefum awG;ae&\/ t&m&mudk OD;aESmuf tav;ay;um ydkif;jzwf ae&\/ naebufrsm;wGif arSmif&DysdK;p jyKvmvSsif usaemfonf [dkpOfuvdkyif olY tem;ü oGm;xdkifonf/ “&JawGudk ydkufqHay;p&m&dS&if rSefreS fay;aemf? aiGawmY a&SmYray;eJY” [k usaemfonf ESpfa,mufMum;&Hkomajymum rjywf owday; aewwfonf/ pmrsufESm [44] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
xdktcgrsm;wGif olonf usaemf bmaMumifYar;aeonfudkodum olY rsufvHk;0dkif;MuD;rsm; t&nfvJYvmum usaemfYudk ai;MunfY aeonf/ acgif;udk wcsuf qwfueJndwfonf/ “wacguf b,favmufay;&ovJ” “wq,f” olY toHrSmvnf; wdk;oufaeonf/ usaemfonf arSmif&D&x D J0,f olUudk jyefí ai;MunfYaejyefonf/ olonf t0wftpm;opfrsm;jzifY ydkí awmufyvmonf/ usaemf vufaqmifay;onfY tuFsDESifY xrDrSm olESifY ydkívdkufzufaeonf[k &ifxJwGif twdkif;r&dS MunfEl; vmjyefonf/ usaemfonf tarSmifudk tm;udk;um xdkifckt H ay:ü axmufxm; onfY olYvuftay: usaemfYvufjzifYzdum qkyfudkifxm;vdkufonf/ olonfvnf; vufudk jyefr&kyfodrf;bJ jidrfoufae\/ tarSmif&dyfxJü olYxHrS aygif'geHY? a'geyef;&eHY? EIwfcrf;qdk;qD&eHYrsm;aMumifY pdwfrsm;ü xHk,pf vmae&jyefonf/ “ydkufqHawmY olwdkYr,lbl;vdkY b,favmufjiif;jiif; ,latmifay;aemf? ydkufqHr,l&if xef;nufvJ rwifeJYaygY ” usaemfonf olYtem; wdk;a&TYvkduf\/ “olwdkYeYJ pvdkufpa&mvJ ae&rSmaygYuG,f? b,favmuftxd ae&r,f qdkwJY twdkif;twmawmY &dS&rSmaygY? olYpnf;udk,fYpnf; &dS&r,f? olwdkYxJrSm udkxGef;wifwdkYvdk udkysm;wdkYvdk udkavmfvDwdkYvdk wu,fY vl&dk;vlaumif;awGvJ &dSygw,f? xGe f;armifwdkYvdk vl,kwfrmawGvJ &dSw,f? qufqHa&;rSm vdktyfwmavmufawmY vkyfaygY? ck udkajymaewm udk o0efwdkvdkY ajymaewmvdkYrsm; rif; awG;aeovm;? tif; ... o0efwdkwmvJ jzpfcsifjzpfrSmaygYuG,f? rif;udk udk cspfwmudk;? waeYus&if udk twnf,lr,fY rdef;uav;udk;? o0efwdkw,f qdk&ifvJ udkrSeyf gw,f? udk tckajymaewmawG[m trSefawmY trSefawGbJ rIwfvm;? ajym oifYwmawGbJ rIwfvm;? uJ ... uJ .. 'DtaMumif; ajymae&wm armygw,f? 'djyiftaMumif; ajymMupdkYuG,f? aeYwdkif; 'gcsnfYajymae&wm armbD ” olonf yifo Y ufudk av;av;wGJYwGJY csaeonf/ acgif;udk iHYv k dkufonf/ “olrsm; rat;oG,fvdk aps;rqpfwwfzl;? wifwifvdkvJ ydkufqHray;bJ rwifbl;? ydkufqHay;p&m&dS&if awmif;oavmuf ay;vdkuf wmbJ? udkYzkYd wjym;rS usefusef .. rusefusef ...? 'grS pdwfcsrf;om&r,fqdkwm odygw,f? pdwfcsuG,f ” xdkpum;oHrsm;onf usaemfY &ifciG ftwGif;odkY wdk;a0SY0ifa&mufvmum tom;udkazmufum pdrfYqif; oGm;aeonf/ ESpfa,mufpvHk; pum;rsm;pGm ajym&ef&dSaomfvnf; ajym&rnfYpum;rsm;udk csKyfwnf;xm;um jidrfoufaeMuonf/ usaemfum; olY tem;ü wdwfwqdwf jidrfoufpGm xdkifae&jcif;udk MunfEl;aecJYonf/ rsm;aomtm;jzifY aeYcif;zuf tjyefc&D;wGif yif;acsmif;odkY ra&mufrD usaemfonf olYtem;wGif oGm;xdkifavYr&dS/ oGm;xdkifrv d Ssifvnf; yif;acsmif;ESifY eD;uyfvmaecsdefü ol aMumuf&GHY wkefvIyfaeyHu k dk jrifawGYae&onfrSm pdwfcsrf;omEdkifz, G fr &dS/ yif;acsmif;ESifYe;D uyfvmvSsif w*sHK;*HsK; ckwfarmif;vmonfY &xm;MuD;\wGJ rsm;rSm vloHoloH jidrfoufvmonf/ arSmifcdkolrsm;onf wa,mufrsufESmudk wa,muf tm;udk;rJYpGm MunfYaeMuonf/ pum; wvHk;rSsrajym/ toHr&dS/ rnfolrSs oufjyif;vnf;rcs/ olwdkYrsufvHk;rsm;rSm olwdkYpw d ftaqmuftODrsm;\ wHcg;aygufrsm; jzpfMuojzifY &ifxJüjzpfay:cHpm;ae&aom a0'em tpkpko nf olwdkY rsufvHk;rsm;ay:ü xif&Sm;pGm vmí [yfaeMuonf/ þtcsdefwGifum; ndKndKonf vlu ae&mwGif jidrfoufpGmxdkifaeaomf vnf; olYrsufvHk;rsm;rSm aMumuf&GHUrI wkefvIyfrIrsm;jzifY tjidrfrae ysm,mcyf vIyf&Sm;vmonf/ yvufazmif;ay:ü wef;pD&yfaeMuaom &Jom;rsm;udk jrifawGYae&vSsif olonf touf&SL EdkifawmYrnfr[kwf/
pmrsufESm [45 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
yif;acsmif;ü &SmazGa&;rsm; zrf;qD;xm;vSsif rat;oG,f? wifwifwdkYuJYodkY? rat;a&TwdkYuJYodkY rdef;uav;rsm;onf olwdkYypönf;rsm; jyef&a&;twGuf olwdkY udk,fcE¨mrsm;udk pGeYu f sJvSL'gef;&ef &xm;ay:rS qif;ae&pfcJYMu\/ wifwifum; b,fqDu b,fvdk&vdkufrSef;rodonfY udk,f0efwckvnf; tjrwf&aecJYjyD/ olYudk,f0efrmS rodromuav;rSsom &dSao;\/ yif;acsmif;ü &xm;MuD; tcGHcsnf;oufouf vdSrx fY Gufvmaomtcg ... usaemfonf vlpD;wGJwck \ wae&mü&yfum yif;acsmif; blwmudk ausmay; vdkufygvmcJYonf/ pdwftm&Hktjrifürl qif;ae&pfcJYaom trsdK;orD;rsm;\ t&Sufurf;ukefaejyDjzpfaom? tqDjyefaeaom? eDjref;aeaom om;orifuJYodkY tjypfuif;pifonfY rsufvHk;uav;rsm;&dSaom ... xdkrsufESmrsm;onf w0J0J ygvm aeMuonf/ ysufpD;w,fqdkwmbmvJ/ rdef;uav;wa,muf ysufpD;w,fqdkwmbmvJ/ þolqif;&Jruav;rsm;um; ysufpD;aeMujyDvm;/ usaemfY tjriftawG;rsm;um; “tajctaeuay;aom tawGYtMuHK? xdk tawGYtMuHK\ rlvZpfjrpfudk opömw&m;jzifY cGJpdwf&SmazG vdkufaomaMumifY” ajymif;jyefajymif;vJoGm;Muonf/ þrdef;uav;rsm;udk ysufpD;aeaom rdef;uav;rsm;[k usaemfrjrifEidk f/ wcgw&Hü vlpkrdMuaomtcg wifwif\ udk,f0efudk vufonf&SmazGMu&if; usaemfwdkYonf vlYbHkavmu\ tay:,HrS &,fp&mrsm; udkom &SyfMunfYMuum wu,f&,fcsifonf r[kwfbJ &,farmcJYMu\/ “wifwifwdkYuawmY erlembJ? olrsm;awG vifr&db S J Adkufay:vm&if zsufcs&wmeJY bmeJY? wifwifusawmY jyóem&Sif;vdkufwm b,favmufvG,fovJ? acGs;cHtusÐ Adkufus,foD;av;awG wvHk;yD;wvHk; jzKwfvdkufwmbJ? b,fa0ae,sowå0gawGudkrS 'ku© ray;awmYbl;? cyfwnfwnf aevdkufwmbJ? 'gayr,fY usKyfwdkYuawmY MunfYrae&ufzl;rIwfvm;? w&m;cHawGYatmif &SmMu&r,f” &,fp&mrsm;udk &SmMuHajymwwfonfY *gwfAdkvfudkarmif&Donf *gwfwGJxJwGif &xm;ckwfarmif;aepOfü [uf[ufyufyuf &,fvdkuf jyD; arSmifcdkukefonf OD;ay:vmMuD;udk vufndSK;xdk;jyaeonf/ OD;ay:vmonf vlMuDyDyD &Suf&SufjzifY rsufESmMuD;eDjref;vmum jyHK;aecJhonf/ “w&m;cH OD;ay:vm...? 'g armifrif;MuD;bJ jzpf&r,f? usaemf tcdkit f rm ajym&Jw,fAsm? r,Hk&if wifwifYcav; arG;vmwm apmifYMunfY? OD;ay:vmeJY cGswfpGyfwlae&r,f/ oGm;rygbl;av... oGm;zHk;uav; wjrHKUjrHKUeJY” “'Dq&mav; vufcsufaerSmaygY? wDbDpDawG[m vufaum ajcaum tm;vHk;aum oGufMuwm” OD;ay:vmonf w[J[J&,f&if; usaemfYtay: vTJcs aejyefonf/ “[kwfw,f... wDbDpDuav; arG;vmrSm” [k udka&Ta,mufonfvnf; usaemfYudk vufndSK;xdk;ajym&if; ... waomaom &,faeonf/ xdktcsdefwGifum; þjyufvHk;rsm;rSm yGJtusqHk;jzpfaecJYonf/ “r[kwfao;bl;As? olu cifAsm;wdkY tcsif;csif;awGrS ydkyD;apwemxm;wm? r,Hk&if wifwif arG;vmwm apmifYMunfY? udka&Ta,muf qHyifvdk eDusifusif wGefYaumufaumufav; ae&r,f” “at;Asm teJeJY trsm;qdkwmawmY ygrSmaygY? usaemf a&Ta,mufvnf; a,mufrdcsif a,mufrdrSmaygYAsm? [J...[J... tckrS olawmf aumif;awG vkyfraeMuygeJY? 'gayr,fY wu,fYw&m;cH[m usaemfwdkYtxJu r[kwfbl;? 'g[m &Jom;awGvufcsufaum rjzpfEdkib f l; vm;Asm? 'Daumifrav;u olwdkYeYJ ydkjyD; eD;eD;pyfpyf aewm” “[m 'gawmY rSm;w,fAsdKU? 'D C&m0go udpöxJ b,fYES,faMumifY olawmfaumif;awG qGJxnfY&wmvJAsm” udkarmif&Donf tvHudk,rf;jyae&if; waomaom &,faecJo Y nf/ pmrsufESm [46 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
usaemfYpdwfüvnf; wifwifYtaMumif;rSm jzpf&;dk jzpfpOf uav;tjzpfjzifY aygYaygYqquJYodkYom awG;aecJYonf/ jynfYwefqmruav;rsm;onf jynfYwefqmtvkyfudk olwdkY0rf;a&;twGuf tvkyfwcktjzpfjzifY &d;k om;pGm vkyfudkifaeMujcif; jzpfonf [k awG;vmrdonf/ wcgw&HwGifrl “ndKndKonfvnf; arSmifcdkor? xdkrSwifwifvdk rdef;uav;? xdkrSzmjzpfoGm;vSsif” ponfY tawG;rsm;udk usaemfonf &ifü wif;usyfav;vHpGm jzifY awG;awmvmae&jyefonf/ udkarmif&Dum; xdkodkY usaemf r&,frjyHK;jzpfaeonfudk rESpo f ufwwfay/ olonf *gwfwGJay:wGif olESiu fY saemf ESpfa,mufwnf; usefcJYcsdefü usaemfYvnfyif;udkzufxm;&if; olYcH,lcsufrsm;udk w[m;[m; &,foHaESmum ajymaewwfonf/ “&ifarmif&m... rif;udk igMunfYMunfYae&wm igYpdwfxJrSm bk&m;tavmif; olawmfaumif;uav;udk zl;;arSsmfMunfndKae&ovdkbJ? [J...[J...? &ifarmif& olawmfaumif;qdkwm rSwfxm;uG? iwfwmbJ? iwfw,f? at; ... rif;u arSmifcdk awG wifvm&if pdwfnpfvmaum? 'gudk pdwfnpfp&mvdkY rSwfae&if 'Dtcsdef 'DumvrSm &Jabmf[m azmufjyefaewJY &JabmfbJ? 'gudk &JabmfwdkY igwdkYtwGuf pdwfnpfp&muae aiGawG a&TawG jzpfvmatmif ,HkMunfcsuf &dS&r,f ... cH,l vmwwf&r,f ... usifYoHk;vmwwf&r,f? vcsD;wJY ... [m;[m;? a[Y &ifarmif& igom wDbDpDqdk&if um;0,fpD;yvdkufwmaygYuGm? qef;ovm; .../ “rSwfxm;a[Y? wm;jrpfukefawG &dSaewkef;rdkYom igwdkYwawG rsufESm yGifYvef;aeMuwm? awmfMum r&dSawmYbl;qdkrS igwdkY aemifw&MurSm? tJ'DusawmY rS vufrSwfrJY c&D;onfuav;awGqDu wrl;awmif;pm;& wyJawmif;pm;&? &Jabmf&m ra0;vSawmYwJY tem*gwfumvrSm 'DarSmifcdkukefawG r&dSawmYbl;vdkY awG;MunfYvdkufprf;yg? b,favmufrsm; pdwfxdcdkufp&m aumif;vdkufygYrvJ? b,favmufrsm; aMuuGJzYdk aumif;vdkufMurvJ? 'DtaMumif;om jrdKUvkifodef;vGif MuD;od&if 0w¦Kwyk'fa&;rSm? tJ'DiaygMuD; tuf(p)pDvkyf&wm xrif;r0awmYvdkY wzufwvrf;u pma&;q&mvkyfr,fqdkjyD; AvmpmtkyfwtkyfeYJ pmawG xa&;ae w,fqdkwm rif;rMum;rdbl;vm;? 'DaumifMuD; ckqdk0w¦KawG tkyEf Spfq,f avmufawmif zwfzl;aebDuG” tawmfMumí udkarmif&D\pum;rsm; tqHk;owfoGm;vSsif usaemfonf *gwfwGJaemufzuf 0&HwmodkY xGuf&yfum usaemf \ tapmu &,farmvdkpdwf tm;vHk;onfvnf; Muufoef; MuufavS;aysmuf wzswfzswf aysmufuG,foGm; aeonf/ usaemfonf arSmifcdk t&IyftawG;rsm;Mum;ü jidwG,fum ygae&oltjzpf jzifY rddrdudk,fudk jyefí jrifae&onf/ ndKndK udk,fwdkif arSmifcdkoljzpfvmcJYum olYudk rwm;qD;EdkifawmYojzifY tjcm;olrsm;udk rzrf;vdkawmYonfY pdwfrsm;rSm wcsdefxufwcsdef ydkí &ifYrm vmaecJYonf/ ndKndKUudk tumtuG,f,ljyD; tjcm; arSmifcdkorm;rsm;onfvnf; ydkí twifY&JvmaeMu\/ þt&IyftaxG;rsm;rSm wckESiYw f ck vdrf,SufvmMuum &IyfaxG;onfxuf ydkí &IyfaxG;vmaeonf/ aemufydki;f &ufrsm;wGif udk,fysufaeMuonfY olawmif;pm; tkyfpw k pkyg þt&IyftaxG;xJ ygvmonf/ yxr&ufrsm;wGif olwdkYwawG oHukefwGJwwGJay:ü xef;vsufrsm;wifjyD; vdkufygaeMuonfudk usaemfvnf; owdrxm;rdcJY/ aeyljyif;onfY waeYvnf ausmufyef;awmif;blwmwGif &xm;&yfxm; pOf? usaemf *gwfwGJay:wGif wHk;vHk;vJaepOf olwdkYtkyfpkonf xef;vsufrsm;udk o,fvmMujyD; oHukefwGJay: wifMu\/ c&D;onfrsm; ra&mufao;/ usaemfawGYjrif&ojzifY olwdkYudk rwifMuyg&ef awmif;yefonf/ olwdkY onf qufí wifjrJwifonf/ xdkaeYu ausmufyef;awmif;rS &xm;xGufvmcJYaomtcg olwdkYonf oHukefwGJ\ wHcg;&Gufav;ckudk av0ifap&ef zGifYjyD; xef;vsuf tdwfrsm;tay:ü xdkifum vdkufygvmcJYMuonf/ ausmufyef;awmif;ESifY tifawmus,ftMum; wae&mü &xm;aqmifY ojzifY olwdkY ua&mfur,f zGifYxm;onfY oHwHcg;&Gufonf 0kef;ueJ ypf&u dk fvdkuf\/ taygufteD;&dS udk;ESpft&G,fcefY rdef;cav; ezl;udk&u dk frdum cav;r av; vJusoGm;onf/ olYzcifonf cav;ruav;udk &ifciG ftwGif;ü ayGYjyD; ESmESyfaeonf/ oHwHcg;&dkufoHaMumifY usaemfESifY *gwfAdkvfonf xGufMunfYvdkufMu\/ vrf;ckvwfü &xm;udk b&dwfqGJtkyu f m &yfvdkuf&awmY onf/ pmrsufESm [47] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
&Jrsm; tultnDjzifY olwdkYudk ppfaq;&onf/ xef;vsuftdwfrsm;udk ypfcs? vlrsm;udk qif;cdkif;jyD; &xm;MuD;udk tvHokwfokwfjyum xGufvm &onf/ olwdkY vlwq,fYig;a,mufrSsonf oHvrf;eHab; uefabmifMuD;tay:ü wef;pD&yfaeMu\/ usaemfwdkYudk &GH&SmpufqkyfonfY rsufvHk; rsm;jzifY MunfYae\/ 'Pf&m&aeonfY cav;ruav;udk ayGYcsDxm;onfYzcif\ rsuf&nfrsm;ü rsuf&nfrsm; jynfYvmaeonf/ &xm;xGufvmaomtcg olonf usaemfYemrnf ac:jyD; vSrf;qJaecJY\/ “a[Y ... rat (-) &ifarmif ...? 'kdYvJ vlawGyguG? Rat (-) &? 'kdYusawmY rwif&bl;vm;uG? rif;wdkY w&m;w,fa[Y? odyfw&m;wJh vlawG? ig (-) rom;awG? 'kdYudk 'Dvkd ESdyfpufEdkiaf tmif usef;rmMuygapAsm? csrf;omMuygapAsm ... MuHwdkif;atmifvdkY aqmifwdkif; ajrmufMuygap? vdk&mqkeJY wvHk;w0xJ jynfYpEHk dkifMuygap? om"kAsm ... om"kyg...om"kyg” xdktoHonf usaemfYaemufrS t&dyfuJYodkY ajy;vdkufvmaeonf/ olwdkYudk vSnfYrMunfYawmYaomfvnf; usaemf\ tjrifrSwfpdwf tm&Hkü um; olwdkY uefabmifMuD;eHab;ü pk&yfaeyHk ygvmaeonf/ olwdkYausmbufü olwdkYudk,fay: xdk;aeaom anmifyifMuD;onf tkyfqdkif;ae\/ uefabmifü pdrf;jymaeaom uefa&jyifonf at;jr um rvIyfr&Sm; jidrfoufaeonf/ olwdkYum; vrf;ckvwfü roefpGrf;awmYaom cE¨mudk,frsm;udk o,faqmifum? xef;vsuftdwfrsm;udk xrf;ydk;um vlemwa,mufudk ayGY,lum b,fqDodkY oGm;Murnfenf;/ &xm;wpif;vHk;rS vlrsm;onf olwdkYudk xGufMunfYaeMu\/ udka&Ta,muf om;uav;oHk;a,muf\ rsufvHk;tdrfrsm;ü vlom;wdkY\ arwåmw&m;aMumifY rsuf&nfrsm; ydwfzHk;vmaeMuonfudk aemufwGJrSyif vSrf;jrifae&\/ ndKndKonf vnf; usaemfYudk vSrf;MunfYae\/ “olwdkYvJ vlawGbJAsm? vlawGbJrIwfvm;” usaemfY ESvHk;om;rsm;onfvnf; usaemfY OD;aESmufrsm;udk xdkar;cGef;rsm; cGef;qifYcGe;f qifY ar;jref;aeonf/ usaemfonf *gwfwGJcHkwckay:ü udk,fudk ypfvSJ xdkifaerd\/ “'DvdkvkyfrSbJ &ifarmifa&Y ... 'DvdkrSrvkyf&ifvJ r&awmYbl;”[k *gwfAdkvf udkarmifudkMuD;u usaemfYudk vSrf;ajymaeonf/ þodkYjyKvkyfcjJY cif;omvSsif jyóemudk ajz&Sif;&mü trSefqHk;jzpfonf[k usaemfonf tMudrfMudrf oHk;oyfaerd\/ pifppf jyóemwckudk ajz&Sif;&mü usaemfonf arwåmw&m;jzifYomvSsif odrfarGpY Gm ajz&Sif;vdkol? usaemfonf vlom;tcsif;csif \ arwåmw&m;udk t<uif;rJY ,HkMunfudk;uG,fol/ xdkaeYu usaemfonf pdwfESvHk; rMunfvifawmYojzifY *gwfwGJay:rS rqif;awmYbJ jidrfoufpGm vdku fygvmcJY\/ vufrSwfudkaomf vnf;aumif;? arSmifcdkukefrsm;udkaomfvnf;aumif; r&SmazG rppfaq;EdkifawmYay/ wefqmrJY ukefypönf;rsm;udk uefx&dkuf blwmav;rsm;rS c&Donfrsm; wifaqmifMuaomfvnf; usaemfonf ppfaq;jyD; wefqmrvkyfay;/ naecif;rsm;ü ndKndKwdkYwGJodkY ul;oGm;avY&dSaomfvnf; xdknaeurl roGm;awmYay/ jrdKUopfrS xGufvmcJYaomtcgü ndKndKonf &xm;wHcg;0wGif xGuf&yfjyD; usaemf&dS&m *gwfwGJodkY vnfyif; w&Snf&SnfjzifY MunfYvm onf/ olonf arSmifarSmif&D&Dü ta0;uyif vSrf;jyD; rodrom jyHK;jyae\/ olu ol&dS&modkY taMumif;wckaMumifT usaemfYudk vmapvdkonf odaomfvnf; usaemfonf *gwf wGJay:rS rqif;csif jzpfvmcJY&onf/ q'´KHacsmif;odkY &xm;0ifa&mufqdkuf&yfvdkufvSsif awmifwGif;MuD; t0ifü a&Smifwcif vufrSwfppfaq;rnfudk aMumufojzifY vufrSwfrJYrsm;ESifY arSmifcdkorm;rsm;onf olwdkYwGJay:rS ajy;qif;vmMujyD; usaemf vufrSwfa&mif;&m yvufazmif;ay:wGif vufrSwfrsm; (q'´KHrS awmifwGif;MuD; jym;oHk;q,f) vm,lMuonf/ olwdkYxJü ndKndKvnf; ygonf/ usaemfYudk pum;ajym&ef&dSojzifY vufrSwfudk aemufrS,lonf/ þtcsdefum; tarSmifpdk;vmojzifY arSmifcdkypönf;rsm; 0Suf&ef vG,fulcsdef wjcm;blwm zrf;qD;a&;rsm;rS vGwfajrmufvmcsdef jzpfojzifY arSmif&D&x D Jü olY rsufESmuav;rSmvnf; &Tifvef;awmufypGm jyHK;&,fxm;Edkifonf/ usaemfYudk MunfYaeMuaom olYrsufvHk; rsm;onf &Tef;jyufaeMuonf/ pmrsufESm [48 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“ol vmrvm;vdkY ... ewfarmufwkef;u oarmoD;okyf 0,fyD;apmifYaewm? olrvmwmeJY tukefpm;yvdkuf&wmbJ? bmjyKvdkY rvmwmvJ” olonf toHudk cyfwdk;wdk;jyKum ar;aeonf/ usaemfonf vufrSwfay:wGif aeYpGJwHqdyfwHk;udk jznf;jznf;EdSyfaeonf/ “cspfw,fuG,f”[k ajymaerdonf/ “awmfprf;yg? ar;wmawmY rajymbl;? uJ vufrSwf okwfokwfay;prf;yg? awmfMum &xm;xGufoGm;r,f” usaemfonf vufrSwfay;&if; vufrSwfudk rvTwfay;bJ olYvufudk zrf; qkyfxm;aeonf/ *gwfAdkvf udkarmifudku *gwfwGJay:rS “a[Y okwfokwfvkyf? 'Dudk ac:vm cJYygvm;uG? 'DrSm a&mif;aygY”[k vSrf;atmfí aemufae onf/ olonf usaemfYvufxJrS vufrSwfudk qufueJ qGJvkvdkufjyD; olYwGJodkY ajy;oGm;onf/ &xm;xGufvmaomtcg ndKndKYudk tumtuG,fay;aom cspfp&m vSyonfY tarSmifonfvnf; ydkí euf&dIi;f vSypGm arSmifvmae onf/
