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Publishers Robert and Tracy McKean Art Director Debbi Murzyn Account Managers Carol Flores, Sophie Archer Contributors Aaron Crowe, Tony Hicks, Sarah Lyons, Eirka Mailman, Haley Reen, Rona Renner, Mary Ann Scheuer, Susan Solomen Yen Advertising Sales & General Info sales@parentspress.com Mailing Address 875-A Island Dr, Ste 421 Alameda, CA 94502

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Departments 3 On the Go

9 Family Cents

Christmas Tree Hunt

529 Plans for Grandchildren

4 Bookshelf

10 Singleminded

Time Traveling

11 Family Matters

5 Kid’s Culture

Reverse Assimulation

Great Dicken’s Faire

12 Family Fun Calendar 16 Great Skating Venues 18 Santa Train Rides

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On the Go Choose Your Perfect Christmas Tree

hat aroma that fills the house . . . a Christmas tree is as pleasing to the senses as a mug of hot cocoa or the sticky peppermint candy cane residue on your fingers. Here’s where to get your tree, with a few opportunities to support worthy organizations that make you feel like you’re giving more than just to your family. Make sure to check websites before leaving the house for hours and information (such as, do you need to bring your own saw and rope, do you need to bring cash, etc.). Plus, many sites offer a coupon that’s worth printing out.

WONDERLAND TREES in Alameda and Emeryville is a family-run endeavor that began in Oakland’s Temescal District in 2008. http://www.wonderlandtrees.com

BLACK ROAD CHRISTMAS TREE FARMS in Los Gatos involves three different locations connected by a scenic drive, with 40,000 trees to choose from. Like many of the farms on this list, Black Road has been operating for decades, starting in 1966. http://christmas-tree-farms.com/

DELANCEY STREET has been offering trees and decorations for over three decades. It’s part of the extraordinary mission that gives a place to live and job training to those working to get their lives back on track: ex-convicts, former substance abusers and homeless people. Buying a tree through Delancey Street supports the foundation in its important work. There are six tree lots in San Francisco and three in the East Bay (El Cerrito, Berkeley and Oakland). Visit www.delanceytrees.org for more details.

The GUARDSMEN CHRISTMAS TREE LOT in the Festival Pavilion at Fort Mason is another tradition that helps the community, in particular at-risk youth in the Bay Area. This lot has

been running for over 60 years and is entirely volunteer-run. Visit treelotsf.org/ for more.

At SANTA’S TREE FARM AND VILLAGE in Half Moon Bay, you can cut your own across the 487-acre lot. Visiting is an experience; each tree sale includes cider, candy canes and a few moments with Santa. Weekends through Dec. 17 offer even more: train rides, Mrs. Claus’s kitchen and a gift shop. www.santastreefarm.com/

CLAYTON VALLEY FARMS in Clayton lets you make an afternoon of it, with train rides, play areas and much more. http://www.cvpumpkinfarm.com/ christmas-trees

Cut your own at BATTAGLIA RANCH CHRISTMAS TREE FARM — celebrating 50 years this year! Located in San Martin (south of San Jose), it’s a drive for sure, but merge this with a visit to Gilroy Gardens decked out for the holidays, and your children will revere you forever. The ranch offers a 10-minute narrated train ride and, even better, a “reindeer” ride, pictures with Santa and all the good stuff. http://www.battagliaranch.com/ www.gilroygardens.org

Maybe you find all the extras a headache and just want to cut your tree without carols blasting and elves dogging your footsteps. Try the CASTRO VALLEY CHRISTMAS TREE FARM, opened in 1969 to sell trees planted by a UC Berkeley Forestry professor and his wife. It has changed hands since then but still provides a wholesome, woodsy experience. http://www.cvchristmastreefarm.com/

Once you get your tree home, immediately put it in water (or make a fresh cut if you can’t get it into water right away) and keep its water dish replenished daily. It’s amazing how much water a tree drinks. Besides reducing fire hazard, keeping the tree watered lets its greenery stay lush throughout the holiday season and keeps those needles on the tree and not your floor. A final note: get your tree early. Trees may sell at premium prices this year due to high demand and reduced supply from the main providers, Oregon and North Carolina. Reach Erika at erikamailman.com

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By Mary Ann Scheuer

Bookshelf Traveling Back in Time with Historical Fiction

t is hard to imagine living in a time without cell phones, much less electricity! Can textbooks really describe this for our kids? Historical fiction can bring a different place and time to life and help us imagine being right there. Often these stories help young readers understand the larger context as well as the personal struggles of ordinary people living through challenging times.

PICTURE BOOKS

Coolies by Yin, illustrations by Chris Soentpiet (Puffin; ages 6-10; $7.97; 40 pp.). A grandmother tells her greatgrandfather’s story as he traveled from China to California in 1865 to work on the transcontinental railroad. Yin transforms the term Coolie by showing the courage and integrity of Chinese American immigrants with this powerful, dramatic story.

Almost to Freedom by Vaunda Micheaux Nelson (Carolrhoda; ages 6-10; $17.99; 40 pp.). This compelling story about a family’s escape from slavery on the Underground Railroad is told through the point of view of young Lindy’s rag doll. Nelson creates an accessible, immediate story that conveys the experience of a young child without overwhelming young readers.

Freedom over Me: Eleven Slaves, Their Lives and Dreams Brought to Life by Ashley Bryan (Atheneum / Simon & Schuster; ages 6-10; $17.99; 56 pp.). Ashley Bryan created this stunning portrait of the personal lives of 11 enslaved people from an 1828 estate sale document. He gives them names, African cultures, talents and dreams, juxtaposing universal human desires with the cruel condition of slavery. A Place Where Sunflowers Grow by Amy Lee-Tai, illustrated by Felicia Hoshino (Children’s Book Press; ages 6-10; $9.95; 32 pp.). Mari and her family have been forced to leave their home and are detained in Utah’s Topaz Relocation Center during World War II. Mari finds patience, courage and persistence in drawing and gardening, despite the bleak conditions. A touching picture book, with both English and Japanese text, based on the author’s family stories.

MIDDLE GRADE NOVELS

Echo by Pam Muñoz Ryan (Scholastic; ages 9-12; $19.99; 587 pp.). Pam Muñoz Ryan captivates readers with this multilayered story of three children caught in the tumult of World War II. Themes of hope, resilience and inspiration echo (yes, pun intended) throughout three different characters’ separate stories, set in Germany, Pennsylvania and California in the 1930s and 1940s.

FAMILY FUN

Chasing Secrets by Gennifer Choldenko (Wendy Lamb / Random House; ages 9-12; $7.99; 288 pp.). Turnof-the-century San Francisco comes to life for young readers as 13-yearold Lizzie Kennedy accompanies her father on medical house calls; forms a friendship with the son of Jing, her family’s beloved cook; and grapples with the injustices that exist with gender, class and race. Local author Choldenko creates a tender and gripping story of friendship, mystery and persistence.

reading Darwin’s controversial On the Origin of Species. But in 1899 Texas, all around her expect young girls to learn to sew, run a household and attract a future husband. The Red Pencil by Andrea Davis Pinkney, with illustrations by Shane Evans (Little, Brown; ages 9-12; $8.52, 308 pp.). Life is hard for Amira on her family farm in Darfur, Sudan, with scarce food, distant water and many chores, and she dreams of school. A sudden attack by the Sudanese militia disrupts everything, causing Amira and her family to flee for their lives to a refugee camp. Pinkney’s spare evocative verse creates space for young readers to share Amira’s hardship and eventual hope.

YOUNG ADULT NOVELS

Dragon’s Child: A Story of Angel Island by Laurence Yep and Dr. Kathleen S. Yep (Harper; ages 8-12; $5.99; 160 pp.). Prolific author Laurence Yep collaborates with his niece to tell the story of his father’s journey to America at age 10 from rural China, drawing on family stories, immigration records and historical research from the archives at Angel Island.

Between Shades of Gray by Ruta Sepetys (Speak / Penguin; ages 12-18; $9.97; 384 pp.). After the Russian invasion of Lithuania in 1939, the Soviet secret police deported countless numbers of people considered anti-Soviet, sending them to exile in Siberian work camps. When teenager Lina and her family are arrested, they are crammed into a boxcar and begin a horrific journey to a frigid gulag. This story reached into my soul, and I find myself continuing to think about it for many years.

The Evolution of Calpurnia Tate by Jacqueline Kelly (Henry Holt; ages 9-12; $7.55; 352 pp.). A natural-born scientist, 11-year-old Calpurnia would like to spend time examining insects, getting to know her scientist grandfather or The Other Side of Truth by Beverley Naidoo (Harper; ages 10-16; $6.98; 272 pp.). Sade and her younger brother must flee Nigeria after their mother is killed in a shooting meant to target their journalist father. Naidoo presents this traumatic story with political insight and emotional sensitivity, depicting the difficulties the children face immigrating to London, locating their uncle and finding their father. Refugee by Alan Gratz (Scholastic; ages 10-15; $16.99; 352 pp.). Gratz weaves together three interrelated stories centering on families that have been forced to flee because of war, violence and political turmoil. Josef escapes Nazi Germany in 1938, Isabel leaves 1994 Cuba because of political strife, and Mahmoud flees from 2015 Aleppo because his home was destroyed. Filled with tragedy and resilience, these powerful stories will help young readers understand both the larger context and the personal stories of today’s refugee crisis. Mary Ann Scheuer is a teacher librarian. Find more books Mary Ann recommends sharing with children at her blog, Great Kid Books, http://greatkidbooks.blogspot.com.

