Organize Your Life for Success
Organize Your Life for Success
New Born Fellowship Christian Center This book can be ordered by contacting: New Born Publications P.O. Box 1109 Webster, NY 14580 585-342-5020
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TABLE OF CONTENTS Preface Acknowledgements Chapter 1 Life Goals
Chapter 2 Personal Success & Organizational Management
Chapter 3
Emotional Wellness & Stability
Chapter 4 Organization of the Mind vs. The Closet
Chapter 5 Family & Home Management
Chapter 6 Economic Development
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Preface ,WÂśV D ZLVH ZRPDQ ZKR EXLOGV KHU KRXVH :KR DUH \RX DUH \RX D women of wisdom? You may have made some mistakes in life, GRQÂśW hold it against yourself. Make a decision today to change. Organizing your life will cause elevation in your home and your career. With the proper scheduling, you can have it all; managing your husband, children, career, all while having peace of mind. Just follow this life guide! Today I have become your success coach. If you follow along, I will guide you to a wholesome successful life. One of the reasons I decided to write this book is because throughout P\ OLIH ,ÂśYH ZRUQ VHYHUDO KDWV: wife, mother, model, entrepreneur (salon owner), mentor for women, motivational speaker and the list goes on. During my endeavors, I learned that I had to have a balance. ,ÂśYH EHHQ PDUULHG IRU \HDUV, and as a young woman I had to develop my skills as a wife, mother, and accomplished hair stylist. ,ÂśP QRW VD\LQJ WKDW ,ÂśYH DOZD\V EHHQ RUJDQL]HG, but one thing I can say LV WKDW ZKHQ , ZDVQÂśW RUJDQL]HG P\ OLIH ZDV D PHVV +DYLQJ QR structure and no plan is no fun! Stress can become you worst enemy!! It waits for you to awaken and when you do it follows you. Living with the enemy of stress is the problem; freedom from stress and struggle is your answer.
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Working with a husband and children can be very stressful. Cooking, cleaning the home, and raising the children are one of the biggest jobs you can have. Whether you stay at home or a work, life can be challenging. Some believe LWÂśV HDVLHU ZLWK D VSRXVH, well I believe WKDW LI \RXU OLIH LVQÂśW RUJDQL]HG \RX FDQ have failure with or without another person.
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Dedication To my wonderful husband, Warren (Honey), the love of my life. God has blessed us to grow together and to become best friends. Thank you for pushing me to achieve excellence in everything I do. You have helped and allowed me to become the all-powerful woman. Life with you, since 1982, has been absolutely wonderful. To my kids Warren Jr., Pamela Marie, Kaulana, Kamika, Warren III, and my 6 grandchildren, thank you for supporting P\ YLVLRQ ,ÂśP WKDQNIXO WR God for allowing my children to see the awesome power of God in my life. To my parents, Pastors Wilbert & Celestine Harley, for instilling the fear and reverence for God. Mom, you are my greatest hero. Even as a young girl, you pushed me to be everything God wants me to be and you never gave up on me. Thank you to, Bishop IV Hilliard and Dr. Bridget Hilliard, my parents in faith.
Acknowledgements To my support team, New BoUQ )HOORZVKLS &RYHQDQW :RPHQÂśV Ministry, thank you for your support and encouragement. You all helped to make it happen. Love ya!
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1 Life Goals
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Life Goals Vision is the road map to your life. Let get started writing the vision and making it plain to read. You must take the time to write. This is a SDUW RI WDNLQJ WLPH IRU \RX ,WÂśV WKH URDG PDS WR \RXU OLIH DQG \RX must take the time to plan your direction in life. Starting today your goals and vision for life will begin to happen. Dreams do come true and you must be the first person to believe that the dream is real. Real dreams happen to real people like you. .
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Plan of Action
Write the vision, make it plain!! x x
Count up the cost of your dreams and visions. Grab a paper and pen.
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Start your day by writing your goals & agenda.
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Develop strategies that help prioritize your time.
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Delegate what you can!
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Ideals come to you when you commit to putting your thoughts on paper.
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Create a Dreamers Journey (post your dreams and live them out)
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Passion is Key to Your Vision x
Visualize it on the canvas of your mind
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Create a Dreamers Journey
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Review your journey board daily
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Create positive confessions for your vision.
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Step Your Game Up
The choices you make can change your life x
Your must admit the problem
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Make a decision to change no matter the cost.
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Determine what caused the lack of vision, preparation, and organization (review your environment).
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Recognize that you must do something different to get a different result.
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Change your habits ( 21 days to break or start a new habit)
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Change your mind set Âą look at the big picture.
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Become an out of the box thinker.
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