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I often feel that music is a universal language. A fun rhythm and good strong beat tends to get a body moving, regardless of musical taste. I grew up listening to my parent’s rock and roll and still recognize the Eagles, Rod Stewart and the Jitters from the initial cords. As I got older, I started listening to the music of my peers and promptly drove my parents crazy with the “melodies” of the ‘90’s pop scene. I plastered my walls with pictures of boybands and learned every word of the Backstreet Boy’s first album. Don’t judge, I was 14! Today, I’ve moved away from commercial music and listen to whatever strikes my fancy that day, be it new Country, Classic Rock, or instrumental remixes, such as those performed by “The Piano Guys” (check them out on You Tube, they are amazing). It’s all about the feeling the music elicits. Driving to work the other day Dire Straits’ “Money for Nothing” came on the radio and I was instantly transported to the back seat of the family car on a warm summer’s day. The windows were down, the music was up and my family indulged in some automobile Karaoke. I can picture the grin on Dad’s face as he belted out “Whoo hoo” whenever he heard the tune. On another occasion, it seemed as though Dad was playing shotgun DJ as I drove to the office. We used to go “cruising” on Friday nights if mom was working and my siblings out for the evening. Dad would play a mixed tape (yes tape… it was a while ago),
we’d turn up the volume and just enjoy each other’s company. John Cougar MellEncamp, The Beatles, CCR and Bryan Adams featured loudly on those nights and I experience a real sense of peace and joy when I hear these tunes today. That drive, feeling as though Dad was beside me once again, taking one last trip, was almost bittersweet, a feeling of love that transcends the worlds. For me, music is a way to connect with loved ones, to bring people together and to remember special occasions. My husband and I don’t have one song - we have a soundtrack created by stolen moments, found opportunities and long drives in the country. Music is a language and feeling that is more than simply notes and lyrics, it becomes woven into the fabric of one’s life experience. Does anyone else have this type of love affair with music? Post your comments on our Facebook page, facebook.com/ Ossekeag or send them to amanda@ ossekeag.ca. I’d love to hear about your favourite bands and memories! 0001
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LIBRARY NEWS WEST BRANCH LIBRARY Lancaster Mall, 621 Fairville Blvd, 6437260 Hours: - Tuesday, Friday & Saturday 10:00am-5:00pm, Wednesday & Thursday 10:00am-8:30pm; Sunday, Monday & holidays - closed. Children’s Programs: Babies in the Library - Tuesdays at 11:30am. Registration required for next session: April 4, 11, 18 & 25. Moon & Star Play Time - Wednesdays at 6:00pm for babies & toddlers - Mommy & Daddy too. Time for Tots - Thursdays at 10:30am for ages 18-36 months. Story Time - Fridays at 10:30am, stories, songs, fingerplays and a craft for ages 3-5. Literacy Tutoring - Elementary & Middle School aged children call for free one-on-one tutoring session. Family Drop-in Table - all day, every day with weekly theme. Spring Colouring Contest - Pick up and enter your coloring page in the 4th Annual Spring Colouring Contest. Deadline for entries is April 8 at 5:00pm. LEGO® - Imagine, build, create - all day, everyday. Pokémon Go® Pokéstop - come to the library and replenish your supplies. Spin for Pokéballs, potions and capture some rare Pokémon. Saturday, March 25 - 2:30pm, pre-registration Minecraft® Games, required; 2:30pm, Glam Jewelry & Glam Nails, pre-registration required. Friday, March 31 - 11:30am, PD Day Movie, Disney’s Beauty and the Beast (1991). Enjoy popcorn & water.
Adult Programs: Thursday, March 16 - 2:00pm, Ukes 4U Concert; 7:00pm, Mystery Book Club featuring author Andrea Camilleri. Tuesday, March 28 - 2:00pm, Library Friends Gathering - warm drink, treats and chat. Wednesday, March 29 - 6:30pm, Chick Lit Book Club - The Husband’s Secret by Liane Mariarty. Friday, March 31 - 2:00pm, Friday Flick - Inferno. Free Tax Clinics - Wednesday, March 15 5:30-7:30pm; Friday, March 24 2:00-4:00pm; Saturday, March 25 12:00noon-2:00pm; Wednesday, April 5 2:00-4:00pm; Friday, April 7 2:00-4:00pm. Call 643-7260 for an appointment. Learn to Play Bridge: 6:30pm on Wednesdays. Monthly Book Raffle: Tickets ($2/one, $5/3) on sale each month for a new group of books. Adult Literacy Tutoring: call for free one-on-one tutoring session. Knit 2 Together (k2tog): 2:00pm, Tuesdays drop-in, with knitted squares, tea and treats. Computer Lab: Check your e-mail, do research, use the internet - free. Book a tutorial and learn basic computer skills. Free Wi-Fi. Community Room Rental: West Branch Library has a spacious room offering tables, chairs and limited kitchen facilities.
