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Lighting Out For The Eastern Frontier Experiencing Asia from a Jewish perspective,from Shanghai to Mumbai.

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sia might not see as much Jewish travel as Europe and the U.S., but the gap is narrowing. Every year, more Jewish and kosher resources are available at destinations across the vast continent, from the antiquities of the Caucasus antiquities to the beaches of Southeast Asia. Asia-Jewish experts praise the region’s historical lack of anti-Semitism, along with abundant vegetarian-friendly cultures that are comfortable for observant Jewish travelers. And then there’s the simple reality that Asia is a huge, diverse continent whose surprising pockets of Jewish heritage remain largely unknown to Americans. For experienced Europe travelers, Asia represents a series of frontiers. For retirees with time on their hands and a sense of adventure in their hearts, here are some of the newest ways to experience the East from a Jewish perspective:

Kosher comfort along the Great Wall

ext year in Shanghai? Passover in China has been a surprise hit for Kesher Tours, a family-owned, New York-based kosher travel outfit. Spokesperson Tzipor Gabbay said China is the newest destination for 34-year-old Kesher, and so far, it’s among the most popular, both for the holiday and otherwise. “You know what people love? Everything is big over there,” Gabbay said with a laugh. “The rooms are big, the meals are big, everything is big.” China is more welcoming than ever for American Jewish travelers, Gabbay added. The country’s booming economy has attracted a recent influx of foreigners — including numerous American Jews, Israelis and Jewish exchange students — who, along with new Chabad houses, have enhanced local Jewish life. As the communist nation has liberalized, travelers are getting a warmer welcome, Gabbay said, with fewer regulations and more touristic (even kosher!) infrastructure. Visitors are unfailingly wowed by the forests of skyscrapers and dizzying architectural mosaic of Shanghai, whose 26 million people make it the world’s larg-

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doing tai chi and playing badminton. Despite having more than a billion people, “China is really safe,” Gabbay noted. “There’s not much crime.”

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continued from page 2 est city; less known is its Jewish quarter, a refuge for Europeans fleeing the Holocaust. Kesher travelers cruise the HangPu River, take China’s famous bullet train to Hangzhou, fly over the Karst Mountains and scale Mount Yao by cable car for one of China’s most Instagrammable views. They also shop the markets in ethnic villages, stroll the Great Wall and ogle imperial sculptures in Beijing, the capital. Shabbat is a day to chill in the parks with locals

hailand has no shortage of Jewish visitors. But until a few years ago, it had virtually no kosher hotels. That changed when the Centra (officially the Centra by Centara Avenue Hotel) opened, in Pattaya, a beach resort about 90 minutes south of Bangkok, the capital city. Centra is among the few places in Asia where travelers won’t need reservations to ensure a hot kosher meal. They also don’t have to worry about securing a room on a low floor; the eight-story lodging has a Shabbat

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Jewish heritage — a legacy that is slipping away, as fewer Jews remain in Musleah’s native Calcutta. Along with Joshua Shapurkar, a member of Mumbai’s Bene Israel community, Musleah leads Jewish heritage trips with Explore Jewish India. Jewish tours of the subcontinent are proliferating, but few offer the personalized take of Musleah: She leads Shabbat services at Calcutta’s Maghen David Synagogue, where her father — the descendant of Baghdadis who arrived in 1820 — was once the rabbi. The group dines in flower-scented courtyards with Jewish community members, learns about notable Indian Jews like the Sassoon family (the “Rothschilds of the East”), rides elephants and plays with peacocks. Touring historic syna-

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continued from previous page gogues, the Americans are often joined by local school groups — because in multiethnic India, the 2000-year-old Jewish legacy is considered national patrimony, Musleah said. New for 2020 is a tikkun olam-themed social justice tour; highlights include the 100-member Jewish community of Ahmedabad — a UNESCO World Heritage city — and Rajasthan, a region that

includes the palaces of Jaipur. “There’s so much religion in India, and yet so little anti-Semitism,” observed Musleah. Another perk for Jewish travelers: India’s tradition of vegetarianism means that most kitchens “have never seen meat,” said Musleah (hotels typically have separate kitchens for meat and vegetable dishes). With gastronomy a highlight of Indian tourism, Musleah added, “people won’t feel they’ve missed out on cuisine just because it’s a Jewish tour.” India will always be fascinating, of course, but Musleah urges those interested in Jewish heritage to visit now — “while there’s still a chance to interact with members of the community,” she explained. “And to bring life, and music, and prayer to the beautiful and magnificent places that remain.”

