Everyday extraordinary lives by paul bradley by Paul Bradley

Book Commendations This engaging and accessible course comes highly recommended for anyone wanting to explore more about the extraordinary life that is possible for anyone in a relationship with Jesus through God's Spirit. Paul Bradley's engaging style and insights into the Bible will give ordinary Christians a way in to understanding the God's promises about becoming like Jesus, and why this is open to everyone. Dr Lucy Peppiatt, Principal, Westminster Theological Centre.

Paul Bradley has produced a highly useful resource for the church. In an age where the church seems to have wandered away from Christ and onto more material and mundane matters, this is a timely call to return to personal holiness and dedication to Christ and His cause. It is only when the church keeps its eyes fixed upon Christ that the church and individual believers can be truly effective. Rev Dr Paul Bailie, CEO Mission Africa; Presbyterian Minister, OT Lecturer, Adjunct Faculty at Union Theological College.

Knowing Paul and his gifting for study and discipleship, this book is a great tool that will inspire and enhance the reader to a life filled with the Holy Spirit. Having had Paul's personal input to discipleship and having used his previous writings before in group study, they are simple yet constructive for small group discussion. Thank you Paul, yet again, for a well-written and constructive book for churches to avail off. We will be implementing this book through our discipleship programs and are very much looking forward to its release. Pastor Philip Emerson, Emmanuel Church, Lurgan.

This is an incredible tool that helps us dive into the Scripture, gaining a deeper theological understanding that informs our lives on the most practical yet profound levels.

A really useful resource for those seeking to live everyday extraordinary lives in the power of the Spirit. Paul has combined biblical insight and real life stories with time to pray and wait on the Spirit to help us become more like Jesus. Why not try it in your small group? National Director of Evangelical Alliance Northern Ireland / Operations Director, Causeway Coast Vineyard / Business Leader / Theology Graduate/ Political Researcher and Commentator / Westminster Theological Centre, Business Theology lecturer.

These studies reflect Paul's trust in Christ and total dependence on Gods Word to instruct and guide him and the presence of God the Holy Spirit to encourage, strengthen and equip. Paul loves the whole church in all its expressions and it is a pleasure to warmly commend these studies for individuals or groups to benefit from. Canon David McClay, Archdeacon of Down & Dromore Parish / Director of New Wine Ireland / Rector of Willowfield Parish Church, East Belfast.

God’s purpose is for every Jesus follower to be ‘conformed to the image of his Son.’ God sends his Spirit to make this a wonderful possibility and this engaging devotional study by Paul Bradley is an excellent resource to help individuals and groups prayerfully discover how this can be a reality in their lives. Dr Gary W Burnett, Honorary Lecturer, Institute of Theology, Queens University Belfast / Author of The Gospel According to the Blues

Everyday Extraordinary Lives is a unique daily devotional that is accessible to everyone, no matter our level of knowledge of the Scriptures. Each day this devotional inspires us to live lives empowered by God's Spirit; seeing ourselves as the catalysts God has chosen to bring hope, faith and love into the world around us. This is an incredible tool that helps us dive into Scripture, gaining a deeper theological understanding that informs our lives on the most practical yet profound levels. Dana Masters, Lagan Valley Vineyard Lead Team & Jazz Singer.

This is a simple 10 part series that focuses us on ‘the fruit of the Spirit’. Quite a challenge - as we can all end up with a defensive and unChristlike - 'Well that's just how I am!' There are two tools in use here, firstly story telling to help readers remember the issues - and then the series is loaded with helpful Scriptures to underline the importance of each characteristic. A good and helpful first look, refresher or serious focus on the need to develop Christlikeness. Gerald Coates, Founder of Pioneer Network, Speaker, Author & Broadcaster.

A special thank you also goes out to Danni Gowdy for the customized book illustrations. Danni recently achieved her MA in book illustration from Cambridge University,UK. Danni can be contacted on Twitter @danni_doodles and on Facebook at dannigowdyillustration or www.dannigowdy.com. Danni is Paul’s niece.

Contents Introduction From Like to Likeness 10 weeks ~ Becoming more like Jesus Week 1 ~ Receiving the promise Week 2 ~ A love that is selfless Week 3 ~ Joy: The inner assurance policy Week 4 ~ The triad of peace Week 5 ~ Long-suffering: The willingness to stick it out Week 6 ~ Gentleness: The download from God of a friendly disposition Week 7 ~ Be good for goodness sake Week 8 ~ Loyalty is everything. It looks out for others. Week 9 ~ Meekness: Absorbing contentious reactions and reflecting God's strength through measured responses Week 10 ~ The boundaries of self-control

Introduction: From Like to Likeness Like is a familiar word known to fellow Facebookers. Clicking like indicates the measure of our enjoyment or regard for something. Facebook friends who give a thumb-up

are

indicating

their

admiration and affirmation of others posts, comments or photos. According to Webster's dictionary to like is: to enjoy something, to get pleasure from something, to regard something in a favourable way, to feel affection for someone or to enjoy being with someone. Therefore, when we observe at the like and work of Jesus during his life on earth, it's easy to give Him a thumb-up, showing that we like Him. The life of Jesus clearly models out how we are to live out an abundant Kingdom-life. Even those that have little or no faith

seem to appreciate many of the values taught by Jesus. Many of those who do not share the Christian faith acknowledge that he was an all round good bloke, yet their perception tends to limit him to just being an inspirational teacher. So liking him is one thing, but to resemble Him, or to be shaped into His likeness, is a much, much greater challenge. Reflecting Christ’s character, or becoming like Him, is a massive ask. Yet for all our opposition to such an ideal, "likeness",

specifically

"Jesus-

likeness", is part of Gods intended calling for our every day life-journey as a Christian (Rom 8:28). So is this really achievable? How on earth can we be like God’s only begotten son? Is this realistic, as it does sounds like a rather far-fetched expectation. Before we embark on this divinely inspired quest to be “like him” (1 John 2:6; Galatians 5:22), it's important to be reassured of God’s

support

making

this

happen

(John

14:16).

Thankfully we havenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t been left purely to our own devices and our flailing self-efforts (John 16:7,13). The great news for everyone is that the Holy Spirit has come (Acts 2:1-4,17,18). The Spirit of Jesus has been poured out to divinely assist, enable and empower us in this shaping process throughout our life's journey (John 14:17, 26; 16:7,13; Acts 1:8).

10 weeks ~ Becoming more like Jesus This past summer has been one in which I have taken time to drill down to study the original meaning of the nine traits known as â&#x20AC;&#x153;the fruit of the Spiritâ&#x20AC;? (Galatians 5:22,23). Rather than get bogged down purely in Greek word definitions, I have endeavoured to rediscover and apply their meaning through seven key areas: 1. A title synopsis (Truth Title) 2. A concentration of bible texts (Truth Verses) 3. An anecdotal story (Truth Story) 4. An unpacking of the biblical context (Truth Unpacked) 5. A thematic quotation (Quote) 6. A faith-filled prayer (Praying the Word) 7. Praying that the Holy Spirit would illuminate our reading of the scriptures and lead our time of contemplation and discussion together (Lectio Divina*) This course therefore aims to highlight one of the primary reasons why the Spirit of Jesus has in fact been poured out on

mankind (Acts 2:17,18). After being birthed into the Kingdom of God (John 3:3,5), the Spirit indwells our lives (1 Corinthians 3:16) to help empower us become more and more like Jesus (2 Corinthians 3:18). Therefore, this course is not just to feed the need for biblical head knowledge. Rather, it aims to help shape our everyday ordinary lives (Rom 12:1-2 MSG), in order that we can be transformed to lead extraordinary lives everyday (Acts 1:8). This goal can only be achieved by becoming fully reliant on the anointing of the Holy Spirit (1 John 2:20).

