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HAVING COURAGE AFTER ABUSE

FABULOUS MAGAZINE

CHEAPER TO KEEP HER WHILE REAL MEN WAIT

WHIP MY HAIR FASHIONS

BISHOP T.D. JAKES CALLS FOR HELP

TERRIBLE TORNADOS

CHANGE HAS COME

Montage TALKS

MAGAZINE TABLE OF CONTENTS Publisher’s page

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LETTERS TO THE EDITOR

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Newsbreak: when a man says no • mentoring the minds of young men • lost in the storm

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black expo

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why god me?

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caffiene and the brain

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cover story: before columbus / barack obama

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tuskegee airmen

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the love cafe

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children’s fashion show

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hair

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montagé man

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help is on the way: t.d. jakes

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who’s really rolling the dice

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a journey of faith: minerva a. warner

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the fairytale ended

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dove: the tbn network

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a babies life after abuse

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a successful father figure

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collaborating cast

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The magazine of Fashion, Arts, Entertainment, Gospel, Health, Military/News, Relationships and Life After abuse.

Carolyn herring-Moore Founder and Editor-In-Chief

Wendy Johnson Chief Executive Director Events/Gospel Editor

Traverro Harden Relationships Carolyn Moore Locks Lance Robinson Passion for Fashion Paradise Moore Sports Editor Wendy Johnson Montage Man Editor Lonnie Ford Outside Editor

Raja Abdulrahim Contributing Writer C.L. McQueen Contributing Writer

_____________________________ Marketing Department Lance Robinson Executive Marketing Director Wendy Johnson Executive Marketing Assistant Lance Robinson Michael Chester Sophia, Sandhills Modeling Agency Wendy Johnson Photography Rod Sterling Graphic Design

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took a journey to St. Mary’s, GA for a fundraiser, and while there I enjoyed the smell of the ocean, the breeze that wisped through my hair, and the sunshine that we sometimes take for granted. When I was headed back home to Fayetteville, North Carolina, I was told a tornado tore through the city and killed 5 people. I saw pictures of exploded and torn down buildings, and all I could do it pray. I prayed for the safety of not only my family, but all families because the tornado hit many cities and states. The electricity was off, and I did not find out until hours later that my family was ok. I say all that to say that we need to be thankful and appreciative of all God has given us and done for us. There is no time in life to be selfish and ignorant to the fact that He brought us this far and He has not to leave us. I thank the Lord for loving me.

In this issue of the magazine, the focus is to help you to appreciate that it is wonderful to be in the land of the living and to be a part of the historical moment of time. I am proud to say that I was on the team of Change, the 2008 election of Barrack Obama. America has seen the first African American president of the United States, an unthinkable thing after slavery and the

strong civil rights movement.

In this issue of Oasis Montage’ Magazine, we are going to take you on an extraordinary journey into our nation’s history of the Egyptian days, slavery, the civil rights movement and today’s triumph in history. We as a nation have made a historical mark in time; we elected the first African American president, Barrack Obama. You will also be entertained with theatrical stage performances of Cheaper to Keeper, and the play, Women Shoptalk while Real Men Wait. The children’s “Whip my hair,” fashion show included a lot of colorful clothes and creative hairstyles. You will be informed about organizations that are there for our children in your community, and educational opportunities they offer. The Life after Abuse stories are heart wrenching yet inspirational stories of triumph. The gospel section shares Bishop T.D. Jakes and the use of technology in our churches.

When I was 4 years old, the words in history I remember most was ones of our wonderful leader Martin Luther King, Jr., Martin left us all with a dream that came true, “Free at last, free at last, and thank God almighty, we are free at last.”

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even wanted to go into the military. Wendy did go into the military, she even received her P.I. license, she didn’t become a police officer but she does finally get her chance at acting and soon writing. Wendy would like to write and or co-write a production one day.

Wendy loves children and she has 3 of her own. She wants them to have the best education possible and to enjoy their childhood. Wendy says “all I can do is train up a child the way that they should go, they might stray as they reach adulthood but because of what’s instilled in them from youth, they can’t fight what’s inside of them, they will come back eventually.”

WEnDy JOhnSOn

Meet the C.O.O of Oasis Montage’ Magazine, Wendy Sheppard Johnson. Wendy grew up on the north and south side of Richmond, VA. Wendy is the daughter of Thelma Thompson and Kenneth L. Sheppard who currently reside in Richmond. Wendy now lives in North Carolina and is making a new start in her life.

Wendy is not only a partner with Oasis Montage’ Magazine but she is starting her acting career with the play Shoptalk While Real Men Wait. There were lots of things that caught Wendy’s interest when it came to finding a career. She wanted to become a police officer or private investigator, a possible actress and

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Hello oasis,

I am writing to let you know that I was very intrigued by the title, “Little boy liked, but not loved,” The story was very eye catching and interesting. It was a good story and I was very surprised to hear the life of Fred Hammond being so sad. It was a very good article. The whole magazine looks great and you all keep up the good job.”

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Dear eDitor, the magazine is fantastic and the stories are great. it is great to see women own a wonderful business. i look forward to your next issue.

Kiara Jasper, Fayetteville, NC

Hey WenDy anD Carolyn, This is a great thing. I’m loving it.This is the first time I have seen such a professional beautiful magazine in Fayetteville.

It is a great asset to the city, they really needed it. I wish the magazine much success. I hope to be in one of the issues soon as the number one D.J. and Radio Host. I loved the story on Shemar in your first issue.

Vic Jackson 106.9 Dear oasis Montage’ Your magazine is very good and professional looking. It looks like you have a whole corporation and a lot of staff doing a great job. I enjoyed the articles about the old couples love for one another. That was good to see the diversity in the magazine.

You guys have done a Great job..

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to tHe eDitor, stepHanie BroWn, I just want you to know the Shaniya Davis story really touched my heart. That was such a sad story, but you did a great job covering it. I hope the guy rots in jail for what he did to that little girl. This is such a horrible world.

rachael Cox Raleigh, NC

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WHEN MAN SAYS NO, JESUS CAN STILL SAY YES

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he spirit was high and there was joy in the air. Performers came from all over on April 16, 2011 to the Celebration of a great Psalmist and Woman of God, Mrs. Willie Mae Glover. The event was a festival in St. Mary’s, Georgia at the park. The festival included acts of singing gospel songs, praise dancers, dance students, and mime ministries. It was a glorious day until man said, “There will be no sound until he got paid.”

After 20 minutes, micas started clearing the stage, and singers could no longer be heard. Rodney Williams, a promoter, grabbed the microphone and said, “Will everyone please come closer.” As the people started coming forward, Pastor Larry Curry of New Life Tabernacle Praise and Deliverance Church, started asking for donations. Soon the money started pouring in, and the sound man got paid. That was a prime example of, “When man says no, Jesus can still say yes.”

Desmond Walker of New Community Movement received a grand applause for the flipping routine they performed. Groups that came from another state included Gospel singer, Lowanda Davis and she and her background singers truly praised Him. This story is a prime example of When Jesus says no Jesus can still say yes.

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MENTORING THE MINDS Of YOUNG MEN

ur young men today are more interested in rap beats, marijuana, and fast money. Spending time in jail at an early age is a common denominator for our young men.

Their minds are so distorted by the nice cars and the big dollar that they do not desire to get an education. The streets have messed up their minds so bad that they decide to sling drugs for the fast dollar than to spend time in a classroom with a book. According to Michelle Alexander, a law professor at Ohio State says, “More African American men are in prison or jail, on probation or parole than were enslaved in 1850, before the Civil War began,” Alexander author of 1 year-old bestseller, The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness. It is the statistical reports of our young men being incarcerated that motivates organizations like the Alpha phi Alpha’s to mentor the minds of our young men.

In February, 2011, the Alpha’s hosted their annual conference at the

Holiday Inn Bordeaux in Fayetteville, NC. The chapter included the old and the young men in the district areas. Guest speakers such as the President of NAACP spoke, along with officials that seek change in their communities. The conference President, Dennis Bratton is all about empowering the children. On March 5, 2011, The Alphas sponsored a children’s fashion show, a fundraiser for child abuse. Bro Oliver the interim President accepted an appreciation certificate in the absence of Bro Bratton who is overseas with the military.