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to represent the U.S. population. It was conducted Feb. 14 to 18 and has a sampling error of plus or minus 3.7 percent. Retirement experts have said the average retiree will need to replace 70 to 80 percent of his or her annual income in retirement, and Robert Pagliarini, a certified financial planner, suggested that financial planning for retirement should begin as soon as one starts to work full-time. “People in their 20s should work with a financial adviser to help them make the best financial decisions they can,” he said in an email interview. “Those wise decisions — even if they are small — can compound for the young person.” And he acknowledged that retirement planning can be intimidating. “There are a lot of moving parts, and to make matters worse, the stakes couldn’t be higher,” he said. “Individuals have worked 30 and 40 and 50 years and now want to enjoy their retirement. That’s a lot of responsibility. The best advice is to take small baby steps. This is the one thing I’ve seen that helps clients continue to make progress. If you take this big responsibility too quickly, it can quickly become overwhelming.” Selecting a financial adviser should also be done with care. Some have said choosing a retirement planner and not a financial planner is important because the latter helps you accumulate and

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individual who is a fiduciary and who is a CFP [certified financial planner]. These two requirements will go a very long way in finding a competent advisor. I created AdvisorFit to help people interview advisors. It asks all of the questions that should be asked.” Among the questions Pagliarini suggests one ask in selecting an adviser: Are you a true fiduciary, that is, someone who is legally obligated to provide advice that is in your client’s best interests; how long have you been working as a financial adviser — a rule of thumb is at least 10,000 hours to have developed expertise in the field; have you had any regulatory or legal issues; does your firm hold my money and investments – you want to hear no because there is a significant difference between a firm that manages your investments and one that manages and holds them; do you manage retirement portfolios differently

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from non-retirement portfolios; and can you help create an income strategy for retirement? Pagliarini added that he recognizes that “too often we choose to ignore the unknown and what scares us. In practice, this means we don’t examine our finances and we don’t do any planning because we are worried about what we will discover. I get that. It’s a natural response, but you have to push past this fear and dive in. You may not like what you find, but at least you will know where you stand and what you need to do.” Those who have no money worries and are considering spending their retirement years becoming involved in different charitable organizations and increasing their charitable giving might wish to get advice from the booklet “Your Jewish Philanthropy Roadmap,” produced by the Jewish Funders Network and the Jewish Communal Fund. It points out that the word “tzedakah,” often translated as “charity,” literally means “justice” and that “Jewish tradition considers giving an act of justice and our way of creating a fairer world. Giving is — for Judaism — a basic obligation, one of the main tools we have to change reality and manifest our deepest human values.” “Maybe you want to change the world or at least the small piece of it where you live,” it says. “In doing so you hope to inspire others to follow suit. … There may be a family legacy you want to preserve. Your social, cultural or political values will inevitably play a prominent role in your philanthropic decision-making. So might the causes and affiliations you are already a part of.” The booklet notes that “many philanthropists center their giving around their spiritual beliefs and/ or religious practices. They support not only their house of worship but also organizations and causes that they learn about through their community of faith. Our Jewish tradition and values speak to the importance of tzedakah, or acts of justice. The Torah tells us, ‘You shall surely open your hand to the poor and the destitute of your land.’ The Jewish community has a long tradition of establishing institutions to provide for those in need. It is worthwhile to take the opportunity to explore how your Jewish values can inform and guide your charitable giving.” Just as important as having a solid financial portfolio is the need to “strengthen one’s psychological portfolio,” according to Nancy K. Schlossberg of Sarasota, Fla., a retired professor of counseling psychology and author of the 2017 book, “Too Young to be Old” (published by the American Psychological Association). She said her research has taught her that there are various paths retirees follow, including those who embark on something very different from their life’s work; those who continually search to “find something new — trying to figure out where they belong”; the “easy gliders who wake up in the morning and just let the day unfold”; those who are “involved spectators,” such as retired politicians who remain news junkies; and those who take a time-out to get their wits about them, some of whom then become couch potatoes. “I don’t want couch potatoes to get depressed, but it just shows that there is life after work and many paths you can take,” said Schlossberg, who recently turned 90 and continues to write books in retirement. “But whatever path you take, you need a sense of purpose.” ◆

