A SOUVENIR TO TREASURE
A MAN OF DISTINCTION 1st November 1934 – 5th October 2020
Caleb studying his first priority
WHAT’S IN A NAME
COOPER
English: occupational name for a maker and repairer of wooden vessels such as barrels, tubs, buckets, casks, and vats, from Middle English couper, cowper (apparently from Middle Dutch kūper, a derivative of kūp ‘tub’, ‘container’, which was borrowed independently into English as coop). The prevalence of the surname, its cognates, and equivalents bears witness to the fact that this was one of the chief specialist trades in the Middle Ages throughout Europe Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. 2 Timothy 2v15 THE COOPERS OF JAMAICA If you are interested finding out more: http://www.antonymaitland.com/jammaitl.htm#_Toc43976359 The Cooper Family of Jamaica but so many other names emerge
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CALEB Origin: Hebrew
Faithful, Devotion, Whole hearted, Bold, Brave , Trailer-blazer, Game- Changer, Engineer, Single-minder, Fearless, Zealous It is a compound word, a phenomenon quite common in ancient Hebrew. Col (לכ, Kaf + Lamed) = “all” or “whole”; Lev (בל, Lamed + Bet) means “heart”. Of the tribe of Judah, Caleb the son of Jephunneh. Numbers 13 v 6 And Caleb stilled the people before Moses, and said, Let us go up at once, and possess it; for we are well able to overcome it. Numbers 13:30 Caleb was one of the twelve spies sent to Caanan, He was zealous and ruthless the first to speak up when the opportunity arose saying, “let’s go and conquer this land,” He had born leadership qualities because it was Caleb, not Joshua, that encouraged Israel to follow God in spite of the opposition from the ten other spies. Caleb’s report balanced the appeal of the land and its fruits with the challenge of making a conquest
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CONTENTS Come And Celebrate Our Father’s Life With Us In The Beginning
The Rough Riders
The Journey
To Work & Study No Time to Play Their Sporting Prowess Makes News With every disappointment comes an opportunity Just ‘Passing Through’ 83 Shepphard
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26 10 27 11 40 12 43 13 51 14 57 15 60
Fast Forward
Perces Caleb’s Heartbeat
When You Lose A Loved One
The Family
Violet Richards Fidelitas Personified Friendships & Fellowships & Fraternities
Party Time
The Next Generation
Family Tree
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Front: Shari-dee, Beverley. Back: Nigel, Duncan, Raymond, Dave
COME AND CELEBRATE
Our Father’s Life With Us
Today, 1st November 2020 our father is celebrating his 86th birthday with loved ones in heaven. We miss him but we are not sad. We are remembering and rejoicing about his life and times. Each of us had our own private journey with him, special times that are bound to our hearts and engrained in our memory. We would like to share some of those times with you. We are sure you all have particular memories of Caleb Duncan Cooper, CDC, Father C or just Caleb and we hope that this memento will give you a snapshot of the generous, pioneering, caring, off times moody, and impatient trailblazer he was and is as he lives through each of us. Enjoy!
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Credit: In Jamaica
On the road to Point Hill
IN THE BEGINNING
One sunny blessed day in the hills of St Catherine, Jamaica a heavily pregnant woman sat alone on her verandah contemplating the arrival of her fifth child. In the absence of DNA testing she wondered whether it would be her fourth girl or her second boy. An elderly wise woman, spiritualist, preacher from the surrounding district, Ms. Crisella approached her and uninvited said, “ You are going to have a boy and you must call him Joshua or Caleb. Furthermore you must not come out with him for 21 days.� She left. In those days, unlike now young mothers did not present themselves to the community for 9 days after the birth of a child. But Caleb stayed in the dark with his mother for the full 21 days emerging with the reputation of being very, very special.
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Figure 1 Raymond Cooper finally tied the knot and married the love of his life, Emeriah Matilda Armstrong they already had five children, on Tuesday 29th January 1935.
So on Thursday 1st November, 1934 Caleb Duncan Cooper was born the fifth of six children that were to be born to Raymond Cooper and Emeriah Matilda ArmstrongCooper aka “Pahraye” and “Naan” of Garden Hill, St. Catherine, Jamaica. The Patriarch - Raymond Emanuel Cooper aka ‘Pahraye
His siblings were Tomasina aka ‘Tuxcie’, Adassa, Lucille, and Bertram. His younger brother Henry aka Sonny followed shortly.
1971 – Tuxcie, Pahraye, and Naan in the shade of the sugar cane.
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Naan with some of her children (missing Tuxcie and Lucille)
One of the chores in the morning was to walk three miles to collect water on his head. His sisters would then set up the stove to cook breakfast while he and his brothers went of to cut fire sticks and milk the cow; all of this before going to school. Caleb was bright, articulate, charismatic, high coloured like Naan who was herself a mulatto, and born to lead. Had it not been for an altercation between Naan and the head teacher of Garden Hill School Caleb would have attended that school with his siblings.
However, his brother Bertram was the brain box of the family. He took the Third Jamaica Local at age 13 and passed with distinction. In those days that qualified him to be a probationary teacher who would get paid. It was not to be the School brought in an outsider to fill the role. Naan was slighted and moved Caleb and his younger sibling Henry ‘Sonny’ Cooper to Point Hill Primary. This meant that Caleb and Sonny had to trot 7 miles every day to Point Hill School, earning themselves the nickname “The Trotters”. 8
Peeny Wallies
Credit: Jamaicans.com
Country life was simple but hard work. There was no electricity and no running water. At night Caleb caught peeny wallies and kept them in a bottle providing enough light to do his homework.
