Believe in Your Own Power Nora Femenia, Ph.D Developing your power core, to manage you life as you want it to be!
1st Step: Identify where your power is • How much do you believe that you are in control of the events and circumstances in your own life? • A strong external SENSE of POWER means you believe that fate, other people, or luck control your life. • A strong internal SENSE of POWER means you believe that your life is basically a result of your own doing.
2nd Step: how much are you in charge? • If you are like most people, the you feel somewhere in the middle on this topic. • Most probably you believe that you do have the power of choice when it comes to minor things (like which flavor of ice cream to buy), but it only goes so far and doesn’t apply to making drastic changes in your life.
3rd Step: Still waiting for permission? • What about you? • Are you in charge? • Do you believe you have the power to control the direction of your life? • Or do you believe that success is only for the lucky or the “chosen ones”? • Is there an important person in your life still deciding your destiny?
4th Step: Try this simple exercise: • 1) Write down one big goal in your life (i.e. dream job, house, relationship). • 2) Do you REALLY believe that this is possible for you? • 3) If yes, what’s the next step you can take to get you closer to your goal? • 4) If no, do a little research and find someone who has overcome whatever it is you think is holding you back. • 5) Also, find someone you can talk to who has accomplished the goal you want to accomplish.
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Nora Femenia is a conflict coach, the author of several books that will support you in your search for personal growth and joyful, nurturing relationships... so you can finally feel happy and secure. Do you want to develop self-confidence and trust in yourself fast? CoachNora reveals the secrets of developing a secure attitude in life, through her phone/email coaching sessions.
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"I wish I had know from the beginning what I know now. I feel things would have been so different, and I would been spared the amount of pain, drama and humiliation I suffered in my married life, since according to him: "everything was my fault”, of course. I was a perfect personality type to be the victim of an aggressive boyfriend, as my mother and other relatives were too in my childhood. Ironically, this has been the cause of my painful inability to establish a positive self-esteem and find happiness in my life. I feel so blessed to have found your help. Nora, you are a great coach. I now have permission to fight back! The awareness you have given me has changed my life. I am no longer a victim of other people’s aggressive behaviors, and it feels wonderful!" Denise Withers, Pennsylvania
Testimonial from a person lacking self-respect • “I was in a miserable situation. I never understood what I did to deserve being yelled at by my husband and made fun of when he was drinking with his friends. • I would make myself sick from crying; both my body and heart were tired and I was completely unhappy. • I didn’t understand that I had an obligation to myself to stand up and say NO to this behavior in my husband and by any other person. • Nora, you gave me the right to defend myself with grace. Now, he’s actually apologizing to me and being gentler and attentive!”— Terry Nichols, Naples, FL