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Contents

November 2017 Volume 33 • Number 3

W H AT ’ S I N S I D E 4 Family F.Y.I

• Education and Enrichment Guide • Winter Eye Care • Enter to Win Theater Tickets!

8 Playtime

12 Creative Consequences for Kids Before becoming a parent, the idea of disciplining children seemed fairly straightforward.

Get the Wiggles Out!

10 Bookshelf

Dancing with the Nutcracker

12 Raising Dad Thankful Musings 16 Gratitude Encouraging Thankful Kids 18 Family Calendar

Open House Events......24

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30 Singleminded

Directories 17 Schools & Childcare Centers 26 Classes and Enrichment 28 Entertainment & Party Needs

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he solar eclipse has brought some serious awareness to eye care. We all know that summer means sunglasses but what about winter? According to top docs, snow blindness is a real thing! So how does this happen? Photokeratitis or ultraviolet keratitis, is a painful eye condition caused by exposure of insufficiently protected eyes to ultraviolet (UV) rays. Basically it is inflammation of the cornea caused by a sunburn of the eye- or more specifically, sunburn of the cornea. This is the reason we can’t look directly at the eclipse. But direct sunlight can also cause photokeratitis – and the reflection of sunlight

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off of snow and ice – snow blindness- can be just as detrimental. In the winter, the sun sits lower in the sky and at a different angle than in the summer months and can provide more exposure to UV rays. In fact, snow reflects 80 percent of the sun’s ray. This is why it is so important to protect eyes with sunglasses during all months- including winter. Real Shades is a company that designs eye wear for kids that offer 100% UVA/UVB Protection and can fit toddlers 2+, kids 4+ and youth 7+ and feature Shatterproof Polycarbonate Lenses.

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Adopting Joy

ovember marks National Adoption month, a concept created in Massachusetts back in the 1970s to raise awareness for the needs of children in foster care. Whether you’re already in the process of adopting or considering bringing a child into your home, you’ll want to read all about another family’s experience and how to prepare for your new addition. Visit BostonParentsPaper.com/ beyondadoption.

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uring the fall and winter months we often see an increase in children presenting to the emergency department with respiratory disorders. Some of the common respiratory illnesses seen in children are asthma, bronchiolitis, croup and pneumonia. While it can be heartbreaking and frightening for a parent to see their child not feeling well, an infant or young toddler with a respiratory illness can be extra worrisome for parents since children this age can’t tell you what is wrong. For some children with asthma, the return of cooler weather or catching a cold can make their symptoms more difficult to control. Bronchiolitis is caused by viruses and usually affects infants and toddlers. Bronchiolitis can develop into coughing, wheezing, and difficulty breathing. If your child has a harsh voice, barky cough and noisy breathing he or she may have croup. Croup is also caused by viruses and affects young children. If your child is diagnosed with pneumonia antibiotics will be prescribed if the infection is caused by a bacteria. Your child should see their pediatrician for any concerning respiratory symptoms, but here are some of the reasons to seek care immediately: • If you can see your child’s ribs or if the chest or stomach is being pulled in while breathing • If there are any abnormal noises, such as grunting, while breathing • If there is a blue or gray color around your child’s lips or on their face or finger nails • If they are drooling more than normal • If they are not able to swallow A child that has been diagnosed with a respiratory infection may require more fluids than usual to prevent dehydration if they have a fever or are breathing faster than normal. If your child is diagnosed with a bacterial infection, he or she will be prescribed antibiotics. Be sure to give your child their medication as directed, for the prescribed amount of time. Avoid over the counter cough/ cold medications as these are not safe for children. Your child may not be acting like his or her normal self while they are sick, but with a little time and supportive care they will be back on their feet and running around! Joanne Haley RN, CPEN, Boston Children’s Hospital

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✼ Playtime

Get the Wiggles Out!

ith shorter fall days on tap you can’t keep the kids inside your home all of the time. When the weather isn’t cooperating, you need to find new walls to climb. Head to an indoor playspace and let the kids literally bounce off the walls. These eight destinations welcome drop-in families anytime. Just bring your socks (they’re required!) and spend an hour or a full day at these fun picks. Call or check websites for hours, which vary.

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Jump On In

100 Holton St., Boston; 617-789-5867; jumponinfun.com/ boston. Giant inflatables and other jumping equipment await your kiddos at Jump On In. Check the website for additional locations in Massachusetts. Admission, $13 weekdays; $15 holidays and school vacation.

Kids Fun Stop

1580 VFW Parkway, West Roxbury; 617-325-0800; kidsfunstop.com. Kids exploring Kids Fun Stop can play on slides, a climbing tunnel, a sand table, a block-andLego area and more. One child, $12; additional children, $10 each; one adult per child, free.

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5B Webster Street, Peabody; 978-532-5868; bostonbounceparty.com. 10,000 square feet of Huge Inflatable Fun for Everyone. Giant Slides, Obstacle Course, Basketball, Bouncing, Jousting, Slippery Slope Challenge & More. Admission, $8 and up; adults, free.

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931 Boston Road, Haverhill; 978-521-7700; cedarland. net. Possibilities for play at AMAZEment Action Play Center include a sports area, a triple wave slide, climbing structures and courses. A toddler area features a pretend store and house, and a giant sand room. Ages 2-12, $8.95; 12 to 23 months, $5.95; under 12 months and adults, free.

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animal hospital, a dinosaur climbing structure, a craft room, a bouncy room and a soft -play area for infants. Admission, $10; babies under 12 months, $2.95 (free if accompanied by sibling); adults, $1.

Monkey Joe’s

10 Newbury St., Danvers; 978-739-8099; monkeyjoes. com. Part of a national chain, Monkey Joe’s is filled with blow-up jumps and slides and an obstacle course appropriate for ages 2 to 12. Ages 3 and up, $13.99; ages 2 and under, $7.99; adults, free.

Einstein’s Workshop

25 Adams St., Burlington; 781-202-5645; einsteinsworkshop.com. Combine fun with education at Einstein’s Workshop, where kids can play with Legos, K’nex, Anker Blocks and Minecraft. Admission, $12 with accompanying adult; children 3 and under, free.

