Behind the Veil Vol. 1 by Nicole Roedeshimer

B E H I N D the V E I L A JOURNEY TO THE PERFECT COUTURE WEDDING

SUMMER ISSUE 2016

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BE H I N D the V E I L

WELCOME TO THE ULTIMATE BEGINNING OF YOUR JOURNEY TO THE PERFEC T COUTURE WEDDING. YOUR HAPPILY E VER AF TER IS NOW. The ring is on your finger and you are ready to start planning your wedding day. But, if you have never planned such an important event before, it can be easy to become overwhelmed. Where should you begin? Leave it all to us. We are here to help you to see a different perspective to wedding planning and understand what goes on behind the veil. There is no â&#x20AC;&#x153;rulebookâ&#x20AC;? that dictates what you need to do to make your day perfect. All you need is two people in love and friends and family to celebrate your new beginning with. In this magazine, you will find a collection of chic events from the proposal to the honeymoon with fresh ideas and tips to have the stand-out wedding that you truly desire. From flattering gowns and creative reception ideas to modern color palettes, unique flowers, elegant gowns, gorgeous hairstyles, inspiration boards, etiquette advice, and picturesque honeymoon spots, we take a girl by the hand and walk her through the entire wedding maze, from the day she gets the ring to the day she writes her very last thank you note. With resources to professional photography, high-end designers, and all of the beautiful venues available, you will have all the access you will need to to your dream wedding. We lift the veil to what makes everything about a luxurious, inspirational, couture wedding possible. We are Behind the Veil. XOXO NICOLE, CAITLYN, & KATIE

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CONTENTS

ENGAGEMENT

STYLE DETAILS

RING IN YOUR STYLE Ring Style Guide

3 CAKES 1 RECIPE Magic Cake Recipe

LET’S TALK METAL Guide to Ring Shopping

YOUR LOVE BLOOM Wedding Bouquet Etiquette

POSE PERFECT Engagement Picture Guide

PETAL TALK Bouquet Color Guide

SAVE YOUR DATE WITH STYLE Invitation Etiquette

ECO-FRIENDLY WEDDING Tips for Sustainability

BEAUTY

SAY YES TO THE DRESS Wedding Gown Styles

SAY YES TO THE PERFECT FIGURE Guide to Body Shape

HAPPILY EVER AFTER HAIRSTYLES Hairstyle Guide

BEAUTY NOTES FOR THE BRIDE Makeup Secrets

NATURAL GLOW Beauty Cheat Sheet

BRIDAL BOOTCAMP Weightloss Aid

WEDDING PLANNING

THE WEDDING

SUMMER WEDDING Summer Wedding Planner

THEN WE SAID, “I DO” Wedding Ceremony Guide

PLANNING YOUR DREAM WEDDING Wedding Timeline

VOW TO BE THE TRUE YOU Vow Guide

PEARLS WITH PURPOSE... Interview with Wendy Bird

EAT, DRINK, BE MERRY! Catering Guide

BRIDAL REGISTRY Guide to the Perfect Gift

HONEYMOON HOTSPOTS Travel Destinations

BEHIND THE VEIL DESIGN TEAM

meet the team

BEHIND THE DESIGNS NICOLE ROEDESHIMER Creative Director TRAFFIC, PRODUCTION COORDINATOR

Nicole is a graphic designer living in Lincoln Square, IL. She likes to consider herself a connoisseur, chronic puzzle-seeker, and lifelong learner. Her ultimate goal is to transcend the generic title of “design” by helping others transform ideas that begin as a shapeless mass and mold them into powerful, holistic, soul-stirring solutions.. When she isn’t designing, you can find Nicole on a new adventure, exploring nature, chasing sunsets, or flirting with the globe.

CAITLYN SMITH Art Director TRAFFIC, PHOTOGRAPHY EDITOR

Caitlyn Smith is a graphic designer living in Lincoln Park, IL. Travel, design, and fashion are the three things she is the most passionate about, well except her family and friends, of course. Staying busy in the fast paced city life keeps her going and excited about all the things she accomplishes. Since she was thirteen years old, she has known that she wanted to do something involving design. Caitlyn is a publication designer for magazines and fashion designers. Dreams and plans are never too big or unrealistic for her. She believes in just putting the work in to making them happen!

KATIE ABITHEIRA Designer ESTIMATOR, COPY EDITOR, TRAFFIC

Katie is a graphic designer living in Lincoln Park, IL. She is originally from Detroit, Michigan. Detroit is where her heart truly belongs. She has a great passion for all things that are design-related, however, publication design and collateral design are her two specialties. She loves incorporating bold colors and clean typography into her work. When she isn’t designing, Katie loves putting her nose in a really good book and getting lost, listening to her favorite band, the 1975, and cooking. Spending time with family is also always a must, so she tries to as much as she can.

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ENGAGEMENT RING IN YOUR STYLE

ring in

YOUR STYLE Diamonds come in all shapes and sizes - What ring will sing to your heart the most? Here are some important things to keep in mind when shopping for the perfect ring for your significant other.

PEAR

MARQUISE

PRINCESS CUT

ROUND DIAMOND

Pear shaped diamonds are a

Marquise diamonds of fer

Princess cuts can refer to the

Round diamonds are one

combination of both a round

couples the perfect chance

square and the rectangular

of the new trends and are

and a marquise shape, with

to buy a smaller carat and

shaped diamonds on a ring.

a very popular engagement

a tapered point on one end.

have a way more impressive

As long as it has 4 corners,

ring style for 2016. Adding

A round-cut diamond may

looking ring and because of

itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a princess cut. The sharp

a halo around the center

be the most popular center

their longer, oval-shaped,

corners, which characterize

stone is a way to make the

stone, but pear-shaped and

one carat marquises, it may

this shape, are more likely to

smaller carat look bigger,

marquise shaped diamonds

end up looking larger than

be damaged, as well as snag

more impressive, and big!

are making a big comeback.

a one carat round. Turning

onto most clothing we wear.

the marquise on its side has also become a trend.

BAQUETTE

CUSHION CUT

OVAL CUT

HEART DIAMOND

Cushion cuts are known as

Oval cuts have been known

Hear t diamonds are ver y

Baguette shaped diamonds

pillow-cut diamonds. Their

for their elongated shape.

unique and unmistakable

are both sharp and geometric

stones seem more squared

From a perception point of

symbols of undying love.

shaped and offer a distinct

with rounded edges. Pairing

view, the oval looks larger

Heart diamonds less than

diamond cut, and different

this cushion-cut diamond

on the f inger than a round

.50 carats may not be the

from smooth, flowing oval,

with a halo has become quite

because of the much bigger

right choice, as the hear t

pear, and round diamonds.

the popular trend amongst

leng th dif ference between

shape is rather difficult to

The baguette-cut diamonds

most 2016 engaged couples.

the oval and the round than

perceive in smaller-sized

are typically small and are

there is a width difference.

diamonds, especially after

commonly used as accent

they are placed in prongs.

stone within diamond rings.

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ENGAGEMENT LET’S TALK METAL

LET’S TALK METAL: a practical guide to f inding the per f ect band Everybody has heard the sayings “diamonds are a girl’s

The latest trend in engagement rings has been a micropavé

best friend” and “a diamond lasts forever”, but have you

vintage design, which are usually set in either a platinum

ever thought about the metal into which the diamonds

or white gold. Micropavé is a type of setting where several

are set? Or how the style of the ring that is chosen really

small diamonds are placed and set close together and held

affects the lifespan of an engagement ring? The practical

in by several small prongs. Though the look is exceptional,

side of choosing one’s “forever ring” is more than often

customers often fail to notice the future maintenance the

overlooked, resulting in recurring problems, costly repairs,

ring is likely to need, which can become quite costly in the

and dissatisfied costumers.

long run and lead to future problems!

Just like in every industry, jewlery also goes through a lot

Though white gold still seems to be a favorite for most,

of trends and fads. From the newest designer engagement

yellow gold and two-tone combinations are making a huge

rings and wedding bands to the hottest trends in colored

comeback! The best advice we can give you is to stick to

metals and colored diamond fashions, the possibilities can

what you like and would feel the best wearing, however,

seem almost endless! Knowing what styles will be in for a

you should be still be informed about your purchase as well

long time and the pros and cons of different metals can

as the possible precautions that you should take. That is

help make your decision a little easier.

why we’re here to help you find your perfect metal.

METAL

PROS

CONS

PLATINUM

Hypoallergenic, Strong, Durable,

Most expensive, Scratches easily, dulls easily, high melting point.

WHITE

Affordable alternative to Platinum, Scratches less than Platinum.

Rhodium plating, Allergies to Alloys used.

