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Summer ClASSeS thAt mAke A SplASh

New pAreNtS Guide RWith her upscale maternity line, seminar series, concierge service for moms-to-be and a new reality show on Bravo, Rosie Pope is a go-to resource for pregnant women across the city (and the country!) (page 46) RThe author of the popular pregnancy and parenting series ‘What To Expect’ shares insights and advice from her new book about the toddler years (page 48) RAfter years of cultivating one of the most popular ‘mom blogs’ on the web, Brooklyn mom Alice Bradley has co-written a satirical guide for new parents; plus, an excerpt of her new book, “Let’s Panic About Babies” (page 52) RWhat to think about when buying baby’s first set of wheels; plus, our favorite strollers of the season (page 57) RBaby planner Jennifer Link helps expectant parents prepare in all kinds of ways, from creating a birth plan to outfitting a nursery (page 64) RLeading parenting experts, buyers and bloggers share their ‘must-have’ products for new parents (page 66) RExperts share their exercise do’s and don’ts for a healthy pregnancy and delivery (page 68) RCommon mistakes new parents of multiples (okay, all new parents) often make (page 70) R From baby supply stores to breastfeeding support, a helpful list of resources for new parents in the city (page 72)

oN SeCoNd thouGht

This mom of two couldn’t wait for her two small children to grow up— until they did

Sweet ANd Simple Meet the winners of New York Family’s annual child cover model contest

ACtivitY oF the moNth

RWhether looking to create a work of art, learn a new language, practice their swing or say “ohm,” there’s a class to suit every city kid this summer

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News from New York Family, including our big family travel event, a great giveaway for city parents and our family recipe contest with MiniMunchers and Sprout Foods

Baby, baby, baby...

SpriNG tipSheet Tips for teaching your child how to ride a bike

A SpeCiAl plACe

With its bright displays, endless array of delicious treats and a newly unveiled cupcake-themed party room, Dylan’s Candy Bar is proof that candy land has a home in midtown

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A Good ideA

Destination Maternity offers a relaxing, all-natural spa for moms-to-be

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Birthday fun at Three Little Birds, Sports Club/LA and the Children’s Museum of the Arts

oh, the plACeS You’ll Go!

CAmp CouNtdowN

RHow summer camps teach environmental awareness (page 80)

RPerforming arts camps let kids who love theater, music and dance hone their craft and have the time of their lives (page 84)

houSe CAllS

As the founder of the baby and home emporium giggle, Ali Wing helps new parents discover how living with kids can be comfortable, colorful, eco-friendly and chic. Not surprisingly, she does it herself in her fabulous (and functional) downtown home

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Inspired and natural family photography; glow-in-the-dark sporting goods; an online virtual safari that teaches kids about nature; and more great ideas for April

Whether you’re looking to stroll through one of America’s oldest cities or explore the Caribbean rainforest, a few inspired destinations for spring (and summer) travel

GrowiNG up

In his book, ‘Scream Free’ parenting guru Hal Edward Runkel urges parents to connect with their kids by calming down

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Our monthly round-up of family fun in the city

Culture For kidS

April’s best exhibits and performances for families

The Cover: Our cover model and winner of our child modeling contest, Gemma. Gemma wears a dress from Lester’s. Hair by Cozy’s Cuts for Kids. Photography by Melissa O’Neil for Classic Kids Photography (classickidsphotography.com). Shot at the Classic Kids Photography studio.

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living with kids can be comfortable, colorful, eco-friendly and chic. Not surprisingly, she does it herself in her fabulous (and functional) downtown home

inside

April 2011

FeATUres

Martial arts keep kids fit while imparting valuable lessons

Sweet ANd Simple Meet the winners of New York Family’s annual child cover model contest

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Summer ClASSeS RWhether looking to create a

work of art, learn a new language, practice their swing or say “ohm,” there’s a class to suit every city kid this summer

CoLUMns

16 24 30

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editor’S Note SpriNG tipSheet

Tips for teaching your child how to ride a bike

A SpeCiAl plACe

With its bright displays, endless array of delicious treats and a newly unveiled cupcake-themed party room, Dylan’s Candy Bar is proof that candy land has a home in midtown

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houSe CAllS

As the founder of the baby and home emporium giggle, Ali Wing helps new parents discover how

it’S mY pArtY

Birthday fun at Three Little Birds, Sports Club/LA and the Children’s Museum of the Arts

oh, the plACeS You’ll Go!

CAmp CouNtdowN

RHow summer camps teach environmental awareness (page 80)

RPerforming arts camps let kids who love theater, music and dance hone their craft and have the time of their lives (page 84)

A Good ideA

Destination Maternity offers a relaxing, all-natural spa for moms-to-be

BuzzworthY

Inspired and natural family photography; glow-in-the-dark sporting goods; an online virtual safari that teaches kids about nature; and more great ideas for April

Whether you’re looking to stroll through one of America’s oldest cities or explore the Caribbean rainforest, a few inspired destinations for spring (and summer) travel

GrowiNG up

In his book, ‘Scream Free’ parenting guru Hal Edward Runkel urges parents to connect with their kids by calming down

welCome to the FAmilY

News from New York Family, including our big family travel event, a great giveaway for city parents and our family recipe contest with MiniMunchers and Sprout Foods

Baby, baby, baby...

dePArTMenTs

SpriNG iNto ACtioN

From swimmers to softball players, young athletes tell us what they love about their favorite warm-weather sports

oN SeCoNd thouGht

This mom of two couldn’t wait for her two small children to grow up— until they did

thAt mAke A SplASh

ACtivitY oF the moNth

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teN ideAS

Our monthly round-up of family fun in the city

Culture For kidS

April’s best exhibits and performances for families www.newyorkfamily.com

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Baby, Baby, Baby…

y soon-to-be-11-year-old daughter graduates from grade school in June, and at her school’s talent show last month, I tried to do my fair share of whoopingit-up in support of her and her classmates. But I also was diverted by another kind of performance: the smiles and burbles of the most heavenly four-month-old baby held by his mom in the row ahead of me. He’d smile, I’d swoon. My wife even more so. Unless the fates have something in store for us that I can’t presently imagine, chances are we’re done with baby raising ourselves. Still, the pull of having a very little and adorable person in our lives persists—and at the very least, I like to think of it as a kind of emotional bridge to readers who are at the beginning of their own journey as parents. Keeping in mind that for them it’s

all new, crazy, joyous, challenging, scary, depressing and amazing, my team and I try to do our part by providing interesting stories and timely tidbits for new and expectant parents in the mix of every issue. But we really blow it out every April, devoting a sizeable chunk of the magazine to their needs, concerns and experiences. Did you hear that the author of the “What To Expect” series has a new book on The Second Year? We have a good interview with her. You know Rosie Pope, who designs all that that great maternity wear? She has a new reality series on Bravo in which she comes to the rescue of pregnant moms with lots of questions and concerns. We’ve got a good

profile of her. We also have helpful guides to strollers and other “must-haves,” and on a lighter note, we have an interview with Alice Bradley, a Brooklyn mom and popular blogger who co-wrote a very clever satirical book on the new parent experience. I also want to share another resource for parents with infants and toddlers, and parents to be. We’ve tried to make our “Born and Bred” blog at newyorkfamily.com everything a new parent blog should be—informative, helpful, endearing and inspiring—with tons of great giveaways, too. It’s the least we could do in exchange for you raising all these babies that smile at us! HavE a Happy april, Eric MEssiNgEr emessinger@manhattanmedia.com

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Bicycle Benefit

Wouldn’t it be a nice if less cars and more bikes occupied the streets of NYC? That’s the idea behind the advocacy group Transportation Alternatives. And because May happens to be Bike Month in NYC, they, along with our sister publication New York Press, are kicking off the month with The New Amsterdam Bike Show on April 30, which will take place at Chelsea’s new cultural venue Center 548. Stemming from Amsterdam, one of the most bicyclefriendly cities in the world, the event will provide lots of info on this healthy and eco-friendly “alternative transportation lifestyle;” families will be able to learn safe and useful bicycling tips, check out the threefloor show of one-of-a kind bikes and accessories, and get details on other bike events in NYC. For details, visit newambikeshow.com.

Family Fun Day & Travel Fest! Family travel guru Kimberly Wilson Wetty has been contributing her expert destination tips to our pages for several months. Now we’re teaming up with her to throw an amazing and free Family Party & Travel Fest next month, featuring three of the most family-friendly travel excursions in the world in conjunction with Valerie Wilson Travel, the large and well-regarded travel consulting firm, which will be on hand to help inspire you with ideas about family travel for spring and summer: w Adventures by Disney, offering Disney vacation magic in a whole new form. Adventures by Disney provides expertly planned and guided vacations in locations like Egypt, China and Costa Rica. Families can experience the destination of their choice in an eco-friendly, environmentally focused setting. w Club Med, with its affordable but luxurious all-inclusive family deals at stunning, newly renovated properties. Families can visit destinations like Cancun Yucatan, Mexico and the Dominican Republic and enjoy amenities like award-winning Children’s Clubs and lessons in outdoor sports and adventure. w Royal Caribbean International, which packs every conceivable family desire and need into its amazing cruises. Kids can partake in activities like ice-skating and rock climbing while parents indulge in the onboard spa, wine bar and fine dining. The event will take place on Sunday, April 10th at The Sports Club/ LA, located at 330 East 61st Street (between 1st and 2nd Avenues), from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Please RSVP at familytravelexpo@manhattanmedia.com or visit newyorkfamily.com for more information.

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How creative can you be with Sprout Organic Baby Food? Families are invited to show of their culinary skills with this month’s recipe contest, sponsored by New York Family, Sprout Foods, MiniMunchers and Taste Buds. To participate, simply submit your favorite recipe to compete for a chance to prepare your meal in front of expert judges at Taste Buds’ test kitchen on May 2nd. The grand prize winner will win tons of amazing prizes, like an opportunity to be photographed preparing the recipe with their child by heirloom photographer Sarah Sloboda, a month supply of Sprout Foods, a Britax B-Ready Stroller and much more. For more contest details and to enter, visit newyorkfamily.com. Submissions must be received by April 25.

Find Us On Facebook: New York Family is now on Facebook! Check in throughout the day for great family events, special giveaways, news items, and more tips on family life in the city.

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Win Tickets to Champagne Pam’s Cabaret Performance at Don’t Tell Mama

Parents, if you are desperately in need of a night out on the town, we recommend checking out the new show at the famous cabaret and piano bar, Don’t Tell Mama, at which singer/songwriter Pamela Lewis—known as “Champagne Pam”—will reveal her alter ego, “The Dog-Walking Diva.” Pam, who is known for her sultry voice and bubbly personality, will charm audiences with renditions of beloved tunes like George Gershwin’s “Who Cares,” and Norah Jones’ “Man of the Hour.” Performances will take place on April 13, 14 and 15 at 8 p.m. We’re giving away two tickets for dinner and the Wednesday night show to one lucky set of parents! To win, write to us at newyorkfamily@manhattanmedia. com, putting “Dog-Walking Diva” in the subject line, including your contact information. Deadline is April 10.

Win The Latest Installment Of The ‘What To Expect’ Series

Heidi Murkoff’s best-selling “What to Expect” series of pregnancy and parenting books have been read by more than 40 million families, and have helped to guide parents across the globe through pregnancy, labor and delivery, and parenting infants. This month, the series will introduce its latest installment, “What to Expect: The Second Year,” which is chock full of solutions and strategies for all things toddler-related, from talking to tantrums. We’re giving away five copies of the book to five reader families. To win, write to us at newyorkfamily@manhattanmedia.com, putting “What To Expect” in the subject line. Please include contact information. Deadline is April 25. (And for more advice from Heidi Murkoff, check out our interview with the author on page 50). www.newyorkfamily.com

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One of the latest trends in early education is the West Coast-based organization RIE, or Resources for Infant Educarers. Founded by educator Magda Gerber in the 1970s, RIE is dedicated to improving the quality of infant care and education, and encourages parents to bond with their babies through observation, attentive care and trust in their natural abilities—a philosophy that helps parents remain calm and in control, and helps babies cultivate a sense of independence early on. The RIE philosophy is relatively new to New York City, but one of the organizations that is embracing it is Kids At Work, a children’s educational center in Chelsea. Known by its tenet “A Quieter Place To Learn,” Kids At Work hosts RIE guidance classes for parents of infants and toddlers that are centered on calm, focus and reflection. For more information about RIE at Kids At Work, visit kidsatworknyc.com.

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If you're looking for beautiful and natural family pictures, head to PhotoOp, an Upper West Side space that was recently named 2011’s best family portrait studio by New York Magazine. At PhotoOp, kids can dress up in costumes or pieces from J.Crew's kids line Crewcuts, pose in front of a colorful and textured backdrop (like the popular candy wall) and enjoy movie star style pampering. PhotoOp also offers inspired birthday parties, where kids can enjoy exclusive use of the studio’s space, pick one of two fun theme options (Glam-Op and Step It-Op) and of course, pose for fabulous photos with friends. For more information, visit photopnyc.com.

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w Child modelinG ConteSt Baby Does NYC, a clothing label that supports NYC children’s charities, creates adorable t-shirts that let your child show off his neighborhood pride with messages like “Baby Does East Village.” This month, Baby Does NYC is sponsoring a modeling contest to find five new models for its site, looking for kids of all ethnicities, from all boroughs and at various ages from six months to four years. Children that are selected will win $50 and a t-shirt, in addition to being photographed professionally and featured online. The contest will run through the month of April. For more information, visit babydoesnyc.com.

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Little explorers will love National Geographic’s “Animal Jam,” an online world that lets players ages 5 to 11 transform themselves into their favorite animals, make friends with other users and learn about science and nature. As kids explore the world of Jamaa, they gather and earn Gems, which allows them to personalize their animal avatars and decorate their dens. Best of all, parents can rest assured that kids are playing in a safe environment, as the game (which already has over a million users) is supervised 24/7 through moderation technology and professional monitors. Animal Jam is free to play, but members of the Animal Jam Club have access to more content. Membership packages begin at $5.99 for one month. For more information visit animaljam.com.

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Kids like things that glow in the dark, but they'll love things that glow in color! The new range of sporting goods from Oglo Sports™, which includes footballs, basketballs, soccer balls and flying rings, use a patented full color glow-in-the-dark technology, so the products glow in their original colors (instead of just florescent green). The toys are great for children ages six and up and are available at Target, Toys R Us, Dick's Sporting Goods and other retailers. Prices range from $4 to $14.99. For more information and to see Oglo Sports™ in action, visit nsi-int.com. www.newyorkfamily.com

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1. Hunter and Matthew make a wish as they blow out their candles—with a little help from Mom and Dad! 2. The birthday boys enjoy an impromptu jam session. 3. Meanwhile, party guests indulge in colorful, sprinkle-covered cupcakes. Photos by Heidi Green (heidigreen.com)

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1. Tucker blows out the candles on his amazing, “The Cat in the Hat” themed cake. 2. Even The Cat has a special wish for the birthday boy! 3. Tucker, who also served as the magician’s assistant, has a big laugh. 4. The birthday boy poses for a sweet shot with little sister Charlotte. Photos by Heidi Green (heidigreen.com)

miles silber celebrated his 2nd birthday with a jungle-themed party at the Children’s museum of the Arts.

