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Top Stories 2009 PGN Staff 2009. No matter who you ask, chances are good they’ll say this year was not one they’d like to repeat. Considering the economic downturn, elevated unemployment, falling real-estate markets and several setbacks on the marriage-equality front, both the mainstream and LGBT communities have endured a difficult year. But it wasn’t all doom and gloom. For the local community, there were positive events among the negative. And this year, there were many important (or just really interesting) happenings to note. In this spirit, PGN gives you our top stories of 2009. This year, we grouped them by theme.
WINS Legislator introduces first marriage bill For the first time, a bill seeking to bring marriage equality to the Keystone State was proposed in the Pennsylvania legislature. State Sen. Daylin Leach (D17th Dist.) introduced the bill in June with one co-sponsor, Sen. Larry Farnese (D-1st Dist.), and the legislation later picked up support from Sen. Jim Ferlo (D-38th Dist.). The bill is currently in the Senate Judiciary Committee. Leach acknowledged that although the legislation would have an uphill battle, it would at least advance discussion on the topic of marriage equality. Leach’s effort came shortly after
Sen. John Eichelberger (R-30th Dist.) announced his intention to introduce legislation that would seek to ban same-sex marriage in the state constitution. Eichelberger debated Leach about marriage equality on WHYY in June, making a controversial statement that society is “allowing [same-sex couples] to exist.” Eichelberger has not yet introduced his measure.
activists in the region employed a letter-writing campaign, endorsed by about 100 area rabbis, renewing pressure on the Jewish Publishing Group, the governing body of the newspaper, to overturn its policy of not printing same-sex-union announcements. The JPG board voted Sept. 23 to repeal the policy, and the first same-sex union announcement was published earlier this month.
Local congressman pushes DADT repeal Pennsylvania U.S. Rep. Patrick Murphy (D-8th Dist.) took over as prime sponsor of the bill to repeal the military’s ban on openly gay servicemembers this past summer. Murphy, the first Iraq War veteran in Congress, stepped up as lead after Rep. Ellen Tauscher (DCalif.) left office to become the See 2009 STORIES, Page 5
Jewish Exponent becomes more LGBT-inclusive After a years-long campaign by the LGBT community, the Jewish Exponent voted unanimously to amend its policies to be more inclusive of LGBT life-cycle events. This fall, a coalition of LGBT
Scouts urge judge to keep injunction By Timothy Cwiek PGN Writer-at-Large The local Boy Scouts chapter has urged a federal judge to uphold an injunction blocking its eviction from a city-owned building until a jury can decide whether the eviction would violate the chapter’s constitutional rights. U.S. District Judge Ronald L. Buckwalter issued the injunction on Nov. 18, effectively preventing Common Pleas Judge Mark I. Bernstein from ordering the Cradle of Liberty Council’s eviction from 231-251 N. 22nd St. Prior to the injunction, the eviction case had been pending before both judges because of overlapping issues that both said they were capable of ruling on. In their Dec. 15 motion, the Scouts said it would be unfair to give Bernstein the opportunity to evict them before the case is more fully developed in federal court. A federal jury trial is scheduled for April 2010, for which depositions are being taken, the Scouts’ motion states. If the Scouts had been given fair notice that the matter would be heard first by Bernstein, they
would have developed their case more extensively in state court, the chapter stated. Prior court pleadings filed by city attorneys indicate a mutual agreement that Buckwalter would be the first judge to hear the case, according to the Scouts’ motion. “In view of these circumstances, the state court proceedings did not afford Cradle of Liberty an adequate opportunity to raise Cradle of Liberty’s federal claims,” the motion states. City officials want to evict the Scouts from the building because the organization won’t permit gay participants, nor will it pay the annual fair-market rent of $200,000. The Scouts’ federal lawsuit, filed in May 2008, alleges “viewpoint discrimination” by the city because the Scouts exercised their constitutional right to ban gays. The lawsuit relies on a 2000 Supreme Court decision stating that the Boy Scouts of America aren’t a public accommodation and thus not required to comply with local civil-rights laws protecting gays. The city replied that the Scouts are free to associate with whom-
ever they please, but aren’t entitled to city subsidies to facilitate discriminatory practices. The Dec. 15 motion also disputes the relevance of a federal appellate court ruling cited by city attorneys in support of their position that Buckwalter failed to recognize limitations on his ability to issue the injunction. The appellate ruling, known as the “Coughlin case,” dealt with a very different set of circumstances and should not be used as guidance by Buckwalter in the Scouts’ case, the Scouts’ motion states, adding it would be “absurd” to cite the Coughlin case as justification for lifting the injunction. The motion also holds that it’s for the Scouts to post a bond if Buckwalter’s injunction remains in effect because Buckwalter already has the ability to order back-rent payments to the city if the Scouts are evicted. In a prior court pleading, city attorneys asked Buckwalter to order the Scouts to post a bond to protect the city’s financial interests if he doesn’t lift the injunction. See SCOUTS, Page 15
CITY OF BROTHERLY CHRISTMAS LOVE: The iconic Philadelphia sculpture is silhouetted by the illuminated Christmas tree in Love Park. Mayor Nutter officially lit the tree and its 30-foot companion spruce on the east side of City Hall on Dec. 2. The trees will remain in place through the Mummers Parade on New Year’s Day. Photo: Scott A. Drake
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2009 STORIES From Page 1 Undersecretary of State for Arms Control and International Security Affairs. Murphy joined a coalition of LGBT and ally servicemembers in Philadelphia in July to announce the launch of a joint effort by the Human Rights Campaign and Servicemembers United that took the group on a national tour to raise awareness about the military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy. Since Murphy took the lead on the bill, the number of cosponsors has jumped from 140 to 186, with 20 signing on within two weeks of his taking over. Members of the Voices of Honor tour, a national initiative of the Human Rights Campaign and Servicemembers United to raise awareness about the need for the repeal of the military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” gathered with Pennsylvania U.S. Rep. Patrick Murphy (D-8th Dist., third from right) in Philadelphia to announce the launch of the campaign. Murphy took over as prime sponsor of the bill to repeal the military’s ban on openly gay servicemembers this past summer. Photos: Scott A. Drake
Court of Common Pleas Judge Dan Anders (with microphone) celebrates his Municipal Primary win May 19 at Woody’s surrounded by his family and partner Anh Dang (left). Anders, appointed to the bench in 2007 as the first openly gay judge in the state, went on to win a full 10-year term in November’s general election.
