The Old Oakhamian Magazine Issue 120

The People Behind the Places p11 40 Years of the QET p28

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Leadership

Editor and Alumni & Development Officer

Charlotte Woodward clw@oakham.rutland.sch.uk

Managing Editor

Rachel Fairweather rf2@oakham.rutland.sch.uk

Director of Development & Engagement

Samantha Rowntree sr@oakham.rutland.sch.uk

Art Director

Sam Bowles sam@stencil-agency.co.uk

Designer Kate Kusztal kate@stencil-agency.co.uk

Manmitha Bodimalla manmithabodimalla@gmail.com

Contributing authors:

Helen Hall (Development Officer)

Aurore Guillomot-Bonnefond (Archivist)

Thank you to all the OOs who have shared their news and stories.

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by STENCIL

Dear Old Oakhamians and members of the OO Community,

As Chairman of the OO Club, one of the aspects that pleases me most is when Old Oakhamians can give something back to their old school, sharing their experiences and inspiring our next generation of Oakhamians.

In another busy year for the OO Club, there have been many examples of this, some of which are featured in this edition with OOs talking to current Oakhamians on various topics, across business, design and technology, sport, and music. OOs have supported our Sporting Futures evening and the Upper School Networking event, with former pupils informally talking to sixth formers about life after Oakham, career pathways and experiences. The OO Professional Networking events are also gathering momentum, with alumni coming together to discuss a particular profession, often with OOs as keynote speakers, also providing superb locations for the events.

This edition of the magazine also features some of the buildings which many OOs have been fortunate to experience. On Remembrance Day this year, when we remembered those Old Oakhamians , masters, friends, and relatives who died in the two World Wars, we also remembered that it is the 100th anniversary of when the building work commenced on the War Memorial Chapel built in their memory. The names of 70 Old Boys and Schoolmasters are engraved on the panels either side of the front door, and subsequently in 1946 the names of 83 Old Boys and Schoolmasters who died in the Second World War are engraved on the stone around the internal doors and within the Chapel. The cross on the Altar, the candlesticks and the Alms dish are all decorated with precious stones given by loved ones in memory of a son.

If one glances at the names either side of the front door, there are some familiar names. Many of the boys came from Rutland, whose relatives are also Old Oakhamians. A familiar name is John Hugh Jerwood, who died in action without ever knowing his illustrious son, John Michael Jerwood. Later, John Michael supported John Buchanan’s enthusiasm for the development of Oakham and was jointly responsible for a programme of new buildings unprecedented in the School’s history.

As ever, OOs have been busy across several sporting fixtures, with the OO Golf Society, cricket, shooting, netball, and football teams all getting together for annual fixtures and events, and we have also featured these in this edition. The OO Club has had another active year with reunions in both Oakham and London, with increasing numbers attending and in 2025 the OO Club will set a record with our first 60-year reunion!

With the current economic and political challenges within the Education sector, I would like to congratulate our Headmaster Henry Price, and his team, for the continued success of Oakham. The grounds and facilities are looking fantastic and when passing pupils who have a smile on their face that has to be a sign of a great School.

Finally, as I reflect on all the great things which have happened in the last year, I would like to thank Charlotte, Helen and Samantha for all their support to keep OOs connected, keeping us up to date with Alumni news as well as School news and successes. Their organisation of events and support for the OO Club is invaluable and I am most grateful to them for all their hard work. Also Aurore our Archivist whose insight and knowledge is invaluable when wanting to find something out!

Finally please remember that to find out about OO events and what’s happening and to enable us to stay in touch with you, to sign up to The Oakhamian Connection.

OOs are always welcome to visit Oakham School, and if you are interested in visiting, please contact Charlotte at OOClub@oakham.rutland.sch.uk.

Wishing all Oakhamians a very Happy, Healthy and Peaceful Christmas and our best wishes for 2025.

Quasi Cursores,

Jonathan Stevens (’79), OO Chairman

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School news and news of OOs.

SUPPORTING THE OO CLUB

Discover more ways to engage with the OO Club through our OO Committee and our new Sport and Networking Ambassadors.

THE PEOPLE BEHIND THE PLACES

In our Celebrating Milestones series, we look at the people whose generosity and vision have helped transform our campus.

18 PASSING ON THE TORCH

The OOs we welcomed back to School last year to support our current Oakhamians.

20 EVENTS AND REUNIONS

Formal and informal reunions from the past year, including our Networking events.

26 INTERVIEW WITH CLIVE COOMBES

Our new 1584 Society President recalls his schooldays at Oakham, his career since leaving School, and his reasons for giving back to his former school.

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28 40 YEARS OF THE QET

We celebrate the people, performances, and props that have shaped our beloved theatre over four decades.

36 OBITUARIES

OO Death Notices and lives remembered.

Dear Old Oakhamians,

The Old Oakhamian Magazine provides a wonderful platform to celebrate the support and achievements of so many OOs. It is an excellent reflection on all that Oakham offers to see alumni pursuing such a broad range of careers, activities, and hobbies. The overriding theme of the magazine this year is contribution, and we see that every day from OOs who continue to support the School in whatever way they can.

Our recent Upper School Networking Evening saw 15 OOs share their knowledge, experience and expertise with sixth form students considering their next steps.

The Networking in the City evenings have brought OOs of all ages and stages in their careers together to learn from each other and support those just starting their careers.

The OO sports teams bring the community back together and have provided a unique opportunity for current Oakhamians to compete against former School sportsmen and women in highly competitive events!

At the end of a year of significant political change, we are looking ahead to a future in which we must charge parents VAT on school fees, and which will see a substantial uplift in our operating costs. I want to reassure the Old Oakhamian community that Oakham School enters these choppy waters in a strong position. We are a large school with a fantastic curriculum, campus, and colleagues, and extensive co-education experience. However, we are not complacent, and these changes highlight the need to focus on fundraising as a sustainable source of income even more.

The Oakham School Foundation’s primary focus is raising funds for lifechanging bursaries and widening young people’s access to an Oakham Education.

I am passionate about the importance of retaining solid connections with the OO Community and I value your contribution to Oakham School in its many forms. Additionally, I appreciate your advocacy and enthusiasm for this wonderful School. I hope you will enjoy reading about the QET’s 40-year celebrations, remind yourselves of the campus’s evolution, and perhaps even wallow in a little nostalgia! I look forward to the year ahead and the opportunities to remain connected.

Quasi Cursores

Henry Price Headmaster

Introducing the Development Team

Samantha Rowntree Director of Development and Engagement

As part of delivering our Development Plan, we also have two capital projects in our sights: a significant extension and development of our gym facilities and a complete refurbishment and development of Old School.

I hope some of you will get involved and support us.

I will close by thanking the many of you I have met over the last year, for your warmth and engagement.

Charlotte Woodward Alumni and Development Officer

Helen Hall Development Officer

School News

Staff Farewells

In 2024 we said farewell to several long-serving members of teaching staff and Oakham School ‘legends’. We thank them for all they did for Oakham School, wish them all the best in their future endeavours and warmly invite them to join us at future OO events. Read more online here Oakham School Staff Leavers 2024

Peter Davies, Director of Music

Conductor, organist, pianist, composer, and teacher, hundreds of pupils – past and present –have benefitted from Peter’s enthusiasm and passion for music, whether that be through one of the many ensembles or orchestras or just belting out hymns in the infamous ‘congo’.

We have also said goodbye and good luck to:

Emma Roe, Teacher of Maths and Housemistress of Stevens

Alison Petit Teacher of Lower 1, former Housemistress of Ancaster

Stephen Dachtler Teacher of Drama, Housemaster of Clipsham

Alexis Dachtler Teacher of Geography, former Day Housemistress of Round House

Sue Bent, Wharflands Matron

Sue joined the School in 1991 and after stints working in the Housekeeping team and the Library, she has been Matron in Wharflands since 2009, playing an important and integral part in the lives of 385 Wharflanders, seven Resident Tutors and in her words, has survived three Housemasters!

Sarah Gomm, Deputy Head Pastoral

If you were at Oakham School at any time from 1992, you will undoubtedly have received the help, support and wisdom of Mrs Gomm. Mrs Gomm is the alwayspresent positive light in the room, which will live on in history as her ability to be “Gomnipresent”.

Claire Betts (née Wallis) (’87) HR Manager

Old Oakhamian Claire was attracted back to her former school in 2003 by the then Headmaster Joe Spence to set up and establish the HR Department and in that time has supported both newcomers to the School and those who have been here a long time with a calm and outwardly unflappable air.

Far left above: Peter conducting the Chamber Choir at the Songs of Praise Choir of the Year Competition in 2016.

Far left below: Peter and the Chamber Choir on the front cover of the Oakhamian Magazine in 2006.

Left: Sarah with the 1997 lacrosse team. Below left: Sarah on the Kenya Schools trip in 2020.

Sport

Sarah De Kremer (’09) competed in the women's javelin at the UK Athletics Championships and Olympic Trials on 29 June in Manchester. Sarah came third, receiving the bronze medal with a throw of 47.70m. Sarah also came second with 46.64m at the England senior national championships on the 21st July.

Rugby

George Bland (’23) and Matt Riddington (’16) both played in the highly contested Oxford vs. Cambridge Varisty match in March. Both representing Cambridge, they beat Oxford comfortably with a try from George.

Congratulations to Matthew Button (’88) and Rick Shouler (’95) who participated in the elite twenty-five-person ‘Palma’ squad in the Shooting World Championships in South Africa. After a tight battle, it was the Australians who emerged triumphant, retaining the trophy that they had won in Trentham five years ago.

Over the summer, Fabian Powell (’24) represented Team GB at the U20 World Athletic Championships in Lima, Peru. Fabian was part of the 4 x 100m relay team that won Silver.

Jack van Poortvliet (’19) scored a try within the first four minutes of his first match back after injury against Newcastle Falcons. He was awarded player of the match after Tigers clinched the win. Jack was also in the England squad for the Autumn Internationals and started against South Africa.

Toby Cousins (’23) started for England in all five matches of the U20 Six Nations, helping to steer the team to claim the U20 Men’s Six Nations title

Sam Costelow (’19) played in all but one match during the 2023 Six Nations, collecting 35 points, including being integral to Wales winning their pool in the Rugby World Cup in October 2024.

It was great to see Charlie Titcombe (’20) and Jack van Poortvliet go head-to-head in September in a Scarlets vs Tigers match.