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86 Powder Mill Road, Maynard; 978-897-2917; and 251 West Central St., Natick; 508-651-2917; and, coming soon to Norwood; jamtime.com. Kids 6 and under will find climbing structures, bouncy houses and ball pits, with separate kiddie gym equipment for infants, in two funfilled locations. Admission, $10; babies under 12 months and adults, free with older sibling’s paid admission.

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✼ Bookshelf

By Mary Ann Scheuer

Dancing with the Nutcracker A Family Holiday Tradition

oing to see “The Nutcracker” is a holiday tradition for many families. Introduce the magic of dance with these picture books, and let the power of the moment fill your child’s imagination.

Mexico’s many traditional and indigenous danzas with modern dance styles. A beautiful, stylistic picture book biography. “Firebird,” by Misty Copeland, illustrated by Christopher Myers (G.P. Putnam’s Sons / Penguin; “Bea in the ages 6-10; $17.99; 32 Nutcracker,” by Rachel pp.). When a discouraged Isadora (Nancy Paulsen / African-American girl Penguin; ages 2-5; $16.99; looks up to her idol—ballet 32 pp.). Adorable toddler star Misty Copeland—the Bea (star of Isadora’s Bea at older dancer reassures her, Ballet) returns in the lead of saying, “darling child, don’t her dance class’s producyou know / you’re just where tion of “The Nutcracker,” I started.” Their imagined and the resulting story conversation develops as leads to a perfect introducthe young child takes center tion of the classic ballet stage. The blend of soaring for our youngest readers. illustrations and inspiring Isadora, a former profeswords will encourage many sional dancer, conveys “The young dancers. Nutcracker’s” magic in a “Flora & the wonderfully child-centered Flamingo,” by Molly story for the youngest Idle (Chronicle; ages audience. 4-8; $16.99; 32 pp.). “Danza! Amalia This unique wordHernández and Mexico’s less picture book is Folklorico Ballet,” by filled with the joy of Duncan Tonatiuh (Abrams; dance. Endearing ages 4-9; $18.95; 32 pp.). Flora at first just Amalia Hernández studied imitates and annoys ballet and modern dance, the flamingo, but and she blended these she slowly makes a styles with folkloric danzas friend, and the two she saw as a child in create a graceful Mexico City. Forming her duet. Young readers love own small company, she the movement revealed traveled throughout Mexico as they lift the flaps and to research and create turn the pages. Winner of dances that intertwined

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the 2014 Caldecott Honor Award. “Lupita’s First Dance / El Primer Baile de Lupita,” by Lupe RuizFlores, illustrated by Gabhor Utomo (Piñata / Arte Publico; ages 5-8; $17.95; 32 pp.). First-grader Lupita can’t wait to dance La Raspa, a Mexican folk dance, in this bilingual story that celebrates the joy of performing. When her partner sprains his ankle, Lupita must decide whether to sit out from the performance or to go on alone. Children will relate to Lupita’s anxiety and delight in the final outcome. “The Nutcracker Comes to America: How Three BalletLoving Brothers Created a Holiday Tradition,” by Chris Barton, illustrated by Cathy Gendron (Millbrook; ages 6-10; $19.99; 35 pp.). When the three Christensen brothers learned ballet, they not only fell in love with dance, they also loved the show-stopping way it entranced

audiences. Fast-forward to the 1940s, when the brothers were in charge of the San Francisco Ballet, searching for a big-ticket production and they staged the first American fulllength production of what was soon to become an American tradition. “The Nutcracker in Harlem,” by T.E. McMorrow, illustrated by James Ransom (HarperCollins; ages 4-8; $17.99; 32 pp.) The vibrant Harlem Renaissance makes a grand setting for this charming reimagining of the classic Nutcracker story. Marie shyly watches as her beautiful Harlem home fills with music and dancing on Christmas Eve, but she can’t bring herself to perform. When she falls asleep and begins to dream, she finds her courage and her voice as she defends the Nutcracker from the army of uniformed mice. Ransome’s lyrical illustrations bring the Jazz Age to life. Mary Ann Scheuer is a teacher librarian. Find more books Mary Ann recommends sharing with children at her blog, Great Kid Books, http://greatkidbooks.blogspot. com.

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✼ Raising Dad

Thankful Musings By Tony Hicks

ith Thanksgiving bearing down on us, it’s a legal requirement for columnists to write about why they’re thankful in November. And, if nothing else, I’m a traditionalist. Plus, I’m out of other ideas. I’m thankful my daughter got her braces off this year. Her teeth look great. And, now that they’re off, I’m thankful my bank account looks better, too. Of course, her little sister will also need them within the next few years. I’ll wait to be unthankful for that. I’m thankful all my kids got good grades. One might even graduate from college soon, which means she’ll hopefully be qualified to go get a high-paying job and start supporting me. Which is why people have kids to begin with. I’m thankful none of my kids watch reality television which, as you know, has nothing to do with reality. Though one pays attention to politics, which has become a lot like reality television. I’m thankful two of my daughters play softball, which gets them away from video games and their phones for at least a few hours a week. Each season, they always go to their first practice and ask what all

I’m thankful my 9-year-old still likes to hold her dad’s hand in public, and still runs to me when she sees me for the first time in a while. I’m also thankful my 15-year-old still calls me “daddy.” that scattered green stuff is. I explain that it’s grass. I’m thankful my youngest likes going to church. While I’m not a churchgoer, she enjoys it, and it keeps her from wanting my attention when I’m supposed to be watching football on Sunday mornings. I’m thankful my 9-year-old still likes to hold her dad’s hand in public, and still runs to me when she sees me for the first time in a while. I’m also thankful my 15-year-old still calls me “daddy.” I’m even thankful at her being happy because some guy asked her to the homecoming dance. Though he’d better not try anything that would make her father unthankful. I’m thankful my oldest daughter has been so selfless, and done so much for me, this past year when I had health problems. She basically stepped in and managed my health insurance issues without my even asking. Which is good, since I don’t understand health insurance.

