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Equality Forum set for Piazza, not Penn’s Landing After protests by Philly Pride Presents, Equality Forum organizers nixed plans to hold it’s May 1 SundayOUT at Penn’s Landing — six weeks before Philadelphia’s Pride festival is held in June — opting instead to return to last year’s location, the Piazza at Northern Liberties. The return to the Piazza came after months of public and private wrangling between the two organizations. By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com The organizers of Equality Forum confirmed last week that the annual SundayOUT street fair will again be held at The Piazza at Schmidt’s. Equality Forum executive director Malcolm Lazin said the festival will return to the Northern Liberties locale on May 1, a decision that followed a public squabble among Forum organizers and the producers of the annual Pride festival. Equality Forum had originally booked SundayOUT, the culmination of a week of events, for Penn’s Landing — the same location where the annual Pride Festival is

celebrated in June. Philly Pride Presents, which stages Pride and OutFest, objected, contending that having SundayOUT where the Pride festival is traditionally held just one month before would cause confusion for both patrons and vendors. Lazin said that, while his agency disagreed with that notion, the organization did agree to move the location after negotiations. “[Philly Pride Presents] believed this would impact either their attendance and/or their vendors, and we were certainly respectful of that objection,” he said. “We inquired as to whether the people at Penn’s Landing shared that view and they didn’t feel that it

would have any impact whatsoever. Given the concern of Philly Pride Presents, we offered them a free booth at SundayOUT, with their signage and announcements encouraging people to attend the June event but their board didn’t feel that was satisfactory, so we terminated the contract.” He said the contract with the Delaware River Waterfront Corporation, signed in September, has been terminated, and a request has been made for the refund of the organization’s $2,500 deposit. Laurie Heinerichs, DRWC spokesperson, confirmed last week that the contract had been voided and that Equality Forum will be reimbursed in full. PAGE 3 “The refund and event

Solicitor defends Scouts deal By Timothy Cwiek timothy@epgn.com City Solicitor Shelley R. Smith appeared at a political event last week to promote a controversial proposal that would sell publicly owned land to a local Boy Scouts of America council. She presented her case for the deal at an 8th Ward Democratic Committee meeting, held Jan. 20 at the Kennedy House in Center City. The 8th Ward covers Center City west of Broad to the Schuylkill River, from Spring Garden to Lombard streets. Its 60 members are struggling to reach a position on the issue, and say they need more time to study it. Officials within the Nutter administration want to sell 231-251 N. 22nd St. to the BSA Cradle of Liberty Council for $500,000 to end a federal lawsuit filed by the Scouts in 2008. Once it becomes private property, the Scouts would be free to discriminate without objections from the city. In return, the Scouts would stop seeking about $960,000 in legal fees from the PAGE 14

Philanthropist Wilcox dies By Larry Nichols larry@epgn.com Jack Wilcox, a longtime supporter and contributor to the LGBT community in Philadelphia, died Jan. 19 after a long battle with mesothelioma, a rare form of cancer caused by exposure to asbestos. He was 66. Wi l c o x wa s born in Boston on May 21, 1945, and raised in Quincy, Mass., before moving PAGE 15

Allentown approves DP benefits By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com

REMEMBERING CRYSTAL: More than 125 people gathered Tuesday night at the William Way LGBT Community Center at a memorial for Crystal Baltimore, who committed suicide on Jan. 18. She was 27. Friends and relatives shared stories about Baltimore, evoking both tears and laughter, as well as watched a slideshow about her life and performances. Baltimore was known in the community for working the door at the monthly Stimulus parties as well as her work at The Attic Youth Center. Funeral services will be held at 10 a.m. Jan. 28 at Alpha Baptist Church, 15 Rose St., Willingboro, N.J. Photo: Scott A. Drake

In a unanimous vote last week, the Allentown City Council approved a bill that will grant domestic-partner benefits to the same-sex employees of city workers. At a meeting packed with LGBT advocates, the council voted 7-0 on Jan. 19 to approve the domestic-partner measure introduced last month. Allentown Mayor Ed Pawlowski was expected to sign the measure into law after press time on Wednesday. Once the bill becomes law, Allentown, the third-largest city in the state, will become the fourth to offer benefits to same-sex partners of government employees, following Philadelphia, Pittsburgh and Harrisburg. The measure will specifically apply to about 1,000 members of PAGE 6

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Freedom Week offers LGBT activism, legislation By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com A c t iv i s t s a n d a d vo c a t e s a r o u n d Pennsylvania will come together early next month for a week of events culminating in the introduction of two statewide LGBTrights measures. LGBT communities around the state have celebrated Freedom to Marry Week, in honor of Feb. 12 — National Freedom to Marry Day — with varied activities throughout the years but, in 2011, decided to broaden the rights on the agenda. This year the event, held Feb. 5-14, will be known as Freedom Week, a title that organizer Bolton Winpenny said more aptly describes the goals of LGBT Pennsylvanians. “Our primary objective is to raise awareness and education about the plight of the LGBT community, so instead of focusing only on marriage, we wanted to have a more general approach,” Winpenny explained. “We wanted to incorporate efforts of organizations throughout the state that work on LGBT equality because the underlying principle of marriage equality is basic LGBT equality. It’s that we should be treating all

citizens the same: That principle yields marriage equality, and that principle also yields the addition of sexual orientation and gender identity to our existing nondiscrimination law.” Although the week will recognize the other LGBT equality fights beyond marriage, it’s also the most apt time for the introduction of a pair of bills that seek relationship recognition for same-sex couples. At a press conference Feb. 14 at the State Capitol in Harrisburg, state Sen. Daylin Leach (D-17th Dist.) and Rep. Mark Cohen (D-202nd Dist.) will announce the introduction of marriage-equality and civil-union bills, respectively. Both lawmakers introduced the measures in the last legislative session, marking the first time that such bills ever surfaced in the state body. In the days leading up to the conference, events will be held in all four corners of the state to mobilize LGBTs on marriage equality and a series of other initiatives, an effort Winpenny said was this year aided by the broadening of the coalition supporting the week’s activities. “This year we’ve done a lot more cross-

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their elected representatives to take a stand so we know where they fall on these issues. We’re asking for honesty and straightforwardness and for our elected officials to quit standing on the sidelines,” he said. With the state now in Republican control, Winpenny said it was especially significant that the Pennsylvania Log Cabin Republicans were interested in supporting the initiative, sponsoring a “Meet Your Legislator” event Feb. 14 as well as a membership drive Feb. 5 in Harrisburg. The Interfaith Alliance of Pennsylvania and the Metropolitan Community Church of the Spirit will host an interfaith breakfast at 8 p.m. Feb. 9 in Harrisburg, and the William Way LGBT Community Center will organize a similar event at 7:30 a.m. Feb. 11 at 1315 Spruce St. LGBTs from around the state are expected to converge on Harrisburg on Valentine’s Day to take part in the annual marriageequality rally, held 4-6 p.m. at Front and Walnut streets, in front of the Dauphin County Courthouse. For more information and the full list of events, visit www.lgbtfreedomweekpa.org. ■

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DVLF announces new ED By Sarah Blazucki sarah@epgn.com A local LGBT foundation and grantmaking agency announced this week it has hired a new executive director. John Moeller Jr. will take the helm of the Delaware Valley Legacy Fund on Feb. 1. M o e l l e r, 3 2 , wa s JOHN most recently the direcMOELLER JR. tor of development for Planned Parenthood of Bucks County, a position he held for six years. Mark Mitchell, DVLF board president, said Moeller was offered the job last month after Michael Kendrick, who had been with the agency since August, resigned. The board hired Kendrick after an eightmonth national search; Moeller had also applied during that search. Due to the transition DVLF has undergone in the past year — including a new board president, interim co-executive directors and the hiring and resignation of an executive director — Mitchell said Moeller will be focused on taking the organization to the next level in fundraising and connecting with the community. “Moeller will work closely with the advisory council and will work to reinvigorate the Barbara Gittings Circle,” which includes individual donors who give more than $1,000, said Mitchell. Moeller will also focus on co-sponsoring events with other organizations to build the community — a sentiment the new director echoed. “I’m really looking at DVLF as a community fund,” Moeller said. “DVLF really SUNDAYOUT, from page 1

cancellation was requested well before the event date, allowing us to return the deposit,” Heinerichs said. Philly Pride Presents executive director Franny Price said she was “fully” satisfied with the decision. This fall, Philly Pride Presents announced it would host a Gay May Day in the Gayborhood the same day as Equality Forum’s proposed Penn’s Landing event, which Price said has now been cancelled. Philly Pride Presents senior adviser Chuck Volz said he, Price and Equality Forum board president Dr. Debra Blair began negotiations on the issue in November. Volz said he and Price attempted to emphasize the deleterious effect SundayOUT at Penn’s Landing could have on their agency and the community. “Everybody would have thought they came to Gay Pride in May. I think our attendance could have been halved,” he said, noting that Washington, D.C., and Baltimore also hold Pride events on or near June 12, when Philadelphia’s festival is scheduled.

needs to be connecting with the community. Connections have been lost in this year of transition, and we need to rebuild those connections and make new ones.” Moeller, who is openly gay, added he would work to expand the organization’s reach into the counties surrounding the city. “DVLF is already in Bucks County, so we need to be looking to Montgomery, Delaware and Chester counties. How can we expand out and meet their needs, as well as build partnerships there?” Moeller, who has an MBA from Keller Graduate School of Management, said he’s honored to be working in the LGBT community in this capacity. “I’m really excited and honored to be in the LGBT community, to be connecting and reconnecting with those in the community, and also building new relationships.” While at Planned Parenthood, Moeller oversaw two development programs totaling $1.3 million annually. Moeller, who lives in Queen Village, is currently treasurer of networking group Our Night Out, and served on the board of directors of FACT Bucks County from 2008-10. Mitchell said interim executive director Sandra Thompson will stay with DVLF as director of operations and will be responsible for grant writing. Interim co-executive directors Thompson and Chris Bartlett took over management of DVLF when Perry Monastero resigned in 2010 to take a position with Mazzoni Center. Bartlett departed in July to head the William Way LGBT Community Center. Moeller said DVLF is planning two meetand-greets, one in Philadelphia and one in Bucks County, for late February or early March. For more information, visit www.dvlf. org. ■ “There are other events going on in cities in the area, and people would have said, ‘Oh, well, we did Philly’s event in May, so let’s go to the other locations in June.’” Volz said he’s “happy with the resolution.” Equality Forum and The Piazza have been working on a license agreement to address some operational concerns that arose at last year’s festival, the largest that the newly opened Piazza had held at the time. The executive committee of the Equality Forum board will be presented with the agreement during its next meeting in early February, and Lazin said he anticipates it will receive complete support. SundayOUT will include a trolley service from the Gayborhood to the Northern Liberties venue, sponsored by Uncles and Tavern on Camac. Equality Forum recently applied for permits for the Gayborhood for May 1, which Lazin said will allow the trolleys to park on Locust Street. All vendors and other SundayOUT activities will be held exclusively at The Piazza. ■

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Gayborhood Crime Watch The following incidents in the Midtown Village and Washington Square West areas were reported to the Sixth Police District between Jan. 10-16. Information is courtesy of Sixth District Capt. Brian Korn; Stacy Irving, senior director, Crime Prevention Service; Center City District; the Police Liaison Committee and Midtown Village Merchants Association.

ARREST: On Jan. 10, 6th District plainclothes officers set up surveillance at 10th and Market streets inside McDonald’s due to recent thefts. At 5 p.m., a male picked up a customer’s laptop from a table and walked out of the restaurant. Police arrested the 55-year-old suspect was charged with theft. REPORT: On Jan. 10, complainant left his apartment in the 1100 block of Spruce Street with the door unlocked. When he returned at 7 p.m., a Macbook, a watch and quarters were missing. There was no forced entry. REPORT: At 2:10 p.m. Jan. 11, complainant was walking in the 1100 block of Chestnut Street when a male punched her, took

her cell phone and ran west on Chestnut. The offender was described as a black male, 2025 years old, 5-foot-10 with thin build and wearing a tan hat, tan jacket and tan boots. ARRESTS: Between 10:30 p.m.midnight Jan. 12, 6th District officers arrested five males for obstruction of the highway related to prostitution at the following locations: 1200 Locust St., 1200 Spruce St. and 215 S. 13th St. REPORT: Between 1-5 a.m. Jan. 13, someone stole cash and items from Philly Cupcake, 1132 Chestnut St. The complainant said the doors were locked and there was no sign of forced entry. ARRESTS: At 1 p.m. Jan. 13, store security inside the Rite Aid, 215 S. Broad St., observed two males attempting to steal mp3 players. When confronted, the males pulled out a box cutter and threatened the security officer. The males eventually dropped the items and 6th District Officer Maiorano took them into custody. A 20-year-old suspect and a 27year-old suspect were charged

with robbery, aggravated assault and related offenses. REPORT: At 12:35 p.m. Jan. 15, a male entered the Scrub Shop, 134 S. 11th St., asked some questions, then grabbed a pile of scrubs and fled, last seen going west on Sansom. The offender was described as a black male wearing a skull cap and a blue jacket with an apron over it. ARREST: At 2:45 p.m. Jan. 15, 6th District Officers Ferrero and Blackburn observed a male in front of the subway entrance, 1044 Market St., with a crowd around him. The male had a cardboard table and was taking bets and running a “bottle-cap game.” The officers confiscated the evidence, including $859 in cash, and arrested the male. The 38year-old suspect was charged with gambling and related offenses. REPORT: At 2:30 a.m. Jan. 16 (reported at 12:45 p.m.), complainant was walking south on 13th Street at Chancellor when a male with a knife (no further description) demanded and took her purse, iPod and phone. ■

News Briefing HIV awareness event The Colours Organization, Inc., will observe National Black HIV/ AIDS Awareness Day with a community discussion from 6-8 p.m. Feb. 7. “I Am The End of HIV” will allow community members to tackle the issues surrounding the future of prevention for black men who have sex with men. The forum will be held at the William Way LGBT Community Center, 1315 Spruce St., and also is sponsored by The Safeguards Project and the HIV Vaccine Trials Unit at the University of Pennsylvania. For more information, call 215496-0330.

