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The most memorable weddings are ones that truly reflect the couple throwing them, and incorporate thoughtful details and special touches that really speak to who they are. When it comes to planning your dream day, you'll want to make each decision with an ultra-personalized mindset. This includes everything from selecting your menu to choosing favors and deciding where you'll host all your loved ones. To help, we've narrowed in on the top venues for your personality type to ensure you throw a bash that's totally you. »
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Country just outside of Comfort, TX - specializing in personalized festival weddings under Giant-Hat
Scandinavian Tipis. We custom build every couple a “sweetheart dining table” to use during their festival and then take home as a member of their special day. The perks of booking a venue with an on-site wood show. Plus there are multiple places around the venue where we personalize to the couple’s name/style to make the space truly yours for the day. For couples that are drawn to the outdoors and want something out of the ordinary to kick off an adventurous life together! Whether it’s black-tie or boho, our tipis provide the perfect woodsy backdrop to customize YOUR big day. We also have a beautiful,
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WE ALSO WORK HARD to partner with experienced wedding pros to provide our couples with exclusive discounts on guest accommodations and transportation to and from the venue. Just ask!
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DINNER: HAVE A FOOD TRUCK DINNER UNDER OUR BESPOKE GIANT HAT TIPIS, COMPLETE WITH WHIMSICAL TWINKLE LIGHTS AND FARMHOUSE TABLES.
RECEPTION: AFTER YOUR OPEN-AIR CEREMONY, THE FESTIVAL BEGINS!
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CEREMONY: FOLLOW THE WINDING PATH DOWN TO A SECLUDED PECAN GROVE WHERE THE SUNLIGHT FILTERS DOWN THROUGH THE LEAFY CANOPY.
SEND OFF: FINALLY, WHEN YOU’RE READY – YOU CAN ENJOY A ONEOF-A-KIND EXIT THROUGH OUR OVERSIZED MACRAMÉ CURTAIN ENTRANCE – SPARKLERS, SMOKE BOMBS, NATURAL CONFETTI – YOU DECIDE.
You've got questions, we've got answers. We tapped our team-and one of our goto industry pros--to solve some of your most of-the-moment planning asks.
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I really want a modern, fun invitation suite, but my fiance is feeling something a bit more classic with calligraphy. Any design tips for picking invites that suit both of our styles? MALAK EL HALABI ART DIRECTOR
Marriage is all about collaboration and figuring out how to blend two individual styles. Here's the good news: When it comes to stationery design, seemingly opposing tastes can actually complement
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each other nicely and really represent you as a couple. If your fiancé is nonnegotiable on calligraphy, try pairing hand lettering with clean, modern typefaces for a combo that won't feel too stuffy. Give your suite an energetic vibe by experimenting with color and avoiding
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My partner and I are both major to your combined style. Letting the always find introverts-we don't do PDA and script shine as the focal point can feel yourself listening hate being the center of attention-clean and bold but simple and timeless at to. Try pop, hip- so a traditional ceremony seems really scary to us. Are there ways the same time. Win, win! hop, or even for us to rethink the structure to fit Afrobeats. If We're trying to settle on a first our personalities? dance song, but the classics feel nothing makes too serious. Where can we find a you want to first dance jam to start the party? enlist the help of MICHELLE SCHMITT your wedding CECE WINTSON dart and ask for Your wedding ceremony should be true song recs or to both of you--that includes reflecting Check out different radio stations or even a playlIstthey'll know what your style, love story, and personalities. comb through Spotify, but keep this in mind: as you're researching, don't be feels most like you both. afraid to explore a different genre MARKETING ADVISOR
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Your wedding ceremony should be true to both SASHA HENRY
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story, and personalities. If you're both introverts, you could consider a city hall ceremony. This allows you to bring a few friends, keeping things intimate and casual. But, if you go with a city hall wedding, a majority of your loved ones will miss out on your public commitment. As an alternative rethink the day in a way that pulls the attention away from you. Maybe you could skip walking down a traditional aisle and instead hang out with your guests' preceremony. Think: no processing, just getting married where you are, on your terms. You could also walk down the aisle with your partner or ask guests to process to you, meeting you, your partner, and the officiant at the altar. Starting the ceremony together might make you more comfortable. In the end, the goal of the
My wedding band and engagement ring are both platinum, but I'm thinking about wearing gold jewelry for my wedding. Will that work? You can absolutely mix metals on your wedding day. Your engagement ring and wedding band might be your most meaningful (and asked about) jewelry, but that doesn't mean they have to stand alone or dictate your entire look. For a little fashion inspiration, let the color and details of your gown point you toward which baubles will work best for your wedding. Gold usually pairs beautifully with creamier ivory fabrics, while silver typically complements brighter whites.