(11) tarSmifwGif;rSoHo&m rMumrMum &xm;MuD;onf tjyefc&D;ü aemufusaewwfonf/ xdktcg ewfarmufblwmrS xGufvmcJYvSsifyif blwmwzuf&dS awmifaMum ukef;jrifYuav;rsm;ay:0,f arSmif&Dvnf; qd kif;vmaecJYjyD/ awmpyfrsm;? v,fuGif;jyifrsm; ,mcif;a[mif;rsm;onf ryDro a&;jc,fxm;onfY yef;csDum;csyf jzpfvm\/ tarSmif&dyo f nf arSmifcdkorm;rsm;twGuf udk;uG,f&mjzpfvmonf/ olwdkYrsufESmrsm;rSm r&Sif;rvif; tvif;a&mifatmufü aygYyg;vwfqwf vmMuonf/ onfYxufydkí arSmifvmvSsif olwdkYonf acsmifxJü 0Sufxm;Mu aom xef;vsuftdwfrsm; awmif;rsm;udk vGwfajrmufvmMujyD txdrf;trSwfjzifY pkaqmif;aeMuonf/ olwdkYxHrS aygYyg;vef;qef;vmrIrsm;onf usaemfYudkyif ul;pufvmaeMu ovm; xifonf/ usaemfonf ndKndKUeHab;ü xdkif&if; usaemfYudk usaemf ar;cGef;wckar;aeonf/ usaemfonfyif arSmifcdkorm;wydkif; jzpfvmaecJYjyDvm;/ “aeYwdkif; ... aeYwdkif;aemf ... 'DvdkcsnfY &xm;MuD; aemufus aemufusae &if odyfaumif;rSmbJaemf” ndKndK\ &Tifvef;aygYyg;pGm ajymaeoHrSm usaemfYtawG;rsm;ESifhvmí pyf[yf qufoG,faejyefonf/ xdktcgwGifum; usaemfonf vnf; olYvdkyif vGwfajrmufvmrItwGuf 0rf;omaeum olYvdkyif wdwfwqdwf qkawmif;aerd onf/ olonf rD;a&mifrSderf SdefatmufwGif usaemfYudk vSnfYMunfYaeonf/ olY rsufESmay:rS acR;OacR;pufuav;rsm;udk wdkYywf yk0gjzifY wdkY,l aeonf/ “[kwfw,f ... 'Dvdkqdk&if aumif;rSmbJ? zrf;rSm qD;rSmvJ raMumuf&awmY bl;? tif; ... rzrf;qD;jyef&ifvnf; xef;nufaps;awG usukefrSmaygY? aps;us ukef&ifvJ b,faumif;awmYrvJ” oif;oif;onf cyfwdk;wdk; &,farmae\/ xdkaeYrsdK;wGif ndKndK? oif;oif;? EkESiYf olwdkYwawGonf pdwfat;csrf;om pGmjzifY pum;rsm;pGm ajymvmcJYMu\/ pum;ajym&onf rSmvnf; vGwfvyfaeMu onf/ usaemfonfvnf; arSmif&dyfckjd yD; ndKndKUvufay: usaemfYvufjzifY zdxm;um rvTwfwrf; qkyfudkif xm;aerdonf/ pmrsufESm [49 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“OD;ay:vmMuD;wdkY vSnf;awGeJY xnufawG csaeMuwm odovm;? av;tdrfu xnufawGav ...? odef;atmifvJ ygwmaygY? tJwm OD;ay:vmMuD; xef;nuf vSnf;oHk;pD; tcsif;csif; tvdrfcH&vdkY OD;ay:vmMuD; MuLMuLcs idk&w,fwJY ... 'DvlMuD; oem;ygw,faemf .../ OD;ay:vmMuD;idkawmY rnGefY&v D J rsuf&nfawGusvdkYwJY? udka&Ta,mufMuD; ajymwm” “b,folrSom rodvdkufwm? rrodef;&Sif xef;nufawG ukef&xm;eJY oHk;wGJawmifwifwmwJY? tifawmus,fu wifwm? *gwfAdkvf udkarmif&Dav ...? wwGJav;&meJY udkarmif&D axmifYESpf&m &w,fwJY? q'´KHacsmif;rSm &xm;pufysuf w,fqdkjyD; oHk;em&Davmuf &xm&yfjyD; cswm? ydkufqH&dSwJY vlawGusawmYvJ wwfEdkiw f ,faemf ...? 'dkYxef;nufawGvJ olYqDbJ oGif;&wm? olwdkYusawmY aps; xJ ajymifajymif csa&mif;aevJ udpör&dSbl;? 'dkY oGm;a&mif;MunfYprf;ygvm;” “'geJY tckwavm yif;acsmif;u r&SmawmYwm odvm;? rcifodef;wdkY rcifvSwdkY rdodef;wdkY rygawmYvdkY? atmifEdkijf rifYu olwdkYudk ndSK;aewm? ZmwfawG uvJ &Iyfvdkufwmaemf? oyGwftlbJ? tJwm ausmif;awmfu&efpwJY ...” “udk&ifarmif ... raeYu *gwfAdkvfudkpH&MD uD; ydkufqHwq,fawmif jynfY atmif r&vdkY olYrde;f rudk rsufESm b,fvdkjy&r,frodbl; qdkjyD; idkw,fqdk” “rl;aevdkY idkwmyg” usaemfonfvnf; pdwfvufaygYyg;vmum udkpH&D idk&yHkudk &,fp&mtjzpfjzifY &Sif;jyaerdjyefonf/ udkpH&u D m; rl;vmvSsif idkp&m&Smum idkwwfoljzpf\/ rl;vmvSsif udkpH&\ D rsufvHk;rsm;onf rsuf&nf tvdkvdk 0Jvmum idk&eftoifY jzpfaewwfonf/ usaemfonf þuJYodkY pdwfvufaygYyg;vmonfY aeYrsm;wGif ... arSmif&dyfzuf axmifYususü xdkif&if;? ndKndKYvufudk qkyfudkifxm;&if;? jyZmwfrif;om;[efudk &,fp&m twkcdk;um acgif;udkapmif;vdkuf iJYvdkuf nKvdkuf vkyf&if;? ndKndKYudk oDcsif;wyk'fy'k f wD;wdk; qdkjy vmrdwwfonf/ xdktcgrsm;wGif olYrsufESmonfvnf; tarSmif&dyx f J0,f jyHK;aeonf/ va&mif rSdefysysonf olESifY usaemfYtMum;ü usae\/ olonf &Sufvmum usaemfYrsufESmudk rMunfY&JawmYjyefay/ usaemfYvufarmif;udk wcsuf qGJvdef vdkufonf/ “awmfprf;yg ... &Sufp&maumif;vdkufwm? rMunfY&JawmYbl;” ajym&if; olonf wcpfcpf &,faeonf/ “us,fus,fawmY rqdk&Jbl;” “qdk&Jw,fAsm” “'gjzifY qdkMunfYprf;” “[dkoDcsif; qdkjyr,faemf ... armifYtem;rSm cifav;xdkifvdkY wDwDwmwm ajymwwfjyefao;w,f ... aemf” olonf usaemfYudk wcsuf vdefqGJvdkufjyefonf/ “tJwm rqdk&bl; ... olrsm;udk apmif;ajymwm” usaemfonf xdkoDcsif;udkyif wD;wdk;nnf;nnf; qdkaerdonf/ olYvufudk cyfzGzG qkyfudkifxm;onf/ usaemfonf olESifY ESpfa,muf wJGae&ovdk pdwfü cHpm;ae&onf/ olYrsufESmay:rS tjyHK;&dyfrsm;udk tarSmifysysü &SmMunfYaeonf/ oluvnf; usaemfUudk rsufvTmMuD;yifYum MunfYaeonf/ usaemfwdkYEpS fOD;pvHk; pdwfürl ar;cGef;wckudk wjydKifeufwnf; rar;&J ar;&JjzifY ar;aeMu\/ ]b,fawmY usaemfwdkY twlwuG ae&rSmvJ/ b,ftcgwGif om;orD;awG wavSMuD;ESifY pkpk&ek f;&kef; aysmfaysmfyg;yg; aeEdkifrnfY aeY&ufrsm; qdkufa&mufvmrSmvJ/} xdkaeY&ufrsm;rSm rjrif&ao;onfY tem*gwfüom &dSaeMuonfudk ESpaf ,muf pvHk; odaeMu\/ oDcsif;xJwGif avjyif;rkefwdkif;usjyD; udEé&DarmifESH uGJuGmoGm;MuonfY tydk'af &mufvmvSsif olonf 0rf;enf;vmaejyefonf/ olY rsufvHk;xJü udEé&D armifESHikad <u;aeMu[efudk jrifawG;aeonf/ pmrsufESm [50 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olYrsufvHk;tdrfü &Tef;vuf awmufyaerIrsm;onf rSdefajzmYvmaeonf/ olY EIwfcrf;ay:ü 0JaeonfY tjyHK;&dyf twGefYuav;onf wjznf;jznf; aysmufuG,foGm;onf/ ol\ 0rf;enf;wwfaom? tm;i,fwwfaom rsufESmuav;rSm jidrfoufvmum wjznf;jznf; 0rf;enf;&dyfuav;rsm; oef;vmaeonf/ “awmfawmYuG,f? tJ'DoDcsif;udk b,fawmYrS rqdke?JY tJwm erdwfr&dSwJY oDcsif;MuD;” olonf usaemfYvufudk jyefí qkyfudkifxm;ae&if; cyfwdk;wdk; ajymaejyef onf/ usaemfonfvnf; oDcsif;tqdk &yfvdkufonf/ olYvufacsmif;uav; wcktay:ü rMumrD &ufydki;f twGif;urS ol0,f vdkufonfY vufpGyfuav;udk trSwfrJY prf;aerd \/ ]þvufpGyfuav;rSm xef;vsufrsm;rS jzpfvmonfY vufpGyfuav;? tarSmif&dyo f Ho&mrS xGufay:vmcJY&onfY a&Twdka&Tpuav;} [k awG;aerdjyefonf/ rMumrD olYxef;vsufrsm; tzrf;cHvdkuf&vSsif olYvufay:rS þvufpGyf uav;onfvnf; aysmufuG,foGm;&vdrfYrnf/ ndKndKonfvnf; av;ig;Mudrfxufrenf; tzrf;tqD; cHcJY&jyD;jzpfojzifY zrf;qD;onfrSm olYtwGuf bmrSs rxl;qef;ovdk &dk;vmp jyKvmaecJYayjyD/ olY xef;vsufawmif;rsm;udk &xm;ay:rS qGJcsaeMupOfwGif olonf olY ypönf;r[kwfovdk £ajE´&& aeEdkiv f mcJYjyD/ olYrsufarSmufüyif olYypönf;rsm;udk tvkyform;rsm; qGJcsaeMu\/ þodkY zrf;qD;aeqJtcsdefrsm;ürl &xm;MuD;wpif;vHk;rSm tvkyform;rsm;\ vIyf &Sm;aeoHrsm;rSvGJí tjcm;toH r&d?S jidrfouf wdwfqdwfaewwfonf/ ukefypönf;rsm;zrf;jyD; &xm;MuD;jyefxGufcGmcJYrS olonfvnf; tjcm;olrsm; uJYodkY jidrfoufaeaom puf&kyfrsm; tjzpfrS vljyefjzpf vIyf&Sm;vmavonf/ olYrsufawmifrsm;udk ykwfcwf vIyf&Sm;vmonf/ &xm;MuD;onfvnf; vlYbHkavmuü bmjzpfaejyDudk rodvdkufaom ydwfydwfydef; em;av; em;xdkif;MuD;uJYodkY ... olYzmom qlnHpGm OMoqGJjyD; xGufcGm vmonf/ yif;acsmif;txGufü xef;awmMuD;rsm;onf ywfvnfa0Yum usef&pf aecJo Y nf/ &xm;ay:ü qlnHoHrsm; yGufavm&dkufvmonf/ idv k kvktoHrsm;jzifY qJqdk Mu\/ aygufuGJrwwf usdefqJoHrsm; qlnHvmonf/ “zrf;aygY ... aemufwcgzrf;&if wcgwifr,f? tcgw&mzrf;&if waxmif wifr,f” “'DvdkaygY rdndK&,f ...vGwfwJYtcgvGwf? tzrf;cH&wJYtcgvnf; &dSrSmaygY” [k oif;oif;u ajymaeonf/ oif;oif;\ pum;vHk; rsm;onf oif;oif;udkyif jyefí tm;ay;aeonf/ ndKndKum; rTefxlxHkxdkif;aeovdk jidrfoufae\/ xdktcsdefwGif usaemfonf olYtem;wGif xdkifae&if; olYudk pdwfwGif;rS tm;ay;aerdonf/ olonfvnf; usaemf&dSaeaomaMumifY tm;&dS aeonf xifonf/ usaemfonf olY'ku©udk a0rSscHpm;ae&\/ olYypönf;rsm; tzrf;cH todrf;cH&jcif;udk usaemfYypönf;rsm; tzrf;cH&ovdk xifaecJYjyefonf/ wcgw&Hüum; usaemf\ olYudkcspfolvdkcspfaerdaom pdwfrSm xdkYxufrsm;pGm ydkredk uf&dIi;f aom arwåmw&m;tjzpfodkYyif ul;ajymif;oGm; aeonf xif&onf/ olESiu fY saemfYMum;ü &dSaom zdkrwyfrufrI tarS;yg;uav;onf uGJysufoGm;\/ &ifxJrS *&kPmrsm;onf wpdrfYprd fY MuD;xGm;vmaejyefonf/ xdktcgrsm;üum; olYvufarmif;uav;udk qkyfudkifxm;onfY usaemfY vufrsm;rSm wyfrufpdwfrygbJESifY ydkí wif;usyfvmonf/ olYudk wtlwHkqif; nDruav;vdk wG,fwmvmonf/ nDruav;bJ jzpfygap[k pd wfü qkawmif; vmonf/ olYrsufESmuav; rSmvnf; usaemfESifY ydkí wlvmaeonf xifrdjyef onf/ “armif&ifwdkYMunfY&wm armifESruav; ESpfa,mufudk MunfY&ovdkbJ”[k &xm;vdkuf pmwdkufAdkvf udkausmfpdefajymbl;onfudk xdktcgrsm;wGif usaemfonf trSwf&vmaeum olYrsufESmuav;udk ai;pif;MunfYaerdonf/ pmrsufESm [51] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olY rsufvHk;rsm;rSmvnf; usaemfYudk cspfoluJYodkY wG,fwmaejcif; r[kwf awmYbJ ... tm;udk;vdkpdwf? ,HkMunfpdwfrsm;jzifY jynfYvSs rf; um awmufyaeonf xifrdonf/ wcgw&H vrf;ckvwfü &xm;MuD; pufysufaeojzifY tarSmifxJü &yfxm; &\/ xdktcgrsm;wGif usaemfonf pmtkyfpmwrf;rsm;udk,ljyD; olwdkYwGJodkY ul; ajymif;oGm;onf/ olonf tcsdeftwefMumuyif usaemfYudk tm;udk;vdkpGm arSsmfaecJ&Y Smonf/ usaemfvnf; tarSmifxJü olYtem;wGif tom;csif;xduyfxdkifvdkufonf/ “bmjyKvdkY ckrSvm&wmvJ? 'DrSbJ xdkifaeaemf ...? [dk[dk'D'D a&SmufoGm; raeygeJY” olu olYtazmfrsm; rMum;ap&ef cyfwdk;wdk; ajymonf/ &xm;ay:ü rD;rvif;ojzifY [dkwuGuf onfwuGuf za&mif;wdkifuav;rsm;om xGef;ndSxm;Mu\/ avwdkufvdkufvSsif za&mif;wdkif rsm;onf [kwfueJ jidrf;oGm;Mu\/ xdktcgüum; bmrSs rjrif&atmif rJarSmifvmojzifY usaemfonf olYtem;odkY wdk;uyfvdkufjyD; olY*kwfydk;om;udk wcsuf erf;vdkuf\/ olu usaemfY udk wGef;vTwfonf/ “[dkbufrSmxdkif” olu toHtkyjf yD;ajymonf/ “[dkbufrSm pmtkyfawGxm;&w,f? ESpfa,mufMum;uxm;? tv,fuxm;” “b,fjzpfrvJ? pmtkyfawG usdK;ukefrSmaygY” olonf usaemfYvufarmif;udk wcsufvdefqGJonf/ jyif;jyif;xefxef r[kwfaom wufwcsufacgufonf/ usaemfonfvnf; tarSmifxJü jyHK;aerdjyef onf/ za&mif;wdkifr;D rsm; xGef;ndSMuaomtcg ... “'ku©ygbJ? 'DrD;awGudk bmjyKvdkY xGef;MuygvdrfYaemf...” [k usaemfonf &,foHw0ufjzifY ajymaerdonf/ nOfYeufvmvSsif olYtazmfESpfa,mufvnf; wzufcHkay:wGif wa,mufudkwa,muf rSDjyD; tdyfaysmfoGm;Muonf/ orf;a0oHrsm; Mum; &onf/ “&xm;MuD;u b,fawmYyD;rSmvJ”[k nnf;nLMuonf/ pufAdkvfonf &xm;acgif;wGJudk xkESuf jyifqifaeonf/ ta0; awmpyfqDrS *sDa[mufoHrsm; Mum;&onf/ va&mifysysü tnmukef;url jrufcif;jyifrsm;ay:wGif ,kefuav;rsm; EIwfcrf;arG; oyfvdkuf ajy;aqmYupm;vdkuf vkyfaeonfudk olESiu fY saemfonf &xm;jywif;0rS ai;arm MunfYaerdMu\/ olYtouf&SLoH Mum;&onf/ olYtouf&SLoHü aEG;aejyefonf/ navajyrsm;onf awmifukef;apmif;rsm;? csdKifY0Srf;rsm;qDrS ajy;vmae onf/ “ol tdycf siftdyyf gvm;” ndKndK\ pum;ajymoHrSm aEG;aeaom ESvHk;om;twGif;rS jzwfoef;vm onf/ “tdyfcsifbl;” “arSmifaewmbJ? aMumufp&maumif;vdkufwmaemf ...” pmrsufESm [52] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“bmudkaMumufwmvJ” “tm;vHk;bJ” “udkvJ ygovm;” “tr,f ... tr,f ... olYudk bmvdkY aMumuf&rSmvJ” usaemfonf olYrsufESmtem;odkY ydkí wdk;uyfvdkufonf/ olYvufarmif;udk cyf&&G G qkyfudkifxm;onf/ &,foHjzifY ... “ckvdk tcgqdkawmY udkuvJ rw&m; MuHcsifMuHrSmaygY? tJwmawmY udkvJ udk,fYudk,fudk pdwfrcs&Jbl;” ajymaerdonf/ olonf usaemfYudk wGef;vTwfjyefonf/ “oGm; ... 'gjzifYoGm; ... [kwfw,f? olYudkvJ aMumuf&rSmbJ? olvJ wDbDpD rIwfvm;? uJ ...ajymprf; ...[dkaeYu &xm;rdk;csKyf aewkef;uav ... ol rat;oG,f udk tdrfomem;oGm;wm bmvkyfwmvJ? rSefrSeaf jymprf;? rvdrfeaJY emf? odyD;om; odvm;” “udku wDbDpDayr,fY olawmfaumif;yg” “tEÅ&m,fbJ” [k olu ajymaeonf/ twefMumvSsif usaemfonf pmtkyfrsm;udk olESifY usaemfYMum;wGif csvdkufonf/ xdkifckH wzuftpGe;f wGif xdkif&if; tem*gwfumvudk arSsmfvifYcsufrsm;jzifY arSsmfawG;aerdonf/ rdom;pkESpfck\ pm;0wfaea&;twGuf olonfvnf; awG;aeyHk&onf/ olYtar\ usef;rma&; tajctaeudk ar;MunfYonf/ olonf tawmfESifYjyefrajzbJ awGaeonf/ “oufawmYoufomvmbD? t&ifuavmuf acsmif;rqdk;awmYbl;? yef;emx&ifawmY armarmaew,f? ol 0,fvmcJYwJYaq;eJY wJYw,f? tJwm taru cPcPajymw,f? bmjyKvdkY ar;wmvJ ... [if ...” “udkwdkY b,fawmY twlae&rvJvdkY awG;aerdvdkYyg? ndKndKwdkYtar aeaumif;vm&if odyfipJY &mrvdkawmYbl; rIwfvm;” “bmjyKvdkY twlae&rSmvJ” “raemufprf;eJY” ajym&if; usaemfonf vSpfueJ jyHK;vdkufrd\/ olESiu fY saemfonf wOD;udk wOD; oJoJuGJuGJ rjrif&bJESifY rsufESmcsif;qdkifum twefMum ai;MunfYaeMu onf/ olUudkvnf; usaemfrydki[ f k awG;aerd\/ “twlwlaecsifwm cspfvdkYaygY? b,fwkef;ucspfwmvJvdkY ar;tHk;rvdkY rIwf vm;? wu,fyg? udk wu,fawG;aewm? yD;awmY 'Dtwdkif; rif;udk udk pdwfrcs csifawmYbl;? ydik fxm;vdkufcsifw,f? pdwfcsp&mvnf; r&dSbl; rIwfvm;? ckawmifrS udk umuG,fay;xm;vdkY ” “olrsm;vnf; olYudk pdwfrcsbl;? aeYwdkif;bJ ol rdef;rawGeJY yl;yl;uyfuyfae&if olrsm; odyficdk sifwm? atmfatmfidkyvdkufcsifwm” olonfvnf; cyfwdk;wdk; ajymaeonf/ xdkYaemuf ajymp&mpum;rsm; ukefcrf;oGm;ovdk ESpaf ,mufpvHk; jidrfouf aerdMuonf/ &xm;MuD; rD;&dSeftm; jyefjynfYvmjyD; xdkae&m rS xGufcGmvmcJYMu onftxd pum;rajymjzpfMuawmYay/ tdyfaysmfaeolrsm;onf Edk;vmcJYMu\/ &xm;wGJay:&dS rD;vHk;rsm;onfvnf; jyefí vif;vmMujyefonf/ cyfa0;a0; arSmif&dyu f saom cHkwcHkrS rat;oG,f\ wcpfcpf&,foHonfvnf; &xm;ckwfarmif;aeoHjzifY a&maxG;ay:vmaejyefonf/ tapmu a&SYtem; cHw k ckay:ü xdkifaecJYonfY vif&dStysdK rat;jrifYvnf; olYae&mü r&dSawmYay/ Mum;blwmwckwGifum; rat;jrifY jyefwufvmonf/ pmrsufESm [53] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf uydku,dkjzpfae\/ tm;tifukefcrf; EGrf;e,fvmonf/ rsufESmay:ürl auseyfaom tjyHK;uav;wckrSm a0Yygvmonf/ olonf ESpfEpS fjcdKufjcdKuf tdyaf rmusaeaom olYa,mufsm;eHab;ü cyfjznf;jznf; 0ifxdkifvdkufavonf/ usaemfum; pdwfrsm; &IyfaxG; aemufusdvmaeonfrSm b,ftcgwGifrS tenfjyefxdkifawmYrnf r[kwf[kyif xifvmcJYonf/ þrdef;uav;rsm;rSm tarSmifxJü oHo&mvnfae&\/ tarSmifonf oem;pzG,fjzpfaom olwdkYudk wpwp &pfywfvmum aemufqHk;ü 0g;rsdK pm;aomufypfvdkuf\/ tarSmifudk toHk;cswwfaom usm;&Jrsm;onf arSmifvmvSsif awmMuD;rsufrnf;xJrS xGuf ay:vmMuonf/ usaemfonf xGef;armifvdkvlrsdK; rD;&xm;ay:wGif vdkufygaeorSs rdef;r aumif;uav;rsm;pGmrSm qHk;cef;wdkif ysufpD;oGm;&rnfudk ed,mrw&m;wckvdk awG;vmrdwwfonf/ xGef;armifonf rdef;rusavmufonfY &kyv f nf;&dS\/ vdr®myg;eyfonf/ aeYvnfzufwGif ausmufyef;awmif;ü &xm;MuD;qdkuf&yfxm;pOf olonf &JwGJay:rS tjcm;&Jom;rsm;ESifYtwl ndKndKwdkY oif;oif;wdkY jrdKYxJrSjyeftvmudk arSsmfaewwf\/ arSmifcdkoruav;rsm; jyefvmcsdefum; blwm&HkodkY c&D;onfrsm; rqdkufa&mufao;rD jzpfonf/ xdktcsdefwGifrS olwdkYtwGuf 0Suf& uJY& vG,fulonf/ ndKndKa&mufvmvSsif olonf &JwGJrS xGuf&yfjyD; vuf,yfvSrf;acsrnf/ ndKndKonfvnf; acgif;ay:wGif xef;vsufawmif;&Gufxm;&if; ... rsufESm ü acR;rsm;Oaevsuf? ausmjyifwckvHk; acR;rsm;epfaevsuf olYa&SYwGJatmufrS oGm;&yf&onf/ olonf ndKndKYrsufESmESifY &ifom;rsm;udk pdu k fMunfY&if; xef;vufrnfrSs wifrnfudk xHk;pHtwdkif; &,farmar;onf/ ndKndKu jyefajzjyD; jzpfaomfvnf; olonf pum;jzwfrypfao;bJ tjcm; pum;prsm;? &,fp&mrsm;&Smum t&Tef;tjyufrsm; ajymaeonf/ “ndKndKu rndKygbl;? 0g0gvdkY emr,fajymif;bdkY aumif;wm? 'grSr[kwf& if vSvSvdkYajymif;ygvm;? udkY nDru wu,fvSwm? wu,fYudkvSwm? udkwdkYawmif ai;,l&w,f? MunfYav vSavaygY” [k ajymaeonf/ “uJ ... ydu k fqH b,favmuf,lrvJ ajymyg? usKyfzmom vSwm rvSwm awmfeJYrqdkifygbl;” ndKndKonfvnf; rsufESmxm;ESifY ajymonf/ olonf aiGvSrf;ay;onfY ndKndKYvufudk zswfueJ qGJqkyfxm;jyD; w[J[J &,fonf/ ndKndKonf aqmifY&ke;f jyD; xGufvmcJY \/ wcgw&HwGifum; þodkY ZGwfxGufoGm;í r&/ tjyefü ewfarmufblwmrS &xm;xGufvmcJYvSsif ndKndKwdkY oabFmoD;okyf 0,fpm;avY&dSonf/ xdktcgü oabFmoD;okyf pm;&modkY xGef;armif a&mufvmwwfonf/ olonf tem;ü vm&yfjyD; ... “udkwdkYawmY pm;bdkY rac:awmYbl;vm;? at;av b,fac:csifrSmvJ? udkwdkYu wDbDpDavmufrS vc r&dS wmudk;” [k olonf ceJw Y wf\/ ndKndKonfvnf; pdwfnpfpGmjzifY ac:vdkuf&onf/ olonf ndKndKYeHab;ü £ajE´rysuf 0ifwdk;xdkifonf/ csdKifYxJrS oabFmoD;okyfudk Edu I fpm;&if; rsufESmiHkYum ndKndKYyg;ESifY eD;uyf atmif uyfonf/ “oabFmoD;okyfu arT;vdkufwm” [k olonf &,f&if;ajymonf/ pmrsufESm [54] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
