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On June 26, the US Supreme Court struck down the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) in the case of Windsor v. United States. This means that all legally married same-gender couples will have access to all the federal protections afforded to legally married opposite-sex couples. DOMA, which was enacted in 1996, barred all same-gender couples from being recognized as married under federal law. Its impact and damage has been far-reaching, touching on every area of federal law, from Social Security and family medical leave to immigration policy and tax-filing. “The Court has removed the stain and the insult that is DOMA,” said Lee Swislow, the Executive Director of Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders. “This is an enormous victory.”
She was 54 and open about being HIV-positive, although the cause of her death is currently unknown. Late last month, Ms. Collins was honored for her work at the State Capitol in Sacramento by the California Legislative Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Caucus. “One thing that she always had that was very appealing was dignity,” said Assemblyman Tom Ammiano (D-San Francisco) who nominated Ms. Collins for the state recognition.
Police in RI Prepare for Westboro Baptist Church protest
Several police departments met last month in anticipation of anti-gaymarriage protests in Rhode Island. The Kansas-based Westboro Baptist Church, the “God Hates Fags” group that protests against marriage equality and pickets military funerals, has announced a plan to protest in three cities in Rhode Island on Aug. 1, the day that marriage licenses will first be issued to same-gender couples. State police met Friday with police from two of the cities−Cranston and Pawtucket−making a plan to ensure peaceful protests, which are expected at city hall clerk's offices where the licenses will be issued−as well as the Rhode Island State House.
A Changed Landscape for Transgender Workers
The Department of Justice decided in June in favor of a transgender woman, Mia Macy, who had been refused work at a laboratory of the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives. After an investigation into her claims, the Justice Department found that the bureau had “discriminated against [her] based on her transgender status.” “I never thought in my life that it would be over,” Macy said, “but to have them say, ‘Yes, unfortunately, your civil rights were violated. They did do this.’ To have that vindication, it’s surreal.” The Equal Employment Opportunity Commission ruled in 2012 that antitransgender discrimination is covered under the ban on sex discrimination found in Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964.
Lesbian State Lawmaker Runs For Governor in Maryland
Democratic Maryland Delegate Heather Mizeur, an out lesbian who represents a suburban district outside Washington, D.C., announced her candidacy to become governor next year. “It’s a sign of how far we’ve come as a state that an openly gay person can be a serious candidate for governor. But the fact that we’re still talking about it is a sign that we still have a ways to go,” Mizeur said.
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Jazzie Collins, Transgender Activist, Dies
Jazzie Collins, a community organizer and well-known transgender activist involved in social justice causes in San Francisco, died Thursday at Kaiser Permanente Hospital in the city.
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to receiving optimal treatment -- nearly 200,000 persons living with HIV in the United States are undiagnosed, and only one in four has the virus under control.
The HIV Care Continuum Initiative: The Next Step IOC Warns Russia Over of the National HIV/AIDS New Anti-LGBT Law Strategy In the wake of new anti-gay laws in Three years ago, President Obama announced an historic comprehensive plan to help turn the tide on HIV/AIDS in the United States: the National HIV/ AIDS Strategy, giving a new sense of direction and purpose in the fight against HIV and AIDS.
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7 PFLAG of Greater Providence meeting, 6:45-8:45 p.m. The Met School (Justice Building), 325 Public St., Providence. 751-7571. 7 thru 10 Providence LGBTQ Film Festival, 8 p.m. Bell Street Chapel Theatre, 5 Bell Street, Providence. $15 for Opening Gala on the 8th at 8 p.m. $10 regular film admission. See www.film-festival. org/Prov.GLBT.Fest.php for film listing. This year’s festival benefits Youth Pride RI.
11 RI Prime Timers, 4:30-7 p.m. Social and networking for gay and bisexual men 40+. Social, dinner and meeting. See ww.riprimetimers.org or call Steve at 996-3010 for more information. 13 TransFamily New England, 6:308:30 p.m. Free and confidential group meeting for parents and other family members of someone identifying as transgender, gender variant, and/or intersex. Meetings held in Providence. E-mail jewcy15@gmail.com to be added to the contact list. 18 RI Pride 2013 Volunteer Appreciation Party, 12:30-4:30 p.m. Town Hall Lanes, 1463 Atwood Ave., Johnston. Free to all 2013 RI Pride volunteers; $5 per person for Pride supporters. Light snacks provided, cash bar. Please RSVP to jennifer.stevens@prideri.com so they know how many lanes to reserve. 19 Providence Gay Men’s Chorus, 7-9:30 p.m. New season rehersal. Beneficent Congragational Church, 300 Weybosset St. Prov. 20 Borderlands, 7-9 p.m. A peer-led support group open to transgender, transsexual, gender-variant, and/or intersex people and to those who are exploring whether one or more of these identities is a good description of their experience. Meeting location is withheld for participant privacy. See info@tginetwork.org for more information. 21 Queer Book Club, 7 p.m. Books on the Square, 471 Angell St., Providence. Book selection: The Two Krishnas by Ghalib Shiraz Dhalla. Discount if book is purchased at Books on the Square. For more information e-mail queerbookclub@gmail.com.
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24 Queer Queens of Qomedy, 8 p.m. The Carousel Grille, 859 Oakland Beach Ave., Warwick. Poppy Champlin, Erin Foley, and Amy Tee. For more information call: 921-3430 or see www. MeatballsComedystop.com or www. QueerQueensofQomedy.com. 25 Options distribution party, 3-6 p.m. The Stable, 125 Washington St., Providence. Miss Kitty is behind the bar! 25 Providence Gay Men’s Chorus, 7-9:30 p.m. New season rehersal. Beneficent Congragational Church, 300 Weybosset St. Prov. 30 Options Newsmagazine White Party, 7 p.m. Newport City Easton’s Beach Rotunda on the Water. The White Party will benefit Options and the RI LGBTQ Center. To purchase tickets go to www. optionswhiteparty.eventbrite.com.
September 3 Borderlands, 7-9 p.m. A peer-led support group open to transgender, transsexual, gender-variant, and/or intersex people and to those who are exploring whether one or more of these identities is a good description of their experience. Meeting location is withheld for participant privacy. See info@tginetwork.org for more information. 4 PFLAG of Greater Providence meeting, 6:45-8:45 p.m. The Met School (Justice Building), 325 Public St., Providence. 751-7571. 6 Luna’s Ladies Night, 9 p.m. Roots Cultural Center, 276 Westminster St., Providence. Live music, DJ, special events. 21+ $6 cover. Every Friday. See www.lunaspvd.com.
8 RI Prime Timers, 4:30-7 p.m. Social and networking for gay and bisexual men 40+. Social, dinner and meeting. See www.riprimetimers.org or call Steve at 996-3010 for more information. 10 TransFamily New England, 6:308:30 p.m. Free and confidential group meeting for parents and other family members of someone identifying as transgender, gender variant, and/or intersex. Meetings held in Providence. E-mail jewcy15@gmail.com to be added to the contact list. 17 Borderlands, 7-9 p.m. A peer-led support group open to transgender, transsexual, gender-variant, and/or intersex people and to those who are exploring whether one or more of these identities is a good description of their experience. Meeting location is withheld for participant privacy. See info@tginetwork.org for more information. 18 Queer Book Club, 7 p.m. Books on the Square, 471 Angell St., Providence. Book selection: Call Me By Your Name by Andre Aciman. Discount if book is purchased at Books on the Square. For more information e-mail queerbookclub@gmail.com.
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27 Dinner & Drag with Kitty Litter, 6:30 p.m. The Stadium Theatre, 28 Monument Square, Woonsocket. For tickets call 762-4545 or see www.stadiumtheatre. com. 28 AIDS Walk for Life, 9 a.m. on State House lawn. Registration: 9 a.m.; 2.5 mile walk starts at 10 a.m. For more information contact amy@aidsprojectri.org.
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FLICKERS: Rhode Island International Film Festival (RIFF) LGBTQ Sidebar Screenings of 20+ films from across the globe August 7 - 10 to entertain the local landowner’s son, a game of power and pride starts between the two boys.
Homophobia
Directed by Gregor Schmidinger, 24 min. Austria, 2012. An adolescent boy who serves in the Austrian Military Forces experiences homosexual feelings towards one of his comrades. The suppressed conflict surfaces during their last night at the Austrian-Hungarian border, socially isolated and armed with loaded weapons.