LGBT community leaders and local elected officials gathered at the William Way LGBT Community Center’s annual Building Bash fundraiser June 6 to celebrate the launch of the center’s newly installed elevator.
Gay candidates see success Two openly gay Philadelphia judicial candidates were successful in the primary and general-election races this year. Dan Anders, who became the state’s first openly gay judge in 2007 when he was appointed to the Court of Common Pleas by Gov. Rendell to fill a vacancy, received the fifth-highest number of votes among nearly two-dozen candidates vying for one of the seven 10-year terms in the May primary. Open lesbian Dawn Segal was the thirdhighest vote-getter in May’s Municipal Court primary, where she faced seven other hopefuls. In the general election in November, all seven open Common Pleas seats went to Democrats, Anders included, as did the four open positions in the Municipal Court, including Segal. William Way elevator takes first rides The years-long effort to install an elevator in the William Way LGBT Community Center came to an end this year with the launch of the new unit. State Sens. Larry Farnese (D-1st Dist.) and Christine Tartaglione (D-2nd Dist.), Rep. Babette Josephs (D-182nd Dist.), Gloria Casarez, the city’s director of LGBT affairs, former center executive director ’Dolph Ward Goldenburg and several others helped cut the ribbon on the elevator during the organization’s annual Building Bash fundraiser on June 6. The event honored a sea of political and community leaders who helped secure the state and city funding, as well as the individual community donations, that fueled the elevator project.
News Briefing Center hosts potluck dinner The William Way LGBT Community Center will host Holiday Potluck Dinner at 2 p.m. Dec. 25 at the center, 1315 Spruce St. The sixth-annual dinner brings together members of the local LGBT community to share a meal and forge new friendships. There is no cost to attend, but all diners are asked to bring a dish to share. To RSVP, call (215) 732-2220 and indicate what food you’ll be bringing.
LGBTs of color celebrate Kwanzaa A coalition of local groups that provide services to LGBT people of color will host a Kwanzaa celebration beginning at 6 p.m. Dec. 26 at the William Way LGBT Community Center, 1315 Spruce St. The cultural event is free and will feature dinner, entertainment — including a performance by Miss Philly Black Gay Pride 2009 Finesse Ross — and an array of local vendors. Participating organizations include the Smoke, Lilies and Jade Arts Initiative, The COLOURS Organization Inc., Philadelphia Black Gay Pride, Black Gay Men’s Leadership Council, The House of Blahnik, Beta Delta Chapter of Beta Phi Omega Sorority Inc., Unity Fellowship Church of Philadelphia and The Womyn’s Village. For more information, e-mail dcox_ 002@yahoo.com.
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Philly’s LGBT tourism advances In a national ranking of LGBT destinations, Philadelphia jumped another two spots, from 13 to 11, after having debuted on the list just three years ago. The Greater Philadelphia Tourism Marketing Corporation this year continued its “We Your People” campaign, which launched in 2008 and tells the stories of real local LGBT leaders. LGBT visitors were also targeted in the city’s mainstream campaign for the first time with the springtime launch of the “With Love” campaign, which
AIDS Services in Asian Communities will host its annual Lunar New Year Banquet from 6-10 p.m. Feb. 20 at Wokano Chinese Restaurant, 1100 Washington Ave. This year’s event, organized under the theme “Year of the Tiger,” will feature an extensive menu that includes such dishes as walnut shrimp, crispy fish in hunan sauce, chicken corn chowder soup and black mushrooms with vegetables. Tickets to the banquet start at $75 and sponsorship packages are available. Advertising space in the program book is also available; payment must be received by Feb. 1. For more information or to purchase tickets, visit www.asiac.org. ■
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2009 STORIES From Page 5 gears messages toward myriad groups, including LGBTs. Also this year, the Philadelphia Gay Tourism Caucus conducted a gay-sensitivity training for about 50 employees at Sesame Place and launched an internship program with Temple University. LOSSES ACLU leader found dead Larry Frankel, an openly gay and noted former Pennsylvania American Civil Liberties Union employee, was found dead Aug. 28 in Rock Creek Park in Washington, D.C. Frankel worked as the legislative director of the local ACLU from 1992 until last year and was a strong lobbyist and activist for LGBT-rights issues. In March 2008, he moved to D.C. to take over as the state legislative counsel for the agency’s Washington Legislative Office. Frankel contacted his office Aug. 26 and called out sick from work, and the last known contact he had with anyone was via a Blackberry message he sent that morning. His body was found in a stream about 20 feet from a jogging trail in the park. The manner and cause of death was not immediately determined. A memorial was held for Frankel Oct. 10 at the Philadelphia Visitors Center.
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Archdiocese gives big to fight Maine marriage The Archdiocese of Philadelphia donated $50,000 in the summer to the successful fight to overturn Maine’s marriage-equality law. The local donation came after
Peggy Trott (from left), general manager of newly opened Hotel Palomar Philadelphia, got a warm welcome to the city from Tami Sortman, president of the Philadelphia Gay Tourism Caucus, and other members of the LGBT community during a PGTC reception July 28. This past year, Philadelphia rose another two spots on a national list of top LGBT tourism destinations.