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Arbor Terrace Roseland

345 Eagle Rock Ave., Roseland, NJ 07068 973-618-1888 https://www.arborcompany.com/locations/new-jersey/roseland No matter where you are in life, you deserve to pursue your passions, maintain meaningful relationships, and live every day to its fullest. We strive to provide a place to do just that at Arbor Terrace Roseland, located in Essex County, N.J. With top-notch assisted living and one-of-a-kind dementia care neighborhoods designed specifically for those affected by Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias, our expert staff tailors care to your specific needs. We don’t believe in labels. Instead, we believe in giving seniors the best services, whatever your needs. Our memory care, Evergreen, provides seniors not only a safe place to live but also one designed to help them thrive physically, mentally, and socially. Residents can embrace a lifestyle that’s active or choose a more leisurely pace. Located less than an hour from New York City, Arbor Terrace Roseland offers residents close proximity to theatre, arts and cultural institutions, parks and gardens, and world-class shopping and dining. Or, just stay “home” and enjoy the many amenities available right here at Arbor Terrace Roseland. We’re currently updating our community, so it can be fresh and even more inviting! Choose from multiple, upscale dining venues, or visit the salon and spa, library, movie theater and inviting common spaces for gathering with friends. Each day features chef-prepared meals and a variety of engaging events, including planned outings to local attractions like the Newark Museum and the ReevesReed Arboretum. Arbor Terrace Roseland is operated by The Arbor Company, with more than 30 years of experience in luxury senior living. If you choose Arbor Terrace, you’ll get to know us, and we’ll get to know you. We are so confident in our excellence that we are prepared to give your money back if you aren’t satisfied—just give us 60 days to prove we are the best.

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Some doctors say that it is the single most important factor when it comes to longevity. FORGET WORRY Meditation and prayer are known links to longevity. It’s no surprise that taking time out the day for some deep breaths and reflection can increase life expectancy. Studies indicate that when high levels of cortisol, a stress hormone, are released into the body, it can weaken the immune system and even create heart problems. Stay calm, and practice that “om”. ENJOY YOURSELF Though this secret is close to the first one, it encompasses a different set of values. It’s really about treating yourself. It’s okay to get a massage or eat a second cookie. What’s important is to live as though every day is a remarkable one and to approach every experience with an open mind. There’s not a single secret to this long-life thing. These are just a few ideas to help you get the most out of your life. And if you’re looking for a place where all of these seven secrets are built into your daily routine, stop by one of our communities for a visit. You can learn more about increasing your longevity and the benefits of a senior living community by visiting Brookdale.com.

The Chelsea at Bridgewater

680 Route 202/206 North, Bridgewater, NJ 08807 (908) 252-3400 | www.chelseaseniorliving.com There’s no doubt that Americans, on average, are living longer. Advances in medical science are preventing illness, curing disease and healing wounds to the point where reaching 80 isn’t a rare event anymore. Still, bodies inevitably wear out and aging baby boomers may be faced with difficult and emotional lifestyle decisions for themselves and/or their parents. They may be faced with the reality that their living arrangement must change. Thankfully, those changes do not have to be traumatic. Designed for those who do not need acute care, but need a little help doing everyday things, Assisted Living is a perfect environment for thousands of senior citizens across America. The Chelsea at Bridgewater provides a warm and friendly, home-like environment for residents who are cared for and cared about. The Chelsea offers private and semi-private apartments with a 24-hour emergency response system and a registered nurse on site daily. Wellness programs are customized for each resident. Vibrant Lifestyle programs are offered, and gourmet meals are prepared by our superior chef and served in our restaurant-style dining room. We have a special program, The Country Cottage, for those with Alzheimer’s disease and other memory impairments that features 24/7 care, a separate dining room and a secure environment supervised by a Certified Dementia Practitioner. We have specialized activities for our residents with dementia. And, of course, families are welcome to visit any time. See the full range of services provided by The Chelsea at Bridgewater at chelseaseniorliving.com or call 1-877-CHELSEA.