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contest for this summer’s Pride. The 2011 parade and festival will be themed “Pride Around the World,” and the winning design will be used for its promotional materials and throughout the June 12 event. Professional designers, artists or marketing companies are not permitted to enter. Only one design per person will be allowed, and duplications of other companies’ or organizations’ logos will be disqualified. All entries must be mailed or dropped off in person to 252 S. 12th St., Philadelphia, PA 19107, and must include a hard copy of the logo, a JPEG on a disc and a written release stating Philly Pride is permitted to use the logo for whatever purpose, whether it is the selected winner or not. The winner will receive $200, a write-up in the Pride program guide and the choice of riding in the parade or serving as a guest judge. Entries must be submitted by Feb. 28. The winner will be selected the first week of March by three community leaders and a representative of Philly Pride Presents. ■ — Jen Colletta

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Center elects new co-chairs at annual meeting By Larry Nichols larry@epgn.com The William Way LGBT Community Center’s board held elections at its Jan. 22 annual meeting at 1315 Spruce St. Board members in attendance included secretary Eric Ashton, treasurer Ann Butchart, Al Besse, Emilie Carr, Ted Greenberg, Stephanie Gross, Leon King, David Michelson, Moira Mulroney, Matt O’Malley and Jeff Sotland. The four open board positions were filled by re-elected board members Greenberg and Mulroney, and new members Adam Hymans and Laurie Ward. Gross and Sotland were elected cochairs during a closed board meeting before the annual meeting, replacing Carr and Michelson. Chris Bartlett, the center’s executive director, reported that membership has grown by 143 people and seven new BENEFITS, from page 1

Service Employees International Union, the city’s largest union, and nonunion managers and supervisors, both current and retired. Prior to the vote last week, council approved several amendments to the measure, including one that exempted the fire and police unions from the law for the time being. Adrian Shanker, vice president of the Pennsylvania Diversity Network, explained that the unions affected by the law must authorize a Memorandum of Understanding for legislation that would affect their union contracts, which those two unions had not yet done. “Council President Mike D’Amore introduced an amendment that basically said that if and when the International Association of Firefighters and the Fraternal Order of Police signed the Memorandums of Understanding, then those employees would have access to the benefits,” Shanker explained. “So it just

Cornerstone members since July. Bartlett also said a resource development committee and a marketing committee have begun meeting, with the latter creating a new color scheme for the center’s promotional materials and a new newsletter design that is less text-heavy. Bartlett described the center’s Senior Housing Project as a “key issue.” and said the board will decide if it’s moving forward on the project at end of February. Bartlett said that, this year, the center will focus on contacting donors to thank them for contributions, reaching out to new organizations to increase occupancy rates, working with The Attic Youth Center to raise awareness among youth about the center, increasing physical accessibility and improving visibility of the center. Bartlett also noted the center’s goals for 2011 include increasing membership by 200 regular members and 10 corner-

stones, as well as undertaking a facility audit to evaluate building needs. Director of center services Candice Thompson presented the program report and said the quarterly archive exhibit in 2010 brought in thousands of visitors. The center also doubled the number of oral histories collected in 2010 and hosted 20 gay-straight alliances. Thompson said the center’s programming goals for 2011 include hosting more GSAs, training with more senior service providers, organizing archive exhibits for specific organizations and starting an online catalog for the center’s library, art collection and archive. Regarding finances, Butchart reported the center had an actual revenue of $593,419 for fiscal year 2010 and a projected revenue of $662,496 for 2011. Expenses for 2010 were reported at $585,277; expected expenses for 2011 were reported at $662,496. It was also

reported that 85 percent of the center’s revenue, which is attributed as coming from the building, events, individual donations, grants, programs and other miscellaneous sources, went to programming. Individual donations make up approximately one-fifth of all funding for the center. The center spent $19,326 on capital improvements for fiscal 2010, which ended Sept. 30. The improvements included the installation of the firstfloor bathroom, enhancements to the AIDSFund space and upgrades to the fire exit system, computer servers and PCs. Board meetings are held on the fourth Tuesday of each month, excluding August and December. The next public board meeting is scheduled for March 22. Public board meetings will also be held on July 26 and Nov. 22. For more information, visit www.waygay.org. ■

cleared a legal path. We do expect both police and fire to sign it, but their attorneys were still looking over the papers, so they weren’t able to do it before the vote.” The issue of whether same-sex partners can be added to employees’ pension plans also arose. An actuarial study commissioned by the city appeared to find that extending pension benefits to same-sex partners of LGBT fire and police employees would cost approximately $160,000 a year. PA Diversity Network executive director Liz Bradbury said that figure is a gross overstatement, however, and is likely 10 times more than the real cost. Council decided to revisit that component in the future after more accurate financial figures could be determined. Even with the inaccurate price tag, however, Bradbury said opponents never surfaced at the meeting, with every person who offered public comment speaking in favor of the measure. “Even though this incorrect information

was out there, there was no public outcry to keep us from getting these benefits,” she said. “Everybody was in favor of it, and it wasn’t just the gay community: There were people there from community-watch groups, businesses, students, all different folks.” The vast majority of the 100-plus audience members were wearing “Taxpayer for D.P. Benefits” buttons. Bradbury noted that the tenor of the meeting was noticeably different from years past, when Allentown was considering, and eventually approved, its LGBTinclusive nondiscrimination ordinance. “When we tried to pass that law in 1998, we had about 25 people who spoke in favor of it at the hearing, but there were people there who were just so horrible and spoke so negatively. They said the most disgusting, heinous, prurient things about the gay community, everything from we’re pedophiles to things so horrible I can’t even say. And council just listened to them and even gave credence

to some of the things they were saying,” Bradbury said. She noted that the community mobilized to vote out the non-supportive council members and, while the makeup was more sympathetic when the bill was adopted in 2002, there was still a torrent of community backlash that the benefits bill did not see. The city of Easton is also in the process of considering extending domestic-partner benefits, and Shanker said Allentown’s unanimous action should fuel this effort. “This sends a strong message that this is not an issue that is divisive,” he said. “This is an issue of basic fairness and equality, and this sends this message to other municipalities that this isn’t something that’s controversial. It’s basic relationship recognition, best practices in human-resources policies and in business policies. It’s not politically divisive, and the unanimous passage shows that, and that should show other municipalities across Pennsylvania that they can and should have the moral fortitude to do this as well.” ■

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Judge rules for gay-rights backers in health suit The San Francisco Chronicle reports a federal judge has issued a favorable ruling for gay rights involving state employees

and long-term health care. U.S. District Judge Claudia Wilken of Oakland ruled California state employees can sue for discrimination over the federal government’s exclusion of same-sex spouses from a long-term-care program. In the Jan. 18 ruling, the judge turned down an Obama administration request to dismiss the suit. The suit was filed over the California Public Employees’ Retirement System’s refusal to enroll spouses in a federally approved long-term-care plan. CPERS said it doesn’t enroll same-sex spouses because of the Defense of Marriage Act.

Couple who fought adoption ban adopts 2 The Miami Herald reports a gay Miami man has officially adopted two brothers after he fought to overturn Florida’s threedecades-old ban on gay adoptions. Martin Gill and his partner fostered the boys for six years before the adoption was finalized Jan. 19. Gill and the ACLU filed a lawsuit against the state, calling the ban unconstitutional. The Third District Court of Appeal agreed in a ruling last year. The state did not appeal. The adoption prohibition was enacted in 1977 and court records indicate it’s the only law of its kind in the U.S. ■ — Larry Nichols

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Specter leaves LGBT legacy By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com United States Sen. Arlen Specter gave his farewell address on the floor of the Senate last month as he prepared to retire after a long and storied career in public service, and with a long and storied LGBT record. During his final ARLEN SPECTER remarks Dec. 21, PGN file photo Specter said the Senate lacks the commitment to purposeful debate that existed when he took office three decades ago and urged his fellow lawmakers to work toward that end. “It is my hope that more senators will return to greater independence in voting and crossing of party lines evident 30 years ago. Sometimes party does ask too much,” he said. “Above all, we need civility.” Specter was the longest-serving senator in Pennsylvania’s history, originally elected to the body in 1980. He was defeated in last spring’s primary by Congressman Joe Sestak, who lost to Republican Pat Toomey. Specter returned to the Democratic Party in 2009, after spending more than 40 years in public service as a Republican. Also in 2009, Specter announced that he

had shifted positions on an integral LGBTrights issue: the Defense of Marriage Act. Specter voted for the federal ban on samesex marriage when it was approved in 1996. He later declared that he thought the law was no longer needed. At the time, he noted there was a “very different mood” in the country when DOMA passed, and that he, along with society, has grown more open to marriage equality. Although his opposition to DOMA was new, Specter has been an advocate for other LGBT-rights issues for years. He served as a cosponsor of the bill to include sexual orientation and gender identity in the federal hate-crimes law since the legislation first surfaced in 1997 and voted to approve the law when it was passed last year. He also voted in favor of the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” last month, a measure he long supported. Specter also cosponsored the Employment Non-Discrimination Act since its original introduction and supported the Uniting American Families Act and the Domestic Partner Benefits and Obligations Act. Prior to his Senate tenure, Specter served two terms as Philadelphia’s district attorney, where he drew the attention of the LGBT community for cracking down on police officers who were targeting gay men. Specter will begin teaching at the University of Pennsylvania Law School this fall. ■

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Delaware Valley teacher named ‘hero’ By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com When David Hall was a junior at Council Rock High School, his human-sexuality teacher said something the student hadn’t heard before. It’s OK to be gay. That classroom discussion led him to a “political awareness” that inspired him to spread that message to other youth throughout his own career as a teacher, an effort that has garnered him numerous recognitions. This month, the National Liberty Museum and State Farm included Hall among their “Teacher as Hero” honorees, a title extended to 15 educators in the Delaware Valley for their “excellence, commitment, leadership, conflict resolution and community service.” Hall is a social-studies teacher at North Penn High School and the advisor to the school’s gay-straight alliance. Hall, who identifies as a straight ally, was named the runner-up for the Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network’s Educator of the Year award in 2010.

