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Contents January/February
Volume 2, Number 1
Features
We’re all in charge of our own personal safety. – Trish Hoffman
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It’s About Attitude!
Retired APD officer teaches confidence, and empowers women. By Kelly Koepke
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Departments
“Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.” - James Clear
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SPECIAL SECTION
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CURRENT OBSESSIONS
Thumb Cups....................... 10 Edible Western Flair.......... 10 Humor....................................11 Book Review.........................11
BETTER LIVING
Wine Pro Tips.......................12 Wisdom Through the Ages...................................... 14 Winter-Ready Skin..............16 Separate Bank Accounts..18
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32 Deb Redford Realtor
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33 Billie Adams Dentist
GIVING BACK
Shelley Repp.......................20 Fostering...............................21 Sharing + Charity = Sharity .................................22 Get Involved........................23
HOME SPACE
Pillow Talk............................34 Clearing Clutter...................36 Recipe: Chicken Chili......... 37
WELL BEING
Exercise for Sanity.............38
GOINGS ON
Calendar...............................42 Scene with NMW...............46
WHY NEW MEXICO?
JoAnna Johnston............. 48
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On the Cover Trish Hoffman’s goal is to empower women. Photo: Liz Lopez Location: Albuquerque
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Volume 2, Number 1 PUBLISHER/EDITOR
Rena Reiser VP OF SALES
Marty Ryan ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES
Lindsey Larrañaga Rebecca Lynch Elias Martinez CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
What kind of difference do you want to make? Read through these pages and you’ll find plenty of opportunities and inspiration. -– Rena Reiser
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appy New Year! We’re so proud to ring in this new decade with you. We’ve received such encouragement and support since publishing our first issue, and we’re honored to be a part of this great community of women! Naturally, it’s the time of year when we reflect and make resolutions that we hope will improve our lives — and those around us. So, I polled the staff here at “New Mexico Woman” and asked them for one of their personal resolutions for this year. Here are some of their answers. (No names, please.) • Learn my husband’s phone number. • Do nothing, relax and take time for myself. • Learn something new and be more grateful. • Get a thinner waist and fatter bank account. • Focus on choosing the right words. Words can either uplift or crush. Can you relate? While some of these are funny and some are serious, they all have an effect on those around us. Jane Goodall said, “You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you. What you do makes a difference, and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make.” What kind of difference do you want to make? Read through these pages and you’ll find plenty of opportunities and inspiration. Maybe you’re already making a difference. Then we want to hear about it! Share your story with us! And, as you’re reading this magazine that supports New Mexico women, please remember to support the advertisers that make it possible. Talk to you later!
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Beverly Custer Heather Hunter Hillary Ibarra Kelly Koepke Jordan Kuehne Robin Martinez Annie McManis Amy Morton Jennifer Myers Lindsay Rutland Kelly Siebe CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS
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POTTERY | COOKIES
Thumb Cups Artisan pottery offers earthy elegance.
PHOTO: Courtesy Hanselmann Pottery
Corrales-based Hanselmann Pottery has been crafting hand-thrown stoneware since 1970. Their current most-popular item? Thumb cups, which fit perfectly to your hand with a thumb indentation. Each piece is made one at a time, in a process that takes 3-6 weeks. What’s more to love is that their local gallery operates on the honor system, allowing customers to shop at any time and pay without pressure. HanselmannPottery.com
Edible Western Flair
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Custom cookies round up admirers.
Milagros Guillen, self-taught cookie artist of Las Cruces’ Sweet Trails, is a bit western. And she wanted cookies that matched her style. When she couldn’t find any, she made her own. Now her sweet creations are a hit among the western set, garnering orders from national rodeo associations. She’s even designed a complete squash blossom necklace – all from cookies!
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HUMOR
Quick! Hide the Toilet Brush
Guests bring out our frenzied cleaning skills. By Hillary Ibarra BOOK REVIEW
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e clean our homes differently for strangers. When a loved one stops by suddenly — seeing the clean clothes hamper strewn about the living room and dishes piled in the sink — we smile sheepishly as if to say, “You still love me, right?” But we care what strangers think! They don’t know our housekeeping skills can’t compare to our many other great assets. There’s no bond of blood or friendship. Our quirky sense of humor and baked goods won’t distract from the vomit stain on the carpet, and they might not forgive us for exposure to that mystery smell. It’s certainly not easy to explain the empty booze bottles we’ve been meaning to take to the recycling bin. I was reminded of this when I volunteered to host a dinner for my daughter’s sports team. As I attempted to make my home the showplace it wasn’t, I contemplated all the extra stuff we do for strangers. For instance, the dysfunctional microwave
that serves as an “upcycled” stand for our functional one? I hid it in the garage. The piles of paperwork mess? I hid those, too. Other people, I suspect, have house elves in crawl spaces who sort through bills, junk mail and schoolwork for them. I even eyed my toilet bowl brush as I scrubbed the guest bathroom, wondering if I should hide it as well. Had I ever seen this vulgar contraption in a home decorating magazine? Do the homes in those articles even have such things, or does the maid bring it with him/her when they come? What happens if there’s an emergency due to a stomach virus or a bad batch of Carne Adovada? “Quick, call our cleaning service, honey — and tell them to bring that magic toilet wand thingy!” After my harried cleaning and decluttering, our house smelled and looked so immaculate that I wondered if I’d forgotten to put a “For Sale” sign out front. Marveling at my great achievement, I snapped a picture — the proof I needed. My loved ones would never believe me!
