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CONTENTS From the Publisher.. Can you believe it? We’re now in our 6th issue of the newly renamed Our Hometown Magazine. Boy, how time flies. Looking back you may have noticed subtle changes, or maybe you have finally become comfortable calling it Our Hometown. One thing is for sure, we strive every month to bring you exciting and inspirational stories about Chula Vista and its wonderful residents. It’s all about Chula Vista, not just Eastlake, and that’s not going to change.
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12 LOVE & MARRIAGE
As we set our sights to the future we see great opportunity to expand our presence deeper into Chula Vista and possibly Bonita. Bold? Absolutely! As I have mentioned before, I have lived in Chula Vista for nearly 10 years, and today I still discover wonderful things about this area. Trust me when I say, the following issues will surprise you.
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Finally, allow me to express my personal thanks and good bye to Mike Minjares. He has moved on to truly better endeavors. These past five issues would not have been possible without his professional and insightful touch. I will be forever thankful.
Remember, if you have a story of someone or something that showcases the great things about our fine city, please email them to: editor@ourhometownmag.com.
Michael Monaco PUBLISHER, OUR HOMETOWN
On your doorstep
12 COVER STORY What's Love Got To Do With It? Cover/Feature Photography by Schafer Photography
I would also like to express special thanks to my wife and Al and Lyn Corder who stepped in to make sure this issue was professionally edited.
05 NEWS
18 SCHOOL NEWS Children's Wellness Champion
20 ON TOPIC Great News About Relationshups
22 CALENDAR
Out & About
24 BUSINESS HIGHLIGHTS ActivCare Eastlake Business Association
26 RESIDENT SPOTLIGHT Norris Family
BRAVO
To the participants of the 44TH ANNUAL BARON OPTIMIST HOLIDAY BASKETBALL TOURNAMENT! Sixteen teams, eight girls and eight boys, played 32 games over a four-day period this past December. This is the largest varsity team participation in the tournament’s 44-year history! The Bonita Optimist Club, a partner and sponsor for this annual event, is a civic organization devoted to community service with a particular emphasis on youth activities. The Club awards student achievement and also helps the youth of our community with the opportunity to succeed. To KIDS ON THE GO who will be coming to the Otay Ranch Town Center soon! Kids On The Go is a specialized family service club with a wide range of programs tailored to the needs of families. Providing caring, qualified staff, Kids On The Go is an ideal choice for families in the South Bay area seeking the best in childcare. Services include: Structured Pre-K programs, before and after school care, Camp Club during school vacations, private birthday parties, kids transportation and Drop & Shop care! Request a tour today! For more information, please visit kidsonthegochildcare.com.
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To DANZA RUZ INTERNACIONAL who held their grand opening ceremony on Saturday Jan. 11 in the parking lot of the Shops at San Miguel Ranch. The instructors put on an amazing show! The ceremony showcased the different types of classes that will be offered: Mexican Folklorico, Salsa, Mariachi, Irish and Polynesian dance. A special dance group from Veracruz, Mexico performed a variety of Polynesian dances. The ribbon cutting ceremony was honored to have Chula Vista Mayor Cheryl Cox attend.
To the SOUTH BAY ELECTED OFFICIALS AND BUSINESS LEADERS who recently gathered in Chula Vista to break ground on St. Paul’s Plaza, a $43 Million innovative four-and-a-half acre retirement community to provide relief to the growing need of quality senior housing and care in South Bay. The dignitaries, pictured from left to right include: JOHN CHAPMAN, JASON SHIDLER, BILL MCCOLL, MAYOR CHERYL COX, RANDY TRUAX, CHERYL WILSON, JOHN MCCOLL, COLE FRANCIS, BRIAN RAMSAY AND RICHARD THORN The four-story St. Paul’s Plaza will house 156 rooms in the Phase development. The Phase II development will add another 63 apartments to the community. The vision of St Paul’s Plaza is to replace the institutional nursing home model with small communities or “homes.” Each home includes 10 private rooms with bathrooms; a living room, kitchen and open dining area. The new retirement community will also offer an indoor therapy pool, beauty parlor, chapel, pub, and extensive community areas including family style gathering areas with barbeque facilities and a children’s play ground. St. Paul’s Plaza, scheduled to open in June of 2015, and has been 18 months in the planning. For more information, go to st.paulseniors.org.
Danza Ruz Internacional is now open for registration and classes will begin in February! We hope to share our love of dance with everyone who comes through our doors!
IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO CONTRIBUTE TO BRAVO, send a quick note to Our Hometown’s editor at EDITOR@OURHOMETOWNMAG.COM and we will do our best to put your good news announcement in an upcoming issue. Submissions should be sent by the 10th of the month. We look forward to hearing from you! 4 OUR HOMETOWN · FEBRUARY 2014
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Chula Vista
ADVANCED LIFE SUPPORT PROGRAM Showing Results
The City of Chula Vista Fire Department launched its Advanced Life Support (ALS) program in July and already is seeing more efficient use of resources. The ALS program places at least one Firefighter/ Paramedic on the majority of the City’s engines that respond to a medical emergency or fire. Six of the City’s nine fire stations now have Firefighter/Paramedics with the goal of having all nine stations fully staffed by Firefighter/ Paramedics by the end of 2014. The benefit of paramedic level care on first
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responder units is more timely advanced evaluation, treatment, and greater resources for the most critical patients. The Chula Vista Fire Department has forged a strong working relationship with our paramedic transport provider to bring the best care to the citizens that we serve. Chula Vista is successfully implementing the program by providing education and
Sea Turtle Slumber Party at the Living Coast Discovery Center Explore the Living Coast Discovery Center after dark during our special Sea Turtle Slumber Party. Discover the world of the endangered green sea turtle through turtle games, crafts, stories, and a hike through the refuge to San Diego Bay, plus a rare opportunity to meet the Nature Center’s sea turtles (and other critters) up-close. The Overnight Adventure program offers you and your family a night (and
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morning!) of fun and hands-on educational exploration. Children ages 5 and up are welcome. A light snack is provided at night, and a continental breakfast is served in the morning. Space is limited, so sign up today. Join us on Saturday, Feb. 8 at 5:45pm to Sunday, Feb. 9 at 9:30am; Ages: 5 and older (Children under 18 must be accompanied by an adult); $45 per person ($40 for members); Visit thelivingcoast.org or call (619) 409-5908.
training to current firefighters so they can be certified as paramedics and by ensuring all new hires are trained as Firefighter/Paramedics. “We can now provide the highest level of care to the majority (85%) of the calls for service we respond to,” said Fire Chief Dave Hanneman. Until all fire stations have Firefighter/Paramedics on staff, the City continues to contract with American Medical Response.
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CYE Scholarship Contest Council for Youth Empowerment, a 501 c 3 non-profit organizations, is looking for their 2014 Ambassadors for the South Bay areas.
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CYE allows their ambassadors the opportunity to give back to their community 365 days of the year. CYE will be holding their next scholarship contest in South Bay in April/May of 2014.
CONTRIBUTOR Keren De Leon
To apply for a role of an ambassador you must be age 10-24 and have a big smile and a bigger heart. Please contact the Director, Angelica Wallace, at MissSouthBay@cox.net or call 619772-2054 for more information.
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OBAMACARE & YOUR TAXES
By Greg Martinez
You probably heard that most of the provisions of the Affordable Care Act (a.k.a. Obamacare) take effect in 2014. Do you know that key provisions of the act will be enforced by the IRS on your tax return? Here is a rundown of two of the top provisions and how they affect your taxes.
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& COST SHARING REDUCTIONS Government subsidies are available to reduce insurance premiums and deductibles for individuals. These subsidies are available to those who purchase a qualifying insurance policy from an exchange, like www.coveredca.com. Individuals with income up to 400% of the poverty line qualify for a subsidy, an estimated 2/3 of all Americans. Subsidies are based on an estimate of 2014 income and are paid directly to the insurance company, reducing the amount of premium and deductibles people have to pay. The final subsidy amount that a person is eligible for will be calculated on their 2014 tax return and the difference from the actual subsidy received will affect the refund or tax due.
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2. INDIVIDUAL MANDATE All individuals are required to have health insurance under the ACA, with some exceptions. Failure to have health insurance will result in a penalty levied the income tax return. Those whose income is below the level required to file a tax return are exempt from the mandate. Individuals can be uninsured up to 3 months per year and not be subject to penalty. The penalties begin with tax year 2014 and basically double until 2016. The ACA has added new tax incentives for individual and business health insurance to the tax code. It may be wise to consult with experts in both accounting and insurance to determine your best options. Greg Martinez is a CPA as well as a licensed health insurance agent and has an office in Eastlake. You can reach him at greg@gregmartinezcpa.com
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On your doorstep
A CHARITABLE WAY TO SHOP
By Erika Johnson, South Bay Community Services
.............................................................................................. We’ve all had one of those moments after a great day of shopping…you know the moment: you’re unpacking your packages, admiring your acquisitions…and then the guilt sets in... Maybe you think you spent too much, perhaps you bought something you regret and just possibly, you feel a teensy bit bad that after an entire day of shopping, you only managed to find things for yourself . . . ugh. We’ve all been there! But what if there was a place where you could shop to your heart’s content without guilt? Eastside Sequel is one of East Chula Vista’s best kept secrets . . . a resale boutique where all proceeds benefit victims of domestic violence and their children. Stocked almost entirely of gently used items, contributed by supporters of its mission, Eastside Sequel offers samples of items we might find in any upscale shop. It might be possible, for example, to pick up a skirt from Ann Taylor, a necklace from Nordstrom, a Coach purse . . . and walk away guilt free. You’d also have the added satisfaction that you have made a positive contribution to our community.Eastside Sequel is a project of South Bay Community Services (SBCS), a local non-profit that has been serving children, youth, and families throughout South San Diego County since 1971.