1. Party guests were treated to jungle-inspired goodies and prizes. 2. Miles and friends enjoy a lively musical performance. 3. The birthday boy (with help from Mom and Dad) blows out the candles on his “wild” cake. 4. Miles takes a quick break from the celebration behind some colorful bouncy balls. Photos by Heidi Green (heidigreen.com)

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ith any rite of passage, there’s anxiety as well as exhilaration. Learning to ride a bike is one of the childhood biggies, and having a stress-free student-teacher experience can mean the difference between enjoying a lifetime of cycling and never getting beyond training wheels. Rich Conroy, a cycling instructor and manager of the education program at Bike New York, says the key is realizing that kids will teach themselves how to ride and the parents are there to help cheerlead. He offers the following tips:

Only When they’re Ready Take notice of your child’s developmental level. Can your child rollerskate, rollerblade, or ride a scooter? If yes, she has a decent sense of balance and she might be ready to ride a bike without training wheels as well. If not, then your child probably needs more time. If you insist that she do it anyway, you’re likely to have a child who feels forced to learn and will be fearful and angry. According to Conroy, most kids learn to ride between ages five and nine, but some preschoolers are ready, too. Your child may learn in a couple of days, or it might take months. The emphasis should always be on having fun.

It’s All About the Bike A child should be able to stand over the frame of the bike with an inch or two of clearance between the frame and the crotch area. Most bikes come with coaster brakes, but hand brakes are not necessary on a starter bike. In addition to a helmet, you may want to invest in knee and elbow pads as well as a pair of riding gloves. A well-padded child is likely to feel less frightened about the uncertainties of riding unaided. You might also want to let your child pick out some stickers or other decorative items for the bike.

A Balancing Act The first thing your child needs to learn is balance. Put the seat down far enough so that the child’s feet rest flat on the ground. Take the training wheels and pedals off. Sitting

on the seat, the child should hold onto the handlebars and walk the bike forward with feet on the ground. Conroy explains, “The idea is that he will get to the point where he lifts his feet off the ground so the bike rolls forward, and once he does that, he’s riding.” Then, put the pedals back on and have the child start again with feet on the ground. But this time he should take his feet off the ground and put them on the pedals and begin riding.

“I Said Stopppp!” Once she can pedal forward, the child needs to know how to turn and how to stop. Teach your child that when she’s turning, she has to raise the pedal on the side in which she’s turning. If the pedal is pointed down, she’ll probably crash. To stop, show your child how to operate the coaster brakes. Don’t let your child get into the habit of using shoes to stop. Though many parents assume that their role is to basically run with the bike and let go when the child is ready, Conroy actually discourages parents from doing so, unless the child is more comfortable with the parent close by. His philosophy is that kids are resilient; he advises parents against having a preemptive discussion about falling. If a child does fall, parents should remain positive and not panic. “There’s a teaching moment there where a parent can explain, without saying ‘I told you so,’ that something the kid did might have contributed to the fall and provide some instruction,” he advises.

Safety Rules A child needs to understand the importance of stopping and looking before riding into the street. Needless to say, he needs to wait until the light is green, but even then he should stop to check for traffic, looking left, right, left again and listening for oncoming cars that might not be immediately visible. Also, explain to your child how stop signs operate. Take your child to an intersection and practice carefully crossing by walking your bikes. Your child will learn a lot by example, so go on a ride together and reiterate the rules before and then again after a ride, commending him for smart bicycling behavior. S

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pushing our buttons and our response. In that pause, we can begin to think more clearly: “I am going to be an adult no matter how childishly my children behave.” You claim that one of the best things we as parents can do for our children is to focus more on ourselves. Can you explain? If we don’t take care of ourselves, we end up needing our kids to take care of us by behaving and by making us look good. Then they are the leaders of the family, not us. What kids need most are parents that do not need them—I know this is a jarring statement, but it’s true. Focusing on yourself is one of the best things you can do because you are communicating to your kids that you don’t need them to take care of you. In your book, you talk about how parents have to be aware of their own “emotional reactivity” in order to control their responses to their children’s behavior. What exactly is emotional reactivity, and how should parents deal with it? www.newyorkfamily.com

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“Kids are going to act like kids. The real question is, how old are you going to act?” What if I have a difficult child who whines and complains, or is aggressive? What if my child does something really naughty, like hits their sibling? How do I stay calm, no matter what? If you want to use it as an opportunity to lead them, don’t get louder. Get calmer. Get quieter. Go right up to them, be as still as you can, and whisper, “You are not going to behave this way. You are going into timeout,” or whatever you choose to be the consequence. The softer and calmer you get, the more serious you sound. Parents have told us that conflicts often arise when they feel rushed, which in this city, is much of the time! How can we implement non-reactive parenting when we are feeling so stressed? If you’re waiting until the heat of the moment to discover this scream free muscle, that’s like not exercising and then trying to lift 200 pounds. This has to be something that you’re beginning to ingest on an ongoing basis, and it means that you start thinking strategically: what do I need to do to give my kids the best chance of succeeding in the morning? Perhaps it’s getting my kids up 15 minutes earlier. Mornings and bedtimes are not times to start ranting and raving; those are times that call us to a higher standard because our kids are looking to us in those stressful moments for leadership. Parents often describe scenarios like, “My child refuses to get dressed, get in the stroller, leave for school, eat dinner, etc.” How can parents handle these situations in a calm way? They are refusing because they are testing. Ask yourself, what are the natural and logical consequences for refusing? Instead of saying things like, “Don’t throw the toy” over and over, say, “If you throw the toy, the toy goes away for ten minutes.” Don’t be angry about it.

I have somewhere to be. At some point shouldn’t I just pick them up and put them in the stroller? Absolutely! Say, “You don’t have the choice as to whether you go to school on time. You do have the choice as to how you go to school. You can go the easy way or the hard way. The easy way is you get dressed, you get in the stroller and we start walking. The hard way is I pick you up and put you in.” Don’t be angry about it, just respect that they are choosing the hard way. You always want to give your kids some choice in the matter because that’s the skill you want your kids to develop most: decision-making. But shouldn’t we insist that our children do what we, as parents, say? So many parents think, “I should say it and they should do it.” I always ask them, until when? How long do you want to be responsible for telling them what to do every step of the way? When do you want them to begin to think for themselves? It’s our job to let them know the choices they don’t have—kids don’t have the choice between going to school or playing in the street—but also the choices they do have. One of the best things we can do is get to a place where there is nothing our kids can do to embarrass us. When we allow them to embarrass us we’re taking too much responsibility for them. We are not responsible for our kids; we’re responsible to them. If there’s one piece of advice you hope parents take away from reading your book, what would it be? That your kids are going to act like kids. The real question is, how old are you going to act? Someone once told me that this scream free model is like moving away from the impossible—controlling your kids—and moving to the really, really difficult—controlling yourself. Laura Deutsch and Heather Ouida run the social and educational parent networks Babybites and Kiddybites. For more info, visit babybites.com.

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With its Bright displays, endless array of delicious treats and a newly unveiled cupcake-themed party Room, dylan’s candy Bar is proof that candy land has a home in Midtown Willy Wonka once sang to his young golden ticket winners, “Come with me and you’ll be in a world of pure imagination.” His expansive chocolate factory featured unbelievable sweets, a river of milky chocolate, and more to see, touch and taste than its guests could ever experience in a day. It was an amazing Technicolor candy world with no real world equivalent. But upon entering the New York sugar staple Dylan’s Candy Bar, located at 60th and 3rd Avenue, families will find a colorful, candy-filled oasis that’s even better than Wonka’s chocolate factory—because, of course, it’s real. “I felt like there should be a place that had the magical feeling of being in a candy land,” says Dylan Lauren, CEO and founder of Dylan’s Candy Bar, which opened in New York City in 2001. In the 10 years since its debut, Dylan’s has expanded to include other New York locations in East Hampton and Garden City’s Roosevelt Field Mall, as well as in Houston, Texas and Orlando, Florida. Today, Dylan’s Candy Bar boasts more than 7,000 edible treats and specialty sweets from around the world, ranging from life-sized Hershey’s Kisses and endless supplies of M&Ms to Gummi Bears (20 different kinds, in fact!) and nut-free, sugar-free and gluten-free treats. Lauren, the daughter of famed fashion designer Ralph

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Lauren and author Ricky Lauren, grew up with an eye for style, aesthetics and artwork. But after watching the classic film “Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory” at age six, she also had a taste for candy. A self-proclaimed “true candy-aholic,” Lauren was studying art history at Duke University when she realized that candy stores nationwide were lacking in creativity, color and pizzazz. “I felt like all the candy stores were boring and not colorful, and the candy wasn’t fun,” she says. Lauren’s initial idea was to create a party space filled with pop art and fun sculptures created by artists working with oversized chocolate and candy, but her vision soon evolved into a colorful candy retail emporium that doubled as an event space. In dreaming up and designing Dylan’s Candy Bar, the pop art enthusiast drew inspiration from favorite artists like Andy Warhol, Jeff Koons and Claes Oldenburg. “They pay a lot of attention to the colors, fonts and graphics, and I love that,” she says. Lauren was also inspired by family destinations like Disney Land, F.A.O. Schwartz, The NBC Store and Nike Town, which she says “have a real experience to them.” Similarly, when designing Dylan’s, Lauren always kept the shop’s aesthetic value in mind. “We pay a lot of attention www.newyorkfamily.com

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ing party stationery, party goods, party-on-the-go kits, and even a candy stroller with partner Maclaren’s. The bar also hosts many events for adults and kids alike, whether it’s for an art show, a corporate party for the 21-and-over crowd (the shop has a liquor license), a launch for musician Prince’s own candy bar, or a celebration for Barbie’s Fiftieth Birthday. “It’s fun just walking in the store and coming back season after season to see what we’re doing next,” says Lauren. For example, in February the store hosted a Ken and Barbie-themed Valentine’s Party, in April it will focus on the Easter season, and come fall, will transition to feature back-to-school products. When she’s not working on finding boutique specialty candy makers, deA rendering of Dylan’s new café, to be signing beautiful complete this month. packaging and party Dylan’s founder Dylan Lauren poses for a sweet shot. Obama, Janet Jackson, spaces or picking healthy alternative treats for Self magazine readers with a Madonna and Steven Spielberg) is to not just how good the candy looks, sweet tooth in a regular column, Laubut how it’s packaged and presented as adult-friendly, too, as its average ren enjoys her favorite candies, which customer is actually 27 years old. well,” Lauren says. include marshmallow fluff, divinity “Everyone has a sweet tooth—or a When families enter Dylan’s, and licorice. salty tooth— so we tend to attract the they’re instantly struck by the store’s “My life has always been inspired bold colors, the incredible candy stair- kid in the adult who wants a fun place to shop,” she says. In addition to its by the colors and sweetness of candy,” case (named The Staircase To Candy impressive array of treats, gift baskets Lauren says. “As I walk through the Heaven), the sounds of sugary sweet and classic games like Candyland, the stores myself, I still feel a rush at bringtunes pumping through the speakers, colorful space also sells candy-themed ing this all to life for our customers.” and of course, the tantalizing smell apparel, accessories, spa products, and Dylan’s Candy Bar is located of chocolate and fresh-baked sweets jewelry. And Lauren says licensing at 1011 Third Ave, 646-735-0078, wafting from the customized cake and more products is in the works, includdylanscandybar.com. dessert buffet area. However, this month Dylan’s regulars will notice an exciting addition to the shop’s amenities in the newly renovated café and party room, located on the upper level. The café will feature One of the world’s largest candy stores will become the backdrop for a fungigantic cupcake booths—similar to filled Easter event on April 17th, when Dylan’s Candy Bar hosts the 1st Annual carousels—in pink, purple, yellow and Great Tail Hunt, of which we are a media sponsor. At the event, children can sign up to be a part of the official search team and hunt for Easter eggs blue, which will seat private parties surrounded by gumdrops, lollipops, candy and chocolate, competing to win— of eight to 10 people. Meanwhile, what else—candy! Guests will also be able to enjoy breakfast with Vanilla the smaller groups can sit at blue, red and Bunny, take pictures with Chocolate the Bunny, construct their own jelly bean yellow gumball-inspired tables, with mosaics and more. The event will take place from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. Tickets coordinating chairs in marshmallow are $50 (includes accompanying adult). Registration is highly recommended. white. At the café, children will be able For more information and to register, visit newyorkfamily.com/dylans. to indulge in brownies and cupcakes,

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What With all the Walking, climbing subway stairs and navigating narrow shopping aisles, being pregnant in the city can be stressful. But Manhattan momsto-be can unwind in style and comfort at Edamame Spa at Destination Maternity, located on Madison Avenue and 57th Street. From the minute the elevator doors open, the spa’s tranquil, Zen-like atmosphere transports guests to a relaxed, stress-free state of mind. The spa, which launched about six years ago, has become a welcoming respite for expectant moms during a time when they are often overwhelmed by all the decisionmaking and anxiety that can accompany a pregnancy. “We really wanted to create a place for women who are pregnant to come and relax,” says Sue Perez, a licensed esthetician and the spa’s manager. When they arrive, expectant moms are led into the tranquility room, where the built-in waterfall makes their short waiting time all the more peaceful. Combined with dimly lit candles enveloping the room and warm earth tones coloring the walls, it’s easy to feel relaxed before the pampering even begins. The spa offers an expansive selection of body services for those who are past their first trimester and can safely indulge in treatments. Services include The Skin Resonance Facial, specially formulated to keep skin radiant despite the hormonal changes of pregnancy; the signature Mom-To-Be Massage, customized to relieve particular areas of stress throughout the body; and an array of other body treatments and enhancements. One of Perez’s favorites is the Lemon Verbena Body Polish, which exfoliates and hydrates skin. What’s more, all treatments are tailored to each expectant mom.

