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5 Tricks to Get Her Thinking "Dirty" Thoughts (About You) So... you'd like to get a woman to start thinking naughty thoughts..."dirty" thoughts... sexual thoughts... about you. It seems like a tall order, doesn't it? Especially when most men aren’t able to get anywhere with attractive women. As soon as men even remotely bring up the subject of sex, they usually get shut down by women. The women seem to cringe, look at the men weird, or even (immediately) label them as "perverts" who are only thinking about getting her naked. And yet, there are a small group of men out there, who can talk to these same women... and have them thinking - and even fantasizing - about sex. And...these men are then able to effortlessly slide themselves into the women's fantasies as well. If you'd like to join the ranks of this small group of men, I have good news... It's actually quite easy to get a woman to start thinking naughty/dirty thoughts about you... IF you know what to do, and follow the right sequence. In this report, I'll give you just five of my favorite ways to get her mind "in the gutter" - on purpose...anytime you want... Turning Up the Heat Most guys make the mistake of bringing up the subject of sex too early in the game. Or, they bring it up at the wrong times, or often too abruptly. This is because they just don't know how to introduce this subject. More importantly, men often tend to surprise the woman, when bringing up something sexual in nature. The subject always seems to come out of left field, and the woman is caught off guard, left feeling self-conscious, and often lost for words...or even disgusted or offended. The process of turning up the heat in her mind should be approached in the same way you would turn up the heat in a room. If the temperature of the room you and she were sitting in was currently at a comfortable setting... not too hot, and not too cold... then suddenly cranking up the heat by 10 degrees would become uncomfortable and unpleasant very quickly.
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And, she would do whatever she could to get out of that room - fast. Instead, if you were to secretly turn up the heat - by just one tiny degree - after every few minutes, i.e. giving her body time to adjust, before taking it up another notch... you could easily increase the heat in the room by 10 entire degrees, and still not bother her too much. In fact, if it's done secretly - and gradually, she may automatically adjust to the difference and even start thinking that it was all in her mind. Well, guess what... Turning up the heat in her mind works exactly the same way. If you gradually get her mind to start thinking about flirtatious, romantic, sensual, and eventually sexual thoughts, she won't feel uncomfortable or weird about it. And... she may even think that its her mind that's coming up with those naughty, dirty, and sexual thoughts. Of course, the fact that she's thinking these dirty thoughts while she is with you will get her mind to start seeing you in a different way (read: in a sexual way.) Her mind would start to associate you with her thoughts and...scenarios.
The Comfort Phase So yes... the naughty, dirty, sexy topics have to be introduced in the right way, at the right times, and especially in the right doses. In order to do that, you have to start out by talking "normally"...as if you're talking to your little sister, or a female friend that you have no interest in sleeping with. That means, you can talk about the weather, about what's going on around you, or get to know her a little bit by asking some general non-intrusive questions... or whatever it is that you would do when you're with a female friend (or even a male friend, for that matter.) In other words, show some interest in her, but be casual and relaxed about it. Do not give off the energy of being desperate, needy or anything else that will make her think that you're trying to sleep with her right away. (Remember, she has to feel that her mind is coming up with those thoughts.) Keep this going for at least a few minutes, so you can allow her to get comfortable and let her hair down a bit.
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If you have some good jokes, you can throw those into the mix - as long as they are not offensive in any way. After you've done this for a bit, you can gently start to introduce the five tricks I share below...