The Philadelphia native started teaching at North Penn in 1998 and took the helm of the school’s GSA since its inception nine years ago. The group now has a member list of more than 80 students, although Hall noted there are about 20 students who are most active with the club. The GSA holds an annual Day of Silence observance, LGBT History Month activities and, earlier this year in response to the rash of LGBT youth suicides, participated in a fall Spirit Day and hosted a forum on youth bullying. Hall said the club provides students the opportunity to examine issues affecting the LGBT community in an environment that is safe and judgment-free. “A good deal of the things we do in the GSA are cognitive, not necessarily social,” he said. “We talk about Christianity and homosexuality or Perry v. Schwarzenegger. It’s open for all types of people to participate in the discussions without having to tell us what’s going on with them or what they’re dealing with if they don’t want to.” The administration is largely supportive

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of the LGBT community and the GSA, Hall said, which has allowed the school community to move beyond basic-rights issues and tackle more complex topics surrounding sexual orientation and gender identity. “Some of the things aren’t as easy to deal with as, ‘This is our bullying rule, and we’ll enforce it and that’s it, problem solved.’ What we’re getting to now are issues that require more thought and that aren’t as universal,” he said. “Like what bathroom does the trans kid use, and what happens if someone has an unsupportive home? And these are things that a lot of other schools are dealing with now too.” Hall said many of the teens in the club identify as allies and joined to show support for their LGBT friends. The LGBT and questioning youth who are involved face varying challenges and triumphs both at school and in their home lives, which are best looked at by breaking down the L, G, B and T Hall said. While he noted that support for gay and lesbian youth is growing among the mainstream student population, trans teens often face a wholly different atmosphere. “In a class where I hear a kid say that they think gay people should have the same rights and be able to get married, the same kid two days later in a different class may say, ‘If a guy’s pretending to be a chick, it’s

OK to beat the shit out of him,’ We’re in a much different place on sexual orientation than we are on gender identity.” Having an administration that recognizes and values the contributions of all members of the LGBT community is integral to fostering a sense of acceptance and security among the youth, Hall said. He noted that when the club launched, it faced opposition from conservative school board members. But, after he worked to heighten understanding of the need for the group, the school has supported it. “A lot of education has been necessary. Sometimes I’ve had to do a lot more prophesizing than other advisers might have to do in order to do some of the things we’ve done with the club, but that’s understandable because if these people have never been exposed to these issues before, it’s going to take them some time to process it,” he said. “But once they get it, they really get it. People all along the chain of command at North Penn understand LGBT issues and really have a cultural competency.” Throughout his career, Hall, who also conducts LGBT sensitivity training programs and has authored a book on how to engage LGBT allies in the fight for workplace equality, has received nine teaching awards — four of which he received in the past year. He was recently given an alumni award from his alma mater, Widener University, largely for his LGBT work, which he said was an important statement. “What I’ve done of most distinction is related to LGBT issues, and for that to be recognized by a school that’s not necessarily considered progressive really says something to me about the importance that these topics are having, and that they’re resonating with a lot of different communities,” he said. While he’s grateful for awards, Hall said he doesn’t consider himself a hero. “I think it’s a bit of an overstatement to say the least,” he said. “I’m very proud of being a teacher. I don’t think I’m a hero, but rather a good, creative and caring teacher.” ■

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Out gymnasts reach new heights at Temple By Jen Colletta jen@epgn.com One local college sports club is turning the stereotype about the intersection of gays and sports on its head. Gay athletes are certainly no oxymoron at Temple University, whose 21-member men’s gymnastics team contains three out students. While each of the trio — junior Evan Burke and sophomores John Gaffney and Dash Sears — had a unique coming-out experience, they all agree that the environment of the team and the university allows them to flourish. Evan Burke, junior Burke, 22, first got involved in gymnastics at age 6. The son of a football coach, Burke and his family moved throughout the country during his childhood, before his parents divorced and he spent the 10 years before college living in New York City. As a child, Burke said there was a threeyear span during which he left gymnastics because of its grueling impact on his daily life. “I had to dedicate myself as a kid to 20 hours a week or more in the gym,” he said. “After school, my mom drove me an hour to and from the gym, and I’d get home around 11 o’clock at night, and I’d be doing my homework in the car.” During that break, however, Burke said he couldn’t ignore the pull he felt for the sport. “When it’s gone, it really feels like a big piece of your life is missing,” he said. Another big piece of his life, his sexuality, emerged when he came out at age 16. Living in New York City at that time, he said coming out was a complete non-issue at school, on his gymnastics team and with his family. “My mom loved it,” he said. “She cried and actually said she was praying I’d be gay

d i d t wo p r e because of the school classes whole ‘a gay son before they will never leave moved me up. his mother’ I guess I was a thing. And my natural.” dad’s been cool, That high too. He lives up energy has in Canada so I come in handy, don’t see him Gaffney said. that often, but The feat of eve r y t i m e I trying to baldo he asks if I ance classes, have a new boyfriend. I really practices and BURKE, SEARS AND GAFFNEY workouts is a haven’t faced any adversity skill Gaffney from anyone I know — sure, you can get it said he’s honed over the past 15 years. from strangers sometimes — but everyone “It’s one of the most stressful things you in my life has been really respectful.” can ever think of,” he said. “But we’ve all been doing this since we were little, John Gaffney, sophomore so we’ve had experience. But college is Gaffney, 20, also had a similar coming- another whole level: It’s a 24-hour commitment. I have to schedule time to sleep.” out experience. “I came out my senior year of high school, and I don’t know why I waited so Dash Sears, sophomore Fellow sophomore Sears agreed. long because everyone was like, ‘That’s “Any student athlete will tell you that on fine, we’ll support you no matter what.’ They were all for it,” he said. “People kept the outside you’re supposed to be students just asking questions and were actually first and athletes second, but gymnastics is a sport that you have to commit so much of interested.” Gaffney was a member of a private gym- yourself to, that we’re more or less athletes nastics club, as his high school in suburban first and students second,” he said. Boston only had a girls’ team and, despite Sears, 20, is a native of Hanover, and has his initial fears, his teammates were espe- been a gymnast for nearly 18 years. cially understanding. “My parents sent me when I was younger “I actually waited to tell them until very and just kept sending me and it grew on last because I was expecting it to be this big me,” he said. “I liked the feeling of being blowout and people to really have a prob- able to jump in the air and run around and lem,” he said, adding that “they were all just twist and stretch. And then just the more I like, ‘OK, that’s cool, no problem.’” did it, it became this natural progression.” Gaffney first entered the gymnastics Sears said his coming-out process was world at age 5, an activity his parents hoped also rather organic. would quell some of his natural spiritedWhile he had already accepted his own ness. identity before coming to college and living “I was always a hyperactive kid, and my as an out student, he said that wasn’t someparents wanted me to get that energy out, so thing he was able to completely embrace they put me in gymnastics,” he said. “I only while in high school.

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“Central Pennsylvania is very conservative,” he said. “It’s not a place for those to be out in the open. There are some openly gay people from where I’m from, but they’re often more or less shunned. People will interact with them, but it’s not the same as it is here. They’re treated differently and they have to adapt; people do, but it’s hard.” He said his family has been supportive and, even if he had grown up in a more LGBT-friendly environment, he was always too busy with gymnastics to have time for much else. “I wasn’t really in tune with my community back home because it’s very rightwing conservative, but I was always on the road for competitions anyway,” he said. “I only went to school for school. My life was really in the gym, school and home. I didn’t go to parties or volunteer at places or things like that because gymnastics was really my life.” Team dynamic Burke was the only out member of the team when he started at Temple in 2008. But he said, even without the comfort of having other out teammates, he never felt intimidated. Once Sears and Gaffney joined, the three became friends, but not to the exclusion of the other team members. Gaffney said their teammates have at times gone out of their way to exhibit that they’re fine with their sexual orientation. “They’re so comfortable that they sometimes do stuff that makes us a little uncomfortable,” Gaffney joked. “Sometimes we have to be like, OK guys, we get it, calm it down a bit.” Burke added the team frequently jokes that the three are among the “straightestacting on the team.” Local attorney Brian Sims, who was the first openly gay football captain in the PAGE 16 history of the National

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Shaun Donovan

Access to housing for every family By Shaun Donovan Secretary of Housing and Urban Development

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Striving for union On Tuesday, President Obama covered a lot of ground in his State of the Union address, from freezing domestic spending for five years, to having a “Sputnik” moment, from getting 80 percent of electricity from clean energy sources by 2035, to lowering the corporate tax rate. The president opened by congratulating the 112th Congress, and noting the absence of Rep. Gabrielle Giffords (DAriz.), who was shot in the head on Jan. 8. On Wednesday, Giffords was moved from a Houston hospital to continue her recovery. The Jan. 8 incident, in which six people died, has spurred calls for a more civil discussion and respectful debate. Certainly, the incident and ensuing discussions were part of the reason that, instead of Democrats and Republicans sitting on different sides of the aisle at the address, they sat interspersed. Obama noted it in his speech, and referenced that the Congressional balance of power had shifted. “What comes out of this moment will be determined not by whether we can sit together tonight, but whether we can work together tomorrow.” His speech certainly contained elements that appealed to everyone — reducing taxes, better education, electric vehicles, cutting spending to reduce the debt, fixing the health-care legislation but not repealing it. He even reached out to the gay community, following up on last year’s promise to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” “Our troops come from every corner of this country — they’re black, white, Latino, Asian, Native American. They are Christian and Hindu, Jewish and

Muslim. And, yes, we know that some of them are gay. Starting this year, no American will be forbidden from serving the country they love because of who they love.” Obama then went on to call upon colleges to allow military recruiters and ROTC on their campuses, the expulsion of which had spurred lawsuits. In his speech, the president focused on three major areas: encouraging innovation, improving education and rebuilding American infrastructure. Among his goals: — Eliminate the billions in taxpayer dollars currently given to oil companies. — By 2035, have 80 percent of America’s electricity come from cleanenergy sources. — Prepare 100,000 new teachers in the fields of science, engineering, technology and math. — Make a permanent tax-tuition credit of $10,000. — Within 25 years, give 80 percent of Americans access to high-speed rail. — Within five years, deploy high-speed Internet to 98 percent of Americans. Obama didn’t mention the LGBT community elsewhere in his speech. But he has been quietly making changes. After “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” was repealed, the regulations allowing samesex couples to visit each other in hospitals went into effect. And this week, the Housing and Urban Development agency proposed regulations that would ban discrimination in federally supported housing programs. Even if Obama can’t always get Congress to back him, he has affected positive change for the sexual minorities. ■

Martin Luther King Jr. famously said that “the arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice.” Last month, we were reminded of Dr. King’s insight once again as President Obama signed legislation repealing “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” into law. It was a moment, the president noted, “more than two centuries in the making.” The historic repeal of DADT is only one part of the Obama administration’s larger fight on behalf of the LGBT community. Whether it is giving same-sex couples hospital visitation rights or ensuring federal workers can afford long-term care for their partners, this administration is committed to fighting discrimination against gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. I’m proud that the Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) is part of that commitment, as we work to make inclusivity and diversity cornerstones of America’s housing policy. Indeed, from conducting the first-ever national study of LGBT housing discrimination to instructing our staff to be vigilant about whether any LGBT-based housing discrimination complaints can be pursued through the Fair Housing Act, we’ve worked to ensure our core housing programs are open to all. That’s why we recently announced a new rule ensuring LGBT individuals and couples can benefit from HUD programs. Our proposed regulations will make clear that the term “family” includes LGBT individuals and couples as eligible beneficiaries of our public housing and Housing Choice Voucher programs. Unfortunately, while HUD programs are designed and administered to provide

a decent home for every American, we’ve seen evidence that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender individuals and families are being arbitrarily excluded from some housing opportunities. For instance, two years ago Michelle DeShane, a lesbian, wanted to add her partner Mitch, a transgender male, to her housing voucher. The local housing authority denied her request because the couple did not meet its definition of “family.” The housing authority then referred the couple to a neighboring housing authority — because, as they were apparently told, the neighboring housing authority “accepts everyone — even Martians.” That’s not right. No one should be subject to that kind of treatment or denied access to federal housing assistance because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. And so, through this proposed rule, the Obama administration is ensuring that when it comes to housing assistance funded with taxpayer dollars, they won’t be. Specifically, it adds “sexual orientation” and “gender identity” to the list of definitions applicable to HUD programs. It clarifies HUD regulations to ensure that all eligible families have the opportunity to participate in HUD programs regardless of marital status, sexual orientation or gender identity. And it prohibits inquiries regarding sexual orientation or gender identity and makes clear that gender identity and sexual orientation should not and cannot be part of any lending decision when it comes to getting an FHA-insured mortgage. Every American family should have the opportunity to make a home for itself free from discrimination. That is why this rule is so important — and it’s why all of us at HUD are so proud to announce it. ■ Shaun Donovan is the U.S. Secretary of Housing and Urban Development. More information can be found at www.hud.gov.