Last fiscal year, SBCS responded to 598 crisis calls involving Domestic Violence and assisted hundreds more with therapeutic counseling, emergency shelter, and case management. So whether you’re hunting for Michael Kors, an Escada piece, or some vintage Kate Spade, you can rest assured that not only will you find some treasures, but a little hope as well.
“Every dollar you spend . . . or don't spend . . . is a vote you cast for the world you want.”
accElEratinG innovation throuGh thE intEllEct Students in the Chula Vista Elementary School District experience a rigorous 21st century learning environment that is rooted in effective teaching practices and highquality instruction. We nurture every child’s imagination, intellect, and sense of inquiry. Working with stakeholders, we harness the potential of a collective intelligence rich with the imagination and creativity necessary for students to become difference makers. CVESD is frequently honored for student academic achievement, high performing schools, and quality instruction.
thE district’s nEWEst school Enrique S. Camarena Elementary is the District’s newest campus, and is located at 1650 Exploration Falls Drive in the Windingwalk community of Chula Vista. Learn more about District attendance boundaries and student enrollment by contacting (619) 425-9600, x 1571
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Montgomery High to participate in 8th Annual
ROBOTICS COMPETITION
Ready, Set...Launch! The Rotary Club of Chula Vista Sunset has helped sponsor the Montgomery High School Robotics Team, known as The Pharaohs. The Rotary Club raised $3,000 as part of the team’s $10,000 entry fee. Montgomery High is among the local schools that will participate in the eighth annual San Diego Regional FIRST Robotics Competition, which will be held at the Valley View Casino Center (formerly known as San Diego Sports Arena) March 6 – 8. The competition is an intense three-day event showcasing robots developed and operated by dozens of high school teams. Each team is given a kit with essential parts to build, program and compete in a tournament format. Rotary members were on hand as Montgomery’s team received its kit along with other schools’ robotics teams at a special kickoff on January 4. From then, the teams had six weeks to design, assemble, and test a robot of their own design. It is as close to "real-world engineering" as a student can get. Volunteer professional mentors lend their time and talents to guide each team. Rotarians even donated tools. 8 OUR HOMETOWN · FEBRUARY 2014
Montgomery High School robotics team members share a lighter moment with past president Marvin Harrison (far right) of the Rotary Club of Chula Vista Sunset, and Terry Hanvey, club officer.
“It is a great feeling to support such quality young people in a competition that gives them valuable college and career-readiness experience,” said Penny Bollinger, president of the Rotary Club of Chula Vista Sunset. “Being a part of this competition shows the students that anything is possible, and they are truly appreciative of our support. To be honest, we are getting as much out of it as they are. This has been a wonderful project for our club as well.”
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The 2014 robotics competition, called “AERIAL ASSIST,” is played by two Alliances of three teams each. Alliances compete by trying to score as many balls in goals as possible during a two-minute and 30-second match. Additional points are earned by robots working together to score goals, and by throwing and catching balls over a truss suspended just over five feet above the floor as they move the ball down the field. The Rotary Club of Chula Vista Sunset, which is the most recently chartered Rotary in Chula Vista, devoted much of its first major fundraiser to the Pharaohs. The Rotary Club held a Tacky Tourist Trivia Trip progressive dinner fundraiser last August, which was a tremendous success in building club camaraderie and interest in the students from Montgomery High.
Chula Vista Sunset Rotary members at the Tacky Tourist Trivia Trip progressive dinner and fundraiser.
To learn more about Chula Vista Sunset Rotary Club or to support the Montgomery High Robotics Team, contact Penny Bollinger at (619) 871-1038 or email her at pennybollinger@cox.net .
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love & marriage
February is a special month for love. We express it in so many different ways. Many of us buy chocolates, flowers and jewelry. Others go out to dinner and say sweet things to each other over electric candlelight. All this is wonderful and for many it’s a time to reconnect with the ones we love the most. This month’s theme is “what’s love got to do with it” and it’s a series of five interviews from couples in different stages of marriage. Our hope is that there’s something that touches and encourages every one of you. Happy Valentine’s Day.
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What’s love got to do with it? Amanda replies, “for someone like me who was so independent, I’m blessed to have found comfort depending on Andres.” She adds, “I love the way he is so intuitive to my moods.” A favorite family tradition is dining out at PF Chang’s nearly every Wednesday night. What’s in store for the future? “We are planning to expand the family,” Andres beamed.
