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Almanac By Ashley Walshe

ALMANAC November

By ashley Walshe

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November is a great sweeping wind, a clearing of what must go, a dance with a howling reaper.

The crickets have disappeared. Their nightly serenades, which crackled like warm vinyl from spring through harvest season, faded with the first hard frost. In their wake, the wind shrieks through naked trees. A great horned owl bellows from his perch.

The garden folds into itself. The porch toads that lurked by the watering can on warm autumn evenings now burrow beneath the frost line. Field mice shimmy down chimneys, squeeze through eaves, craft their nests inside cozy walls.

Songbirds come and go. Hermit thrushes strip the hollies of their crimson fruit. White-throated sparrows shuffle through crumpled leaves, scratching up what’s buried underneath.

The wind sings of a quickening darkness. The squirrels, scrambling to cache pecans as they fall, retort with squawks and chatter. A skein of geese sails across a golden sunset.

At dusk, when the wind nips at the heels of those still roaming, a pair of coyotes yips and howls beyond the fringe. Back and forth they shriek, wailing like banshees, piercing the air with their shrill and haunting staccato.

“I’m here,” cries one to the other.

A single voice sounds like dozens.

A biting wind howls back.

When Pies Fly

For our neighbors in Albany, Georgia (pecan capital of the world), it’s raining you-know-what right now. But we have our share of toothsome treasures plummeting upon our leaf-littered neck of the woods, too. Especially in the southeastern part of the state. Whatever you call them — PEE-cans or pee-KAHNS — ’tis harvest season. Pick them as they drop or else the crows and squirrels will beat you to it. You’ll want to let them cure (essential if they’re not yet ripe) before shelling and freezing them. Store them in a mesh bag — and in a cool, dry place — for about two weeks. While you’re waiting? Dream of pie.

On that nut-studded note, have you ever cracked pecans? If so, then you can more deeply appreciate that the average pecan pie packs between 70 and 80 of those sweet and buttery little candies. No need to mention the calories.

O wild West Wind, thou breath of Autumn’s being. Thou, from whose unseen presence the leaves dead Are driven, like ghosts from an enchanter fleeing — Percy Bysshe Shelley

Prepare to be Dazzled

On Tuesday, Nov. 8, a total lunar eclipse begins around 3 a.m. According to Smithsonian magazine, which named this celestial event one of 10 “dazzling” must-sees of 2022, the moon will appear reddish, as if “all the world’s sunrises and sunsets” are being cast upon it.

Speaking of dazzling events, here’s to hoping your Thanksgiving will be described as such. At the very least, don’t let the parsnips eclipse that homemade pie. OH

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Established 2019

MISSION STATEMENT

We are a foster home based rescue accepting shelter intakes and owner surrenders from NC. We try to counsel and offer advice to owners considering surrendering their dachshund as a way of keeping pets in loving homes to prevent the burden on rescue.

HOW TO DONATE

We accept donations in the following ways: Venmo - @Alison-Schwartz-21 • PayPal - info@doxiebyproxy.org Mailing Address: PO Box 9671, Greensboro, NC 27429-9671 Facebook Donations • AmazonSmile

KEY FACTS

• We have rescued and placed 793 dogs since 2019 and paid out over $650,000 in veterinary bills. • 100% of our intake and adoptions are within 3 hours of

Central NC. 336.621.3435 www.Doberman-rescue.com

Established 1997

MISSION STATEMENT

To provide the best care and love for unwanted Dobermans regardless of age or health concerns. To eliminate the suffering of Dobermans who have been victims of neglect and/or abuse. To rehabilitate and re-home these Dobermans in permanent loving homes.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

We ask that prospective volunteers complete an on-line application. To donate your time, review the Volunteer page on our website: www.Doberman-Rescue.com/volunteer.

HOW TO DONATE

Donations can be made through our website www.Doberman-Rescue.com/donate. Alternatively, donors can mail a check to DRT’s mailing address.

KEY FACTS

DRT does not pick and choose which Dobes to accept into the program based on how easily they may be placed, regardless of age and health concerns. DRT accepts Dobermans from shelters as well as private owners who are forced to surrender their Dobermans.

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MISSION STATEMENT

Mount Jubilee Ministries is a Christ-centered community offering dynamic opportunities for those with Intellectual and/or Developmental Disabilities and their families.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

Visit us online at mountjubilee.org/get-involved/ or @MountJubilee on Facebook to see all our volunteer opportunities, and how to get involved.

HOW TO DONATE

Donations are welcome on our website or by mail. www.mountjubilee.org/donate Mail to: Mount Jubilee Ministries, PO Box 81, Reidsville, NC 27323 PO Box 81, Reidsville, NC 27323 336.552.3766 www.mountjubilee.org

Established 2005, a 501 (c)(3) organization.

WHO WE SERVE

Mount Jubilee Ministries serves individuals over 18 who have Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities needing mild to moderate support.

KEY FACTS:

• Founded in 2005 as a one-week residential camp opportunity for individuals with disabilities and continues to host Camp Jubilee each summer. • In 2016 strategic planning began to expand MJM’s offerings to include day programs and a residential community. • Our first His Path Developmental Day Program launched in Rockingham

County in December 2019, followed by our 2nd and 3rd day programs in

Winston-Salem August 2021 and in Greensboro June 2022. • Our day programs are expanding in 2023 to include social enterprise that will offer vocational opportunities for our His Path Heroes. • We use “Heroes” because our participants demonstrate courage while striving for outstanding achievement, demonstrating their God-given qualities.