Every year as a part of being strong leaders in the community, the Alpha Phi Alpha Inc., Epsilon Rho Lambda Chapter sponsor college trips to Tuskegee University, Atlanta and Savannah. Their objective is to let youth see historical sites of Black History and choices of educational institutions. Many children have been inspired by the journeys the Alpha’s have taken them on. This is one way the fraternity has mentored minds of young men.

Children that have attended the college trip have written letters of appreciation to the fraternity: Dear: Mr. Mitch Colvin My name is Summer Diamond Herring, and I attend Grays Creek High School. I am 16 years old and a junior. I am very active in school and I am in the JROTC program. I join and get involved in different clubs as part of my school activity. I am writing to thank you for the journey to “Tuskegee State University College.” This trip made me think twice about going to college and it was a wake-up call for me to get the exposure. Until I took this trip, I was never going to attend on going to college. I know that college isn’t for everyone, but this college trip was an experience that gave me an opportunity to see, “I can be what you want to be.” It is going to take a lot of hard work, but I

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wnewsbreaknewsbreaknewsbreaknew am going to take that risk when I graduate next year I now intend to go to college. College will give me tips on becoming a Doctor in the Navy. Now that I have taken that journey to Tuskegee State University, I got a chance to see all that they do and I was very grateful. My plan is to graduate from high school, attend a community college for a few years and learn about becoming the best Navy Doctor in the world. With this help, I will be guided in fulfilling my dreams come true. This trip has taught me a valid lesson of staying in school and becoming wiser and smarter in the decisions I need to make in my everyday life. No one is always going to be there to hold my hand, I need to know things on my own, and see things for myself. I would love to go on the Savannah trip and continue on seeing different colleges before I step out into the real world.

I want to thank you for showing me and teaching me the history of the history of Martin Luther King and Rosa Parks. You taught and showed all of us that went on this trip the struggles they went through. It was such a struggle as they stood up and fought for what they believed in, freedom, peace, rights, and equality.

This trip was truly amazing, and I will never forget it. This trip has made a significant impact on my life. I will tell everyone about it and tell them to take a journey to Tuskegee in Alabama. So I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Summer Diamond Herring Dear Brothers of the Alphas, My name is Gregory Quran Herring and I attend Grays Creek Middle school. I’m in the 8th grade and I will soon attend high school next year at Grays Creek High school. I’m a very talented person; I play basketball, dance, sing, and play the drums. I attend Simon Temple A.M.E. Zion Church and I enjoy my life as a Christian while I’m still living.

Tuskegee University inspired me to fulfill my dreams. While touring Tuskegee University I have learned much about its history. I enjoy history about my people who have sacrificed everything for us such as Martin Luther King and Rosa Parks. As I went to the Rosa Parks museum I was excited to learn the history about Rosa Parks, what she did to stop segregation. Because of her determination for change, she went through a lot make history. I also enjoyed going to the Dexter Avenue King Memorial Baptist Church. I got to see where Martin Luther King preached, and I got to see his office. I was blessed when I was given an opportunity to live to and see something so amazing like this. Tuskegee was a wakeup call because I never planned going on this trip to Alabama, but I am truly blessed that I got the opportu-

nity to go on this trip. This trip has made me think about going into the Navy. This experience has taught me a lesson on staying in school and doing the right thing every day. My Dad told me, “Son I am not always going to be there to walk you through everything so you may have to do things on your own.” My dad was beaten to death by police when I was 8 years old. I will always value the things he taught me.

I am very grateful that Bro Leon gave me an opportunity by showing me the history of blacks likes Marten Luther king and Rosa Park.

I just want to thank you; you have shown me the struggle of what they went through and how they never stopped fighting what they believed in. So I will never forget it and I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.

Gregory Herring Dear: Dr. Olive L. Hodge, Jar My name is Blessing Unique Lahombreya Jade Moore. I am a 15 yr old sophomore that attends Grays Creek High School, Hope Mills, NC. I like to experience different things, and finding other opportunities. I would like to thank you for allowing me to attend the trip we took to Alabama. I enjoyed myself, and I also enjoyed Tuskegee University. I enjoyed the college so much I’ve decided that Tuskegee is where I want to go. I really did like there ROTC program. For my whole entire high school career, I was a student in ROTC. The first year was in the Army. The second year I was in the Navy ROTC. When I go to Tuskegee University, I will join the Air Force ROTC Program. I am also a cheerleader in high school. I would like to join the cheerleading team at Tuskegee University. The next activity I would head for is the Essence Dance Team. I love to dance. My mom is the director of the children’s praise dance team at my church. The church we attend is Simon temple. At Simon temple, I am an Acolyte and a part of The Daughters of Excellence Ministry. I love being active when it comes to school and church which is why I would be great for Tuskegee University.

At Tuskegee, we also learned about the history at Tuskegee, and the history of Martin Luther King. It was amazing to stand in the office that Martin, Luther, King once stood. I would like to thank you for that opportunity. It is wonderful that the Alpha’s are helping prepare youth for college. I am looking forward to attending the trip to Atlanta. I look forward to the many other opportunities Atlanta may offer for better education.

I thank you and God, Blessona U. Moore

LOST IN THE STORM

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he evening hour has come and it is time for bed so you prepare yourself for your next day of work. the morning is here, it is beautiful and the sun is shining as if nothing happened the night before. like any other day, you drive to the corner store to get your coffee before you go to work. you get to your job and discover that everything has been destroyed because of the tornado that ripped through the town the night before. everything was lost in the storm.

Many homes and businesses were lost and the victims of the storm were devastated. Barbershops, restaurants and homes were gone. some schools were badly dam-

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aged and students had to be reassigned to other schools which were already overcrowded. it was very sad to hear of the homes that were lost. losing your business is one thing but to lose the place where you lay your head is terrible. the cleanup has begun and the people watched as their homes and dreams were piled up in the rubble from the bull dozers. there was a lot of damage from the storm unlike any other. several counties in the state were hit and many lives were turned upside down. raleigh road, yadkin road and parts of Bragg Blvd., in Fayettevile, nC was one of the hardest hit areas from the storm.

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he Black Expo is a national event that focuses on the local community and businesses. They allow business professionals to network their African American business. The Associate Vice President of Regional Marketing Mr. Lou Yarborough provides help and provide opportunities for business owners in an effort to help them market. New partner of Oasis Montage’ Magazine, Rodney Williams, attended this event and networked with several business professionals. The event held in Florence, NC featured national artist, Tamella and Willie Brown. The two of them enhanced the event with their love and support.

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fter a year of paralysis, numbness, blindness, memory loss and also diagnosed with fibromyalgia, I am feeling heaven bound.

God revealed my illness and gave me a remedy. Although my illness has no cure, I am happy that I now look and feel healthy. When I decided to let God have my illness, my healing began.

At first, I just wanted to die. I rebelled and refused to take the 5 different medications and the daily injections. I then I suffered a major relapse of paralysis and blindness. I found my husband taking care of me too early in life and I said to myself, “I am too young to die and I do not want to live leaving my family behind.” I decided to stop being angry after gaining 20 pounds. I decided to research this illness after being hospitalized. The hospital treated me with 10,000 mg of steroids for 7 days.

I am not the only person that suffers with the illness of Multiple Sclerosis. I just happened to decide to stop feeling sorry for myself. I remember asking God, “Why me? Have I not been through enough?”

When He answered, I smiled gratefully. I then decided to research this disease, this illness, Multiple sclerosis (or MS). This is what I found out on the internet site: http://www.nationalmssociety.org/aboutmultiple-sclerosis/what-we-know-about-ms/what-is-ms/index.aspx Multiple Sclerosis is a chronic, often disabling disease that attacks the central nervous system (CNS), which is made up of the brain, spinal cord, and optic nerves. Symptoms may be mild, such as numbness in the limbs, or severe, such as paralysis or loss of vision. The progress, severity, and specific symptoms of MS are unpredictable and vary from one person to another. Today, new treatments and advances in research are giving new hope to people affected by the disease.