*A Lectio Divina is the practice of scriptural reading, meditation and prayer intended to promote communion with God and to increase the knowledge of God's Word. It does not treat Scripture solely as texts to be studied, but as the Living Word (Ephesians 6:19). It has four separate steps: read, meditate, pray and contemplate. First a passage of Scripture is read, and then itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s meaning is reflected upon. Prayer and contemplation then follow.

Becoming more like Jesus Truth Verses 2 Corinthians 3:18 As the Spirit of the Lord works within us, we become more and more like him and reflect his presence even more Colossians 1:27 This is the secret: Christ lives in you”

Truth Story My dad’s Mini Clubman was a car ‘well stricken in years’! Its former classy chassis was starting to rust; nonetheless I was ever so appreciative of being able to borrow it. This was my first set of wheels to tide me over between college days and work in real world. Dad had kindly added me to his insurance policy, allowing me to frequent the home of my then fiancée and now wife of thirty-four years. Dad’s generosity had spared me the inconvenience of public transport or by using what he used to

call “shank’s mare” – a colloquialism for saving me using my legs to walk, as my mode of transport. However, the orange coloured car was starting to show her age. One evening the accelerator cable snapped and she came to an abrupt stop. When the accelerator cable was opened it released the petrol to the engine to give it the power necessary to move the car forward. What on earth could my fiancée and I do to get the old mini moving? Stuck on the Craigantlet hillside, just behind Stormont and overlooking Belfast, the mother of invention, ingenuity kicked in. A wire coat hanger was used to save the day. By lifting the bonnet and connecting the coat hanger to an accelerator lever, we found this to be an alternative, although somewhat unconventional, way of releasing the petrol to restore the flow of fuel back to the engine again. So with limited vision and the bonnet almost vertical I held a wire coat hanger out of the drivers’ window until we made it home. We had never laughed so hard and were to tears at the

novel way that we’d managed to release and restore the power back to my dad’s old car.

Truth Unpacked It’s one thing knowing that the car needed power, but it was another thing understanding how to release the fuel for its intended use. Similarly, the secret power of every Christian is that Christ lives within you (2 Corinthians 13:5). It’s also imperative that we learn how to release that inner power into our everyday lives. The Apostle Paul asked the rhetorical question ‘Do you not know that you are God’s Temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in you’? (Romans 8:11). Yes, the Spirit of Jesus, the power of God’s presence has been poured out on all flesh and we are now partakers of His divine nature (2 Peter 1:4).

Part of God’s

reason for this outpouring is to shape and transform us to become more and more like Jesus (2 Corinthians 3:18).

Quote Christ-likeness is not produced by imitation, but by inhabitation (Rick Warren)

Praying the Word Dear Lord, thank you for pouring out your Spirit (Acts 2:17). Continue to dwell in my heart (Ezekiel 36:26). Govern my thinking, choices and feelings (1 Thessalonians 5:23). Release the power of your Spirit in my life today and everyday (Ephesians 3:16-17). Empower and enable me to become more and more like you Lord Jesus (1 John 2:6). Help me be a conduit for your presence and let me be salt and light to some of the people that I meet today. Amen (1 Corinthians 3:16-18; Colossians 4:3-6).

Lectio Divina [Prayer reading] Pray, read and reflect.

• Have those that are willing pray, asking that the Holy Spirit would help them hear His voice (John 10:27). • Read the scriptures again. • Then go around the room [allowing for ‘neighbour nudging’ to let people opt out should they not want to share].

Have

everyone

willing

then

reflect,

acknowledging one thing they sense the Holy Spirit is saying to them as they read. Pray, reinforce and contemplate. • Close the connect group time by praying that the Spirit would help empower everyone to demonstrate this truth • Reinforce this by participating in symbolic gesture or creative activity that does something to express our desire to receive this change (e.g. Establish “a cross” in the centre of the room. Then have everyone write down his or her thought or prompting on a sticky note, bringing it up to the foot of the cross). • Ask everyone to contemplate; to consider how to demonstrate this truth more in his or her everyday life.

Week 1 ~ Receiving the promise

Truth Verses

Luke 24:49 I am sending the promise of the Father upon you, but stay in the city until you are clothed with the power from on high. Acts 2:38-39 Peter said, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Change your life. Turn to God and be baptized, each of you, in the name of Jesus Christ, so your sins are forgiven. Receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. The promise is targeted to you and your children, but also to all who are far awayâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;whomever, in fact, our Master God invites. Matthew 28:20 I am with you always, to the end of the age.

Truth Story

My golf clubs were not the greatest, but then it is said that a â&#x20AC;&#x153;good workman never blames his toolsâ&#x20AC;?. I would look longingly at others teeing off with pristine new drivers, with one of their clubs probably worth more than all my trusty old irons put together. I had however thankfully invested in my three sons, ensuring that they had each owned a brand new set. Occasionally they'd promise, "Dad when we grow up and have money of our own we'll buy you a really good set." I'd forgotten all about their youthful promise until a recent surprise turned this casual promise into a living reality. To celebrate Fathers Day 2012, one of my big sons, flush with the remuneration of his newfound income, invested in my golf game. He gave me the gift of a lifetime - a brand new set of gleaming Ping irons in their very own Ping golf bag! The

golfers

among

you

will

appreciate the value of such a gift. To the uninitiated, Ping in golf is like Mercedes is to cars.

Truth Unpacked

"Dad, how's you golf game coming on with those Pings?" My reply was a little hesitant, as I realised I hadn't played with them this season yet. With a sense of embarrassment, I replied to my son, "I do plan to get out to play a game soon." [Note to self: play at least a round per month during the golfing season.] It is so important that when the promised gift is given, that we put it to good use. The greatest compliment to the gift-giver is not to waste the investment but to use it regularly. The price of the Spirit of Jesus being poured out on our lives was so very costly (I Corinthians 6:19). We really need to set ourselves reminders that the promise of His presence is continually with us. Every minute of every day this inherent

transforming power is at work, shaping us to be more and more like Jesus in all we say and do (2 Corinthians 4:16). Key bible passages that encourage us to live life by this power of the Spirit are found in Galatians 5 and 1 Corinthians 12. Therefore, as we move forward we shall be focusing initially to unpack the nine primary Jesus-like characteristics. The scriptures call these 'the fruit of the Spiritâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; (Galatians 5:22). Just as sure as apple seed produce apples, so the Spirit of Jesus living in us will produce Jesus-like 'fruit' ~ Jesus-like attitudes, character and behaviour. With our Jesus-inspired example and our Holy Spirit-liberated imagination, we can now embrace the abundant life God intended for us to live every day.

Quote Those in whom the Spirit comes to live are God's new temple. They are, individually and corporately, places where heaven and earth meet (N.T. Wright, Simply Christian: Why Christianity Makes Sense).

Praying the Word Thank you Lord for the promised gift of your presence indwelling my life. Lord take me and make me, mould me and shape me to be more and more like Jesus in all I think, say and do. Let me share one of your characteristics today (Exodus 34:6,7). Help me to be counterintuitive; to realise the last shall be first (Matthew 20:16), the way of greatness is the way of the servant (Mark 10:35-45) and foot-washing (John 13:1-11) and the way of non-violence trumps any sense of considering revenge or hatred (John 18:36; 19). Let me walk in the way of Jesus (John 14:6; Acts 9:2). Spirit of Jesus, I invite you to come rule and reign afresh in my thinking today (Luke 17:21). Amen.