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PO BOX 4031 Greensboro, NC 27404 336.895.4900 www.guilfordccn.org

Established 2003

MISSION STATEMENT

To ensure that all persons have access to quality, comprehensive and affordable healthcare through innovative community partnerships.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

Guilford Adult Dental is organized by the GCCN to provide dental services to uninsured Guilford County residents. Call Stephanie Staley at 336- 890-8912 about volunteering as an oral health specialist.

HOW TO DONATE

Support for Guilford Community Care Network can be made by check or online at guilfordccn.org.

WHO WE SERVE

Guilford Community Care Network coordinates access to primary care and specialty care for Guilford County residents with an income between 0%-200% of the Federal Poverty Level.

KEY FACTS:

• In Fiscal Year 2022 more than 2,500 patients were enrolled in Guilford

Community Care Network and received over 2,700 care management services. • Our Adult Dental Clinic provided 1411 patient visits valued at $368,031. • GCCN’s Return on Investment: $70 for every one dollar invested in support! • Next year GCCN will celebrate 20 years of service to the most vulnerable in our community

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MISSION STATEMENT

Noble Academy empowers students with learning differences to pursue their highest potential within a comprehensive, supportive educational environment.

WHY WE MATTER

We develop self-advocacy skills. We develop reading and math confidence. We develop social skills and we bring back a student’s love for learning.

HOW TO DONATE

Donations are received at our website, www.nobleknights.org or directly at Noble Academy to the attention of Chere Flowers. 3310 Horse Pen Creek Rd., Greensboro, NC 27410 336.282.7044 www.NobleKnights.org

Established 1987

WHO WE SERVE

Students in grades 2-12 diagnosed with ADHD and learning differences or experiences difficulties with attention, processing speed or memory, auditory processing, executive functioning, reading, math, or writing, and academic fluency, who meet our admission criteria.

KEY FACTS:

• 8:1 student/teacher ratio • 100% graduation rate • 1/3 of families receive tuition assistance or grants/scholarships from NCSEAA. • Accreditations from SAIS, IDA, and a Wilson® Accredited Partner.

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2207 E. Cone Blvd. Greensboro, NC 27405 336.375.3900 www.pdyandf.org

Established 1992

MISSION STATEMENT

PDY&F is a nonprofit, public charity that has been in existence since 1992. Our mission is to embrace, empower and equip. PDY&F provides community members with skills, information, and the proper resources to achieve success in every area of life. Our core focus is to systematically eliminate food insecurities in our community, while creating a legacy of health and self-sufficiency.

HOW TO DONATE

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WHO WE SERVE

The PDY&F Community Garden Project recognizes the access to healthy food, or the lack thereof has a direct correlation with the physical health of a community, particularly in the wake of COVID-19. Consequently, the project initiatives aim to address food insecurity and the subsequent health issues related to food deserts. The targetted audience falls typically within Eastern Greensboro which is a known food desert.

KEY FACTS:

It is our immediate goal to cultivate a community garden that will be the spring board to #1, Feed Greensboro. #2, educate the community around sustainable farming practices and #3 launch a new generation of black and brown farmers.

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PO Box 14608, Greensboro, NC 27415 336.632.1400 www.chsnc.org

Established 1902

MISSION STATEMENT

To promote the right of every child to a permanent, safe, and loving family.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

www.chsnc.org/about/volunteer

HOW TO DONATE

• 800.632.1400 • www.chsnc.org/donate-today • Contact Caitlin Stay, cstay@chsnc.org, 336-369-3781

WHO WE SERVE

Children and families in all 100 North Carolina counties in need of foster care, adoption, family preservation, and education services so that children can thrive. CHS helped more than 20,000 clients last year, with a statewide staff and offices in 10 cities across North Carolina.

KEY FACTS:

• Since our founding in 1902, CHS has placed more than 16,000 children with nurturing adoptive families. • We help parents be the best that they can be by providing critical tools and resources for them to build stronger families. Whether that means doing whatever we can to keep families intact and healthy, or finding the right match to create new ones through foster care and adoption.

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200 N. Davie Street, Box 10 Greensboro, NC 27401 336-335-5456 GreensboroSymphony.org

Established 1959

MISSION STATEMENT

The mission of the Greensboro Symphony Orchestra (GSO) is to enrich the cultural life of Greensboro and surrounding areas through the development, promotion, and maintenance of a program of quality music and music education. Its primary vehicle for the conduct of these activities is the Greensboro Symphony Orchestra, which presents concerts, special events, educational opportunities, and related activities.

HOW TO DONATE

Support can be made by visiting GreensboroSymphony.Org or calling 336.335.5456.

WHO WE SERVE

Thousands of Greensboro Symphony patrons witness the magic of our Masterworks, POPS, Holiday, Chamber, Rock, and Family concerts annually, and more than 1 million local children have experienced an in-person concert since our inception in 1959. We provide weekly music classes to Headstart Programs in 5 counties and Beginning String lessons at Peck and Cone Elementary Schools. We have three Youth Orchestras, ensemble visits to every elementary school in Guilford County and full-orchestral concerts for elementary students in 4 counties, plus programs at area retirement homes, juvenile detention centers, and CaringSound at Cone Hospital.

KEY FACTS:

The Steven Tanger Center for the Performing Arts is our new home! • We employ 77 Professional Musicians. • Our Music Director, Dmitry Sitkovetsky, is a highly visible ambassador to

Greensboro and throughout the world.

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EDUCATION PROGRAM

• OrKIDStra • Lillian Rauch Beginning Strings Program • Greensboro Symphony Youth Orchestra • Education Concerts • Community programs, including • CaringSound pediatric visits, ensemble performances, presentations, and more

2110 Golden Gate Drive, Suite B Greensboro, NC 27405 336.429.5600 www.KellinFoundation.org

Established 2013

MISSION STATEMENT

Prevent. Treat. Heal.