The Four Courses of MS People with MS can typically experience one of four disease courses, each of which might be mild, moderate, or severe.

• Relapsing-Remitting MS People with this type of MS experience clearly defined attacks of worsening neurologic function. These attacks—which are called relapses, flare-ups, or exacerbations —are followed by partial or complete recovery periods (remissions), during which no disease progression occurs. Approximately 85% of people are initially diagnosed with relapsing-remitting MS.

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• Primary-Progressive MS This disease course is characterized by slowly worsening neurologic function from the beginning—with no distinct relapses or remissions.

The rate of progression may vary over time, with occasional plateaus and temporary minor improvements. Approximately 10% of people are diagnosed with primary-progressive MS. • Secondary-Progressive MS Following an initial period of relapsing-remitting MS, many people develop a secondary-progressive disease course in which the disease worsens more steadily, with or without occasional flare-ups, minor recoveries (remissions), or plateaus. Before the disease-modifying medications became available, approximately 50% of people with relapsing-remitting MS developed this form of the disease within 10 years. Long-term data are not yet available to determine if treatment significantly delays this transition.

• Progressive-Relapsing MS In this relatively rare course of MS (5%), people experience steadily worsening disease from the beginning, but with clear attacks of worsening neurologic function along the way. They may or may not experience some recovery following these relapses, but the disease continues to progress without remissions.

Since no two people have exactly the same experience of MS, the disease course may look very different from one person to another.

And, it may not always be clear to the physician—at least right away— which course a person is experiencing.

I can honestly say that I have a new me. I do not take life for granted or my relationship with God. I seek to, “Let your light so shine before men that they may see my good works and glorify Him in heaven. Matt 5:16.”

I treat people the way I want to be treated, not how they treat me. So when you ask, “Why God?” The answer is, if you have never been through anything and have not needed God for anything, you would not know that your walk today, is a testimony for others tomorrow.”

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Caffeine & the Brain

By Curtis L. McQueen

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Consider your Childs brain on caffeine. Sure it’s scientifically proven that caffeine temporarily increases alertness, clarity of thought, comprehension, memory, reflexes, and even the rate of learning.

The negative effects of using caffeine in extreme cases are: strain on the liver and pancreas. Nervous system, heart palpitations, diarrhea, and if you’re prone to ulcers caffeine can make your situation worse.

You can become comparable to those of drugs and alcohol. Fatigue, headaches, lethargy, muscles pain, and nausea, will sometimes cause stiffness and flu-like symptoms.

Adults get caffeine from coffee, tea, over-the-counter pain killers, prescription drugs, even appetite suppressants and cold remedies. On the other hand, children get as much caffeine from chocolate, and soft drinks.

This information is important and it benefits you and your children.

You can become comparable to those of drugs and alcohol. Fatigue, headaches, lethargy, muscles pain, and nausea, will sometimes cause stiffness and flu-like symptoms.

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any are mistaken about caffeine & the brain. Caffeine doesn’t supply extra energy to keep you awake, as some people think. The experience is like putting your hands in cold water and put them in hot water, the senses are fooled into thinking the hands aren’t being burned. Caffeine mimics Adenosine, to fool your brain into thinking its not tired.

The chemical adenosine hinders the chemicals that stimulate the brain. When a tired brain that wants to slow down, releases and dispatches adenosine to special cells. This is done to “plug up” your receptor cells to prevent the brain form receiving the signal to slow down. This can cause the brain to keep building up stimulants.

When the brain figures out its being fooled, it increases the number of receptor cells to accommodate both caffeine & adenosine. Hence, caffeine can’t keep you awake unless you increase caffeine intake to “plug up” the new receptors cells.

Your brain has actually transmogrified itself to runoff caffeine. Take away the caffeine and your brain has too many receptor cells to function properly. Your brain begins to reduce the number of receptor cells to function that could approximately take two weeks.

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Before Columbus... the African Presence in America

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he history of Africans in America far pre-dates the period of the Transatlantic Slave Trade. In fact, Africans are indigenous to America. Webster’s dictionary defines indigenous as “having originated in and being produced, living, or occurring naturally in a particular region or environment.” As early as 1160 B.C.E., the African presence in America exhibited itself in the early civilization of the Olmecs. From royal garb to rituals and the building of pyramids and large stone carvings reminiscent of Egypt, Africans of the Olmec civilization brought their knowledge with them and created a civilization within early American history. Although much more is to be learned about their early presence, scientific evidence proves the early arrival of Africans to America before Christopher Columbus or African enslavement in the early colonies.

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Contributions to the Capital City Through revisionism, the civilizations of Greece and Rome have been given the credit of having significantly influenced the establishment of American civilization. However, looking through a clear and accurate historical lens, ancient Egypt (formerly known as Kemet before being renamed by the Greeks), gave birth to modern medicine, mathematics, astronomy, architecture, philosophy, and even commerce to the world and more specifically, America. A careful look at the U.S. dollar bill reveals Africa’s influence on America through the use of such symbols as the pyramid, the eye of Horus, and the eagle- all symbols derived from ancient Kemet. Washington, D.C. can be considered a monument to classical Egyptian or Kemetic civilization. Unbeknownst to many who travel to the nation’s capital city which houses America’s political treasures and history, much of the fascinated site-seeing structures are derived from Egypt from its larger than life statues, architecture, and extensive libraries which were formally known as “temples” in ancient Kemet. The Washington Monument, officially dedicated in 1885, was originally built to honor the first president of the United States of America, George Washington. The Monument’s structure is known as an obelisk, or large stone column, a structure originally designed and found in Egypt. These African structures were built to memorialize or honor noble and famous persons and their major life achievements. One such notable obelisk in Egypt is the Temple of Karnak. In similar replicating fashion, the famous seated structure of Ramses II in Egypt was the inspiration for the larger than life seated structure of Abraham Lincoln located in the Lincoln Memorial. The Library of Congress, noted as the largest library in the world, is also reminiscent of early Egyptian culture. Customary to ancient Kemites, large depositories for books and study (today called libraries from the Greek term libros) were called “temples.” In many temples, civilizations such as Greece studied and gained the knowledge of philosophy, mathematics, astronomy, and medicine.

African Contributions to Science in America Medical discoveries of the Edwin Smith Papyrus, mathematical formulas such as phi, astronomy, agriculture, and architecture can all find its origins in ancient Africa. Hippocrates has long been regarded as “The Father of Medicine,” throughout much of American history. However, research shows that discoveries and breakthroughs in medicine and surgery came long before the study of the body by the Greeks. In ancient Egypt, Imhotep was regarded as the first and chief physician. It is believed that Hippocrates himself studied from the scrolls of Imhotep and earlier African doctors. Ancient Egyptian scrolls show treatments for various illnesses, uses modern medical terms, and worked with plants and herbs which modern

medicine still use today. Ushering in the African spirit of healing in early 1900s was the discovery of “banked blood” by African-American physician and surgeon, Dr. Charles Richard Drew. Dr. Drew discovered a way to preserve blood in large quantities by separating the red blood cells from plasma and storing them separately in refrigerated units. This was a medical breakthrough because plasma could be given to anyone regardless of blood type. The invention of blood banks by Dr. Drew allowed for many lives to be saved during World War II and continues to save lives today with his revolutionary discovery.

Establishing the first non-segregated hospital in America, Dr. Daniel Hale Williams, an African-American cardiologist and surgeon opened Provident Hospital in 1891. Just two years later in 1893, Dr. Williams performed the first successful open heart surgery in the United States of America. Before Dr. Williams, no other surgeon in America had successfully opened the heart without causing major infection and death to the patient. Dr. Williams became so known for his procedures in medical sanitizing that many of his procedures set the standards for future successes in medical care throughout the United States.

Receiving the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2008, Dr. Ben Carson, Sr., an African-American neurosurgeon, is recognized as the first surgeon to separate twins conjoined at the head and both patients survive. Dr. Carson is a notable author, public speaker, and philanthropist. He still operates as the Director of Pediatric Neurosurgery at John Hopkins Hospital.