Hundreds of staff members, supporters and clients of local socialservice agencies gathered in front of the Media Courthouse Aug. 11 to call on the state legislature to approve a state budget. Many Philadelphia-area HIV/AIDS groups, who were hard hit by the statebudget impasse, were on hand for the demonstration.
a plea by the bishop of Portland, Maine, to dioceses around the country; the Diocese of Portland
brought in more than $550,000 and became the second-highest contributor to the effort to nullify the law. The Archdiocese of Philadelphia tied with the Archdiocese of Phoenix as the top contributors to Portland. A spokesperson for the archdiocese repeatedly declined to comment about where the $50,000 came from. Historic LGBT publication shuttered The Washington Blade, one of the country’s oldest LGBT newspapers, and several other national LGBT publications abruptly ceased publication this fall. The papers’ publisher, Window/ Unite Media, ceased operations Nov. 16. Window’s majority shareholder, Avalon Equity Partners, was forced into receivership with the Small Business Administration in August 2008 after failing to
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maintain the level of private assets needed for the SBA to back the company’s loans. The Blade’s employees, who were notified of the closing when they arrived at the office on the 16th, launched their own venture, D.C. Agenda, which published that Friday. Employees at Southern Voice and other publications associated with Window also started several new newspapers. MONEY PA budget crisis spells trouble for nonprofits The Pennsylvania legislature approved a state budget in October after a more-than-100day stalemate that crippled local social-service agencies. Because the state was not releasing funds to the city until a budget was approved, Mayor Nutter announced in July that it was cutting off payments to vendors — a move that halted the dispersion of city and state funding into HIV/AIDS service organizations and other local nonprofits. Without the cash flow, some groups, like HIV/AIDS housing agency Calcutta House, had to stop payments to their vendors, while others struggled to cover payroll. Although the budget eventually passed, the holdup forced many agencies to exhaust and extend their lines of credit, a development that could have long-range financial implications. Crisis hits Pride parade Philadelphia’s Pride parade and festival in June hit a major roadblock just days before the start of the annual celebration. The city notified Pride organizers less than two weeks before the event that the group would not receive its permit for the parade until it paid the city more than $20,000 for police presence, a charge the city had covered in the past but discontinued due to the budget crisis. Pride representatives met with city officials four days before the festivities and negotiated a compromise in which the parade route was shortened, among other changes, to cut the price tag to $8,900. Bookstore seeks community help Famed LGBT bookstore Giovanni’s Room sought community support this fall after the owner learned he would have to pay more than $50,000 to
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replace a crumbling exterior wall on the building at 12th and Pine streets. The store’s supporters began meeting in the summer to plan fundraising activities to help defray the cost of the construction, which began in September and wrapped up about a month later. Just days after store owner Ed Hermance made the announcement about the project, more than $1,500 in donations poured in from throughout the country. This year’s OutFest street festival was extended a block so participants could visit the store, which held a bake sale, an author meet-andgreet and other entertainment. A months-long raffle contest brought in nearly $4,000, and the Rebuilding Fund has thus far acquired $32,486.68. CHANGE Agency directors step down This year saw the resignations of numerous executive directors at local LGBT organizations. ’Dolph Ward Goldenburg, executive director of t h e Wi l l i a m Wa y L G B T Community Center, announced in October that he was stepping down the following month to move back to his home state of Georgia, where his partner lives. Goldenburg’s more-than six years at the center were honored during the agency’s annual Indigo Ball fundraiser in October and at a farewell reception the following month. The center selected Laurie Ward as the organization’s interim executive director. Also in October, Perry Monastero, executive director of LGBT grantmaking organization Delaware Valley Legacy Fund, resigned from his post to take on the position of director of development and marketing for LGBT health center Mazzoni Center. Sandra Thompson and Chris Bartlett are serving as interim co-executive directors. In the summer, Louis Bonilla left his position as executive director of the Gay and Lesbian Latino AIDS Education Initiative after 10 months on the job. Elicia Gonzales took over as the agency’s permanent director this month.
Media Trail Feds axe healthcare for spouse again
Rue Landau, executive director of the Philadelphia Commission on Human Relations (back row, left), and Stephen Glassman, chair of the Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission (back row, right), served as marshals of the 2009 Pride parade, and were joined by this year’s Friend of Pride Philadelphia Police Chief Inspector James Tiano (back row, center) as their float made its way down Market Street June 14. The parade route was shortened days before the event because of a city-funding issue.
CBSNews.com reports the U.S. Office of Personnel Management still refuses to authorize healthcare for the same-sex spouse of a federal court employee, even though a judge has ordered the agency to do so. Elaine Kaplan, OPM general counsel, said in a statement Dec. 18 that the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act supersedes the recent ruling by 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals Chief Judge Alex Kozinski. The dispute involves Karen Golinski, a staff lawyer at the 9th Circuit’s San Francisco headquarters. Kozinski ruled earlier this year and again last month that Golinski is entitled to enroll her wife in her employer-sponsored health plan. Because the judge was acting in an administrative role as an employer instead of in a court case, his order “does not supersede our obligation to comply with existing law,” Kaplan said.
$9.6M spent on Maine marriage vote
LGBT bookstore Giovanni’s Room underwent a month-long renovation this fall to replace a crumbling exterior wall. The store launched a community fundraising drive to help defray the $50,000 cost of the project and has thus far brought in more than $32,000.
State Sen. Larry Farnese (D-1st Dist., right) presented ’Dolph Ward Goldenburg, outgoing executive director of the William Way LGBT Community Center, with a Senate commendation honoring his six years of service to the local LGBT community during a farewell reception Nov. 18, marking the first time the term See 2009 STORIES, Page 16 “LGBT” was ever used in a state Senate citation.
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365gay.com reports that the two sides in the ballot fight that overturned Maine’s gay-marriage law spent $9.6 million. Opponents of the gay-marriage law spent $3.8 million, less than the $5.8 million spent by those supporting the law. Maine’s total population is around 1.3 million. The Maine Commission on Governmental Ethics and Election Practices said the amount of spending on the gay-marriage vote is believed to be second only to a campaign in 2003 on a proposed tribal casino.