The Kellin Foundation’s mission is to strengthen resilience among children, families, adults and communities through free trauma-informed behavioral health services focused on prevention, treatment, and healing.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

www.kellinfoundation.org/volunteer

HOW TO DONATE

www.kellinfoundation.org/donate

WHO WE SERVE

We serve children, teens, families, and adults by providing case management, counseling, and peer support. We focus on those who are uninsured or underinsured, without access to care otherwise. We also work to support our community through our Kellin Kids program and initiatives such as the Resilient Guilford Network.

KEY FACTS

• We are the only nationally recognized child trauma center with the

National Child Traumatic Stress Network in Guilford. • Our 2022 merger with Mental Health Greensboro gives us a combined 82+ year history of providing free services in Guilford County to those who otherwise would not have access to care. • We serve over 10,000 people per year for free who otherwise would not have access to care.

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Established 2001

MISSION STATEMENT

To balance the health, safety, and welfare needs of Boxers in the Carolinas, Virginia (parts of Georgia) by providing a loving and safe environment for stray, abused, impounded and owner surrendered dogs by placing them in foster homes and ultimately-forever homes.

HOW TO DONATE

Donations can be made online through Paypal.me/savethenubs, Venmo @carolinaboxer or by mail to PO Box 87, Hampstead, NC 28443. To learn more about volunteer opportunities, go to carolinaboxerrescue.org and select Help.

KEY FACTS

• Years in Operation: 21 • Number of Volunteers: 500+ • Number of Boxers Rescued each year: Average of 250 • What makes CBR unique: Foster-based and 100% volunteer. Every cent goes back to help the dogs. We take in seniors, hospice and dogs with severe medical conditions. Break the Chain Kennel Kru 336.338.8824 www.BTCKennelKru.org

Established 2016

MISSION STATEMENT

We work in under-served communities in Guilford County to assist families with chained dogs by becoming compliant with the local anti-tethering ordinance. We also care for the oncechained outside dogs in our program.

HOW TO DONATE

www.BTCKennelKru.org/how-to-donate or by calling Cardinal Animal Hospital at 336-668-9475

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

Email kennelkru@gmail.com

KEY FACTS

• BTCKK became a 501c3 on March 30, 2016 • We have unchained 119 dogs • We provide full medical care for over 30 dogs in our program • We board our most vulnerable outside dogs during extreme weather

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MISSION STATEMENT

The Community Foundation of Greater Greensboro inspires giving, maximizes opportunities, and strengthens communities for present and future generations.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

If you are interested in learning more about serving on a volunteer committee, please call 336-790-7812 or e-mail macevedo@cfgg.org.

HOW TO DONATE

Donate Online: https://netcommunity.cfgg.org/donate Call 336-379-9100 Email development@cfgg.org

WHO WE SERVE

The Community Foundation of Greater Greensboro’s vision for our city is a welcoming and thriving place where people work together to enrich the lives of all. We accomplish this by: Understanding what matters to the community; Being a trusted partner that empowers others; Shepherding successful projects that draw the community together; and Helping diverse donors create impactful gifts.

KEY FACTS:

• Since our founding in 1983, we have granted over $380 million in hundreds of nonprofits and have received over $440 million in contributions. • We manage over 700 charitable funds for individuals, families, businesses, foundations, and nonprofit organizations. • Our community investments focus on: Economic Prosperity,

Educational Success, Community Wellness, Cultural Vibrancy, Civic Engagement, and Nonprofit Excellence.

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Greensboro Satellite: Headquarters: 2517 Phillips Avenue, 3330 Shorefair Drive Greensboro, NC 27405 Winston-Salem, NC 27105 336.784.5770 www.SecondHarvestNWNC.org

Established 1982

MISSION STATEMENT

With our community and partners, we will increase food security and create pathways that build a stronger Northwest North Carolina.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

Whether you are helping to sort dry goods and produce; preparing meals for seniors and children; or helping out in our teaching garden, your time helps to set the table for local families. Visit SecondHarvestNWNC.org/volunteer.

HOW TO DONATE

With every $10 you give, Second Harvest can provide up to 70 nutritious meals. Make your gift at FeedCommunityNow.org.

WHO WE SERVE

Second Harvest is a vital community resource, providing food and services for a network of 500+ food assistance organizations serving Greensboro, all of Guilford County, and 17 other Northwest North Carolina counties. Each year, together, we provide 40+ million meals for neighbors in need.

KEY FACTS:

• Second Harvest partners with 123 food assistance programs serving

Guilford County. • 81% of the food provided by our Guilford Country partners comes from

Second Harvest. • Together, we provided more than 7.5 million meals for food insecure families last year.

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MISSION STATEMENT

Hannah’s Bridge Thrift Boutique sells gently used clothing, home decor, furniture, and accessories. Whether shopping or donating to Hannah’s Bridge proceeds benefit Hannah’s Haven, a Christ-centered addiction recovery program for women. PO Box 14724 Greensboro, NC 27415 336.656.1066 www.hannahshaven.net

Established 2003

WHO WE SERVE

The ministry will serve any women age 18 and older who have undergone medically supervised detoxification if needed. The program consists of two phases; residential for a minimum of 12 months and non-residential for 6-12 months. All Hannah’s Haven students must have a commitment to their own recovery.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

Call 336-579-8322 or visit us on Facebook page

KEY FACTS:

• We are HELPING OTHERS THROUGH THE POWER OF JESUS CHRIST

HOW TO DONATE

Donate your gently used women’s and men’s clothing Household items such as sofas, chairs, barstools and accessories. Call for large pickups.