Driven by passion and a high sense of adventure Caleb excelled in every thing he put his hand too. Failure was not an option. Even when he failed he used it as a steppingstone and a learning curve to something better. He sat the 3rd Jamaica local exam and on leaving school was taken by Teacher Charlton to work at Worthy Park Sugar Factory as an office clerk. This was another 71/2 mile bicycle ride over very rough terrain. He remained there for 8 months. He earned £2 per week, which he gave to Naan. He did not know it at the time but she was saving a substantial amount of that money. It provided the fare for him to go to London.
l-r Sonny, Percess Caleb’s wife, Carmen Sonny’s wife, Edna Bert’s wife, Naan, Bert, Caleb Adassa
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THE ROUGH RIDERS
Lucille
The Cooper Siblings were a formidable team determined that any they set their mind on was possible – and it was.
Adassa
Tuxcie
Sonny
Caleb
Bert
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Bishop Charles Wright toasts Caleb at his 80th birthday party in London, UK
The Journey
The SS Auriga
Late August 1954 Caleb and his life long friend Charles Wright were among the 1153 persons aboard the Italian immigrant ship the SSAuriga bound for Plymouth England. He described the 19-day trip as a horrible trip because the vessel was rat-infested. When they landed many people were taken to hospitals with rat bites. Once in England Caleb joined his brother, Bertram in Swindon.
Credit: Willilam H Miller
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No Time to Play
Credit: Swindon Viewpoint
Within days of arriving Caleb started work as a stores clerk at Vickers-Armstrong aircraft producers. As well as starting work Caleb started college to study accounting. However, the management at Vickers had other ideas, they recognised Caleb’s ability in design and asked him to switch from accounting to engineering. He was placed in the design office working on a new aircraft project.
Vickers-Armstrong factory in Swindon Credit: Swindonweb
To Work & Study
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THEIR SPORTING PROWESS
MAKES NEWS
Both Caleb and Bertram made their mark in the sporting world reviving the fortunes of the Vickers-Armstrong sporting team. If it wasn’t cricket it was table tennis or dominoes.
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With every disappointment
comes an opportunity
Caleb was discharged from the RAF on medical grounds. Although he was disappointed at work he had become the Chief Union Delegate. He a group of workers felt a colleague had been mistreated so Caleb called a strike. He did not realize that the company was under military orders and therefore could not strike. Not deterred he said they were just stopping their labour. With hindsight he said,” Young bird don’t know storm” – As he was inexperienced he did not know the responsibility he was taking on. And that was not the only storm.
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JUST ‘PASSING THROUGH’
83 SHEPPARD STREET Gertrude Maud Forrester and Beverley at the Unmarried Mothers’ Home in Devizes, Wiltshire, 1956
The winters in the UK were challenging for the West Indian community. The poor housing did not help. Caleb lived in a tenanted rooming house at 83 Sheppard Street, Swindon, Wiltshire. It was there he met a young dressmaker from Rennalls District, St. Catherine Gertrude Maud Forrester. Caleb chuckles as he explains that the houses were not well made they were drafty and he had to pass through several rooms before he got to his. One night it was so cold he needed a ‘live blanket’ so he arrived at Maud’s room and stayed. Figure 5 Gertrude Maud Forrester and Beverley at the Unmarried Mothers’ Home in Devizes, Wiltshire, 1956 He was still studying, just 22, and settling down was not part of the plan.
The winters in the UK were challenging for the West Indian community. The poor housing did not help. Caleb lived in a tenanted rooming house at 83 Sheppard Street, Swindon, Wiltshire. It was there he met a young dressmaker from Rennalls District, St. Catherine Gertrude Maud Forrester. Caleb chuckles as he explains that the houses were not well made they were drafty and he had to pass through several rooms before he got to his. One night it was so cold he needed a ‘live blanket’ so he arrived at Maud’s room and stayed. 15
So, the baby girl, Beverley aka Popsie was fostered by an English family Audrey and Richard Steavenson and lived in a village, South Marston in Gordon Cottage. Caleb visited when he could and the family became friends to both Caleb and Bertram.
Gordon Cottage where The Steavenson lived
Susan Steavenson, Audrey ‘Lyn’ Steavenson, Popsie, Robert Steavenson.
Caleb visited Lyn (dec’d), when in the UK. 16
Brother Bert was now married to Edna and Caleb was lonely
FAST FORWARD
Caleb and Bertram were making waves in the West Indian community. Caleb set up the Swindon and District Caribbean Social And Welfare Club, International Friendship League (IFL), Cricket teams, Sports Club and the Swindon Church of God. He preached, played cricket and dominoes, and organized everybody’s social life. But Caleb was lonely and longed for companionship. 17
“And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.� Genesis
Bertram and Edna get married
Daryl, Althea, Denise and Ian
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PERCESS CALEB’S HEARTBEAT
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Genesis 2v23 19
Percess May Colquhoun born in Springmount, St James. One of five siblings Ivy, Phyllis, Thelma, and Aubrey went to England to study nursing. A career well suited for her caring and compassionate personality. She was soft-spoken but firm. A stickler for detail a trait inherited by her youngest son, Nigel. She had a laugh that was infectious which her second son Duncan who, looks the most like her, has definitely inherited. However, she beams with pride at the mention of her firstborn Raymond’s name a tall, gentle giant whose hug totally encompasses her slender frame. Never forgotten is Dave who has an abundance of love and emotion in every mischievous move.
Wedding Day
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July 11 1959
He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favour from the LORD. Proverb 18 v 22
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Caleb and Percess, Raymond, Duncan
But the love of her life is Caleb Duncan Cooper. His charm and smile, the never-ending string of lyrics that capture and mesmorise the every part of her meant she stood no chance once he started to pursue her and put up little resistance. They went through the rollercoaster of emotions that any marriage to Caleb Duncan Cooper would evoke but she remained loyal, faithful and his rock. Although she transitioned on 19th November 2016 she never left him. Even on his hospital bed Caleb talked of her as his heartbeat and said she is stretching out her hand to me and bidding me to come. Never able to resist her embrace and her cheeky smile he obediently took her hand and left.