PALLADIUM

Hypoallergenic, Platinum Family, No Plating needed, Alternative to Platinum.

Trendy, Still relatively new, Not a Precious Metal.

TITANIUM

Hypoallergenic, Lightweight Durable, Inexpensive.

Cannot size band smaller, Not a Precious Metal.

TUNGSTEN CARBIDE

Permanent High Polish Appearance.

Cannot size band smaller, Not a Precious Metal.

YELLOW GOLD

Most Traditional and Timeless, Easy to work with, Repair does not erode.

May give White diamonds a Yellow appearance.

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POSE PERFECT

get ting your engagement photos right! BE YOURSELVES

If you are not used to being in front of a camera this simple task can become an issue when trying to capture the best photos. If you are typically goofy, then be goofy. If you and your man like to do certain activities together, then photograph that. The only way to capture the bond that you two have will be to ignore the camera and be yourself. Take direction from the photographer but don’t get lost in it, still add your own personal touch to every pose.

BE PREPARED You want to look your best in your engagement photos, but stressing about the details will leave you tired…and that is the last thing we want to capture. Instead just prepare yourself with the timing of the photos. You most likely don’t want to have an all-nighter prior to your photos or if you know work is going to be stressful during a certain week then schedule the photos for another time. Timing is everything when you want to look and feel your best. Others ways to prepare are by sorting out the location(s) and the outfits.

LOCATION The place(s) that you choose to take photos speaks to who you are as a couple so it’s important to decide on a place that will cater to your personalities. Choose a place that means something to you, reminds you of a time you had together, or is the ‘feeling’ of the wedding. You will be the most comfortable and relaxed together if you are familiar with the location.

BE PREPARED These are your photos and no one else’s so choose you favorite outfit(s), aside from what might be trendy and popular. These photos will be looked back at for years and years to come so let them capture the two of you at your most natural state as a newly engaged couple. You want to look like yourself and not a made up version of yourself, so stick to the basics. Typically, a casual outfit such as jeans and a cute top, makes for really adorable day-to-day type photos but then change into something a bit more feminine for a more dressed up look. You will appreciate the variety of photos that comes along with changing your outfits. The time of day and weather play a huge part in your photos as well so be sure to look that up so you wear the proper attire and won’t be freezing or sweating during the time the photos are being taken..

HAVE FUN This is a very special moment in a couple’s life so enjoy it! Don’t stress about every detail of the pictures or what angle is best or if your hair is out of place. Love is the best accessory you have for photos because it is expressed through the eyes and through the affection shown that in turn creates unforgettable images. Flirt a little bit while you are taking photos, act like high school sweethearts, kiss when you want to, make each other laugh. When you have fun with it, the best and most natural photos can be captured, leaving a lasting impression.

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SAVE YOUR DATE

WITH STYLE

BR E A K ING DO W N T HE CO S T T E

P R IN T ING T ECHNIQ UE T RENDS

DESIGN

ENGRAVED

Invitations with numerous layers, added embellishments, or complex designs

The most formal and expensive of all printing techniques, wherein a letter or

are most expensive. Pocket style invitations vary greatly in price based upon

design is etched onto a metal plate and inked. Paper is then pressed onto the

the style (back-pocket is typically less expensive than tri-fold or side pocket).

etching using two tons of pressure.

PAPER

OFFSET LITHOGRAPHY

Paper prices may vary depending on cardstock weight and quality (thicker and

A flat style of printing that rolls a rubber cylinder with an inked impression onto

textured are more expensive). Specialty papers such as linen, cotton, bamboo,

the paper. The printing is smooth and clean. This method is one of the least

and rice papers add to the cost as well as shiny metallic papers.

expensive printing techniques available.

PRINTING TECHINQUE

EMBOSSING

Techniques range from the least expensive digital or offset printing to the more

An inkless process where the paper is pressed between two heated metal dies,

expensive, higher quality engraved invitations.

creating a raised impression. This method is one of the most popular.

ASSEMBLY

DIGITAL

Costs vary depending on whether your stationer assembles your invitations or if

A flat style of printing similar to your home printer, but with higher quality inks

you choose to do them yourself. The difficulty of assembly also affects the price

and greater precision. This less traditional technique works well for invitations

(e.g., tying ribbons, making cuts, gluing rhinestones, or adding belly bands).

with photographs and is one of the least expensive methods.

GUEST LIST SIZE

LETTERPRESS

A limited guest list translates to less money spent on invitations. However, for

An old-fashioned technique where inked letters are pushed with pressure into

larger guest lists, the price per invitation may decrease.

the paper, creating an indented effect.

ENCLOSURES

FOIL STAMPING

In addition to the invitation suite, other add-ons such as reception cards and

An inkless technique that uses a die and heat to press and transfer foil onto

maps add to the overall cost.

paper, creating an indented, metallic effect.

POSTAGE

THERMAGRAPHY

Depending on size, weight, and rigidity, wedding invitations typically require

A technique where ink and powder compound are heated to product raised

additional postage, therefore resulting in a higher price.

letters that mimic the appearance of engraving without the cost.

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ENGAGEMENT SAVE YOUR DATE WITH STYLE

FONT PAIRINGS

A detail that should not be overlooked, your wedding invitations are the ver y first impression to your guests of the style, tone, and feel of your wedding.

to t alk to your designer about

MODERN

A successful font pairing is something that can communicate your theme.

TRADITIONAL

A mixture of Sans Serif typefaces are becoming a very

A script and serif font pairing are the classic choice when

popular choice for modern looking invitations for their

it comes to wedding invitations. Depending on the script

bold look and high contrast. These invitations use large

font you choose, most serif fonts make a good contrast

x-height fonts that contrast well with the same font at a

to the curved edges of a script. These typefaces are a lot

much smaller point size.

smaller in weight.

VINTAGE

MONOGRAM

Multiple decorative typefaces are used in these designs.

Monogram invitations have plenty of characteristics that

The contrast between the decorative fonts used in these

incorporate clean, modern design while telling a stor y.

invitations are enough to distinguish hierarchy, however

When choosing a typeface for the monogram, be aware

condensed and extended fonts are used sparingly and

of how they will be used in the in. Block fonts are known

on a smaller scale. Without the use of proper hierarchy,

to be more modern and masculine, while script fonts are

however, these fonts can sometimes take away from the

more feminine and elegant. While a decorative script

actual design of the invitation. By varying the weight and

may look perfectly fine on its own, it could be extremely

size, enough contrast is created.

difficult to read when used in a monogram.

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THE PLANNING HOW TO HAVE A SUMMER WEDDING

how to have

A SUMMER WEDDING If you’re dreaming of a gorgeous outdoor wedding, summer is typically the ideal season to say, “I do” - but there is a lot more than weather to love about this time of year. Here is what you need to know about how to host your perfect summer soiree.

5 REASONS TO HAVE A SUMMER WEDDING

warm weather

Need we say more? While spring and fall can definitely bring the most unpredictable temperatures, rain and sometimes even snow, summer is known for sunny blue skies and warm temperatures that often last until the evening, making it the perfect time of year for outdoor nupitals.

more free time

“Workloads in many industries tend to lighten up and some people have summer Fridays, which allow for a more open schedule to both plans and weddings,” says Annie Lee, the principal planner and owner of Daughter of Design located in New York City. “Also for couples who are in school, it’s great to take advantage of your summer break for last-minute wedding errands and equally ideal for honeymoons.”

abundance of available blooms

More flower varieties are in bloom on the summer solsitice than on any other day of the year. That means that you will have a greater selection of in-season florals, making for more dynamic, colorful, and affordable wedding decor arrangements.

built-in décor

Mother Nature will save you on décor in the summer months. The warm weather allows couples in many parts of the country to take advantage of gorgeous natural backdrops, randing from water front locales to lush gardens and picturesque mountaintops.

bright colors do not look out of place

For winter weddings, the color palettes tend to be a little more subdued to look right with the season. However, most brides want to use more cheerful and bright colors for their wedding. In the summer, the sky is truly the limit in this regard. You can pick bright hues and not have to worry that they will not look right for the season. Summer brides tend to have a lot more wiggle room in the color palette department than any other season.

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THE PLANNING PLANNING YOUR DREAM WEDDING

planning your

DREAM WEDDING

Just engaged? Starting to envision your wedding? Wondering about all the things youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll need to do and when? Our month-by-month timeline of all of your wedding to-dos will steer you in the proper direction for the perfect couture dream wedding.

