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may 2021 16 Keeping Kids Healthy Post-COVID

After a year of social distancing, how do parents make sure their kids don’t get sick?

18 A Speciality Camp Summer

These targeted camps allow kids to pursue their passions

34 The Power of Preschool

Experts discuss the importance of early childhood education

38 Applying to Private Schools

The application process can be challenging, so we’ve simplified the steps

42 Does My Child Have Anxiety?

It’s normal for kids to have bouts of fear—but how can you tell when it’s anxiety?

48 Pet Sense & Sensibility

Teaching kids how to interact with animals is more important than ever

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6 Editor’s Note 9 News: What’s happening in the community 12 Baby: Sun Protection for Baby 14 Advice: Ask Dad and Buried 50 Last Word: What do you appreciate about your kids’ teachers now more than ever?

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26 Your Outdoor Bucket List 44 Congrats, Grads! 46 Celebrating Mom

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Warmer Days Ahead

he weather’s getting warmer every day and summer will be here before you know it. Have you started making your family’s summer plans yet? Whether you’re taking a much-needed vacation, sending your child to a day or sleepaway camp, or just hanging around the area this year, it might be worth considering a specialty camp or two to engage your child for a few weeks. There are so many benefits, but, most importantly, they allow your child to follow their passions with likeminded peers. And, since they’re typically weeklong stints, specialty camps can fill in the gaps between your family’s other plans. Read more about them on p.18, then turn to p.20 to browse and choose the best camp for your child. Speaking of warmer weather, we’re excited to spend as much time outside as possible, which is why Manhattan mom Marie Holmes compiled a bucket list of 50 things you can do outside with your kids right now (p.26). We’re talking Luna Park, Wave Hill, Queens County Farm Museum, Governors Island, and more! Before you head out for a day of outdoor fun, make sure to slather the family in sunscreen! May is Skin Cancer Awareness Month, and one of the best ways to prevent it is using a broad-spectrum, water-resistant sunscreen. Visit nymetroparents.com/sunscreen for more info—and if you have a baby, turn to p.12 to find out how to protect your littlest family member. However you choose to spend your time outside this month, we hope you have a blast!

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Harry Potter in NYC

The flagship store is slated to open in the Flatiron District early this summer.

Harry Potter New York, the world’s largest official Harry Potter flagship store, is slated to open next to the Flatiron building on June 3. The three-floor wizarding wonder will house the largest collection of Harry Potter and Fantastic Beasts products in the world all under one roof—from personalized robes to Bertie Bott’s Every Flavor Beans to a brandnew range of wands designed specifically for this location. Harry Potter New York will feature 15 different themed areas and a number of exciting experiences that use digital technology and VR to bring the Wizarding World to life. You can strike a pose at one of the many photo opportunities within the store (like the London phone box or inside Hagrid’s boots) or visit the interactive wand table to bring one of your favorite Harry Potter characters to life. Harry Potter New York, located at 935 Broadway, will open with a virtual queuing system in place (you’ll scan a QR code to join and return when you are notified to rather than stand in line), and it will follow all CDC COVID-19 safety guidelines, including reduced capacity and face coverings. For a sneak-peak of all of the magical merchandise Harry Potter New York will feature, visit harrypottershop.com.

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New Books We Love

Keeping the City Going

Podcast Pick

Shayna Ferm and Tracey Tee, creators of the popular live comedy show, The Pump and Dump Show, and the Band of Mothers app, talk about what it’s like to be a woman who also happens to be a mom in Band of Mothers. With nothing off limits, this long-time duo (they’ve been friends since eighth grade!) explores women’s lifestyle subjects and expert opinions. They often include compelling guests, and always have honest, raw, charmingly irreverent conversations and hilarious games.

Me Time Did you know taking 15-20 minutes of me time each day can help prevent caregiver burnout? “Me time is recovery time,” says Elizabeth Lombardo, Ph.D., author of Better Than Perfect: 7 Strategies to Crush Your Inner Critic and Create a Life You Love. Learn how me time reduces stress and how to find the time (even if it seems impossible right now) at nymetroparents.com/ me-time.

his beautifully illustrated book by Caldecott Medalist Brian Floca (Locomotive, Moonshot: The Flight of Apollo 11) realistically captures New York during an unreal time: when families were stuck at home clanging pots for the city’s unsung heroes. And as normalcy returns, this book will memorialize our pandemic madness—and the incredible perseverance and comradery demonstrated by this city and most importantly its essential workers. We spoke to Floca about his book.

Why did you want to write a book about essential workers?

How did creating this book help you through the pandemic?

I’ve never been happier to see a UPS truck or a fire engine or a delivery cyclist coming down the block than I was last spring. Each of the essential workers operating those vehicles seemed to me to be making the assertion that, yes, the city would continue to function, that we would in fact get through this thing. I was grateful for that.

It gave me something to do, is the simplest way to put it! (And, yes, I made bread, too.)

How did you find your specific inspiration? Almost everything in the book was inspired by—or simply lifted from—something I saw while walking or biking near my studio in Gowanus. Any questions I had about the details on the garbage truck I was drawing could be resolved with a short walk.

Making Mom Friends In the absence of traditional meetups like library story hours, it’s been tricky to make new mom friends this past year. But with a bit of effort and creativity, you can nurture friendships with other moms who’ll relate to what you’re going through, whether it’s teething troubles or teenage texting. Find ideas at nymetroparents.com/momfriends. 10

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What do you hope kids will take away from this book? Making the book has certainly helped me be more observant and appreciative of the people and the work that make New York run—a remarkable feat even when there is no pandemic. As E.B. White said: “It is a miracle that New York works at all. The whole thing is implausible.” If looking at the book helps readers be more aware and appreciative, too, or if readers have friends and family who do this kind of work and who might feel acknowledged by the book, then I would be very happy with that.

For LittLe Kids

Peace Train By Cat Stevens; illustrated by Peter H. Reynolds To mark the iconic song’s 50th anniversary, Cat Steven’s picture book (published May 11) invites readers to hop on the Peace Train and join its growing group of passengers who are all ready to travel together to a better world of peace and human understanding. For MiddLe schooLers

Stamped (For Kids): Racism, Antiracism, and You By Jason Reynolds, Ibram X. Kendi; adapted by Sonja Cherry-Paul, illustrated by Rachelle Baker Adapted from the groundbreaking bestseller Stamped: Racism, Antiracism, and You, this book (published May 11) shows kids where racist ideas came from and how they impact America today, and introduces them to the heroes who have fought racism with antiracism. For teens

The Supreme Lie By Geraldine McCaughrean In this darkly comic thriller (published May 12) by a Carnegie Medal-winning author, 15-year-old Gloria is thrust into a world of corrupt and desperate politicians. As she becomes aware of the forces manipulating her, she must take actions that could save, or end, thousands of lives—including her own.

New Places, New Programs Early Childhood Center to Open in Whitestone this Fall Holy Cross Greek Day school is slated to open an early childhood center in Whitestone this fall for ages 3-6. Programs will incorporate Greek culture through language and music learning to foster curiosity, intelligence, and creativity. Children will develop academic and social skills while collaborating with fellow students and their teachers through a curriculum that has been carefully selected to ensure it is developmentally appropriate for each age group. Class sizes will be kept small to facilitate an individualized, nurturing environment for all students. 150-05 12th Ave., Whitestone; 718-767-2955; info@holycrossgreekchurch.com; hcgos.org

Music School in Bayside Now Offering Classes to Preschoolers School of Rock is now offering its Little Wing music program at its Bayside location. The immersive and innovative program teaches ages 2 ½ - 5 rhythm, song structure, melody, dynamics, and other foundational music skills through classic rock music. Children will get tactile exposure to all of the instruments that School of Rock teaches—like guitar, bass, keyboard, and drums—through fun and interactive activities designed for preschoolers. Enrollment for Little Wing at School of Rock Queens began this month. 34-43 Francis Lewis Blvd., Lower Level, Suite 2, Flushing; 929-999-7625; queens@schoolofrock.com; queens. schoolofrock.com

Childcare Network in Forest Hills Now Enrolling Children in NYC 3-K Queens Childcare Network—which specializes in placing children in highly regulated, licensed family and group daycares—is now enrolling children born in 2018, living anywhere in Queens, in NYC 3-K. This allows parents to have their child receive free Department of Education-funded childcare and early childhood education for the school year. Qualifying families can also choose to enroll children in low- or no- cost 3-K Extended Day and Extended Year childcare subsidized services. The application for 3-K enrollment is open now through May 28. 108-25 62nd Drive, Forest Hills; 347-897-4949; childcare@qchnyc.org; qchync.org

Boosting Emotional Wellness in Kids Even if you don’t think your kids are stressed out or affected by the past year, it’s a good time to up your game when it comes to fostering emotional wellness. Here are 5 simple things you can do:

Support your child. Check in with your kids at least once a week and remind them part of your job is to answer their questions and provide support. Speak openly and calmly about your own anxieties and your children will become better at adapting during periods of crisis.

Get active. Spend plenty of time dancing around the house introduce your kids to yoga. Staying active can help reduce stress levels. Practice mindfulness. Meditating or coloring are some great ways to be present with one another and enjoy each other’s company without having to say or do much, and they’re ideal for supporting mental health and wellness. Be informative. If your child expresses some fear of re-entering public spaces and social environments, provide information and be specific regarding what you will do outside of the house and how you will be smart to stay healthy.

Stay aware. If your child is having trouble sleeping, eating, or experiences dramatic mood changes, you should probably seek a mental health professional’s guidance. For more, visit nymetroparents.com/ emotions.

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Sun Protection for Baby

Summer is around the corner—don’t forget the sunscreen! By Alison Leighton

or many parents, sunscreen wasn’t a staple in our beach bag. Back then, we weren’t taught much about the dangers of overexposure to the sun. Today, parents are more informed about risks such as cancer or damaged skin, and most adults practice safe sunscreen habits with their kids. But as summer approaches, it’s always a good idea to buff up on healthy sun tips for babies.