Cameron Jordan (’18) has been part of the Gloucester Rugby side, which became Premiership Rugby Cup Champions in March after defeating Leicester Tigers. With a try from Cam in the second half, Gloucester won 23-13 at Kingsholm.

Fabian Powell (‘24) and Trefon Vandoros (Director of Athletics).

Matt Riddington ('18) and George Bland ('23) playing for Cambridge University.

Jack van Poortvliet (‘19) and Charlie Titcombe (‘20) at Welford Road.

Art Publications

On 27 June, The Centre Must Hold was published by Yair Zivan (’03). A timely addition to the political debate exploring how centrism can drive progress, secure the foundations of liberal democracy, and produce tangible results that positively impact people’s lives. Zivan has been Senior Advisor to Yair Lapid, leader of Israel’s largest centrist political party, since 2014 during his tenures as Finance Minister, Leader of the Opposition, Foreign Minister and Prime Minister of Israel. He was also previously International Media Spokesperson for President Shimon Peres.

In November 2023, Stuart Broad (’04) released his autobiography Broadly Speaking, which became the Sunday Times Bestseller.

Giving Back

London Marathon Runners

This year nine OOs (that we know of) ran the London Marathon for various charities. Congratulations to all OOs who took part in this incredible achievement.

• Tom Rollinson (’17) (pictured below left) raised £4,000 for the Injured Rugby Players Foundation

• Letty Lang (’19) (pictured below) ran for Leukaemia Care and raised over £3,500 in memory of her Grandmother

• Will Means (’17) ran for Norfolk Hospice

• Alex Woolhouse (’17) ran for SJP Foundation

• Lara Moursi (’20) ran for MS. Lara has also ran the Paris Marathon this year!

• Mark Botteley (’84) ran for Young Lives vs Cancer

• Paul Herbert (’95) ran for Leukaemia

• Ollie Allman (’13) and Olly Elson (’13) both ran for Pancreatic Cancer UK and Spinal Research, raising over £5,000

Cycling across France for the Johnny Reynolds Foundation

In September 2024, Andy Hunting (Hon OO) had one of his pictures of Jaipur printed in Digital Camera Magazine, alongside his top tips for taking photos on your iPhone. You can read all about Andy’s top tips in the news section of The Oakhamian Connection.

Last December, Johnny Reynolds (‘23) sadly passed away at the age of 19. The Reynolds family has started a Foundation in Johnny’s memory, to support children and young adults in reaching their potential in any sport, whatever the level.

In July Giles Houston (‘84), Lucas Deregowski (‘20), Iain Simpson (Head of Sports Partnerships), Ash Denman (Housemaster of Barrow), Alistair Weir (a current parent), and Charlie Reynolds (Johnny’s father) cycled 775 kilometres and climbed 15,000m over 6 days. They were supported on the road by Will Houston (‘22) and friends.

Read more about the Johnny Reynolds Foundation on page 40.

Tiffany Healey (’17) ran the Great North Run Half Marathon for Little Hearts Matter, for her twin Tuesday (‘17).

Their mother Sue (‘79) writes: ‘Little Hearts Matter is a fantastic charity that raises awareness and supports children alongside their families who are living with a single ventricular heart condition - a serious form of congenital heart disease. Supporting this charity means a lot to our family, as Tuesday has been recently diagnosed with a congenital heart condition. Earlier this year, Tuesday had a procedure to try and mend the holes in her heart which was unfortunately unsuccessful. After the failure of the operation Tiffany decided that she wanted to do something for Tuesday and those living like her, continuing to await further surgery. So Tiffany did this for Tuesday, in the hope that one day soon they will be able to run a half marathon together.’

Tim Harrison, Giles, Spencer Hillier, Lucas, Charlie, Iain, and Ash

Tiffany and Tuesday after the Great North Run

Drama

Archie Foster (’23) has won a scholarship to the Royal College of Music where he will start his studies on the brass trombone.

Music

Kwamé Ryan (’90) (Musicology 1989), a world-renowned Canadian-Trinidadian conductor, has been nominated for election as an Honorary Fellow of Gonville & Caius College. Currently the Music Director-Designate of the Charlotte Symphony Orchestra in North Carolina, USA. Kwamé’s Directorship is due to begin in the 2024-25 performing season.

Andy Harries (’71) was honoured at the 50th annual Broadcasting Press Guild Awards in March 2024 for his Outstanding Contribution to Broadcasting.

Matthew Macfadyen (’92) won his second Emmy for Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Drama Series for his role as Tom Wamsgans in HBO’s Succession. Succession also won the SAG Award for Outstanding Ensemble in a Drama Series. This year, Macfayden played Mr Paradox in Deadpool & Wolverine.

The band Seagirls, made up of Henry Camamile (’12), Andrew Dawson (’11), Rory Young (’11), and Oli Khan (’11), released their third album, ‘Midnight Butterflies’ in June. The album reached number 5 in the the UK Charts.

Jack Lee (’15) made his professional debut as a baritone in 2022. In the last year Jack has performed in the 2024 Salzburger Festspiele, singing the role of Der König in Carl Orff’s Die Kluge In September 2024 he won the Rolex Audience Prize at Operalia in Mumbai. Starting in the 2024–25 season, Jack will join the ensemble of the Hessisches Staatstheater Wiesbaden, where his roles will include Figaro in Rossini’s Il Barbiere di Siviglia and Der Prinz von Mantua in Offenbach’s Fantasio.

Elizabeth Bass (‘13) has recently been appointed Principal Harp with the BBC Symphony Orchestra.

Weddings

Philippa Nicholas (’12) married fellow HWHC player Hector Loughton on 14 September 2024 at St Margaret’s Ditchling, East Sussex. A formal, hockeythemed reception for 150 followed and included fellow OOs Isobel Scruby (’12), Charlotte Atkinson (’12), and Emily Rowbotham (’12).

Honours

Philip Woolfe (’97) has been appointed as King’s Counsel (KC).

In the 2024 New Year’s honours list, Stuart Broad (’04) was appointed Commander of the Order of the British Empire (CBE) for his services to Cricket. Stuart also came runner-up in the BBC Sports Personality of the Year Award for 2023.

Stella Nicholls (’24) (pictured below) was given a Highly Commended award at the Young Furniture Maker Awards in October. Stella was nominated for the sustainable workspace that she designed during her A-levels at Oakham. The event showcases the very best furniture and furnishing design talent, from GCSE students to recent graduates. It is a highly competitive competition that recognises excellence and those with a future in design. You can read all about Stella’s design in the Oakhamian Magazine on page 32.

Harry Betts (’13) married Mary Alexander at the Holy Trinity Church, Salcombe on Saturday 7 September. There were many OOs in attendance, including Harry’s brother Matthew (’17), Liv Stables (’13), Steph Hollick (’13), Lizzie Healey (’13), Hamish Thain (’13), Ollie Allman (’13), Cian Llewellyn (‘13), George Brown (‘13).

Selina Degen (’09) married Philip Wahl over the summer. Lars Kahl (’09) and Teresa Conrad-Schwarz (’09) attended.

Will Groome (’12) married Imogen Hargreaves on Saturday 31 August 2024, at St Mary the Virgin, High Easter in Chelmsford.

Duke of Edinburgh – Gold Award

Over the summer, 23 OOs had the opportunity to attend the annual Buckingham Palace Garden Party to celebrate their Gold DofE achievements.

• George Bland (’23)

• Will Bland (’21)

• Alfie Borrill (’22)

• Zara Brown (’23)

• Emily Burlison (’24)

• William Davison (’20)

• Will Fearn (’24)

• James Grace (’23)

• Catlin Hopkinson (’22)

• Megan Hopkinson (’22)

• Chloe Howard (’22)

• Daniel Kelly (’23)

• Clare Maitland (’20)

• Freddie Marlow (’20)

• Spike Marlow (’22)

• Oliver Oakden (’22)

• Emily Oakley (’22)

• Alex Pound (’22)

• Georgina Sheppard (’23)

• Finlay Simpson (’24)

• Rosie Sly (’23)

• Verity Wearmouth (’23)

• Sophie Wilson (’16)

akham School’s campus has seen many changes during its 440-year history, as successive generations shape the School to continue to deliver a world-class education. The way our 70-acre campus looks today would be very different if it wasn’t for the generosity and vision of Old Oakhamians, parents, and friends of the Oakham School Community.

As the School celebrates the milestones of some of Oakham’s iconic buildings, in this feature we discover more about the people behind these places; what inspired them to help make these buildings possible and the impact that they have had on Oakham School pupils throughout the years. We also look ahead to anniversary celebrations that will be taking place in 2025 and share details of two exciting new projects that will transform and enhance our campus further.

10 Years of BAF Smith Pavilion

In 2013, it was realised that a new Cricket Pavilion was needed on Doncaster Close. As is the case with many capital projects, the School is not always able to meet the building costs without some support. Making the vision a reality would rely on support from the Old Oakhamian Community, and in 2014, Brian Smith (BAF Smith) OBE, DL (’54) offered his support for the muchneeded pavilion. An exceptional sportsman, BAF had his own reasons for rebuilding the pavilion. In 1954, he held the captaincy of the First XV Rugby, First XI Hockey, and First XI Cricket teams. What a year it proved to be, with all three teams

unbeaten in 33 fixtures - an unrivalled achievement in Oakham School history. After 60 years, there was no better way to preserve his memory than with a new pavilion on the same site as its predecessor. Today, the pavilion is used every day as a wonderful, welcoming reception area for match spectators and a fantastic hosting space for reunions. It also has a perfect view of the cricket pitch and Oakham School. BAF also contributed to the refurbishment of the Chapel in 2007, his generosity resulted in the restoration of the interior and exterior. Oakham School is indebted to BAF Smith for his gifts and support.

In the last 10 Years of the BAF Smith Pavilion...

Old Oakhamian Internationals have walked through its doors from Jamaica, Germany, Bermuda, Ireland, England,

1st XI cricket photos from as early as 1860 adorn its walls

Visitors have watched 143 rugby matches on Doncaster Close

teams have called the pavilion their home

63,000 balls have been bowled on the 1st team pitch

Above: First XI Cricket, 1954.

Brian Smith OBE, DL, 1935-2019 Oakham School pupil from 1943-1954. Sportsman and businessman.