African Contributions to Education in America Reminiscent of the learning temples and universities in ancient Egypt, African-Americans have contributed to the building of educational institutions within America. There are currently 105 noted historically black colleges and universities in the United States of America. Stemming from the lack of access to post-secondary educational institutions due to racism, historically black colleges and universities also known as “HBCUs” grew in number specifically after the Plessy vs. Ferguson ruling by the United States Supreme Court which deemed that educational institutions could be separate but equal. Some of the first post-secondary institutions that were founded in order to open access to post-secondary education for African-Americans were Oberlin College, Cheyney State College, Lincoln University, Wilberforce University, Berea College, Fisk University, Howard Theological Seminary (now Howard University), Edwards Waters College, and Talledega College. Most importantly, utilizing the U.S. government’s Morrill Land Grant Act, Alcorn Agricultural and Mechanical College became the first

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post-secondary institution founded by this Act with the mission of educating African-Americans specifically.

Like the temples of higher learning and enlightenment in ancient Egypt, historically black colleges and universities have yielded many of America’s most influential African Americans in the fields of science, politics, and education. Co-founder of the Association for the Study of African American Life and History, founder of Black History Week, and author of The Mis-education of the Negro , a prolific work criticizing the effects of American public school education on the African mind, Carter G. Woodson was educated at Berea College. Educated at Morehouse University as well North Carolina Central’s School of Law, Maynard Jackson became the first African-American mayor of Atlanta, Georgia and guided this metropolis through tremendous progress and restructuring during his term. Succeeded by another influential and successful AfricanAmerican in the arena of politics and public service, Andrew Young became the second African-American mayor to the city of Atlanta now known as “Chocolate City”. Andrew Young served as an honorable member of Congress from 1973-1977 and held the torch as the 14th United States Ambassador to the United Nations under United States President Jimmie Carter from 1977-1979.

Other African-American notables receiving enlightenment from HBCUs are Booker T. Washington (Hampton University), W.E.B. DuBois (Fisk University), Ida B. Wells (Rust College), Oprah Winfrey (Tennessee State University), Barbara Jordan (Texas Southern University), Nikki Giovanni (Fisk University), Alex Haley (Alcorn University), Anthony Browder (Howard University), Dr. Frances Cress Welsing (Howard University College of Medicine) and Martin Luther King, Jr. (Morehouse University).

Aside from establishing and enhancing historically African postsecondary institutions of higher learning, African-Americans have also contributed to improving the overall education of AfricanAmericans in low-income areas where regular public schools have failed. Marva Collins, regarded as an education reformer, built the Westside Preparatory School in 1975 in an inner-city neighborhood

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in Chicago, Illinois. Establishing the school with her own funds, Ms. Collins was able to successfully educate and bring out the best academically in students who were not achieving in local public schools as well as students who had been labeled as “mentally retarded” or “learning disabled.” Graduates from the Westside Preparatory School have gone on to professional careers in many fields to include education, medicine, and law.

Following in the footsteps of educational trailblazers is Geoffrey Canada, an education reformer who found a way to pick up and then accelerate the academic life of students living in impoverished Harlem, New York through the Harlem’s Children Zone. Doing what the local public school system could not do and what many teachers of the area thought was impossible, Mr. Canada successfully raised the achievement rates among students within one of the worst considered 24-block areas of Harlem, New York. With its inception in 1990 as a pilot program, the Harlem Children’s Zone Project has expanded into a project that targets whole families with a holistic approach. The project places children through its charter schools while assisting local public school by providing in-school tutors as well as after-school programs. With his radical views, Canada is helping to transform education in his community as well as nationwide. Recognizing the success of the Harlem Children’s Zone Project, United States of American President Barack Obama has plans to duplicate Canada’s project across the country.

African Contributions to Philosophy and Leadership in America Some of the world’s highly recognized, studied, and quoted thinkers and leaders have come from the African Diaspora (the mass migration away from the ancestral land of Africa). In his book Stolen Legacy, George James demonstrated the apparent borrowing of Egyptian philosophical ideas by the Greeks who later passed it on to the Romans. The ability of Africans to not only influence, but control and run government or political systems is a historical fact. African-Americans have been agents of social, political, and economic

change for thousands of years- predating Christopher Columbus’ arrival in the Americas.

Though African-American labor had helped to create and build the successful capitalistic system of the United States of America ,African-Americans after the Civil War were restricted legally and illegally from participating in the economic, political, and social institutions of America even after the abolition of legal slavery. Philosophers and activists emerged during this time that would later set the foundation for a younger generation of politicians and community leaders.

In the early 1900s, an ideology called Pan-Africanism became widely adopted by many in the African-American community looking for a way to combat racial injustice. Two prominent African-Americans to adamantly advocate this ideology were W.E. B. DuBois and Marcus Mosiah Garvey, Jr. Pan-Africanism, like Black Nationalism, held that African people everywhere should unite and internally develop their own community through self-determination. With Garvey, it was not enough that Africans from the Diaspora unite into separate but equal communities with the United States of America. Garvey not only held the belief that Africans of the Diaspora should come together and leave the lands from which they were brought as captives and return to Africa but he also strategically put into place plans for developing a country and government apart from Europe and the United States. To this end, Garvey along with supporters founded the Universal Negro Improvement Association and African Communities League in 1914.

This organization sought to obtain land, economic resources, and vessels to transport Africans worldwide to their new country where they could determine their laws, government, education, economic, and other social institutions. Garveyism swept across America and caught the attention of the Federal Bureau of Investigation’s counter-intelligence program. Using infiltration, as they did with many subsequent African-American political leaders gaining momentum and a large following of supporters, the United States was able to eventually help cause internal and external conflict for Garvey. Although Garvey’s mission of seeing a separate nation for Africans of the Diaspora was not realized during his lifetime, his work towards helping to forge a strong identity and ideology built on pride and self-determination was recognized by the League of Nations (which would later become the United Nations) and Garvey was able to set up a solid political following in Jamaica- which is still relevant today.

Succeeding Garvey with the goal of promoting Black Nationalism was El-Hajj Malik El-Shabazz better known as Malcolm X. A former member of the Nation of Islam under the Honorable Elijah Muhammad, Malcolm X parted from the Nation after returning from a holy pilgrimage to the city of Mecca in Egypt. Malcolm X became a prolific leader in more than just the advocating of African-American civil rights but for human rights worldwide as well. Malcolm X once stated, “I believe in human rights for everyone and no one of us is qualified to judge each other and that none of us should therefore have that authority.” Though many would paint the picture that Malcolm X and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. did not agree for the better part of their activist lives, their ideology of the promotion of human rights united them. It would be both these leaders who would become the spokespersons for human rights on an international basis although their primary stage of struggle was for that of their own AfricanAmerican communities within America. Attending the conference for the Organization of African Unity in 1964 in Cairo, Egypt, Malcolm X informed all via a poignant memorandum that, “Our problem is your problem. It is not just a Negro problem, nor an American problem. This is a world problem, a problem for humanity. It is not a problem of civil rights; it is a problem of human rights.”

Strategically and successfully, the dream of many African-American activists for civil and human rights came to fruition in the form of the first formally recognized African-American President of the United States of America, Barack Hussein Obama. Assuming office in January 2009, President Obama has held strong positions on creating jobs and decreasing joblessness for Americans, stimulating the U.S. economy after a huge recession, protecting consumers and their rights, and most noticeably decreasing the number of American troops deployed to Iraq. A champion of human rights and peace, Barack Obama was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 2009, being recognized worldwide for his effort to increase America’s international diplomacy. In December 2010, President Obama announced that the United States would adopt the United Nations Declaration on the Rights of Indigenous Peoples. Important to note are the Sixth and Ninth Articles of the Declaration which state, “Every indigenous individual has the right to a nationality” and “Indigenous peoples and individuals have the right to belong to an indigenous community or nation, in accordance with the traditions and customs of the community or nation concerned. No discrimination of any kind may arise from the exercise of such a right.” In essence, this declaration affirms that the indigenous peoples of the land mass called the United States of America have the right to establish “a nation within a nation”- having their own constitution, institutions, languages, and traditions recognized and adopted by the General Assembly of the United Nations.