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LET’S THE MEMORIES ROLL Opportunity Knocks - 1963 – Your Country Needs You! Caleb heads back to Jamaica with his young family. He has been promised a job with Public Works and Percess as a State Registered Nurse a job at the hospital. The children at 8 Upper Musgrave Avenue, Jamaica
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Home sweet home
25th Wedding Anniversary
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1980s Get together in Garden Hill
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When You Lose
A Loved One The sadness, shock and sleeplessness Are almost too much to bear But these are early guests When you lose a loved one dear
Little by little, day by day The memory, dream and prayer Are the legacy, hope and comfort When you lose a loved one dear
Days go by in a blur Friends call and visit from far and near Offering help and comfort When you lose a loved one dear
But the greatest of all reasons To not drown in despair Is when you know you’re Heaven-bound And will meet your loved one there
The loneliness, grief and sorrow Heartache and many a tear Soften and strengthen the soul After you lose a loved one dear
Sharon Earle-Edwards© 2/7/16
Too soon the send-off passes Just like your loved one did That’s when the silence unearths The deep feelings you have hid You wonder if you’re seeing things Or if sounds you do hear Like the friendly face or vibrant voice Of that one near and dear How can some go back to normal As if your pain they do not share? Leaving you with the gaping void Of that loss so near and dear Yet arise and rebuild you must They’d have it no other way Than to know you continue To fulfill God’s purpose every day Life well-lived, photos and example Ways they in your being did share Are grafted in your heart After you lose a loved one dear 26
It is called Melancolie. And it is heartbreakingly beautiful. The artwork created by Albert György (living in Switzerland, but born in Romania) can be found in Geneva in a small park on the promenade (Quai du Mont Blanc) along the shore of Lake Geneva. https://totallybuffalo.com/a-sculpture-that-creates-intense-emotion/
Adassa’s Family The Last of the Rough Riders
Uncle Caleb just lit up a room with his presence! We all know of his accomplishments so I don’t have to repeat that. However, he was indeed a mellow man and so well loved by us all. Even at our darkest moment he managed to bring that happy go lucky attitude amongst us.
Ventura Agatha Armstrong Linette Williams - Quander daughter Lorna Armstrong daughter (dec’d ) Maria Armstrong daughter (dec’d) Lorna Williams
He is last of the” Rough Riders”, may you join the crew in peace. Love you Uncle Caleb
Tammy ,William,Aneka, Ira, Brian 15 Grandchildren, 1 Great grandchild 27
Bertram’s family
My memories of Caleb date back to when I was a child growing up in St. Catherine. He and my late husband Bert were inseparable but now are together in God’s heavenly arms. Caleb was present when I married the love of my life Bert in England and was always an intricate part of our family throughout the many years.
THE FOUR OF US EDNA COOPER WIDOW OF THE LATE BERTRAM COOPER My memories of Caleb date back to when I was a child growing up in St. Catherine. He and my late husband Bert were inseparable but now are together in God’s heavenly Edna Cooper arms. Caleb was present when I married the love of my life Bert in England and was always an intricate part of our family throughout the many years. Caleb always had a smile when he was around others, never really complained about much, and always saw the positive in any situation. He was a generous and kind spirit, a good father, brother, uncle, granddad, and of course a caring husband to his late wife Percess. It would always
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be the four of us at functions together those were memorable times. Caleb was always working on projects with Bert whether business related, personal, or for his church or club organizations. Caleb was a go- getter, a problem solver, an organiser, a peacemaker, and one who loved life and living. He is with the Lord now and at peace as his life and purpose on earth has come to an end. My deepest condolences are extended to the entire Cooper family. Peace be with you all Uncle Caleb was an institution in my life. He was always an encourager, an influencer and interested in everything I did. I always looked forward not just the presents but the visits to our house where it was pure excitement and laughter. When we would go to Lady Musgrave for the Kiwanis events we know we would always be in for a treat.
Changing of the Guard by Althea Wray Uncle Caleb spoke at my sweet sixteen - every bit a raconteur from then until his death. He always had a joke around the corner to suit the occasion. He and his family supported us at every life event we went through. Every time we met him or visited his house he was so upbeat, positive and outward looking. He and Auntie Percess used to call me Althea Patricia and were always interested in how I was doing with my music. Even my opportunity to travel to Toronto to take part in the Kiwanis music competition in the mid 70’s and to play at various events in Kingston
I am sure were a byproduct of his involvement with Kiwanis International. I remember the play horse I used to play on at their house back in Swindon. I remember looking forward to Christmas, as their presents were memorable presents like a tape recorder one year and a silver bangle another year demonstrated their kindness and love to us. I am also grateful for making space to give many of us summer jobs at Cooper and Associates. It was sad to see him slowing down in the past few years, unable to be as active as he would like to have been but I am so happy that he drew closer to God and his church. I know he missed my Papa terribly as they depended on each other in so many ways. I must add that this changing of the guard Althea Wray is painful and tearful and full of responsibility as we now all must step up into the shoes of our elders. We thank God for his and their examples of leadership. I am sure that Uncle Caleb is at rest and with his siblings now. On behalf of our family we offer our prayers and thoughts at this very difficult time and pray that you will know God’s presence journeying with you always.
Master of Ceremony Extraodinaire by Daryl McFarlane My memories of my Uncle Caleb aka CDC are indelible. He was the Master of Ceremony extraordinaire. He was my first and only choice to oversee the program for my wedding over 30 years ago and his guidance during the event was truly memorable Uncle Caleb brought light to a room with his charm, smile and energy. There would never be a dull moment when you were in his presence.