Flichtkraft (Escaping Gravity)
Directed by Benjamin Teske, 23 min. Germany, 2013. Bell Street Chapel, a Unitarian Universalist congregation in Providence, will once again be a venue for the popular Providence LGBTQ Film Festival. In its 14th year, the LGBTQ Film Festival brings Rhode Island filmgoers a diverse sampling of more than 20 international films—made by and for LGBTQ people. The festival kicks off this year on Wednesday, August 7, with an opening night filmmaker reception party at Bell Street Chapel. The event starts at 8:00 p.m., with beer provided by Unibroue. Five of the $15 admission fee goes to support the Scholarship Fund for LGBTQ youth at the KidsEye Summer Filmmaking Camp held each year at the University of Rhode Island. The festival gets underway directly after the reception, with the screening of seven great short films:
Sufferin’ Till You’re Straight
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Last Time We Checked
Directed by Anson Mount, 14 min. USA, 2012. Stan, a mild-mannered gay man, has been called into the Department of Immigration to account for his marriage to a Canadian drag queen. It’s not going well. Having recently won the right to marry his boyfriend, Stan now finds himself caught in the bureaucratic rotors of American government. Convinced of a conspiracy, Stan launches into a bout of hysteria driven by the fear of being separated from his love.
Un Mundo Para Raul
Directed by Mauro Mueller, 15 min. Spain, 2012.
After an unexpected visit from her mother, transsexual Leonie decides to disguise herself as a man once more and return to the world of the funfair, a place she had left behind years before. Her father Ludwig, who runs a ghost train, seems to be the same bully as ever. He does not care about Leonie’s efforts at being a good son. Even long after he has seen through her masquerade, no one speaks up until it is almost too late for them to reconcile.
Summer Vacation
Directed by Sharon Maymon, 22 min. Israel, 2012. Sea, sun, island, a family on vacation. And all Yuval wants is to get the heck out of there.
Spooners
Directed by Bryan Horch, 13 min. USA, 2012. After convincing his husband to retire their old lumpy futon, Nelson is forced to come out in a spectacular way while shopping for a new bed at Drowzy’s Mattress World.
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Erin is coming home this month to perform in Rhode Island, appearing at the Dark Lady in Providence on Thursday, August 22, and with the Queer Queens of Qomedy at The Carousel Grille in Warwick on the 24th, where Poppy Champlin and Amy Tee will share the stage. Like Poppy Champlin, a fellow Rhode Islander, Erin is very passionate about Rhode Island and said it was a great place to grow up. As a seasoned comedian, she also has a Comedy Central Presents under her belt, as well as having been on Premium Blend, Chelsea Lately and The Kilborn File. In New York and Los Angeles, Erin can be regularly seen at Gotham Comedy Club, Caroline’s on Broadway, The Improv, and The Laugh Factory. She has performed at numerous comedy festivals, including the prestigious Montreal Comedy Festival. Additionally, Erin has also had roles in Curb Your Enthusiasm, the acclaimed Tribeca Film Fest short Cried Suicide, and even a supporting role in Almost Famous. I spoke to Erin on the phone from Los Angeles. How did you get your start in comedy? I started doing some improv when I was in college in Pennsylvania. After college, I moved to New York City−both my sisters lived there−and I thought I would do a little improv and then go to grad school. I really did not know what I was doing, which was probably a good thing. At some point, I found the NY Comedy Club, and that was my introduction into stand-up. I had never really heard of it before, so basically I started to watch people do stand-up and fell in love with it. Then one night, I gave it a try myself and just never really stopped. New York is the best setting for stand-up; there are a lot of clubs and a lot of people who want to see comedy. The clubs are always packed, with a couple of shows a night. It was a wonderful place to get started in standup. What do you like most about comedy? I think the thing about stand-up is the immediacy. You know, you can basically see something that makes
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you laugh at 4 o’clock and talk about it at 8 o’clock. It is pretty awesome− you can be so creative and your brain is always working and you are always writing everything down. What do you dislike about it? You don’t make a lot of money. When you got your start, who influenced you the most? In New York you can see comedy every night, and you see the best of the best, from Judy Gold to Wanda Sykes. So I was really fortunate. You are a successful comic and very well known; you are an out public figure. Do you feel that being out has helped or hindered your career? Well, I had been doing comedy for seven or eight years, and at the same time I was trying to figure out if I was gay. So I did not have the confidence to come out and talk about it. It was too overwhelming -- and stand-up is overwhelming anyway. So I wanted to wait until I could be super honest about the story. And when I was ready to do that, I think it added another wonderful dimension to the act. For me it is not about being gay, it is about dating. Whether you’re dating a man or a woman, it is the same thing−it so relatable. I do all these comedy shows and I know they are all straight −sometimes I am the only gay in the room−and it is not their fault that they are straight. I guess you cannot hold it against them since they go to your shows? You’re right; it is just part of my act, and it is about dating or living. It is pretty universal. I heard being a woman in comedy is a lot harder than being a man. Do you think being a woman or being gay helps or hinders your career? I think I may have lost some opportunities because I am gay, and gained some other opportunities because I am gay. It’s hard for me to separate that out. I have been doing stand-up for a while, and, you know, I happen to be gay, so there it is. I am not going to hide it. The woman thing bothers me more, quite frankly. There is a real
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disadvantage to being a female standup comic. But I think you can say that about any career. So when I get into a new club, I always suggest other female comics, because there are some wonderful female comics out there who should be working in the clubs a lot more.
incident, knock on wood. Once you are there, you start joking around and making them feel comfortable -- they are not ok with politics, but they are totally fine with the gay and that’s been really wonderful to see.
Being a public figure, do you work with the community or help some type of public service?
Starting out in New York, you do all these small random shows and your friends will put on shows anyplace -one time I performed at a Laundromat. That was pretty funny; we called it Ambush Comedy because they did not know they were going to see a comedy show when they went out to do their laundry.
I run a show at Hollywood Improv called “Gays R Us.” We try to get tickets out to everybody and make it a super fun gay night. I also work with the AIDS Ride and with this organization called Penny Lane, which encourages the gay community to foster children. The other thing I do for the gay community is to go into the middle of the country and do stand-up; I think that is enough. How does it feel when you know you’re in “uncomfortable territory?” I am definitely going to be out in my act, and honest to God it has been so positive. I have not had one bad
Where is the strangest place you have performed?
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What are you looking forward to doing on your trip back to Rhode Island? I had a really wonderful high school experience and a lot of my friends are still there, so I think I’ll go to the beach and hang with them. I don’t often get a week in Rhode Island and I am going to be there for a week. I have not been back in years, so I am really quite excited.
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As in past years, discussion panels including filmmakers and LGBTQ community members will follow select screenings to develop discourse around topics raised by the films. This year’s topics will include bullying, hate crimes, and issues confronting members of the transgender community. This year’s festival is supported by Equity Action, a field of interest fund at The Rhode Island Foundation that advances the equitable treatment of and improves the quality of life of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Rhode Islanders. Some other films being screened throughout the Providence LGBTQ Film Festival include:
Southern Baptist Sissies
Directed by Del Shores, 135 min. USA, 2013. This film explores the conflict between dogmatic religion and adolescent homosexuality while challenging hypocrisy, exposing damage and offering hope. The audience is drawn in as they experience complicated emotions revealed from all sides.
Before You Know It
Directed by PJ Raval, 109 min. USA, 2013. There are an estimated 2.4 million lesbian, gay or bisexual Americans over the age of 55. These seniors are five times less likely to access social services than their heterosexual counterparts, half as likely to have
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The Go Doc Project
Directed by Cory Krueckeberg, 90 min. USA, 2013. Too shy to introduce himself, a recent college grad plots to shoot a documentary about the NYC nightlife scene in order to meet the go-go guy he’s obsessed with. Camera in hand, he follows his subject across the city: into restaurants, onto rooftops, and ultimately into living rooms, kitchens,
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bathrooms and bedrooms. The Go Doc Project is a fast, fleeting summer fling. It’s one young man’s foundation firming up as he steps into his future.
Gore Vidal: The United States of Amnesia Directed by Nicholas D. Wrathall, 87 min. Italy, USA, 2013. This film examines a man who lived at the center of 20th century culture and politics in the United States. From his friendships with Eleanor Roosevelt and President Kennedy to his famous debates with William Buckley and Christopher Hitchens, Gore draws dramatic conclusions on the fate of the nation through new interviews and historical footage. For years Gore led a very private life with his lifetime companion Howard Austen. Vidal discusses his views on love, life and companionship.
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Forget Us Not Directed by Heather E. Connell, 70 min. USA, 2012. This is a moving, in-depth look at the persecution and subsequent death of the five million non-Jewish victims of the Holocaust and the lives of those who survived. Through stories of survivors and historical footage, these lesser known voices are brought to life. Gay, Roma and Sinti people were targeted for complete annihilation, as were thousands of Catholic priests who were killed for speaking out. This film gives tribute to those who were killed for their religion, ethnicity, political views, sexual orientation or physical handicaps.
A Self-Made Man
Directed by Lori Petchers, 56 min. USA, 2013. Inspired by his own experiences, Tony Ferraiolo works with transgender children as young as 8 years old, who have the same feelings of disconnect he had. He guides them through the challenges they face, and encourages them to “create themselves,” as he did. It is a scary time for both kids and their parents as they make the transition journey from one gender to another. This is a film about someone who helps them get there safely.
