What can I do with ashes after a cremation?

The loss of a loved one can be a challenging and emotional experience. Once the funeral has taken place, many people are left wondering what to do with the ashes of the person that has died. In the UK, there are several options for handling cremated ashes that allow families to honour the deceased in a meaningful and personal way. In this article, we will explore some popular options for what to do with cremated ashes.

Scattering of ashes

Scattering ashes in a meaningful location to the deceased is a very popular choice for many. Whether it's a favourite park, beach or a mountain, it can be a beautiful way to remember them. It's important to note that scattering ashes in public places requires permission from the landowner, so please check the rules and regulations beforehand.

Ashes burial

Some families choose to bury ashes in a cemetery or a dedicated burial ground. There may be designated areas within the cemetery reserved for cremation burials or the ashes can be interred in an existing family plot.

Ashes jewellery

Ashes jewellery is a unique way to keep a small portion of ashes close to your heart. There are various options available including pendants, rings or bracelets. You can find the jewellery options we offer on our website.

Scattering in a Garden of Remembrance

All local crematoriums have designated Gardens of Remembrance to scatter ashes. These gardens are beautifully landscaped and provide a peaceful environment for reflection and to remember those that have died. You do need to arrange scattering with the crematorium beforehand so please get in touch if you would like more information.

Alternative options for ashes

Some tattoo studios will mix the ashes with ink to create a tattoo.

Fireworks can be a great way to celebrate the life of the person who has died by incorporating the ashes.

Alternatively, artists can mix the ashes with paint and create bespoke pieces of art or perhaps create a paperweight using the ashes.

Tips when deciding what to do with ashes

J Consider the wishes, cultural or religious beliefs of the person that has died when making a decision about their final resting place.

J Take your time to consider the location and don't feel pressured to make a decision.

J If you can't agree on a final location, it may be an option to separate the ashes and scatter in various locations.

J Do you want future generations to visit the location? If so, consider this when making your decision. n

If you have any questions that you would like answering please send them to info@tomowenandson.com

Kelly Owen is a funeral director at Tom Owen and Son – an awardwinning, family run, independent community Funeral Director situated in Llandudno. They provide a modern fresh approach to organising funerals that empowers you to have a unique funeral that is fitting for the person that has died. For more information, please get in touch with one of the team by calling 01492 860 280 or visit the blog and website at www. tomowenandson.com