What does this mean for Africans in America who have been proven to be indigenous people? It means that a new stage for history may be setting. Enter in- the Washitaw Empire. Empress Verdiacee Tiara Washitaw-Turner Goston El-Bey is the rightful heir to the Maison Rouge Land Grants which gives her rights to land located in Louisiana prior to Spanish occupation. If indeed the United Nations’ Declaration on the Rights of Indigenous Peoples is upheld to the highest letter of the land, we could quite possibly see the emergence of an African nation within a nation of the United States of America.

Africans in America continue to make historical feats and expand their sphere of influence nationally and globally. “A change is coming,” says President Barack Hussein Obama. He promised the United States people during his campaign that won the 2009 presidential election, that if elected, change would come.

There has been a manhunt since September 1, 2001 for the capture of Osama Bin Ladin, the man that orchestrated the bombing of the twin towers in New York City killing approximately 3,000 American people. Osama Bin Ladin was killed at his compounds by United States Special Operations on May 2, 2011. The headlines now read, “Bin Ladin is Dead.” Thanks to the United States President, Barack Hussein Obama, who sought to seek, find, and conquer Bin Ladin, Justice has been served through the change of leadership.

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s World War II raged in Europe and Asia in 1941, the sleepy town of Tuskegee, Alabama was to witness something new in its skies and something unprecedented in our nation’s history. Single-engine airplanes suddenly swooped out of the clouds and roared over the green fields. History was being made.

Tuskegee Institute (Now Tuskegee University), founded in 1881 by Booker T. Washington, had been educating and traintrain ing African Americans in many fields, but an executive order by President Roosevelt made nearby Tuskegee Air Field (TAAF) the home of the first fighter pilot training for African Americans in United States history. Major A. Ellison was to oversee the establishment of TAAF and Major Noel Parrish was in comcom mand of the training of Black students in the still non-integrated military and in the still non-integrated South. Racial attitudes were largely unchanged, with many White officers still not accepting the idea of Blacks piloting warplanes. But the program was underway nonetheless.

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After the infamous 12/7/41 attack on Pearl Harbor, the U. S. declared war on Japan amd days later on Germany and Italy. Captain Benjamin o. Davis, Jr., a graduate of West Point, was appointed commandant of cadets, the all-Black flying unit (the 99th Fighter Squadron) which he led into battle, and was to command the 332nd Fighter Group (composed of the 100th, the 301st and the 302nd squadrons).

Davis and 12 other Black pilots received their Army Air Force silver wings and the all-Black 99th Fighter Squadron was born. It was to be known as the Tuskegee Airmen. although it would contain several women, including Willa Brown who later trained pilots, and Janet Brogs, a registered nurse. By November 1942, the 99th Squadron was in Italy averaging 48 sorties per day in close support of the British Army in crossing the Sangro River.

By the end of the war (August 1945), Tuskegee’s TAAF trained 994 African American pilots.

Surprising their critics, the Tuskegee Airmen of the 99th made an indelible mark on U.S. wartime aviation history. During their first year of combat, the Squadron flew over 500 missions and 3,277 sorties, shooting down 15 enemy aircraft at the cost of two aerial deaths. According to an Army report, “The record reveals no significant general differences between the 99th Squadron flying P-40 Warhawks and the other P-40 squadrons in the Mediterrean theater of operations.” The 99th perfomed well in all of its three fighter pilot roles: dive-bombing; strafing; and bomber escorting. The Tuskegee Airmen were recognized as a “superb tactical fighting unit.”

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From June 1943 until May 1945 (when the war ended in Europe), 994 Black pilots flew 1,578 missions, destroying 111 planes in air-to-air combat with the formidable German Luftwaffe. Also detroyed were 150 planes on the ground.

Sixty-six pilots died in battle and 32 were taken prisoner.

Before 1940, there were no Blacks in the Army Air Corps, as it was called then. By 1948, there were 26,000 Blacks, including 249 officers, all to the credit of the Tuskegge Airmen who refused to let their segregated treatment deter them.

No U.S. bombers were lost while being escorted by the 99th, a unique achievement. The Airmen earned 744 Air Medals, 8 Purple Hearts and 24 Bronze Stars, 150 Disquished Flying Crosses. These men and womwom en were segregated in various ways over the years, with some integration occurring during the later years. Yet, through it all. they persisted in being among the saviors of freedom in World War II.

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n a daily basis, families are shattered, torn and broken. the divorce rate is high, and people today marry because they know if it does not work out, they can get a divorce. some people marry for stability or because of pregnancy. Very few people marry because they are in love. they are in like, but do not know what love is.

Very few people say, “god spoke to me and told me this is my helpmate.” there are women that marry to make a baby and their clocks are ticking. they are afraid their baby making days are going to be over soon. Many women search for a baby maker and are attracted to a man’s appearance. College student, lynette says, “i am not going to marry anyone that is not attractive. He must have good genes, and good hair. When i get married, i will have completed college and have my own law office. I am not going to depend on a man to take care of me. i am going to maintain

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my independence and i do not have any intention on becoming co-dependent or having a baby until i am in my 30”s. a lot of my friends have babies just to have the government take care of them. that’s not a smart thing to do. today, you got to have a good education and a good job to afford children. it is better to wait on god to send you a husband. When He speaks, you will definitely know, your man is the right man.”

Oasis Montage Magazine has a new television show called, “the love Café.” this show is a soap opera that deals with daily family life and relationships. the love Café is written and directed by Carolyn Moore. she created this show in hopes to heal broken homes. Carolyn says, “a lot of times we as husbands, wives, children and family members, don’t realize that we are not alone when there is a family crisis. We think our situation is so bad that we want a divorce, or we blame everyone for the problem except our selves. it is my hopes that when people watch the love Café, they will receive a message of healing and a revelation with a solution. if god put you together, no man can steal your joy. it is my prayer that you will seek His face and

know, “Help is on the Way.” the love Café is starring, Wendy Johnson, as Wanda the Witch, recording artist, lowanda Davis, as Cheryl, a seductive secretary, norman ricks, as John the husband, national recording artist, gregory smith, as tae, Janetta’s boyfriend, summer Herring, Blessona Moore and princess Moore, as Janetta’s and John’s children, rodney Williams, as george, Janetta’s ex-husband, and Writer, Carolyn Moore, as Janetta, the wife. the synopsis of the soap opera is: John and Janetta have been

married for over 8 years. they have 3 girls (Jasmine, Jewel and lillie. ) Jasmine and Jewel are children that belong to george, Janetta’s ex-husband. lillie is the only child that belongs to Janetta and John. Wanda is a witch and she seeks to kill and destroy this family. in the 1st scene, Wanda the witch utilizes the children and their dad george to break-up John and Janetta’s marriage. Does Wanda win? stay tuned for the next, “love Café.” the love Café can be viewed on Comcast channel 99 in both states georgia and Florida. Check your local t.V. guide for schedules.

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he Oasis Montage’ Magazine sponsored and produced a child abuse fashion show fundraiser for the still Hurt Ministries, atlanta, ga. the theme of the show was, “Whip my Hair.” the children were from ages 4 – 20 years old and they were serious about being america’s top Model. the show was held at the utaw Conference Center in Fayetteville, nC. the show received a lot of local support from sponsors: alpha phi alpha Fraternity, Kmart, Kohl’s, Flava Fashions, Burger King, Chick-Fa-let, and Chuck-e-Cheese. the fundraiser was a great success, and funds are to help start a family advocacy center for abuse. the audience loved the children’s clothes and they were excited about the children’s “Whip my Hair” dance team. the dance was choreographed by paradise Moore and the modeling classes by rodney Williams, an oasis Montage’ partner. rodney instructed and rehearsed with the children for 3 weeks.

Marcus Doss, Carolyn Moore and purkeshia whipped the childrens hair into extraordinary hair designs with the vibrant colors of red, purple, pink, yellow and blue. the make-up was applied by Venetta. the children that modeled and danced in the show were: Blessona Moore, princess-star Moore, Marquis Moore, gregory l. Herring, gregory Q. Herring, summer D. Herring, Zandria ___, Jennifer Bynum, tiffany Bynum, Jamie Bynum, Kevontrey president, Jakena Boone, rodrick, rashaad, samiya, Jasmine, Cimone, Faith Brown, aundrea, shondrea, Myia shipman.