Daryl and Uncle Caleb
He was the Uncle who would always be there to help in any way, never said no always was full of resources and ideas. On my visits to Jamaica I never would leave without calling him to say hello and he in turn would make a point to come and visit me at my parents’ home just to see me in person. He made the best of every day. It seemed that he and my late father Bertram were always planning something…a business venture or organizing an event. Now they are both together doing the same. I was so happy to be able to Facetime with him on the day before he transitioned and in true spirit he said to me ‘hey beautiful don’t worry, all will be well” My condolences to the entire Cooper family. We will all carry on with the lessons taught by him and cherish the many memories we shared with him. Uncle Caleb may your soul rest in peace always and may light perpetual shine upon you.
BOB & WEAVE by Denise Ewan Uncle Caleb always made me feel special, very lyrical when he greeted me with some compliment… “Ms. Jamaica “ … you are looking younger every day …and then a kiss on the cheek… Uncle Caleb was ever present in our 29
Bell Foot Pants and High Heel Boots by Ian Cooper
lives, Christmas in our younger days, at weddings …the visits to Garden Hill …he would be there, he was the planner and resident Master of Ceremony(MC) … I also remember he was the MC at Mama and Papa’s 50th anniversary celebration ….. at funerals ….he was the one to speak on behalf of the family… he was a tower of strength when Papa became gravely ill and then when he went home last year and he really tried to be there for Mama when even he wasn’t well himself ….. One life changing experience I had with Uncle Caleb, … (24) twenty -four and a half years ago when I interviewed for and was offered the job. I was seeking advice from Papa and (Uncle Caleb was there) as to whether to accept the offer or not. Papa was a bit hesitant based on the perception of the organization at the time. Uncle Caleb said I should take the offer and just learn to bob and weave … and trust me I have learnt to do just that and also by the grace and mercy of God after 24 years I am still there … I can still remember the discussion vividly and was and was even sharing it with a colleague of mine a week before he passed … Uncle Caleb was truly a risk taker … he lived his life to the fullest …regrettably I didn’t get to thank him for his continuous support throughout the years… this is a learning moment for all of us I think … especially at this time of real uncertainty …but we still have time and the opportunity to do what we need to do as we are still alive ...... I am happy that I did get the opportunity to pray with him a day before he passed … he acknowledged his agreement with the prayer by saying “In Jesus’ name, Amen.” May Uncle Caleb’s soul rest in eternal peace. 30
Uncle Caleb was an inspiration to me from an early age as it was because of him why I wanted to pursue engineering, as I wanted to know how things worked. Later on, of course my father’s finance genes would take over and steer me elsewhere. Uncle Caleb was a constant smiling adult who could tell a story if you had the time. He was accommodating, always addressing me as “Ian Bertram” which made me feel very special. I recall his home at Upper Musgrave with some affection, as it was the venue of a party for one of my cousins, which served as the first party to which I carried a date. I reflect with a smile as that venue was well suited for such parties and congregating and that night was my first night in high heel boots and a bell foot pants. We always looked forward to Christmas time as either Christmas morning or the tradition Boxing Day lime amongst our cousins was particularly entertaining. Uncle Caleb is already sorely missed and will forever be in my heart.
CALEB’s FAMILY
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Aldyth Newsome headed up the administrative team with Ms. Jasmine James. Together they were a formidable team as the Cooper group of companies grew. Her only daughter Shari-dee was born in 1979. Like her siblings, Shari-dee attended St. Hugh’s Preparatory School. She graduated from Holy Childhood High School and left shortly afterwards to pursue a distinguished nursing career in Canada where she currently resides.
“The imprint of a dad will forever remain on his sons.” Raymond – A leader, orator and shrewd businessman Duncan – Good- humoured, peace-loving and pragmatic Nigel – A man of order, discipline and compassion Dave – Loving, tactile, purposeful and intense
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Coopers on the ground in Jamaica
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Lucille Adele Cooper family
When I left school at age 14, Uncle Caleb was the one who encouraged me to learn a trade and took me in his establishment and gave me a job in the construction industry. I travelled the length and breath of the country with him learning about the different parishes. I know I have lost a good member of the family but God knows best. May his soul rest in peace until we meet again. He will be sadly missed but not forgotten by my family and me.
Terence Johnson (son) Lucille Adele Cooper married Joseph ‘Joe’ Hayes Johnson deceased . Caleb Johnson (son) Terence Johnson (son) Children: Jason, Christopher , Sheryl , Shernette , Melissa, Alicia, Kishana, Rohan (deceased), and 16 grandchildren.
My Favourite Uncle by Terence Johnson My uncle was a loving person and family man, especially to his parents. He was a dedicated man to his family and those around him. I met in 1963 when he returned home from England. I was living in Garden Hill at the time. Every time I heard that he was coming to visit I would be so excited because he was my favourite uncle. 34
Lucille remarried John Coleman Hugh ‘Luke’ Coleman (son) Daughters 1-r Javine and Louise
A Well-Rounded Diplomat by Luke Coleman Uncle Caleb, was respected and loved as a father figure for us all. A multi - skilled person that would hold the family together.
