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Contents NOV 02, 2022 V6-42 Peach Media 6050 Dawson Blvd, Ste O Norcross, GA 30093 MANAGING PARTNER & OPERATIONS Brian Sawyer brian@peachatl.com SALES | EVENTS Josh King Josh@peachatl.com EDITORIAL Editor-in-Chief Mikkel Hyldebrandt mikkel@peachatl.com SOCIAL MEDIA & MORE Valiant Marketing DISTRIBUTION Some Cute Guy CONTRIBUTORS Russ Bowen-Youngblood NATIONAL AD REP Rivendell Media 908.232.2021 RADIO PARTNER Meak Productions, Inc. www.meakproductions.com The content of Peach ATL Media is for your general information and use only. It is subject to change without notice. The opinions expressed by any writer, advertiser, or other person appearing in the Peach ATL Media are not necessarily those of this publication, its management or staff. The information and materials appearing in the magazine are not guaranteed or warranted as to accuracy, timeliness, performance, completeness, or suitability of the information and materials found or offered for a particular purpose. It shall be your responsibility to ensure that any products, services, or information available through Peach ATL Media meets your specific requirements. Peach ATL Media is not responsible for claims made by advertisers, content of information, changes, events, and schedules. The magazine contains information and material which is owned by or licensed to Peach ATL Media, including but not limited to articles, advertisements, design, layout, graphics, and logos. No part or portion of Peach ATL Media may be reproduced in any way without the prior written consent of the publisher. Unauthorized use of Peach ATL Media may give rise to claims for damages and or criminal offenses. Your use of the information or materials in Peach ATL Media is strictly at your own risk. ONLINE peachatl.com PRINT At Distribution Points Across the City SOCIAL FB:facebook.com/peachatlmag PAGE 8 10 13 24 I N T H I S I S S U E PAGE PAGE PAGE PEACH
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Have Your Beard Looking Right This ‘Movember’
By Mikkel Hyldebrandt
Whether you have shaving fatigue or want to see if you can grow a full beard in a month, No-Shave November or “Movember” is the perfect opportunity to give it a try. But you don’t need to let it grow wild and unkempt – with the right tools and products; you will look gorgeous all month.
What’s No Shave November? ‘Movember’ or ‘No-Shave November’ asks men worldwide not to shave for a month to raise awareness for prostate cancer, men’s mental health, and well-being. It is also the chance to show off your facial hair and test if you look good in a mustache, goatee, or ducktail.
Beard (Face) Wash
It is vital to keep your beard clean, but it is essential to ensure that the skin beneath is clean and hydrated. The logical choice would be to use your shampoo for your beard (I mean, it’s hair, right?), but that’s not the best way to go as it can strip both beard and skin of essential oils. So wash your beard with your face wash instead to make sure you don’t strip the skin.
Beard Brush
Brushing or combing your beard regularly makes it appear neater and more styled. It also stimulates hair follicles and distributes lotions and oils more evenly into the beard. Use a wooden comb to avoid static and a boar bristle brush if you’re a pro.
Beard Lotion
Remember that thing about not drying out the skin beneath the beard? Using a lotion on your beard will hydrate your beard and the skin, so it doesn’t dry out because, yes, there is such a thing as beard dandruff.
Beard Oil
Beard oil is a great way to nourish the beard deeply and naturally moisturize the skin. It also works as a great final styling product which adds shine and makes the beard appear smoother and more groomed.
Beard Wax
If you want to tame unruly hairs and frizz, beard wax is the way to go. A wax lets you style your beard in a little more detail as you would your hair. Like with the oil, the wax will make the beard look smoother and well-groomed.
Beard Roller
A beard roller or derma roller is an effective way to stimulate hair growth if you feel you need to fill out gaps in your beard. A derma roller creates micro punctures in the skin, which causes the blood to rush to the area, boosting hair growth and activating dormant follicles. A couple of minutes a couple of times a week does the trick.
Beard Trim
Once you have reached your beard goal, it’s time to trim it in shape. Use a trimmer to cut length, frizzy, flyaway hairs and create a defined neckline. It is also a good idea to trim around the lips so your lips aren’t covered by beard. If you’re in doubt, have a pro barber help you shape up your beard.
Party With a Purpose!
By Mikkel Hyldebrandt
Fall is here and with it a slew of events and parties that give you the chance to give back to your community – and all you have to do is party! We spoke to key Atlanta organizations about their mission, and how you can support them simply by partying with a purpose.
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Party With Impact
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Positive Impact Health Centers provides client-centered care for the HIV community to have a life worth loving. Their Party With Impact! raises funds for AIDS services and prevention in Atlanta, and Peach spoke to Olivia Chelko, VP of Development and Communications, about goals, awareness, and who will be on stage for the night.