10 Years of the Mehra Faculty of Science

In 2012, the Mehra Faculty of Science opened, bringing Chemistry, Physics, and Biology under one roof for the first time. The £4 million project was fundraised for over five years, bearing the name of Sanjeev Mehra (’78), an Oakham School Trustee and generous benefactor to the building. While at Oakham for two years, Sanjeev studied Maths and Physics where he felt he was “exposed to a world of academic rigour and excellence ”while being

taught by some “inspirational teachers” before embarking on a successful career in finance at Goldman Sachs. Understanding the importance of supporting Oakham School’s legacy, Sanjeev hoped that the new facility would keep Oakham at the forefront of science teaching and attract pupils from all over the world.

We are delighted that Sanjeev remains involved and committed to supporting the School and is a Trustee of the Oakham School Foundation.

In the last 10 Years of the Mehra Faculty of Science...

DNA has been extracted from 2,500 strawberries

1,000 earthworms have been measured

2,400 test tubes have been used (1,500 broken)

Over 1,500 hearts have been dissected

450 Litres of Hydrochloric acid have been used

Barbie has been subjected to a bad hair day over 150 times

3.25kg copper sulfate crystals have been grown

There have been 105 Bio Soc, Chem Soc and Phys Soc meetings

Over 540 small 2.5v bulbs have been blown

Sanjeev Mehra (‘78) Honorary Oakham School Fellow Businessman and Philanthropist. Trustee of the Oakham School Foundation

Within the Mehra Faculty of Science

The Barson Gallery

Made possible by former Oakham School parents John and Dorothy Barson, the Barson Gallery brings together Physics, Chemistry, and Biology while also acting as a walkway between Doncaster Close and the Bunny Guinness Garden.

This light and airy space hosts drinks receptions and houses major displays, experiments, and models during open mornings and Speech Day. It is also a warm and welcoming focal point for thousands of people who are on tours, trips, and talks.

Laboratories

The Mehra Faculty of Science is home to many state-of-the-art laboratories, which were made possible by the Oakham School community.

The German Friends’ Society Laboratory was made possible by the generosity of the German Friends Society, which includes current and former parents of Oakham School pupils.

The generosity of the North American Friends’ Society, made up of OOs, current and former parents, and a grant from the British Schools and Universities Foundation, made another state-ofthe-art lab possible.

The donors who supported the brand-new laboratory included

Jeremy Farmer (’67), Nicholas Mayor (’91), Katsumi Miki (’83), Amer Nimr (’81), James and Amanda Opinsky, Lisa Tulchin (’87), Amanda Wright Kluger (’91), and Chahine Yamine (’79). It was officially opened by Nicholas Mayor.

Wolfson Laboratory

Aspiring medics can be found in the Wolfson Laboratory, where Dr Nicoll is always on hand to support them in their journeys.

Oakham School is incredibly grateful to all those who contributed to making the facilities in the Mehra Faculty of Science possible. It would not be what it is today without the generous support from Parents, Alumni, and Friends of Oakham School.

Wilson Auditorium

An important part of the Mehra Faculty of Science is the Wilson Auditorium, which opened in 2011.

The auditorium seats up to 200 people and is located in the heart of the faculty. Affectionately known as the WA, it is named after Lynn Wilson (’57), an Oakham School Trustee and a long-standing supporter of Oakham School. You can read more about the Wilson Foundation and Family and their generosity on page 15.

Throughout the academic year the Wilson Auditorium hosts around 200 events, including assemblies, lectures for pupils and parents, meetings and visiting speakers.

A Typical Day in the WA: 8.40am-9.10am Assembly 10am-11am Support Staff Training 1.20pm-2pm Food Committee meeting 2.30pm-4pm Staff Safeguarding Training 4.45pm-5.45pm Heads of Department Meeting 6.30pm-7.30pm

Upper School Torch Lecture (visiting speaker)

Looking Ahead to Future Milestones

20 Years of Wilson Pavilion

While at Oakham, Lynn Wilson (‘57) was a keen sportsman, playing First Team Rugby, Cricket, and Hockey. With growing sporting success in the early 2000s, the need for more sports fields became apparent. An excellent new sports pavilion and pitches opened in 2005 thanks to the Wilson Foundation.

The pavilion and pitches were named after Lynn Wilson (’57) in recognition of the Wilson family’s significant support of Oakham School over the years.

A glimpse ahead to the 2024-2025 academic year, where we celebrate more anniversaries and those who have contributed to making Oakham School into what it is today.

Since then, the Wilson Foundation has also contributed to various other developments, including floodlights on both astroturfs and the Wilson Auditorium (you can read more on page 14).

For 20 years, Wilson Pitches has provided invaluable space for football, rugby, and cricket training and matches. The Wilson family continue to be an important and much-loved members of the Oakham School Community.

Walter Lee (Tom) Sargant, 1866-1956

Headmaster of Oakham School 1902-1929, Trustee 1931-1946

Lynn Wilson, 1939-2008 Oakham School pupil 1949-1957, OO President 1987, Businessman.

100 Years of Chapel – Sargant and Families

The Chapel was originally commissioned by Sargant as a memorial to the 68 fallen Old Oakhamians from the First World War. By 1924, over £16,000 had been contributed by OOs and their families, and work could start on the Chapel in 1925. For nearly a century the Chapel has been at the spiritual heart of Oakham School, providing opportunities for our community to come together to sing, commemorate and celebrate.

During the 2024/25 academic year, we will celebrate 100 years of Chapel, so do keep an eye out for The Oakhamian Connection to join us in celebrating the heart of Oakham School.

30 Years of the Smallbone Library 50 Years of Lower School

In 1993, Graham Smallbone introduced a development plan for Oakham School that involved building a university-grade library.

The library is a central part of Oakham School life, supporting pupils in their studies and hosting events for all in the Oakham Community.

Graham Smallbone

Headmaster of Oakham School 1985-1996

Looking Forward

The feature of the People Behind the Places is a great reminder of just how much the campus continues to evolve and develop. These incredible OOs and philanthropists’ ambition was and is to provide superb, contemporary, state-of-the-art facilities for Oakhamians and ensure that much-loved and integral parts of the School, such as the Memorial Chapel, are beautifully maintained. It is a privilege to be involved in such special and uplifting projects and to meet and work with those who share our vision and support us.

With increasing pupil numbers in the 1970s and the introduction of co-education, it became apparent that a new site was needed solely for the Junior School. John Jerwood (‘35) generously donated the funds to make what was needed possible, with Jerwood opening the new ‘Jerwoods’ campus in 1974.

Looking ahead, we continue to focus on raising funds for bursaries and widening access to an Oakham Education for everyone. We also have two capital projects in sight as part of delivering our Development Plan: a significant extension and development of our gym facilities and a full refurbishment and development of Old School (some of you will have known this as The Shakespeare Centre) to provide much-needed additional performance and rehearsal space. If you feel you can help us, we would love to hear from you and discuss how you can

get involved, become one of the people behind the places, and leave a legacy for current and future Oakhamians. Getting involved at any level, however big or small makes a lasting change.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Samantha Rowntree Director of Development and Engagement 01572 758810 07483 408372

sr@oakham.rutland.sch.uk

foundation@oakham.rutland.sch.uk

John Michael Jerwood, 1918-1991 Oakham School pupil 1930-1935, OO President 1984. Known as the ‘Visitor’ for his generosity towards the School.

SUPPORTING THE OO CLUB

We

are keen to ensure that the OO Club represents the many interests, year groups and activities enjoyed by our alumni community and very grateful to everyone who supports us by attending reunions and events.

I wanted to take this opportunity to share with you some of the people who have been doing great things this past year to support the OO Club to ensure its continued success. We have recently welcomed new members to our OO Club Committee who collectively share a wealth of experience across various careers, together with a great knowledge of Oakham School and its past.

The committee meets three times each year and supports our team. It provides input and ideas for our communication and events programme and looks forward to the future of the OO Club.

We also have a number of OO Ambassadors who organise sporting and professional networking events, to bring together OOs with similar interests or in similar professions.

I hope you see something on these pages that inspires you to join us as a committee member, ambassador or at a future event. We look forward to seeing you soon.

Quasi Cursores, Jonathan Stevens (’79) OO Club Chairman

Director of Development and Engagement: Sam

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The Oakhamian Connection is a dedicated space to encourage members of the OO community to keep in touch with one another in a trusted environment, as well as hearing the latest news and developments at Oakham.

Give BackAttend our professional networking events, deliver lectures to current Oakhamians, donate to bursaries or capital projects.

Simon Camamile (’73)

Rowntree

1584 Society President: Clive Coombes (’78)

Alumni and Development Officer: Charlotte Woodward

Rhia Douty (’12)

Chairman: Jonathan Stevens (’79) oochairman@ oakham.rutland.sch.uk

David Gilman (’89)

President: Kate McEuen (née Lawson-Dick) (‘88)

Will Guy (’16)

Legacy Society President: Nick Priestnall (’69)

Ben Walsgrove (’87)

Brian Welford (Hon OO)

Sport Ambassadors

This year, we have introduced Sporting Ambassadors to support our alumni teams who wish to play in matches against current pupils or in alumni competitions. If you would like to know more about our sporting clubs, you can find them on our alumni site, The Oakhamian Connection, or contact the ambassadors themselves.

The OO Cricket Club

Fabian Taylor (’08) and Joe Cuthbert (’08)

Email: OOClub@oakham.rutland.sch.uk

To be added to the WhatsApp group, message: 074834 08282

Upcoming events:

Friday 23 May 2025 – 1st XI vs OO at the Wilson Pavilion and Fields

Summer Term 2025 – Cricketer Trophy, details to be confirmed

The OO Golfing Society (Mixed)

Mark Walker (’96) and Ben Stephens (‘95)

Email: Oldoakhamiangolf1584@gmail.com

Upcoming events:

Saturday 14 June 2025 – Old Oakhamian Golf Day at Luffenham Heath

September 2025 (TBC) – Oakham School Golf Day at Rutland Water

The Old Oakhamian Football Club

Jamie Thorpe (‘08)

Email: OOClub@oakham.rutland.sch.uk

Upcoming events:

Saturday 4 January 2025 –1st XI vs OOs at the Wilson Fields

Networking Ambassadors

Last year, we launched our series of professional networking events. Created to bring together OOs in similar professions. Whether you are experienced in your field or starting your career, we hope that these gatherings will enable you to network, listen to keynote speakers and meet like minded professionals.