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No, really. I don’t. Not in the slightest. I’m thankful one of my daughters loves Alan Rickman and responds enthusiastically to Hans Gruber references. I’m also thankful at least one of my kids loves “Star Wars” movies and likes to swing one of her plastic toy lightsabers at boys. I’m thankful my 15-year-old wants to get a job. Which means I’ll be even more hankful when I don’t have to hand her money every time she walks out the door. I’m thankful my 9-year-old has insane fashion sense and isn’t afraid of looking like a walking explosion of Technicolor. No, really, I am. It’s a great sign that she’ll end up being a leader and a real individual who walks to her own beat. Plus, I really enjoy laughing at what she’s wearing. I’m thankful my two 15-year-olds in high school are already thinking about preparing to go to a good college. Though one of them needs to scale back the worry a bit. I mean, I didn’t worry about college when I was a sophomore, and look at me: 50 years old and only two classes away from getting my degree ... Never mind. What I’m really thankful for this year is having four wonderful daughters to be thankful for. Tony Hicks is a newswpaper columnist and the father of four daughters.

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Consequences for Kids By Sarah Lyons

Before becoming a parent, the idea of disciplining children seemed fairly straightforward. It follows logic that if you set limits, use consistency, and respond firmly, but lovingly, children will learn to correct their behavior. As I became a more experienced mother, I quickly learned that traditional methods of discipline, such as time out, do not work with every child, every time. Thinking outside of the traditional methods of discipline and trying new and creative consequences may improve behavior.

HERE ARE SOME IDEAS: Buy it back:

Toys left on the floor after the designated pickup time will be confiscated by a parent. Children will be allowed to buy back each item for $1. (www.notconsumed.com) If the children are not earning an allowance, they may do something extra around the house to earn the item back.

Practice makes perfect:

When chores aren’t done to the parent’s standards, have kids “practice” doing it over and over again until they become an expert. (www.imom.com)

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Silly faces:

“If siblings were fighting, they had to make five faces at each other. They would end up laughing and forget what they were fighting about to begin with.” says Marianne Lincoln, mother of five.

Team spirit:

Siblings who fight can also be assigned projects or chores to work on as a team. By the end of the day, they will have learned to work together.

Open door policy:

If your teen slams the bedroom door when angry, take away the privilege of privacy and remove the door for a week.

Benefits of Natural Consequence

natural consequence is something that happens as a result of a certain behavior or choice. Parents can let their children experience natural consequences by not “saving” them from their choices and allowing them to learn from their mistakes. If a teen stays up too late, they will be tired the next day. If a child forgets his sack lunch at home, he will have to eat whatever is on the school menu that day. If a child refuses to wear a coat, they may find they get quite cold on a winter day. Natural consequences help kids take ownership of their actions and can have lasting benefits.

• The consequence is closely tied with behavior because the results follow the action; • A natural consequence helps children take responsibilty for their actions; • They let children make a choice about their behavior; • This style of discipline occurs in a calm environment; • It helps children internalize rules and morals we are trying to teach them; and • It prepares children for adulthood by helping them think about the potential consequences of their choices.

Donations:

If your kids consistently leave clothing on the floor, collect it for donation to a local charity. If they decide they aren’t ready to donate it yet, have them pay you what it would cost them to buy it from a thrift store. (www.parenting.com)

Safety first:

It is not safe to drive when people are shouting and making a commotion in the car. If the kids are too rowdy, pull the car over and wait silently until they are quiet.

Take time: If you child is dawdling and makes everyone late, have them sit out of the fun when you arrive for the same amount of time they wasted at home.

Early to bed:

If the child has a bad attitude and you suspect it’s because they are not getting enough sleep, move up bedtime by 5 minutes each time you need to remind them to improve their behavior.

Kid’s choice:

When children misbehave, try allowing them to choose their own consequence. This method gives them control over their fate, teaches them to think about their actions in the future, and makes imposing the consequence easier.

Stand alone:

If the child will not stop tipping his chair at dinner, simply take the chair away and have him stand while he eats. (www.notconsumed. com)

Teach respect: “I have a friend that has her children wash the other’s feet if they are being disrespectful to each other.” says Shannon, mom of three. With some patience, a sense of humor, and some creativity, parents can use the art of creative consequences to teach their children in a fresh and memorable way that will have lasting results. Sarah Lyons is a stay at home wife and mother of six children, including 18 month old triplets. Using creative consequences with her kids has improved their behavior and encourages healthy relationships with each other.

Creative Consequences in a Jar A simple mason jar can be helpful to assign chores, decide consequences, or settle disputes. Try these ideas and tailor them to fit your family.

Job jar: Fill a jar with chores ideas and have them pick one as a consequence.

Mercy jar: Fill a jar with different consequences

such as time out, writing sentences, push-ups, etc. Write “mercy” on a few, which means they forgo punishment this time. We can all use a little mercy sometimes. (www.imom.com)

Marble jar: For good behavior, completed chores,

and acts of kindness kids can earn marbles. When the jar is full let them choose a fun reward.

Reverse marble jar:

Start with a full jar of marbles and take them out when there is negative behavior. Each marble out of the jar = 5 minutes taken away from a fun activity. With this method, kids can also earn marbles back throughout the day.

Get along jar:

Fill the jar with ideas that will help siblings get along like “Clean up the other’s toys” or “Give each other a hug.” or “Jump on the trampoline together for five minutes.” Kids must choose from this jar if they are fighting or if they tattle. (www.millionsofmiles.com)

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How to Create Thankful Kids this Thanksgiving By Sarah Lyons

s Thanksgiving approaches it is nice to reflect on and appreciate our blessings. In our family, each member writes down something they are thankful for on Thanksgiving Day and we read them aloud at Thanksgiving dinner. This is a fun exercise that teaches our children to show gratitude for things otherwise taken for granted. We enjoy that daily pause to remember what we are grateful for; but, what about every other day of the year? How do we teach our kids to be grateful all year long?

thank you for any acts of service or gifts. Even toddlers can be taught to sign “Thank you”. Writing thank you notes is a great way to provide kids the opportunity to thank someone for the gifts they receive and the time it took to purchase them. Encourage a “It’s the thought that counts” policy and explain

Model gratefulness The easiest and most effective way to start teaching your children gratitude is to model it yourself. Let your children hear you talk about the things you are thankful for. “I am so grateful for this beautiful day today so that we can go to the park.” or “I am so thankful for a great job to pay for our home and our food.” You can also do as we have on Thanksgiving Day and go around the table at dinner and name something you are thankful for any night of the year. When kids acknowledge the blessings they have in their lives, they will begin to take note and appreciate them.