Can my newborn wear sunsCreen? Baby skin is sensitive and still very delicate, so most doctors don’t recommend using sunscreen before 6 months old. Instead, parents should rely on other forms of sun protection—such as shade from an umbrella, a stroller canopy, or a pop-up tent. For additional relief, try a clip-on fan for a stroller or lounge chair. Infants should also wear brimmed hats and sunglasses if possible. Dress them in lightweight UVA/UVB protective or UPF- (Ultraviolet Protection Factor) containing clothing, and make sure they don’t get overheated. This is especially important between the hours of 10am and 4pm, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics. If you can’t avoid the sun, it’s safe to apply a small amount of sunscreen to small, exposed areas, such as an infant’s face or the back of her hands. Check with your pediatrician about this and also refer to the sunscreen guidelines below.

How do I keep my baby proteCted from tHe sun? The Mayo Clinic says it’s safe for babies to wear sunscreen after 6 months and, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, a history of sunburns, especially in youth, can increase the risk of skin cancer later in life. So, don’t forget to follow these rules for the whole family. • Apply a broad-spectrum sunscreen 15-30 minutes before going outside. • Use a lotion which contains 30 SPF or higher. • Apply sunscreen generously to all exposed skin every two hours or after getting wet. Do this even if it’s cloudy; clouds don’t absorb all the harmful UV radiation. • Use a mineral-based sunscreen containing zinc oxide or titanium dioxide, which prevent skin and eye irritation in babies. Zinc will

act as a barrier against the sun and won’t be absorbed into your baby’s pores. • Water-resistant sunscreen is ideal. • Everyone, regardless of skin-tone, should wear sunscreen.

do I need sunsCreen speCIfICally made for babIes? “If you are using a mineral sunscreen that has limited ingredients, you don’t necessarily need one labeled ‘for babies/children’,” according to Orit Markowitz, M.D., boardcertified dermatologist and founder of OptiSkin in Manhattan. “However, it can be easier for parents to look for a baby/kid safe label if they are unsure.” Dr. Markowitz notes that babies older than 6 months and small children tend to have more sensitive skin, so she recommends parents use mineral blockers with pure ingredients (like zinc or titanium dioxide) instead of chemical sunscreens that contain micro-size particles that are absorbed by a young child’s delicate pores. “Mineral or physical sunscreens sit on top of the skin making it a better option for babies, children, and even adults with sensitive skin as you are less likely to have a reaction,” she explains. Many popular sunscreen brands have baby- and child-specific options. Test a new brand of sunscreen on a small section of your baby’s skin and a wait for a couple of minutes to see if there is a reaction before applying more. Some brands sell baby sunscreen in solid form called sunscreen sticks (which look like mini deodorant) and are especially useful for wiggly babies’ faces. You will also find various options that may meet personal preferences, such as hypoallergenic, fragrance-free, paraben-free, or vegan.

How do I keep my toddler proteCted from tHe sun? Even as babies age, they can be burned easily in direct sunlight and become overheated quickly. Continue to keep your child in the shade as much as possible, reapply sunscreen, and maintain the sunprotective behaviors you started at 6 months old. Also, your child may be swimming and playing in water at this age, so don’t forget to reapply after they get wet, and/or after two hours of exposure. And finally, our favorite tip: Go outside and have a blast with your little ones!

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We’re all going crazy. Every sunny, warm day is followed by three lousy ones, and my kids need to get outside—and away from me! How do we survive these next few weeks before summer without losing our minds? — Marcus, Staten Island

onestly, Marcus? I DON’T KNOW! We’ve been stuck inside far more than we’re used to. Parents have been working from home; kids have been schooling from home; some of us have even been teaching from home. We’re all dying to get outside and back to normal life. If we lived in California or another warm locale where social distancing outside is easy, maybe we’d feel differently. Unfortunately, we live here, where winter has been long and brutal and enjoys rope-a-doping us with false hope well into spring! We’re all going a little mad—especially our kids. (Not that you can tell; kids are already insane…unless it’s just my kids. Please don’t let it be just my kids!) Thankfully, spring is here and so is the vaccine! You’ve done what you needed to do in order to survive. Maybe you’ve kept the family together with weekly game nights. Maybe you’ve stayed sane by Zooming with friends. Maybe you’ve allowed the kids to melt their brains with video games so you could have some adult time? Guilty as charged! Whatever coping method you used, you’re surely completely sick of it by now, and also probably completely sick of your kids. I think we are all dying to get a lot further than 6 feet away from our kids. And we’re so close (to being far from our children). Take heart that change is coming. Use these sporadic sunny days to take a walk and yell at your kids outside, and if you’re vaccinated, visit other vaccinated people. Keep ordering take-out and delivery, keep maximizing your Netflix account, and keep letting your kids play Fortnite or Doom or Double Dragon or whatever they play these days. Hang on for a little while longer, Marcus, and soon enough the weather, and the vaccine (and herd immunity!) will give us all the protection we need to start getting together with friends again, to start getting away from our kids again, and to start living life again—if we can remember how!

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Keeping Kids Healthy Post-COVID After a year of social distancing, how do parents make sure their kids don’t get sick? By Alison Kotch

hen COVID-19 forced kids to stay home, the germs they could potentially catch and carry decreased dramatically. But what happens now that kids are going back to school? In March, the number of new infections in our area increased 37-percent in little more than a month, according to an AP News article. Plus, children may not be vaccinated for a while, according to David Buchholz, M.D., assistant professor of pediatrics at Columbia University’s Vagelos College of Physicians and Surgeons. “The youngest may not get vaccinated until 2022, when the studies are complete.” Until then, how do parents keep kids protected as they are reintroduced to prepandemic activities?

Will my child get sick more easily? The good news: Although children might get sick more easily than they did during the peak of the pandemic (when they were isolated), they won’t be more vulnerable than they were prepandemic. Their immune systems have not been compromised by the lack of interaction—and there are likely less germs circulating. “The use of face coverings, social distancing, handwashing, and isolating when ill has dramatically reduced contagious diseases during the pandemic,” Dr. Buchholz says. “These precautions will continue to help reduce illness as children socialize more.” In fact, when kids return to “normal” social interaction, their risk of getting sick will be on par with pre-pandemic levels—or might even be reduced. “I’d like to believe that the lessons learned about handwashing and isolating when ill may persist, and reduce contagious disease transmission for, at least, a while,” Dr. Buchholz says. These habits also safeguard against the common cold and other viruses.

Will my child spread coVid-19? As adult vaccinations increase, people might be worried that kids will continue to transmit the coronavirus. Fortunately, Dr. Buchholz says, this is not the case. “Studies have shown that the spread of COVID-19 occurs less among children in elementary and middle school, while transmission in high school students is more similar to how adults contract the virus,” he says. However, that’s no reason to let your guard down when it comes to

protection: COVID-19 can be spread through ventilation systems in schools, during indoor after-school sports, and in child care programs, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. In addition to all of the regular safety precautions, parents should request that teachers and administrators open windows whenever possible and use fans to ensure proper air circulation.

When can kids get Vaccinated? As of press date, Pfizer/BioNTech is testing the vaccine in children ages 12-15, followed by those ages 5-11. Moderna is conducting two studies: one on children ages 12-17 and the other on kids ages of 6 months to 12 years. Results should be available by summer. Once a safe and effective dose is determined, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration will review data before authorizing it. Dr. Buchholz says children will be considered immune two weeks after completing a single-dose vaccine or two weeks after the second dose of a two-dose vaccine. Until then, face-coverings, hand washing, and isolation will need to continue. Parents should also boost their child’s immune system with a healthy diet, which is especially important these days—childhood obesity levels have increased 2 percent since the start of the pandemic, as a result of reduced availability of healthy lunches, easier access to snacks, and more screen time, according to a study in the journal Pediatrics.

What precautions should kids continue to take? “Per the CDC’s guidelines, an unvaccinated, asymptomatic child may visit a single-family household who has been vaccinated—such as grandparents—without the need for masks or social distancing,” Dr. Buchholz says. After kids get vaccinated, they should still take precautions as in-person classes return. The CDC advises parents to stay in touch with their school staff and teachers and avoid sending kids to school with a fever of 100.4 or higher, or if they exhibit symptoms of diarrhea, severe headache, vomiting, or nausea. Sending your children to school with sanitizer and encouraging them not to share musical instruments, writing instruments, or books can also slow the spread of COVID and the common cold. That said, if both kids and adults are vaccinated, families can cautiously start to resume normal activities—and look forward to a brighter, less isolated future.

Alison Kotch is a freelance writer, editor and runner who specializes in wellness and travel content. She enjoys cooking and gardening and lives in Brooklyn.

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A Specialty Camp Summer

These targeted camps allow kids to pursue their passions. By Zlata Faerman

specific sport (tennis, soccer, baseball, and more), STEAM, dance, art, academics, and pretty much anything your child shows an interest in. There are also specialty camps for kids who want to travel— either to experience different cultures or to pursue a passion. For example, there are camps in Costa Rica where campers help save sea turtles. No matter what your children’s interests are, there is likely a specialty camp out there for them.

the Benefits of a specialty camp

his last year of pandemic-living erased all sense of routine. Now that summer is approaching, both parents and kids are craving some normalcy—especially more interaction with their peers, which is where summer camp can come to the rescue. While some parents may be concerned about COVID safety at camp, many are reassured by last summer’s study conducted by the American Camp Association, which showed that out of 90,000 kids at 486 camps, less than 1 percent of campers and staffers contracted COVID-19. “This summer is looking hopeful! Registration has already opened for many camps, and spots are filling up fast,” says Gregg Morrow, who manages clients at UltraCamp, a summer camp registration and management tool. So, for parents who are jumping on the camp bandwagon, the only question that remains is: Which camp? Will you choose a day camp that offers a varied program of outdoorsy fun like swimming, sports, hiking, games, and arts and crafts or a sleepaway camp? Or is this the summer for a specialty camp or two?

