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In This Issue:

Rhode Island’s lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer community news source since 1982. November 2016, Vol.XXXV, Issue 7

The Edwards Twins: A talk about show business, religion, and life p. 26

Backlash from the Bishop p. 14

International Transgender Day of Remembrance

2 Annual Appeal

18 International Transgender Day of Remembrance 20 Out on the Town:

9 Transosaurus Rex

10 Calendar

26 The Edwards Twins:

13 Poetry by Felicia

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6 From the Editor 8 News Briefs

YPI Updates

Halloween Edition Master Impersonators

14 Backlash from the Bishop

28 YPI Updates

16 Adoption RI: Meet Haley

31 Resources 38 Worth a Look

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From the Editor Dear Reader, As long as I’ve lived in Rhode Island I’ve considered the local LGBTQ community a part of my family. There is something special about living in Providence, a small city with a vibrant gay scene, with all that it has to offer right at your fingertips. While I have enjoyed the nightlife for almost a decade, I had never dedicated time to support the nonprofits that work within the community.That was until I joined the team at Options . In the past couple of months as interim-editor-in-chief, I’ve made connections in the community that I didn’t know existed. It’s fun to support our bars and socialize with friends and visitors, but it’s an entirely different and rewarding experience to donate time and support our community by being actively involved in and contributing to the growth of our community organizations. I encourage anyone who has yet to volunteer for Options to get involved. We, along with many other nonprofits, need more volunteers throughout the organization. There are always ways to participate with Options, and we currently have two specific openings on the team. We’re looking to hire a part-time managing editor and a part-time senior copy editor. Our team of editors, graphic designers, writers, and photographers are a pleasure to work with and I encourage you to think about becoming a part of the team. Interested individuals should email a resume to info@optionsri.org.

I hope you enjoy this month’s issue. Bradford Greer shares Michael Templeton’s perspective on losing his job at a Catholic church because of his marriage to a man. Chris Cedroni explores the lives of the Edwards Twins: brothers and master impersonators who differ in sexual orientation, religious beliefs, and views on a variety of issues. Poetry, comics, updates from your favorite local nonprofits, and an expanded Out on the Town section showcasing some of this year’s top Halloween costumes and parties round out the issue. Despite my recent work with the magazine, believe me, there is still time to relax in one of our local bars and converse with some of the best bartenders around. I hope to see you in both the Options office and downtown soon!

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Providence Receives Perfect Score in LGBT Equality Evaluation Providence received a perfect score for LGBTQ equality on the Municipal Equality Index (MEI) from the Human Rights Campaign Foundation (HRC) for the third year in a row. The repor t assesses LGBTQ equality across 506 cities in the United States. Eight Rhode Island cities were evaluated. Criteria being judged on the MEI included non-discrimination laws, municipal employment policies, nondiscrimination requirements for contractors, inclusiveness of city services, and municipal leadership on matters of equality, among other factors. The other RI cities fared decently on the index, considering that the United States’ average score is 55 out of 100. Rhode Island averaged at 59, with Warwick scoring 70 points, Pawtucket, 65 points, East Providence, 60, Kingston, Narragansett, and Newport all scoring 48, and Cranston, 36. Since the index’s debut four years ago, the number of cities earning perfect scores has increased more than five times. Additionally, the report noted that the cities that have been rated for all five years of the MEI have improved their scores by about 20 points over that time. “Despite another year of legislative attacks on LGBTQ equality, we are not merely holding our ground, we also continue to make significant gains across the country,” said Executive Director of the Equality Federation Institute, Rebecca Isaacs. For more information on MEI ratings across the US, visit www.hrc.org/mei.

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U.K. Government Plans to Posthumously Pardon Gay Men The British government has announced plans to posthumously pardon thousands of men convicted as criminals for participating in consensual sexual relationships with other men. The amendment that has been proposed will be akin to the case of Enigma codebreaker Alan Turing, who committed suicide after being convicted of having homosexual relations in 1954, but was pardoned after his death by Queen Elizabeth in 2013. In a recent statement, U.K. Justice Minister Sam Gyimah said, “It is hugely impor tant that we pardon people convicted of historical sexual offenses who would be innocent of any crime today.” In the U.K., consensual sexual acts between two adults of the same sex were labeled as “gross indecency” and considered illegal. Even though a posthumous pardon in no way helps the person who has been accused of these crimes, it is a symbolic recognition that a mistake was made by the country. Those who are still alive and were previously convicted of sexual offences that are now deemed perfectly legal have been able to apply to have their names cleared and their convictions expunged since a 2012 law was passed. Earlier this year, Germany announced its own plans to compensate thousands of men who were convicted for their non-heterosexual preferences under an old law, while New Zealand lawmakers introduced a petition seeking a formal apology and a pardon for those convicted of same-sex acts under laws abolished 30 years ago.

NCAA to Relocate Games Out of North Carolina Due to Anti-LGBT Policies The National Collegiate Athletic Association (NCAA) has announced that they will relocate all championship tournament games scheduled to take place in Nor th Carolina in the upcoming academic year because of the controversial law that restricts antidiscrimination protections of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people within the state. This announcement followed the NBA’s July decision to move its 2017 All-Star Game out of Charlotte, NC, and was seen as a tremendous blow to Nor th Carolina officials, as college basketball is considered a cornerstone in the state’s culture. Nor th Carolina has hosted more men’s basketball tournament games than any other state, according to an NCAA representative. In a statement explaining their decision, the NCAA Board of Governors, made up largely of institutional presidents and chancellors, said, “NCAA championships and events must promote an inclusive atmosphere for all college athletes, coaches, administrators, and fans. Current Nor th Carolina state laws make it challenging to guarantee that host communities can help deliver on that commitment.” Rhode Island is currently touting its longstanding history of cultural and LGBTQ inclusivity in a bid to replace North Carolina as a host of college basketball tournaments next year. Governor Gina Raimondo and Providence Mayor Jorge Elorza have both sent letters to the NCAA in an attempt to pitch Providence as a venue for the first and second rounds of the NCAA Division I Men’s Basketball Championship.

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Celebrate World AIDS Day at Barnes & Noble Barnes & Noble, located at 1350 Bald Hill Road,Warwick, will donate up to 20% of sales made on December 1 to AIDS Care Ocean State in honor of World AIDS Day. The event will run from 9am through 9pm, and is being held in partnership with Project Weber/RENEW. Each year, World AIDS Day is held on the first of December and is an opportunity for people to unite in the fight against HIV. Shoppers can enjoy performances by the Providence Gay Men’s Chorus as well as special appearances and story time with local performers including Kandi Dishe, Ally P. Sha, and Yolandi Fizzure. Additionally, over 15 local authors will be participating in book signings and readings. Free, quick, and confidential HIV testing will be offered.

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Airbnb Launches “Community Commitment” Airbnb, the peer-to-peer online marketplace that enables people to list or rent short-term lodging in residential properties, has made the acceptance of a Community Commitment a condition for hosting or booking through the service. The Community Commitment is a pledge by the user to “treat everyone — regardless of race, religion, national origin, ethnicity, disability, sex, gender identity, sexual orientation, or age — with respect, and without judgement or bias. If declined, users will not be able to host or book using Airbnb and will be presented with an option to cancel their account. This pledge is in response to the company’s “comprehensive effort to fight bias and discrimination in the Airbnb community.” q

CALENDAR OF EVENTS NOVEMBER

Wed. 2 SalsaConSoul Night by TeamFusionRI, 8pm-1am. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. Open to dancers at all levels of experience. No partner needed. $15 cover includes two lessons. $10 after 10pm. For more info, facebook.com/SalsaConSoul. Fri. 4 Poppy Champlin, 8pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations can be made at www. thevillageri.com or 228-7222.

Social, dinner, and networking group for older gay and bi men on second Sundays. For more info,www.riprimetimers.org or call Steve at 996-3010. Sun. 13 Interweave Potluck Dinner and Programing, 5:30-8pm. Parish Hall of Channing Memorial Church, 135 Pelham Street, Newport. Interweave is a group for LGBTQ people and allies. Bring a dish to share. For more information, contact Rex at 595-9068 or rex88296@yahoo. com.

Sun. 6 Bending Genre: Writers in Conversation, 2-4pm. Providence Public Library, 150 Empire Street. Three authors discuss how their works bend and redefine genre distinctions. Free. Sun. 6 Legends 2017 Calendar release party, 6pm doors/7pm show. The Colosseum, 180 Pine Street, Providence. $20 donation benefits AIDS Care Ocean State and Options Magazine, includes the Legends Calendar and admission to the most legendary drag show of the year. For tickets, www.aidscareos.org.

Sun. 13 The Imperial Crown Prince & Princess Ball, 7-10pm. EGO, 73 Richmond Street, Providence. Drag show, raffles, and surprises. $10 to benefit Project Weber. For more information, www.facebook. com/ImperialCourtRI.

Wed. 9 Salsa night by TeamFusionRI, 8pm-1am. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. Open to dancers at all levels of experience. No partner needed. $15 cover includes a lesson. $10 after 10pm. For more info, facebook. com/SalsaConSoul.

Wed. 16 RI Pride Annual Meeting, 7pm. Beneficent Church, 300 Weybosset Street, Providence. Discussion will include the decision whether to merge the RI Pride board with the Pride Center of RI board, and the election of a new board.