If you would like to support us by joining the OO Committee by becoming an ambassador or by being a keynote speaker, please get in touchEmail: OOClub@oakham.rutland.sch.uk WhatsApp: 07483 408282

The Old Oakhamian Shooting Club

Robert Eayrs (’73)

Email: OOClub@oakham.rutland.sch.uk

Upcoming events: July 2025 – Bisley Shoot

We are very lucky to have received support from various OOs who have made these events possible. A special thank you to:

• Angus McLean (’94), a partner at Simmons & Simmons, who kindly hosted this year’s Legal and Financial Networking event.

• Tim Harris (’97), Counsel at Cohen & Gresser, who hosted the inaugural Legal Networking event.

• Rob Hanna (’03), founder of KC Partners, who has moderated and hosted our Legal Networking events.

• Leah Adeniran (’11), senior associate at Latham & Watkins, who has been one of our keynote speakers.

• Ed Heckels (’84) and Steven West (’84), who were the keynote speakers at our inaugural Financial Networking event.

PASSING ON THE TORCH:

Leadership Advice from past Heads of School

At the start of the 24/25 academic year, Oakham School held its first Heads of School Conference. The idea stemmed from Annie-May Cannings (’24) and David Harrison (’24), the Heads of School for 23/24 after they attended a similar event at Wellington College.

Annie-May, David, Poppy Price (’23) and Obi Osuji (’23), Heads of School from 22/23, gave a seminar titled ‘Been there, seen it, got the prefect badge’ where they gave advice to current Heads of School from schools in the East Anglia region.

Harry Getliffe (’07) - The Future of Drones

Harry came back to Oakham to give a DT Torch Lecture to sixth form students about his business, SkyLift that he co-founded with two fellow engineers.

SkyLift UAV was formed to design, develop, and operate specialist commercial drones for a diverse group of

Old Oakhamians Sharing Advice with Current Oakhamians

It has been a pleasure to welcome back so many OOs to School this year and we thank them for giving their time and sharing their expertise to inspire current current Oakhamians.

specialist roles, predominantly for offshore wind farms but also for other commercial applications, including specialist deliveries, heavy lift, security, and maintenance.

Pupils also got the opportunity to look at the different drones used by SkyLift; how they are operated, and the extensive planning process that takes place.

Will Guy (‘16) - Celebrating our All-Rounder Scholars

It was a pleasure to welcome back Will Guy (’16), a former Head of School and one of the first All-Rounder Scholars, to the annual All-Rounder Scholars Dinner. Will gave an excellent speech that revolved around his time at Oakham, life just after Oakham, the challenges he has faced since leaving School, and how being an All-Rounder Scholar at Oakham has supported him throughout.

The evening ended with the Form 7 Scholars discussing their time at Oakham and how the scholarship has supported them in their achievements while also giving advice to the younger years.

Sporting Futures – The Different Career Pathways in Sport

We are incredibly grateful to Jack van Poortvliet (’19), Fabian Powell (’24), Izzy Skelton (’22), and Matt Smith (’04), who came back for our annual Sporting Futures event this October, with Izzy being a headline speaker, sharing her experience of life as a student athlete. They were part of a group of elite coaches, agents, and athletes representing a range of sports, including rugby, hockey, cricket, tennis, and athletics; they shared advice and gave an insight into different sporting pathways and career opportunities in the world of performance sport.

Charlie Brundle (’06) - Automotive Design

As part of our new Torch Lecture series for current Oakhamians, Tim Weston, Head of Design Technology, welcomed back Charlie Brundle (‘06) to talk about her career in the automotive design industry while working at McLaren.

Charlie took pupils through the design process of the Solus GT, discussing the interior and exterior designs and the bespoke nature of this current track car.

Charlie featured in OO Magazine issue 119, as part of our article on STEM careers, where she discussed her current project in further detail.

Tia Naneva (’17) and Ivo Nanev (’14) -

The Fika café duo came back to Oakham to give a Torch Lecture on business and entrepreneurship in the Summer Term, to pupils with an interest in setting up a business or undertaking Business BTEC, A-level and IB. Tia and Ivo spoke about their time at

Business and Entrepreneurship

Oakham, their different paths since leaving, what made them decide to purchase Fika, their vision for the future and lessons they have learned along the way. Pupils were keen to hear about the siblings’ journey and how they have expanded Fika during their time as owners.

The evening ended with a Q&A session, where pupils eagerly asked questions ranging from what their next goals for Fika are, to regrets and how to secure funding. A pupil also got the opportunity to talk to Tia and Ivo about his small business venture, to ask advice and what he should do next.

We always love welcoming back OOs to our campus. If you are interested in returning to hold a talk for pupils, please get in touch by emailing the OOClub@oakham.rutland.sch,uk

Reunions

We are delighted to have hosted so many reunions over the past 12 months, from celebrating 5 years to 40 years since leaving Oakham School. Meeting so many of you has been wonderful. If you are interested in a reunion for your year group, please get in touch via OOClub@oakham.rutland.sch.uk

Class of 1984 40-Year Reunion

Fifty members of the Class of 1984 gathered in London in January 2024 to celebrate their 40-year reunion. A great way to start the New Year. Thank you to all the organisers that made it happen.

Class of 1987

Starting off with a tour of Lower School and Ancaster in the afternoon, the day ended with a Hog Roast, music and dancing in BAF Smith Pavilion.

Thank you to Sarah Bird (’87) and Clare Stagg (’87) who rallied their year group and put together such a wonderful reunion.

Class of 1999 25-Year Reunion

The day started with an opportunity for the Class of 1999 to see how the campus has changed over the last 25 years. The evening kicked off with a predrinks reception, where the OOs caught up with their former classmates, teachers, Housemasters, and Tutors while looking through old Red Books, magazines, photos, and sports tour brochures. Attendees once again enjoyed a Barraclough dinner in the newly refurbished Small Barraclough. Jono Wills (’73), who looked after many attendees when they were pupils in Jerwoods when he was Housemaster of Lincoln, as well as former Haywoodians when he was Housemaster of Haywoods, made a toast and thanked David McKee (’99) for organising the reunion. David thanked attendees for making the evening so special and memorable.

Class of 2014 10-Year Reunion

In June it was a delight to meet up with 45 pupils from the Class of 2014 at The Hawk’s Nest in Shepherd’s Bush, owned by Frazer Timmerman (’09). Thank you to everyone who travelled to make the evening a great success.

Class of 2004 20-Year Reunion

We warmly welcomed around 30 Old Oakhamians to BAF Smith Pavilion at Oakham School for the 20-year reunion of the Class of 2004. OOs enjoyed catching up with their peers over a drink or two while reconnecting with former staff member Ann Lewis. It was lovely to hear what the Class of 2004 has been up to since leaving Oakham and to show them what has changed over the last few decades. Thank you to all the 2004 leavers who were able to join us.

Class of 2019 5-Year Reunion

At the end of the 23/24 academic year, it was a pleasure to welcome back the Class of 2019 for their five-year reunion in BAF Smith Pavilion. It was great to see so many returning faces; it was the first time many of the cohort had returned to the School since leaving.

Reunion in Kuala Lumpur

Five OOs met in Kuala Lumpur in November 2023.

From Left: Dr Patrick Chien (’81), Gerard Chan (’81), Dr CM Lim (’68), Ken Chai (’81), and LC Tai (’80).

Some members of the Class of 1975 met up in October at the Finches Arms in Hambleton, Oakham. Left to Right, Lester Wilson, Mark Bengeochea, Stephen Larke, Dave Sansome, Nigel Hartley.

Golf

OO Golf Day

The 87th meeting of the Old Oakhamian Golfing Society was held at Luffenham Heath Golf Club on Saturday 22 June. On what turned out to be a wonderful day, 25 OOs gathered for lunch and an afternoon of golf.

Individual (Full handicap Stableford competition)

1st James Padley (’07) (20 hcp) with 44 points

2nd Mark Walker (’96) (+1 hcp) with 41 points

3rd Ian Fletcher Current Parent (24 hcp) with 40 points Team

(three best overall scores out of 4 to count)

1st Henry James (’07), Jack Measom (’07), George Padley (’06), and James Padley (’07) with 117 points

2nd Dennis Walker, Mark Walker, Tom Fell (’12) and Nick Cole (’97) with 112 points

3rd Tim Connolly, Tim Walker (’88), Chris Dook and Ben Stephens (’95) with 102 points

Nearest to the pin

7th

/ 12th

Brewill/Humphrey Stableford Nicholas Campbell (’73)

Ladies Cup Philly Jones (’85)

Peake Medal

Jug and Driver

Gross

Alex Barton (’13)

Alasdair Lawson-Dick (’84)

Chris Palmer (’75)

Oakham School Golf Day

On Sunday 8 September, the inaugural Oakham School Golf Day at Rutland Water Golf Club took place. The Golf Day, which is open to staff, pupils, OOs, and parents, is a perfect opportunity for all those in the Oakham School community to come together. It was a lovely day, which included a staff team, a couple of Oakham School parents, and a current Oakhamian.

Hole Will Jameson (’10)

Hole Nick Cole

OOs vs Pupils Netball

The annual OOs vs Pupils netball match was once again a huge success at the start of September. Seven OOs came back to Oakham to play an intense game of netball against our current 1st VII.

We welcomed back Emily Dove (‘98), Jo Wattie (’24), Charlotte West (’24), Sarah De Kremer (’09), Annabelle Northcott (’22), Biz Glynn (’20), and Louise Walker (‘18). What a team!

We also had two current parents who came in as subs, which led to a father vs. daughter and a mother vs. daughter duo.

The OO team led for most of the match, with the final score being 30-33 to the 1st VII. A huge thank you to everyone who came back; it is always such a lovely way to start the netball season.

If you would like to get involved, keep an eye on The Oakhamian Connection for details on next year’s fixture.

Bisley Shooting

A team of five OOs represented the Club in the British Schools Veterans Match last winter. This is a .22 competition, and the OO team placed a respectable third.

The OO team included Matt Button (’88), Adam Chidlow (’21), Rob Eayrs (’73), David Epton (’81), and Rick Shouler (’95).

In July, 14 OOs joined the School at Bisley on Ashburton Day and participated in the Veterans Matches that evening. Two teams of OOs were fielded, with the

Grafton Morrish

Written by Mark Walker and Ben Stephens

In September, our scratch golfing team played in the annual Grafton Morrish qualifier at the Gog Magog course. The team just missed out on a spot in the finals. However, they were the first reserve. The team is photographed relaxing after the round L-R James Walters (‘12), Mark Walker (capt.) (‘96), Will Chamberlain (‘14), Simon Scott (‘96), Jamie Lewin (‘90), and pic taken by Ben Stephens (‘95).