ndKndKYaygifay:rS vufokwfyk0gudk vufjzifY tkyfudkifjyD; vSrf;,lonf/ “ndKndKuawmY waeYwjcm; 0vmw,f” [k ajym&if; tjcm;&,fp&m pum;rsm;pGmudk ajymaewwf\/ ndKndKonf olYudk pum;jyefrajymbJ rsufESmudk wjcm;odkY vSnfYxm;onf/ olonf oif;oif;wdkYEiS fY pum;wazmifazmif ajymvmonf/ oif;oif;aum EkEkyg olESifY rvGwfuif;/ þrdef;uav;rsm;um; olY &,foHatmufü &ifckeaf eMujyefonf/ xGef;armifygonfY aeYrsm;wGif usaemfonf ndKndKYtem;rS rcGmbJ xdkifaeonf/ wcgw&Hü xGef;armifu usaemfESifY ndKndKudk aemuf ajymifcsifvmvSsif usaemfonf rsufESmwnfwnf xm;vdkufonf/ usaemfum; ndKndKYudk iJYnSm&ojzifY jyóemrsm;udk at;aq;pGm ajz&Sif;onfYenf;jzifY xGef;armifudk jyHK;onfY tcgjyHK;? &,farmonfYtcg &,fjyD; qufqHae&aomfvnf; &ifxJwGifrl pufqkwf &GH&SmrI rsm;rSm awmrD;uJYodkY t&dSejf yif;onfxuf jyif;vmaeonf/ wcgw&Hü rcH&yfEidk f a'gorsm; jzpfvm&\/ ndKndKUudk xef;vsuf rwifawmY&ef wm;jrpfcsifvmaomfvnf; þpm;0wfaea&; twGuf ajz&Sif;ae&aom a&pD;aMumif;MuD;udk wm;qD;í &rnfr[kwf/ &xm;ay:wGif vufrSwfppftzGJY ygvmonfYaeYrsm;wGif usaemfonf ndKndKYtwGuf vufrSwfwapmif qif;0,fjyD; olxdkifae&modkY oGm;ay;onf/ olonf &xm;jywif;0rS usaemfYudkiYMHk unfYae&if; olYrsufESmrSm em;rvnfEdkif jzpfaecJYonf/ olY rsufvHk;rsm;rSm &dk;om;pGmjzifY tajz&Sm r&Edkiaf tmif jzpfae onf/ olonf usaemfay;aeonfY vufrSwfudk vSrf;r,l/ “olrsm; ... bm ... bmjyKvdkY ... ,l&rSmvJ” olonf toHwkefwkefjzifY wdk;wdk; uyfar;aeonf/ “,lprf;yg? vufrSwfwapmif b,favmuf wefzdk;&dSvdkYvJ? oHk;usyfxJyg” “ajymvdkuf&if jyD;wmrIwfvm;” “tJ'DtxJrSm rif;rygbl;? rif;udk xnfYrajymbl;? odyf em;a0;wmbJ” usaemfonf tvdkvdk a'gojzpfvmum vufrSwfudk ypfcsypfcJY\/ usaemf a'gojzifY xGufvmcJYonfudk olonf em;rvnfEdkib f J usaemfY ausmjyifudk ai; MunfYaernf/ aiGoHk;usyfonf qif;&JvSolrsm; twGuf renf;yg;aom ta&twGuf jzpf\/ usaemfum; vufrSwfppfwzGJYvHk;udk auR;arG;xm;jyD; jzpfojzifY usaemf pm&if;jyvdkufvSsif xdkvufrSwfrJYrsm;udk vufrSwfppftzGJYu ppfawmYrnf r[kwfay/ usaemfonf xdkpm&if;xJwGif ndKndKYudk rxnfYcsif/ vufrSwfppftzGJYrSm vlaumif;[laom ypönf;onf &Sm;yg;vSaom &wemjzpf\/ xdktxJü rdef;rudpötwGuf emrnftMuD;qHk; vufrSwfppfwOD;rSm awmifYawmifYajzmifYajzmifY EdkifijH cm;&kyf&Sirf if;om;[ef aygufaeonf/ olUudk txifMuD;rdaom rdef;uav;aygif; ajrmufrsm;pGmrSm olwdkYvufrSwfppfwzGJYvHk;ESifY nm;Mu&avawmYonf/ olwyg; om;r,m;vnf; a&Smifolr[kwf/ þa'o&dS qif;&Jol awmolawmifom;rsm;? zsifMurf;t0wfudkyif vHkavmufpGm r0wfEdkiMf uolrsm;? &d;k om;jzLpifMuolrsm;rSm olwdkYudk txifvnf; MuD;wwfMuonf/ olonf ndKndKYtem;a&mufvSsif vufrSwfppfjyD;oGm;aomfvnf; taMumif;r&dS taMumif;&Smum pum;rsm;aewwfjyefonf/ wcg w&H vufrSwf qufí rppfawmYbJ ndKndKYtem;wGif 0ifxdkifonf/ pmrsufESm [55 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf ndKndKYacgif;udk &if;ESD;pGm ykwfvdkufjyD; ... “udkwdkYvmrS vufrSwf,lpD;wmaemf ... zd;k &ifarmif ,lay;wmrIwfvm;? 'Dtaumif odyfo0ifaMumifwJhtaumif? aemufudk b,fawmYrS ,lrpD;eJY? udku r,l&bl;vdkY ajymw,fvdkY ajymvdkuf Mum;vm;? rif;eJY zdk;&ifarmifeJY armifESrqdk? zdk;&ifarmif udkYudk ajymxm;bl;ygw,f? uJ ... ajymprf; b,fESpf0rf;uGJ awmfwmvJ? b,fbufu awmfwmvJ? rSefreS fajymaemf ... vdrf&if udkwdkYu rsufESm MunfhvdkufwmeJY odw,f/ vufrSwfppfqdkwm tuif;yg;w,f” olonf w[J[J &,fae\/ ndKndKonfvnf; jyHK;aeonf/ ndKndKu þvufrSwfppfu olYudk tu,fyif cifrifaeonf[k awG;csifawG;aernf/ xdkodkY awG;rdvSsif um; aemufwywf olwdkYvufrSwfppftzGJY ygvmonfhaeYwGif þ&dk;om; jzLpifvSaom rdef;raumif;uav;rsm;rSm vufrSwfppfwGJay: vdkufoGm;&jyD; vlpifppfu zgjzpfoGm;&awmYrnf/ usaemfum;ndKndKYudk owday;oifYonfxufvnf; ydkí rajymcsif/ usaemfYpdwfüum; ndKndK\ cspfoltay:ü xm;aom opömw&m;udkvnf; t<uif;rJY ,HkMunfaeonf/ pdwfü aomursm;vnf; jzpfae cJY&jyefonf/ pd;k &drf pdwfrsm;onf wrSsif;rSsif; tHk<uvmaeMujyefonf/ aemufawmY usaemfonf “vufrSwfppfawGxJu wcsdKYvlawGtaMumif; Mum;zl;ovm;” [k t&dyt f jrGuf ajymvm&onf/ “olrsm; odygw,f? 'DvlawG b,fblwmrSm r,m;i,f b,fESpfa,muf&dS w,f? rD;&xm; trIxrf;csif; r,m;awmif a&SmifMuwm r[kwfzl; qdkwmtxd odygw,f? vlwifygrS EGm;usm;udkufwmyg? olu tpdk;&drf odyfvGefwmbJ ” ndKndKonf usaemfYrsufESmudkMunfY&if; jyHK;ae\/ xdktjyHK;rsm;xJü cdkifjrJaom opömw&m;udk awGYae&ovdk xifonf/ olYrsufvHk;xJ wGif awmufaeonfY ta&mifxJü ol\ESvHk;om;rS cdkifrmrIrsm; vmí xifaeonf xifrdonf/ usaemfY&ifxJrS ylavmifaom aomursm;rSm t&dSefjy,fvmaomfvnf; aysmufysufíum; roGm;/ t<uif;tusefuav;rsm;rSm ESvHk;tdrfü jidpGJaecJY ayonf/ aemufydki;f &ufrsm;ü awmifwGif;MuD;rS tzrf;tqD;rsm; trdet fY & ydkí wif;usyfvmonf/ awmifwGif;MuD;odkY &xm;0ifawmYrnfqdkvSsif vlwdkif; rsufESmi,fuav; rsm;ESifY jzpfvmMu\/ usaemfonfvnf; ndKndKYrsufESmudk MunfYrdwdkif; pdwfrcsrf;rom jzpfvm ae&onf/ olwdkYonf þtcuftcJrsm;udk a&SmifuGif;Edkif&ef q'´HKacsmif;blwmwGifyif &xm;ay:rS qif;oufjyD; jrif;vSnf;rsm;jzifY ntcgü wdwfwqdwf awmifwGif; MuD;odkY 0ifMuonf/ q'´HKacsmif;odkY &xm;qdkuf&yfvdkufvSsif tarSmifxJü txkyftydk;rsm; tm;vHk;csMu\/ pufAdkvfonfvnf; &xm;udk MumMum&yfay; onf/ arSmifcdkolrsm;ESifYwuG xef;vsuftm;vHk; ajrMuD;ay:a&mufukefrS tcGHcsnf;omusefaom &xm;MuD;onfvnf; tarSmifxJü wa&GYa&GY qufvufckwfarmif;oGm;onf/ &xm;MuD;\ aysmf&TifaygYyg;pGm OMoqGJvdkufoHudk q'´HKacsmif; blwmukef;ay:&dS arSmif&dyx f JrS Mum;&onf/ tvif;a&mifrsm;um; a&;ysysrSsom &dSawmY\/ tarSmifonf &dSpkrYpJ k tvif;a&mifpkuav;udk vdef&Sufaeonf/ ukuúdKyifMuD;rsm;onf vnf; tarSmif&dyf rJrJMuD;rsm;tjzpfjzifYom jidrfoufaeMu\/ blwmukef;ay:ü vltrsm; toHrxGufbJ vIyf&Sm;ajy;vTm;um toifYMudK aeMuonfY jrif;vSnf;rsm;ay: xef;vsufrsm;wifaeMupOfü usaemfonfvnf; xdkvltkyx f Jü ygaejyefonf/ usaemfUudk trsm;u 0dkif;0ef; owday;Muaomfvnf; usaemfonf vufa0SYyGJrsm;ü pifay:wuf&yf&ovdk &ifckeu f m aysmfaeonf/ þpGefYpm;rIudk usaemfonf taysmfwrf;tvkyfwckvdk xifae\/ aumif;uif,Hü rD;yHk;ysHESifY ysH&ovdk jzpf\/ xdktcgrsm;wGifum; þarSmif&dyfxJrS vlom;rsm;rSm olwdkY0rf;a&;twGuf aMumuf&v GYH SygvsufjzifY pGefYpm;ae&onfudk usaemfonf euf&dIi;f pGm rawG;Edkif? euf&dIi;f pGm rcHpm;Edkif? rawGYxdEdki/f pmrsufESm [56 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
jrif;vSnf;rsm;onf tarSmif&dyx f Jü toHrjrnfbJ a&GYvsm;vmMu\/ acsmif;oJjyifMuD;udk wdwfwqdwf jzwful;aepOfwGif “va&mif rvmcif a&mufrS? toHrjrnfapeJaY emf” [k wD;wdk; a&&GwfoHrsm;rSm usaemfYtwGuf taysmfc&D;xGufvmovdk jzpfaeonf/ usaemfonf xef;vsufrsm; av;vHpGm wifxm;aom jrif;vSnf;wpD;ay:wGif rnGefY&ED SifY ndKndKUMum;ü a&mufaeonf/ rnGefY&D\ ydóm ckESpfq,frSsom &dSonfY ao;ao;auG;auG; udk,fvHk;MuD;aMumifY jrif;vSnf;onf oJjyifxJü wzufodkY tdaeonf/ “'Dvl bmvdkuf&IyfwmvJ? 'g taysmfupm;wm r[kwfbl;” rnGefY&u D toHESdrYjf yD; ajymonf/ “arSmifcdkrvdkYaygY &D&D&YJ” “udk&ifarmif ... awmYudk e&if; rtkyfavmufao;vdkY MunfYaewm” rnGefY&o D nf tvGefMuD;rm;um zm;jyKyfMuD;vdk ukef;xaeonfY olYvuf0g; udk tarSmifxJü ajrSmufjyaeonf/ usaemfvnf; jidrfaevdkuf&onf/ ndKndKonf toHusdwfjyD; wcdcd&,faeonf/ usaemfonf ndKndKYcg;udk vufjzifY&pfywfjyD; zufxm;onf/ olonf jrif;vSnf;tckefwGif usaemfYycH;k udk acgif;vmrDSonf/ usaemfY &iftaHk y:wGif olYacgif;jzifY rodrom a0SYaeonf/ usaemfYvufudk nifompGm qkyfudkifxm;ae onf/ usaemfYtwGufum; aysmfp&m jzpfaeonf/ tu,fí wae&m&mrS zrf;qD;vdkufvSsif usaemfum; rnfodkYrSs ajz&Sif;í &rnfr[kwf onfudk MudKwifawG;cJYrdaomfvnf; xdk MuHKawGYvmrnfY tEå&m,frsm;udk usaemfonf arYae\/ tarSmifxJü &dSaom ausmif;ukef;&Gmudk wdk;wdk;wdwfwdwf jzwfausmf vmonf/ rMumrD ausmufcif;vrf; ay: jrif;vSnf;rsm; wufvm Mu\/ jrif;cGmoHrxGufap&ef jrif;vSnf;rsm;udk taES;qHk; armif;aeMu\/ va&mifrsm;onf ta&SYzufawmifwef;qDrS pí jznf;jznf;csif; vif;vmonf/ &Gufopfrsm; a0aeaom awmpyfrsm;qDrS avwdk;a0SY oHrsm; ysHYvGifYvmaeonf/ vlYbHkavmuMuD;rSm wdwfqdwfjidrfoufvmaeonf/ cPwmbJjzpfjzpf jidrfoufjidrf;csrf;rIum; tcdkuf twefYü jzpfyGm;vmaeonf/ þ jidrfoufjidrf;csrf; rI? vGwfvyfrI? tcsKyftaESmifuif;rJYrIrmS cPwmrSswm jzpfonfudkum; usaemfY vdkyif trsm;onfvnf; awG;rdMuvdrfYrnf xifonf/ “udk&ifarmifMuD; ... awmYudk xrif;pm;ac:wmvJ wcgrS rvmbl;awmf ...”[k rnGefY&Du ajymaeonf/ “OD;ay:vmeJY vmr,fav” “awmY tbu oGm;r&dSawmYvdkY xrif;rpm;EdkifawmYbl; udk&ifarmif&JY? qefjyKwfbJ aomufae&wm” “0g;cGHY&if &ygw,fAsm” “awmfprf;awmf ... rOD;rcRwfawG? awmfwdkYaemufwmeJY tzdk;MuD; rsufESm rxm;wwfawmYbl; odvm;? usKyfudk &J&J rMunfY&JawmYbl;? awmfMum 'gMuD;u w&m;aemufem;yg vkyfvmrSm? uJ ... udk&ifarmif? 'DaeY xrif;pm; vmrvm; rvmbl;vm;? jywfjywfajym” “awmfMum rnGefY&u D woufvHk;auR;aecsifw,fqdk usaemfawmY 'ku©bJ” “aemufraeprf;eJY udk&ifarmif ... awmYyHkrsdK;udk usKyfu wdkifrw S fvdkY xHk; rokwfbl;” ndKndKonfvnf; wcpfcpf&,farmae&if; usaemfYvufxJodkY olYvuf uav;wzufudk tom vmxnfYxm;onf/ “vlacsmyg rr&D&,f ...? usrwdkYuawmY xHk;okwf&Hkrubl; ... a&Tawmif csxm;csifw,f”[k ajymaeonf/ pmrsufESm [57 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“[kwfzl;vm;aemf” “[kwfwmaygY” usaemfonfvnf; toHudk xdef;csKyf&,farmaeonf/ awmifwGif;MuD;rS rD;a&mifrsm; aumif;uifodkY vSrf;wufaeonfudk jrifvm &onf/ rawmfwq &SmazGa&;rsm; owif;&um apmifYzrf;aervm;[k pdk;&drfpdwfrsm; 0ifvmaeMuonf/ pdk;&drfpw d frsm;onf aoG;aMumrMuD;rS wqifY taMumao; taMumrSsifuav;rsm;twGif;odkYyg w'dwf'dwf pD;qif;aeonf[k xifvm&onf/ pum;oHrsm; rxGufawmYay/ oufrcsoHrsm; Mum;vm&\/ ndKndKY vuf z0g;jyifwGif acR;Ouav;rsm; pdkYvmaeonf/ “aemufudk ol rvdkufeJYawmYaemf ... tckaewkef; zrf;rd&if vlyg trdcH&rSm? olrsm;wdkYu axmifuscsifvJus vkyfaeMuwm? olrsm; olYtwGuf pdk;&drfwm? tvkyfjyKwfoGm;rS qdk;wmaemf ... aemufudk rvdkufawmYeJY” olu jrdKYt0if oif;csdKif;ukef;udk jzwfausmfaepOfü xdkpum;rsm;udk wkef,ifpGm toH ryGiw fY yGifYjzifY ajymaecJYonf/ usaemfonfvnf; xdkpum;vHk;uav;rsm;udk ajc&mcHum wD;wdk; vdkufvH a&&GwfMunfYaerdonf/
(12) avmifuRrf;aeaomaEG&ufrsm; w&ufxufw&uf tzrf;tqD;rsm; ydkí wif;usyfvmonf/ þ&ufrsm;wGif arSmifcdkolrsm; wOD;csif; vufavSsmY pGefYcmG oGm;aeonf/ xdktxJü vli,frsm;ESifh tpOftjrJ uav;uvm; pum;ajymjyD; &,farmaewwfaom OD;ay:vmMuD;? rcifvS? rcifodef;? rdodef;? ukvm;rrdoef;? olwdkYwawGvnf; ygoGm;onf/ vdkufygaeMuolrsm;rSmvnf; &ufpOf&ufquf r[kwfMuawmYay/ “OD;ay:vmMuD;u rvdkufbJaevdkYvJ aeEdkifwmaygYawmf ...? aemufydki;f rSm pm;p&m&dSwJYvl rIwfvm;/ usrwdkYbJ b,folawG b,f avmufzrf;aeae? a[m'Du udk&ifarmifMuD;eJY &d;k ajrusaygif;ae&rSm? usrwdkYbJ opömt&dSqHk;aemf” at;pufpufaewwfaom rjrodef;\ jyufvHk;rSmvnf; &Tifvef; MunfEl;p&m jyufvHk;r[kwfawmYay/ þjyufvHk;\ aemufpG,fü nnf;wGm;a&&GwfoH? oufrcsoHrsm; ygaeonf/ jzpfvdk&m jzpfapawmY[k pdwfavSsmYcsvdkufoH? tm;udk;&m arSsmfvifY&mrJYpGm idka<u;vdkufoHrsm;onf jyufvHk;aemufqG,f&dS ESvHk;om;rsm;tay:ü xif[yfaeonf/ awmifwGif;MuD; &SmazGa&;rsm;onf blwm&HkrSomr[kwf? jrdKYt0ifrv S nf; jrif;vSnf;rsm;udkapmifYzrf;aeonf/ e,fausmfum ewfarmuf txd awmifwGif; MuD;&SmazGa&;rsm; csDwufvmum <um;0ifYpGm apmifYzrf;vmMuonf/ ausmufyef;awmif;wGifvnf; &SmazGa&;rsm;ESifY xef;vsuf jzefYcdsolwOD; aps;rwnfYojzifY y#dyu©jzpfvmum &SmazGa&;csif; ajccsif; vdefaeonf/ yif;acsmif;&Hkyidk f *sykonfvnf; yxrwGif arSmifcdkoltcsdKYESifY rwnfY&mrS cktcgwGif þvrf;wm0efcH vufrSwfppftzGJYESiYyf if roifY rwifYjzpfvmum ol zrf;qD;EdkifaMumif; tmPmukefjyvmaeonf/ xdktcgwGif ajrmfvifYcsufuif;rJYpGmjzifY puf&kyfrsm;uJYodkY vdkufygaeMu onfY arSmifcdkolrsm;rSm wq,fxufydkí rwif0HY/ olwdkYonf wydómppD txkyfuav;rsm; jyKvkyfum tESHY avSsmuf0Sufxm;onf/ zrf;rukefí usefonfY txkyfuav;rsm;udk q'´KHacsmif;rS xGufvmvSsif tarSmifxJü vdkufvHpkaqmif;onf/ awmifwGif;MuD;t0if ozef;ukef;&Gmxdyfü &xm;udk ajz;aES;pGm ckwfay;ojzifY olwdkY qif;usefae&pfco JY nf/
pmrsufESm [58 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olwdkYxHrS vufrSwfc\ w0ufrSsudkyif usaemfonf r,l&ufawmY/ rD;&xm;&Jrsm;rSmrl vpmenf;yg;Muolrsm; jzpfojzifY r,lcsif aomf vnf; ,laeMu&onf/ “igwdkY ydkufqHawmif r,lcsifawmYbl;[m? eifwdkYjrif&wm pdwfudk armaewmbJ” ydefyed fyg;yg; &JMuyfMuD;wOD;u nnf;wGm;avonf/ ndKndKonfvnf; tcgESpfq,fxufrenf; rzrf;cHcJY&jyD;jyD/ rMumrD olYvufay:rS vufpGyfuav;onfvnf;aumif;? em;ay:rS em;awmif;uav;onfvnf;aumif; aysmufuG,foGm;cJYonf/ olYudk,fay:rS t0wfrsm;onfvnf; rawmufyawmY/ olYrsufESmrSmvnf; ndSK;rdSefvmaejyefjyD/ olum; xrif;yif xkyfrvmEdkifonfh ukefpdr;f onfb0\ tqdk;qHk;tajctaeESifY rjcm;em;awmYay/ xdktcgurl olonf arSmifcdkvkyf vSSsif xGufayguf&dSao;onf/ ,ckrl olYwGif;ü &dSorSs touf&SLaygufrsm;tm;vHk; ydwfqdkYaejyefjyD/ olYtar\ usef;rma&; tajc taerSmvnf; aq;0g;rsm; avSsmYvdkuf&onfESifY wjydKifeuf jyefí qdk;vmaecJYjyD/ naecif;rsm;ü &xm;ay:wGif olYeHab;ü ,SOfxdkifaepOfü olawGYMuHK cHpm;ae&onfY tyl&edS frsm;onf usaemfYudk vmí &dkuf[yfae ovdkyif/ olYacgif;ü yJqD&eHYrsm; oif;aejyefjyD/ olY*kwfay:ü qHpuav;rsm; 0Jaeonf/ olonf tyl&kyu f dk ryl&kyfqifum olYrsufESmudk &Tif vef;atmif MudK;pm;í jyHK;&,faeyHrk Sm pdwfxdcdkufzG,f&m jzpfaecJo Y nf/ naecif;rsm;ü 0ifvkqnf;qm aejcnf[yfojzifY aomu a0aevsufESifY olYrsufESmuav;rSm 0if;yaewwfjyefonf/ &xm;MuD;onfvnf; wHvSsyfxum tyl&dSejf yif;xefonfY uGif;jyifMuD;xJü jzwfoef;ae&onf/ oHvrf;ESifY reD;ra0; vkdufygvmonfY ,if;acsmif; oJjyifus,fMuD;ay:ü tyl&edS fwHvSsyfrsm;onf aumif;uifodkY w&dSwf&dSwf wufae onf/ ae0ifawmYrnfqdkvSsif ,if;acsmif;urf;yg;&dS opfyiftyk fpkuav;rsm;ESifY wzufawmifukef;edrfY uav;rsm;ay:&dS opfyifawm tkyfuav;rsm;rSm ndSK;a,mfoGm;aeonf/ acsmif;jyifay:&dS qnf;qmyef;csDum;csyfrSm 0rf;enf;zG,f&m ta&mifav;MuD;rsm;jzifY rdIif; npfvmaeonf/ “aeMuD;0ifawmYrSm MunfY&wm pdwfarmp&mMuD;aemf? eDaevdkufwm pl;ae wmbJ? &ifxJrSmudk vmyD; ylaew,f? armaewmbJ ” olu vSnfYrMunfYbJ ajymaewwfonf/ ]rif;MunfY&wm armaewmbJ}[lí usaemfonf olYudk jyefajymvdkufcsif aomfvnf; jidrfoufaevdkufonf/ &xm;ckwfarmif;aepOfü jywif;0rS 0ifvmaom avxJwGifvnf; tylaiGY rsm;ygaeum at;csrf;rIum; b,fae&mwGifrSs r&dSEkid f[k xifvmrdjyefonf/ “aA'ifwGufwwf&if odyfaumif;r,faemf ... b,faeYrmS b,fuzrf;r,f? b,faeYrmS b,furzrf;bl;qdkwm od&if odyfaumif;rSm? tJ'Dvdkqdk olrsm;ypönf; udk olwdkY,lwm b,fcHrvJ? olwdkYzrf;r,fYaeYrSm tdrfrmS ZdrfeJY tdyfaevdkufrSmaygY aemf” olonf uav;vdkawG;ae\/ xdktawG;aMumifY olYrsufESmay:rS tm;i,f aerIrsm;onfyif avsmYoGm;onf[k xifae&jyefonf/ trSefum; xdkpdwful;,Of tawG;rsm;rSm awG;jyD;vdkufvSsif csufcsif; jidrf;aooGm;onf/ trSefü cktcsdefwGif pdwfat;csrf;aeol[lí r&dSEdkifay/ tvGefaysmfaysmf&Tif&iT faewwfaom udka&Ta,mufMuD;yif tcgwdkif;uvdk &,f&,farmarm raeEdki/f udka&Ta,mufyif &xm;ay:ü &Hzef &Hcgom ygvmawmhonf/ udka&Ta,muf\om;wa,mufrSm q'´HKacsmif;blwmü xef;vsuftdwfrsm; udk jrif;vSnf;ay:wif&if; ajrGudkufaoqHk;oGm;cJY&onf/ cktcgü &xm;ay: wGif udka&Ta,muf\ om;ESpfa,mufom vdkufygEdkifawmYonf/ udka&Ta,mufonf xef;vsufrsm;udk jrifyif rjrifcsifawmYay/ pmrsufESm [59 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