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Library Hours: Tuesday & Wednesday 10:00am-8:30pm; Thursday, Friday, & Saturday 10:00am-5:00pm; Sunday & Monday - closed. Tuesdays & Wednesdays - 6:00pm, Computer Help. Thursdays - 10:30-11:00am, Story Time with stories, crafts and theme based songs for pre-schoolers; 2:30pm, Scrabble Club. Saturdays - 10:30-11:00am, Toddler Time. Fridays - 1:00-2:00pm, Sign with Your Baby. Tuesday, March 14 - 6:00pm, Classic Film. Wednesday, March 15 - 10:30-11:30am, Seniors’ & Newcomers’ Cafe. Thursday, March 16 - 2:30-3:00pm, Hot Wheels Fun. Friday, March 17 - St. Patrick’s Day Bookmarks - drop-in all day. Saturday, March 18 - 11:00am, Graphic Novel Club for adults. Tuesday, March 21 - 6:00pm, Paint for Fun with Mattyas (pre-registration required) Wednesday, March 22 - 6:00pm, Sunset Cinema. Friday, March 24 - French Story Time Continues en français. Saturday, March 25 - 10:30-11:00am, Author Visit with Greg Marquis. Tuesday, March 28 - 2:30-3:30pm, Knit & Crochet Club. Wednesday, March 29 - 6:30-7:00pm, Hackmatack Children’s Book Club. Thursday, March 30 - 2:30-3:30pm, Book Club for Adults. 0019
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dIRECTOR’S NOTES QUIET, INTIMATE EVENING AT THE THEATRE I love a nice, quiet, intimate evening at the theatre – and one of the amazing things about the Imperial is that, in spite of its size and grandeur, it can still feel quite intimate. There’s something magical about hearing one person tell a story or sing a song in that room, as we’ve had recently with Alison Wearing’s autobiographical play “Confessions of a Fairy’s Daughter” and will have again at the end of March with an evening of songs by Canadian legend Stephen Fearing. It’s not quite the same as having Fearing in my living room, but settled into a comfy chair with a glass of wine, I will have no problem imagining that his charming, insightful, clever songs are just for me - and maybe a friend or two that I bring along. And the sound and lighting quality is a heck of a lot better than it would be in my living room. Sometimes, though, you just want have something bigger. A shiny, showy
spectacle that takes you completely out of your own world. An experience that you could only have in a big theatre with a huge cast and lots of technological magic. For that experience, I’m looking forward to “Immortal Chi.” This show has everything - acrobatics and martial arts, lavish costumes, tech wizardry, live music, and a timeless story. I expect to spend a couple of hours transported to China, for much less than the cost of a plane ticket. The full title of the show, “Immortal Chi: A Warrior’s Quest for Harmony” comes from the story that weaves the spectacle together. A Tai-Chi master has lost his sense of the balance of all things, and he must regain it. His quest is told by a stunning company of acrobats and martial artists and a grand female percussion ensemble. This is a Quebec-China co-production. Director Érick Villeneuve comes out of the tradition of shows like Cirque du
Soleil, while the performers from China bring their own martial arts and circus traditions. The result has been called “a feast for the senses that brings the ancient traditions and rich theatrical history of China to life with a rousing 21st century twist.” Sometimes I do wish my family were closer. This is a show that my daughter would love for the music and costumes, my brother would love for the martial arts and my father would love for the rich cultural experience. I guess I’ll just have to enjoy it for all of them. 0030
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Congratulations to David Taylor of Sussex, who submitted this photo of icicles to the “Pic of the Month” contest for February. David has won a Movie Pass (for two, including drinks & popcorn), compliments of Ossekeag Publishing “Sunrises & Sunsets” is the theme for March. Karl’s tips - Shoot before and after and often. Before a sunrise and after a sunset is the magical blue hour where, if it is a clear sky it will be a wonderful cobalt blue as opposed to the cerulean blue we see midday. We are often awe struck by the colours but these images still need to follow the rules of composition i.e. have some foreground and if possible middle