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Because health and safety are of utmost concern for pregnant women, all of the treatments provided at Edamame Spa are performed with certified organic products that contain no artificial dyes, carbons, sulfates or other chemical pesticides, Perez notes. Formulated with plant products harvested from uncontaminated soil, each product is beautifully fragranced and conditions the skin back to a gentle, supple state. Products are sourced from companies like Mama Mio, Naturopathica and Comfort Zone and are also available for purchase. Of course, women who aren’t pregnant are also welcome, and can enjoy everything from deep tissue facials and aroma therapeutic massages to anti-aging treatments and body waxing. The spa also hosts parties and baby showers and offers discount packages and gift cards. Whether it’s a one-time visit or a regular ritual, the spa’s philosophy is that moms-to-be deserve to kick up their feet and feel like a queen every once in a while. With adjustable, heated beds draped with 400-thread count sheets and a staff committed to client satisfaction, that’s easy to do at Edamame Spa. What’s more, Destination Maternity even offers a lounge area where other family members can hang out and enjoy TV’s, computers and toys. Relaxation is the goal at Edamame Spa, which caters to expectant moms trying to juggle it all. “Women living in New York—we work full-time, we have families, our lifestyle is hectic,” says Perez. “Going to a spa is something you do to feel better.” Edamame Spa (located inside Destination Maternity), 28 East 57th Street at Madison Avenue, 212-588-1990, edamamespa.com. www.newyorkfamily.com

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Massachusetts Boston is a perfect destination for adventure-seeking families, especially in the summertime. Known as “America’s Walking City,” Boston combines historic, New England charm with gorgeous harbor views, plenty of family friendly attractions and tons of green space for kids to play. From June 30th to July 4th, families can take in the annual Fourth of July festival Harborfest, which is especially familyfriendly on the 30th (Children’s Day), when kids can enjoy whale-watching cruises or sail on the Liberty Clipper, a 125-foot historic replica of an 18th century clipper ship. Other must-sees in Boston this summer include a visit to the New England Aquarium’s new exhibit “Sharks And Rays: Touch,” a Red Sox game at Fenway Park, a cruise

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as The Founder Of The Baby and Home Emporium Giggle, ali Wing Helps New Parents Discover How living With Kids can Be comfortable, colorful, Eco-Friendly and Even a little chic. Not surprisingly, she Does It Herself In Her Fabulous (and Functional) Downtown Home alI WING lOvEs THINGs THaT FuNcTION. “I put my practicality lens on everything,” she says. As the founder and CEO of giggle, the retailer turned multi-platform brand that focuses on baby products for city-dwelling parents, Wing has a penchant for practical living that’s reflected not only in the products that giggle sells, but in her approach to home and family, too. Wipe-able surfaces, compact design and hideaway storage—for Wing, these are priorities that let families (especially new ones) just live. Add a punch of color and you’ve got what those who know her best call “signature Ali” style—arguably the secret to giggle’s success. Unlike many mompreneurs, though, Wing’s savvy in the baby gear business didn’t start with motherhood, as her son Tyler’s birth came three years after she founded the company in 2000. And for all her urban sensibility, Wing was actually born in Santa Rosa, California and raised in Montana, and she still considers herself very “West Coast.” So how did this countrified non-mom come up with a bright idea about babies before she even had one? After spending 16 years with Fortune 500 companies in various market development roles focusing mainly on women, Wing’s “ah-ha moment” seems to have been born from that same practicality that defines her sense of style: she saw a gap and wanted to fill it. While working for Gazoontite, a now defunct retail

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chain and online supplier of allergy relief products, Wing noticed something telling: the average transaction purchase for parents buying for their children was 3.5 times the amount customers spent when just shopping for themselves. “I kept observing this very changed demographic that was older, more educated and almost professional about parenting,” she explains. Then, when a magazine publishing project required Wing to get to know “every manufacturer” in the juvenile industry, it became evident to her that there was an unfilled niche. “There was a proliferation of things we can sell to parents, but really no resource to edit,” she says. For that reason, Wing launched giggle with a single store in San Francisco in the fall of 2003, with the goal of providing the “best of ” products for new parents, from cribs and nursery décor to baby bath tubs and potty training tools to maternity wear and clothes for infants and toddlers. Today, having expanded to 13 stores and a robust web presence that includes online shopping, parenting advice, expert “guru” blogs and now, The Cradle, an informational resource for expecting mothers, giggle’s one-stop-shop approach to new families has earned the brand its trademark stripes. In fact, giggle’s color field logo and straightforward, lower-case motto—happy. healthy. baby.—embodies the same kind of fun, approachable simplicity that Wing herself exudes. A tour of the three-bedroom Battery Park apartment that Wing shares with her husband, Will and their son Tyler www.newyorkfamily.com

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makes this clear. Bright, open and airy, with wrapping glass windows, the space is intentionally peaceful. “You can never take the Montana out of me,” Wing says with a sigh. An oversized scarlet floor lamp from CB2 arching elegantly over the corner dining table hints at Wing’s biggest design influence: her mother’s love of color. “I don’t think we ever had a white wall. We always had red hallways and blue kitchens,” she says. For Wing, this meant painting their apartment’s master bedroom a rich aqua, “the color of the ocean.” Additional pops of color peek out from nearly every corner of the house, from the Eames’ coat rack with its gumballlike hooks to Tyler’s preschool collection of Montessori paintings curated in the hallway. Wing’s other design inspiration is family. As one of nine siblings growing up in a multi-cultural household (five were adopted), she describes her parents as having “a unique focus on family,” which meant furniture choices had to be functional. “We never had a living room you couldn’t use,” she explains. Whether it was the drinking fountain they installed in the house to replace water glasses or the stacked loft beds to accomwww.newyorkfamily.com

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modate two, three and four sleepers per room, those childhood impressions of utility proved the unlikely seeds for what she now amusingly thinks of as another design trend. “We always had the big table that had the long benches on the side before it was cool at Room & Board,” she says with a laugh. That familyfriendly “imprint” is why Ali and Will have made their home completely child proof. “There’s nothing Tyler can’t jump on or hurt,” she explains—a mantra proven true when, shortly after, the eight-year-old boy quietly and politely borrows two pillows from the sofa to construct a fort. For Wing, she wouldn’t have it any other way: “I never thought of it as a constraint, it was just part of my design criteria. That’s just the way we function.” The other priority on Ali and Will’s list for a family home when they moved to New York City from California in 2005 was a healthy one. For that they found The Verdesian, a luxury, environmentally-advanced development designed by Pelli Clarke Pelli Architects. Certified LEED platinum, the 26-story building faces the Hudson River and is as good for the environment as it is for its residents. With fresh air circulation and continuous indoor air quality monitoring (IAQ), energy efficient appliances and a centrally filtered water system, Wing feels good knowing her family can breathe easy, though her mother-in-law is less thrilled with their high-efficiency dryer during visits. “She thinks our clothes are never dry, which drives her crazy,” Ali says with a wink at her husband. And while the dining table is her

favorite spot in the house for Sunday’s newspaper-strewn family breakfasts, it’s Tyler’s room that excites her most on the tour. Inside, a repurposed school locker serves as a cool dresser (“We used to sell these at giggle”) and a brushed steel bunk bed from Room & Board houses Grandma and Grandpa for weekend visits—at least until the adjacent office gets a guestroom makeover. The focal point of Tyler’s room—a large chalkboard-fronted cabinet covered in family photos—opens to reveal what Will refers to as “Legoworld.” Inside, deep shelves house hundreds of the interlocking bricks in various states of construction; pullout bins keep loose toys in their place and ready to play. “I needed to figure out something where Tyler could have storage and also feel like he could build in this dedicated space. It can be his world,” Wing explains. Colorful, easy-to-clean storage, covered in family mementos and designed just for a kid? Now that’s signature Ali.

Ali WinG’S THree MuST-HAve PrODuCTS FOr neW PArenTS giggle Better Basics Harper Crib in Walnut. “This crib is everything I think baby furniture should be,” says Wing. “It’s all about quality construction and design, responsible manufacturing and great value.” Multi Directional Stem Print Diaper Bag by Orla Kiely. “Here’s a bag that you’ll find every excuse to carry long after your child is out of diapers. It’s sophisticated and multifunctional with its waterproof outer, foldaway changing pad and abundance of compartments and storage pockets,” says Wing. Orange Giraffe Personalized Ceramic Plate and Cup Set by Alex Marshall. “Each one is hand-painted and personalized with the child’s name, so no one else will have one exactly like it,” Wing says. April 2011 | New York Family

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KIDS BY ELISABETH FRANKEL REED

Martial Arts Is An Age-Old Sport That Keeps Kids Fit While Imparting Valuable Lessons

Chelsea Piers offers a gymjitsu class for kids up to eight years old.

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participating in martial arts is an established part of American childhood. But it’s not just about breaking boards in midair: martial arts keeps kids fit while imparting important life skills. And in a city as varied as New York, Karate isn’t the only option—kids can take classes in Tae Kwon Do, Tai Chi, Jiu Jitsu, Kung Fu, Judo and Capoeira, too. Whether kids start when they’re two or 12, the longterm benefits of martial arts are wide-ranging. “It teaches children how to focus, how to really work hard, really emphasize their short-term goals, and set long-term goals,” says Paul Lim, owner of West Side Taekwondo. In other words, children exposed to the sport develop a healthy sense of self-discipline. Participating in martial arts also helps develop coordination and balance, improving kinesthetic awareness—the knowledge of where each part of the body is, and what motions they perform for any given task. Each of these skills can translate into other sports as well down the road. But the biggest boon to kids who undertake martial arts training? Self-confidence and self-esteem. “The great thing about martial arts is that you’re not competing against someone else or some other team, it’s about how much better you can become,” says Lim. With martial arts like Tae Kwon Do, for example, kids work their way through the belt system on their own, focusing on their individual accomplishments each step of the way. Last, while it’s an individual sport, martial arts have a lot to teach kids about getting along with others. Since children often enroll before they start school, it can be their first experience learning in a group setting. Discipline and respect for instructors and each other are at the core of every program; the common practice of bowing both expresses and reinforces that respect. Exercises in class emphasize the skills kids need to succeed at home and in the classroom: patience, the ability to focus on a task, the ability to listen, the maturity to accept when peers excel and the discipline to persevere. So, how old do kids have to be to start their training? The majority of programs start at three to five years old. “The younger they are, the easier they are [to teach]. They’re like sponges, there’s no fear—so they’re quick to

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absorb what [they’re learning],” says Randy Dorleans, a martial arts instructor at Chelsea Piers. In fact, East Side Tae Kwon Do has a special class for kids as young as 18 months old to participate in with a parent or caregiver. According to Mary Clare Bland, the owner/manager, the classes are more tightly structured than classes for older children. Toddlers learn to follow instructions, understand spatial relationships, jump and even stand still in addition to gaining improved balance and hand-eye coordination. As kids get older and progress in their martial arts training, classes tend to focus more on physical endurance. “Martial arts is very good for physical conditioning in terms of core strength, flexibility and cardio-vascular workout,” says Lim. Self-defense also becomes more of a focus— knowing that they are capable of taking care of themselves in dangerous situations will give them the confidence they need to assert themselves when necessary. Once you decide to enroll your child in a martial arts program, it is important to find the right instructor. “The number one thing is, ‘Do I have an instructor who really cares about my child?’” says Mike Bailey, the youth sports director at Asphalt Green. Observe how instructors talk to their students and their individual teaching styles. Also, make sure that the martial arts program takes place in a safe environment. Check that the studios have padded floors and the students wear pads when sparring. Make sure that the instructors stress the importance of safety, and have the appropriate qualifications for teaching children. “Children function much better, and just seem happier if they feel safe; I think that’s the most important thing,” sums up Bland.

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East Side Tae Kwon Do’s class for three-and four-year-olds.

A Round-Up Of Venues Offering Martial Arts Classes For Kids A1 Karate Kids

Discovery Programs

Manhattan Movement & Arts Center

Six Harmony Martial Arts Academy

AmeriKick Karate Studios

East Side Tae Kwon Do

Modern Martial Arts NYC

Tiger Schulmann’s Mixed Martial Arts

Asphalt Green

Gymtime Rhythm & Glues

New York Jiu Jitsu

Upper West Side Kenshikai Karate

Brooklyn Aikikai

Gotham Taekwon-Do

Premier Martial Arts

West Side Taekwondo

Brooklyn Dojo

Harlem Tae Kwon Do

Reebok Sports Club/NY and The Sports Club/LA New York

World Martial Arts Center

110 West 14th Street, 2nd Floor 212-807-7336 a1karatekids.com 529 Fifth Avenue, Brooklyn 718-768-8200 amerikick.com 555 East 90th Street 212-369-8890 asphaltgreen.org 408 Third Avenue, Brooklyn 718-643-6044 brooklynaikikai.com 93 Pineapple Walk 718-237-0568 brooklyndojo.com

Chelsea Piers

23rd Street and the Hudson River 212-336-6666 chelseapiers.com

D-Dojo

500 8th Avenue, 12th Floor 212-537-6441 d-dojo.org

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251 West 100th Street 212-749-8717 discoveryprograms.com 325 East 65th Street 212-755-5982 eastsidetaekwondo.com 1520 York Avenue 212-861-7732 gymtime.net

328 East 61st Street, 3rd Floor 212-326-9510 nyctkd.com 236 116th Street, 2nd Floor 347-624-5546 harlemtkd.com

Honma Dojo

58 East 11th Street 212-505-3656 honmadojo.com

JCC in Manhattan

334 Amsterdam Avenue 646-505-5700 jccmanhattan.org

248 West 60th Street 212-787-1178 manhattanmovement.com

Various locations in Manhattan 212-772-3700 manhattantkd.cmasdirect.com 666 Broadway, Lower Level 212-343-8310 nyjiujitsu.com 548 Union Street, Brooklyn 718-965-4222 premiermartialarts.com

Reebok: 160 Columbus Avenue, 212-3626800 Sports Club: 330 East 61st Street, 212355-5100 mpsportsclub.com, thesportsclubla.com

Shaolin Kung Fu Training Center 109 West 27th Street 212-242-7308 shaolinkungfuntrainingcenter.com

232 7th Avenue, 2nd Floor 212-727-0714 sixharmony.com

39 West 19th Street 212-727-0773 or 1-800-52-TIGER tsk.com 928 Columbus Avenue 212-222-1172 uwskenshikai.com 700 Columbus Avenue 212-663-3998 westsidetkd.com

Manhattan: 69 West 14th Street; Brooklyn: 475 Atlantic Avenue Manhattan: 212-941-8771; Brooklyn: 718855-9898 happykicks.com

YMCA of Greater New York 212-630-9600 ymcanyc.org

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Beautiful! Styled By JOY SherWOOd PhOTOgrAPhY BY ClASSiC KidS PhOTOgrAPhY

Meet The Winners Of New York Family’s Annual Child Cover Model Contest

When we announced our Child Cover Model Contest, the flood of entries reminded us of something we’ve known for quite a while: we live in a city of seriously cute kids. Our overall winner and cover kid (as decided by the judges) was Gemma; the readers’ choice winner (as determined by our online poll) was Tara. Grayson, Lillie and Katherine were the judges’ top picks in their age groups. We adore them all.

Name: Gemma Age Category: Infant Favorite Places To Go In NYC: Central Park, Carl Schurz Park, Kidville, local diner Favorite Book: “Where Is Baby’s Belly Button?” Favorite Foods: Donuts, pizza, strawberries and grapes Favorite People: Mommy, Daddy, twin sister Kaya, grandparents and uncles

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Name: Tara Age Category: Infant Favorite Ways To Play: Being read to, being entertained by big brother Andrew, playing with Sophie the Giraffe and Manhattan Baby Whoozit Favorite Places To Go In NYC: Playgrounds in Central Park and Boathouse Restaurant Favorite People: Big brother Andrew, grandmother Baba, Aunt Lisa www.newyorkfamily.com

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Name: Lillie Age Category: 4-7 Years Favorite Ways To Play: Arts and crafts, dress up, dancing and playing in her pretend kitchen Favorite Places To Go In NYC: Mandell School, Sunday brunch at Sarabeth’s, playgrounds and ice skating rinks Favorite People: Parents, little brother Glen, grandparents in Texas, nanny Celine, next door neighbor Gabi, teachers, friends Maya and Marco

Name: Katherine Age Category: 8-10 Years Favorite Subjects In School: Writing and P.E. Favorite Places To Go In NYC: Central Park’s Great Lawn, Children’s Museum of Manhattan, Museum of the Moving Image, Dorrian’s Red Hand Restaurant and the playground at Asphalt Green Favorite Books: “Diary of a Wimpy Kid,” and “Dork Diaries” Favorite Movies: “Despicable Me,” “Get Smart,” “The Lightning Thief ” www.newyorkfamily.com

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Name: Grayson Age Category: 1-3 Years Favorite Ways To Play: Sledding, swimming and soccer outside; painting, building with Legos and playing with his train set inside Favorite Books: “Goodnight Moon,” “Green Eggs and Ham,” “The Cat in the Hat,” “Snow Bugs” and “I Can Help” Favorite Foods: French fries, grilled cheese, rice, berries, frozen yogurt and anything dipped in ketchup

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NEW PARENTS GUIDE

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By ANGeLA JOHNSON Rosie Pope shows an expectant dad the ropes on her new show, "Pregnant In Heels," premiering this month on Bravo.