“rxl;ygbl;q&m&,f? raumif;rIvkyf&wmcsif; twlwl "m;jywdkufwm aumif;ygw,f ” [k olawG;vmonf/ odkYaomf olonf "g;jyvnf; wdkuf&Jolr[kwfacs/ xef;vsuf rwifívnf; rjzpf/ ol\xef;vsufrsm; tzrf;rcH&atmif wifaeEdkif onfY rD;&xm; tdrfomwckrS acgifrdk;aygufudkvnf; rpGeyfY pfEidk f/ olonf olYom;ESifY oGm;cJY vmcJY ajy;cJY vTm;cJYonfY ae&mrsm;udk rMunfYjrifcsif/ naewdkifa&mufvmjyD; aea&mifrSdev f mvSsif olYom; ajrGudkufcH&onfudk owd&vmum olYrsufESmwjyifvHk;rSm eDj ref;vmawmYonf/ xdktcsdefü olonf rnfolYudkrSs pum;rajymawmYay/ udka&Ta,muf\ tazmfwOD;jzpfonfY udkxGef;cifonfvnf; &xm;MuD;udk pGeYyf pfxGufcGmajy;&avonf/ udkxGef;cifonf xef;vsufrsm; tMudrfMudrf tzrf;cH&ojzifY a<u;rsm; vnfyif;txd epfaeonf/ olonf aemufqHk;tacgufu qwfoGm;jrdKYrS rSsifig;ydwyHk; ta<u;,ljyD; wifvmcJYonf/ olYwGif ta<u;xlvSojzifY olonf xdk rSsifig;ydyHk;twGuf vbuf&nfbdk; rsm; ray;Edkif&SmawmYojzifY usaemfYudkvnf;aumif;? &Jom;rsm;udkvnf;aumif; todray;awmYay/ xdkodkY todray;onfudk &Jom;wOD;u olwdkYudk rxDav;pm;vkyfonf? olwdkYtmPmudk zDqefonf[kqHk;jzwfjyD; ig;ydyHk;udk yif;acsmif; blwmü zrf;tyf vdkufawmYonf/ yif;acsmif;rS &xm;MuD;xGufcGmvmcJYaomtcg udkxGef;cifonf a,musfm; MuD;wefrJYEiS fY MuLMuLcs idkc&JY onf/ “usaemf &dkif;wJYvl r[kwfygbl;Asm ... tjrJwef; ay;oifYwm ay;aewmyg? ckwacgufom ydkufqHray;rdwmyg? usaemfYudk 'gavmuf r&ufpufzl;vdkYvJ xifvdkYyg”[k olonf zrf;qD;ol &Jom;a&SYü wwGwfwGwf ajymidkonf/ &Jom;onfvnf; c&D;vGefjyD;jzpfojzifY bmrSs rwwfEdkiaf wmYay/ &Jom;rSm pdwfraumif;vnf; jzpfaepOf ... olYpdwfxJrS ]aemufudk usKyfwdkYudk zkwfavwJYiyd vkyf&Jao;vm;}[k &ifaumYum ar;jref;aeonf/ twmpef;ukef;wGif &xm;qdkuf&yfvdkufvSsif udkxGef;cifMuD;onf &xm;ay:rS qif;oGm;awmYonf/ olonf twmpef;ukef; xef;vufwJ blwmuav;odkY ajcaxmYusdK;jzifY avSsmufoGm;aeonf/ ol onf udk,fa&jym;a&m*gonfjzpfí ajcaxmufwzuf raumif;awmYay/ uif;ywf&SL;teDudk pD;xm;onf/ &xm;MuD; xGufcGmvmcJYaomtcg þudk,fa&jym;a&m*gonf arSmifcdkorm; 'ku©dw\ axmYusdK;axmYusdK; avSsmufoGm;ae[efrSm a0;onfxuf a0;vmonf/ aemufqHk; trJpufuav;tjzpfrS aysmufuG,fo Gm;avonf/ xdktcgrSpí udkxGef;cifudk &xm;ay:ü rjrifawGYEidk fawmY/ rnGefY&MD uD;udkyif &xm;ay:ü rSefrSef rjrifawGY&awmYay/ “rwwfEdkib f l; udk&ifarmif? vkyfpm;vJ rdk;acgif? cdk;pm;vJ acG;a[mif rIwfvm;? rat;jrifYwdkY rat;a&TwdkYvdk bdef; ukeful;aewmbJ aumif;r,f? bdef;urS tEåm&m,fuif;ao;w,f? usrvJ &Srf;jynfzufoGm;bdkY pdwful;aebD” rnGefY&u D ai;jyD;ajymonf/ naecif;rsm;wGif usaemfonf ndKndKYeHab;wGif xdkif&if; olYtwGuf vrf;prsm;udk &SmazGMunfYaerdonf/ vrf;prsm;tm;vHk;rSm aysmufuG,faeMujyD/ arSsmfvifYcsuf[lívnf; b,frSmrS rjrifEdki/f pdwfrsm;onf tvdkvdk armvmrd\/ olonf olYrdom;pk\ pm;0wfaea&;udk ajz&Sif;&if; zmjzpfoGm;vSsifvnf; xdktwGuf tjypfwifEdkipf &m r&dS/ usaemfonf ckcsufjcif; olYudk vufxyfypf&efvnf; awG;MunfYonf/ olYtdraf xmif rdom;pkESifY usaemfYrdzrsm; tdrf axmifpk ESpfck wm0efudk cktcsdef ukefaps;EIef;rsm; rdk;xdjrifYwufaeqJü usaemf rnfodkYrsS wm0ef,lEdkirf nfr[kwf/ xdktawG;rSm rjzpfEidk faom pdwful;,Of tawG;tjzpfjzifY olYzmom aysmufoGm; aeonf/ aemufawmY rGef;usyfvGef;aecsdefü olYtwGuf touf&SLaygufuav; wckwavudk tcGit fY a&;&vSsif &ovdk zGifYay;&efom awG;vm &onf/ usaemfonf xef;vsufrsm;udk c&rf;csOfoD;rsm;zHk;um c&rf;csOfaowåm ta,mifaqmifjyD; wifay;&ef awG;vmrdonf/ pmrsufESm [60 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
tifawmus,frS c&rf;csOfaowåmrsm; wifavY&dSonf/ tifawmus,frSm usaemf wefqmvkyfay;onfY usaemfydkif blwmvnf; jzpfonf/ wefqmudk tjcm;ol wOD;OD;udk vkyfcidk f;jyD; usaemfydkio f nfY q'´HKacsmif;blwmwGif cs,lvSsif tEå&m,fvnf; r&dSEkid f/ onfMum;xJ &SmazGa&;rsm;onfvnf; wefqmvkyfonfY ypönf;rsm;udk ppfaq;avYr&dS/ tu,fí ppfaq;vSsifvnf; usaemf rodaMumif; jiif;uG,fí &Edkifonf/ wefqmvkyf&mü tcsdefwdkuav;twGif;wGif rnfolrSs tm;vHk;udk ppfaq;Edkifrnf r[kwfay/ wnaeü usaemfajymorSs udkem;axmif&if; acgif;udkom wGifwGifcgaeonf/ olonf &xm;wGJaxmifYzufwGif usaemfYvufudk ol\ acR;ap;xef;aeonfY vufrsm;jzifY qkyfudkifxm;onf/ olYrsufvHk;rsm;jzifY usaemfY wudk,fvHk;udk xGif;azmufMunfYaeonf/ rsufvHk;tdrfrsm;xJü rsuf&nfrsm; jynfYvmaeonf/ olYpdwfü emusifpl;&SaeonfY cHpm;&rIrsm;onf taMumtrSsifrsm;twdkif; pD;qif;vmonf/ olYvufacsmif;uav;rsm;rS wqifY usaemfY pdwfESvHk;jyifay: qif;ouf vmaeonf/ “[iftif; ... [iftif; ... tJwmawmY rvkyfzl;? olYudk xdcdkufrSmaygY? ol tvkyfjyKwfoGm;&if olrsm;udkolrsm; owfaorSm ” olonf uwkefu,ifjzifY ajymaeonf/ “rjyKwfygbl;? rif; &JawGudkom ydkufqHay;xm;? olwdkYvnf; wm0ef&dS wmbJ? jzpfvm&if olwdkYu udk,fYudkvTJcs? udk,fu olwdkYudkvTJcs? b,fvdka&Smif&r,fqdkwm udk odygw,f? rif;tar aeraumif;bl; rIwfvm;? oif;oif;uajymw,f? rif;udkYudk zGifYrajymayr,fY udk odygw,f/ ckawmY 'Denf;eJY ajz&Sif;&HkbJ? 'D&ufawGr,f xef;vsufwifwJY vlawGvJ yg;aew,f rIwfvm;? vomwkef; Adkif;iifYaygY uG,f? 'DwcgawmY rsm;rsm;pm;pm; vkyfvdkuf? xef;vsuf av;&mavmuf wif vdkuf/ 'Dvdk vkyf&wmbJ? a<uwvuf MuufwckefaygY? rif;rSm t&if;tESD; r&dSawmYbl; rIwfvm;” olonf tcsdefrsm;pGmMumatmif idkifaeonf/ usaemfonf xyfjyefwvJvJ wdkufwGef;ae\/ ,m,DvGwfajrmufcGi&fY &ef olYwGif xdkenf;vrf;rSwyg; r&dS/ usaemfYvufudk qkyfudkifxm;onfY olYvufacsmif;uav;rsm;rSm wpwp cGeftm; ukefcrf;um ajyavSsmY vdkufvmaeonf/ q'´HKacsmif;em; eD;vmvSsif tarSmif&dyfrsm; qdkif;vmonf/ t&m0w¦Ktaygif;onf tarSmif&dyrf sm;atmufü a&maxG;oGm;Muonf/ t&m0w¦Ktaygif;\ &kyfykaH zmf aumufaMumif;rsm;rSm tarSmif xkMuD; jzpfvmayjyD/ þtarSmifum; touf&SLaygufuav;yif r&dSawmYatmif ydwfonf;aeonfY tarSmif/ aMumufrufzG,f&m tarSmif/ raumif;qdk;&Gm;rsm; pm;rnfwuJuJjyKum Mudrf;0g;jcdrf;acsmufoHMuD;rsm;omvSsif tqufrjywf jrnf[def;aeaom tarSmif/ usaemfonf olYvufuav;udk qkyfudkif&if; xyfí wdkufwGef;aeonf/ olonf tarSmifxJü oufjyif;wcsuf nnf;wGm;avonf/ “t&if;tESD;awmY aoaocsmcsm ajymjy&if ta<u;ay;Mur,fY vlawG &dSygw,f” xdkpum;rsm;udk ajymaepOfwGif olYpum;oH wdk;wdk;rSm wkef,iftufuGJaecJYonf/ rMumrD w&ufwGif xdktpDtpOftwdkif; vkyfjzpfonf/ olonf xef;vsufaowåmrsm;udk c&rf;csOfaowåmtjzpfjzifY tifawmus,frS rde;f rwOD;udk wefqmvkyfcidk f;xm;onf/ oludk,fwdkifrmS tjref&xm;jzifY a&SrY S MudKwifajy;ESifYonf/ vrf;wavSsmufvHk;wGif usaemfESifYwuG &Jom;rsm; xdwfvefYvmcJYMuaomfvnf; yif;acsmif;udk ausmfvGefvmcJYonf/ tjcm;blwmrsm; rSvnf; tppftaq;r&dS vGwfajrmufvmonf/ ewfarmufudk vGefvmcJYvSsif pd;k &drf&ef r&dSawmYay/ jrdKYopfrS vGwfajrmufvmcJYvSsif &ifxJü &Sif;vif;aygYyg;aeum usaemfonf vlpD;wGJwwGJ\ wGJ0wGif&yf&if; olYudk csufcsif; jrifawGY csifvmonf/ jrdKYvkifü olonf OD;aumif;ZHkqdkifa&SYwGif toifYapmifYaeonf/ &xm;&yf onfESifY wjydKifeuf usaemf&dS&modkY ajy;vmonf/ pmrsufESm [61] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
&xm;xGufvmaomtcg olESifY usaemfonf wGJ0 tarSmif&dyfxJü twl ,SOf&yfvmcJYMuonf/ “b,fvdkvJ ... [if” olonf at;wdat;puf vkyfaeonfY usaemfYudk vufarmif; twif; qGJvIyf&if; uwkefu,ifjzifY ar;vmcJYonf/ arSmif&Dqdkif;pü jrdKYvkifrSm at;jidrf;aeonf/ tvif;a&mif t<uif;tusef rsm;onf ykZGefqDtaoG;<uum jrdKYvkif bk&m;apwDrsm; tMum;ü [dkonf uGufMum; xGef;aeonf/ csufcsif;yif jrdKYvkifonf ta0;ü jidrfoufae&pfcJY onf/ usaemfonf vGwfvyfaom þ&xm;wGJ0ü olYausmay: vufudk tom t,m wifvdkufonf/ olYrsufESmuav;udk wpdrfYprd fY MunfYaeonf/ usaemf onf rjyHK;rd&ef pdwfwif;xm;onf/ r&awmYay/ oluvnf; jidrfoufjyD; usaemfYudk jyefMunfYaeonf/ olYycH;k ay:rS wbufpwckrSm rdkYarmufaeonfY olY &ifom;nGefYay:wGif 0Jusaeonf/ “ajymprf;yg” olu xyfar;aeonf/ “aowåmawG ygcJYao;&JYvm;” usaemfonf olYudk pum;rajymbJaeum aemufajymifaeonf/ olonf usaemfY vufarmif;<uufom;rsm;udk tm;rvkd tm;r&jzpfjyD; vdefqGJaeonf/ tawmfMumrS “&ifarmifwdkYvkyf&if yd&dygw,f”[k usaemfonf EIwfcrf;rJY um &kyf&Siv f lMurf;[efjzifY ajymqdk &,farmvmcJYonf/ “armaewmbJ? &SmawGYukef&if ol tvkyfjyKwfoGm;rSm? aemufawmY 'grsdK; rvkyfawmYbl;? tjref&xm;eJYwkef;u olrsm; &ifav;vdkuf wm? olrsm;&ifav;vm&if wckckjzpfr,fbJxifwm? erdwfuvJ raumif;bl;? rsuf&nfcHawG wqwfqwf vIyfaewm? tJwm tdrfom xJ0ifjyD; idk&w,f” olYtoHonfvnf; wkef,ifaeonf/ q'´KHacsmif;ü olonf toifYapmifYMudKaeMuolrsm;jzifY aowåmrsm;udk cs,lum qif;ae&pfcJYonf/ usaemfonf vlpD;wGJ0 tarSmifxJwGif wa,mufwnf; &yfjrJ &yfvmcJY onf/ ck wcPtwGufum; olYudk usaemf ulnDEdkijf yD/ aemif t&SnftwGufrl &ifü av;vH yifyrf;ae&qJyif/ usaemfonf rdrdudk,fudk tay:,Hom MunfY&Iol ... aygYaygYqqrSsom cHpm;wwfol? tpdk;&drfaomur&dSol jzpfcsifvmonf/ bmYaMumifY aemift&Snfta0;twGuf awG;ae&ovJ/ bmYaMumifY ra&&maom t&mrsm;udk tarSmifxJü MudK;pm;&SmazGaeol jzpfae&ovJ/ aEG\ aemufzuf tpGeyf dkif;&ufrsm;ü arSmifcdkolrsm;twGuf touf&SLaygufrsm; wMudrf &vmMujyefonf/ yif;acsmif;&SmazGa&;rsm;? awmifwGif;MuD;&SmazGa&;rsm;onf tema&m*gqdk; wck cPrSsjrHKaeovdk jidrfoufaejyefonf/ rnGefY&?D rat;oG,f? oif;oif;? EkEk? rcifodef;? rcifvS? rat;jrifY? udkatmifpdef? udkp;dk armif polrsm; waMumYjyef vdkufvmMuonf/ “twif arG;wJYuav;uawmf udk&ifarmifMuD;eJY w&kyfxJ? udk&ifarmifMuD;vdk ESmacgif;cRef;cRef;eJY? yg;csdKifYuav;eJY? ezl;uvJ armufarmuf? t&yfuvnf; jrifYjrifY? cg;uvJ ukef;aeao;w,f” rat;oG,f aemufajymifonfudk tm;vHk; 0dkif;0ef; &,farmvmMujyef onf/ þ&ufrsm;twGif;ü usaemfonf ausmufyef;awmif;aps;odkYvnf; ndKndK xef;vsuf0,fonfY ae&mrsm;odkY vdkufygoGm;onf/ pmrsufESm [62] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
wcgw&Hü usaemfonf olYudk csdef;qdkxm;jyD; ausmufyef;awmif;blwm&Hk aemufaMumzuf&dS ausmufawmifaMumay:rS oHk;qlwef; apwDukef;jrifYay:wGif olYudk apmifYaeonf/ xdkaeYwGif olonf aps;odkY uref;uwrf; oGm;jyD; usaemf csdef;&modkY a&mufvmonf/ olonf ukef;jrifYay: rwfrwf&yf avSum;jrifYMuD;twdkif; pGefYpm; wufa&mufae&pOfü toJwxdwfxdwf &ifwzdkzjdk zifY aMumuf&GHY aeonf/ tay: odkYa&mufvSsif usaemf&yfae&m Z&yftwGif;odkY ajy;0ifvmonf/ “aMumufvdkufwmuG,f ... toJawGwkefaewmbJ” usaemfonf olYudk ai;MunfY&if; jyHK;&Hkom jyHK;aecJYonf/ olurl þ vGwfvyfum vloluif;jywfonfY ae&mü olYudk tirf;r& ayGYzufzspfnSpfypfrnf xifum &ifzdkaeonf/ olYrsufESmrSm &SufaoG;<uaejyefonf/ usaemfonf olYudk ayGYzufvdkonfY pdwfrsm;udk csKyfwnf;um olESifYtwl bk&m;0wfjyKonf/ 0wfjyKpOfü olonf toHrxGufbJ wwGwfwGwf EIwfcrf; vIyf &Gwfqdkonf/ ol bmqkawmif;onfudk usaemfonf rar;/ bk&m;0wfjyKjyD;vSsif olESiu fY saemfonf ausmufawmifpGef;ü ab;csif; ,SOf&yfum jidrfoufaeMuonf/ ol pum;ajymrnfjyKvSsif usaemfonf vufum jyxm;vdkufonf/ olonfvnf; usaemf\ jidrfjidrfoufoufaeapvdkonfY qE´ udk oabmaygufvmonf/ usaemfYeHab;ü rvIyfr&Suf jidrfouf&yfaeonf/ þausmufawmifukef;xdyfrSm jidrfoufat;jidrf;aeonf/ awmifcdk;rsm; a0Yvmonf/ avrsm; wdk;a0SYvmonf/ atmufzuf&dS ur®|mef; ausmif;wdkufrsm;onfvnf; jidrfoufaeonf/ [dkzufawmifpOf awmifwef;rsm;ay:&dS a&TawmifOD;? vGrf;apwD? tjcm; apwDawmf rsm;rS qGJvJoHrsm; ysHYvGifYvmonf/ tjcm; awmifukef;rsm;onf þausmufawmifukef;atmufü jidrfoufaeonf/ ta0;&dS ykyÜm; awmifrMuD;rS jrLcdk;rsm; a0Yvmaeonf/ ausmufyef;awmif; wjrdKYvHk;udk pD;jrifae&onf/ olonf usaemfY&ifciG ftwGif;odkY vSJrv SD dkojzifY olYycH;k udk usaemfYzufodkY nTwfudkif;onf/ usaemfonf rodrom aemufqkwfum olYudk vufumjyvdkufjyefonf/ olonf usaemYfudk &dkufESufypfvdkaomfvnf; onf;cHae&yHkrsdK;jzifY jidrfoufaeonf/ tawmfMumvSsif olonf “bmrS ajymp&mr&dSbl; rIwfvm;”[k cyfwdk;wdk;ar;onf/ usaemfonf acgif;udkom ,rf;jyvdkuf\/ olonf usaemfYudk EIwfrqufbJ qif;oGm;avonf/ aemufydki;f &ufrsm;wGif þoHk;qlwef;apwD ausmufawmifukef;xdyfü ESpfa,mufawGYqHkMuvSsif olonfv nf; pum;rajym&ef? twwfEdkiq f Hk; wdwfqdwf jidrfoufpGmae&ef tusifY&vmonf/ usaemfYudk em;vnfvmonf/ oludk,fwdkifvnf; usaemfYvdkyif jidrfoufaom? odrfarGaY t;jidrf;aom MunfEl;rI udk cHpm;wwfvmonf/ þuJYodkY cspfolESpfO;D vGwfvyf wdwfqdwfonfYae&mü awGYqHkjyD; pum;rajymbJ bk&m;twl 0wfjyK? twl&yfum? £ajE´MuD;rm;pGm ae&onfudk ol ESpfoufvmonf/ usaemfwdkYEpS fa,muf þukef;awmfay:ü ae&csdefrsm;ESifY &xm;ay:wGif ae&csdefrsm;rSm i&JESifY edAÁmefvdk jcm;em;ayonf/ &xm;ay: jyefa&mufvSsif qlnH&IyfayGrIrsm;jzifYom a&maxG;aeawmY onf/ rnGefY&D\ xef;vsufawmif;rsm; vl tvdrfcHvdkuf&onf qdkaom toHrsdK;udk rMum;í r&/ b,frdef;uav;udk b,folawGu zsufqD;vdkufjyefjyD qdkaom pum;udk rMum;í r&/ rMuif,Hk wa,muf i&kwfoD;rsm;ESifY rdojzifY? olYtazmfrsm;udk razmfbJ tepfemcHvdkufojzifY trIjzpf? axmifusoGm;jyDqdkonfY owif;udk rMum;í r&/ yif;acsmif;wGif ,cifzrf;qD;aeaom &Jrsm; jyefvmMujyefjyD [laom owif;udk rMum;í r&/ þtjzpftysufrsm;rSm a&vdIif;vdk edrYv f dkuf jrifYvdkufjzifY rwnfjidrfEidk fay/
pmrsufESm [63] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