Elizabeth Gilbert’s latest novel, “City of Girls,” is a delectable and raucous romp through New York City’s golden Elizabeth Gilbert age of theater. Set in Manhattan against the backdrop of World War II, “City of Girls” is a coming-of-age tale of the black sheep daughter of a well-to-do family. Having disgraced them by dropping out of Vassar, free-spirited Vivian is sent to live with her bohemian aunt who owns the Lily Playhouse — a deteriorating theater perpetually running the risk of closing its doors. Along with her new found freedom, dining and dancing in the big city with showgirls from the Lily, rubbing elbows with the elite in the finest nightclubs, and cavorting with any man who will buy her a cocktail, Vivian is thrust into a world of opulence and danger. If you’ve only read Gilbert’s non-fiction works (“Eat, Pray, Love” and “Big Magic”), grab a copy of “City of Girls,” a glass of Cabernet Sauvignon, and allow yourself to be transported by this irreverent and magical tale. - Review by Beverly Allen Custer
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Order Wine Like a Pro
5 tips from the experts. By Heather Hunter
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s we dive into a new year with smart resolutions and bold inspiration to stretch ourselves, it’s also an ideal time to expand our knowledge of wine and feel more empowered in this often-intimidating arena. You won’t likely become an oenophile overnight, but we’ve tapped the insights of local wine experts to help you look like a pro the next time you order wine. ASK FOR A RECOMMENDATION
Our pros agree that we can lean on the experts for guidance to find the right wine. “Restaurant employees at all levels want to make customers happy. They know what wines are popular,” says Myra Ghattas, owner of Albuquerque’s Slate Street Café and Sixty-Six Acres, who is a wine lover and leads a wine-tasting class. She adds, “We ask about the best dishes on the menu, why not ask about the wine?” KNOW WHAT YOU LIKE, BUT BE OPEN
Kristina Hayden Bustamante, wine director at The Compound in Santa Fe, wants every woman to learn to recognize and describe what you like to drink. She says, “Don’t worry about fussy terminology, unless you’re comfortable with that. But do know a few terms to guide your wine helpers like dry, full-bodied, earthy or brisk.” Chris Paulk, general manager at Heritage Hotel’s Monte Sagrado and Palacio de Marquesa in Taos, studied wine in Italy, is a Level 1 Sommelier and has a 20-acre winery in Mendoza, Argentina. He agrees that everyone should drink what they like and is quick to remind us, “If you have fish, you can easily order a Pinot Noir.” He adds, “If you are going to
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order a bottle, be adventurous and try a varietal you’ve never had before. Torrontes from Argentina is a great option.” Dan George, a sales representative for wine distributor Synergy Fine Wines, echoes the importance of alternative varieties. “There is a universe of wine beyond the standard Cabernet Sauvignon, Merlot and Chardonnay. Italy, for example, has a staggering number of indigenous grape varieties from Nero d’Avola to Fiano di Avellino and Verdichhio.” Ghattas concurs and says, “Don’t be afraid to try something unusual, such as Voignier, Mouvedre or Verdejo. Unusual wines are often the most interesting.” DON’T BASE YOUR DECISION ON PRICE
“Don’t assume the most expensive wines are the best wines, and the least expensive wines are lesser quality. There are a lot of great-tasting wines that are exceptionally well-priced,” Ghattas says. However, Bustamante says, “Don’t be afraid to tell a sommelier the price-point you are comfortable with and don’t feel pressured to overspend — this can be a mood killer.”
ORDER WINE BY THE GLASS
“Savvy restaurant wine directors are starting to offer higher quality wines by the glass,” George says. Wine by the glass can be a better value. It also provides us with new opportunities to expand our palate, but not commit to a full bottle. IF YOU’RE UNSURE, START WITH BUBBLES
Paulk encourages us to take our time ordering wine. “Food loves wine. If you don’t know what you will order to eat, don’t order the wine yet.” Instead, he suggests we order a glass of sparkling wine as our first drink. If you tend to rely on your go-to wine, allow these tips from the experts to encourage you to get out of your comfort zone. Be bodacious and daring — the same way you live your life. And, when in doubt, start with bubbles. FOR MORE ON THIS STORY, INCLUDING TIPS FOR ORDERING WINE IN A TASTING ROOM, VISIT WWW.NMWOMAN.COM.