With Her Upscale Maternity Line, Seminar Series And Concierge Service For Moms-To-Be, Rosie Pope Has Become A Go-To Resource For Pregnant Women Across The City. Now, With A New Reality Show On Bravo, She’s Taking It National

reparing for the arrival of a baby can be one of the most exciting and stressful times in a woman’s life. Faced with a new and daunting set of challenges, it’s easy for even the most put-together expectant mom to become overwhelmed. Good thing there’s Rosie Pope. The London-born entrepreneur has literally made it her business to help women make the transition to new mom easier, and not just when it comes to deciding what to wear. In addition to a clothing line known for its elegance and romance, Rosie Pope Maternity also includes MomPrep, a “training academy” for moms-to-be, as well as a maternity concierge service that assists women in doing everything necessary to prepare for their new addition, from designing a dream nursery to baby-proofing a Manhattan apartment. In fact, Pope and her concierge service are the subjects of Bravo’s new reality show, “Pregnant In Heels,” which premieres on April 5. Oh, and did we mention she recently gave birth to her second child? Pope credits her husband Daron as the driving force behind the launch of Rosie Pope Maternity. “He suggested I be a maternity designer since I liked fashion and wanted to have babies!” she recalls.

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Pope was reluctant at first, as the idea was a long way from her neuroscience studies at Columbia University. But she took a job at maternity retailer A Pea in the Pod to learn more about the industry, and while there, she was surprised to discover how unsatisfied pregnant women were with their clothing options. If their choices were so limited in a city like New York, Pope thought, they must be even worse elsewhere. So she decided to take the leap, and Rosie Pope Maternity was born. Inspired by the designer’s British roots, the line includes elegantly-tailored pieces for day and evening in both classic colors and romantic prints. Pope strives to make clothes that appeal to women of different style sensibilities, from the Upper East Side moms who visit her boutique to women across the country who shop her website. Since becoming a mother herself, Pope says her approach has evolved a bit; there is now less emphasis on evening wear and more on everyday pieces. “You have a real romantic idea about maternity clothes before you get pregnant—you have this idea that you will walk around in beautiful, flowing dresses all of the time,” Pope says. “I think there has to be a balance between what looks good and what is easy to wear.” www.newyorkfamily.com

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And as if all that weren’t enough, Pope also stars in the new reality show “Pregnant In Heels,” premiering this month on Bravo. The show follows Pope as she does anything and everything to meet the often outlandish demands of affluent moms-to-be—from assembling a panel of experts to help a couple choose the perfect baby name to planning a wedding for a woman getting married one week before her due date. “Do you know how hard it is to find a wedding dress for a woman who’s 38 weeks pregnant?” Pope laughs. “You change sizes every day!” Rosie Pope with husband Daron and son J.R., 2. A second son, Wells, joined the family in February. The show also chronicles Nevertheless, Pope discourages women from thinking Pope’s personal struggle to conceive her second child—a about maternity clothes as merely functional, often drab baby boy named Wells, born this past February. pieces that they’ll only wear for a short period of time. In“It felt like if we didn’t show that part of our story, I’d be stead she suggests they invest in a wardrobe of quality items living a lie—like it was so easy for us when it wasn’t, it was that will make them feel comfortable and stylish throughout really difficult,” she says. their pregnancy. Now, with a brand-new baby, a new show and a thriv“When you’re pregnant, you’ll wear your favorite shirt ing business, Pope stresses the importance of maintaining all of the time. You get a lot more value from your maternity a schedule to help balance the demands of her career with clothes than your regular wardrobe,” she says. “Nine misercaring for her family. able months of wearing clothes you hate is just not good. It’s “I think the mistake is trying to do everything at like getting married and saying, ‘I’m only going to wear this once—I’ll be playing Thomas the Tank Engine and thinkdress for a day, so I’ll buy myself a sack.’” ing about diaper bags and china,” she says. “You have to MomPrep evolved in much the same way. After becoming figure out a way that when you’re with your children, pregnant with her first child (J.R., now 2), Pope found it difyou’re with them.” ficult to find the kind of prenatal classes she was looking for. And even when she has to be away from her children, “I signed up to take classes at the hospital, and I was sent Pope says it feels good to know that she’s helping other new to a psych ward that was not attached to the hospital,” she moms cope with the demands of modern parenthood. recalls. “I had to pee all the time because I was pregnant, and “I’d really like to be the number one resource for pregevery time I went to pee they had to buzz me out because it nant women and new moms, so they feel there is a lifestyle was a locked facility. I thought, ‘This cannot be the best place company that can support them and give them the best to learn about parenting.’” advice and the best product,” she says. Pope’s solution was a one-stop shop for classes and inIt seems she’s well on her way. formation on all things pregnancy and parenting, including prenatal fitness, infant CPR, nursery décor, child photography and more. Classes are intended to provide information in as balanced a way as possible. For example, one of MomPrep’s most popular seminars, “Epidural: Debunking the Myths,” is • Tighter is better. When you’re pregnant, you might as a lively forum led by both a natural childbirth doctor and an well have the bump where everyone can see. Plus, even anesthesiologist who field questions from women about the though you’re big in the middle, everything else looks a popular method of pain relief. bit smaller. “I think we’re in a generation that wants to learn about • You’ll need a dress that makes you feel good both during being a parent in different ways, but classes seem to be either the day and at night. Go for a wrap dress in a nice material. very pro-natural childbirth or very pro-intervention,” Pope says. “I think people want to have all of the information in • Leggings can pair with anything: dresses, tunics, shirts. an unbiased way, so they can make their own decisions.” You can even sleep in them!

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Terrific Two’s the author of the Popular Pregnancy and Parenting Series ‘What to Expect’ Shares insights and advice From her new Book about the toddler Years By chandni rathod

eidi Murkoff, author of the bestselling “What to Expect” series of pregnancy and parenting books and mom to adult children Emma and Wyatt, has guided more than 40 million families worldwide through pregnancy, labor and delivery, and parenting infants. In fact, USA Today estimates that “What To Expect” is read by 93 percent of all expectant mothers who elect to read a pregnancy book, and the series has sold more than 34 million copies in the United States alone. But where are families to turn when their child hits the dreaded toddler years? Now, parents can continue to enjoy the series with its latest installment, “What To Expect: The Second Year,” which is chock full of expert advice on toddler topics like talking, diet, tantrums and making friends, to name a few. We recently chatted with Murkoff, who shared helpful advice about how parents can stress less and enjoy their families more during their child’s “challenging but magical” toddler years. How did you and co-writer Sharon Mazel prepare to write “What To Expect: The Second Year?”

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It always starts with questions, which have always come from parents. These days, it’s easier than ever to solicit questions just by posting on the site [whattoexpect.com]. This time, though, I had some questions, too, specifically about how to format the book. After polling the moms on the site, I realized that the most intuitive way to handle the second year wasn’t month-by-month, but topic-by-topic. Parents of toddlers want to be able to access information fast and to flip quickly to what they need to know, and that’s what this format affords. As far as research, that’s exhaustive, and it has to be in order to produce books that are trusted by parents and health care providers. Writing, that’s the fun part, especially when it comes to writing about toddlers. One-year-olds just put a smile on my face! What kinds of transitions are children are going through during their second year? The second year is full of firsts: first steps, first words and first tantrums, making it among the most dramatiwww.newyorkfamily.com

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cally transformative years of a child’s life. Just about all of the developments and behaviors you glimpse in the second year are signs that your little one is carving out an identity, seeking autonomy and becoming an individual. This year’s theme is “I am toddler, hear me roar.” It’s not surprising that toddlerhood is called “the first adolescence.”

ened appetite for solids or excess weight gain. Two, sucking down bottles of juice can lead to chronic tummy troubles. And three, continued bottle use can lead to an increased risk of ear infections. The same issues and more can apply with sippy cup abuse, which is why sippy cups should be alternated with straw cups and regular cups.

What are three things parents can do to make “the terrible twos” less stressful? First of all, the “terrible twos” is a terrible misnomer— not only because they kick in when a toddler turns one and continue well past his third birthday, but because toddlers, as challenging as their behavior can be, are terrific, not terrible. As far as what can help parents enjoy the second year more, the first is perspective. Toddler behavior happens, and it has to happen, as inevitably as those first steps. It’s a normal, necessary phase of development, an essential part of growing up. Toddlers don’t do the things they do in order to drive their parents crazy—they do it because it’s in their job description. The second is consistency. The more things change for a toddler, the more comforting it is for them to know that some things always stay the same. Be consistent in your expectations and predictable in your routines, and you’ll get more compliance and less resistance from your little one. And the third is patience, which is a virtue every parent of a toddler needs in spades. Not to mention a sense of humor and joy. The second year is magical and fleeting—try to savor it.

Do you incorporate your own parenting experiences into the writing of the book? I have never written the books from my own experiences; because every parent and every toddler is different, there are few absolutes and no universal parenting experience. Still, having two second years under my belt allows me to write for parents of toddlers with empathy and understanding. The most important thing that I learned during my kids’ second years is that time passes very quickly. Even those afternoons that seem to drag on forever are over in a relative flash. Whatever behavior that’s driving you crazy this week, just try to take a step back and remember that allpurpose parental proverb: This, too, shall pass.

What’s the biggest misconception parents have about their baby’s second year? The most common misconception is “my toddler doesn’t eat enough.” The truth is that healthy toddlers who are allowed to eat to appetite without pushing or prodding inevitably eat exactly what they need to grow and thrive. Eating patterns may be erratic, like three Cheerios for breakfast one day and three bowlfuls the next, but if parents looked less at the leftovers on each plate and more at the big picture, they’d see that food intake almost always evens out over time. Something else parents misjudge is serving size. A toddler-sized portion is tiny—there’s a chart in the book that I think will surprise a lot of parents—which explains why heaping servings always seem to be left over. Conversely, what’s one issue or behavior that you think merits more concern? Few toddlers kick the bottle habit as early as they should—which is actually at their first birthday, as recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Academy of Pediatric Dentists. Beyond the potential for tooth decay if the bottle is filled with milk or juice, there are several other reasons to quit the bottle habit at the start of the second year: one, it’s easy for toddlers to take in too many calories from a bottle, which can lead to a damp-

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"The second year is full of firsts: first steps, first words and first tantrums, making it among the most dramatically transformative years of a child’s life." Let’s talk about the What To Expect Foundation; where did the inspiration for the foundation come from? The epiphany moment came during a visit to Riker’s Island prison, where we were giving a seminar to pregnant inmates. First, we gave them all a copy of “What to Expect,” and whatever their reading levels or experiences were, it didn’t matter. They dove in, flipping through with excitement, pointing out “I have that!” or “That looks like me!” And so we started the What to Expect Foundation and created “Baby Basics,” a beautiful, culturally appropriate, low-literacy pregnancy guide—which is available in English, Spanish, and Chinese, with support materials in 14 other languages—and a prenatal health literacy program to go along with it. We’ve given “Baby Basics” to over half a million at-risk moms so far, with incredible, research-documented results. It works in informing, supporting and empowering low-income moms so they too can expect healthy pregnancies, safe deliveries and healthy, happy babies. We hope to take the program to every mom who needs it, not just in this country, but all over the world. r For more information about the “What To Expect” series, visit whattoexpect.com. www.newyorkfamily.com

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lice Bradley has quite the resume. She holds an MFA in creative writing, her fiction has appeared in countless anthologies and she’s written for publications like Redbook, The Onion and Good Housekeeping. Oh, and she also pens the award-winning blog Finslippy.com, which she started seven years ago. These days, Bradley, who is mom to an 8-year-old son named Henry, is celebrating the launch of her book “Let’s Panic About Babies,” which she wrote with fellow blogger Eden M. Kennedy of Fussy.org. The book is a snarky and honest antidote to the sea of parenting books that, in the authors’ opinions, overwhelm pregnant women with too much information, and instead presents the refreshing philosophy that it’s normal to make “a load of mistakes.” We recently chatted with Bradley about the book, where the name “Finslippy” comes from, and of course, the things in life that are totally worth panicking about. (And for a sneak peak of “Let’s Panic,” see page 54). How did you get your start in writing? I come from a family of storytellers. Humor was always easy for me, but that was why I shied away from it—[thinking that] writing had to be hard, that you had to work your heart out, torture yourself and cry a lot. I worked as an

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editor, and then I got my master’s. Then after I had my son I started looking for a new direction in my life. And then one day my sister said, “You should start a blog!” Sometimes all it takes is that one person to say, “You can actually do this.” Where does the name Finslippy come from? “Finslippy” comes from a joke between my husband and me about a dream I had about renaming dolphins. [In my dream] the language association decided “dolphins” was a terrible name, so I came up with “finslippy,” and they said it was perfect. So I made that my blog name, thinking, “Who’s going to read that besides my husband and my mom?” What do you find most challenging about motherhood? I think there’s an illusion that you have before you’re a parent that when you become a parent you’ll automatically know what you’re doing. For me, the hardest part was encountering situations and having absolutely no idea what to do. It’s realizing you’re going to make mistakes, and you have to be okay with that. And learning to apologize to your child—I feel good about doing that, because I’m modeling what I want my child to do. Let’s talk about “Let’s Panic About Babies.” Did the idea for

the book come from your own parenting panic? Yes, it did. There are so many books about parenting and pregnancy. When I was pregnant, I read all the books and felt badly, because the pregnancy they were describing wasn’t my pregnancy. It seems to be universal that women feel alienated and troubled by all the information they’re being bombarded with; there’s a flood of information, and each book has a different angle. So Eden and I decided to come together and poke fun at everything. But we wanted to be clear we weren’t mocking moms; we want moms to be able to laugh at the whole situation. In the book, you describe stereotypes of new mothers; which one did you relate to most? I was definitely a combination of the “hysterical mom” and the “reluctant mom.” I would go from being too cool for everything to being convinced that my child was dying because he wasn’t eating his peas. What’s next for you? We’re hoping that the book does well so we can write more in this series. We have ideas about “Let’s Panic About Children,” “Let’s Panic About Teenagers.” There’s no end to things you can panic about! r For more information, visit lets-panic.com. www.newyorkfamily.com

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You: “They’re just so small and close together. See how my baby’s eyes are just two big drops of golden sunlight, and her lashes flap up and down like butterfly wings?” You (winking knowingly at your baby): “We should go: my Organella has a lucrative modeling job this afternoon and needs her beauty nap. Bye!”