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336.393.0000 www.LPPNC.org

Established 2010

MISSION STATEMENT

To provide financial aid for spay/neuter to the community and rescue/rehabilitate companion animals. LPPNC finds safe, loving, appropriate homes for homeless dogs and cats.

HOW TO DONATE

Donations can be made through our website or checks mailed to our physical address. We accept paypal.me/LPIA and Venmo @LPPNC. Sponsorships, raffle and auction for Waggin’ Wild 5K. www.WagginWild5k.com

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

Contact outreachlppnc@gmail for volunteer opportunities.

KEY FACTS

Our STOP (Spay Today Outreach Program) provides financial aid to many NC counties. We feel an aggressive spay/neuter program is the answer to the pet overpopulation problem. LPPNC specializes in senior and medical compromised dogs. 336.375.3222 www.triadspca.org

Established 1994

MISSION STATEMENT

The SPCA of the Triad is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit animal rescue organization, dedicated to the rescue, rehabilitation, and re-homing of abused, unwanted, neglected, and sick animals in our community. We are one of the only rescues with a shelter in the Piedmont Triad.

HOW TO DONATE

Make a monetary donation, or view our Wish List at www.triadspca.org. Mail a check to PO Box 4461 Greensboro, NC 24707. Email us at spca@triadspca.org to establish a Pet Trust for your animals or leave a legacy donation.

KEY FACTS

We serve the animals and residents of the Piedmont Triad community and surrounding areas. Through our efforts, we keep more pets alive and out of overcrowded county shelters that are forced to euthanize. Through our free food bank and low-cost rabies clinic, we help families keep their pets. We are not affiliated with any government agency or the ASPCA, so our funding comes from community support.

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2300 Scalesville Rd, Summerfield, NC 27358 336.643.6383 www.summerfieldfbc.com

Established 1860

MISSION STATEMENT

To make disciples who reach UP to God, IN to the church, and OUT to the world.

OUR VALUES

Gospel-centered worship • Fervent prayer Multigenerational fellowship Intentional discipleship • Service in ministry Missional Living

WHO WE SERVE

By God’s grace we strive to be a multigenerational, gospel-centered, disciple-making church family reaching Summerfield and beyond for the cause of Christ. We actively serve our community through our weekly food pantry and our quarterly feeding of the homeless. Our multigenerational ministries serve all ages including children, youth, adults, and senior adults.

PLEASE JOIN US TO

Worship on Sunday mornings at 10:30pm. For Sunday evening and Wednesday evening schedules, please visit us online at www.summerfieldfbc.com.

HOW TO DONATE

www.summerfieldfbc.com/give

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PO Box 13136, Greensboro, NC 27415 336.272.5003 www.PreservationGreensboro.org

Established 1966

MISSION STATEMENT

We build thriving communities by protecting and renewing our historic and architectural treasures.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

Simply call our office or email us from our website to help with gardening, salvages, or events!

HOW TO DONATE

Visit our “Donate” page on our website

WHO WE SERVE

Greensboro and surrounding communities in Guilford County

KEY FACTS:

• Preservation Greensboro educates and advocates for historic structures in

Guilford County. Have a question about your building? Give us a call! • Blandwood Museum features an original mid-19th century decorative arts collection. • Architectural Salvage recycles vintage building elements such as fireplace mantels and hardware. Visit the store to shop for beautiful treasures from the past.

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336.275.4663 HabitatGreensboro.org

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3826 W. Gate City Blvd. Greensboro, NC 27407 2190 Lawndale Drive Greensboro, NC 27408

Established 1987

MISSION STATEMENT

Seeking to put God’s love into action, Habitat for Humanity brings people together to build homes, communities, and hope.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

Volunteers are at the heart of each Habitat home. Whether at our ReStore or on the build site, every volunteer is helping families build a foundation for a brighter future. Visit habitatgreensboro.org/volunteer to learn more.

HOW TO DONATE

Every donation helps build safe, stable, and affordable housing. Donate securely online at: Habitat Greensboro.org. Habitat Greensboro is also grateful to accept donations of gently used home furnishings for our ReStore. To schedule a donation pick-up, please visit our website, or call 336.851.2929.

WHO WE SERVE

Habitat Greensboro works toward our vision of a world where everyone has a safe and affordable place to live. Partnering with low-income families who have a demonstrated need, an ability to pay an affordable mortgage, and a willingness to partner, we help families achieve the strength, stability, and self-reliance they need to build better lives for themselves.

KEY FACTS:

• Habitat Greensboro has helped more than 500 families achieve their dream of homeownership.

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5140 Dunstan Rd, Greensboro, NC 27405 336.621.3381 www.fellowshiphall.com

Established 1971

MISSION STATEMENT

It is the mission of Fellowship Hall to help people who suffer from substance use disorder, and to provide compassionate, cost-effective care while maintaining our commitment to a Twelve-Step philosophy.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

Volunteers help us in a variety of ways. If you’re interested in serving as a volunteer, contact our Development Department at 336.553.6625.

HOW TO DONATE

To make a donation to our day-to-day operations or to our Partner Scholarship Program which covers the cost for individuals without health insurance or financial resources, visit fellowshiphall.com

WHO WE SERVE

Fellowship Hall is a private, not-for-profit 501(c)(3) specialty hospital treating adult women and men suffering from addiction to alcohol and/or drugs.

