"Never surrender" By Mike Anderson

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If we keep moving and never give-up, we will always arrive at where we want to be.



For Tayla & Josh The entrepreneurs of tomorrow

Written by Mike Anderson – Design by Leanne Rhodes - Copyright © 2012 Mike Anderson



Small Business, Big Future There are many wonderful books related to

destroyed and children are always negatively

the topic of entrepreneurial success. This book

affected – all due to financial adversity as a

doesn’t replace them, it merely gives a quick

result of the decisions we have made.

and easy reference that can be started and completed in a hurry. Hopefully the key factors

We all have an obligation to help small business.

and tips will get you moving in a positive and

This sector is the mainstay of our society, the

accelerated direction, maybe even contribute

future of our economy and the engine of job

to changing your life – the way they did mine.

creation. So here is a challenge to all – whenever we go out to shop, let’s go big by supporting

The book is designed for aspiring entrepreneurs and

business

owners;

those

the ‘small’.

mercurial

individuals who fight at the coalface on their

One thing is certain. As entrepreneurs we all

tireless journey in the quest for success.

will, at some time on our journey, experience

Although it can be difficult to sustain a positive attitude while working through adverse situations, we will encounter our greatest strengths deep down by working through and learning to find purpose and meaning in these circumstances.

some form of adversity or – as I prefer to call it – obstacle. It is at this time that we need inner strength, that resilience factor, to conquer these challenges, come back and become the victor. Remember, whatever adversity we encounter, it is temporary and success is a given – of course, only if we decide that. Over the years, I have experienced my fair share of life-altering situations. Although it can be difficult to sustain a positive attitude while working through adverse situations, we

Society needs to understand that when a small

will encounter our greatest strengths deep

business closes down, in most cases a family

down by working through and learning to find

closes down too. Homes are lost, families are

purpose and meaning in these circumstances.


I have lived at the coalface my entire life, an

What we have to understand and accept is that

unconventional and full life filled with enormous

entrepreneurship can be a dangerous game and

success, happiness and adversity. I am fortunate

obstacles are a way of life. We have to accept all

that I have been able to experience life and set

that comes our way, take responsibility, learn

out to achieve whatever I desired. I have been

from it and bounce back.

an entrepreneur almost my whole working life and I live daily with the entrepreneurial spirit – unbounded energy, determination, resilience, passion and an attitude of never taking “no” for an answer. One thing is for certain: I have always loved what I have done.

Some of us set personal goals that are not really meaningful to ourselves. That is undoubtedly the first and biggest mistake people make in life.

In my earlier years I was obsessed with success. Success to me at the time was money. I was

That time was the lowest point in my life, but

driven towards more money and living a

also the turning point. I set off to the hills of the

life that was not really me. Some of us set

Cradle of Mankind, just north of Johannesburg.

personal goals that are not really meaningful

I needed to take stock of my life, remove myself

to ourselves. That is undoubtedly the first and

from the box. It took me some time to get there,

biggest mistake people make in life. I made that

as I had no vehicle. In fact my entire possessions

mistake. The outcome is that we eventually get

were a bag of oranges, a litre of water, the

to somewhere we don’t want to be and on the

clothes I was wearing and R12 in my pocket.

way we lose a great deal that was important to

Although it was the month of November, the

us, but don’t realise it at the time.

evening was chilly. I couldn’t sleep so I spent the night gazing back at the lights of Johannesburg

As entrepreneurs we make thousands of

city.

decisions, but it can take only one poor decision to pull the rug from underneath our feet. Some

It was an incredible experience. I was not

years back I made one of those decisions that

depressed or unhappy. I was grateful because

would result in the loss of everything we had.

I could have been worse off. It was the time


to ‘dig deep’ – get up close and personal with

I realised that I was well positioned to do

myself. I was proud of who I was and what I

something extraordinary with my life, and that’s

had achieved in my life. I zeroed in on all the

when the National Small Business Chamber

positives and analysed my mistakes for the

(NSBC) was born.

purpose of moving forward. I had gone from zero to hero and back to zero again, fairly normal in the world of entrepreneurship. I wasn’t prepared to stop there. It was time to come back and conquer the world in a way that

Each time I arrive at a T-junction, I know it is just one more step closer to the top of the ladder.