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A SENSE OF HUMOR! Babies gifted with an advanced sense of humor become even funnier if they can also suffer in some way from a less than supportive family. Plus, the less you try not to screw up, the more likely it is your kid will be the next Don Rickles! So get ready to raise her with the following privations so she learns to use humor as a coping mechanism: • Be moody and unpredictable and yell a lot (bonus points for full-blown alcoholism) • Threaten to send her to the work house unless she does a funny jig • Make her compete with her siblings to see who can make you laugh the hardest (the winner gets whitefish for dinner) • Force-watch Monty Python’s Flying Circus and Mama’s Family • Be working-class Jewish, Catholic, Hindu, or if possible, all three

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What If My Baby Isn’t Smart, Cute, Strong, or Funny? Maybe she’ll be really good at: • Inspiring people with her courage to persevere • Putting stamps on things • Pointing out rainbows • Hugs • Writing fake parenting books

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NEW PARENTS GUIDE As an expectant parent, you have lots of questions: Where to deliver? Natural birth or epidural? Nanny or daycare? But as a baby planner, the one question that new parents ask me over and over is this: Which stroller should I buy? Here are a few things to think about as you do your own research and try out different models: When are you expecting? If you’re having a child in the winter, chances are you’re not going to be enjoying leisurely walks through the park in a wintry mix. This means you may not need a stroller with a bassinet feature; instead, you could start with a car seat frame that you can just snap a seat into. Which leads me to my next point:

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What is your living situation? Do you have a walk-up or an elevator? If you have an elevator, can you fit a stroller into it? If you have a walk-up, is there a place downstairs to safely store or lock a stroller? This may lead you to rethink the weight of the Can you push the stroller with stroller you’re purchasing, as well as one hand? how it collapses. Many things can affect this, including wheels and the weight of the Do you want a reversible seat? stroller, but the main factor to pay This is a great feature that many attention to is whether the stroller has people find necessary, especially in the two handles or one handlebar, as a early months. There are many studies handlebar makes one-handed steering available on the developmental benefits easier. Let’s face it: it’s New York. You’re of parent-facing seats, and you’ll probgoing to walk. A lot. You might need to ably want to chat with your little one as hold an umbrella, talk on the phone or you’re walking. A reversible seat allows carry a cup of coffee. Try doing any of you to keep an eye on them so you can those things while holding the stroller see if they’re spitting up, are becoming with one hand and elbow-steering with restless, etc. It also keeps the wind from the other. It’s not going to happen. hitting them in the face.

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Can you fold it with one hand? Yes, I know some people manage never to have to fold their strollers. But if you take a bus or a cab you’ll have to collapse your buggy, and even if you’re taking the subway, it’s common courtesy to fold it. Think about the folding motion. Are you bending down to do it? This can put strain on your back if you’re holding your baby or bags. Are you folding it by pull-

By JAmie GrAySOn ing it upward? Many people find this easier, myself included. A few other factors to consider: How much room does the undercarriage bag offer? Can it convert into a double via an additional seat or wheeled board? Does it have a removable handlebar? What about a cupholder? Also, does it have air-filled wheels? (These make for a smoother ride and easier curb bumping, but require more maintenance.) Finally, relax. Enjoy the process of trying out different strollers and ultimately choosing one that works for you and your family. Congrats and happy strolling! Jamie Grayson, also known as The Baby Guy, is an NYC-based baby planner. For more info, visit thebabyguynyc.com, email him at jamie@thebabyguynyc.com, find him on Facebook (facebook.com/thebabyguynyc) or follow him on Twitter (@TheBabyGuyNYC). April 2011 | New York Family

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Smart Solutions Tool Kit for Working Mothers “I adore this all-in-one life organizer for women who are going back to work after their children are born. The kit includes a daily baby log, menu planner, immunization record and CPR magnet, and there’s also a CD with templates to help you navigate the most difficult topics with your employer, such as Alternative Work Schedule Agreement, Pumping Space Proposal and Work Re-Entry Guide. A kit that helps us advocate for the working mom? Genius!” (smartsolutiontoolkit.com) —Rebecca Martin, producer of New York Family’s New Parents Expo

their baby's arrival with the Tommee Tippee Closer to Nature Starter Set, which includes two different size bottles, formula dispensers and a bottle and nipple cleaner to meet the feeding needs of a newborn.” (toysrus.com) —Paul Desiderioscioli, vice president, divisional merchandising manager, consumables and infant care, Babies"R"Us 4Moms Mamaroo Infant Seat/Bouncer “Five unique motions make this swing and bouncer all-in-one, giving new moms’ arms a much needed rest.” (buybuybaby.com) —Meka Millstone-Shroff, spokesperson for buybuy BABY

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Dwell Counting Birds Wooden Puzzle “This classic, colorful puzzle is a great educational activity for kids, plus it showcases Dwell’s signature style.” (dwell.com) Skip Hop Treetop Friends Crib Bedding Collection

Arm's Reach Mini Co-Sleeper Bassinet “This bassinet is perfect for breastfeeding moms and parents who want their little ones close by, but not in the bed. It’s a wonderful item because it’s light weight and can be moved all around an apartment with ease.” (armsreach.com) —MaryAnn Zoellner, producer, Today’s Moms Tommee Tippee Closer to Nature Starter Set “Expectant parents can rest assured that they’re prepared for

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“Skip Hop is known for its innovative designs and high-quality products. I love their latest bedding pattern, which is adorable for both boys and girls. Who can resist those owls?” (skiphop.com)

Beaba Babycook “Making your own baby food becomes a lot less daunting with Beaba’s Babycook compact countertop appliance. It steams and mashes food for you, it’s easy to operate (even for the sleep deprived), eco-friendly and even a little fun. No promise your baby will eat pureed peas, but at least you know you are giving it your very best shot.” (beabausa.com) —Nicole Feliciano, parenting style expert at Mom Trends (momtrends.com)

Isoki “New Yorker” Hobo Reversible Diaper Bag “Featuring a metallic bronze finish on one side and a colorful, daytime pattern on the other, this diaper bag epitomizes New York style. It’s even chic enough to wear on its own after your baby is out of diapers.” (isokiusa.com)

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taying healthy during pregnancy is a priority for every mom-to-be. For advice, we turned to a few NYC experts who specialize in prenatal fitness and health—Sheryl Wilson, CPT, Esq. and the founder of Fitnotic; Julianna Sechhes, director of prenatal yoga at Karma Kids Yoga; and Anna Merrill, co-owner of Birthday Presence, a Lamaze-certified childbirth educator and DONA-certified labor support doula.

DO work up a sweat. Exercise during pregnancy has numerous benefits for moms-to-be, including a more comfortable pregnancy with less aches and pains, a shorter and easier labor and a quicker return to pre-pregnancy shape. Exercise can also decrease the risk of developing complications like gestational diabetes or high blood pressure. Merrill recommends that pregnant women try to engage in some form of physical activity for 30 minutes most days of the week (walking counts!). DON’T overdo it. Women who weren’t exercising regularly before their pregnancy should keep their routines simple. However, just because a woman wasn’t an athlete before becoming pregnant doesn’t mean she can’t get moving. “Women who previously were not very active can slowly increase the duration of their daily walks, or try swimming or a yoga class,” says Merill. “Pregnancy can serve as a great motivator for improving health!”

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Experts recommend that all pregnant women stay away from high-intensity exercise, contact sports or any activity with a high potential for falling, as a woman’s center of gravity changes during pregnancy. “A good rule of thumb is that expectant moms should be able to carry on a conversation throughout their workout,” says Wilson. Merrill also advises that after the first trimester, any activity where the mom-to-be is lying on her back should be avoided. DO find your Zen. Calming exercises like yoga help women not only strengthen their bodies and improve flexibility, but also to de-stress and connect with their babies. “It’s important to connect mom and baby early on,” Sechhes says. “The stronger the bond, the better the pregnancy will be.” DO drink up. Staying hydrated is important for everyone, but it’s especially imperative during pregnancy, as water helps to carry nutrients through

the blood to the baby. “Aside from alleviating side effects like nausea, constipation and swelling, water may help prevent urinary tract infections and the onset of premature labor,” says Wilson, who recommends that momsto-be try to drink a minimum of eight glasses of water each day and carry a bottle of water with them at all times. DON’T obsess over the scale. While it’s a good thing to be mindful of your weight gain, constantly stepping on the scale can be a source of unnecessary stress. “My advice is to listen only to your health care provider,” says Wilson. “If [he or she] isn’t concerned about your weight, you shouldn’t be either. Stay as active as possible, eat sensibly, take your vitamins and embrace your beautiful prenatal body.” DO get together. Pairing up with another mom-to-be or joining a prenatal fitness class is a great way to share your experience and create a support system. “Pregnancy can be overwhelming and isolating at times,” says Sechhes. “We encourage expectant moms to connect with each other and to surround themselves with people they trust, from the obstetrician to the fitness instructor.” r www.newyorkfamily.com

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Baby Blunders Common Mistakes New Parents Of Multiples (Okay, all New Parents) Often Make By Natalie Diaz So you’ve read every pregnancy and newborn book, you’ve baby-proofed your entire apartment and you’ve washed all the onesies you received at your baby shower in eco-friendly laundry detergent. But wait! There are some common mistakes new parents of multiples (and singletons, too) often make that you can avoid with just a little bit of forethought: Running Out Of Supplies. No one wants to make a midnight drug store run for formula, diapers or nipple cream! Making sure that you have at least one week’s supply of staples like these will make your life easier. Twins will go through more than 120 diapers a week in the beginning, so be prepared! Keep spare tubes of diaper cream, bottles of baby wash and lotion—and even Tylenol for you. Confusing The Babies. (Parents of singletons, don’t skip this!) Keep a log of who ate, how much, and when; who slept, how long, and when; and who had a dirty diaper and when. Sleep deprivation plays some tricky games on you, and keeping a log enables you to keep track of how each child is progressing over the course of each day. Also, if your kids are taking any medications or vitamins, this is the best way to make sure they get their proper doses. Mixing Up Your Priorities. Making dinner for your boss who is coming over to visit the babies is not a priority. Keeping your bathroom as clean as an operating room is not a priority. Catching up on old episodes of “How I Met Your Mother”… okay, that may have made my priority list. But you get the

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point. Keep chores and errands in perspective and don’t worry about doing anything for anyone (except the babies, of course) for a while. Not much is expected from parents of newborns, so take advantage of everyone’s low expectations—this is your chance to use your Get Out Of Jail Free card! Hesitating On Help. When your fifth cousin calls to congratulate you on the birth of your babies and says, “Please let me know if you need anything,” don’t chime back, “I will, thanks so much for offering!” Instead, say, “You want to help, how wonderful! How’s Tuesday at 3?” Take advantage of help from family and friends who offer. And when they come over, they don’t have to hold the babies the whole time—let them empty the dishwasher or fold the laundry. Family and friends will flock to help in the beginning, but after a few months your home may feel like an Old West ghost town. So put ‘em to work while the shine is still on the apple! Neglecting Your Marriage. Don’t forget that these babies didn’t just make themselves! Check in with your partner every day, and don’t forget to kiss each other goodnight (even if the sun is up because the babies never slept). You chose to have babies with this person for a reason; try to remember it as often as you can. A mom of twins herself, Natalie Diaz is the founder of Twiniversity, a free online community for parents of multiples. For more info, visit twiniversity.com. www.newyorkfamily.com

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NEW PARENT RESOURCES Maternity Clothing Stores

Ann Taylor LOFT, various locations in Manhattan, 1-888-LOFT-444, anntaylorloft.com A Pea in the Pod, 151 West 34th Street, 212-244-6126, apeainthepod.com Destination Maternity, 28 East 57th Street, 212-588-0220, destinationmaternity.com Jane’s Exchange, 191 East 3rd Street, 212-677-0380, janesexchangenyc.com Liz Lange Maternity Boutique, 958 Madison Avenue, 212-879-2191 Madison Rose, Multiple locations in Brooklyn, madisonrosematernity.com Motherhood Maternity, 641 6th Avenue, 212-741-3488, motherhood.com Rosie Pope Maternity, 1265 Madison Avenue, 212-608-2036, rosiepopematernity.com Veronique Maternity, 1321 Madison Avenue, 212-831-7800, veronique.com

Baby Clothing, Supplies & Furniture ABC Carpet and Home, 888 Broadway, 212-473-3000, abchome.com Albee Baby, 715 Amsterdam Avenue, 212-662-8902, albeebaby.com Babies R Us, 24-30 Union Square East, 212-798-9905, babiesrus.com Baby Depot, 707 6th Avenue, 212-2291300, babydepot.com Bellini Baby and Teen Furniture, 1305 2nd Avenue, 212-517-9233, bellini.com Bonne Nuit, 1193 Lexington Avenue, 212-472-7300 Bu and the Duck, 106 Franklin Street, 212-431-9226, buandtheduck.com Bundle, 128 Thompson Street, 212-9829465, bundlenyc.com Buy Buy Baby, 270 7th Avenue, 917344-1555, buybuybaby.com Calypso, 407 Broome Street, 212-9419700, calypso-celle.com Capucine, 20 Harrison Street, 212-2194030 Catimini, 1125 Madison Avenue, 212987-0688, catimini.com Ducduc, 523 Broadway #206, 212-2261868, ducducnyc.com Estella, 493 6th Avenue, 212-255-3553, estella-nyc.com giggle, various locations in Manhattan, 1-800-495-8577, giggle.com Granny Made, 381 Amsterdam Avenue, 212-496-1222, grannymade.com Ibiza Kids, 61 4th Avenue, 212-3759984, ibizakidz.com Jacadi, 1260 Third Avenue, 212-7179292, jacadiusa.com kidssupply.com La Layette Et Plus, 170 East 61st Street, 212-431-9226, lalayette.com Lester’s, 1534 Second Avenue, 212-7349292, lestersnyc.com Lucky Kid Store, 127 Prince Street, 212466-0849, luckybrand.com/kids Magic Windows, 1186 Madison Avenue, 212-289-0028, magicwindowskids.com Mish Mish, 1435 Lexington Avenue, 212-996-6474

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Obaibi, 1296 Madison Avenue, 212-3698125, okaidi.com Petit Batea, 1094 Madison Avenue, 212988-8884, petit-bateau.us Pink Olive, 439 East 9th Street, 212780-0036, pinkoliveboutique.com Planet Kids, 247 East 86th Street, 212426-2040, planetkidsny.com Ralph Lauren, 872 Madison Avenue, 212-434-8082, ralphlauren.com Schneider’s, 41 West 25th Street, 212228-3540, schneidersbaby.com Skip Hop, skiphop.com Soho Baby, 251 Elizabeth Street, 212625-8538, sohobaby.com SR Kids, 1310 Madison Avenue, 212929-6521

Childbirth Education, Breastfeeding & Infant CPR Classes: Birthday Presence, Manhattan: 580 Broadway, Suite 304; Brooklyn: 291 8th Street, 917-751-6579, birthdaypresence.net JCC in Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Avenue, 646-505-4444, jccmanhattan.org Little Hearts CPR, 688 6th Avenue, Suite 202, 212-691-5989, littleheartscpr. com MomPrep, Rosie Pope Maternity, 212423-5815, rosiepopematernity.com/ momprep Diana Simkin, Upper East Side locations, 212-348-0208 92nd Street Y, 1395 Lexington Avenue, 212-415-5500, 92y.org

Breastfeeding Support Boing Boing, 204 6th Avenue, Brooklyn, 718-398-0251, boingboingmaternity.com La Leche League of Manhattan, various locations, lllusa.org Upper Breast Side 135 West 70th Street, 212 873-2653, upperbreastside.com Yummy Mummy, 1201 Lexington Avenue, 212-87-YUMMY, yummymummystore.com

Parenting Classes & Groups 92nd Street Y, 1395 Lexington Avenue, 212-415-5500, 92y.org Baby Bites, Manhattan: 646-258-3907; Brooklyn: 917-596-2902, babybitesnyc. com Big City Moms, 917-488-8542, bigcitymoms.com Divalysscious Moms, 917-601-0068, divamoms.com Executive Moms, 917-715-1115, executivemoms.com JCC in Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Avenue, 646-505-4444, jccmanhattan.org Manhattan Twins Club, 212-774-7488, manhattantwinsclub.org Parents League of New York, 115 East 82nd Street #1C, 212-737-7385, parentsleague.org Parents Without Partners, P.O. Box 1066, Staten Island, 718-816-5370, parentswithoutpartners.org Park Slope Parents, parkslopeparents.com

