Turning heartbreak into possibilities

Words TATIANA SAVERY

As daughters, we all have a mother. And like anything human, the experiences of both mother and daughter can be as varied as the broad spectrum of emotions we all know.

As a single mother, I have raised two beautiful daughters who are both now young adults. This close bond can be a spiritual experience, in many ways a joyful communion with ease and oneness. Yet, it is also the ground on which much growth happens.

Our three musketeers adventure has not been all sunshine and roses. Although I am fortunate to have been born with a different perspective than many, which allowed us to have the unique mother-daughter experiences we share, we are still continuously presented with what appears as outside influences to create our spiritual growth.

What we must remember during the situations that arise to perhaps challenge us as mothers or daughters, is that what presents itself is always arriving for our spiritual growth. These can be deeply held silent judgments that are brought up and released so we can become more aware. Everything is a reflection of what is within ourselves. This does not mean any abuse is okay. We must always remove ourselves from an abusive situation. However, it does allow us to resolve issues that can be seen as impossible, tragic and heartbreaking.

Mothers and daughters can experience an intensity that is, in many ways, seen to be unique. I prefer to shine light on the truth that we all share this communion with everyone. We are continuously making only two choices: to believe we are all separate or believe we’re all one. In this world, the only remaining freedom is the freedom of choice. It’s always between these two choices.

Once we accept this truth, when these challenging situations arise, we can choose the correct thought; that is, how we wish to be spoken to, or how we prefer to be respected. From this perspective, we can avoid projecting our buried judgments onto others that show up to allow the release of incorrect choices buried deep within.

Let miracles replace all grievances. This thought has allowed a communion with my daughters to be one with far more ease during the teenage years, which could have been more tumultuous.

We experience a miracle every time we act from inspired action. When we remember with the correct choice, we are all one.

Novelist Kristin Cashore wrote, “By allowing your mother to protect you, you gave her a gift”. What if we all can remember to choose love? If we each choose to forgive alongside our mothers or our daughters, to experience more peace within, we can all experience more peace in this outside world.

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