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1155 Pleasant Valley Way, West Orange, NJ 07052 | 973-731-5100 Daughters of Israel provides a full continuum of care, form short-term rehabilitation for sub-acute care and respite stays, to long-term skilled nursing and memory care, with a state-certified Alzheimer’s unit. Daughters of Israel was awarded the Gold Medal in Suburban Essex Magazine’s 2018 “Best of Essex Awards” in the Senior Living category for the third consecutive year. Daughters of Israel is also a RWJ Barnabas Health PostAcute Care Partner and Music & Memory-certified facility. Daughters of Israel’s Rehab Center leverages the most advanced technology to help its clients get back on their feet again. Its spacious rehab gym features state-of-the-art equipment funded through the generosity of The Healthcare Foundation of New Jersey, and includes a transfer training car, bilevel therapeutic kitchen, and Nautilus NextGeneration machines. In addition, the Rehab Center utilizes the OnmiVR, the first virtual rehabilitation system designed specifically for the needs of medically complex patients that was used in the Rio Summer Olympics. The Rehab Center also offers the Accelerated Care Plus (Trademark R with circle) specialized treatment program for pain management, offering electrotherapy, therapeutic ultrasound, short-wave diathermy, and infrared therapy. The rehab program at Daughters of Israel is ideal for those recovering from surgery, joint replacement, prolonged hospitalization, medical illness with deconditioning, fractures, and complex wounds, as well as stroke rehabilitation and intravenous antibiotic therapy. For more information, or to arrange a tour at Daughters, call 973-400-3307.

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The Gardens at Monroe

189 Applegarth Road Monroe Township, NJ 08831 (609) 448-7036 www.thegardensatmonroe.com The Gardens at Monroe, Healthcare and Rehabilitation, is committed to creating an environment that supports health and well-being. You will experience this not only in the care provided by our great team using best practices and current technologies and equipment, but also in the life and activity all around you when you walk through the door. At The Gardens at Monroe, we see every day that a strong family support system enhances health care and recovery. We have designed additional services as a part of our Family Focused Care program to help our patients and their families maintain strong relationships and support one another as a team on the road to achieving health and rehabilitation goals. Transportation ser vices make it easy for you to visit! We provide a car service Monday through Friday for our short-term rehabilitation patients’ family members to visit. Transportation is complimentary for the first 20 days of your loved one’s stay and offered at a discounted rate thereafter. Continue to enjoy meals as a family. There is no replacement for the quality time a family spends together over dinner. We encourage you to join your loved one for a daily meal while you are visiting. Family and friends can enjoy a meal for a nominal fee. The Gardens at Monroe with give you the care you need, close to home. Contact us today at (609) 448-7036 or visit the gardensatmonroe.com to learn more about how our services support the needs of patients and family alike.