12-18 MONTHS - Check out venues - Book your venue - Decide on a dress - Have a party, youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re engaged! - Start looking at wedding dresses - Book your photographer and band/dj

9 MONTHS - Send out wedding invitations - Order Jewelery and accessories - Start planing your honeymoon - Arrange transportation (car, limo) - Arrange the guest accommodation - Take care and arrange wedding insurance

6 MONTHS - Decided on a dress - Finalize the guest list - Meet and book a florist - Make inquiries with bakery - Go food tasting at your venue - Shop for bridesmaids dresses

- Book hair and make up professionals.

MONTHS

. - Finalize food menu - Buy wedding favors - Confirm your cake order - Buy your wedding shoes - Book a hair & make up trial - Schedule fittings for bridesmaids - Organize gifts for the wedding party

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5 WEEKS

- Start writing speeches - Finalize room design - Put together a play list for dj - Choose the readings and reader - Have a pre wedding photo shoot

WEEKS - Start writing vows - Final dress fitting - Confirm seating plan - Call any non RSVP guests - Book spa and nail treatment - Make final arrangements with florist

WEDDING D AY - Enjoy your wedding day! - Present parents and each other with gifts. - Give wedding bands to the best man and the maid of honor to hold during the ceremony. - Give best man the officiant’s fee envelope, to be handed off after ceremony

WEEK - Pack for honeymoon - Attend bachelorette parties. - Collect your dress and outfits - Contact all vendors and confirm arrival - Put together a set of “something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue.”

T R A N S FO R M I N G W O M E N S â&#x20AC;&#x2122; L I V E S with FOUNDER WENDY BIRD

PEARLS WITH PURPOSE teaches women in the Philippines and India to create beautiful, handcrafted jewelry, sells them online, and at events, and gives them a means to support their families. They support 3 initiatives: 1. Micro-enterprise training for disadvantaged individuals in mulitple different developing countries throughout the world 2. Educational Scholarships 3. Bi-annual container shipments Through these initiatives, they have trained over 300 individuals, aided over 200 kids with their educational pursuits and shipped over 2,600 boxes into 22 provinces in the Philippines. They have had co-ops in Philippines, India, Thailand, and Cambodia.

THE PLANNING PEARLS WITH PURPOSE

HOW DID PEARLS WITH PURPOSE START? In 2002, as I was searching for loose pearls that are used for jewelry making, a hobby of mine at the time, I received a personal e-mail from a 68-year-old woman located in the Philippines who stated, “If you import finished jewelry pieces from me, you will help women in my country.” This is what began my growing interest in the women who are behind the pearls and I became aware of the lack of adequate food, clothing , and other basic necessities among the Filipino families, and set out to help.

My first exposure (outside of middle class America) was when I took my trip to Mexico 15 years ago to an area called Creel. I saw people living out of railway cars, young children hauling buckets of water, beggars in extreme circumstances, malnourished babies, and it was a truly humbling experience. I made a silent vow to myself that if the opportunity presented itself to me to truly make an impact on my fellowman, I would do everything in my power to fulfill it. And that was what happened in 2002. A woman sent an e-mail with a ‘need’. She made me aware of living situations that were deplorable by American standards.

My first trip to the Philippines in 2006 confirmed that these conditions were much worse that I needed to do more. The products they were making needed to be moved quickly and in the most effective way so that they had a consistent earning potential. We developed Pearls with Purpose Partners as the vehicle to move all the products that are created. This is done via websales, exhibitor trade shows, and distributors.

She shared with me real stories of friends and people that she was interacting with on a daily basis that were raw and mind numbing. Women poisoning their children just so they didn’t starve to death. Women having to give some of their children away because they could not even feed them. Children being placed in dumpsters. Men squandering all their earnings on drugs and alcohol, and then beating their wives. I knew there was a way to break this cycle of poverty. I knew there was a way to break this cycle of poverty. I knew I could

WHAT WAS YOUR INSPIR ATION?

make a difference. On some small scale, if I am at least willing

My inspiration stems from being a mom myself. I strongly

to close my eyes, take a deep breath, and plunge in, then the

feel that no mother should have to choose between getting

actions I take will somehow have an impact for good on the

an education and food. Every mom only desires the best for

life of others.

her child, regardless if she is American, Filipina, or Indian. Being a mother of 5 children myself inspires me to work hard to ensure that all moms and children alike have the same opportunities that are afforded to my own children on a daily

WHAT ARE YOUR FUTURE PL ANS FOR YOUR BUSINESS AND CAUSE?

basis. It is through the PWP Foundation that these goals are

We just launched our Pledge Program, which allows everyone

fulfilled for these individuals overseas.

in the world to be a positive influence in the life of another. We have hundreds of charms representing numerous acts of

Every purchase from Pearls with Purpose literally changes a

service, from reading a book to a child (open book charm) to

life on the other side of the world, and that is something that

donating food (can of soup charm) to planting a tree (tree

motivates me every day. PWP provides a great opportunity

charm) to visiting another country (elephant for India). It is as

for people everywhere to change lives, worldwide.

wide and varied as we are as individuals. This supports our women in the Philippines.

WHAT M ADE YOU DECIDE TO DO WHAT YOU DO FOR A LIVING?

We have our new birthstone line which uses real gemstones from India (amethyst, sapphire, ruby, turquoise, etc) which

I saw a need. Once an individual sees a need, they then own

actually accent our genuine pearls. This supports the young

that responsibility to “do”, so I just decided to “do” and follow

adult orphans in Cambodia seeking for self-sustainment

my gut instinct.

and funding for college and vocational training. We also have our Rakhi line, which is our “friendship bracelet”. It is a

WHAT M ADE YOU WANT TO GIVE BACK?

commitment to a significant individual that is a part of your life whom you select to support ‘through ‘thick and thin’. This

I think giving back has always been in my nature. I was raised

supports our leprosy colony in India.

by parents who were always seeking opportunities to serve others. And as I reflect on my own life and upbringing, I’ve

Our future is HUGE! We need ambassadors in every state

always had my basics of life. As I got older, I became more

in America to represent us and “cheerlead” us into other

aware that how I live in America is not necessarily how the

future ventures. We need as many volunteers as we can get

rest of the world lives.

in order to promote our Pledge Program. Most importantly, we need like-minded individuals who understand the dire circumstances existing in the world today, and are willing to take a stand and do something!

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DINING & ENTERTAINMENT

FOR DRINKING FOR SERVING

bar tools set champagne glasses (8-12)

cake stand

coasters

chip & dip dish

cocktail shaker

glass pitcher

drinking glasses (8-12)

large flat serving platter (2-4)

ice bucket & tongs

large serving bowl (2-4)

mugs (8-12)

salad tongs

red wine glasses (8-12)

serving utensils

tumblers (8-12)

small flat serving platter (2-4)

white wine glasses (8-12)

small serving bowl (2-4)

wine opener

FOR EATING bowls (8-12) dinner plates (8-12) flatware place setting (8-12) salad plates (8-12) steak knives (at least 6)

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FOR COOKING 9x9 or 9x12 glass baking dish cast iron Dutch oven cheese grater glass prep bowls grill pan heat-resistant tongs kitchen shears knives (chefâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s, chopping, bread, etc.) meat thermometer mixing bowls (set of 3) non-stick frying pan (2) peeler pepper mill & salt grinder poly cutting board stainless steel frying pan stainless steel grill tool set wood cutting board

FOR BAKING cake pan cooling rack metal sheet trays (2+) measuring cups measuring spoons muffin tin spatula whisk wooden spoon

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LINENS

FOR THE BEDROOM bedskirt blanket or quilt down comforter duvet cover fitted sheet flat sheet pillows (standard and Euro) pillow shams (2 - standard or Euro) standard pillow cases (2+)

FOR THE HOME AND KITCHEN cloth napkins dish towels doormat placemats tablecloths throw blankets throw pillows

FOR THE BATHROOM bath mat hand towels (4+) robe (2) sheet towels (4+) shower curtain wash cloths (4+)

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APPLIANCES AND ELECTRONICS

FOR ENTERTAINING camera DVD/BluRay player iPod sound system sleep sound machine surround sound speakers television

FOR CLEANING air purifier cordless iron dust buster hamper humidifier ironing board steamer

FOR COOKING

vacuum

coffee maker crockpot espresso maker food processor or blender hand mixer or standing mixer toaster or toaster oven

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THE DRESS One of the very most important features of any dress is its neckline. The neckline acts as a frame for the face. Choosing the perfect one can make the bride look especially radiant on her very special day.