Your Party With Impact! has had numerous iterations over the years. This year, it’s a comedy show. Can you tell us more about what is in store at the event?
Party With Impact changes every year. We do art auctions, comedy shows, and concerts. A few years ago, we did a comedy show with Leslie Jordan at Center Stage for the event.
This year, we are thankful that Sam Jay has agreed to come to Atlanta and do a show to raise money for HIV services and prevention in Atlanta.
Sam Jay is a stand-up comic and Emmy-nominated writer (Saturday Night Live). She hosts and executive produces HBO’s Pause with Sam Jay, a weekly latenight series currently in production for its second season. In 2020, she debuted her first Netflix onehour stand-up special, Sam Jay: 3 in the Morning. Up next, she is on the Peacock series Bust Down.
Why is throwing a big party or having an event like this an excellent way to raise money?
We always have event sponsors that cover the costs of events. Ticket sales for this event go directly to PIHC services and care. This event also helps bring in individuals that might need services but need to learn about the work of our agency. Our goal is to raise 75K for needed HIV care in Atlanta. It also educates the community and those in the room about our services in metro Atlanta.
Positive Impact Health Centers has done some fantastic work this year to provide services to people living with HIV/AIDS and curb the MPX outbreak. How did you achieve all this?
We are incredibly proud to have never closed our doors during COVID. We had to adjust how services were received but also accelerated many new programs – like Telemedicine, Condoms by Mail, and free HIV home testing kits. Incredibly proud of the staff and their work during syndemics - HIV, COVID-19, Monkeypox, Substance Abuse, and Mental Health.
How can the community get involved with Positive Impact Health Centers?
We always are looking for people to join our AIDS Walk Team and AIDS Vaccine 200 Cycle Team every year. You can find more ways to volunteer on our website – PIHCga.org.
How can we attend the Party With Impact! Comedy Show?
The event will be on 12/2 at 8 pm at Variety Playhouse. You can purchase tickets at the box office and avoid ticketing fees or do so on the Variety Playhouse website, variety-playhouse.com.
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Fur Ball Masquerade “To Oz”
Saturday, November 12, 7-10 pm Buckhead Club
Since 1990 PALS has provided ongoing care and support to the pets of Atlanta area persons living with critical illnesses such as HIV/AIDS and cancer, the disabled, and the elderly. David Lile, an active volunteer with PALS, talked to Peach about what to expect somewhere over the rainbow and at the end of the yellow brick road.
The Fur Ball Masquerade is back! This year, it’s Wizard of Oz themed. Can you share what else you have in store for us all at the event?
The planning committee is pulling out all the stops with theme decor and entertainment. There will be a wine pull where for $25, you can purchase a numbered bottle and win a good everyday or special occasion bottle of wine or even a commemorative Lady Gaga Dom Perignon! There will also be a silent auction. I help PALS secure signed playbills and posters from Broadway Cares each year, and they have several hotel stays, signed original art pieces, pet baskets, gift certificates, and other unique items. It’s a great opportunity to do some holiday shopping, all for a great cause!
What do you hope to achieve with this year’s Fur Ball Masquerade to Oz?
To celebrate the healing power of the humananimal bond. Dorothy and Toto were separated in Oz, but with the help of a colorful and very caring cast of characters, they were reunited. We want everyone to know that this is the work of PALS.
Our Drag Queen Bingo is our most beloved event. On November 8, the theme is Rocky Horror, and on December 13, we celebrate the “Holidaze.” As you know, LIPS always has overthe-top décor installations for the holidays, so these next two months will be spectacular. Add to that performances by our drag queens Ericka Lee, Desiree Storm, Justice, and Charmaine St. Clare, and $1100 in bingo payouts; you get the best value in town for a $20 ticket. Plus, I am known as “Dave the Ball Guy,” and I have the pleasure of pulling the balls at our Bingo event. Who can resist seeing that! PALS also operates a low-cost pet vaccination clinic at our Chandler Park office, and we will have one on Sunday, November 20, 2022.
How can the community get involved with PALS Atlanta?
Please support us by attending our event. PALS has been a volunteer-driven organization for the past 33 years. We need volunteers to help us at the office or community outreach events or deliver pet food. We are a small and lean nonprofit that does a lot of work. We also have some board positions available. We need compassionate people to provide our service to those in need for another 33 years!
How can we attend the 2002 Fur Ball Masquerade to Oz?
Tickets are available now at a special price of $100 VIP and $75 General Admission. Price includes full premium open bar, heavy hors d’oeuvres, souvenir mask, gift bag, and valet parking. You can get tickets at palsatlanta.org.
