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From the Editor I cherish the Holiday season as a time of reflection but also a time to indulge in moments where I can look my beloved friends and family in the eyes and express my devotion and gratitude. Those moments are important to us all, now more than ever, it seems.
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How To Properly Introduce Your New Boyfriend For The Holidays BY Branden Lee
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No matter how confident you are or how comfortable with you are with your sexuality, it’s terrifying to introduce your first boyfriend to your friends and family for the very first time. Here are some helpful tips for breaking the ice, so your loved ones can embrace the one you love.
1. No Surprises At times it may feel best to avoid any preliminary hassle and objection about bringing a plus one, and just show up with whomever you’re dating. Not a good idea. First of all, it’s rude to bring an unexpected guest. The host needs to know how many place settings to set. Secondly, the more time your family has to prepare to finally see you with a boyfriend for the first time, the easier it should be. It’s scary, especially if you come from a religious, conservative, or homophobic family. But if you’re out and on good enough terms with your family to still spend the holidays with them, then they should be open-minded enough to embrace the person you’re dating. So, make sure to tell whoever is hosting the soiree; you’re bringing your significant other.
2. Let Them Get To Know Each Other Beforehand
3. Don’t Show Up Empty Handed
An amazing aspect of smartphones and modern technology is that we can video chat. Your friends and family can get to see whoever you’re with in your Facebook and Instagram posts. It’s an even bigger step if they get to chat with them via Skype or Facetime. Not that you should want your significant other chatting to your family or friends without you being present, but video chat with your family or friends while with your significant other so they can at least say hi. That way it will be less jarring when everyone comes together face to face since they’ve already heard each other’s voices and seen each other via camming.
Someone has to be a total scumbag to be rude to a guest bearing gifts. Make sure your significant other brings a present when meeting your loved ones for the first time. If you and your friends do Secret Santa or White Elephant Gift Exchange, get your boo in the mix as well. Even if it’s just a bottle of wine for Christmas dinner, bring something. You can even buy gifts for your parents and say it’s from your man. Anything to get them to embrace him warmly.
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renchie kiss: an interview with
Frenchie Davis By Gregg Shapiro
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You no doubt remember diva powerhouse Frenchie Davis from her stints on American Idol and The Voice. But if you’ve been following her career between those shows and since, you know that there’s so much more to her than that. Sure, she can sing like nobody’s business, but she’s also a gifted actress and has been appearing on stage in musicals Rent, Dreamgirls and Ain’t Misbehavin. Davis is also the force behind the one-woman concert event The Frenchie Davis Experience. I spoke with Frenchie about the show and her career in late 2017. Gregg Shapiro: Your new show is called The Frenchie Davis Experience. What can the audience expect to experience when they take their seats, Frenchie?
FD: It’s something that evolves naturally over time; my repertoire, in general. It depends on if it’s a venue or city where I’ve performed before. I try to think about songs that the audience will enjoy. I know that the gays come to my shows. I know that people who love soul music and Broadway come to my shows. I try to have a little something for everybody.
FD: I think there’s a discipline that being a theater performer forces you to have artistically. There are no do-overs. There’s no auto-tunes. It boils down to whether you can sing the notes, act the part, bring life to the character. In many ways, it’s one of the purest art forms left. It’s one of the few genres actually based on talent. I love to sing, but I also love the idea of using music and singing as the vehicle for telling a story. That is what I love about the theater. I’ll never forget seeing Nell Carter in Ain’t Misbehavin and how that changed me as a plus-sized black woman. Seeing this big, black woman who was so unapologetic about herself. She was sexy and hysterically funny and could sing her ass off. That changed me forever. I remember seeing Rent for the first time and thinking, “I have to be in this show!” That was my Broadway debut [laughs]! I remember my mom saving money so she could take me to the opera. That changed me. I had this love for live performance and for theater that stuck with me. When I got to college, I initially thought I would be an English major and then go to law school. Then I met professor Mike Malone who had been Debbie Allen’s mentor when she (also) studied at Howard University. He convinced me to change my major to theater, and I did. It changed my life.