In life we record behaviour, indeed my late uncle conducted himself like a well-rounded diplomat. He was humble, always active and gaining knowledge was a passion for him. I admire his ability to adjust to life challenges, not only as a devoted husband but also a father. His acts of kindness do not go unnoticed. As a family we all shared his professional journey, which was without limitation and we celebrate this through his legacy. Uncle Caleb was a master of maintaining relationships, not just the average sales man but his personality was infectious. Together with his charm and knowledge he would not struggle to build rapport with individuals or groups. His wit, eloquence and laughter were always shared in his presence and this allowed him to easily relate to anybody. A personal story of mine, I am so proud to say his perseverance and acts of kindness created more choices in my life and my extended family. He taught me self-value. At the age of 15, Uncle Caleb was my mentor, and would teach me interviewing skills. One day I was sat in my uncle’s chair, and after several attempts he was confident I would be able to direct myself properly to be issued a British passport. Uncle said ‘everyone should travel and dual citizenship is something to be proud of ’. My birth place, Dudley, my uncle helped me become familiar With. This is something I found inspiring, as we were in Jamaica, yet his knowledge of my birthplace he was able to pass on to me. Back to the interview skills, uncle advised eye contact is needed and a firm hand shake to secure this new relationship. This again to me cemented walking with pride and doing things with the best of your ability. Throughout his life my uncle was transparent, honest and reliable. For sure we all can relate to different characteristics that he has displayed throughout his life. To put simply he was a genuine people person. During greeting you his values from within made you proud of yourself. Uncle you will be truly missed. His nephew and family. 35
Henry Sonny marries Carmen
Sonny’s family
Teddy Cooper (Son) Christine Cooper (Daughter) Bobby Cooper (Son)
Bobby Cooper Teddy Cooper
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Tuxcie’s family Thomazina (Tuxcie) Freeman, Spouse: Zephaniah Freeman Children... Hubert (Norbert) Freeman Children: Jennifer Freeman, Hugh Freeman, Carol Freeman, Pauline Freeman, Natasha Freeman, Mandisa Freeman Astley Brooks (Rupy) dec’d, Children: Kecia (Petrine) Brooks and Shaika Brooks Cislyn (Miss B) Martin (nee Freeman) Children: Glendon (Dwayne) Martin, Shaneaque Martin, Andrae Martin, Kemeish Martin
Cislyn & Selvin Martin.
Linval (Tony) Freeman,
I was privileged to live with Uncle Caleb and his family in the late 60s and early 70s .He was a very SPECIAL human being who was always ready to help whomever crossed his path and needed help. This is because he was considerate, kind , caring and helpful. He was a trailblazer and a stalwart in his own right. Uncle Caleb taught me never to give up hope but to hold my head up high and work hard to achieve success. Uncle Caleb... was my favourite uncle and I will certainly miss him,but he will always be in my heart...RIP UNCLE!! Cislyn Linval (Tony) Freeman, Children: Nekeisha (Nikki) Freeman-Stevens, Stephen Freeman, Kristifer Freeman, Kimberly Freeman 37
know that life shrinks and expands in direct proportion with our courage. I love you because there is never a dull moment whenever you were among us. No one was better than Uncle Caleb at reproducing stories with such contagious merit in a convivial setting. To quote you uncle, “your number is up” and the taxi man,“Bruck-up”, who was signalled by St. Peter to move to the front of the line because he scared the hell out of his passengers … will have to remain in the back now that you have arrived at the gate of heaven! Your work is done uncle. You were a good and faithful servant. Rest well my dear uncle. I can see you filling your cup from the well that never runs dry! Your memories will remain with me forever.
Winston (Dez) Freeman, Children: Damion Freeman, Christal Freeman, Jhennel Freeman, Kristen Freeman, Nicasey Freeman, Noah Freeman Losing you my beloved Uncle, is one of the heaviest calamities I have experienced or borne. No language can describe the dissolution of my heart. However, I shall cherish with enduring gratitude the memories, love and bond forged. I love you uncle because you transcended artificial barriers created by men and blazed the trail to success allowing me to get the full understanding that hope is the companion of power and the mother of success. You were the model of success that my mother used to motivate me to stay focused in school and do my best always. I love you uncle because pain and personal disappointments imbued you with the strength and understanding of human frailty. Your kindness, empathy, service and advice taught me that the happiest people are not those receiving but the ones who are always giving more. You gave you all when you could ill afford it. I love you uncle because you epitomize dreaming big. You knew better than anyone I 38
Ithan (Vern) Freeman-Son Children: Alicia (Tamoy) Freeman, Thaj Freeman, Tascine Freeman, Akeil (CJ) Freeman, Akeila (Zena) Freeman, Dayshawn Freeman Doreen (Cynthia) Freeman Children: Chantia Sulph, Chiquan Sulph
The origins of the name Freeman https://www.british-history.ac.uk/london-recordsoc/vol36/vii-xlix Doreen Freeman
PASSING THE BATON
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Violet Richards Fidelitas Personified
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he Latin word Fidelitas means loyalty and that is the only word that so aptly describes Miss Violet Richards. In March 1982, Ms Richards, aka Miss Richie, walked into Cooper and Associates then at 3 Lancelin Avenue, off Molynes Road, Kingston 10, Jamaica and started work as Office Manager. Today, 38 years later she is the only employee still standing. Before relating her journey and reflections of Caleb Cooper, who she fondly calls ‘Father C’, the family wants to go on record and say thank you. We appreciate you dedication, your patience, and your unwavering commitment to the job that had to be done. In a telephone conversation with Miss Richie the laughter was infectious as she recalled the boss’s character. “ He had a mind of his own and is not easily led and does not readily take advice” she pauses and laughs again. “ He was a great organizer, a firm business man with a fantastic memory and likes to get things done” She pauses again this time to reflect. I would test his memory by asking him telephone numbers, which he would reel off as if he had time at the tip of his fingertips. Even at 85 going 86 he his powers of recall came at the 40
snap of his finger“ He cared about his family, not just the immediate, but also the family far and wide. He remembered everybody’s birthdays, especially his children. He would call them and then make sure to remind the other children to call the birthday child.” ‘Hmm” she said, and I could visualize her shrugging her shoulders, “ I remember one particular year he told me to remind him to call you on your birthday. Well, the day got busy and I never remember, hmm, I got such a tracing (telling off ), for that.“ This time both of us laugh uncontrollably for at least a minute. The mood changes as she continues, “ he was a caring man and he loved to share. I remember, one time in particular, one of his sons Duncan came to the office and was on a business call. I served Father C his lunch but he would not touch it. He came and sat next to Duncan and waited, and waited”, because for those who don’t know Duncan is great, but long talker, “for him to finish speaking. He would not start his food until he was able to ask Duncan if he would like some. He was generous to a fault always wanting and willing to share.”