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Gathering donated coats for kids, and distributing them to those in need is a holiday tradition in New Mexico. The need for warm winter wear is critical for everyone, but can be especially challenging for families that are struggling financially. Bosque HVAC Plumbing & Roofing is doing their part to keep the community warm. In November and December, the company’s employees gathered more than 70 new and gently used coats and sweaters. To choose who should receive their donations, the company looked to one of their employees who previously worked as a math teacher at South Valley Academy (SVA) Middle School and High School. “The families from the school that received the coats were identified by a social worker as those who are lower income and are struggling around the holidays,” says Dana Sanchez of Bosque HVAC Plumbing & Roofing. “We were able to help 12 families with the donations from our employees.” The company’s owners also live in the area around SVA. They wanted to give back to the families and children in their immediate community. “As parents, we have a special place in our hearts for children in need,” Sanchez continues. “We are blessed to be in a position where we are able to give back.” This will be an annual event for Bosque HVAC Plumbing & Roofing, in addition to their other efforts to keep the community warm — like working with the City of Albuquerque’s Department of Senior Affairs to turn on the furnaces for eligible seniors at no charge. Bosque HVAC Plumbing & Roofing continues to make good on its vow to better the community with real action and a boots-on-the-ground approach. Ten percent of each job they do, whether residential or commercial, is given right back to a local charity. If you’re in need of heating, plumbing or roofing give them a call at 444-7200. It’s just another way you can demonstrate everyday thankfulness while also getting the job you need done right.
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Wisdom Through the Ages
New Mexico women from all ages were asked to consider what wisdom they might pass on to a woman 10 or 20 years younger than themselves. This is their advice to us. By Jennifer Myers
20s
ARLENE ESPINOZA-ARMIJO
“Stay curious. I believe the fluttering questions of curiosity are your heart’s breadcrumbs to your calling. Take time to listen to people’s stories — to slow down and prioritize connection.” THESE ARE THE DAYS OF:
“Understanding how I weave into the tapestry of women and the community.” THE SECRET TO LOVING LIFE IN YOUR 20s
“Presence. It’s about showing up for who’s right in front of me.”
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30s
LAUREN GARCIA
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MELINDA DER GREGORIAN
“Save your money, dump “Self-care is loving other him, and move on from people. You can’t love othhigh school insecurities. I er people unless you love had a hard time letting go yourself, too. Kindness is of my high school friends, always a choice. And being but I should have done it vulnerable is not being much sooner. Stop trying weak. Being vulnerable is to fit in and start being you.” the place where you grow.” THESE ARE THE DAYS OF:
“Poop, glitter, giggles and coffee.” THE SECRET TO LOVING LIFE IN YOUR 30s
“Slow down. Let the laundry pile up and leave the dishes in the sink. Give yourself permission.”
THESE ARE THE DAYS OF:
“Discovery and growth.” THE SECRET TO LOVING LIFE IN YOUR 40s
“Find the positive and the good in everything. There’s always a positive.”
50s
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ANN NEVAREZ
“Spend time with those spe- “Make memories every cial people in your life. You chance you can — rather don’t realize how quickly a than buying something, do day goes by and then it’s a something. Have a little week, and a month, and a taste without jumping year, and then they’re gone.” all-in. Take a cooking class without committing to a THESE ARE THE DAYS OF: culinary degree.” “Finding joy in all that I do. I keep creating ways to stretch my own boundaries.” THE SECRET TO LOVING LIFE IN YOUR 50s
“Gratitude. It’s being gracious and kind to myself and others.”
THESE ARE THE DAYS OF:
“Appreciation and anticipation.” THE SECRET TO LOVING LIFE IN YOUR 60s
“Appreciation. Seeing sunsets, sunrises, the fall colors. At one time in my life, I missed it because I was jumping in the car to hurry somewhere.”
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ince we live in such a dry climate, I find it important to switch up my skincare routine as soon as the temperatures drop. My skin always feels like it needs extra moisture and attention during the winter months. Over the years, I’ve made a few simple changes each winter that seem to make a huge difference in the texture and appearance of my skin. 1. Cleanse/remove makeup with a cleansing balm or oil, followed by a cream-based moisturizing cleanser. I love the cleansing milk from Dr. Hauschka!
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2. Incorporate a facial oil in addition to a daytime and nighttime moisturizer. One of my favorite facial oils is by a local company, Dryland Wilds. I apply 2-3 drops to the skin each night. I love following it up by using a jade roller for extra pampering. 3. If you struggle with dry lips, try using a lip scrub 1-2 times per week followed by your favorite lip balm.