GS: You said that the audience can expect to laugh. Do you tell any stories in the show?
GS: Were you aware of the tragedy that occurred at The UpStairs Lounge in New Orleans prior to performing in The View UpStairs?
FD: Sometimes. Sometimes the way that I express myself inadvertently comes out humorously, and that’s part of how I engage with the audience. Usually, I just talk to them and sometimes [laughs] we all end up laughing together. It just happens naturally. I’m not particularly good at trying to be funny [laughs]. I do find that funny moments create themselves when I engage with the audience.
FD: I had heard of the UpStairs fire, but I didn’t know as much about it until I played the role of Henri. One of the stories that stuck with me the most was how after The UpStairs Lounge had been set on fire, there was a straight bar across the street, and the people sat there, and they watched this happen. Someone was overheard saying, “At least it burned their dresses off.” I remember when we had our first table read with our brilliant writer and composer Max Vernon, and there was a dramaturg there, and we learned all of this historical context. We had to take a break because everybody was in tears. It is horrific that this could happen. Up until (the shooting at the Pulse Nightclub in) Orlando, it was the biggest massacre in LGBT history. Given all that was happening when Max first wrote the show and all that has happened since it was so important for this story to be told. I’m so honored to have been a part of that show and to have been able to bring Henri to life. I think it was powerful to have this image of this queer black woman being a matriarch and a patriarch to a community of people. Every night it was powerful. It was one of the greatest experiences of my life, as an artist, to play that role.
Frenchie Davis: They can expect to laugh a little and to enjoy some of their favorite soul music songs, as well as some of my favorite Broadway and R&B songs. Every genre; there are even some hip-hop songs that I interpret as ballads. They can expect to have a good time and hear me sing my heart out [laughs]. GS: What is involved in the song selection process for a show such as this?
GS: As a singer who has participated in talent competition shows such as American Idol and The Voice, what do you think of those avenues as a means to discover talent? FD: I think that The Voice and American Idol are very entertaining shows. I think they allow artists to share their gift with a broader audience. What happens after you’re on the show is up to you, partially, and sometimes it’s not up to you. I think you still have to figure out a way to create a space for yourself in this world of art and show business. I don’t think that it’s wise to depend on the exposure that you get on either of those shows to do that. The reality is that over the years it’s become more of a vehicle for the artists who host and judge on the show than it has been for artists who are contestants. You see the judges previewing their new music on the show. You see that more often than you see artists who competed on that same show be able to utilize that same level of exposure. I think I saw, during one season of one of the shows, that all of the judges were on the cover of a magazine. I thought it would be nice to see Javier (Colon), that’s who won my season (on The Voice), or any of the others, on the cover of a magazine, see the machine pushing them the way they push the coaches and the judges. I think that’s what the dynamic of these shows has become. It’s not necessarily a good or bad thing; it’s just what it is. I think that it’s important that artists who go on those shows to compete have that perspective so that they can get what they can from it. You take the meat and throw away the bone. It’s an amazing opportunity to share your gifts with a broader audience, but who you are and who you evolve into as an artist and performer after that is completely up to you. GS: In addition to TV shows such as American Idol and The Voice, you have also been performing in stage musicals such as Rent, and most recently played Henri in The View UpStairs. What do you enjoy most about theater work?
GS: This interview is taking place while you are in New York. FD: I’m doing an artist residency at the Student LGBT Center at NYU. I’m working with a collective of students, a mixture of undergrad and grad students. They are all LGBT. One of my students just came out right before the school year started. I have another student who is transitioning. It’s a program in which we explore the intersection of art and activism and how we navigate as LGBT people who are also artists. How do we use that identity, our art, and our talent as a vehicle and a tool to advocate for good in the world. They are brilliant young people. It’s been an amazing experience to be a part of this stage of their lives. I feel like I’m learning more from them [laughs] than they are learning from me. One of my students is this young Indian girl who just came out. She is creating these beautiful visual art pieces. The students are from all different disciplines in the arts. There are painters, musical theater writers (and others). We’re collectively working together to bring our individual mediums into one artistic presentation that we will be doing at NYU at the end of the school year. I’m excited about that. It’s been challenging and amazing, and I’m inspired by these young people every day.