onfwMudrfü yif;acsmif;&SmazGa&;rsm;\ &SmazGzrf;qD;rIonf ydkí wif;usyf jyif;xefvmonf/ xef;vsufwydóm txkyfuav; rsm;yif rcsef/ arSmifcdkorm;rsm;\ toHrsm;rSmvnf; us,f&mrS wdk;oufoGm;Muonf/ yif;acsmif;&Jrsm;onf ydkif&iS frsm;udkyg zrf;qD; um okwfoif&Si;f vif;ypfcsifvsuf ydki&f Sifrsm; rrdojzifY ydí k a'gojzpfvmMuonf/ aemufqHk;ü &Jrsm; a'gyGvGef;ojzifY olawmif;pm;txkyfudkygrcsef odrf;qD;avawmYonf/ yif;acsmif;ü &xm;&yfvSsif zrf;oH? qD;oH? &Jrsm; a'gyGoHrsm;jzifY yGufavm &dkuf qlnHaeawmYonf/ jzLapmxD;rS b0ajymif;vmaom &Jom;onf olawmif;pm;MuD; ycHk;rS xef;vsufxkyfudk qGJ,lvdkufjyD; rsufrjrifolawmif;pm;MuD;udk b,fuJYodkY ta&;,l&rnfrod jzpfojzifY ydí k a'gyGaeonf/ olonf olawmif;pm;MuD;\ qkawmif;arwåm ydkUoaeonfY yg;pyfudk vdkufí ydwfvdkufcsifyHk &aeonf/ olawmif;pm;onfvnf; &SmazGzrf;qD;a&;rsm;Mum;ü olYycH;k rS xef;vsufxkyf qGJ,lvdkufonfudk *&krjyKbJ qufvuffí awmif;&rf; oGm;oHrSm &Jom;udk t&GJYwdkufaeovdk jzpfaejyefonf/ “oem;MuygcifAs? oem;MuygcifAs? usKyf[m [dkwkef;u ewfarmufblwmu ulvDtvkyform;MuD; jr'ifygAs? olawmif;pm;rsdK; r[kwfygbl;? b0taMumif;u raumif;awmY rsufpdESpu f Gif; tvif;uG,faysmufvdkY a[m'D ajr;uav; wa,mufeJY &GmpOfa&Smuf awmif;pm;ae&ygw,fcifAs” aemufydki;f &ufrsm;wGif yif;acsmif;ü qdkuf&yfvSsif þtoHrsm;jzifY qlyGuf vmonf/ yif;acsmif;&Jrsm;onf ydki&f Sifazmfxkwf&efvnf; MudK;yrf;vmonf/ “'g eiYftxkyf rIwfvm;” jzLapmxD;b0rS pkawvmcJYaom &Jom;onf cHkwcHkatmufrS wydómcefY xef;vsufxkyfudk qGJ,lvkufjyD; rsufESmxm;jzifY w&m;cH &Smwwfvmonf/ ndKndKonf cg;aumYí udk,fudk rwfvdkufonf/ olYrsufESmrSm eDjref;aeaomfvnf; olonf £ajE´rysufap&ef pdwfwif; xm;onf/ “r[kwfzl;”[k oHjywfESifYajzvdkufonf/ “at; ... tjrJwrf; eifwdkYrsufESmawGcsnfY jrifjrifae&wm w&m;cH &Smr&bl;? eifwdkY wDbDpDyg zrf;ypfvdkufr,f odvm;? ck eifwdkYudk igzrf;Edkifw,f” “zrf;Edkif&if zrf;aygY” “w,f... igav... a[Y 'DtxkyfawG atmufcsuGm? xef;nuf wvHk;awGY &if wvHk;udkzrf;? 'DarSmifcdkawG tjrpfudk rjywfzl;? cyfMurf; Murf;vkyfrS &r,fY[mawG” þtoHrsm;Mum;xJwGif olawmif;pm;tdkMuD;\ “usef;rmMuygap ... csrf;omMuygap ... owå0gtrsm; udk,fpdwfESpfyg; csrf;omMu ygap”[k qkawmif; arwåm ydkYooHonf a&maxG;aeonf/ &xm;MuD; xGufcGmvmcJYaom tcgüum; þtoHtaygif;onf aemufü usefae&pfcJY\/ &xm;MuD;ay:wGif rnfolrSs pum;rajymMubJ jidrfoufvmaecJYonf/ &xm;ckwfarmif;aeoHomvSsif qlnHaeonf / rnfolrSs pum; rajymcsifMuawmUay/ olwdkYajymaeus pum;rsm;rSm tyfaMumif;xyfaejyD jzpfojzifY þ nnf;nL oHrsm;udk olwdkYudk,fwdkif rnfolYxH urS rMum;csifawmYay/
pmrsufESm [64] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
xdknaeu vltrsm;u ndKndKUudk arSmifcdkorav;tjzpf odaeMujyDudk awG;vmrdum usaemfonf olYtwGuf ydkí pdk;&drfaomu jzpf vmcJY\/ olonf vnf; olYudk &Jom;wOD;u pGyfpJv G dkufonfudkom awG;vmcJYonf/ olYaemufrS olYt&dyf onf xyfMuyfruGm ajy; vdkufvmaeonfudk raMumuf&GHUí rjzpfawmY/ wnaecif;vHk;vHk; olYtem;ü xdkifum pm&if;rsm; vkyfvmcJYaomfvnf; usaemfonf olYudk pum; wvHk;rSs rajymrd/ þuJYodkY &xm;wpif;vHk; tzrf;tqD; cH&pOfwGif vGwfajrmuf usef&pfcYJolrSm udka&Ta,mufESifY olYom;ESpfa,mufom jzpfavonf/ jrdKYopfrS &xm;xGufcGmvmcJYvSsif udka&Ta,mufonf vufzuf&nfbdk;ay;&ef usaemf&dS&modkY a&mufvmjyefonf/ usaemf jiif;qef aomfvnf; olonf q,fwefw&Gufudk twif;tusyf ay;aejyefonf/ “pdwfrysufygeJY[m” olu ndKndKYudk tm;ay;avonf/ olonf ae&mrS rcGmao;bJ tcsdeftwefMumatmif jidrfouf awGa0ae onf/ ol\ rsufESmrSm tarSmif&dyfxJü rdiI f;&ifYaeonf/ ndKndKYudk ulnDvdkonfY ol\pdwf"mwfrSm tarSmif&dyx f JwGifyif olYrsufESmay:ü ay:vmaeonf/ olY rsufvHk;tdrfü pdwfxdcdkufvm ae[efrsm; ay:aeonf/ ol bmaMumifY tem;rS rcGmao;bJ &yfaeonfudk usaemfonfvnf; rodEdkif/ jrdKYvkifudk ausmfvGefvmonftxd olonf rcGmao;/ “oGm;awmYav ... udka&Ta,muf”[k usaemfajymaomfvnf; olonf jidrfaecJY\/ aemufqHk;ü olonf usaemfESifY ndKndKudk þ&xm;ay:&dS tdrfomwwGJwGifygonfY acgifrdk;rS tayguftaMumif;udk zGifYajymavonf/ þudpörSm olY toufESix fY yfwl apmifYxdef;xm;&rnfYt&m jzpfonfudk usaemfvnf; cHpm;&onf/ “'gaMumifY tJ'D tdro f mygwJY &xm;eJY udkufyD; usaemf ESpf&ufrS wywfvdkufwm” olu vSsdKY0SufjyD; toHwkefwkefjzifY ajymaeonf/ “tJ'D taygufu ig;q,fqefYw,f? usaemfESpfq,f? usaemfYom; oHk;a,muf&dSwkef;u olwdkYu oHk;q,f? ajcEdkiv f ufEdkif ajy;vTm; aumif;&HkaygY q&m? ckawmY usaemfYom;MuD;vJ r&daS wmYbl;? tJ'DrSm rdndK wq,fwif” olonf pum;ajymae&if; toHrsm; wkefvmonf/ olYom;MuD;udk owd&vmonf/ ol ae&mrS xoGm;onftxd usaemfvnf; olYudk pum;jyefrajymrd/ ndKndKonfvnf; olYudk aus;Zl;wifonf[k jyefrajymvdkuf/ olonf ae&mrS jidrfoufpGm xGufcGmoGm;onf/ twefMumonftxd usaemfonf jidrfoufaerd\/ b0wl vlom;csif; tay:ü xm;&rnf[k todr&dSbJ olYtvdkvdk ESvHk;om;rS aygufzGm;vmcJYonfY xdkarwåmw&m;rSm euf&dIi;f vSonf[k cHpm;ae&jyefonf/
(13) aemufydki;f aeY&ufrsm; “bmvdkvdkeaJY emf ... rd;k awGawmif&GmvmbD” aemufydki;f aeY&ufrsm;ü ndKndKonf xdkpum;pkudk trSwfrJY ajymaewwf onf/
pmrsufESm [65 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf olYvufudk &xm;jywif; tjyifzufodkY qefYxkwfxm;onf/ olY vufz0g;jyifay:ü rdk;aygufrsm;onf wajzmufajzmuf a<uusae\/ rdk;pufrsm; onf &xm;jywif;abmifrSwqifY olYrsufESmay: vGifYpifaeonf/ “b,fawmYrsm; olrsm;wdkY twl aeMu&rSmvJ ... [if”[k olYpdwfwGif;rS ar;aeoHudk usaemfY pdwftm&HkjzifY Mum;ae&onf/ ol xdkodkY wu,fzGi[ fY ar;vdkufvSsif rnfodkY ajz&rnfudk rod/ arSmifvmvSsif olonf olYvufwzufudk usaemfY vufz0g;xJ vmxnfYonf/ usaemfonf aEG;aeonfY olYvufuav;udk qkyfudkifae&if; ... þ&ufrsm; twGif;ü olYtar usef;rma&; csdKYwJYvmaeonfudkvnf; awG;aerd\/ olYukefrsm; rMumrMum tzrf;cHae&onfudkvnf; awG;rdonf/ udka&Ta,mufMuD; jyxm;onfY tdrfomtrdk;ü taygufygaom &xm;wGJrSmvnf; jrpfi,fwGJjyif&HkodkY ydkYvdkufjyD jzpfojzifY ndKndKY xef;vsufrsm;udk cd;k 0Sufwif&ef ae&mr&dSawmYonfudkvnf; awG;aerdonf/ xGef;armif tygt0if rD;&xm;&Jom;tcsdKYESifY rnGefY&w D dkY roifYwifYMuojzifY ck&ufydki;f ü awmifwGif;MuD;blwmrS tzrf;tqD;rsm; ydkí xlajymaeonfudkvnf; awG;aerdonf/ rMumrDuyif rD;&xm;ay:rS qif;ouf aysmufuG,foGm;MuonfY udkp;dk armifESiYf rat;oG,fwdkYudkvnf; owd&aerdjyefonf/ udkp;dk armifonf ppfom;a[mif;vnf; jzpf\/ awmcdk &Jabmfvnf; jzpfbl;onf/ axmifvnf; usbl;onf/ olonf pum;ajym csdKomonf/ xef;vsufrsm;udk ausmufyef;awmif;txd vdkufrwif/ twmpef;ukef;rS xef;vsufrsm;udk wifonf/ xef;vsufrsm;udk wifjyD;vSsif olonf usaemf&dS&m *gwfwGJay: wufvmonf/ “nDa&Y ... 'DaeYawmY q,fYig;bJ ygw,f? nD ydkufqH,ltHk;rvm;? r,lawmYbl; rIwfvm; nD&m ...” olonf aq;wHudk zGm&dIuf&if; jyHK;jyD; ajymwwfonf/ “oHk;usyfawmY ay;tHk;Asm” “awmfyvm;” “xyfay;tHk;rvdkYvm;” “awmfbDajymrvm;vdkY ar;wmyguGm” olonf &,farm&if; usyfwefoHk;&Gufudk xkwfay;wwfonf/ wcgw&Hü olESiu fY saemfonf pum;aumif;aewwf\/ “tudku nDYudk wu,fYnDav;vdk ,Hkw,f”[k ajymwwfonf/ olonf rat;oG,fudk ol twnfwus aygif;oif;csifonfY taMumif;rsm;vnf; ajymjyonf/ “[dkwkef;u tudkYrmS orD;wa,muf &dSzl;w,f? tudk axmifusaewkef; rdef;rvJ aemufa,musmf; ,lwmaygY? tudkYorD;av; qHk;oGm; w,f? tJwm rat;oG,f orD;av;udk tudkYorD;vdkY ,Hkaew,fuGm? pdwfqdkwm pGJvef;rd&mbJ? wu,fudk ,Hkaewm? cav;u ESpfcgvnfavmuf &dSao;wmrIwfvm;? trSefawmh rat;oG,f udk,fwdkifudku b,foleJY&wJY uav;rSef; rodbl;? 'g ydkaumif;wm aygYuGm? cav;uvJ tudkYudk taz t&if;vdkY ,HkrSm? tudk rat;oG,fudk rMudKufvSygbl;? cspfawmY cspfw,f? oem;wmvdkY ajym&rSm pmrsufESm [66 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
aygY? 'Drdef;uav;u rdzrJY rIwfvm;? 'gaMumifY tumtuG,frJYwJY vlausmfwefwm; jzpfae&wmaygY? twnf,lr,fY a,musfm;&dS&if wu,fYwnfwnfwHYwHY rdef;uav;aerSm? olY rsufvHk;awG MunfYygvm;? pdwfxm; b,favmuf jzLpifw,fqdkwm? 'gawG xm;awmY uGm? tudku rjzLOuav;udk tdyfruf rufaew,f? 'Dcav;av;udk bmvdkY 'gavmuf pGJvef;aerdrSef; rodygbl; ” olonf &xm;ckwfarmif;oHudk ausmfvGef&ef atmfajymae&onf/ olYezl;ü 0Jusaeaom qHyifrsm;udk oyfwifae&if; olYrsufESmrSm MunfEl;csrf;jraecJYonf/ “tudku wu,f,lr,fqdkwm olr,Hkbl;uGm? av;ig;cgajymawmY tudkY udk zufidkwmbJ? 'kdY 'Du a0;wJYae&mudk oGm;Mur,f? b,fudk oGm;&r,f qdkwmawmY awG;r&ao;bl;”[k olonf &,foHjzifY ajymaewwfonf/ ol\ tpDtpOfrmS ajz;ajz; at;at;rS[k xifcJYonf/ xdktpDtpOftwdkif;rSm pdwfcsrf;omzG,f&mcsnf;yif jzpfvmawmYrnf[k awG;cJY&onf/ odkYaomf olonf tjrefqHk; pDpOf qHk;jzwfcJY&onf/ olwdkY rxGufcGmrD w&ufu twmpef;ukef;blwmrS wufvmcJYjyD; olonf usaemfYudk EIwfqufoGm;\/ xdkaerSm rdk;zGJrsm; pwifusaomaeY jzpfonfudk usaemfonf rnfonfY tcgwGifrS arYEdkirf nf r[kwfay/ twmpef;ukef;blwmrS &xm;xGufvmcJYaomtcg olESiu fY saemfonf *gwfwGJyufvuf\ aemufzuf0&Hwmü rdk;zGJuav;rsm;Mum;wGif &yfvmcJYMuonf/ olonf xef;vsuftaMumif;vnf; rajymawmYay/ usaemfYudk aiGoHk;usyf ay;vSL&efvnf; arYaeonf/ rdk;rsm;onf t&yf&SpfrsufESmü idkaeovdk ndKYqdkif;aeonf/ tjyma&mifrsm; zHk;vTrf;aeonf/ rdk;pufrIefrsm;onf usaemfwdkY rsufESmrsm; ay: usaeonf/ “'DnbJ tudk rat;oG,fudk ,lvdkufawmYr,f nD&m” olonf &xm;oHudk ausmfvGefap&ef atmfajymaeonf/ olYrsufESmrSm rJykyaf eonf/ olYar;aMumMuD;rsm; wif;vmaeonf/ rsufvHk;rsm; eD&Jvmaeonf/ olonf pdwfvIyf&Sm;pGmjzifY olYqHyif rsm;udk oyfwif aeonf/ “rat;oG,f[m rdef;rysufaygY [kwfvm;? 'g vlwdkif;odygw,f? oleJY rtdyfzl;wJY vufrSwfppf r&db S l;? rnm;zl;wJY &Jr&dSbl;? *gwfAdkvf r&dSbl;? &Hkyidk f r&dSbl;? uGm ... ay:wm ... *sr'gutp? 'gayr,fY tudk twnftus ,lawmYr,fqdkwm vlwdkif;udk aMumfjimjyD;om;? 'DtcsdefrsdK;rSm trJrzsufoifYawmYbl; rIwfvm; ... “waeYu [dkaumif ... [dkaumifqdk&if nD odygw,f? aumifrav;udk xef;vsufaum vlaum zrf;r,fvkyfw,fuGm? aumifrav; uvJ ckaeawmY axmifruscsifawmYbl; rIwfvm;? tJawmY ac:&mvdkufoGm;&w,f? rxl;awmYbl;av? ysOf;rem; ac:oGm;w,f? tJwm [dkaumifu olY taygif;toif;awGudk aumifrav;eJY {nfYcHwm? vl av;q,favmuf? ukefwGJay:rSmaygYuGm? aumifrav; owdvpf oGm;rS ypfxm;cJYMuwm? ck aumifrav;udk aq;usdwfuk aew,f ... “nD ... tudk vlawGtrsm;MuD; owfzl;ygw,f? ppfwyfxJrSma&m awmxJrSma&m wm0efay;vdkY owfzl;ygw,f? ckawmY vlrowf csifawmYbl;? tudk axmifxJ0if&if aumifrav; ydk'ku©a&mufrSmaygYuGm? reufjzefum aumifrav; tdyf&mxEdkifygbD? tudk 'DaeYn bJ w&m;0ifvufxyfr,f? reufjzefum ac:oGm;r,f? b,fudkoGm;&r,fqdkwmawmY rodao;bl;? 'Du xGufoGm;zdkYbJ ta&;MuD;wm? tJwm nDYudk tudk EIwfqufwm” aemuf&ufrSpí olYwdkYudk rawGYjrifEidk fawmYay/ olwdkY b,fqD xGufcGmoGm;MujyDudk rnfolrSs odEdkiMf urnf r[kwf/ usaemfY em;xJwGifum; udkp;dk armif\ pum;oHrsm;onf yJYwif&dkufcwfaecJ\ Y / xdkpum;vHk;rsm;onf rat;oG,fwa,mufudk uGufí xGef;ndSjyonfum; r[kwf/ pmrsufESm [67 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
ndKndKonfvnf; olwdkYvdkyif &xm;MuD;udk tjyD;wdkif pGefYy,f xGufcGmoGm; &vdrfYrnf [líum; usaemfonf rawG;bl;cJY/ pifppfü þaeY&ufrsm;rSm ndKndK &xm;ay:ü aemufqHk;vdkufygaeonfY aeYrsm;jzpfonfudk tu,fí MudKwifod&dSEkid fcv JY Ssifvnf; twloGm; twlae&pOf ü jzpfay:cJY&onfY cPwm MunfEl;rIuav;rsm;onf &dSEkid fawmYrnf r[kwfay/ nOD;ydkif;rsm;ü awmifwGif;MuD;wGif &xm;qdkufvSsif ndKndKonf jrif;vSnf; ay: xef;vsufawmif;rsm; wifay;vTwfvdkufjyD; usaemfESifY twl rdk;&GmMuD;xJü jrdKYxJodkY ajcvSsifavSsmufMuonf/ rdk;rsm; wa0ga0g oGef;csaepOfü usaemfwdkY ESpfa,mufpvHk;onf vGwfvyfaysmf&Tif aecJYMu\/ usaemfwdkYonf a&yifv,fa0aeonfY vrf;ay:ü xD;wvufwnf; twlaqmif;um avSsmufoGm;Mu\/ olYycH;k wzufESifY usaemfYycH;k wzufrSm rdk;a&rsm; epfaeonf/ rd;k &GmoHonf qlnHae\/ tarSmif&dyrf sm; tkyfqdkif;aeonf/ usaemfwdkYeaH b; vrf;ray:rS jrif;vSnf;rsm; jzwfarmif;aeMuonf/ usaemfYpdwfxJü olESiu fY saemfrSm nm;p ZeD;armifESHvdk xifaejyefonf/ usaemfonf olYcg;udk odrf;ayGYvdkuf\/ olonf usaemfYvufudk twif; jzKwfae\/ r&aomtcg aygufjyJoGm;atmif qdwfqGJvdkuf avonf/ usaemfY vufudk ajzvTwfvdkuf&aomfvnf; usaemfonf olYudk vrf;avSsmufae&if; erf;ypfvdkufjyefonf/ ]]odyfuJw,f ... rke;f p&maumif;vdkufwm}} olu ajymvdkufonf/ ]]cspfp&mMuD;yg}} ]]tr,f ... 'DykMH uD;vm; cspfp&mMuD;}} ]]aoaocsmcsmMunfY&if cspfp&m awGYvmrSmaygY}} olonf cyfwdk;wdk; &,fonf/ usaemfYvufudk vdefqGJvdkufjyefonf/ olESiu fY saemfonf wwfEdkio f rSs taES;qHk; vrf;avSsmufaeMu\/ usaemf jrefoGm;vSsif olonf usaemfYvufudk zrf;qGJxm;\/ r*Fvmvrf;xdyf a&mufvSsif olu a&SYqufoGm;jyD; usaemf xrif;qdkiftwGif; 0ifaecJu Y m vrf;cGJoGm;&vdrfY rnf/ xdktcdkuftwefYüum; ESpfO;D pvHk;yif vrf;udk onfxufydkí &SnfapcsifMuonf/ ESpfa,mufpvHk;yif udkp;dk armifESifY rat;oG,fwdkY cktcsdefü b,fqDa&muf aeMurnfudk awG;aerdMu\/ xdktawG;udk olonfvnf; jzwfawmufypfcsifvm yHk&onf/ ]]yif;acsmif;&JawG e,fajymif;oGm;&wm olrsm;wdkY arwåmydkYvdkYaerSm}} olonf pum;udk rqDrqdkifajym&if; &,faejyefonf/ ck&ufrsm;ü yif;acsmif;rS tzrf;tqD;rsm; vGwfuif;aejyefjyD/ odkYaomf awmifwGif;MuD;üum; ydkí tzrf;tqD; xlxyfaeonfudk usaemf owd&vmjyef onf/ ndKndKonfvnf; xef;vsuf wq,fxuf ydkí rwif0 HY/ olYtar\ tyef;emrSm aq;r0,fEdkio f jzifY ydkí qdk;aeonf[k oif;oif;ajymonfudk owd&vmjyefonf/ usaemfonf olYtcuftcJtwGuf wMudrfxyfí ajz&Sif;&ef awG;vmrd onf/ þenf;rSm cPwm vGwfajrmufcGi&fY aom enf;jzpfonf/ Mum&Snf vGwfajrmufcGi&fY &efrSmrl olYrdzrsm; usaemfY rdzrsm;udk ypfy,fum ZGwf tdrfaxmifjyKvdkufMu&ef? odkYr[kwf rat;oG,fESifY udkp;dk armifwdkYvdk tm;vHk;udk pGefYypf xGufajy;Mu&ef jzpfonf/ olwdkYum; usaemfwdkYxuf ydkí uHaumif;axmufr ayonf/ ndKndK\ tawG;rsm;rSmvnf; rat;oG,fwdkYxH a&mufoGm;jyefonf/ ]]ckae rat;oG,fwdkY b,fqDrsm; a&mufaeMurvJ rodbl;aemf ...}} olu toHwdk;wdrfpGm ajymaeonf/ pmrsufESm [68 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
]]udkp;dk armifMuD;u rat;oG,fY cav;udk odyfcspfwmbJwJY? olwdkY aysmfae MurSmbJaemf? olwdkYusawmYvJ b,folrS rdzawG iJYp&m&dSwm rS r[kwfwmaemf}} olYtoHrsm;rSm rdk;&GmoGef;aeoHrsm;atmufü epfjrKyfoGm;aeonf/ usaemfonf rdk;a&pdk&JaT eaom olYvufuav;udk wif;usyfpGm qkyfudkifxm; aeonf/ 'kdYvJ ZGwf,lvdkufMur,fav? bmjzpfjzpfaygY? 'DvdkawmY rif;rvkyf&ufzl; rIwfvm;? 'kdY 'DvdkcsnfYawmY tjrJoGm;ae&rSm r[kwfygbl;? n&dS&if aeY&w dS maygY? rdk;&Gm&if rdk;wdwfwm &dSwmaygY? 'kdY[m urÇmjcm;aeMuwmrS r[kwfzJ? 'DvdkaygY uG,f? aeYrSm wa,mufrsufESm wa,mufjrif&wm? nusawmY rif;rsufESmudk jyefawG;MunfYr,f? rif;toH jyefem;axmifMunfYaer,f? ckaeudkom rdkufrdkufuef;uef; xef;nufawG vSdrw fY ifcdki;f ae&if aiGawGjzpfvmEdkifw,f? 'gawmY rvkyfzl;? tEå&m,fMuD;w,f? waeYawmY ajrSmfvifYcsuf &dSvmrSmaygY/ usaemfY xdktawG;rsm;udk olodaernf[k xifrdjyefonf/
(14) rdk;awGuarSmifaeonf xdkaeYu tifawmus,fblwmwGif c&rf;csOfoD; zHk;xm;aom olYxef;vsuf aowåmrsm;udk wifaepOf uwnf ;u rdk;aumif;uifrSm arSmifyde;f vmaeonf/ tarSmif&dyrf sm;atmufü awmifwef;MuD;rsm; wjznf;jznf; aysmufuG,f oGm;onf/ xef;awmndKYMuD;rsm;onf npfrdIi;f oGm;onf/ tvkyform;rsm;u olYaowåmrsm;udk wifaeqJ ...? xGef;armiftygt0if &Jom;ESpfOD;u 0wfauswrf;aus &SmazGaeqJü ndKndKonf usaemf&dS&m *gwfwGJ aemufzuf vlrjrifuG,f&modkY a&mufvmcJYonf/ xdktcgwGifum; rdk;zGJrIeu f av;rsm;yif olESiu fY saemfY tay:ü usaeonf/ olonf vnfyif;ü ywfxm;onfY wbufjzifY olYrsufESm ay:rS acR;Orsm;ESifY rd;k a&pufrsm;udk okwfonf/ tpDtpOftwdkif; jzpfrvmojzifY olYrsufESmrSm pdk;&drf [ef ay:aeonf/ ol usaemfYudk pum;ajymvSsifvnf; olYtoHrsm;rSm xdk pd;k &drfpdwfjzifY wkef,ifaeonf/ ]]olrsm; pmydkYrrDSbl;? 'D&xm;eJY vdkuf&rSmbJ? vdkufvdkY &w,frIwfvm;? a&SYqHk;wGJu pD;ygYr,f}} usaemfonf olYudk rpdk;&drf&ef ajymcJ\ Y / tu,fí wae&m&mwGif þ wefqmvkyfjyD; ukefrsm;udk ppfaq;cJYvSsif udk,fvGwf½kef;oGm; &ef ajymcJYonf/ olonf &xm;wzufrS vSnfYí a&SYqHk; vlpD;wGJodkY oGm;onf/ xdkaeYwGif arSmifcdkwOD;rSs rygojzifY a&SYqHk;wGJü olYwGif tazmfr&dS/ ausmufyef;awmif;rS xGufvmuwnf;u &xm;wwGJwGif vl udk;a,muf q,fa,mufrSsom yg&dS ojzifY rdk;arSmifMuD;udk jzwfoef;jyD; xGufvmcJYonfY &xm;MuD;wpif;vHk;onfvnf; wdwfqdwf ajcmufuyfaecJo Y nf/ vrf;wavSsmufvHk;ü rdk;arSmifMuD;onf a&SYrS jzwfqD;aeonf/ tcsdKYae&mrsm;ü tvif;a&mifrsm;&dSaomfvnf; tifawm us,frS xGufvmuwnf;u rsm;aomtm;jzifY &xm;MuD;rSm tarSmif&dyx f Jü prf;w0g;0g; c&D;ESifae&ovdkyif/ &Hzef&cH gü rdk;rIefuav;rsm;onf &xm;eH&Hudk vmí xdrSefaeMuonf/ oHvrf;tauGYrsm;ü a&SYqHk;wGJ jywif;0rS udk,fwydkif; xGufjyaeaom ndKndKYudk vSrf;jrifae&onf / olonf usaemf&dS&m *gwfwGJodkY arSsmfMunfYaewwf onf/ usaemfum; jrdKYopfodkY a&mufonftxd *gwfwGJwGifom jidrfoufaecJYonf/ c&D;onf enf;yg;vSojzifY vufrSwfppf&efvnf; rvdktyfay/ ndKndK &dSonfYwGJodkY oGm;vSsifvnf; rawmfwq xef;vsufaowåmrsm; ppfaq;onfESifY MuHK aecJYvSsif ajz&Sif;&cufae rnfudk awG;rdonf/ tEå&m,f&dSaom blwmrsm;udk jzwfausmfvmcJYrdrS usaemfonf &ifxJwGif aygYyg;vmonf/ jrdKYopfodkY a&mufvSsif aevnf;0ifoGm; ayjyD/ pmrsufESm [69 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