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By Haley Reen

Kid’s Culture Celebrate the Magic

PHOTO BY RAYMOND VAN TASSEL; COURTESY OF DICKENS FAIRE

Great Dickens Christmas Faire and Victorian Holiday Party

s soon as Thanksgiving leftovers have been stored in the fridge, it’s time to get ready for Christmas. You could wait outside a major chain store to get the best deals on electronics, or you could use the time off work to celebrate the magic of the season at the Great Dickens Christmas Fair and Victorian Holiday Party at the Cow Palace in San Francisco (http://www. dickensfair.com/). It opens the Friday after Turkey Day and runs each weekend until the Sunday before Christmas. Each

weekend gets progressively busier, so go early. Now is the time to check your favorite local coupon websites and the pink pages in the SF Chronicle for a coupon to get in! After working at the fair for many years, I can assure you it is well worth it, and the children will love it. The Great Dickens Christmas Fair is a fun, historical recreation, taking place in the Victorian era. You will be transported into a wonderland of 19th-century London, with iron lamp posts, “snow” on the ground and holiday decorations festooning each shop, and

you may spot many famous characters from the novels of Charles Dickens, such as Mr. Scrooge, Jacob Marley, Nicholas Nickleby, the Cratchit Family and Father Christmas (AKA Santa!), and various angels, dancing toys and comical street urchins singing badly botched carols. The Dickens Fair has something for everyone. Shop for artisanal and handmade goods, catch a hilarious play or bawdy cabaret, have hot cider with a little kick or enjoy a full tea with tiny sandwiches, scones and clotted cream or lemon curd. There are bangers and mash, meat pies and sumptuous foods on sticks. But a word to the wise: right around lunchtime the lines for food can be quite long, so, if you have impatient little ones, bring a picnic, which is permitted. Or tag team with your spouse: one of you can wait in line, and the other can take the kids to one of the many activities or shows offered until lunch is served. So what is there for kids to do? So much! Begin at Fezziwigs, where in the children’s area you can play parlor games, such as Poor Pussy, Follow the Leader, Minister’s Cat, Mops and Brooms and Do You Love Your Neighbor. There are also some other games to play in other areas of the fair, such as Boot the Cat and Flip the Sweep. There is a safari carousel, a Marvelous Candy Machine, a painting garden, a fairy-house-building booth and a hairbraiding booth, where children can have their hair woven into lovely festive holiday braids. Your children might enjoy a photo with Father Christmas at the Father Christmas stage. If pictures with Santa aren’t in the cards, then stay near the stage area and see a show! There is a toy parade and story time. Be entertained and delighted with the stories of “The Bold Tailor” or “Alice

in Wonderland’s Croquet with the Red Queen.” Mother Goose tales are told, and there is also a puppet show of Punch and Judy that might just make your school-age kids think twice about being naughty! There are other fun things to do, such as coin pressing, sending telegrams, taking an “old timey” Victorian portrait in borrowed costumes and shopping for ornaments. The smell of the roasting cinnamon nuts might make you crazy, and sharing a cone of the warm treat is highly recommended. Merchant booths offer handcrafted goods, everything from handmade soaps and pottery to leather, jewelry, antique books, dried floral wreaths, clothing, accessories and children’s toys. Here are just a few pro tips before you head over there: • Make use of the coat check to store your treasures or your lunch while you enjoy your visit. • Plan to pay cash for parking. • Bring your reusable shopping totes; not many merchants offer a bag with purchase. • Bring snacks and water bottles for hungry, tired kids. • If you can, leave the stroller at home and bring the baby wrap instead. Hoop skirts and stroller wheels don’t mix! • Kids are not allowed to view the French Postcards show—it is 18 and over! The Mad Sal’s stage is not adults only, but it is an adult atmosphere. It truly is a magical fair, and it’s hard to remember that it’s 2017 in San Francisco and not 1880 London while you’re there. Enjoy! Haley Reen is an East Bay-based freelance writer

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Here are some top picks for the Nutcracker this holiday season:

Berkeley Ballet Theater Presents: The Nutcracker – OAKLAND

For more than thirty years, BBT’s The Nutcracker has been a community favorite. Called “More touching than San Francisco Ballet’s performance” by New York Times dance critic Alastair MacCaulay, BBT’s version of the ballet’s storyline is an extension of the school’s commitment to bringing good things to those less fortunate.

Theater at Holy Names University, 3500 Mountain Blvd., Oakland. 510-843-4687, www.berkeleyballet.org.

16-17, 1pm & 5pm. Smith Center Ohlone College, 43600 Mission Blvd. Fremont 510659-6031, www.berkeleycityballet.org.

Berkeley City Ballet Presents The Nutcracker– FREMONT

Oakland Ballet Company Presents Graham Lustig’s “The Nutcracker”

Every year the Berkeley City Ballet stages an elaborate production of the Nutcracker. The BCB Nutcracker features a cast of over 40 dancers with elegant costumes and sets. Dancers from area professional companies augment the cast. Berkeley City Ballets Nutcracker has an outstanding reputation as one of the few traditional, full-length, productions of the holiday favorite in the East Bay.

Tickets $35 Friday, December 15 – 7PM Saturday, December 16 – 11AM*, 3PM, 7PM Sunday , December 17 – 11AM*, 3PM *Performances include post-show Sugar Plum Fairy Parties where audience members are welcomed onstage to meet the dancers (separate admission required). Regents’

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OAKLAND Oakland Ballet Company’s spritely and colorful version of this holiday classic is a holiday tradition that is fun for then entire family. Brimming with holiday magic, this is the Nutcracker to see!. With live music by the Oakland Symphony.

$23-90 for adults with discounts for Seniors, children, and groups. Showings Saturday December 23 at 1:00 pm and 5:00 pm; December 24 at 1:00 pm. Paramount

Theatre, 2025 Broadway, Oakland. 510-8933132, www.oaklandballet.org.

Dance-Along Nutcracker®: Nutcrackers of the Caribbean! SAN FRANCISCO The 32nd Dance-Along Nutcracker®: Nutcrackers of the Caribbean! Adventure awaits out on the high seas, as Clara and Fritz set sail with Captain Drosselmeyer on the hunt for the longlost treasure of Peg-Legs Tchaikovsky! But keep a weather eye, there be others seekin’ to claim that bounty for their own! Each year, the SFLGFB selects a theme to blend with Tchaikovsky’s classic Nutcracker Suite. The result: a fun-filled musical production

Mark Foehringer’s “Nutcracker Sweets” – SAN FRANCISCO

SAN FRANCISCO BALLET

This 50-minute condensed version of the classic ballet is perfect for tiny and squirmy ballet lovers. The cast and crew will meet, greet and pose for pictures after the show, so bring a camera!

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Tickets from $20.50. Shows from Dec. 9-23. Cowell Theater at Fort Mason Center. www.nutcrackersweets.org.

brimming with wit, artistry and ingenuity. Throughout the show, a large flashing “Dance-Along” sign signals the audience to tug their tutus on and pour onto the dance floor to pirouette beneath the spotlights with the cast. Even landlubbers who don’t want to dance have a blast!

Marin Ballet’s Nutcracker SAN RAFAEL This is a pretty epic performance with 175 super-talented dancers shipped in from all over the state and country. There’s a special Candy Cane party after the 1p.m. Saturday and Sunday shows.

Dec. 9 and 10. Showtimes at 1 p.m. and 5 p.m. $44 for adults. All ages. Marin Veterans Memorial Auditorium, 10 Avenue Of The Flags, San Rafael. 415-453-6705, www. marinballet.org.

Stapleton Ballet Nutcracker

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SAN RAFAEL The vibrant, lavish Stapleton Ballet Nutcracker provides a magical start to the holiday season! Now in its 29th year, this production features inspired dancing, beautifully crafted sets and exquisite costumes. Artistic Director Virginia Stapleton’s engaging production is designed to delight audiences young and old and features guest artists performing with over 250 dancers from the Stapleton School of Performing Arts. Complimentary meet and greet with costumed characters after 1:00 p.m. matinees.

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1 and 5 p.m. Dec. 2 and 3. Marin Center, 10 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael. 415454-5759 (Box Office: 415-473-6800). www.stapletonschool.org.

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OAKLAND BALLET COMPANY

$18 for children, students & seniors. $30 for adults. Saturday, December 9th at 3pm and 7pm; Sunday, December 10th at 11am and 3pm. Yerba Buena Center For The Arts Forum, 701 Mission St., San Francisco. 415978-2787, www.sflgfb.townalive.com.

Ages 2 and up Free boys ballet Jazz Dance camps Birthday parties 4 state-of-the-art studios Sprung floors Easy parking Easy online registration and payment

San Francisco Ballet’s Nutcracker SAN FRANCISCO This is the classic, real-deal. Dress up and arrive an hour prior to curtain for photo ops with the cast. PHOTO BY DAVID DESILVA

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Dance-Along Nutcracker

The Dance-Along Nutcracker® combines the classic music from Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker Suite with a fun-filled live musical pirate-themed adventure! Throughout the show, the audience is invited to get up and “Dance Along” to the Nutcracker ballet! It’s a fun and educational way to experience live classical music as a family this holiday!