I had never done before! Each time I arrive at a T-junction, I know it is just

I have committed my own future to Small

one more step closer to the top of the ladder.

Business South Africa through what I do

Instead of curling up in a ball and waiting for time

today as Founder and CEO of the National

to pass, I think about today and the inevitable

Small Business Chamber (NSBC), a non-profit

success and happiness that lies ahead. This

organisation dedicated to the success of Small

eases the pain and frustration. As long as we

to Medium Size Businesses.

keep moving and never give up, we will always arrive at where we want to be. Overcoming

The organisation was founded in June 2007. I

the difficulties in my life was tough, however

was motivated by my burning desire to utilise

the hard times got my attention, released me

my experience in a meaningful way. I wanted to

from self-centeredness and prepared me for a

help other business owners and entrepreneurs

meaningful future.

not to experience what I had experienced – to reach rock bottom. The National Small Business

Most of my business ventures over the years

Chamber (NSBC) would allow me to achieve this

had revolved around conceiving and developing

goal.

projects, specifically exhibitions, publications and special events within the entrepreneurial

Within 42 months the National Small Business

arena. After selling out to an international

Chamber (NSBC) became one of the fastest

organisation and the tough times I encountered,

growing organisations of its kind in the world.


The high growth rate and success of the

partners and members love what we do. We

organisation is probably because it was founded

have a committed and talented team where all

on a simple vision – if my team could just help

are equal, simply with different functions. We

one small business in some small way, then we

are not afraid to innovate and challenge the

would be successful. To date we do that with

status quo, we think big and do big things, we

over 42 000 small businesses, growing at about

surround ourselves with the best, we never

2 500 new members per month.

accept “no� as an answer, and we will never give up on our quest to be the best organisation of

Because of what we do, I have had the fortunate opportunity to meet the mega-entrepreneurs, humble tycoons who stand out, those like myself who have gone from zero to hero, many back to zero again and then once again catapulting back to hero status.

its kind in the world. Because of what we do, I have had the fortunate opportunity to meet the mega-entrepreneurs, humble tycoons who stand out, those like myself who have gone from zero to hero, many back to zero again and then once again catapulting back to hero status. These interactions with like-minded individuals have enabled me to identify the most powerful success factors that

Our focus is providing business owners and

stand out above all.

entrepreneurs with an array of powerful benefits to give them that extra edge to stay in

I hope the following key messages will make

business and succeed beyond the norm. It has

a positive difference in your life, the way they

to be the most rewarding feeling on earth.

have for me.

Our successes are based on the message

Mike Anderson

within this book. We all love what we do, we all

Founder & CEO

believe in our abilities to reach the top of our

National Small Business Chamber (NSBC)

game in our respective fields, and our industry




What It Takes To Conquer The World It’s not easy out there. However, if you have

There are hundreds of success factors, but I

decided to become a business owner or

have focused on the most prominent ones that

entrepreneur, don’t allow your journey to the

have been dominant in my own journey, as well

top to come to a sudden halt as a result of

as that of the most successful people who I

taking the wrong route.

have met and interviewed.

Share your vision with your family, and make sure you are all on the same team – 100%.

If you have not decided to ‘be your own boss’ yet, you first need to ensure that you have what it takes. Also, share your vision with your family, and make sure you are all on the same team – 100%.


“Believe in yourself, and the rest will fall into place. Have faith in your own abilities, work hard, and there is nothing you cannot accomplish.” – Brad Henry


01 Believe In Yourself There is something magical about people who

beforehand that you can do what you want to

have the guts to risk all and go it alone. Starting

do and that you will succeed. It is an internal

and building a business is certainly rewarding

force which turns on the ‘engine’ that allows

but it is not an easy option, even compared with

you to manifest your abilities externally.

the most demanding of careers. Entrepreneurs are self-motivated; they don’t need anyone or anything other than their goals to motivate them.

