Signs a man is in a toxic relationship

together - is it really an unhealthy relationship...or just insecurity?

While there’s no denying that men in today’s world are often seen as the culprit for relationship struggles, it stands to be said that these expectations can put unfair pressure on them. Too frequently we expect a man to apologise and take responsibility even when they have been wronged; something which does not reflect justice or equality.

Signs as man you are in a toxic relationship:

1. The communication is always toxic

Rather than kindness or respect, most of your conversations are filled with sarcasm or criticism. She calls you useless and stupid, among other things. Unemployment is the most common cause of this.

2. Jealousy

3. Controlling freak

She wants to be in control of everything in your life. Everything from how much you should send your mother to what you shouldn’t buy. If she calls, you should answer immediately. If she texts, you should respond. That’s toxicity.

4. Grudges

Whenever there is an argument, she tends to bring up the past. Intimacy is eroded when she holds onto grudges and lets them fester.

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By Dumisani Hlatswayo

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