Quoting Others This is a great indirect approach you can start with... You can introduce a steamy topic by telling a story where you will be quoting somebody else who said something racy or even sexual, either directly to you or to someone else (which you may have overheard.) This 'somebody else' could be your neighbor, your ex-girlfriend, your best friend's girl or wife, or even a character from a TV show (or movie.) Heck, you could even quote somebody from a magazine (or online) interview. It doesn't matter who you're quoting. Heck, you could even make up the whole story. The point is, when you quote somebody else who said something racy or sexual, it takes the focus away from you, i.e. she won't see you as perverted or weird, because you're just the "messenger." From her point of view, you're simply telling her a "story" which happened to include someone who happened to say something hot, sexy or even "perverted." So, you aren't being a pervert or weird; it's just the person in the story. Makes sense? Okay... so what can you say in your story, to get her mind to start thinking about the subject of sex, or at least about making out, or kissing, etc? You can say just about anything you'd like, because (again) you're just quoting somebody else who said those things. But, just to play it safe, start out slow...and you can always ramp up the story later. Example: You could talk about a friend or neighbor's girlfriend, who is..."a nympho maniac"...or... "promiscuous" or whatever. And, you could start the story by saying.... "Oh my god, you are not going to believe what happened to me on Tuesday. See, I have this
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friend, whose girlfriend is just...well...extremely "sensual"...shall we say..." (You can laugh a little after saying the above.) Notice that you're appearing to be tactful or even a bit hesitant above, about calling this woman a nympho or slut, etc. That's an important aspect to convey about yourself during your storytelling at this (early) stage. You can continue the story with... "Anyway, so she leaves me this...very strange voicemail the other day...I probably shouldn't even repeat exactly what she said..." At this point, the woman you're with may become very curious and ask you to tell her what the voicemail said anyway. And, if she doesn't, you can continue with... "Well...we're both adults here, right?..." (Notice how she reacts to each of the above lines, after you deliver them. And, you can still keep playing the "hesitant to tell the details" aspect as much as it is needed.) "Well...okay...she basically told me that Josh (her boyfriend, my buddy) wasn't "servicing" her very well...and she wanted to drive over...at 2am in the morning...and well, do some things to me..." You get the idea. Notice how she (your listener) reacts to each part of the story as you tell it. She may very well want to know how you responded to the voicemail, etc. (to find out if you're a good guy or not, and so on.) And, even if she doesn't inquire much about what happened after you heard the message, you have still managed to introduce the subject. Plus, by being the intended receiver of the sexual advance in the story, you have also planted the initial seed in her mind, involving "sex" and "you." And... you did it without being the one who said or did any of those sexual things. You were simply sharing a "weird" and "hilarious" story with her, about what somebody else said to you, remember? Telling the above story can also open the conversation up for jokes related to the above incident, to things that you and/or her experienced in the past, etc. In other words, you could both easily start joking about slightly sexual stuff and/or related funny stories that you know. Even if it may start out being "weird" or crazy stories from the past.
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Use Your Environment Next, you could take things even further...by introducing more "fun" into the conversation... You could tell her that you just got reminded of a game you and your friends used to play (in high school, college, or whatever.) The game is called, "Who Got Lucky?"... This works especially well if you're both out to dinner (or lunch) at a restaurant. You can look around at other couples in the vicinity, and "guess" as to who got lucky recently, i.e. who got to have sex recently. Obviously, you would take the first turn - to start the game, because you have to lead her, and you also have to give her an idea of how the game is played...just in case she hasn't played it before...or in case she's a bit shy or reserved about going first. And, of course, you could get her to laugh hysterically right away, by choosing the most unlikely couple and saying... "Oh yeah... that old couple over there. They definitely got lucky. Earlier today. I mean, sure, that old man looks like he can't do much right now. But, I'm betting that last night he was a stallion! Oh yeah, those two are probably into whips and chains too!" She'll start laughing, or she may say (or give you the look of)... "You are so bad!" ...or whatever. Then, you can tell her that it's her turn. It's very important that you get her to participate in the game, instead of just being an observer. But, do it in a casual, playful and slightly daring way. If she hesitates a bit, you can encourage her by saying, "Hey, no one else will know" because "it's our little secret." And, now you've just introduced another great technique to get her to open up to you more... which will also get her to start seeing you as her "secret" partner-in-crime with whom she can "secretly" do naughty stuff together. (That's the overall mental "frame" you're creating for her as you continue to use some of these tricks and techniques.) See how easily this can continue to turn things up?
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Turn It Around Now, you can also start using a technique where you would pretend to misinterpret everything she's saying...and somehow turn it all into her trying to hit on you, flirt with you, or even sleep with you. For example, she could say... Her: So, where do you live? And you could "misinterpret" that by saying... You: Why? So, you can follow me home, pretend to wanna use the restroom, and then trick me into sleeping with you? I'm not that kinda guy, okay?? You can pretend to be shocked by what she's plotting, but obviously in a light, fun way! And, she may laugh at your comment, or she may say something like, "Oh yeah, you wish!" etc. This is all harmless fun. But, it also continues to get some part of her mind to keep associating you with sex and fooling around. And, that's what you're trying to do with this stuff anyway. Also... by pretending to misinterpret her comments and seeing it all as her trying to trick you into sleeping with her, you are also turning the tables on her...in a light, fun way. You see, usually, it's the women who have to be careful and "on guard" about everything a guy says or does to her. Women are usually the ones who have to deal with men's hidden agendas and those kinds of "wanna-be sly" moves that guys tend to make. And women can usually see these "sly moves" coming a mile away. You're simply turning things around on her, in a playful way. You can pretty much turn any of her comments or questions around in the above manner. Examples: Her: How old are you? You: Oh, so you wanna find out if I'm "legal" or not? Tsk tsk... ...or... Her: Do you live by yourself? Or roommates, family, etc? You: Wait a minute... are you trying to figure out if I live alone so you'll be able to "seal the deal" tonight? Hey, I'm not that kinda guy!