KEY FACTS:

• We are licensed by the NC Department of Health & Human Services as a specialty hospital and in operation since 1971 • We are accredited by the Join Commission and have been since 1974 • Our Medical Director is on staff and certified by the American Society of

Addiction Medicine • Our clinicians are Masters-level and trained in treating substance use disorders. They provide group and individual counseling sessions. • Our nurses are licensed and are on site 24/7/365 • We offer Gender responsive treatment

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1451 S Elm-Eugene St, Greensboro, NC 27406 336.379.5001 www.nussbaumcfe.com

Established 1987

MISSION STATEMENT

Turning Entrepreneurs Into Business Owners

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

We utilize SCORE volunteers to assist our Associates and entrepreneurs with their start up needs. To volunteer go to https://www.score.org/volunteer.

HOW TO DONATE

Donations can be made through our website. https://nussbaumcfe.com/donate/

WHO WE SERVE

Entrepreneurs and small business owners who are looking to grow their business in a safe environment. The Nussbaum Center for Entrepreneurship (NCFE) provides affordable office space and conference rooms in our 65,000 sf incubator. Free business coaching is available through our network of 6 in house partners. NCFE is conveniently located 1 mile from I-40 and downtown Greensboro.

KEY FACTS:

• NCFE was founded in 1987 and is the 2nd oldest small business incubator in the State of North Carolina. • In 2021, our Associates created or retained 205 full time equivalent jobs with average salaries of $62,000. • In 2022, Guerrilla RF made NCFE history by becoming the first Associate to go from idea to a publicly traded company. • In 2023, NCFE will begin construction on The Steelhouse, an Urban

Manufacturing and Innovation Center.

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220 North Church St., Greensboro, NC 27401 336.574.2898 www.mbcmuseum.com

Established 1999

MISSION STATEMENT

The Miriam P. Brenner Children’s Museum mission is to engage all children and families in hands-on, fun learning experiences which contribute to their growth and development through play, creation, outdoor exploration, and STEM experiences.

HOW TO VOLUNTEER

Volunteer opportunities are available for individuals and groups both on the Museum floor and in our Edible Schoolyard Garden. Visit www.mbcmuseum.com/ internships-and-jobs to find out more.

HOW TO DONATE

Visit our website at www.mbcmuseum.com and click donate to find out how to support our cause.

WHO WE SERVE

The Miriam P. Brenner Children’s Museum serves children and families in the Triad region and beyond, providing hands-on learning experiences through daily visits, school field trip programs, after-school creative and enrichment classes, and summer camps.

KEY FACTS:

• The Miriam P. Brenner Children’s Museum has been serving the Triad community since 1999. • The Museum hosts over 120,000 visitors annually. • The Museum has 20+ learning and play exhibits including the 30ft XXL Twin

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Weekly Events

SUNDAYS

OPEN MIC. 6–9 p.m. Host Bryan Toney welcomes local musicians to share their talents. Free. Oden Brewing Co., 802 West Gate City Blvd., Greensboro. Info: odenbrewing.com/taproom-events.

MONDAYS

TOTAL BODY DANCE. 7–8 p.m. An adult fitness program consisting of cardio dance routines. Free. Lewis Recreation Center, 3110 Forest Lawn Drive, Greensboro. Info: greensboro-nc.gov (click on “events”).

WEDNESDAYS

GREENSBORO CHESS CLUB. 6–9 p.m. Enjoy chess on a social and competitive level. Free. Lewis Recreation Center, 3110 Forest Lawn Drive, Greensboro. Info: greensboro-nc.gov (click on “events”).

THURSDAYS

JAZZ AT THE O.HENRY. 6–9 p.m. Sip vintage craft cocktails and snack on tapas while the O.Henry Trio performs with a different jazz vocalist each week. Free. O.Henry Hotel Social Lobby, 624 Green Valley Road, Greensboro. Info: ohenryhotel.com/o-henry-jazz. CYCLING CLUB. 6–8:30 p.m. Cyclists meet up for an easy downtown ride. Free. LeBauer Park, 208 N. Davie St., Greensboro. Info: greensborodowntownparks.org/calendar.

Natalie Grant

10.03.2022

Sergey Antonov

10.05.2022

November Events

01–12

OFRENDA. The Center for Visual Artists hosts Casa Azul’s Dia de Muertos celebration featuring an ofrenda exhibition, live events and activities. Free. Greensboro Cultural Center, 200 N. Davie St., Greensboro. Info: casaazulgreensboro.org.

02, 09 & 16

ZUMBA IN THE PARK. 5:30–6:30 p.m. Shake and groove in this weekly class led by Velmy Liz Trinidad. Free. LeBauer Park, 208 N. Davie St., Greensboro. Info: greensborodowntownparks.org/calendar.

03

NATALIE GRANT. 7:30 p.m. The renowned Christian and gospel singer performs her most loved songs. Tickets: $26.50+. Carolina Theatre, 310 S. Greene St., Greensboro. Info: carolinatheatre.com/events. TRAVIS TRITT. 7:30 p.m. Country legends Travis Tritt and Chris Janson perform with special guest War Hippies. Tickets: $39.50+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events. GIRLS NIGHT. 7 p.m. Think “Desperate Housewives meets Mama Mia!” Bring your friends along to Girls Night: The Musical. Tickets: $39+. High Point Theatre, 220 E. Commerce Ave., High Point. Info: highpointtheatre.com/events.