Serve as a family Families who do service projects together tend to be families who appreciate what they have more. When children see that some are less fortunate, they will develop a desire to help others and make a difference. Not only do they become more aware of others and the blessings in their own lives, but they are more likely to give of their time and treasures for a lifetime.

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Teach them the cost of things Parents know everything costs money and it adds up fast. Allow your child to come along to the grocery store and have them help you find the best deal on food they would like to purchase or allow them to bring their own allowance and purchase something they would like. Point out how much it costs when you go out to eat as a family or make a large purchase of groceries or other items the family needs. Take care to avoid blaming or anger when discussing the cost of items and use the opportunity to teach. When children understand the true cost of items, they are more likely to appreciate the purchase in the first place.

Give them chores that it isn’t the actual gift itself but the thought behind the purchase that we are grateful for.

Take care of property Teach kids the value of their property by showing them the importance of caring for their belongings. Clothes cost money so they should not be on the floor in piles. Toys cost money so if one is broken due to misuse, do not rush to replace it.

Say no It isn’t healthy to say yes to every request your child has. An answer of “No.” or “Not right now.” teaches children both the value of delayed gratification and encourages gratefulness for occasional treats. If a child is allowed to purchase a toy every time he visits the store, this will become expected. If the toy is purchased as a special reward or with their own money, the child will appreciate it much more.

When children have chores and responsibilities to their family, they begin to understand how much work goes into cleaning, yard work, or other household tasks. Some families may choose to give an allowance for tasks completed which can help kids learn to budget and understand the value of hard work and in turn develop gratitude for the work that others do. The main thing to remember as you encourage gratefulness in children is to model the behavior. Thank them for their hard work, acknowledge and thank others for their acts of service, help kids understand the value of items, and give them responsibilities that teach them hard work. We don’t have to eat turkey every day to be thankful for the blessings that surround us all year. Sarah Lyons is a wife and stay at home mom of six children, including two year old triplets.

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1 Wednesday Jack-O-Lantern Spectacular 6pm, Roger Williams Park Zoo, 1000 Elmwood Ave., Providence, R.I. A nighttime display of 5,000 illuminated jack-o-lanterns, many of them professionally carved masterpieces. Through Nov. 5. $12-18. 401-785-3510; rwpzoo.org

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2 Thursday Boston International Kids Film Festival Varying times, The Somerville Theatre, 55 Davis Square, Somerville. A film festival made for, about and by kids, with screenings, workshops and more. Through Nov. 5. Prices vary. 781-662-1102; bikff.org

Tracking Basics 6:30-8pm, Moose Hill Wildlife Sanctuary, 293 Moose Hill Parkway, Sharon. Learn how to read animal tracks and traces. Adults, $15; youth, $5. 781-784-5691; massaudubon.org

3 Friday Boston Christmas Festival Varying times, Seaport World Trade Center, 200 Seaport Blvd., Boston. More than 300 craftsmen will display work alongside the annual Gingerbread House Competition. Through Nov. 5. Adults, $15; youth, FREE. 617-742-3973; bostonchristmasfestival.com

4 Saturday Mike the Bubble Man 10:30am, Coolidge Corner Theatre, 290 Harvard St., Brookline. Bubble lovers of all ages will enjoy this lively interactive show. Adults, $13; youth, $10. 617-734-2501; coolidge.org

Boston Babies Clothing Swap noon to 1:30pm. Showa Institute, 420 Pond St., Jamaica Plain. Donate or swap baby clothes, momma gear and toys. Extras donated to Cradles to Crayons. $5 per family; free with donation of 18m-3T clothing. meetup. com/clothing-swap

Girls Day 11am – 4pm, MIT Museum, 265 Massachusetts Ave., Cambridge. Visitors will spend the day programming, participating in robot challenges and hearing from scientists and engineers. Free with admission. 617-2535927; mitmuseum.mit.edu

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5-7pm, Fruitlands Museum, 102 Prospect Hill Road, Harvard. Close out the season with the burning of a bonfire sculpture and roasting marshmallows. FREE. 978456-3924; fruitlands.org

5 Sunday Family Nature Hikes — November: Turkeys. 10:30-11:30am, Oak Knoll Wildlife Sanctuary, 1417 Park Street, Attleboro. Learn about local flora and fauna in a guided nature hike. Hikes happen rain or shine, please dress accordingly. $5. 508-223-3060; massaudubon.org

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Exploring Nature at Night 6:30-8pm, Moose Hill Wildlife Sanctuary, 293 Moose Hill Parkway, Sharon. Explore the nocturnal world and what wakes up as we go to bed. We will also learn more about the evening sky and the changing constellations. Adults, $15; youth, $5. 781-784-5691; massaudubon.org

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10:15am, Museum of Fine Arts, 465 Huntington Ave., Boston. Bring your toddler to enjoy story time and looking activities in the galleries, followed by art making. Theme: Shaping the World. Free with admission. 617-267-9300; mfa.org

7 Tuesday • Election Day Trucks, Tractors and Tools 3:30-5pm, Drumlin Farm Wildlife Sanctuary, 208 S Great Road, Lincoln. Search for essential farm equipment and learn the important jobs they do. We’ll meet our farmers and hayride drivers as we board the hay wagon and get a behind-the-scenes look at some of these mega machines! $16.50. 781-259-2200; massaudubon.org