Everything begins with courage and self-belief. Without those things, it becomes difficult to succeed.

Everything begins with courage and self-belief. Without those things, it becomes difficult to

If you want to start your business and reach the

succeed. To venture out on your own, you must

top of the game, believe in yourself… rise to the

have confidence in your ability to triumph. Self-

occasion with confidence and take your rightful

belief is an act of faith. Never allow anyone

place.

or anything to dispel that belief. It is knowing


“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” – Winston Churchill


02 Don’t Be Afraid To Fail Embrace failure positively. Don’t lose opportu-

It’s more than ‘ok’ to fail. I really mean that.

nities due to the fear of failure. A temporary

After every obstacle, you move one more step

failure is a big step towards success. One small

up that success ladder. Few have what it takes

failure or obstacle (as I like to call them) will

to embrace failure, but those who do will find

give you many different positive lessons. It

opportunity and reward en route.

will increase your level of self-confidence and make you more determined and resilient, and

Those that snub failure have lived the life of

you will be more ready for the next risk. In fact

mediocrity. Our time on planet earth goes by

you will look forward to it.

in a flash. Let’s exit with substance. I would

Few have what it takes to embrace failure, but those who do will find opportunity and reward en route.

rather fail a thousand times than never have tried. It’s a vital ingredient of success. Would a life of mediocrity satisfy you, or would you opt to leave a legacy when you depart planet earth?


“Find something you love to do and you’ll never have to work a day in your life.” Harvey Find something you– love toMackay do and you’ll never

have to work a day in your life – Harvey Mackay


03 Do What You Love And Love What You Do I doubt that there is one successful person

Just after the turn of the millennium, I lost

who would eliminate the phrases “Love What

everything that I had. In a nutshell, I was in the

You Do” or “Do What You Love” from their list

gutter and I was 100% responsible for that.

of the top key success factors. This will give

One thing I didn’t lose was the love for what I

you that extra edge! It enables you to persist

did. I knew that it was purely a matter of time

during those trying times and it gives you an

until I came back.

energised and enthusiastic drive from day to day.

If you don’t love what you do, stop and change direction. Most importantly – change it now!

Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep searching deep, long and hard. Don’t ever accept less than you deserve.

Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. The only way to do great work is to love what you do.


“Make your product easier to buy than your competition, or you will find your customers buying from them, not you.” – Mark Cuban


04 Make Sure Your Customers Love What You Do Loving what you do is first prize, but creating

At the National Small Business Chamber

a business around a product or service where

(NSBC), we always ask our members and

potential customers don’t become actual

partners about our value proposition and

customers normally results in business failure.

we survey our members and partners on their experiences with us. In this way we are

You may think you know what customers

confident that every day we are providing what

want, but what if you’re wrong? One of the big

the market wants us to provide.

reasons why so many start-ups fail is because they are trying to create a demand where there isn’t one.

You may think you know what customers want, but what if you’re wrong?

Before you venture out there and commit to irreversible overheads and place your family

You now have the right product, service or

at risk, your product or service needs to be

idea in place, but what’s equally important is

accepted or your ideas need to be tested.

for your customers to love the way you behave

It’s the small things that will make the biggest difference: be fast, on time, say “thank you” and meet with them face to face frequently.

– your customer service. It’s the small things that will make the biggest difference: be fast, on time, say “thank you” and meet with them face to face frequently. An e-mail doesn’t have a smile, but is a great backup to that in-person relationship.


“If you have integrity, nothing else matters. If you don’t have integrity, nothing else matters.” – Alan K. Simpson


05 Get Happy And Be A Nice Guy The recipe for success: get happy and you will

to the ‘Nice Guy Factor’. So if you really are a

get ahead in life. Happiness, rather than slog-

nice guy, you possess all the key ingredients of

ging at the coalface, is the key to success. Bub-

the cake to get you moving towards success.

bly and spirited people are more likely to challenge the status quo, do different things and

As I say in many of my seminars, you know if

put themselves to the test. Inducing a happy

you are not a nice person. Becoming a nice

effect leads people to be high-spirited, pro-

person will happen automatically once you

ductive and money machines. Happy people

have adopted the happiness factor – smile, be

are more likeable, and as many know, the big-

grateful, help others, be positive, forgive eas-

gest reason why people will do business with

ily, take responsibility for everything and have

you is because they like you – nothing else.

more fun in your life.