Thu. 10 Sweet Little Variety Show, 8pm. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. A queer-produced potpourri of entertainment, featuring The Dust Ruffles, John Fuzek, Close to Home, and more. $7. Find Sweet Little Variety Show on Facebook.

Wed. 16 Queer Book Club, 7-9:30pm. Books on the Square, 471 Angell Street, Providence. Reading: A Cup of Water Under My Bed by Daisy Hernandez. Discount if book is purchased at Books on the Square. For more info, email queerbookclub@gmail.com.

Sun. 13 Interweave’s Transgender Day of Remembrance, 11:30am-12pm. Channing Memorial Church, 135 Pelham Street, Newport. Service includes readings, music, and the reading of names of the 2016 transgender murder victims. Free and open to the public. For more information, contact Rex at 595-9068 or rex88296@yahoo.com.

Thu. 17 Responding to the Needs of Transgender Youth and Families: A Workshop for Faith Leaders, 8:30amnoon.Interfaith Center at Bryant University, 1150 Douglas Pike, Smithfield. Featured Speaker: Dr. Michelle Forcier, Hasbro Children’s Hospital. Register at www. transgenderworkshopforfaithleaders. eventbrite.com. For info, contact Rev. Dr. Don Anderson: danderson@ councilofchurchesri.org; text or call 4615558.

Sun. 13 RI Prime Timers, 4:30-7pm.

Thu. 17 Drag Bingo: Stuff It Thanksgivin’ Bingo, 6-9pm. Riviera Bingo Palace, 1612 Elmwood Avenue, Cranston. $20 gets you in all games with over $2000 in cash and prizes awarded monthly. Bring canned food items to donate for the season! Hosted by Haley Star and LaDiva Jonz. All funds raised benefit AIDS Care Ocean State and AIDS Project RI. Fri. 18 Necessary Conversations: LGBT Older Adults and End of Life Concerns, 7:30am-12:30pm. University of Rhode Island, Kingston. General admission $65, students $40, CEU certificates $10. For more info, sageriinfo@gmail.com. Fri. 18 Transgender: This Is My Story, 5:30pm. A forum for sharing by the local members of the Transgender Community for Trans Awareness. Free, safe, and open to the public to learn and understand. Refreshments served. Paff Auditorium, URI Providence, 80 Washington Street, Providence. For info, contact Steven at 277-5206 or uri.artsandculture@gmail. com.

Fri. 18 Sojourner House’s 6th Annual Masquerade Ball: Havana Nights, 7-11pm. Providence Biltmore, 11 Dorrance Street. Featuring Chifferobe Entertainment, Flamenco Afro-Cuban band Infusion Evolution, the Tropigals, emcees LuLu Locks and Kitty Litter, Cuban food, cocktail hour, live auction, cash bar, and a cake competition by Rhode Island Food Fights.

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Proceeds support Sojourner House’s Drop-In Resource Center and residential program for victims of domestic violence. For info and tickets, www.eventbrite. com/e/6th-annual-masquerade-balltickets-26100525374. Fri. 18 SAGE LGBT Café, noon-2pm. Church of the Transfiguration, 1665 Broad Street, Cranston. A delicious, low-cost lunch in a gay-friendly setting sponsored by Meals on Wheels, the Department of Elderly Affairs, and SAGE-RI. Programming after lunch. A $3 donation is suggested for LGBT people 60+ and people with disabilities; a $6 donation is suggested for all others. Reservations required: Call Pauline at 351-6700. Sat. 19 Sister Funk with Rachael Kilgour, 8pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations can be made at www.thevillageri.com or 2287222. Sat. 19 “Give Thanks” TeamFusionRI Social Dance, 8pm-2am. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. Open to dancers at all levels of experience. No partner needed. $20 cover, includes two lessons. $15 after 10pm. For more info, facebook.com/SalsaConSoul. Sun. 20 Transgender Day of Remembrance, 6:30pm. Beneficent Church, 300 Weybosset Street, Providence. Resource fair and annual ceremony (7pm) with speakers and the reading of names of transgender murder victims. For more info, tdor.info. Sun. 20 Chiltern Mountain Club’s Annual Meeting & Luncheon, 1-4pm. Mosaic Commons community room, 22 Village Lane, Berlin, MA. All are welcome. RSVP required at www.chiltern.org under “Trips.” $15 suggested donation. For info, contact Josiah at (617) 306-3840 or board@chiltern.org.

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Sat. 3 In My Own Little Corner, 2pm. A Solo Cabaret Performance by Brennan Srisirikul, a gay 25 year-old man with Cerebral Palsy. Paff Auditorium, URI Providence Campus, 80 Washington Street. Free and open to the public. For info, contact Steven at 277-5206 or uri. artsandculture@gmail.com.

Fri. 16 SAGE LGBT Café, noon-2pm. Church of the Transfiguration, 1665 Broad Street, Cranston. A delicious, low-cost lunch in a gay-friendly setting sponsored by Meals on Wheels, the Department of Elderly Affairs, and SAGE-RI. Programming after lunch. A $3 donation is suggested for LGBT people 60+ and people with disabilities; a $6 donation is suggested for all others. Reservations required: Call Pauline at 351-6700. Sun. 18 Interweave Potluck Dinner and Programing, 5:30-8pm. Parish Hall of Channing Memorial Church, 135 Pelham Street, Newport. Interweave is a group for LGBTQ people and allies. Bring a dish to share. For more information, contact Rex at 595-9068 or rex88296@yahoo. com.

Wed. 7 Salsa night by TeamFusionRI, 8pm-1am. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. Open to dancers of all levels of experience. No partner needed. $15 cover, includes a lesson. $10 after 10pm. For more info, facebook.com/ SalsaConSoul. Thu. 8 Sweet Little Variety Show, 8pm. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. A queer-produced potpourri of entertainment, featuring comic Rich Hite, musician Lara Herscovitch, Kristen Minsky and the Tropigals, and more. $7. Find Sweet Little Variety Show on Facebook. Sun. 11 RI Prime Timers, 4:30-7pm. Social, dinner, and networking group for older gay and bi men on second Sundays. For more info,www.riprimetimers.org or call Steve at 996-3010. Wed. 14 Pride RI Holiday Party, 7-9pm. Pride Center, 1055 Westminster Street, Floor 2, Providence. Beverages and hors d’oeuvres provided, though you are welcome to bring a dish to share.

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Thu. 15 Drag Bingo: Xmas is a Drag Bingo, 6-9pm. Riviera Bingo Palace, 1612 Elmwood Avenue, Cranston. $20 gets you in all games with over $2,000 in cash and prizes awarded monthly. Hosted by Haley Star and LaDiva Jonz. All funds raised benefit AIDS Care Ocean State and AIDS Project RI.

Wed. 21 Queer Book Club, 7-9:30pm. Books on the Square, 471 Angell Street, Providence. Reading: American Savage by Dan Savage. Discount if book is purchased at Books on the Square. For more info, email queerbookclub@gmail.com. Regularly Scheduled Support Groups: ACOS (HIV/AIDS): youth, Tue. 4pm/gay males, Wed. 1:30pm LGBT Alcoholics Anonymous: Tue. 7pm PFLAG (parents, friends, allies): 1st & 3rd Wed. 6:45pm TGI Network (trans): 1st & 3rd Tue. 7pm/Sat. 1pm TransFamily New England: 2nd Mon. 6:30pm YPI (youth): Way Out, Thu. 4pm/Gender Spectrum, Tue. 4pm/youth 13 and under: Thu. 5pm See Resources on page 30 for more info.

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to work for St. Francis Chapel and City Ministry Center in Providence and The Church of St. Francis of Assisi in Manhattan before accepting the position at St. Mary’s back in Providence, where he has worked for the past five years.

Michael Templeton and Greg Costa

nly a special person has the courage to choose an occupation that does not validate him as a person. Those serving in the military have it; spor ts figures, policemen, and firefighters also have it. Choosing a profession, following your calling, doing what your hear t tells you is the right thing to do with your life despite policy and bigotry: those people often do not realize how strong and courageous they are when they place themselves in harm’s way by standing up for who they are. Michael Templeton is one such person. He has spent his life helping others to express and share their religious faith through music. His was par t of the “welcome” people celebrated when they went to church: an integral par t of the celebration of their faith. “I’ve been doing music ministry for 25 years,” said Michael. “I’ve also never been someone who’s boasted about the details of my personal life. Some of my closest Catholic friends are religious sisters, Franciscan friars, and diocesan priests. Who I am had never been an issue before – in fact it had been celebrated.” The 35-year-old grew up in New York serving as an altar boy and, according to his brother Tom, developed and directed a summer Bible camp that is still thriving. He graduated from St. Bonaventure University where he directed music ministry every year. Following graduation, Michael went

“As it related to my work at St. Mary’s, my time and energy was focused on helping people pray with and through music. Based on the generous and incredibly positive feedback I’ve received in my liturgical music career, I believe I excelled in this role. When I got married last July, I began wearing my wedding ring and simply served in my capacity as director without incident. No conversation was had, and life just went on.” The U.S. Supreme Cour t’s decision validating same-gender marriage stated: “No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family. In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than once they were.” Upon learning that this quote was printed on Michael Templeton and Greg Costa’s wedding program, Bishop Tobin stated unequivocally that he had no choice but to fire Templeton. He issued the following statement: “Any person who holds a ministerial position in the Church, as an employee or a volunteer, is expected to live in a way that is fully consistent with the teachings and faith of the Church. If an individual deliberately and knowingly enters into a relationship or engages in activity that contradicts the core teachings of the Church, that individual leaves the Church no choice but to respond.” Sometimes the church’s response is to transfer you to another parish. Sometimes, if an offering is involved, an annulment can be arranged. Bishop Tobin’s response to someone who spent his life helping Catholics on the road to God through music? Get out. Was it all right for Michael Templeton to work in the church as a gay man? For five years, it was. What was so threatening to the Catholic Church when he got married? Was it because it could no longer be

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supposed that his music ministry was to atone for his “sin”? Could it be that because he took a proud step toward enriching his life in the way every human being has a right to his employment became no longer viable or desirable for the church? How did the church feel his ministry was compromised? Apparently, many of the parishioners did not. They lost their music minister and they made their disagreement clear during the mass. The pastor carried on and left after mass without a word of comfor t to his grieving parishioners.

someone that would be shared between two parishes. I quickly realized that the relationship I’ve historically had with other pastors would not be the same with this one.”