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Veteran’s Day: Old Glory 10am – 4pm, The Children’s Museum in Easton, 9 Sullivan Ave., Easton. Salute our veterans by helping loop together stars and stripes to make a flag, then craft a patriotic hat that would make Uncle Sam mighty proud. Free with admission. 508-230-3789; childrensmuseumineaston.org

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The Nutcracker—Boston

Create an annual tradition with family and friends at one of New England’s most beloved holiday events and make memories to cherish for years to come.The Nutcracker will capture your imagination and transport you to a magical world of brave toy soldiers, dancing snowflakes, and a mystical Sugar Plum Fairy. $35-$204, November 24 - December 31, Boston Opera House, 539 Washington St, Boston, MA 02111, (617) 695-6955, http://bostonballet.org

Dickens Festival Holiday Craft Fair—Braintree

The Dickens Festival is a unique entertainment and shopping experience with something for the young and young-at-heart. Interact with costumed characters from A Christmas Carol. Visit Father Christmas, gentle and non-commercial. Bring your camera. Admission is free. There are many things for sale — handmade items, roast turkey sandwiches and homemade apple pie. November 18. Free to attend. All Souls Church,196 Elm Street, Braintree, MA 02184, (781) 843-1388. http://www.allsoulsbraintreechurch. org/2017-dickens-festival.html

games, dance performances and more. Open to the public and to non-dancers too. $20 Donation. December 16, 6PM. Beverly Rocci Post, Brimbal Ave, Beverly, MA (978) 9225215, http://www.revivedancexchange.com

Rockin’ Holiday Party & Show— Weymouth

Performances by the Dance with Energy Companies. Open to all Ages, Music, Crafts, Dancing. An appearance by Santa! Refreshments for sale $5/ person. 2:003:30pm. Dance with Energy at Weymouth Club, 75 Finnell Dr., Weymouth, MA 02188, (781) 682-5831. December 10. http:// weymouthclub.com/dance

Urban Nutcracker— Jamaica Plain

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“A Nutcracker with real soul” — Boston Metro

“You really don’t get more “original” that Williams’ version of “The Nutcracker” that features people who reflect the increasingly Tchaikovsky and Duke Ellington. Hip-hop and diverse neighborhoods of Boston and, frankly, ballet. Urban Nutcracker is a classic holiday many other metro areas in the United States.” treat with an inner city twist! A true Boston — The Boston Globe. $25-$85. December story, local dance legend Tony Williams 15-28, John Hancock Hall, 180 Berkeley St., reimagined the classic holiday tale to become Boston, MA 02116, (888) 596-1027 http://www. urbannutcracker.com

The Nutcracker—Weston

Holiday Show Fundraiser 2017—Beverly

Join our 15th annual Holiday Show Fundraiser to help kids in the North Shore explore their passion for dance at no cost. These dancers are in great need of support and to date Revive Dance Xchange has given over $230,000 in scholarships to kids in need. This is a fun event with a silent auction,

a Boston inner-city story with a neon-buzz, blending the rhythms of Duke Ellington with the classical music of Tchaikovsky. Annually, 150 performers – including professional ballet dancers – take the stage to showcase a broad diversity of dance forms celebrating multicultural Boston. Join heroine Clarice as she explores iconic Boston scenes such as Make Way for Ducklings, Top of the Hub, Chinatown, and the Boston Public Garden. The delightful story continues by following the magical journey of Clarice and her Nutcracker guide through classical ballet, tap, hip hop, jazz, flamenco, and more. 284 Amory St # 5, Jamaica Plain, MA, 02130

Boston Ballet

Richly staged with original choreography by Chip Morris, Commonwealth Ballet returns to Casey Theatre at Regis College in Weston for their delightful presentation of The Nutcracker. The ballet is a family-friendly performance which will entrance young and old alike. Plenty of free parking. “It was my 4-year-old daughter’s first time at the ballet. She was mesmerized and has been performing in our living room ever since. She said “it was awesome!” $20$39. November 24, 25, 26 and December 8, 9, 10. The Eleanor Welch Casey Theatre at Regis College, 235 Wellesley Street, Weston, MA (978) 263-6533. http://commonwealthballet.org/ nutcracker/

Jose Mateo Ballet Theatre brings its original, enchanting production of The Nutcracker to the Cutler Majestic Theatre in Boston from November 26-December 10 and The Strand Theatre in Dorchester from December 15-24. Now in its 30th season, JMBT’s The Nutcracker whisks young and old alike to the Land of the Sweets where dreams come true and anything is possible. $20-$75. December 15 at 7:30, December 16 at 2:00 & 7:00, December 17 at 1:30 & 5:00, December 22 at 7:30, December 23 at 2:00 & 7:00, December 24 at 1:30, The Strand Theatre, 543 Columbia Road, Dorchester, MA, (617) 354-7467. http:// www.brownpapertickets.com/event/3079856

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Nutcracker—Braintree

A wonderful holiday favorite for so many! Celebrating our 21st season, Braintree Ballet is excited to bring some magic to your holiday season. Come see Clara and her friends as they entertain you with bright colorful costumes, wonderful choreography, and all the rest that makes up a spectacular event! $25. Saturday December 9th, 2pm and 7pm and Sunday December 10th 2pm. East middle school auditorium, 305 River St, Braintree, (781) 380-8856

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The Nutcracker—Boston

Jose Mateo Ballet Theatre brings its original, enchanting production of The Nutcracker to the Cutler Majestic Theatre in Boston from November 26-December 10 and The Strand Theatre in Dorchester from December 15-24. Now in its 30th season, JMBT’s The Nutcracker whisks young and old alike to the Land of the Sweets where dreams come true and anything is possible. $75-$20. November 25 at 2pm & 7pm, November 26 at 1:30 & 5:00, December 1 at 7:30, December 2 at 2:00 & 7:00, December 3 at 1:30 & 5:00, December 8 at 7:30, December 9 at 2:00 & 7:00, December 10 at 1:30 & 5:00, Cutler Majestic Theatre, 219 Tremont Street, Boston, (617) 824-8400. https://cutlermajestic.org/ Online/article/nutcracker_2017