A Matter of Sex
Directed by Michelle Rapoport, 28 min. Israel, 2012. Guy and Lior, both males, are about to bring a baby to the world with a female couple who’s looking for the same thing. During this process Guy goes
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Remember To Breathe
Directed by Marc Saltarelli, 26 min. USA, 2012. Alice Martin, a former headliner at the Latin Quarter, now lives alone and forgotten, surrounded by memorabilia of her past glory. She remembers a past love while searching for meaning in her golden years. While mentoring a young aspiring singer, past memories become entwined with the present as Alice comes to realize that what she thought was lost is only dormant, awaiting a new spark.
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Directed by Pierre Stefanos, 26 min. USA, UK, 2013.
and poetic perspective. The filmmaker asks himself the questions, what kind of man will I become? What emotional and soul changes will I experience during my first year on testosterone?
Grotto
Directed by Dave Scala, 7 min. USA, 2013. Marco is a small town 20-year-old attending college in Manhattan. When he returns to his rural home for the summer, Marco reunites with his best friends at a midnight pool party with intentions to tell them some big news. But an unexpected guest at the party, and an approaching storm, compromise everything Marco anticipated the night to be. RIIFF’s
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Directed by Daniel Koehler, 16 min. USA, 2013. In this inspiring story from the struggle for marriage equality, a photographer takes up his camera to fight a proposed anti-marriage amendment to the North Carolina Constitution.
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About The Rhode Island International Film Festival:
Festival sidebar’s main screenings take place at Bell Street Chapel, 5 Bell St., Providence. Screenings run from Wednesday, Aug. 7 through Saturday, Aug. 10. Show times are 7 p.m. Wednesday, Thursday and Friday, and 5 p.m., 7 p.m. and 9:15 p.m. on Saturday. Other select screenings will be held in The Vets (formerly the VMA Arts & Cultural Center) and The
University of Rhode Island’s Paff Theatre.
The Rhode Island International Film Festival (RIIFF), is the portal for the best in international independent cinema, earning the respect of domestic and foreign filmmakers, filmgoers and trend watchers. Ranked as one of the top twelve festivals in the United States, RIIFF is also a qualifying festival for the Short Film Academy Award through its affiliation with the Academy of Motion Picture Arts & Sciences. Only 75 film festivals worldwide share this distinction and RIIFF is the sole festival in New England to have this honor. The Festival takes place every August. For more information about the festival, please visit www.rifilmfest.org. q
Admission to each set of screenings is $10, except for the opening night program, which is $15. Please see www.RIFilmFest.org for full details and a downloadable schedule of films.
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Homophobic “Exodus International” Disbands
Leader Apologizes to Gays and Lesbians By Myra Shays
For 37 years, Exodus International was the leading beacon of the “ex-gay” movement, which maintained that gay men and lesbians could change their sexual orientation through prayer and psychotherapy. But at its national conference in late June, the organization announced that it would disband, amid growing skepticism among its top officials and board members that sexual attractions can be changed. The group’s president, Alan Chambers, posted a letter to gays and lesbians on its website, saying, “I am sorry for the pain many of you have experienced. I’m sorry that some of you spent years working through the shame and guilt you felt when your attractions didn’t change. I’m sorry we promoted reparative theories about sexual orientation that stigmatized parents.” In an interview, Mr. Chambers said, “Any good we could do in the future would be overshadowed by the real stories of trauma and shame. So we decided we can’t do anything but close down.” Many gay rights advocates applauded the closing and the apology. “This is an earthquake that changes everything,” said Wayne Besen, director of Truth Wins Out, a group that rebuts what it considers misinformation about gays and lesbians. “This is like McDonald’s shutting down and saying they reject hamburgers. It highlights the futility of trying to change your sexuality.” q
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On June 27 the United States Senate passed the comprehensive Border Security, Economic Opportunity, and Immigration Modernization Act. The bill will make it possible for many undocumented immigrants to gain legal status and, eventually, citizenship. The National Queer Asian Pacific Islander Alliance (NQAPIA) delivered to the Senate 2,700 postcards calling for immigration reform. Joined by Tony Choi, an openly gay undocumented immigrant from Korea, NQAPIA gave postcards directly to Choi’s Senator, Bob Menendez (D-NJ), a member of the “Gang of Eight” who pushed the legislation through, as well as Senator Tammy Baldwin (D-WI), the first openly lesbian Senator. NQAPIA has strong ties to Rhode Island Southeast Asians United for Empowerment and Leadership (seaQuel) and its founders, Kohei Ishihara and Sarath Suong. After several years away (all the while serving on the organization’s board), Suong is
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Please mark your calendars for Friday, November 1, for Youth Pride Inc.’s annual award dinner-dance. We look forward to returning to the Providence Biltmore again this year. We are currently seeking businesses and individuals who are interested in sponsoring the event. There are multiple levels of sponsorship, from $250 to $5,000+. We are also looking for auction items—restaurant gift cards, travel packages, tickets to local performances, art, jewelry etc. This is YPI’s biggest fundraiser of the year and a great way to support the organization while getting the word out about your business. Please contact Kerri at kerri@youthprideri.org or 4215626 if you have any questions or are interested in sponsorship.
Thank You, OUTspoken Funders
We’re glad to announce that, after a hiatus, our leadership development program OUTspoken is back. Thanks to funding from the Department for Children, Youth & Families, Providence College’s Making a Difference Fund, and Neighborhood Health Plan of Rhode Island, we will hold an intensive summer OUTspoken series in August, as well as lengthier versions in the fall and spring.
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Recognition Held at State House for Providence PFLAG Founder A substantial crowd came out June 6 to witness the tributes given to community leader – and long-time Options volunteer – Myra Shays at the State House. Shays founded the Providence chapter of PFLAG after moving here from NY. At the event were. Gov. Lincoln Chafee, Lieut. Gov. Elizabeth Roberts, Mayor Angel Taveras, PFLAG Regional Director Amy Mesirow, and many other dignitaries. After the ceremony, Shays and her family were ushered into the House of Representatives, where a proclamation in her honor was read aloud, and the legislators turned around and gave her a standing ovation. We are proud to list Myra in our masthead – she is our Resources editor, an eagleeye member of the editorial staff, and contributes mightily to the spirit of Options. q
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TGI Network By Brian Kovacs
Trans Families Find Support
TGI (Transgender/Gender-Variant/ Intersex) Network has sponsored a support group for trans people called Borderlands for a long time. Two years ago, TGI added a group for romantic partners. Recently, at the express request of a group of parents, TGI has added a support group for trans families, primarily parents of trans people. Families need to talk about this transformation taking place in their lives and in the lives of those they love. It is so helpful to talk with people sharing similar experiences. Just the discovery that one is not alone can make so much difference: there are people who understand, who have been there themselves. A facilitator helps the group use their time together well and to focus and clarify. At times, specific content may be useful and resources identified. The group is safe and they are not alone. We all participate in many deep social
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functional, caring and supportive social network — family, friends and coworkers — makes a huge difference. With many teens and pre-teens now coming out as trans people, family support is essential. And it is just the beginning. The social network is so much larger. At TGI, we dream of what we might do for employers and colleagues; for the broader parts of that social network. We have begun with family, one of the areas of greatest need. For more information about TransFamily New England meetings, contact jewcy15@gmail.com. q
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AIDS Care Ocean State By Kalene Brennan
Calling all Artists!
AIDS Care Ocean State (ACOS) is ready to kick off ArtBeat 2013. We have celebrated Rhode Island artists annually for 17 years and are excited to see what this year’s auction will bring. ACOS is now accepting donations of all types of art, jewelry, pottery, and photography from local artists for ArtBeat 2013. We are also accepting contributions and gift certificates from vendors and businesses. Any donation supports people in our community who are struggling with the effects of HIV/ AIDS. ArtBeat offers artists and vendors the opportunity to showcase their talents to a large, diverse audience. We kick off ArtBeat with an online auction that begins one month before our live auction gala on October 25 at the historic Providence Biltmore Hotel. The online auction offers people nationwide a chance to see and bid on the works of our talented Rhode Island artists. Those who cannot attend the live event are able to place proxy bids online. We also invite donors to join us at the auction to meet colleagues from the arts and corporate worlds who also believe in our mission and support the important work of ACOS. The Rhode Island arts community has been a loyal and generous supporter of ACOS and we are grateful they share their works with us year after year.
please contact Stephen Hartley at stephenh@aidscareos. org. See you on Thursday, September 19!
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The award-winning market on Pitman Street in Providence, Eastside Marketplace, is continuing their campaign of giving back to the community by donating to us a portion of the value of all receipts ACOS receives. ACOS encourages all Eastside Marketplace shoppers to send us your receipts, whether they are for a dollar or for $100. Start a collection at your gym or office; it’s that easy. This is a free, fast, and fun way to contribute to Rhode Island’s largest AIDS service agency. Please mail your receipts to Stephen Hartley at 18 Parkis Ave., Providence, RI 02907. q AIDS Care Ocean State 521-3603 www.aidscareoceanstate.org
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To donate an item to ArtBeat 2013, or to become a sponsor, please call Stephen Hartley at 521-3603 or e-mail inquiries to stephenh@aidscareos.org. Stay tuned at www.aidscareos.org for all ArtBeat 2013 event information!