Hospital to change antigay visitation policy Advocate.com reports a Fresno, Calif., hospital has agreed to revise its visitation policy after hospital staff refused to allow a woman to see her female partner. Teresa Rowe, a Bay Area resident, was barred for several hours from visiting her partner, Kristin Orbin, in Fresno’s Community Regional Medical Center. Orbin had suffered an epileptic seizure following a 14-mile walk as part of a marriage-equality rally. According to Rowe, hospital staff ignored her requests to speak with doctors about her partner’s medical history. The hospital agreed to change its visitation policy regarding LGBT patients and their families following a letter sent by the American Civil Liberties Union and the National Center for Lesbian Rights. ■ — Larry Nichols
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Pomp and pageantry return to Atlantic City By Jen Colletta PGN Staff Writer Atlantic City’s famed Miss’d America competition has been absent for a number of years, but the recent efforts to revamp the LGBT scene in the city will include the resurrection of the legendary drag pageant. The first Miss’d America was crowned in 1993 in an event conceived of and organized by John Schultz and Gary Hill as a benefit fundraiser for the South Jersey AIDS Alliance. The drag-queen contest was meant to parody the mainstream Miss America contest — held the night before — especially for those pageant workers, hair and makeup artists and others who “missed” the pageant. Miss’d America ran for 14 successful years but ended in 2005 after the Miss America pageant left Atlantic City to set up shop in Las Vegas, its present home. Rich Helfant, president of the newly formed Greater Atlantic City GLBT Alliance, said the organization was brainstorming ideas for its first large-scale event and sought permission from Schultz and Hill to relaunch the pageant. “We were tossing ideas around about a major gala fundraiser and membership drive and the idea just came to me that why don’t we bring back Miss’d America,”
Helfant said. “We wanted to let the public known that the GLBT Alliance had formed and to do it in a big way, so we thought that this would be a good match.” The pageant, last held in 2005, was previously staged at the nowdefunct Studio 6, which had a seating capacity of 650. Next month’s event, at 7:30 p.m. Jan. 31, will get underway at Boardwalk Hall, a 2,400-seat venue that housed the Miss America competition for nearly 80 years. Miss’d America will bring together eight drag queens from the Atlantic City, Philadelphia and New York regions to compete in evening wear and talent competitions, with a swimwear segment that Helfant noted won’t be judged, but rather will just be for laughs. Many former Miss’d America winners will also attend. The show is being written and directed by Philly’s own “Sandy Beach,” Robert Hitchen and hosted by Carson Kressley, cast member of “Queer Eye for the Straight Guy.” The title sponsor of the contest is Grey Goose Vodka, with other sponsors including Trump Entertainment Resorts Inc., Harrah’s Entertainment, the Schultz-Hill Foundation and the Atlantic City Convention & Visitors Authority. “From our point of view at
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Both Harrah’s and Trump are offering special package prices for the weekend, and will be hosting pre- and post-pageant parties. Miss’d America is not just expected to be a boon for Atlantic City’s LGBT tourism efforts, but also for the nonprofits selected as beneficiaries. Along with the GLBT Alliance, other organizations set to split the funds generated are the William Way LGBT Community Center, Broadway Cares-Equity Fight AIDS, South Jersey AIDS Alliance and the
Schultz-Hill Foundation, which will use the funds to establish a scholarship for an Atlantic City-area LGBT student. Ti c k e t s a r e a v a i l a b l e a t Boardwalk Hall, at all Ticketmaster locations and through www. Ticketmaster.com. For more information about the Greater Atlantic City GLBT Alliance, visit the group’s Facebook page. ■ Jen Colletta can be reached at jen@epgn.com.
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Editorial Holiday wishes Carol: That my son and daughter-in-law give me a grandchild. Dave: To spend more time getting to know the new man in my life, learning his likes and dislikes and all about his Louisiana upbringing. I’m looking forward to finding new things we can enjoy together and hopefully build a lasting ... Don: Peace, happiness and good food and wine for the holidays and the coming year! Greg: To worry less about the small things and focus more on what truly matters — creativity, joy and inner peace. Jen: For continued happiness and health for my family and friends this holiday season and in the New Year — and world peace would always be good, too. Kelly: To have a safe trip home to Erie. Larry: For life in general in 2010 to be more prosperous and less chaotic than it was in 2009. Morgan: To spend the holidays with my family, happy and healthy. Sarah: For me, continued growth and greater self-actualization, personally, professionally and physically. For friends and family, health and prosperity. For all of us, for next year to suck less than this year did. Scott: That my friends and family all find work they like and have a healthy and happier year. Sean: I’m wishing for economic recovery in 2010 for the country, and especially for my neighborhood. Tim: A free membership to an outdoor swim club to keep the body in shape. And gallons of sunblock, because the old skin isn’t what it used to be. ■
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Harry Jackson If Washington, D.C., starts letting gays and lesbians get married, then we as a nation are doomed. Even more specifically, the National Cathedral is doomed. In fact, true Christians ought to set fire to it right now lest the gays start marrying in it and/or turn it into a combination bathhouse/dance club/24-hour gym/ Asian-fusion bistro. Or such is the fear/fantasy (it’s so hard to tell the difference sometimes) of Bishop Harry Jackson, a man who has devoted his life to making sure gays are not treated equally in our nation’s capital, lest that send some kind of ungodly message to the rest of the country. Ever since the D.C. Council voted to let gays wed there, Jackson has been in No Homo mode. Jackson was a recent guest on “Washington Watch Radio,” a program hosted by the Family Research Council’s Tony “I love black people so long as they hate like me” Perkins. During the show, Perkins lamented the fact that Jackson’s fight to get an antigay, one-man-one-woman proposal passed in D.C. wasn’t netting the same levels of national media coverage as the Tiger Woods sex scandal.