Silver Tassie

Written by Mark Walker and Ben Stephens

On Monday 10 June, the annual Silver Tassie golf competition took place at The Berkshire Golf Club. Oakham School was represented by Sara Barnes (‘86) & Jane Sly (née Money) (‘81) on the red course with Lesley Tattersall and Sarah Hillas (‘87) on the bluecourse. In each case, we were paired with Cranleigh School, who were new to this annual event and excellent company. Another good performance from both Oakham pairs gave a combined score position of 3rd in the Gross competition behind Loretto and Millfield and 4th overall in Stableford, with points behind Loretto, Millfield, and St Felix.

We have a very active and inclusive Golfing Society with multiple fixtures throughout the year. To find out more about our mixed OO Golfing Society, head to page 17.

A team coming 21st out of 44 “A” teams. The day ended with a very sociable meal at the Artists Rifles Club.

OOs who attended were: Andrew Bowes (’72), Andy Brockhurst (’92), Matt Button, Adam Chidlow, Chris Clarkson (’70), Rob Eayrs, David Eckles (’73), James Grace (’23), Chris Manby (’71), John Manby (’70), Ginney Measures (’78), Peter Molesworth (’75), Jon Root (’77) and Rick Shouler.

Class of 1974 50-Year Reunion, BAFS – Saturday 22 February

Class of 2020 5-Year Reunion, Date and venue tbc

Class of 2015 10-Year Reunion, June 2025 venue tbc

Class of 1985 40-Year Reunion, Saturday 19 July

Christmas Drinks

Our annual London Christmas drinks took place at Bankside Gallery in December 2023. It is always a pleasure to meet so many of you and to catch up before the end of the year. The evening was made more special by David Gilman (’89) handing over his OO Presidency role to Kate McEuen (’88) to start her year as OO President.

Celebrating 90th Birthdays of Honorary OOs

On Saturday 21 September, we had the pleasure of welcoming back six Honorary OOs to celebrate their 90th birthdays. Malcolm Hardy, Richard Davies, John Darrall, John Bagley, Patrick Wilson, and David Morgan all returned to Oakham to celebrate in the Bowes Room, surrounded by family members, old colleagues, and former pupils. It was a delight to welcome them back, hear their memories, and see them meet their old pupils once again while enjoying tea, cake, and a glass of prosecco to mark the occasion. Thank you to all those who joined them and brought old photos and Red Books to look through.

Old Oakhamian Lodge 8033

Oakham School’s core values are Care, Courage, Contribution, and Connection. As Freemasons, we also embrace these values and develop them further. Freemasonry is many things to different people, and we all support charitable giving which is one of the three basic tenets of Masonry. During 2024 the OO Lodge was the key enabler to obtain the support of all the Rutland Lodges to make a significant donation towards the funding of the statue in Oakham of our late Queen Elizabeth II.

On Saturday 10 August 2024 we held a Summer Social event at the Grainstore Brewery in Oakham. Twelve members with their families and friends attended a Hog Roast, with even a few Melton Lodge members dropping in as well! We raised £180 for the

Lodge Discretionary Fund by holding a small raffle, which will be used to support our charitable giving. Did you know the OOL is a member of the Federation of School Lodges? We are always looking for new members to come and join our friendly lodge. We meet four Saturdays a year in BAF Smith Pavilion and dine afterwards in the Barraclough. Freemasonry is an organisation open to both men and women, so please see our OO Lodge website www.oldoakhamianlodge.co.uk/ for further explanation and information and to get in touch. There is not currently a Women’s Lodge affiliated to the School, but we would be happy to help that formation and support a Women’s Lodge, should there be sufficient interest.

Networking Events

Legal Networking Event, London

On the evening of Wednesday 18 September 2024, the offices of Simmons & Simmons opened their doors to welcome the second Legal Networking Event for OOs. Angus McLean (‘94), IP Partner and Head of FinTech at Simmons & Simmons, kindly hosted the event with Leah Adeniran (’11), a Senior Associate at Latham & Watkins, giving the keynote speech. Following a welcome from Charlotte Woodward, Leah spoke about her law journey to date and shared strategies for a successful career. After undertaking a law conversion course, Leah secured a training contract at a Magic Circle law firm, where she spent the first five years of her legal career advising corporates and private equity clients on crossborder mergers & acquisitions,

and venture capital financings. In her keynote, Leah spoke about imposter syndrome,a challenge that affects many in every industry, sharing strategies for overcoming selfdoubt and stepping into your full potential with confidence. Following Leah’s talk, Angus moderated a discussion on career development, where guidance on how to excel in this competitive field was shared, which led to a stimulating exchange of questions and answers with the group. OOs from the classes of 1991 to 2022 attended the event, enjoying the chance to meet one another and exchange views over a drink and canapes. We are also incredibly grateful to Rob Hanna (’03) for all his support with our legal networking events.

Financial Networking Event, London

On the evening of Wednesday 15 November 2023, the second of our new series of professional networking events for OOs took place at Bleeding Heart Yard London, focusing on financial services. OOs from the classes of 1984 through to 2021, and from as far afield as Durham, enjoyed connecting with one another and exchanging views about the world of finance while enjoying a drink and some food.The evening started with stimulating discussions about the compelling connections within

banking, investment, insurance, and private equity.

Steven West (’84), Senior Vice President and Head of Multinational Corporate Coverage at United Overseas Bank, shared insights and guidance in managing a career through dynamic and challenging markets.

Edward Heckels (’84) has worked for Kleinwort Benson/ Kleinwort Hambros for 36 years. He captivated the attendees with his top 10 tips for working in the financial industry.

Annual Upper School Networking Dinner, Oakham

On Friday 18 October, the OO Club welcomed 14 alumni and three current parents back to Oakham School for the fourth Upper School Networking Evening. Throughout the evening, they shared their knowledge, expertise, and career experience with 80 pupils.

The evening began with pre-dinner drinks, a chance for pupils to work on their small talk and introduce themselves to the guests. The Headmaster thanked the OOs for coming back to Oakham to share their advice and wisdom with current Oakhamians. He also congratulated the pupils on taking a leap and attending an event of this nature; for many of them, this was an opportunity to work on their networking and small-talk skills with strangers, an important skill to learn.

At the dinner, pupils were seated on tables with OOs who work in a profession similar to their ideal future career. Between the main course and dessert, the current Oakhamians switched tables to ensure they had multiple conversations with people of different backgrounds, careers, and interests.

The attending OOs were from the law, financial, business, medical, engineering, corporate, media, and marketing professions, giving current Upper School pupils a wide range of areas to expand their knowledge.

The 1584 Society President

CLIVE (’78) OBE COOMBES

As Clive takes over the helm of The 1584 Society, we sat down with him to find out why Oakham holds such a special place in his heart and his reasons for giving back to his former school.

What was your time at Oakham like?

It was a different era. I was one of the last Direct Grant students and having taken my 11+, I received an Academic Scholarship as a day boy. I travelled daily from Ketton for five years and vividly remember one morning when the bus took a different route from Edith Weston to Hambleton as the road was closed beside Normanton Church; the start of the Rutland Water reservoir.

The School changed a lot between ‘71 and ‘78. John Buchanan was the Headmaster, an amazing and memorable man. I learned a lot from him as a young lad (he taught me English for four years) and then after five years and spending countless hours commuting, I joined Wharflands in the Sixth Form and School House for my final year. As a boarder, I saw so much more of the School and got way more involved for my last two years – probably to the detriment of my A-level results! But there was nobody to blame but myself, because at that stage I had a job offer and I joined the Air Force immediately from School. Achieving the required qualifications to enter the RAF commissioning system at 18 is almost certainly down to what Oakham gave me.

Above: Clive hosts the Prince of Wales on a royal visit to Singapore in 2012.

What makes Oakham so special that you come back so often? And consequently, give?

In my case it’s fair to say Oakham was formative. I didn’t go to university and so aside from the University of New South Wales in Sydney where I obtained my Post Grad qualifications in the mid ‘90s, Oakham is my Alma Mater. I am proud of that fact. I was proud to be here; I learned a lot, and, together with the military, it’s a key part of my life. I love coming back to the School, and I am honoured to be an Old Oakhamian. When I write OO’78, that really does mean something. I’m also very lucky as the Class of ’78 is a strong cohort; we try to gather at least yearly and as we all approach (nominally) retirement, I’m hoping that frequency will increase.

When I retired from the military after 38 years, I settled in Oakham. But aside from peripheral engagement, I really didn’t get closely involved with the School at that time. That all changed when, primarily owing to family circumstances, I moved to Scotland eight years ago.

Now I am proud to call Edinburgh my home, but Oakham has a special place in my heart. As the last generation of my family, Oakham is where, perhaps for a few years beyond my passing, people might recall me. I am looking to endow somewhere very special to me and ask them to preserve my memory – at least for a little time. Being a nomad, having spent nearly four decades in the military, and having a father in the same occupation, Oakham is a key place of stability in my past – and now of course for my present and future.

To keep seeing this wonderful school going from strength to strength, even in these difficult times, really does mean something. I am very pleased and delighted to give my time to something I feel so passionate about.

Why do you think it’s important for OOs to give back?

The first thing I would say is that it is important to recognise that you are an OO; it’s a special connection. Be proud because the network is massive; adopt it, accept it, and be part of it. Don’t ever be shy about it.

Once you adopt that attitude, you can understand how important it is for the School to remain. The School has been here since 1584. It will outlive all of us; it has outlived every student who has ever been here, and this school must keep going.

We are in tough economic times that will sadly prevent some people from sending their children here without the support of bursaries and academic scholarships.

The School is fortunate that these are funded by people from all walks of life – and indeed some who are not OOs or parents of OOs, but people who are willing and able to give something to keep the School and its traditions and history going.

There is absolutely no denying that Oakham is a wonderful school; it is brilliantly led, and it always has been. It’s got great staff who are passionate about it, and we must make sure that the alumni of this school continue to adopt the ethos that Oakham School brings with it. To quote the school motto, “Quasi Cursores” – Torch Runners – we are here to embrace our legacy and take it forward.

What is your vision for The 1584 Society as its President?