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ndres and Amanda met while he was working at CaSa Bella Ristorante, known then as Villa Capri in the Shops at San Miguel Ranch. Amanda, a single mother of three, Tatiana, seven, and girl-boy twins, Ivy and Isaiah five, were a happy family. “I wasn’t looking for a father for my kids, I wanted a soul mate who would love my kids as much as he loved me,” she explains.
Andres, a calm and professional General Manager at CaSa Bella, admits he was surprised how fast and how hard he fell for Amanda. At first they started meeting for lunch around town. They were cautious until they knew it was serious. The first one to know was Amanda’s mother, Norma. In her wisdom, Norma simply advised Andres to seek Hugo’s permission to date his daughter, and he did.
The dating and courtship lasted nearly four years. In that time Andres took the opportunity to develop a relationship with the children. Tatiana was the hardest to win over, but she finally moved past his first name and started calling him “little daddy.” That moment always brings a smile to their faces. They tied the knot on July 27, 2013. Amanda, a protective and stubborn stay-at-home mom admits that it was hard sharing parental authority. Eventually she partnered with Andres and worked out a system that promoted unity and continuity. To know Amanda is to see a mirror image of her mother -- elegant, quite, loyal and honest. The best piece of advice Amanda’s mother gave her was: “You not only have to love him, you have to like him as well.”
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harrison What’s love got to do with it? They point to their faith, a commitment to grow together, and sometimes not taking life so seriously. Cameron and Rabeka go on to say “our dream is to help others” and they back that with action. On any Sunday you’ll find them volunteering at their church, teaching Sunday school and working in youth leadership. If families were sitcoms, this one deserves a Golden Globe.
ome of you may remember the classic TV sitcom “Green Acres” with Eddie Albert and Eva Gabor. They played a big city couple who moved to the country. Well, meet the Harrisons, a Chula Vista couple who brought a little class and country to our fine city. Imagine gathering eggs from chickens while wearing custom-made clothes and high-heeled shoes. That’s Rabeka. Imagine a financially minded businessman who finds more joy playing with his kids than watching TV. That’s Cameron. As a matter of fact, they don’t even own a TV. Not that they can’t afford one, they just find real life funnier raising two boys and a girl - Alexander, five, Sebastian, three, and the newest arrival, Gwendolyn. 14 OUR HOMETOWN · FEBRUARY 2014
Raised in an all American family, Cameron, an Eagle Scout, is the ultimate gentleman. At a young age, he vowed that the first woman he romantically kissed would be his wife. That moment happened midnight on New Year’s Eve when, after dating for only two months, he first kissed Rabeka. They married the following July and lived happily ever after. Well, sort of . . . In the early years of their marriage, life was full of adventure, but then came the heavy debt both from old student loans and a new sports car. For most young couples this would have been the end. Not for this couple. “We were determined to honor our responsibilities and we didn’t want to end up like many of our friends,” Rabeka said.
Cameron speaks of a time when he worked so many jobs, he only slept three and half hours a day for eighteen months. In the end, they honored their debts and built an even stronger marriage. When Cameron is not working as a buyer for Costco, you may see him refereeing a baseball game for youth sports. When Rabeka’s not managing the household or designing and sewing beautiful clothes, you’ll find her running her own business as an image consultant for Mary Kay.
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FEATURE
They both agree, the secret of a loving marriage is “Don’t sweat the small stuff.” Debbie also believes that a healthy marriage produces supportive and loving parents. She admires how Daryl made it a priority to attend all his kids’ events.
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oes any man ever think he would have to break up a tug of war between his wife and a 12 foot alligator? Well
that’s just what Daryl had to do. What would make his wife of 21 years risk her life? Debbie’s feisty nature wouldn’t let the alligator take her crab trap, so in a moment of pure bravery, Daryl grabbed her and she released the trap.
As a sports fisherman, Daryl knows when to fight – and when to let go. Debbie by nature is a fighter. She knows what she wants and she’s going to get it. When they first met at a gathering of friends, she knew he would be a great catch. When they met again at her cousin’s wedding, where she was a bridesmaid and he was the best man, she fell for him – hook, line and sinker. After a three month courtship, they were married. It wasn’t easy at first, Daryl who was in the Navy was stationed in South Carolina and Debbie lived in California. She moved to be with him and together they moved to San Diego. They have a daughter, De Ara, and a son, Daryl Junior, from his previous marriage. After retiring from the Navy in 1999, Daryl worked as an Information Technology Executive for a Fortune 500 company. Debbie operates her own medical editing company and fulfills her passion for writing. To date, she has written two self-published inspirational romance books and also found time to write two screenplays. Though full-time retirement is still in the future, they plan to spend it fishing, writing and – someday – being grandparents. FEBRUARY 2014 · OUR HOMETOWN 15
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What’s love got to do with it?