ground object of interest. These compositional elements leads the viewer's eyes into the image - whereby making a good image great. Remember - no people or pets please, digital copies only and photos must be horizontal (landscape) not vertical (portrait). Only photos relating to the current theme will be considered. Submissions are to be emailed, as attachments, to editorial@ossekeag. ca and must be received by the 25th of each month. Contest winner will be notified by email when selection is made and vouchers must be picked up within 30 days. Happy shooting!! 0037
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WHAT’S HAPPENING Wednesday, March 15 Celtic Concert Series presents in Concert The Irish Descendants, 7:30pm at the Kent Theatre (the old Knights of Columbus building), 24 Coburg Street. Tickets $25 advance and $30 at the door. Tickets available online by visiting the JP Collins Celtic Festival web Site, select tickets menu/ Irish Descendants. Saturday, March 18 th 27 Curl for Mental Health at Thistle St. Andrew’s Curling Club. Lunch provided, two four-end games guaranteed, silent auction and 50/50 draw. $250/team (including $50 registration fee). For more info, pledge sheets or to register - CMHA NB (Saint John) at 633-1705 or: saintjohn@ cmhanb.ca. Sunday, March 19 Annual St. Patrick’s Day Tea, 12:302:30pm, Saints Joachim & Ann Parish
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Wednesday, March 29 SJ Branch, NB Genealogical Society Meeting, 7:00pm in the Multipurpose Room of the SJ Free Public Library. Guest speaker, Irene Boyle, will give presentation on Louis Hebert - his descendants and his ties to Acadia. All welcome. Thursday, April 6 Seniors’ Spring Fest (50+), 1:00-4:00pm at Exhibition Park. Bingo, musical entertainment and refreshments. Tickets at Senior’s Resource Centre, Brunswick Square, Level III and Exhibition Park. More info call the Resource Centre at 6338781. Saturday, April 8 Monthly Breakfast/Brunch/Bake Sale at Church of St. Andrew & St. David (164 Germain St., side entrance), 9:00am-12:00noon. Take-outs available. Great breakfast, homemade items on bake table. Fundraiser for Church. $10/adults, $4/children under 10, $25/family of 4. Church: 634-3092. Priscilla Shirer Simulcast, 10:30am6:30pm at Hillcrest Baptist Church. Tickets ($35/advance, $40/at door) by calling 635-8000. Lunch/snack included.
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Sunday, April 9 Monthly Breakfast, sponsored by the Knights of Columbus Council #6770, at the Assumption Centre (Chapel Street West) from 9:00am-1:00pm. $7/adult, $3/child. Proceeds support the Breasts Ahoy Southern NB Breast Cancer Survivors and KOC Columbian Squires in Southern NB. Saturday, April 22 Celebrate Our Music Concert at St. Mark’s United Church (Dexter Drive), 7:00pm - celebrating Saint John’s cultural diversity through 150 years of music and dance with music and dance. Tickets ($15/adults, $10/ages 12 & under) at church office 672-3320, 672-8176 or at the door.
SJ/KV NEWCOMERS' CLUB Are you new to the area? The Saint John/ Kennebecasis Valley Newcomers’ Club welcomes women who have moved or returned to the Greater Saint John area within the last three years. Join the group for social activities and to meet new friends. We hold Weekly Bridge (all levels welcome), Monthly Coffee Socials, Ladies Who Lunch and Book Club, as well as other member-interest driven activities such as walking, skiing, movie nights, moms and tots, etc. For more information, see our blog at: sjkvnewcomers.blogspot.com or contact us at: sjkvnewcomersclub@ gmail.com. G112
LEGIONS JERVIS BAY RCL #53 1016 Bayside Drive 633-0092; jervisbay@rogers.com Hours of operation - Monday-Friday 2:00-11:00pm; Saturday 12:00noon11:00pm; Sunday 12:00noon-6:00pm. Sundays - 1:00pm, Bingo, canteen open selling hotdogs, chips and chocolate bars. Fridays - Chase the Ace draw, purchase tickets at the bar all week up to Friday evening at 7:45. Ticket draw is at 8:00pm. Attendance for the draw is not mandatory. Hall rental and catering available, contact the Legion at 633-0092 for more information. LANCASTER RCL #69 Wilson Street, Saint John, Phone 6358095 Tuesday, March 14, 21, 28; April 4 7:30pm, Doubles Crib in the Upper Hall.