Firstly, I want to say what an honour it is to be asked to take over as President of The 1584 Society. I have massive shoes to fill, and I personally want to thank Peter Lawson for what he has done, not only as President, but also for the School as a whole over the past four decades. He leaves a remarkable legacy for all to admire and cherish.

It is important to recognise that you are an OO; it's a special connection. Be proud because the network is massive; adopt it, accept it, and be part of it.

My vision is to build on Peter’s legacy and make The 1584 Society sustainable and relatable for every Old Oakhamian who leaves at whatever time. And we need to reach out and make that happen. We look for that help, please!

At this time of change, is there anything you would like to say about the importance of fundraising?

Looking at events in, for example, Ukraine, Gaza and a country that is very dear to me, Myanmar (where I was the Defence Attaché for three years), the world is in turmoil. Even in our own relatively benign country, and owing to so many factors internal and external, life has changed dramatically of late. Accordingly, demands on people and their money have also altered. Finding some spare cash to give to charity funding is more and more difficult.

In my case, I have decided to support two main causes. One is the RAF Benevolent Fund and the other is Oakham School. I not only donate in monetary terms, but also volunteer my time. As a first step, I hope others will also consider Oakham for that purpose.

But in terms of ‘1584’ we are looking at the structures with a view to making it more ‘accessible’ to all. Be that honing the ability to say how you would like your donation to be used, appropriately directed bursaries, or a campaign for a new building or a facility in the School. As they say, that’s a work in progress and so please ‘watch this space’!

Above Clive in 2024

Left Clive in his CCF uniform at Oakham

Chicago

The Director’s View

Gilly Norell, Director of Drama since 2010, is currently in production with Sweeney Todd for the QET’s 40th anniversary. We caught up with Gilly between rehearsals to learn what the QET means to her.

“The QET feels like home to me – in every sense: literally, metaphorically, intellectually, and creatively. When I step into the theatre, there’s an unmistakable atmosphere. The stage itself feels like holy ground, evoking a sense of reverence. I often find myself thinking how lucky I am to spend so much of my time and my life in this space. Not everyone’s idea of work/life balance, I must admit.

I love the process of starting with a dark, empty space and creating something from nothing. What a joy it is to teach young people; to be able to start with some words on a page and from that forge a bond of camaraderie and creativity to produce a unique live theatre moment. There’s something extraordinary about the power that these young actors have to move me in performance even when I have seen them play a thousand times in rehearsal. On performance night, I’ll be watching them and realise I’m not breathing as they carry me – and the audience – to a different world. How fantastic is it to transport 200 people together in that moment?

The people I work with at the QET are incredible. I rely on everyone around me to keep the energy flowing and the ideas fresh. One of the things we, as a Department do

well is collaborate. We constantly bounce ideas off each other, and that collaborative spirit extends into every production we work on.

For our pupils, the QET provides a platform – a place where they can step into someone else’s shoes, explore new identities, discover new facets of themselves, and be seen in a different way. The way I work as a director is that the pupils bring me their skills, their imagination, their joy, their sadnesses and I help them to shape that into a performance. It’s all about them, what they have, and what they perhaps don’t yet realise they have. When I sit in the dark and watch a character come to life on stage, something magical happens. And it’s not just the performers; the pupils who work backstage are equally important, forming a core part of the production team. Some students do both – they work backstage and then, one day, find themselves in the wings wishing they were on stage. The next time we put on a production, they’re auditioning, taking that next step into the spotlight.

If I were to ask current pupils what the QET means to them, I hope they’d say, ‘It’s a second home, a place where I can be myself with my ‘tribe’, a place where I can truly achieve.’”

Gilly builds on the legacy of the QET’s previous Directors of Drama, continuing their tradition of excellence and innovation.

The Performances

Our casts’ energy, depth of expertise and adaptability often leave their audience with more vivid memories than professional performances.

From To Set Before the Queen in 1984 to Sweeney Todd - Demon Barber of Fleet Street in 2024, here we celebrate key performances from four decades of productions.

1984 and 2014

On the Razzle

This was the first major production in the QET in June 1984. The play went on tour to the Edinburgh Fringe during that summer. It was staged again to mark the QET’s 30th anniversary with many of the original cast members returning to the School to watch a special performance.

Nicholas Nickleby

The longest play to be staged in the QET, a cast of 30 students retold the complex plot of Dickens’ novel over two nights.

1990 and 2000 Nero The Musical

Music by Director of Music

Peter Witchell and lyrics by Teacher of English Mark Pitter, this original production was written for the Oakham Festival and performed at the Edinburgh Fringe the same year.

1984 To Set Before the Queen

Written and performed especially for the royal visit when the QET was officially opened by the Queen on the 400th anniversary of the founding of the School.

1992 A Midsummer Night’s Dream

Matthew Macfadyen’s final dramatic appearance as a student at Oakham.

2016

By the Bog of Cats

The most unusual prop used in a production, a derelict caravan set the scene.

2018

Lord of the Flies

The production with the most unusual set; the stage of the QET had to be reinforced to support the weight of the sand.

2010

House & Garden

Two plays acted simultaneously and interlinked in two venues: the QET stage and a tent ingeniously transformed into a country garden using the same cast.

2023

Les Misérables

2022

Blue Stockings

Celebrating 50 years of co-education, Oakham School’s take on inequality in education in the 1800s following four women determined to get an education.

A true tour de force for the QET. The most significant costume hire and largest cast in a Main School Production.

2009 Shakespeare in Rep

Macbeth and As You Like it played in the round in the QET tent.

2020 Handbagged

Acclaimed as the best Scholars’ Production ever seen at the QET. Four young aspiring actresses transcending age to play iconic women of the 20th century.

2024

Sweeney Todd

To celebrate 40 years of our beloved QET, we are taking to the Oakham stage with Sweeney Todd - Demon Barber of Fleet Street; an infamous tale that confirms the worst fears concerning the murky depths of human nature!

The Props

Integral to the magic of theatre is the use of props. They can be anything from an umbrella to a derelict caravan, corgis, or a swing. These unsung heroes add depth, realism, and authenticity to the world the production is trying to create.

Some become old friends, appearing in many performances over the years; here, we celebrate our fantastic stage props, the silent performers that breathe life into the narrative.

FLAMINGOES Alice in Wonderland 2018

SUITCASE Into the Woods 2022

LANTERN A Christmas Carol 2018

HEADDRESS Midsummer Night’s Dream 2021

SKULL Hamlet 2017

PUPPET Bugsy Malone 2013

BROOMSTICK Wyrd Sisters 2014

Singin’ in the Rain 2021

UMBRELLAS

Fantastic Stage Props Through

the Years

DEATH NOTICES

SIMON BULLIMORE (’60)

8 March 1942 – 13 February 2024

EDWARD RICHARD CURRY (‘65)

7 April 1947 – 28 September 2024

An obituary will follow in the next edition of the Old Oakhamian Magazine

DERMOT GILVARY (HON OO)

An obituary will follow in the next edition of the Old Oakhamian Magazine

ANDREW JACOBS (’82)

July 1963 – July 2024

SIMON PENNINGTON (’75)

1 October 1957 – Summer 2022

GEOFFREY (GUY) RIPLEY (’53)

10 February 1942 – 15 December 2023

HANNAH EDWARDS

The School Community was devastated by the unexpected passing of Hannah Edwards (née Williams & Hon OO) on 5 September 2024. Hannah was an excellent, inspiring and much-loved Teacher of Physics, our resident Dungeons & Dragons legend and creative enthusiast, as well as a most kind and caring tutor in Hambleton House for nearly two decades. A colleague, a teacher, a champion, a friend – a pillar of our school. An obituary will follow in the next edition of the Old Oakhamian Magazine

Obituaries

SIMON BURALL (’88)

3 May 1970 – 4 July 2024

On leaving Oakham School Simon had a productive gap year teaching English with Project Trust in Namibia. He then gained a BA in Natural Sciences at Cambridge University and went on to do a PGCE, which enabled him to teach Science with VSO in a rural school in Zimbabwe - no mains electricity and cold water from a standpipe. After completing an MSc in Development Studies at SOAS in 1996, he joined VSO in London as a Volunteer Manager.

In 1997 Simon joined a small charity in Yorkshire, then in 1999 he was appointed Director of the One World Trust, an NGO committed to promoting accountability of global governance. He then worked from 2006-9 as a research fellow at the Overseas Development Institute, and from 2009-2016 as Director of Involve. Involve was founded in 2003 to improve UK democracy by engaging the public in key policy issues. He landed a major project, NHS Citizen, which included a citizens’ jury advising the NHS England board on health priorities. He was head of public dialogue and then programme director of Sciencewise, which supports Government to include public views when making science and technology policy. In 2016 Simon stepped down as Director of Involve to become a senior associate.

Simon also undertook a range of trustee and advisory roles. From 1997-2007 he was a VSO Trustee and member of Council. He was an ambassador and then fellow of WWF from 2006 onwards. He was chair of trustees of Democratic Audit from 2008-14. In 2019 he was appointed to the Nuffield Council on bioethics and worked closely with them on their current project on assisted dying.

Simon’s contribution as a prominent advocate for public engagement and deliberative democracy over a 30+ year career is recognised in his obituary in The Guardian https://www.theguardian.com/ politics/2024/aug/07/simon-burall-obituary

Simon married Dr Pam Mason in 2000, and they have three children, Elspeth, Alex

and Ollie. The family moved from London to Lewes in Sussex where Simon was for a while chair of the Lewes LibDems.

In 2021, an expected diagnosis for Simon of Long Covid turned out to be MS. Sadly Simon’s sister Katie Priest (née Burall), also an Old Oakhamian, died after a long battle with MS in 2018.

Following his diagnosis Simon continued to work with Involve, leading a UK citizens’ jury on Genome Editing for the Wellcome Foundation in 2022. In late 2022 a scan revealed a brain tumour. After surgery and initial treatment Simon underwent cutting edge immunotherapy treatment in Cologne, including a personalised vaccine to teach the immune system to recognise and destroy the cancer. Despite this, the tumour reappeared, and a second operation in early 2024 precipitated a severe stroke. Simon kept blogging up to this point, sharing thoughts about his treatments and prospects. During his final months, family, friends, and hospital staff were inspired by his bravery, kindness and good humour. One nurse responded to his thanks by saying ‘No! Thank you, Simon; you’ve enriched my life’. This sentiment was shown by the tributes after his death to be very widely shared.

