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LGBTQ+ Up North
LGBTQ+ UP NORTH How Far Have We Come?
By Craig Manning North Pride and serves as its chair, echoes Carruthers’ words. In 2019, the Up North Pride Traverse City Visibility March drew more than 6,000 attendees. It’s an event that has become, in the six years since it began, the single largest LGBTQ+ Pride march in the state of Michigan. But Traverse City wasn’t always known for being an open-minded and welcoming community to LGBTQ+ populations, and most other smaller towns throughout northern Michigan still don’t have that reputation. In honor of Up North Pride’s 2020 Pride Week celebrations (which, because of COVID-19, will run virtually in 2020, from June 22 through June 28), Northern Express took stock of where things stand for the LGBT community today, including how far we’ve come over the years — and how far we still have left to go. “My wife, Elon, graduated from Traverse City High School in 1991, and she remembers very well how it was here for queer people at the time,” Cameron told Northern Express. “It was not safe. There was not much visibility, aside from maybe a sticker on the door of a bookstore or The Bookie Joint [used bookstore in Traverse City], which I think is the first place I remember seeing a rainbow sticker.” In Traverse City, at least, things have changed a bit in the past 20 years. In particular, Cameron recalls October 2010, when the Traverse City City Commission voted to update the city’s anti-discrimination ordinance. The update made it illegal for employers to fire or otherwise discriminate against employees due to sexual orientation and set similar rules for landlords, apartment complexes, and other housing facilities. One of the people sitting on that CREATING A SAFER PLACE “When I first moved [to northern Michigan] in the early ’90s, it was a very different community,” said Traverse City Mayor Jim Carruthe=rs. “It was not a welcoming community or an accepting community to diversity, at all.” Jonny Cameron, who co-founded Up city commission was Carruthers, who is openly gay. Carruthers went on to win the mayoral office in 2015 and won re-election to a second term last fall. In 2014, Cameron co-founded Up North Pride. That year, they said, about 250 14 • june 22, 2020 • Northern Express Weekly
people showed up for the first Visibility March. By year two, the event was already expanding into other free programming, from youth outreach efforts to LGBTQ+ storytelling events to a popular drag night at The Little Fleet bar and food truck lot. And every year, the numbers grew, turning Up North Pride from a niche event into one of northern Michigan’s biggest and most beloved celebrations.
Today, Cameron says the support from the community is almost surreal. Not only has Up North Pride found partners in the likes of the Traverse City Downtown Development Authority, the Traverse City Arts Commission, and Traverse City Tourism, but Cameron also notes how common it has become to see a rainbow flag or an Up North Pride sign outside a local business. Things today are a far cry from when the only rainbow sticker to be found in northern Michigan was on the door of a bookstore or two.
“We really are feeling the love and support of a lot of organizations and institutions in this area that we just didn’t have seven years ago,” Cameron said. “We have them taking steps with us to ensure that this place is going to continue to be more inclusive and safe. And the allies that have supported us in this movement have been on a learning journey with us. They’ve asked things like, ‘Okay, you’re trans. What are pronouns? How can I be an ally? How can I help?’ So we have been steadily educating a wonderful posse of allies in this community who are taking that work into their workplaces and into their homes.”
That’s not to say the battle is won, or that homophobia or discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity are things of the past. On the contrary, on both a local and national level, LGBTQ+ awareness, acceptance, and human rights remain areas of major debate and struggle.
Last year, the partnership between Up North Pride and the Traverse City Arts Commission resulted in rainbow stripe being installed at 14 crosswalks around town. The art installations drew online backlash and hateful comments from some community members, prompting Carruthers to question how much progress Traverse City had actually made toward LGBTQ+ acceptance — and how much the example set by the Trump White House might be affecting
Marchers of all ages turned out to support the LGBTQ+ community.
forward momentum for the gay community and other minority groups.
“It’s always 10 steps forward and eight steps back,” Carruthers said. “In general, I think we’ve really changed the climate in Northern Michigan, and that it’s a much more accepting and welcoming place. We’re doing our best. But unfortunately, we’re three and a half years into a Trump administration, and this president has not made it any easier on us. He’s opposed marriage equality. He’s created barriers to healthcare. He’s really been actively trying to take rights away from the LGBT community and giving them to the religious community. And that shouldn’t be the way it is. It shouldn’t be ‘Either you have the right to pray, or you have the right to be who you are.’ But unfortunately, Trump has been inflaming a lot of the issues.”
On Friday, June 12, in fact, the Trump administration rolled back an Obama-era protection that prohibited discrimination in healthcare against individuals who are transgender. The announcement not only came in the middle of Pride Month but also on the four-year anniversary of a mass shooting at Pulse, the Orlando gay bar where 49 people were murdered and 53 injured. Many in the LGBTQ+ community did not see the date as a coincidence.
When asked just how high stakes the 2020 presidential election is for the LGBTQ+ community, Carruthers doesn’t mince words: “We can’t have another four years of this current administration, because we’re being pushed back into the dark ages. And it’s not just the LGBT community. It’s the environmental community; it’s black lives. Every aspect of progressive movement forward in our country is being challenged by this administration, and I think we need to do whatever it takes to change our leadership.”