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Other Holiday Events

Tickets priced $20-$60 with discounts for patrons under 25. December 8-10 & 1517 Fridays at 8pm, Saturdays & Sundays 1pm & 5pm. Scottish Rite Theater 1547 Lakeside Dr, Oakland. californiarevels.org

If families are in the mood for something other than the Nutcracker, here are some other options for holiday performances around the Bay:

Enchanted Winter Faire

Here are some top picks for the Nutcracker this holiday season:

BERKELEY

Enchanted Winter Faire presented by Berkeley Rose School. Join us for a magical afternoon of storytelling, crafts, children’s games, holiday shopping, and live music! Appropriate for children of all ages.

Free. Dec. 9 12pm - 4pm. Berkeley Rose School 2515 Hillegass Ave Berkeley. berkeleyrose.org

The 32st Annual Christmas Revels: Scottish Celebration of the Solstice OAKLAND

With the skirling of pipes and the swirling of kilts, the Christmas Revels celebrates the turning of the year in Scottish style. Join us this December in the land of Robbie Burns as we pass the shortest day in song, dance, and spirited folk tales. Be there for haggis and Hogmanay, first-footing, wool-waulking, mouth music, and even Guising! Of course the Lord of the Dance will welcome you, and the Abbots Bromley Antler Dance will cast its mysterious spell.

Craneway Crafts Fair benefit for KPFA Public Radio

Marin Dance Theatre’s “Sophie and The Enchanted Toyshop”

Celebrate creativity and community at the Craneway Crafts Fair…a benefit for KPFA Public Radio on December 16th & 17th at the Craneway Pavilion. The Fair showcases affordable contemporary art and original crafts exhibited by 200 artists, and presents handmade Fair Trade goods from indigenous communities around the world.

Marin Dance Theatre brightens the holiday season once again with its magical holiday performance, “Sophie & the Enchanted Toyshop.” Returning by popular demand for the 20th year, the beloved ballet has been seen by thousands of children and families who have made it a cherished holiday tradition. Over 100 children ages 4-preprofessional perform in the wonderful ballet. December 16th at 1pm and 5:30pm. Marin Center, 10 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael. 415-499-8891 (Box Office: 415-473-6800). www.mdt.orgafter 1:00 p.m. matinees.

RICHMOND

Admission is $12 (ages 18-64) Senior and Disabled $8, Youth are Free. Craneway Pavilion 1414 Harbour Way, So. Richmond. cranewaycraftsfair.com

Berkeley Artisans Holiday Open Studios

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1 and 5 p.m. Dec. 3 and 4. Marin Center, 10 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael. 415454-5759 (Box Office: 415-473-6800). www.stapletonschool.org.

BERKELEY

Over 100 handpicked artists and craftspeople at studios, workshops and galleries in Berkeley, California will open their doors to the public during the 27th annual Berkeley Artisans Holiday Open Studios.

Free. Saturdays and Sundays 11-6 p.m. Weekends, Nov. 25-26 & Dec.2-3, 9-10, 16-17 (plus weekdays, Dec. 18-24). Various locations in Berkeley 2547 Eighth Street #24a Berkeley. www.berkeleyartisans.com

Oakland Youth Chorus’s 43rd Annual Holiday Concert OAKLAND

Join the award-winning singers of the Oakland Youth Chorus in a celebration of the songs, traditions, and diverse cultures that honor and create community. Sing with us as we raise our voices together to empower others and create harmony.

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Family Cents Want to be great grandparent? Load 529 plan with gift tax exemption

randparents and other relatives wanting to be remembered for their generosity have a better option than pushing a few bucks in a kid’s hand a few times a year — putting up to $14,000 tax free into a 529 college savings plan annually. Because 529 plan contributions are considered gifts by the IRS, the gift tax exclusion is a way for grandparents to avoid estate taxes, lower the value of their estates and contribute to a grandchild’s education. The federal income tax advantages will only grow for the child and their parents. Money in a 529 plan grows tax free and is withdrawn without paying taxes when used for college or grad school expenses. A 529 account can grow much more than a taxable savings account. A 529 can also be front-loaded, with up to five years of gifts that can be contributed when opening an account. Each person can give up to $14,000 each year to any number of people without facing a gift tax. A married couple could give away $28,000 and could front-load it five times for a total initial contribution of $140,000 per child. That’s a heck of a start to saving for college.

Grandparents and other relatives can also get in on front-loading a 529 plan. Instead of giving $14,000 per year, they can give five years’ worth of contributions at once — $70,000. They can’t contribute more for another four years, however.

Advantages of 529s Called 529 plans because that’s the section of the IRS code they’re authorized by, 529s are legally knows as “qualified tuition plans.” The savings plans are sponsored by a state or state agency, and the money must be used for higher education expenses. These include room and board, tuition, books, computers and other college costs. If a 529 account is in a parent’s name with the child as beneficiary, the parent has control over withdrawing the money. The money can be used at any college your child chooses. If the child doesn’t go to college, the beneficiary can be changed to another family member, such as a sibling or cousin, or even to the parent if they want to go to college.

If the money isn’t used for eligible expenses, it will be taxed as your ordinary income tax rate, along with a 10 percent penalty on the earnings. T. Rowe Price offers the example of contributing $5,000 to a 529 and having it earn $2,000, for a balance of $7,000. If you withdraw all $7,000, only the $2,000 in earnings is taxed and the 10 percent penalty is paid on the earnings. Assuming you’re in a 25 percent tax bracket, you’d pay 25 percent, along with 10 percent of the $2,000 in taxes and penalties of $700, leaving you with $6,300 to spend. Plans vary by state, but most 529 plans work like mutual funds. Your money is invested in stocks and bonds with the hope that it will grow faster than a savings account. You should research any 529 plan before joining, making sure you’re comfortable with the investments and can set your risk level, such as from conservative to aggressive. Look up the plan’s recent performance. To make the most of a 529, contribute to it regularly through automatic investments that are withdrawn each month from your checking or savings account.

A plan for the grandparent who wants control Since a 529 plan is usually set up by a parent, the parent controls when the money is withdrawn for college expenses. Grandparents who want more control over their college donations, however, can set up a separate 529 account for a grandchild. There are no limitations to how many 529 accounts someone can have, though there is a limit of how much can be contributed per child of about $250,000 in most states. Setting up multiple 529 accounts could lead to some tax confusion. Some states give tax benefits only to the account owner, while others give them to the account owner and the contributor. Putting $14,000 into a 529 plan each year for a grandchild is an extremely generous way to get in the good graces of a grandchild and their parents. It’s said that money can’t buy love, but the gift of a college education should be worth a lot of extra hugs and kisses. Aaron Crowe is a freelance journalist in the Bay Area who has worked as a newspaper editor and reporter. He now writes for websites, specializing in personal finance writing.

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By Susan Solomon Yem

Single Minded Reverse Assimulation

met my ex-husband when I was assigned to supervise the translation of a film into Khmer, the language of Cambodia. It was 1979, and the United States had just begun to accept Cambodian refugees for resettlement. He was one of the first to arrive. In the ignorance of my youthful selfabsorption, all I knew about Cambodia was its location in Southeast Asia. Through my work on this project, I learned a lot, and I met many newly arrived refugees. My interest in the success of their resettlement and their desire to learn more about America changed my life. I began spending my weekends commuting 90 minutes from my home to Long Beach, California, the largest Cambodian community in the United States, to minister to these people. I truly believed this was my life’s calling. My ex-husband was also helping the new arrivals. In fact, our weekends were usually spent together. We stayed in a house overflowing with men, women and children. We all shared meals, played games and taught each other our languages. This side-by-side work burgeoned into a romance, and 10 months after we met, we married. I used to tease him that I thought East meets West meant a New Yorker (me) getting together with a Californian. I would never have imagined that my

East meets West would have included marrying someone from halfway around the world.

My Cross-Cultural Education Living with the Cambodian refugees was an education in a culture I was soon to adopt as my own. I learned some rudimentary language. (My first Khmer words translated to I like Cambodian food.) I learned how men and women relate to each other — women rule! And I discovered a lot about the horrendous experiences of living under the Khmer Rouge. I truly loved these people and this culture. Shortly after our wedding, we moved from Southern California to Boston to help settle the latest wave of refugees. We rented a five-bedroom house in Revere. Soon every room was occupied by families fresh off the boat. English was a language seldom heard in our household. For me this was cultural immersion, even though I never left the country. My oldest son was born during this time. Here were two other families in the house, and both had baby boys the same age as mine. One of the families included a grandfather who enjoyed keeping an eye on all three boys. We were living in community, and, even though my skin was a different color, I felt a kinship to these housemates.

Marrying a Culture

Losing Our Cultural Identity

Cross-cultural marriage is challenging and often unsuccessful. It is not just that you have no common background. For some, like us, our cultures united because there had been a trauma that drew us together. War and upheaval forced my ex-husband to flee to the United States. I do not believe that our cultural differences caused our divorce, but they probably contributed to it. With the end of the marriage came the end of my cultural connection. I no longer logically fit into a world populated by people who looked different from me. I could no longer go to the Cambodian grocery story and blend in with the other shoppers because my Cambodian husband was no longer by my side. The year my daughter turned 16, I wanted to cater a Cambodian dinner for her friends. When I called to find out how much the meal would cost, the price I was quoted was exorbitant. Had I communicated in Khmer, I know the food would have been much cheaper. With their father out of the house, my children had fewer and fewer Cambodian cultural experiences. Beside eating less of the food and attending fewer special events, they abandoned their Cambodian nicknames and what little vocabulary they knew as young children.