“Now this has not gotten much attention outside of Washington, D.C., with the exception of some groups focused on marriage who talk about it,” Perkins said. “But as far as the press, the media, they have not paid any attention to the battle that is raging here in the nation’s capital over same-sex marriage. This is more than a symbolic issue, this has significance for the whole marriage debate going forward.” One reason for the lack of national attention could be because there really isn’t a “battle” over same-sex marriage “raging” in D.C. unless you’re one of the key players in the debate. Maybe for everyone else, the D.C. marriage debate is largely a non-issue. They obviously didn’t read the part in the Bible that says two dudes marrying or two ladies feeding each other cake is a sign of the Rapture. And that’s why folks like Jackson want to make sure that gays don’t get the same rights as everyone else. “It is a national issue,” Jackson said during the program. “Imagine, Tony, two men coming out of the National Cathedral, rice coming down, them embracing and kissing,
on the front page of USA Today. That will lift the spirits of pro-samesex-marriage advocates around the country.” Will it? Really? I think that it will depend largely on what the grooms are wearing. Also, throwing rice is so passé. I expect one of those simultaneous releasings of live butterflies or even doves. In any case, making sure that gay spirits aren’t lifted is part of Jackson’s job as a bishop, apparently. I’m pretty sure that’s what Christians are all about. Jesus, after all, pretty much hated everybody and would throw a fit if he even so much as saw one of his apostles talking to a leper or a prostitute. He’d be all, “Paul, OMG! WTF? WWJD?” WWJD standing for “What would Jackson do?” That’s Harry Jackson, if you’re nasty. ■ D’Anne Witkowski has been gay for pay since 2003. She’s a freelance writer and poet (believe it!). When she’s not taking on the creeps of the world, she reviews rock ’n’ roll shows in Detroit with her twin sister and teaches writing at the University of Michigan.
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Street Talk
Mark Segal
Being thankful for the holidays Christmas has finally arrived, and here’s a line you’ve never seen in this column before: Thank God. If this holiday season has proven anything, it’s how much our community has matured. By this time of year — if you’re at all involved in the community — you should be exhausted. Since the night before Thanksgiving, there hasn’t been a day or evening without at least one event on the LGBT calendar, from fundraisers to press conferences to toy drives. From sold-out concerts by both choirs to grants from Sapphire and the Dr. Hirschfield Foundation to keep our community growing to dinners, even a new film festival in New Hope. There have been gay pub crawls and holiday parties and award presentations. It’s been a non-stop activity time, and it demonstrates the growth of a community that now, literally, has something to offer every taste. No matter which holiday you’re celebrating this year (or not at all), we as a community can celebrate our growth. And no matter what holiday you celebrate, it most likely stands for harmony, the golden
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rule and giving. That spirit should guide us in the coming months, so that hopefully we can come together more often as a community and not allow any issue or single goal from allowing us to be united. Christ, Moses and Muhammad are seen as prophets. Prophets who had a mission. That mission was to unite their people around common interests and beliefs. We as a community have a similar goal. Our mission is equality, and the way to get there is by uniting our community. We should help each other. Each and every organization in the community has worth. When we help each other, we make ourselves stronger, and as a united force we can accomplish our mission and, at the same time, create a vibrant community that cares for the needs of our community. So the spirit of this time of year really does apply to our community. That spirit is that we really are a family — even, at times, a dysfunctional family — but think of that as you might a family sitting down for a holiday meal: You try to be polite and make it a good experience for all. Happy holidays and a ho, ho, ho! (I couldn’t resist.) ■ Mark Segal is PGN publisher. He can be reached at mark@epgn.com.
What’s your holiday wish?
Robert Hall student West Philadelphia
Caitlin McCormack student Chinatown
“More homeless shelters in Philadelphia. Homelessness is becoming a major problem in the city again — especially in this cold weather. There shouldn’t be people lying on grates.”
“I’m hoping folks will wake up to the fact that President Obama has embarked on some misdirected policies. He isn’t perfect, and shouldn’t be idealized. Take him off the pedestal.”
Andrea Saylor fundraiser Washington Square West
Magnus Widman student Kalmar, Sweden
“De-escalation of the war in Afghanistan and cutbacks in military spending. Instead, use the money for domestic needs like universal access to healthcare.”
“Giving in to my indulgence for doughnuts covered with strawberry topping and crunchy jimmies. That’s something extra that I do for Christmas — a personal luxury. Normally, I’m more restrained in what I eat.”
Letters and Feedback In response to “The LGBT community comes of age at The Pennsylvania Society,” Dec. 1824: There are so many other great leaders in the community that are considered the future as well: I would hope that you put not only LGBT persons in your future articles, but focus on straight allies as well. We need to be fair and balanced as it comes to important issues that are facing us for a new year. I think this time you missed your “Mark.” — Anonymous In response to “Acrobatic gayporn twin sentenced,” Dec. 1824: Taleon can perform some community service on me for a reduced sentence! — Mykal In response to “Letters: Barred
from heaven,” Dec. 18-24: Bryan, you are confusing the Catholic Church and Jesus. They are not one and the same. The Catholic Church cannot speak for Jesus. Only the Bible does. Thank you. — Michael23 As you know, other books could have made it into the Bible (i.e., non-canonical books, texts of uncertain authenticity or writings where the work was seriously questioned). How do you know that the books in the Bible are true (“canonical”)? Answer: Because the Catholic Church told you so. Historically, it was The Holy Catholic Church (translated as The Holy Universal Church, as that is what Catholic means) who told us so. It was The Church, through her Magisterium, who established the Canonical Books. So, maybe you should rethink
what you wrote. And, maybe — just maybe — remember St. Paul’s experience at Damascus. If you do not know what I am talking about, let me fill you in: St. Paul (who at the time went by the name Saul) wanted to destroy the Christian Church (the Catholic one, as there were no schisms then). He went about taking into prison and stoning the Christians (you remember St. Steven, right?). Well, on his way to making an arrest at the City of Damascus, a huge light surrounded him, and he fell from his horse and heard a voice saying, “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?” and he answered, “Who are you, Lord?” And the voice answered, “I am Jesus of Nazareth, whom you are persecuting.” Acts 22:7-8. Tada ... I see light shining in your cute brain: According to Jesus, he and the Church are the same. Remember: God loves you! — Educating the Gays