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Separate Bank Accounts? By Amy Morton
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nyone who’s ever been in a relationship knows that money can be a major source of tension, conflict and potential breakup. A 2014 survey by “Money” magazine found that 70% of married couples argue about money — more than sex, chores or anything else. What’s more, the respondents cited “frivolous purchases” as their top gripe about their spouses. THE CONFLICT
The irony, of course, is that what’s frivolous versus justified depends on each person’s deeply ingrained money values. You may be a saver, while your significant other is a spender. Or perhaps you prioritize travel for your elective expenditures, while your partner splurges on clothing or technology. These differences can lead to financial debates, guilt-tripping and resentment. So, the question is: would your relationship be happier if you kept separate finances? With more couples marrying at an older age, more couples cohabiting before marriage and more couples choosing not to marry at all, today’s couples are increasingly experimenting with alternatives to the traditional practice of pooling their money. A 2018 Bank of America study found that 28% of Mil-
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lennial couples keep completely separate accounts, compared to 11% and 13% for Gen Xers and Baby Boomers, respectively. Even more couples, however, are employing some type of “yours, mine and ours” hybrid arrangement. A 2014 TD Bank “Love and Money” survey revealed that 42% of people living with a spouse or partner say they maintain individual accounts in addition to joint accounts, with “independence” being the number one reason for doing so. BENEFITS OF SEPARATE ACCOUNTS
My longtime partner and I are among the “yours, mine and ours” set. We each contribute monthly to a joint checking account for shared household expenses — mortgage, utilities, groceries — as well as a joint savings account for home maintenance. The rest of our income goes into our individual accounts. We feel this gives us the freedom to make personal purchases, without seeking approval, thus reducing the impulse to nag, judge or control each other’s spending practices. Has it eliminated all financial disagreements? Not completely. But we’re still together after 12 years, don’t fight about money often, and we’re pretty sure we’d have more conflict if we had to check
with each other before buying something. (A favorite example: I’d have objected to his $500 custom-made hat, which he calls “an investment.” In his defense, it’s beautifully crafted, and he still wears it and gets compliments 10 years later.) DRAWBACKS TO CONSIDER
One obvious “con” is that we pay more monthly banking fees for multiple bank accounts. Some would also argue that our arrangement offers less transparency, meaning we could deceive each other (if we were that kind of people) about our income and savings. Finally, should one of us die unexpectedly, despite being each other’s beneficiaries, we may have to go through a legal process to claim the other’s accounts. This may be solved with a power of attorney or transfer-on-death provision, however. Despite these potential downsides, we feel confident in our setup. While we have to monitor our joint account to avoid overspending, it helps us stick to a budget. And whenever an irregular expense comes up, we work out how it will be paid together. So instead of avoiding joint financial decision-making, we’ve simply focused it on the things that matter most, including our shared longterm goals.
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By the Numbers THE NEED:
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Shelley Repp What is The Harbour? The Harbour is a homeless youth dropin center, whose mission is to connect homeless youth with the services they need and divert them away from survival sex and vulnerability-based sex trafficking. “In our city, there are barriers for youth who need to access a homeless shelter,” says Harbour executive director Shelley Repp. “First is scarcity — there are only two shelters where unaccompanied minors can go. Second, once they reach the shelter, they can only stay a short time before a parent must be notified and
check them in. Unfortunately, there’s not always a parent involved… or the parent may be the reason the young person is on the street.” The Harbour provides showers, hot food, take-away food items, clothes, shoes, a computer lab and case management. Shelley’s background as outreach director at a local church earned her a spot on a statewide human trafficking task force in 2016. From there, she founded New Mexico Dream Center — of which The Harbour is a part. Shelley is passionate about personal development and loves to read.
Shelley Repp EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR THE HARBOUR “If we can address homelessness at a young age, we can address the problem of homeless adults.”
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Standing in the Gap Through Foster Care The number is staggering and the need is great. By Robin Martinez
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ccording to the Children, Youth and Family Department (CYFD), on any given day, approximately 2,300 children are in foster care in New Mexico. For comparison, that’s almost the same number of kids that are enrolled at Rio Rancho High School. If you’re considering becoming a foster parent, Carol Gloetzner, foster parent support specialist with CYFD, shares her wealth of experience to the following questions.
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How long does the process take, and may I have input into what type of children I’m willing to foster?
The typical time frame from beginning to licensing is four to six months. This includes the time for the required training and background checks. Foster parents can definitely set placement boundaries. Age, health considerations, siblings in the group — each of these factors can play into a foster family’s decision to accept a placement.
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Who is eligible to become a foster parent?
New Mexico residents, at least 18 years of age and in good health, can apply to become foster parents through CYFD. Interested families and individuals must pass a federal and state fingerprint and criminal record check. Applicants must be willing to attend 32 hours of no-cost training and participate in a home study. Marital status is not a factor, nor is home ownership. Applicants must be able to demonstrate the ability to provide a safe, stable home environment and be committed to caring for children.
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What should I consider when weighing the decision to become a foster parent?
There’s a lot to consider! If a co-parent is involved, is he or she on board? What space limitations are present in your home? Where will the children sleep? Are you able to transport them to parental visits, medical and therapeutic appointments, school and court hearings? Can you support the objective of CYFD — reunification with the biological family, if at all possible? Do you have a support team to help with the physical, mental and emotional challenges you will face? How will fostering affect other members of the family, including other children in your home? Realistic expectations are important. Fostering is not a quick and easy route to building your family through adoption. Instead, foster parents must accept their role to keep the children safe for however long the placement lasts — a few hours, a few days or a lifetime. There are not always happy endings, and the first placement you fall in love with will break your heart when they leave your home. The rewards can be great! Sticky kisses and wiping tears, seeing progress as a child develops trust or watching the biological parent make wise life choices to change their situation can help offset the challenges.
