SOULS WHO MEET EACH OTHER INTRODUCTION When we speak of Souls meeting, we refer to that particular interconnectedness that binds two or more souls with one purpose in life: that of meeting and evolving together along the path of spiritual evolution. The Twin Souls are stimulated and helped in the path of spiritual growth, one comes to the rescue of the other, precisely because in the first place, they have so many goals to achieve in their life together, create their existence as a couple, as a family and as people who will give a good example to their friends and to all those around them. We live in the Age of Awareness and everything that happens, has its own reason of being, nothing belongs to chance; therefore, our reunions, our meetings, also belong to this. For example, the question many people ask is, "Why do Soul Mates exist?". Surely the Twin Souls are not an invention of who knows who, but they are actually a reality concerning Being, understood as a spiritual being of course. We can define our soul as "complete", but we are on this planet, life after life, with certain characteristics that affect the person, so the affinity that fits between the Twin Souls helps them in their relationship. But not only does affinity become part of these two people, there must also be a common reality about everything that concerns them and what follows. A meeting between Twin Souls is that moment in which an individual becomes aware that the known person is an important and fundamental part of his existence. Then, there is "chemistry" between two people and in the chapter we will explain this chemistry in what it consists, how it is born and what it creates between two souls that meet. Physical attraction only? You will read it. I will also bring to your knowledge "The
Mental love", a kind of love that is born as an attraction between two souls who respect each other, working together in their relationship. Knowledge of the soul amalgamated with many aspects that will be alive for life. Something very different from the "Soul mates", who attract, feel, for eternity. Here is a real and mutual love lived during this life.
SOUL MATES IN LOVE: how to identify yourself in six signals Want to know if yours is a meeting of soulmates? Here are 6 signs to grasp to recognize the soulmates in our lives.
1- There is immediately a great understanding. It is not just a chemistry speech. You immediately created a great feeling, as if you had known each other for a long time. And this has led you to feel close and open to each other in a natural and authentic way, without strategies and without fear of not being welcomed. 2- You are also very good friends. In addition to being attracted, you have established a strong bond of friendship. Feel that you can trust and entrust, without prejudice. Talk about everything and many times you understand each other even without saying anything. 3- You feel safe and comfortable. When you are together you feel pervaded by a sense of tranquility and calm, which makes you be serene as you have never been before. And this allows you to really be yourself, without wearing masks or taking attitudes away from your true being. 4- Empathy is understanding. It’s not about understanding how the other person is, it’s about feeling the same emotions. And this being together, makes you be close into the deep, understood like not never before. And this being together, makes you be close into the deep, understood like not never before. 5- You are the best version of yourself. Having your soul mate next to you brings out all your best qualities and attitudes. And you do it spontaneously, with no pressure. You show without fear all the inner beauty and this leads you to give the best of you in all situations. 6- You have the same vision of the future. You share the same values and goals, because you have a very similar vision of how to create and realize your life. So making plans and carrying them out together is not only natural and easy, but also stimulating and exciting. Finding the other half of the apple, the best partner for us is everyone’s dream, because it feels "complete", understood and loved as never before. "Whatever our souls are made of, mine and yours are made of the same thing," writes Emily Bronté in one of the most famous aphorisms about soul mates. This is one of the many sentences dedicated to soul mates, which show how much this topic has over the centuries arouse a lively and continuous interest. From philosophies, to oriental disciplines to astrology: many have questioned themselves to find an answer to how to recognize the soul mates in our
lives. Do soulmates exist? Beautiful question and I’m willing to bet that most of you readers are inclined to answer YES. Indeed, by now I know quite well the dynamics of the human being and the differences between males and females, so I could answer with a good dose of confidence that the majority of males would answer NO, while the vast majority of females would answer YES. Why? Come on, don’t ask me to explain it, now it’s known, there are also famous books that explain it. The best known has a title like, "Women are from Venus and men are from Mars," or something like that. We are fundamentally different in the relationship to love and therefore the difference in responses is more than natural. Some say that the soul mate is it recognized by the eyes and that generally you do not need to find it but she will find you, in my opinion the soul mate is not to be sought must be welcomed when it is found. Maybe it’s true that the soul mate is recognized by the eyes, but sometimes you may have just fallen in love with the wrong person, even though his eyes make your legs tremble. Generally when two soul mates meet, according to what other people’s experience teaches us, their bond is as if it had always existed. In practice, in addition to recognizing the soul mate with the look you will have the feeling of knowing her for a long time even if you just met him. We can safely say that the soul mate is usually recognized by the eyes but to