STRAIGHT

V-NECK

Strapless on one side,

The Straight or Horizontal

The V-Neck is one of the

A popular design both

but with a strap, or even

neckline is also available

classic, versatile neckline

for its romantic name

a sleeve on the other, the

with straps The strapless

styles which can sit just

and its flattering shape,

Asymmetrical necklines do

line is perfect for petite

below the shoulder, and

the sweetheart neckline

flatter a fuller figure. They

frames. The lines help to

accents the collarbone. It

resembles part of a heart.

are normally styled with

create length across the

helps create an hourglass

It is great for accenting a

a ball gown or an A-Line

shoulders. Some designs

look for a pear shaped

smaller bust area and is

skirt, the Asymmetrical

will also feature strapless

body type, or a smaller

very flattering on larger

neckline is very flattering

bodices that curve gently

bust. A class v-necked

busts and can be worn as

and elegant. They can be

up or down to add interest

gown covers most of the

a strapless gown or with

both dramatic or subtle.

to the neckline.

shoulder and neck.

any sleeve length.

ASYMMETRICAL

TRUMPET

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MERMAID

A-LINE

SWEETHEART

EMPIRE WAIST

The Trumpet is often is a

The Mermaid style is a

The A-Line is recognized

The Empire Waistline sits

flattering style for a little

style that is characterized

by the narrow cut through

just below the bust from

more movement in the

by a fitted skirt through

the bodice with the skirt

which the dress cascades

dress. The Trumpet has

the hips with a dramatic

extending out along the

down to the floor. Usually

more of an A-line fit, with

flare at the knee. This style

body in the shape of an

made with a lighter fabric,

a slight flare at the knee

highlights natural curves

A. The A-Line is a classic

the empire waist also helps

through to the hem. It is a

and is ideal for the curvy

style which works well

hide the lower half as well

little less dramatic than the

bride! The mermaid can

with many brides, but it

as enhance the bust. This

Mermaid, but offers brides

be very constricting, so

is a little less unique and

style also helps to elongate

a little more panache than

dancing in it may not be

attention-grabbing than

petite brides, making them

the A-line does.

the greatest idea.

other bridal styles.

appear taller than they are!

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BEAUTY TIPS SAY YES TO THE DRESS

say yes to

THE PERFECT FIGURE THE RECTANGLE

FULL-FIGURED

-Proportional through the bust

-Fuller bust, hips and waistline

LOOKING FOR dresses that will create curves

LOOKING FOR dresses that will create an

for you! An A-Line skirt is a great option that

elongating silhouette with a high waistline and

will accentuate a slender frame which will also

a skirt that will give your body movement with

give a nice, gentle curve to your body frame.

each step down the aisle as well as the dance

A Bateau neckline coupled with a Ball Gown

floor. A-Lines with heavy fabric or Ball Gowns

skirt will also help create the illusion that you

with a natural waist should accent your shape

have an hourglass shape. AVOID the dresses

beautifully. AVOID any kind of Sheath, Empire,

that donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t create curves for you. A Trumpet

or Mermaid skirt. Pay close attention to what

or a Mermaid style will not give you a curve

the material the skirt is made from. Most of

defining body shape.

the lighter fabrics may be more clingy.

THE PEAR OR TRIANGLE

THE HOURGLASS

-Proportional to bust & hips

-Full bust & hips with small waist

LOOKING FOR dresses that de-emphasize

LOOKING FOR styles which will accent your

lower half and bring width to your upper half.

hourglass features. Mermaids, Trumpets, and

A portrait neckline helps widen your shoulders,

a even a Ball Gown with a drop waist will nicely

as do capped, pouf, balloon, melon, or Juliet

accent your curves. A sweetheart neckline or

sleeves. You may also add a little extra oomph

a V will also beautifully feature your full bust.

your bodice with an applique, beading, or a

Most styles are going to look perfect because

lace overlay. Look for a plain skirt with a high

your body type is going to bring any dress to

waist line such as an empire waist. AVOID the

life. AVOID any styles that do not accentuate

dresses that will call attention to your shape,

your curves. Avoid an Empire waistline as well

such as the clingy sheath or mermaid styles,

as embellishments because they can end up

and necklines that cut inward such as halters.

drawing attention to your neckline or hips.

PETITE

THE INVERTED TRIANGLE

-Short height is proportional to bust & hips

-Full bust in relation to your hips

LOOKING FOR dresses that show off the right

LOOKING FOR dresses that will give you

curves and elongate the body. A-line dresses

the illusion of an hourglass. Ball Gowns with

look great on petite body types, as do Sheath

either a natural or a drop waist, as well as the

dresses. Try on a Tea Length dress because

Mermaid and the Trumpet skirts will give your

these cute and unique dresses show off your

body a nice silhouette. A Sweetheart neckline

legs and are perfect for a summer wedding

or a Halter will accent your bust well. AVOID

whimsy. AVOID Ball Gowns, which have a full

dresses that donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t create definition for your

that may make you look even shorter.

lower half and accentuate all of your curves.

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HAIRSTYLES FOR YOUR HAPPILY EVER AFTER Getting married is one of the most exciting times in a brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s life, and choosing the perfect wedding hairstyle is one of the most overwhelming decisions to make. So, Here are seven tips to having the most beautiful hairstyle on your wedding day.

1. CHOOSE YOUR DRESS FIRST Your dress must be the deciding factor for everything else around it. Find a dress that compliments you and makes you feel like a million bucks. Don’t try to fake it you need a dress that you will feel beautiful in all day. It’s your special day and you don’t want to be uncomfortable in your dress or not feel like yourself. A good wedding hairdresser will tailor and make a style just for you and to compliment the dress. They know what they are doing and you should trust your hairdresser she’s the professional.

2. BE REALISTIC If you have very fine hair, or very short hair, deal with the fact that there are some limitations with the texture of your hair, and do not try and bully your stylist into creating an abundance of hair when it is virtually impossible. If you have loads of curls, don’t try and convince yourself that a sleek, skinny hair style is what is going to work for you.

3. BE PREPARED TO BE FLEXIBLE A good hairdresser who specializes in bridal hairstyles will be able to discuss all the options with you, taking your dress into account, your hair texture, whether you are wearing a veil or not, and if you plan to wear flowers in your hair. Find the best one that suits your hair, your personality and the bridal look you are after. Be flexiable and understanding with your hairdresser!

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4. KEEP IT REAL Your wedding day is a special one, and doesn’t mean that you have to beat your hair into submission to be something it is not. If you have a very busy dress, with lots of bead work and detail, you will need to make your bridal hairdo take a backseat, and let the hair quietly compliment the focal point, which is you, and your dress. If you are wearing a simple dress, you can dress the hair up a bit more, but if you don’t feel comfortable having a huge up do, you won’t feel comfortable on the day. Make your wedding hairstyle all about you, just the more glamorous you. Don’t change who you are, you will feel weird and it will show. Be yourself and enjoy your special day.

5. TRIAL RUN This point is important when it comes to your wedding day, just because your stylist is a wedding specialist, does not mean they do bridal hairstyles that you will like. Book a trial appointment, and get an idea of what kind of hair you are in for on your wedding day. If you have a good relationship with your stylist you should feel comfortable enough to point out any changes you would like to make. Don’t be afraid to speak up. If the salon you have booked your trial at wants to charge you a fortune move swiftly along, bridal hair trials should be a complimentary service or very cheap from good hairdressing salons. There is no need to pay a fortune when you are already paying a lot for your wedding. You do not need to pay more on something that should be complimentary or a low fee.

6. THE VEIL Wearing a veil is a very personal issue, and these days have more of a nostalgic connotation and less of a religious one. Brides do not have to wear a veil if they don’t want to. There may be some requirements from certain churches and other religions, but again that is completely a personal matter. If you really don’t want to wear a veil, you are in luck, you don’t need too. Fascinators have come back into fashion with a bang and you can find a super modern version of the classic veil and dress it up for your wedding day. Veils can be very long and elegant or they can be small and to the point, it all depends on your personality and how the dress looks as well.

7. SHORT HAIR Bridal hairstyles most often conjure up images of long, wavy locks embedded with pearls and diamonds or swept up sleek, classical looks, but many brides these days are moving away from the tradition look and keeping their hair short for the occasion, and although styles are somewhat limited with short hair, it can make for a really dramatic entrance. Have your haircut two weeks before the wedding, as it will have a chance to soften at the edges after two weeks of growth.

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BEAUTY NOTES FOR THE BRIDE Great skin does not start the day or week of your wedding, it starts MONTHS before. Here are the best ways to ensure your wedding day skin preparation leads you to a flawless complexion both in person and in those all important wedding photographs.