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Letters and Feedback What a terrible neighbor. Never call the police. When you do, this is what happens. You wage violence on your neighbor. — itdoesntmatterwho I really hope the neighbors got footage of this incident, or audio or photographs. Have they documented the injuries from

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Unfortunately, many so-called political understand that system, namely Lambda leaders and journalists in our community Legal and American Foundation for Equal seem to not understand the political sysRights. But it’s not an in-the-streets, chaintem, but insist on commenting on it anying-yourself act. So masses here won’t way. That alone would be OK, but when help move that along. It will move at its viewed by veteran politicos of the opposiown speed and, honestly, do we want to go before this court? tion (read: conservatives), it The answer lies with those gives them the belief that we’ll who know the system. Asking never accomplish our goals. a politician who has to run And gives them a roadmap to block our attempts at equality for office his or her position — especially if we are fighting is a waste of a question and time — both theirs and ours. each other. We need to start that Unless you’re in a state or city dialogue internally. that has lots of education on The first step is making it clear what our priorities are. In the issue, such as California, the run up to the 2010 election, Massachusetts and New York, it was pretty clear: the repeal of you’ll get the safe answer. Is “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” with there anyone in the LGBT community who cannot state the a minor on marriage equality, position of any Democratic or and that was blurred by which Republican presidentidal candiroad to take — repeal of the date on this subject? It’s a noinfamous Defense of Marriage Mark Segal brainer. That alone tells us how Act in Congress or through the courts. The latter was confar the issue will go in the politifused by various lawsuits and tactics: the cal world now. Which battle do we choose? California Proposition 8 case working its That’s a really simple question born way through the courts, the lawsuit brought out of history and a proven path. Though by the Massachusetts Attorney General or we toss the word around, it needs some respect and leadership: nondiscrimination. pressuring the U.S. Attorney General to stop supporting DOMA. A majority of the sexual-minority comThat last one gives a major political munity nationally does not even have the clue. DOMA is by far the hardest fight we simplest of basic human rights. They can have on our hands. There’s an old line that be fired simply for being LGBT. They can comes to mind here: Choose your battles be denied housing, public accommodacarefully. Additionally, we need a strategy. tions in restaurants and hotels. The road to But stating a strategy means leadership change is two-fold: Fight it on a state-byand, in that regard, our community seems state level or federally by amending the to be lost between those who know how Civil Rights Act, adding sexual orientation to work the system but are afraid to offend and gender identity. It has already been the other camp. That other camp’s stance is introduced before and, at one time, lost by just one vote in the Senate. Is it possible that we deserve equality now and demand it, but have little knowledge of the political with a Republican Congress? Yes. But it system and are willing to attack the other takes leadership to voice the need to proside. Of course, both sides take credit for tect LGBT Americans living in places like the repeal of the military ban. The reality Alabama, Florida and Texas. Yes, LGBT was that it was using the political system people living in red states deserve equality too. The issue calls for a leader(s) to be that got it done, and fast maneuvering by clear and a strategy for equality. ■ the administration that won the day. So what’s next on our road to equality? Mark Segal is PGN publisher. He is the nation’s Again, we are all over the map. Here’s the most-award-winning commentator in LGBT simple fact. Marriage equality, no matmedia, having recently received the 2010 ter what we do, will be won in the courts. Columnist of the Year Award from the 2,000It will eventually be won or lost in the member Suburban Newspapers of America. He Supreme Court. You can support that can be reached at mark@epgn.com. fight by supporting the organizations that

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Finding, keeping and not worrying about love this V-Day Dear Jones-ing: We all know the feeling — especially this time of year. First, get it out of your system — cue up the Morrissey, Phil Collins, whatever’s on your personal wallowing soundtrack, and let it blast ... then let it go. Remember that the past isn’t always the best indicator of Dear Mazzoni: the future. Just because you’ve had unsatisfying relationships I’m single, and as V. Day approaches I feel increddoesn’t mean you’re doomed to repeat them — or to end up sad ibly alone. When it comes to my romantic outlook, Renée and alone. We all have the abilZellweger said it best: ity to grow and learn from past “Unless something changed experiences, if we choose. soon, I was going to live a life Being single can be a fun and where my major relationship exciting time (just ask any of was with a bottle of wine ... and Liza Linder, MSW your partnered friends!). Too I’d finally die fat and alone ... often we make the mistake of and be found three weeks later, half-eaten looking ahead to the “next” thing in life, by wild dogs.” work or relationships and not enjoying Great line — awful situation! Any the moment we’re in for what it can offer. advice? “Alone” time can be immensely enjoyable — Bridget Jones-ing for a mate if you choose to spend it that way, doing something constructive, relaxing or fun, More so than other holidays, Valentine’s Day can be a difficult time for some. For those who are unintentionally single, unhappy in their relationships or perhaps just having performance anxiety, Mazzoni therapist Liza Linder offers some words of wisdom to help you make the best of it.

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and not dwelling on negative thoughts. Ironically, these activities can often lead you into relationship territory. If that’s what you’re looking for, our advice is to seek out something you truly enjoy, whether it’s a sport, hobby or volunteer gig. You don’t have to swear off bars and dating sites all together, but don’t put all your stock in them. You might take time on Valentine’s Day to list the qualities you definitely want (and those you don’t) in a partner — realizing that no one is going to match every item on your list. It’s a great, simple exercise to clarify your core values. Besides, doing something active feels much better than sitting around feeling blue. Make a conscious decision to enjoy V. Day by doing something you love. (Three words: “Millionaire Matchmaker” marathon.) Dear Mazzoni: Help! My “stable” relationship has grown increasingly stale ... Wondering if it’s time to call it quits? — Unsure

Dear Unsure: Great question. For those of us who are in a relationship, Valentine’s Day can be a good time to evaluate things. Is it heading in a mutually satisfying direction? Are you getting what you need from your partner? If there are specific issues troubling you, have you raised them? (By this we mean, with your words, out loud — not by sighing when your beloved leaves dirty laundry on the floor, or avoiding eye contact when he suggests moving in!) Don’t be afraid to ask difficult questions: It can save you lots of heartache in the long run. Be sure to raise the issues in a calm, respectful way. You may find that you’re closer together on things than you knew. Remember that no relationship is smooth sailing all the time. The test of a lasting one is how well you weather the challenges that inevitably do come up. Can you talk about your concerns in an honest and constructive fashion, and resolve them in a way that leaves you both feeling OK? Let’s say you’ve tried everything (including an LGBT-friendly counselor, such as you’ll find at Mazzoni Center)

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city. Smith noted that a federal jury ruled that the city acted unconstitutionally when trying to evict the Scouts. She said it’s unlikely that a higher court would overturn that verdict. Even if the Third Circuit Court of Appeals ruled in the city’s favor, the Scouts probably would take the issue to the U.S. Supreme Court — meaning several additional years of litigation, she said. If the Scouts ultimately prevail, the city could be required to pay a multi-milliondollar legal bill for the Scouts, she added. Smith said the city must act in a fiscally responsible manner, and that she cannot justify exposing the city to the potential risk. LGBT advocates Stephen A. Glassman and Brian K. Sims disputed her assessment. Both men emphasized that acts of discrimination must never be taken lightly because they seriously harm individuals and entire communities. Glassman said the city’s Fair Practices Act protects individuals in a variety of categories. “All of the categories [of protected groups] are equally important,” Glassman

emphasized. He said protections on the basis of “sexual orientation” are viewpoint-neutral and cover gay, lesbian, bisexual and heterosexual individuals. Sims noted a recent U.S. Supreme Court decision makes clear that governments are permitted to condition the receipt of subsidies on compliance with antibias rules. But Smith minimized the relevance of that decision. She said the decision reaffirms lower-court rulings the city relied on during the federal trial — and still lost. Smith said the main stumbling block to a successful appeal remains a 2000 U.S. Supreme Court ruling, known as the “Dale” case, permitting the Scouts to exclude openly gay and atheist participants. Stephanie F. Singer, 8th Ward leader who moderated the discussion, said it’s illegal for the city to subsidize discrimination. Smith disagreed with Singer, stating there’s no law forbidding Philadelphia from subsidizing discrimination. But last November, voters approved a ballot initiative amending the Philadelphia Home Rule Charter to forbid city contractors from discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation, gender identity and

other categories. Some LGBT advocates say this new law is relevant to the Scouts issue because the city administration currently contracts with the Cradle of Liberty Council to administer Learning for Life programs. Learning for Life programs offer vocational and education training to city youths, and purportedly do not discriminate. Gregory M. Harvey, 8th Ward co-chair, questioned whether local BSA officials could legally assert a right to discriminate against gays by citing the Dale decision. Harvey, an attorney, said BSA officials have repeatedly presented a policy of inclusion, thus distancing themselves from the antigay viewpoint protected by Dale. Sims said Mel Heifetz, a local philanthropist and businessman, wants to purchase the property for $1.5 million, and then turn the building over to a nonprofit organization that doesn’t discriminate. Sims also noted that U.S. District Judge Ronald L. Buckwalter has affirmed the right of the city to evict the Scouts if it’s done in a constitutional manner. But Smith said that evicting the Scouts would be very difficult at this point, partly because some have complained about the

Scouts’ protected “viewpoint,” and the Scouts could use this to their advantage in future litigation. After City Council approves the deal, the litigation would be settled and the Scouts will stop discriminating inside the building within 90 days, Smith said. She said there’s “no indication” the Scouts will resume discriminating in the building after they purchase the property. Pointing to the need for a prompt settlement, Smith said: “Every day this litigation continues, the Scouts are discriminating inside the building.” But Smith confirmed she has nothing in writing from the Scouts stating they will refrain from discriminating inside the building after purchasing the property. Smith couldn’t be reached this week to clarify her remarks. Gregg A. Kravitz, an 8th Ward committeeperson, expressed hope that city officials will abandon the deal. “It’s not a done deal, and there are several viable options that the city could pursue that would better reflect Philadelphia’s economic interests and longstanding commitment to civil rights,” Kravitz said after the meeting. ■

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to Hartford, Conn., where he spent most of his adult life. He graduated from the University of Massachusetts in 1966. Wilcox worked as a business manager for the Hartford Public Library from 1975-2000. Wilcox’s friend and lawyer Virginia Gutierrez said that even though Wilcox spent most of his life in New England, he was a loyal fan of sport teams from outside the region. “He was a Dallas Cowboys fan, which was odd, and he was a Yankees fan, which was a total betrayal of the Boston Red Sox,” she said. “He was a sports person but he spent most of his time listening to classical music.” Wilcox retired in 2000 and moved to Philadelphia in 2001. He was diagnosed with mesothelioma in 2005. Both Wilcox and Gutierrez believe he came into contact with asbestos at the library. During his decade in Philadelphia, he became known for his involvement and contributions to the LGBT community. “He was estranged from his biological

family,” Gutierrez said. “He made his own family. He included quite a bit of us in his family. He was most associated with the William Way [LGBT] Community Center. I met him when I was co-chair of the board of directors at the William Way. He was the only guy that showed up consistently to all the board meetings and he would ask us all these questions about our finances.” Chris Bartlett, executive director of the William Way LGBT Community Center, said that Wilcox was incredibly generous and dedicated to the center, as well as “a great set of eyes” on the center’s books. “Just on my first six months on the job, he was a huge asset because he knew the organization inside out and he cold help me to see what our challenges and our strengths were.” Bartlett added that Wilcox loved to be around the community. “He attended — and was a big believer in — the community potlucks that we did on the holidays,” he said. “So in every way he was part of the foundation of the center. “He always said that we deserved the

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best community center in the United States, and his commitment and energy always helped push us in that direction.” Both Gutierrez and Bartlett said that Wilcox was a great financial contributor to local LGBT organizations. “All of the settlement money that he received from his asbestos litigation because of his health was given to LGBTnonprofit organizations,” Gutierrez said. “He was a very frugal guy. He clipped coupons and things like that. But he did give a lot of money to the LGBT community.” “He established an endowment of $100,000 at the Philadelphia Foundation for the William Way Community Center and we benefit from the annual income from that endowment, which has been a tremendous support for us,” Bartlett added. “He also was a huge supporter of the library and the archives because he came from a library background. He gave a large gift to support the library and the archives, which were renamed in his honor.” Carrie Jacobs, executive director of The Attic Youth Center, also had fond

memories of Wilcox and his involvement with the center. “He was really quite an interesting fellow and a character,” she said. “We’d have lunch two or three times a year. He was a great supporter. He attended one of our galas on his own and saw that we had youth performances. He was very interested in what we were doing. He was very interested in supporting young people. He was all for supporting our activities and events. He would pay for us to have space at William Way so that the youth could do a performance. He always wanted to give for specific things that he thought would enrich their lives.” Gutierrez said she was with Wilcox when he succumbed to his illness. “I was holding his hand and we were listening to Yo-Yo Ma,” she said. “He went very peacefully.” Wilcox is survived by his ex-partner, Bennie E. Crudupe, who lives in Georgia. The William Way LGBT Community Center will hold a memorial service for Wilcox on Feb. 12, 1315 Spruce St. ■

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Collegiate Athletic Association, has traveled the country since 2009, telling his own story to college athletic communities in an attempt to raise awareness about the issues many LGBT student athletes face. He said it’s not uncommon for a college campus to have at least one openly gay athlete, but that three LGBT students on a team as small as the gymnastics club is rather unusual — as is the level of support they’ve seen from the university. Yet, he noted, the student athlete population is largely leaning toward acceptance. “We know statistically that this younger generation of Americans treats these issues differently than older generations,” he said. “The fact that these guys’ teammates not only accept them but celebrate the fact that they have three gay teammates is something that we’re starting to see more and more in this age group.” Sears noted the sport is also one that traditionally has embraced gay athletes. “There have been a lot of European gymnasts who are openly gay and flamboyant and they were in the spotlight, not for being gay, but for how amazing they were at what

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they did,” Sears said. “It was never a really big thing, and I think that idea’s starting to come around in America.” Sims said the notion that the sports world is wholly homophobic is a misconception, largely promulgated by those who have little experience with team sports. “People who actually play on a team understand that this is a network, a family. People who just watch team sports expect the whole butch, macho thing to take over, but I think that’s often more just the perception of people who haven’t actually played team sports.” Burke said that team mentality is what

keeps him committed to the sport day after day. “Everyone on the team puts everything they have into this sport more for other people than for themselves. We all feel like brothers, like a family,” he said. “This is a job, and everyone needs to treat it professionally so it’s not like everyone coming here to hang out. It’s not a social thing, it’s a career choice.” As much as the students pour into the sport, however, they don’t neglect their studies: Last semester, the men’s gymnastics team had the highest GPA of all the campus sports teams.