xdkblwmrS xGufvmcJYaomtcg vrf;wavSsmuf jcdrf;acsmuf vdkufvmaecJYonfY rdk;MuD;onf &xm;txGufü wa0ga0g &Gmcsvdkuf avonf/ þrdk;MuD; pwif&Gmcsdefüf usaemfonf yvufazmif;ay:ü &dSae\/ rdk;&GmojzifY eD;&mvlpD;wGJodkY ajy;wufvdkufavonf/ xddktcsdefü &xm;MuD;um; OMowcsufqGJum rdk;&GmMuD;udk jzwfoef;um ckwfarmif;aeayjyD/ &xm;onf a&SrY S rD;rsm;udk zGif Yvdkuf\/ vlpD;wGJrsm;üum; rD;rsm;ysufaeojzifY arSmifaeonf/ usaemfwufvdkufonfY wGJay:&dS c&D;onf tcsdKYonf za&mif;wdkifrsm;udk xGef;aeMu\/ xdkwGJ\ wzuf&dS cHkwef;vsm;rsm;rSm wm0ef us rD;&m;&Jom;rsm; vdkufygonf/ usaemfwufonfY taygufrS avSsmufoGm;aomtcg &Jo m;rsm;udk awGY&onf/ xdktxJü &Jom;xGef;armif r&dSonfudk usaemfonf owdxm;rdvdkuf onf/ csufcsif;yif pdk;&drfpw d frsm; jzpfay:vmum usaemfonf xGef;armifudk tESHY tjym; vdkuf&SmMunfY\/ xGef;armifudk rawGY&vSsif &ifxJü xlylvmonf/ usaemfYudk tjcm;&Jom;rsm; EIwfqufMuonfudkyif *½krpdkufrdawmYay/ usaemfYpdwfrsm;onf tpd;k &drf vGefvmMu\/ cktcsdefü a&Sq Y Hk;wGJü ndKndKwa,mufwnf; jzpfcsif jzpfaernfudk awG;vdkufrdonf/ rD;ysufojzifY arSmifvnf;arSmifae\/ xGef;armif a&Sq Y Hk;wGJodkY a&mufaernfudk taotcsm wGufrdaomtcg &ifxJü rcHr&yfEidk f jzpfvmonf/ usaemfonf ndKndKY rsufESmuav;udk jrifvm\/ tjypfuif;pifaom? jzLpifoefY&Si;f aom þ qif;&Jol rdef;uav;\ w½dIuf½dIuf idkoHrsm;udk Mum;a,mifvmonf/ ]]ckrS owd&w,f? usaemfYvG,ftdwf a&Sw Y GJrSmusefcJYw,f? vufrSwfawGeJY}} usaemfonf &Jom;rsm;udk atmfajymvdkuf\/ usaemfonf a&Sq Y Hk;wGJodkY ul;oGm;&ef csufcsif; qHk;jzwfvdkufavonf/ csufcsif;yif &Jrsm;udk jzwfoef;um usaemfonf tarSmifxJü cHrk sm;udk a&Smif&Sm;&if; a&SYodkY ajy;aerdonf/ ]]&ifarmif ? rul;eJY? vufudkifawG acsmfaew,f}} &JMuyfMuD; OD;atmifpdeo f nfvnf; pdk;&drfpmG atmf[pfaeonf/ ]]oGm;rSjzpfr,f}}[k usaemfonf jyefatmfcJY\/ þtcsdefüum; usaemfonf rnfonfY tEå&m,fudkrSs rawG;rdawmYay/ wGJtul;ü a&SYwGJ vufudkifudk tarSmifxJwGif prf;&SmaepOfü usaemfonf usaemfYwudk,fvHk;udk rdk;oD;rdk;aygufMuD;rsm; xdrSefaejcif;udk um; *½krpdkufrday/ jrcifav;udk xGef;armif MuHpnfvdkufyHkudk þtcsdefwdkuav; twGif;üyif owd&aeonf/ jrcifav;um; xGef;armifudk wrf;wrf;pGJ jzpfaecJY\/ cav;r uav;rSm tysdKazmfyif r0ifao;/ þ cav;ruav; olYudk wrf;wrf;pGJ jzpfaeojzifY xGef ;armifonf olrS wqifY olYtaygif;toif;rsm;udk ay;tyfvdkufjyefonf/ þcav;ruav;\ rsufESmrSm usaemfY rsufvHk;tdrfxJü w0J0J ay:aeonf/ rat;jrifY? rat;a&T? rat;oG,f? wifwif? oif;oif;? EkEk? tjcm;rdef;uav;rsm; tm;vHk;rSm þvrf;odkYomvSsif oGm;cJY& \/ xGef;armifrS wqifY tjcm;vufrsm;odkY ul;ajymif;oGm;&onf/ usaemfYem;xJü xGef;armif\ ]]rif; axmifusoGm;csifovm;}} [k ajymaeoH? ndKndK\ awmif;yefaeoHrsm;onf rdk;oH? &xm;oH rsm;ESifY a&maxG;oGm;aeonf/ rdk;onfvnf; atmf[pf&Gmaeonf/ wGJvufudkifrsm;onf acsmfae\/ pmrsufESm [70 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
usaemfum; &xm;wGJESpcf kMum;odkY a&mufvmcJY\/ ajcaxmufudk vTJum tjcm;wGJodkY ul;vdkufjyefonf/ usaemfYwudk,fvHk; rdk;a&rsm; epfaeonfudk owdrxm;rdawmYay/ usaemfonf tjcm;wGJodkY a&mufvSsif c&D;onfrsm;udk *½krxm;bJ wdkufwdkufcdkufcdkuf ajy;oGm;onf/ c&D;onfrsm;onf za&mif;wdk if rsm;udk MudK;pm; xGef;ndSaeMu\/ usaemfum; rTefxlaeojzifY b,ft&mudkrSs owdr&awmYay/ &xm;udk b&dwfMudK;qGJ&yfvdkuf&efudk aemifrS awG;rdonf/ usaemf tjcm;wGJrsm;udk qufí ul;aepOfü tjyifzufwGif avrsm;vnf; w0SD;0SD; wdkufaeonf/ vSsyfpD;vufvdkufaomtcg tarSmif xJü ajy;aeaom &xm;MuD;udk zswfueJ jrifawGYvdkuf&onf/ aemufqHk;wGJodkYul;&ef tm;,lcsdefüum; &xm;MuD;onf ykvif;acsmif; wefwm;&SnfMuD;udk jzwfausmfaecJaY yjyD/ þ awmifusacsmif;jyifus,fMuD;xJü qifwyfMuD;wck awmifay:rS ajy;qif;vmaeovdk a&vHk;MuD;rsm;onf wa0ga0g jydKqif;ae onf/ acsmif;urf;yg;rsm;onf jydKusaeonf/ usaemfum; aMumufpdwfrsm; 0ifvmaeonf/ þ wefwm;MuD;udk jzwfausmfjyD;onftxd rapmifYEidk f/ usaemfY rsufvHk;xJü tarSmifxJwGif cHw k ef;vsm;wckay: ndKndKYudk qGJvSJaeonfudk jrifae&\/ ]]tar ... tar ... ru,fEdkifawmYbl;vm;}} xdktoHudk Mum;ae&onf/ usaemfonf tEå&m,fudk rawG;EdkifawmYbJ [dkwGJzufvufudkifudk &Smvdkuf\/ jzwful;vdkufonf/ þtcsdefüum; &xm;onf wefwm;MuD;udk jzwful;ae csdefjzpfojzifY usaemfYausmzufwGif wefwm;oHa bmifMuD;rsm; w0SD;0SD; atmfjrnfum jzwfoef;oGm;ae onf/ usaemfonf ausmESifYoHabmifMuD;rsm; r½dkufrdap&ef udk,fudk opf½Gufvdk jym;csyfaeatmif uyfxm;&if; ul;ae&\/ aemufqHk;wGJodkYa&mufvSsif wHcg;udk nifnifomom wGef;zGifYvdkufav onf/ wHcg;onf avSsmueJ yGifYxGufoGm;\/ usaemfonf wHcg;0ü jidrfoufpGm &yfaevdkufonf/ usaemf awG;vmonfY twdkif;yif tarSmifxJü ½kef;uefoH? aqmifYwGef;oH? qJqdkoH? jcdrf;ajcmufoH? vJusoGm;oHrsm;udk Mum;&onf/ wjznf;jznf; tarSmifxJrS olwdkYt&dyfrsm;udk awGY&onf/ vSsyfpD;wcsuf vufvdkufcsdefwGif xGef;armifu ndKndK\udk,frS tuFsDudk qGJqkwfvdkufonfudk jrifvdkuf&onf/ tusÐ pkwfjyJoGm;oH Mum;&\/ usaemfonf xGef;armifaemufrS ajy;uyfvdkuf\/ ycHk;rS qGJajrSmufvdkufonf/ xdkYaemuf wudk,fvHk; zdtm; toHk;csum &if0 wnfYwnfYodkY tm;oGef xdk;csvdkufonf/ usaemfum; taysmfwrf; abmufqm orm;tjzpfu tavYtusifYrsm; tm;vHk; jyef&vmonf xif&onf/ wcsuf toHxGufjyD; vJusoGm;\/ aemufwcsuf xyfxdk;&ef tm;,l vdkufcsdefwGif usaemfYajcaxmufrsm;onf aoewfudk eif;rd vdkufonf/ usaemfonf aoewfudk ukef;aumufvdkufjyD; ajymif;zufrS qkyfudkifvdkuf\/ &ifxJrS rcHr&yfEidk f? pkjyHKaygufuGJvmMuaom a'go rsm;onf vSsyfppf"mwf uJYodkY vuftwGif;odkY pD;qif;oGm;Muonf/ usaemfonf aoewf'ifjzifY olY OD;quf[k xif&onfYae&mudk pdwfcGeftm; &dSorSs tm;ukef vTJ½dkufcsvdkuf\/ ]]cGyf}}ueJ jrnfoHonf rdk;oH? avoH? wefwm;oH? acsmif;a&usoH? yk&pfatmfoH? &xm;ckwfarmif;oHrsm;tMum;ü xif&Sm; jywfom;pGm tm;&auseyf zG,f&m ay:vmonf/ ]]aojyD}}[k usaemfonf vSsifjrefpGm awG;vdkufrd\/ pmrsufESm [71] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
þ &xm;wGJwGif vlowfrItwGuf oufaor&dS/ olY OD;quf yGifYoGm;jyD[k xifae\/ t½dIufwnfYwnfYrdvSsif yxr xdk;vdkufonfY vufoD;csufjzifYyif aooGm;Edkifonf/ usaemfonf bmvkyf&rnfudk pOf;pm;&efyif owdr&/ bmaMumifYrSe;f rod aoewfudkum; Murf;jyif ay: 0kef;ueJ vTwfcsvdkufrdonf/ ndKndKonf vl;vJ x&yfae\/ ]]ol rIwfvm;[if ... olrIwfvm; ... bk&m;odMum; rvdkYaygY? tudk&ifarmif rIwfvm;}} ]][kwfw,f ... bk&m;odMum; rvdkY udk a&mufvmwm}} usaemfonf ua,mifajcmufjcm;jzifY olYpum;udk ajc&mxyfeif; ajymaerd onf/ olYudk csdKif;rS rajrSmuf ayGx Y laerdonf/ olonf usaemfY&ifciG ftwGif;odkY wdk;a0SY&if; ½dIufMuD;wiif idkaeonf/ pkwfjywfaeaom olYtusÐaMumifY tuG,ftumr&dS [if;vif;yGifY aeonfY olY &ifom;rsm;rSm usaemfYvufarmif;jzifY xdaeonf/ rdk;a&rsm;onf usaemfwdkY ausmjyifzufrS yufoGif;aeonf/ ol aobD ... 'g vlowfrIbJ ... tavmif;udk azsmufypf&r,f? tdk ... ykvif;acsmif; wefwm;awmif vGefvmbD? a&SY pGefacsmif; a&mufawmYr,f? pGefacsmif;us&if a&xJ uefcsypfcrJY ,f? pGefacsmif;vJ a&pD;oefwmbJ? 'gqdk udpöjyD;wmaygY ... ]]'g vlowfrIbJ? vlowfrIbJ}} ESifY usaemfonf 'vpyf awG;aerd\/ ]vlowfrIvJ bmjzpfovJ? jzpfvmorSs taumif;csnfYaygY} usaemfonf ndKndKYudk wGef;z,faerd\/ xGef;armifY tavmif;udk azsmufzsufawmYrnf[k ajymaerd\/ ]]pGefacsmif;eJYeD;vmbD? vTwfprf;uG,f? tavmif;udk tayguf0zuf a&Tx Y m;rS}} [k atmfajymaerdonf/ olonf usaemfYudk tm;ukefzufxm;onf/ olY vufrsm;onf wqwfqwfwkefae\/ olY tom;pdkifrsm;onf wkefaeMu\/ ]]rD;jcpf jcpfMunfYyg}} olonf aMumufvefYwMum; atmfajymae\/ xdktcgwGifrS usaemfonfvnf; xGef;armif ao rao MunfY&ef owd& vmonf/ abmif;bDtdwfxJrS rD;jcpf xkwfjcpfaerdonf/ rD;jcpfrSm a&rsm;pdkaeonfwMumif; ... usaemfYvufrsm; wkefaeonfwaMumif;aMumifY ½kwfw&uf rawmufEdkiaf y/ tawmfMumrS awmufvmonf/ usaemfwdkYonf rD;a&mifatmufü iHYMk unfYvdkufMu\/ xGef;armifudk usaemf½dkufpOfu arSmufcHk[k xifcJYaomfvnf; xGef;armifum; yufvufvJuscJYojzifY ezl;udkom xdoGm;cJhonf/ ezl;rSm aoewf'ifapmif;jzifY ½dkufrdojzifY [ufwufuGJae\/ rdk;rsm;&GmaeonfY txJüyif olYezl;rS aoG;rsm;onf Murf;jyifay: pD;us aeMu\/ olonf raoao;ay/ owdum; vpfaeayjyD/ ]]raoao;bl;? 'gayr,fY owfypfrS jzpfr,f? 'Daumif rif;udk tcJausrSm rIwfzl;? vlrdkufqdkwm aq;r&dSbl;? vl,kwfrmqdkawmY ydkqdk;w,f}} usaemfonf toHEdSrYjf yD; ajymaerd\/ rD;jcpfrSm a0SYojzifY [kwfueJ jidrf;oGm;avonf/ pmrsufESm [72] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf usaemfYudk xyfí ayGYzufxm;\/ tao wG,fuyfxm;onf/ ]]z,fygtHk; rD;a&mifjrifae&bD? ykwD;ukef; a&mufawmYr,f? 'DtaumifMuD;udk acsmif;xJ ypfcs&r,f}} ]][iftif; ... [iftif; ... aMumufw,f? ndKndK aMumufw,f}}[k olonf pl;pl;0g;0g; atmfaeonf/ olonf xGef;armifudk rowfbJESifY tdrfomxJ xnfYydwfxm;&ef ajymaeonf/ usaemf udk,fwdkifvnf; vufpazsmufypfcYjJ cif;om trSefqHk;jzpfonfudk awG;cJYaomfvnf; vlwa,mufudk aoG;at;pGm tpazsmufypf &efrSm rvG,fonf udk cHpm;vmae&jyefonf/ xdktcsdefu xGef;armif touf&SifaevSsif rnfrSs tEå&m,fMuD;rm;rnfudk trSeftwdkif; MudKwif awG;aerdygvsufESifY usaemfonf azsmufzsufypfvdkpdwf r&daS wmYay/ xdkYaMumifYyif xGef;armifudk teD;&dS tdrfomtwGif;odkY ypfoGif;vdkufrd onf/ olYaoewfrS usnfqHrsm;? olY cg;ywfrS usnfqHrsm; xkwf,ljyD; vTifYypfcJY \/ aoewfudkyg tdrfomxJ ypfoGif;vdkufonf/ tjyifrS rif;wkef; xdk;ydwfvdkuf onf/ usaemfonf ndKndKYudk vufrSqGJjyD; wGJ\ tjcm;tpGefzufodkU qGJac:vm \/ rdk;rsm;vnf; yg;pjyKvmavonf/ wGJtpGef axmifYzufcHkwGif usaemfonf olYudk ayGYjyD; xdkifckid f;vdkuf\/ ]]bmjyKvdkY vlr&dSwJYwGJrSm wa,mufxJ vmpD;&wmvJ}}[k tjypfwif ar;aerdonf/ ]]ol vmrvm;vdkYaygY}} ]]bk&m;a& ... udk vmr,fxifvdkY}} ]][kwfw,f? ola&mufvmwmbJ rIwfvm;}} usaemfonf olYudk csdKif;atmufrS yifrY ayGYxm;&if; toufr½SLbJ jidrfoufaerd\/ xdkwcPtcsdefü olYudk,frSm yufvuftdyo f nfY taetxm; ruswus jzpfaeonf/ rdk;vnf;pJjyD jzpfojzifY Mu,fa&mifrSderf SdefjzifY olYwudk,fvHk;udk jrifae&\/ oluvnf; tarSmifxJü usaemfYudk ai;pif;MunfYaeonf xif&\/ usaemfonf arYae&mrS xGef;armiftaMumif; owd&vmjyefonf/ xGef; armif\ usifYMuH&ef MudK;pm;yHkudk awG;rdjyefonf/ olYudk csufcsif; vufxyfrS jzpfrnf[k pOf;pm;aerd\/ [kwfw,f ... ,lypf&r,f? aemifa&;qdkwm olyzmom ajyv,fvmrSmaygY? 'g[m igaMumufaewmbJ? wcgw&Hr,f ZGwf rsufpdrw dS f qHk;jzwfvdkufwm trSefqHk;aygY? 'DvdkbJ olawmif;pm;awGawmif tdrfaxmifjyKMuao;wmbJ? ig aiGpkaiGacs;rSm tyfxm;wJYaiGudk xkwfvdkufr,f? olYudk tyfcsKyfpuf 0,fay;r,f? olY pufcsKyfwJY 0ifaiGudk olYtarudk p&dwfaxmufaygY? vG,fygw,f ... vG,fvG,fuav;yg? MunfYprf; ... tpu ig rawG;cJYrdbl;? uJ ... tdrfaxmifjyK vdkufMuwmaygY? 'D&uftwGif;rSm jyKvdkufMuwmaygY? 'Dvdkvkyfr,fav? jrdKYvkifrSm 'DwGJudk c&D;onfwa,mufrS wufrvmbl;qdk&ifaygY? tavmif;tpm; vkyfr,f? qHk;jzwf&cuf&if arsmufyef;vSef qHk;jzwf&wmaygYav ... jrdKYvkift0if pGefacsmif;udk jzwfausmfaepOfü usaemfonf olYudk wif;usyfpGm erf;aerd\/ &ifckeo f Hrsm; qlnHaeonf/ ]'DwGJudk b,folrS rvmygapeJY} [k qkawmif;aerd\/ ]]vTwftHk; ... vTwftHk; ... touf½SLr&awmYbl;}} usaemfonf rvTwfbJ erf;aerdonf/ jrdKYvkifü qkawmif;twdkif; c&D;onf wa,mufrSwufrvmay/ usaemf olYudk rvTwfbJ ayGzY ufxm;qJü &xm;MuD;onfvnf; qufí xGufvmaejyefonf/ pmrsufESm [73] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
]]rif;udk ckcsufcsif; ,lvdkufawmYr,f? udk qHk;jzwfjyD;bD? rif; pufcsKyfaygY? rif;wdkYtarudk tJ'DaiGeJY axmufyHYaygY? av;tdrfr Sm pufawGaygygw,f? tJ'Dudk oGm;Mur,f? [dka&muf&if udkwdkY vifr,m;vdkY ajymwmaygY}} ]]&Sufp&m aumif;vdkufwm? vTwfprf;ygtHk;? arSmifvdkufwmaemf? odvm; ... arSmifawmY olYudk aMumufaMumufvmw,f}} olonf vTwfprf;ygajym&if; usaemfYudk olYvufjzifY odrf;&pfayGx Y m;ae onf/ olESiu fY saemfonf ydkí yl;uyfaeonf xif&\/ ol\ armvIdufpGm touf½SLoHudk &ifcek foHESiafY &mum Mum;ae&onf/ ]]udkawmYav ... arSmifvmawmY rif;udk cspfvmw,f}} olonf usaemfYvufarmif;udk vdefqGJvdkufjyefonf/
(15) cspfoufckepf&uf av;tdrf&Gmü usaemfwdkYonf nm;p ZeD;armifESH[k ajymjyD; tyfcsKyfpuf 0,f&if; wn tdyfcYMJ u\/ usaemfwdkY udk,fwdkifuvnf; nm;ptcg[k ,HkMunfaecJo Y nf/ av;tdrf &GmrS aeYcif;zuf tjyifodkY xGufvmcJYvSsif olonf usaemfY vufarmif;udk nm;p vifr,m;vdkyif rvTwfwrf; qkyfudkifzufwG,fxm;cJYavonf/ ]]olu olrsm;wdkY nm;aejyDajymawmY udkodef;atmifMuD; jyHK;aewm &Sufvdkufwm}}[k olonf ajymvmcJY\/ usaemfonf olYudk ,mcif;rsm;&dS&m awmpyfzufodkY ac:vmcJY\/ xdkae&mü ESpfa,mufxJ vGwfvyfpGmaevdkpdwf ay:aejyefonf/ &Gmxdyf&dS awmifus acsmif;wefwm;ay:wGif &yf&if; usaemfonf usaemf,HkMunf&mjzpfonfY pmaytaMumif;udk ol em;rvnfrSef; odygvsufESifY olYudk tav;teuf ajymaerdjyefonf/ ol pmwvHk;rS zwfwwfolr[kwfrSef; usaemfodygonf/ odkYaomf olESiu fY saemfrSm ESpfa,mufr[kwf[k xdktcgu usaemfonf cHpm;ae&\/ olonf usaemfYrsufESmudk pdkufMunfYae&if; ]]pma&;w,fqdkwm ydkufqyfawmY&rSmaygY}}[k ar;aecJYonf/ atmufzuf acsmif;jyif a&om;jymay:ü olESiu fY saemf&yfaeonfY t&dyf ESpfcrk Sm &Tifvef;csrf;ajrYpGm jyHK;&,faeMuavonf/ ]]tJ'Dtcgus&if ck udkwdkY a&Smufv,fMuwmawG pmxJrSm xJYa&;r,f? udkwdkY oGm;v,fwJY ,mcif;uav;awG pdrf;aewm pdwfcsrf;omp&m aumif;w,f vdkY a&;rSmaygY? awmxJrSm rif;eJYudkeJY vGwfvGwfvyfvyf pum;ajymwm a&;r,f? rif;u ½kyf&Six f Juvdk jrufcif;aydkiyf D; aumif;uifMuD;udk armYMunfYaeawmY ... udkuvJ ½kyf&SifxJuvdk rif;a&SYu jzwfavSsmufvm}} olonf usaemfYudk vdefqGJvdkufjyefjyD; ESpfjcdKufpGm &,fvdkufonf/ ]]olY½kyfMuD;u rif;om;eJYvJ wlbJeJY}} ]] 'gayr,fY rif;½kyfu b,frif;orD;rS rrSaD tmif vSw,frIwfvm;? rif;&JY a,musfm;vJ ½kyf&Sirf if;om; jzpfoGm;wmaygY ...}} ]]bm ... rif;a,musfm;vJ}} olonf usaemfYudk ,dkifoGm;atmif wGef;vdkuf\/ ,mcif;rsm;&dS&mzufodkY oGm;ae&if; olonf usaemfYudk arSmifcdkor tcsdKY ESifY pGyfpJjG yD; trsdK;rsdK; ar;cGef;rsm; ar;vmcJYonf/ usaemf onfvnf; olauseyfatmif &Sif;jy&onfudk pdwfyifyef;vmcJY&onf/ ]]olYudk tvkyfxGufcdki;f rS jzpfrSmyg? 'grS pdwfcsrf;om&rSm}}