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t’s not hard to imagine why Gary and Jan Warkentin have been married for 42 years. Their manner is kind and easy going with an unspoken sense of assurance. Where did that confidence come from? “The best marriage workbook is the Bible,” Gary states with no hesitation or apprehension. “Plus, we modeled our marriage after our parents’ marriage, as they had modeled theirs on their parents in turn. It’s a formula that works.” They both agreed that marriage takes a lot of work and dedication. Gary and Jan met in Phoenix Arizona while working at Good Samaritan Hospital. They later moved to Fresno California and eventually, to Chula Vista. Gary worked in education, teaching for a while, and then realizing that his talents were more suited to administration. Gary recently retired from Calvary Chapel, where he served as Finance Manager. Jan, an RN, found her calling as a stay-at-home mom. Raising their two daughters, Erin and Amy, and son, Nathan, Jan understands the stresses of being a full-time mom. She feels that, if possible, it is better to stay home during children’s formative years and then, ease back into work later. Jan also acknowledges that it’s not easy and comes with certain sacrifices. “We learned to really stretch a dollar and save,” she said. Today, they get to play grandparents to their six grandchildren, all girls, ages one to eight. In their spare time, Gary enjoys cycling and Jan describes herself as a self-proclaimed “birthday cake queen” creating themed birthday cakes for her granddaughters. They recently had a new addition to their family when Jan’s mother moved into their home. “Caring for a parent is the right thing to do, and although challenging, it’s very rewarding.” When asked “What’s love got to do with it?” Gary, a man who chooses his words carefully, simply said “everything.” 16 OUR HOMETOWN · FEBRUARY 2014
What’s love got to do with it? Gary, a man who chooses his words carefully, simply said “everything.”
What’s love got to do with it?
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For this couple, love is expressed in many different ways – and for a few young boys, it changed their lives forever.
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here’s no greater gift any couple could give their children than the example of a strong relationship. So it would be safe to say that, after 60 years, this one has figured out a thing or two about love and marriage. (Just finding a couple who have been together for this long is not easy.)
Dr. Erickson met his bride while teaching at Richardson Junior High in San Bernardino, California. He taught history and she taught home economics. Being parents of two boys, Erick the older, and Kris, the Erickson's might have thought they had enough growing boys to feed. Well . . . that was seldom the case. Throughout the years, this generous couple always seemed to have another youthful male guest living with them. Mrs. Erickson mentioned, with a smile, that there were always boys in the house. Their home was open to a variety of them. At different times, they hosted foreign exchange students, one from France, another from Congo. In addition, they also welcomed a cousin’s son who lived with them while attending college. Later they were foster parents for two additional boys. Dr. Erickson obtained a doctorate in psychology but admits their parenting techniques were based on common sense. He suggested that before making a harsh disciplinary decision, step away from the situation and think about it. Another policy was never show disagreement. “Stay united and agree in public, discuss differences in private.” This kept balance and continuity while rearing their boys. Currently the Ericksons share a bungalow at Fredericka Manor. Time is spent reminiscing about traveling the world, keeping in touch with friends, and enjoying each other’s company. Knowing this couple anyone can see that their honeymoon has never ended. FEBRUARY 2014 · OUR HOMETOWN 17
SCHOOL NEWS
By Anthony McMillan
The Tireless Children's Wellness Champion: An Interview with Sharon Hillidge On November 18, 2013, Chula Vista Elementary School District (CVESD) launched its Body Mass Index (BMI) Surveillance Kit. The kit is a user-friendly guide for school districts throughout San Diego County and nationwide who are committed to understanding how childhood obesity, poor nutrition and lack of physical activity may be impacting the children in their schools. The kit came about after an incredible journey of discovery, one that touched upon all corners of the District. In 2010, CVESD measured the height and weight of approximately 25,000 students in all of its then-44 District schools. The District discovered that almost 40% of students were at an unhealthy weight. The District partnered with the Board of Education, principals, staff, parents, community members and students to communicate the results and revise the District’s Wellness Policy. They strengthened food and activity guidelines, improved nutrition services by reducing fats, sugars and salts, and monitored results. When the District measured the BMI of 26,000 students again in 2012, they saw a 3.2% decrease in the number of obese and overweight students.
IN 2010, 40% OF 25K STUDENTS WERE OVERWEIGHT The District was encouraged by these initial results and dedicated itself to continuous improvement. CVESD’s goals for the coming year are to communicate, implement and establish a plan to monitor district-level and individual school wellness compliance. Additionally, a four-year grant will support increasing the quality and quantity of physical education and physical activity in 19 of their schools.