Written by Susan Burall, Simon’s Mother

ANDREW CRAWFORD (’87)

29 October 1968 – August 2023

After leaving Oakham in 1987, Andrew read Music and Maths at Birmingham University and then travelled north for a year’s PGCE at Leeds University. In 1991 he was appointed to the post of Assistant Director of Music, and Teacher of Maths, at Woodhouse Grove School. Andrew remained there for 32 happy years, holding many additional posts such as housemaster, theatre manager and, latterly, senior maths teacher.

Andrew had an active musical life outside Woodhouse Grove, being conductor of Leeds Concert Band and organist of St James’ Church, Baildon, a picturesque, white, wooden, Swiss style building with a fascinating history. During his time there, the church building was completely dismantled, restored, enlarged and, indeed, moved! Included in this amazing project was the installation of a superb, custombuilt 21st century Rogers digital organ, which Andrew mastered with consummate ease. (parishofbaildon.uk). In short, Andrew was a much-loved, totally loyal and appreciated member of the whole Parish. In 2021/22 he moved to be part of the music staff at Halifax Minster, where his funeral service was held. At this memorial service music was provided by past and present musicians and staff from Woodhouse Grove, Leeds Concert Band, Baildon Parish Church and Halifax Minster. I had the privilege of knowing Andrew, as a pupil, then colleague and friend, over 43 years.

Written by Peter Sandford, Assistant Director of Music, Oakham School 1979-1989

18 April 1956 – 22 December 2023

Arthur passed away on 22nd December 2023 in Atlanta, Georgia. After leaving Oakham, Arthur obtained a BSc in Botany/ Zoology from Goldsmith’s College. He went on to work for Rentokil Pest Control, firstly in the UK, then moving to the United States in 1982. Arthur is survived by his wife, Gillian and his son, Alexander.

Written by Arthur’s wife, Gillian

23 May 1945 – 29 March 2024

Born into a farming family in Suffolk, Martin went up to Oxford (Worcester College and Queen’s College) to read Modern History and then Berkeley University in California where he specialised in American political history of the 1830s. Back in the UK, he taught History at Oundle (where he was also Head of Hockey) before coming to Oakham as Head of Department (1974-80).

Much appreciated for his efficiency and attention to detail, he was appointed Chairman of the Social Studies Group (197885), chaired the Scholarship Committee and the Staff Salaries Committee and was involved in the Directorate of Studies office from 1985. He was Director of Studies (19942001), during which time he masterminded the introduction of AS and A2 levels as well as the International Baccalaureate (IB).

He continued to coach team hockey, being a goalkeeper of note in his younger days, and also established the Oakham School Fly Fishing Society, introducing a number of Oakhamians to the sport at Rutland Water. Externally he was a Senior Examiner for History at Advanced level.

In concluding his testimonial on retirement from the School, Dr Mel Twigg wrote: ‘In spite of administrative demands, he always retained a vision of the pupil as an individual and certain questions typified his response to a new idea – ‘What will the pupils gain from this?’ and ‘Can we make it work and how can we do so?’ He

was an inspirational teacher of History and a wise, caring and much respected tutor - this was reflected in many wonderful comments received from former pupils and colleagues, typical amongst them including “He was one of the best teachers I have ever had, inspiring me to get to Cambridge to study history. And equally importantly, he always had the most marvellous twinkle in his eye”; “A great man and wonderful teacher. He set my heart on fire to explore the mysteries and wonders of history and not accept anything on face value alone”.

Martin had three children with his wife Anne: Kitty, and twins Julia and Tom, all Old Oakhamians. Kitty followed her father to Oxford (Keble, where she read Jurisprudence) and became a lawyer, but very sadly died last year. Julia read History at New Hall, Cambridge, and is currently Deputy Chief Constable of Lincolnshire, whilst Tom studied Business Administration at Bath University and now runs his own company.

On retirement from Oakham, Martin applied his mind to the challenge of database programming, which in fact became a very successful second career. His passion for trout fishing remained, where he would be accompanied at Eye Brook by his beloved labrador Fred. Martin also enjoyed extensive travels in the UK and abroad with Lesley, his partner of many years. Martin has five grandchildren, four of whom are currently studying at Oakham School. Written by Tom Debenham (’88) and Nigel Webb (Hon OO)

ARTHUR DALES (‘74)

MARTIN DEBENHAM BA, BLITT (HON OO)

GORDON CLEMENT FOWLER (’47)

4 April 1929 – 5 July 2024

At School, Gordon excelled at cross-country running. He was married to Gillian Fowler (who was asked by Anne Williams to coach the girls’ hockey team in the early days of co-education at Oakham).

As the eldest son of a farmer, Gordon was exempt from National Service and joined his father in the family business at Manor Farm, Manton. They also farmed at Church Farm, Edith Weston. He was a very keen player of badminton and tennis and served as chairman of Oakham Badminton Club. He was a member of the Leicester Magic Circle for many years. After retiring in 1984, Gordon moved to Guernsey, where he continued to play tennis and badminton – tennis until in his 80s. He also continued to perform magic tricks at children’s parties. Written by Peter Fowler (’76), Gordon’s son

GEOFFREY ILEY (’45)

24 September 1928 – March 2024

Geoffrey Norman Iley attended Oakham from 1939 to 1945, being moved around with the School as the war progressed. This resulted, in recent years, in the publication of A Schoolboy’s Wartime Letters: An Evacuee’s Life in WWII by Chronos Books, an extract from which was read out by Bernard Cribbins at the live London millennial celebrations and broadcast on national media.

Geoffrey had a meteoric career in the automotive industry (being instrumental in the rollout of the original Mini, among other things), then in the automotive/aeronautical glass and ophthalmic industries. He loved

fast and vintage cars, and travel, all his life. He was a regular donor to The Oakham School Foundation and visited the School several times for special alumni occasions and to give talks. His sons Adrian (‘76) and John (‘85) also attended the School; it was here that John met fellow pupil and wifeto-be, Clare Sardeson (‘85).

Written by Paula, Frances, Adrian (’76) and John Iley (’85) and Geoffrey’s stepsons Jeremy and Simon Parkes

made sure all his GSCE students knew the first 20 elements of the periodic table being able to recite H-HeLiBeBCNOFNeNaMgAlSiPSClArKCa. As well as running the Gardening Society and the OA, he also organised Community Service at Oakham School. He coordinated pupils visiting and offering companionship to elderly and isolated people in Oakham. Charles arranged a wonderful annual Christmas party for some 300 guests in the Barraclough Hall at School. He was also the chairman of Rutland Age Concern for six years.

After his retirement, Charles founded Rutland Reminders, a local charity offering therapy through singing for people with dementia. He tirelessly raised money, engaged with the Alzheimer’s Society and encouraged people to become volunteers, sponsors and honorary advisors. It was a very popular group for guests with dementia and their carers alike.

Charles’ love of the outdoors and adventurous spirit started at a young age when he and his brother David were sent from Newark

EDWARD TERENCE MARTIN BSC, DMS (HON OO)

Edward joined the School to teach Business Studies in 1978 and took over as Head of Department in 1985, serving as such until 1998 when he became Housemaster of School House until his retirement in 2001. A one-time member of the Royal Navy for two decades, eventually commanding a medical squadron, he graduated from Portsmouth Polytechnic and Bath University. Among other activities apart from his A-level teaching, he ran the Third Form course ‘Body Matters’; was the School’s Industrial Liaison Officer in the Careers Department, became Head of Sixth Form General Studies for a few years, ran the Young Farmers’ Club with a sty full of pigs on Far Side, chaired various debating societies (notably Vox) and took touring parties to the USSR and Georgia. Additionally, he played a prominent role in local politics, becoming leader of the Council during the fight to regain Rutland’s independence, as he did in Crosby in western Cumbria where he and his wife Jeanette set up home after their almost quarter of a century in Oakham.

Written by Brian Needham (Hon OO)

JOHNNY REYNOLDS

4 October 2004 – 9 December 2023

Born in 2004, Johnny hardly slept for the first two years of his life; once sleep was mastered, he was able to sleep anywhere and anytime while also being able to wake up, smiling and alert.

Johnny’s school career started at Laxton Junior, where he became a house captain and rugby captain in his last year. He went on to Stamford School, where, again, he was a junior house captain and played in the 1st XV every year. Covid hit in Johnny’s GCSE year with Johnny making a journey of maybe 20 steps from the house to the farm office every morning, carrying his briefcase. He often got caught in a traffic jam of labradors as he tried to exit the house.

Having witnessed his brother Fred’s (’19) journey through Oakham, Johnny set his heart on Oakham for Sixth Form. After a near miss with admissions and an

intervention by Glenn Gelderbloom, Johnny started his Oakham journey at Haywoods in September 2021.

Johnny had watched Fred play rugby throughout school and once Dr Rice and Iain ‘Dosser’ Smith became aware of Johnny’s arrival at Oakham there were some conversations between them on what position Johnny played.

‘Do you play prop?’

‘No sir hooker’

‘Can you play prop as we have some hookers already?’

‘I suppose so…..’

Before starting Oakham, Johnny was invited to a line-out clinic with Martin Johnson, where he seemed to do ok. Pre-season training followed; Johnny did mention he was nervous about joining Oakham but meeting 50 like-minded lads for a few days prior meant that he was already amongst friends when he started in Form 6. A phone call in the first week to say he was in the 1st XV for Saturday, made him even more proud. We have a wonderful photo from after that match, having a drink with him, just the most massive grin on his face despite being “absolutely knackered”.

Form 6 passed quickly, with Johnny being involved in the cadet force, hockey, and tennis in the Summer Term, playing some epic matches with his partner Will. They were never going to be the greatest, but their determination to win was huge. Playing Uppingham, they lost the first set 6-2 and were 0-4 down in the second when the boys lit their fuse. Uppingham may have won the first set, but John and Will went on to win the match by sheer force of character, and banter – a lesson to many of us.

The hustle and bustle of Haywoods was great for Johnny, where he lived alongside many sporty people. One of Johnny’s attributes was his deep caring for not only his mates but also everyone around him. There is a story told of him giving support and guidance to a Third Former, after only having been at school himself for three weeks!

Fred has been overhead, saying that if he could go back to School House and relive it

all again, he would. Johnny and his cohort, I think, had very much the same view.