What are specialty camps? Some specialty camps are intended for a specific group of kids— such as those with rare skin conditions, campers with cancer, gifted and talented children, at-risk youth, kids with certain health conditions, or individuals with intellectual or physical disabilities. There are also specialty camps for children who want to focus on a particular interest and learn to master a skill—like a 18

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Specialty camps allow children (and their parents) to come together around a mutual interest—and gives kids the chance to meet others with the same passion. These relationships foster a sense of community and encourage growth and confidence in kids. “There is a lot of power bringing people together who share a common love of something and the community that love fosters,” says Mike Samer, co-founder of Everyday California—a San Diego, CA-based surfing camp. “Specialty camps are a great way for students to hone-in and focus on one thing and one thing only for a short period of time,” says Christopher Rim, CEO and founder of Command Education Group, which hosts a week-long College Application Booster Camp. “Specialty camps allow kids the opportunity to build out and focus on one endeavor and make a lot of progress in a short amount of time.” These camps are also often shorter (one week as opposed to several), which means they can fill in the gaps between other summer plans like traditional day camp, sleepaway camp, or a family vacation. So, if you’re trying to decide between specialty, day, and sleepaway camp for your child, consider choosing two or all three options—if it’s feasible for your family—and line them up to fully engage your kid. After a year of reduced social-emotional learning, it’s the ideal summer for this, according to Tom Rosenberg, president and CEO of ACA. “After such an isolating and traumatic year of disruption and loss, the SEL outcomes that result from camp experiences will help young people prepare to thrive in school this fall,” he says. Zlata Faerman is a full-time publicist, part-time writer, and round-the-clock ambassador to wit and humor. When she’s not crafting kitchen concoctions for @lifeandthymez, she can be found spending time with her family, having @zlatathoughts, and fantasizing about being a Real Housewife of New Jersey.

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Camp Directory All Star Studios

108-21 72nd Ave. (4th floor), Forest Hills 718-268-2280 allstarstudiosnyc.com allstarstudiosnyc@gmail.com Register now for All Star Studio’s Spring and/or Summer 2021 Session of jazz, tap, ballet, hip hop, and acro, for ages 3 and older. Demonstrative assistants included so teachers can focus on students’ progression. Classes modified to accommodate in-person and Zoom classes simultaneously depending on families’ preferences. Register for your free trial!

Billie Jean King National Tennis Center

Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Flushing ntc.usta.com The Billie Jean National Tennis Center offers year-round programs: daytime, after-school, and weekend, as well as fun-filled summer day camps with multi-sport activities for all ages and levels. Campers work on tennis techniques, tactics, multi-sport conditioning, and strategy. Enrollment available at ntc.usta.com.

Buckley Summer Academy

2 I.U. Willets Road, Roslyn 516-627-1910 buckleycountryday.com Buckley Scholars is an exciting, elite academic program that allows students entering grades fifth-ninth to explore their passions through hands-on workshops, true-to-life simulations, and essential leadership development activities! The two-week program is a partnership between the Buckley Summer Academy and the National Student Leadership Conference.

Countryside Montessori School

354 Lakeville Road, lower level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 cmsgn.com info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori School is offering in-person camp for children ages 18 months to 6 years old. There are morning academics for the older children and playtime for all children. Zoom sessions are also being offered in the morning with a different topic each day.

Garden School Summer Camp

33-16 79th St., Jackson Heights 718-335-6363 gardenschool.org/programs/summer campdirector@gardenschool.org Garden School Summer Camp is excited to be back after a successful 2020 summer. On-site pool, certified lifeguards, snacks, and program variety make us the best camp in Queens! Ages 1½–13! Camp offers sports, crafts, swim, and themes. Extended day and transportation are available. Certified by the DOH.

Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp 183-02 Union Turnpike, Flushing 718-380-4145 hjcdaycamp.org daycamp@hillcrestjc.org

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The camp “where everybody knows your name” offers programs for campers from pre-school through our Counselor-in-Training program for age 14. Our age-appropriate programs include Red Cross swim instruction, arts and crafts, outdoor play and exercise, sports, field trips, drama, Jewish culture programs, special events and activities, and weekly cookouts.

Magic Day Camp, “Where Every Day Is Magical,” offers children ages 4-15 adventures and activities that stimulate and motivate minds and physical ability. We swim every day in an Olympic country club pool. With exciting weekly trips, our rates include door-to-door transportation, healthy lunches, professional tennis, dance, and instructional sports programs.

Ivy Day School

Noah’s Ark Preparatory

65-01 Kissena Blvd. Flushing 718-460-6366 70-44 Kissena Blvd. Flushing 718-880-1888 104-70 Queens Blvd., Forest Hills 718-997-1997 ivydayschool.com dinam@ivydayschool.com At Ivy Day School (three locations), we provide our decade-long standard of academic excellence to children ages 2-5. We envision students will develop essential skills for a lifetime of achievements via fun, stimulating activities. Call to ask about our special summer program for children ages 4-6.

Kon Gen International Preschool

196-25 42nd Ave., Bayside 718-281-2338 kongeninternationalpreschool.com We provide a nurturing environment that celebrates the uniqueness of each child. We offer creative dance, music, and art appreciation. Our educational program is based on monthly thematic unit studies and a project-based curriculum. We offer a roof-top playground, indoor play space, and a dance room!

Laurissa Jane Music Summer Arts Camp

121-15 Lucus St., St. Albans, Queens 718-560-3016 ljanemusic.org ljanemusic@gmail.com Join Laurissa Jane Music Virtual Summer Performing Arts Program. Piano, guitar, voice, drama, dance, art, performance skills, and audition tips. Workshops are designed to enhance students’ natural creative abilities and gifts. We believe that exposure to theater arts and various musical traditions and styles will help build confidence, creativity, and self-expression.

Little Blossoms of Middle Village

8402 60th Ave., Middle Village 917-627-5679 917-745-0955 littleblossomsofmiddlevillage.com littleblossomsofvillage@gmail.com Little Blossoms of Middle Village summer camp program offers instruction in art, group games, sports, music, and nature. Students participate in clubs such as science, drama, and arts. They offer nature walks, picnics at Juniper Park, and summer carnival. Hours are 7am–7pm this summer!

Magic Day Camp

216-15 Peck Ave., Bayside 718-634-8109 magicdaycamp.com

38-20 Bell Blvd., Bayside 718-279-4251 noahsarkschool.com noahsarkpreparatory@gmail.com Noah’s Ark Preparatory Inc. strives to create a learning environment, which invites the fullest potential of each person’s gifts. Both nursery and pre-kindergarten classrooms are divided into distinct learning areas and foster the love of learning. Please call for information about our programs, including UPK and Summer Camp for ages 2-10.

Oasis Day Camp Queens - Oasis in Bayside Fort Totten

Totten Avenue and 15th Road, Bayside 516-738-5010 Charles Giegerich, director oasischildren.com bayside@oasischildren.com Oasis Day Camp prides itself on age-appropriate programming for ages 3-15. Early Start (ages 3-5) is a nurturing camp environment. Lower (first-second grade) offers sports, arts, swim, enrichment, and nature. Upper (third-sixth grades) is bigger and better for older campers. Teen Travel (seventh-ninth grades) offers unique trips, overnights, friendships.

Rose Academy of Ballet

70-11 Austin St., Forest Hills 718-520-0207 roseacademyofballet.com racademyofballet@gmail.com A thoughtful dance program that combines movement and music, while always leaving space for personal creativity. Students are taught by professionals in their field! Join us for dance classes- ages 3 and older! We offer pre-ballet, jazz, hip-hop, acro, and more! Register for Summer Camp or classes now!

School of Rock Queens 2021 Summer Program

34-43 Francis Lewis Blvd., Lower Level, Suite 2, Bayside 929-999-7625, Sam Ventura, general manager queens.schoolofrock.com queens@schoolofrock.com With camp choices for all ages and skill levels, School of Rock is the perfect summer activity for your child. From beginner camps to songwriting and themed performance-based camps, we offer a wide variety of options to ensure your child has an amazing, immersive musical experience.

St. Francis Preparatory School – Summer at SFP

6100 Francis Lewis Blvd., Fresh Meadows 718-423-8810 x223 sfponline.org Each summer St. Francis Prep offers a broad, varied program to benefit students who are not yet in high school. These programs, taught by Prep teachers and coaches, range from sports camps such as basketball, baseball, and volleyball, to special interest areas, such as music theater and video game design.

Summer at The Kew-Forest School

119-17 Union Turnpike, Forest Hills 718-551-3108 kewforest.org/summer summer@kewforest.org Summer at The Kew-Forest School provides children entering kindergarten to fifth grade with academic enrichment in reading, writing, and mathematics, along with recreational activities including martial arts, drama, dance, arts and crafts, gym, computers, and special events. Two, four, and six-week options available.

Tinker Lab at Lewis Latimer House Museum

3441 137th St., Flushing 718-961-8585 lewislatimerhouse.org/tinkerlab education@lewislatimerhouse.org Tinker Lab provides hands-on, project-based STEAM instruction for kids ages 7-10. Projects will explore coding, animation, engineering, hands-on making, and artistic design. Live instruction is held virtually on zoom. Register for summer camps at lewislatimerhouse.org/tinkerlab.

Young People’s Day Camp of Queens

347-801-2375 ypdc.com Since 1972, our family-run camp has provided safe, fun-filled summers for thousands of Queens youngsters. YPDCQ is accredited by the American Camp Association. Activities include swimming, sports, arts and crafts, music and dance, nature science, academics, educational and recreational field trips, as well as many other special events. Ages 4-15.