GREAT POND VILLAS, OCHO RIOS in development
He enjoyed helping people and because he was a great writer he would organize programmes for his friends’ events, write eulogies, programmes and activities for his Lodge, visit the shut in, widows and widowers, organize tributes always finding a way to make a meaningful contribution. “ When I look back at his life at the office I have seen everybody come and go. He did not say it out loud but I know he realized that looking back I was the only one there for him at a time when he needed it the most. Behind that charismatic smile that lit up any room he entered, he suppressed the things that bothered him. He had disappointments there were many things that had not turned out the way he would have wanted and that hurt him deeply. Some things he did not have to verbalise I could see that when he reflected on his life he comforted himself in knowing that he had tried, really hard fighting every step of the way to achieve his dream of a big successful company. “
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She continued seaminglessly “during the last days, he would come down to the office and lay back in the chair in the back office and say, ‘Miss Richie, I am not going to take any calls today’. I would give him what he needed to be comfortable and I was there in the front office. After a while, he could no longer sit at the back ‘Miss Richie come’ he would call and slowly I moved him to sit next to me.” She paused again, as if remembering the exact moment, ‘I want to sit out here’ he said, and took my two hands in his, resting his head on them and said’ Thank you very much’. “ “In reflection I am happy that I was able to do the little I did. The 5am calls to tell me he’s going to Andrews Hospital and requesting I go with him in the taxi. And that final call when I was to be ready to go with him to Medical Associates, his son, Nigel who he lived with, dropped him off and we went. The doctor admitted him. I kept my word. I would never leave him. He has left me.
Written by Beverley Cooper-Chambers from a telephone conversation with Miss Richards on Thursday 15th October 2020.
FRIENDSHIPS & FELLOWSHIPS &
FRATERNITIES Respect father C mi old boss RIP your company make me have what I have. My sympathies go to all the family. God bless you all. Christopher Franklin Irons. Thank you all
Mis condolencias a Duncan, Raymond y Nigel, que junto a Mr. Cooper (father) trabajamos muchos años juntos. Además, muy agradecidos todos los cubanos que pasamos por Cooper and Associates; Empresa que nos sirvió de escuela, para después poder continuar en el bello camino de la construccion. I’m very sorry for your lost. R.I.P. Mr. Caleb Cooper. De Rafael
I deeply regret the passing of Mt Caleb Cooper (Raymond’s father) we worked on several projects where his guidance was profound. On one housing infrastructure project when we were falling behind he assured me then, “Bucky, when man on earth have done their best, angels in heaven cannot do better” He was a father, friend, and coach to me. RIP Caleb your journey on earth has made the world better.
Mr Duncan I’m sorry about your loss. Always I remember him because I have a dream about my life and he helped me to accomplish those dreams. Thanks forever Mr Father C. R.I.P. Armando
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A Blessing to me By Nurse Lamoie Bingham
M Kemesha Shepherd Angel (Carer)
Karen Prince (Toronto)
Cheryll Messam Locksley Messam
eeting Daddy was not only a blessing your family but also a blessing to me... Being a finalizing registered nursing student was a full time duty so most days I had to put my caregiver roles aside due to the fact that most job offers didn’t request weekends only when I had been off. I remember praying about two days prior to meeting Daddy asking God to give me a case so as to assist me with my daily expenses. Then I got the call. Upon meeting Daddy and having conversations without him even knowing he said to me you would make one amazing nurse one day you know and that’s when I told him I’m actually on my final few months to become a RN and he smiled and said from the moment I saw you I knew I was in good hands. He encouraged me and gave me really great advice that I will certainly take with me throughout my journey... He was really a gem and I will always remember his words.
Loretta
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LET THE RECORDS SHOW… By Douglas R Folkes
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n the course of our lives, we meet many persons and make many acquaintances, but in the process there are a select few who, for one reason or the other, are given the title of friend. For me, Caleb Duncan Cooper was one such. This was so, not only because of the ways in which our lives intersected over many years, but moreso because of the person that he was. The relationship began in or about 1975 when he joined the Kiwanis Club of North St Andrew – a Club in which we jointly served for some 45 years. Our friendship was further deepened when I joined Lodge Stony Hill in 2002 on his instrumentality when he was Master. Caleb was a likeable and generous man – one who genuinely cared. A person of great leadership qualities, he demonstrated excellence in all he did, and endeared himself to others. Working with him in our Kiwanis and Lodge endeavors was always rewarding and satisfying, and mostly enjoyable as well. We participated in numerous fellowships, including family days, parties, domino sessions etc - many of which were organized and hosted by him and sometimes jointly with his dearly departed wife Percess. On one such occasion I vividly recall a preconvention party organized by him at a relative’s home in Toronto for some15 or so members of NSA, while in attendance at a Kiwanis District Convention in Niagara Falls. Members in attendance so enjoyed it, that 40 years later it still comes up for mention. Once, as Treasurer of the Lodge as I urged that the Membership Fees be increased by some 50, Caleb voiced strong opposition to what he regarded as being an “outrageous suggestion”. However, when the matter finally came up for a vote, it was the very Caleb who not only moved the motion for its adoption –but also proposed a “rounding- off ” of the figure at a higher level. We all had a good laugh that evening.
Even in his final days, although not being able to drive, he would turn up at meetings. Often his request to me would be “Young man, you know that you are giving me a ride home? (His calling me young man – a clear evidence of his generosity). At the personal level, he was always enquiring about the wellbeing of my daughter Jessica, in his capacity as her self-appointed Godfather. In remembering Caleb, his impish qualities and somewhat curious sense of humor will always come to mind. “Let the records show”- as Caleb would always say – he was my Kiwanian and my Masonic Brother - and my friend. He will be greatly missed. My sincere condolence to the family in this difficult period of bereavement. May his soul rest in peace and light perpetual shine upon on him.
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CALEB MADE THINGS THAT OTHER BUILDERS DEEMED IMPOSSIBLE by Patrick Lawrence, O.D.J.P.