The rugby season came around again, culminating in winning the U18 Schools Cup at Twickenham. Johnny scored Oakham’s first try with a 5-yard sprint of the back of a rolling maul. The win in March seemed to lift the whole school for the rest of the academic year. More tennis followed in the Summer Term, alongside the creation of the Oakham Gentleman’s XI. They had a few fixtures lined up, including ones against parents. A wonderful way for the boys to relieve some exam pressure.

The Leavers’ Ball marked the end of Upper School, and suddenly, Johnny became an OO all too quickly. He left his mark in his own quiet way and gathered many more friends along the way.

Johnny worked harvest for a farming company in Stamford before helping me on the farm for a few weeks. He then flew to Australia in early October to embark on another harvest. With harvest completed, Johnny was about to meet with some friends for Christmas in Melbourne when, tragically, he died in his sleep on 9 December 2023. Johnny is sorely missed by many, as witnessed by over 1,000 people at his Thanksgiving Service. It is difficult to put into words the impact that Johnny had on so many different people in his short life, but those who know, know.

The Johnny Reynolds Foundation has been set up in Johnny’s memory wwwjohnnyreynoldsfoundation.org. The aim of the Foundation is to enable children and young people to play sports who, without some funding, would not be able to. Thanks to Iain Simpson for planting the seed, and to all of the schools who have been so supportive.

Written by Charlie and Kate Reynolds, Johnny’s parents

MARY STEVENS (HON OO)

9 January 1927 – 5 September 2023

At a very moving and dignified service of thanksgiving in the School Chapel, on 3rd October 2023, members of the School, representatives of many generations of Old Oakhamians, local friends and family all gathered to pay tribute to a remarkable woman who had been involved with Oakham School for over 70 years. It was fitting that this celebration of her life took place in the Chapel where she so often attended services. Mary arrived at Oakham School in 1950, initially to care for the Headmaster’s children, who at the time was Talbot Griffith. Born in Sussex, Mary spent a short time in nursing, a role that prepared her well for her future at Oakham. Initially as Matron in Hodge Wing working under Dr Bradley (Doc Bradley), Mary was about to move to Malvern School when John Moore (JM) asked her to become his Matron in School House.

It was during this time that Mary met Michael (Junior House Tutor), which was to be the start of a long and lasting partnership at Oakham. Married for over 55 years, Mary was a steadfast support to Michael in his many roles, with Michael often attributing much of his success to her unwavering support, deep knowledge of Oakham, and her strong sense of duty to the School. As Michael once wrote, ‘Mary always wise in counsel, unflappable by nature and capable of seeing the most diplomatic way out of any crisis. She knows as much about Oakham as any of us –knows the Red Book by heart and can tell you about all the, day-to-day activities.’

After six years at Johnsons (Dayboy House), Mary and Michael moved to Chapmans in 1965 succeeding Geoffrey and Pat Liebert. It was here that Mary came into her own, taking on the many responsibilities of a Housemaster’s wife. She worked closely with the Matron, overseeing the health and wellbeing of the boys and often stepping in to fill the Matron’s role.

In addition to her pastoral duties, Mary managed domestic staff ensuring the cleanliness of the House, and overseeing the chef and cooks in the House, before the School transitioned to central dining in the Ashburton Hall. Above all, she took a personal interest in each boy and girl, offering a sympathetic ear, providing advice and often acting as a bridge between them and their Housemaster.

With the expansion at Oakham and the introduction of co-education, the School acquired Orchard Close (Buchanans) in 1975, converting it into a Seventh Form House for girls. After 10 happy years in Chapmans, Mary and Michael moved to Orchard Close, where Mary took on the role of Matron. Starting with just five girls, who fondly recalled how the House felt like home, even amidst the builders and conversions, before becoming the Seventh Form House for girls the following year.

Mary had a keen eye for detail, particularly when it came to the dress and appearance of the boys and girls in her House, for important occasions such as Sunday Chapel. She was a constant presence at House and School matches, plays and concerts always supporting the boys and girls.

Left: Mary meeting Queen Elizabeth II at the School’s Quatercentenary in 1984.

Below: Mary at the OO Dinner held at Lord’s in 2016.

When in 1979 Michael became Second Master, followed by roles as Acting Headmaster and Registrar, they moved to Burley Road in the heart of Oakham, where they continued to see the School go from strength to strength under a succession of Headmasters. The opening of Stevens House stands as a testament to the enduring legacy of both Michael and Mary’s contributions to Oakham School.

Mary was a devoted and proud mother to Jane and Jonathan, and a loving grandmother to her three grandchildren, who brought her immense joy. She was also well known in the local community, particularly for her work with the local NSPCC committee. Mary had a passion for gardening, entertaining friends and following various sports. A woman of routine, shaped by her school life, she held high standards, valued punctuality and was known for her grace, style and warmhearted nature.

Mary regularly attended OO events and enjoyed reminiscing about her days at Oakham and remembering the achievements of many Old Oakhamians. She was delighted that one of the last events she was invited to attend was the OO Dinner held in the Long Room at Lord’s, being driven from Oakham to London with BAF Smith and two other OOs. In her later years, Mary greatly appreciated the friendship and support of her many friends and Old Oakhamians who continued to visit her. She remained deeply interested in the lives of others, their families and their stories.

Written by Mary’s son, Jonathan Stevens (’79)

BRENDAN JOSEPH WIGNALL

(HON OO 1984-87)

25 September 1961 – 26 January 2024

Brendan was educated at Preston Grammar School and Preston College, and then at York, Leeds and Leicester Universities. He made his mark at Oakham not only in the English Department, where his knowledge of the latest information regarding the intricacies of GCSE trends in English teaching was invaluable but also as a philosopher who introduced Philosophy as an extra A-level for some of the School’s brightest pupils. He took over the running of the English Society, and organised much of the School’s debating, taking teams through to various notable successes in competitions outside the School. He left Oakham for a similar English teaching post at Christ’s Hospital at Horsham, then moved to be Head of English at Denstone and eventually was appointed Headmaster of Ellesmere in 1996, where he remained until his death from cancer, aged 63, on 26th January 2024. He was Chair of the Trustees of North West Academies, founding Chair of Governors of St Martin’s Academy and Chair of CReSTeD (Council for the Registration of Schools Teaching Dyslexic Pupils). He married Anne and they had two children, Catherine and Hugh.

Written by Brian Needham (Hon OO)

DAVINA WRIGHT (NÉE WELFORD) (’83)

5 April 1967 – 6 August 2024 Davina, elder sister of Marcus and Becky, was born on 5th April 1967 in the cottage hospital, Great Torrington, Devon. For the first two and a half years of her life we lived in Shebbear not far from Bude. She always loved that part of England and spent many holiday times in Holsworthy staying with her grandma Kitty. She even learnt to swim in the sea pool in Bude. After our move to Oakham in 1969, in due course Davina attended primary school and there met her lifelong friend Jackie Stimson, a friendship that has continued even after Jackie moved to Australia. Following primary school, she attended Oakham School and made another enduring friend in Emma Traylen. These two together were mischievous and chatterboxes. For one year I had to try and teach them mathematics; it was a battle, and I will now admit they won! Davina was always ready to join in School activities notably rifle shooting where she went to Bisley and athletics where her shot-put skill won her county and East Midlands honours.

Davina always loved working with younger children and after leaving School went on to qualify as an NNEB. When an opening occurred at Brooke Priory School she was appointed and for the next 30 years taught in the nursery and reception classes at Brooke. It was here that her artistic skills thrived and her classroom was full of design and colour. It was a sad day for her when she had to take early retirement on health grounds. However, she took the opportunity to spend a great deal of time in her sewing room and made numerous beautiful items for family and friends.

There were a few boyfriends but from the moment she met Ian, she knew this was the one. Very quickly they became devoted to each other. Unfortunately, it was around this time that Davina was diagnosed with Wegener’s disease and was seriously ill. Once Davina had fully recovered, they got married in Oakham School Chapel and it was a very happy occasion on a beautiful day. A trait that runs through the female side of the family is stubbornness and resilience that is something that gave Davina the strength to overcome the many trials that illness thrust upon her. Considering her problems she always had time for others who needed support. She was in regular contact with Alex Standen and other friends who were also long-term illness sufferers and they formed a close bond. Her circle of acquaintances was comprehensive and she was always ready to greet people with her lovely smile. Some of those friends came from the years we spent helping at a Jewish Summer School. A couple from that time, who now live in Canada, even called their daughter Davina and they have arranged for a tree to be planted in Israel in memory of Davina. Conversation was something that she loved and we can all bear witness to her ability to talk!

A side effect of her treatment meant she could not have children. Determined as ever that this did not hold her and Ian back, they went through the drawn-out process and adopted Jack. This made their family whole and made Davina very happy. Family was very important to Davina and she enjoyed talking to them. She was especially close to Jenny, her Mum, and they spoke almost daily right up to the day that she passed.

Written by Brian Welford (Hon OO), Davina’s

father

Lives Remembered

MICHAEL HOLLAND (’58)

Passed away after a short illness on 30th May 2022. His children and grandchildren enjoyed spending time picking him out in the 1957 Deanscroft Photo above.

THE JOHNNY REYNOLDS MEMORIAL MATCH

On Saturday 1st June 2024, family, friends, and teammates gathered at Oundle Rugby Football Club to celebrate the life of Johnny Reynolds (’23), who sadly passed away in December 2023.

The Johnny Reynolds Memorial match was a day filled with music, food, and fantastic rugby action in honour of everything that Johnny loved.

The day started with a 20-minute touch rugby game, meaning that everyone who wanted to get involved could! Followed by the main event of Johnny’s Globetrotters and Fred’s Barbarians which involved multiple OOs and staff members.

FREDDIE GROOME ENTERPRISE SCHEME

Freddie’s (’13) legacy continues in the form of a business activity for Form 6 Pupils, generously supported by Freddie’s parents and classmates. The Freddie Groome Enterprise Scheme is currently in its third year and constantly growing. Pupils undertaking the activity can develop a product, receiving a small initial investment and mentoring before selling their products on a dedicated market day during the Summer Term.

This year, four groups battled it out for the win, selling grip socks, personalised bracelets, personalised t-shirts, or stationery. On a particularly wet day, the Groome family got the chance to see the pupils in action selling their products to their fellow pupils. The Groome family was impressed with the pupils’ selling skills, ambitions, and ideas behind the products, with the grip sock group coming out on top.

THANK YOU FOR READING THE OLD OAKHAMIAN MAGAZINE

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