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The 2013-2014 Bingo Season is almost here! Mark your calendars for September 19 for the first bingo of the 20122013 season. The theme for the kick-off bingo is Caribbean Luau Gay Bingo, so get out your grass skirts and coconut bras. We will be accepting reservations for parties of ten or more for the new season of bingo. Please note: A reservation does not guarantee seating on the upstairs level; it is a general reservation ensuring you have seats in the bingo hall. We try to accommodate as many people upstairs as we can. To place a reservation, please call Stephen Hartley at 521-3603 or e-mail stephenh@aidscareos.org.
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AIDS Project Rhode Island By Amy Stein
TAKE CHARGE! GET TESTED! AIDS Walk Rhode Island September 28 AIDS Project Rhode Island (APRI), along with our partner agencies, is taking steps to increase HIV prevention, testing, and care. Our goal is to promote HIV testing among all Rhode Islanders who are at risk for HIV. Prevention is the solution!
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“The 2.5 mile walk begins and ends at the Rhode Island State House. We are honored that Dr. Charles Carpenter and Dr. Philip Chan are co-chairing the event,” said Tom Bertrand, Executive Director of APRI.
Dr. Carpenter is Director of the Lifespan/Tufts/Brown Center for AIDS Research and Professor of Medicine at Brown University. For nearly two decades, he has been deeply committed to the care of people living with HIV. “The Rhode Island AIDS Walk has provided strong and visible support to the Rhode Island AIDS community for nearly thirty years. For the first time, we can now say that a clear path to victory is at hand. If all people living with AIDS receive adequate treatment, transmission of HIV will cease. This can occur only if all persons living with HIV are aware of their infection and are receiving effective treatment. One of the major goals of the AIDS Walk is to ensure that every RI citizen who has not been abstinent since 1980 has had a diagnostic HIV test, and is receiving treatment if positive,” said Carpenter. Dr. Chan is an attending physician at The Miriam Hospital and Rhode Island Hospital specializing in HIV/ AIDS. He also performs research at Brown University on HIV epidemiology and transmission. “We have made significant advances in our understanding and management of HIV. HIV is both preventable and treatable. Everyone should be tested at least once for HIV, and annually if sexually active.” said Dr. Chan. “We’re excited that Barbara Morse Silva from NBC 10 will once again be our emcee,” said Bertrand. “She cares deeply about fighting AIDS, and we’re honored she has volunteered her time to join us.” To learn more about the AIDS Walk for Life visit www.aidsprojectri.org and click on the red ribbon, or email APRI Development Officer Amy Stein at amy@aidsprojectri.org. Registration starts at 9 a.m. and the walk steps off at 10 a.m. q
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SAGE/RI
What a Great Summer!
Based on community feedback, our LGBT Health Fair in May was a great success. We circled the second floor of the State House rotunda with tables and providers offering a rich variety of information and resources for LGBT people of all ages. The speaking program featured an array of politicians, policy makers, providers and educators emphasizing the need to recognize RI’s older LGBT people as an underserved population in need of more informed and appropriate services. The event (hosted by SAGE/RI in conjunction with RI’s Department of Elderly Affairs and the regional office of the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services) drew well over one hundred people. A special shout out to Poppy Champlin, Town Hall Lanes and the Providence Gay Men’s Chorus for providing wonderfully tempting raffle prizes to add to the fun. Plans are already afoot for next year’s LGBT Health Fair. And June – wasn’t it a blast to “Love Forward” with a few gazillion friends?! We were delighted to be a part of our state’s Pride celebration again this year and want to thank all of you who stopped by to say hello and to chat. We were reminded that we need to keep assuring people that SAGE/RI is an inter-generational organization – we’re interested in hearing from you, however old or young you are. For our younger friends, we figure if you aren’t lucky enough to consider yourself “older” yet, there is every hope you will achieve this status one day. Help us improve the situation before you get there. And for our older friends: is it time to have a conversation about internalized ageism?
Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders By Sally Ann Hay
What’s Next?
We are thinking August would be a super time for YOU to join SAGE/RI! Our annual membership dues are low (individual $15, couple $25, senior $10) but vital to the organization’s future. By joining SAGE/RI, you lend your support to our mission helping to provide education and advocacy on behalf of LGBT elders. Members also help to determine our future agenda, events and activities. Did you know that membership fees (along with any donation you might want to include) are tax deductible as a charitable contribution? Yep. We’re a 501(c)(3) non-profit. Contact us if you would like to receive a membership application. You can also send a check (payable to SAGE/RI) directly to us at SAGE/RI, 235 Promenade Street, Suite 500, Box 18, Providence, RI 02908. Be sure to print your name, address, email address and phone number Our goal is to have 125 paid members by the end of autumn. We hope you will help us reach that goal.
documentary (filmed in Boston) following six LGBT elders over a one-year period while they confront the realities of aging and the coming-out process as they encounter the medical system and longterm planning. This event is tentatively scheduled for Sunday, Sept. 22 at 3:00 p.m. Stay tuned for more details! SAGE/RI (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders) addresses issues of concern to LGBT elders and is an organization of diverse people of all ages. For information on programs or to join SAGE/RI, drop us a line at sageriinfo@gmail.com, call 528-3259 or find us on Facebook as Sage/Rhode Island. q
Not to be left out, September also deserves attention here as we look forward to going back to the movies. We will be showing the widely acclaimed film, Gen Silent – a beautiful and poignant
The excitement continued into July with the wonderful news that SAGE/ RI has been awarded another grant from the Equity Action Fund of the RI Foundation. The grant will help support our efforts in the coming year to explore (and hopefully develop) better housing options for RI’s LGBT seniors, to work directly with health care educators to integrate LGBT cultural competencies into their curricula and to strengthen the infrastructure of SAGE/RI. We are very grateful for this assist – thank you, Equity Action!
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Rhode Isalnd Pride By Jennifer Stevens
The 37th Annual RI Pride Festival and Illuminated Nighttime Parade on June 15 was the perfect celebration of our community's marriage equality victory earlier this year. It was perhaps the most well attended RI PrideFest yet. People of all identities came from near and far to enjoy our festival, which lived up to its reputation of being diverse, safe, fun, inclusive, enormous and free to all. Rhode Island Pride wishes to thank its many volunteers and supporters who made it all possible and helped to create one of the most amazing PrideFests to date.
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can. This event is free to all 2013 RI Pride volunteers and costs only $5 per person for Pride supporters. We'll provide the snacks and spiffy bowling shoes and there will be a cash bar. Town Hall Lanes is located at 1463 Atwood Avenue in Johnston and is accessible via RIPTA bus 28. Please RSVP to jennifer.stevens@prideri.com.
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Resources Help us help you: If you come across a resource listing that is incorrect or needs updating, please let us know! Drop a line to mshays@verizon.net. NOTE: All phone numbers are in the 401 area code unless otherwise indicated. Addiction Support Groups AA: Brothers in Sobriety, Community Church of Prov., Wayland & Lloyd Aves., Prov., 751-9328; Sat., 7:308:30 p.m.; Central Services, info on all groups, 4388860; Lesbian and Gay, Anchor Recovery Center, 249 Main St., Pawtucket, Tues. 7:30 p.m.; Suburban Gay & Lesbian, Fatima Shrine, Rt. 126, Holliston, MA, Thurs. 8-9:30 p.m. Alcohol/Drug Helpline. RI Council on Alcoholism & Drug Dependence, 24-hr., (866) 252-3784. Gay Al-Anon: Tues. 7:30 p.m., Congregational Church, 71 Park Place, Pawtucket, 726-2800.
