Shared Custody

Meet the cover family: Lenie, daughter Amira, and partner Michael

They are ready to take on the world together!

Q. Tell me about your family.

A. I have a great job, an incredible support system of friends and family, and I am with a wonderful partner, Michael. I have shared custody of my daughter, Amira - who just happens to be on the front cover!

Q. How do you survive, thrive, and cope with a shared custody situation?

A. I still miss my daughter a lot when she is not with me, but I just have to look in the glass and decide that its half full, rather than half empty. If you are in the same boat as me, know that you are not alone. Getting caught up on the downside of things can spiral you out of control, and could lead to a more dangerous path. So surround yourself with people who will uplift you, support you and accept you for you who are without prejudice. Always look forward - think of ways to make your time with your little one like it’s the last day before she goes back to the other parent. Plan your days when you have your little one, and plan your days for yourself as well. Indulge on the things you like. Learn a new sport, catch up on your friends. Read a novel that is about to come out in a movie. Repaint your bedroom walls. Crank up your fave tunes while dusting and vacuuming.

Q. What is your advice for other parents?

A. Just be strong because your child depends on you. Be strong, because there is no other way. You will get through this and you are definitely not alone.

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