Francesco Francese, in one of his first acts as the new pastor of St. Mary’s, told Michael that due to the public nature of Michael’s ministry, and the fact that he knowingly entered into a marriage that contradicts the teachings of the Church, he was no longer able to work for St. Mary’s.

This is where the Catholic Church loses. Not because people like Michael lose their faith. They don’t. Gay, straight, or divorced, their faith is stronger than the rejection they must endure from the hierarchy of the Church. It overcomes the narrow-mindedness of bigotry and selective interpretation. It is their faith in the underlying message of love, which resounds in every religion, that uplifts them. It is hear tbreaking that they must celebrate their religion elsewhere.

This is the hypocrisy that casts a dark shadow over a great many Rhode Island Catholics, although not all, to be sure. How exactly do you extend the open hear t and welcoming, merciful hand of Jesus Christ while you are denying someone their human rights? “We were much more focused on Pope Francis’ approach regarding parish renewal through stewardship, his writing in ‘The Joy of the Gospel’ and his clearly pastoral sensibility toward all people,” said Michael. “That having been said, I had a sense that things might be shifting significantly when I learned in June that St. Mary’s would have a change in leadership – a young priest, a first-time pastor and

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While Pope Francis is traveling the world embracing all of humanity and welcoming all into the church, Rhode Island’s bishop is sending the message to selective “sinners” that their place in the church is in the back or in the confessional – cer tainly not on the payroll. That message came through loud and clear for Michael Templeton.

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Meet HALEY

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By Marsha Fernandes and Jeffrey Mendes, Adoption Rhode Island Children in foster care want to be part of permanent families. Adoption Rhode Island helps prepare kids and teens for adoption, while matching families to these amazing, talented, and resilient children. Adoption Rhode Island is an open and welcoming organization that respects and values diversity for children and families. Together Forever Recruiter Marsha Fernandes, and Wendy’s Wonderful Kids Recruiter Jeffrey Mendes are two of the seven recruiters in the Adoption and Permanency Services Program at Adoption Rhode Island who work directly with children who live in foster care and are waiting to be matched with permanent families. Recently, Marsha and Jeffrey had the opportunity to interview Haley, a sixteen year old currently in the Rhode Island foster care system, who is still waiting. At what age do you remember entering foster care? 6 years old. How old are you now? 16 years old. How long have you been waiting for a family? I remember being 9 years old when I first wanted a family. What does your ideal family look like? I would like an LGBTQ family, particularly two moms. Females are more supportive and understanding of what other females are experiencing. Why would you want an LGBTQ family? They accept differences and are more understanding of overcoming every day challenges. I feel like LGBTQ parents would

be more understanding of what I had to go through in my own life and will help me achieve my goals. What would you like readers to know about you? I want others to know that I am artistic, I especially love to draw and color. I enjoy reading and writing. I like school but I struggle in math, science, and gym. I would love to have a pet one day, just not an insect, bug, or a frog. What do you want readers to know about teens in foster care? I want them to know that we are HERE! What do you mean by HERE? I want you to know that we exist. We have pain. We have experienced loss. People think that we are nothing. We are smart. We have goals. We are just like teens that have families and struggle with the same issues as those teens however, we don’t have parents to help us through the difficult teenage years. Other than adoption, what are some other ways that readers can support teens in foster care? They can be foster parents, mentors, or even donate. You can make a difference in the life of a child. For more information, please contact Adoption Rhode Island at 865-6000 or visit our website at www.adoptionri.org. q Adoption Rhode Island’s mission is to facilitate, promote, and support the permanent placement of children waiting for adoption and to improve the well-being of foster and adopted children and their families. We provide pre- and post- adopt services to children and families, educate, and advocate for a child’s right to a safe environment, and increase public awareness of the unmet needs of children and families impacted by foster care and adoption.

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INTERNATIONAL TRANSGENDER DAY

OF REMEMBRANCE EVENT TO BE HELD IN PROVIDENCE On Sunday, November 20th, at Beneficent Church in downtown Providence (300 Weybosset Street), a Transgender Day of Remembrance event will be held to honor transgender people around the world who lost their lives this year to violence. The event will include a resource fair, starting at 6:30pm, and a ceremony starting at 7:00pm. The ceremony will include speakers who will share their experiences, and a reading of the names of those who lost their lives in 2016. This is an annual event, held throughout the world, commemorates the lives lost within the transgender community to violence. “This year, as transgender people have seen greater visibility as well as an onslaught of political attacks, we find ourselves again mourning the loss of our community members, in the United States and around the world,” said Ethan Huckel, TGI Network’s Board President. “Our Transgender Day of Remembrance

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is a space to mourn those losses, as well as an empowering gathering of community toward collective action. It is imperative to work as a community to address the ways that anti-transgender rhetoric, sexism, racism, and poverty intersect to impact our community. We need to challenge those who would sensationalize our experiences for entertainment purposes and ignore the systems at work against us. This is an important day for our community, because it reminds us that we have to come together to make positive change.” The first Transgender Day of Remembrance was held in 1999 to commemorate the murder of Rita Hester, a transgender woman of color who was murdered in Allston, MA. Not only are transgender people murdered in record numbers, but their murderers are often not brought to justice. Charges have been filed in fewer than half of the murders of trans* people that have been reported this year. Even Rita

Hester’s murder remains unsolved, over 16 years later. For more information about the Transgender Day of Remembrance as an international event, please visit tdor.info. q Incorporated in 2011, TGI Network of Rhode Island is the only statewide organization providing support and advocacy for the TGI community in Rhode Island and surrounding areas. Our mission is to serve the needs of the transgender, gender-variant, and intersex (TGI) communities in Rhode Island and surrounding areas through support, advocacy, and education. We seek to be a resource for TGI people navigating their life journeys as well as the legal and medical systems through our own programs and through collaboration with other organizations. In addition, we seek to serve as a resource to professionals working with the TGI community and as a liaison between the TGI and LGB communities, as well as the community at large. To learn more, please visit tginetwork.org.

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Alley Cat,

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: Talk about show business, religion and life. By Chris Cedroni

he Edwards Twins, Anthony and Eddie, are the premier celebrity impersonators of our age. Their sold-out shows all over the world pay homage to show business greats, from Barbara Streisand to Andrea Bocelli, Lady Gaga to Neil Diamond. Anthony impersonates the male celebrities, while Eddie impersonates the females. Just don’t call it a drag act. Anthony describes the difference this way: “We want our audience to think that they are, in fact, watching Bette Midler or Elton John. That’s why we do our own singing, and use prosthetics and authentic costumes. Drag is more about caricature, and less about the illusion.” Between them, they impersonate some three hundred singers and performers. Their audiences adore it, and they are so convincing they get accolades from the celebrities they impersonate. They’ve lived and worked together for the past 25 years. Their performance is in perfect sync. Yet one of the most fascinating things

about the brothers is not how similar they are, but how different they can be. Eddie is gay, and Anthony is a straight born-again christian. Anthony is more formal, perhaps old-fashioned, on social issues, and Eddie is more liberal. Anthony doubles as the business manager for the show, while Eddie is always focused on the act itself. As children of a military family, they moved frequently, getting their first taste of show business when they were around six years old while living in Burbank, California. They would sneak into the NBC studios and watch recordings of Hollywood Squares and Matchgame. There, they began mimicking celebrity contestants. When they were discovered, rather than being kicked out, their plucky personalities and uncanny abilities made them a hit backstage, where they would entertain celebrities, producers, and crew. Even at home, they would recreate the skits they watched on Laugh-In and the Carol Burnett Show. “We would have contests to see who could do them perfectly,” Eddie says.

As they began to grow up, differences between the two started to emerge. Eddie, even in his preteen years, knew that he was gay. “I came out when I was 15 years old. I was the kid who fought to take a boy to the prom. They weren’t ready for that in Tucson, Arizona in 1981,” he laughs. Around the same time, Anthony began to develop a deep sense of religion, one that continues to grow. After college, he went on to pursue a career in law enforcement in San Diego, while Eddie honed his talents as a celebrity impersonator, auditioning for roles in nightclubs and cabarets. He auditioned repeatedly, eventually landing a spot on a Carol Burnett special. She was very impressed with Eddie’s abilities, and encouraged him to develop an act with Anthony. While in San Diego, Anthony had become a born-again Christian, but he is quick to counter the stereotype of organized religion rejecting LGBTQ people. Instead, he finds a message that transcends racism, homophobia, and bigotry.