AIDS/Health Resources ACT-UP (AIDS Coalition To Unleash Power), a group of individuals united in anger, committed to ending AIDS pandemic through direct action. Call Scott 640-3108. info@actupri.org. Donations welcome! Afia Center for Health & Wholeness: socializing with other HIV+ individuals. Meals, food pantry, HIV support groups, recovery groups, recreational and social activities. Wed & Thurs, noon to 4 p.m., at Matthewson St. Church, 134 Matthewson St., Prov. Sponsored by AIDS Project RI; free to clients. Gordon Cooper, 331-1350 Ext. 3268 or coopergo@familyserviceofri.org. AGAPE/Family Resources Community Action. Case management, support, personal care items for people living with HIV/AIDS in Northern Rhode Island. 245 Main St., Woonsocket, RI 02895. 2356092. lcohen@famresri.org. AIDS Action Hotline: (800) 235-2331, MA only. AIDS Care Ocean State (557 Broad St., Providence): case mgmt., emergency funds, mental health & nutrition support, FACTS Nursery, housing for PWAs, referrals, advocacy, ADa.m.S Clinic for adolescents, street outreach, ENCORE, education, HIV+ support groups. Sunrise Community Housing for people with HIV/AIDS. 18 Parkis Ave., Prov. 02907. 521-3603; www.aidscareos.org. AIDS Project RI Division of Family Service of RI: Case mgmt., buddies, COBRA & dental services, emergency fund, mental health counseling, nutrition support, assessment & referral, wellness prog., advocacy, strength training. Prevention Ed. 404 Wickenden St., Providence: 831-5522. AIDS Quilt RI: Displays local AIDS Memorial Quilt panels; panel-making programs, including Anna’s Workshop, HIV/AIDS education for young people; PO Box 2591, Newport, RI 02840; 434-4880; www. aidsquiltri.org; admin@aidsquiltri.org; annasworkshop@aidsquiltri.org. Brown Univ. AIDS Program (BRUNAP): clinical trials, public policy, research; lectures/conferences, patient/ community education. Bradford Briggs, 863-6790. brunap@brown.edu; www.brown.edu/brunap. Chiropractic Services: Free for unemployed HIV+ patients, Ronald P. Marsh, DC., 11 King Charles Dr.,
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Tranquil Mind & Wellness: Counseling, alternative healing, yoga, Pilates, meditation and more. 105 Charles Eldridge Dr, Lakeville, MA. (508) 947-1683. Thundermist Health Assoc.: 450 Clinton St. Woonsocket, provides HIV/AIDS services including: medical care & treatment by an HIV specialist, dental care, behavioral health counseling, nutritional assessment & counseling, pharmacy consultation, free, confidential HIV testing. Philip Kane 767-4100 Ext. 3516.
Be There and Be Queer! The Alley Cat/Dark Lady: 17 Snow St. Prov. 273-0951 Downtown neighborhood bars. Sun.-Thur. 3 p.m.-1 a.m., Fri.-Sat. 3 p.m.-2 a.m. http://thealleycat.net. Bobby’s Place, 62 Weir St., Taunton, MA (508) 824-9997. Dancing, pool, video lounge, karaoke. Mon.-Thurs. 5 p.m.- 1 a.m.; Fri. 5 p.m.-2 a.m.; Sat. 2 p.m.-2 a.m.; Sun. 2 p.m.-1 a.m. www.BobbysPlaceMA.com. Brooklyn Coffee Tea House: 209 Douglas Ave., Prov. 575-2284. Special events space. Open mike First & Third Sat. of each month. Film screenings and other public/private events. See us on Facebook and at www.BrooklynCoffeeTeaHouse.com. Club Body Center: 257 Weybosset St., Prov. 274-0298 www.clubbodycenter.com. Gay men’s sauna. Membership required. One-day pass available. Open 24 hours daily. Club Gallery, 681 Valley Street., Providence. DJ, dancing. Deville’s: 345 South Water St., Prov. Lesbian, gay, straight, it’s all good. 383-8883, www.devillescafe.com. Luna’s Ladies Night, Fridays 8 p.m. -- 1a.m. Female performers and DJs. 276 Westminster St., Providence. www.lunaspvd.com. Providence Eagle: 198 Union St., Prov. 421-1447. Leather, Levi, bear cruise bar. Sun-Thurs 3 p.m.-1 a.m., Fri, Sat 3 p.m.-2 a.m. Mega-Plex and Hush Providence: 257 Allens Ave., Prov. www.themega-plex.com. Gay men’s bathhouse. Open 24 hours daily. Membership required. One day pass available. The Stable: 125 Washington St., Prov. 272-6950. Newly renovated downtown bar. Pool table. Sun - Thurs noon - 1 a.m.; Fri - Sat noon - 2 a.m. Tommy’s Lounge Gay/Lesbian Night each Friday (21plus) Doors open 8 p.m. Music from 80’s, 90’s and today’s hits on the video screen. $5.00 cover. 99 India Street, Pawtucket RI 02860 T.W.I.S.T. Program Coffee Night: Coffee, light snacks served every Thursday, 7 – 9 p.m. 1287 Acushnet Ave., New Bedford. 508-672-0378. Union: 200 Union St. Prov. 831-5366. Video lounge, live
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Providence. http://holyparaclete.org; Fr. Jakob Lazarus 218-0706.
Fax: 222-2616, TDD: 222-2664.
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RI Patient Advocacy Coalition: legalization of marijuana use for medical purposes. www.RIpatients.org.
Feminist Voices: women’s chorus. www.feministvoices. com.
RI Socialist Action: adgagneri@gmail.com. 952-5385. Español: walsil@cox.net. 351-3414
Fenway Gay and Lesbian Helpline: support, info & referrals for GLBT community from Fenway Community Health Ctr., Boston; (617) 267-9001 or 888-3404528, 6-11 p.m. seven days a week.
Servicemembers Legal Defense Network: Assisting active duty service members affected by the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy. PO Box 65301, Wash., DC, 20035; (202) 328-3244, ext. 100, sldn@sldn.org, www.sldn.org.
First Congregational Church in Bristol, an Open and Affirming Congregation. 281 High Street, Bristol. Pastor Dan Randall, 253-7288.
Straight But Not Narrow Coalition: Straight support for LGBT, PO Box 2591, Newport, RI 02840; 8477637.
First Unitarian Church. A Welcoming congregation at One Benevolent St., Prov.; 421-7970. Services Sunday 10:30 a.m.
Religious Resources
First Unitarian Church. 71 8th St., New Bedford, MA 02740. (508) 994-9686.
GLBT National Help Center Hotline. Local resources nationwide provided by social services agency. 888843-4564. www.GLBTNationalHelpcenter.org. NewportOut.com: LGBT Web site for Newport, RI. RILGBT-NEWS: Low-volume email distribution list for LGBT & AIDS news from RI. Not a discussion list. To subscribe: tinawood@cox.net. United Way of RI Referral Line: 2-1-1 Youth Pride, Inc. HIV Peer Educators: discussion, games, thought-provoking and empowerment activities. Led by trained youth educators. Free. 421-5626.
Political & Legal Groups American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU): 831-7171; 128 Dorrance St., Suite 220, Prov., RI 02903. Amnesty International OUTfront: Program to campaign globally for LGBTIQ human rights. Cvohs18904@ yahoo.com or 212-807-8400. Visit www.amnestyusa. org/Our Issues/LGBT Human Rights. BIGFLAG (Boston Immigration Group for Lesbians And Gays): social/support for LGBTs affected by immigration discrimination. (617) 499-9433.
All Saints’ Memorial Church, 674 Westminster St., Providence. 751-1747 www.allsaintsmemorial.org. asmcri@verizon.net Amicable Congregational Church (UCC), 3736 Main Rd., Tiverton. Open & Affirming. Sunday worship 10:00 a.m. Pastor William Sterrett, 624-4611. Email amicablechurch@aol.com Association of Welcoming & Affirming Baptists, email: mail@WABaptists.org. Barrington Congregational Church (UCC) “the white church”, 461 Old County Rd., Barrington. 2460111.www.bccucc.org Bell Street Chapel (Unitarian Universalist), A Welcoming congregation: 5 Bell St., Prov., Rev. Ann Willever. 273-5678, www.bellstreetchapel.org.
Brown University Queer Alliance: student advocacy and support organization. 683-3062. Email: queer@ brown.edu
Beneficent Congregational Church (UCC), in the heart of Providence at 300 Weybosset St. An Open & Affirming congregation since 2001. Visit us Sundays at 10 a.m. or on the Web at www.beneficentchurch. org. Co-Pastors Todd & Nicole Yonkman, 331-9844.
Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD): LGBT/ HIV legal info hotline, 1:30-4:30 p.m. weekdays, (800) 455-GLAD. www.GLAD.org; 30 Winter St., Ste 800, Boston, MA 02108.
Berean Baptist Church, a safe and welcoming place for all God’s children. 474 Chapel St., Harrisville, RI. www.bereanri.org; bereanbaptist@verizon.net. 5685411. Worship 10 a.m. Sundays.
Green Party of RI: PO Box 1151, Prov., RI 02901; 4907602.
Calvary Episcopal Church, Open and welcoming. 158 Broad St., Burrilville, RI. 568-3888. www.calvaryepiscopal.us.email, calvary125@aol.com.
Lambda Legal Defense & Education Fund: 120 Wall St., Suite 1500, NY, NY 10005; (212) 809-8585, Fax: (212) 809-0055. Lawyers for Equality and Diversity (LEAD): Advocates for lgbt causes. lawyersforequality@gmail.com
Calvary United Methodist Church of Middletown, 200 Turner Rd., Middletown, RI 02842. 847-6181. Ask Amy about LGBTQ Early Dementia support group.