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he Jamaican Construction Industry, Freemasonry and many other Jamaican organizations have on October fifth 2020 suffered a great loss by the death of Caleb Duncan Cooper. I met him fortyfive years ago and since then he Patrick has been my friend. Presenting Lawrence this short tribute in his memory is O.D.J.P. an honour which I cherish because we have interacted for long periods in the areas of his life which I think were closest and dearest to his heart namely the Construction Industry and Freemasonry. With regards to Construction even though we were operating on opposite sides of the proverbial fence (Owner/Contractor) I can attest that the deceased understood all aspects of construction; he was easy to work with; he produced EXCELLENT QUALITY work, and exhibited an enviable temperament at all times. Most times Caleb made things that other builders deemed impossible to be practical and possible! As a charitable citizen of Jamaica, he was always prepared to make his fair share of civic contribution to our beloved country. In this respect I found that “He poured out his heart of compassion and his hands of SERVICE”. AS a Freemason Bro. Caleb Cooper devoted his life to upholding the three primary tenets of our Order namely Brotherly Love, Relief and Truth. He served as Master of his Mother Lodge; Lodge Imperial Service and served in various high offices of the District Grand Lodge of Jamaica. He has served Freemasonry in many of the higher orders. 46
It is difficult for anyone to duplicate Caleb Cooper’s professional and civic record! What he has done in his lifetime stands as a measure of one man’s astonishing contribution to his country which he loved dearly. His legacy is rich and vibrant and we his friends and associates all have a responsibility to ensure that it does not fade from our memories. To do this we have to first realise that “If we have been blessed with riches; we must be rich in deeds. God wants us to be generous in meeting other’s needs” I have known him for many decades and during that period he demonstrated for us to see that it is the Freemason’s responsibility to treat people (not just Masons) with respect; to help them when they are in need and to be honest and honourable in his actions. Amid the crowding duties of a busy life Bro. Cooper gave of his time, his influence and his abounding talents to our Order. I wish to use this medium to tender condolence to all members of his family; to the RWM and brethren of Lodge Imperial Service and to the RWDGM and members of the District Grand Lodge of Jamaica Ladies, gentlemen and brethren the greatest of men must die; our revered Relative, Friend and Brother was called to be with his Maker and I am certain that he is very comfortable in his new abode. So instead of mourning let us give thanks to God for the outstanding life of Brother Caleb Duncan Cooper. I have no doubt that his soul is now resting in peace. Patrick C.W. Lawrence O.D. J.P.
FREEMASONS
REMEMBER Brother CALEB DUNCAN COOPER
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rother Caleb Duncan Cooper was an Engineer and Freemason of tested merit. In real life our revered big brother stood no more than five feet seven inches tall, but he convinced us all he was tall, dark, and handsome. He also made up his mind that he would be debonair in his Masonic undertakings, and he did not disappoint his large following. I think he expired consistently proving himself right in many things. He was honest, courteous, and gentle in demeanor, and gracious to those of the fairer sex, but careful in his engagements. He brooked no excuses and minced no words when things needed to be said; the kind of brother that had no trouble convincing a doubtful head. The fruit of his generous hand, an ailing brother could carry, weightless to bed. When called to high office in Freemasonry, Brother Caleb humbly said: “What an awesome task for shallow hands such as mine; the purpose of the Square, Level and Plumb soon I learned to define; but I put my trust in the hand of the Lord; with Faith I will be fine.” A Past Master of Lodge Imperial Service, and The Founding Father of Lodge Stony Hill; he rose to Honorary Depute District Grand Master and Honorary Senior Grand Deacon in the Craft. His Masonic endeavors were embellished by high offices in the Royal Arch, Lodge and Council, Knights Templar, and the Royal Order of Scotland. A man of easy wit, he was the ‘life of the party’, engaging us in laughter nonstop, when for harmony friends sat in leisure; his was not about sorrow, but the sharing of endless pleasure. But now the pleading tower bells announce doleful notes no end, and all of Freemasonry rise up to celebrate his great and honorable works with his family and friends, to wipe away the lingering tears that sorrow foretells,
for his was a happy life lived well. Happy memories dare us to carry but scarce condolences, just an urgent desire to share with you all, the love in grateful hearts we bare, for our beloved brother as he departs. Brother Caleb Duncan Cooper, your friends already miss you; your family will wish one last time to kiss your dark and handsome face; your brethren ever will recall your name with mirthful adoration, as up above we picture your smiling face. Rest In Peace loving father, sweet and caring brother and friend; we know Sister Percess met you at the Pearly Gates; again you are happy, no longer she must wait her love to share. May the Lord of Love hold your earthly connections in His care, and Light Perpetual shine upon you in your heavenly endeavors. FROM YOUR FRATERNAL FRIENDS.
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Better for knowing him
by Lin Commock
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have known Caleb Cooper for many years and for sometime now he has been my close and dear friend. Caleb has a cheerful and smiling personality that exudes happiness. His fit of laughter was great, and a friendship is easily created with someone even though is the first time meeting him. Caleb presence is always felt when he enters a room, and there is never a dull moment after his entrance lire. He leaves you better for knowing him. Being around Caleb it is easy to notice his exceptional generosity. He is always willing to help anyone in need. Caleb loves people and equally people love him. Being around Caleb it is easy to notice his exceptional generosity Caleb has a will to live, regardless of his challenges and his illness, his jovial mode will let you believe everything is ok but he is the first to tell you that nothing is ever a hundred percent but things will always work out. I can recall one of the times when Caleb call me to meet him at the doctor I got there fast for it sounded urgent. The doctor examines Caleb and told him all he need is to go home and go home and take it easy and relax and forget about work. Caleb told him that is when he dies. Not long after that talking to Caleb I realized he was a little sicker than I thought but I was still hoping for the best. When I visited him in hospital although he was a little weak he still has the will to live and I was keeping the faith. Caleb, and you are not only going to be missed, you are already missed by me and I am sure by your family and all your friends. May your Soul Rest In Peace God Bless You and Light Perpetual Shines On You.