04

ULTIMATE EAGLES TRIBUTE. 8:30 p.m. On the Border performs the songs of the Eagles. Tickets: $25+. Carolina

Theatre, 310 S. Greene St., Greensboro. Info: carolinatheatre.com/events. FIRST FRIDAY. 6–9:30 p.m. Head downtown for events at the Greensboro Cultural Center and Greensboro Downtown Parks. 200 N. Davie St., Greensboro. Info: downtowngreensboro.org. THALEA STRING QUARTET. 7:30–9 p.m. Enjoy an evening of diverse musical traditions from around the world. Tickets: $5+. Virginia Somerville Sutton Theatre at Well-Spring, 4100 Well Spring Drive, Greensboro. Info: artsgreensboro.org/events. GREEN QUEEN BINGO. 7 p.m. Guilford Green welcomes all to a night of bingo, drag and hilarity. Tickets: $12+. Piedmont Hall, 2409 W. Gate City Blvd., Greensboro. Info: guilfordgreenfoundation.org/ggf-events/green-queen-bingo.

05

SPARTAN JAZZ. 7:30 p.m. UNCG’s Spartan Jazz Collective celebrates the music of Charles Mingus. Tickets: $10+. In the Crown at the Carolina Theatre, 310 S. Greene St., Greensboro. Info: vpa.uncg. edu/single-event/spartan-jazz-collective. SERGEY ANTONOV. 8 p.m. The Grammy-nominated cellist plays with the Greensboro Symphony. Tickets: $35+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: greensborosymphony. org/event/sergey-antonov-cello. PIGSTOCK. 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Greensboro Area Rotary Clubs dish out a barbecue competition plus bluegrass festival to benefit Children of Vietnam. Tickets: $35+; under 12, free. Shooting Star Horse Farm, 5624 Davis Mill Road, Greensboro. Info: pigstockbbq.com.

06.

BIG BAND. 3–5 p.m. Enjoy the swingstyle jazz of The Greensboro Big Band at Creative Greensboro’s Opus Concert Series. Free. Greensboro Cultural Center, 200 N. Davie St., Greensboro. Info: greensboro-nc.gov (click on “events”). 07

SITKOVETSKY & FRIENDS. 7 p.m. Greensboro Symphony music director and violinist Dimitri Sitkovetsky is joined by cellist Sergey Antonov and pianist Inara Zandmane. Tickets: $35. Tew Recital Hall, 100 McIver St., Greensboro. Info: greensborosymphony.org/event/ rice-toyota-sitkovetsky-friends-chamber-9.

08

DISNEY JUNIOR. 6 p.m. Dress up for Costume Palooza with your favorite Disney Junior characters. Tickets $31+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events. HERITAGE OF AMERICA. 7 p.m. In honor of Veteran’s day, the United States Air Force Heritage of America Band performs. Free. High Point Theatre, 220 E. Commerce Ave., High Point. Info: highpointtheatre.com/events.

10–30

VICTORIAN CHRISTMAS. 11 a.m.–4 p.m. Discover holiday traditions of the mid-19th century at the fully decorated Blandwood Mansion. Runs through Jan. 4. Closed on Mondays and holidays. Admission: $7+; students, free. Blandwood Museum, 447 W. Washington St., Greensboro. Info: preservationgreensboro.org/event/ early-victorian-christmas-at-blandwood-6.

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JAZZ IN THE CROWN. 7:30 p.m. The Miles Davis Jazz Studies Program at UNCG concludes their semester-long retrospective of the music of Charles Mingus. Tickets: $9+. In the Crown at the Carolina Theatre, 310 S. Greene St., Greensboro. Info: vpa.uncg.edu/ single-event/jazz-ensemble-ii-mingus. LEVITIN & CASH. 7:30 p.m. Guilford College’s Bryan Series pairs Daniel Levitin, neuroscientist and author of This is Your Brain on Music, with Grammy-winning singer-songwriter Rosanna Cash for an enthralling presentation. Tickets: $50+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events.

11–13 & 16–19

WILD PARTY. Times vary. UNCG’s School of Theatre brings to life the story of a pair of lovers throwing the party to end all parties, resulting in a violent fit of jealousy. Tickets $5+. Sprinkle Theatre, 402 Tate St., Greensboro. Info: vpa.uncg.edu/theatre/ performances-and-events/productions.

11 & 13

LA BOHÈME. 7:30 p.m. & 2 p.m. Greensboro Opera brings Puccini’s portrayal of bohemian lifestyle in the mid-nineteenth century to stage. Tickets: $15+. UNCG Auditorium, 408 Tate St., Greensboro. Info: greensboroopera.org/tickets.

11

JOE GATTO. 8 p.m. Comedian Joe Gatto, known for Impractical Jokers and The Misery Index brings a Night of Comedy to the Gate City. Tickets: $35.75+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events. ACE HOOD. 8 p.m. Rapper and fitness influencer Ace Hood performs as part of his Protect Your Energy tour. Tickets: $41+. Cone Denim Entertainment Center, 117 S. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: greensboro.ticketsales.com/ cone-denim-center-tickets/venue.

12–13 & 18–20

OZ. Times vary. The Community Theatre of Greensboro takes you down the yellow brick road to see The Wizard of Oz. Tickets $10+. Carolina Theatre, 310 S. Greene St., Greensboro. Info: ctgso.org/ctg_shows/wizard27/.

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TAYLOR TOMLINSON. 8 p.m. The Quarter-Life Crisis comedian delivers a show filled with wit and humor. Tickets: $35.75+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events.