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Friday, March 17, 24, 31 - 7:00pm, Open “Mic” Night with Don LeBlanc & Friends in Pub 69. Saturday, March 25 - 3:30pm, dance with Jed & Moe in Pub 69; 9:00pm, Branch #69 & Singles dance with 2nd Time Around in the Upper Hall. Saturday, April 1 - 10:00am, Legion Provincial Senior Men Dart Tourny in the Upper Hall; 3:30pm, dance with Donny & Delbert in Pub 69; 9:00pm, Branch #69 & Singles dance with Party Line in the Upper Hall.ll. Sunday, April 2 - 7:00pm, dance with WCR in the Upper Hall. Sunday, March 26 - 7:00pm, dance with Jed & Moe in the Upper Hall. Monday, March 20 - 7:30pm, Branch 69 Ladies’ Auxiliary General meeting in the Upper Hall. Saturday, March 18 & Sunday, March 19 - NB Dart Association Tournament, all day - no entertainment or dance.
Are you, or is someone you love, living with Multiple Myeloma? Join the Multiple Myeloma Support Group for patients, caregivers, family and friends. The purpose is to offer a place to meet and exchange information and experiences with others in the Saint John area who are touched by Myeloma. The meetings are informal and provide an opportunity for mutual support and encouragement. Members can stay informed of advances in research and treatment and hear from guest speakers on how to live stronger and better lives. Meetings are held on the first Friday of each month from 10:00am-12:00noon at the West Side Sobeys Community Meeting Room. For more information call Susan at 648-9084 or email: saintjohn. myelomasuppgrp@gmail.com. 4440
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SELF ESTEEM THE MEANING OF LIFE Life. There is no one definition that can be agreed upon. Biologists use words such as cells, DNA, molecules and electromagnetism in their definition. Alchemists believe life involves earth, wind, fire and water. What does ‘life’ mean to you? In some cases, definitions are simple. ‘Life’ is not simple, nor is the meaning of it. It consists of a collection of concepts. Life can be defined as the existence of an individual human being or animal; a state of living characterized by metabolism, capacity for growth, reaction to stimuli and reproduction; the power of adaptation to environment originating internally. Lost yet? Trying to define life can drive you crazy! I believe the reason there is no clear cut definition is because it is different for each of us. Life is a process, not a substance. How you choose to define your life gives it meaning. Life IS what you make it! So, make it interesting, make it count.
Simple realizations can help you find meaning. In my 40+ years here on earth, this is what I’ve learned so far: The meaning of life is your own. Don’t waste time on things you don’t enjoy. You will never excel at something you hate. Patience, passion and dedication come easily when you are doing what you love; Do not allow others to define your life. Do not be afraid of others’ opinions. Fear paralyzes you. If you let it, it will only get worse and take over your life. Listen to your inner voice and go for it. Live your life, your way - no apologies; Take full responsibility for your life. Limit bad habits (I only have 9 or 10) and lead a happier life. Let your life be shaped by your decisions not the decisions of others; Appreciate the people in your life. Throughout life’s cycle, people come and go. It is the ones who have stayed and encouraged you along your journey that truly matter. Your friends and family will always be an infinite source of love and
strength. They should not be taken for granted; Time is valuable. Do not waste it on regret. The past is just that, passed. Let it go. Begin again with the new knowledge you have acquired; Be a warrior, not a worrier. You can let your life be created by circumstances, missing it day by day, hour after hour or you can choose to live it fully. We all have potential but it takes a lot of courage to realize it. Though ‘life’ may not have one precise definition, its meaning is clear….choose to have a meaningful life and you will find its meaning. 0027
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COMHALTAS Come join in the fun listening, playing and enjoying Irish Music and culture in a traditional setting! Comhaltas offers Traditional Irish music sessions on Tuesdays at O'Leary's Pub (46 Princess Street, Saint John). The session begins at 7:00pm; this is a great opportunity to sit with experienced musicians and learn tunes at a slower pace. We transition to an 'up to speed' session at 7:30. At 8:30 the circle welcomes individual tunes, songs, stories, poetry, jokes, step dance and much more! All are welcome, regardless of experience. Feel free to bring your traditional instrument or your voice and join in - or simply sit with the other bar patrons and enjoy the traditional setting. Spread the word! Bring your friends! Listen to: fiddles, bodhrans (Irish drums), harps, tin whistles, accordions, guitars, mandolins and other traditional instruments and songs for free! G092