Sears noted that the ability to multi-task is something they’ve honed throughout their sports careers in order to keep gymnastics front and center in their lives. “If we’re not here, doing gymnastics, it’s like something’s missing. If we’re injured or something, we’ll still come in and condition. It’s just something we’ve lived with all of our lives. It’s second nature to us.” The Temple men’s gymnastics team will compete in its first home match against Army and Penn State at 1 p.m. Jan. 30 at Temple’s McGonigle Hall, 1801 N. Broad St. ■

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to the point where your coworkers think you get paid way too much. That said, there are some really cool features to the 9-5, like the smart headlights that swivel the beam for better visibility, and the U-rail cargo track that keeps smaller items in the truck from moving around. Also, the 9-5s with Areo trim feature all-wheel drive. Other peace-ofmind features include front and rear park assist as well as an optional navigation radio package with an 8-inch touch screen and hard disk space for maps and 10GB worth of music (that’s a lot of Sting and Journey albums). The new Saab 9-5 may not be the sizzling hotness of a sports car, but as far as luxury sedans go, it’s just right.

We’re going to let you in on a little secret: We hate car shopping. To be clear and fair, we love driving 2011 Saab 9-5 new cars. We really, really, REALLY love Redesigned from the ground up and driving new cars. But then we look at the sticker price, calculate the car payments hoping to help reestablish Saab as a visible force on the crowded luxury and descend into auto market, the Saab 9-5 oozes total despair as comfort and sophistication. we realize how There’s something wombpoor we are, and like about the fit of the leather will always be, seats, the relative as we head back isolation from to our trusty the outside world decade-plus-old and the solid yet clunkers and 2011 SAAB 9-5 way powerful pray hard that the 9-5 drives. we can squeeze All that comfort and another two years out of them before we Price: $40,000-$60,000+ have to purchase yet another used — but refinement comes at a price, literally and newer than the last — clunker. 2011 MINI COOPER Mileage: 18 mpg city/28 Luckily for us, because it’s the auto figuratively. While sleek COUNTRYMAN mpg highway (4 cylinder), 16/26 (6 cylinder) issue, we got to drive a few new cars and and somewhat forwardfantasize that we have the means and the leaning in its design, the 9-5 doesn’t have Where to get a closer look: Armen Saab of resources to take one home. And if it wasn’t much of an edgy cool factor, but we get Ardmore, 205 E. Lancaster Ave., Ardmore; Arctic-level frigid outside, we might have the feeling that’s the point. This sedan is 610-726-1502. been seen with our heads hanging out the just the kind of safe but affluent piece of windows, tongues flapping in the wind as European automotive engineering that 2011 MINI Cooper Countryman we test-drove a handful of exciting new looks good when you pull into your office Part of the excitement of the new MINI parking space, but won’t raise eyebrows rides through the streets.

Auto enthusiasts will have their engines roaring when the Automobile Dealers Association of Greater Philadelphia (ADAGP) returns with the 2011 edition of the Philadelphia Auto Show, Jan. 29-Feb. 6. The nine-day event features a 550,000square-foot display floor showcasing vehicles from 40 manufacturers, including upcoming 2012 models, as well as antique, concept cars, customized celebrity rides and green vehicles from around the world. “You’re going to see exotics. You’re going to see classics. You’re going to see things that maybe you see on the Internet but you’re not going to see in person very often, if ever,” said Kevin Mazzucola, executive director of ADAGP. “So you have that aspect, that ‘wow’ aspect of seeing those kind of automobiles up close and personal. There’s something for everyone at the show.” Mazzucola added that beyond drawing the rare and expensive car enthusiasts, the show attracts a large number of people on the verge of purchasing a new car. “That’s where they make their choice,” he said. “About 90 percent [of spectators] are going to buy in the next 12 months and find it very important to their decision process to go to the auto show to either confirm what they want to buy or say, ‘You know, I didn’t notice that in my niche that I’m looking for. I have to consider that.’ Then they go from there on their purchase.” This year, the auto show’s organizers made some additions to the event that will enhance the overall vehicle-researching

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Cooper Countryman is being able to ﬁnd size, the rear seats fold down to add one to test drive. Since debuting in 2008, more room. Overall, the the Countryman Countryman is a fun, has become a sporty, head-turning drive sensation in that should appeal to cityEurope and only dwellers and suburbanites just became alike. available in the U.S. Price: $25,000-$30,000 The big Mileage: 28 mpg city/35 question is if mpg highway the Countryman Where to get a closer look: lives up to the 2011 MINI COOPER MINI of the Main Line, 130 buzz surrounding COUNTRYMAN INTERIOR it. Montgomery Ave., Bala Cynwyd; 877-209-9298. We believe so. The Countryman seems to be the answer to anyone who has ever been 2011 Kia Soul skeptical about the MINI Cooper brand Love or hate the or those who just see it as a novelty car. The new four-door model is roomier ad campaign with and more powerful than expected and the anthropomorphic is only slightly bigger than the Mini gerbils, the Kia Soul Cooper Hardtop or Clubman. It has a is an impressive to the surprising amount of legroom both in addition market. the front and back seats. The interior crossover console combines European styling with With a look that is Star Trek-like futuristic utility, thanks to more appealing than a large touch-screen interface. Equally its boxier cousins impressive are the Countryman’s 17- such as the cumbersome inch wheels, fuel economy (an average Scion xB or the abstract Nissan Cube, of 31 mpg) and four pilot seats. The not to mention a price range and attitude two rear seats can be swapped out for geared toward younger drivers, the a bench seat for drivers who need to Korean-made Kia strikes a solid balance accommodate ﬁve passengers. While between utility and edginess. While it doesn’t have the same level the trunk space is average for a car this

of touch-screen accoutrements in the dashboard that higher-priced models flaunt, there’s enough space for drivers to plug in electronic devices and enough customization options for drivers to put their stamps on their model. Inside the Soul, there are plenty of surprises. There’s plenty of headroom and legroom in the front seats and the rear seat space is respectable. Rear storage space, while not plentiful, is enough for the basics, and the rear seats fold down for more room. On the highway, the Soul also handles better than expected, with enough horsepower to keep up with the flow of traffic but not enough to get into street races for pink slips. The road noise might be an issue for those who aren’t accustomed to it, but most people shopping for cars in this range usually are. With reasonable pricing, hip style and versatility, the Soul is definitely 2011 KIA SOUL worth checking out. Price: $13,300-$17,900 Mileage: 24 mpg city/30 mpg highway Where to get a closer look: Kia of West Chester, 326 Westtown Road, West Chester; 610-429-3500. ■

experience, which includes two special “Ride and Drive” events taking place on the last weekend of the show. “What makes Philly’s show so important is that it does have an impact on the consumer,” Mazzucola said. “It’s difficult and we haven’t had ride-and-drive vehicles in Philadelphia to test the product to some degree. Especially for a cold, northeastern January auto show in the middle of a city, it’s difficult, but we

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Rainbow bibliography helps librarians help LGBTQ youth With all the recent media attention It tells the tale of two girls (one of whom about the need to support LGBTQ youth, has two dads) via the notebook pages they it is notable that the American Library pass back and forth. “Once again,” she Association is in its fourth year of giving said, “this is a book kids are going to pick librarians the tools to do that. up, not really knowing that The ALA on Jan. 15 pubthere’s gay content, but loving it lished its fourth-annual regardless.” Rainbow Bibliography, a selecFor older readers, she said tive but wide-ranging list of recthe committee “went absolutely ommended LGBTQ-inclusive crazy” for “Wildthorn” by Jane books for readers under 18. Five Eagland, a historical novel days earlier, it bestowed the about a 19th-century girl who first-ever Stonewall Children’s wants to be a doctor and loves and Young Adult Literature her cousin Grace, but is tricked Awards to honor the very top into an insane asylum. titles in the field. Another standout was “Will Wisconsin high-school librarGrayson, Will Grayson” by ian Lynn Evarts, who chairs the John Green and David Levithan, committee that chooses the bib- Dana Rudolph about two teens — one gay, one liography, said the list is espestraight — with the same name, cially important for librarians who may be whose lives cross paths and whose tale challenged if they put LGBTQ-inclusive ends with a high-school musical. books on their shelves. If that happens, she On the nonfiction side, Evarts comsaid, “You can whip this list out and say, mended the scope and accessibility of the ‘Look, this ALA committee said this was a 15-title series “The Gallup’s Modern Guide recommended title. Back off, buddy.’ As a to Gay, Lesbian & Transgender Life” by librarian in the school, I like to have that to Mason Crest Publishers, which covers support me.” LGBTQ health and mental health, politics, The 31 titles on the list are a mix of coming out, media, people of color, people styles and genres, including graphic novof faith and culture around the world. els, a photo essay and celebrity biograThe ALA this year also bestowed its phies, as well as more traditional fiction inaugural Stonewall Children’s and Young and nonfiction works. Adult Literature Awards as part of its Evarts observed that LGBTQ content famed Youth Media Awards, which include is often only part of the stories, indicatthe prestigious Newbery and Caldecott ing that such content is “becoming more medals. The winner was Brian Katcher’s normalized.” It is still important to have “Almost Perfect,” about a teen boy who books where being LGBTQ is the central falls for the new girl in his small town, character’s focus, she noted, but added: only to discover she was born a biological “Some students won’t pick up a book if it’s male. Also honored were “Will Grayson, identified as a ‘gay book.’” Having kids Will Grayson,” “Love Drugged” by James simply meet LGBTQ characters in books Klise, “Freaks and Revelations” by Davida that are not defined by gay content “gets Willis Hurwin and “The Boy in the Dress” those characters in more kids’ hands.” by David Walliams. The big gap this year is in books for The awards and bibliography point to younger readers. The only two on the the increasingly important role librarians list are “Dogs Don’t Do Ballet” by Anna can play in directing young people toward Kemp, one of the bibliography’s top 10 appropriate LGBTQ resources and support. titles, and “Tutus Aren’t My Style” by Evarts, who has been a school librarian for Linda Skeers. Evarts said both are what 25 years, said, “I think that of all the peoshe calls “subversive gay picture books” ple in the school, school librarians in parwithout any overt LGBTQ content. It was ticular can support any youth who seems to a struggle to find books with clear LGBTQ be struggling.” She feels that because they content for younger readers this year, she are not teachers or administrators, they can noted. The committee considered a few sometimes be “less intimidating.” others, but decided they fell short in the “I’ve had actual situations,” she recalled, quality of the writing or illustrations. “where I dealt with young people who Of the top 10 books, Evarts said, didn’t know where else to go.” “what made them stand out in almost She advised, “You need to have this stuff every instance was the characterization.” on your shelves, be it a public library, be Ones that she especially liked included it a school library, and you have to have it Geraldine McCaughrean’s “The Deathwhere kids can find it.” Defying Pepper Roux,” a high-seas advenView the full Rainbow Bibliography at ture about a young teen befriended by a rainbowlist.wordpress.com. ■ cross-dressing steward named Duchesse. She suggested middle-grade girls in parDana Rudolph is the founder and publisher ticular will like Amy Ignatow’s humorous of Mombian (www.mombian.com), a blog graphic novel “The Popularity Papers.” and resource directory for LGBT parents.