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2009 STORIES From Page 7 The boards of directors at two local organizations experienced major changes this year. Several board members at Equality Forum resigned last spring and summer, some of whom attributed their departure to a “lack of fiscal responsibil-
ity” at the organization and contended the budget was not making proper allowances for reductions in state and city funding. The board brought on new members throughout the summer and fall. At Equality Advocates Pennsylvania, 10 of the 13 board members resigned in the summer. None of the members PGN reached would comment on their
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COLIN FIRTH (GEORGE) AND DIRECTOR TOM FORD IN “A SINGLE MAN”
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By Gary M. Kramer PGN Contributor Tom Ford’s enthralling, highly stylized adaptation of Christopher Isherwood’s novel “A Single Man” may be the best queer film of the year. This dazzlingly directed, photographed and acted movie will cause viewers to stagger out of the theater, having been completely spellbound, as if awoken from a dream. In fact, the film opens with George Falconer (Colin Firth) waking from a dream. There is an inky stain in the bed next to him, and he begins a monologue about getting up, going about his routine and bemoaning the time needed for him to “become George.” It is a masterful opening sequence, beautifully shot and edited, revealing much about the film’s ordered but anguished character. This sequence ends with George hoping to “get through the goddamn day,” an agenda that forms the crux of the film. “A Single Man” presents 24 hours in George’s life. The year is 1962, and the place is Los Angeles. He is a professor of English who lives in a gorgeous glass house but feels “invisible” in society. As George starts his
day, he spies on his neighbors, appearing both jealous and contemptuous of their easy domesticity. This queer man can’t live openly, and is grieving over the untimely death of his partner Jim (Matthew Goode). An early scene in which George recalls getting the news of his lover’s death is magnificent — Firth quivers his lip in despair, making his pain palpable. George is adrift — the opening credit sequence that shows his naked body floating/drowning in water conveys this theme eloquently — and he has begun preparations to end his life. As he puts his affairs in order, a series of encounters magnify his emotions. His most canny meeting is with Kenny (Nicholas Hoult; see sidebar), a student who finds George quietly fascinating. Their initial
conversation, about mescaline and life’s little gifts, is curious and slightly unsettling for George. However, there is something about this handsome young man that intrigues him, and he may be George’s unexpected savior. Other episodes range from the surreal — a strange conversation with his neighbor’s inquisitive daughter at the bank — to the seductive. An exchange George has with Carlos (Jon Kortajarena), a Spaniard he meets outside a liquor store, drips with erotic promise, and watching these two men share conversation and a cigarette on a vintage Mercedes under the eyes from a “Psycho” billboard is one of the film’s highlights. Ford focuses on eyes and clocks throughout the film, freighting these ominous images with tremendous meaning. If the clocks indicate the measurement of
time, and how quickly and easily life can slip away, the various pairs of eyes observe George’s behavior as he allows this to happen. “A Single Man” is full of sensory impressions: Another fine moment has George sniffing a stranger’s dog because it reminds him of a pet he and Jim owned. Such talismans and triggers appear throughout the film as Jim’s story is revealed in flashbacks from the end of his life to the night he and George first met. The contrast of these scenes with those of George preparing to end his life is striking and effective. As a filmmaker, Ford resists the temptation to get pretentious despite various stylistic flourishes. He may use silence to communicate clarity or big glossy visuals to convey isolation, but these scenes only enhance
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the meaning of the moment. An erotic sequence featuring sweaty, glistening torsos of young men playing tennis reveals how little attention George gives his colleagues. Likewise, scenes of George and Jim discussing their relationship, whether sharing a couch or a mountainside, are intimate and cozy. Ford also evokes a powerful emotion when George spends time with his friend Charlotte (Julianne Moore). An arty sequence has him running to her for solace upon learning of Jim’s death. Later, these friends meet for drinks and dinner before they do some powerful soul searching. “A Single Man” tackles some weighty issues about life and death, love and memory. The film may be visually dynamic, but its real force comes from Firth’s extraordinary performance. As George, Firth is a revelation here, embodying this tortured soul with just the
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right amount of quiet despair and righteous anger. It is a remarkable portrait of grief. Firth is aided immensely by Moore’s fantastic turn as Charlotte, a party girl who must face up to reality. Moore is convincing with her British accent, and she looks sensational. In support, Nicholas Hoult is captivating as Kenny. His dashing good looks and easygoing nature make him a disarming heartbreaker. The film also benefits from the excellent script, which Ford adapted with David Scearce. While there are many astute observations about life and love, what most resonates is a speech Firth gives in class about the fear majorities have when a minority group becomes visible. As George struggles for his own visibility through “A Single Man,” the speech takes on even greater meaning. Ford’s entire film is just as potent, right up to the breathtaking denouement. ■ GOODE (JIM) AND FIRTH (GEORGE)
Newcomer Hoult sizzles as ‘guardian angel’ In “A Single Man,” George (Colin Firth) is the title character, a man grieving for the loss of his lover Jim (Matthew Goode). On the day the film takes place, Kenny (Nicholas Hoult), a student of his, starts paying attention to George, chatting him up and eventually seeking him out at home, where the two men develop a bond that may become sexual. Hoult spoke over the phone about his role, working with designer-turned-director Tom Ford and skinny-dipping with Colin Firth. PGN: What attracted you to the role of Kenny? NH: I liked his outlook on life. As I read [the script] — I hadn’t read the book — I got a sense of Kenny and his voice. PGN: What do you think attracts Kenny to George? This is a bit of an inappropriate student/professor relationship ... NH: It’s an intellectual thing. Nobody understands Kenny, or thinks on his level. He thinks there is a connection with George. He’s striving for that [bond], and there are undertones of sexual curiousness. He wants to connect with George who [is mourning] a connection with someone.