Seedlings Group, 212-966-7273, seedlingsgroup.com Soho Parenting, 568 Bzroadway, Suite 402, 212-334-3744, sohoparenting.com

Pre- and Postnatal Fitness East Side Tae Kwon Do, 325 East 65th Street, 212-755-5982, eastsidetaekwondo.com Fitnotic, locations vary, fitnotic.com Karma Kids Yoga, 104 West 14th Street, 646-638-1444, karmakidsyoga.com Maternal Fitness, 108 East 16th Street, 4th Floor, 212-353-1947, maternalfitness.com Prenatal Massage Center, 123 West 79th Street, Suite LL2, 212-330-6846, prenatalmassagecenter.com Prenatal Yoga Center, 251 West 72nd Street, Suite 2F, 212-362-2985, prenatalyogacenter.com Reebok Sports Club/NY, 160 Columbus Avenue, 212-362-6800; 330 East 61st Street, 212-355-5100; 45 Rockefeller Plaza, 212-218-8600; thesportscluba. com Spa Bebe, 180 East 16th Street, Fourth Floor, 212-353-1547, maternalfitness. com Strollercize Inc., 800-Y-STROLL, strollercize.com Tribeca Med Spa, 114 Hudson Street, 212-925-9500, tribecamedspa.com

Nanny, Daycare & Babysitter Absolute Best Care Nanny Services, 274 Madison Avenue, Suite 503, 212481-5705, absolutebestcare.com Bright Minds Day Care and Nursery School, 49 White Street, 212-920-1014, brightmindnyc.com InterExchange/Au Pair USA, 161 Sixth Avenue, 212-924-0446, aupairusa.org New York Nanny Center, Inc., 250 West 57th Street, Suite 2330, 212-265-3354, nynanny.com Philippino Placement Services, 5 West 46th Street, Suite 501, 212-398-3799 Pinch Sitter Agency, 799 Broadway, Suite 204, 212-260-6005, nypinchsitters.com River School, 75 West End Avenue, 212707-8300, theriverschool.com Sensible Sitters, 175 East 96th Street Suite 27M, 646-485-5121, sensiblesitters.com Sitter City, 888-211-9749, sittercity.com Star America, 780 Eighth Avenue, 212262-4896, starpreschool.com Tutor Time, 776 Sixth Avenue, 212-6835020, tutortime.com For more new parent resources, visit newyorkfamily.com. www.newyorkfamily.com

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School will be out before you know it, which means now’s the time to start thinking about summer classes. Luckily, whether they’re looking to create a work of art, learn a new language, practice their swing or say “ohm,” there’s a class to suit every summer-loving city kid:

KIDS AT WORK

Chelsea’s Kids at Work brings its music classes to the park with Sun Sessions! Sun Sessions take place under shady trees in Hudson River Park and Washington Square Park from June—August. Taught by two teachers (including a guitarist), Sun Sessions are all drop-in classes. (kidsatworknyc.com)

DASHA WELLNESS

Get your game on with Generation D, Dasha’s individualized fitness program for kids. Classes improve kids’ athletic skills while instilling a lasting dedication to healthy eating, fitness and mental and physical health. Programs are customized to the strengths, weaknesses and interests of each child. (dashawellness.com)

CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF MANHATTAN

This summer, kids ages 3-4 can explore the natural world around them in a series of classes that focus on a different theme each month. Members of the Eco Kids Club will engage in interactive stories, science experiments and art projects. Kids ages 4-5 can join the Science Squad and participate in more in-depth, hands-on experiments using live specimens and www.newyorkfamily.com

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ART FARM IN THE CITY

Get ready to mix, measure and create as Mini Chef brings their “Culinary Playground” to The Art Farm! Kids will learn about good nutrition and creating yummy local and global cuisine through hands-on cooking activities. (theartfarms.org)

THE EARLY EAR

At The Early Ear, highly-skilled music teachers and pianists work together to introduce the magical world of music to children. In a warm and friendly atmosphere, kids engage in singalongs, movement and musical games and form music ensembles with friends. (theearlyear.com)

BALLET ACADEMY EAST

The BAE Summer Ballet Program offers classes for both the beginner and experienced dancer. The Primary Class (ages 6-7) and the Enrichment Class (ages 8-10) introduce basic ballet steps (no prior experience or auditions necessary). Other classes for students in Levels 1-4 are offered several times a week. (balletacademyeast.com)

KARMA KIDS YOGA

Karma Kids Yoga’s StoryTime class for infants6-year-olds combines puppets and yoga poses for a magical story time experience. As you read, you’ll come across animals and elements of nature that you know from yoga—you’ll pause, do the yoga pose, then continue with the story! (karmakidsyoga.com)

players, kids will learn advanced strokes, participate in rallying drills and match play with coaching, speed and agility training. Junior Tennis & Sports Camp for ages 6-14 is also available, providing professional tennis instruction with a variety of team sports including soccer, softball, flag football and lacrosse. (sportimeny.com)

JOFFREY BALLET SCHOOL

The Joffrey’s rigorous Ballet Intensive, offered for ages 12 and up, exposes young dancers to performances by companies like the American Ballet Theater and New York City Ballet. The one- to eightweek course culminates in a student performance at a local theater. For ages 10-14, a Dance Camp prepares students working towards pointe with both barre and center exercises. At Summer Dance Camp for ages 3-9, kids are introduced to dance using arts, crafts, music and food. (joffreyballetschool.com)

74TH ST. MAGIC

MAGIC’s Busy Bee Time is a unique “on my own” class that gives children ages 2-3.5 years the opportunity to explore a variety of activities including art, music, movement, cooking, science, games, stories and dramatic play. A firsttime separation class, Busy Bee is a nurturing, small-group environment that allows children to gain confidence in their independence in preparation for nursery school. (74magic.com)

SPORTIME RANDALL’S ISLAND

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92ND ST. Y

Specially designed for energetic youngsters ages 4-6 who like all kinds of physical activities, 92Y’s new, twice-weekly Olympic Kids classes offer a variety of instruction in KidSports, junior gymnastics and swimming. It’s an ideal way for children to experience different sports in a smallgroup setting. Each session also includes a daily snack and story break. (92Y.org)

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Let the kids rock out this summer with “songs for seeds,” the 12-week music program that encourages babies and children up to age 5 to dance, play and sing along with a live threepiece band. Kids will learn about instruments like guitars, keyboards and drums, and practice counting, animal sounds, nursery rhymes and more. (klub4kidz.com)

APPLE SEEDS

Little book lovers are invited to join apple seeds this summer for their bookworms program! Children ages 2.5-4 years will share observations and participate in activities and projects that bring each story to life. They’ll explore faraway places, make new friends, learn and most importantly share quality time with parents and caregivers. (appleseedsnyc.com)

GYMBOREE PLAY & MUSIC

Kids ages 2.5-5 years enrolled in Summer Bubble Camp, a two-hour drop-off program, enjoy playtime in the gym, music, art, science, story time and a snack. All families who enroll will also receive free Open PlayGym passes, and Manhattan families who enroll will also receive a free weekly Play & Learn class. (gymboreeclasses.com)

JCC IN MANHATTAN

Kids ages 6-10 with spare time between school and camp can join the JCC in Manhattan for the all-new 10 Days 10 Ways: JCC NYC Adventurers. Children will spend their days exploring the city by foot, by train, by tram, by bus and by boat. The two-week session will include an expedition over the Brooklyn Bridge to waterfront fun in Brooklyn Bridge Park, a scavenger hunt through the Green Market in Union Square to buy supplies for a “top chef” class and much more! (jccmanhattan.org)

ASPHALT GREEN

AG’s Summer Swim Camps are a perfect way to cool off and beat the summer heat. Separated into the Manta Ray Group (ages 7-10) and the Barracuda Group (ages 11-15), kids will learn four competitive strokes, gradually increase their speed and prepare for competition. The camp includes two pool sessions

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and a field trip, a video analysis, lunch and a camp t-shirt. (asphaltgreen.com)

APPLAUSE NEW YORK CITY

Camp Applause is hosting week-long theatre camps this summer! Each week, children will cycle through classes such as acting, singing, set design, audition technique, Broadway dance, hip-hop, acting for TV, costume design and so much more. Different weekly themes and a visit from a Broadway star are highlights of each session. (applauseny.com)

GYMTIME RHYTHM & GLUES

Held at the Field House at Chelsea Piers, CP’s Micro Sports class is designed to introduce preschoolers ages 3-5 to a variety of sports. The class incorporates the fun of movement, teamwork, sportsmanship and muscle coordination. Sports include soccer, rock climbing, tee-ball, basketball and field games. (chelseapiers.com)

Besides a variety of gymnastics, music, art and cooking classes, kids can sign up for the new “Lil’ Ruggers” program, the nation’s first-ever rugbyinspired enrichment program for kids ages 3-11. Class includes circle time, warmups, stretches, drills and a short game that incorporates skills like running, catching, passing and kicking. (gymtime.net)

JODI’S GYM

Jodi’s Gym is celebrating 29 years of fun, friends and fitness this summer! Try any of their classes: Teeny Tumblers (6-11 months), Mighty Muscle Movers (1235 months), Rockin’ Rollers (12-35 months), Tumbling Tots (3-5 years) or FUN-tastic Gymnastics (grades K-2). Families enjoy free playtimes as part of their enrollment! (jodisgym.com)

SCHOOL AT STEPS

The Young Dancers Summer Program is designed to introduce kids ages 2-6 to creative movement and rhythm through the use of their imagination and body coordination. Older kids concentrate on ballet techniques, combining theater, jazz and strengthening exercises like Pilates. (stepsnyc.com)

THREE LITTLE BIRDS

Work never sounded like so much fun! TLB’s spring/summer curriculum, “Joey Gets a Job,” will have students exploring professions through music. Throughout the session, children will sing, play and learn about jobs like mailman, ballet dancer, taxi driver, doctor, and weatherman while meeting over 20 classical and folk instruments. (tlbmusic.com)

KIDVILLE

This summer, kids ages 18-24 months and 2 years can join Kidville for Color Splash, a “creation vacation” during which little ones will make beautiful summer souvenirs using paint, collage and sculpture. Water tables and sand trays make for indoor “beach” play (without the sunscreen or traffic!). (kidville.com)

CITIBABES

This summer, Citibabes is combining two of its favorite classes, CitiArt and CitiSongs, into one special class for mixed ages: CitiMix! While older kids (2-3.5 years) enjoy being creative, making a mess, and having fun in a class designed for little artists, the younger ones (18-24 months) will join a Citibabes’ teacher for a musical singa-long of traditional children’s songs, rock, folk and more. Then, after half an hour, the groups will swap! (citibabes.com)

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camps this summer! Each week, children will cycle through classes such as acting, singing, set design, audition technique, Broadway dance, hip-hop, acting for TV, costume design and so much more. Different weekly themes and a visit from a Broadway star are highlights of each session. (applauseny.com)

Gymtime Rhythm & Glues

Besides a variety of gymnastics, music, art and cooking classes, kids can sign up for the new “Lil’ Ruggers” program, the nation’s first-ever rugby-inspired enrichment program for kids ages 3-11. Class includes circle time, warmups, stretches, drills and a short game that incorporates skills like running, catching, passing and kicking. (gymtime.net)

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Work never sounded like so much fun! TLB’s spring/ summer curriculum, “Joey Gets a Job,” will have students exploring professions through music. Throughout the session, children will sing, play and learn about jobs like mailman, ballet dancer, taxi driver, doctor, and weatherman while meeting over 20 classical and folk instruments. (tlbmusic.com)

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Jodi’s Gym is celebrating 29 years of fun, friends and fitness this summer! Try any of their classes: Teeny Tumblers (6-11 months), Mighty Muscle Movers (12-35 months), Rockin’ Rollers (12-35 months), Tumbling Tots (3-5 years) or FUN-tastic Gymnastics (grades K-2). Families enjoy free playtimes as part of their enrollment! (jodisgym.com)

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Super Soccer Stars’ Kick It! Day Camp immerses children ages 6-12 in a fun outdoor camp atmosphere. Campers will participate in activities like “soccer tennis,” “soccer bowling,” and individual and partner activities that will teach soccer skills, build self-confidence and promote sportsmanship. Campers will also learn about legendary soccer players and have the opportunity to play in a World Cup Tournament. (supersoccerstars.com)

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School’s out but creativity is in at Make Meaning’s Creativity Camp Kickoff! Kids ages 8-11 can gear up for camp with an assortment of handmade accessories—or start off a summer in the city by making custom jewelry and new friends! Creative experiences will include friendship bracelets, personalized stationery, a keepsake book to fill with summer memories and more. (makemeaning.com)

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ESWS Music Together’s Babies Only classes for infants under eight months old are a one-semester introduction to the Music Together program. Activities and materials are specially designed for parents who want to learn about musical development in infants. (eswsmusictogether.com)

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Discovery Programs’ “Almost On My Own” program for toddlers is a wonderful way to introduce almost-2 and 2-year-olds to an informal nursery experience in a warm, safe and playful environment. Each session includes a mix of classroom time and active play. (discoveryprograms.com)

KicK & play

A new program from the creators of Super Soccer Stars, Kick & Play is a parent-child pre-soccer and movement program for toddlers between 12-24 months. Experienced instructors provide individual attention, positive reinforcement and engaging original music to help toddlers learn to balance, run, kick and play—all while having a blast! (kickandplay.com)

Kids can participate in one- and two-week day camp sessions with CMA’s award-winning Summer Art Colony. Led by professional teaching artists, either at the museum in SoHo or on Governor’s Island. Classes include both fine art and media art, including painting, abstract art, sculpture, hand-drawn animation, stop-motion animation and food films. (cmany.org)

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The Summer Music Institute at Diller-Quaile School of Music immerses students ages 8-18 in a week of musical enrichment. The program provides individual attention to students as they engage in varied ensemble experiences. The Summer Music Institute’s comprehensive curriculum nurtures students’ love of music and fosters excitement for their instruments. (diller-quaile.org)

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This summer, Kids In Sports is offering a variety of half- and full-day indoor and outdoor camps in several locations—including Temple Israel, Randall’s Island and All Souls Church—for children ages 2.5-10 years. (kisnyc.com)

A summer camp offers a variety of sessions for kids ages 2-5. Kids will focus on music and movement using song, dance and musical instruments; create original artwork; explore science; and go on special outings. Campers will also take advantage of the outdoor play area and jungle gym. (columbusgymnyc.com)

Kids will have fun and learn a new language with the Berlitz Summer Camp program, which engages children in a fun, educational curriculum designed just for them. Teen programs are also available. (berlitz.us)

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Art enthusiasts ages four and up can join Kids at Art for week-long, half-day workshops all summer long! In addition to drawing, painting and collage, classes will include special projects such as mask-making, puppet-making, claybuilding and papier mache. (kidsatartnyc.com) www.newyorkfamily.com

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24 months. Experienced instructors (along with puppet friends Mimi & Pepe) provide individual attention, positive reinforcement and engaging original music to help toddlers learn to balance, run, kick and play—all while having a blast! (kickandplay.com)

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A summer camp offers a variety of sessions for kids ages 2-5. Kids will focus on music and movement using song, dance and musical instruments; create original artwork; explore the science behind air, water, sand and plants; and go on special outings. Campers will also take advantage of the outdoor play area and jungle gym, and receive gymnastic instruction inside the fully-equipped facility. (columbusgymnyc.com)