Happiness is a choice. Start by doing many small things that make you happier and cata-

Of all the successful people that I have met, I

pult yourself to the top of your game!

have to say, every one of them has been a really nice person. Start by doing this one task:

Jim Rohn once said, “The greatest reward in

every morning when you wake up, go to the

becoming a millionaire is not the amount of

mirror and smile at yourself. Your day will be-

money that you earn. It is the kind of person

come 50% more successful if you do this. Just

that you have to become to become a million-

some advice, try not to let anyone see you do

aire in the first place.”

this. They will think you are an absolute idiot.

Now, we could have separate chapters on ‘Be

Bubbly and spirited people are more likely to challenge the status quo, do different things and put themselves to the test.

Positive’, ‘Be Grateful’, ‘The Happiness Factor’, ‘Take Responsibility’ etc. However, if you think about it, these important topics all contribute


“It’s easy to get good players. Getting them to play together, that’s the hard part.” – Casey Stengel


06 Build A Team Your team is at the core of your business and

Building your business goes hand in hand with

your success is based on them. Especially in

building your team. You need to provide an

smaller businesses where there are fewer

environment for your team to prosper and give

employees, the team members must share

your staff the responsibility to make decisions

similar values and culture. It is also vital to

and make mistakes.

recruit your weaknesses. Remember, you are only as good as the people around you within your business. Before hiring new staff members you need to make certain of three things. Firstly, be sure

It is also vital to recruit your weaknesses. Remember, you are only as good as the people around you within your business.

that you really need extra help – sometimes you can re-shuffle duties and responsibilities

Create an atmosphere of mutual respect and

amongst existing staff members. Secondly,

keep your team informed of the company’s

ensure that there is sufficient space for them

state of affairs. If they know what’s going on

in the business, and that you have the financial

with the finances, sales, expenses, your vision

resources to equip them with the appropriate

etc. then they will have that sense of belonging

technology, equipment and furniture. Thirdly,

and in turn will contribute to your successes.

make sure there is adequate time to train the new recruit and test to see if they fit in with

Recognise the efforts of your team, not just

the culture of your team – allow yourself and

with salary increases, but also through written

your team to meet the potential employee

communication. Demonstrate appreciation,

in a social environment, maybe a lunch or

increase responsibilities, and maybe now and

dinner, where sometimes a bit of wine brings

again that weekend away does wonders. If

out some pleasant or unpleasant traits and

you have a happy and recognised team, staff

characteristics. All the checks and balances

retention and productivity will be high.

are crucial, as letting them go is an unpleasant ordeal – embarrassing, time consuming and financially draining.


“If you think big, then it’s going to be big.” – Emeril Lagasse


07 Think BIG And Set Big Goals If you and your team don’t know where you’re

give you direction, encourage you to continue

going then it will be impossible to reach your

your journey, and increase your sense of

end goal. How can you possibly achieve your

achievement, self-confidence and happiness!

objectives in the shortest amount of time, with

Carry your goals in your purse or wallet. Glance

the least resources, if you’re not clear about

at them daily. Tick them off when realised and

what you want to accomplish? If you want

then add new ones! Goal setting is one of the

smart people to follow you, they need to know

most important areas you need to focus on to

where you’re going. Ensure you have a vision.

get ahead.

You need big goals. If a goal doesn’t excite

Reward yourself when you achieve a goal. Be

you and make you a little nervous, you need to

clear in your head what you really want. Keep

think bigger. Moreover, your team isn’t going

your destination exciting, to help your dream

to be inspired or motivated by average goals.

become real.