Greenwood House

53 Walter Street, Ewing, NJ 08628 609.883.5391 Ext. 388 www.greenwoodhouse.org Greenwood House is a nonprofit, kosher, missionbased comprehensive continuum of health care services that include inpatient and outpatient rehabilitation, skilled and subacute nursing, memory care, long-term care, assisted living, homecare and hospice care. We welcome those of all faiths as we embrace and celebrate a rich history rooted in Jewish traditions. Since 1939, our commitment to patient-centered care has been evident in both the quality and scope of health care services we offer. For over 10 decades, Greenwood House continues to uphold its tradition of excellent care – best known for addressing the physical, cognitive, and social wellbeing of each individual. As the only health care provider of its kind, Greenwood House serves the Mercer County and surrounding Central & Southern NJ areas as well as Bucks County, PA and beyond. As a health care organization offering a broad range of programs, lifestyles and services for seniors, Greenwood House strives to grow and change as needs and trends evolve. Our vision is to provide a network of seamless, multidisciplinary, integrated and relevant services with a continued focus on preventive care, wellness and maximum independence. In following our mission to meet the social, emotional and spiritual needs of seniors and the disabled, Greenwood House addresses those areas of need that are underserved within our surrounding community. We strongly support the need for quality of life by providing the necessary advocacy, education, and outreach to those most Continued on following page

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seniors who want to maintain their maximum level of independence while also receiving quality care and support. Your loved one will benefit from all the amenities in the assisted living neighborhood, as well as all Lantern Hill has to offer including our on-site medical center, restaurants, convenience store, trips, and an abundance of other activities. Our newly expanded assisted living neighborhood offers new private studio apartment homes with private full bath. You don’t have to be a current Lantern Hill resident to benefit from our assisted living neighborhood and we do not have a large entrance fee. Call 1-877-825-0583 today to learn more about our special summer promotion.

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RETIREMENT

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Continued from previous page vulnerable by offering a continuum of senior care services delivered with skill and compassion. The Greenwood House Difference: • Nonprofit, Kosher, Rich History Rooted in Jewish Traditions • Consistent Quality, Expertise and Best Results for over 80 years • Care you can Trust For more information, please contact Donna Sobel at the Greenwood House at 609-883-5391, ext. 388, or visit www.greenwoodhouse.org.

HOMEWATCH CAREGIVERS PROVIDES BEST-IN-CLASS SENIOR CARE RENOWNED HOME CARE COMPANY MEETING LOCAL DEMAND FOR HIGHER QUALITY HOME CARE SERVICES Homewatch CareGivers is the premier provider of high quality senior and home care in the region, offering both hourly and live-in care customized to meet the individual needs of each client. Owned and operated locally, Homewatch CareGivers locations provide Essex, Mercer, Middlesex, Monmouth, and Union Counties with the high-quality care necessary for senior aged residents and others living with chronic illnesses or recovering from illness or surgery to remain independent and healthy within their own homes. Services can include just a few hours of care to 24/7 in-home assistance, with all personal care services provided by certified home health aides under the direct supervision of a registered nurse. An international leader in senior care and assistive in-home care, Homewatch CareGivers has earned an accolade in recognition of its exemplary client and caregiver satisfaction from a third-party research company that collects data on client and caregiver satisfaction scores and feedback. To learn more about the following Homewatch Caregivers locations, please contact: Homewatch CareGivers of South Orange-Essex and Union County at (973) 810-0110 or visit hwcg.com/south-orange Homewatch CareGivers of Princeton-Mercer County at (609) 423-1200 or visit hwcg.com/princeton Homewatch CareGivers of Old Bridge-Middlesex County at (732) 591-1991 or visit hwcg.com/old-bridge Homewatch CareGivers of Ocean Grove – Southern Monmouth County at (732) 800 -7889 or visit hwcg.com/ocean-grove

Jewish Community Center of Middlesex County

1775 Oak Tree Road, Edison, NJ 08820 732-494-3232 | www.jccmc.org Sue B. Horwitz, MSW, Director, Senior Adult Services Senior Services at the JCC continue to evolve to meet the changing needs of our growing adult population. We offer lectures on a wide variety of topics that stimulate one’s mind, musical performances that enrich one’s senses, trips that broaden one’s horizons and wellness programs that address the health and fitness lifestyle of retirees. There are Jewish holiday celebrations, a Bereavement Support Group, a weekly Men’s Discussion Group, Pickleball, Monthly Writing Workshop and Book Conversation, as well as bridge classes and social table games. Aging in place surrounded by familiar sites and a supportive community is essential to a healthy later life. Continuing to maintain feelings of self-worth, to inspire one’s mind, to engage with others and to remain physically active and fit, all help to minimize loneliness, promote strong brain and body functions and give us reason to get out of bed each morning. The JCC is a vital hub in this process! Our well-rounded programs and events offer a wide range of choices which are successful in satisfying the inquisitive minds of experienced adults. Our caring, knowledgeable staff shares helpful resources and the JCC community encompasses many amazing seniors who set a positive tone for aging with grace, enthusiasm and appreciation. We welcome you to be a part of our JCC family!