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Sharing + Charity = Sharity Deming moms launch children’s museum.
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hen Kalyn Blazak’s children were 2 and 3 years old, she had a chance encounter with another mom at a local park in Deming. Both moms commiserated about the need for a safe, interactive, indoor learning space for their kids. But instead of just wishing for something better, they
decided to take action. So, Kalyn and four other young mothers founded Play Sharity – a children’s museum and lending library – in their small community. The space will be located in a former city library, and will be inspired by Montessori and Reggio Emilia teaching. “We read a lot of books and are creating
a whimsical space for creative learning,” Kalyn says. While renovation is going on in the building, activity stations are already set up for the kids. “We’re collecting lots of items that can be used for art – leather, felt, bottle caps, clean recyclables,” she says. “Local educators have donated fossils, board games and bug collections. OMAH Works & Materials, a local toy distribution company in Deming, donated over 250 educational toys. And Explora and Wemagination Resource Center in Albuquerque are lending us materials for exhibits.” Play Sharity is 100% volunteer-run, from the founders to the executive board. Every mom has a personal reason to be involved in the project, and those reasons motivate them every day. “I strongly feel that our community needs places where families can bring children and spend time interacting
with them in a positive environment,” says board member Jamie Viramontes. “We’re fostering connections between moms with similar needs,” says Monica Topham, one of the group’s first volunteers. Families will be able to borrow toys from Play Sharity’s lending library. “We want to be a resource center for them,” Kalyn says. “Because when parents engage in a child’s education, their learning excels.” Play Sharity also plans to offer parent-and-child sewing classes, and even English as a Second Language (ESL) classes for parents. The museum will be open to the public in March. But there’s still a lot of work to do. Play Sharity welcomes a variety of donations, from interactive artwork to exhibit sponsorships. Learn more at playsharity.org. It’s all about sharing. “We believe we’re creating a better world, cared for by happy children who share.”
Every child has a unique talent. It’s our job to nurture that talent. Brynlee Keeler playing at the flight lab.
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Empowering Wom Through Personal Safety Training By Kelly Koepke
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n 1993, Trish Hoffman fled her Scottsdale life after two years of being stalked by an ex-boyfriend. She did everything right: filed dozens of police reports, three restraining orders and moved three times. But despite her efforts, he kept finding her. After a particularly scary incident where she and a friend were threatened with bodily injury, the police suggested she leave town. She packed up her car and headed to Albuquerque.
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Being able to protect oneself doesn’t matter what age or size you are. - Trish Hoffman
After a successful 23-year career with the Albuquerque Police Department, Trish is now on a mission to teach women (and men) to avoid potentially dangerous situations, and defend themselves if they can’t. During her time as a police officer, she saw a lot of bad things happen and witnessed their aftermath. What she discovered is that she liked community service, and liked teaching the self-defense classes she developed for the community. So when she retired from APD in 2017, she put her experience to work by opening Women Against Crime. Women Against Crime provides training that helps women learn how to recognize possible threats and defend themselves. “My long-term goal is to take WAC global and connect and empower women not just in New Mexico. It’s definitely a calling,” she says. The WAC
Merilee Dannemann takes her shot at instructor Trish Hoffman while practicing self defense drills. Background left to right, Caitlin Kuykendall, Trish Lopez, Jennifer Gallegos and Nelly Beltran.
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website also offers free guides for preventing burglary in your home or car, safety tips for online dating, and other resources for those interested in improving their awareness and defenses. As a police officer in the Duke City, Trish created the self-defense courses that make the core of Women Against Crime in the early 2000s. Their focus is to build confidence and reduce fear in women to help prevent them becoming targets of crime and, if they are, to be proactive in defending themselves during an attack. The free community classes often had a waiting list. Now in business for herself, Trish offers self-defense sessions to groups of 10 or more. She also provides a personal protective device meant to be held in the hand to anyone she meets. She gave out a handful of the pink and blue devices that look like cats’ faces with pointy ears to the clerks at
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Michelle Cisewski practices self defense with a simulated hit to the face with Sandi Orlando holding the bag.
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My goal in each class is really to empower one person.
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Instructor Trish Hoffman gives instruction to Renay Moya on what to do if you are attacked from behind.
the coffee shop during our interview. As a local celebrity recognized from her time as APD spokesperson, Trish is often interviewed by the media, especially after an incident makes the newspapers or television. According to Cityrating.com and the Albuquerque Police Department, the crime rate in Albuquerque is trending downward. However, both violent and property crime rates are almost twice the national average. “Everything is about attitude,” Trish says about self defense. “There is a perception that Albuquerque is a violent city with a lot of stranger-on-stranger crime, but most crime is drug- or domesticviolence related. Still, we all put ourselves in vulnerable positions two to six times a day. These are the times we’re in between — walking from our homes to our cars, from our cars to the grocery store or office building. Or when we’re out walking or exercising alone. It’s these times that we need to be aware and have a plan.”
