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So, What is Leadership?

By John Millen

If you Google “What is leadership?” as I did just now, you’ll find 2.3 billion results.

I didn’t have time to read them all, but what comes through is a multitude of meanings, such as “the action of leading a group of people or an organization” or “the state or position of being a leader.”

You’ll also find articles about “10 ways to define leadership” and “100 answers to the question, what is leadership?”

This contributes to the feeling of a lot of people that leadership is the sole responsibility of the top dogs. It’s something ill-defined that other people do.

My definition is different, and I think more practical. I say that leadership is “influencing peoples’ thinking, actions, and behavior.”

A CEO client of mine defines it in a similar way, telling his leaders that “Leadership is getting people to do something they wouldn’t do if you weren’t there.”

This is true in business and in life. People who lead are those who influence others.

Are you a leader?

Speaking on “Storytelling for Leaders” at a business lunch event, I started with a reasonable question, “By a show of hands, how many leaders do we have here today?”

Now, I asked this question knowing that the majority of the 300 people in the audience, which happened to about 80% women, were trade association executives or salespeople who had some significant role in their organizations.

I was surprised when only a handful of people raised their hands to identify themselves as leaders. Another 30 or 40 people were tentatively raising their hands to table level as they looked around the room seemingly to determine if they were “leaders.”

So, I said, “Let me reword the question. How many of you have to influence people to make things happen in your workplace?” From the stage, it looked like all the hands went up.

Then I asked, “How many of you have to influence people in the rest of your life—at home or in the community?” Again, the hands went up.

This points to the problem with how most of us view “leadership” in business and other organizations. We tend to think of leadership as being something conducted by the 5% at the top of our organizations—you know, the CEO and the executive leadership team.

But the truth is we are all leaders in multiple parts of our professional and personal lives. The sooner you recognize this, the sooner you may confidently assert your leadership when it is most needed.

"The greatest leader is not necessarily the one who does the greatest things. He is the one that gets the people to do the greatest things."

– Ronald Reagan

We are all leaders

This means that we are all leaders or should be. You don’t need a title or position to lead. You just need to recognize your opportunities to lead others.

Even leaders with titles and responsibility for people often have a hazy view of what it means to exert their leadership. With this in mind, here are five tips for exercising your personal leadership:

1. Adopt the mindset

Confidence as a leader starts with your mindset. Change your awareness and focus on having an impact in your organization and your life.

2. Lead without the title

You don’t need a position or a title to be a leader. You have a sphere of influence, which is that circle of people around you in your personal and business lives. Identify those times when you have a clear idea of where things should go but you normally sit back. Instead, speak up, take action, or give direction.

3. Ask for action

Influence should have results—a call to action. What do you want them to do? Too many times meetings become pointless sessions with information and opinions but no clear next steps or action.

4. Lead by example

It’s important to realize that people are watching your behavior more intensely than listening to your words. You can inspire people as a role model.

5. Learn the rules of influence

The best leaders I work with are also students of influence. They continuously improve their leadership and communication skills to stay at the top of their game.

Many people get frustrated by situations they see and in which they feel powerless to do anything. You have more control than you might realize. The choice is up to you. I hope you choose to recognize yourself as a leader and as take action to change your world. ▪

John Millen, storytelling and communication coach, conference speaker, and course creator. Learn more at johnmillen.com

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