understand if it really is her or him you will need to have a deep sense of belonging And somehow you will have to feel a strong bond even if you don’t know him at all. We can safely say that the soul mate is usually recognized by the eyes but to understand if she really is you will have to have a deep sense of belonging and somehow you will have to feel a strong bond even if you do not know her at all. Generally when it comes to love and soul mate, we have to think that creating a relationship together is the right thing to think about. Surely the soul mate arrives when we least expect it and surely we should not look for it because it is not looking for it that we will be able to find it. Very often you just have to trust that the right person will come when you least expect it. If in this moment of your life you feel a little 'down, because you still have not found the right person know that there is! Not looking for love will eventually lead you to find it, without too many difficulties, but you will not have to abandon yourself to yourself, you will have to date people, locking yourself in the house will not take you to find your soul mate. It will come to you and you will be able to recognize
it even with a glance. Some speak of mirrored neurons while others simply speak of similar characters. If it is true that the soul mate is recognized by the eyes, it is also true that behind that look there is a character, a person, a brain is a beating heart. After you have crossed that gaze you will have to somehow deepen to try to understand if behind those eyes there is the same soul that encloses your body and to do so you will have to find out if you really have so many things in common, I finally found my half of the apple apple I was looking for. The human being have always been better when he gave love. I have been strongly in love and I can assure you with absolute certainty that for love I would have been able to do anything. Living love even just for one day changes your life forever! I wish you with all my heart to find the soul mate and to fall deeply in love because only when you fall in love life takes color. Once again, I was a woman in love and those were the best years of mine, so if I can give you some advice "The soul mate is also recognized by the eyes, you do not let them escape" and when it arrives live your love, even if it should last a day.
THE LEGEND OF THE RED THREAD
The legend of the red thread is a very particular narration that explains how soul mates, if they exist, are destined to meet regardless of time, age and place The legend of the red thread is a very particular narration that explains how soul mates, if they exist, are destined to meet regardless of time, age and place. According to the legend of the red thread, born in China, each person carries an invisible red thread from birth, tied to the little finger. This thread symbolizes eternal love with another person, the soul mate to whom each of us is destined in the course of life. According to the story, the wire also has the characteristic of being indestructible and the two people who share it are destined, sooner or later, to meet and marry to live happily together. The thread, very long and invisible unites forever and according to history, Wei, a man left orphaned and eager to have a wife and his family, He had not not been able to find a viable patner to marry in adulthood. During one of his travels, he met, near a temple, an elderly gentleman who was reading leaning against a sack on a hill. The same was indeed the God of marriages, who revealed to the young man that the reason he had not yet found a wife was because his half was still three years old and therefore he would have to wait another 14 years to meet her and marry her. Wei incredulously asked what was inside his sack, and the elder said then the red thread of the indissoluble union of destiny was kept inside it, and that it bound those who were destined to be together, sooner or later regardless of their behavior or external influences. Wei refused to believe these words and ordered a servant to kill the child who was to become his wife. After 14 years, the man met a beautiful 17-year-old woman and married her. The woman always carried a band on her forehead and her husband, after years, asked her why she had never taken it off and revealed that she was attacked by a man at the age of three. Once all was understood, Wei revealed to his beloved what had happened to her and why. From that day they loved each other even more and he understood the importance of the words of God and the thread of love. Some talk about an invisible red thread that holds two people toghether who have not yet met. Personally I find this story very fascinating and so sentimental. Experience has surely taught me that we cannot know which people will become part of our lives. The only method we have to make of our life a masterpiece is to be careful of everything that happens to us and live fully the experiences that we are able to experience. We all know that the soul
mate is recognized by the eyes but very few know that those eyes, to be the right ones must make you fall in love but must also make you feel at home. Everything follows a natural rhythm, some things don’t happen because they have to happen, but because you make them happen. All events and things that happen to us always have a profound reason why they happen. Love seems to be something that we are destined to live even with the purpose of improving ourselves, destiny does not exist! It is you who are able to make things happen, you are not magicians or witches, but you are souls operating in life, especially your own. So, if you meet the eyes of your soul mate, it will not have been an coincidence, but you must have found him, this also applies to the other. When there is deep love between two people, the right thing to do is to look yourself in the eye and continue to create a life together, Full of many things maybe bad or maybe beautiful, but it will always be the life of two soul mates who found themselves.