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AID Atlanta 40th Anniversary Celebration
Thursday, November 12,6:30-11 pm The Loudermilk Conference Center
AID Atlanta is not only commemorating their 40th anniversary with one event. According to Jon Santos, Director of Fundraising and Events for AID Atlanta, the whole year has been a celebration of the oldest AIDS service organization in the Southeastern United States. And the celebration continues until the year closes out.
This year is the 40th Anniversary of AID Atlanta. How have you celebrated this momentous occasion?
The entire year has been a celebration of the AID Atlanta Family. Those who were visionary to found our organization, the staff—past, present, and future—who work so hard for our clients and patients, and those who support us. We have had a Groovy Skate Party, AID Atlanta Day in the City of Atlanta, Fulton County Commission and with a special Resolution Honoring AID Atlanta in the Georgia State House of Representatives. We participated in new and exciting ways for us in AIDS Walk Atlanta and Atlanta Pride and are culminating the year with our 40th Anniversary Celebration on November 12th, and our World AIDS Day commemoration on December 1st
Since 1982, AID Atlanta’s mission has remained the same: provide HIV/AIDS-related services, care, and education. But a lot has changed in 40 years – can you talk about those changes?
Known primarily as a center providing confidential HIV testing, we also provide STI testing and treatment, Prep and PEP therapy and prevention education. Science and medication have been the greatest drivers of change. The advances of the last 40 years are that we have a single daily pill (and now even injectable medications) that can help someone living with HIV become virally suppressed. This means HIV does not replicate in their body, and mostly they cannot pass HIV onto another person. Due to medical advances and research, ARV medication can also be taken in PrEP therapy as a measure to prevent new HIV infections. There is still no cure for HIV, but we have certainly many more viable options for treatment now than we did in the 80s and 90s.
What are some of the major milestones from the past 40 years?
When you are the first at creating something there is information you have, and then you learn that there is something better and you must change. Being nimble is the hallmark of the organization because in the beginning we did not know so much about HIV/AIDS.
AID Atlanta developed the case management model to provide supportive care and assistance to clients which was then replicated across the nation and was the basis for today’s medical case management. Providing an Information Hotline that is staffed to answer questions about HIV, AIDS, safer sex practices. Affiliating with AHF has been a great hallmark as the relationship for AID Atlanta is the best of all worlds. AHF knows how to run health care centers and pharmacies and our exponential patient growth since 2015 is attributed to AHF’s expertise and generosity.
What are some milestones you expect to reach looking forward?
I expect AID Atlanta to have a great deal of effort spent on housing and housing assistance for people living with and at risk for HIV/AIDS, either directly or indirectly. Safe, affordable housing is one of the greatest indicators of whether someone will take their medication, achieve viral suppression, and remain in care.
How can the community get involved with AID Atlanta?
First and foremost, Get Tested and/or each one brings one! It is free and it is confidential. The key to getting a handle on HIV/AIDS is valuable information about our personal health. Second, please attend our fundraising events, including our 40th Anniversary Celebration, and third, join our team for AIDS Walk Atlanta & Music Festival next year. This remains our greatest fund and friend-raising events.
… and how do we attend the 40th Anniversary celebration?
Go to aidatlanta.org/anniversary to get tickets!
Anything you would like to add?
AID Atlanta was founded by a group of friends who answered the questions “If not now, when? If not us, then Who?” The last four decades have had challenges and opportunities, but we remain grassroots, community-based Atlanta organization that is a part of our community. At this time, we are very grateful to the AID Atlanta family who supports us in this important and life-saving work. THANK YOU, ATLANTA!
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Toy Party
Sunday, December 11, 5-10:30 pm
The Biltmore Ballrooms
For The Kid’s Toy Party is one of the most anticipated parties of the holiday season. Since its 2003 inception, the fundraising event has collected and raised funds for over 65,000 toys for more than 20 beneficiaries. Current board president, Stacy Brown, aims to collect another 5,000 toys at this year’s events, which will be held at the Biltmore Ballrooms again this year.
The Toy Party is coming up in December, always a highlight of the holiday season. Can you share what you have in store for us all?
Toy Party is Sunday, December 11, at the Biltmore Ballrooms, and the board is working hard to repeat last year’s success and make this year’s party even better. Returning this year is Atlanta’s very own Phoenix and the Fantasy Girls with a very special surprise guest. Of course, we have specialty cocktail drinks, VIP hour, our fabulous silent auction, and much more.
The Toy Party is the biggest event of the year for FTK. What makes this event so important? Not only does FTK collect and distribute toys and backpacks each year, but we form lasting relationships between friends, family, and the community. We at FTK love seeing everyone bring their toys for kids and the excitement it brings. This event is more than just a party to gather and have fun; it’s about opening our hearts and doing a little extra for someone.