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School of Rock's music camps offer an incredible selection of experiences from beginner music camps to intermediate and advanced sessions. Our music camps often include performance boot camps, artist-themed camps, songwriting and recording, and more. ROOKIES CAMP (AGES 5 - 7) JUN 28 - JUL 2, 9:30 AM - 2:30 PM

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• Summer Day Program (Ages 4-10) • Camp in session from July 12th - August 19th We offer In-Person and Remote classes!

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All Star Studios allstarstudiosnyc.com Forest Hills Atlantic Acting School atlanticactingschool.org Chelsea

Billie Jean King National Tennis Center ntc.usta.com Flushing

Brooklyn Music School brookylnmusicschool.org/ summer-2021 Fort Greene

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Buckley Summer Academy buckleycountryday.com Roslyn

Camp Reece campreece.org Saratoga Springs

Camp SAY campsay.org East Stroudsburg, PA

Camp Settoga campsettoga.org Pomona

Chatty Child Speech and Occupational Therapy, PLLC chattychild.com Tribeca China Institute chinainstitute.org/camp Downtown Manhattan

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Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory DNA Learning Center summercamps.dnalc.org/ dnalc-nyc/Downtown City Tech, Brooklyn

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Imagine Works Youth Theatre imagineworksonline.com West Village

Ivy Day School ivydayschool.com Forest Hills, Flushing

Kon Gen kongeninternationalpreschool. com Bayside

Laurissa Jane Music ljanemusic.org St. Albans

Lewis Latimer House Museum lewislatimerhouse.org/ tinkerlab Flushing Little Blossoms of Middle Village littleblossomsofmiddlevillage.com Middle Village

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Derek Kellogg Basketball Camp coachkellogg.com Downtown Brooklyn

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Oasis Camp in Central Park oasischildren.com Upper West Side

Oasis Camp in Downtown oasischildren.com Downtown Manhattan

Park Slope Day Camp parkslopedaycamp.com Prospect Park Windsor Terrace, Carroll Gardens, Brooklyn Bridge Park

Play On! Studios playonstudios.com Upper West Side Rose Academy of Ballet roseacademyofballet.com Forest Hills

School of Rock Queens queens.schoolofrock.com Bayside

Splat Camp splatcamps.com Downtown Brooklyn Stargazer Day Camp stargazerdaycamp.com Marine Park

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Stepping Stones steppingstones86.com Bay Ridge

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NORY nory.co/summer Various locations throughout Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Long Island City

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Your Outdoor Bucket List! 50 reasons to get outside and have fun with your kids! By Marie Holmes

ow that the temperatures are warming up and the trees are in bloom, it’s the perfect time to head outdoors. Here are 50 spots you can go to with the kids to enjoy being outside in the greatest city on earth. Think of this as your pre-summer bucket list. And if you visit any of these places, make sure to tag @NYMetroParents when you share your pics on Instagram!

Make your way through the adventure ropes course or zip line over the Bronx

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River at the Bronx Zoo Treetop Adventure (bronxzootreetop.com).

Look down on the little toy cars and ant people through the glass floor of The Edge, the highest outdoor deck in the Western Hemisphere (edgenyc.com).

Get a look at the city’s geologic past in the wetlands, tidal flats, meadows, and forest of Alley Pond Park, which sits on the site of a glacier-formed moraine. Visit more than 80 animal ambassadors and check out the programs available at the park’s Environmental Center (alleypond.org).

Take in a favorite flick at the Skyline Drive-In, as well as a sunset view of Manhattan from the comfort of your car—or purchase a seat in the outdoor seating area if you don’t have your own vehicle (skylinedriveinnyc.com).

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family fun Feed a handful of grains to a gentle sheep or alpaca at the Prospect Park Zoo. See if you can spot the zoo’s Pallas cat, also known as the original Grumpy (prospectparkzoo.com).

Run through a rain of pink petals in the Cherry Esplanade, learn about

Use your MetroCard to take the tram from the East Side of Manhattan to Roosevelt Island. Enjoy the green space at

Select the sites you’d like to see up-close on a Hop-on, Hop-off City Experience by Hornblower Sightseeing Cruises. Check out the Statue of Liberty, Ellis

Four Freedoms Park or check out one of the historical sites located on the island (rioc.ny.gov).

Island, Governors Island, Brooklyn Bridge, South Street Seaport, Battery Park, the new Hudson Yards and more (hornblower.com)!

insects and native plants in the Discovery Garden, and say hello to the turtles, carp and ducks in the Japanese Garden’s pond at the Brooklyn Botanic Garden (bbg.org).

See the sharks swimming overhead from inside the immersive coral reef tunnel at Coney Island’s New York Aquarium. Watch the sea lions ham in up for an audience at the Aquatheater (nyaquarium.com).

Rent a boat to paddle around the lake, bike the park’s circular drive, or strap on a pair of skates and roll in Prospect Park. Run the mile of the Long Meadow—the longest stretch of unbroken meadow in any U.S. urban park (prospectpark.org)!

Root for the home team at a Brooklyn Cyclones game. Watch the

Enjoy some outdoor time at the Brooklyn Children’s Museum by exploring the Nest, an interactive play space on the museum’s roof inspired by the unique nests of baya weaver birds and crafted with wood reclaimed from city water towers (brooklynkids.org).

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roller coasters plunge in the Coney Island background as the sun sets over the sea (milb.com/brooklyn).

Ride the classic tilt-a-whirl, bumper cars, and Ferris wheel in Adventurer’s Park. There are also lots of kiddie rides designed to bring a smile to the youngest visitors (adventurerspark.com).

Romp in the playgrounds, cool off in the water play area, and enjoy unobstructed views of lower Manhattan from the sandy Pier 4 beach at Brooklyn Bridge Park. Check out the calendar of events for activities such a virtual story time and a family fitness class (brooklynbridgepark.org).

See a piece of Pepsi-Cola history at Gantry Plaza State Park. Cool off in the mist fountain and prepare your fresh catch on the fishing pier’s cleaning table (parks.ny.gov). 28

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Rent a bike or a paddle boat to explore some of the 900-plus acres in Flushing Meadows-Corona Park. Get splashed by the iconic Unisphere fountains (nycgovparks.org).

Take a multi-sensory tour of the sugar refining process on the oneof-a-kind playground structures in Williamsburg’s Domino Park. The waterfront views of Manhattan are also pretty sweet (dominopark.com).

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family fun Bring your bikes for a ride alongside the water in Shirley Chisholm State Park, named in honor of the trailblazing Brooklyn crusader. If you don’t own a bike, you can borrow one from the bike library—adult and child sizes available (parks.ny.gov).

Watch the seals do tricks at mealtime at the Central Park Zoo. Feed the animals at the children’s zoo, and don’t miss the entertainment of the Delacorte Clock at the turn of every hour (centralparkzoo.com)!

Enjoy 360-degree views of the city at Top of the Rock. Spot Central Park, both

Admire the Manhattan skyline from atop a painted horse at Jane’s Carousel in Dumbo. The 1922 carousel has been lovingly restored and is

rivers and the Empire State Building from on high (topoftherocknyc.com).

ready to delight riders of all ages (janescarousel.com).

Take in the view of the city from the top of the Empire State Building. Whether you’re gazing down at the city from the 86th or 102nd floor, you’ll understand why the aweinspiring panorama has remained a tourist draw for so long (esbnyc.com).

Wend your way through Central Park on foot, bike, or horse and carriage. Spend

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some time in one of the park’s 21 playgrounds, rent a model sailboat, or clamber atop the Alice in Wonderland sculpture (centralparknyc.org).

Spend the entire day at Pier 25 in Hudson River Park. Your kids can play mini golf, climb the playground structures, or cool off in the water features (hudsonriverpark.org).

Hop aboard the carousel, the Choo Choo, the Frog Hopper, and other little kidfriendly rides in Fantasy Forest Amusement Park (fantasyforestnyc.com).

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Ride one of the animals on the historic Forest Park Carousel, show your strength

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on the high-striker, or win a prize at the ring toss (forestparkcarousel.com).

Spot the tail of a whale or some diving dolphins on a Whale

Go for a leisurely stroll up or down the High Line, a linear

Watching and Dolphin Adventure Cruise with American Princess Cruises (americanprincesscruises.com).

park built atop an old elevated train track. Admire the contemporary art installations on display (thehighline.org).

Watch the birds in the aviary, hear the sea lions bark, and feed the animals in the petting zoo at the Queens Zoo (queenszoo.com).

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Admire the outdoor art exhibitions and take in the views of the Manhattan skyline at Socrates Sculpture Park in Long Island City (socratessculpturepark.org).

Visit Groundhog Chuck and his friends at the Staten Island Zoo. Check out the bees in the apiary and say hello to the otters, foxes, horses and leopards (statenislandzoo.org).

Visit land that has been feeding New Yorkers for more than three centuries at the Queens County Farm Museum. Say hello to the animals and pick up some fresh produce at the farm stand (queensfarm.org).

Head out to the ball game at Citi Field. If you’re lucky, you’ll get to see the home run apple spring into action (mlb.com/mets). Explore the expansive, shady grounds of the Bronx Zoo. Hop aboard the Bug Carousel or climb high in the Nature Trek for a bird’s eye view (bronxzoo.com).

View Yayoi Kusama’s giant, whimsical sculptures on display at the New York Botanical Garden. Go on a scavenger hunt and sit in on story time in the Everett Children’s Adventure Garden (nybg.org).

Go to a game at the iconic Yankee Stadium. Arrive early and enjoy a visit to the New York Yankees Museum before the game (mlb.com/yankees).

Try your hand at a carnival game, enjoy a hot dog on the boardwalk, or buckle up to ride the famous Cyclone roller coaster at Luna Park in Coney Island. Enjoy aerial views a hundred feet in the sky on the swings of the Brooklyn Flyer (lunaparknyc.com).