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The BMI Surveillance Kit includes a description of this journey and customizable templates for other districts to use in measuring and communicating their students’ BMI. A project of this scope requires the support and collaboration of educators, County of San Diego officials, Health and Human Services Agency staff, community leaders, parents, and children. It also requires the tireless devotion of a champion who has dedicated her life’s work to improving children’s wellness.
On your doorstep The County’s Live Well San Diego program recently sat down for an interview with such a champion, CVESD’s Wellness Resource Teacher, the esteemed Sharon Hillidge. A San Diego County native, Sharon has served as an educator, mentor and advocate for children’s wellness at CVESD for the past 35 years.
HOW DID THE BMI SURVEILLANCE PROJECT GET STARTED? In 2007, I became the District Wellness Lead for the committee. I quickly realized that we hadn’t communicated any kind of wellness information to our staff or to our parents. We had developed policy based on what the state said needed to be created, but we really didn’t understand what was involved and who was needed to help create that policy. Through the committee, we developed a wellness brochure. It was exciting. We kept getting more input from our school communities about challenges and needed changes, so we decided to take on revising our entire Wellness Policy. At the same time we realized that we needed data to support some of the things we were already seeing in our state-mandated, fifth-grade physical fitness courses: low fitness scores and high BMI numbers.
HOW DID PRINCIPALS AND PARENTS RESPOND TO THE DATA DISCOVERED? We worked with Leslie Ray in the County’s Community Health Statistics to create a pie chart and a table by grade level, and we presented to the District Advisory Committee, made up of parents and administrators - 125 people. What I will remember most from our presentation is the audible reaction heard in the room when Leslie showed parents where their kids were on the growth chart – the intake of air. They were shocked. Our focus has really been to communicate what we’re doing, and to actively engage with students, their parents and the community. Parents are starting to ask us what they can and cannot sell for fundraisers – if cookies and treats are okay and compliant with the Wellness Policy.
WHAT’S THE BEST PART ABOUT WHAT YOU DO? It’s teaching. That’s what I knew I wanted to do. I knew I wanted to teach physical education, but I would not have imagined that this is where the road would end up taking me. The best part for me as a teacher, as an educator, is that it’s always been an adventure. I’ve always been in positions with enough change to keep me growing and learning. I had to learn all about wellness before I could go out and teach this to other people. And then I had to start practicing it. I had gotten into the habit that a lot of adults get into, by letting work take over, by not getting enough physical activity or eating right. So this last year for me has been about getting healthier, about focusing on my health. I have lost 60 pounds. For more information about the Live Well San Diego initiative and best practices for school districts, visit livewellsd.org/partners/best-practices-for-schools/ FEBRUARY 2014 · OUR HOMETOWN 19
ON TOPIC
By Linda Robbins
Great News About Relationships During this season of sweethearts and love, it is important to also think about all of the relationships in our lives. The great news about relationships is this:
YOU ARE IN CHARGE! That's right! Whether the relationship is with your neighbor, your boss, your motherin-law, or your friends, you are the one who holds the key as to how that relationship works. Although we don't always have a choice as to whom we must relate, we do have a choice as to how we negotiate each relationship in three significant ways:
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When we are able to identify our own emotional reactions to a given situation, a healthy, mature person will take responsibility to act accordingly. For example, if my "bossy" neighbor reminds me of my "bossy" older brother, it is clear that childhood emotions are being triggered. Perhaps the best way to deal with such a situation might be to disengage from anything more than a wave and a smile. Too many people try to "repair" past relationships by reengaging those with familiar negative traits in the present time, only to fail miserably over and over. Many others struggle in relationships because they have difficulty creating enough comfortable emotional distance to make difficult relationships tolerable. Whereas we cannot control the personality of a co-worker, we can make it much easier on ourselves by maintaining a cordial, professional distance than to challenge, confront, or change the person. (And that includes mothers-inlaw, too!)
our maturing self, we will make better choices. Rather than feeling like a "victim" in relationships, we can take up the task of utilizing our emotional reactions as a gauge for how close or distant we choose to be. The most powerful tool in any relationship is our own conduct. Most of us spend a great deal of time on our outward appearance instead of giving equal attention to our inward attitude. Just like we brush our teeth for our own health and the pleasantness it provides for those around us, we also need to "brush" our moods and demeanor as well. Respectful and polite behavior never goes out of style. If we are fortunate, we can create a handful of close intimates of our own choosing, including our mate and our friends. We can also learn to develop cordial relationships with the myriad of others who enter our life through the random chance of family or who are a part of our every day circle.
Respectful and polite behavior never goes out of style.