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Wayne Knaub: football, volleyball and fashion OK, so since the Eagles are out, you’re probably looking for something to make the Super Bowl a little more interesting. How about watching the game with a bunch of hot jocks? The Greater Philadelphia Flag Football League is having a Big Game Party at the International House, with two-thirds of all the proceeds going to ActionAIDS. This week, PGN spoke to GPFFL commissioner Wayne Knaub. PGN: I understand you were born in a place that’s been in the news a lot lately? WK: Yes, I was born in Guantanamo Bay, Cuba. My father was in the Navy. PGN: Was your mother in the service? WK: No, she was a homemaker, but she died in a car accident when I was 6. When I was 8, my father remarried, so my stepmom was the one who mostly raised me. PGN: Did you travel around a lot? WK: No, we left Cuba when I was 1 and moved to Virginia. When my mother died, my father left the Navy and we moved to central Pennsylvania. I recently went to Virginia Beach with my boyfriend and we went to the spot where the crash happened. Since I was young, I didn’t really have a perspective of where it occurred. I was surprised to realize that it happened pretty close to where we lived in the enlisted housing. At the time, the enlisted families were housed in trailers. The trailers weren’t there anymore, but the gates to the base were, and it brought back a lot of good memories. PGN: What were you like as a kid? Athletic? WK: Not really. I did a little Little League, but I was the skinny kid that never had the growth spurt. Most of the kids in my age group were twice my size. I also suffered from asthma as a kid. When I got to college, I seemed to grow out of it. [Laughs.] I think being away from my family of smokers probably helped. I did do some wrestling as a kid because with that, they matched you by size and weight, not age. PGN: So you have siblings? WK: Yes, I have an older sister and two younger brothers. PGN: Where did you go to school? WK: I went to high school at Red Lion High and then attended Lebanon Valley College — the same school as our new governor, Tom Corbett, and Philadelphia writer Natalie Hope McDonald. PGN: And how did you end up in New York as Mr. January in the 2004 Hockey Boys Calendar? WK: I’d gone up there on bus trips while I was in school and fell in love with the city. I lined up a job, graduated college on a Saturday and started my new job in New York that Monday. I lived there for six

years and started playing with the gay and lesbian hockey league. I joined the board and did a photo shoot and interview for the “Jock” issue of Instinct magazine. I was also on the “Puck Buddies” segment featuring the NYCGHA [New York City Gay Hockey Association] on “The Daily Show with Jon Stewart” and did a little modeling, which is how I became Mr. January. PGN: What possessed you to play ice hockey? WK: I went to see my cousin play ice hockey and it looked like fun. I saw an ad for a gay hockey association and called them up. I had never played ice hockey before, so I was what they called a tripod. PGN: Tripod sounds more like a name for Mr. January. WK: [Laughs.] No! They call skating newbies tripods because you’re always leaning on your stick. But over time I improved and really got into it. I even tried to start a hockey team here, and was able to assemble enough of a team to go to the Gay Games in Chicago — we placed third — but we weren’t able to sustain the team. PGN: And now you’re the commissioner of the flag football league. WK: Yes, I’m really proud of the group. We’ve gone from small pick-up games to league play with set teams and referees and rules and bylaws, and we just got designated as a nonprofit with 501(c)3 status. PGN: It seems like a fun league. WK: Yeah, we do things a little differently. The teams rotate every spring and fall so that players get a chance to make new friends. Captains also pick their teams in a private draft so there are no flashbacks to third-grade gym class and the dread of being picked last. Everyone is welcome, regardless of gender, sexual orientation or skill level. The team names are based on the captain’s color choices, so that’s how we end up with names like Shady Pines and Oxy Maroon. We also do a jocks’ night for athletes and athletic supporters every third Friday at Tabu. PGN: Outside of the team, what do you do professionally? WK: I work in sales for a retail maintenance company, and I just got promoted! I was working in the corporate side of retail as a facility director, taking care of stores nationwide and, when I got laid off, one of the vendors who had worked for me asked me if I’d consider doing sales for him. It turns out that I’m very good at it and really enjoy it. PGN: What was your worst sports moment? WK: When I first put together the Philadelphia ice hockey team, we had to play in a mixed league against straight teams and we heard some derogatory com-

ments and received a few uncalled-for hits from some of the teams. After one game, someone left a dildo outside our locker room. PGN: I saw the “It Gets Better” video the team did and your segment was very moving. I guess coming out was difficult. WK: Well, I come from a very blue-collar background. I was the first one to graduate from college. When I was in high school, my little brother told my father he’d heard a rumor that I was gay and my father responded that if I was a faggot, he was kicking my ass out as soon as I turned 18. When I did turn 18, I kept it hidden because I was afraid. I didn’t know where I’d go or what I’d do. My sister was accepting and, later on, I did come out to my father. At first it wasn’t accepted, but tolerated, but now he’s come around. There was a thing on Facebook about the recent teen suicides and he posted, “I’m so glad my son was strong enough to withstand the bullying and my ignorance as he was growing up. I’m proud of him

the book. PGN: So how long have you been with you partner? WK: We met over the summer in Rehoboth, so it’s relatively new. His name is Rex and he lives outside of D.C., but we’re hoping he’ll be able to move up here in the not-too-distant future. PGN: What’s an item you still have from your childhood? WK: I didn’t have them growing up, but last Christmas my little brother gave me a special present. When my dad was in the Navy, if he was away on a ship for a long period of time, my mother — birth mother — would record her voice so he could listen to her while he was gone. My brother had the tapes and he burned them onto CDs for me. She also wrote letters to him that my brother copied for me. It was priceless to hear her voice and her words once again and know that she loved me. PGN: Celebrity encounter? WK: When I was in New York, I interned with “The Lion King” on Broadway so I met the director, Julie Taymor, and a lot of Broadway stars. PGN: Do you sing and dance? WK: No, I can’t carry a tune. I can sort of hold my own dancing. When I go to Rehoboth, one of the things I like to do is participate in the drag volleyball tournament over Labor Day. This year, we were the Girls of the Gaga Galaxy: While I have my butch hockeyplaying, football-commissioner side, I don’t mind dressing up in drag and having fun.

PGN: What haven’t you done? Fashion, theater, sports ... WK: [Laughs.] I’ve done a variety of things. I worked at Coach in New York, and Charming Shoppes, Lane Bryant and Fashion Bug here. I’ve always told my friends that while I’m motiPhoto: Rex Rogosch vated and driven at work, I always want to make sure there’s a balance and time to and his accomplishments in life and I love do things I enjoy, like being part of the flag him for all that he is.” It took a long time, football league and other organizations but it’s allowed us to renew our relationlike the DVLF and MANNA. It makes life ship as father and son. Something that I’m more fulfilling to be able to give back. really excited about is that in March, Dan Savage, who started the “It Gets Better” For more information, go to www.phillycampaign, is publishing a print version flagfootball.com. ■ of the project. After Dan saw the GPFFL video, his editor approached me about To suggest a community member for “Family Portraits,” write to portraits05@aol.com. using the story about my father and me in

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Worth Watching IT WAS ALL A DREAM: Catch “Dreamgirls,” the critical and commercial hit adaptation of the popular 1981 stage musical following the somewhat “supreme” lives of Effie White (Jennifer Hudson), Deena Jones (Beyonce Knowles) and Lorrell Robinson (Anika Noni Rose) as they take the rocky road to stardom, 8 p.m. Jan. 28 on ABC. Photo: David James/

THE RIVERS RUN DEEP: Fashion/snark experts Joan and Melissa Rivers continue to work on their sometimes-difficult living situation (they moved in together for some reason) on the new reality series “Joan & Melissa: Joan Knows Best,” 9 p.m. Feb. 1 on WeTV. Photo credit: Chris Ragazzo/WeTV

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THE CLOSER: “Million Dollar Listing” returns for a fourth season with out luxury Realtor Madison Hildebrand and his cohorts trying to move high-end properties in Hollywood and Malibu, Calif., 10 p.m. Feb. 1 on Bravo. (We’re guessing they have to work a lot harder for the money these days.) Photo: Isabella Vosmikova/Bravo

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Q Scopes

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Jack Fertig

Think twice, Aries! Venus in Sagittarius square Jupiter and Uranus in Pisces should be very sensual, imaginative and innovative, if perhaps a bit overindulgent. Mars and the Sun in Aquarius are bringing out the edgy innovative side, maybe a bit too hardcore. Pushing too hard can spoil the energy. To get where you want to go, relax and pay attention to subtle clues. ARIES (March 20-April 19): Friendly provocation, dares and seductions can lead you too easily into trouble. Meditation and calm help you hear that inner voice that guides you. Don’t avoid your friends. Just think twice to avoid going along with something foolish. TAURUS (April 20-May 20): A simple effort at a friendly seduction is liable to blow up in your face and expose you to ridicule. Think ahead about your romantic/sexual needs and talk with a friend you know you can trust with your secrets — or a professional counselor.

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1. Accessories for 76 trombones 6. Room in 32Across 10. Radio switch 14. “___ roll!” (winner’s cry) 15. “Uh-oh!” to Shelley 16. Richard of “And the Band Played On” 17. Sewing kit item 18. Pinball Wizard foul 19. Make ___ dash for 20. Secretary of State 23. SEP, e.g.

24. Comedian Amsterdam 25. What you tell pests to take 27. Study of Shakespeare’s feet 29. Russian astronaut 31. Where to find Moby Dick 32. Lorca’s house 33. Premature ejaculation meas. 34. Start of a statement by 20-Across 39. Sandy’s sound in “Annie” 42. Depp’s crossdressing role 43. Sniff out 47. It shoots off hot stuff 49. Where you stick it in the bull 52. Islamic leaders 53. Ben Stiller’s mother Anne

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GEMINI (May 21-June 20): You can be too eager to get ahead and out to new vistas. Asking questions and working to understand the answers is better than assuming that you already know everything you need to take the next step. CANCER (June 21-July 22): You’re looking very sexy, but slippery. You may be as irresistible as those impulses, but be very careful about playing safe. Right now every accident and bug around is out to get you. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): You and your partner (whether for life or for fun) are both full of grand fantasies, not quite meeting on planet Earth. Try lying back and letting your honey take the lead. You could find it a very happy surprise. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): If you and your partner or roommate are arguing over housekeeping, your best strategy for now is to relax and be flexible. You probably don’t like that, but the alternative just 55. Alexander ingredient 56. End of the statement 59. Gyro bread 60. “Catch you later” 61. Rutstein of “Disappear Fear” 62. Dollar bills 63. Series terminal 64. GLAAD’s “___ the Media” project 65. Adam, created by a woman named George 66. Teacher’s faves 67. Sews the hose

Down

1. Writer Yukio 2. They yell “Yer out!” 3. “Just missed!” 4. Carbon compound 5. It’s hung in a deli 6. Well-endowed old goats?

7. Gertrude’s partner 8. Screw around 9. Italian wine city 10. First name in mysteries 11. Rita Mae Brown’s “Rita Will,” e.g. 12. He went to Hollywood 13. Dose of AZT, e.g. 21. Bird of myth 22. Pester, as Albert to Armand 26. SASE, for one 28. Scrap of cloth 30. Wood for Billy Bean’s bat, perhaps 32. Spanish hero, with “El” 35. Up to one’s butt (in) 36. Hither’s partner 37. Rose to Dorothy, on “Golden Girls” 38. Old abbr. of

brings more trouble. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Usually you could teach “sweet and charming,” but now you seem to need a remedial course. Try to stay focused on tasks at hand and be creative on paper or on screen, not aloud. Let a friend confirm your brilliance before you send anything out. SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Your creative crises can be resolved at home or by looking at family “wisdom” in new ways. Guard against extravagance. You can transform old junk into new treasures. Focusing your will is the hard part. The rest is easy! SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 20): Revelatory letters to your family will lead to more drama than expected. That could be good in the long run for getting everything out in the clear, but the road to calm resolutions has a lot of loud and nasty on the way! Nureyev’s land 39. Caesar’s salutation 40. Painter Brooks 41. Played the coquette 44. “Bayou Boy and Other Stories” author Lars 45. Newspaper issue 46. Dorothy and Auntie Em, for example 48. Line of Todd Oldham clothing? 49. Gondola courses 50. Bruin Bobby 51. Made erect 54. Patronize, as a Rubicon restaurant 57. Lone Star sch. 58. “Naked Maja” painter 59. U.S. Mail compartment

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CAPRICORN (Dec. 21-Jan. 19): The stars are opening you up for therapeutic release of secrets and problems. Choose the time, place and confidante very carefully or your worst secrets will be out all over the place. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Your social charisma is strong, but exercising it risks a greater price than you imagine. Be careful about any commitments of time and energy. You’ll find you had less than you thought. PISCES (Feb. 19-March 19): Consider your ambitions carefully. A burst of energy now tempts you to overextend yourself. Some courage is good, but meditate and think ahead before you promise to deliver the moon. ■ Jack Fertig, a professional astrologer since 1977, is available for personal and business consultations. He can be reached at 415-864-8302, www.starjack.com or QScopes@qsyndicate.com.