pmrsufESm [74] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf aiGw&mrSs pkaqmif;xm;jyD;jzpfojzifY olYenf;ESifYol usaemfwdkYcsif; ,lEdkiaf tmif EGm;arG;rnf MuHpnfcJYyku H dkvnf; ajymjyvm onf/ ]]ckae aiGw&mqdk EGm;raygufpuav; ESpfaumifawmY&w,f? tJwm oHk;ESpfarG;vdkuf&if EGm;awGarG;vmaum? aemufig;ESpfqdk EGmr wtkyf jzpfvmrSm aygY? r&DygeJY?tJwmqdk olrsm;wdkY olaX;jzpfEidk fw,f? olYudk tvkyfxGufcdki;f &r,f}} awmifukef;ESpfcEk SifY ,mcif;uGufrsm;udk vGefvmcJYjyD; awmifukef;xdyf wae&mü usaemfwdkYonf &yfaerdMu\/ usaemfwdkYtay:ü rdk;om;ysysonf tkyf qdkif;ae\/ tedrzfY ufü acsmif;uav;onf auGYaumufpGm pD;qif;ae\/ usaemf ESifY olum; urÇmajrjyifay:ü ESpfa,mufwnf; &dSaeovdk xifae&jyefonf/ olonf usaemfYeHab;ü jidrfoufpGm&yf&if; wckckudk eufeuf½dIif;½dIif; awG;aecJYjyefonf/ twefMumrS ... ]]olrsm;wdkY wu,f,lMuawmYrSmaemf ... olrsm;wdkY nm;&if ol ... olrsm; udk r½dkuf&bl;aemf}} olu cyfwdk;wdk; ajymaeonf/ usaemfonf olYvufuav;udk qkyfudkifxm;&if; olYrsufESmuav;udk tMumMuD; ai;MunfYaerdonf/ ol \ xdk cav;pdwf cav; tawG;rSm &,farm? ajymifavSmifp&m r[kwfawmYay/ xdktawG;aMumifY usaemfonf ol\cav;pdwfxm;udk odae&\/ ol\ jzLpifaom cav;pdwfxm;uav;rSm ay:vGifvmaeonf/ ]]at;yguG,f udk r½dkufygbl;? t½dkufrcHcsif&if [dk xef;awmxJa&mufatmif vdkufcJY&r,faemf}} usaemfonf &,foHjzifY ajymae&onf/ olonf ukef;xdyfay:rS usaemfESifY ab;csif;,SOf qif;vmcJYonf/ awmifukef;tqif; w0ufwGif ]]yD;awmY ol ... olrsm;udk ypfroGm;&bl; aemf}}[k wwGwfwGwf ajymvdkufvmonf/ usaemfwdkYonf ,mcif;tvGef xef;awmtpü xdkifvdkufMu\/ acsmif;uav;rSm xef;awmtv,frS jzwfí pD;qif;aeonf/ usaemfonf olYycH;k ay:wGif vufwifxm;&if; usaemf&bl;onfY uAsmwyk'frS wydkif;wpudk &Gwfjyaerdonf/ uAsmrSm ]aysmf&Tifjcif;} [k acgif;pnf;wyfxm;onf/ yifv,f a&vTmjyifxufay:rS Zifa,mfiSufuav;rsm; 0JysH jrL;aysmf aeyHkudkMunfY&if; ... rdk;wdrfjymrsm;atmufü wzswfzswf awmufy aeonfY? vSyjzmusaeonfY a&mifjcnf aiGrSsifwdkYudk ai;&if;? oJaomifpyf ay:vdIif; MuufcGyfuav;rsm; ajy;wufvmyHkudk MunfY&if; cspfol\ ndKpdrYpf drfY rsufESmuav;udk tyltyifuif;rJYpGm ai;MunfYae&jcif;rSm MunfEl; csrf;jrzG,fygwum;/ xdkaeY xdk&ufodkY a&muf&ef cspfolwdkif; rSefuefpGm MudK;yrf;vmEdkif rnfY aeY&ufonfom ]aysmf&Tifjcif;} rnfayvdrfYrnf/ ]]tckvJ udkawmY tJ'D uAsmav;vdkbJ ndKndK ... rifYpum;oHudk em;axmif&if;/ [dkrSm acsmif;a&pD;aeoHudk em;axmif&if;? xef;vufawG avwdk;oH em;axmif&if; rifYrsufESmuav;udk MunfYaecsifw,f}} olonfusaemfUudk ai;Munfhaeonf/ rsufawmifudk ykwfcwf ykwfcwf vkyfaeonf/olUrsufvHk;rsm;rSm usaemfUudk tHhtm;oifhae[ef ay:aeonf/ ]] olhU pum;awGu bmawGrSef;vJ rodbl;” olu t&kd;cHtwdkif; cyfwkd;wdk; nnf;ajymaeonf/ usaemfonf olUyckH;udk udkifvIyf&if; &,faerdonf/ usaemf &GwfjyonfY uAsmudkvnf; olonf em;vnfrnfr[kwf/ ]]uJ ... rif;ajymcsifwm ajymprf;yg}} pmrsufESm [75 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf wckckudk av;av;eufeuf awG;aejyefonf/ tawmfMumatmif olonf jidrfouf wdwfqdwfae\/ olUtouf&SL½dIufoH udkom Mum;ae&\/ rdk;zGJ rd;k rIefuav;rsm; usvmonfYwdkifatmif olonf rvIyf&Sm;ay/ aea&mifjcnfrsm; aysmufuG,foGm;um rdk;onf ndKYvm\/ rdk;rIefuav; rsm;onf cPrSsom usaemfwdkYtay:rS &Syfwdkuf ajy;oGm; Mu\/ olY ezl;jyif ay:wGif rd;k pufuav;rsm; wpufESpfpuf wifoGm;avonf/ twefMumrS olonf usaemfY rsufvHk;tdrfxJodkY wckwckudk eufeuf½dIif;½dIif; &SmazGovdk pdu k fMunfYaejyefonf/ olu ... ]]olrsm;wdkY tdrfaxmifusyD; rawmfwq olrsm;aooGm;&if ol aemufrdef;r r,l&bl;aemf? raeygbl;? ol ,lr,fY vlMuD;yg? aemuf rdef;r,l&if olrsm; [dkb0uae jyKpm;rSmbJ}} av;av;yifyifMuD; ajymaeonf/ usaemfvnf; r&,fEdkiaf wmYay/ usaemfonf olYvufudk cyfzzG G qkyfudkifxm;aerdonf/ ]]rif;ao&if udk,fvJ vdkufaorSmbJ xifw,f? tck rif;ajymoGm;wJY pum;awGaMumifY &ifuGJemeJY aor,fxifw,f? vGrf;MuifiSuf awGvdkaygY? waumifao&if usefwJYwaumifyg vdkufaorSmav ...}} usaemfonf olYudk tjidrfYoruav;wa,mufESifY olYcspfoltaMumif;udk yHkjyifuav;wckvdk ajymaerdonf/ olwdkYEpS fOD;rSm wl0&D; 0rf;uGJvnf; awmfonf/ waeYwGif ZmwfujyD; tjyefü um;arSmufojzifY tjidrfYoruav;rSm aq;½Hkay:ü olYwl cspfol \ &ifcGifxJü uG,fvGefoGm;cJYonf/ olYcspfolonf tavmif;udk ayGYydkufxm;&if; wufcsufoGm;&mrS owdjyefvnfrvmbJ aooGm;cJYonf/ ]]rif;rsm; ao&if udkvJ tJ'v D dk jzpfrSmbJ xifw,f}} usaemfonf av;eufpGm cHpm;um ajymaerdonf/ þtaMumif;rsdK; awG;&onfrSm pdwfcsrf;omzG,f&m r[kwfaomfvnf; tu,fí olonf usaemfY &ifciG fxJwGif xdkodkY aoqHk;aecJYvSsif usaemfyg vdkufjyD; aooGm;Edkifonf[k xifaerdjyefonf/ usaemfonf olYudk ayGYnSpfxm;rd\/ ]]ol ... tJ'DvdkawmY vdkufrao&bl;? olrsm; aojyD;&if olrsm;u vlY0rf;xJ jyef0ifpm;rSm? olrsm; tysdKjyefjzpfvm&if oleJY jyef,lrSmaygY? tJ'Dtcsdefxdatmif ol apmifYae&r,faemf ...}} olonf usaemfY aygifay:wGif vSJtdy&f if; jyHK;ae\/ usaemfonfvnf; q&mMuD;a&TOa'gif;\ ]½lyeE´}D rS cspfoludk ESpfaygif; ESpfaxmifausmfausmf apmifYae&&SmonfY ½lyeE´D rif;orD;MuD;\ ½kyfyv Hk Tmudk jrifawG;aerdjyefonf/ raoraysmuf aeEdkifvSsif cspfoludk jyefíawGYqHk&ef ESpfaygif; ESpfaxmif apmifYae Edkifonf[k awG;rdonf/ ]]udku ESpfaygif; ESpfaxmifwdwd apmifYaer,f}} olonf jyHK;vsuf armYMunfYae&if; acgif;cg,rf;aeonf/ ]]rsm;ygw,f? tJ'DavmufMuD; rvdkygbl;? q,fYckepfESpfxJ apmifYyg? tJ'D avmufqdk&if olrsm; tysdK jyefjzpfvmrSmbJ}} usaemfonf olYezl;udk nifompGm erf;aerd\/ xdknaeu olYeHab;ü usaemfonf ,SOftyd fcJY\/ ESpfa,mufpvHk; ESpfESpjf cdKufjcdKuf tdyaf ysmfoGm;Muonf/ pmrsufESm [76 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
ae0ifpü ½kwfw&uf rdk;MuD; &Gmcsvdkufaom tcgwGifrS ESpfa,mufpvHk; tdyf&mrS vefYE;dk vmMu\/ rdk;&GmMuD;xJü ½kwfw&uf rxao;bJ olYudk twif; ayGYxm;&if; ESpfa,mufpvHk; ESpfESpjf cdKufjcdKuf vGwfvyfpGm &,farmcJYMuonf/ xdknu ... av;tdrf uHx½dkufwm odef;atmif pDpOfay;onfY &GmY ajrmufzsm;&dS oD;oefY tdrfwvHk;ay:wGif olESif Yusaemfum; vGwfvyfpGm tdyfcYMJ u\/ rMumrD &ufydki;f twGif;ü vufxyf,lMurnf jzpfojzifY ESpfa,mufpvHk; aysmf&TifrMd uonfrSm rD;cdk;rqHk; rdk;rqHk; jzpfayonf/ xdkYjyif twmpef;ukef;blwm uHx½dkufwm pDpOfay;ojzifY twmpef;ukef; &GmwGif wn tdyfcMJY u\/ qifaouefrSm w&uf? tifawmus,frSm w&uf? a&Tyef;yifrSm w&uf? a*G;ukef;rSm wn/ awmifwGif;MuD;wGifvnf; olESiu fY saemfonf a&Ttif;awmifapwDü yef;? qDrD;rsm; uyfvSL&if; qkawmif;cJYMu\/ ]]b0wdkif; b0wdkif; twlae&atmif qkawmif;aemf}} olonf usaemfYudk cyfwdk;wdk; ajymcJYavonf/ wnaeü olESiu fY saemfonf &wemyGifYvSuef a&v,fbk&m;odkY oGm;í zl;cJYMuao;onf/ bk&m;&ifjyifay:üum; twl,SOfí xdkifjcif;rSm ½dkif;ysonf[k ,lq\/ xdknaeu uefabmif&dS tkwfcHkwckay:ü olESiu fY saemf ,lrnfYaeY&ufudk uefYowfvmMu\/ xdktaMumif;udkom ESpfa,mufom; wwGwfwGwf ajymvm cJYMuonf/ olESiu fY saemfum; vufxyfaygif;oif;&efrSwyg; tjcm; rjzpfEdki[ f k ,HkMunfcJYMu\/ xdkYaMumifYyif olESiu fY saemf aemufqHk;wnwmü awmifwGif;MuD;&dS rD;&xm;trIxrf; usaemfYtdraf y:wGif awGYMuaom tcgwGifvnf; usaemfwdkY onf vGwfvyfpGm aysmf&TifaecJYMu\/ xdknu usaemfonf olY xef;vsufrsm;udk olYazmufonf rodef;&SifxH ydkYay;tjyD;ü olYudk awmifwGif;MuD; acwfopf MobmnGefY ½kyf&Si½f Hka&SYü oGm;qHkawGYonf/ usaemfonf olYudk ac:vmcJY\/ r*Fvmvrf;xdyf a&mufaomtcg rdk;onf ½kwfw&uf oJoJrJrJ &Gmcsvdkufonf/ usaemfonf olYudk rd;k umtusÐxJ qGJoGif;vdkufonf/ r*Fvmvrf;rSm "mwfrD;wdkifrsm; tvSrf;a0;onfYtxJ tcsdKY uRrf;aeMu ojzifY arSmifrnf;aeonf/ refusnf;yif t&dyfrsm;aMumifY ydkí arSmifaecJY\/ usaemfonf rdk;&GmMuD;xJwGif olUudk rd;k umatmufü erf;ae&if; aysmfaerdjyef onf/ ]] 'Dvrf;u jzwfvrf;av ndKndK&JY? blwm½HkoGm;wJY jzwfvrf;? jyD;awmY cspfAdrmef aqmufcsif& if odyfjrefwJY jzwfvrf;? arSmifvdkufwm rJvdkY? b,folrS rjrif&bl; rIwfvm;}} olYudk,fvHk; ao;ao;uav;rSm usaemfY&ifciG fxJü aysmufuG,fcref; jzpfaeonf/ olonf usaemfYAu dk fudk vdefqGJvdkuf \/ ]]ol 'Dvrf;uapmifYjyD; b,fESpfa,mufudk 'Dvdk vkyfzl;ovJ rodbl;? olrsm; rvdkufcsifawmYbl;}} rdk;oHrsm;Mum;ü usaemfonf atmfí &,faerd\/ ]]rif; rvdkufcsifwm udkY tdrfay:a&mufrS ajymuG,f}} tdrfodkYa&mufaomtcg olYwudk,fvHk;rSm &TJepfaeonf/
pmrsufESm [77 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olYtwGuf t0wfvJp&mvnf; r&dSawmYay/ usaemfY ykqdk;rsm;rSmvnf; yif;rif;qdkif a&mufaeMu\/ aemufqHk;ü olonf usaemfY abmif;bDudkom 0wf&avonf/ ol t0wfvJaepOfü ol &SufaeojzifY usaemf rsufESmvTJxm;&\/ usaemfonf olYudk ausmay;um bD½dkxJrS t&ufykvif;udk qGJ,lae\/ olonf abmif;bDMuD; yGa&mif;a&mif;udkvJjyD; wcpfcpf &,f&if; usaemf &dS&modkY avSsmufvmonf/ usaemfYa&SYü olonf [efygyg cg;axmuf&yfvdkuf\/ rdk;MuD; onf;xefpGm &GmaeojzifY olESiu fY saemfonf vGwfvyfpGm &,fvdkufrdMujyefonf/ xdktcgwGifum; ... usaemfY tdrfuav;ay:&dS t&m0w¬K taygif;rSm ydkí vSyvmMuonf[k xif&\/ olESifY usaemf tdyf&ef 0,fxm;cJYonfY vlwa,mufrSs rtdyfzl;ao;aom ukwifrS ay:vpfa&mifonfvnf; ydkí awmufyvmonf xif&onf/ olu ... ]]ol t&ufaomufovm;? olrsm;eJYae&if raomuf&bl;aemf}} [k ajymaejyefonf/ ]]eJeJusOf;usOf;yg ndKndK&,f? rif;eJY&&if raomufawmYygbl;}} olonf zswfueJ ykvif;udk qGJvkvdkufonf/ ]] 'gjzifY raomufawmYeJYav ...? tck olrsm;eJY nm;aebD rIwfvm;}} ol ta&ufykvif;udk bD½dkxJ jyefxnfYtjyD;wGif usaemfonf olYudk apGYueJ ayGY,lvdkufjyD; olYudk t½kyfuav;wckudk ypfwifvdkufovdk ukwifay:ypfwifvdkuf\/ olonf ukwifay:&dS zHkarG&Y may:ü vdrfYoGm;pOfwGif cav; uav; aqmYupm;jyD; &,fovdk wcpfcpf odrfYodrfYcgatmif &,faejyefonf/ ]]a[m[dk bD½dktao;uav;u rif;t0wftpm;awG xnfYzY?dk [dkrSew f ifcHk u rif;tvSjyifzY?dk a[m'D ckwifu 'kdYEpS fa,muf twltdyzf dkY? uJ ... tck tprf; tdyfMunfY&atmifav}} olonf usaemfY&iftku H dk w'kdif; 'kdif; xkae\/ ]]pum; taumif;ajymprf;yg}} olonf usaemfY&ifciG fxJrS vl;vJ½kef;uef aejyefonf/ ]]rif; t&ufraomufeJYqdkvdkY udk raomufawmYbl;aemf? rif;vJ udkUpum; em;axmif&r,faemf? [kwfvm;? 'gjzifY rif; arSmifcdkukef rul;&awmYbl;}} ]]bmjyKvdkY}} ]]tck rif;eJY udk,feJY tdrfaxmifusaejyDav ...}} yxrü olonf ESpfEpS fjcdKufjcdKuf jyHK;aeonf/ cPrSstMumü olonf jyHK;aepOfüyif wckckudk euf½dIif;pGm awG;vdkufrd ovdk wnfjidrfoGm;jyefonf/ tapmydkif;u &,foHrsm; vTrf;rdk;aecJYonfY puúefYykid f; tcsdefwdkuav;rSm ,ck r&daS wmYay/ usaemfonf rsuf&nfrsm; 0dkif;vmaeonfY olYrsufvHk;tdrfudk ai;MunfYae rd\/ olonf EIwfcrf;udk qwfueJ udkufvdkufjyefonf/ ]]olrsm; arSmifcdkukeful;ae&wm odyfaysmfvdkY vkyfaewmvdkY ol xifaeo vm;[if ...}} pmrsufESm [78 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olu cyfwdk;wdk; ajymaeonf/ ]]*syefacwfu *syefudk rmpwm ac:aeMu&wJY rdef;cav;awG[m ac:csifvGef;vdkY ac:Mu&w,f xifovm;[if ...? tJ'D rdef;cav; awG bmjzpf usefcJYovJ ... ]]tckvJ olrsm; arSmifcdkukeful;vdkY olYr,m; jzpfvm&wmvdkY ajymp&m jzpfaew,f rIwfvm;? rdef;rqdkwm b,frdef;rjzpfjzpf olwdkYudk olwdkY wefzdk;xm; csifMuwmbJ ... ]]zm jzpfwmawmifrS ig;usyf wq,f}} usaemfonf olYyg;pyfudk ydwfxm;vdkuf\/ ]]awmfawmYuG,f ... awmfygawmY}} usaemfwdkYonf wOD;udkwOD; pdwfxdcdkufpGmjzifY MunfYaerdMuonf/ olonf yg;pyfudkzGiYjf yD; touf&SLaeonf/ olY rsufvHk;tdrfrS rsuf&nfrsm;onf wvdrfYvdrfY a<uusvmaeMu\/ usaemfonf olYyg;ay:rS rsuf&nfrsm;udk usaemfYyg;jzifY yGwfwdkufaerdjyef onf/ ]] 'gawG rajymeJY ndKndK&,f? rif;udk udk b,favmufcspfw,f b,favmuf cspfw,fqdkwm rif; odygw,f? udkYudk EdSyfpufae ovdkbJ}} xdknu tawmfMumrS usaemfwdkYonf xdkpum;rsm;udk arYypfEidk fMu\/ olYudk awmif;&rf;,l&eftwGuf usaemfYtarudk rSmxm;&m tara&mufvm rnfY&ufudk usaemfwdkYonf aysmf&TifMunfEl;pGmjzifY vufcsdK; a&wGufaerdMujyef onf/ a&SYv qef;vSsif tarvnf; a&muftvm ... usaemfYc&D;p&dwf oHk;vpm vnf; ygtvmESifY tHudkufaeonf/ a&SYvqef;ü aiGpkaiGacs; toif;rS usaemf &p&m&dSonfY aiGrsm;vnf;&rnf/ ukwifay:ü usaemfwdkYonf rsufESmcsif;qdkif tdyfaeMu&if; ajymp&m pum;rsm; rqHk;Edkif jzpfaeMujyefonf/ ]]cav; b,fESpfa,muf arG;ay;rvJ}} usaemfonf ar;aecJY\/ olu vufq,facsmif; axmifjy&if; jyHK;aejyefonf/ ]]cav;awGudk rif;u ½dkufrSmbJ? tJawmY udku a&SYu qD;um&if rif; udkYudkyg odrf;½dkufr,fY rdef;ryg? yD;awmYrS cav;awG ½dkufyD;rS rif;yg a&midkrSm rIwfvm;? uJ ... rif;rSm AdkufMuD; wcGJom;eJY jzpfaea&m ...? 'Dvdk ntdyf&mxJrSm rif;u yufvuftdyaf ea&m? txJu taumifudk 'kdYEpS fa,muf apmifYMunfYaewm aygY? tJ'Dtaumifu ajcum;,m; vufum;,m; vIyfae&if 'ku dkY tjyifu vSrf; zrf;xm;r,f? 'Daumif txJrSm twif;½kef;aerSmaemf}} olonf usaemfYudk vdefqGJae\/ ]]&Sufp&mawG awmfprf;}}[k aigufae\/ usaemfum; ol udk,f0efMuD; wcGJom;ESifY jzpfaevSsif olYudk vufwGJum *kPf,l0g<um;pGm naewdkif; vrf;avSsmuf&if; usaemfYpdwfü MunfEl;aernfudk MudKwif awG;aerdjyefonf/ xdktcgwGifum; olYudk usaemfcspfonfY arwåmrSm ,ckxuf tqrsm;pGm ydkí pifMu,f Munfvifaernfudk awG;odaeonf/ olu olESifY rwnfYonfY tpm;tpmudk csOfjcif;wyfjyD; rsuf&nfw0J0JjzifY wwGwfwGwf awmif;aevSsif usaemfum; ray;rd&ef renf;xdef;csKyf&ayrnf/ rdk;onf xdknudk trSwfw&jzpf&ef woJoJ &GmaecJYonf/ av;em&Dü olonf wkef;armif;acgufoHudk em;axmifjyD; oufjyif;cs aejyefonf/ ]]em&DawGuvJ jrefvdkufwmaemf}} pmrsufESm [79 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
olonf nnf;nLaeonf/ olonf usaemfYudk tdyfaysmfaeonfxifjyD; EdI;onf/ tdrfwckvHk; aoao oyfoyf jzpfap&ef odrf;qD;onf/ t0wfrsm;udkvJjyD; rsufESmudk oeyfcg;rIefYrsm; vl;jyD; ukwiftem; avSsmufvmum &yfjyefonf/ ]] 'DaeY we*FaEGaeY ... udkYem;&uf? rif; rjyefygeJYvm;? rif; 'DrSma&mufae wm b,folrSvJ odwmr[kwfygbl;}} usaemfonf olYvufuav;udk qGJudkifxm;onf/ ]]tar aeraumif;vdkY aq;vHk;u reufa&mufrS jzpfrSmrdkYyg? olrsm;vJ 'Du rjyefcsifawmYygbl;uG,f}} a&SYvrqef;rD &ufrsm;üum; olonf arSmifcdktvkyfudk &uftenf;i,frSs vkyfae&ayrnf/ xdk&ufrsm;twGif;ü xGef;armif rygrnfY &ufrsm;udk usaemfonf olYudk wGufjyaerd\/ xGef;armifum; tdrfomxJrS owd&vmum aq;½HkwufjyD; aq;½HkrS qif;vmcJYonfrSm &ufydki;f rSsom &dSao;onf/