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You get the idea...
I Love "Chick Flicks" You can start this technique out as a joke, as a "secret confession" to her, or as a little of both. You could either introduce the subject yourself by saying that you secretly like "chick flicks" and romantic comedies. Or, you could wait for her to ask you about your hobbies, interests, guilty pleasures, etc. and respond with the above. After you tell her this, you can either laugh and say that you're kidding...or not. The important thing is that you brought up the subject of "romantic" shows that most women love to watch. Now, you can ask her which one was her favorite. And, you can ask her why, what her favorite part was, and so on. Then, you could say... "Oh I know about you guys... women never admit this is the reason, but you like all those steamy scenes in there, don't you?" She may deny it or even agree to it. Either way, you can use whatever she gives you. If she agrees that there are some great sensual and/or sexual scenes in those movies that "maybe guys could learn from," you can run with that, agree with her, and continue talking about that stuff. If she laughs at you and says that you're crazy, you can continue to joke around with her by saying... "Oh, sure you can deny it... but I know that women use those romance movies to fantasize about their own next/future encounter with their "perfect man". It's like porn to you guys, huh? It's okay, you don't have to admit it in public... you can tell me later, when these strangers aren't around..."
Stepping Back
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Remember, to do use of the above tricks in a light, fun, and playful way. And, if at any time, you feel that you need to pull back a little, do it. In fact, it's a very good idea to use one or two techniques... and then take a little break from the sexual stuff. Give her mind a chance to get used to the stuff you've already talked about...and especially get her used to the idea of interacting playfully with you about these subjects. Don't keep bombarding her with one sexual technique after another. You can switch the subject to something else occasionally...and then come back to the romancy, racy stuff again, a few minutes later. If you do it with a light, fun attitude, you shouldn't have any problems with any of it (unless she's super conservative and can't have fun in this way, anyway. That's a whole other story.) These short breaks from the "sex talk" will is also help her to realize that sex is not the only thing you can talk about (or all that you're interested in.)
A Rare Event Also, as I touched on earlier in the report, don't give off the aura/energy of being needy, or desperate, or even horny. Yes, you want to come across as a man who is open and comfortable with his sexuality...and is able to talk about that subject in a fun, comfortable, and even confident manner. But, you're not just about sex. Here's a great technique that will help you to switch gears a bit and also draw her even closer to you, at the same time. You can now talk about how "this doesn't happen to me too often." Of course, she'll ask you what you're talking about. And you can say... "Well, it's just great to find a woman who can handle this stuff, you know? A lot of women aren't very open and comfortable...or they don't even have a sense of humor to be able to talk about all this stuff in a fun and comfortable way." Most often, the woman will agree with you (because it also makes her look like one of the fewer, cooler women out there.)
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And, you could continue with... "Yeah... it's really cool that you and I can be open and comfortable with each other. You seem like a really cool person. And, I'm glad that we can connect in this way. It doesn't happen often. Not to me anyway. There are a lot of prudes out there. haha" Once again, you've given her an identity to live up to, you've made her sound cool and fun...and... you've also strengthened the mental frame that she is more open and comfortable about herself and her sexuality than "most other women." Finally, by telling her all these things, you are also revealing a little of your "vulnerable" side to her, which is something most guys try to hide. And, by being open about it, and sharing this stuff with her, she'll be drawn to you even more. Then, you can gradually switch back to the playful, sexual stuff. Only this time, she will comfortably and willing help you to take things even further... because now she has to live up to the image (even more) that she's a fun and sexy woman... unlike those "other" women. ;-)
From here on, you can take things in whichever direction you'd like. You can continue to build on the above "seeds" and mental frames that you've set in her mind. Or, if you think you're ready, you can work on taking things even further...provided you know what you're doing, obviously. Don't try to "wing it" or jump in blindly while "hoping" for the best. If you need help with the more advanced seduction and bedroom tips, including ways to be able to enjoy wild, passionate sex with her that same night, i.e. after that very first date with her, you are welcome to check out our other reports, listed below. Sincerely, The Editors of About-Secrets.com Here are some of our popular, hot sellers… How to Enjoy “Same Night” Sexual Encounters Turn A Good Girl “Bad” How to Persuade Women Into Threesomes or More!
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