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Kids can participate in one- and two-week day camp sessions with CMA’s award-winning Summer Art Colony. Led by professional teaching artists, the camp will focus on fun arts programs either at the museum in SoHo or on Governor’s Island. Classes include both fine art and media art, including painting, abstract art, sculpture, hand-drawn animation, stop-motion animation and food films. (cmany.org)

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Baseball and basketball and football, oh my! This summer, Kids In Sports is offering a variety of half- and full-day indoor and outdoor camps in several locations—including Temple Israel, Randall’s Island and All Souls Church—for children ages 2.5-10 years. (kisnyc.com)

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Super Soccer Stars’ Kick It! Day Camp immerses children ages 6-12 in a fun outdoor camp atmosphere. Campers will participate in activities

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like “soccer tennis,” “soccer bowling,” and individual and partner activities that will teach soccer skills, build self-confidence and promote sportsmanship. Each day will feature a talent showcase where campers and coaches will have the opportunity to show off their skills! Campers will also learn about legendary soccer players and have the opportunity to play in a World Cup Tournament. (supersoccerstars.com)

The Summer Music Institute at Diller-Quaile School of Music immerses students ages 8-18 in a week of musical enrichment filled with fun and motivating challenges. The program provides individual attention to students as they engage in varied ensemble experiences. The Summer Music Institute’s comprehensive curriculum nurtures students’ love of music and fosters excitement for their instruments. (diller-quaile.org)

EASTSIDE WESTSIDE MUSIC TOGETHER ESWS Music Together’s Babies Only classes for infants under eight months old are a one-semester introduction to the Music Together program. Activities and materials are specially designed for parents who want to learn about musical development in infants. Meet other parents of newborns and learn fun music activities you can recreate at home with your baby. (eswsmusictogether.com)

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Kids will have fun and learn a new language with the Berlitz Summer Camp program, which engages children in a fun, educational curriculum designed just for them. Get ready to see real progress and kids genuinely excited about the language! Teen programs are also available. (berlitz.us)

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xperiencing the outdoors enhances children’s ability learn, lead and enjoy nature, as well as gain a lifelong interest in caring for the planet. But parents who want to be sure their kids know a toad from a frog and a catfish from a crawfish don’t need to go it alone. Camp programs are among the best ways for children to get to know Mother Nature first-hand. A TOAD OR A FROG? Take James, for example. James and the natural world had only a passing acquaintance, so his parents sent him to a camp in the woods. “We have a little potato patch down by the river, and the kids can catch a trout in the river and dig up potatoes and bring them back to camp, learning what it’s like to live off the land,” explains Sandy Schenk, owner and director of Green River Preserve camp in Cedar Mountain, North Carolina. “When James’s parents came to pick him up at week’s end, he dragged his duffle bag across the parking lot, gave his mom and dad a big hug, and fished out his prize from camp—a huge potato—and gave it to his father. He was so proud. He had made a connection between the earth and food, and you could just see the light bulbs turn on.” Almost all camps incorporate hikes and nature activities, and some go the extra mile to immerse kids in nature and the environment. Green River Preserve is one such camp. It specializes in helping children better understand the earth through daily activities with professional naturalists on a 3,400-acre nature preserve. “We find that getting kids into the natural world is transformational,” says Schenk. “Nature’s a magnificent teacher because everyone is treated the same. When you see kids helping each other over a slippery rock wall, it’s amazing. We see each child come out of the program with a greater understanding of nature and a better sense of self.” Eagles’ Nest Camp in Pisgah Forest, North Carolina, has been teaching kids to take care of the natural world for decades. “In our Explorer’s Club class, kids are out in the woods, streams and bushes, really getting a feel for the amazing biodiversity of the Northern Appalachians,” explains Noni Waite-Kucera, executive director of Eagle’s Nest Foundation. “To have kids be able to explore and be a part of that is a real gift for them.” Eagle’s Nest also sponsors camp craft classes, helping children learn to read a map, build a fire and “leave no trace.” “We teach every camper how to respect and avoid making an impact on the environment,” she says. Even an earth art class uses items found in the forest for woodland sculptures, which campers then leave behind to biodegrade and contribute to the health of the forest ecosystem. YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT Environmental programs don’t always take place exclusively in the outdoors. Enter the kitchen! The Whole Kitchen program at Eagle’s Nest Camp uses holistic ingredients, fresh foods, whole grains and local produce. “We grind our flour from wheat berries, and the kids make bread,” Waite-Kucera says. “It’s a way to show how nature provides for us, and why we need to return the favor.” www.newyorkfamily.com

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Sometimes, a camp’s location can provide built-in environmental lessons. At Windsor Mountain (formerly Interlocken), camp life centers around a small farm and camp garden nestled in the foothills of New Hampshire on the edge of a 4,000-acre nature preserve. “We offer kids a chance to get their feet wet in the morning dew, to feel the grass under their feet, to lie down in the field and look up at the stars,” says Sarah Herman, director of the camp. “Our activities help them understand how Mother Nature is delicate and why we care about helping to protect her.” Campers harvest vegetables from the garden for the salad bar and help take care of the farm animals. ART AND NATURE Campers at Windsor Mountain can also go directly into the marsh to learn about its animal habitats, into the woods to create natural art, or on a bog-wading ecological adventure. For older youth, three-day, off-campus trips take campers backpacking, mountain climbing, rafting and more, all with an eye toward building awareness about their natural surroundings. Campers leave with an enhanced appreciation of the outdoors, and some even take environmental skills into their own communities. “One of our campers who enjoyed our garden wrote to tell us that he’s volunteering his time to a community garden project,” Herman says. Camping Specialist Gary Forster of YMCA USA says camps are an ideal setting for creating environmental awareness in our children. “Children seeing animals in a natural setting for more than just a day and understanding how their choices have an impact on all systems of life is just the beginning,” he says. “From awareness grows an appreciation, and from that standpoint, we see children who are ready to act.” For more information about finding the right camp and how to prepare for camp, visit the ACA’s website for families, campparents.org, or call their toll-free number, 1-800-428-CAMP. Reprinted by permission of the American Camp Association © 2006 article originally printed in CAMP Magazine, American Camping Association, Inc. April 2011 | New York Family

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ost people hear “summer camp” and think rope bridges, capture the flag, bonfires and s’mores. But for thousands of kids these days, “summer camp” conjures images more like those you’ll find in Disney’s popular “Camp Rock”: learning lines, practicing scales, rehearsing, rehearsing, rehearsing— and ultimately, basking in the warm glow of the spotlight. “We want kids who love theater and are passionate about it to feel like they fit in and that this is a place where they can realize their potential and their dreams,” says Konnie Kittrell, production director at Stagedoor Manor, a performing arts training camp in the Catskills known for famous alums like Natalie Portman and Robert Downey, Jr. Founded in 1975 by Carl Samuelson and his wife Elsie, Stagedoor Manor offers three-week sessions filled with classes in acting, voice, television and dance for campers ages 10 to18 of all levels and experience. Make no mistake—a summer at Stagedoor is a summer of hard work.

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However, Kittrell believes that children who are truly passionate about performing are ready and more than willing to work hard. “For the true performer, the actual training—the process and the learning—is more exciting than the actual performance,” she says. Kids interested in performing arts camp don’t necessarily have to look outside the city. Applause New York City, the popular year-round music and drama program based on the Upper East Side, offers week-long day camps in summer. “We offer eight different weeks, and kids can take one week or all eight,” says Audrey Kaplan, founder of Applause NYC. “A lot of our kids go to sleepaway camp, but we felt there was a need for kids in the city who don’t go away for a two-month period of time but want one or two weeks of something specialized that they can focus on.” At Camp Applause, kids participate in all different types of performing arts classes including acting, music, singing

and dancing. Best of all, each week provides something new and different, with themes to match. “We might have an American Idol week, followed by a Western week,” Kaplan says. In fact, at Camp Applause, one of the main objectives is to have fun, and any child with any level of interest or experience in the performing arts is welcome. “I don’t think you have to want it as a career. A lot of kids come in with friends and just think it will be fun,” Kaplan says. “That’s the best part of having it one week at a time—you don’t have to fill your whole summer with it.” This year, however, Applause NYC will offer a sleepaway camp option for kids who do feel passionate about the performing arts and want to make them a substantial part of their summer. They’ll be running their performing arts programs for theater-loving campers at Camp Med-O-Lark in Washington, Maine, this summer. “There are so many kids who want that feeling of being away, that independence and freedom, and that’s www.newyorkfamily.com

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something we can’t necessarily offer in the city,” Kaplan says. “If you want to do theater for most of your day, but still want to be able to enjoy camp life, then this is a great fit.” Young musicians looking to hone their skills may find Camp Encore/Coda in Sweden, Maine, to be a great choice. The 62-year-old music camp combines elements of a community music school and a summer camp, creating a musically intense but fun environment. “You have the full range of musical activities—band, orchestra, chorus, jazz band, rock band, musical theatre, private lessons—in combination with traditional camp activities like sports, swimming, building, hiking, campfires, cookouts and mosquitoes,” says camp director Jamie Saltman. “Our camp gets its flavor from the combination of these things.” Campers at Encore/Coda can schedule their three- to six-and-a-half-week sessions according to their musical skills and preferences. While there is a range of interest and skill among campers, all kids who wish to attend the camp must have taken private lessons or received class instruction in music for at least one year before they can enroll in the summer program. They must also be participating in an ensemble in order to qualify as a good candidate. “Encore is not a place for someone who just likes to listen to music; they have to be playing it,” Saltman says. According to Saltman, the study of music is a metaphor for how one approaches life. “The issues we address when working with a child in a musical setting are absolutely applicable to life—the idea that you work at something a little bit every day and you get better at it,” he says. “The more you work at it, the more fun it is, and the better you get at it, the more you can share it with other people.” All summer camps have the potential to positively influence the kids who attend them by allowing them to be independent, form tight social communities and build confidence in an environment away from home. But Kittrell maintains that, for the right kids, performing arts camps offer something extra special. “Like in ‘High School Musical’ or ‘Glee,’ those kids who are interested in performance are a lot of times on the disadvantage because they’re misunderstood,” she says. “But when you’re at a camp where everyone believes in the same things you do, it validates your passion and helps you understand that you’re not different, you’re just part of a different group.”

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BLOSSOMING BEAUTY [All Ages]

This month, families can enjoy the blossoming flowers of spring at the Brooklyn Botanic Garden, which is known for its observance of Hanami— the Japanese tradition of celebrating cherry blossom season. The BBG, which boasts the largest collection of flowering cherry trees outside of Japan, invites families to weekend tours of the gardens throughout April. On April 30th and May 1st, the season of Hanami will culminate with the annual Sakura Matsuri Festival, a two-day celebration of Japanese culture and the season of spring. At the festival, which hosts tens of thousands of visitors each year, families can experience Japanese culture through music, dance, martial arts, workshops and demonstrations and children’s programming. The festival will take place from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. 900 Washington Avenue, 718-623-7200; bbg.org.

April 2 & 3

UP, UP AND AWAY! [Ages 3 to 5]

The Little Orchestra Society’s Lolli-Pops kids concerts invite children to discover new musical genres in a relaxed and fun-filled setting. On April 2nd and 3rd, families can check out “Up, Up And Away with the Woodwinds,” a musical adventure that allows children to experience the musical culture of China, Holland, Africa and Brazil and introduce them to composers like Mozart and Tchaikovsky. Performances are designed for children ages 3 to 5 and will take place on Saturday at 10:30 a.m. and 12 p.m. and on Sunday at 1 p.m. and 2:30 p.m. The Kaye Playhouse, Hunter College, 68th Street between Park and Lexington Avenues, 212-971-9500; littleorchestra.org.

April 9

IT’S GREAT TO SKATE [All Ages]

On April 9th, the Deafness Research Foundation invites families to take their last spin of the season at the Skate for Sound benefit at the City Ice Pavilion in Long Island City. The benefit will feature skating performances from the ice dance company Ice Theater of New York and the two-time ice dancing national silver medalist Eve Chalom, who lost most of her hearing as a child and lives with substantial hearing loss. Best of all, all proceeds of the event benefit the Deafness Research Foundation, which helps those dealing with hearing loss attain a healthy lifestyle. The event will take place from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m.; tickets for a family of four are $250. City Ice Pavilion, 47-32 32nd Place, Long Island City. Deafness Research Foundation, 212-328-9480; drf.org.

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April 10

NARNIA IN BROOKLYN [Ages 5 +]

Your children’s favorite characters from the beloved tale “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe” are coming to Brooklyn! On April 10th, the Brooklyn Center for the Performing Arts will host Theatreworks USA’s critically acclaimed musical rendition of C.S. Lewis’ classic tale. The production, which is part of the Target FamilyFun series, tells the story of four siblings who travel to the mystical land of Narnia and find themselves on a perilous and heroic journey to defeat the malevolent White Witch. The show begins at 2 p.m. Tickets are $6 in advance and $7 at the door. Walt Whitman Theatre, 2900 Campus Road, 718-951-4500; brooklyncenter.com.

April 10

WALK FOR A CAUSE [All Ages]

Families can come together, get some exercise and contribute to a very worthwhile cause by walking in the 17th Annual Pediatric Cancer Foundation Walkathon in Riverside Park. Upon arriving, participants can enjoy

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breakfast and enter raffle prizes before they stretch, listen to a message from the event’s host Lee Goldberg (meteorologist for Eyewitness News Channel 7) and embark on the walk through the park. After the walk, participants can congregate in the Boat Basin Rotunda and enjoy live music, face painting, raffle drawings and other prizes. The walk will take place from 10:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. Pre-registration fees are $35 for adults, $15 for children under 16; walk-ins pay an additional $5 fee. Riverside Park, West 79th Street Boat Basin Rotunda; pfcwalk.org.

sculptors, and kids can also get their faces painted, catch screenings of short films, and take in live theatrical performances. Sports fans will love the Tribeca/ESPN Sports Day component of the fair, which will host interactive games, demonstrations and giveaways, as well as appearances from New York athletes, mascots and sports personalities. The fest will go from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Greenwich Street (between Chambers Street and Hubert Street), 212-9412400; tribecafilm.com.

April 30

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BUNNY HOP [All Ages]

The city’s only working historical farm, the Queens County Farm Museum, invites families to hop over to the farm’s annual Barnyard Easter Egg Hunt, where kids can do the “bunny hop,” participate in an egg toss, visit with the farm animals, take a hay ride and much more. Parents should definitely pack their cameras, as “Whiskers,” the event’s furry mascot, will be greeting children and posing for pictures. The event takes place from 12 p.m. to 4 p.m; admission is $5 per person. 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park, 718-347-3276; queensfarm.org.

On April 30th, David Weinstone and the Music for Aardvarks Band will take the stage at the Highland Ballroom to celebrate the release of their 16th album release “All I Want.” Families can expect to jam out to Music for Aardvark favorites like “Move Your Feet” and “Race Ya To The Corner,” in addition to songs from the new album. What’s more, David Weinstone, who is a celebrated musician who creates music specifically for children growing up in urban environments (writing songs about taxis, subways and bagels) will give away a copy of “All I Want” to every family in the audience. The concert begins at 12 p.m. Tickets are $12 in advance, $15 the day of the show; a family four-pack is $40. Highland Ballroom, 431 W. 16th Street; 212414-5994; highlineballroom.com.