(16) aemufqHk;aeYrS aemufqHk;rdepfrsm; xdkaeYrSm ol xef;vsufrsm; jyefwifvmcJYonfYaeY jzpfonf/ xdkaeYwaeYvHk; olonf usaemfYudk olYtem;wGif olxdkifonfY cHkay:üom &dSapcsifonf/ wvufrrSs a0;onfudkyif olrESpo f uf/ vlMum;xJwGif jzpfaomaMumifY £ajE´MuD;ESifY ae&onfudk olonf tusOf;axmifü tcsKyftaESmifusaeovdk cHpm;ae&jyefonf/ ]]ol 'DrSmbJ xdkifaeyg? b,frS roGm;ygeJY? b,foleJYrv S J pum;rajymygeJY? ol xxoGm;&if vdkufvdkufMunfY&wm? olrsm;udk aq;cyf xm;w,fxifw,f}} olonf xdkpum;rsm;udk cyfwdk;wdk; ajymvmcJYonf/ ]]olrsm;wdkY twlwl ae&awmYrSmaemf ... b,fESpf&uf usefao;vJ? q,f&ufMuD;awmifrSvm;? tMumMuD;bJ? 'DMum;xJ 'DvdkbJ £ajE´MuD;eJY ae&rSmaemf? pdwfnpfp&mMuD;}} xdkaeYrSm olYwoufü tvSqHk;aeY jzpfaeonf/ naeydki;f ü &xm;jywif;0 wGif xdkifaepOf qnf;qmaejcnfaMumifY olYrsufESmrSm &Tef;jraejyefonf/ xdkaeYu olonf olESifY tvdkufzufqHk; teDay:rS tndKajymufESifY tuFsDuav; udk 0wfvmcJYonf/ olYacgif;ay:ü a'geyef;cufrsm; a0aecJYonf/ usaemfYudk MunfYonfY olYrsufvHk;MuD;rsm;rSm cspf&nf&TJaeonf/ olY &,fvdkufoHuav;rsm; rSm &TifjrL;aeonfY olYESvHk;om; twGif;rS jzwfoef;vmcJYojzifY cRifcRif jrnfatmif om,maeonf/ jywif;0rS avrsm; wdk;a0SYojzifY olYezl;jyifxufü qH,Ofpuav;rsm; 0Jaeonftxd usaemfonf tao;pdwf rSwfrdaeonf/ ]] 'kdY[m vifr,m;aemf ...}} usaemfonf olYzufodkY wdrf;iJYjyD; ajymvmcJYonf/ ]][kwfvJ [kwfbJeJY}} olajymvdkufoHrSm usaemfY ESvHk;om;jyifay:wGif pD;qif;oGm;onf xifco JY nf/ q'´HKacsmif;udk vGefvmjyD;? ol xef;vsufawmif;udk odrf;jyD;? &xm; wGJayguf0ü toifY&yfaecsdefwGifvnf; usaemf olYtem;ü &yfaecJYonf/ rD;a&mifvJYvJYatmufü usaemfonf olYvufuav;udk zrf;qkyfxm;onf/ olonfvnf; olYudk,fudk usaemfYzufodkY wdk;uyfay; aeonf/ þrdepfrsm;rSm aemufqHk;rdepfrsm; jzpfonfudk rnfolonf MudKí odjrifEidk fygrnfenf;/ þtcdkufürl olYudk usaemfrnfrQ euf½dIif;vGef;pGm cspfaerdonfudk usaemfonf odaerdco JY nf/ pmrsufESm [80 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
]] 'DaeY rdk;r&Gmbl;aemf? Mu,fuav;awG aygufaew,f? tar aeraumif;vdkYxifw,f? olrsm; pdwfxJrSm av; ... aw;aw;MuD; jzpfaew,f}} ]]pdwfav;wmawG z,fxm;prf;yg? udkYqD vmcJYprf;yg? uJuG,f ... udkY udk ajymprf;yg? vmcJYr,fvdkY ajymprf;yg? pdwfat;&atmifvdkY}} xdktacgwGifum; &xm;onf awmifwGif;MuD;jrdKY qifajczHk;odkY 0ifvmcJYjyD jzpfojzifY usaemfonf olYudk ajzvTwfvdkufjyD; ycHk;vIyfum r&ru ajymvmcJY onf/ aemufqHk;ü olonf ... ]]oluvJuG,f vmcJYygr,fqdk}} [k nnf;oHjzifY ajymavonf/ blwmem; eD;vmojzifY ol owday;aomaMumifY usaemfonf olYtem;rS cGmvmcJYonf/ olu ]]xGef;armifMuD; &dS&ifawmY 'ku©bJ }} [k nnf;aecJYonf/ trSefü xdkaeYrSm xGef;armifwdkYtzGJY ysOf;rem;odkY vdkuf&rnfYaeY jzpfojzifY xGef;armif&dSaernfudk rpd;k &drf&ay/ odkYaomf xGef;armifum; ndKndKYtay:ü tcJausEdkifol r[kwf/ xdkYaMumifY olonf ndKndKYudk zrf;qD;&eftwGuf blwmapmifY wm0efus &JwOD;ESifY wm0efvJvS,fvdkufonf/ &xm;&yfcsdefwGif usaemfonf *gwfwGJodkY ul;ajymif;jyD; *gwfwGJay:rS pmtkyfrsm;udk ,lvmcJYonf/ xdktcsdefwGifyif "mwfrD;wvufjzifY ndKndKYudk&Smaeaom xGef;armifudk usaemf vSrf;jrif&avonf/ xGef;armifonf wa0ga0g qif;aeMuonfY c&D;onfrsm;udk a&Smif&Sm;jyD; ndKndKpD;vmcJYonfY wGJwnfYwnfYodkY avQmufoGm;onf/ olonf "mwfrD;jzifY vSrf;xdk;MunfYjyD; ndKndKYudkjrifojzifY xdkwGJzufodkY okwfokwfavQmufoGm;onf/ usaemfonfvnf; xGef;armifaemufrS ajy;vdkufoGm;onf/ xdktcsdefü usaemfwdkY&xm;onf eHywf1-vrf;ü &yfae\/ eHywf 2-vrf;rSm ysOf;rem;rS qdkufvmrnfY avmfu,f&xm;twGuf jzpfonf/ eHywf 3-vrf;wGif ukef&xm;wpif; &Sefwdefvkyfaeonf/ eHywf 2-vrf;rSm arSmif&dyu f saeonf/ eHywf 3-vrf;wzuf ukef½HkzufrS rD;a&mifudk ukef&xm;jzifY uG,fxm; onf/ yvufazmif;ay:rS rD;a&mifrsm;udk vlpD;&xm;jzifY uG,fxm;jyD;om; jzpfaeonf/ xGef;armif\ vufESdy"f mwfrD; ta&mifonf ndKndK xef;vsufawmif; &GufjyD; aMumuf&v GHY SpGmjzifY rTefxlpGm oem;pzG,f ajy;ae&Sm onfY arSmif&dyu f saom eHywf 2-vrf; tay:ü waumufaumuf vdkufajy;onf/ ]]rajy;eJYa[Y}} [k xGef;armifu vSrf;atmfonf/ þtcsdefürSmum; vl vlcsif; trJvdkufaeaomtcg jzpf\/ ndKndKYtodOmPfü &efolYvufrS vGwfajrmufatmifajy;&ef aZmwckrQom &dSonf/ olonf bmrQ jrifEdkirf nfr[kwf/ bmrQ awG;Edkifrnfr[kwf/ ol\ pOf;pm;csdefqEdkifonfY OD;aESmufrsm;tay:ü aMumufaoG;rsm; vTrf;aeonf/ þ aMuuGJqkwfepfz, G f&m tjzpftysufwck jzpfysufaecsdefrSm vQyfwysuf rQom Mumonf/ pmrsufESm [81] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
ndKndKonf aMumufaZmvTrf;ae&SmojzifY eHywf 3-vrf;ü &Sefwdefvkyf&if; tajy;ckwfvmonfY &xm;udk rjrif/ &xm;\ wtltl atmf[pfvmaom owday;oHudkvnf; rMum;Edkif/ olonf aorif;&dS&modkY ... xdkae&momvQif olYtwGuf taumif;qHk; jzpfawmY onf[k qHk;jzwfxm;ovdk ajy;0ifoGm;onf/ "mwfrD;a&mif rD;wef;atmufüyif olYudk,frSm &xm;a&SYü axG;vHk;oGm; onf/ xdktcgwGifrS olonf oem;pzG,f&m avmu vlom; taygif;udk wdkifwnf vdkufovdk ... oHukef atmf[pfvdkufonf/ xdkpl;pl;0g;0g; toHonf &xm;ckwfarmif;aeoHrsm;atmufü aysmufuG,f oGm;onf/ &xm;\ b&dwfudk tkyfvdkufonfY ]]uRD}} ueJ toHrSm pl;&SpGm ay:vm aeonf/ &xm;MuD;onfvnf; wkefjyD; &yfoGm;onf/ þ rarQmfvifYEidk faom tjzpftysufrSm tdyfrufxuf ydkí vsifjrefonf/ ]]ndKndKa& ... ndKndK ...}} ]]ndKndKa& ... ndKndKa& ...}} ]]ndKndK ... ndKndKa& ...}} ]]ndKndK ... a& ... ndKndK ...}} usaemfonfvnf; rdrdudk,fudk atmfrdí atmfrdrSe;f rodbJ atmf[pf&if; rnfonfYt&mudkrQ rjrifEidk f ... rnfonfY OD;aESmufjzifYrS rawG;rodEdki?f ol vJae&mzufodkY owdvufvGwf ajy;aerdonf/ tem;odkY a&mufvmonfudkyif owdrxm;Edkif/ usaemfonf tem;ü xdkifcsvdkuf\/ ukef½HkzufrSvmaom tvif;a&mifrsm;atmufwGif þ oem;pzG,f&m tm;udk;rJY&Smaom? tumtuG,frJY&mS aom? &ufpufrItaygif;\ 'Pfudk cH&&Smaom rdef;cav;\ tom;wpfrsm;udk ua,mifuwrf;jzifY aumufqufaerdonf/ olYvufarmif;wzufESifY ajcaxmuf rSm tydki;f ydkif;twpfwpf jzpfaeonf/ tom;wpftcsdKYonf &xm;MuD;\ &ufpuf,kwfrmaom oHbD;atmufü uyfygoGm;\/ tcsdKY tom;wpfrsm;rSm cufrmaom ausmufwHk;rsm; tay:ü jyefYusJae onf/ olY xef;vsufawmif;rSm aoG;tdkix f Jü arSmufvsuf vJusaeonf/ olY tom;wpfrsm;onf eD;&mae&mü wqwfqwf wkefaeonf/ olonf ua,mifuwrf;jzifY rsufvHk;udk zGifYxm;\/ bmrS rjrif&bJESifY &ufpufaom t&maygif;udk pGJcsufwif &SmazGMunfYaeonf/ EIwfcrf;rsm;onf wqwfqwf wkefaeonf/ olY vufwzufjzifY ajcaxmuf tjywfMuD;udk prf;ae onf/ usaemfonf olYudk ayGYxm;vdkuf\/ usaemfYwudk,fvkH;ü aoG;rsm; epfae onf/ usaemfonf bmrQ rpOf;pm;Edkif/ ai;pif;ae\/ owdarYarsmaeovdk xHkxdkif;aeonf/ vltrsm; 0dkif;tHkvmMuonfudkvnf; rod/ ]]pcef;rSL; vmw,f pcef;rSL; vmw,f}}[k ajymoHudkvnf; rMum;/ ]]aorSmyg}} ]] b,fu rdef;uav;vJ}} ]]arSmifcdkorav;vm;}} ]]oem;p&m aumif;vdkufwm}} ]] 'ku©ygbJ }} pmrsufESm [82] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
]]aorSmyg}} xdkpum;oHrsm;udk wvHk;rS rMum;/ þpum;oHrsm;rSm a&maxG;oGm;aeMu\/ ]]olYudk ... olYudk ... aq;½Hk ... aq;½Hk ydYyk g}} usaemfonf owdjyef&vmjyD; ukef;atmfaerd\/ ndKndKonf bmrQ rjrif&bJESifY usaemfYudk pdu k fMunfYaeonf/ olYudk aq;ukí &rnf[k usaemfonf ,HkMunfaejyefonf/ olonf toufi,fvSojzifY usaemf aumufqufay;onfY tom;rsm; qufoGm;vdrfYrnf[k xifaerdjyefonf/ usaemfonf bmajymrdrSef; rodbJ ajymaerdjyefonf/ ]]olYudk u,fMuygAsm ... ru,fEdkiaf wmYbl;vm; ... b,folrS ru,fEdkif bl;vm;? cifAsm;wdkY bmvkyfaeMuwmvJ? vlawG bmvkyf aeMuwmvJ? b,folrS bmrS rvkyfEidk fMuawmYbl;vm;Asm? 'Dtwdkif; aeMuawmYrSmbJvm; ...}} xdkpum;rsm;udk ajymrdrSef; rodbJ ajymaerd\/ ]]zHk; qufxm;w,f? q&m0ef vmvdrfYr,f}} wpHkwOD;u ajymaeonf/ ]]q&m0efMuD; rvmao;bl;vm;}} ]] ..................................}} ]]q&m0efMuD; rvmao;bl;vm;}} ]]q&m0efMuD; udk,fwdkifvmr,fajymw,f? xrf;pifyg ,lvmvdrfYr,fq&m}} [k *sr'gwa,mufu ajy;vmjyD; ajymonf/ olYudk raoEdkifbl;[k usaemfonf pGJvef;,HkMunfae\/ xdkpv GJ ef;,HkMunfpdwfrSm OD;aESmufu ay:vmonfum; r[kwf/ q&m0efMuD; ta&muf aemufusojzifY usaemfYpdwfü tm;rvdk tm;r& jzpf vmaeonf/ puúefYwdkif; puúefYwdkif;ü olYudk,fwGif;rS aoG;pufrsm;pGm oGefus aeonf/ olum; aorif;Edkifio H dkY wa&GYa&GY csOf;uyfae&ayjyD/ ]]tckcsufcsif; aq;½Hkudk ,loGm;vdkYr&bl;vm;Asm? [dku vmatmif apmifY ae&rSmwJYvm;? 'DMum;xJ aoG;vGefukefa&maygYAsm}} usaemfonf yHkjyifxJrS q&mZD0u acsmif;a&udkyif wefY&yfapEdkio f nfY aq;rsm;udk owd&aejyefonf/ twefMumrS ... ]]q&m0efMuD;vmjyD}} toHrsm; qlnHvmonf/ vltrsm;onf ½kwf½kwfoJoJ jzpfvmMu\/ q&m0efudk vrf;z,fay;Muonf/ q&m0ef\ vlMum;xJrS azguf0ifvmaeyHkrSm *dkufay;vGef;aeonf? aES;auG;vGef;aeonf xifrdjyefonf/ q&m0efonf &yfMunfY½HkrQom MunfY\/ q&m0efudk usaemfonf wnfYwnfY rMunfY0/HY odkYaomf ol acgif;,rf;aeonfudkum; jrifae&onf/ pmrsufESm [83] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
]]cifAsm; aowrf;ppfcsuf ,lzb dkY J &awmYr,f}} q&m0efu at;pufaom toHjzifY &JXme pcef;rSL;udk ajymaeonf/ xdktoHrsm;rSm usaemfY pGv J rf;,HkMunfcsufESifY qefYusifaeonf/ ]]jyefMunfYprf;ygtHk; ... a'gufwm}} xdkpum;vHk;rsm;onf usaemfYyg;pyfrS tvdkvdk avQmueJ vGwfusoGm; onf/ q&m0efonf acgif;udk ,rf;aevsufyif/ þq&m0efrSm aq;ynmudk euef;wvkH;rQ odrnfUol r[kwf[k xifvmjyefonf/ q&m0efonf ndkndkUvufarmiff;wzufü armfzdef;wvkH;xdk;NyD;..... “'gqdk&if......cifAsm; ppfcsuf,lEdkiyf gNyD” q&m0efu cyfwdk;wdk;ajymonf/ “aus;Zl;wifvSygw,f a'gufwm....” pcef;rI;onf nkdndkUtem;ü pmtkyfziG fUNyD; cyfudkif;udkif; &yfae\/ usaemfonf ndkndkUrsufESmudkMunfhaeonf/ ol usaemfYudk jrifoGm;vQif pdwftm;wif;vdkufojzifY ol aoEdkifrnfr[kwf[k ,HkMunfae jyefonf/ olY rsufESmuav;rSm Munfvifvmaeonf/ olY touf&SLoHvnf; wjznf;jznf; rSefvmaeonf/ olY rsufawmifrsm;onf nifom pGm vIyf&Sm;vmMu \/ xdktcsdefu usaemfYajc&if;ü &yfaeonfY xGef;armifudkom jrifrdvQif usaemfonf ½l;oGyfoGm;aumif; ½l;oGyfoGm;ayvdrfYrnf/ olY rsufvHk;rsm;onf yDo Munfvifvm\/ t&m0w¬Krsm;udk MunfvifpGm jrifawGYvmEdkif\/ usaemfYudk ol owdxm;rdrnf xifcJY onf/ odkYaomf olonf usaemfYudkyif rrSwfrd/ olYcspfoludk olonf arYoGm;cJYayjyD/ vltkyMf uD;onf jidrfoufae\/ ]]owd&vmyDaemf ... uJ rdef;uav; emr,fajymyg}} pcef;rSL;onf oJoJuGJuGJ jzpfap&ef pum;rsm;udk wvHk;pOf cGaJ jymaeonf/ ndKndKonf pcef;rSL;udk pdu k fMunfYae\/ ]]u,fMuyg ... u,fMuyg}} [k cyf0g;0g; ajymaeonf/ ]]a&ay;yg ... a&ay;Muyg}} [k nnf;nLaeonf/ ]]rodef;&Sif}} ]]rodef;&Sif ...}} ]]rdef;uav;&JY emr,fudk ar;aew,f}} ]]a&ay;yg ... a&ay;yg ... rodef;&Sif ... rodef;&Sif ...}} ]]rdef;uav;&JY emr,f rodef;&Sifvm;}} pmrsufESm [84] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
]]rodef;&Sif ... rodef;&Sif}} pcef;rSL;onf ndKndK\ emr,fudk ]rodef;&Sif}[k a&;jcpfaeonf/ ]]rdef;uav;&JY tazemr,f}} jidrfouf rdef;armoGm;jyefonf/ emusifpGm nnf;nLaeonf/ rsufESmudk ½HIYjyD; tHoGm;rsm; w*spf*spf Mudwfaeonf/ ]]rodef;&Sif ... a&ay;yg}}[k ajymaejyefonf/ ]]rdef;uav;&JY zatemr,fudk ar;aewm}} ndKndKonf toem;cHonfY rsufvHk;rsm;jzifY pcef;rSL;udk MunfYaeonf/ ]]rodef;&Sif}} ]]rodef;&Sif}} xdk ndKndK\ bk&m; wovdk a&&Gwf wqdkaeaom ]rodef;&Sif} toHrsm;rSm xyfae\/ ,ckvdk ol\ aemufqHk;tcsdefü olonf olYemr,fudkvnf; arYaeonf/ olYrdcif vlrrmMuD;? ausmif;om; olYarmifav;? olYcspfol? tyfcsKyfpuf? ol pkxm;onfY vHkjcHKpGm 0Sufxm;cJYaom EGm;0,f&rnfY aiGw&m? vukefjyD;vQif vufxyfrnfYtaMumif;? olYcspfoludk ]q,fYckepfESpfbJ apmifYyg}[k rSmMum;&ef/ þt&mtm;vHk;udk arYaecJY \/ olonf arSmifcdkvufcHol rodef;&Sifrw S yg; t&mtm;vHk;udk arYaeayjyD/ olYb0um; rodef;&Sif? olYarQmfvifYcsufonf rodef;&Sif? olY udk;uG,f&monf rodef;&Sif/ olonf yg;pyfrS nnf;ae\/ ]]u,fMuyg ... u,fMuyg ... ru,fEdkiMf uawmYbl;vm;}}[k MudK;yrf; &Gwf qdkaeoHrSm vQmzsm;ü 0g;aeonf/ ]]rdef;uav;&JY zat emr,fudk ar;wm}} olonf &Jpcef;rSL;udk xyfí tm;udk;MuD;pGmjzifY MunfYae\/ olY rsufvHk; rsm;onf 0g;vmaeMu\/ EIwfcrf;rsm; wqwfqwf wkefvmaeonf/ olY tom;rsm;rSm ydkí wkef&Dvmaeonf/ olonf tHudk w*spf*spf Mudwfae\/ aemufqHk;ü olajymcsifonfY pum; rsm;udk toufZD0def rcsKyfrDü aorif;udk ckc&H if; ajymoGm;onf/ xdk pum;oHrsm;onf vQmav;vmojzifY 0g; axG;aeonf/ ]]rodef;&Sif ... rodef;&Sif ... rodef;&SifqD a&mufatmif ... usr ... xef;nufawmif; ... ydkY ... ydkY ... ay; ... Mu ... yg ...}} xdk pum;vHk;rsm; &GwfvdkufjyD; olonf qwfueJ wcsuf vGefYvdkuf\/ usaemfY &ifciG fxufrS aysmYusoGm;onf/ usaemfonf cPuav;rQom jidrfaevdkuf\/ ol aooGm;jyDudk vufrcHí r&awmYay/ xdktcgwGifrS usaemfonf xGef;armifudk vSrf;jrif&av onf/ usaemfonf olYtavmif;udk olY aoG;tdkiu f GufxJü olY xef;vsufawmif; tem;wGif ypfcsvdkufonf/ usaemfonf xGef;armifrSwyg; b,ft&mudkrQ rjrifEdkiaf wmYay/ xGef;armifonf ai;ae\/ usaemf olYudk ckeftyk fvdkufonfudk ai;MunfYaeonf/ usaemfonf wudk,fvHk; tav;csdefrsm;udk vufoD;tay:zd,lvdkufonf/ taMumtrQif <uufom;rsm;&dS &dSorQ cGeftm;ukefudk nSpfxkwfum usaemfonf xGef;armif\ t½IdufwnfYwnfYodkY vufoD;rsm; wvHk;jyD;wvHk; ypfoGif;csvdkuf onf/ þvufoD;csufrsm;avmuf jyif;xefaom? pD;ydkifaom vufoD;csufrsm;udk usaemfonf wcgbl;urQ roHk;EdkifcYaJ o;/ þvufoD; csufrsm;onf usaemf\ taysmfwrf; vufa0SYorm; &mZ0ifü pHcsdefjzpfaeonf/ xGef;armifonf t½kyfMudK;jywf vJusoGm;\/ usaemfonf ol vJusoGm;yHkudk puúefYykdif;rQ MunfYaerdonf/ pmrsufESm [85 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]
_refrm usL;ypfzkd&rf [myanmarcupid.net] rSm “mgpo” &kdufwifay;cJhaom “Edkif0if;aqG. rodef;&SifqD ydkhay;yg”
xdkYaemuf rnfolrQ r[efYwm;EdkifrD tcsdefwdkuav;wGif usaemfonf vltrsm;udk wdk;a0SYjyD; ajy;xGufvmcJYonf/ ndKndKY tavmif; udkvnf; rMunfYc/JY vltrsm; ½kwf½kwfoJoJ jzpfusefaecJYonfudkvnf; *½krpdkuf/ usaemfonf tarSmifxJü jrSm;wpif; ypfvTwf vdkufovdk xdkae&mrS ajy;xGufvmcJYonf/ bm&,fvdkY r[kwf/ bm&nf&G,fcsufrS r&dS/ xdkae&mESifY a0;EdkiforQ a0;&efom pdwftm½Hkü jzpfay:aeonf/ xdkae&mü aemufxyf puúefYtenf;i,frQ aerdvQif twGif;pdwfrsm; aygufuGJojzifY usaemfY cE¨mudk,frSm tpdwfpdwf trTmrTm jzpfoGm;vdr fYrnf[k xif rdonf/ usaemfonf rdrdudk,fwdkif ajy;aeonfudkvnf; owdrxm;rd/ tarSmifxJü wdkufrdcu dk frdonfudkvnf; owdrxm;rd/ awmifwGif;MuD; jrdKYrS rD;a&mifrsm;onf aemufüf a0;usefae&pfcJY\/ ½kwfw&uf rdk;zGJuav;rsm; usvmonfudkvnf; tm½HkrjyKrd/ Mu,fa&mifrsm; aysmufuG,foGm;ojzifY tarSmifrSm ydkí odyfonf; rJarSmif vmonf/ ajy;aepOfü usaemfYwudk,fvHk;rSm rdk;a&rsm; &TJepfvmaeonf/ rdk;jcdrf;oHrsm;ESifYtwl vQyfpD;rsm; vufaeMuonf/ vQyfpD;a&mifü oHvrf;ESpfck jrifae&onf/ rdk;ESifYtwl avrsm; wdkufcwfaeonf/ usaemfonf atmf[pfidkvdkufcsifpdwf ay:vmaeonf/ idkypfvdkufjcif;jzifY jzpfay:aeaom pdwfcHpm;&rIrsm;udk zGifYxkwfvdkufcsifonf/ þae&mü vl[lí r&dS/ usaemf\ atmf[pfidkoHudk rnfolrQ Mum;Edkifrnfr[kwf/ ]]ol r&dSawmYbl;? [kwfw,f ol aooGm;bD? tydkif;ydkif; twpfwpf? ig idkypfvdkufr,f? ig idk&rvm;? idk&rvm;? ig idkcw JY ,fxifw,f? olYudk igayGYxm;wkef;u idkcw JY ,fxifw,f? idkcw JY ,f? bmjyKvdkY idkwmvJ? idkwm[m t"dyÜm,f&dSovm;? idkwmeJY oljyef&Siv f mrvm;? olaooGm;bD? arSmifcdkoruav; aooGm;bD? 'kp½dkufruav;aygY? ol zmjzpfoGm;ao;ovm;? aooGm;awmY zg rjzpf&awmYbl;aygY? igYudk xm;ypfcJYw,f? igYwa,mufxJ xm;ypfcJYw,f? olY udk,fpm; igYudk xm;ypfcJYw,f? [kwfygw,f ... ndKndK ... ndKndK ...}} usaemfonf wae&mü ausmuf½kyfvdk tawmifYvdkufMuD; &yfaerdjyefonf/ idkcsifpdwfrsm;onf jidrf;aooGm;Mu\/ usaemfY rsufESmü rdk;a&rsm; Murf;wrf;pGm vmí xdaejyefonf/ usaemfYpdwfrsm;rSm Murf;MuKwf cufxefaom usm;&J wd&pämefpdwfudk ul;ajymif; oGm;aeMujyefonf/ usaemfonf usaemfudk,fwdkif owdrxm;rdbJ usm;&JtoHrsm;jzifY qufwdkuf atmf[pfaeonf/ xdktoHrsm;onf rdk;oH avoHrsm;ESifY a&maxG;oGm;aeMu\/ usaemfonf vmvrf;twdkif; vSnfYjyefrnf[k rqHk;jzwfao;bJ tarSmifxJü csmueJ vSnfYvdkuf \/ oHukefatmf[pf&if; ajz;av;pGm avQmufaerdonf/
Edkif0if;aqG (1971? {jyDv? 28) ▪-¤-▪
pmrsufESm [86 ] pkpkaygif;pmrsufESm [86]