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family fun Take a peek at the New York Chinese Scholar’s Garden, one of two authentic classical Chinese gardens in the country, and enjoy more than a hundred varieties of roses in the rose garden at the Snug Harbor Botanical Garden (snug-harbor.org).

Take a guided weekend tour through Historic Richmond Town to learn how New Yorkers lived centuries ago and make your children grateful for modern conveniences (historicrichmondtown.org)!

Head out from the Greenbelt Nature Center to one of several hiking trails. Check out the

Climb aboard the 1943 aircraft carrier housing the Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum. Take an up-close look at a variety of planes

calendar of events for other nature center programs (sigreenbelt.org).

displayed on the ship’s deck (intrepidmuseum.org).

Built on the site of the infamous landfill of the same name, Freshkills Park, while still under development, has several areas open to the public. Visitors can climb the playground equipment at Schmul Park or ride bikes along the 3.2mile New Springville Greenway (freshkillspark.org).

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Take in views of Manhattan, Brooklyn, and the Statue of Liberty while biking or walking the car-free roads of Governor’s Island. Enjoy art exhibitions, musical performances,

Spot the fish swimming in the aquatic garden, admire sweeping views of the Hudson, and trek through the forest at Wave Hill.

mini golf, a zipline, playgrounds, and more (govisland.com)!

Take the 103rd Street Footbridge to Randall’s Island and enjoy 10 miles of pathways to walk or bike. Check out the calendar of events for details on story time, movie nights, and other familyfriendly events (andallsisland.org).

Family art projects take place on Saturdays and Sundays from 10am-1pm (wavehill.org).

Admire the flowers, stand in the shade of the trees, and smell the roses at the Queens Botanical Garden (queensbotanical.org).

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Admire the Statue of Liberty up close from the adjoining grounds (it’s not currently possible

Circumnavigate the entire island of Manhattan and enjoy the sea breeze on a Circle Line sightseeing cruise. Spot 130 landmarks

Print out or pick up a copy of the scavenger hunt for children to lead them on an exploration of the trees, plants, and animals that inhabit Green-Wood Cemetery. Keep in mind

from the boat’s outdoor deck (circleline.com).

that Green-Wood is an active cemetery, and guests of all ages need to respect the sanctity of the grounds (green-wood.com).

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to go inside Lady Liberty). Tack a stop at Ellis Island onto your trip and learn about the arrival of millions of immigrants to the USA (nps.gov).

Explore New York’s native woodlands and wetlands in sprawling Van Cortlandt Park. Walk one of the nature trails, check out some of the five playgrounds, or lounge in the sunshine on the lawn (vancortlandt.org). Marie Holmes has written for Good Housekeeping, Cosmopolitan, the Washington Post, and other publications. She lives in Upper Manhattan with her wife and their two children.

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Seeking Affordable Child Care? Queens Childcare Network (QCCN) oversees a network of licensed group family childcare providers who offer nurturing and safe home-based learning environments for young children. As part of our contract with the NYC Dept. of Education (DOE), QCCN provides an array of services for qualifying families which include:

• NO COST assistance with NYC EarlyLearn (6 weeks – 2 years) and 3-K applications (Children Born in 2018; ALL School Districts; School & Extended Day/Year); • Selection from a wide network of regulated, licensed in-home daycares; • Enrollment and placement support for eligible children; • Educational coaching; health and safety monitoring of daycares; • Family advocacy, resources and referrals; • Free parent workshops and child events; • Multilingual staff and diversity of child care providers.

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The Power of

Preschool

Experts discuss the importance of early childhood education. It’s much more than just play time! By Melissa Wickes

ids play together, sit in a circle with their teachers and sing songs, eventually moving to the table for a snack. Maybe they discuss the weather outside or the calendar or learn about letters and numbers. From the outside, you’d be forgiven for seeing preschool as a nice-to-have, rather than a necessity—and, for those not in public pre-K programs, a potentially expensive option at that. Indeed, some parents have argued that preschool is simply a glorified day care, that anything taught there can easily be learned at home.

There is, however, more going on in that classroom than the untrained eye might observe. Educators and child development experts say that early childhood education offers kids advantages long after they leave the colorful walls of their preschool classroom and helps set them up for success in school and beyond. In fact, research shows that the benefits of preschool are tangible and visible in more ways than one. Preschool not only provides more opportunities for children, it helps them learn how to face social interactions as well, according to Rina Collins, a former preschool teacher and director of the early childhood enrichment program Book Nook, which has two locations on the Upper West Side and one in Tribeca. There are, as a result, big differences between at-home learning and in-school learning. “There’s a different expectation at home when there is a parent with a child versus a teacher with a child,” Collins says. “Children do naturally develop skills, but at home they are only exposed to a certain amount of materials, toys, or learning products. School is open to a whole different variety of learning materials from programs to class trips.”

Trained Teachers and Groups of peers Schools provide teachers who are professionally trained to be molding young minds and are equipped with certain skills parents alone may not have. An important aspect of in-school learning is instilling in kids the ability to interact successfully with other people. It may seem very straightforward, but getting along with others, especially at 2-4 years old, is not so easy. Being in a classroom with multiple children their own age allows children to develop social and emotional skills that cannot be learned solely at home, Collins says. At preschool, children become accustomed to being in group settings, separating from parents, and making decisions on their own—even if those decisions are as simple as, “Do I want to play with blocks or finger paint today?” All of the social experiences children undergo in preschool contribute to their overall confidence, according to Tovah Klein, Ph.D., author of How Toddlers Thrive and director of the Barnard College Center for Toddler Development. “People think of it as the ABCs and 123s, but it’s much, much more than that,” Dr. Klein says. “Children gain a lot of confidence by being able to handle themselves away from their parents and then reuniting with them later in the day.” Preschool classrooms also teach kids a great deal about resiliency and curiosity, according to Dr. Klein. Being able to handle disappointment and moving on from it, learning to be proud of your own work, and the ability to make decisions all play into a child’s curiosity and overall desire to learn.

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become increasingly true in recent years as the kindergarten curriculum has been revamped. Today, skills such as reading are generally being taught earlier, prompting one study to ask, “Is kindergarten the new first grade?” With so much more expected of children at the kindergarten level, early education becomes crucial as preparation for the new rigors of kindergarten. Various studies have shown that early education programs for 3- and 4-year-olds improve language skills, literacy, and mathematics. Attending preschool has been shown to improve children’s IQ, their receptive and expressive vocabulary skills, and early reading and math skills. By enrolling your child in a preschool program, you are preparing him to acquire academic skills that he will be expected to use as early as kindergarten— and offering him a head start in his academic career. Studies show that a crucial part of preschool education lies in stimulating interactions between students and their preschool teachers. By supporting their students emotionally and academically, teachers help children learn to develop skills, respond both verbally and physically, and enjoy learning. Young children often struggle with the transition from a play environment to a learning environment, which can cause a “learning anxiety,” or fear of learning, according to Collins. By introducing your child to this learning environment as early as preschool, you eliminate the anxiety as early as possible, preparing her for future learning.

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Teaching Kids RouTine Preschool also helps children develop and understand the concept of a routine. The school day is structured, which helps acclimate children into a daily routine and a learning environment in a gentle and enjoyable way. Being accustomed to a routine helps children prepare for higher levels of grade school, college, and a professional life, according to Collins. “When I was in a kindergarten classroom with children who didn’t go to preschool prior to entering, they were experiencing social anxiety and learning anxiety simply because they didn’t know what to expect,” Collins says. “Preschool fills those separation and learning anxieties, so your child has a better idea and is better prepared for the future.” In the process of preparing a child for a routine, parents likewise become accustomed to enforcing and sticking to that routine. The earlier you start bringing your child to a structured program every day, Collins says, the earlier you learn the importance of an everyday routine for your child. An aspect that is also beneficial for parents is, the earlier you begin, the earlier you can decide what works for you and your child and what doesn’t. By sending your child to preschool, experts say, he will be provided the resources necessary for proper academic preparation, and social and emotional development. Plus, she will learn more about herself than she could ever do from your living room.

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Preschool Directory Countryside Montessori School

354 Lakeville Road, lower level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 cmsgn.com info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori School offers children, 18 months to 6 years, a well-balanced and enriched curriculum which includes traditional subjects, art, and music. They are located on an estate-like setting with an outdoor playground and nature walks. Classrooms are fully equipped and spacious. Zoom classes are offered for toddler and nursery children.

Catholic Schools - Brooklyn and Queens

718-965-7380 catholicschoolsbq.org/welcome catholicschools@diobrook.org Your child deserves a Catholic School education. More than ever, educating the minds and hearts of our children is vitally important. We invite you to visit with a Catholic school near you to learn about faith based and value centered education with a track record of academic excellence.

Flushing YMCA Pre-K (Code QAJR)

138-46 Northern Blvd., Flushing 718-551-9356 ymcanyc.org/locations/flushing-ymca/programsclasses/kids-family/child-care-preschool lrothstein@ymcanyc.org Our quality Pre-K is offered five days-a-week, open to children throughout NYC. Children are taught by a multi-lingual staff of licensed, certified teachers. The curriculum offers enriching activities that develop children’s intellectual, social, and emotional learning skills in a safe, nurturing environment. Private playground, nutritious lunches, family events.

Garden School

33-16 79th St., Jackson Heights 718-335-6363 gardenschool.org This is where it starts. A child entering preschool takes first steps along an educational path that will continue through high school. At Garden School, we take those steps seriously while our youngest learners laugh with joy and express wonder through play, hands-on experience, and the building blocks of formalized learning.