DRINK WATER

USE GOOD SKIN CARE

WEAR SUNSCREEN

We all know the benefits of drinking enough

To ensure that your skin is in good shape

You may have a fantasy in your head of

water, but it is an especially important part

for your big day use good quality skin care

walking down the aisle with sun-kissed

of your skin care routine. Drinking plenty

products that address your skin issues.

skin but keep in mind that sun exposure

of water will flush out any toxins in your

Cleansers, toners, moisturizers, eye-creams

can damage to your skin. Not only does is

skin and will help to plump out the tissue

and serums are many products that will

cause wrinkles, it is also associated with

making your skin brighter and smoother.

benefit your skin. You might want to seek

age spots, blemishes and spider veins. If

This also diminishes the appearance of fine

the advice of a professional when purchasing

looking bronzed is important to you then

lines and wrinkles.

the right products for your skin.

use spray tan to give yourself some color.

GET PLENTY OF SLEEP

CLEANSE & TONE DAILY

WASH MAKE-UP BRUSHES

Never underestimate the power of getting

You need to have a regular skincare routine

One of the worst sources of bacteria for

a good nightâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s sleep. When we sleep our

at all times. Use your skincare products daily,

your face is a dirty make-up brush. Clean

bodies produce important proteins to help

especially at night time. Never go to bed

them regularly with make-up brush cleaner

cells and tissue regenerate. This helps to

with make-up on, and simply removing your

or shampoo to avoid spreading unnecessary

give your skin a healthier appearance and

make-up with a facial wipe is not enough.

bacteria around your face. This will help

will reduce the risk of blemishes. Making

Most beauty therapists recommended

reduce your risk of getting blemishes and

sure you sleep enough will also prevent

cleansing, toning and moisturizing twice

pimples tremendously and get you ready

those unsightly eye bags and dark circles.

daily, morning and night.

for your big day.

WASH PILLOWCASES

DONâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;T TOUCH YOUR FACE

DIET & EXERCISE

A build up of bacteria, dust and other grime

Never be tempted to pop a pimple as

A healthy diet that of rich foods such as

can accumulate if you do not wash your

you risk leaving a scar, or spreading the

fruits and vegetables will increase collagen

pillowcases regularly, which will affect your

infection. Instead dab a small amount of

production and enhance overall complexion.

skin. Wash your pillowcase and bed sheets

benzoyl peroxide on the pimple to reduce

Exercise can help to get any toxins out of

regularly to avoid any breakouts caused by

the swelling. Also, touching your face in

your body and regulate hormones that

bacteria. This is a very common mistake

general transmits germs from your hands

cause break outs. A good diet and regular

many people make when they are trying

onto your skin which can give you an oily

exercise are important ways to improve

to keep their skin clear.

complexion and cause break outs.

and maintain the appearance of your skin.

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BEAUTY TIPS NATURAL BRIDAL GLOW

ultimate cheat sheet:

NATUR AL BRIDAL GLOW A little cheat sheet to help you avoid any possible makeup-induced meltdowns!

STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF Yes, this may sound like a quote from a stock-image-illustrated motivational poster, but when it comes to your wedding makeup, hold this mantra true to your heart. The biggest mistake brides make is going out of their comfort zone. Your makeup artist can do the most beautiful job—however, if you are not comfortable, it comes across in the photos, and you will end up hating it. If you are unsure about what look to try—perhaps your makeup artist is swaying you with photos of a retro-inspired cat-eye—always go with what you want and what makes you feel your best. It is your day and you deserve to call the shots on what makes you feel your best self.

GO FOR GLOW No bride wants to look through her wedding photos and zero in on her oil slick of a forehead, but make sure not to go the opposite route with a too-matte look, either. You want to look like your best self on your day, which means having flawless, glowing skin. It will make you look like you are glowing from within and radiating happiness. Hopefully, that is already the case because it is your wedding and all, but a little extra glow never hurt.

LONGEVITY IS KEY Picking a lip color for your big day can in some ways feel as monumental as picking your dress. Should you go bold and opt for a classic red? Will your go-to pink not be “special” enough? In the end, you can never go wrong with rose. It is universal because, essentially, it is the color of a just-bitten or kissed lip. However, do not oppose to a red lip on your wedding day, if that is the color your normally wear. My only advice is that if you have never worn red, today is not the day to start!

CONTOUR CAREFULLY If you are choosing to add some subtle sculpting to your wedding day look, opt for matte over any product with shimmer. Contour is a more defined version of your face, so opt for a matte shade, and keep it soft. There is nothing worse than a heavy, shimmery contour on a day where you are supposed to be flawlessly beautiful.

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BEAUTY TIPS BRIDAL BOOTCAMP

BRIDAL BOOTCAMP WEDDING WORKOUT TIPS FOR EVERY BRIDE

GET A JUMP-START

BE REALISTIC

KNOW WHAT IT TAKES

The earlier you can put your workout plan

Setting a big weight loss goal can help keep

If you have more than 15 pounds to lose

into effect the better, especially if you are

you motivated, but be careful. If you aim

you will need five or six times 30-minute

hoping to drop a more significant amount

too high you will only be setting yourself

cardio sessions and three to four strength

of weight. Basic math skills are all you

up for failure and frustration. You need to

training per week. Cardio can be anything

need to figure out how much time it will

realistically evaluate what your ideal weight

from going for a run to jogging, brisk walks

take you to reach your goals. Have a weight

should be and if you are capable of getting

and cycling. And remember: If you continue

loss goal of 30 pounds? Get started at least

there in a healthy way. Once you have an

to do what you have always done, you will

six months before the wedding. If you are

attainable goal in mind, be prepared to

continue to get the results you have always

looking to lose 15 pounds, you will need

do the amount of work in the time it will

gotten. Want to make more progress? Then

three months, and so on.

take to reach it.

prepare to push yourself a bit harder.

ADJUST YOUR EATING HABITS

LOSE FAT, NOT MUSCLE

SET SMALL GOALS

The best way to get the most out of any

The big takeaway here is that your body

Nothing makes you feel more motivated

exercise routine is to pair it with healthy

has a cap of how much fat you can blast at

to keep going than actually hitting your

eating habits. The simplest way to get

any given time. You could lose more weight,

goals. The key is to keep them small and

started is to eat more vegetables. You

but it might not be from fat. The weight

specific. Write your goals down in a journal

will also want to focus on superfoods, like

you lose may be from muscle, which is not

and make a note as you reach each one so

broccoli, eggs and walnuts, which fill you

good because losing muscle means messing

you have a record of your successesâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;you

up quicker, keep you feeling full longer and

with your metabolism. Aim to lose one of

will find it is not so tough to continue to

help you lose weight faster.

two percent of your body weight per week.

build on your achievements.

FEEL THE BURN

CHANGE PERSPECTIVES

AIM FOR BALANCE

Increase the intensity of your cardio and

See your gym sessions as time you have

Of course you will want to focus on the

strength-training programs every week.

control over. With all the chaos around

parts of your body that will be on display in

Brides should not be afraid of increasing

planning a wedding, it is comforting to

your gown, but do not neglect other areas.

the weight load. This is required to challenge

know that you have control over how your

The most successful fitness plans balance

your body and take it past a plateau. If

body will look in your wedding gown and

nutrition and exercise and they work out

you are not sure how much weight will

on the honeymoon. Plus, it is a place you

your entire body. Many brides just want to

work, consider investing in a few personal

can escape from the day-to-day drama of

focus on their upper body because of their

training sessions so a professional can set

wedding planning, so turn off your cell,

gowns, but you want to work on your entire

you up with a regimen that will tone your

forget about your growing list of to-dos

body to create symmetry and balance. Do

body without bulking it up.

and focus on pedaling that bike.

not forget, eventually, the dress comes off!

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FITNESS PL AN 6 MONTHS TO A TONED WEDDING-READY BODY

MONTH 1

MONTH 2

For the first month, your focus should be on getting active and engaged

Still here? Good work! Get out the diary (or your camera) again and

in the program. A good way to get motivated is to start a workout

record your progress. Do not focus too much on weight loss yet—what

diary where you can monitor your progress. Write down your starting

you should be taking note of is an increase in energy and stamina.

weight (going forward be sure to weigh yourself at the same time in

Since you have been working out three times a week for four weeks, you

the morning for consistency), and use a measuring tape to record the

should start to feel like you are getting into a routine that is quickly

size of your chest, waist, hips, thighs and forearms. To stay motivated,

becoming second nature. In your journal, take extra time to write down

keep notes all the way through. If you are more of a visual person, or

how you feel, how you are dealing with stress and what you think you

if you would rather not deal with numbers, take a picture of yourself

are gaining from your exercise program. During month two, you will

every week to track changes.

pair your aerobic activity with sets of crunches and push-ups, so you can start toning two big target areas.