Marriage Equality RI (MERI): Works for equal access to marriage for all. www.marriageequalityri.org or call 941-2727. 118 No. Main St., Unit 3, Providence RI 02903. PO Box 5884, Providence RI 02903
Central Congregational Church (UCC), where we believe God is still speaking. Services Sunday, 10:30 a.m. An Opening & Affirming Congregation. 296 Angell St., East Side of Providence. 331-1960. www.centralchurch.us.
The Next Thing (TNT): political and support group for queer people of color located at Brown University. Contact the Brown Queer Alliance, 863-3062.
Channing Memorial Church, Unitarian Universalist, A Welcoming Congregation, 135 Pelham St., Newport. Call 846-0643 or visit www.channingchurch.org.
Rhode Islanders United for Marriage: Broad-based grassroots coalition working to achieve the unique protections and recognition of civil marriage for all loving couples in the state. 274-1323. Office 3 Center St., Providence. (PO Box 5883, Providence RI 02903) www.RIUnitedforMarriage.org.
Charter Oak Grove ADF, an open and welcoming congregation of neopagan druids in CT. www.charteroakadf.org. Email charteroakadf@gmail.com.
RI Commission on Prejudice and Bias: hate crime awareness training program www.hatecrimeri.org.
Church of the Epiphany, 1336 Pawtucket Ave., Rumford. 434-5012. A diverse Open & Affirming Episcopal congregation. www.epiphanyep.org
RI Human Rights Commission: Anti-discrimination law enforcement agency with jurisdiction in employment, housing, public accommodations and credit, 180 Westminster St., 3rd floor Prov. Phone: 222-2662.
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Church of the Holy Paraclete, Independent Old Catholic; Mass every Sunday at 6 p.m. 155 Douglas Ave.,
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Edgewood Congregational Church (UCC) Open & Affirming, 1788 Broad St., Cranston. 461-1344. www. edgewoodchurchri.org. Emmanuel Episcopal Church. 120 Nate Whipple Highway, Cumberland RI 02864. 658-1506.
First Universalist Society, Franklin, MA: UUA Welcoming congregation. Same-gender weddings. 262 Chestnut St. (508) 528-5348. www.fusf.org. Email fusf@verizon.net Foxboro Universalist Church, Unitarian Universalist Association. 6 Bird St., Foxboro, MA 02035. 508-5434002. Welcoming congregation, marriage ceremonies. www.uufoxborough.org Grace Episcopal Church in Providence, 175 Mathewson Street, Providence. 331-3225. Immanuel Lutheran Church: A Reconciling in Christ congregation, 647 N. Main St., Attleboro, MA 02703. Pastor Sandra Demmler Damico (508) 2222898, www.immanuellc.org. Interweave at Channing UU Church in Newport, 135 Pelham St. A membership organization for the spiritual, political and social well-being of LGBTQ persons -- and their allies -- confronting oppression. 846-0643. Mathewson St. Church (United Methodist), 134 Mathewson St., Prov., 331-8900. Meditation: Gay Men’s Meditation Experience. Relax and connect. Third Tues. of each month in Cranston, 7 -- 8 p.m. Tim, 944-0723. Fee applies. Mercy of God Community: Christian, inclusive religious order. If you feel called, please visit our Web site: www.mgc.org. Murray Unitarian Universalist Church, 505 N. Main St., Attleboro, MA, 02702 Rev. Sandra D. Fitz-Henry. Marriage & commitment ceremonies for all. (508) 222-0505 www.murrayuuchurch.org Newman Congregational Church, Open & Affirming. 100 Newman Ave., Rumford, RI. 4311-4742. Newport Congregational Church: UCC. Rev. Hayes & Rev. Baker. Open & Affirming. 73 Pelham St., Newport. 849-2238 or nccucc@newportcongregationalchurch.org. Park Place Congregational Church, 71 Park Pl., Pawtucket, 726-2800. The Pub Church: A church that meets in a pub! Saturdays, 5 p.m. at The Dugout, 722 Commonwealth Ave. Boston. Open & Affirming. Email thepubchurch@gmail.com. Location may change. Pilgrim Lutheran Church, an inclusive congregation: 1817 Warwick Ave., Warwick. 739-2937 Pilgrim United Church of Christ. Open and affirming. 635 Purchase St., New Bedford. 508-997-5684. Riverside Church (U.C.C.) 15 Oak Ave., Riverside, RI.
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for lively discussions among like-minded people. For info: www.RIatheist.net
St. Augustine’s Church and Episcopal Center at URI: 35 Lower College Rd., Kingston. 783-2153 www.staugustineURI.com.
Bisexual Resource Center: 29 Stanhope St., Boston, (617) 424-9595 or www.biresource.net.
St. Francis City Ministry at the Church of St. Mary, 535 Broadway, Prov. Office of LGBT Outreach 353-1422
Biversity Boston: Mixed-sex social network. Bi-monthly brunches and other social events. http://biversity.org.
St. James Church: Episcopal, 474 Fruit Hill Ave., No. Prov. 353-2079.
Boston Bisexual Women’s Network: Social activities including monthly brunches, coming out groups, and quarterly newsletter “Bi Woman.” Subscribe at www. biwomenboston.org.
St. Martin’s Episcopal Church, 50 Orchard St. East side of Prov., 751-2141 St. Martin’s Episcopal Church: County & River Sts., New Bedford, MA. (508) 994-8972, stmartins1887@aol. com. St. Paul’s Episcopal Church, 50 Park Place, Pawtucket. 728-4300. www.stpaulspawtucket.org St. Paul’s Church, a Welcoming Episcopal church. 2679 E. Main St., Portsmouth. 862-1466. www.stpaulsportsmouthri.org St. Peter & St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church: 25 Pomona Ave., Prov.; 272-9649. Email.stpanda25@verizon. net. www.stpetersandstandrews.org. Saint Therese Old Catholic Church, Open & Affirming, Sunday Mass at 10:30 p.m. at 134 Mathewson St., Providence. Fr. David Martins, 263-4296. www. saintthereseocc.org Second Congregational Church of Attleboro (UCC) Open & Affirming. 50 Park Street, Attleboro, MA. Sunday worship 10 a.m. (508) 222-4677, www.attleborosecondchurch.org Seekonk Congregational Church: 600 Fall River Ave., Seekonk, MA. 02771, (508) 336-9355, Rev. Joy Utter, www.scc-ucc.com. Temple Agudas Achim: GLBT-friendly, Reconstructionist cong. Rabbi Elyse Wechterman. 901 No. Main St., Attleboro, MA. (508) 222-2243 or www.agudasma. org. Temple Beth-El: GLBT-welcoming. Rabbi Sarah E. Mack. 70 Orchard Ave., Prov., RI 02906. 331-6070 Temple Emanu-El, Sessions St. & Morris Ave., Providence. A welcoming Conservative congregation. Rabbi Wayne Franklin, 331-1616. www.teprov.org Temple Habonim: a warm, Welcoming Reform congregation. Rabbi Andrew Klein, 165 New Meadow Rd., Barrington, 245-6536. www.templehabonim.org. Temple Sinai: A Welcoming Reform Temple. Rabbi Peter Stein, 30 Hagen Ave., Cranston, RI. 942-8350. www. TempleSinairi.org. Unitarian Society of Fairhaven (MA): 102 Green St., Fairhaven, MA 02719; (508) 992-7081. Unitarian Universalist Congregation of So. County: 27 North Rd., Peace Dale, RI; 783-4170 or Val 7897282. www.uusouthcountyri.org. United Church of Christ: Coalition for LGBT Concerns. 13 Steven Circle, S. Kingstown, RI 02883, Ray Bradley at 782-3871.