ELF The Musical—Boston

“Everyone’s favorite Elf will make his return to Boston this holiday season with ELF The Musical at the Boch Center Wang Theatre! ELF The Musical is the hilarious tale of Buddy, a young orphan child who mistakenly crawls into Santa’s bag of gifts and is transported back to the North Pole. Unaware that he is actually human, Buddy’s enormous size and poor toy-making abilities cause him to face the truth. With Santa’s permission, Buddy embarks on a journey to New York

City to find his birth father, discover his true identity, and help New York remember the true meaning of Christmas. This modern day Christmas classic is sure to make everyone embrace their inner ELF.” Tickets start at $37.50! November 28 - December 10. Boch Center Wang Theatre, 265 Tremont St, Boston, http://www.bochcenter.org/buy/show-listing/ rudolph-2017

Follow Clara on her magical journey. Brave the battle of the mice and soldiers led by the Nutcracker Prince and be amazed by the growing Christmas tree. Glide through the Christmas tree forest complete with falling snow and arrive at the palace of sweets where Clara is entertained by a cast of CONTINUED NEXT PAGE >>>

Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker 25th Anniversary— Boston

Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker features over-the-top production values and world class Russian artists. Larger than life puppets and nesting dolls, and gloriously hand-crafted costumes bring the Christmas spirit to life. Gather the family and see why the press raves “Knock Out!” – New York Times, “Christmas Cheer!” – LA Times. $27.50+. Sunday, December 3rd, 3:00 PM, and 7:00 PM. Orpheum Theatre, 1 Hamilton Place, Boston, MA 02108, (800) 745-3000, http://www.nutcracker.com/your-city/gettickets/boston

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Holiday Performances Roundup (cont’d.) Rudolph The Red-Nosed Reindeer—Boston

characters and dazzled by the Grand Pas de Deux of the Sugar Plum Fairy and her Cavalier. $15-$47. Saturday, December 2, 2017, 12:00 pm & 4:00 pm, The Lynn Auditorium, 3 City Hall Sq., Lynn, MA, (781) 599-7469. http://www.TheGSBC.comNutcrwwacker.

The Hip Hop Nutcracker—Boston

A holiday mash-up for the entire family, THE HIP HOP NUTCRACKER a contemporary re-imagination of Tchaikovsky’s timeless music, sets out on a third national tour following the success of two previous sold-out tours. THE HIP HOP NUTCRACKER is an evening-length production performed by a supercharged cast of a dozen all-star dancers, DJ and violinist. Through the spells cast by the mysterious Drosselmeyer, Maria-Clara and her Nutcracker prince, travel back in time to the moment when her parents first meet in a nightclub. Digital scenery transforms E.T.A. Hoffmann’s story of sugarplums into 1980s Brooklyn. This new dance work celebrates love, community and the magic of New Year’s Eve. Special guest MC KURTIS BLOW, one of hip hop’s founding fathers, will open the show with a short set before rapping the introduction to The Hip Hop Nutcracker. http://www. bochcenter.org/buy/show-listing/hip-hop-nutcracker

Rudolph The Red-Nosed Reindeer—Boston

The beloved TV classic RUDOLPH THE RED-NOSED REINDEER soars off the screen and onto the stage this holiday season. Come see all of your favorite characters from the special including Santa and Mrs. Claus, Hermey the Elf, Bumble the Abominable Snow Monster, Clarice, Yukon Cornelius and, of course, Rudolph, as they come to life in RUDOLPH THE RED-NOSED REINDEER: THE MUSICAL. It’s an adventure that teaches us that what makes you different can be what makes you special. Don’t miss this wonderful holiday tradition that speaks to the misfit in all of us. Based on the animated television special “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer” and the stage production directed and conceived by Jeff Frank and First Stage. Script adaptation by Robert Penola. Arrangements and orchestrations by Timothy Splain. December 14 -17, Boch Center Shubert Theatre, 265 Tremont St, Boston, http://www.bochcenter.org/buy/show-listing/rudolph-2017 th

Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker 25 Anniversary—Lowell

Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker features over-the-top production values and world class Russian artists. Larger than life puppets and nesting dolls, and gloriously hand-crafted costumes bring the Christmas spirit to life. Gather the family and see why the press raves “Knock Out!” – New York Times, “Christmas Cheer!” – LA Times. $27.50+. 7:00. Lowell Memorial Auditorium, 50 East Merrimack Street, Lowell, MA 01852, (866) 722-8881. November 28. http://www.nutcracker.com/your-city/get-tickets/lowell

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Lesley Ellis School Open House November 5, 2017 @ 1:00 pm. Middle School Open House November 15, 2017 @ 7:00 pm. 34 Winter St www.lesleyellis.org

Nashoba Montessori Open House November 3, 2017 @ 10:00 am. 725 Main St www.nashobamontessori.com

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Woodside Montessori Academy Admissions Open House November 4, 2017 @ 10:00 am. 350 Village St www.woodsideacademy.com

The Learning Project Open Houses November 9, 2017 @ 4:00 pm. 107 Marlborough St www.learningproject.org Park Street School/Park Street Kids Open House November 14, 2017 @ 9:00 am. 67 Brimmer St www.parkstreetschool.org

BRAINTREE Thayer Academy Middle School Open House. November 4, 2017 @ 9:30 am. 745 Washington St www.thayer.org

CAMBRIDGE Cambridge Friends School Open House November 4, 2017 @ 1:30 pm. Middle School Open House. November 7, 2017 @ 9:00 am. 5 Cadbury Rd www.cfsmass.org International School of Boston Middle and Upper School Information Night November 18, 2017 @ 10:00 am. 45 Matignon Rd www.isbos.org Fayerweather Street School Fall Open House November 18, 2017 @ 1:00 pm. 765 Concord Ave www.fayerweather.org

DEDHAM The Rashi School Information Session. November 19, 2017 @ 10:45 am. 8000 Great Meadow Rd www.rashi.org

FITCHBURG Applewild School Open House November 5, 2017 @ 1:00 pm. 120 Prospect St www.applewild.org