Jewish Family Services of Middlesex County

32 Ford Avenue, Second Floor, Milltown, NJ 08850 732-777-1940 | 609-395-7979 JFS Middlesex is a non-profit human services agency whose mission, rooted in Jewish values, is to help all individuals and families in need realize an improved life experience at home, in the workplace and in the community. We pursue these aims by providing effective social services, counseling, and

advocacy through responsive, caring programs for residents throughout the entire county. We serve the community without regard to race, ethnic origin, age, gender, sexual orientation or religious preference. JFS provides a wide spectrum of services for senior adults to help individuals remain independent in their communities for as long as they can function safely and effectively with the highest possible quality of life. We are proud to offer programs and services that: encourage active older adults to engage in intrinsically meaningful activities, support adult children of aging parents, and enable older adults challenged by disability, illness or declining health to live in comfort and dignity. JFS senior services include mental health counseling, bereavement groups, on/ off-site geriatric assessments, geriatric planning and care management, adult social daycare, senior nutrition programs with transportation, home-delivered meals and friendly visitors. Designed to foster personal independence while offering family support and respite, JFS senior services are provided by a dedicated, caring staff of licensed social workers, case managers, geriatric group workers and trained and dedicated volunteers.

Jewish Federation in the Heart of NJ FEDERATION CHAMPIONS THE JEWISH HEART OF NJ The Jewish community in the heart of NJ offers many engaging, enriching, and supportive opportunities and resources for people approaching or in retirement, adults 55+ who continue working and enjoy an active lifestyle, and aging seniors in need of a little extra help at this stage of their lives. Jewish Federation in the Heart of New Jersey proudly conducts, supports, and promotes such programs and services ranging from Kosher Meals on Wheels and mental health counseling for those in need to Jewish Heritage travel in Israel, Europe, and beyond. Socialization groups meet for lunch, book talks, films, theater day trips, music, and more. Seasoned and retired business professionals are creating a new mentoring program for young professionals. Grandparents attend PJ Library concerts, carnivals, and crafts days with their grandchildren. The Life & Legacy program makes it easy and affordable for those who want to help secure a bright Jewish future for generations to come. Aid for Holocaust survivors helps them age with dignity at home. All this and more keeps people in their golden years connected to a caring and vibrant Jewish community that values them and all they have done to make this community what it is today. Find resources at jewishheartnj.org/adults or call 732.588.1800.

Lions Gate

1110 Laurel Oak Road, Voorhees, NJ 08043 (856) 679-4682 | www.lionsgateccrc.org Inspiring wellness through lifestyle, care, community and tradition…it’s our promise to our residents all day, every day. Rooted in Jewish culture and values, Lions Gate is a vibrant Life Plan Community offering a lifestyle filled with unlimited possibilities. Lions Gate is so much more than a place to retire – it’s a place to thrive! We are a community filled with dynamic, friendly and inspiring people who share similar interests and have planned for an enjoyable, fulfilling retirement lifestyle. As a Life Plan Community, we offer worry-free Independent Living as well as Assisted Living, Memory Care and a highly rated Health Center featuring Skilled Nursing and Rehabilitation services. This continuum of care right on campus means never having to worry about what happens should health needs change. For more information contact Donna Coonley at (856) 679-4682 or email dcoonley@lionsgateccrc.org

MobilityWorks

5105 New Jersey RT-33, Farmingdale, NJ 07727 732-751-4524 | www.mobilityworks.com Whether you are in the market for the latest technology, a certified pre-owned or a specific conversion, MobilityWorks offers the largest selection of converted SUVs, mini and full-sized vans and adaptive solutions. At MobilityWorks you will always find the newest innovations in adaptive equipment. We take pride in providing our customers with crash-tested accessible vehicles converted by BraunAbility and VMI. In addition, with more than 75 locations across the United States, we average over 1,000 vehicles in stock that meet the mobility and financial needs of our customers. Through our personalized approach, we work with each customer so that they receive the best solution for their needs. We believe every person deserves to be connected to who and what matters most in their lives. Call (732)751-4524 to set up your need analysis today at our Farmingdale store or visit mobilityworks.com to see what MobilityWorks has to offer.