wedding ceremony is to make your commitment to love in front of those you care about most. This can really take place in whatever form feels most authentic to your relationship. FRED NICK ADVISOR
A friend of ours keeps making comments about our wedding budget, wondering aloud how we're paying for it-in front of other people. How can we deal with these types of comments? We know it's easier said than done, but don't let a guest with a negative or insensitive attitude affect your wedding. You shouldn't have to defend yourself- plus, your budget is nobody's business but yours, so don't get into an argument about how much you are or aren't spending. Instead, simply thank them for noticing the details of your wedding and let them know how you plan to pay for it is a personal matter between you and your families. Being polite yet direct (not to mention honest) is the best way to get your friend to drop the subject for good.
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YOU'RE ENGAGED! Here are the big to-dos from *yes" to "I do.* Keep turning the page for more..
Search for the perfect place to celebrate,
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keeping budget and guest count in mind. Then set the
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wishlist and site. Share the link to guests are in on the details, like room blocks.
Select invites, thank-you notes, and other stationery. If you place one order, you may snag
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a discount.
FINALIZE OTHER PARTY DETAILS
CEREMONY
Plan your rehearsal dinner,
Meet with your officiant to discuss the
after-party, and morning-after brunch.
details and attend prewedding counseling, if required.
COMPLETE YOUR TEAM Book any outstanding pros like hairstyles, makeup artists, day-of transportation or a photo booth for your reception.
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GET THE MARRIAGE LICENSE Head to the state registrar's office in the country where you'll wed for this must-have doc.
Have final attire fittings and arrange for
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FOR FITTING
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SHOP FOR RINGS
to be the go-to so you can relax and enjoy the day.
Try on and purchase your rings--then get insurance. (Now it's starting to feel real, right?)
GET MARRIED! The planning and hard work are behind you-time to celebrate your new status.
HOW TO GET THE RING YOU WANT.. Be Prepared
Start thinking about the cut and setting you'd like. (Ahem, there's a ton of "ringspiration" in this issue.)
Leave Clues Drop some subtle hints, like leaving your ring inspiration board open on your tablet or computer.
Ask a Friend Recruit a trusted pal to give guidance--just make sure they know your taste.
Give Props
Point out rings you love on other women's fingers by saying, "Isn't that gorgeous?"
Join Forces
Skip the surprise and go shopping with your partner-it's the best way to guarantee you'll absolutely love it. CUT THIS OUT TO CHECK YOUR RING SIZE!
...AND HOW TO PROTECT IT ONCE YOU'VE GOT IT.
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Insure it! Jewelers Mutual Insurance Company specializes in, you guessed it, jewelry. Coverage includes protection against loss, theft, damage, and mysterious disappearance-with "same kind and quality" replacement. Best of all, you can get a quote in under a minute at JewelersMutual.com.
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Keep your ring safe. When you're traveling (hello, honeymoon!), either wear your ring or pack it in your carry-onnever put jewelry in a checked bag. But know that with Jewelers Mutual, you're covered worldwide if something does happen to it.
Make it sparkle. To clean your diamond at home, soak it in warm water with a few drops of mild dish detergent, then gently scrub it with a soft toothbrush Rinse in lukewarm water and dry with a soft cloth. Have it inspected. At least twice a year, take your ring to a jeweler to have it professionally cleaned and checked for loose prongs and stones. Get it appraised. Your ring's value can change over time, so have it appraised every couple of years and adjust your insurance coverage as needed. In case of a claim, Jewelers Mutual will repair or replace your item for its most recent appraisal value.
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Best of Wedding LAURA & K IRK KAUPKE,
For
Laura Lajiness Kaupke and K irk Frates Kaupke, it was like at first swipe. The
couple first connected on Bumble in 2017 and finally met when they grabbed drinks around Laura’s then-apartment. Naturally, drinks turned into an impromptu dinner—Kirk serendipitously chose Extra Virgin, a West Village haunts Laura loved for years—and the rest was history. A little over three years later, Kirk popped the question during a casual walk in Central Park.
Winners (2020) With small, personal touches—right down to the specially curated party playlist—the day
captured the couple’s laidback vibe perfectly. Keep reading for an intimate look at the special day, photographed by Annaleisa Friednash of Meraki Wedding Photo & Film and planned by Dahlia Events & Designs.
we loved how "Overall, relaxed and comfortable we felt on our wedding day."
The couple always envisioned an elegant outdoor wedding that didn’t feel stuffy. “Rustic minimalism was the vibe,” the bride shares. “We wanted to feel comfortable and connected with our guests throughout the day and avoid feeling like people were attending a super formal or overly structured event. We just wanted to hang with the people we love.”