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MILTON Thacher Montessori School Open House November 18, 2017 @ 10:30 am. 1425 Blue Hill Avenue www.thacherschool.org

NATICK Riverbend Admissions Open Houses (See website for times) November 4, 2017 33 Eliot St www.riverbendschool.org

SOUTHBOROUGH Fay School Admission Open Houses November 5, 2017 @ 1:00 pm 23 Middle Rd www.fayschool.org

TYNGSBOROUGH Academy of Notre Dame Upper School Open Houses November 5, 2017 @ 11:00 am 180 Middlesex Rd www.ndatyngsboro.org

WATERTOWN Atrium School Open House November 17, 2017 @ 9:00 am. 69 Grove St www.atrium.org

WESTON The Meadowbrook School of Weston Open House December 5, 2017 @ 9:00 am. 10 Farm Rd www.meadowbrook-ma.org

WINCHESTER Acera School Open House December 2, 2017 @ 10:00 am. 5 Lowell Ave www.aceraschool.org

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Veterans Day Various times, Old Sturbridge Village, 1 Old Sturbridge Village Road, Sturbridge. Celebrate the nation’s military history – see musket balls cast, drill with the Village militia and more. Free with admission; veterans free. 800-733-1830; osv.org

Honor, Courage, Commitment: A Sailor’s Life & Legacy 9am – 6pm, USS Constitution Museum, Charlestown Navy Yard, Charlestown. Learn about the daily struggles on board “Old Ironsides” during the War of 1812. Through Nov. 12. By donation; veterans free. 617-4261812; ussconstitutionmuseum.org

12 Sunday Attack of the Space Invaders 10:30am – 12pm, Boston Nature Center, 500 Walk Hill Street, Mattapan. Join us for a scavenger hunt where we will identify some urban “space invaders” like Japanese knotweed and bittersweet. Unravel the clues as to how

SCHOOLS AND CHILDCARE CENTERS

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4pm, Mechanics Hall, 321 Main St., Worcester. The Worcester Chorus, Salisbury Singers, Master Singers, Sounds of Stow and Worcester Children’s Chorus perform a one-of-a-kind collaboration. Adults, $35 and up; youth, $25. 508-752-0888; mechanicshall.org

14 Tuesday Toddler Tuesdays 10am – 2pm, LEGOLAND Discovery Center, 598 Assembly Row, Somerville. A day for the little ones, featuring

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Sat., Nov. 11 • Veterans Day Fee Free Day, National Parks, Forests and Wildlife Refuges nationwide. Pictured, the National Park Service Visitor Center

Peek a Blue Hike 11am, Houghton’s Pond, 840 Hillside St., Milton. Join the Friends of the Blue Hills for their bi-weekly baby and toddler hiking series. Snacks and drinks provided. FREE. 781-828-1805; friendsofthebluehills.org/peekablue

17 Friday America’s Hometown Thanksgiving Celebration Various times and locations, Plymouth. A weekendlong celebration of our nation’s history with a Saturday parade, food festival, live music and more. Through Nov. 19. FREE. usathanksgiving.com

Opening: Christmas Festival of Lights Edaville USA, 5 Pine St., Carver. Over 17 million lights illuminate the park. Ticket includes rides and Thomas Land. $32-37. 508-866-8190; edaville.com

How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying 7pm, Mosesian Center for the Arts, MainStage Theater, 321 Arsenal St., Watertown. Join the cast of this riotous satire as they explore the absurd characters and toe tapping tunes of this “Big Business” musical. Featuring actors in grades 6-12. $15. Varying showtimes through Nov. 19. 800-838-3006; watertownchildrenstheatre.org

CLASSES AND ENRICHMENT

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Holiday Shopping Expo 10am – 4pm, Quincy High School, 100 Coddington St., Quincy. Shop the vendors, decorate holiday cookies and meet Santa. Adults, $3; youth, free. 617-471-1771.

10:30am, Regent Theatre, 7 Medford St., Arlington. A musical adventure exploring themes of kindness, friendship and fun. Bring a nonperishable food donation. Adults, $10; youth, $8. 781-646-4849; regenttheatre.com

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10:30am, BSA Space, 290 Congress St., Boston. Explore Boston’s bridges in this hands on family workshop about architecture and design. Registration recommended. $10. 617-391-4023; lbdma.org

The Stacey Peasley Band 10:30am, Amazing Things Arts Center, 160 Hollis St., Framingham. Stacey Peasley creates fun and memorable children’s music. Adults, $8; youth, $5. 508405-2787; amazingthings.org

Thanksgiving Treats & Tales 4pm, Governor Hutchinson’s Field, Adams Street, Milton. Gather around the campfire for treats and stories of Native American history. Adults, $10; youth, free. 617-5427696; ttor.org

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10:30am, Coolidge Corner Theatre, 290 Harvard St., Brookline. Trien and The Monkeys return for their highly anticipated annual show! Adults, $13; youth, $10. 617734-2501; coolidge.org

8am, Endicott Estate, 656 East St., Dedham. Proceeds from race benefit the Dedham Food Pantry and Ripples of Hope. Activities for all ages, including a half-mile kids run. Adults, $25; youth, free. active.com

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8pm, Faneuil Hall, Boston. Enjoy performances by Livingston Taylor, the Boston Children’s Chorus, Boston Ballet’s Nutcracker, Blue Man Group and more. FREE. faneuilhallmarketplace.com

9am, Franklin Park Golf Clubhouse, 1 Circuit Drive, Dorchester. Work off those calories before dinner! Families welcome to walk, run or cheer. Prizes for best costume. Adults, $25 and up; youth, $10 and up. 617442-4141; franklinparkcoalition.org

20 Monday Opening: Blink! A Light and Sound Extravaganza 4:30-9:30pm, Faneuil Hall, Boston. Watch as more than 350,000 lights dance to the beat of music from the world famous Holiday Pops. Through Jan. 1. FREE. bostonblinks.com