Tip: Try not to focus on quick results because you do not want to get discouraged early or you will never stick to the program. This is about

Tip: About 15 minutes into your workout, check your heart rate to

creating a healthy change in your lifestyle that will show up with time.

make sure you are hitting your target range. You can check it the old-fashioned way by finding your pulse on your wrist or neck and

WEEKS 1 & 2

counting the beats with a stopwatch or download one of the new

20 minutes of aerobic activity (running, walking, jogging, cycling, or

heart rate apps for your smartphone—they use the phone’s camera

anything that gets your blood pumping) at least three times a week.

sensor to calculate your heart rate.

If you are not the running type there are plenty of moves (try burpees, jumping jacks and mountain climbers), classes or exercise videos out

FINDING YOUR TARGET HEART RATE

there that will also get your heart rate going. Want to boost your burn?

To take advantage of your workouts and stay in shape, you should try

Add an extra day of activity to your week or switch a resting day to

to stay within a targeted heart rate zone. To find your zone, figure out

a weightlifting day.

your maximum heart rate (the highest your heart should be beating during your exercise session) by using this formula: 220 – your age

WEEKS 3 & 4

(in years) = maximum heart rate. Once your maximum heart rate is

30 minutes of aerobic activity at least three times a week.

found, use the following formulas to find your target heart rate zone, which should be somewhere between 30 and 60 beats per minute less than your maximum heart rate. Maximum heart rate – 30 = target heart rate high Maximum heart rate – 60 = target heart rate low WEEKS 5 & 6 Complete the following at least three times per week: 40 minutes of aerobic activity 2 sets of 10 stomach crunches 1 set of 10 push-ups WEEKS 7 & 8 Complete the following at least three times per week: 40 minutes of aerobic activity 3 sets of 10 stomach crunches 2 sets of 10 push-ups

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MONTH 3

MONTH 4

Need a bit of a motivational boost? Write down your latest measurements

We know it sounds cheesy, but take a moment to congratulate yourself,

or take your photo, then flip back to the first page of your journal (or

you are halfway there! Weigh yourself, take your measurements and

check out that first photo) to see the changes youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve made in just a

snap a photo. If you have been following the program consistently,

few months. Also, get out your calendar to check how quickly your

you definitely should notice some substantial changes by now. We

wedding day is approaching and remind yourself why you are doing

bet even friends and family are starting to notice. In month four, get

all of this. Visualize yourself coming down the aisle in the best shape

ready for chest presses.

ever and do not give up! Even if you have not lost weight, you should be seeing some results in your muscle tone by now. This month, we

Tip: At this point, if nothing or very little has changed, you may need

will crank things up a notch by adding a set of squats to the first two

a more advanced program. Try consulting a personal trainer and a

weeks and sets of bicep and tricep curls to the last two.

nutrition specialist for help addressing your specific needs.

Tip: Do not panic if you have not lost weight or maybe even gained

WEEKS 13 & 14

a few poundsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;muscle is denser than fat, so you have most likely

Complete the following at least three times per week:

turned some of that fat into lithe, lean muscle.

40 minutes of aerobic activity 3 sets of 15 stomach crunches

WEEKS 9 & 10

3 sets of 15 push-ups

Complete the following at least three times per week:

3 sets of 15 squats

40 minutes of aerobic activity

3 sets of 15 bicep curls

3 sets of 10 stomach crunches

3 sets of 15 tricep curls

2 sets of 10 push-ups

2 sets of 10 chest presses

1 set of 10 squats WEEKS 15 & 16 WEEKS 11 & 12

Complete the following at least three times per week:

40 minutes of aerobic activity

3 sets of 15 stomach crunches

3 sets of 10 stomach crunches

3 sets of 15 push-ups

3 sets of 10 push-ups

3 sets of 15 squats

2 sets of 10 squats

3 sets of 15 bicep curls

2 sets of 10 bicep curls

3 sets of 15 tricep curls

2 sets of 10 tricep curls

3 sets of 15 chest presses

WAKE UP. WORK OUT. KICK BUT T. REPEAT.

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FINAL STRETCH! MONTH 5

MONTH 6

Okay, now it is time to get serious: There are only eight weeks to go

Can you believe there are just four weeks to go?! As you get closer to

until your wedding. Weigh in or snap your photo. Now, where do you

your wedding date, your crazy schedule may threaten to derail your

still need some help? Is it your stomach? Thighs? Butt? Pick one or two

exercise program, but do everything you can to stay on track. Weigh

areas and focus, focus, focus. In month five, you will continue along

in and take your measurements. You will continue to workout at the

with the same program, but add in three extra sets of 15 for whichever

same level as last month. If you are having trouble finding the time

area(s) youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d like to improve most. With every crunch, squat or curl,

to keep up this pace, cut back the number of sets you do, but swap

envision yourself looking gorgeous in your gownâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;you will get there.

in heavier weights to keep the intensity up.

WEEKS 17 & 18

WEEK 21 & 22

Complete the following at least three times per week:

40 minutes of aerobic activity

3 sets of 15 stomach crunches

3 sets of 15 push-ups

3 sets of 15 squats

3 sets of 15 bicep curls

3 sets of 15 tricep curls

3 sets of 15 chest presses

3 sets of 15 extra target area of your choice

WEEKS 19 & 20

WEEK 23 & 24

Complete the following at least three times per week:

40 minutes of aerobic activity

3 sets of 15 stomach crunches

3 sets of 15 push-ups

3 sets of 15 squats

3 sets of 15 bicep curls

3 sets of 15 tricep curls

3 sets of 15 chest presses

3 sets of 15 extra target area of your choice

TRANSFORM YOUR WISHES INTO ACTIONS

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Celebrating The Worldâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Greatest Love Stories Since 1837

CRUSH ON

COLOR A creative kitchen starts with a playful palette.

STYLE DETAILS 70 74 76 80

3 CAKES 1 RECIPE MAY YOUR LOVE BLOOM YOUR COLOR GUIDE ECO-FRIENDLY WEDDING

THREE CAKES

ONE RECIPE There’s a new trend out there that we’re here to tell you about! They are the Miraculous Cakes, also known as Magic Cakes and only require one recipe to create three beautiful, unique, and pictureque cakes for your wedding.

STYLE DETAILS 3 CAKES 1 RECIPE

CAKE

ONE A showy feathered dahlia is complemented with a pretty peony bud and a mini dahlia corsage in a rustic-styled buttercream cake design below by Leslea Matsis. She blended a vintage style with a contemporary floral motif and stripes.

CAKE

THREE One way to make a round cake feel a little more unique is to highlight just one of the layers by coating it with some sort of a three-dimensional detail, like flowers, a pattern, and dragees. The floral cascade is mirrored in a specific type of

CAKE INGREDIENTS

delicately iced details on each individual tier.

Apricot Glaze

3 eggs beaten Sugar paste icing 1/2 teaspoon salt 225 grams sultanas 3 tablespoons Brandy 100 grams mixed pee

CAKE

TWO

1/4 teaspoon cinnamon 600 grams butter (unsalted)

The rosette trend, that has textural sugar-made

1/2 tablespoons lemon zest

roses throughout the cake - is fun because the

3/4 cup half-and-half cream 15 cups confectioners’ sugar 4 packages white cake mix 1-1/2 cups butter, softened

added dimension is different and unique but the look is still elegant and beautiful. One caveat? The color. Stick to white or ivory rosettes. Jan Kish from La Petite Fleur in Worthington, Ohio, also cautions against using rosettes on a single

1-1/2 teaspoons vanilla extract

tier. “You have to make sure you balance that

1-1/3 cups poppy seeds, divided

textured layer with something else so your eye

Pink liquid or paste food coloring

doesn’t get stuck there.” Rosette cakes are more

40 grams Almonds (whole) chopped

“romantic” cakes in comparison to other cakes

1 package (3.4 ounces) lemon pudding

and have a more elegant feel to them.

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MAY YOUR LOVE

BLOOM

If flower arranging is your specialty, or you are a fairly low

While you’re dreaming up options for your wedding flowers,

maintenance type, then full-on DIY flowers are doable. But,

spend as much time as possible at botanical gardens, flower

because flowers are so delicate and time-sensitive, they need

stores, and farmers’ markets, asking questions and making

to be handled carefully for maximum freshness. They may be

notes about what appeals to you. Also, spend some time in

treacherous territory for most brides. Instead of trying to do

the craft section of your bookstore looking through flower

them all on your own, why not delegrate them to someone in

books. You’ll likely learn the names of blooms you’ve admired

your network, or perhaps do all the planning and purcashing

for years, and you’ll become familiar with types you’ve only

yourself and hand the day-before and day-of work over to a

heard about. For a good basic visual primer on flower varities,

talented friend? Then, on your wedding day, you can say “For

visit the flower library at www.aboutflower.com. Take notes

me? You shouldn’t have!”

on what appeals to your eye.