THE MYSTERY OF ATTRACTION, TWO SOUL MEET Sometimes two souls meet as do the oldest stars in the firmament. Without realizing it, they enter the same gravitational field where almost everything is in harmony. We are talking about the mental attraction that goes beyond physical attraction, because it conquers and dazzles, it leads souls to caress and navigate in the same direction. This kind of attraction, which goes beyond the skin and is also part of processes of another nature, is more common than we think. This does not alter the fact that, however, the physical appearance retains a remarkable importance: "It is admirable that someone can make you feel such sensations without even touching you with a finger". When we talk about attraction, we have to consider that many of these mechanisms work according to unaware processes. The physical is our calling card and attracts a lot of attention, of course; however, we do not always have a perfect or infallible perception of it. We are talking about the so-called "soul mates", that is, personalities that connect, that are in perfect harmony with each other and that are able to create a strong and fulfilling bond. This is an interesting subject with many nuances on which we would like to reflect together with you. Let’s start by talking about a curious fact that should invite you to reflect: more than half of individuals believe that a soulmate exists, that people are meant for someone, and that this kind of attraction goes beyond what at first glance is understandable and reasonable. It is normal, however, that there should be doubts, it is normal to initially reject such intimacy. Showing ourselves without any filter makes us feel vulnerable, and then there’s the risk that the other person won’t do the same. And if we show ourselves as we are we don’t like? What if we tell him everything about us and he doesn’t return our feelings? What can happen when we open our heart to someone? Of course, the possibility of the other reacting as we do. But if we don’t try, we’ll never know if he’d accept us completely. To achieve a deep level of trust and to create the intimacy that we desire so much, we must take off the mask. In other words, we must take risks. If we do not, we will never have the opportunity to create solid and genuine relationships
and to achieve true intimacy with another person. We are surrounded by superficial relationships, which are based on tacit criticism; of sexual relations that feed only on the body; of fears suffered in solitude; of people who they keep only company themselves, but are not really united... It’s time to stop building our relationships on a bunch of fears, if that’s not what we want. We must be free, brave and strong. We must seek what we deserve, in this case the soul mate. But let’s see what can be the signs to recognize if there is a soul mate in our life. From the beginning we find a great understanding, even in the little things that surround us, it is not only a discourse of chemistry, but what we feel towards each other is truly love and pure friendship. Speaking of friendship you are also good friends, the complicity that arises between these two souls is really unanimous, so much so that one of them would do everything for the other. It’s like talking about a movie, you know, when you see situations in the cinema that in life would become difficult to see and you go out with the phrase, "Yes, it’s a movie!" That’s the exact thing that happens to two souls like those, the empathy and the understanding that goes on between them makes any person around them safe and comfortable. And you soul mate you are the best version of you, you’re not afraid to show yourself for who you are anymore, you know that from now on you will have someone by your side with whom you can share everything, and you will have a vision of the future so equal that it will seem that of one person.