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MAKING THE DECISION TO MOVE TO ASSISTED LIVING

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living.taylormorrison.com You’re looking for a home designed for you and your needs, a new home in a community where you feel a sense of belonging and unity, a new home that you can live in for years to come as your haven of comfort and joy. Whether your new home search is for that perfect place to start the next chapter in your life where you can live an active 55-Plus lifestyle and meet new people, or you’re looking for the next neighborhood to call home for your growing family, Taylor Morrison has the perfect new community for you. SOLIVITA When it comes to 55 plus communities in Florida, there are many options. However, there are few like Solivita, an active adult community situated just minutes from downtown Kissimmee, FL and less than 30 miles from Walt Disney World® and Orlando International Airport. Named one of the nation’s Top 50 master-planned 55 plus communities by Where to Retire magazine three consecutive times, and to ideal-LIVING magazine’s Best of the Best list, Solivita has also earned over 70 awards for design and community planning. It’s no wonder Solivita has already welcomed over 7,000 residents. With all of the awards and recognition, Solivita is unlike many other 55 plus communities in Florida. A gem against the backdrop of Mickey and Minnie, Solivita provides community members with the perfect balance of outdoor living, comfort, and luxury. Walk to your favorite shop or bike to your next bbq, Solivita was made with the active adult in mind. Feel secure within your gated community as you make new friends at our spa and fitness center or attending one of over 200 social clubs created by Solivita members! At Solivita, every part of our 4,300 acres, 150,000-square-feet of amazing amenities and fifteen distinctive home designs was imagined and executed solely with you in mind. Boasting over 150,000-square-feet of amenities within this award-winning 55+ community, Solivita in Florida is the perfect place to call home. VITALIA Welcome to Florida’s Treasure Coast and Vitalia at Tradition, the 55+ active adult community in Port St. Lucie, Florida. Inspiration to live life at your pace and the ability to experience your passions comes naturally here on this cherished length of Florida’s shore. Named to ideal-LIVING magazine’s Best of the Best list, our homeowners enjoy a gated lifestyle in the meticulously designed active adult community nestled within the expansive Tradition master plan. With bicycles and golf carts as the preferred method of transportation, our active adult residents can join friends within the neighborhood or explore the vast 8,300 acres of Tradition. While the scale may be large, the feel is still small town America with our Town Hall, boutique restaurants, as well as shops, spas, and salons, and the town center, Tradition Square. It’s the lively hub where residents gather for year-round events, entertainment, and concerts. Amenities within Vitalia at Tradition in Port St. Lucie, Florida include a putting green, heated pool, tennis courts, and a residents clubhouse, which hosts sporting events, themed nights, and many more community activities.

Village Apartments

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The decision to move a loved one into assisted living is often met with some resistance. Change can be hard for seniors, especially if they have lived in their home for a long time. It is important to approach the subject slowly and with compassion. However, once the decision is made, most are thrilled with the move for many reasons, including: 1. Safety -- With aging comes frailness, visual impairment, loss of balance and other issues that could put your loved one at risk. At Stein Assisted Living, residents and family members have peace of mind knowing that they are in a safe, loving community that puts their needs and care at the forefront. 2. Health Care – At Stein Assisted Living, monthly wellness checks, 24/7 nurses on premises, attention to good nutrition and monitoring of medications are measures taken to ensure that every resident’s medical needs are met. 3. Socialization – Quite often, seniors feel isolated within their own homes due to limited mobility. At Stein Assisted Living, residents can keep their social calendars full with an abundance of activities, trips, exercise and recreation programs, clubs, classes and opportunities for spiritual enrichment. If you would like to learn more about the benefits of assisted living, contact Stein Assisted Living at (732) 568-1155 or email info@wilfcampus.org. Shortterm stays are available. Stein Assisted Living, which includes Jaffa Gate Memory Care Neighborhood, is part of The Oscar and Ella Wilf Campus for Senior Living, which is also comprised of Stein Hospice, Wilentz Senior Residence and Wilf Transport.