PGN: Do you see Kenny as George’s savior? NH: He’s a guardian angel. He is someone who is interested in George, and the only person who picks up that something’s not right with him. He looks out for him. Kenny is an acute observer of character. It can be seen that Kenny’s naïve and that he does not know what he’s doing, or he is out to seduce George. People can take what they want from the film. PGN: Do you prefer doing period pieces like “A Single Man,” and your previous film, “Wah-Wah”? How do you create a character that is far removed from your life and your experience? NH: [Laughs.] I’m not a fan of technology and how it’s all advancing. I’m nostalgic. I do research to learn about the environment, no matter when it’s set. I do like doing period pieces. PGN: What kind of research did you do for Kenny? NH: I started a week before filming began. One of the key things was the book “The Power of Now,” about not worrying about the past or fretting about the future, but living in the present. A lot of the [details] were
in “A Single Man’s” script: You don’t have to say George is lonely sitting in a glass house to know that he is. PGN: What about doing an American accent? It’s said that British actors can do American accents well, but Americans can’t do British ones well — though Julianne Moore acquits herself quite nicely in the film. NH: It’s tough to say. I don’t know. Did it sound right? I didn’t have any complaints. The accent comes with the character. I talk in it all day. I find that if you worry too much about it, you start to get into trouble. PGN: You were dressed fabulously in the film. What did you think of the costumes? Were they close to your style? NH: [Laughs.] The costumes were fantastic. Kenny is very light — he’s a shining light/ guardian angel. I don’t think I could get away with all white [he wears] with my pale skin. PGN: You are also undressed fabulously in the film. What can you say about doing the nude swimming scenes? NH: I don’t find it awkward in the moment. The awkwardness comes when they say cut and
you are yourself again. For the skinny-dipping scene, the water was very cold. I got ash in my eye on the third take, so we stopped filming. Colin thanked me, because he didn’t want to go back into the cold water.
the passion. He had a perfect method of helping out the actors and letting them be free to experiment — take a different emphasis on a line or a look or a beat. He wasn’t into over-directing.
PGN: Speaking of Colin, how did you work with him on the relationship between your characters? NH: The process between Colin and I was very natural. If you plan too much, it feels like you are manipulating the audience. The contrast between them was great — you can feel George is attracted to the vitality in Kenny.
PGN: You have an exchange with George about life’s little gift. What do you appreciate in life? NH: I take from the film what George is experiencing — that he is noticing things more vibrantly than normal. I try to pick up things you take for granted, and appreciate the little thing in life, such as the sense of smell. Smelling the roses, as it were. ■ — Gary M. Kramer
PGN: What was it like working with Tom Ford? NH: Tom was, obviously, very precise [in] the script. We shot it in 21 days. He had a great vision, and understands how to portray this. It’s so personal to him. It’s a love letter to his partner, Richard Buckley. You can feel
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Getting through the holidays, one party at a time If you’re like me, you’re not done Christmas shopping, you’re tired of shoveling snow and you’re gearing up for the holidays with family and fruitcake. Don’t despair: Philly’s LGBTQ scene is alive and well, with a ton of events for you to check out over the holidays. Remember, once the Christmas cookies are in the oven, presents wrapped and Christmas tree decorated, it’ll be time to unwind and let loose — and we’ve got the events for you to do just that. That said, leave your Snuggie behind and get dressed to play!” Cheer takes place Dec. 26 at Stir Lounge, 1705 Chancellor St.
With the Scene party changing venues, the producers are holding off on the new Scene party launch until January and throwing a post-holiday bash instead. DJ Lil Sis promises to keep you moving, and guest bartender Kayla will keep your drinks flowing from 9 p.m. ’til 2 a.m. Come spend time with friends and dance the night away with this hot crowd. This party will be crowded, so get there early! A $5 cover gets you through the door with drink specials until 11 p.m. For more info, see www.facebook.com/TLBTBproductions. com. On Dec. 27, catch a live performance by Philly’s own MC Benni E. at The Khyber, 56 S. Second St. Self-described as a revolutionary gender-bending firecracker, this out rapper is hot! She’s performing as part of South Broad,
which starts at 8 p.m. and also features, the Jay D. Clark Band and the J. Gunzz Experience. This show is 21 and up and costs just $8. Make sure to catch MC Benni E., as she will not disappoint. Tickets can be purchased at www.thekhyber.com. There’s a ton to do this year — more than any other — on New Year’s Eve in Philly. If you’re looking for an all-inclusive deal, then you should head over to Sisters, 1320 Chancellor St., to say goodbye to 2009. A $25 advance ticket gets you a three-hour, top-shelf open bar from 8-11 p.m. The ticket also includes access to the 20-foot dinner buffet, party hats and horns, plus music by DJ Fred. For ticket information, visit www.sistersnightclub.com. If open bars aren’t your thing, then Stimulus has the party for you. Riding on the success of its monthly party, the producers of Stimulus are gearing up for their first New Year’s Eve event at Marathon Grill, 929 Walnut St. For this night, they’re taking over both floors, and will be celebrating New Year’s Eve with a three-tiered cake, drink specials and a complimentary champagne toast at midnight. DJ Glitz and Sparkles help set the mood and a $12 cover gets you in to a promised packed house. Tickets may be purchased at the door. Questions? E-mail stimulusparty@gmail.com. On New Year’s Day, there’s nowhere else to be but Voyeur, 1221 St. James St., for the long-standing Ladies2000 bash. Hundreds of women pack this club the day after to celebrate the New Year and dance the day away. The $10 cover is definitely worth it and the bash kicks off at 3 p.m. with $3 drinks until 5. Remember, since this party is on a Friday, be ready to play all night long, as the bash will go until 3 a.m.! For more information, visit www. ladies2000.com. ■ Tracy Buchholz is an LGBTQ party producer-promoter in Philadelphia. She can be reached at tracy.buchholz@gmail.com.