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Eddie, on the other hand, doesn’t have a formal sense of religion, but lives by a strong, but undefined, ideal. “I’m spiritual, but not religious.” he states. Predictably, the brothers have differences of opinion on social issues, politics, and contemporary life. “Oh, boy, do we disagree sometimes,” Anthony says. “But it can be very healthy to hear differences of opinion.” “At one point we said to ourselves that we could be pig-headed and stand our ground, but then so many people wouldn’t be able to enjoy our act,” Eddie says. “A lot of people are shocked when they find out I am born again,” he says. “They don’t expect me to be so open and accepting of others, but I had a wonderful minister who taught me that the message of the Bible is love, compassion, and acceptance. A lot of families could be together now if they accepted this idea,” he says.

And the brothers are focused on their act. “It’s our child,” they both say. It takes up their lives and keeps them on the road almost three hundred days each year. It can take upwards of sixty thousand dollars to develop a new impersonation, between wigs, prosthetics, costumes, and custom-made orchestrations, not to mention exhaustive hours of practice and research. But it’s easy to tell that making audiences happy is their purpose for living.

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In fact, they are so protective of their act that they insist on doing the sound and lighting themselves. “If you have a passion, you have to take on the whole kit and caboodle.” Anthony says. They credit their success to their workaholic mother and military stepfather who instilled a sense of discipline and respect. They sum it up by saying “If you are going to live a life, choose the life you want to live and love it.” And there is a lot of love to go around. It’s clear that the brothers love each other, love what they do, and have an audience that loves them. If you need a little more love in your life, check out their act the next time they are in town. q The Edwards Twin will be performing at Twin Rivers Casino on November 17, The Newport Playhouse December 5 and 6, and the Ocean State Theatre on December 7, as well as many local New England venues. Visit www.theedwardstwins.com for a complete schedule, as well as videos and stills from their amazing act.

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It has been a busy fall at YPI as we welcomed many new youth into the Center. OutSpoken, our leadership development program, has begun once again for the fall, and youth are currently learning a great deal on issues of social justice, activism, effective organizing, and queer theory. Hasbro has come to do the ever-popular Game Night and the Youth Programming Council had been busy planning for the Halloween Fashion Show & Party. We are pleased to announce that Stop & Shop will be donating and preparing our Annual Thanksgiving Dinner in the Center on Wednesday, November 16. We invite all youth and YPI alumni to join us in the very special feast. Finally, we are pleased to invite the entire community to our Holiday Open House on December 3 from 2-5pm, with a special speaking portion to begin at 4pm. We will be presenting our community awards at this event. All are welcome to drop in, see the Center, bring their families, and ring in the holiday season with YPI. Other activities will include holiday treats, the grand opening of our new lending library, and the debut of our 25th Anniversary Celebration Series next year. q

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RESOURCES Options originated in 1982 as the offical newsletter of the Rhode Island Gay Task Force. Editor Jos Fayette explained, “The RIGTF wants to make the homosexual community aware of their options as gay men and women in Rhode Island. And it’s only because we live, work, love, and play in this state that there are such a large number of options available to all of us.” Options has always, and will continue to print LGBTQ resources so that you can, as Fayette went on to say, “Exercise your OPTIONS today to make positive changes in your life tomorrow.” Help us help you! Email info@optionsri.org if you come across a resource listing that needs updating. New, updated, and featured resources are highlighted. Phone numbers are in the 401 area code and addresses are in Rhode Island, unless otherwise indicated.

Addiction Support Groups

AA Brothers in Sobriety: Saturday 7:30pm. 372 Wayland Avenue, Providence. 751-9328. AddictionCenter.com: Web information guide for addiction resources nationwide. Or call 1-877-830-2915. Alcohol/Drug Helpline: RI Council on Alcoholism & Drug Dependence. 24hr. (866) 252-3784. RI LGBT AA Group: Tuesdays 7 -- 8 pm Bell Street Chapel, 5 Bell St., Providence, 273-5678. All are welcome. Seven Hills Behavioral Health: Addiction support services and Narcan. 1173 Acushnet Avenue, New Bedford, MA, 508999-4159. 310 S. Main Street, Fall River, MA, 508-235-1012. Leonard Amaral, Program Manager, lamaral@sevenhills.org. Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous: 12-step program. Fridays at 7pm. Providence Presbyterian Church, 500 Hope Street, Providence, side entrance, downstairs to the left. Gay, but all are welcome. Young People’s Sexual Diversity meeting of AA. Fridays at 7pm at Center for Sexual Pleasure & Health, 250 Main St., Pawtucket. 489-5513.

AIDS/Health Resources

Afia Center for Health & Wholeness: Meals, food pantry, HIV support groups, recreational and social activities. Sponsored by AIDS Project RI. Free to clients.. Wed. and Thurs. 12 -- 3pm. 134 Mathewson St., Providence. John Fruscella, 831-5522, Ext. 3835. AIDS Action Hotline: MA only. (800) 235-2331. www.aac.org. AIDS Care Ocean State: Confidential HIV & Hep C testing, safer-sex supplies, case management, emergency funds, clinical services, assisted and supportive housing for people living with HIV/AIDS, street outreach, ENCORE, HIV+ support groups. Speaker’s Bureau, 18 Parkis Ave., Providence. 521-3603 (call 781-0665 to schedule an appointment). www.aidscareos.org. AIDS Project RI: Division of Family Service of RI. Case management, buddies, COBRA and dental services, emergency fund, mental health counseling, nutrition support, assessment and referral, wellness programs, advocacy, strength training, prevention education, HIV testing. 9 Pleasant Street, Providence. 831-5522 www.aidsprojectri.org.

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AIDS Quilt RI: Displays local AIDS memorial quilt panels, panel-making programs including Anna’s Workshop, HIV/AIDS education for young people. PO Box 2591, Newport. 434-4880. admin@aidsquiltri.org. www.aidsquiltri.org. Brown University AIDS Program: Clinical trials, public policy, research, lectures, conferences, patient and community education. 121 South Main Street, Second Floor, Providence. 863-6790. brunap@brown.edu. brown.edu/Departments/ BRUNAP. Community Care Alliance: Case management, support, personal care items for people living with HIV/AIDS in northern Rhode Island. 245 Main Street, Woonsocket. 235-6092. lcohen@famresri.org. Comprehensive Community Action Programs: Medical, mental health, dental, social services, LGBT outreach. 311 Doric Avenue, Cranston. Also Coventry, Pawtucket, and Warwick. 467-9610. Gabriel Care, LLC: Nursing/social worker case management and financial compensation for assistance and supervision for those living with HIV. MassHealth funded for MA residents. 376 South Main Street, Fall River, MA. Contact Jenn, (508) 678-1002. HIV Antibody Testing: Anonymous. Free or sliding scale. RI Department of Health. Providence, Newport and other locations. 222-2320. Home and Hospice Care of RI: Medical care management for HIV/AIDS. 24hr nursing staff for treatment. 1085 North Main Street, Providence. Referrals: 782-0725. Bereavement groups: Contact John Charette, 727-7079. Main Office: 415-4200 or toll-free 800-338-6555. www.hhcri.org. House of Compassion: HIV/AIDS housing. 2510 Mendon Road, Cumberland. 658-3992. LGBT Caregiver Online Support Group: For LGBTs caring for someone with chronic health problems. www.caregiver.org Luis E. Martinez House CHS, Inc.: Supportive, permanent housing for 10 adults living with HIV/AIDS and/or substance abuse. New Bedford, MA. Contact Joe Taylor. (508) 984-7514. Partners in Learning About AIDS: Outreach to minorities, women of color, and LGBT community at clubs and other locations. North Providence office provides free condoms and information about STIs and post-exposure prophylaxis for HIV. 1006 Charles Street, Suite 5, North Providence. 484-7523. info@plaidsproject.org. www.plaidsproject.org.

Planned Parenthood of So. New England: Confidential, low-cost, same-day & walk-in STD and HIV testing. Commonsense approach to health. 111 Point St., Providence. 800-230-7526. www.ppsne.org. Prima CARE Transgender Clinic: Fall River, MA. Counseling, hormonal reassignment, referrals for surgery. Kishore Lakshman, MD. 508-235-0481. Project Weber: Services for male sex workers. Drop-in center, support groups, HIV and Hep C testing, clean needles. 383-4888. www.projectweber.org. Seven Hills HIV Prevention & Screening: TWIST program, HIV and STI prevention and testing,partner care.1173AcushnetAvenue, New Bedford, MA, 508-999-4159. 310 S. Main Street, Fall River, MA, 508-235-1012. Contact Leonard Amaral, lamaral@sevenhills.org. SSTAR (Stanley Street Treatment & Resources): Counseling, drug treatment, detox, domestic violence programs, free and confidential HIV, HEP C, and STD testing, education, case management and support. MA and RI locations. 386 Stanley Street, Fall River, MA. (508) 679-5222. Project Aware (HIV/HCV); (508) 324-3561. Family Healthcare Center; (508) 675-1054. www.sstar.org. Steppingstone, Inc.: Welcome Home Medical case management program. One-on-one peer support in Somerset to Wareham area. HIV support groups available. Free and open to any HIV+ person 18+. 5 Dover Street, New Bedford, MA. (508) 984-7514. www.steppingstoneinc.org. Tranquil Mind & Wellness: Counseling, alternative healing, yoga, Pilates, meditation.109 Rhode Island Road, Lakeville, MA. (508) 947-1683. www.tranquilmind.net. Thundermist Health Center: Provides HIV/AIDS services including medical care and treatment by an HIV specialist, dental care, behavioral health counseling, nutritional assessment and counseling, pharmacy consultation, free and confidential HIV testing. 450 Clinton Street, Woonsocket. Contact Philip Kane. 767-4100 ext. 3516.