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Biba uncorks the simple pleasures By Larry Nichols larry@epgn.com We were tempted to believe that the good people at Biba, 3131 Walnut St., might be taking themselves too seriously when their website described their cheeses as “sexy.” But then we ventured to the cozy University City wine bar on a busy weeknight and found that the menu separates the selection of cheese plates into six distinct and honest categories: clean, luscious, stinky, approachable, stoic and racy. We opted for the La Tur ($8.50), a soft, rich, creamy cheese that complemented the sweet poached cherries that accompanied it. Had we been in a more festive mood, we might have braved the stinky cheeses, but we decided to save that for next time. It turned out to be a good dish with which to sample the featured wine for that evening, the “earthquake blend” ($9.50 glass), which had a great backstory: The earth shakes in some country and barrels containing two different types of wine clank together and break. Poof! Earthquake blend. Anyway, it was red and we really should have taken a bottle home. Biba specializes in the small, simple dishes that facilitate an evening of wine sipping and conversation, so there’s noth-

ing too complicated on the elegant menu. Which was fine by us, because the simple pleasures looked the most enticing. The warm white bean and Tuscan spread ($4.50) was a more refined version of spinach dip — far tastier and less expensive than its bar appetizer counterpart too. The mole-spiced salame ($4.50) was a treat with sweet and sticky honeyed almonds, giving the plate a balanced flavor and a nice texture. Another savory and sweet plate was the sliced speck ($7), which came with a tasty apricot mustard. Most of Biba’s crostini made for a good nosh as well. The apple tree chèvre with beet mostarda ($4) had a nice tangy flavor. The Birchurn blue cheese with Lancaster spiced pear butter ($4.50) ventured more into sweet territory, and was also very good. If we were more enamored with wild mushrooms (we’re close to being done with them for life), we probably would have liked the truffled wild mushroom pâté ($4) more than we did. Wild mushrooms were also on the scene for the truffle egg and potato with spinach and fontina ($7). The hot and comforting dish needed slightly more aggressive spicing to make it sing, but instead it just came across as the sum of its parts. Especially ravenous diners can take

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on more substantial fare such as Biba’s meat plate ($11.50) or any of the pannini, which come in varieties such as smoked chicken with roasted pepper ($9.50) or eggplant caponata with pesto and mozzarella ($9). Desserts were simple and delightful as

well. We were treated to a plate of champagne and dark chocolate truffles with candied oranges. The truffles were sinfully rich and capped off the meal in fine fashion. We want to hang out at Biba more often. ■

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OUT & ABOUT The week ahead Fri. 01/28 KalichsteinLaredoRobinson Trio Philadelphia Chamber Music Society presents the classical ensemble at 8 p.m. at Perelman Theater, 260 S. Broad St.; 215790-5847. The Losers Lounge Tribute to The Rat Pack: Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Sammy Davis Jr. and friends Relive the glory days of Las Vegas at 8 p.m. at World Cafe Live, 3025 Walnut St.; 215222-1400.

Schubert’s Great Symphony The Philadelphia Orchestra performs with British conductor Jonathan Nott at 8 p.m. Jan. 28 at Kimmel’s Verizon Hall, 260 S. Broad St.; 215790-5847. Laura Cheadle The cabaret singer performs at 8:30 p.m. at Bob Egan’s New Hope, Ramada Inn, 6426 Lower York Road, New Hope; 215-8625225. Burlesque Showcase Sisters Nightclub hosts an evening of local burlesque stars, 9 p.m.-2 a.m., 1320 Chancellor St.; 215-735-0735.

Stimulus Presents: The Winter Wonderland Ball The festivities include performances by Liberty City Kings Drag and Burlesque and Lyfe Dance, along with music by DJ Nikson, Joviii Baby, DJ Kash and DJ Sparkles, 9 p.m.-2 a.m. at TLA, 334 South St.; www. livenation.com/ Stimulus-PresentsWinter-Wonderland-Balltickets/artist/1530464.

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bands, 6 p.m. at Tritone, 1508 South St.; 215-545-0475. Lauryn Hill The platinum-selling rapper/R&B singer performs at 10 p.m. at House of Blues, 801 Boardwalk; 609343-4000. Shawn Pelofsky The Atlantis gay cruise international comedian performs at 10:30 p.m. at Bob Egan’s New Hope, Ramada Inn, 6426 Lower York Road, New Hope; 215-862-5225.

Sat. 01/29 Sugar Town’s 10th Anniversary The long-running night of lady rockers and DJs celebrates its anniversary with a local, multi-band tribute to other female artists and

Sun. 01/30 Unfaithfully Yours The 1948 dark comedy is screened at 2 p.m. at Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; 610917-0223.

MUY CALIENTE: Some of Argentina’s ﬁnest singers, dancers and musicians come together for “Tango Fire,” a show that traces the dance from its origins in Buenos Aires’ red-light district to the popular public dance form known throughout Argentina as the Milonga, to its more recent evolution into the world of contemporary ballroom dance. Catch the show at 3 p.m. Jan. 30 at Kimmel’s Merriam Theater, 250 S. Broad St. For more information, call 215-790-5847.

Tango Fire The music and dances of Argentina hit the stage at 3 p.m. at Kimmel’s Merriam Theater, 250 S. Broad St.; 215-790-5847.

Wed. 02/02 Groundhog Day The 1993 comedy is screened at 4, 6 and 8 p.m. at Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; 610-917-0223.

Under Our Skin The film about Lyme disease is screened at 4 p.m. at Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; 610917-0223.

Ozomatli with Psychedelphia The culture-blending rock group performs at 8 p.m. at World Cafe Live, 3025 Walnut St.; 215-222-1400.

Shawn Colvin The Grammy-winning singer-songwriter performs at 7:30 p.m. at World Cafe Live, 3025 Walnut St.; 215222-1400.

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Mon. 01/31 Forgetting Sarah Marshall The comedy film is screened at 8 p.m. at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; 215-9226888.

Tue. 02/01 Jessica B. Harris The author of “High on the Hog: A Culinary Journey from Africa to America” hosts a reading at 7:30 p.m. at Central Library, 1901 Vine St.; 215-686-5322.

Maxine Hong Kingston The author of “I Love a Broad Margin to My Life” hosts a reading at 7:30 p.m. at Central Library, 1901 Vine St.; 215-686-5322.

24 W. Temple Ave., Sellersville; 215257-5808. Melissa Kolczynski & Tom Wilson Weinberg The cabaret singers perform at 8 p.m. at Bob Egan’s New Hope, Ramada Inn, 6426 Lower York Road, New Hope; 215-862-5225. Lemmy The documentary film about the Motorhead frontman is screened at 8:30 p.m. at the Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; 215-

922-6888.

Fri. 02/04 Serafin String Quartet The Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts presents the classical group at 8 p.m. at Harold Prince Theatre, 3680 Walnut St.; 215-8983900. The Fifth Element The 1997 action/scifi film is screened at 9:45 p.m. at Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; 610-917-0223. ■

Abba: The Concert The Abba tribute band performs at 8 p.m. at Keswick Theatre, 291 N. Keswick Ave.; 215572-7650. Grimaud Plays Beethoven The Philadelphia Orchestra performs with French-born pianist Hélène Grimaud at 8 p.m. at Kimmel’s Verizon Hall, 260 S. Broad St.; 215-790-5847. David Johansen The singer of The New York Dolls performs at 8 p.m. at Sellersville Theater,

ROCKIN’ ROBYN: Robyn blew off the doors of The Troc when she performed a co-headlining tour with Kelis last year. Now the electro-pop singer is back for what will hopefully be a bigger and better show at 7:30 p.m. Feb. 3 at The Electric Factory, 421 N. Seventh St. For more information or tickets, visit www. robyn.com or call 215-922-6888.

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The Little Prince Bristol Riverside Theater, through Feb. 13 at 120 Radcliffe St., Bristol; 215-7850100.

Opening Nocturne Flashpoint Theatre Company presents Adam Rapp’s one-man show about how grief can unravel a family, Feb. 226, Second Stage at the Adrienne, 2030 Sansom St.; 215-665-9720.

Mark Cohen: Strange Evidence Philadelphia Museum of Art, through March 13, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215-763-8100.

Singin’ & Swingin’ Peter Nero and the Philly Pops perform timeless hits with Ann Hampton Callaway, Feb. 2-6 at Kimmel’s Verizon Hall, 260 S. Broad St.; 215-790-5847.

Parenting 101: The Musical! The musical comedy about the various stages of raising children is on stage through March 6 at Kimmel’s Innovation Studio, 240 S. Broad St.; 215-790-5847.

Classic Innovations The Pennsylvania Ballet performs three pieces from different choreographers, Feb. 3-6 at Kimmel’s Merriam Theater, 250 S. Broad St.; 215-790-5847.

Race Philadelphia Theatre Company, through Feb. 13, at Suzanne Roberts Theatre, 480 S. Broad St.; 215-985-0420.

Continuing Amadeus Walnut Street Theatre presents the Tony Award-winning play about the legendary composer, through March 6, 825 Walnut St.; 215-574-3550. Attic Youth Center Queerealities: Posters for Change The William Way LGBT Community Center hosts an exhibition of posters imagined, designed and printed by 17 youth at The Attic to increase visibility around queer issues, through Feb. 28, 1315 Spruce St.; 215-732-2220. California Redemption Value Papermill Theater presents a comedic celebration of the redemptive power of lying, through Feb. 6, 2825 Ormes St.; 510-2926403. Coming: A Rock Musical of Biblical Proportions Traverse Arts Project presents a musical starring Erik Ransom as narrator Damian Salt, an openly bisexual, avowed atheist glam icon who just so happens to be the antichrist, through Feb. 6 at Prince Music Theater, 1412 Chestnut St.; 215-569-9700. Condensation: Works by Alexander Conner The William Way LGBT Community Center hosts an exhibition from the winner of its 2010 Juried Art Competition for LGBT artists, through Feb. 25, 1315

Notices Send notices at least one week in advance to: Diversions, PGN, 505 S. Fourth St., Philadelphia, PA 19147 fax: 215-925-6437; or e-mail: diversions@epgn.com. Notices cannot be taken over the phone.

HEART OF GLASS: Walnut Street Theater presents an all-new production of the classic by out playwright Tennessee Williams, “The Glass Menagerie,” starring Jillian Louis as Laura, through Feb. 6 at Independence Studio on 3, 825 Walnut St.; 215-574-3550. Photo: Mark Garvin

Spruce St.; 215-732-2220. Facing Out, Facing In: Figurative Works The James A. Michener Art Museum, through May 1, 138 S. Pine St., Doylestown; 215-340-9800. The Glass Menagerie Walnut Street Theater, through Feb. 6 at Independence Studio on 3, 825 Walnut St.; 215-574-3550.

Resisting Racism: 30 Years of Men of All Colors Together The William Way LGBT Community Center, through March 25, 1315 Spruce St.; 215-732-2220. A Skull in Connemara Lantern Theater Company, through Feb. 6, at St. Stephen’s Theater, 923 Ludlow St.; 215-829-0395. Tailoring Philadelphia: Tradition and Innovation in Menswear Philadelphia Museum of Art, through summer, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215763-8100. To Love, Honor and Obey? Stories of Italian Renaissance Marriage Chests Philadelphia Museum of Art, through July, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215-7638100.

Virtues and Vices: Moralizing Prints in the Low Countries, 15501600 Philadelphia Museum of Art, through Feb. 27, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215-7638100. Woman/Object AxD Gallery, through Feb. 19, 265 S. 10th St.; 215-627-6250.

Closing The Borrowers Arden Theatre Company presents the story of a tiny family whose dollhouse lives are uprooted, forcing them to make their way in the giant universe that surrounds them, through Jan. 30, 40 N. Second St.; 215922-1122. Pleasures and Pastimes in Japanese Art Philadelphia Museum of Art, through Jan. 30, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215-7638100. Quadruple-Consciousness Vox Populi presents an exhibition bringing together the works of 19 diverse artists exploring various tactics for representing cultural difference, through Jan. 30, 319 N. 11th St.; 215-238-1236. [title of show] Mauckingbird Theatre Company , through Jan. 30 at Upstairs at Adrienne Theater, 2030 Sansom St.; 215-923-8909. The Understudy Wilma Theater presents the comedy about a war of will between actors, through Jan. 30, 265 S. Broad St.; 215-546-7824. ■

A Glimpse of Paradise: Gold in Islamic Art Philadelphia Museum of Art, through April, 26th Street and the Parkway; 215763-8100. John Folinsbee and American Modernism Woodmere Art Museum, through March 6, 9201 Germantown Ave.; 215-247-0476. Q PUZZLE, from page 23

COVERED IN SUGAR: Sugar Town, the long-running night of lady rockers and DJs, celebrates its 10th anniversary with a local, multi-band tribute to other female artists and bands, 6 p.m. Jan. 29 at Tritone, 1508 South St. “I got a really big response,” said Sugar Town creator Sara Sherr of the show. “I had to turn some people down because at one point I had 15 bands, now I’m down to 13. A couple of the bands are just makeshift bands that just formed for this event.” Each band, including Dear Althea, KeN (pictured) and Betty Iron Thumbs, will do a short tribute set, each for a different female rock artist from a list that includes the B-52s, Blondie, Garbage, The Go-Go’s, Jefferson Airplane, Cyndi Lauper, Sinead O’Connor, The Pretenders, Veruca Salt and more. For more information, visit www.twitter.com/sarasherr or call 215-545-0475.