On April 16th, kids can channel their inner rock star when award-winning children’s musician Joanie Leeds (who will be celebrating the release of her new album “What A Zoo!”) takes the stage for two daytime concerts at the Brooklyn Children’s Museum. Joanie and her band, The Nightlights, will perform popular tunes like “I’m A Rockstar” and “Happy As A Clam,” and kids can get in on the action by playing with pom poms, beach balls, blow-up animals and other surprises. The concerts will take place at 1 p.m. and 2 p.m. and are free with museum admission. 145 Brooklyn Avenue, 718-735-4402; brooklynkids.org.

April 16

CORNY LINES [Ages 4-10]

On April 16th, families can head to Poets House—a national poetry library and literacy center in Lower Manhattan that is home to thousands of books, digital media sources and literary programs—for the fun-filled event “Poetry & Popcorn with James Stevenson.” At the reading, Stevenson, a renowned children’s book author, illustrator and frequent contributor to The New Yorker, will delight children with readings from books like “Popcorn,” “Sweet Corn” and “Just Around the Corner” as well as impromptu drawing demonstrations. And yes, popcorn will be served! The event will begin at 11 a.m. and is free. 10 River Terrace, 212-431-7920; poetshouse.org.

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Cinephile kids can get in on all the action of the Tribeca Film Festival with the free Tribeca Family Festival Street Fair on April 30th, an outdoor celebration chock full of activities for kids of all ages. Families can take in performances from stilt walkers, storytellers, puppeteers and sand

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The community center’s BYOK (Bring Your Own Kid) Sunday music series invites families to enjoy some of the coolest kid-friendly music around. On April 10th, families can jam to the soulful sounds of the NYC-based group Shine and the Moonbeams; on April 17th, they can enjoy the vocal stylings of folk-rock and Boston-based newcomer Maria Sangiolo. 200 hudson street, 212-601-1000, 92ytribeca.com.

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This borough of Manhattan Community College-affiliated theater strives to promote cultural and educational activities for the greater metropolitan area. On April 16th, families will love the musical adaptation of the bestselling book, “Room on the Broom,” which will tell the story of a witch and her cat and the characters they meet throughout an exciting and magical journey. 199 Chambers street, 212-220-1460, tribecapac.org.

carnegie Hall

The McGraw-Hill Companies’ CarnegieKids concert series will host performances happening all over the city. On April 2nd, families can jam to a concert by the Itty Biddies—a band known for its interactive and energetic performances that blend storytelling sensibilities with fun lyrics—when they take the stage at the Hostos Center for the Arts & Culture in the Bronx. Carnegie Hall, 154 West 57th street, 212-247-7800, carnegiehall.org.

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Every other Monday, Cobble Hill Cinemas hosts the children’s film series, “Big Movies For Little Kids.” On April 11th, families can celebrate the start of spring with the special screening of the 1993 classic children’s film, “The Secret Garden.” 265 Court street, Brooklyn, 718-596-9113, cobblehilltheatre.com.

liTerallY alive cHildren’s THeaTer

Literally Alive is an NYC-based children’s theater company that produces original musicals based on classic children’s literature. This month, families can check out the theater’s ensemble musical production of “The Little Mermaid,” which runs through the end of May. the Player’s theater, 115 MacDougal street, 212-866-5170, literallyalive.com.

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Skirball Center for the Performing Arts Lincoln Center’s “Meet the Artist Saturdays” series lets kids get up close and personal with some of their favorite artists or explore new musical genres. On April 2nd, Lincoln Center and the New York Philharmonic invite families to “Yankee Classic,” where children will be able to explore the music of American composers— both famous names and up-andcomers—through performances and presentations. The David Rubenstein Atrium, Broadway between 62nd and 63rd streets, 212-875-5456, Lincolncenter.org.

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Through April 17th, families can head to the theater’s imaginative production of “Goldilocks and the Three Bears,” a musical performance specially designed for pre-school age children and older that feature two actors, a suitcase filled with puppets, three bowls of porridge and much more. 52 White Street, 212-226-4085; manhattanchildrenstheatre.org.

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From April 8th to 24th, families can enjoy Cirque Mechanic’s latest production, “Boom Town,” at the New Victory Theater, which will take children on an interactive, musical and gravity-defying journey to the Wild Wild West and back. 209 West 42nd Street, 646-223-3010, newvictory. org.

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The New York Theatre Ballet is the most widely seen chamber ballet company in the United States, and boasts frequent programming made specifically for children. This month, families can enjoy “Exquisite Little Ballets,” interactive programs led by Antony Tudor and Agnes de Mille, which will take place on April 9th and 10th. 55 East 59th Street, 212-679-0401; nytb.org.

PuPPetworks

In true Puppetworks fashion, Lewis Carroll’s classic tale of “Alice in Wonderland” is told with the help of intricately crafted marionettes and accompanied with an original score. “Alice in Wonderland” will run through April 17th. 338 Sixth Avenue, Brooklyn;718-965-3391, puppetworks.org.

skirBaLL center for the PerforMing arts

As part of its Big Red Chair Family Series, this NYU-based cultural center invites families to “Barrio Grrl! A New Musical,” a coming-of-age op musical written by Pulitzer Prize finalist and Tony Award nominee Quiara Alegría Hudes (of “In the Heights” fame) on April 16th. 566 LaGuardia Place, 212-352-3101, skirballcenter.nyu.edu

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Through April 26th, the Vital Theatre Company invites families to check out its new musical “Awesome Allie: First Kid Astronaut,” which tells the tale of Allie and her talking dog Captain Chaos’ journey to save the Earth. McGinn/Cazale Theatre, 2162 Broadway; vitaltheatre.org

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Lincoln Center’s “Meet the Artist Saturdays” series lets kids get up close and personal with some of their favorite artists or explore new musical genres. On April 2nd, Lincoln Center and the New York Philharmonic invite families to “Yankee Classic,” where children will be able to explore the music of American composers— both famous names and up-andcomers—through performances and presentations. The David Rubenstein Atrium, Broadway between 62nd and 63rd streets, 212-875-5456, Lincolncenter.org.

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MUSEUMS AmericAn museum of nAturAl History

The AMNH’s exhaustive collections span human culture, the natural world and the universe. On April 16th, the museum will debut the exhibition, “The World’s Largest Dinosaurs,” which will focus on sauropods, a group that includes the largest animals to have ever walked the Earth. The exhibit will feature a life-sized Mamenchisaurus, a sauropod dinosaur that measures 60 feet in length. Central Park West and 79th Street, 212-769-5100, amnh.org.

Brooklyn cHildren’s museum

The first Saturday of each month, the Brooklyn Children’s Museum hosts the World Passport Workshop Series, where kids can learn about an exciting new concept that lends itself to great thematic study. On Saturday, April 2nd, families can enjoy the workshop “Night Journeys: Moon Myths,” where they’ll learn about the sometimes strange behavior of the moon. 145 Brooklyn Avenue (at St. Marks Avenue), Brooklyn, 718-735-4402, brooklynkids.org.

cHildren’s museum of tHe Arts

The Children’s Museum of the Arts strives to extend the benefits of the arts to children and their communities. On Saturday, April 16th, families can enjoy the special presentation “Art Through Dance,” which will be comprised of several live dance performances courtesy of the JT Lotus Dance Company. 182 Lafayette Street, 212-274-0986; cmany.org.

cHildren’s museum of mAnHAttAn

This museum offers art-based educational exhibits and programs in a variety of subjects, as well as extensive offsite outreach. On April 10th, artistically-inclined kids will love the workshop “April Showers Water Color,” where they can use water color paints to depict spring showers. 212 West 83rd Street, 212-721-1234; cmom.org.

el museo del BArrio

One of the city’s leading Latino cultural institutions, the museum offers wide-ranging exhibitions that are complemented by film, literary, visual and performing arts series, cultural celebrations, and educational programs. Every third Saturday of the month, the museum invites families to its free Super Sabado celebration, at which families can enjoy free concerts, art workshops, film screenings and more. 1230 Fifth Avenue, 212-831-7272, elmuseo.org.

GuGGenHeim museum

The second Sunday of every month, the Guggenheim museum offers family tours of its exhibits and galleries, which incorporate conversation and creative hands-on activities for kids ages 5 to 10. On April 10th, kids can share their own experiences and memories with the special workshop “Wish You Were Here.” 1071 Fifth Avenue, 212-423-3500; guggenheim.org.

intrepid seA, Air & spAce museum

Centered on the World War II aircraft carrier Intrepid, the museum features a range of interactive exhibits. This month, families can visit the museum for its new exhibit “Inspiration and Industry: American Women on the Home Front,” which explores how women contributed to war efforts in both World War I and World War II. Pier 86, 12th Avenue and 46th Street, 877-957-SHIP; intrepidmuseum.org.

JewisH museum

The Jewish Museum features a permanent collection of more than 28,000 objects—paintings, sculpture, photographs, archaeological artifacts, coins, ceremonial objects and more—relating to Jewish heritage and history. On Sunday, April 17th, the museum will host the theater group The Paper Bag Players for two daytime concerts of their latest production, “The Paper Bag Players Whoop Dee Doo.” Fifth Avenue at 92nd Street, 212-423-3337; thejewishmuseum.org.

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The Morgan Library and Museum is one of the world’s greatest collections of literary and musical works from all time periods. On April 9th, families will enjoy the special workshop “Tonight, Tonight: Romeo and Juliet Meet on the West Side,” at which opera singer and educator Jennifer Greene will guide children in an exploration of both the classic Shakespearean tale and “West Side Story,” its modern day adaptation set in 1950s New York City. 225 Madison Avenue, 212-685-0008, themorgan.org.

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The Met’s friendly, interactive programs help children grow an appreciation for the treasures inside this world-renowned museum. On April 9th and 10th, kids can partake in the interactive program “How Did They Do That? Arms And Armor,” where they can learn how pieces of armor and weapons were created throughout history. Fifth Avenue, 212-535-7710, metmuseum.org.

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The foremost modern art museum in the world, MoMA aims to make its collections accessible to scholars and young children alike. On April 16th, families can enjoy a free screening of “Extraordinary Animals,” a one-hour compilation of three animal-themed short films. West 53rd Street, 212708-9400, moma.org.

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Explores the history, present and future of the five boroughs. On April 16th, the museum invites families to the Sprint Family Performance “Zikrayat: Music and Dance of Egypt and the Arab World,” a lively concert that will celebrate the music, dance and cultural traditions of Egypt and the greater Arab world. 1220 Fifth Avenue at 103rd Street, 212-534-1672, mcny.org.

new york hAll of sCienCe

The Hall features the largest collection of hands-on science exhibits in New York City, and holds a variety of family programs every weekend. From April 16th to the 24th, families can enjoy “BubbleMania: Science, Art & Comedy with Casey Carle,” a hilarious science spectacular that will introduce kids to fog bubbles, helium bubbles and bubbles that turn into flames. 47-01 111th Street, Flushing, Queens, 718-699-0005, nyscience.org.

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Dedicated to preserving the history of the New York City Police Department, the New York Police Museum boasts tons of hands-on educational exhibits for kids. On Tuesdays throughout the month of April, families can take advantage of the new Grandparent/ Grandchild program, in which guests can come to the museum for activity play in the Junior Officer Discovery Zone. 100 Old Slip between Walter Street and South Street, 212-480-3100, nycpm.org.

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Dedicated to the history of urban transportation, this museum caters to children. On April 9th, families can join Suzanne Reisman, author of “Off the Beaten (Subway) Track: New York City’s Best Unusual Attractions,” for a walking tour of three unique places in the Bronx. Corner of Boerum Place and Schermerhorn Street, 718-694-1600, mta.info/museum.

riPley’s Believe it or not!

Kids will be amazed at the eccentricities inside this famous “odditorium,” which features 25 themed galleries displaying everything from a six-legged cow to books made from spider webs. 234 West 42nd Street, 212-3983133, ripleysnewyork.com.

ruBin MuseuM of Art

Home to an extensive collection of art from the Himalayas and surrounding regions, the Rubin offers programs and events for families throughout the year. Throughout April, families can take part in the museum’s festive programs, such as the “Yak Pakers” early childhood art program on Thursdays, Drum Beats for Little Feet on Fridays and family art making workshops on Saturdays. 150 West 17th Street, 212-620-5000, rmanyc.org.

whitney MuseuM of AMeriCAn Art

The world-renowned Whitney houses a spectacular collection of 20th century American art. On Fridays in April, new moms and dads can explore the museum’s various exhibits with their babies in tow as part of the popular Stroller Tours program, which are led by Whitney Teaching Fellows. 945 Madison Avenue, 212-570-3600; whitney.org.

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looked at my daughters today, and I wondered where the time went. That time I’d wished away. Can’t wait till she can walk; can’t wait till they can play together; can’t wait till she sleeps through the night. Can’t wait till they go to school. They’re in school, now, and the house is empty. But for me. Here. Afternoon shadows making ghosts of those little girls in little pajamas with rubber-soled feet. I remember big events, births and birthday parties, growth charts and hospital visits, trips full of photographs. But the times that I meant to remember are gone. The way her face looked when she rode a twowheeler for the first time. The soft stillness of their warm skin as they slept, one surrounded by thirty-four stuffed animals, the other breathing softly, thumb between six tiny teeth. The expression on my older daughter’s face when she popped a jalapeno pepper into her mouth, thinking it was a piece of chocolate. The seriousness with which my younger child played Peter Pan and fought an invisible Captain Hook with a plastic sword. I watched my daughters leave for school this morning and felt the tug of wishing, wishing they were little again. The older one, so grown-up now, with curled hair and flared jeans. And my younger child, scooping up her backpack and lunch. There was brief exchange, a kiss on the cheek from one and a wave from another, and they were gone. There was a time when I heard “Mommy?” at least one hundred times a day. How I’d wished for silence. Now I am the one asking questions, begging, almost, for scraps of information about their day: How was school? What made you laugh? What made you cry? Who is that boy? What is the name of the girl that pushed you on the playground? There was a time when I knew every minute of every hour of every day what was happening in their lives, and it made me tired. How I long to be tired like that again. My children have become people, new and different people, separate and apart from me. I knew this would

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happen but I didn’t realize what it would feel like. I am so proud. I am so…what? Melancholy. Curious. I look at these children and don’t know any longer just what is going on inside of them as I did when they nursed at my breast or cried in frustration or needed a diaper changed. Now there’s the daughter who competes in karate and spars against boys when her mom can scarcely throw a punch. There’s the daughter who plays violin and can figure out any computer game, while I can’t carry a tune or find my way around a word processing program. They are in some ways strangers to me now. How strange. I have had an amazing life. I have grown up with loving parents, studied what I wanted to in college, married a remarkable man. I have run a multimillion dollar business and created an entirely new market segment that I’m proud of, one that exposes little kids to great works of art. I have survived breast cancer with a strength I didn’t know I had. I have made great friends and met fascinating people. And yet the most amazing thing that I have done is to have had children. I know this is something that most women do sometime in their lives, and while it’s something that’s not unique or unusual in any way, I still view it as my most fulfilling life’s work. So why did I wish it away? Because I was tired? Because I wanted to go out to dinner and not carry a baby seat or cut someone else’s food or hurry through my meal? Because I wanted to sleep later or longer or better? I have time now. I can sleep all day. But I’m no longer deliciously, deliriously, satisfyingly tired. This essay was first published in the essay collection “The Imperfect Mom: Candid Confessions of Mothers Living in the Real World,” edited by Therese J. Borchard, Broadway Books, 2006. Julie Aigner-Clark is a mom, author and entrepreneur. She is the founder of The Baby Einstein Company and The Safe Side. www.newyorkfamily.com

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