REACHING OUTLYING COMMUNITIES
While a welcoming business community and a massive annual pride celebration help somewhat to dampen the blow that Trumpian viewpoints have on the LGBTQ+
community in Traverse City, Cameron acknowledges that many smaller northern Michigan towns are still under-served and under-supported when it comes to community togetherness and valuable allies.
“I am always thinking about young people who are at home [in smaller outlying communities], who are under 18, and who are in environments that aren’t safe or affirming,” Cameron said. “I’ve been particularly worried about how this lockdown [for COVID-19] has been for kids in those situations. There are a lot of people doing work in this town with youth homelessness and with other organizations, and they are all asking exactly this question: How do we get into these small communities and provide resources and visibility? If we could open a safe house in each little community for these kids, that would be great, but that takes funding and that takes a lot of other stuff that we don’t have. So what we do have is sort of an informal grapevine. When we hear about issues in these smaller areas, we try to resource people to help. But that’s not sustainable, and it’s not strategic; it’s just reactive to one situation at a time.”
There have been strides made in smaller communities. In Kalkaska, for instance, residents in 2018 voted to recall then-villagepresident Jeff Sieting, who drew public outcry after making controversial social media posts that called transgenderism a mental illness and suggested violence against Muslims and people who were part of the Black Lives Matter movement. In the special election forced by the recall, Sieting lost the village presidency to Harley Wales, an openly gay man.
In Petoskey, meanwhile, residents last year formed the LGBTQ+ Alliance of Petoskey, an organization designed to offer “resources, tools, advocacy opportunities, support groups, and merchandise in support of the LGBTQ+ community.”
Another positive change came in the form of Polestar, an “LGBT+ community center” opened in 2018 that — while physically located in Traverse City — seeks
The rainbow stripes in celebration of Pride Week in Traverse City drew backlash a plenty.
to serve people in Grand Traverse, Leelanau, as we have. [Note: Traverse City nightclub Benzie, Kalkaska, and Antrim counties, SideTraxx opened in 1988 and was the first “and beyond.” The center offers a variety of Michigan bar north of Grand Rapids to support groups and programs geared toward cater specifically to the gay community.] the LGBTQ+ community, as well as general But I think queer people finding places to open hours aimed at providing a safe space gather outside of establishments that sell for anyone who might need it. alcohol is a plus.
Jocelyn Link, who serves as chairperson “And there are more places now. There for Polestar, says one of the organization’s are a lot of businesses that we can go in and biggest focuses — beyond simply operating out of, and every time that we see a flag on the organization’s physical center — has been one of these businesses, that’s a signal to to provide outreach to northern Michigan us that they’re trying to be inclusive. There communities. From school programs geared are a lot more communities of faith up here toward spreading awareness of LGBTQ+ that have taken the steps toward being topics to consulting services that help open and welcoming to queer people. And businesses understand how to interact with now we have Polestar, too. So those are LGBTQ+ customers, these programs strive to all things that have come about in recent target areas beyond Traverse City. Link notes years, as a result of our awareness and that Polestar has been particularly successful advocacy, and it’s all about what Harvey in bringing together the region’s LGBT youth Milk said: It’s about getting ‘out of the bars community — not just through support and into the streets.’ Because for so long groups, but also by hosting celebratory events we only had the bars.” such as the annual “Queer Prom.” For Cameron, the fight for LGBTQ+
Unfortunately, Link says COVID-19 rights and acceptance won’t truly be won “has put a pretty hard stop” on much of — locally or abroad — until bigotry and what Polestar is able to do. Queer Prom was discrimination in all their forms are a canceled this spring, as were many support thing of that past. There could be a million group meetings and other programs. The rainbow flags in northern Michigan, or center itself is currently closed, though LGBT-friendly community centers in every Link says that Polestar’s board of directors town, or a Pride march that numbers 10,000 is “currently talking plans about how to strong. But those examples of forward [reopen] safely.” momentum, Cameron says, are just stepping stones toward the kind of broad systemic TAKING THE NEXT STEPS change that would truly rewrite the narrative.
While the local LGBTQ+ community “Until our kids are safe, until the and allies are thrilled to have a community people who are sworn to protect and serve center like Polestar —and would like to see them do their jobs, until the educators more safe spaces of its ilk in other areas who are there to mold them into good throughout northern Michigan — Cameron humans and citizens understand them, said their ultimate hope is that the gay until the bad apples are weeded out, until community will eventually be able to safely people take bullying [of LGBTQ+ people] move out of these sequestered gathering seriously, we’re not going to be okay,” spaces and further into the open. Cameron said. “And it is every person’s
“Part of the reason we wanted to have job, especially those with privilege, Up North Pride was that we as the LGBTQ+ especially those who want to be allies, to community do exist outside of bars,” do something. It is every person’s job to Cameron explained. “It’s cool that we have step in and get uncomfortable. Because had a gay bar in Traverse City for as long we’re uncomfortable.” Northern Express Weekly • june 22, 2020 • 15
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