When we were together, the Cambodian culture dominated our family life. I taught my kids little about my Jewish roots. Now they have no interest in learning. And, other than bagels and deli, they are not too keen on the food. When they are asked their nationality or cultural background, they are all reluctant to respond. They usually ask the questioner to guess. It is harder to find the connections we had previously. Recently my daughter and I paid a visit to a few of my Cambodian friends from those early days in Long Beach. It was a delight to spend time with them and listen to them chatter in Khmer, picking up words here and there. The sights and scents in their homes drew me back to a time I greatly missed. My daughter enjoyed the visit, too, and has made a connection she continues to nurture. The sadness I feel about my divorce is compounded because I have also lost a culture and maybe even a little of my identity. Susan Solomon Yem is singleminded about raising her five children to adulthood. She’d like to hear your stories about single parenting. Contact her at susansyem@gmail.com

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Family Matters Helping Children Cope with Traumatic Events QUESTION: My children are clingier since they heard about the fires in Northern California and smelled the smoke. They also worry that they will be killed if we go to a ball game since they heard about the mass shootings in Las Vegas and from kids at school. How can I help them feel safe in a world that I don’t think is safe?

ANSWER Unfortunately many people have experienced fires, earthquakes, hurricanes, floods, accidents, death of a loved one, violent acts and racial profiling. Also, immigrant families frequently suffer from not knowing what will happen next and if they will be safe living here. If you’re not feeling safe (like so many of us), talk to friends, relatives or a professional. As adults we need to process our fears and be prepared to handle our reactions to events so we can be fully present for the children in our lives. Many of the suggestions below can be of help to adults as well. Here are suggestions as you consider what your child needs. All children are different, and you know your child better than anyone, so consider these and adapt them based on temperament, age and personality. • Become aware of your emotional state, and respond to a child in a calm and honest manner. • You may be crying or have a worried look on your face. As soon as you can, focus on what your child needs, and let your voice, gestures and body language be reassuring and loving. Our emotions are contagious! • Remember that children can hear you when you’re on your phone.

• Children want to know that they are safe. They need to see that the adults are in charge and that they’re doing all they can to ensure safety. • Tell them what kinds of things you do to keep them safe. Review routines such as “Duck and Cover” for an earthquake or “Stop, Drop and Roll” for a fire. Teach children an emergency plan, including learning their full name, phone number and safe places to go in their home and neighborhood. • Talk to them about the people in their family, school and community who are helpers and who they can count on when things are confusing or scary. Find something to say that will give comfort, such as “I will do everything I can to protect you.” If children see people yelling or crying and they feel afraid, acknowledge their feelings, talk about what’s going on and move them away from the situation as soon as possible. You can say that you were upset but that now you’re doing fine. We all have great capacity for resilience. • Always find out what a child already knows. Keep your explanations simple. • You may need to start by correcting misinformation. Give information that will clarify facts and reassure your child. • Communicate information at a child’s level. Be truthful, but don’t overload a child with too much information. Pay attention to what they are asking. • If you can, shield a young child from the events that are happening. Remember though, that young children pick up on adult’s fears and concerns even if they don’t know the details of what is going on. • Listen to what children are telling each other. Even if you have shielded children at home, they are likely to hear things in childcare or school.

• Observe your child’s play. Some children will act out what has upset them. Use art, music or writing to express feelings. Read books, take walks and cuddle, but don’t insist on verbal communication if your child doesn’t want to talk. • Turn the TV off! Young children do not benefit from seeing the dramatic images of a disaster or people who are frightened or angry. Repeated footage of a disaster can also add to your own imbalance and fear. Get updates and news on your phone or when the kids are asleep. Over time keep your investigative cap on. Children may be hearing scary things from neighbors, relatives or friends. • Talk with parents and teachers about who is talking about what. • Observe children’s play, listen to what they are saying and provide extra comfort. Acknowledge their feelings and your own. For example, you can tell a child that you were scared when you saw the fire truck at the house but that now you feel safe. • Some children will act out what they saw. For example, a child who saw a fire may build a tower with blocks and then crash it to the ground over and over again. If they are not hurting themselves or others, let them use play to work out their concerns. Set limits and use distraction when you sense your child needs a break from the intensity of their play. • Set up a number scale with children where 10 is when they have felt the happiest and had a great day and 0 is when they have felt the worst ever and had a terrible day. A scale is a good way to check in to see what kind of day they are having. Ask what they could do (or you could do) to change their day to a higher number.

• People feel a loss of control when there is a disaster or violent event or even a fear of one. Think of things that you and your children can do to increase a sense of agency and ease. • You can draw pictures, write a letter, collect money, send a package, plant flowers, join a march or bring food to someone in need. • Stay connected to loved ones. Keep to your routine as much as possible. • Read stories based on your values. For older children, help them with actions that are fitting to their age and ability. • Stay aware of children who have experienced a traumatic event in the past, such as children who have lost a parent or close relative, a child who has had an operation or children who have suffered from abuse, neglect or other violence. These children are more susceptible to strong feelings or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). They may withdraw or have more aggressive behavior. Keep in mind that behavior has meaning, and by staying aware you can help them through their difficult feelings. • Deal generously with your own feelings and needs. If you are overwhelmed by your reactions, find another adult to talk to or seek counseling. Take time to renew your energy and do your best to get enough sleep. Your children are watching you to find out if they are safe and loved.

Some resources: https://www.childrennow.org/parentingresources & https://www.safekids.org/ Rona Renner, RN (“Nurse Rona”), is a nurse, a parent educator and a temperament specialist. You can learn more about her at www.nurserona.com.

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Family Fun Calendar 1 | Friday Holiday Parade of Lights — Walnut Creek Come down to the newly refurbished Broadway Plaza in downtown Walnut Creek, for a retailer Open House and a tree lighting. Santa himself will light the tree and make it snow! 6.- 9 p.m. Free. All ages. Broadway Plaza St., Walnut Creek. www. broadwayplaza.com/Events

Tree Lighting — Oakland Bring the family to the Jack London Square waterfront for a spectacular tree lighting. A 55-ft. tall tree, with 5,000 lights and 600 ornaments,

will dazzle one and all. Enjoy entertainment, treats, and a visit from Big Red himself. 5.- 7 p.m. Free. All ages. Jack London Square, Broadway at Embarcadero, Oakland. 510-6459292, www.jacklondonsquare.com

Ballet Joyeaux’s “Once Upon A Christmas” — Walnut Creek This popular narrated ballet will sweep the audience into make-believe land. This production features youth performers. Shows at the Hofmann Theater, Dec. 1 and 2. www.lesherartscenter. com

Friday Nights @ Oakland Museum of California — Oakland

activities. The animal enclosures are decorated, and so is the small amusement park on site. The 20-min train ride is just enough fun for little riders. Through Jan 1, 2018. 5:30 - 9 p.m. $8 adults, $7 children, children under 2, free. $1 discount for members. Oakland Zoo, 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland. 510-6329525, www.oaklandzoo.org

Join OMCA and Off the Grid in August for DJs, live bands, dancing, gourmet food trucks, and more. There will be a family Drop-in activity related to one of the exhibits. This event repeats each Friday night. 5.-9 p.m. Members and ages 18 and under free, $7.50 adults. Oakland Museum of California, 50 10th St., Oakland. 510-318-8400, www. museumca.org

2 | Saturday Berkeley Artisans Holiday Open Studios — Berkeley

Zoo Lights — Oakland

For the 27th year, the local artisans of Berkeley open their doors to neighbors. Enjoy a free, self-guided tour of over 100 professional artisan workshops and galleries. This event runs each weekend day until the 16th, and then weekdays Dec. 18-24. See the website for a tour map. 11 a.m.- 6 p.m. Free. All ages. Various Berkeley locations. 510-8452612, www.berkeleyartisans.org

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Ballet Petit’s Nutcracker — Hayward

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See dancers from all ages perform the Nutcracker 2 & 7 p.m. $20 and up. All ages. Reed Buffington Center for the Performing Arts at Chabot College, Hayward CA, 25555 Hesperian Blvd. Hayward, balletpetit.com

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Kids can tell the snow queen all of their holiday wishes. Ride ponies, make crafts, and eat snacks. Hot cider and cookies courtesy of Andronico’s. Local vendors offer unique shopping for holiday gifts. 10 a.m.- 3 p.m. Free. All ages. Shattuck at Vine, Berkeley. www. anotherbullwinkelshow.com

Roller Coaster Weekend — El Cerrito

Holiday in The Park — Vallejo

Our annual celebration of the greatest rollercoasters in the world! Try our Roller Coaster treasure hunt and test your knowledge about coasters! On Saturday we pay tribute to ACE (American Coaster Enthusiasts) with some of their members at our museum, so be sure to ask some ACE folks to learn more about the organization from actual members. 10 a.m.-5p.m. $15 general admission, $10 youth and seniors. Playland-Not-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510-5923002, www.playland-not-at-thebeach.org

Great Dickens Christmas Faire- San Francisco Held at the Cow Palace, this event features crafts, music, bawdy adult shows, kids art projects and shows, Santa, Jacob Marley, Ebenezer Scrooge, and Victorian parlour dancing at Fezziwig’s. Food and drink galore, too! 10 a.m.-6 p.m. 2600 Geneva Ave., Daly City $14 ages 5-12, $30 ages 13 and up. Kids under 5 are free. 800510-1558, dickensfair.com

3 | Sunday A Holiday Tradition at Dunsmuir Hellman Estate — Oakland Tour the huge mansion and stroll the estate grounds while viewing turn of the century holiday decor. There will be holiday teas, horse drawn carriage rides, holiday performers and a kids zone with crafts and games. This special event happens every weekend all December long. Make reservations in advance to enjoy the tea services. 12 - 4 p.m. Free admission. All ages.