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petal talk:

LET’S TALK COLOR blue: The pale blue hues of the hydrangea or the deep

purple: With its origins tied to royalty, ceremony, and

blue hues of an iris can calm worries and preoccupation

celebration, purple flowers represent true dignity, pride,

representing peace, openness, and serenity, fresh floral

and success. Whether grouped alone in a bold range of

arrangements filled with blue flowers offers an antidote

rich hues or mixed in with other colors to provide depth

to anxiousness.

and contrast, an arrangement filled with purple blooms represents accomplishment and admiration.

pink: Think pink and you might think of grace, gentility, and happiness. Regardless of the shape of the flower

white: Often associated with innocence, humility, and

or the type, from the tight, small buds of a pink garden

reverence, white flowers evoke simple beauty. Whether

rose to the delicate, open petals of a pink caellia in full

they take their shape as the luxurious, silk petals or the

bloom, pink blossoms convey youth, innocence, and joy.

fragrant gardenias, the smaller, white bells of a lily of the valley, or the quiet drama of one dozen white roses,

orange: There’s nothing bashful about the color orange. Its message is clear and blatantly proud. Symbolizing

fresh floral arrangement dominated by white blossoms conveys modesty and elegance.

energy, enthusiasm, and warmth, a large arrangement of blooms in this vibrant, lively color conveys confidence,

yellow: There’s a really good reason why it can feel all

satisfaction, and a passion for life.

but impossible to refrain from smiling when you spot a bouquet of bright daffodils or a pot filled with sundrenched chrysanthemums. The color yellow tends to

red: There’s an indisputable energy to the color red. It is

evoke feelings of joy and lighthearedness. Also a symbol

an energy that has the power to transform an otherwise

of friendship, a bouquet bursting with yellow blooms

unassuming flower into the essence of desire, energy,

sends a message of new beginnings and happiness.

strength, and passionate love. Having beauty, courage, and heat as its inner symbolism, it’s no surprise that a bouquet filled with rich, red blooms knows no restraint.

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5 TIPS

FOR HOSTING AN

ECO-FRIENDLY WEDDING

TIP 1: FORAGE FLOWERS/GREENS Foraging for greens to supplement your bouquet and centerpieces is a great way to be sustainable as well as save money. Fields, abandoned lots, and sides of roads are great places to go foraging. Try not to take more than 25% of any particular plant. If you’re buying flowers, farmer’s markets and local flower farms are great places to start. Try to always use what’s local and in season.

TIP 2: CHOOSE RECYCLED PAPER OPTIONS Millions of trees are toppled every year to make paper products, and the process of producing these items pollutes the environment. Now more and more couples are trying to help by making eco-conscious invite choices. We do recommend old school snail mail for the wedding invitations, but for save-the-dates, paperless is becoming more and more common. You can also reduce the inserts in your invitations by directing people to your wedding websites for any extra details. For your invitation, keep an eye out for stationers who may offer recycled paper products and vegetable-based inks, like The Windmill Paper Boutique (they even source printing from windmill-powered printers). Some paper products are even plantable—yes, plantable! Paper from companies like Botantical Paper Works are embedded with seeds, so guests can plant them in their backyards and the paper turns into flowers, plants or herbs instead of ending up in a landfill.

TIP 3: HOST RECEPTION AT A GARDEN Choosing a venue helps set the stage and theme for any event and is usually your first major decision. One of the biggest ways to cut down on energy is to get married outdoors, like on a farm or vineyard, where the sun can provide all of your lighting. There are tons of beautiful botanical gardens, hilltops and refurbished barns that offer modern conveniences, like sinks and toilets, so that you don’t have to sacrifice on the hygiene portion of your wedding. We know outdoor ceremony and receptions don’t work for everyone. If you want to be indoors, there are several ways you can make it green. First, hold your ceremony and reception in one place—no one will have to travel to get from one event to the next, which cuts back on fuel emissions. Or choose a venue that gets plenty of sunlight and host a daytime wedding so you can leave the lights off. Another way to be green indoors: Look for hotels that recycle and use energy-efficient appliances and biodegradable products.

TIP 4: RE-WEAR A GOWN The first thing that comes to mind when thinking about eco-friendly dress shopping is re-wearing a gown, maybe even your mother’s. If you love the idea of wearing her dress, but aren’t totally in love with the dress itself, work with a seamstress to make it more your style. Or, if mom’s dress is out of the running, start from square one and pick out a gown that’s totally you. First stop: Check out vintage clothing shops or consignment boutiques. Nothing speaking to you? Check out all of the websites you can buy or rent pre-worn gowns. If you prefer to wear a brand-new dress, try to find a designer who uses sustainable fabrics (like organic cotton, silk or hemp), such as H&M’s eco-conscious wedding collection or Reformation.

TIP 4: ORDER LOCALLY SOURCED FOOD

TIP 5: LOOK FOR PLANTABLE FAVORS For an eco-frindly wedding, look for plantable favors like potted saplings, herbs or succulents. If a lot of your guests are traveling, keep in mind that they probably won’t want to pack a pot of soil into their suitcase, so consider biodegradable seed packets if you’re committed to the plant route. Or, go edible. Look to local businesses like coffee houses for a bag of their signature beans, candy shops for chocolate bars (easy on the paper wrapping) or jams in reusable glass jars from an orchard.

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THEN WE SAID, I DO VOW TO BE THE TRUE YOU EAT, DRINK, & BE MERRY REFRESHING COCKTAILS SUSTAINABLE WEDDING MEALS HONEYMOON HOTSPOTS

THEN WE SAID, “I DO” Your big day is about celebrating the love between you and your future spouse. Though there is another goal at hand: throwing one epic party that your guests will talk about for years to come. How do you make your big day stand out amongst the throngs of weddings your guests have attended in the past? While there are many ways to exceed the standards, we made a list of ways you can get the party started right. Think about the wedding experience as a whole. Your nearest and dearest are here to watch you marr y your longtime love, but sitting for an hour long ceremony is not their idea of a celebration. Remember that many of your guests have traveled to spend time with you, not watching you, so ensure your being interactive throughout the evening. This way your family and friends will feel like an impor tant par t of the proceedings.

KEEP YOUR CEREMONY BRIEF

CREATE A SEATING CHART

Do not get us wrong, your friends and family are

It does not matter if your reception dinner will be

present at your big day to see you get married but

a buffet, plated meal, or family style servings, a

no one wants to watch a drawn out ceremony that

smart seating chart is vital to ensuring your guests

lasts too long or that will bore someone. Keep

have a good time. Your guests will be seated at

the actual proceedings (not including entrances

their tables a large portion of the night. Try to

and exits) around twenty minutes so you will not

group people together with similar backgrounds

lose anyone’s attention.

and interests, so they will have something to talk about even if they have never met before. It is

CHOOSE A PERSONALIZED PROGRAM Do not forget about creating a wedding program. By personalizing this piece of stationery, with

obvious to pair families together and certain friend groups together, but for your work friend or yoga girlfriends, make sure they are at a table that they are going to feel comfortable chatting at.

interesting details about you and your groom, a breakdown of the ceremony’s proceedings, and any important information they should know. You

SPLURGE ON THE OPEN BAR

will capture their attention and get all of those

While open bars can be pricey, there are ways to

key details across, plus, it will keep them busy

make it work on any budget. Consider offering

if the event runs a little late.

just beer and wine or a few cocktail options if you need to cut back, but do not ask family and

USE A WEDDING APP OR HASHTAG There are many wedding apps to choose from for your big day. Some interactive apps allow guests

friends to open their wallets.

HAVE A SIGNATURE COCKTAIL

to upload wedding photos into one curated place,

Speaking of cocktails, serve one or two delicious

while others keep your friends and family up on

customized drinks. It will offer you a huge savings

wedding-related news. Want something even

if you forgo a full bar, and it makes your reception

easier? Create clever hashtag and ask guests to

feel so personal. You and your groom should each

put the hashtag in their captions of all the photos

pick a concoction, but try to select drinks that are palatable for a wide array of people.

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HAVE A PHOTO BOOTH Not only is a photo booth a fun activity for your reception, it is also a great alternative for your guestbook or favor. The options are literally endless, but we love a great selection of props for your buddies to play with.

SKIP TRADITIONS Some brid es do not want to toss the bouquet or the garter, while others would prefer not to wait until the ceremony for their first look. If you are a girl who just can not image partaking in one of these traditions, do not do it! It is your wedding; you can skip what you want to.

MAKE A MEMORABLE EXIT No one wants your wedding night to end, but since it has to, go out on a high note. Do a fun and festive farewell, like a firework show, sparkler exit, or confetti send-off! Your guests will love it, and it will make for some amazing photos. Try changing into a blood red Monique Lhuillier dress post-ceremony. The more traditional ball gown shape is still elegant, but the color is so unexpected.