Lectio Divina [Prayer reading] Pray, read and reflect.

• Have those that are willing pray, asking that the Holy Spirit would help them hear His voice (John 10:27).

• Read the scriptures again. • Then go around the room [allowing for ‘neighbour nudging’ to let people opt out should they not want to share].

Have

everyone

willing

then

reflect,

acknowledging one thing they sense the Holy Spirit is saying to them as they read. Pray, reinforce and contemplate. • Close the connect group time by praying that the Spirit would help empower everyone to demonstrate this Jesus-like characteristic. • Reinforce this by participating in a symbolic gesture or creative activity that does something to express our desire to further receive this gift (e.g. place a jug of water in the middle of the room, representative of the Spirit. Everyone fill a glass to symbolize the indwelling and

infilling of the Spirit of Jesus empowering their life of faith ~ John 7:37-39; Isaiah 44:3; John 4:14). â&#x20AC;˘ Ask everyone to contemplate; to consider how they can receive a greater infilling of the Spirit in their everyday lives.

Week 2 ~ A Love that is Selfless Truth Verses Romans 5:5 Gods love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. Matthew 22:37-39 Jesus said, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence.’ This is the most important, the first on any list.” But there is a second to set alongside it: ‘Love others as well as you love yourself.’ Galatians 5:22 The fruit of the Spirit is love...

Truth Story I am a massive admirer of a heroic Welshman called Harold Geoffrey Lowe. Many may not know his name, but he was the man who sacrificially risked his life to rescue a few of the lives of those perishing in the icy sea, while the doomed Titanic was still sinking. While the other lifeboats headed towards the rescue ship the Carpathia, Lowe's Lifeboat 14 was the only lifeboat to go back. His action was that of a love that was both selfless and sacrificial. Although all the other lifeboats feared the probability of being sucked under as the Titanic sank, Lowe risked life and limb to rescue the perishing. The New York Senate hearings vindicate this one mans heroic decision, as it was proven that there was in fact no undertow from the Titanic as it sank. Harold Geoffrey Lowe Fifth Officer RMS Titanic, I posthumously salute you as one of my all-time heroes.

Truth Unpacked As we launch out in our quest to understand the fruit of the Spirit, the starting trait is that of love. Love is the budding point from which all the other fruits come (1 John 4:16). The great love chapter of 1 Corinthians 13, is one that is often read at weddings. Here the writer, the Apostle Paul, endeavours to encapsulate a definition of this God-love. It helps many happy couples try to express something of the depth of their love in terms of giving with no selfish hooks - seeking not their own, always keeping the other in mind before thinking of themselves. Jesus expressed this selfless love in laying down his life for mankind through his sacrificial death (Ephesians 5:25). John summarises this when he states, greater love has no man than a man lay down his life for a friend (John 15:13). Agape love, true love is selfless.

Quote An excerpt from 1 Corinthians 13 (MSG) states: Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut, Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end.

Praying the Word Help us Lord to not only seek our own desires and passions but to seek the things that you are passionate about (Galatians 1:10; Colossians 1:10). Help us express love through a sacrificial act for someone else today (1 John 3:16). Make this world a better place because of my love and to "think a little more of others and a little less of me." In agreeing that true love flows from you Lord, Spirit of Jesus grant me more of your love in my heart today to replace my selfishness with your selflessness. Amen (Romans 5:5).

Lectio Divina [Prayer reading] Pray, read and reflect. • Have those that are willing pray, asking that the Holy Spirit would help them hear His voice (John 10:27). • Read the scriptures again. • Then go around the room [allowing for ‘neighbour nudging’ to let people opt out should they not want to share].

Have

everyone

willing

then

reflect,

acknowledging one thing they sense the Holy Spirit is saying to them as they read. Pray, reinforce and contemplate. â&#x20AC;˘ Close the connect group time by praying that the Spirit would help empower everyone to demonstrate this Jesus-like characteristic of selfless love. â&#x20AC;˘ Reinforce this by participating in symbolic gesture or creative activity that does something to express our desire to receive this change (e.g. Get a colouring pencil and then get your bible. Highlight the verse(s) that mentioned this insight). â&#x20AC;˘ Ask everyone to contemplate; to consider how they can demonstrate this characteristic more in their everyday lives.

Week 3 Joy ~ the inner assurance policy Truth Verses Psalm 16:11 You will show me the path of life; in Your presence is fullness of joy; at Your right hand are pleasures forevermore I Thessalonians 1:6 And you became followers of us and of the Lord, having received the word in much affliction with joy of the Holy Spirit. Rom 15:13 Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost. Nehemiah 8:10 Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength Galatians 5:22 The fruit of the Spirit is...Joy

Truth Story The 120 plus members of the Belfast Community Gospel Choir (BCGC) constitute a united community of love and hope. They perform a variety of songs rooted in urban contemporary gospel music, sometimes referred to as 'black gospel'. Through singing they bring joy to business people and politicians hosting corporate functions. They also regularly help fundraisers at charitable events. Their versatility and magnanimity is such that they also perform at church concerts and have even backed theatrical productions. My wife has been a BCGC soprano since it's inception and wanted me to spend more time with her "feeling the joy." So in the summer of 2014, flush with our newfound empty nest, an idea was hatched for me to possibly join her. I auditioned for a tenor part and the rest is history. I'm certainly no Pavarotti, but nonetheless, passionately sing my wee heart out (my choreography is however somewhat developmental) as I too now "feel the joy". Catching up on learning 55 joy-filled songs sure is hard work though!

The uniqueness of singing â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;gospel musicâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; is that the inherent message reassures listeners, encouraging them to receive a newfound confidence throughout the ups and downs of their lives. An example song would be "hold on, don't quit Gods on your side." This particular song encapsulates how joy is more than circumstantial happiness. In the face of the storms and trials of life we can have a confident assurance that things are going to be all right. It continues in a crescendo, with the words of my old Boys Brigade motto: "We have an anchor that keeps the soul, steadfast and sure while the billows roll, fastened to the Rock which cannot move, hold on..." This expression of joy strengthens our resolve to hope in our ever-present friend and faithful God. What seems like apparent defeat can often just be a delay. Remember, even then, it's Gods joy that will give us the strength to get up and get on!

Truth Unpacked There is something about the atmosphere of praise and thanks that commands the presence of God (Psalm 22:3; Jonah 2:9,10). Ushering in a joy that is tangible uplifts everyone's spirit

and blows away any melancholy or any feeling of the blues (Isa 61:3). The joy of the Lord (Nehemiah 8:10) springs from God's Spirit and has God as its object (Psalm 16:11; Romans 14:17). If your joy levels are dropping, raise your rejoicing quotient by getting into a praising environment. Its there God comes and turns mourning into dancing and depressive sadness into gladness (Psalm 30:11).

Quote Joy is the settled assurance that God is in control of all the details of my life, the quiet confidence that ultimately everything is going to be all right, and the determined choice to praise God in every situation (Kay Warren).

Praying the Word Lord, give me a new song today (Psalm 40:3). Be my song Lord (Psalm 118:14). King Jesus, let my life be one that always overflows with your Spiritâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s fruit of joy. Let me be a joy-bringer (Psalm 16:11).

Thank you for your faithfulness in every season of my life (Lamentations 3:22-23; Ecclesiastes 3:1). In knowing that you are always with me (Matthew 28:20), let me experience your inner joy and rejoicing to help me in the temporary trials and setbacks of life (Romans 5:3, 12:12; James 1:2). Take me back, take me back dear Lord, to the place where I once received you, Take me back, take me back dear Lord, where I first believed ...Renew my faith, restore my joy and dry my weeping eye (Andraé Crouch - Gospel singer/songwriter 1942-2015).