Councilman applewhite supported the fashion show and briefly spoke about her love for the children and the cause. she invited the children to the Mayor of Fayetteville’s office. She truly enjoyed the “Whip my Hair” dance routine. some of these children came from shelters, and the show really helped them come out of the shell. some now have a stronger self-esteem and want to make modeling their career. this was truly a wonderful event and the children really whipped their hair.

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Listen up ladies as this issue’s Montage man takes us on a journey through his thoughts on Life, loyalty, and love.

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hat’s a Montage Man? A Montage Man is me. A Montage Man is a blending of several elements from several sources to make one unique man. A blending of resilience, spiritual, physical and intellect. All of these elements make me the ideal Montage Man. A Montage Man knows the order of things. God, family, and career. A Montage Man is not afraid to show his emotions.

A Montage Man loves the Lord, his wife, his family and others. A Montage Man Works to take care of his family and does not make excuses. A Montage Man is a true Servant not one who always wants to be served. A Montage Man takes care of the physical man by eating right and takes care of the spiritual man by feeding it the word daily.

A Montage Man leads is family in prayer and into worship. A Montage Man believes if you seek the Kingdom first, all other things will be added. What’s a Montage? Again I say, A Montage man is Me. My Montage Woman is My Wife Catina. She is my Queen and I her King. She is the love of my life, the mother of my children, and my gift from God. She makes me want to be an even better man. We have each other’s back through thick and thin. Most important of all, she loves the Lord even more than me. She goes the extra mile to love me for me, as God does. She makes me happy even when times I don’t want to be. She is always honest with me even when it hurts at times.

She wants the best for me and our family. Wow! To know someone could love me the way I want to be loved. My Montage Woman.

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Montage Man Alvin C. Williamson

Montage MAN CONTEST THE Montage MAN CONTEST IS FOR THE MAN THAT CAN IDENTIFY HIMSELF AS TO WHAT MAKES HIM A REAL MAN. HE WILL WRITE ABOUT WHAT MAKES HIM THE Montage MAN. HE WILL ALSO WRITE ABOUT THE TYPE OF WOMAN HE CONSIDERS A REAL Montage WOMAN. A WOMAN THAT IS SPECIAL TO HIM.

MEN MAY SUBMIT THEMSELVES, OR OTHERS MAY SUBMIT YOU. YOU MUST SUBMIT $75.00, THE ATTACHED FORM, AND A HEADSHOT IN JPEG FORMAT. THE JUDGES ARE READERS OF OASIS Montage MAGAZINE. THE READERS OF OASIS Montage MAGAZINE, WILL DECIDE WHO AND WHAT MAKES A Montage MAN. THEY WILL EMAIL THEIR VOTE, AND THE WINNER WILL RECEIVE A DINNER FOR 2, AND A FULL PHOTOSHOOT, STORY AND LAY-OUT. THE WINNER WILL BE ANNOUNCED IN JUNE, 2011.

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HELP IS ON THE WAY

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ore than 600,000 people sang with Bishop T.D. Jakes at the 2011 leadership and pastors conference , March 31st. It was a time of praise and worship and a day to never be forgotten. People came from all over the United States, Europe as well as Africa. As Bishop Jakes danced across the stage, the crowd sang, “Help is on the way.”

The conference included workshops from music, publishing, marketing and leadership. Bishop opened every morning with inspirational words before classes started. The crowd were not only excited, but filled the walls with a true desire to learn how to educate their churches, businesses, and their ministry. Educators such as Paula White, Donald Lawrence, and Bishop Lester Love to name a few, gave a real synopsis of what life as a gospel artist and minister utilizing today’s technology. Some of the classes included producing your own music, publishing a book, starting your own television show, and how to utilize public relations and marketing tools in ministry.

The 3-day conference was an experience of a lifetime. The fellowship was wonderful, and the preview of Jakes new movie, Jumping the Broom opened the conference. Viewers’ stated that this is the best movie Jakes has ever produced.

The staff of Oasis Montage’ Magazine met and interviewed several artist. Artist such as Donald Lawrence, and Latrell Maloy shared their experience in the gospel industry. The ups and downs of the industry intrigued the audience with a question and answer session. They enlightend the audience about being educated about the do’s and the don’ts.

The conference ended on the third day with a solo by Jakes. Jakes thanked those that attended and plans to have another conference next year. Jakes was full of life, excitement and joy.

He shared that when you are tired and weary, don’t worry because, “Help is on the way.”

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very now and then we think about the past. We think about things according to or depending upon our favorite conversation or some of our special interest. Being a preacher from the old school, I can see many of the positive qualities of old school church folks disappearing. This disappearance makes me wonder who’s really rolling the dice. Human nature seems to be stretching the band of faith that once held us together. Various types of non-spiritual Sunday entertainment competes with church schedules and many of us make non-spiritual churches. .

Many of the music that is and played and sang in churches are not for worship but for spiritual entertainment. Sometimes I think the churches are being run like a social club with worldly ideas and worldly activities. These things are being done in the name of the Lord and then dress them up spiritually. Christian role models and mentors are at an all-time low but we can’t give up the faith that we have and hope to achieve. Our spiritual nature will always be a challenge for us to control.

The gamblers on the streets used to stop and hide the dice when church folk came down the street. Now, the church folk have to sometimes step out in the street and walk around them. I always believed in wearing my Sunday best to church because God gave us his best. It seems like come as you are means on the outside as well as on the inside. What happened to the testimonial service? That’s when we had an opportunity to tell the world what the Lord has done for us. Nobody wants to hear what the saints have to say anymore? You know, we are strengthened by the testimony of the saints.

Let’s just hold on and see what the end is going to be. We hear this statement repeatedly but, Who’s Really Rolling the Dice?

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n Thursday morning, November 25, 2010, Minerva A. Warner, resident of Kansas City, Missouri, was pleased with the outcome of her Thanksgiving Dinner and took delivery of the first shipment of her memoir entitled No Ordinary Journey . In it, she takes you on her life journey and reveals the pitfalls she encountered along the way.

The book opens with the phone call from the hospital, during the early hours of the morning, delivering words no grandmother would ever want to hear, “Come now”!

Zenobia Smith, of Grandview, Missouri writes, “Minerva Warner has the heart of a virtuous woman that Proverbs 31 speaks about. “ “This story flows and is so interesting that you won’t get bored. The author has done a marvelous job”, says Joyce Scales of Lee’s Summit, Missouri. According to Scharon Ross, of Kansas City, Missouri, “No Ordinary Journey depicts a valuable lesson that we all can benefit from and entails a powerful message larger than life itself.”

For the past eighteen years, Warner has been a member of the Victorious Life Church, under the leadership of Bishop Mark C. Tolbert. She understands the importance of her faith and her walk with the Lord. Warner is President of Warner Productions, LLC. On July 18, 2002, she produced the stage play Where Are My Butterflies and was named Playwright of the Year as recipient of the Omer Awards.

She has passion for helping and encourages youths to continue their education. For the past 16 years her involvement with the Lincoln High School Class of 1965 Alumni, which is a 501©3 not- for- profit organization has given her the opportunity to give back to the community by granting college scholarships to students graduating from Lincoln College Preparatory Academy (formally Lincoln High School) . She is founder of the Gina LaChelle Porchia Breast Cancer Foundation which has been established to offer monetary assistance to women fighting breast cancer.

Minerva is currently planning book signings and can be reached at, mmwgw2@aol.com or by calling her at 816-886-8106. Go to her web site at minervaawarner.com to purchase your copy of the book, No Ordinary Journey.

Minerva is the wife of Gilbert Warner Jr., the mother of Gina L. Porchia (deceased), Larry C. Tootle, Kimberly A. Cook and Donna M. Jackson. She has nine grandchildren (one deceased) and two great- grandchildren.

Willie B.B. Brown “Laughing For The Lord”

Willie L. Edwards, born July 30th, 1959, to the late James & Annie Edwards of Fayetteville, North Carolina. The only brother out of eight sisters.