22 Wednesday Opening: Family Trees – A Celebration of Children’s Literature 9am – 5pm, Concord Museum, 200 Lexington Road, Concord. Admire holidays trees decorated with inspiration from children’s literature. Through Jan. 2. Adults, $15; youth, $6. 978-369-9763; concordmuseum. org

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24 Friday Giving Thanks for Nature 10am – 1pm, Drumlin Farm Wildlife Sanctuary, 208 S Great Road, Lincoln. Spend your Black Friday away from the malls and outside in nature! Take a walk through the sanctuary as local artists give trailside performances, then contribute your own expressions of thanks with family-friendly crafts and activities. FREE. 781-259-2200; massaudubon.org

Thanksgiving Weekend Crafts 11am – 3pm, Concord Museum, 200 Lexington Road, Concord. Get crafty with special projects related to the children’s books featured in Family Trees: A Celebration of Children’s Literature. Through Nov. 25. Free with Family Trees admission. 978-369-9763; concordmuseum.org

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the Tanglewood Marionettes. Reservations required. FREE. 617-514-1644; jfklibrary.org. Winter Backyard Birding, 10:30am, Boston Nature Center, 500 Walk Hill St., Mattapan. Learn to use binoculars, go on a bird hike and create some seed and fruit art for the birds to enjoy. Registration required. Youth, $7. 617-983-8500; massaudubon.org.

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Matias Latelier, 10:30am, Regent Theatre, 7 Medford St., Arlington. An hour of magic and surprises from a Chilean magician and mentalist. Adults, $10; youth, $8. 781-646-4849; regenttheatre.com. 20 years ... 250,000 Kids ...

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and tales around the campfire.Call Adults, $10;588-6096 youth, free. (508) 781-740-7233; ttor.org. www.youarethestardj.com Family Owl Prowl, 7pm, Blue Hills Trailside Museum, Opening: ZooLights 1904 Canton Ave., Milton. Practice owl calls and meet

5-9pm,some Stone 149 Pond St., Stoneham. Strollon along of Zoo, the museum’s resident owls before going a tree-lined litsearch by thousands of twinkling lights,$10. nightpaths hike to for them. Registration required. visit Santa and a reindeer. Through Jan. 1. $8 and up. 617-983-8500; massaudon.org. 781-438-5100; stonezoo.org Stargazing: Jewels of the Night, 7pm, North River Wildlife Sanctuary, 2000 Main St., Marshfield. Join

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remember exactly where I was when I realized I needed some professional help processing my divorce. I was standing at the back door of my house, looking out over the garden I loved. I usually spent countless hours weeding and cultivating plants I’d carefully select each spring. I knew there was something I should be doing out there, but I didn’t know what or how or where to begin. It was a watershed moment. I realized that not only was I stuck—glued to that spot physically—but I was not moving forward emotionally. I had been divorced for a couple of years at that time, and I was not making any progress in building a new life for myself or my children. On a previous day, I’d run into a friend at CVS, and when she asked me how I was, I burst into tears. She responded by saying, “I can’t believe you’re not over this yet.” I was 42 when we began divorce proceedings. Interestingly, my mother was 48 when my father died. After an appropriate period of mourning, she sold the house, traveled abroad and even remarried (although that did not last long.) Two years after my husband moved out, I had not even taken down his picture or put away the few things he left behind. I needed help. First I called the pastor of the church we attended. He knew both my ex-husband and me. His counsel was wise, but ineffective. He ended our conversation by saying, “You need to take some of the blame for what happened.” Those were words I did not want to hear.

Seeking Help I found Dori Rhodes, LMFT, a therapist in private practice in Lexington, Massachusetts, through another friend who was seeing her weekly. I was not about to open my heart and my life to someone I knew nothing about. The referral from the treasured friend was an important first step for me. I was fortunate that Dori had time in her schedule to take another patient. Is that what you are when you see an LMFT? To me, Dori was a professional friend. Her easygoing manner and welcoming demeanor put me at ease right away; that and the soft, comfortable couch I sat on in her homey office.

Is There a Cure for This? I had never been in therapy before and did not know what to expect. I knew that unlike a medical doctor’s prescription of an antibiotic for an infection, therapy would not cure me. “A therapist provides a safe place to share

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emotions with confidentiality, so that one isn’t worried that it will be shared or leaked to someone else,” explains Dori. I wasn’t too worried about that. I’m pretty much an open book when it comes to how I feel, but when Dori says, “When one is overwhelmed with grief, depression and anxiety, one may have a loss of functioning. Grief consumes so much energy,” I recognize myself, and I understand how effective therapy might be for me. From the moment we began, the tears flowed. Dori told me I needed to mourn the end of my marriage: “It’s one of the early steps in recovery, because the end of a marriage is a death.” I cried through several sessions. How long was this recovery going to take? “Time for recovery is different for each person,” says Dori. “Recovery that is too quick may be a sign that someone hasn’t processed their grief. If so, pain and hurt may just be submerged. The person may be seeking a quick fix without taking time to process the emotion of grief and the lessons learned.” I was so sad that Dori decided an antidepressant might be a good option for me. “Some people find ways to care for themselves, like reading a helpful book, taking a retreat, journaling or joining a support group. A therapist is able to process whether a person may be in need of an antidepressant or antianxiety medication that might be helpful,” Dori says. The antidepressant, Celexa, was not an instant remedy. In fact, I did not feel that much different when I took it. It did cause me to lose some weight, and that boosted my self-esteem, but I know that wasn’t the purpose of the prescription.

Getting Unstuck I visited Dori every other week for 18 months. During that time, I stopped crying. I set some goals for myself, and I weaned myself off the Celexa. I still have days when I am sad and still grieve the end of my marriage. I even have days when I am still stuck. Dori explains, “Usually, within a year, we would hope for some hope to begin to emerge.” I feel stronger than I did before. As I look back over the past few years, I see that I have made some movement. I sold my house, moved across the country and took a new job. Some days are better than others, but now I can look back and see that finding Dori was how I got unstuck. Susan Solomon Yem is singleminded about raising her five children to adulthood. She’d like to hear your stories about single parenting. Contact her at susansyem@gmail. com

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