Lectio Divina [Prayer reading] Pray, read and reflect.

• Have those that are willing pray, asking that the Holy Spirit would help them hear His voice (John 10:27).

• Read the scriptures again. • Then go around the room [allowing for ‘neighbour nudging’ to let people opt out should they not want to share].

Have everyone willing then reflect, acknowledging one thing they sense the Holy Spirit is saying to them as they read. Pray, reinforce and contemplate. â&#x20AC;˘ Close the connect group time by praying that the Spirit would help empower everyone to demonstrate Jesus-like characteristic of Joy. â&#x20AC;˘ Reinforce this by a participating in symbolic gesture or creative activity that does something to express our desire to receive this change (e.g. Take several minutes to express Joy by singing a favourite song or chorus or even by writing your own song or poem. Sing or read someone your creative thoughts). â&#x20AC;˘ Ask everyone to contemplate; to consider how they can demonstrate this characteristic more in their everyday lives.

Week 4 ~ The triad of peace Truth Verses 1. Peace with God Colossians 1:20 Through the Son, God also reconciled all things to himself, whether things on earth or things in heaven, thereby making peace through the blood of his cross. (read Romans 5:1 John 16:33 Ephesians 2:14-17) 2. Peace with others Matthew 5:9 Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God. (read Romans 12:18 Romans 14:19) 3. Peace within Philippians 4:6,7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving,

present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Galatians 5:22 the fruit of the Spirit is…peace (Read John 14:27; Romans 8:6; Romans 14:17; 15:13)

Truth Story Alfred Nobel was the inventor of dynamite. In the course of developing the explosive, he experienced tragedy when his brother Emil was killed, when a shed housing his less stable invention nitroglycerin exploded. After several similar accidents, the death of his other brother Ludvig caused several newspapers to publish obituaries, mistakenly thinking it was Alfred who had died. A French obituary stated, "The merchant of death is dead". Alfred, however never intended hurting anyone, as his products were used primarily for positive purposes such as mining. Alfred was in fact a pacifist, opposed to war or conflict of any kind. In light of this bad press, the

wealthy Alfred was inspired to create a lasting legacy; intentionality encouraged the notion of global peacemaking. The last will and testament of Alfred Nobel left much of his wealth for the establishment of an annual peace prize, specifically targeted at those whom it was deemed had "conferred the greatest benefit on mankind.â&#x20AC;? Much of the interest that accrued on his fortune was annually given to the person who has done "the most or the best work for fraternity between nations, for the abolition or reduction of standing armies and for the holding

and

promotion

peace congresses.â&#x20AC;? Until the time of writing there have been 89 such Nobel Peace Prizes awarded since 1901.

Truth Unpacked It's is hard to miss the similarities of the ideals encouraged by Nobel and that advocated by Jesus when he stated blessed are the peacemakers. Will and testaments are supremely important as they indicate the essence of a persons desires and deepest passions. Jesus' last will and testimony is often thought of in terms of what is stated in the Synoptic Gospels. Here the Great Commission focus is on "making disciples." However, Johns Gospel takes a departure, emphasising another dimension to this commission. In John 20:14-17 Jesus' repeated emphasis is on receiving His peace, receiving the Spirit and receiving forgiveness and then becoming carriers of His forgiveness. Having already categorised the New Testament scriptures related to peace, we discover that there are actually three main fields that make peace complete.

The first is finding peace with God. The truth verses above demonstrate how there can only be this peace through the blood of the cross. Being reconciled with God is only received by faith in the work of Jesus as both Saviour and Lord of our lives. Secondly, efforts like Nobelâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s, honour peacemakers. It awards those who make a tremendous effort in reconciling people to each other, often restoring friendly relations between people in conflict or at war. Lastly, this peace is also to be a daily, Holy Spirit enabled, experience as a peace within. This is a holy repose and a Godgiven tranquility in our hearts and minds. So many live with inner turmoil, troubling thoughts and personal inner conflict. This peace from the Spirit is given by receiving Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mind and spirit on an issue. It becomes a calming and protecting antidote to feeling disquiet and angst. Paul likens it to a sentry or garrison surrounding our hearts, protecting us from lifeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s hurts, habits and hangups. This is none other that the calm and serenity of the indwelling presence of the Spirit of Jesus.

Quote PEACE - It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart (Anon).

Praying the Word Lord we realise that all of the qualities that the Spirit of Jesus produces flow from our relationship with you (1 John 1:3). Lord, thank you for peace in being reconciled with you through your crucified son and our saviour Jesus. Lord, help us in turn to be peacemakers in this world of conflict (Matthew 5:9). Help us be ministers of reconciliation at every stratum of society (2 Corinthians 5:11-21). Let us pursue peace today (Psalm 34:14) to become a person of peace (Psalm 37:37). Calm any restlessness and anxiety in our lives (Philippians 4:67). May we know your touch and partake in your peace

(Romans 15:13). Prince of peace (Isaiah 9:6), let your peace guard our hearts from all anxiety. Impart your calm, your serenity and your repose we pray, as we trust in you. Amen (Isaiah 26:3; Psalm 23; John 16:33).

Lectio Divina [Prayer reading] Pray, read and reflect.

• Have those that are willing pray, asking that the Holy Spirit would help them hear His voice (John 10:27).

• Read the scriptures again. • Then go around the room [allowing for ‘neighbour nudging’ to let people opt out should they not want to share].

Have

everyone

willing

then

reflect,

â&#x20AC;˘ Reinforce this by participating in symbolic gesture or creative activity that does something to express our desire to receive this change (Setup a church candle in the centre of a table surrounded by several tea lights. Ask people to light the church candle (representing Jesus) and have others light their tea lights from it). â&#x20AC;˘ Ask everyone to contemplate; to consider how they can demonstrate this characteristic more in their everyday lives.

Week 5 Long-suffering ~ the willingness to stick with things. Truth Verses Gal 5:22 the fruit of the spirit is…long-suffering (patience) Gal 5:22 [MSG] much the same way that fruit appears in an orchard…we develop a willingness to stick with things Hebrews 6:12 who through faith and patience inherit the promises of God Colossians 1:11 As you learn more and more how God works, you will learn how to do your work. We pray that you’ll have the strength to stick it out over the long haul - not the grim strength of gritting your teeth but the glory-strength God gives.

Truth Story The book of Genesis dedicates chapters 37-50 to the story of Joseph. This is a life-journey that demonstrates the quality of persevering patience or long-suffering. God had given Joseph prophetic dreams that would be fulfilled only after many turbulent years. However, when Joseph shared his dreams with his older brothers, they were, in the words of Queen Victoria, â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;not amused"! He had shared how his dream had predicted that they would bow down to him as he ruled over them. Needless to say, those same brothers thought him to be an arrogant young upstart. Their hatred was compounded by the fact that their father had also expressed favouritism to Joseph. His father Jacob had made him a special multi-coloured coat to wear. Their envy and jealousy was so intense that they had even considered killing him. Instead they feigned his death, dipping his coat in animal blood to deceive their dad. They pretended that a wild animal had killed his dreamer son.

From that point on Joseph suffered a series of life events that seemed like his dreams were "pie in the sky" figments of his imagination. He was thrown in a pit, and then thrown in prison and subsequently experienced false accusations during his stay in Potiphar's house. While in prison and in Potiphar's house he had consistently devoted himself to the concern and service of others and had been recognised by those in power to be a very effective leader. However, through it all, Joseph never let his dream die.