SERVE LATE NIGHT SNACKS Yes, you are serving dinner and dessert, but those are typically devoured hours before the reception actually ends and with couples extending their parties later and later, it is likely that more than just a few of your guests will be thinking of a tasty late night snack. Have your caterer bring out hand-held options like sliders and fries, mini grilled cheese, or coffee and donuts about an hour before the reception ends to revive revelers.

GIVE A FAVOR PEOPLE WILL USE Trust us, people do not want a framed photo of you and your new husband. If you are going to spend the money on favors, select something that your guests will not leave on the table. Mini bottles of bubbly, a yummy snack like cookies or popcorn, or a treat they can enjoy once back at home.

LET LIFE SURPRISE YOU

VOW TO BE THE

TRUE YOU

If you are a silly person, I am here to tell you that it is okay if your vows are a little silly, or funny. If you would rather just write one simple line, DO IT. Your vows do not even have to sound like vows; you could write an essay, a sonnet, or a smooth love jam. Vows should sound like you, especially when you are making promises to your partner. Of all days, you would not want them to sound like someone else.

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EAT, DRINK & BE MERRY When feeding guests at your wedding, you want to keep everyone pleased and make sure there is something for everybody. Explore different tips for choosing the right caterer, fun, easy and refreshing cocktails, and how to have a sustainable wedding through your food.

AVAILABILITY

QUALITY OF FOOD

First and foremost you need to see if your caterer is available on the date - you require

When selecting your caterer, you should always look for stunning presentation paired

and find out what the booking and payment process is. Be sure to understand at what

with sensational taste. Ask to see a portfolio of the caterers work with pictures of their

point your date becomes secure and when payments are needed. The last thing you

food. It is important that your caterer has professional, commercial facilities and a team

want is a sudden shock and unexpected bill just before the wedding.

of talented individuals to serve your guests on the day.

We suggest that you ideally begin researching and meeting with various caterers at

When meeting your caterer it’s advisable to ask about the quality and sustainability

least 9 months before your wedding. Many venues will have a list of preferred suppliers,

of the produce they source. Creating seasonal menus will impact highly on the quality

including caterers, so once your date is chosen and the venue is booked, that’s a great

and taste of your meal. It is important to remember the importance a caterer plays in

time to start contacting catering companies.

your special day.

BUDGET

SETTING THE SCENE

It is important that you get an early indication of catering costs and what they include.

With the exception of brides using a wedding planner, your caterer is likely to be the last

Ask about what options are available to you, if you are on a limited budget, tell your

supplier to dress your tables before the celebrations begin. Make sure that your caterer

caterer what it is – ideally they should be able to provide a package to suit your needs.

takes great care to ensure that every element of décor – including the flowers, table

Consider what is and what isn’t included in the price, as often this can vary from one

centers and candles look perfect next to your tableware, and ensure that your vision is

caterer to the next.

achieved on the day.

TASTING SESSION

GREAT EXPECTATIONS

Check the caterer offers a tasting experience but be conscious that popular caterers will

A good caterer should understand your overall vision for the day and listen to your ideas,

have very limited availability throughout the entire summer season. A tasting will allow

they should be able to use their wealth of experience and build upon your ideas to go

you to fully understand the quality, style and presentation of their food and gives you

beyond your expectations for the day. Stay away from the company that insists on trying

the opportunity to explore how your own ideas can be worked into their existing menus.

to sell you above and beyond what you had originally planned on.

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REF RESHING C O C K TA I L S

STRAWBERRY LEMONADE 1 cup sugar 1 cup vodka 3 cups water 1 lb strawberries, 3/4 cup lemon juice Run the strawberries through a juicer and pour the fresh strawberry juice into a large pitcher filled halfway with ice. If you do not have a juicer, puree the strawberries in a blender or food processor. Then strain into a large pitcher filled halfway with ice. Add lemon juice, sugar, vodka and water to the large pitcher with strawberry juice. Stir to combine until the sugar has dissolved. Serve cold.

BLUEBERRY MOJITO ice cubes 4 oz clear rum 6 oz club soda juice of 2 limes 2 teaspoons sugar 10 fresh mint leaves 1 cup fresh blueberries, In a food processor or blender, puree blueberries until smooth. Add mint leaves and sugar to a cocktail shaker. Add the lime juice, rum and pureed blueberries: shake vigorously.

MINT CHERRY MIXER 1 oz. light rum Sparkling water 1/2 oz. fresh lime juice 1/2 oz. simple syrup Handful of mint leaves 1/2 oz. grapefruit liqueur 1/2 oz. fresh pink grapefruit juice Muddle mint into the lime juice and simple syrup. Add ice and remaining ingredients except for the sparkling water and shake briefly. Pour into a highball glass. Top with sparkling water. Dissolve 2 cups sugar into 1 cup of boiling hot water.

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SUSTAINABLE

WEDDING MEALS The organic wedding caterer is not hard to find these days, so have fun with the choices. Remember going local and keeping it seasonal means less travel time for the food, which means you’re being as green as green can possibly be. Food is the center of any celebration, and going green does not mean you have to sacrifice taste! The farm-to-table movement is in full swing, meaning it’s more accessible than ever to source healthy, earth-friendly food. When you’re budgeting, keep in mind that organic foods may cost more, but asking your caterer to source from in-season, locally-grown products will help keep the cost down and guarantee the freshest finds. When bought directly from growers, food needs less time in the fridge and less packaging to stay fresh, so you’re being especially kind to Mother Earth, too. And since the food is coming from a shorter distance, less fuel is needed to transport it. Really want to impress your guests? Supplement your table decor with herb plants in terra cotta pots, like basil or cilantro, that guests can add straight to their dishes.

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WHERE TO STAY: All the suites and villas at

WHY GO: This island is one of the most upscale

gardensâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;and most have the perfect ocean view.

destinations in the Caribbean and its French

WHAT TO DO: Pack a picnic basket, swimsuits

background provides an elegant appeal similar to

and beach towels and head to the insanely beautiful

the French Riviera.

Colombier beach.

the intimate Le Sereno have private terraces and

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BALI

WHERE TO STAY: The Mulia, Mulia Resort &

WHY GO: There is a reason its nickname is the

for clean white-sand beaches and calm blue waters.

â&#x20AC;&#x153;Isle of the Gods.â&#x20AC;? Even before the hit book and

WHAT TO DO: Arrange a trip to Pura Luhur

movie Eat, Pray, Love, the island had been a magnet

Uluwatu temple. Located atop a cliff rising 200

for romance seekers for its mist-shrouded temples,

feet above the Indian Ocean, it has one of the most

beautiful mountain vistas and vivid arts scene.

unforgettable sunset views in the world.

Villas fronts Nusa Dua coastline, which is famous

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SANTORINI

W HERE TO STAY: The Perivolas hotel has a

WHY GO: This small volcanic island is known

W H AT TO DO: Take a scooter to the red and

for its seriously gorgeous sunsets and pristine

black sand beaches, check out ancient sites, visit

whitewashed villas.

wineries, go hiking and stop in the many boutiques.

clif f side terrace with a view of the Aegean Sea.

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WHERE TO STAY: Koh Tao Bamboo Huts

WHY GO: Why settle for one breathtaking

balcony and pavilion. You can also book one with

beach when you can experience a dozen? Rent a

a private swimming pool and Jacuzzi fit for two.

motorbike and search for your favorite with your

WHAT TO DO: Relax on the private beach,

partner, then you can do activities like snorkeling,

or get certified in scuba diving at the nearby dive

diving, canoeing, kayaking.

center and take your new skills for a test drive.

look out on the water and have an indoor/outdoor

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WHERE TO STAY: Niyama Maldives has a

WHY GO: Explore an adventure with your love

reachable only by boat and a spa where you can

amidst gazillion coral reefs and azure crystal clear

book a coupleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s massage.

waters. One of the most exciting things for couples

WHAT TO DO: Relax on the private beach,

to do will get enough moments in the divine sea

or get certified in scuba diving at the nearby dive

life to deepen their love strings.

center and take your new skills for a test drive.

coral nursery, an underwater nightclub, a restaurant

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INSIDE COVER Photo: Jeremy Chou

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EAT, DRINK, BE MERRY! Sustainable Wedding Meals Photo: Adobe Stock Refreshing Cocktails Photo: Think Stock HONEYMOON HOTSPOTS Opening spread: Monkey Business Images Source: www.theknot.com Saint Barts, Bali, Santorini: Photos: Adobe Stock Thailand Photo: Drew Altizer Photography Maldives Starwood Hotels