Situational awareness and being prepared are key components of Women Against Crime’s two-hour training classes, and a focus of Trish’s speaking engagements and corporate sessions. She says that being proactive about one’s own safety can deter or help avoid being a target. “Put your phone away, take your earbuds out, and hold your keys or a personal defense device in your weak hand. Keep your head on a swivel and look around, with shoulders back and a confident walk. That signals you’re someone to be taken seriously. The average dirt bag expects no resistance at all, or for you to go into panic mode. Do resist. Don’t panic. Scream and be loud. Kick and fight!” she says. WAC’s classes also offer practice in physical techniques like choke-hold releases, wrist releases, and elbow and heel strikes. Trish often sees shy women whose timid body language blossoms into confidence by the end of a class. Being able to protect oneself doesn’t matter what age or size you are, either. “My goal in each class is really to empower one person. That’s the whole reason I do this. We’re all in charge of our own personal safety, and the class gives people the confidence to get them started on that path,” she says. When she’s not building her business, Trish is active in her church and as a hospice volunteer. She’s committed to the local community, too. “I got some advice when I retired to move away from Albuquerque. And I did go away for six weeks just to check it out. But Albuquerque is my community. I’ve been here a long time and it’s my home.” For more information, to schedule a class, tips on personal safety, or to inquire about having Trish speak to your group, visit Women Against Crime at www.womenagainstcrime.com.
Steps to Safety
Be Aware. Scanning your surroundings, even when in your own driveway or walking from your car to work or a store, can head off trouble before it even starts. Keep your head on a swivel and look around at all times. Avoid problems when you can.
Use Your Voice. The difference between someone yelling, “Get back!” or “Leave me alone!” and someone not doing those things is vital. Practice your yell in front of a mirror so that being loud becomes second nature.
Learn One Technique and Make It Second Nature.
Choose one move you’re comfortable with and repeat it: a jab with all four fingers to the eye, an elbow strike to the head or neck, a knee strike to the groin or using the heel of your palm to the nose.
Take Your Confidence Forward. Set the tone by projecting confidence in your walk with shoulders back and hands free. Most criminals are looking for someone distracted or otherwise occupied, or who looks timid and unable to resist. Don’t be that person.
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h, New Year, new leaf. The holidays can take a toll and leave you feeling overwhelmed and unorganized, and January is the perfect time to take stock and tidy up. If one of your resolutions is to clear the clutter, here are a few cause-worthy places to donate items that no longer spark joy for you.
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For one stop that takes nearly all, check out the Assistance League of Albuquerque. This non-profit is funded completely through donations and proceeds from its thrift shops, and its numerous programs benefit the local community. The AL Shop on the Corner and The Thrift Shop gladly accept household items in good condition, plus furniture, clothing, linens and holiday décor (for its annual pop-up holiday shops). The Assistance League of Albuquerque 5211 Lomas NE, Albuquerque, NM 87110 Phone: (505) 265-0619 assistanceleagueabq.org Donations accepted Monday-Saturday 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.
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Who doesn’t have a single-function kitchen appliance taking up space? With kitchen gadgets topping holiday gift guides, you’ll likely need to clear out the old to make room for the new. Kitchenality in Santa Fe focuses exclusively on gently used kitchenware, including tableware, cookware, utensils, glassware, linens and small kitchen appliances. Proceeds benefit Kitchen Angels, a non-profit providing meals to those in the Santa Fe and surrounding areas who are homebound or in need.
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Kitchenality, benefiting Kitchen Angels 1222 Siler Rd., Santa Fe, NM 87507 Phone: (505) 417-7780 ext. 206 kitchenangels.com Shop hours: Monday-Friday 9:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m.; call to donate.
Visit ReStore, the resale shops that support Habitat for Humanity. The organization happily accepts donations left over from or replaced by your remodel, including gently used doors, cabinets, countertops, tools, furniture, artwork and more. Also offering free pick-up for large items.
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Habitat for Humanity ReStore 4900 Menaul Blvd. NE, Albuquerque, NM 87110 Phone: (505) 265-0057 habitatabq.org/restore/ Monday-Saturday 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Donations accepted until 3:30 p.m. or 2520 Camino Entrada, Ste. A, Santa Fe, NM 87507 Phone: (505) 473-1114 santaferestore.org Monday-Saturday 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Donations accepted until 4 p.m.
Horse tack and riding gear
If the New Year brought new gear to your equine pal, donate the old to The Horse Shelter Resale Shop. The thrift shop welcomes donations of saddles, pads, cinches and girths, bridles, bits and more, plus equestrian wear, boots and books. The shop also accepts household goods and clothing, and sales benefit The Horse Shelter, rescuing abused and neglected equines around the state.