Willie learned at an early age to play drums and sing. He played drums with his sisters, as well as playing drums at his father’s church. He also played for gospel groups such as: The Trumpets of Joy, Bishop Perry Williams & The Traveliers, and many others.

In 2009, he knew that he had a special hidden talent, making people laugh.

His first show was at Methodist University on Mother’s Day, and that’s when Willie B.B. Brown was born as a gospel comedian, laughing for the Lord.

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ost little girls dream and believe they will one day have a husband and a family. They will dress up for a miniature wedding on the playground with Timmy, the little boy that said, “I will be your boyfriend.” Little Princess in their mind, know that Timmy just can’t be a boyfriend. Timmy has to be her husband.

One afternoon at recess there was a little group of children gathered together in the back corner of the playground. They were out of the sight of adult watchful eyes. Little Timmy found a quarter to purchase his awaiting bride the biggest wedding ring he could find in a candy store. He knows the princess’s favorite color is purple, so he says to the man behind the counter, “Can I have the purple candy ring? It’s for Little Princess. I got to marry her and she wants a ring, flowers and a wedding. We are getting married today at recess.”

Victim – One harmed by or made to suffer from an act, circumstance, agency, or condition. For me…this definition is correct for every aspect of what I went through as a victim of domestic violence.

Timmy makes his way to school and shows everybody this perfect ring he has purchased at the candy store. The children giggle because they know that a wedding is about to take place. A little preacher looking boy ask the question, “Timmy you want Little Princess to be your wife?” He then says, “Little Princess do you want Timmy to be yo husband?” The little preacher says, “Okay poof. Since you both said yes, ya’ll gotta kiss.” The little kiss happens for the first time and Little Princess is now a Little Wife. As the school year goes on, trouble comes their way. Timmy is now looking at the new little girl in school and Timmy doesn’t want to be married to Little Princess anymore.

He doesn’t want to be her husband. He then says to Little Princess, “I’m not your husband, it wasn’t real anyway.” For the first time, Little Princess has had her first kiss and her heart broken in the same school year. Little Princess’s fairytale ended.

In today’s society, more and more fairy tales end. Men and women get married these days to only get divorced. Marriage is no longer a commitment made between man, woman and God. It’s just a show.

The vows are just shallow words that are spoken between two individuals. Whatever happened to fairytale dreams most little girls dream of? What happened to having the little house on the hill with a white picket fence, and having 2 ½ children with a dog? Do fairytales still exist? Yes they do, but they come to an end.

I was just like Little Princess, I had dreamed of marriage as a child. I had decided to have 2 children, a son and a daughter. I ended up with 2 ½ sons. I always dreamed that my son would be the oldest. I wanted to have this beautiful wedding and simply live happily ever after. My dream of marriage did happen. I had my two children and yes my son is the oldest. Things in the very beginning seemed to be going great.

We had a wonderful friendship. My husband was my best friend, protector, lover and prayer partner. We would laugh together and stay up half the night having pillow talk. We were saddened when one would see the other leave, when the other returned, there was a leap of joy. We worshiped together, studied together, ministered together; we were what some would call the perfect couple. However, there came a day that the fairytale ended.

In spite of all the wonderful things we shared, there still came a day in which all of it wasn’t good enough. After 12 years of marriage, my husband one day just began to become distant. His attitude and behavior began to be unusual and he started spending lots of late nights at the office. He would come home with a scent I was not familiar with.

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By Pamela L. Johnson runs to the store were all signs of infidelity.

I was still convinced my marriage could withstand anything. Unfortunately, I was wrong. My marriage could not withstand this attack. This attack was a serious blow to what once was a strong stable union.

The days to follow were days that I would try so quickly to forget. The atmosphere in my home that was once full of peace and laughter, was now filled with yelling and tears. We were now experiencing a war zone. The blood spatter of my heart had become an everyday event. Not that blood was actually drawn with a knife or gun, but it was wounded by his tongue. He had begun to tell me all the things I had done wrong. My husband started telling me, “Your not in my corner like you use to be.” For months I endured this pain. Then one day he said, “I’m leaving you.”

With this news my world began to crumble. I began to feel like my whole life was falling apart. Everything I had hoped and prayed for had been taken from me. Everything that I knew and understood was now confusing. I began to ask the question over and over, “What am I suppose to do now?” I remember so many nights where I cried myself to sleep because my marriage was over. My husband left me and the children. We were no longer a family. How can I move on? Is there any way I can survive this injury?

After two years of separation, I became weary. I was trying to battle and hold onto my marriage. I finally gave up and I asked my husband for a divorce. It was one of the hardest decisions I had ever made but I had to face reality. My husband was living a life without me. I sought God’s face on the matter and I believed that God’s word was true. God hates divorce. After praying and fasting, the Lord gave me permission to get the divorce.

Divorce brought on many issues of loneliness, rejection, mistrust, and bitterness. Although divorce is sought by many, it is not always the best way to go. I do believe and understand that in some cases such as abuse, divorce is necessary. However, all divorces are not done for this cause, most are done because someone gets tired and they and they desire to do something else. If God ordained your union, then don’t give up.

If you are divorced, or faced with a divorce, I encourage you to just trust God. He is the only one that can bring healing and complete deliverance. Keep praying and stay in His word. God has not forsaken you. It is my testimony that God has made me over again. He has made me much stronger and I know that no matter what I’m faced with, God will keep me safe in His arms. Remember, you are not defeated, you are an over comer. Nothing in life you face can destroy you. How do I know? I know because I have been through the storm and rain, heartache ad pain, but I’m still standing and leaping for joy.

What God has done for others, He can do for you too.

If you know someone that is struggling with divorce, encourage them to just get in the presence of God and stay there until He you hear his voice.

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ite Line, a TBN network station, also known as Dove, featured Carolyn Moore, and the cast of her touring play, Women Shoptalk while Real Men wait.” The station was intrigued with Moore’s story of being a survivor of domestic violence. Nite Line aired the interview on WGGS TV 16, Taylors, SC to a live listening audience. .

One of the stories that Moore shared was the story about her daughter, Blessona Moore. At 6 months old, Blessona was thrown out of a car window by Moore’s ex-husband, Ed. Moore says, “Bless, like me, is a survivor of domestic abuse. Children are used as bargaining tools in controlling relationships. They don’t deserve that.” Blessona was at the interview and says, “Children need to stay prayed up and in God’s word. God is there for you.”

When cast member Wendy Johnson, also known as Patience in the play was interviewed, she revealed being abused by her ex-husband.

Johnson says, “I was not only mentally abused, but I was physically abused. I knew it was time for me to get out. I knew I would shoot and kill him if I stayed with him. His behavior was defensive because he was living a double life with someone else.”

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Words by Paradise Moore

Gospel Recording Artist, Lowanda Davis was also a guest on Dove.

Davis plays the part of Burgandy in the stage play. Burgandy is the beauty shop owner being abused by her husband. The husband, Clayton, played by National Playwright, Donald Gray, is having an affair with Burgandy’s sister, Essence, actress Kayla Rae Jackson.

Essence is a stripper, and Clayton has her hooked on drugs, and she is suicidal.

Moore’s story portrayed in the Shoptalk production is her method to empower those that may not know they are in an abusive relationship. Victims of domestic violence are welcome to attend her production free. Moore hopes victims will recognize their situation and get out before it’s too late. Moore says, “You are not alone. There is help out there and you are a gift from God. God did not create your temple for man to tear it down. You have a purpose and you need to remember tomorrow is not promised to you. You are a queen and as precious as a Dove.”

You can visit and view the interview on Nite Line at: http:// www.justin.tv/wggs16/b/282086010?utm_campaign=live_embed_ click&utm_source=wggs16.com

Wendy Johnson

DOVE

A BABIES LIFE AFTER ABUSE

After being abused for over 10 years, God sent me a man to protect me. He loved, caring, giving and kindhearted too. He was the best thing that ever happened to me.

He always respected me and only kissed my forehead, he believed in a future relationship with me and what God said.

When I found love I needed to truly know we were meant to be together forever. I needed to know this man was not fake or a show.

I was in love with my knight in shining armor and chose to make a baby; it was wrong because someone else had papers on me.