Information/Education The Center for Sexual Pleasure & Health: Education, pleasure, health, advocacy. Tues. -- Sat. 12 -- 6 and by appointment. 250 Main Street, Unit 1, Pawtucket. 489-5513. www.thecsph.org. Fenway Community Center LGBT Helpline: Support, information and referrals. Fenway Community Health Center, Boston. Open daily 6-11pm. (617) 267-9001 or 888-340-452 Foster Parents needed for newborns to age six. Visit www.chidrensfriendri.org or call Joyce, 276-4318. GLBT National Help Center Hotline: Local resources nationwide provided by social services agency. 888-843-4564. www.glbtnationalhelpcenter.org. Newport Out: LGBT website for Newport. www.newportout.com. RILGBT-News: Low-volume email distribution list for LGBT & AIDS news from RI. Not a discussion list. To subscribe: tinawood@cox.net. South Coast LGBTQ Network: Information & advocacy network for individuals of all ages. 774-371-0711. info@ sclgbtqnetwork.org. www.sclgbtqnetwork.org. United Way of RI Referral Line: 2-1-1 on your telephone.

Nightlife

The Alley Cat Providence: Downtown neighborhood bar. Monday-Thursday 3pm-1am, Friday 3pm-2am, Saturday 2pm2am, Sunday 2pm-1am. 19 Snow Street, Providence. 272-6369. Bobby’s Place: Dancing, pool, video lounge, karaoke. SundayWednesday 5pm-1am, Thursday-Saturday 5pm-2am. 62 Weir Street, Taunton, MA. (508) 824-9997. www.bobbysplacema.com. Brooklyn Coffee Tea House: 209 Douglas Ave., Providence: public/private venue for music, art, film screenings, weddings, showers, etc. RHODYWOOD@yahoo.com; 359-0192. Club Body Center: Gay men’s sauna. Membership required. One-day pass available. Open 24hr. 257 Weybosset Street, Providence. 274-0298. www.cbcresorts.com. The Dark Lady: Downtown bar and nightclub. TuesdayThursday 9pm-1am, Friday & Saturday 9pm-3am, Sunday 9pm1am. 17 Snow Street, Providence. 272-6369. EGO: Providence’s newest gay nightlife performance/event space. Sunday and Thursday 9pm-1am, Friday and Saturday 10pm-3am, 73 Richmond St, Providence. 383-1208. www.egopvd.com. Indigo Lounge: 599 Tiogue Ave, Coventry RI 02816. Breakfast buffet, specialty pizzas, T Dances, live entertainment, karaoke Thurs. Hours vary, closed Mon. www.indigopizza.com. Mirabar: Downtown bar and nightclub. Monday-Thursday 3pm-1am, Friday and Saturday 3pm-2am, Sunday 3pm-1am. 15 Elbow Street, Providence. 331-6761. www.mirabar.com. Providence Eagle: Leather, Levi, bear cruise bar. MondayThursday 2pm-1am, Friday 2pm-2am, Saturday-Sunday 12pm2am. 124 Snow Street, Providence. 421-1447. The Stable: Downtown video bar. No cover. Monday-Thursday 2pm-1am, Friday 2pm-2am, Saturday 12pm-2am, Sunday 12pm1am. 125 Washington Street, Providence. 272-6950. The Village: Downtown Providence’s newest LGBT owned and operated restaurant and live entertainment venue. Lunch & dinner Wednesday through Sunday for varying hours. 373 Richmond St. 228-7222, www.thevillageri.com

Political & Legal Groups American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU): 128 Dorrance Street, Suite 220, Providence. 831-7171. riaclu.org. Amnesty International OUTfront: Program to campaign globally for LGBTQ human rights. (212)807-8400. Cvohs18904@yahoo.com. www.amnestyusa.org. Brown University Queer Alliance: Student advocacy and support organization. queer@brown.edu. Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD): LGBT/ HIV legal info hotline. Weekdays 1:30-4:30pm. 30 Winter Street, Suite 800, Boston, MA. (617) 436-1350 or (800) 455-GLAD. gladlaw@glad.org www.GLAD.org. Lambda Legal Defense & Education Fund: 120 Wall Street, Suite 1500, NY. (212) 809-8585. www.lambdalegal.org. Lawyers for Equality and Diversity (LEAD): Advocates for LGBT causes. lawyersforequality@gmail.com.

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National Lesbian & Gay Journalists Assoc./New England: Works for fair and accurate media coverage of LGBT issues. info@nlgja.org, www.nlgja.org. The Next Thing (TNT): Political and support group for queer people of color located at Brown University. 863-3062. tnt@brown.edu. RI Commission on Prejudice and Bias: Hate crime awareness training program. www.hatecrimeri.org. RI Socialist Action: 952-5385, adgagneri@gmail.com. Spanish: 351-3514, walsil@cox.net. RI Human Rights Commission: Anti-discrimination law enforcement agency with jurisdiction in employment, housing, public accommodations, and credit. 180 Westminster Street, 3rd floor, Providence. 222-2662 TTY: 222-2664, richr.ri.gov. Scouts for Equality: An organization composed largely of Boy Scouts of America alumni dedicated to ending the BSA’s ban on gay members and leaders. Contact Carol Crowther. ccrowther1@gmail.com. Facebook.com/riscoutsforequality. Servicemembers Legal Defense Network: Serving LGBT military personnel and veterans. PO Box 65301, Washington DC. (202) 328-3244. or (800) 538-7418. sldn@sldn.org. www. sldn.org.

Religious & Spiritual All Saints Memorial Church: 674 Westminster Street, Providence. 751-1747. asmcri@verizon.net. www.allsaintsmemorial.org. Amicable Congregational Church: UCC. Open & Affirming. Pastor William Sterrett. Sunday 10am. 3736 Main Road, Tiverton. 624-4611. amicablechurch@aol.com, www.amicablechurch.org. Association of Welcoming & Affirming Baptists: robin@awab.org, www.awab.org. Barrington Congregational Church: UCC. “The white church.” Sundays 10am. 461 County Road, Barrington. 246-0111. office@bccucc.org, www.bccucc.org. Bell Street Chapel: Unitarian Universalist. A Welcoming Congregation. Rev. Margaret Weis. Sundays 10am. 5 Bell Street, Providence. 273-5678. www.bellstreetchapel.org. Beneficent Congregational Church: UCC.An Open & Affirming congregation in the heart of Providence. Sundays 10am. 300 Weybosset Street, Providence. 331-9844. BeneficentChurchUCC@ gmail.com, www.beneficentchurch.org. Berean Baptist Church: A safe and welcoming place for all God’s children. Sunday 10am. 474 Chapel Street, Harrisville. 568-5411. bereanbaptist@verizon.net. www.bereanri.net Calvary United Methodist Church of Middletown: LGBTQ early dementia support group. Contact Amy. Sundays 10:30am. 200 Turner Road, Middletown. 847-6181, www.middletownmethodist.com. Central Congregational Church: UCC. An Opening & Affirming Congregation. Sundays 10:30am. 296 Angell Street, Providence. 331-1960. www.centralchurch.us. Channing Memorial Church: Unitarian Universalist. A Welcoming Congregation. Sundays 10am. 135 Pelham Street,