Bears Ocean State (BOS): Informal e-group for gay & bisexual bear-identified and -affiliated men for friendly companionship. All welcome. http://groups.yahoo. com/group/bearsoceanstate or bearsoceanstatesubscribe@yahoogroups.com. Age-restricted. Bridgewater State College GLBT Alumni Group: email Kenneth Hayes (‘91) khayesbbc@msn.com or visit www.bridgew.edu. Cape and Islands Gay & Straight Youth Alliance (CIGYA): (508) 778-7744. CORISMA: Gay and lesbian couples of RI and Southeast MA. Potluck get-togethers for couples only. For info or to be added to email list write: corismainfo@comcast.net. www.corismagroup.org Defenders/Providence: Leather/Levi club, c/o PO Box 41153, Prov., RI 02940. Third Sun at 6 p.m. Fall River’s Rainbow Girls: private, moderated welcoming group for women in the Fall River Area. groups. yahoo.com/group/ Fall_River_Rainbow_Grrls. Gay Lesbian Alliance of Newport County Etc. (GLANCE): Social and entertainment events. E-mail glance1234@hotmail.com. Imperial Court of RI at Prov: Male, female, drag king & queen performers raise funds for local charities. Meetings 1st Mon. of month, all welcome. PO Box 6583, Prov., RI 02904;www.icriprov.org. Lesbian Writers Group, Rochambeau Library, Hope St., Providence. Mondays 7 -- 8:30 p.m. Writing exercises, support. No critiquing or workshopping. Free. Russian or Computer Room. Men’s Card Group: New group in formation. E-mail johninprov@gmail.com or call John 261-9715. Men’s Gay Camping: In RI, CT, MA. Gatherings organized for tents to RVs during Spring, Summer and Fall. www.webspawner.com/users/gaycamping/index. html or call 277-0075 or email gaycamping@gmx. com. Mixed Borders Gardening Group: Gardening and more! Monthly meetings, all welcome! For more information: www.MixedBorders.com or E-Mail Mixedborders@cox.net Opera Club: last Sunday of each month at 1:00 p.m. Enjoy hearing and attending. Email Dave at BrettCornellpi4@aol.com
Raging Grannies: Women of “a certain age” working toward a more peaceful, equitable society with song, humor & passion. Will sing for rallies & events. Email jlglass53@aol.com. RI Association of Gay Professionals. Professional networking and philanthropy. gayprofessionalnetworkofri@gmail.com. 453-9276 RI Lesbian Social Club: social gatherings for women. heylari@yahoo.com or call 272-2962. RI Parents Pride: Gay parents socializing together with their children. Contact Melanie, 464-2288 or saphicangel120@yahoo.com RI Pride: Parade & Festival, year-round events; Box 1082, Prov. RI 02901, info@PrideRI.com; www.PrideRI. com. Office at 1005 Main St. #1105, Pawtucket. 467-2130 RI Prime Timers. Social and networking group for gay and bisexual men 40 and older. Meets 2nd Sundays. www.riprimetimers.org or call Steve at 996-3010. RI Skeptics Society. Yearning to talk with someone rational? Meetings 4th Saturday at a Seekonk restaurant for refreshing discussion. http://skeptics.meetup. com/133/ RI Women’s Association: Lesbian social group; age 21+; dances/events. www.RIWA.net SAGE/RI (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders) Advocacy, education and social events for LGBTQ seniors. Mail address 235 Promenade St., Suite 500, Box 18, Providence RI 02908. sageriinfo@gmail. com, 528-3259. Facebook: “Sage/Rhode Island.” SEMASSMEN: Social group for GBQ men of S.E. Mass and RI to foster strong friendships.Semassmen-subscribe@yahoo groups.com or email moderator rlevass @yahoo.com. Trans Queer RI: friendship, fun activities, and support for transgender, queer & like-minded people. Gatherings third Sunday of each month. Email trans. queer.ri@gmail.com. T.W.I.S.T. Project: Program for gay and bisexual men in Fall River/New Bedford area. Drop-in center, referrals, condom distribution, social groups. Coffee night Thursdays 7 – 9 p.m. (508) 672-0378; www. myspace.com/twistprogram. UNISONG: For unity through song. Non-performance monthly singing session. www.unisong.net or jlglass53@aol.com WomenRIsing. Feminist Chorus. Director Nancy Rosenberg. www.womenrisingchorus.org. Email: contact@womenrisingchorus.org. Yankee Lambda Car Club: Regional club for GLBT people interested in vintage & specialty cars. www. yankeelcc.com, sisherwood@aol.com.
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Pawtuxet Pride: GLBTQ folks & friends in Pawtuxet Village (Cranston and beyond). All welcome. Call Ed at 345-1264 or email EDZL@aol.com.
PRIDESPORTSBOSTON: Network of twenty-plus gay sports leagues/teams in Boston area: www.pridesportsboston.com 617-937-5858 Gay sports in Boston and beyond: www.gaysports.com. Email info@gaysports.com.
Social Organizations
Providence Gay Men’s Chorus: Mon, 7-9:30 p.m., Beneficent Church, 300 Weybosset St, Prov.. New season rehearsals begin in January and August. Singers and nonsinging volunteers welcome. www.provgmc.org.
Atheists/Agnostics: RI Atheist Society – “Working to keep Church and State separate” Welcoming all. Meets 3rd Monday of the month at an area restaurant
Queer Book Club. Meets 3rd Wednesday 7 p.m. at Books on the Square, 471 Angell St., Providence. Email queerbookclub@gmail.com.
Westminster Unitarian/Universalist Church, a UUA Welcoming Congregation. 119 Kenyon Avenue, East Greenwich, RI 02818. 884-5933. LGBT weddings welcome.
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www.galabowling.com. Monday Night Women’s Bowling League, Pat 451-2188. Royal Court Bowling League: 9 p.m. Wed., Woonsocket Hill Bowl; 7672110. Big Gay Al’s Duckpin bowling league: Tuesdays 6:30 p.m., Proceeds benefit AIDS causes. Town Hall Lanes, Johnston. www.BGALBowling.com. Frank Ferri 831-6940. www.townhalllanes.com. BOWLING: BOSTON: Monday Night League, www. mnbl.net (617) 713-4832 or (617) 937-5858 Ext. 5; Beantown No. G&L Invitational, www.beantownbowling.com (617) 738-0708 or (617) 937-5858 Ext. 10; Beantown South G&L Invitational League, (617) 889-1552. DARTS: Beantown Soft-Tip Dart League www.bsdl.org. FLAG FOOTBALL: FLAG (For Lesbians and Gays) Football www.flagflagfootball.com, (617) 937-5858 Ext. 4. FOOTBALL: Women’s professional team Northeastern Nitro. Members of the Women’s Football Alliance. Practices held in Bethel, CT. Contact Amy Manfred at amymanfred@yahoo.com or Carley Pesente at linebackergirl56@aol.com. RI/S.E. MA Flag Football: Sats. 10 a.m. All levels and genders. mbs1994ever@yahoo.com GOLF: Golf4All www.golf4all.net (617) 450-8682. HOCKEY: Boston Pride Hockey www.bostonpridehockey.org (617) 937-5858 Ext. 7. ICE HOCKEY for WOMEN: Gail Wickstrom email gwick@kersur.net. KICKBOXING or BOXING for WOMEN: Tues & Thurs evenings. Christina, 996-5425. www.rondeauskickboxing.com MARTIAL ARTS: Main Street Martial Arts. Non-profit, welcoming dojo and community center. Scholarships available. 1282 No. Main St., Providence. 274-7672. www.mainstma.org. OUTDOORS: Chiltern Mountain Club, New England’s LGBT outdoor recreation club. www.chiltern.org. Email events@chiltern.org. ROWING: Boston Bay Blades www.bayblades.org/boston (617) 937-5858 Ext. 11. RUGBY: Boston Ironsides Rugby Football Club. www. bostonironsidesrfc.org. RUNNING: Frontrunners Rhode Island: Brian 7517643, bripm@cox.net. Frontrunners Boston www. frontrunnersboston.org (617) 937-5858 Ext. 3. SCUBA DIVING: Triangle Divers: www.triangledivers.
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SNOWBOARDING: OutRyders, www.outryders.org or email brian@outryders.org. SOCCER: Boston Strikers Soccer Club www.bostonstrikers.com (617) 937-5858 Ext. 9.
Peer Listening Line/Fenway Community Health Ctr.: Boston. Youth-staffed hotline for GLBT youth; support, info and referrals. (617) 267-2535 or (800)399-PEER, 5-10 p.m. all week.
SOFTBALL: Renaissance City Softball League. New players and boosters always welcome. 226-7771642 or rcsl_commish@cox.net. Visit www.providencesoftball.org
RIC Rainbow Alliance: GLBT students at RI College, Fridays 12:30 -- 2 p.m, in Unity Center in lower Donovan. Office in StudentUnion 425. ricrainbowalliance2007@yahoo.com. Phone 456--8121
Beantown Softball League: (617) 937-5858, Ext. 1, www. beantownsoftball.com.
Roger Williams University LGBTQ & Allies group: S.A.F.E (Sexual Advocacy for Everyone): Weekly meetings in Intercultural Center; speakers, social and awareness events; Pride Week in April. Email: saferwu03@gmail.com. Facebook: S.A.F.E.
SQUASH: Boston Boasts www.bostonboasts.com SWIMMING: LANES (Liquid Assets New England Swim-Team); www.swim-lanes.org; (617) 937-5858 Ext. 9. TENNIS: TENNIS-4-All: www.tennis4all.org. VOLLEYBALL: Cambridge Boston Volleyball Assoc. www.GayVolleyball.net, (617) 633-2180 WRESTLING: East Coast Wrestling Club www.eastcoastwrestlingclub.org, email ecwc@juno.com, (401) 467-6737 or (617) 937-5858 Ext. 6
Students & Youth Bristol Community College Gay/Straight Alliance (BCC/ GSA); Steven Camara, Advisor (508) 678-2811 Ext. 2391, BCC-H202, 777 Elsbree St., Fall River, MA 02720.
The Trevor Project: The only nationwide, around-theclock crisis and suicide prevention helpline for LGBT youth. Also offers social networks. 866-4-U-TREVOR; 866-488-7386. thetrevorproject.org.