Toy Party raises funds and collects toys for children in need all over metro Atlanta – how many toys are you aiming to collect this year?
Our goal is to collect 5,000 toys and distribute them to our beneficiaries that serve families in need for the holiday season. We work with over 20 have over 20 beneficiaries, including AID Atlanta, Dr. Annise Mabry Foundation, Chris 180, Jerusalem House, East Lake Foundation, and many more.
Do you have any other upcoming events this year?
Yes! On Saturday, December 3, 2022, at The Hideaway, More To Love ATL will return with Gag the Grinch benefitting FTK. Last year was so much fun, and the MTL crew went all out to raise money and collect toys for FTK.
How can the community get involved with For The Kid?
We need volunteers to help make Toy Party 2022 successful. Please email us at volunteers@ forthekid.org to get involved!
How can we attend the 2022 Toy Party?
You can purchase tickets at forthekid.org. Tickets are $35 for general admission, plus an unwrapped new toy valued at $20. VIP is $150 plus an unwrapped new toy valued at $20.
Anything you’d like to add?
Thank you to the Board of For The Kid In All of Us. It is the most incredible group of individuals who show their unconditional love for Atlanta daily! Also, thank you to our patrons, sponsors, friends, and family for supporting For The Kid in All of Us throughout the years and for many more to come!
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Chomp and Stomp 2022
@ Cabbagetown Park | November 5, 11 am – 6 pm
The amazing bluegrass festival and chili cook-off is back with lots of good eats (and drinks) and a whole outdoor market as well. Get your official chili spoon for $10, and sample away!
Día de Muertos Festival
@ Historic Oakland Cemetery| November 6, 12-5 pm
Visitors of all ages learn about and experience a Day of the Dead festival. Guests enjoy traditional dancing, crafts and authentic Mexican food, and entertainment. Free admission.
Heyday - ‘80s Dance Party
@ The Basement | November 5, 10 pm – 2 am
Bring your friends and come dance to your favorite hits from the decade of Rainbow Brite, breakdancing, and crimped hair.
PALS Rocky Horror Bingo
@ LIPS Atlanta | November 8, 6:30 pm
Dammit Janet! Come check out the Ghouls of PALS at the Rocky Horror themed Bingo! Yes, it’s election day, but just vote early and come see what’s on the slab for a great time!
The Back Room: Military/Gear Night
@ Heretic | November 4, 10 pm – 2 am
The Back Room is back with military/ gear night edition and music by Michael Magnan (NYC). Get into your military, leather gear, and war paint and let’s meet in the back room…
Queen Tribute
@ City Winery | November 9, 7 pm
If you’re looking for a Queen tribute band that is scarily similar to original icons that shaped the rock world so many decades ago, then The Kings of Queen is the way to go. Tickets vi citywinery.com.
The Atlanta Opera’s Madama Butterfly
@ Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre | November 5, 8 pm
The Atlanta Opera performs the majestic classic known for its breathtaking music and scenery. Tickets at atlantaopera. org.
LHPW 2022
@ Sonesta Atlanta Airport North | November 4, 3 pm
Leather History Preservation Weekend will be a weekend of shared journeys, camaraderie, and fellowship, with multiple historians sharing their experiences. Tickets via Eventbrite.
Joe “Mr. D” Dombrowski
@ Center Stage | November 4, 6 pm Out and proud Seattle comedian, teacher, actor, and internet sensation Joe ‘Mr.D’ Dombrowski comes to Atlanta’s Center Stage. Tickets at centerstage-atlanta.com.
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So awkward! I went on a date with a guy, and the night ended with some making out but nothing more, and I wanted to see him again. But afterwards, I was horny, so I went to a sex club for some cruising – and that’s where I bump into my date! It was so awkward, and we ended up just avoiding each other. So I finished my business and got out! I’m so embarrassed about the whole thing, and I just don’t know what to do! I like him, but is this a date breaker?
You had the perfect opportunity for a shortcut to an even better connection by acknowledging that you prob ably share some of the same sexual appetites. Instead, you ignored not only each other but the glaring fact that you were both there at the same spot to get off because you had been sexually charged by the amazing date you both just went on. And instead of interacting with each other, you kind of scurried off after you got what you came for. So yes, this situation is awkward and not the best, but there is a small window of op portunity if you reach out to him – text, call, email – and simply acknowledge the awkwardness and that you both could have handled the situation better. Maybe, if you can laugh off the silliness and insecurity, you can start over somehow and go on another date where you are more honest about what you really want.