His

prophetic dreams were often all that he had to hold onto. In these tough and extremely testing times he reached his destiny. It was through his faith and patience that he ultimately inherited his promised

leadership

dream

(Hebrews 12:6). Joseph had become the Prime Minister of Egypt. He then led a campaign of food storage that would save many lives

throughout a period of famine. During this time of food shortage his brothers travelled down from Canaan in search of food, only to find themselves paying homage to the brother they had left for dead. They had meant it into Him for evil but God had meant it unto him for good (Genesis 50:20). God had permitted Joseph to experience hardship and trial, but ultimately used all the circumstances, the good the bad and the ugly, to fulfil the future He had preordained for Joseph's life.

Truth Unpacked Long-suffering is an old fashioned [KJV] word used fourteen times in the New Testament, translated in newer versions (NIV) as patience. It literally means being “long-tempered.” This is a God-like characteristic (Exodus 34:6). Rather than retaliating in anger when offended, God patiently forbears or has a “long fuse” (James 5:19). The Message Bible [MSG] culturally updates and unpacks this characteristic to be a willingness to stick with things.

Realising that the Lord is always with us (Matt 28:19ff), helps us never loose sight of the fact that God has a dream for our life and an important destiny for us to fulfil (Rom 8:28). So although our life calling may be delayed, tested and tried, remember that God himself is a long-suffering God (Exodus 34). He too has a "long-fuse" and shall be faithful, in time, to push the detonator of fulfilment to the dreams that he has promised for our lives.

Quote The two hardest tests on the spiritual road are the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter (Paulo Coelho, Book - Veronika Decides to Die)

Praying the Word Spirit of the Lord, help me receive and develop this virtue. Deposit patience within my heart (Romans 5:3-5[MSG]). Let this â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;long fuseâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; mindset help me to have the strength to stick things out for the long haul. Recalibrate my thinking to realise

that the absence of action is often just a timing delay (Habakkuk 2:3). Help me to wait on the right time to act, for the right principles to apply and do them in the right way. Amen (Psalm 34:19; 37:7; James 1:3-4).

Have

everyone

willing

then

reflect,

â&#x20AC;˘ Reinforce this by a participating in symbolic gesture or creative activity that does something to express our desire to receive this change (e.g. Share personal testimonies of how apparently setbacks were actually Gods setups. These stories will underscore the ongoing need for everyone to experience this trait of patience) â&#x20AC;˘ Ask everyone to contemplate; to consider how they can demonstrate this characteristic more in their everyday lives.

Week 6 Gentleness ~ receiving God’s download of a kindly disposition Truth Verses The same word for gentleness, as a characteristic of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22) is interpreted kindness in other scripture passages: 2 Corinthians 6:6 in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love Col 3:12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.

Truth Story How we go about finding a car parking space can sometimes be a gauge to help determine the measure of our personal ‘kindness levels’.

In the course of learning the advanced driving test I was given a tip, deemed foolproof in helping to secure the only remaining car park space. When faced with the challenge of another car competing for a last remaining spot, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s so easy now for me to nip in and win the prized space. Having successfully achieved that goal, on several occasions, it soon became apparent that this was also a surefire way of creating enemies and loosing the respect of the contending motorists. The greater challenge for me is to wave the person ahead and then win in the kindness stakes! As the saying goes "its not so much whether we win or loose, it's about how we play the game." In a world with everyone competing to be the top dog, remember the way of the master is not a "power over" superior smartness but a "power under" kind and friendly disposition (Matthew 20:26-27; 23:11; John Chapters 18 & 19).

Truth Unpacked Q. What then is this gentleness or kindness?

A. It is an attitude of humility that desires to show consideration and helpfulness towards other people,. Instead of us wanting to express any sense of superiority, kindness instead genuinely wants to serve them. This friendly disposition flows from its source - the 'exceeding riches of Gods goodness and kindness' (Rom 2:4; Ephesians 2:7). It expresses a genuine kindness for peopleâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;having true, outgoing concern for their well-being. This attitude of how we think of others is shown in how we both treat and talk with others. So rather than becoming sons of thunder (Mark 3:17) as those seeking revenge by violence and strength, instead seek to be kind. I find my kindness-levels are often assisted by me pretending that I am like a medieval-times musketeer. This renews my thinking to see myself as an ambassador representing his sovereign King. Such ambassadors always endeavour to treat foreign

dignitaries

with

courtesy

and

friendliness,

both

protecting their kings’ interests and carrying the kings’ messages. Therefore, in a culture infused with harshness and oneupmanship, don't ever quit becoming counter -cultural and bucking

what

‘trending’.

Instead

cultivate

being

'gentle' man or 'gentle' woman,

the

timeless

noble trait of a King’s musketeer.

Quote One kind word can change someone's entire day (Anon).

Praying the a Word Spirit of Jesus, please help me learn life-principles from the story of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37). Let me never

overlook the issues of others that are hurting and needing support. Let your gentleness and kindness captivate my heart, transforming how I treat and talk with others (Ephesians 4:32; Colossians 3:12-14). "You're rich in love And You're slow to anger Your name is great And Your heart is kind For all Your goodness I will keep on singing Ten thousand reasons For my heart to find Bless the Lord oh my soul Oh my soul Worship His Holy name Sing like never before Oh my soul I'll worship Your Holy name Bless You Lord

[Matt Redman - Song entitled 10,000 Reasons (Bless The Lord)]

Have

everyone

willing

then

reflect,

desire to receive this change (e.g. Think of one random act of kindness you could do for someone in your school/college, work or neighbourhood. Then ask people to put a time and date in their diary to â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;just do itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; in the incoming week). â&#x20AC;˘ Ask everyone to contemplate; to consider how they can demonstrate this characteristic more in their everyday lives.

Week 7 ~ Be Good for Goodness sake Truth Verses Galatians 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy,

peace,

patience,

kindness, goodness Matthew 7:17 So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. Luke 6:35 But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.

Ephesians 2:12 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. Amos 5:14-15 Those who serve God will seek good, not evil... hate evil, love good

Truth Story When my Mum was alive she told us a family story, which carries a clear message that warns of the perils of being badly behaved. Her youngest brother had been warned, time and time again, to stop using foul language and swearing at people. My grandparents had raised all her family within a God-fearing home, but this wayward sibling was bringing the family name into disrepute. Something really needed to be done to help him get the message that this had to stop! All the warnings seemed to fall on deaf ears until one Christmas Day, they decided to covey the message in no uncertain terms. Instead of receiving his usual load of presents, he was left with only one present. The gift was unwrapped and, to his surprise and horror, inside

he found a bag of coal, yes, the stuff you put on an open fire, black coal. This was ‘tough love’ for sure, for a son who'd been 'naughty not nice' all year. The song 'Santa Claus is coming to town’ became his living reality, a surprise I’m sure that would be indelibly written on his mind. It is now written into the annals of our family folklore. Whether he believed in Santa wasn't really the issue. My grandparents were certainly milking the essence of the infamous song for all it was worth, adapting its promises into their parental toolbox. They'd been "making a list, checking it twice, they were 'gonna let him know if he was ‘naughty or nice’. They knew who'd been ‘bad or good’. They were letting him know that although Christmas was certain, great presents were optional ...so 'You better be good for goodness sake'! Just in case you think they were really cruel, they did in the end give him his presents, but not before clearly communicating a valuable lesson in the importance of being good in how we treat others.