Continuing until Jan. 7, Six Flags will celebrate the holidays with snow and sledding, Santa and special holidaythemed shows. 12 -9 p.m. Tickets start at $49.95. All ages. Six Flags Discovery Kingdom, 1001 Fairgrounds Dr., Vallejo. 707644-4000, www.sixflags.co,

5 | Tuesday Drop-in Open Play — Alameda Run, jump, bounce, dance, play, and more in any sort of weather in this indoor play space for the littlest of littles. Each Monday and Friday. 12 p.m.-2 p.m. $5 per child. Ages 6mo.-2 years. Terra Tech Fitness, 2203 Mariner Square Loop, Alameda. www.terratechfitness. com

6 | Wednesday First Wednesdays — Walnut Creek Juggling Unicyclists, balloon animal artists, and face painters extraordinaire will delight little ones while the grown-ups enjoy food, beer, wine and live music. First Wednesday of each month. 5-8 p.m. Free. All ages. Cypress St., between N. Main and Locust, Walnut Creek. www. walnutcreekdowntown.com

7 | Thursday Pearl Harbor 76th Anniversary, USS Hornet — Alameda Join us in honoring those who payed the ultimate sacrificed at the start of WWII. Hear stories from the heroes

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Yacht Parade, starting just after sunset at 5:30 pm. This Bay Area tradition features dozens of festively decorated boats as they cruise along the estuary in competition for prizes. 5:30 p.m. Free. All ages. lightedyachtparade.com

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of the Greatest Generation. Veteran speakers include members of the 442nd Regimental Combat Team, carrier pilots, and more surprise guests! 10:00 am- 4:00 p.m. Admission $10 - $20. 707 W Hornet Ave, Alameda, www.uss-hornet.org

Abbots Bromley Antler Dance will cast its mysterious spell. Also on Dec. 8-10, 15-17 Fridays at 8pm, Saturdays & Sundays 1pm & 5pm 20-$65 per person. Ages 25 and under, special discounts. Scottish Rite Theater 1547 Lakeside Dr, Oakland, californiarevels.org

“A Christmas Carol”— Walnut Creek

9 | Saturday

Center REPertory Company’s production of the holiday favorite is consistently reviewed as being one of the best in the Bay Area. Showings Dec, 7 through Dec. 17. www.lesherartscenter.com

8 | Friday Friday Nights @ Oakland Museum of California — Oakland Join OMCA and Off the Grid in August for DJs, live bands, dancing, gourmet food trucks, and more. There will be a family Drop-in activity related to one of the exhibits. This event repeats each Friday night. 5.-9 p.m. Members and ages 18 and under free, $7.50 adults. Oakland Museum of California, 50 10th St., Oakland. 510-318-8400, www. museumca.org

Christmas Revels — Oakland Join us this December in the land of Robbie Burns as we pass the shortest day in song, dance, and spirited folk tales. Be there for haggis and Hogmanay, first-footing, woolwaulking, mouth music, and even Guising! Of course the Lord of the Dance will welcome you, and the

Enchanted Winter Faire — Berkeley The Berkeley Rose Waldorf School’s Enchanted Winter Faire is a lovely little craft faire. Children can play games and make things for $1-$6 per item. There will be puppet shows, live music, Christmas trees and local vendors. 12.-4 p.m. Free admission. All ages. Berkeley Rose School, 2515 Hillgrass Ave., Berkeley. 510-859-7679, www. berkeleyrose.org

Pancake Breakfast with Santa, Toy Drive — El Cerrito Eat pancakes with Santa and all proceeds benefit the David Hunter Memorial Scholarship fund. This is also a toy drive drop-off location for the Richmond Fire Department. Breakfast includes bacon, sausage, scrambled eggs, pancakes and juice. 9 - 11 a.m. $25 per family of four, $10 adults, $5 children. El Cerrito Community Center, 7007 Moeser Ln., El Cerrito. 510-559-7000, www. el-cerrito.org

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Dec. 9, The Hipwaders perform at Family Music at Freight & Salvage — Berkeley free event combines kinetic art, workshops and live performances with fun and food. 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Free. All ages. Jack London Square, 70 Washington St., Oakland. 510-645-9292, www. jacklondonsquare.com

Holiday Classics Weekend — El Cerrito Come help us celebrate every holiday of this special season with all the classic characters, including Rudolph, Frosty, Hanukah Charlie and more. Spot them all around our Museum of Holiday Fun and win a special prize! 10 a.m.-5 p.m. $15 general admission, $10 youth and seniors.

Playland-Not-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510-5923002, www.playland-not-at-thebeach.org

Berkeley Artisans Holiday Open Studios — Berkeley For the 27th year, the local artisans of Berkeley open their doors to neighbors. Enjoy a free, self-guided tour of over 100 professional artisan workshops and galleries. This event runs each weekend day until the 16th, and then weekdays Dec. 18-24. See the website for a tour map. 11 a.m.- 6 p.m. Free. All ages. Various Berkeley locations. 510845-2612, www.berkeleyartisans. org

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Family Music at Freight & Salvage — Berkeley Listed as one of “25 Best Bands for Kids” by TimeOut New York Kids, The Hipwaders perform danceable rock ‘n’ roll for kids & families. The band has had several top ten songs on XM/SIRIUS Radio including #1 songs, ”Hey Josie!” & “Educated Kid.” Since 2005 they’ve released 6 awardwinning albums, performed across the US and continue to perform throughout the SF Bay Area. Doors open 10:30 a.m., show starts at 11 a.m. $10, $12 at the door. Freight & Salvage, 2020 Addison St, Berkeley. www.freightandsalvage. org/kids-freight

10 | Sunday Festival Of Lights — Marin Face painting, holiday foods for sale, Miss Kitty sing-a-long, crafts, and other Hanukkah activities for the kids and their families. Celebrate the eight days of this special holiday. Bring a gently used coat for the One Warm Coat drive on site. 11:30 a.m.- 2:00 p.m. Free. All ages. Osher Marin JCC, 200 N. San Pedro Rd., San Rafael, 415-444-8000, www. marinjcc.org

Pop ‘n Latkes — Berkeley Enjoy craft-making, storytelling, singalongs, and a child-friendly screening. Visit the gift-wrapping station to beautifully package your donated gifts of brand-new children’s toys, and assemble a homemade note to go with gift cards to be donated. Cozy up in the book nook, pop a move in the theater, and

SCHOOL OPEN HOUSES ALAMEDA MONTESSORI ELEMENTARY SCHOOL OF ALAMEDA Open House DECEMBER 1, 2017 @ 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM 1400 6th St. 510-521-9227 http://www. montessorielementaryalameda.org SAINT PHILIP NERI CATHOLIC ELEMENTARY SCHOOL Info Night DECEMBER 6, 2017 @ 7:00 PM 1335 High St. 510-521-0787 http://school.spnalameda.org BERKELEY THE ACADEMY JANUARY 7, 2018 @ 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM 2722 Benvenue Ave. Open House at The Academy. 510-549-0605 http://theacademyschool.org/ BERKWOOD HEDGE SCHOOL Open House DECEMBER 9, 2017 @ 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM 1809 Bancroft Way. 510-883-6990 http://www.berkwood.org/ BLACK PINE CIRCLE SCHOOL Admissions Information Event, K–5 DECEMBER 2, 2017 @ 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM. 2027 7th Street. 510845-0876 http://blackpinecircle.org/ ECOLE BILINGUE DE BERKELEY Open House DECEMBER 8, 2017 @ 9:00 AM – 11:00 AM AND JANUARY 6, 2018 @ 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM 1009 Heinz Ave. 510-549-3895 http://www.eb.org/ MAYBECK HIGH SCHOOL Parent Tour and Talk DECEMBER 7, 2017 @ 10:00 AM 2727 College Ave. (510) 841-8489 http://www.maybeckhs.org STEP ONE SCHOOL Transitional Kindergarten Open House JANUARY 20, 2017 @ 10:00 AM 499 Spruce St. 510-527-9021 http://steponeschool.org/

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WALDEN CENTER & SCHOOL Classroom Tour DECEMBER 5 & 12, 2017 @ 9:00 AM – 10:30 AM 2446 McKinley Ave. 510-841-7248 http://www.walden-school.net DANVILLE THE ATHENIAN SCHOOL Middle School Open House JANUARY 6, 2018 @ 1:00 PM Upper School Open House JANUARY 7, 2018 @ 1:00 PM 2100 Mount Diablo Scenic Boulevard. 925362-7223 http://www.athenian.org/ LAFAYETTE BENTLEY SCHOOL Open House DECEMBER 2, 2017 @ 1:00 PM 1000 Upper Happy Valley Rd. 925-900-4038 http://www.bentleyschool.net MORAGA ORION ACADEMY Winter Open House JANUARY 20, 2018 @ 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM 350 Rheem Blvd. 925-377-0789 http://www.orionacademy.org THE SAKLAN SCHOOL Middle School Open House DECEMBER 1, 2017 AND JANUARY 12, 2018 @ 8:30 AM – 10:30 AM 1678 School Street. 925-376-7900 http://saklan.org/ OAKLAND BENTLEY SCHOOL Open House, Grades K - 5 and 6 - 8 DECEMBER 9, 2017 @ 9:30 AM 1 Hiller Dr. 510-229-4109 http://www.bentleyschool.net MENTORING ACADEMY Information Session JANUARY 20, 2018 @ 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM 5951 College Avenue. Please RSVP to info@ mentoringacademy.org. 510.400.7696 http://www.mentoringacademy.org/