Holy Cross Greek American Day School of Whitestone

12-03 150th St., Whitestone 718-767-2955 hcgos.org info@holycrossgreekchurch.com The preschool experience is a child’s first step into the world that goes beyond that of their own family. We are aware of each child’s emotional and educational needs and will meet them with love, compassion, and support. Our mission is to provide a healthy and stimulating learning environment of outstanding educational quality.

Ivy Day School

65-01 Kissena Blvd. Flushing 718-460-6366 70-44 Kissena Blvd. Flushing 718-880-1888 104-70 Queens Blvd., Forest Hills 718-997-1997 ivydayschool.com dinam@ivydayschool.com Books and blocks, music and dance, art and creativity! At Ivy Day School (three locations), we provide our decade-long standard of academic excellence to children ages 2-5. We envision students will develop essential skills for a lifetime of achievements via fun, stimulating activities.

The Kew-Forest School

119-17 Union Turnpike, Forest Hills 718-268-4667 kewforest.org/admission The Preschool program at The Kew-Forest School invites children from diverse backgrounds to take the lead in pursuing their interests. With a lens on social and emotional development, teachers create engaging opportunities for the children to learn through a balance of self-directed play and structured academic activities.

Kon Gen International Preschool

196-25 42nd Ave., Bayside 718-281-2338 kongeninternationalpreschool.com This September we will offer free 3-K and UPK classes! Our educational program is grounded in the Department of Education monthly unit studies and is play and project based. We will be offering toddler classes for age 2. We have a roof-top playground, indoor play space, and a dance room!

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Little Blossoms of Middle Village

8402 60th Ave., Middle Village 917-627-5679 917-745-0955 littleblossomsofmiddlevillage.com littleblossomsofvillage@gmail.com Little Blossoms of Middle Village provides a hands-on, exploratory approach to learning. We offer early dropoff and after-care. In our brand new facility we have a creative monthly curriculum that focuses on motor skills, speech/language development, math, science, and social studies.

New York City Magnet Schools

31 locations throughout Manhattan, Brooklyn, The Bronx, and Queens magnetschools.nyc info@magnetschools.nyc Magnet schools are nationally recognized for innovative learning. A magnet education offers unique programs for 3-K, pre-K, and kindergarten designed to promote academic and social emotional skills that set the foundation for learning. The diversified approaches to teaching at magnet schools promote creativity, collaboration, and critical thinking for all students.

Noah’s Ark Preparatory

38-20 Bell Blvd., Bayside 718-279-4251 noahsarkschool.com noahsarkpreparatory@gmail.com Noah’s Ark Preparatory Inc. strives to create a learning environment, which invites the fullest potential of each person’s gifts. Both nursery and pre-kindergarten classrooms are divided into distinct learning areas and foster the love of learning. Please call for further information about all of our programs, including UPK.

Queens Community House - Queens Childcare Network

108-25 62nd Drive, Forest Hills 347-897-4949 qchnyc.org childcare@qchnyc.org Queens Childcare Network (QCCN) is comprised of more than 40 licensed in-home daycares. QCCN provides our daycares with dedicated educational coaching-health, nutrition, and safety monitoring. We also help families of infants and toddlers apply for affordable childcare through NYC DOE EarlyLearn or 3-K. To learn more, email childcare@qchnyc.org or call 347-897-4949.

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31 locations throughout Manhattan, Brooklyn, The Bronx, and Queens magnetschools.nyc info@magnetschools.nyc Magnet schools are nationally recognized for innovative learning. A magnet education offers unique programs designed to promote diversity, academic excellence, and equity. Specialized thematic programs, innovative curriculum, and diversified approaches to teaching builds academic proficiency and promotes creativity, collaboration, and critical thinking for all students.

Our World Neighborhood Charter School 2

135-25 79th St., Howard Beach 718-392-3405, Lucille Ranchor owncs.org/own2 admissions@owncs.org Our World Neighborhood Charter Schools (OWNCS) joined the Queens school community in 2002. Through a literacy-based, integrated, and standards-driven curriculum that encourages community and honors diversity, students receive the broad education they need to meet the academic and social challenges of the best NYC High Schools and thrive in today’s world.

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Do Your research

Applying to

Private Schools

The application process can be challenging, so we’ve simplified the steps. By Shana Liebman

pplying to private school in New York City can be an arduous process. Parents need to be available to take their kid on tours and help navigate the multi-faceted journey. That said, the rewards are immense—a hard-won acceptance at a prestigious institution can brighten any child’s future. We outlined the process which might be worth beginning as soon as this spring.

Emily Glickman, an educational consultant in NYC who runs Abacus Guide Educational Consulting, recommends families start their private school admissions-research 1½ years before the student will start private school. In addition to online research (on sites like privateschoolreview.com) and polling friends and family for recommendations, it’s important to see the school firsthand—which these days might be online or in-person. Keeping track of deadlines and dates is important—and many tutors recommend parents seek the advice of a professional guidance counselor and/or closely follow an admissions-process calendar.

The applicaTion process In addition to an online application, most private schools will require a student- and/or parent-written essay (depending on the age of the student), an interview with the student and parents, school records/transcripts, teacher recommendations, and a portfolio or footage of creative and extracurricular achievements. Most schools also require Education Records Bureau test scores. The complete application is typically due in January or February for the following school year, depending on the school.

The essaY While the essay is not as crucial as it is on college admissions, it should be a substantial piece of writing clearly written by the student, not the parent (unless the school asks for a parent essay). Most applications will provide a list of prompts, such as Who is the person you most admire? “Helping your child brainstorm which topic to write about is a great way for you to be involved without heavily editing or actually writing the essay,” according to Kate Fisher, a Noodle Pros essay expert. Glickman suggests kids work on their essays during the summer, so it doesn’t interfere with schoolwork.

The inTerview Most schools will meet with the parent(s) and child at some point during the admission process. Make sure you know what to expect prior to the meeting, especially for young children, so you will be able to tell your child about the process. Child visits might be in a small group or 1-on-1 with an admissions officer. Some schools require children to separate from their parents, and students applying to older grades are often asked to visit with the current class during the school day. 38

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RequiRed TesTing For pre-K to first grade, NYC private schools do not require a written test. For second through fourth grades, the test given by the ERB is now called the Independent School Entrance Exam Primary. For fifth grade and higher, the ERB test is known merely as the ISEE. The ISEE (and ISEE Primary) measure verbal and quantitative reasoning, reading comprehension, mathematics, and writing skills. Most private schools now also accept another test, the Secondary School Admission Test, put out by a competing company. The SSAT is administered on three levels (elementary, middle, and upper).

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TuiTion If private school tuition is beyond your means, there are still several ways to make it work. You can apply for financial aid or scholarships—many schools offer aid regardless of the family’s income. There are also loans and payment services that can help you make the leap. Most experts advise parents to begin the financial aid application process as soon as possible. Private schools generally render their bills in early summer and late fall for payment within 30 days.

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offeR LeTTeRs & AccepTAnce Letters of acceptance typically arrive in March (schools with rolling admissions might notify you earlier.) It’s important to keep in mind that private schools are not required to accept any percentage of applicants, nor give a reason for rejection. If you were rejected from all the schools to which you applied, it might be worth looking at some others with rolling admissions that are still open. If you were waitlisted, you will be notified of acceptance in April—after the school finds out who is coming. It might make sense to accept one of the other offers you have, although if the school where you were waitlisted offers you a place, you will forfeit the deposit already paid to the school you were not waitlisted at.

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Private & Parochial School Directory Buckley Country Day School

2 I.U. Willets Road, Roslyn 516-627-1910 buckleycountryday.com/page Buckley Country Day School is an independent, coeducational day school providing a superior elementary education to an intellectually capable and diverse student body. Buckley provides the foundation that enables our students to achieve their full potential and excel as educated, ethical, and self-confident individuals. Our graduates are well prepared for secondary schools and beyond.

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Flushing YMCA Pre-K (Code QAJR)

138-46 Northern Blvd., Flushing 718-551-9356 ymcanyc.org/locations/flushing-ymca/programs-classes/kids-family/child-care-preschool lrothstein@ymcanyc.org Our quality Pre-K is offered five days-a-week, open

to children throughout NYC. Children are taught by a multi-lingual staff of licensed, certified teachers. The curriculum offers enriching activities that develop children’s intellectual, social, and emotional learning skills in a safe, nurturing environment. Private playground, nutritious lunches, family events.

Garden School

33-16 79th St., Jackson Heights 718-335-6363 gardenschool.org Garden School was founded in 1923 to meet the need for a high-quality, individualized, and independent school in Jackson Heights, Queens. We believe every child has potential and we believe it is a school’s job to spark, acknowledge, and promote the passions and interests of children.

Holy Cross Greek American Day School of Whitestone

12-03 150th St., Whitestone 718-767-2955 hcgos.org info@holycrossgreekchurch.com We are a day school for children between the ages of 3 and 6 (preschool to first grade). Our commitment is to foster the natural curiosity, intelligence, and creativity of children through excellence in education. Small class size and our individual nurturing environment create a second home for all students.

Ivy Day School

65-01 Kissena Blvd. Flushing 718-460-6366 70-44 Kissena Blvd. Flushing 718-880-1888 104-70 Queens Blvd., Forest Hills 718-997-1997 ivydayschool.com dinam@ivydayschool.com Books and blocks, music and dance, art and creativity! At Ivy Day School (three locations), we provide our decade-long standard of academic excellence to children ages 2-5. We envision students will develop essential skills for a lifetime of achievements via fun, stimulating activities.

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The Kew-Forest School

119-17 Union Turnpike, Forest Hills 718-268-4667 kewforest.org/admission Our families and staff represent more than 70 nationalities and speak more than 30 languages. You will find that our community nurtures lifelong learners, our educators inspire young people, and our students support each other. We offer on-site, hybrid, and remote learning for students in preschool through grade 12.