CHEMISTRY BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE We open a parenthesis about what could be a meeting between two people that triggers the so-called "spark" and at that moment the chemistry between them it begins. Predictable in love, but not easy to recognize, chemistry between two people could be defined as a kind of connection, frustrating at times, if you’re understanding the feelings the other person has for you. Knowing how to decipher this is difficult, but it is also a point marked in your favor. However, it is not something that you can observe from afar but, to understand it you have to live. Sometimes it might even be subjective, so it’s up to you to figure out if you two really have a lot of chemistry. Let’s find out together what signals to keep an eye on. If you are
not sure that there is chemistry between you, then you must learn to recognize the signals coming to you from your relationship. It is important especially in the early stages of the relationship, when you still have everything to build. It is a kind of vibration that is not difficult to feel. If you get along very well and if you find yourself very in harmony with his friends, then it is possible that there is a certain chemistry between you. The desire to always be together grows day after day, you want to spend all the time with him and you can not get angry. Romantic chemistry is easier to distinguish than any other interconnection between two people. It is a natural connection, you feel that someone you like from the very first meeting. Recognizing this special contact is very important to understand how long your relationship could last. As we explained, it’s important that you recognize it. Usually, it is felt from the first moment and to understand if there is chemistry between two people, you need to pay attention to some signals: When two people meet, you may feel a sense of dizzines without knowing why. In this case chemistry has already begun. Pay close attention to what happens at the first meeting. For example: if even one of the two blushes, then it may already be a sign of attraction. Smiling is something you do when you are connecting with someone. It’s the natural reaction when you’re comfortable. The moment you meet someone you might like, your way of being and what you think of that person will be written in your behavior. The chemistry, initially between you becomes apparent, especially if you can not stay away from each other. Your body itself requires that person, because he knows it makes you feel good. You know that being with that person gives you relief and that’s why you seek it in every gesture, in every word that could be the right one to improve your mood. The physical contact, but especially the playful one, represent clear signals of chemistry between two people, But beware, even feelings enter play with innocent gestures that should not be underestimated. It could be a caress or sitting on his knees: the closeness between you strengthens the relationship and makes it grow over time. Your being united is also reflected in the relationship with the group, which becomes natural even if you know each other recently, you will be able to dialogue peacefully and in a direct way and with a spontaneous behavior. Conversation is one of the crucial points in a healthy relationship, even if you just know each other you can talk peacefully by touching on all the topics. Feeling free to speak is an
essential condition for creating a lasting relationship. Chemistry born at the beginning of a relationship can really turn into true love. Returning to our soulmates we can think that their encounter is born like this, with so much chemistry mixed with an intense love, that will lead them to an eternal relationship forever.
MENTAL LOVE Two minds that attract each other, that seek each other, are close even if they are distant. There is no physical attraction that can stop them, the two minds will continue to feed on their thoughts and make want the meeting of their bodies. Coincidences are trivial statements of those who do not understand their refined mental activity. To fall in love you don’t need a reason, you don’t fall in love with anyone, but only with those you really love. There is no reason to stop that deep thing, love is above all mental, two minds who love each other follow reason, but also the instinct to love each other. "If you were not as you are, maybe I would not love you but you are as you are and then I will love you the double". Only higher love will be salvation from the outside world. The meaning of mental attraction is simple: want to share with the other everything that passes through our heads, physical attraction is able to establish itself quickly, as it can be fleeting. Mental attraction, on the other hand, does not only imply an exchange of looks, it is created in the emotional and intellectual sphere thanks to dialogue. The perception is that the other is with you in your life, that he is happy with your progress and victories and vice versa. So a healthy attraction is a great prelude to a very positive relationship, even sexually; in fact, it involves you in a way that transcends the physical sphere is a type of seduction that enchants, dazzles, going beyond any kind of purely bodily relationship. When the encounter occurred, the souls, almost without realizing it, enter into the same gravitational field, in which almost everything is harmony. It is an attraction that leads souls to caress and navigate in the same direction. We are not talking about soul mates, but about personalities that connect, that are in perfect harmony with each other and that are able to create a strong and fulfilling bond. The mental attraction, in fact, does not seek soul mates, but traveling companions. The first aspect to consider is undoubtedly reciprocity, which consists in receiving positive reactions, in feeling recognized and appreciated and seeing ourselves as important figures in the eyes of others. Little by little, something is materializing before us that excites us, that fills our minds and immediately kindle our heart and let our souls find their fullness. When this
happens, very deep, authentic, satisfying relationships are created. Of course, when you are mentally attracted to someone, it is very easy to trigger physical attraction. But mental attraction is not a brain matter, at least not only, it involves a series of emotions absolutely intense and even stronger than those experienced during physical attraction. With the difference that to pure physical attraction, it is often associated with something suffering and dramatic. The attraction of mental type, however, is characterized by positivity, by the feeling of being well. For these reasons, a mental relationship is very likely to be a joyful and lasting relationship. However, if, as we said, mental attraction tends to generate between two people who have common interests and values, This does not mean that there can be differences of opinion on some things, even important. What is always the same trough, however, is the interest in the opinion and point of view of the other, which we consider valid regardless and which is at least worth considering. The differences are then valued and become ways to enrich, to learn and to question oneself positively questioned. Who attracts us mentally, makes us feel good and alive.
Sommario INTRODUCTION SOUL MATES IN LOVE: how to identify yourself in six signals THE LEGEND OF THE RED THREAD THE MYSTERY OF ATTRACTION, TWO SOUL MEET CHEMISTRY BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE MENTAL LOVE
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