PARK DAY SCHOOL Lower School Open House DECEMBER 3, 2017 @ 9:30 AM – 11:30 AM Middle School Open House DECEMBER 3, 2017 @ 1:00 PM – 3:00 PM 360 42nd Street 510-653-0317 http://www.parkdayschool.org/ REDWOOD DAY SCHOOL Family Open House DECEMBER 9, 2017 @ 9:00 AM – 10:30 AM 3245 Sheffield Avenue. 510-534-0800 http:// www.rdschool.org THE RENAISSANCE INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL Open House for Kindergarten and 9th Grade Applicants DECEMBER 2, 2017 @ 9:00 AM – 11:30 AM 3650 Dimond Avenue. 510-5318566 http://therenaissanceschool.org/ ORINDA ORINDA ACADEMY Open House. DECEMBER 9, 2017 @ 1:00 PM – 4:00 PM 19 Altarinda Rd. 925.254.7553 http://www.orindaacademy.org/ PIEDMONT CORPUS CHRISTI SCHOOL Open House. DECEMBER 5, 2017 @ 8:15 AM – 10:00 AM 1 Estates Drive. 510.530.4056 http://www.corpuschristischool.com/ WALNUT CREEK THE SEVEN HILLS SCHOOL Campus Tour DECEMBER 8 & 14, 2017 AND JANUARY 5, 2018 @ 8:45 AM – 11:00 AM 975 North San Carlos Drive. 925-933-0666 http://www. sevenhillsschool.org Parents’ Press welcomes news of public, independent, and charter school open houses, information nights, and tours as well as school fairs. Please submit at http://www.schoolsbayarea.com

celebrate the season in our warm, inclusive environment. 2:00 p.m. $6 and up. All ages. JCC East Bay, Berkeley Branch 1414 Walnut Street, Berkeley, www. jcceastbay.org

The Amazing Bubble Show — Alameda The Bubble Man returns to wow audience members with bubble skills, tricks, and more. It’s amazing what can be done with bubbles, from volcanoes to square bubbles! Accompaniment provided by Accordion Babe, Jet Black. 11 a.m. & 1 p.m. $10 kids, $15 adults. All ages. Rhythmix Cultural Works, 2513 Blanding Ave., Alameda. 510865-5060, www.rhythmix.org

Gingerbread House Party — Berkeley Decorate a gingerbread house with candies, cakes, and sprinkles. Bring a bag of decorating candy to share and get a free pass to Habitot for a later visit. All houses will be donated to a local family shelter to brighten their holidays.

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9:30 a.m.- 4:30 p.m. $10 per person, infants under 1 are free. All ages. Habitot Children’s Museum, 2065 Kittredge St., Berkeley. 510-6471111, www.habitot.org

11 | Monday Munchkin Mondays — Concord Energetic toddlers can jump for one hour or longer. Sky High Sports features dozens of large trampolines for hours of indoor bouncing fun. For kids walking up to 6 years. 11 a.m.-1 p.m. $6 per child, per hour. Not valid on holidays. Sky High Sports, 1631 Challenge Dr., Concord. 925-682-5867, www.con. jumpskyhigh.com

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Sugar Plum Fairy Parties where audience members are welcomed onstage to meet the dancers (separate admission required; $10 per child). Regents’ Theater at Holy Names University, 3500 Mountain Blvd., Oakland. 510-843-4687, www. berkeleyballet.org.

The Nutcracker-Berkeley Ballet Theater For more than thirty years, BBT’s The Nutcracker has been a community favorite. Called “More touching than San Francisco Ballet’s performance” by New York Times dance critic Alastair MacCaulay, BBT’s version of the ballet’s storyline is an extension of the school’s commitment to bringing good things to those less fortunate. Tickets $35 Friday, December 15 – 7PM Saturday, December 16 – 11AM*, 3PM, 7PM Sunday , December 17 – 11AM*, 3PM *Performances include post-show

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Zoo Lights — Oakland Going to the zoo at night time is half the fun. There will be music and fun activities. The animal enclosures are decorated, and so is the small amusement park on site. The 20min train ride is just enough fun for little riders. Through Jan 1, 2018. 5:30 - 9 p.m. $8 adults, $7 children, children under 2, free. $1 discount for members. Oakland Zoo, 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland. 510-6329525, www.oaklandzoo.org

Holiday Classics Night at Playland-Not-atthe-Beach’s After Dark (Grown-Ups Only) Check out Playland’s holiday displays in our Santa’s Village miniature gallery! Enjoy the intricate winter wonderland details and models celebrating the festive seasons. Plus, enjoy the pinball machines and carnival games all night! Adults only (18-years and older), no children or babies please. Only $10 per person. Open 6:00pm10:00pm. Playland-Not-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510-5923002, www.playland-not-at-thebeach.org

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13 | Wednesday, Hanukkah Begins

A nightly menorah lighting takes place in the hotel lobby throughout Chanukah with Rabbi Yehuda and Mrs. Miriam Ferris of Chabad of the East Bay who will say the blessings, tell the story of Chanukah, and sing traditional Jewish songs with sing-along song sheets and acoustic guitar. All are welcome. 7 p.m. Free. Claremont Club & Spa – 41 Tunnel Road Berkeley

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Mesibaba: Hanukkah - Spanish ExtravaganzaFrench — Walnut Creek

Immersion • VisualImmersion Art • Music French - Spanish • Visual Art • Music • Engaging Environment Challenging Academics Academics • Engaging Environment Challenging Get ready for some Xtreme Fun at our Hanukkah Extravaganza Mesibaba featuring the return of the very popular Planet Xone Bubble Balls! We will also be making OPEN HOUSE DATE menorahs, decorating & eating Childcare Provided suvganiot, spinning dreidels, eating K/9th Grade latkes, along with more Hanukkah December 2, 2017 Fun! 4-6 p.m. $15 starts and up.at Congregation Oakland Campus B’nai Tikvah 25 Hillcroft Way, 9:30am-11:30am Walnut Creek

Ages 2 ~ Middle School Ages 2 ~ Middle School UPCOMING TOUR DATES OPEN HOUSE DATE Childcare Provided

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13 Great Skating Venues

The Embarcadero Center Ice Rink, San Francisco This outdoor rink offers a panoramic view of San Francisco’s beautiful waterfront, located across from the historic Ferry Building. The spacious floor gives seasoned skaters enough room to glide about, with plenty of room left over for beginners. Runs through Jan. 7, 2018; Justin Herman Plaza; embarcaderocenter.com

Yerba Buena Ice Rink, San Francisco Yerba Buena Ice Skating Center is San Francisco’s only year-round, full-service ice skating facility; we are open daily, including holidays, with public skating available almost every day of the year. Runs year-round; 750 Folsom St., San Francisco, skatebowl.com

Around the Bay CE SKATING WILL BE MEMORABLE for the kids or a great way to revisit your own childhood. You can even romance you know who with a spin on a Bay Area ice skating rink. Skating rinks options include scenic views and range in size from Olympic size to private with premiere amenities. Skates are either complimentary or available for rent at all of the rinks.

Walnut Creek Ice Rink, Walnut Creek Great for children of all ages and levels, Walnut Creek Ice Rink is a smaller family rink decorated with festive lights and holiday decorations. Runs through Jan. 15, 2018; 1375 Civic Dr., Walnut Creek, iceskatewalnutcreek.com

Oakland Ice Center, Oakland Operated by the San Jose Sharks, this indoor rink accommodates everyone from hockey players to recreational skaters. The Center’s Tuesday Cheap Skate deal lets you skate for a bargain ($8.25 or $12 with skate rental). Runs year-round; 519 18th St., Oakland, oaklandice.com

Little Ice Rink, Alameda With 4,100 square feet of ice skating bliss, this little ice rink has plenty of chill for every level of skill. If you don’t feel comfortable with just the skates, Ice America offers a “Bobby” the seal skating aid, which helps you balance! Runs through Jan. 15, 2018; Alameda South Shore Center 523 South Shore Center W, Alameda, thelittleicerink.com

Iceland, Dublin Seasoned skaters and amateurs will both appreciate the well-maintained, well-lit rink here. If you’re seeking a fun outing the whole family can enjoy, head over to Iceland and enjoy a night of skating and fun. Runs yearround; 7212 San Ramon Rd., Dublin, dubliniceland.com

Ice Rink in Union Square, San Francisco A San Francisco holiday tradition in the heart of Union Square, this location offers fun-seekers of all ages a magical adventure. From families to friends and couples to colleagues, everyone can enjoy ice skating in San Francisco’s iconic plaza surrounded by festive lights and the sights and sounds of the season. Novices and naturals alike will love the outdoor ice skating experience in the middle of beautiful San Francisco. Runs through Jan. 15, 2018; Union Square, unionsquareicerink.com

California Academy of Sciences Ice Rink, San Francisco Located in the East Garden outside the Academy of Sciences in Golden Gate Park Nov. 22, 2017 - Jan. 7, 2018, www.calacademy. org

Marin on Ice, San Rafael Marin County’s only real ice skating rink is back for a fifth season! Open daily (including holidays). Runs through Jan. 7, 2018; Oaktree Plaza at North Gate Mall in San Rafael, onicerinks.com