The Horse Shelter Resale Store, benefiting The Horse Shelter 821 W. San Mateo Rd., Santa Fe, NM 87505 Phone: (505) 471-6179 thehorseshelter.org Donations accepted Monday-Saturday 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., Sunday 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.
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Fixtures, building supplies and tools
That dining room light fixture you replaced and have been storing in the garage all year? Time to give it a chance for a new home.
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Just want to help out a neighbor? Check out Freecycle, where people post things they need or things they are offering up for free. It’s an easy way to help out someone else and keep one more item out of the landfill. freecycle.org
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White Hominy Chicken Chili
2 tablespoons olive or avocado oil 2 medium yellow onions, diced 1-1/4 pounds boneless, skinless chicken breast 1 packet of white chili seasoning 1 cup Holland House White Cooking Wine 1 jar (16 ounces) chunky salsa verde 4 cups unsalted chicken stock 1 can (16 ounces) cannellini beans, drained and rinsed 1 large poblano or green pepper, diced 1 bag (10 ounces) frozen fire-roasted corn 1 can (29 ounces) white hominy, drained and rinsed 3 tablespoons cornmeal (optional) Toppings recommendations: Lime wedges, avocado, cilantro, sour cream, cheese, tortilla chips, jalapenos
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Remove chicken and allow to rest, covered, for 15 minutes before shredding. Add beans, peppers, corn and hominy to slow cooker. For thicker consistency, add cornmeal, if desired. Cook on high 1 hour, stirring occasionally. Add shredded chicken back to slow cooker and serve with lime wedges, avocado, cilantro, sour cream, cheese, tortilla chips and jalapenos, if desired.
As a survivor of Gordon Ramsay’s MasterChef competition, Caitlin Meade offers these tips to reduce stress in the kitchen.
Prep Before You Begin
Practice the “mise en place” method — a French term alluding to having everything in place before cooking. Measure ingredients, chop vegetables and prepare utensils to create a
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Use Cooking Wine
A secret ingredient and important pantry staple for Chef Meade, cooking wine is perfect for when she needs to make a pan sauce or add flavor. It’s even saved her from having to open a nice bottle of table wine, as most recipes call for less than a cup.
Create Your Own Stock
Save any leftover poultry carcasses, wing tips, neck and bones. Add onion peels, celery tips, carrot tops and other vegetable scraps in the freezer. When you’re ready to make a batch, fill a large pot with the leftovers, cover with water, bring to a boil and simmer 1-2 hours.
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iana Berger was depressed. Stressed about graduating and life after college, her senior year at Gonzaga University had taken its toll. One of the first things to fall by the wayside was her exercise routine. “I was generally unmotivated,” the 35-year-old Rio Rancho resident recalls. “It was difficult to get myself out of bed every day.” Diana’s weight ballooned 30 pounds before she finally had enough. After returning home to New Mexico, she made time to fit a rigorous workout regimen into her busy daily routine. Her mood quickly lifted and she hasn’t stopped since. For 20 to 45 minutes a day, five days a week, Diana exercises in her own kitchen or living room and follows along with an internet streaming workout program. She tracks her workouts and dog walks with a wearable fitness tracker and separate smartphone apps. This has been her routine for almost 13 years, but it only took a couple weeks to notice a difference, and not just of the physical variety. “Working out helps stabilize me mentally,” she says. “If it’s been a tough day, I’m dealing with personal issues or whatever, exerting myself brings those emotions to the surface and allows me to deal with them.” Diana isn’t alone in this. Research shows that exercise has proven and lasting tangible benefits associated with improved mental health in women. According to a 2011 study by the American Psychological Association, the link between exercise and an improved attitude is strong. Most women will likely experience a mood-enhancement effect within five minutes of
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completing moderate exercise. The effects of physical activity don’t stop there, however. The same study includes research that indicates exercise can help alleviate long-term depression and help increase focus. Researchers have also discovered that consistent exercise can aid in treating — and even preventing — anxiety. Faced with a fight-or-flight situation, women who exercise on a regular basis may be better equipped to control their emotions and tamp down fear. “The positive effects of exercise on mental health can’t be overstated,” says University of New Mexico Assistant Professor Karen Gaudreault, who heads up the physical education program at UNM. “Most people don’t associate a workout with positive mental outcomes, but that’s exactly what tends to happen.” But finding your way to a local gym every day isn’t exactly feasible for many busy moms or working professionals who have full schedules to juggle. How can you make it happen? Technology can help. Smartphone apps make it easy to manage workouts, while wearable fitness devices help monitor and track results. Almost anyone with an internet connection can now find professional trainers to assist them online, many of them for free or minimal cost. Diana utilizes her own home as a workout center, using foam rollers, a step and rubber weights. If you want to go the more traditional route, many local gyms offer membership specials for the new year. If that isn’t for you, trips to the local park with the kids or around the neighborhood with (or without) your dog can offer many of the same benefits, as long as you’re active for at least 20 minutes continuously. The key is to make it a routine and keep going. It may take weeks to form a habit, but, as Diana found out, the immediate high after a workout is unrivaled. “I always feel better after putting in the work. Always.”
