Helping Your Parents Downsize

By Jeannie Fleming-Gifford

Keep in mind that some programs like the Salvation Army, Habitat for Humanity’s ReStore and Goodwill may even pick up items, saving time and effort in the process.

3. Preserve items and memories by taking photos.

As my family and I downsized our home, I came across storage bins full of art created by my daughter. How could I let go of these treasures? Though they did not serve a purpose and I did not have storage for them in the new home, they were keepsakes I treasured. The answer? Take photos. Before recycling or tossing to the trash, take photos. Create a digital album (Google makes this very easy) and then order a photo album.

4. Plan for moving

Though an investment (a paid mover averages around $75 per hour, per mover with a crew size of four and time to move a standard household around 8 hours = $2400), it is far less stressful than trying to have family and friends help, especially when other emotions may be involved.

Be empathetic to all items in your parents’ household. Though something may seem trivial or outdated, that item may hold special memories and connection to your parents. And look forward, downsizing can provide new opportunities and less worry and stress for your parents and you.

Jeannie Fleming-Gifford has a MA in family and consumer sciences and is the VP Programming for Lakeside Chautauqua. Her memoir “The Gift I Never Wanted” shares the challenges and joys of caregiving. Connect with her at atgoriginals.net.

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