You can experience Frenchie and her Frenchie Davis Experience on Dec 6 at the Out Front Theatre. Tickets: $25 General Admission, $40 VIP Tickets include prime seating and a meet and greet after the show. 800202-1708, tep.ticketleap.com
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The Atlanta Holiday season kicks off most spectacularly with the Toy Party on Dec 2. We caught up with Lynn Barfield, the President of For the Kid In All of Us, amid preparations for the big night to talk about the mission, the party, the impact, and the future of the Toy Party. Tell us – in your own words – about the mission of For the Kid In All of Us? Our mission is to bridge communities and to brighten the lives of Georgia's children in need. Our beneficiary organizations range from Lost-n-Found Youth, Eastlake Foundation to AID Atlanta and Safe Path. They may have funds for their programs, but not to add to a child's quality of life. We do that by offering our ability to garner resources like backpacks and toys in the community. Many people probably don’t know this – tell us how the idea for the Toy Party came about? For the Kid In All of Us was started in 2003 by City Councilman Alex Wan and a small group of concerned citizens. The Toy Party was born out of a need that the group saw in our community, and the wish to give back in a meaningful way. It's an 18-member board of volunteers. People who are passionate about underserved and unprivileged children. The board has its roots in the LGBTQ community, but welcome all to volunteer and participate with us. We do this with no paid staff, a lot of heart, and a storage facility. It is always impressive – and quite frankly very touching – to see the toys pile up at the party. Can you share some of the successes of the event? In 2016 the community donated over a little over 4,000 toys, and our silent auction raised 40,000 dollars. Being held on a Saturday night, the atmosphere and vibe of the party is most certainly different. It's full of revelry, terrific music, and the most handsome crowd at any holiday event in the city! Attendance has gotten better and better. What can guests expect at this year’s event on Dec 2? This year we have the Other Show led by Edie Cheezburger, the Atlanta Gay Men's Chorus, Danceography and Dance Atlanta are joining us for a few numbers that will get everyone's booty shaking. DJ Liz Ellis is spinning for the crowd this year and, well, that man in the red suit, Santa
Next Up! In 2018, Back Pack in the Park returns to Piedmont Park in July, and a community challenge will be incorporated into the Toy Party. Volunteer with For the Kid In All of Us If you or someone you know would like to get involved with For the Kid either as a board member or general volunteer, please email volunteer@ forthekid.org
Claus, is going to make an appearance. Svedka is a presenting sponsor along with Peach ATL. Other sponsors include Coca-Cola, EPS, Epic Events, and All Scripts. The Atlanta Apparel Mart is our long-time, and much appreciated location and event spot. Looking beyond the party – how do the donations help in the community? Our impact is far-reaching. The toys we collect will go to children whose parent may not have the (mental, physical, financial) ability to provide for a child. Money may need to go to essentials like a mortgage, rent, bills, and food. We impact the family by providing toys and giving that household a feeling of betterment. So, it’s not only a material definition but a happiness definition too. Can you share a story of impact? Last year, our volunteer Dwight Minio and his team at All Scripts provided us with some gently used and refurbished laptops from their company. The program manager at Eastlake Foundation, Jennifer McCrary, told us about how a young lady, who got surprised with one of those laptops, experienced a significant impact from that gift. She always had to stay late to do her homework at the education center because her parents didn't have the money for a laptop. Getting a laptop meant that she got a better study environment, and the pressure of completing her work during a time frame was lifted. Looking ahead – what does the future have in store for For the Kid and the Toy Party? The future holds expansion – non-profits of our type that serve as bridge resource organizations are becoming more and more relevant in these already tough financial and political times. We live in a state that sees so many youths in our metro and rural areas living in poverty. The organizations we work with are seeing an influx of needs, and we hope we can rise to help meet that. We need more funding and more support, and we will listen to our beneficiaries and grow with them. We can't thank the organizations and businesses that already support us enough.