DENIS MORRIS COMMUNITY CENTRE 330 Greenhead Road, West SJ Wednesdays: Weekly Bingo - 5:30pm, Quarter games; 7:00pm, Early Bird; 7:30pm, Regular games. Doors open at 4:00pm. Sundays: 1:00-4:00pm, Sunday Quarter Games. Rentals available for all occasions receptions, meetings etc. Call 672-1046. G044
PROSTATE CANCER SUPPORT GROUP The Greater Saint John Prostate Cancer Support Group meets the 2nd Tuesday of each month (September-June) in the Community Hall of the St. James the Less Church (1760 Rothesay Road), starting at 7:00pm. For more information contact Group Co-Ordinator, Doug Moore 847-1628 or dougmoore@live.ca. G002
RV LIONS BINGO The River Valley Lions’ Bingo is held weekly on Thursday evenings - Quarter games start at 6:00 and Regular games at 7:00pm. Jackpot stands at $750, Bonanza at $500, Lucky 7 at $1,700. Doors open at 5:30pm. G158
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dOLLARS & SENSE SHARING YOUR PIN I was reading a Globe and Mail article by Rob Carrick that was referencing what we are still not paying attention to financially as Canadians, with March also being Fraud Prevention Month I thought it was good to use the first financial issue that Mr. Carrick brought up as my starting point. Sharing your PIN: In reading the article, I was nodding in agreement, it is a big issue and has always been a part of our financial education message, in fact, and just recently it was a discussion point with a parent group presented to. Your PIN for your bank card is your entry point to your financial information; it is essentially your signature and should be treated as such. This is an area where spouses can find themselves outside of their bank agreement (remember this point, when accepting your PIN you are verifying that you are not going to share it with others). Situations that routinely pop up are that spouses share all the same accounts, my
spouse hands me their card to buy the things we need, or I trust who I gave my PIN to‌ so why would it matter? The biggest reason is if there is fraud on the account, the bank needs to be able to verify that it was not you. Fraud and identity theft is more prevalent than we know, the statistic out there is only 20% of cases of fraud are reported, our information is very valuable. We need to do all we can to make sure on our end that we keep our information safe and secure. Also at a basic level, if you have household money going into an account and you lose access, it is only the account holder and cardholder that can inquire on the issue. If that person is away, you have no recourse. The other area is survivorship of accounts; you will not realize how important this is until you need it. The bottom line is that if you are using accounts or using cards on accounts, you need to have separate cards and PIN. In regards to your banking information,
other ways you can protect yourself are: securely destroy account information when no longer needed, update your identification on file at the bank, review your credit report annually, close accounts that are not in use and make sure your PIN is not a number easily guessed. If you are having a hard time navigating how to handle joint finances and accounts, one of our counsellors can help walk you through options and evaluate your situation. There is always help. 0005
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MARKETPLACE WELLNESS CENTRE Carleton Community Centre, 120 Market Place; 674-4335 Hours: Monday-Friday 7:30am-3:30pm. Specimen Collection Tuesdays & Wednesdays 8:00am-3:00pm, appointments only 648-6681. Food Bank - Winter hours in effect: Tuesdays & Fridays, 1:00pm-3:00pm. Gentle Yoga - 9:00am, Mondays & 10:00am on Thursdays, $6 fee. Line Dancing - 10:00am, Mondays, $5 fee. Art Class - 10:00am, Tuesdays (goodwill offering). Contact: kimmy.cookson@ gmail.com. Senior Led Fitness Program/Falls Prevention - for ages 50 & up, “Zoomers”, free. Tuesdays 10:00am and Fridays 11:00am, all participants must have an initial assessment. Call the Centre. Pickle Ball - Call Mike 672-9566. Fundy Fog Chasers - meet Thursdays
(6:30pm) and Saturdays (9:00am), runners and walkers welcome, no charge to participate. Check Facebook. Gentle Dance (low key) - 10:00am, Fridays (donation). Art Class - (goodwill offering), contact: kimmy.cookson@gmail.com. Food Purchase Club - clients pay for their bag of fresh produce, once a month. Call the Centre for information. Smoking Cessation Program - call the Centre for an appointment. Community Garden Plots - First come, first served. $15 plus $5 key deposit. Social worker/Dietitian/Counselling (by appointment), call the Centre. Social Development case worker on site Tuesdays 1:00-3:00pm or by appointment. Two Nurse Practitioners, by appointment only. 3250
MILFORD COMMUNITY CENTRE 248 Milford Road, 672-2400 Mondays - 7:00pm, Auction 45’s; except holidays and if school is cancelled, cards are cancelled. All welcome. Thursdays - Bingo, doors open at 5:45pm. Games start at 6:30pm.