GRUPO FIRME. 8 p.m. It’s “a Mexican party in the U.S.” with the music of the Latin Grammy-winning septet from Tijuana. Tickets: $60.50+. Greensboro Coliseum Complex, 1921 W. Gate City Blvd., Greensboro. Info: greensborocoliseum.com/events. PHILHARMONIA. 7:30–9:30 p.m. Creative Greensboro presents its Opus Concert Series, featuring the Philharmonia of Greensboro. Gail Brower Performance Center at Greensboro College, 815 W. Market St., Greensboro. Free. Greensboro. Info: greensboro-nc.gov (click on “events”). OPEN HEARTH. 10 a.m.–4:30 p.m. Costumed interpreters cook a traditional fall harvest meal over an open hearth in the Hoggatt House. Free. 1859 E. Lexington Ave., High Point. Info: highpointnc.gov/2329/Museum.

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PEPPA PIG. 2 p.m. Go on a live camping adventure with Peppa Pig and friends. Tickets: $25+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events. SOMAN CHAINANI. 2 p.m. Before you watch the movie, meet the author of the New York Times bestselling School for Good and Evil series. Free. Scuppernong Books, 304 S. Elm St. Greensboro. Info: scuppernongbooks.com/event. FRIENDSGIVING. 6–9 p.m. Greensboro Downtown Parks annual fundraising event invites you to enjoy cocktails and a catered dinner with community members. Tickets: $150. LeBauer Great Lawn, 208 N. Davie St. Greensboro. Info: greensborodowntownparks.org/calendar.

15

SYMPHONIC BAND. 7:30 p.m. The UNCG Symphonic Band performs, featuring professor of oboe Ashley Barret. Free. UNCG Auditorium, 408 Tate St., Greensboro. Info: vpa.uncg.edu/single-event/ symphonic-band-ashley-barret-oboe-2. CARMEN JONES. 7 p.m. Carolina Classics brings the 1955 wartime film starring Harry Belafonte to the big screen. Tickets: $7. Carolina Theatre, 310 S. Greene St., Greensboro. Info: carolinatheatre.com/events. PAWS & PUBLISHING. 7–8:30 p.m. Author Tammy Billups will join animal lovers via Zoom to share insights on writing, publishing and working with animals. Free. Vance Chavis Branch Library, 900 S. Benbow Road, Greensboro. Info: greensboro-nc.gov (click on “events”).

16

ALTON BROWN. 7:30 p.m. Go Beyond the Eats, holiday style, with the iconic Food Network personality. Tickets: $35+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events. MERRY MERRY MARKET. 9 a.m.–8 p.m. Shop a holiday boutique of more than 60 vendors selling handmade goods. Tickets: $5. Revolution Mill Events Center, 900 Revolution Mill Drive, Greensboro. Info: merrymerrymarketgso.com. CITY LAKE PARK. 11 a.m. High Point Historical Society discusses the history and future of the park. Free. City Lake Park, 602 W. Main St., Jamestown. Info: highpointnc.gov/2329/Museum.

17–23 & 25–30

WINTER WONDERLIGHTS. 5:30–10 p.m. Greensboro Science Center’s holiday light display opens for the season. Tickets: $16+; under 3, free. Greensboro Science Center, 4301 Lawndale Drive, Greensboro. Info: greensboroscience.org/ winterwonderlights.

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WIND ENSEMBLE. 7:30 p.m. Assistant professor of clarinet Andy Hudson plays with the UNCG Wind Ensemble. Free. UNCG Auditorium, 408 Tate St., Greensboro. Info: vpa.uncg.edu/single-event/ wind-ensemble-andy-hudson-clarinet. COOKED. 5:30 p.m. The UNCG Sustainability Film and Discussion Series presents Cooked, a film about the worst heat disaster in U.S. History. Free. Weatherspoon Art Museum, 500 Tate St., Greensboro. Info: weatherspoonart.org/calendar.

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THE ILLUSIONISTS. 8 p.m. The Illusionists’ Magic of the Holidays dazzles with astonishing acts. Tickets: $36+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events. NU-BLU. 7:30 p.m. The North Carolinabased band delivers an acoustic concert of ballads and upbeat tunes. Tickets: $14+. In the Crown at the Carolina Theatre, 310 S. Greene St., Greensboro. Info: carolinatheatre.com/events. CONFEDERATE RAILROAD. 7 p.m. Enjoy a night of country music from a 30-year repertoire of songs. Tickets: $35+. High Point Theatre, 220 E. Commerce Ave., High Point. Info: highpointtheatre.com/events. UNCG BAND. 7:30 p.m. Professor Abigail Pack plays the horn with UNCG’s University Band. Free. UNCG Auditorium, 408 Tate St., Greensboro. Info: vpa.uncg.edu/single-event/ university-band-abigail-pack-horn.

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BLUE JEANS & PEARLS GALA. 6–11 p.m. Carolina Adoption Services hosts its fundraising gala featuring special guests Jordan and Lynn Moore Rhodes. Tickets: $125. Grandover Resort, 1000 Club Road, Greensboro. Info: gala.childrensadoptionservices.org. MICHAEL FEINSTEIN. 8 p.m. Along with the Greensboro Symphony, the legendary singer and musician pays tribute to Judy Garland in honor of her 100th birthday. Tickets: $35+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: greensborosymphony.org/event/ michael-feinstein.

20

ATIF ASLAM. 7 p.m. The Pakistani singer-songwriter belts out his Bollywood

hits. Tickets: $49+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events. BLACK VIOLIN. 7:30 p.m. Hard-hitting beats merge with whimsical string melodies in Black Violin’s Give Thanks Holiday Tour. Tickets: $40+. High Point Theatre, 220 E. Commerce Ave., High Point. Info: highpointtheatre.com/events.