Toy Party & Silent Auction December 2, 6:30 pm Admission: Bring an unwrapped toy valued at $20 or more $10 VIP Admission: Please visit forthekid.org – VIP includes unlimited drinks, food, and elevated views of the event and dance floor in a unique environment. Location: America’s Mart 3: 75 John Portman Blvd NW
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10 THINGS THAT WILL PREPARE YOU FOR A KICK**S DECEMBER! BEFORE YOU KNOW IT, IT’S OVER!
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I promise to do better each and every day – starting tomorrow! Yes, I am judging the lighting and ornament spacing on your Christmas tree - all season long!
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A few things will get me out of bed early. The Georgia Dome implosion is apparently one of them! If you are my world, does it mean it’s flat?
Ok, PINK performs on a skyscraper at the AMAs and everybody else can just go home now. WOW!
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ARIES (Mar. 21 - Apr. 19)
LIBRA (Sep. 23 - Oct. 22)
You won’t take no for an answer, and your charming personality always has people saying yes. You usually get what you want, but are you using people for your own gain? Curb the selfishness today, and give back. As hard as it is to believe, it’s not all about you.
Today will be a great day to get out of the house or office, and breathe in the fresh air. Being in stagnant environments can have an oppressive effect on your mind and soul. So go for a brisk walk, or open the windows as you go on a long drive. You’ll be amazed how your energies will be revived when you let a little cool, clean water flow into that brackish pool.
TAURUS (Apr. 20 - May 20)
SCORPIO (Oct. 23 - Nov. 21)
We’re living in a material world, and today you are a material girl. Your many possessions give you a strong sense of security -- add to them today by buying classy, tasteful things for the home. Persian rugs and Ming vases may be out of your price range, and you don’t have to travel to Bali for that bamboo room divider. Unearth treasures in you own backyard.
You’ve been pursuing that guy for some time now, and he’s proving to be quite elusive. Normally, you love the challenge of the chase, but your patience is wearing thin. Asking yourself the tough questions today may give you a new realization, and open you to some cold truths. Maybe he’s just not that into you.
GEMINI (May 21 - Jun. 20)
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 - Dec. 21)
Everything, and everybody, has two faces today and you’re not sure which one is real. There are shadows lurking behind every corner, so be careful with the people you deal with today. Think clearly and be sure of yourself. Don’t add to the confusion by wearing a mask of your own.
Your two key words for today should be fun and laughter. And nothing’s more fun than laughing. So take in a comedy club, watch your favorite episode of The Simpsons or read the latest book from David Sedaris. Best yet, learn to laugh at yourself. As a wise writer once said, he who laughs, lasts.
CANCER (Jun. 21 - Jul. 22)
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22 - Jan. 19)
Starting new projects may prove to be a challenge today, as people with other ideas stand in your way. Your first reaction may be to retreat, but that would be giving up, something that goes against your nature. Instead, find a like-minded pal who supports your views and ideas and tag-team your adversaries. Brilliant minds often think alike and together, the two of you can get the job done.
You’ve been so focused on work lately that you’ve been ignoring the friends who’ve been trying to reach you. Your dedication to your job is admirable, but you know what they say about all work and no play. Screw the overtime and reconnect with friends instead today. Having fun in your social life will rejuvenate your work life.
LEO (Jul. 23 - Aug. 22)
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20 - Feb. 18)
You’ve met someone who is kind and supportive, and who enjoys being in the company of your larger-than-life personality. Your friends agree that you two seem made for each other, so what are you waiting for? You have no problem taking the lead, so ask him out on a date. Take it slow, but let him know how you feel about him. He will love seeing the gentle side of the mighty lion.
That new guy in your building seems like a loner, not the type of person an ebullient guy like you would associate with. Still, there’s something fascinating about him. If you want to meet him, you will have to break the ice. There are many ways to do that, and some don’t involve stalking. Just knock on his door, and welcome him to the neighborhood. He may surprise you by inviting you in.