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Little Blossoms of Middle Village

8402 60th Ave., Middle Village 917-627-5679 917-745-0955 littleblossomsofmiddlevillage.com littleblossomsofvillage@gmail.com Little Blossoms of Middle Village provides a hands-on, exploratory approach to learning. We offer early drop-off and after-care. In our brand new facility we have a creative monthly curriculum that focuses on motor skills, speech/ language development, math, science, and social studies.

Noah’s Ark Preparatory

38-20 Bell Blvd., Bayside 718-279-4251 noahsarkschool.com noahsarkpreparatory@gmail.com Noah’s Ark Preparatory Inc. strives to create a learning environment, which invites the fullest potential of each person’s gifts. Both nursery and pre-kindergarten classrooms are divided into distinct learning areas and foster the love of learning. Please call for further information about all of our programs, including UPK.

Open HOUSES Flushing YMCA Pre-K (Code QAJR)

138-46 Northern Blvd., Flushing 718-551-9356 ymcanyc.org/locations/flushing-ymca/programs-classes/kids-family/child-care-preschool lrothstein@ymcanyc.org To schedule a private tour of our school, and to meet the teachers, please email us at lrothstein@ymcanyc.org or call 718-551-9356.

Garden School Summer Camp

33-16 79th St., Jackson Heights 718-335-6363 gardenschool.org/programs/summer campdirector@gardenschool.org Call or email to schedule a tour to see our in-ground pool and spacious facilities! Speak to our experienced staff; find out why Garden should be your camp choice!

Hillcrest Jewish Center Day Camp

183-02 Union Turnpike, Flushing 718-380-4145 hjcdaycamp.org daycamp@hillcrestjc.org “The camp where everybody knows your name” offers a virtual tour at hjcdaycamp.org and in-person tours by appointment. Program for ages 4-14. Register online for full/partial season programs.

Holy Cross Greek American Day School of Whitestone 12-03 150th St., Whitestone 718-767-2955 hcgos.org info@holycrossgreekchurch.com

Our May in-person open house with presentation and tour will be on Saturday, May 8 at 11am. Private tours can also be arranged. Please call or email for information and appointments.

The Kew-Forest School

119-17 Union Turnpike, Forest Hills 718-268-4667 kewforest.org/openhouse Kew-Forest offers on-site, hybrid, and remote learning for students in preschool-12 grade. We invite you to “take a virtual tour” at kewforest.org/tour to see what our campus has to offer.

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Magic Day Camp

216-15 Peck Ave., Bayside 718-634-8109 magicdaycamp.com See what our camp has to offer at our open house event on Sunday, May 16 and 23 from 12-3pm at Jib Lanes. Please call or visit our website for more information.

New York City Magnet Schools

31 locations throughout Manhattan, Brooklyn, The Bronx, and Queens magnetschools.nyc

info@magnetschools.nyc Magnet schools are nationally recognized for innovative learning. A magnet education offers unique programs designed to promote diversity, academic excellence, and equity. For school specific information, tours, and applications see magnetschools.nyc.

Noah’s Ark Preparatory

38-20 Bell Blvd., Bayside 718-279-4251 noahsarkschool.com noahsarkpreparatory@gmail.com Please call for information about our programs, including UPK and summer camp for ages 2-10. Remember to ask about scheduling a tour of our school’s nursery and pre-kindergarten classrooms.

Our World Neighborhood Charter School 2

135-25 79th St., Howard Beach 718-392-3405, Lucille Ranchor owncs.org/own2 admissions@owncs.org OWN Charter Schools, teaching students to be independent thinkers and lifelong learners. Please call or email to find out more about our school.

Summer at The Kew-Forest School

119-17 Union Turnpike, Forest Hills 718-551-3108 kewforest.org/summer/about summer@kewforest.org Children entering kindergarten to fifth grade are welcome! Please join us at a Virtual Open House on Saturday, May 15 at 10am.

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Does My Child Have Anxiety? It’s normal for kids to have bouts of fear—but how can you tell when it’s anxiety? By Stacey Feintuch

ids of all ages worry. Your baby cries when you leave the room. Your toddler may fear clowns. Separation anxiety may make your preschooler cry. Your elementary schooler may have a stomachache on the day of a spelling test. Middle schoolers may be nervous about making a presentation in front of their virtual or in-person class. Your high schooler may worry about getting a pimple. Children have bouts of fears, worries, and anxiety at some point; these are totally normal feelings. “If you don’t have a range of emotions, that’s abnormal,” says Joel Friedman, Ph.D., clinical director at the Center for Family Guidance in Marlton, NJ. Normal childhood anxieties from new people, places, and experiences come and go throughout a child’s life. They need time to learn about, work with, and get comfortable with something new. “Kids are resilient,” says Sanam Hafeez, Psy.D., a New York City-based licensed clinical neuropsychologist, teaching faculty member at Columbia University’s Teachers College, and founder and clinical director of Comprehensive Consultation Psychological Services, P.C. “They’re able to shake off a lot of stuff.” Some kids ask a lot of questions when they’re anxious.

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Others figure things out on their own, which can have negative consequences. “Children often ‘fill in the blanks’ with assumptions that can trigger anxious feelings,” says Haley Neidich, LCSW, a Connecticut-based psychotherapist.

SignS of Child Anxiety It can be difficult for parents to admit when their child has a problem, Dr. Hafeez says. Usually, though, it will be so obvious that you can’t ignore it. “You have to pay close attention to the signs and know when it’s time to get help,” she says. “Most of us are reluctant to admit that there is a problem. But on some level, we know.” Here are some signs of when to worry about child anxiety: • tendency to worry about what can go wrong in any scenario • avoidance of specific activities, situations, or people • persistent stress despite an adult’s reassurance • trouble sleeping at night, insisting on sleeping with parents, or waking up with bad dreams • fears or worries that interfere with normal daily activities and are difficult to control • changes in appetite

• phobias and fears that they’ll likely never encounter • headaches, fatigue, rashes, stomachaches, or other physical symptoms that are unrelated to other medical conditions • unrealistic worries (concerned about getting pregnant without having sex) • anxiety is out of proportion and they lack the insight to realize their worries are exaggerated (worry about SATs while only in grade school) • overly self-conscious (they won’t order in a restaurant for fear of humiliation) • anxiety is uncontrollable (crying at schooling because think their parent will die when they’re apart) • difficulty concentrating • significant change in anxiety in a short period of time • changes in relationships such as choosing not to be around people

When to Worry Fears and worries are a natural reaction to new or stressful situations. “You should worry when the anxiety becomes persistent, constraining, and/or begins to impact or interfere with the child’s daily functioning. Facing anxiety or worry is normal and expected throughout childhood. It’s how the child copes when confronted with anxiety that makes the difference,” says Francyne Zeltser, Psy.D., a licensed psychologist and certified school psychologist in the New York metropolitan area. “If your child is having trouble coping and the anxiety or worries seem overbearing, it’s time to intervene and help.” Speak directly to your child when you notice something isn’t typical for him, Dr. Friedman says. Younger children will be vaguer, not provide as much insight, and won’t be able to pinpoint exactly how they’re feeling—they may say they have a stomachache, for example. For older kids, choose a time of day to talk about their concerns or worries and why those are reasonable fears, then table the discussion for the day. “If they carry it with them all day long, it gets a life of its own,” Dr. Friedman says. With kids home more due to the pandemic, they have less transitional time (they may not be on a school bus, for example) and structure that would typically distract them from their thoughts. “With their environment not changing, they may tend to focus more on what’s bothering them, and that makes it more intense,” he says. “They’re living too much in their head and not really living.”

don’t dismiss your child’s feelings. You don’t want him to believe that something is wrong with him, so “it’s important to validate his feelings,” says Jessica Senick, MSW, LCSW, a psychotherapist who practices in Red Bank, NJ. And don’t take what’s happening personally: “It’s not necessarily indicative of something that you as a family have caused,” she says. If you pressure your child to feel a certain way, she may hide her real emotions, making it harder to see the seriousness of her anxiety. Ignoring an anxiety disorder puts him at increased risk of substance abuse, selfharm, and other negative coping strategies. “Helping your child heal from anxiety can help them learn to trust that their caregivers will be there for them when life gets bumpy in the future,” Neidich says.

Consider professional help. Get your child treatment from a mental health professional if what you’re doing isn’t working. “Childhood anxiety is common and treatable, especially when caught early on,” Dr. Zeltser says. Your child will be taught coping skills to help her manage the anxiety and reduce physical, emotional, and cognitive issues. She may be prescribed medication. With proper treatment and support, most kids eventually outgrow childhood anxiety. “Remember, anxiety is rooted in a real or perceived fear of the unknown,” Dr. Zeltser says. “Providing your child with the tools they need to better circumnavigate their worries will accelerate their ability to overcome the anxiety.”

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try to figure out why your child is feeling anxious. Consider what triggers the anxiety, how long your child is anxious, what helps reduce the anxiety, and what worsens it. “By better understanding why the anxiety occurs, you can help your child plan, so they feel prepared and confident to navigate the anxiety-producing situation,” Dr. Zeltser says.

Stacey Feintuch is a freelance writer for print and online publications. She lives in Bergen County, NJ, and is mom to two boys.

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Congrats, Grads!

It’s another year of alternative celebrations, but you can still plan a special and memorable day for your graduate—from preschool to college. By Melissa Wickes

hile your child’s graduation might not be able to happen as imagined, you can still create a special celebration that adheres to social-distancing guidelines. Here are some fun ideas to make your graduate feel special—whether it’s preschool, middle school, high school, or college.

Preschool Graduates Make DIY graDuatIon hats anD gowns.

organIze a vIsIt froM Your kID’s hero.

Whether your school provides a cap and gown, or you need to find one yourself, let your little one doodle out a decoration to put on top of the cap. Or, let him loose in Michael’s craft store to pick out his favorite stickers, pins, buttons, gems, sequins, fabric paint, and more to decorate the gown.