This man treated me like a queen; he was the best thing that ever happened to me.

Our love child created such a beautiful baby. She was full of laughter and smiled daily.

She was so fat that when I bathed her I’d find lollipops in her neck.

More candy was found in the cracks of her arms.

She was my love child and I created her purposely, it’s hard to believe she was mistreated and hurt intentionally.

How could one man try to destroy my baby? Was it because she wasn’t his? Could it of been because I had truly found a real man that did not abuse me like he did.

6 months after baby Bless was born, the happiest day of my life was when Judge Brombly signed my divorce. After 10 years of being in bondage, I was finally free. Judge Brombly told me, “If I sign this divorce, don’t you ever come back to Atlanta.” My response to the judge was, “If you sign this paper judge, I don’t want to ever come back to Atlanta.”

The judge signed the paper and I headed home to pack my bags.

As I packed the children’s suit cases, my oldest daughter Sparkle ran in the bedroom and shouted, “Mama, daddy took the baby!” I ran to the living room, looked out the window and watched my ex-husband, Ed speed out the driveway. I panicked and called his cell phone. When he answered, I said, “Ed bring me back my baby.” Ed responded, “Are you going to leave me?” Before I responded, I thought to myself, “If I answer him irrationally, he will threaten to hurt my baby and never bring her back.” I was silent. He then yelled, “Are you gonna answer me?” I then responded, “Ed please bring my baby Bless back home.” Ed responded, “B___, I ain’t letting that N____ have you or this baby. Bless is my baby and you will never get her back!” He then hung up. I panicked and called the police.

When the police arrived, they called Ed on the phone and told him to bring the baby back or they would file felony kidnapping charges.

The police left my house on an emergency call. Ed showed up in the driveway, honked the horn and yelled, “If you want her come get her.” Ed’s cousin and I ran out the house. Ed yelled at me saying, “Are you gonna take me back if I give her back to you, Hah? I said,

“Ed, just give me the baby.” The closer I moved toward the vehicle, the more he dangled her out the van window; as if he was going to drop her. The closer I moved toward the van, the more he dangled the baby in the air. I cried harder and harder as he yelled louder and louder. Ed continued to yell and scream at me calling me names. He then yelled, “Catch her!” Ed threw my baby Bless out the car window as he backed out the driveway speeding.

Ed’s cousin Gerald and I ran to try and catch Bless. We caught her head from hitting the pavement, and her body hit the ground. We were both in disbelief. I immediately called the police and they told me to take the baby to the emergency room. The doctor said Bless checked out ok and they did not see anything wrong with her. I praised God, went home to finish packing and left Atlanta.

Was Bless really okay? There were many nights I’d find Bless in a pool of blood. When I’d take her to the doctor, doctors said nothing was wrong with her. Later in life when Bless started school, she had problems concentrating with academics and I had to put her on an IEP, educational plan. Bless couldn’t read or understand her school work. Bless also had problems as a child with her bowels. She complained about being in pain. I have always wondered if Bless’s problems in school and her bowel’s were due to being thrown out the window when she was 6 months old.

Today, Bless is a beautiful 15 year old teenager that has overcome the abuse as a baby. She struggled for years in school, but had the determination to get off the IEP. In 2010, Bless was taken off her IEP and receives letters from colleges because of her B average grades.

Bless is a very meek, humble, loving and a kindhearted young lady. She loves being in Navy ROTC, cheerleading and playing basketball. She is 5ft 11in and a teen model for my magazine, Oasis Montage’ Magazine. She has also done fashion shows as a runway model and her walk is so elegant. She wants to be a doctor and intends to join the Air Force as an officer after she graduates from College.

Bless’s father and I have been married 14 years and we are happy God has given our love His blessing. Bless is our love child and she shares her testimony with the world that, “God will always be there for you if you just read the bible and pray to Him.” God has truly saved a wretch like me and restored my life. Today I am happy to say Thank you God for restoration and my beautiful baby Bless. Bless is a walking talking testimony of “Life after Abuse.”

To hear Bless’s testimony, go to: http://www.justin.tv/wggs16?utm_ campaign=live_embed_click&utm_source=wggs16.com#/w/993917264

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was 25yr old man who was married to a young lady, Cherie. Together we shared three girls, Clarice, Erica, and Doris. Clarice the oldest child was not my daughter and when her and I divorced and Cherie was hospitalized, I chose to raise Clarice along with her sisters. I raised these girls as a single parent for six years. When the mother became stable, I later signed the oldest two girls back to her and I maintained custody of the youngest child, Doris. These children admired and deemed me to be a successful father figure 1.) Requires we wear many hats: educator, protector, provider disciplinarian, and psychotherapist. Be sure to maintain identity of father figure during these different roles; and above all instill love.

2.) Never use punishment to teach submission; it may result in child carrying a mind full l of emotions, pain, and spite.

Discipline is an art that, it handled properly can produce positive results, i.e. proper conduct, direction. Remember emotion, not cognitive stimulation serves as the minds primary architect.

3.) Create a calm atmosphere, talk, teach, listen, and learn from children. Ask question about their actions so their minds eye can see what they did wrong. Ask who they admire, fictional & nonfictional, so you can understand who their behavior emulates. Ask questions that lead to solutions; agree on something acceptable to the family unit.

4.) Don’t be alarmed by teen silence, it’s a way of exercising

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independence that can make their own problems. Even, the best parent will lose their child in the teen years, but will reel them back in if a strong foundation of moral & spiritual strengths was laid that they can draw from.

5.) Realize, during this teen phase they are vulnerable to bad influences. Gangs pretend to understand the teen’s problems, satisfy needs, statistics are criminal record, jail, death, that causes personal pain, agony to the child, family & love ones.

6.) Adulthood qualities must be nurtured the way by loved ones to empower the child against the pitfalls of life. Quality time with a child nurtures intellectual & social growth which prepares the child to make right decisions independently.

7.) While being home with the child is important, so are dollars.

Financial security builds confidence, self esteem; without it gets negative vibes in & outside the home.

Master & utilize the elements of a successful father figure & become a man who is respected like a father.

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t is wonderful that the relationship with cast members of “Cheaper to Keep her” and the cast of “Women Shoptalk while Real Men Wait,” can collaborate. The theatrical industry blossoms in the fall of every year for 6 month tours. Both cast intend to enjoy a cruise together when on a tour break. Production is a lot of work, and touring stage plays can be exhausting.

It is wonderful to not be competitive and to be on one accord with an ancor of praise for one another.

“Cheaper to Keep her” starring, Brian McKnight and Vivica Foxx, was performed at the Crown Coliseum in Fayetteville, North Carolina. The play was excellent and entertained married couples. It was a lesson on what could happen when a spouse commits adultery. In this play, a doctor learned the lesson that, “its Cheaper to Keep Her.” The doctor lost everything.

Unlike the inspirational play, “Women Shoptalk while Real Men Wait”, the message in that play is, “Life after Abuse.” Shoptalk has toured over 14 shows and has had sold out shows in several cities. The demographic is somewhat different than the Cheaper to keep her play because the message focuses on victims of domestic violence. The production is open free to victims of domestic violence and donations are given to local Domestic Violence shelters. The cast stars, National Recording Artist, Gregory, National Playwright, Donald Gray, BET Comedian Laurence Craig, Gospel Recording Artist, Zenobia Smith and Lowanda Davis, National Saxophonist, Tony Exum and Playwright, Carolyn Herring Moore. The story is Moore’s life story, survivor of domestic violence.

Moore says, “I hope to spread the message of Life after Abuse, and to empower victims to know they are not alone. I want to let them know there is help out there for them and to get out before it’s too late. Tomorrow is not promised to you and as a parent, it is our responsibility to save the child.” Shoptalk is a stage play you don’t want to miss. You will laugh, cry, and shout Halleluiah when the revelation is received.

Shoptalk tour starts May 20, 2011 in Orlando, Florida at El Bethel Temple Church. The tour continues to Jacksonville, Florida, Greenville, SC, Richmond, VA, Baltimore, MD, Atlanta, GA, and more. Back by popular demand, they intend to go back to Colorado Springs.

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