Truth Unpacked Interestingly, 1 Corinthians chapter 11 says love is patient, love is kind and seeks not it’s own. The letter to the church at Galatia similarly includes a similar theme, encouraging us to seek the empowering Spirits help in how we best treat others. Paul lists this ‘other-centred’ triad as patience, kindness and lastly goodness (Galatians 5:22) The scriptures are replete with God as a God full of goodness (Numbers 10:29; Micah 6:8) Elsewhere we are encouraged to participate in His goodness, with the encouragement to taste and see that the Lord is good (Psalm 34:8). This moral quality of goodness involves not only demonstrating right

behaviour

but

also

avoiding

its

opposite

characteristic, evil. The Star Wars movies, pick up a similar redemptive thread, a modern day twist that helps us distinguish these two opposing forces and kingdom’s of good and evil.

However, rather than just being caught in up in a ‘warp speed’ fiction adventure, let us go back to understand the facts through the lens of the creation story. This helps us understand the importance of us making good and right choices. The choice between good and evil has been with us since the Garden of Eden. This was when Adam and Eve ate fruit from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil (Genesis 2:9). Since then God's distanced himself from those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter (Isa 5:20). The wise king Solomon encourages anyone wanting to obey God to pursue the wisdom to discern between good and evil (1 Kings 3:9; Hebrews 5:14). Those who serve God will seek good, not evil…hate evil, love good (Amos 5:14-15).

Quote (abbreviated) Goodness is love in action, love with its hand at the plough, love with the burden on its back; it is love carrying medicine to the sick, and food to the famished; it is love reading the Bible to the blind, and explaining the Gospel to

the felon in his cell; it is love at the Sunday-class…or sailing far away in the missionary ship; but whatever task it undertakes, it is still the same – love following His footsteps, “who went about continually doing good” (Acts 10:38). (James Hamilton [1814-1867] Scottish minister, Day’s Collacon, compiled and arranged by Edward Parsons Day [New York: IPPO, 1884] 336.) Praying the Word Thank you Lord that your very nature is one of patience, kindness and goodness (Galatians 5:22). As we close this trilogy of how we are to treat others, help us to be carriers of your goodness, seeking to do what is right and shunning what is bad or evil. We know your eyes run throughout the whole earth seeking those whose ways please you (2 Chronicles 16:9). Find us to be your good and faithful servants (Matthew 25:21,23), those who walk in your footsteps (1 Peter 2:21). Thank you Lord that your goodness has led us to repentance and faith (Romans 2:4). Come fill our lives today (Ephesians 5:19). May the infilling of your Spirit overpower and purge any evil ways within us (Psalm 139:24), that we would live

with integrity and uprightness and make right choices (Psalm 41:11-13:100:2). Help us in some way to reflect your goodness to our friends, families and work colleagues today (Colossians 3:10). Amen.

Have

everyone

willing

then

reflect,

â&#x20AC;˘ Reinforce this by participating in a symbolic gesture or creative activity that does something to express our desire to receive this change (e.g. Ask people to think of a bad choice they have made and reflect on the different outcomes had it instead been a good choice). â&#x20AC;˘ Ask everyone to contemplate; to consider how they can demonstrate this characteristic more in their everyday lives.

Week 8 ~ Loyalty is everything. It looks out for others. Truth Verses Galatians 5:22 the fruit if the spirit is...faithfulness Exodus 36:6 The Lord, The Lord the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness Deuteronomy 7:9 The Lord your God is God. He is the faithful God Proverbs 3:3 Let love and faithfulness never leave you Proverbs

20:9

...but

faithful person who can find?

Proverbs 17:17 A friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to help in the time of need.

Truth Story I have a life-long friend who treats me like I was his brother. In fact I joke that we are brothers from a different mother. Through our thirty-nine year friendship, through the good times and the bad, he has proven himself to be loyal friend beyond my wildest dreams. Several years ago I had experienced a traumatic series of events that had caused me to step back and resign from my chosen profession. While recovering from the setback and while searching for gainful employment, my lifelong friend intervened to become my rescue-ranger. During these months of uncertainty and lose of income, he actually placed my salary equivalent into my account! His faithfulness and generosity was extraordinary. He helped me to meet every normal monthly commitment, without

ever being left short for any mortgage or utility payment. This faithfulness demonstrated a kindness and allegiance that I shall never forget until my dying breathe. True friendship is a rare commodity, but one to cherish.

Truth Unpacked Contrastingly, did you ever feel let down or betrayed by someone you considered a friend? Being double-crossed by someone, particularly someone you have considered close, is gut wrenching to say the least. It seems some people are so caught up in the vortex of their own agendas that they willfully do something to you or say something about you which only confirms, (when push come to shove), that they are clearly demonstrating traits of disloyalty and unfaithfulness. Often unaware of narcissism and self-centredness, they are blinded, to the fact that they often only use their close contact with you as stepping-stones to protect some sort of vested interest, make some sort of a point or possibly attain some sort of warped power-position status. They simply perceive their

priorities more important than the joy of the deep bond found in true allegiances. The repercussions of such fair-weathered friendships can either make us better or bitter. Just like sucking on a lemon, we need to, as my life-long friend says, turn these "friendship lemons' into lemonade! Therefore, let us ask that the Holy Spirit will help us to discern the real issue. Call out their betrayal and unfaithfulness and ask the Lord to do a work in their hearts and minds that would bring about a positive change. Ask Him to infuse our lives daily with His presence, to enable us to demonstrate His life-giving self-less allegiance, that Godgiven quality of an enduring spirit both of loyalty to God and to others.

Quote Blood makes you related Loyalty makes you family (Anon)

Praying the Word Lord, confidence in an unfaithful person is like having a toothache (Proverbs 25:19). Lord help me to return good for evil (Romans 12:17-21). Help me to demonstrate your faithfulness by being loyal to others, both when they are right and particularly when they are wrong (Proverbs 27:6). Help me be a life-long friend and give me the grace to keep my allegiances, and even to challenge, support and journey with friends through the tough times (Proverbs 22:24-25: 27:5-6). Let me express a faith that is faithful at all times (Proverbs 17:17). Amen.

Have

everyone

willing

then

reflect,

acknowledging one thing they sense the Holy Spirit is saying to them as they read. Pray, reinforce and contemplate. â&#x20AC;˘ Close the connect group time by praying that the Spirit would help empower everyone to demonstrate Jesus-like characteristic of loyalty. â&#x20AC;˘ Reinforce this by participating in symbolic gesture or creative activity that does something to express our desire to receive this change (e.g. Create two-person prayer buddy partnerships and commit to be loyal to pray for each other throughout the incoming week. Make a checklist on your mobile phone and every day you remember to pray place a tick on the list). â&#x20AC;˘ Ask everyone to contemplate; to consider how they can demonstrate this characteristic more in their everyday lives.

Week 9 ~ Meekness: Absorbing contentious reactions and reflecting God's strength through measured responses Truth Verses Galatians 5:23 the fruit of the spirit is...meekness Matthew 5:5 Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth (3rd beatitude). Matthew 11:29 I am meek and lowly in heart (Jesus) James 1:21; 3:11...receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls...Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show by good conduct that his works are done in the meekness of wisdom. Galatians 6:1,2 if a man is overtaken in sin...restore such a one in the spirit of meekness

Colossians 3:12 Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, long-suffering.

Truth Story Having feasted on a visual diet of revenge movies, starring actors such as Charles Bronson, Denzel Washington, Al Pacino, Clint Eastwood and Jason Stratham, I am conscious how all too easy it is for the big screen to subtlety twist what true justice really looks like. The recent blockbuster 'Taken' trilogy, starring Liam Neeson, feeds this commonly held feeling, that it is all right to impose a justice outside the restraints of the judicial process. When Neeson insists to the perpetrator "I will look for you! I will find you and when I do, I will kill you,â&#x20AC;? his intent is clearly one of revenge. In the clear light of day it is easy to agree with his underlying motivation to seek justice. Neeson's "particular set of skills" certainly equipped him to back up his verbal threats, but fighting fire with fire is certainly not

true justice. However laudable the goal 'two wrongs don't make a right!' So, although injustice happens, it is not enough to overcome it with more injustice. Retaliation and revenge are poor natural reactions to others who are through their provocative actions have 'done you wrong'. Many believe it a good idea to lash out by getting their own back, particularly when mistreated. In contrast to the spirit of revenge, the spirit of meekness is a supernaturally controlled and God-inspired measured response.