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The Chapel of the Holy Spirit: Independent Old Catholic. Fr. Jakob Lazarus. Sunday 9am and 6pm. 155 Douglas Avenue, Providence. 413-4821. www.holyparaclete.org. Charter Oak Grove ADF: An Open and Welcoming Congregation of Neo-pagan Druids in CT. charteroakadf@gmail.com, www.charteroakadf.org. Christ Church in Lonsdale: Episcopal. 1643 Lonsdale Avenue, Lincoln. Services 8am and 10:30am. 725-1920. office@christchurchlincoln.org. www.christchurchlincoln.org. Church of the Ascension, 390 Pontiac Ave., Cranston, RI 02910. Sundays at 10am. 461-5811. www.ascensioncranston.org. Church of the Epiphany: A diverse Open & Affirming Episcopal congregation. 1336 Pawtucket Avenue, East Providence. 434-5012. info@epiphanyep.org, www.epiphanyep.org. Church of the Redeemer, a Welcoming Episcopal church. 655 Hope St., Providence. www.redeemerprovidence.org. office@ redeemerprovidence.org. Rev. Patrick Campbell, 331-0678. Concordia Center for Spiritual Living: A diverse community welcoming all spiritual paths to God. Sunday Celebration 9:15am. 292 W. Shore Rd., Warwick. Rev. Ian Taylor, 732-1552. info@concordiachurchri.com. www.ConcordiaCSL.com. Edgewood Congregational Church: UCC. Open & Affirming. Service 10am. 1788 Broad Street, Cranston. 461-1344. office@edgewoodchurchri.org. www.edgewoodchurchri.org. Emmanuel Episcopal Church: Sundays 8 and 9:30am. 120 Nate Whipple Highway, Cumberland. 658-1506. office@emmanuelri.org. www.emmanuelri.org. First Congregational Church in Bristol: An Open and Affirming Congregation. Skip Macaulay, Interim Pastor. 281 High Street, Bristol. 253-7288. www.fccbristol.org. First Unitarian Church: A welcoming congregation. Sunday 10:30am. 1 Benevolent Street, Providence. 421-7970. admin@firstunitarianprov.org, www.firstunitarianprov.org. First Unitarian Church: Service 11am. 71 8th Street, New Bedford, MA. (508) 994-9686. admin@uunewbedford.org, www.uunewbedford.org. First Universalist Society: UU. Welcoming congregation. Samegender weddings. 262 Chestnut Street, Franklin, MA. (508) 5285348. fusf@verizon.net, www.fusf.org. Foxboro Universalist Church: UUA. Service 10am. 6 Bird Street, Foxboro, MA. 508-543-4002. chair@uufoxborough.org. www. uufoxborough.org. Grace Episcopal Church in Providence: 175 Mathewson Street, Providence. 331-3225. hello@gracechurchprovidence.org. www. gracechurchprovidence.org. Hopedale Unitarian Parish: Sundays 10:30 am. 65 Hopedale St., Hopedale, MA. www.hopedaleunitarian.org, 508-473-0745. Rev. Tony Lorenzen. Immanuel Lutheran Church: A Reconciling in Christ congregation. Pastor Sandra Demmler D’Amico. 647 North Main Street, Attleboro, MA. (508) 222-2898. www.immanuellc.org.

Interweave at Channing Memorial UU Church: Organization for the spiritual, political and social well-being of LGBTQ persons, and their allies, confronting oppression. 135 Pelham Street, Newport. 846-0643. Lutheran Church of the Good Shepherd: A “Reconciling in Christ” congregation (Welcoming). 3383 Old North Rd., Kingston, RI. Sundays 9 am. Pastor Mary Hansen-Joyce. 789-7776; office@ goodshepherdri.org Mathewson St. Church: United Methodist. 134 Mathewson Street, Providence. 331-8900. MathewsonStUMC@gmail.com. Mercy of God Community: Christian, inclusive religious order. mercycomm@yahoo.com, www.mgc.org. Murray Unitarian Universalist Church: Marriage and commitment ceremonies for all. Rev. Bob McKetchnie. 505 North Main Street, Attleboro, MA. (508) 222-0505 www.murrayuuchurch.org. Newman Congregational Church: Open & Affirming. 100 Newman Avenue, Rumford. 434-4742. www.newmanucc.org. Newport Congregational Church: UCC. Open & Affirming. Rev. Hayes and Rev. Baker. 73 Pelham Street, Newport. 849-2238. Park Place Congregational Church: 71 Park Place, Pawtucket. 726-2800. office@ppucc.necoxmail.com, www.parkplaceucc.com. The Pub Church: An Open & Affirming church that meets in a pub. Location may change. Saturday 5pm. The Dugout, 722 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston, MA. thepubchurch@gmail.com. Pilgrim Lutheran Church: An inclusive congregation. Sundays 8 and 9:30am. 1817 Warwick Avenue, Warwick. 739-2937. parishasst@pilgrimlutheranri.org, pilgrimlutheranri.jimdo.com. Pilgrim United Church of Christ: Open and Affirming. 635 Purchase Street, New Bedford, MA. (508)-997-9086. Riverside Church: UCC.15 Oak Avenue, Riverside. Service 10am. 433-2039. www.rcc-ucc.com. St. Augustine’s Church and Episcopal Center at URI: 15 Lower College Road, Kingston. 783-2153. Sundays 8am and 10am. StAugustinesChurch@necoxmail.com, www.staugustineuri.org. St. James Church: Episcopal. 474 Fruit Hill Avenue, North Providence. 353-2079. St. Martin’s Episcopal Church: Sundays 8 and 10am. 50 Orchard Avenue, Providence. 751-2141. StMartinsNB.Secretary@gmail.com, www.stmartinsprov.org. St. Martin’s Episcopal Church: Welcoming Church. Monthly LGBT Eucharist. 136 Rivet Street, New Bedford, MA. (508)9948972. stmartins1887@comcast.com, www.stmartinsma.org. St. Paul’s Episcopal Church: Sundays 9am. 50 Park Place, Pawtucket. 728-4300. office@stpaulspawtucket.org, www.stpaulspawtucket.org. St. Paul’s Church: A welcoming Episcopal church. Sundays 9am. 2679 East Main Street, Portsmouth. 683-1164. stpaulsportsmouthri. org. St. Peter & St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church: 25 Pomona Avenue, Providence. 272-9649.stpanda25@verizon.net. www.stpeters-standrews.org. Saint Therese Old Catholic Church: Open & Affirming. Fr. David Martins. Sunday 10:30am. 1500 Main St., W. Warwick, RI 02893. 680-9076. stocc134@gmail.com,

www.saintthereseocc.org. Second Congregational Church of Attleboro: UCC. Open & Affirming. 50 Park Street, Attleboro, MA. Sunday 10am. (508) 2224677. office2nd@verizon.net. www.attleborosecondchurch.org. Seekonk Congregational Church: Open & Affirming. Sundays 9 and 10:30am. Rev. Joy Utter, 600 Fall River Ave., Seekonk, MA. (508) 336-9355. sccucc@verizon.net. www.scc-ucc.com. Soka Gakkai: Buddhist association for peace, culture, and education. Contact for weekly meetings in Providence. 930 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston. (617) 264-2000. www.sgi-usa.org. Temple Agudas Achim: Reconstructionist congregation. 901 North Main Street, Attleboro, MA. (508) 222-2243. office@agudasma.org, www.agudasma.org. Temple Beth-El: Rabbi Sarah E. Mack. 70 Orchard Avenue, Providence. 331-6070. info@temple-beth-el.org, www.temple-beth-el.org. Temple Emanu-El: A welcoming Conservative congregation. Rabbi Wayne Franklin. 99 Taft Avenue, Providence. 331-1616. info@teprov.org, www.teprov.org. Temple Habonim: A warm, Welcoming Reform congregation. Rabbi Andrew Klein. 165 New Meadow Road, Barrington. 2456536. office@templehabonim.org, www.templehabonim.org. Temple Sinai: A Welcoming Reform temple. Rabbi Jeff Goldwasser, 30 Hagen Avenue, Cranston. 942-8350. webmaster@templesinairi.org, www.templesinairi.org. Unitarian Church in Fall River: Sunday 10:30am. 309 North Main Street, Fall River, MA. 508-678-9700. office@unitarianchurchfr.org, www.unitarianchurchfr.org. Unitarian Universalist Society of Fairhaven: Service 10:30am. 102 Green Street, Fairhaven, MA. (508) 992-7081. www.uufairhaven. org. Unitarian Universalist Congregation of South County: 27 North Road, Peace Dale. 783-4170 or Val 789-7282. uucscri@ yahoo.com. www.uusouthcountyri.org. United Congregational Church, 524 Valley Rd., Middletown RI 02842. A Welcoming congregation. Sunday, 10 am. www.UCCMiddletown.org. 849-5444. Westminster Unitarian Universalist Church: A UUA Welcoming Congregation. 119 Kenyon Avenue, East Greenwich. 884-5933. www.westminsteruu.org.

Social Organizations

Bear Providence: Monthly social events for the bear community. www.bearprovidence.com Bisexual Resource Center: PO Box 170796, Boston, MA. (617) 424-9595. brc@bicresource.net www.biresource.net. Biversity Boston: Mixed-gender social events for Boston and the surrounding area. (617) 424-9595. biversity-subscribe@biversity.org, www.biversity.org. Boston Bisexual Women’s Network: Social activities including monthly brunches, coming out groups and quarterly newsletter “Bi Woman Quarterly.” www.biwomenboston.org. Bears Ocean State (BOS): Informal e-group for gay & bisexual bear-identified and affiliated men for friendly companionship. All welcome.

