Did you know that there are at least 101 ways to get back at your ex? The good news is that you won't need all of them. In fact, chances are that if you are still in love with your ex and willing to do your part to work things out you won't need any of the 101 ways to get back at your ex because you'll be too busy working on getting back with your ex. Keep these great truths in mind when the going gets tough: 1. Love is infinitely more productive than hate. Sounds simple doesn't it? Unfortunately, it is often the most easily forgotten truth when it comes to heart ache. If you can learn to focus on the positive aspects of your love together you will find that you aren't at all interested in those 101 ways to get back at your ex and much more interested in working things out so that he is no longer your ex. 2. Positive thoughts and attitudes draw people to you. This is one of the truest statements you will ever hear. Have you ever noticed how people seem drawn to those who have sunny dispositions and a positive outlook on life? They can't help it. They just want to be around that bright and sunny person in a world filled with sour grapes. What would you rather have? A pocket full of sunshine to carry with you or filled with sour grapes? 3. Productivity is impaired by negativity. If you spend every hour plotting out devious methods of making your ex hurt you are filling your life with negative energy that isn't at all productive. Work, health, and happiness will all suffer as a result. In a nutshell - life is just too short to accentuate the negative. 4. You have better things to do with your time than that. Can you imagine how many positive things you could accomplish in the amount of time it takes to figure out 101 ways to get back at your ex? Instead of focusing negative energy on tearing down your ex what could you build, create, or learn with that energy? What kind of improvements could you make in your life, to your home, or even your own self image? There are too many things that could use the power of positive to fall into the trap of negative thinking and energy.
The next step may be the most difficult for some but it can also be the most rewarding. Instead of tearing down the relationship the two of you had together and dishonoring the memory, how about setting out on a path of recovering the love you share and getting your ex back? If you are ready to take the important first step be sure to get started by watching this insightful video: http://www.makeyourexwantyouback.com/.
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