If your little graduate is fascinated by fire trucks and sirens, ask your neighborhood fire or police department to come by for a socially distanced, special visit. If the loud noises and lights aren’t your child’s idea of a fun time, invite over another one of her local heroes—like a favorite teacher, sanitation worker, librarian, or doctor.

Post a graDuatIon lawn sIgn anD have a DrIve-bY ParaDe. It’s clear that drive-by parades are a fun energy booster and a great way to feel loved without getting too close. Invite friends, family, and neighbors to drive, walk, scoot, or bike by the house to cheer for the graduate.

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InvIte soMe anIMals to PlaY. Ask your friend or neighbor if you can borrow their dog or cat to play in the backyard for a few hours. If your child’s favorite animal is more exotic, you can hire a reptile handler—like My Reptile Guys—to put on a show in your backyard!

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ask your CHild’s favorite star to reCord a graduation message.

Create a moving montage.

It’s a lot easier than it sounds! Using Cameo, you can pay an actor, athlete, or influencer—like Tony Hawk, Lindsay Lohan, Carole Baskin, Floyd Mayweather, or Perez Hilton—to send your child a personalized video message. You can even schedule a video call with one of them!

Commemorate the years with photos and videos of your child’s high school or college experience. Use her favorite song and imagery from the school; then ask her friends if they have any funny or memorable moments on video that you can include.

purCHase a marquee message.

Have a pretend diploma Ceremony witH a plaCeHolder diploma and speCial guest speakers.

New York sports are finally allowing fans again, so if your family is comfortable attending a game, you can congratulate your child up on the jumbo screen. If you’d rather watch the game from home, consider calling a favorite radio station or local news channel to ask for a shout-out.

Have a graduation movie maratHon. Luckily, your middle school graduate has many graduations to come even if she didn’t get a big ceremony this year. Give her a sneak peak of the future by watching some of these family-friendly, graduation-themed movies together: • High School Musical 3: Senior Year (Rated G, Disney+) • Ferris Bueller’s Day Off (Rated PG-13, Amazon Prime) • The Graduate (Rated PG, HBO Max, iTunes) • The Lizzie McGuire Movie (Rated PG, Disney+) • Grease (Rated PG, Amazon Prime) • Legally Blonde (Rated PG-13, Netflix) • A Cinderella Story (Rated PG, Disney+) • Crossroads (PG-13, Cinemax) • Pretty in Pink (PG-13, Amazon Prime) • Paper Towns (PG-13, Amazon Prime) • Jack (PG-13, Disney+) • Never Been Kissed (PG-13, Hulu)

If your family works together and gets creative, your child can have a “graduation day” full of laughs and surprises. Create a makeshift diploma and have family members give speeches about the school and your child’s experience. (Friends and relatives can Zoom in to give their own commencement addresses!) You can also play guest of honor trivia after the speeches end. Good luck not fighting over who gets to give your child her diploma!

Have a party and invite your CHild’s friends—on Zoom or in-person and soCially distanCed—so everyone Can Celebrate togetHer. There’s no doubt your child is missing his friends right now. If you’re not yet comfortable having people over for a gathering outside, throw a virtual grad party for him and invite all of the family and friends who would have attended a regular party. Serve food and drinks, and let the memories and friends make this a party your graduate will never forget!

turn tHe House into a bar witH a personaliZed food and drink menu. Have you seen those viral videos of families who have turned their homes into bars—complete with a bouncer, DJ, and bartender—for kids turning 21 in quarantine? You can do the same for your college graduate, with schoolthemed drinks and a menu of foods he loves. It’s not quite the same as a university commencement, but it’s personal and super festive.

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Celebrating Mom 8 ideas to celebrate Mother’s Day this year By Melissa Wickes

very day is a good day to celebrate Mom, but this year we should work even harder to make her feel extra special to make up for different (or lack of) celebrations last year. Here are some ideas for celebrating Mother’s Day in 2021 and making Mom feel extra special—whether you’re spending the day together or apart. And remember: The vaccine gives us protection we may have not had last year, but it’s important to remain cautious and continue to practice smart COVID-protection tactics.

order, Make, or take Her for Her favorite Meal Whether it’s takeout, a home-cooked dinner, or you’re looking to spend the day out, make sure Mom has a special meal to celebrate the day. If you’re staying in, put down a tablecloth, light a candle, and have the kids pretend to be servers!

Make MoM a HoMeMade Gift A harsh reality is sinking in for many Dads: The kids aren’t coming home from school with the usual Mother’s Day craft gift. Luckily, you still have time to make that happen for Mom at home. Visit nymetroparents.com/mom for some craft gift ideas that can inspire your little one to create the perfect gift for Mom.

Have a Picnic If the weather holds up on Mother’s Day, and as of right now the forecast for New York is looking clear, plan a special backyard picnic.

Give MoM tHe day off Moms are superheroes under regular circumstances and right now, they are likely balancing motherhood with homeschooling all while being someone for the whole family to turn to in this time of uncertainty. Give Mom the day off from being the designated superhero by getting up early to finish up some house chores, make her breakfast in bed, or even plan a full at-home spa day.

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Plan a MotHer’s day scavenGer Hunt Surely your home is filled with relics and memories the kids share with Mom. Look for things around the house with Mom that represent special moments and bring back happy memories you’ve experienced together. Some things you can search for, courtesy of MistoBox’s Blog, include: • A picture of you and Mom. Tip: Make it more challenging by finding one from every age! • An old birthday card from Mom or to Mom • A handmade gift from Mother’s Days in the past • Clothing you borrowed from Mom’s closet • A book she read to you when you were little

take a free ride on tHe Hudson Circle Line’s Landmarks Cruise is offering free rides to moms on Mother’s Day at 12pm using the discount code MOMSFREE21. Take in breathtaking views of Manhattan’s downtown skyline with mom to make it a day she won’t forget.

Make MoM a sPecial dessert If Mom has a sweet tooth, surprise her with her favorite dessert. Want to try something new? Visit nymetroparents.com/mom for the recipe for Van Leeuwen’s Roasted Banana Ice Cream excerpted from Van Leeuwen Cookbook.

Make a MotHer’s day cocktail You can make Mom feel like she’s enjoying a special drink out at a restaurant with the ingredients you already have in your home. Makemeacocktail.com allows you to plug in every alcoholic drink and mixer you have in the house and will then generate all of the fun drinks you can make using them.

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Pet Sense & Sensibility Teaching kids how to interact with animals is more important than ever By Barbara Russo

uring the traumatic days of lockdown, many Americans turned to furry, finned, and feathered friends for comfort during the crisis. In fact, pet adoptions went up 57 percent in 2020, according to Shelter Animals Count, a national database of shelter animal statistics and facts. And a recent survey from Westchester’s Banfield Pet Hospital, a major provider of preventative veterinary medicine, shows 1 in 3 people adopted a pet during the pandemic. This is great news for once-homeless animals, but as society slowly returns to pre-pandemic normalcy, our kids will undoubtedly run into a stranger’s—or even a friend’s—pet. How do parents ensure that their kids interact with these animals safely and appropriately? We spoke with local experts about how to make every pet encounter a good one.

Hartmann, director of education at the Staten Island Zoo. “Do they like to be pet behind the ears? Do they like to not be pet at all? Do they like to be talked to or left alone? Find out the animal’s personality and what they like, the same way we like people to think about that when they interact with us.”

observe body lAnguAge. Just like humans, dogs give out signals to tell us how they feel. A dog wagging his tail is most likely approachable. But if the dog is snarling, has his ears back, is cowering, or gives any signal that he is not happy to greet you, it’s best to stay away, Dr. Navratik says.

never hug A dog. As tempting as it might be for a child to cuddle or hug a dog— especially one who is extra fluffy like a plush toy—parents should tell their children to refrain. There are some dogs who don’t enjoy this type of attention, but they tolerate it until it’s too late. “Dogs can’t say that they’ve had enough, so they could bite to show that they want it to stop,” says Donna Reiss of Freedom Dog Training, a pet training service based in Staten Island.

Consider the little Critters.

Ask before petting. It’s hard for even adults to resist petting cute dogs, but parents should tell their kids to ask permission before attempting to touch any pet, according to Joel Navratik, D.V.M., CEO of MRVL Pet Pharmaceuticals. “Once you have been given permission by the owner, approach the dog slowly and pet the dog gently,” Dr. Navratik says. “Avoid reaching for the face of the dog on initial contact. If you avoid the face, that keeps you safer and farther from the dog’s mouth in case the dog gets startled and reacts with a snap.” If you know the owner of the dog you are meeting, take the opportunity to ask about the dog’s likes and dislikes before attempting to touch or pet him. No one knows the dog better than his owner. “Ask what the animal is comfortable with,” says Jessica Pownall 48

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The most important thing to remember with small animals like rabbits, hamsters, and gerbils, is to handle them lightly because of their size and fragility. “We have to remember to be gentle with animals, particularly the smaller animals, because we are much bigger than them,” Pownall Hartmann says. “Even when we think we’re being gentle, we have to remember to be even more gentle, especially when it comes to something like a hamster or guinea pig.” Some small animals don’t mind being pet, but many don’t like to be picked up because they don’t feel safe when there is no ground beneath their feet. “We want to make sure the animal is comfortable and wants to be friends with us, so we want to make sure we are extra gentle and extra soft with them,” Pownall Hartmann adds.

teACh respeCt for All AnimAls. The most important lesson parents can teach their children about pets—and animals in general—is to have respect for all of them. “Animals are living, breathing creatures. Learning at a young age to be gentle and show compassion for animals is a lesson that will benefit a child,” Reiss says. “It’s an important life lesson.” Barbara Russo is a freelance writer who holds a bachelor’s degree in communications from the City University of New York. She enjoys playing guitar, following current events, and hanging out with her pet rabbits.

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