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groups.yahoo.com/group/bearsoceanstate. Cape and Islands Gay & Straight Youth Alliance (CIGSYA): 56 Barnstable Road, Hyannis, MA. (508) 778-7744. info@cisgsya.org, www.cigsya.org. Communisong: For unity through song. Non-performance monthly singing session. www.communisong.net. CORISMA: Potluck get-togethers for couples from RI and southeast MA. corismainfo@comcast.net, www.corismagroup.org. Gay Men’s Social Group: First Tuesdays, 6 -- 9pm, Seven Hills Behavioral Health, 1177 Acushnet Ave., New Bedford, MA. Refreshments. Info: Lenny Amaral, 508-999-4159 or lamaral@sevenhills.org. Imperial Court of RI at Providence: Drag and non-drag performers raise funds for local charities. All welcome to general membership meetings on first Monday at Dark Lady, 17 Snow Street, Providence. icri.prov@gmail.com. www.icriprov.org. Mixed Borders Gardening Group: Gardening and more. Monthly meetings, all welcome. Mixedborders@cox.net. www.mixedborders.com. Opera Club: Enjoy hearing and attending. Last Sunday of each month at 1pm. BrettCornellpi4@aol.com. Providence Gay Men’s Chorus: New season rehearsals begin in January and August. Singers and non-singing volunteers welcome. Monday 7-9:30pm. Beneficent Church, 300 Weybosset Street, Providence. www.provgmc.org. Queer Book Club: 3rd Wednesday, 7pm. Books on the Square, 471 Angell Street, Providence, queerbookclub@gmail.com. RI Association of Gay Professionals: Networking and philanthropy. www.riagp.com. RI Parents Pride: Gay parents socializing together with their children. Contact Melanie. 464-2288. saphicangel120@yahoo.com. RI Pride: Open house 4th Wednesdays. Festival & Parade 3rd Saturday in June. Office: 1055 Westminster St., Providence 02903. Mail: PO Box 1082, Providence, 02903. 467-2130. info@prideri.com, www.prideri.com. RI Prime Timers: Social and networking group for older gay and bi men. Second Sunday. Call Steve, 996-3010. www.riprimetimers.org. RI Skeptics Society: Yearning to talk with someone rational? Refreshing discussion. Fourth Saturday. East Providence restaurant location. www.meetup.com/skeptics-133/. RI Women’s Association: Lesbian social group. 21+. Dances & events. www.riwa.net. SAGE/RI (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders): Advocacy, education and social events for LGBT seniors. SAGERI at CareLink, 1 Virginia Ave., Providence, RI 02905. 443-4451. sageriinfo@gmail.com. www.sage-ri.org. SEMASSMEN: Social group for GBQ men of southeastern MA & RI to foster strong friendships. Semassmen-subscribe@ yahoogroups.com. rlevass@yahoo.com. Smart Monkey Gay Men’s Support Group. Meets twice monthly in Cranston to learn about integrity, intimacy and male roles. Write Paul (ctripaul@yahoo.com) or Steve (43dadzone@gmail.com).

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South Coast Social Club for Gay & Bisexual Men: Social and networking opportunities for gay & bisexual men in S.E. Mass. www.southeastsocialclub.com. Yankee Lambda Car Club: Regional club for GLBT vintage and specialty car enthusiasts. www.yankeelcc.com.

Sports & Recreation PrideSports Boston: Network of twenty-plus gay sports leagues/teams in Boston area. www.pridesportsboston.com. Boston Gay BASKETBALL League: ksg.bgbl@gmail.com, www.bgbl.com. BOATING: Yankee Cruising Club, New England’s club for LGBTQ boaters. www.yankeecruising.org. yankeecruisingclub@ gmail.com. Keith (508) 423-6123. Big Gay Al’s Duckpin BOWLING League: Proceeds benefit AIDS causes. Tuesday 6:30pm. 1463 Atwood Avenue, Town Hall Lanes, Johnston. Contact Frank Ferri. 831-6940.www. bgalbowling.com. www.townhalllanes.com. FIELD HOCKEY: Teamworks Somerset, 732 Lee’s River Ave., Somerset, MA. New season every 10 weeks. (508-676-3956) info@teamworkssomerset.com GALA Bowling League: Sundays 5:50 p.m., E. Providence Lanes, 80 Newport Ave., E. Providence. Season begins in Aug. View us on Facebook or email galabowling1990@gmail.com. FLAG (For Lesbians And Gays) FOOTBALL: Bostonbased recreational football club. All skill levels are encouraged to participate. Saturday mornings in the fall and spring. www. flagflagfootball.com. Boston Pride HOCKEY: www.bostonpridehockey.org. Rondeaus KICKBOXING: 272-5425. www. rondeauskickboxing.com. Main Street MARTIAL ARTS: Non-profit. Welcoming dojo and community center. 1282 North Main Street, Providence. 274-7672.www.mainstma.org. Chiltern Mountain Club: OUTDOOR recreation club in New England. events@chiltern.org. www.chiltern.org. Boston Gay ROWERS: Worldwide online community for gay and lesbian rowers, coxies, coaches, and race officials. www.glrf. org. Boston Ironsides RUGBY Football: www.bostonironsides. org. Providence Women’s RUGBY Club: Competitive and recreational. www.providencerugby.com Frontrunners Rhode Island RUNNING Group: Running and walking group. Newcomers welcome. Meet at the end of Blackstone Boulevard at Hope Street, Providence. Thursday 6pm. Contact Brian. 751-7643. bripm@cox.net, frontrunnersri@ gmail.com Frontrunners Boston RUNNING Group: Morning walk/ run along the Charles River. Saturdays,10am. Club Cafe, 209 Columbus Avenue, Boston, MA. www.frontrunnersboston.org. OutRyders SKIING: New England’s largest gay and lesbian ski and snowboard club. www.outryders.org. Boston Strikers SOCCER Club: Non-profit social organization to learn and improve soccer skills in a relaxed, congenial environment. www.bostonstrikers.com.

Renaissance City SOFTBALL League: New players and boosters always welcome. www.providencesoftball.org. Beantown SOFTBALL League: Friendly competition. 27 teams in four divisions of play: competitive, intermediate, and recreational. (617) 297-7490. www.beantownsoftball.com. LANES (Liquid Assets New England SWIMMING): Fitness and/or competition. (617) 937-5858. www.swim-lanes.org. TENNIS-4-All: Boston area tennis organization. www. tennis4all.org. Cambridge Boston VOLLEYBALL Association: Players of all skill levels welcome. secretary@cbvolleyball.net www.gayvolleyball.net. Ocean State Pride VOLLEYBALL League: Adult coed indoor league following USVBA rules. No try-outs. Fee applies. Kent County YMCA, 900 Centerville Road, Warwick. ospvolleyball@gmail.com. East Coast WRESTLING Club: (617)937.5858 x6. ecwc@juno.com. www.eastcoastwrestlingclub.org.

Students & Youth Bristol Community College The Lambda Connection: (TLC@BCC) Robert Delaleu, Advisor; BCC-G118, 777 Elsbree St., Fall River, MA (774)357-4056. Brown University Queer Alliance: Umbrella organization at Brown University for LGBTQ groups. 863-3062. queer@brown. edu or lgbtq@brown.edu. CCRI Triangle Alliance: an LGBTQQ student-run group at CCRI, on the Flanagan, Liston, and Knight campuses. www.ccri. edu/triangle/. LGBT National Youth Talkline: 800-246-7743. Private oneto-one chat and info on local resources. Peer Listening Line: Youth-staffed hotline for GLBT youth. Support, info and referrals. 5-10pm. Fenway Community Health Center, Boston, MA. (617) 267-9001 or (800) 399-PEER. www. fenwayhealth.org. Queer & Trans Thursdays: 6-8pm. Space for LGBTQ and heterosexual youth (24 and under) of color to foster coalitionbuilding and organize to address intersections of oppressions. 669 Elmwood Ave., Rm. B7, Providence. www.prysm.us. 383-7450. Salve Regina University – The Alliance: 100 Ochre Point Avenue, Newport. Contact: Benjamin Mead, benjamin.mead@ salve.edu S.H.E.P.A.R.D. (Stopping Homophobia, Eliminating Prejudices and Restoring Dignity): Providence College, 1 Cunningham Square, Providence. 865-1631. shepard@providence.edu. The Trevor Project: The only nationwide, around-the-clock crisis and suicide prevention helpline for LGBT youth. Also offers social networks. (866)4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386). thetrevorproject.org. University of RI LGBTIQ2: Alumni association. 874-5808. gsimonelli@uri.edu. URI LGBTQ Center: A cultural department for students, faculty and staff. Florence Badejo. 874-2894.

Youth Pride Inc.: Support, education & advocacy for LGBTQQ young people ages 13--23. Tues. -- Fri. 2 -- 8pm. The Way Out peer support group Thurs. 4pm. Gender Spectrum support group Tues. 4pm. Visit our website for full calendar of events. 743 Westminster St., Providence. 421-5626. info@youthprideri.org. www.youthprideri.org.