23

MANNHEIM STEAMROLLER. 7:30 p.m. Composer Chip Davis leads Mannheim Steamroller in a night of holiday classics. Tickets: $35+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events. LOS ÁNGELES AZULES. 8 p.m. This Mexican group blends the sounds of 1950-70s Colombian cumbia with ‘90sstyle electronic music. Tickets: $59.50+. Greensboro Coliseum Complex, 1921 W. Gate City Blvd., Greensboro. Info: greensborocoliseum.com/events.

24

GRATEFUL 8 p.m. Give thanks for live music from Jam Cooperative, a Grateful Dead Experience. No cover. Ziggys.Space, 1547 W. English Road, High Point. Info: ziggys.space/events.

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MARTINA MCBRIDE. The legendary country songstress kicks off The Joy of Christmas Tour. Tickets: $39+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events. BERRY CHRISTMAS. Legendary country artist John Berry sings the holiday hits. Tickets: $35+. High Point Theatre, 220 E. Commerce Ave., High Point. Info: highpointtheatre.com/events. GOODIE DRUMSTICK. 10 a.m.–2 p.m. Stuff a paper turkey drumstick full of goodies. Free. All ages welcome. Little Red Schoolhouse at the High Point Museum, 1859 E. Lexington Ave., High Point. Info: highpointnc.gov/2329/Museum. 27

DIRTY DANCING. 7 p.m. Have the time of your life at the classic film’s first movieto-concert experience featuring a live band and singers. Tickets: $45+. Steven Tanger Center, 300 N. Elm St., Greensboro. Info: tangercenter.com/events. ROME & DUDDY. 8 p.m. Former Sublime and Dirty Heads members formed this duo that plays feel-good music the world needs. Tickets: $57+. Cone Denim Entertainment Center, 117 S. Elm St., Greensboro.Info: greensboro.ticketsales.com/cone-denim-center-tickets/venue.

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MOTOWN CHRISTMAS. 8 p.m. Enjoy classic Motown hits, plus holiday tunes, performed by an ensemble featuring members of The Temptations, The Miracles and The Capitols. Tickets: $44+. Carolina Theatre, 310 S. Greene St., Greensboro. Info: carolinatheatre.com/events. 30

HANDEL’S MESSIAH. 7–9 p.m. The Choral Society of Greensboro performs its annual classic as part of Creative Greensboro’s Opus Concert Series. Free. Carolina Theatre, 310 S. Greene St., Greensboro. Info: greensboro-nc.gov (click on “events”). OH

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Call me when you get there

A mother’s mantra leaves tire tracks on the heart

By Cynthia adams

I confess to missing it — something that once made my eyes roll into my head. Mama’s constant comment upon parting: “Call me when you get there.”

Mama first started when I was a new driver at 16, chugging to high school in a periwinkle blue Corvair — named Perry, of course. Perry was aging badly; he had a leak in the oil pan.

The Corvair was the infamous unsafe-at-any-speed car that made Ralph Nader a household name. Perry expired too soon, after consuming lethal quantities of oil that puddled in the high school parking lot.

Actually, Mama’s request seemed very reasonable in retrospect, given Nader’s view that the car was prone to spinning around in the middle of the road with a steering wheel shaft likely to impale drivers in a crash.

Two years later, heading off to college in a second-hand British racing-green Austin Healy Sprite, it was questionable if Perry’s replacement was any safer. The tiny convertible was darling and nimble, but so lightweight that passing semis blew me like a leaf.

Mama’s view that my driving was unsafe at any speed didn’t help things.

Time trudged onward, yet there was no aging out of Mama’s cautious farewells. She repeated the “call me when you get there” just as urgently when I was 24 and drove a caution-flag-yellow Honda Civic — which no one with working eyes could possibly miss.

Mama repeated the same thing when I reached 30 and was driving a fast BMW 3 Series, newly single and facing the open road.

She knew there were plenty of potholes that could potentially swallow up my naive self.

When I headed into a new marriage, Mama still repeated the old saw upon each parting, even though I had graduated to a safe, staid Volvo.

Her admonition remained a given, even when I reached age 40. Pulling away from her in a third-hand diesel Mercedes, her hand flapped at me as I watched her mouthing the words. That car alone was definitely too heavy for the semis to whipsaw around on I-85. The safety of the car, the situation, nor my age, mattered not at all to her. I was to call. When. There. Easing my Honda Accord out of Presbyterian Hospital’s parking deck four years later, I left Mama scared and freshly scarred, recovering from heart surgery. Her standard words, raspingly delivered, rang in my head as I ached for her; call me when you get there. A newlywed at 75, Mama stood with a bouquet, waving us off, comically urging us to call when we got there. We were flying home. She was hitting the high seas to honeymoon. The cruise ship bearing her and her sweetfaced groom, Jim, age 81, pulled up anchor and departed Miami. Eleven years later with Jim’s passing, we moved her to an adult community in Cornelius. Here she stood at the door, leaning on a walker, ever watchful each time I pulled away in my Honda hybrid. Dark eyes burned brightly in Mama’s pale, thin face. Once, I noticed her lips moving, so I circled back. She repeated hoarsely, “Call me when you get there,” wanly waving and blowing a kiss.

On another evening, the walker stood at her bedside.

Mama’s lids were heavy. The effort of speech and wakefulness too much. For the first — and only — time, I left to silence.

Making my way due north on I-77, I heard the echoes of the worn phrase, one she used with all five of her charges, plus her grandchildren, her great-grandchildren and, now, too, her caregivers.

Silence tugged at me, weighing heavily, as I navigated the darkness.

This time, it was she who was leaving.

My tires slapped the tarmac in a lulling rhythm: Call me/ when you/ get there. OH

Cynthia Adams is a contributing editor of O.Henry magazine.

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