Visualise your goals every day. If you aim high you will probably get there – think about that! Initially, set short-term goals that are easier to

If a goal doesn’t excite you and make you a little nervous, you need to think bigger.

realise, but are also meaningful to you and are in accordance with your own values.

Remember your goals must be SMART – specific, measurable, achievable, relevant and

As time goes on, set longer-term goals that are more challenging. Reaching your goals will

timed.


Map Your Journey If you don’t know where you are going, how can you expect todon’t getknow there? - Basil S. going, Walsh “If you where you are how can you expect to get there?” – Basil S. Walsh


08 Map Your Journey To ensure that you attain your vision, you need

A goal is worthless without a journey plan. You

copious amounts of planning – working out

need to set yourself a clear course.

how you will reach your targets, meet new challenges and improve your business. Having

Develop a focused plan with meaningful objec-

the courage to act upon your vision, you now

tives. A plan has no use if you cannot execute

need to build your strategies. You will need a

it! Getting to the top takes consistent and suc-

business and a marketing strategy. These are

cessful innovation. You have to be willing to

the formulas that you will use to drive forward

risk failure and put yourself out there if you

and manage your business.

going to achieve anything of significance.

Every journey needs a destination. The same principle applies to life. Having direction is key to getting ahead.

Every journey needs a destination. The same principle applies to life. Having direction is key to getting ahead. Without clear direction, you will float through life without arriving at where you want to be.


Become a Rainmaker If you are not working on your ideas each day, you’re working on someone else’s - Marjorie Blanchard “If you are not working on your ideas each day, you’re working on someone else’s.” – Marjorie Blanchard


09 Become A Rainmaker Make it rain and become a star. It all comes

deals. How do they make the rain fall? They

down to sales – if you have an abundance of

don’t wait for luck or a brighter economy; they

sales, cash will flow and if cash flows you can

operate and make things happen. Rainmakers

fix anything – marketing, your team, your tech-

don’t have excuses. They either make the sale

nology etc.

or they don’t. In today’s business culture, one

To be a star, you must make it rain. The rainmaker is the sales person everyone else wants to be.

of the most competitive fields is sales. There are more products and services available than ever before. To be a star, you must make it rain. The rainmaker is the sales person everyone else wants to be.

A rainmaker seeks out, secures and retains big

You, as the business owner, must be the rain-

clients, brings in big money, and concludes big

maker in your business.


Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr. Seus “If you are not willing to risk the usual you will have to settle for the ordinary.” - Jim Rohn


10 Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone Get out of your comfort zone and innovate. Do

Stand up and state what you believe to be the

things differently, walk on the wrong side of

right way without fearing the consequences.

the road, swim upstream, challenge the status quo and always keep looking for the next big thing. Winners always look at the bigger picture while losers cannot go beyond the way things are at the time.

If you always do what you have always done, you will only ever have what you’ve got.

If you always do what you have always done,

Step outside your comfort zone and experi-

you will only ever have what you’ve got. Inno-

ment. Most ideas never get off the ground be-

vation is about new ideas, a new process and a

cause people are afraid to take a risk and fail.

new way of doing the old way differently. The

You have to experiment and put your idea to

main reason why we don’t challenge the status

the test. The consequence could be, most like-

quo is probably because the unknown is more

ly, success. Innovation relies on trial and error.

risky and therefore our fear of failure kicks

If it doesn’t work, bank it as experience. This

in. This is the seesaw of success or failure, or

will allow you to move forward and try again.

worse – living an existence of mediocrity.


“Never allow a person to tell you no who doesn’t have the power to say yes.” – Eleanor Roosevelt


11 Never Take “NO” For An Answer Eventually everyone will do business with you

It’s fine when your potential client, supplier or

and you will always get what you want in life, if

whoever says “No”. Just bank it, move on and

you remove the word “no” from your mind. This

return. Keep doing this over and over again and

doesn’t only apply to sales people, it applies to

you will move closer to that “Yes”. It is recog-

all of us. Take a look at your kids – that’s the

nised that eventually just about everyone will

way they are. Have you ever witnessed a kid ac-

do business with you if you keep coming back.

cepting “no” for an answer? Successful people aspire to tenacity and pas-

People want to do business with people who are committed and believe in what they do.

sion; they want to be associated with the few who don’t give up. People want to do business with people who are committed and believe in what they do.