Saturday, April 8: 11:00am, Easter Egg Hunt, please call to register your child. More information on any of the above or to rent the Centre, please call 672-2400. 0033
Seniors (50+) who are on low income -singles 30,000/year or couples $40,000/year can have their Income Tax Returns completed at no charge at the Senior’s Resource Centre in March and April. This service will be available on Tuesdays & Thursdays 9:00-11:30am & 1:00-2:30pm. The Centre is wheelchair accessible for any age. For more information please contact the Senior’s Resource Centre at 6338781. 4371
WESTSIDE FOOD BANK The West Side Foodbank would like to thank Tim and Terry Ricketts and their Westside Dance committee for the amazing $5,500 donation from their 16th Annual Westside Dance held at Branch #69 Legion. A big thank you to all who attended and donated, special thank you to Branch#69. This puts the donation over 15 years to $55,500 to the West Side Foodbank! Thank you. 4457
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FAMILY MATTERS UNDERSTANDING LEARNING PREFERENCES Many children, and adults, for that matter, are unaware of their learning preferences. Many use learning strategies that are not necessarily best suited for them. By understanding the sensory preference of your child(ren), you can help them develop better studying strategies through utilizing their learning strengths. There are three main learning preferences that children can default to predominantly: visual, auditory, and kinesthetic. 1. Visual Learners. Visual learners prefer to see how things are done rather than talk about them. For them it’s monkey see, monkey do. Vision is our dominant sense so expect that about 60% of children will be visual learners. Visual children prefer to watch demonstrations and videos - often repeatedly. Parents will hear statements such as, “can I see that again?” or “can you show me what you mean?” For visual children it is important to illustrate everything clearly and/or exactly as you want it to be done. 2. Auditory Learners. Auditory learners
pick up new concepts better when they hear the information. Some auditory learners concentrate better when they have music or white noise in the background, and can retain information better when they talk it out. Auditory children will use their voices as well as their ears. When given the chance, auditory learners like to ask questions. They’ll often repeat what you’ve said right back to you as this helps them to process information. Auditory kiddos may ask, “could you explain that again?” or “I hear what you are saying.” These learners will try to do what you say - exactly what you say. 3. Kinesthetic Learners. Kinesthetic children prefer to learn by moving their bodies into action. Kinesthetic children will follow along as you do something moving their arms and legs in imitation of what you’re doing. Movement is so fundamental to kinesthetic learners that they may be seen fidgeting as you talk. Fidgeting helps them to concentrate better. Kinesthetic kids will likely say
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TALES FROM THE CAMERA BAG CHANGING FOCUS Reading Howard Zehr's book "Contemplative Photography" has me thinking, why is photography so aggressive? My last article on mindfulness asked the question, are we fully aware while we make images. Today we continue that thinking asking questions like - why do we "take" pictures or "shoot" them? Why do we "aim" our cameras and become "snap shooters"? There are so many articles today about the war on photography. Sure some of the paranoia stems from 9/11 but I think some of it is from our approach to photography. You have the paparazzi stealing pictures of celebrities. When "shooting" street photography many people "shoot" from the hip or use long lens, all this lending to the feeling of photographers taking something from someone. Not too often do we hear tales of people connecting then agreeing to share that visual collaboration. Howard Zehr points out in his book that this wasn't always the case. In the years of yore we needed to have collaboration as we loaded the film into the camera one at a time. We
needed to speak to those in front of our cameras to get the right smile or expression because we were not shooting high speed burst in hopes that one image will be the one. Lights reflect off our subject and are gathered on our sensor, but, we as photographers reflect what we saw and perhaps what we felt. To do this we must "Change our Focus". We can be technically brilliant but boring because we don't know how to compose an image. We could be a fair weather photographer but miss the dramatic skies. I used to drive around in my car and look for that trophy shot to be taken, but, as I learn to change focus I am spending more time in a place and being open to receive the gift that is the next image. As Freeman Patterson once wrote; “Seeing, in the finest and broadest sense, means using your senses, your intellect and your emotions. It means, encountering your subject matter with your whole being. It means looking beyond the labels of things and discovering the remarkable world around you". The tension in the world is creating a
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