When we make relationship choices out of shared values and like-minded interests rather than trying to fix difficult relationships from our past, we are most likely going to create increased fulfillment. If we view each relationship as a challenge to
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The best news about relationships is that we have a lifetime of opportunities to create joy and meaning.
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HOW WE EMOTIONALLY REACT TO
HOW EMOTIONALLY CLOSE OR DISTANT WE
HOW WE CONDUCT OURSELVES IN EACH &
THE OTHER PERSON.
DECIDE TO BE.
EVERY RELATIONSHIP.
Lindy Robbins, LCSW is a psychotherapist, who has been providing relationship advice for over thirty-three years. She has the blessing of a wonderful husband and the challenges of all kinds of relationships. 20 OUR HOMETOWN 路 FEBRUARY 2014
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Out & About
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CHULA VISTA CHAMBER OF COMMERCE 87TH ANNUAL INSTALLATION DINNER & DANCE 6-11 pm @ Bonita
Valentine's
Golf Club, 5540 Sweetwater Road; Black Tie Optional; Call (619) 420-6603 with any questions or visitus online at www.chulavistachamber.org;
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Lincoln Day
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NO SCHOOL for students in CVESD or SUHSD
Washington Day
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FREE BLOOD PRESSURE SCREENINGS
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LITERARY SPEED DATING 6pm @ Otay Ranch Branch of the Chula Vista Library; In classic speed dating style, participants will have five minutes with each partner to talk over their favorite books -- love stories or otherwise; Live entertainment and complimentary light refreshments; Free; Registration is required; Must be 21+; Call (619) 397-5740 to register
NINJA NIGHTS
5pm-9pm @ Pride Martial Arts; Enjoy a night out while the children learn the ways of the ninja! There will be valuable life skills to be learned, dinner, a ninja bounce house, obstacle courses, and ninja nerf battles; $30/person; Limited space available; Call (619) 421-1282 now to register or go to www. prideata.com
SEA TURTLE SLUMBER PARTY 5:45pm Saturday to Sunday, Feb. 9 at 9:30am @ Living Coast Discovery Center; Ages: 5 and older (Children under 18 must be accompanied by an adult); $45/person ($40 for members); Visit www. thelivingcoast.org or call (619) 409-5908.
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10-2pm @ Civic Library, 365 F Street Chula Vista CA 91910; This Valentine's Day, take time to "Love Your Heart!"; For more information, check out LoveYourHeartSD.org or call 2-1-1
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2014 Save the Date:
MAR 1 TEAM AMY STRONG 5K FUN RUN & WALK BENEFITING AMY TOUCHET'S FIGHT AGAINST CANCER Check-in is at 8am @ 1820 Rios Ave; $20 gets you registered, a t-shirt & goodies; There will be a silent auction, photo booth & food after race; Find us on facebook : FUNDRAISER for TEAM RU AMY STRONG! To register or donate, go to: http://bit.ly/ TEAMAMYSTRONG or Contact Rabeka at RabekaHarrison@ gmail.com
NO SCHOOL for students in CVESD or SUHSD
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8TH ANNUAL STATE OF THE CITY ADDRESS DELIVERED BY CHULA VISTA MAYOR CHERYL COX 6pm @ Council Chambers; 276 Fourth Ave. 91910; Contact the Office of Mayor Cheryl Cox, Ian Monahan at (619) 691-5044
EASTLAKE BUSINESS ASSOCIATION every Monday 11:30am-1pm at Oggi’s Eastlake; eastlakebusiness.org OTAY RANCH TOWN CENTER FARMER’S MARKET every Tuesday 4-8pm
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BUSINESS HIGHLIGHTS
ActivCare
Photo Credit to Ana Romo, Contributed by Keren DeLeon
Caring for loved ones with Alzheimer’s disease or other types of dementia can be intimidating and challenging. As COO of ActivCare, Todd Shetter says, “many times [it] feels like being on a journey without a road map.” Since 1988, ActivCare Living has provided a refuge for senior residents. After five years of working diligently with the governor’s office and official regulators, the staff developed an additional program – to meet the increasing need for this unique type of care. ActivCare specializes in early stages of memory loss, Alzheimer’s disease, dementia, and a companionate transition to hospice, when that is required. Residents are treated with respect and dignity throughout their stay. With years of experience, Activcare has served more than 4,000 residents and is dedicated to enriching residents’ lives and those of their families. ActivCare is proud to announce its new location at Rolling Hills Ranch in east Chula Vista. The purposes of this cozy and beautifully decorated community are to present a loving and trustworthy atmosphere, staffed with registered nurses, specially trained caregivers, and supporting personnel who are available twenty four hours, seven days a week. Family members have the assurance their loved ones are safe in a comfortable residential setting. Special care was made to create an inviting and homey feeling, which every resident can enjoy. Daily activities – such as socialization, physical exercise, gardening and crafts – are available without the risk of a resident wondering off the property. If a loved one is suffering from memory loss, ActivCare encourages you to contact them for help and support. ActivCare; (619) 482-800; ActivCareLiving.com; 850 Duncan Ranch Road Chula Vista, CA 91914. 24 OUR HOMETOWN · FEBRUARY 2014