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FEBRUARY 1
DAY OF DANCE FOR YOUR HEALTH
Presented by Lovelace Health System. Bring your family and friends to be a part of the biggest free dance party for better heart health! Dance, listen to music, participate in health screenings, learn about simple and fun ways to stay healthy, and watch our 13th annual Duke City Dance-Off. 11 a.m. to 2 p.m.; Free Sandia Resort & Casino 30 Rainbow Rd., Albuquerque lovelace.com/dayofdance
ROARING 20S GALA
The 7th annual gala, presented by St. Charles Borromeo
Catholic School. Dress to impress for this spectacular fundraising event. Ages 18+. Dinner 6 to 7:30 p.m., dancing 8 p.m. to midnight; $100 per couple Embassy Suites 1000 Woodward Pl. NE, Albuquerque stcharlesabq.org
FEBRUARY 28-MARCH 1 NATIONAL FIERY FOODS SHOW
Don’t miss the hottest show on earth! There’s no better place to satisfy your craving for flavor and fire. You can sample everything from blazing BBQ to super-hot salsa to mild and savory marinades and rubs, even sweet heat desserts. 4 to 8 p.m. Friday, 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. Saturday, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Sunday; $10.50-$15.50 Sandia Resort & Casino 30 Rainbow Rd., Albuquerque fieryfoodsshow.com FOR MORE CALENDAR EVENTS NEAR YOU, GO TO NMWOMAN.COM
GO RED FOR WOMEN® INVITES YOU TO
ALBUQUERQUE GO RED
The American Heart Association invites you to this year’s Go Red for Women luncheon as we unite in the fight against the leading cause of death in women: cardiovascular disease. Please join us in our mission to be a relentless force for a world of healthier, longer lives. The event will feature a health and business expo, engaging and educational speakers, photobooth, heart healthy lunch and our Go Red For Women Fashion Show sponsored by Lovelace Health System.
February 19, 2020 • 10:30am • Hotel Albuquerque ALBUQUERQUEGORED.HEART.ORG Life Is Why Sponsor
Platform Sponsor
© Copyright 2019 American Heart Association, Inc., a 501(c)(3) not-for-profit. All rights reserved. Go Red for Women is a registered trademark of AHA. The Red Dress Design is a trademark of U.S. DHHS. Unauthorized use prohibited. 6/19DS14857
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Speaker/Trainer (and former stand-up comedienne) Linda HenleySmith presented “I am Woman. I am Strong. I am Invincible. I am Pooped!” 1 Linda Henley-Smith, Jeanne Saxon and Ava Montoya. 2 Dawn Schary, Val Romero and Chris Abbott. 3 Val Romero and Jeanne Saxon. 4 Marianne Tambalo and Erica Sutton. 5 Ginna Heiden and Rose Varona. 6 Brenda Santistevan, Jennifer Rogers, Carol Matthews and Janice Moranz.
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New Mexico Woman Premier Issue Launch NOVEMBER 6, 2019 | ALBUQUERQUE 2
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Smiles all around at the premier issue launch at Vintage 423 Albuquerque. 1 Brooke Nutting, Rena Reiser and Jennifer Myers. 2 Kristina Jones and Melanie Gorsuch. 3 Larisa Holiday and Cherie Knight. 4 Jim Myers and Rena Reiser. 5 Analisa Perez, Ryan Freeman and Elias Martinez. 6 Marty Ryan, Dennis Logsdon and Rena Reiser. 7 Vicky and Bob Samala. 8 Richard Leurig, Rebecca Lynch and Kawtar El Alaoui.
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WHY
New Mexico? Three hundred days of sunshine is important to me!
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JoAnna Johnston Life Coach Albuquerque
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I’m from Cleveland, which is very dark for part of the year. New Mexico’s 300 days of sunshine is important to me! My parents were moving here in 2003, and they were my babysitters at the time, so I followed along. The dry weather here is great for my allergies, and I love green chile and all the outdoor activities. I also like attending concerts. The last concert I went to was “The Kipsies”— a modern AmericanaFolk band from Albuquerque.
Our Community is Important to Us We Proudly Support… • Albuquerque Hispano Chamber of Commerce – 2019 Procurement Summit • American Heart Association – 2019 Go Red for Women • Native Women Lead – 2019 Native Women’s Business Summit • New Mexico Indian Affairs Department – 2019 American Indian Day • Professional Aerospace Contractors Association (PACA) – 2019 Women in Aerospace • Pennies for the Homeless – 2019 High Tea
• Rio Grande Food Project – Hike to End Hunger
• Saint Pius X High School –
American Indian Graduating Students
• UNM Anderson School of Management – Hall of Fame
• 58th Special Operations Wing Top 3
Association – 2019 Children’s Holiday Event 2019 Procurement Summit
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