Brown University Queer Alliance: umbrella org. for groups. 863-3062. www.queer.brown.edu
The Next Thing (TNT): Political & support group for queer people of color at Brown Univ. Call Brown Queer Alliance, 863-3062.
Brown University Grad Student - Med Student - Staff LGBTQ Association: queer-med-grad-members@ queer.brown.edu Brown University Staff LGBTQ Association: call LGBT Resource Center: 863-3062 Brown University LGBTQ Resource Center: 863-3062, e-mail lgbtq@brown.edu Bryant Pride: Bryant College Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Student Association. 232-6389. CCRI Triangle Alliance: Informal student GLBTQ group, 400 East Ave., Warwick. Call 825-1125 or www.ccri.cc.ri.edu/triangle. COLAGE. Support and social activities for children of LGBT Parents: Meets third Saturday of the month rhodeisland@colage.org. Coordinator Veronica Jutras (vjutras5@gmail.com) Fitchburg State College GLBT Alliance: Social support group for students. One-in-Ten and Friends, 978-
Youth Pride Inc./The Way Out: Support, education & advocacy for LGBTQQ young people ages 13-23. Drop-in center at 743 Westminster St., Prov. 02903; Mon.---Thurs. noon--8 p.m, Fridays 4 -- 8 p.m., Sat. 10 -- 5. The Way Out peer support group Tues., 5 p.m. Gender Spectrum support group Tues. 5:30 p.m. Ask about the 14-and-under day. Call 4215626 or email kerri@youthpride-ri.org Web: www. youthpride-ri.org.
Support Groups & Social Services Abuse Victims and Survivors: Support on phone for LGBTQ victims & survivors of partner abuse. Confidential peer-led groups. Hotline (617) 742-4911.
Welcoming and Affirming Lee Andrews M.A. Interfaith Chaplain/Celebrant 7 Langham Rd. Providence, RI 02906 917 414-0463 leonandrews0703@gmail.com
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University of RI Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Intersex, Queer & Questioning (LGBTIQ2) association dedicated to campus inclusiveness among staff, faculty, alumni and students. gsimonelli@advance.uri. edu. 874-5808.
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Network/LaRed. Email office: advocate@tnir.org Adoption Options: Non-sectarian help for LGBT and straight adoptions. Betsy Alper, Jewish Family Service, 959 No. Main St., Providence. 331-54337.
Gay Fathers Support Group in RI. Tom Fronczak, LICSW, 431-2953. Fee applies.
Foster parents needed: Stipend, assistance, training provided by Family Resources Community Action. 7660900, ext. 1213.
GayLab for Healthy Relationships: Learning & practicing healthy ways to socialize in safe, non-judgmental environment in LGBT community. www.gaylab.org. Email info@gaylab.org. James, 781-762-6629
Foster parents needed, for newborn to age six. www.childrensfriendri.org. 276-4318
Gay Men’s Domestic Violence Project: support, info, shelter. (800) 832-1901, www.gmdvp.org.
Foster parents sought: Training, stipend, support provided for nurturing families. Gregary Wright, Family Service of RI, 331-1350 Ext. 3305
Gay Officers Action League /New England (GOAL NE), gay/lesbian/bisexual law enforcement officers, sworn & civilian. Fire, rescue and publicly employed EMS. P.O. Box 587, Boston, MA 02117; www.goalne.org; info@goalne.org; (617) 376-3612. Confidential.
Behavioral health outpatient services in Fall River area, inclusive of LGBT: S.T.E.P. (508-)235-1012; T.W.I.S.T. (508) 672-0378 Blackstone Valley Advocacy Center, offering resources for victims of domestic violence. 723-3057. Catholic Parents Outreach: Always Our Children, 1st and 3rd Tuesdays, Sacred Heart Convent, 395 Chestnut St., Springfield, MA. Call Ann, (413) 736-6803. COLAGE (Children of Gays): A national movement of people with one or more LGBT parents. Social activities, education & advocacy. Meets 3rd Saturday of the month. rhodeisland@colage.org. Coordinator Veronica Jutras (vjutras5@gmail.com) Compass: FTM trans info, support and social group, meets in Boston First Thursday, 7 – 9 p.m. www. compassftm.org, compassftm@comcast.net Crossroads RI: Hotline (Travelers Aid): (800) 367-2700 Day One (Formerly Sexual Assault and Trauma Resource Center of RI): Counseling & legal aid for victims of sexual assault/abuse & incest. 24-hr hotline (800) 494-8100, collect calls accepted: 421-4100. Dementia and Early Alzheimer’s LGBTQ support group at Calvary United Methodist Church of Middletown, 200 Turner Rd., Middletown RI 02842. 847-6181. Domestic Violence Resource Center of South County: Support, court advocacy, counseling, safe home, info for women and men in abusive or controlling, LGBT or straight relationships. 24 hour free and confidential helpline. 782-3990. Female-to-Male Support Group: Transgender peer support, information, social group. For those who identify somewhere on the trans-masculine spectrum. Regular meetings. Visit www.SNE_FTM@yahoo. com Gay Fathers of Greater Boston: support: E-Mail outreach@gayfathersboston.org. www.gayfathersboston.
Gay Share. Coming Out? Gay men’s support group Wed., 7:30 p.m. No fee. Call Tom/Mike, 369-9448 or www. gayshare.org; Info@gayshare.org. Helpline for LGBT Youth: Trevor Helpline, call 24/7 for crisis and suicide prevention. Also social networks. 866-4-U-Trevor HIV+ Gay Men’s Support Group at AIDS Care Ocean State, 18 Parkis Ave., Prov., RI. 521-3603. Refreshments served. New members should call Scott: 6403108 Kathys’ Group: free support group for lesbians with cancer or any life-threatening illness. Meets monthly in Providence. Partners and caregivers welcome. Call 888-5KATHYS. Lesbian Moms of Southern NE: discussion, support and activity list for lesbian mothers. www.topica.com/ lists/LMOSNE or ForADancer63@aol.com. Mantalk of S.E. Mass: Social/Discussions for gay/bi/curious men 18+. Taunton every Thursday, and New Bedford 1st Tues. of the month, 7 – 8:30 p.m. Confidential. Drug/alcohol-free. Email mantalksouthcoast@yahoo.com Nat. Lesbian & Gay Journalists Assoc./New England: Works for fair and accurate media coverage of LGBT issues, info@nlgja.org. PFLAG: Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays: Greater Providence chapter serves all of RI and Southeastern Mass.: First Wednesdays, 6:45 p.m. at Met School, 325 Public St., Providence. 751-7571; www. pflagprovidence.org; pflagprovidence@verizon.net; Cape Cod: Falmouth: Last Tuesday of each month, 6:30 p.m. Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Falmouth, 840 Sandwich Rd., E. Falmouth. Brewster: Third Mondays, 7 p.m., First Parish U.U. Church, 1969 Main St. joann@pflagcapecod.org.
RI Coalition Against Domestic Violence: Info at 4679940; 24-hour helpline, (800) 494-8100. RI Rainbow Support Group for people with disabilities who identify as LGBTQ. Meets last Tuesday of each month. 98 Rolfe St., Cranston, 6 - 7:30. Ken Renaud, 785-2100. RI Relay 711. Samaritans: 24-hour hotline for suicidal, lonely, despairing, depressed. (800) 365-4044 (RI only), 272-4044; www.samaritansri.org. Sexual Health Education & Advocacy Program: HIV, sexual wellness, domestic violence risk reduction. Free, confidential, LGBTQ-friendly and bilingual (Spanish). Contact Aida (amanduley@sojournerri. org) or call 861-6191, ext. 121. No caller ID is used; calls are blocked for safety. Sojourner House: Support, shelter, advocacy, info for people in abusive relationships. Call us at 861-6191 We DON’T use Caller ID; calls are blocked for safety. Straight Spouse Support: Straight spouse professional offers peer support and referrals. Jane Harris, (413) 625-6636. Email jcmalinski48@gmail.com. Straight Spouses Group: Visit www.StraightSpouse.org. for info on groups and online support. TGI Network of R.I.: Support, advocacy for Transgender, Transsexual, Gender-variant, Genderqueer & Intersex people. www.tginetwork.org. info@tginetwork.org. Transgender Support Group: Cape Cod (508) 362-4435 Trans Family New England. Group in formation for parents of transgender children. Email jewcy15@gmail. com Trans Partners New England: Provides romantic patrons of transgender people with a confidential, safe space to explore the impact of a loved one’s gender identity on their relationships, and to connect with other loved ones of transgender people. Meetings in Providence, last Wed. of each month, location unpublished for privacy. Email partners@tginetwork.org. TransYouth Family Allies: Support for gender-variant and transgender children ages 3-18. Info@imatyfa.org. www.imatyfa.org. Transgender American Veterans Association (TAVA): Growing organization to address the concerns of fair treatment of transgender veterans and active duty service members. www.tavausa.org. Women’s Resource Center of Newport and Bristol Counties, offering services to victims of domestic violence. 846-5263.
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