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BUSINESS ASSOCIATION The Eastlake Business Association was formed in 2011 for the purpose of helping Chula Vista business owners connect with local businesses, create invaluable relationships, exchange relevant information, establish contacts and increase local commerce. The EBA provides an inclusive, informational, relaxed and friendly networking environment. It provides a setting to create key connections and have informative presentations. President Bernardo Vasquez strives to provide an educational platform in every meeting. The goal is to meet the needs, questions and concerns of all business owners. To address these, the association has had many influential speakers including Chula Vista Mayor, Cheryl Cox; Chula Vista’s Director of Economic Development, Michael Meacham, and former U.S. Olympian – now a Business and Life Coach – Mary Andrews. Various topics, from referral sources, successful business strategies and tax benefits, to city and state programs have been addressed and discussed by the group. Not only does the EBA aim to help business owners thrive, it also focuses on philanthropic work. The EBA has worked diligently to give back to its local community. For example, members provides donations to support the National Champion Eastlake Little League Baseball Team and participates in events such as Eastlake Cycle, a charity event that supports and raises money for local schools. Members are encouraged to bring community events to the attention of the EBA. If you are a business owner or thinking of opening a business in Chula Vista, the EBA invites you to attend every Monday at Oggi’s Pizza and Brewing, 2130 Birch Road at 11:30 a.m. As Micheal Meacham said, “A membership fee of $20 a year, that’s the hottest deal in town!” Visit EastlakeBusiness.org and sign up at Meetup.com.
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RESIDENT SPOTLIGHT
NORRIS FAMILY
When Jay’s not mountain biking or cross training, you’ll likely find him hanging out with his wife and youngest daughter, Julia, who loves caring for rescued dogs. Or is it the other way around? Do the dogs love caring for them? People say you don’t pick your pet, your pet picks you. Charlene feels that Julia has a real talent when it comes to pairing these special pets with new families. “She has a sixth sense and great success rates”, Charlene added. This mother- daughter duo volunteer time each week for the East County Animal Rescue at Pet Smart on H Street, where they help run ads, screen families, and make phone calls. Amanda, their oldest daughter will graduate from Chapman College in Orange County this spring. A talented pianist and dancer, she comes home regularly and shares their dedication and compassion for dogs. These four-legged family members are very important to them. The Norris family would do whatever is necessary to protect them. Years ago, while returning from their house at the river, they pulled into a convenience store on the way home to grab some snacks. Naturally, when traveling with two kids, vacation gear, a few pets (which included a large dog), space was tight. To top it off, this was one of the hottest days of the year with temperatures well over 110 degrees. While they ran into the store, they left the car and the air conditioning running so the pets 26 OUR HOMETOWN · FEBRUARY 2014
THEIR YOUTHFUL APPEARANCE COMES FROM AN ACTIVE FAMILY LIFESTYLE... wouldn’t overheat. The smaller dog, Petie, got so anxious that she started to jump up and down and accidently locked the doors with the keys, of course, inside the car. Realizing what had happened, Jay headed back to the cabin just a short distance away to grab the spare keys. Meanwhile, Charlene used a more practical solution, employing the idea that what caused this situation might also be the solution. So, Charlene started jumping up and down in the scorching heat trying to motivate Petie. Petie started to jump around and managed to unlock the car! “ My biggest fear was the car would overheat, then the pets would overheat. I was just moments away from breaking the window with a rock,” Charlene explained. Jay, a second generation title sales executive, works at First American Title. He believes vacation time is family time. Whether it be a cruise, a casual drive up the coastline to Oregon, or time spent at their old river house, everyone is welcome. Today Jay and Charlene are focusing on getting Julia settled into college, and Amanda transitioning out of college and into a career. And if that’s not enough, Jay is the incoming President for the Chula Vista Chamber of Commerce. This is going to be a big year for the Norris family. Good luck.
Photo Credit to Ana Romo
When meeting Jay and Charlene Norris, it’s hard to imagine they’ve been married for 25 years. Their youthful appearance comes from an active family lifestyle centered on recreation, traveling and most importantly, dogs. You could say it’s a dog’s world around their home.
A Neighborhood Church for Eastlakers Like You! We might be new to Eastlake, but we’re not new to Chula Vista. Having outgrown our facilities on the west side of town, we’re expanding to the east and bringing our exciting brand of Spirit-driven worship and high-energy services to this community. Join us on Feb. 9 to see what it’s all about!
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