“Be the type of person you want to meet.” – Unknown


12 Mix With The Right People Surround yourself with individuals who will

start my business” or “I am not good enough”.

make a positive difference in your life. Don’t

Instead, surround yourself with people who

expose yourself to negative and unsuccessful

make you come alive in their presence and gen-

people.

erate creativity and progress in you.

Sometimes, the courage to venture out on your own means getting rid of ‘toxic elements’ in your life. It means saying goodbye to negative people and removing yourself from situations

Sometimes, the courage to venture out on your own means getting rid of ‘toxic elements’ in your life.

that poison your spirit, pull you down, instil fear in you, undermine your efforts, make you

Get rid of those around you who drain you and

second guess your abilities and cause you to

suck all the positivity out of you. If you want to

abandon your important life dreams and goals.

succeed you have to spend your time with the

‘Toxic’ people drain your energy and force you

positive, the big thinkers, the achievers and

back to the land of “I can’t do it”, “I am afraid to

the happy.


“Rise and rise again until lambs become lions.” – Robin Hood


13 Keep Moving And Never Surrender Succeeding as an entrepreneur or reaching the

their failures as part of their learning curve.

top of your game in whatever you do is not easy. The ability, courage and desire to keep

When you hit the wall, just stop what’s not

going positively during trying times is what

working, change direction and keep moving.

counts. This is what separates success from failure.

As long as you get up and keep moving, you will succeed – there is no way around it. The

Along the way you will come across many

most successful people do three simple things:

hurdles and setbacks. You will need to dig

1) They always learn new things

deep, make your changes and keep going.

2) They always try new things

Determination and the belief in your vision and

3) They never give up!

plans will keep you on the road to success. If you launch towards your goal and resolve in Do you have the resilience factor – that

advance to NEVER SURRENDER, your success

ability to bounce back positively after losing

is virtually guaranteed.

everything? Remember, it is only failure when you decide to throw in the towel. Successful entrepreneurs are not people who never fail but people who have the capacity to bounce back after failure. Most will talk about

Remember, it is only failure when you decide to throw in the towel.



14 Now, Get Out There And Succeed! The people who have become successful in

about yourself and others, never stop learning,

changing the world have successfully changed

smile even when no-one is looking, demand ex-

themselves first. They have transformed them-

cellence from yourself, put people before pro-

selves from being arrogant to humble, from

jects, take responsibility for everything that

being lazy to hardworking, from being nega-

happens, have integrity – always do what you

tive to positive, from giving up easily to never

say you will do.

giving up, from being unhappy to happy, from being pessimistic to optimistic, from being un-

It’s all about passion, self-confidence, resil-

likeable to likeable and from other poor quali-

ience and that dogged quest for success. Noth-

ties to strong qualities. As part of the process,

ing can stand in your way and no one can stop

they constantly think and behave like a winner.

you. You can become that unstoppable runaway success train.

Think big and dare to dream, give without expecting anything back, be persistent even when it all looks too hard, speak positively

NEVER GIVE UP … NEVER SURRENDER

If you live at the coalface, you are bound to get dirty – Mike Anderson



Happiness is my priority. I smile all the time, make others happy and always find ways to be happier.

I accept who I am and where I am in life.

I am grateful for what I have. I could be worse off.

I am true to myself, positive and always help others.

I live for the moment. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery. Now is the time to make things happen.

I take care of myself and live a healthy life.


I focus on my strengths, positives and what I do well, and not on the things I can’t change.

I have direction in life - that is my key to success. My goals are SMART (specific, measurable, achievable, relevant & timed)

I commit time to my friends and family.

I will NEVER SURRENDER - I have passion, determination and I will never give up.




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