Snoopy’s Home Ice: The Redwood Empire Ice Arena, Santa

Rosa Peanuts fans and ice skaters unite. The recently remodeled Redwood Empire Ice Arena is tucked away in Santa Rosa’s Redwood Forest and home to all things Snoopy. Styled after 1970s Swiss chalets, the rink is accompanied by the Warm Puppy Café and Snoopy’s Gallery & Gift Shop. Runs year-round; 1667 W. Steele Lane, Santa Rosa, snoopyshomeice.com

San Mateo on Ice, San Mateo San Mateo on Ice will open daily (including holidays) to the public. The outdoor ice rink features 9,000 square feet of REAL ice. Skaters will be able to skate in the sunshine during the day and under the stars at night. Runs through Jan. 15, 2018; Central Park 50 East, Fifth Avenue San Mateo, onicerinks.com

Palo Alto’s Winter Lodge, Palo Alto Beginners have no fear: safety is important here, with gloves and helmets recommended for all skaters, on-ice “guards” waiting nearby to help fallen children, and ice resurfaced every hour so the rink remains smooth all day long. A warm fireplace, a vending machine that sells hot chocolate and a giant Christmas tree in the middle of the ice give this arena a festive feel. Runs through April 15, 2018; 3009 Middlefield Road, Palo Alto, winterlodge.com

Santa Clara Ice, Santa Clara Lace up your skates! Ice in Central Park is open daily (including holidays) for its second season. Runs through Jan. 15, 2018; Central Park 969 Kiely Blvd., Santa Clara, santaclaraonice.com

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Call Karen at (510) 457-1488 to schedule a small group tour

Saint Theresa School

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Ecole Bilingue de Berkeley provides a unique Preschool to 8th Grade bilingual program that develops students into curious, confident and creative learners.

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Now Accepting Applications Limited Space Available for 2017-2018 For more information or to schedule a tour, visit us at www.berkwood.org

Also on Dec. 8-10, 15-17 Fridays at 8pm, Saturdays & Sundays 1pm & 5pm 20-$65 per person. Ages 25 and under, special discounts. Scottish Rite Theater 1547 Lakeside Dr, Oakland, californiarevels.org

Free Friday at Lindsay — Walnut Creek Every third Friday of each month at Lindsay Wildlife Museum is free to all. All ages will get a chance to get up close to the exhibits and activities at no cost. 10 a.m-5 p.m. Free. All ages. Lindsay Wildlife Experience, 1931 First Ave., Walnut Creek. 925-935-1978, www. lindsaywildlife.org

Fairy Winterland Celebration— Oakland Fairyland will be transformed for our Fairy Winter Wonderland event! Featuring live performances celebrating holidays from many cultures, appearances by Santa Claus, special decorations and thousands of twinkling lights, rides, puppet shows, arts and crafts, free holiday treats, cider and hot cocoa, and more surprises! 12p.m.-7p.m. $10 per person, children under 1 year, free. All ages. Children’s Fairyland, 699 Bellevue Dr., Oakland. 510-238-6876, www. fairyland.org

16 | Saturday Wacky Winter Wonderland — El Cerrito From now until Jan. 1, PlaylandNot-At-The-Beach is open every day, except Christmas. Special holiday themed activities daily. Stay and enjoy magic shows, unlimited arcade games, and win tickets to exchange for prizes. 10a.m.-5p.m. $15 general admission, $10 youth and seniors. PlaylandNot-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510-592-3002, www. playland-not-at-the-beach.org

A Holiday Tradition at Dunsmuir Hellman Estate — Oakland Tour the huge mansion and stroll the estate grounds while viewing turn of the century holiday decor. There will be holiday teas, horse drawn carriage rides, holiday performers and a kids zone with crafts and games. This special event happens every weekend all December long. Make reservations in advance to enjoy the tea services. 12 - 4 p.m. Free admission. All ages. Dunsmuir Hellman Estate, 2960 Peralta Oaks Court, Oakland. 510615.5555, www.dunsmuir-hellman. com

16th, and then weekdays Dec. 18-24. See the website for a tour map. 11 a.m.- 6 p.m. Free. All ages. Various Berkeley locations. 510-8452612, www.berkeleyartisans.org

17 | Sunday The Nutcracker – Fremont Every year the Berkeley City Ballet stages an elaborate production of the Nutcracker. The BCB Nutcracker features a cast of over 40 dancers with elegant costumes and sets. Dancers from area professional companies augment the cast. Berkeley City Ballets Nutcracker has an outstanding reputation as one of the few traditional, full-length, productions of the holiday favorite in the East Bay. $25 for Adults, $20 Seniors/ Students/Staff, $15 Children 12 and under. December 16-17, 1pm & 5pm. Smith Center Ohlone College, 43600 Mission Blvd. Fremont 510-6596031, www.berkeleycityballet.org

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12 -9 p.m. Tickets start at $49.95. All ages. Six Flags Discovery Kingdom, 1001 Fairgrounds Dr., Vallejo. 707644-4000, www.sixflags.com

Third Thursday Stroll — Piedmont Support local artists and businesses while enjoying food, music, and more. 6-9 p.m. Free. All ages. Piedmont Avenue, Oakland. www. piedmontavestroll.org

22 | Friday Wacky Winter Wonderland — El Cerrito From now until Jan. 1, PlaylandNot-At-The-Beach is open every day, except Christmas. Special holiday themed activities daily. Stay and enjoy magic shows, unlimited arcade games, and win tickets to exchange for prizes. 10a.m.-5p.m. $15 general admission, $10 youth and seniors. PlaylandNot-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510-592-3002, www. playland-not-at-the-beach.org

Zoo Lights — Oakland Going to the zoo at night time is half the fun. There will be music and fun activities. The animal enclosures are decorated, and so is the small amusement park on site. The 20-min train ride is just enough fun for little riders. Through Jan 1, 2018. 5:30 - 9 p.m. $8 adults, $7 children, children under 2, free. $1 discount for members. Oakland Zoo, 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland. 510-6329525, www.oaklandzoo.org

23 | Saturday Oakland Ballet Company Presents Graham Lustig’s “The Nutcracker” – Oakland Oakland Ballet Company’s spritely and colorful version of thisholiday classic is a holiday tradition that is fun for then entire family. Brimming with holiday magic, this is the Nutcracker to see!. With live music

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19 | Tuesday Berkeley Artisans Holiday Open Studios — Berkeley For the 27th year, the local artisans of Berkeley open their doors to neighbors. Enjoy a free, self-guided tour of over 100 professional artisan workshops and galleries. This event runs each weekend day until the 16th, and then weekdays Dec. 18-24. See the website for a tour map. 11 a.m.- 6 p.m. Free. All ages. Various Berkeley locations. 510-8452612, www.berkeleyartisans.org

21 | Thursday Holiday in The Park — Vallejo Continuing until Jan.7, Six Flags will celebrate the holidays with snow and sledding, Santa and special holidaythemed shows.

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It’s hard to resist the romantic notion of riding the rails in a car pulled by an old-fashioned steam locomotive all lit up in holiday lights. It’s something that

captivates most kids—and many adults too. Fortunately for railroad-obsessed kids and their parents, we have plenty of opportunities to take a real holiday train ride in the San Francisco Bay Area. Imagine a warm, cozy meander in a festively decorated train, sometimes with meals served and sometimes with a visit by kids’ favorite characters! Make sure to get reservations in advance, as several of these rides are very popular and sell out quickly. Zoo Lights — Oakland Going to the zoo at nighttime is half the fun. There will be music and fun activities. The animal enclosures are decorated and so is the small amusement park on site. The 20-minute train ride is just enough fun for little riders. Through Jan. 1. (closed December 24 & 25). 5:30 - 9 p.m. Oakland Zoo, 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland. 510-632-9525, www. oaklandzoo.org

Niles Canyon Railway Train of Lights — Sunol This train ride sells out quickly because it is super awesome. There will be lights, singing and snacks on the 13-mile trip. Santa will be there too. No strollers are allowed on the train. Every Wednesday, Friday and Saturday during the holiday season (except December 24 & 25). See website for additional days. Departs Niles at 4:30 p.m., departs Sunol at 7:30 p.m. Niles Station, 37592 Niles Blvd., Fremont. Sunol Station, 6 Kilkare Rd., Sunol. 510-797-4449, www.ncry.org

The Caltrain Holiday Train — San Francisco to Santa Clara This is not a train ride but an event. At any Caltrain station, enjoy seeing the train go by, bedecked in holiday decor. There will be entertainment and a drive for Toys 4 Tots. Get there 30 minutes before the train’s arrival. Dec. 2 and 3. Free. All ages. At Caltrain stations from San Francisco to Santa Clara. 800-660-4287, www.holidaytrain.org Napa Valley Wine Train Santa Train — Napa A 90-minute ride through the wine country with Santa and his pals. Kid-friendly meals are served, and parents can enjoy some wine. Daily thru Dec. 29 (closed Dec. 24 & 25). $39 and up per person. All ages. Napa Wine Train Station, 1275 McKinstry St., Napa. 707-253-2111, www.winetrain.com