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Realtors Association of Jamaica
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e regret to inform of the passing of our colleague and long-standing member, Mr. Caleb Cooper, formerly the Qualifying Director of Cooper & Associates Ltd. Caleb joined the Association in 1988 and has been in the real estate industry for over 40 years both as a REALTORŽ and a Real Estate Developer. We take this opportunity to honour Caleb for his partnership and service to the RAJ during his 32 years as a member. We are deeply saddened to learn of Mr. Cooper’s passing. He was a long-standing member of the Association and a spectacular human being. He will be missed. We pray comfort for his survivors and may his soul rest in peace.
I WILL NOT MOURN by Melody McFayden
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The life given us by nature is short, but the memory of a life well spent is eternal.� Cicero Caleb was a man who wore many hats and among them was that of a Kiwanian. I will forever remember the caring manner in which he treated fellow Kiwanians. Caleb was a member of the Sponsoring Club for the Kiwanis Sunshine Club and whenever he was in Canada would faithfully attend our meetings and was always ready to contribute in whatever way he could to ensure that we operated a successful and effective club. His quiet and kind spirit was an inspiration to all. I will not mourn. I will celebrate the life of this special human being whose time on earth was worthwhile. I am grateful to God for his life, services and legacy. Caleb, rest in peace. Melody McFayden Past President Kiwanis Sunshine Club
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Making Good Men Better
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he passing of our Brother Caleb Duncan Cooper is a great loss to Freemasonry in general, and Lodge Stony Hill in particular - and will leave a great void in
our Lodge. As the records will show, the late Bro. Cooper was the chief architect behind the formation of Lodge Stony Hill No. 1820 on the roll of the Grand Lodge of Scotland in 2001, and was the first Master of our Lodge. In 2002, shortly after the Lodge’s formation, mindful of the advantages, which can derive from membership in Freemasonry, Bro Cooper was moved to share this wonderful fraternity with some of his friends and neighbours within the environs of Stony Hill. I was one such; privileged to have been proposed for membership and initiated by Bro Cooper during his time as Master. Today, in my current capacity as Master of the Lodge, I am able - like so many others of the Brethren within the Lodge - to assert unreservedly, how positive an influence membership has had on our lives. I will be ever grateful to the late Brother Cooper for the opportunity given to me. For his part as a Mason, Brother Cooper was ever true & faithful to the tenets and principles of Freemasonry – making good men better men. As the founding Master of the Lodge, he laid such a solid foundation as to enable the Lodge to become a strong, sound and viable organization in a relatively short period of time. He exhibited great skill, zeal and enthusiasm for his Lodge, not only while in the Chair but in the many years after his demitting Office. (Even in his last days, when it must have been very challenging for him to attend our meetings). A highly decorated Mason within the ranks of the local Freemasonry and accorded the Distinguished Service Member of Lodge Stony Hill – he was 50
Bros. Caleb and Easton Douglas reunited greatly respected and admired and was a role model for many. His sense of humour will always be etched in our hearts. His earthly journey is now at an end, but his legacy in Freemasonry in general, and Lodge Stony Hill in particular, will last forever. On behalf of the Brethren of Lodge Stony Hill, my family and myself, I extend condolences to his family. May the blessings of the Great Architect of the Universe rest his soul and light perpetual shine upon him. Chris Ebanks - Master Lodge Stony Hill 1820 SC.
Caleb Affable Loving Endearing Bubbly There are so many attributes that can be ascribed to you but kindness and love for family supersedes them all. Knowing you was a blessing Remembering you will be easy Rest in peace Sadly missed and lovingly remembered by the “Walters” family.
Party time
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Please join us as we
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But my servant Caleb, because he has a different spirit and has followed me fully, I will bring into the land into which he went, and his descendants shall possess it. Numbers 14:24
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80 Birthday
on: Sunday 16th November 2014 at: Blue & Orange Restaurant, 85 High St, Thornton Heath, CR7 8RY From 2.30pm to 5.30pm - Please be seated by 3.00pm
¥Menu includes vegetarian, pasta, fish and meat ¥Access is step free ¥Dress Code: Formal ¥Parking is free outside the restaurant ¥Buses: 50, 250, 450, 468 ¥Trains: National Rail – Thornton Heath
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Returning to the London
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The Next Generation Nia, Nicelle,Nore,Ben, Tasina, Nathan,Noah, Levi
The Grandchildren
The Great-Grandchildren
Jayvon Xavier
Mia Jean Luc’s daughter
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UNITY
LIKE GLUE
I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another in what you say and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly united in mind and thought. 1 Corinthians 1 v 10
A common thread that has run through Daddy’s life is his quest for unity whether he was visiting in the Caribbean, at home in Jamaica, in America, Canada, the United Kingdom or Europe. He kept in touch. He mediated. He diffused. He entertained. He cared. All of the tributes, phone calls, and messages we received speak to Daddy’s peaceful nature and his desire to keep the family together and the value he placed on friendships. He was not afraid to admit his shortcomings and that our family is not perfect but his final words to us was that he was proud of each and every one of us, that he loved us, and that we must stick together.
Beverley www.thelionandlambmediahouse.com
Contributions Editor Beverley Cooper-Chambers Administration Shari-dee Cooper-Blake Tasina Pennant Design Design Editor: Rusdi Saleh Family Tree Designer: Eliora Cooper Design Consultants: Jonoi Messam Shem Pennant Researchers Neikesha Stephens Luke Coleman Terence Johnson Contributors Linnette Quander Althea Wray Angelina Cooper Denise Cooper Daryl McFarlane Charla-Maye Cooper Raymond Cooper Credit: Tim Mossholder
Daddy was the glue that held the large and extensive Cooper family together.