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’ve been preparing for retirement for some time, and I’m now days from leaving the position I’ve held for 30 years and the profession in which I’ve worked for 40 years. I’ve read many books about this “encore” period of one’s life as well as what this new life stage means and might be. This past week a friend sent me a link to an essay in The Atlantic called “Your Professional Decline Is Coming (Much) Sooner Than You Think – Here’s how to make the most of it” by Arthur C. Brooks (July, 2019). Brooks describes life’s trajectory from one’s 30s to 80s, when we peak intellectually and professionally, and when the capacities upon which we depend for work success begin to decline. He describes as well the nature of success at different ages, and what brings us the greatest happiness in each life stage. For years I’ve felt empowered, relevant and useful in my work as a congregational rabbi, Jewish, and progressive Zionist leader. I’m never bored because people fascinate me, the infinite variety of their stories moves me, ideas and notions stimulate me, community and service to others enrich me, Jewish peoplehood and the State of Israel ground me, and working closely with talented people inspires me. As a manager of creative, competent and menschy colleagues and as a participant in sacred-partner relationships with bright and committed lay leaders, I’m fortunate to feel deep satisfaction in our collective accomplishments as we’ve grown our synagogue community as a Jewish home away from home for thousands of people over the years. I anticipated leaving my position as senior rabbi when I thought I reached the peak of my intellectual and professional capacities and before my strengths began to wane as I aged (I turn 70 later this year). Like many people my age, certain abilities diminish that used to be a given in my life. For example, I often can’t recall people’s names or the titles of books and movies I’ve seen and read, even recently, and I’m not as quick a thinker as I once was. I have also become much less interested in the sport of intellectual sparring unless the discussion engages the heart and soul. I want only to do that which enhances my life and brings me meaning, joy and ease. Though I anticipate my retirement with excitement and relief, I worry still about how I will remain relevant after leaving my professional position. Arthur Brooks quotes Alex Dias Ribeiro, a former Formula 1 race-car driver, who said, “Unhappy is he who depends on success to be happy. For such a person, the end of a successful career is the end of the line. His destiny is to die of bitterness or to search for

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‘I hope to enjoy more fully being in the moment, to turn from the rigors of the rabbinate to the refreshment of my soul that comes with living at a slower pace.’ – Rabbi John L. Rosove more success in other careers and to go on living from success to success until he falls dead. In this case, there will not be life after success.” Brooks offered an important insight: “No matter what mix of intelligence your field requires, you can always endeavor to weight your career away from innovation and toward the strengths that persist, or even increase, later in life.” Those strengths involve the spiritual and metaphysical, the capacity to be of service to others and the greater wisdom that comes out of life experience. These abilities have been at the core of my professional life for decades, and so my challenges are somewhat different than they may be for others. For me, I hope to enjoy more fully being in the moment, to turn from the rigors of the rabbinate to the refreshment of my soul that comes with living at a slower pace, to enrich my relationships with the family I love and the friendships I cherish, and to develop new skills, new interests, and new creative abilities. I’m hopeful that my retirement will be a new beginning, a re-fire-ment in my life. I’ll keep you posted. ◆ Rabbi John L. Rosove has been senior rabbi of Temple Israel in Hollywood, Calif., since 1988. Beginning this month he will be rabbi emeritus. The immediate past national chair of the Association of Reform Zionists of America, he is the author of “Why Judaism Matters — Letters of a Liberal Rabbi to his Children and the Millennial Generation” (Nashville: Jewish Lights, 2017). This essay first appeared last month in The Times of Israel.

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