Truth Unpacked Jesus himself modelled meekness (Matthew 11:9), harnessing and absorbing how he was mistreated and maligned. 'He was oppressed and afflicted, yet he did not open his mouth; he was led like a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before its shearers is silent, so he did not open his mouth (Isaiah 53:7). The Holy Spirit is the enabling source of strength (Galatians 5:23). He helps us both soak up the adverse reaction and also

demonstrate a God inspired response - that of a mild, measured (or controlled) and gentle disposition.

Quote Meekness is not weakness, its strength under control, Don’t think of me as weak, shy, reserved, or timid. I’m a child of the king the half has not yet been told.... No! You can’t walk all over me and treat me like a door mat, I’m not trying to straighten out the world and that settles that. I refuse to respond to every critic and I won’t let it bother me, I may have the power to do something about it, but my time is too valuable you see: I’ll keep my focus and stand tall doing what I’m called to do. My strength and power is in God’s control. Meekness is not weakness, blessed are the chosen few. (Abraham Lincoln - 16th US President)

Praying the Word Help us Lord be like a punching bag that doesn't feel hurtful jabs (2 Corinthians 1:3-4). Holy Spirit, give us the strength to soak up and absorb the blows of wrong reactions (Ephesians 4:26-27). Like a wild stallion that has been broken and is now tamed, help us to control situations that are often wild and out of control (2 Peter 1:6). Help us to be harnessed to your Spirit and lead us to be both a 'preventer' and a

'restorer.' Help us diffuse difficult sets of

circumstances with a supernatural calm response. Help us to demonstrate a mild and measured disposition (Galatians 6:1,2). Amen.

Lectio Divina [Prayer reading] Pray, read and reflect.

Have

everyone

willing

then

reflect,

acknowledging one thing they sense the Holy Spirit is saying to them as they read. Pray, reinforce and contemplate. • Close the connect group time by praying that the Spirit would help empower everyone to demonstrate Jesus-like characteristic of meekness. • Reinforce this by participating in a symbolic gesture or creative activity that does something to express your desire to receive this change (e.g. Share stories of how you have, at some time, just reacted badly to someone holding a contrasting view. Look at how you could and should have responded with a friendly disposition). • Ask everyone to contemplate; to consider how they can demonstrate this characteristic more in their everyday lives.

Week 10 ~ The boundaries of self-control Truth Verses Galatians 5:22,23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law 2 Peter 1:5-9 Now for this very reason also, applying all diligence, in your faith supply moral excellence, and in your moral excellence, knowledge, and in your knowledge, selfcontrol, and in your self-control, perseverance, and in your perseverance, godliness, and in your godliness, brotherly kindness, and in your brotherly kindness, love Titus 1:8 loving what is good, sensible, just, devout, selfcontrolled

Truth Story One of the most powerful testimonies of our modern age is the one I heard firsthand from Nicky Cruz. Nicky Cruz was a hardened violent street kid in New York City and leader of the dreaded and violent Mau Mau gang. However under the ministry of David Wilkerson he encountered Jesus Christ and experienced a radical change in his once dark and hopeless life. His story tells of his progression from being an unloved child to being alone on the streets of NY, to becoming gang leader and then being apprehended by the Lord Jesus Christ, who wrought a powerful and amazing conversion in his heart. Like the Apostle Paul, Nicky's story is one that graphically explains how the Holy Spirit changes lives by changing thinking - turning a life mastered by the enemy of our souls to that of a disciple of Jesus governed by His Word and his ways.

Truth Unpacked The last of the three traits of the Spirit is self-control. This final personal virtue is one focused on mastering our â&#x20AC;&#x153;personal

desires and passions, especially sensual appetitesâ&#x20AC;?(Strong's). Self-control or temperance understands the importance of boundaries. If a flowing river does not have banks it becomes a flood. If a fire isn't contained in a fireplace it becomes wildfire and burns the house down. Sadly, I have had friends who have wreaked devastation to their family relationships by removing agreed boundaries. Contrastingly I have witnessed blessings that flow in Spirit and Word governed lives. Just as there would be mayhem and carnage on our roads if the Highway Code werenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t followed, removal of Gods guidelines can lead to relational meltdown. Relationship

breakups

can

however be prevented by a mindset

shift.

Instead

viewing Gods commands as optional extras, it's crucial to view them as obligatory and deserving of our obedience.

The seven “cardinal or deadly sins” are given as wrath, greed, sloth, pride, lust, envy, and gluttony. Each is a form of selfidolatry in which the subjective rules over the objective. These, along with other vices, have often been the 'achilles heel’ that sadly destroyed so many relationships. These selfdestructive

choices

have

often

led

breakups

and

breakdowns. Martin Luther King Jr said: “You cannot keep birds from flying over your head but you can keep them from building a nest in your hair”. Therefore when the scripture prescribes us to renew our thinking, it's crucial to firstly "put off" old thinking where self is king. This mind renewal offered by Gods revelation to us through the Bible demands us to "put on" the values of our new ruler - King Jesus (Ephesians 4:22-24). Sub-mission is coming under His mission! “King-Dom” is becoming a subject or coming under the dominion of Christ as King.

Therefore in our quest to become more like Jesus, self-control is also a characteristic imparted and governed and by the Spirit. Self-control is not just an optional idea, but an obligatory ideal that brings order, freedom and wellbeing to our lives.

Quote Reign in me, sovereign Lord, reign in me, Reign in me, sovereign Lord, reign in me. Captivate my heart, Let Your Kingdom come, Establish there Your throne, Let Your will be done! Reign in me, sovereign Lord, reign in me, Reign in me, sovereign Lord, reign in me" (Song: Reign in me by Chris Bowater 1985) Lectio Divina [Prayer reading] Pray, read and reflect.

Have

everyone

willing

then

reflect,

acknowledging one thing they sense the Holy Spirit is saying to them as they read. Pray, reinforce and contemplate. • Close the connect group time by praying that the Spirit would help empower everyone to demonstrate Jesus-like characteristic of self-control. • Reinforce this by participating in a symbolic gesture or creative activity that does something to express your desire to receive this change (e.g. Share one or more area(s) that the Holy Spirit has been emphasizing during these 10 sessions. Then receive prayer-ministry by having some people lay hands on you (1 Timothy 4:14; 5:22). • Ask everyone to contemplate how he or she can demonstrate these characteristics in their everyday lives.

Profile Paul J. Bradley Email:pauljbradley5@ntlworld.com Twitter:PJBelfast • (2015) Masters (MA) in Kingdom Theology, Westminster Theological Centre (2012-2014) www.wtctheology.org.uk • (2000) Bachelor of Theology (BTh), Christian International School of Theology, Santa Rosa Beach, Florida,,USA. www.christianinternational.com • (1976-1979) Certificate in Theology, Portland Bible College, Portland, Oregon, ,USA, www.portlandbiblecollege.org • Author: Truth Unpacked Devotional Series - Foundational Truth (2011) / Everyday Extraordinary Lives (2015). • Paul is a bible theologian and author. He facilitates a theological hub at his local church, Lagan Valley Vineyard in Lisburn, Northern Ireland www.laganvalleyvineyard.com. He is a devoted ‘Papa’ (grandfather) and lover of family relationships. He is also a tenor with Belfast Community Gospel Choir www.bcgc.biz.