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MAYBECK HIGH SCHOOL

Berkeley’s Independent College Preparatory High School

Limited Openings For Fall 2018

2727 College Avenue www.maybeckhs.org

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Billy Jones Wildcat Railroad Holiday Train — Los Gatos The legacy railroad engineer Billy Jones—a personal friend of fellow train buff Walt Disney—this miniature railroad operates out of Oak Meadow Park in Los Gatos. Families can take an exciting train ride pulled by a scale steam or diesel engine, ride a restored antique carousel and more. Runs in December, Thursdays through Sundays, from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. 233 Blossom Hill Road, Los Gatos. www. bjwrr.org Roaring Camp Holiday Lights Train — Santa Cruz A 60-minute ride on this vintage train features a sing-a-long and a visit from Santa. It ends at the boardwalk, where riders can stay and play at the arcade or ride the rides. Dec. 2, 3, 9, 10 and 16-23. 5 p.m., See website for pricing. Children under 2 are free. All ages. 400 Beach, Santa Cruz. www.roaringcamp.com

by the Oakland Symphony and Mt. Eden High School Womens’ Ensemble. $23-90 for adults with discounts for Seniors, children, and groups. Showings Saturday December 23 at 1:00 pm and 5:00 pm; December 24 at 2:00 pm. Paramount Theatre, 2025 Broadway, Oakland. 510-893-3132, www.oaklandballet.org

24 | Sunday, Christmas Eve Zoo Lights — Oakland Going to the zoo at night time is half the fun. There will be music and fun activities. The animal enclosures are decorated, and so is the small amusement park on site. The 20-min train ride is just enough fun for little riders. Through Jan 1, 2018. 5:30 - 9 p.m. $8 adults, $7 children, children under 2, free. $1 discount for members. Oakland Zoo, 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland. 510-6329525, www.oaklandzoo.org

Wacky Winter Wonderland — El Cerrito From now until Jan. 1, PlaylandNot-At-The-Beach is open every day, except Christmas. Special holiday themed activities daily. Stay and enjoy magic shows, unlimited arcade games, and win tickets to exchange for prizes. 10a.m.-5p.m. $15 general admission, $10 youth and seniors. Playland-Not-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510592-3002, www.playland-not-atthe-beach.org

25 | Monday Christmas Day CJM Community Free Day —San Francisco Fun-for-all extravaganza that has become an annual tradition for Bay Area families. Explore the galleries, create art, and move and groove to live music! Bring your family and friends and enjoy an exciting day at The Museum. Free Museum admission all day! 11 a.m.- 4 p.m. Free. All ages. 736 Mission Street San Francisco,www.thecjm.org

26 | Tuesday Zoo Lights — Oakland Going to the zoo at night time is half the fun. There will be music and fun activities. The animal enclosures are decorated, and so is the small amusement park on site. The 20-min train ride is just enough fun for little riders. Through Jan 1, 2018. 5:30 - 9 p.m. $8 adults, $7 children, children under 2, free. $1 discount for members. Oakland Zoo, 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland. 510-632-9525, www.oaklandzoo.org

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27 | Wednesday Wacky Winter Wonderland — El Cerrito From now until Jan. 1, Playland-NotAt-The-Beach is open every day, except Christmas. Special holiday themed activities daily. Stay and enjoy magic shows, unlimited arcade games, and win tickets to exchange for prizes. 10a.m.-5p.m. $15 general admission, $10 youth and seniors. PlaylandNot-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510-592-3002, www. playland-not-at-the-beach.org

28 | Thursday Holiday in The Park — Vallejo Continuing until Jan. 7 Six Flags will celebrate the holidays with snow and sledding, Santa and special holidaythemed shows. 12 -9 p.m. Tickets start at $49.95. All ages. Six Flags Discovery Kingdom, 1001 Fairgrounds Dr., Vallejo. 707-6444000, www.sixflags.com

Game Night at PlaylandNot-at-the-Beach’s After Dark (Grown-Ups Only) Escape from holiday overload by visiting Playland’s Grown-up Game Night. Play all the pinball, carnival, arcade and board games you want … without the stress of holiday cleanup! Adults only (18-years and older), no children or babies please. Only $10 per person. Open 6:00pm-10:00pm. Playland-Not-At-The-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510-5923002, www.playland-not-at-thebeach.org

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30 | Saturday, Zoo Lights — Oakland Going to the zoo at night time is half the fun. There will be music and fun activities. The animal enclosures are decorated, and so is the small amusement park on site. The 20-min train ride is just enough fun for little riders. Through Jan 1, 2018. 5:30 - 9 p.m. $8 adults, $7 children, children under 2, free. $1 discount for members. Oakland Zoo, 9777 Golf Links Rd., Oakland. 510-6329525, www.oaklandzoo.org

31 | Sunday New Year’s Eve Noon Year’s Eve — Albany At noon, the ball drops. Free party kits, craft stations, and music! 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Free. All ages. Albany Library, 1249 Marin Ave., Albany. 510- 526-3720, www. aclibrary.org

Noon Year’s Eve — Sausalito Kids who can’t hang till midnight can countdown to the New Year at noon instead. There will be a DJ with music, special fun crafts, and beads! 9 a.m.- 2:30 p.m. $12 per person. All ages. Bay Area Discovery Museum, 557 McReynolds Rd., Sausalito. 415339-3900, www.baykidsmuseum. org

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New Year’s Eve Balloon Drop — Oakland Ring in the New Year without staying up all night! Come to Chabot Science Center and celebrate strokes of midnight from around the world at 11 a.m., 1 and 4 p.m. Kids count down and catch hundreds of colorful balloons as they drop from the ceiling and participate in fun activities to receive a special prize. 11 to 4 p.m. Registration required. $5 per child and $5 per guest. Chabot Space and Science Center, 10000 Skyline Blvd. Oakland, 510336-7373, www.chabotspace.org

Family Friendly New Year’s Eve Party — El Cerrito The whole family can countdown to midnight in each U.S. Time Zone and enjoy magic shows, unlimited arcade games, and win tickets to exchange for prizes. A quiet room will be provided for sleepy partiers. Sparkling cider toasts for everyone! BYO snacks and non-alcoholic drinks. 8 p.m.-12 a.m. $30/general admission. Playland-Not-AtThe-Beach, 10979 San Pablo Ave., El Cerrito. 510-592-3002, www. playland-not-at-the-beach.org

CLASSIFIEDS ➤ CLASSES/LESSONS MUSIC Best Violin lessons Professional concert violinist. Experienced and enthusiastic. All levels. North Berkeley studio. Call Donna at (510) 524-5203. $10 introductory lesson. Piano and Flute lessons Highly professional, experienced teacher. All ages welcome. Libushe Moskowitz, (510) 235-5860 in El Cerrito. Piano Lessons in Berkeley Patient, experienced teacher. I have successfully prepared students of all ages, beginners to intermediate-advanced. Alexandra Yurkovsky, MA (510) 849-2613 $10 introductory lesson.

➤ FAMILY TRANSPORTATION GOING TO THE AIRPORT AND NEED A CAR SEAT? We provide the right car seat for the safety of your child. Taxi rates. 415-305-0819. americanalimo@yahoo.com

➤ PARTIES

Santa, Easter Bunny and lots more! Your child’s favorite character. 650-574-3568. www.allstarshowgrams.com

FUR, SCALES AND TAILS ANIMAL SHOWS For your party, school, camp or daycare. Over 15 different animals in every show. Fun for children of all ages. Call Tracy the Animal Show Guy at: 510-823-3923. www. furscalesandtails.com Please check out our great Yelp reviews.

➤ SERVICES

The Puppet Company Creates “Fantasies in Miniature” at your child’s party. Classics, Fables, fun for audiences of all ages! Professional puppeteer, 40 years of entertainment experience. 510-569-3144. www.puppetcompany.com

Impeccable Interiors House Cleaning Cleaning homes & offices in Contra Costa & Alameda Counties for over 20 years. One-time, weekly/bi-weekly, monthly. Licensed & insured. Visa/MC. (510)521-9600, 925-736-9600. www.impeccableinteriors.com

All-Star Showgrams Rated four stars in “Babies by the Bay.” Princesses, superheroes, pirates, train conductors, cowboys, Elsa, Mary Poppins, Mother Goose, Dorothy, clowns, wizards, magicians, face painters, balloonists, storytellers, dance parties, mascots, jugglers,

➤ TUTORING / EDUCATION

Have Room In Your Heart? And your home for one more child? Grow your family by Fostering/Adopting a waiting child. All ages. No fees. A Better Way. 510-601-0203 x305. www.abetterwayinc.net

It’s All About Literacy Skilled, compassionate, effective, individualized reading and writing instruction, grades 1-10. Early intervention, remediation, skill building, or creative enrichment. Build self-esteem and

success! Ivy (510) 528-8773. www.ivysandz.com Tutoring Is Caring Individualized help with mathematics, reading, writing, study skills, confidence, and motivation. All ages welcome. Rediscover the joy of learning. Call Esther, 510-733-0467.

➤ EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITY Work From Home Part-Time Wisdom of the Whole Coaching Academy looking for creative, reliable independent contractor with passion for administration. 20 hours / week. $20-23/hr DOE. Help at Alameda office 1x/week. Email resume info@ wisdomofthewhole.com Want a Classified Ad? email classifieds@parentspress.com

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EXCELLENCE “Choosing SHC was the best decision I ever made. The teachers and peers I’ve gotten to know over the past four years have helped me grow academically and as a person.” Joe Bialous ’17 University of Notre Dame

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“I took full advantage of SHC’s AP program to push myself academically. In addition, the theater arts and music programs opened my eyes to the importance of an arts education.” Isadora Banyai ’17 New York University