VIRGO (Aug. 23 - Sep. 22)
PISCES (Feb. 19 - Mar. 20)
You’ve been hanging with the beautiful people lately, and you’re on the A-list for all the big social events. You love being part of the glitterati, but even you have to admit there’s something shallow about that scene. Your old friends have been wondering where you’ve been. Go back to them today. They’ll have a way of 50 | 11.29.17 reminding you of who you really are.
A down-on-his-luck friend may owe you sum of money you know he can’t pay back. You could find ways for him to repay you short of making him your personal manservant. Still, this is putting a strain on your friendship. Be a humanitarian today, and absolve him of his debt. Never make money more important than the people in your life.
WHAT happened was . . .
What Happened Was... Trouble in the love department? With sex? Or just people in general? Send us your queries, questions, and problems, and we’ll give you the answers served straight up and with a little ice. I wanted to buy some quality lube the other day, and I got so confused, and the guy behind the counter wasn’t much help. What kind of lube is good for what? Sincerely No More Hand Lotion Dear No More Hand Lotion Good on you that you want to start getting more serious about your lubricants – you are guaranteed to get even more out of your sexual session whether we are talking masturbation or full on anal sex. Here’s a quick rundown: There are basically two kinds of lubricants – water-based and silicone-based. Waterbased lubricants are the most versatile because they are fit for any kind of sex, even to use with your sex toys. They are easy to use, and they wash off easily after use. The downside is that they tend to dry out a little so you need to re-apply much more, and it can get difficult to use it with anal sex. Siliconebased lubes last a very long time, and they maintain the silky, slippery feel. However, you can’t use it with your sex toys as the silicone can dissolve rubber and other silicones. Silicone lubes are great for anal sex because they stay wet and gives you plenty of glide. Finally, you can get oil-based lubes which are really nice and feel great, especially if you are giving each other massages – the biggest downside is that it cannot be used with latex condoms so generally oilbased lubes are not recommendable for penetrative sex. Have fun lubing up!
I’m still in contact with my ex even though I’m in a new relationship. I’ve seen him with my current boyfriend’s blessing because I want us to remain friends. But last time we had lunch, we started talking about old times, which turned us both on incredibly much. It also made me realize that I have been seeing my ex not because I want us to be friends but because I still have feelings for him. I can’t figure out if I’m still in love with him or not. Help me.
Dear Love-Torn Isn’t it funny how our underlying and deeply buried motives end up surfacing? It is time for you to start asking yourself some difficult questions, but first, you should think about why you and your ex broke up in the first place – what was it that transpired between the two of you which in turn lead to the demise of the relationship? Maybe if you think back on that, you’ll remember who he was when you were with him, and the temporary swelling of horniness will dissipate. Because maybe that’s all it is? Or maybe you are genuinely in love with him, and you haven’t realized it until now? Maybe you are unhappy in your current relationship, and you’re desperately seeking an out, but don’t want to lose the comfort of being in a relationship, so you Segway into the next and just as familiar liaison? Big questions indeed, right? You need to take a good, hard look at what you have, what you could lose, and what you could gain. Maybe in that process, you will realize where your true feelings lie. Because right now someone is not getting the best of you, and that’s not fair to anyone.
I’m white and date mostly black guys. I’m just generally more attracted to them, but my friends poke fun at me, and some even make some pretty crude jokes about my preference. I really don’t see it that way – I am definitely attracted to white guys too – but the most beautiful men I meet are almost exclusively all black. Sincerely Diversi-Dude Dear Diversi-Dude First of all, who are these adolescents, you call friends? Maybe it’s time to look at who is a support and who is just a bad sport. When it comes to preferences, it is just that – it is what you prefer, and there is nothing wrong with that. Among your friends surely some prefer a big chest, or thick legs, or blonde hair, shorter guys, taller guys, blue eyes, or brown eyes, or perfect teeth, a thick wallet, you name it – but those preferences are just not something we talk about. It’s all about what attracts you and turns you on, and there is no reason for you to make any kind of apology for what you prefer.
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