Book commendations (continued) In Everyday Extraordinary Lives, Paul Bradley effectively leads the reader to both see the goodness and greatness of God but also to desire character change. God alone can do immeasurably more with the person who will surrender to his working in their lives. Bradley assists both the individual and the connect group in making this happen. I can't wait to have my church begin to use this excellent tool. Rev. John W. Telman, Pastor of Abundant Life Church, Cranbrook, Canada.

You present an excellent template for personal bible study, not only for examining ‘the fruit of the Spirit’ as you’ve done in this booklet, but for relating any portion of the scriptures to our personal lives: What does the passage say, how can I illustrate this, what does it mean for me, and how can I pray it through…I think what I so deeply appreciated was the importance you placed on prayer in this framework, not simply as a traditionally Christian after-thought, but in recognition that we cannot on our own power or through our own wills attain Christ-likeness. I especially appreciated the link between this book and your previous work on unpacking truth (what all good exposition is, really). This is so foundational, so essential, and so crucial for personal spiritual development that I am going to incorporate these two books in an introductory course for pastors in a new seminary we are founding in Anchorage, Alaska. Many of the native pastors in rural Alaska have had little or no biblical, theological, or practical training at all, even in the area of personal spiritual growth. Introducing the goal of ‘likeness to Jesus’ along with a neat, transferrable template like this – well, Paul, it’s made to order! By the way – we begin our initial course work with an estimated 70 pastors starting on September 8. Dr. Doug Norwood JR, D.Min. Allentown, PA. / Executive Director of Broken Jars Ministry / Missional lecturer, Asia Theological Centre, Singapore.

Whether for personal devotion or church group study, Paul has penned a very readable, intuitive and most importantly, anointed study that will bless and edify the reader. I believe this book will provide, not only a valuable teaching aid for church leaders and pastors, but allow the individual to further develop their personal walk with God. James (Jim) Connolly, Pastor of House of Worship, Belfast.

The desire of every Christian to become progressively more like Jesus can at times get displaced in our lives. Despite being the highest aim imaginable, it’s counter intuitive to that all too prominent human trait of self-reliance. Therefore, whether your personal devotional journey is based around one or all of the facets of reading, reflecting, responding or resting, the Extraordinary Lives series is for you. Paul Bradley has set out a very worthy framework for the disciple who wants to take in more and more of the Truth. Significantly, Extraordinary Lives will help sustain the believer to remain in His presence by giving due priority to the Spirit’s leading in a world obsessed with individual achievement, and individual standing. Personal and corporate use of the Extraordinary Lives material will most certainly aid the Christian in the quest to respond faithfully to God’s perfect calling. Philip Pentland, Senior Manager, Expedia Europe (EMEA).

Becoming a follower of Jesus involves a lifetime commitment to spiritual formation and transformation into Christ-likeness. Paul reminds us that we have not been left as orphans in this call to change and that we have both the Word of God and the Spirit of God to help in building and shaping our character on our spiritual journey. We also have the body of Christ to build each other up, and in ‘Life in the Power of the Spirit’, Paul has captured for us a way, that as individuals or together in groups, we can practically apply the Word of God to grow in the fruit of the Spirit and so to help us mature in Him. I commend this study guide. Paul Betts, Lead Pastor, Christian Fellowship Church, Holywood, Northern Ireland.

Paul Bradley has done an excellent job in writing "Everyday Extraordinary Lives." This ten week Bible study guide handles the subject of fruit of the Spirit in an attractive and compelling style. He blends scripture, testimony, group discussion, prayer, contemplation and action plans, masterfully. I love how frequently he gives the reader permission to "neighbour nudge" in order to promote participation. This study on the "Fruit of the Spirit" is so needed for Christians from every persuasion. Bradley promotes Christian maturity in a tasteful manner and avoids any doctrinal hot buttons or Christian fads. He handles these well-worn paths of righteousness in a fresh and innovative manner. Finally this guide is appropriate for believers of all maturity levels. Steve Schmelzer, Lead Pastor, Joy Christian Fellowship, Medford, Oregon & Founder of Zoe Bible College.

Anyone who has met Paul Bradley will know that he is a gifted communicator. It seems like a big challenge to become more like Jesus, but in this study guide Paul breaks down barriers and preconceptions, opens doors and shows the way. His witness, and that of his wife Caroline, has been a bigger influence on many others and myself in the past and, I am sure, in the future than he knows. I hope this informative and entertaining work will be used by many groups in many places. I look forward to this winter when we will be rolling it out in Second Saintfield. Peter Shaw, Managing Director, DFC (NI) Ltd.

Paul, another excellent resource with practical and powerful outworking.! I can see this resource having a wide and varied reach because of its brevity, simplicity and concise nature. There is a world of difference between fruit and success; it’s the fruit and that of the Spirit that determines the health of the vine. This is what God has been preparing you for, all your days, equipping and empowering you with a legacy for a generation. Thank you. Samuel McIlwrath, Associate Pastor, Forestside Christian Centre, South Belfast.

‘Everyday Extraordinary Lives, Life in the power of the Spirit’ written by my friend, Paul Bradley, is an impacting devotional book full of inspiration and truth. This book has already awakened me to apply the truths on a daily

basis that have been so beautifully described in the devotional. Thank you for keeping it simple and easy reading, causing many people when they read this book to re-evaluate their walk in the Spirit, thus creating a deeper desire to walk in a supernatural lifestyle, just like Jesus!!! Libby Louman, Pastor at City Bible Church, Mill Plain Campus, Vancouver, Washington, USA.

It has been a privilege to read this 10-week study written by Paul in his own unique way. The heart behind the study is clearly to move the individual into a deeper level of relationship with Jesus. Those experiencing a life of mediocrity may begin to experience that overcoming, conquering life through the finished work of the cross. As you work your way through the study, I'm sure you will begin to see that you are more than a natural man, but rather one who can indeed live as Jesus did on the earth. Great job Paul - well done! Roy Stewart, Regional Pastor, Living Rivers Church, Ballymena.

This connect group devotional is a simple and practical study to help equip group leaders as they disciple people in becoming more and more like Jesus. Where better to start than with 10 sessions on the fruit of the Spirit being discussed and applied together. To live extraordinary lives daily empowered by the Spirit we must be planting the right seed to bear good fruit. This group guide is a seed pack, ready to be distributed into those who desire to become more and more like Jesus everyday. Thanks Jonathan Biggers, Lead Pastor, Life Center, Centralia, Washington, USA.

Here is what various leaders say about this book. Everyday Extraordinary Lives… “…is an incredible tool that helps us dive into the Scripture, gaining a deeper theological understanding that informs our lives on the most practical yet profound levels” Peter Lynas, National Director of Evangelical Alliance Northern Ireland “…will give ordinary Christians a way in to understanding the God's promises about becoming like Jesus, and why this is open to everyone.” Dr Lucy Peppiatt, Principal, Westminster Theological Centre. “….is a timely call to return to personal holiness and dedication to Christ and His cause” Rev Dr Paul Bailie, CEO Mission Africa; Presbyterian Minister, OT Lecturer, Adjunct Faculty at Union Theological College. “…is a great tool that will inspire and enhance the reader to a life filled with the Holy Spirit.” Pastor Philip Emerson, Emmanuel Church, Lurgan. “…is a good and helpful first look, refresher or serious focus on the need to develop Christlikeness.” Gerald Coates, Founder of Pioneer Network/ Speaker, Author & Broadcaster.