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Community Bulletin Board Community centers

■ The Attic Youth Center: For LGBT and questioning youth and their friends and allies. Groups meet and activities are held from 4-8 p.m. Wednesdays and Fridays; case management, HIV testing and smoking cessation are available Monday through Friday. See the Youth section for more events. 255 S. 16th St.; 215-545-4331 ■ Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Center at the University of Pennsylvania 3907 Spruce St.; 215-898-5044; center@dolphin.upenn.edu, Hours: 10 a.m.-10 p.m. Monday through Thursday, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Friday

Youth Center: 6-8 p.m. Wednesdays: Doylestown Planned Parenthood, The Atrium, Suite 2E, 301 S. Main St., Doylestown; 215-348-0558 ext. 65; rainbowroom@ppbucks.org

■ William Way Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center: 1315 Spruce St.; 215-732-2220; www.waygay.org. Hours: 9 a.m.-10 p.m. Monday-Friday, 11 a.m.-7 p.m. Saturdays and Sundays. Peer counseling: 6-9 p.m. Monday through Friday Library hours: 3-9 p.m. Monday, Wednesday and Friday; 3-6 p.m. Tuesday; noon-6 p.m. Saturday and Sunday. Volunteers: New Orientation: First Wednesday of the month at 7:30 p.m.

■ Rainbow Room — Bucks County’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning and Allies

■ AIDS Law Project of Pennsylvania: 215-587-9377

Key numbers ■ Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Peer Counseling Services: 215-732-TALK

■ AIDS Library: 215-985-4851

■ Mayor’s Director of LGBT Affairs: Gloria Casarez, 215-6862194; Gloria.Casarez@phila.gov; Fax: 215-686-2555

■ AIDS Treatment hot line: 215545-2212 ■ Barbara Gittings Gay and Lesbian Collection at the Independence Branch of the Philadelphia Free Library: 215-685-1633 ■ The COLOURS Organization Inc.: 112 N. Broad St., third floor; 215-496-0330 ■ Equality Pennsylvania: 215731-1447; www.equalitypa.org ■ Equality Forum: 215-732-3378

■ Mazzoni Center: 215-563-0652; www.mazzonicenter.org. Legal Services: 215-563-0657, 866-LGBTLAW; legalservices@mazzonicenter. org ■ Mazzoni Center Family & Community Medicine: 215-563-0658 ■ Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (Philadelphia): 215-572-1833

Gay and Lesbian Latino AIDS Education Initiative Free, anonymous HIV testing from 9:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Monday through Wednesday and 9:30 a.m.-7 p.m. Thursdays at 1207 Chestnut St., ﬁfth ﬂoor; 215-851-1822 or 866-2223871. Spanish/English HIV treatment Free HIV/AIDS diagnosis and treatment for Philadelphia residents are available from 9 a.m.-noon Mondays and 5-8 p.m. Thursdays at Health Center No. 2, 1720 S. Broad St.; 215-685-1803.

■ Greater Philadelphia Professional Network Networking group for area business professionals, self-employed and business owners meets monthly in a different location throughout the city, invites speakers on various topics, partners with other nonprofits and maintains a Web site where everyone is invited to sign up for e-mail notices for activities and events; www.gppn.org. ■ Independence Business Alliance Greater Philadelphia’s LGBT Chamber of Commerce, providing networking, business development, marketing, educational and advocacy opportunities for LGBT and LGBT-friendly businesses and professionals. Visit www.IndependenceBusinessAlliance.com for informa-

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS (AA) Acceptance meets at 7:30 p.m. Fridays at Episcopal Church, 22nd and Spruce streets.

Early Night Out meets at 5:30 p.m. daily at Washington West Project, 1201 Locust St., second floor.

■ Philadelphia Police Liaison Committee: 267-216-6606; ppd. lgbt@gmail.com

GLBT Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 7 p.m. Sundays and 8 p.m. Wednesdays at St. Mary’s Episcopal Church, 100 W. Windsor St., Reading; 484529-9504.

■ SPARC — Statewide Pennsylvania Rights Coalition: 717-9209537 ■ Transgender Health Action Coalition: 215-732-1207 (staffed 3-6 p.m. Wednesdays, and 6-9 p.m. Mondays, Thursdays and Saturdays)

No Other Way Out meets at 11 a.m. Sundays at the William Way Center. Night Owl meets at 11:30 p.m. daily at the William Way Center. Philadelphia Gay & Lesbian Beginners meets at 7:30 p.m. Mondays at Trinity Episcopal Church, 2212 Spruce St. Sober and Gay meets at 8:30 p.m. Sunday through Friday at the William Way Center.

HIV health insurance help Access to free medications and conﬁdential HIV testing available at 17 MacDade Blvd., Suite 108, Collingdale; Medical Ofﬁce Building, 722 Church Lane, Yeadon; and 630 S. 60th St.; 610-586-9077.

Mazzoni Center Free, anonymous HIV testing; HIV/AIDS care and treatment, case management and support groups; 21 S. 12th St., eighth ﬂoor; 215-563-0652. www.mazzonicenter.org. Mazzoni Center Family & Community Medicine Comprehensive primary health care, preventive health services, gynecology, sexual-health services and chronicdisease management, including comprehensive HIV care; 809 Locust St.; 215-563-0658. Washington West Project Free, anonymous HIV testing. Walk-ins welcome 9 a.m.-9 p.m. Monday-Friday and 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday; 1201 Locust St.; 215-985-9206.

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■ Gay and Lesbian Lawyers of Philadelphia GALLOP holds board meetings at 6:30 p.m. the first Wednesday of the month at 100 S. Broad St., Suite 1810; GALLOP also provides a free referral service; 215-627-9090; www.galloplaw.org.

Pink and Blues is a free depression and bipolar support group for sexual minorities that meets at 7 p.m. Wednesdays at St. Luke and The Epiphany Church, 330 S. 13th St. Contact Mark at 215-627-0424 or madpride@ymail.com.

■ Philadelphia Police Department liaison — Deputy Commissioner Stephen Johnson: 215-683-2840

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AIDS Services In Asian Communities Provides HIV-related services to Asians and Paciﬁc Islanders at 340 N. 12th St., Suite 205; 215-536-2424.

AL-ANON Gay Al-Anon meets at 8 p.m. Fridays at St. Andrew’s Church, 50 York St., Lambertville, N.J.; 215-986-1029.

Community meets at 8 p.m. Thursdays at Holy Communion Church, 2111 Sansom St. Gay and lesbian, but all are welcome.

■ Philadelphia Commission on Human Relations: 215-686-4670

Anonymous, free, conﬁdential HIV testing Spanish/English counselors offer testing 8:30 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday at Congreso de Latinos Unidos, 166 W. Lehigh Ave.; 215-763-8870 ext. 6000.

NJ LGBT Cancer Support Group Discussion/support group for LGBT cancer survivors, patients and caregivers meets at 7:30 p.m. on the second Friday of every month at the Pride Center, 85 Raritan Ave., Room 3, Highland Park, N.J.; 609-217-8697; njlgbtcsg@me. com.

■ Philadelphia Lesbian and Gay Task Force: 215-772-2000

■ Philly Pride Presents: 215875-9288

tion about events, programs and membership; 215-557-0190; 1717 Arch St., Suite 3370.

■ National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association The Philadelphia chapter of NLGJA, open to professionals and students, meets for social and networking events; www.nlgjaphiladephia.org.

■ Philadelphia Gay Tourism Caucus A regional organization dedicated to promoting gay and lesbian tourism to the Greater Philadelphia Region, holds meetings every other month on the fourth Thursday (January, March, May, July, September and the third Thursday in November), open to the public; P.O. Box 58143, Philadelphia, PA 19102; www.philadelphiagaytourism.com. ■ Philly OutGoing Professionals Social group for gay, lesbian and bisexual professionals meets for social and cultural activities; 856-8579283; popnews19@yahoo.com.

Emotional Support

Healing After Loss has monthly activities in South Jersey and surrounding area; www.lsn.southjersey.com.

ADULT CHILDREN OF ALCOHOLICS Rainbow Adult Children of Alcoholics and Alcoholics Anonymous meets at 7 p.m. Saturdays at Limestone Presbyterian Church, 3201 Limestone Road, Wilmington, Del.; 302-456-9129.

Beginnings meets at 5:30 p.m. Wednesdays at 1201 Locust St.; 215-563-0663 ext. 282.

■ AIDS Law Project of Southern New Jersey: 856-933-9500 ext. 221

■ ACLU of Pennsylvania: 215592-1513

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Ties That Bind Us is a 12-step Alcoholics Anonymous meeting for the BDSM, leather and alternative sexuality community. Meetings are held from 7:30-9 p.m. in South Philadelphia. For location, call 800-581-7883. Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA) Meets at 7 p.m. Sundays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Fridays and Saturdays at the William Way Center. Debtors Anonymous (DA) Meets at 6:45 p.m. Thursdays at the William Way Center. Overeaters Anonymous (OA) Meets 11 a.m. Sundays at William Way Center. Open meeting, Tuesdays; beginners meet at 5:30 p.m. and regular meetings at 6 and 7 p.m. Fridays at Hahnemann University Hospital, 245 N. 15th St., third floor. Call Troy, 215-514-3065. Recovery Beginnings, a drop-in support group for LGBTQ individuals in the early stages of recovery, meets at 5:30 p.m. Wednesdays at the William Way Center; call Rand Faulkner, LSW, 215-563-0652 ext. 282. Stepping Stone meets at 2:30 p.m. Mondays at the William Way Center. S.A.R.A. Substance Abuse – Risk Assessment; day and evening hours; 215-563-0663 ext. 282. Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous Mondays, 7:30 p.m. at Trinity United Methodist Church, 20 N. Route 9, Marmora, N.J.; 609-675-1998. Thursdays, 7:30 p.m. at All Saints Church, 18 Olive Ave., Rehoboth Beach, Del.; 302-542-3279. Fridays, 7:30 p.m. at Ocean View Lodge, Metropolitan Community Church, 521 Glade Road, Rehoboth Beach, Del.; 302-945-5982.

Pink and Blues West Chester, a peer-run mental health support group, meets 7-9 p.m. Mondays at Community Crossroads, 825 Paoli Pike, West Chester. Contact Dawn at 610-429-1702 or dawn.altemus@hhinc.org. Survivors of Suicide Inc. meets at 7:30 p.m. the first Tuesday of the month at 3535 Market St., Room 2037; 215545-2242; www.phillysos.tripod.com. Survivors of Suicide Inc. Chester County meets at 7:30 p.m. the second Wednesday of the month at Paoli Memorial Hospital, Willistown Room, Medical Office Building; 215545-2242; www.phillysos.tripod.com. The Trevor Project sponsors a national LGBT youth suicide prevention hot line: 866-4U-TREVOR (488-7386); www. TheTrevorProject.org.

HIV/AIDS Mondays: Positive Brothers, a support group for men of color living with HIV/AIDS, meets from 6-8 p.m. at 112 N. Broad St., 11th floor; 215-496-0330. Tuesdays: ASIAC offers safer-sex and HIV/AIDS information at 10 a.m. the second Tuesday of the month at the Independence Branch of the Free Library, 18 S. Seventh St.; 215-685-1633. A support group for HIV-positive men and women meets from 1:30-3 p.m. at BEBASHI — Transition to Hope, 1217 Spring Garden St., first floor; 215-769-3561. Encuentros Positivos, a group for HIV-positive Latino men who have sex with men, meets the first and third Tuesday of the month at 1205 Chestnut St.; 215-985-3382. “Feast Incarnate,” a weekly ministry for people affected by HIV/AIDS, begins at 5 p.m. at University Lutheran Church, 3637 Chestnut St. Bible study follows at 6 p.m.; 215-3872885. A support group for people living with HIV/AIDS will meet from 6:30-8 p.m. at Mazzoni Center. Youth Outreach Adolescent Community Awareness Program’s Voice It Sistah, a support group for HIV-positive women, meets at 11 a.m. the first and third Tuesday of the month at YOACAP, 1207 Chestnut St., Suite 315; 215851-1898. Wednesdays: A support group for HIV-positive women will meet from 9:30-11:30 a.m. at the Arch Street United Methodist Church, 55 N. Broad St.; 215-387-6055. ASIAC weekly volunteer work group will meet from 6-8 p.m. at 340 N. 12th St., Suite 205; 215-563-2424. Project TEACH, a peer-education and empowerment program for people living with HIV/AIDS, will meet from 3-5 p.m. at Philadelphia FIGHT, 1233 Locust St. Positive Effect, for HIV-positive people 18 and over, meets from 5-7 p.m. at Camden AHEC, 514 Cooper St., Camden, N.J.; 856-963-2432. Thursdays: A support group for HIV-positive men and women meets from 6-8 p.m. at BEBASHI — Transition to Hope, 1217 Spring Garden St.; 215-769-3561. Diversity, an HIV/AIDS support group for all infected or affected, meets from 7-9 p.m. at Arch Street United Methodist Church, 55 N. Broad St. Call Zak, 215-848-4380, or Paul, 215-307-0347. Saturdays: AIDS Delaware’s You’re Not Alone youth support group meets at 11 a.m. at AIDS Delaware, 100 W. 10th St., Suite 315, Wilmington; a social session will follow at 12:30 p.m.; 302-652-6776.

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