Support Groups & Social Services

Abuse Victims and Survivors: Support on phone for LGBTQ victims & survivors of partner abuse. Confidential peer-led groups. Hotline: (617) 742-4911.TTY: (617) 227-4911. advocate@tnlr.org. Adoption Options: Non-sectarian help. Jewish Family Service, 959 North Main Street, Providence. Contact Betsy Alper. 3315437. www.adoptionoptions.org. Child & Family Services: Counseling, young parent support, adoption, more. LGBT groups beginning July. Open six days. 66 Troy St., Fall River, MA. (508) 676-5708. www.child-familyservices.org Community Care Alliance: Stipend, assistance, training provided by Family Resources Community Action. 235-6095. www.famresri.org. Foster parents needed: For newborn to age six. 276-4300. www.childrensfriendri.org. Family Service RI: Training, stipend, support provided for nurturing families. Family Service of RI. Contact Gregary Wright. 331-1350 ext. 3305. www.familyserviceri.org. Seven Hills Behavioral Health: HIV Prevention and Screening. 310 South Main Street, Fall River, MA. (508) 235-1012. T.W.I.S.T. (508) 672-0378. Blackstone Valley Advocacy Center: Offering resources for victims of domestic violence. 723-3057. www.bvadvocacycenter.org. Compass: FTM trans info, support and social group. Boston first Thursday 7-9pm. compassftm@gmail.com. www.compassftm.org. Crossroads RI Hotline: (800) 367-2700. Day One: Counseling & legal aid for victims of sexual assault/ abuse & incest. 24hr hotline. (800) 494-8100. 421-4100. www.dayoneri.org. Domestic Violence Resource Center of South County: Support, court advocacy, counseling, safe home, info for women and men in abusive or controlling relationships. 24hr free and confidential helpline. 782-3990 or toll free 800-494-8100, www. dvrcsc.org. Gay Fathers of Greater Boston: Support. 738 Main St. #323, Waltham, MA. (781) 333-8429. info@gayfathersboston.org, www. gayfathersboston.org. Gay Men’s HIV+ Social Group: Third Tuesdays, 6 -- 9pm. Refreshments. Seven Hills Behavioral Health, 1177 Acushnet Ave., New Bedford, MA. Info: Lenny Amaral, 508-999-4159 or email lamaral@sevenhills.org. Gay Officers Action League (GOAL)/New England: Law enforcement officers (sworn & civilian), fire, rescue & publicly employed EMS. Confidential. P.O. Box 171587, Boston, MA 02117. www.newenglandgoal.org. On Facebook at NewEnglandGOAL. Gay Share: Coming Out? Gay men’s support group. No fee. Wednesday 7:30pm. Contact Tom or Mike. 369-9448. info@ gayshare.org, www.gayshare.org. LGBT Grief Support: Meets regularly at Hope Hospice, 2085 N. Main St., Providence. Rebecca Sizelove, 415-4301. Helpline for LGBT Youth: Trevor Helpline and social networks for crisis and suicide prevention. 24/7. (866) 4-U-Trevor. HIV+ Gay Men’s Support Group: Refreshments served. AIDS

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Care Ocean State, 18 Parkis Avenue, Providence. 521-3603. New members contact Scott. 640-3108. Kathys’ Group: Free support group for lesbians with cancer or any life-threatening illness. Partners and caregivers welcome. Meets monthly in Providence. 888-5KATHYS. Mantalk of S.E. Mass: Socializing and discussions for gay, bi and curious men. Confidential. Drug and alcohol-free. 18+. Thursdays in Taunton and first Tuesdays in New Bedford. 7-8:30pm. mantalksouthcoast@yahoo.com. MentalHelp.net: National directory of inpatient treatment options for those with substance abuse problems. www. mentalhelp.net/care/substance-abuse/ri/ Partner Support Group at Fenway Health: A ten-week support group with the purpose of building community and connections for anyone who identifies as non-trans, ages 18+, and is in a relationship with a trans* person(s). 1340 Boylston Street, Boston, MA. Contact Sarah Eley, LICSW. 857-313-6551. seley@ fenwayhealth.org. PFLAG (Parents, & Friends of Lesbians & Gays): Attleboro Chapter serves Southeast Mass. Third Wednesday 6:45 p.m., Second Congregational Church, 50 Park St. (side door). email pflagattleboro@gmail.com. Greater Providence Chapter serves all R.I. First Wednesday at 6:45 p.m., Met School, 325 Public St., Providence. 751-7571. PFLAGprovidence@gmail.com. www. pflagprovidence.org. Rape Crisis Center for S.E. Mass: New Hope, Inc. Advocacy, shelter, services for domestic abuse survivors. Hotline (800) 323HOPE. Office (508)226-4015. Project RENEW: Support, employment services, HIV prevention for male and female sex workers. Amos House, 415 Friendship St., Providence. 272-0220.Trans support group meets Thurs. Info: transoutreachpwr@gmail.com. Queer & Trans Thursdays: Space for LGBTQ and heterosexual youth (24 and under) of color to foster coalition-building and organize to address intersections of oppressions. 6-8pm. 669 Elmwood Ave., Rm. B7, Providence. www.prysm.us. 383-7450. RI Coalition Against Domestic Violence: 24hr helpline: (800) 494-8100. 467-9940. RI Rainbow Support Group: For people with disabilities who identify as LGBTQ. Last Tuesday. 98 Rolfe Street, Cranston. 6-7:30pm. Contact Ken Renaud. 785-2100. Samaritans: 24hr hotline for suicidal, lonely, despairing, depressed. (800) 365-4044. 272-4044 (RI only). www.samaritansri.org. Sexual Health Education & Advocacy Program: HIV, sexual wellness, domestic violence risk reduction. Free, confidential, bilingual (Spanish). No caller ID used. Calls blocked for safety. 8616191 ext. 121. Sojourner House: Call for confidential support group. Support, shelter, advocacy and information for people in abusive relationships. Including specific LGBT services. No caller ID used. Outgoing calls blocked for safety. 24hr helpline. 765-3232. 861-6191. Office 8616191. www.sojournerri.org St. Mary’s Home for Children: Sexual abuse treatment for children. 450 Fruit Hill Ave., No. Providence. www.smhfc.org. Adam Cable, 353-3900. Straight Spouses: Groups and online support. www. straightspouse.org. TGI Network of RI: Support, advocacy for transgender, transsexual, gender-variant and/or intersex people. Borderlands peer group 1st & 3d Tues. and 1st & 3d Sat. of the month. Location & information: 441-5058. info@tginetwork.org. www.tginetwork. org.

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Trans* Partners New England: Gives romantic partners of transgender people a confidential, safe space to explore the impact of a loved one’s gender identity on their relationships, and to connect with other loved ones of transgender people. First Wednesday 6:30-8:30pm. Providence. Location unpublished for privacy. partners@tginetwork.org. Trans* Youth Family Allies: Support for gender-variant and transgender children ages 3-18. info@imatyfa.org, www.imatyfa.org. Transgender American Veterans Association (TAVA): Growing organization to address the concerns of fair treatment of transgender veterans and active duty service members. www. tavausa.org. Women’s Resource Center of Newport and Bristol Counties: Offering services to victims of domestic violence. 8465263. www.wrcnbc.org.q Nominated Best Erotic Boutique in U.S., AVN Awards 2012

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The title track is a tender tribute to her late aunt, whose poem Gaga had included in The Fame’s album materials. Although Joanne Germanotta had passed away before Gaga was born, the song sounds like Gaga is at her bedside, pleading with her to hold on. It is a simply but beautifully written conversation that spans a generation. Equally deep is “Angel Down,” a mournful response to the Trayvon Martin shooting that pleads for an end to senseless violence.

Gaga remains as true to fans as she does to her herself. “Grigio Girls” is a classic Gaga “keep your head up” anthem. “John Wayne” is a fun dancehall mix that’s vintage Gaga, and her signature genre-bending antics continue with the big-band feel of “Just Another Day” and “Come to Mama.” The latter’s message--that everyone benefits when we give ourselves and each other the space to be who we are--is still at Gaga’s core, and it makes hers an important voice for our time and the generations to come.

When I was a kid, I fell in love with short stories. These small bites of literature, when well done, can be even more satisfying than entire novels. The stories of Lesley Nneka Arimah, who was recently nominated for the 2016 Caine Prize for excellence in African writing, could be printed alongside any of the greats. Arimah, a Nigerian and UK native who has settled in Minneapolis, spins breathtaking tales of wonder that sometimes border on horror, sometimes on comedy, but, like the best works, always transcend the human experience by immersing the reader deep inside it. Whether it’s “Who Will Greet You at Home,” a hair-raising tale that imagines a world of hand-crafted babies, to “What It Means When a Man Falls from the Sky,” set in a postglobal warming future where people can remove each other’s emotions, Arimah’s expert storytelling has an easy-going charm that belies the craftsmanship of her prose. Her stories are fresh and original, but steeped in folklore roots, and her voice evokes fairy tales while planting them firmly in our modern industrial world, even if it’s an imagined future. Her worlds and the humanness of the people in them make our world richer for us having read about them. Next year Arimah will be publishing a collection of her short stories and a novel. Until then, you can read a selection of her stories online at www.larimah.com.

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Who wouldn’t want Bianca Del Rio as their chemistry teacher? The lovable drag queen and insult comic just released her first film, the aptly titled Hurricane Bianca. For fans of Del Rio, it’s everything you would expect it to be, and more. Otherwise known as Roy Haylock, Del Rio made her name as the season six winner of RuPaul’s Drag Race. The film stars Haylock both as himself and as Del Rio, and tells the story of a gay man who is fired from his teaching job after being outed, only to come back as Bianca. With the help of a new friend, Karma (played by transgender actress Bianca Leigh), Del Rio wreaks havoc on former coworkers and students while teaching them a lesson in acceptance. Haylock began crowdfunding for the project years before he appeared on Drag Race, and used his Drag Race cash prize to make the movie. Several Drag Race alum also star in the film, including Willam Belli and Shangela Laquifa Wadley.The film also stars Saturday Night Live’s Rachel Dratch as the villainous vice principal who pushes creationism. RuPaul makes a cameo as a weatherman who predicts the coming hurricane. This film is chock-full of campy goodness. It’s worth watching for the well-crafted one-liners and inside jokes, and to see Haylock dressed as Marie Curie. Celebrate the end of hurricane season with Hurricane Bianca on Amazon Video and DVD. q

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