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Kicking off 2010 in style By Larry Nichols PGN Staff Writer We’ve grown to hate New Year’s Eve. Really. There is entirely too much pressure to have the kind of fun TMZ would report on if you were famous. What other time of the year do people feel the need to cram as much food, dancing, live entertainment and forced merriment into one evening? Plus, New Year’s Eve always seems to find people paying top dollar to see bands perform that we wouldn’t be caught dead watching for free any other time of the year. That’s right. Somewhere in America, someone is paying $100 a head for dollar-store champagne, a no-name DJ and a headlining set from The Baja Men. Some have had their New Year’s plans set for months. The rest of us are panicking because we want to choose the right event and the right clothes for the event, figure out who we want to hang out with, make arrangements to get our tired/intoxicated/sore-footed asses home (or to the hotel) and make sure there is Gatorade and Tylenol waiting for when the crippling white-hot daylight of Jan. 1, 2010, comes poking into our debauchery-encrusted eyes like a swarm of angry hornets. We all end up going for it at the end of the day because it beats staying home. So here are our best bets for having the type of New Year’s you dream about. Since New Year’s Day is on Friday, you can go ahead and make a weekend of it at Borgata Hotel, Casino and Spa, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City. Comedian and start of “30 Rock” Tracy Morgan might deliver laughs or a chaotic train wreck of a show at 10 p.m. Dec. 31. If you’d rather dance, you can slide over to one of the Borgata’s clubs. Mixx kicks things off at 10 p.m. with music provided by Ruckus, and Mur Mur does the same with music by Riz. The next day, you can shake off the ill effects of a night of partying with the smooth R&B sounds of John Legend, 8 p.m. Jan. 1 at the Event Center. You should be fully recovered by the time Mariah Carey hits the stage at 8 p.m. Jan. 2 at the Event Center. Carey’s diva status also warrants two after-parties: one with producer and hip-hop star Jermaine Dupri at 10 p.m. at Mixx and another hosted by come-
dian (and Carey’s husband) Nick Mummers Parade for free at the Cannon at Mur Mur. Visit www. Kimmel Center Commonwealth theborgata.com for more informa- Plaza, which is hosting world tion. music by Daria at 10:30 a.m. and Not to be outdone in Atlantic family-friendly music by Steve City, Club Worship at the House Pullara and his Cool Beans Band of Blues, 801 Boardwalk, rolls at noon. For more information, out the gay carpet with “Hands call (215) 790-5800. Up AC,” a gay New Year’s event starting at 10 p.m. featuring some of the hottest DJs, such as DJ Junior Vasquez, Razor & Guido, Michael DeCera and Ruben Vega. For more information, call (609) 236-2583. Lesbian duo Sweet Namaste is one pair among many eclectic artists performing for First Night Haddonfield, an evening of festivities in venues along Kings Highway in New Jersey. Visit www.FirstNightHaddonfield.org for more information and the full schedule of events. Out singer-songwriter Christine Havrilla opens for Davey Knowels and Back Boor Slam at 10 p.m. Dec. 31 at World Cafe Live, 3025 Wa l n u t S t . F o r more information, call (215) 2221400. Barnstorm Theater, 402 Tome St., Ridley Park, hosts “The Rocky Horror New Year’s MARIAH CAREY AND THE ROOTS Celebration,” bringing back the For something really unique, cast of the live “Rocky Horror Show,” from 8-10 p.m. before The Keswick Theatre, 291 N. dancing and partying until a Keswick Ave., Glenside, hosts a champagne toast at midnight. New Year’s Eve celebration with Other than the toast, the show will the original cast and creators of be BYOB. For more information, “Mystery Science Theater 3000.” call (610) 461-9969. You can experience the non-stop New Hope’s best festivities can riffing on some of the cheesiest be found at the Nevermore, 6426 movies ever made live on a jumbo Lower York Road, starting at 8 screen for a triple bill of “War of p.m. with DJ Jimmy Depere keep- the Insects,” “Samson and the ing the dance floor packed and Seven Miracles” and “Legacy of Ghosha on the piano at Harlans Blood!” If you insist on staying home, Cabaret. For more information, call (215) 862-5225. you might as well tune in for the The Kimmel Center. 250 S. 38th-consecutive “Dick Clark’s Broad St., rings in New Year’s New Year’s Rockin’ Eve” with for those who would rather wear Ryan Seacrest and Fergie helpa tux or a gown instead of a lamp- ing Clark with the festivities at 10 shade. Broadway and television p.m. on ABC. star Audra McDonald (“Private Drink responsibly. Have some Practice”) joins members of The condoms/dental dams handy. Philadelphia Orchestra for the Have a designated driver. Destroy festivities at 7:30 p.m. Dec. 31 all incriminating photos. See you in 2010. ■ at Kimmel’s Verizon Hall, 240 S. Broad St.; (215) 790-5847. On New Year ’s Day, you Larry Nichols can be reached at can escape the crowds of the larry@epgn.com.
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Ms. Behavior Meryl Cohn Naked housekeeping and germs Dear Ms. Behavior: My girlfriend Maxine and I have been together for eight years, mainly happily. Our main conflict is about cleaning because neither of us likes to do it. I’m generally easy-going about the state of our home and I’d describe Maxine as rigid — even though she’s not very clean herself. Anyway, recently Maxine read aloud an ad from Craig’s List, in which a middle-aged guy says he wants to do nude housecleaning
for females at no charge. I thought it was a ha-ha moment and we’d just laugh and drop the conversation, but it turns out that Maxine really wants to have this nudist freak come over and clean! I’d like to be off the hook for cleaning — especially since this would be free — but I find I am repelled at the thought of some straight guy walking around with his balls hanging in the breeze. And even though the ad says he doesn’t want to have sex, he requests that we’re home while he cleans so we can tell him what to do. How can I convince Maxine that this is a ridiculous idea? I can’t believe that we really have to discuss this! — Slightly Slobby
Dear Slightly Slobby: Ms. Behavior normally finds herself in the position of trying to soothe her readers of their anxiety, but in this case the scenario may be worse than what you’re describing. Just envision Naked Cleaning Dude languidly sauntering around, scrubbing and vacuuming in his glorious tumescence. Wait. Now he’s bending over. Pretty! And you will have to wonder if that’s Soft Scrub crusted on your ceramic tile. Is Maxine uptight about the dust bunnies under the bed or is she really trying to tell you that she needs a little more kink in her life? If she’s turned on by the idea of ordering around a naked
guy and his feather duster, find out if there’s also an alternative scenario that appeals to her — preferably one that won’t make you gag. Can you find a fit young woman who would enjoy doing naked cartwheels around your house or yard, or does Maxine’s fantasy have to involve men and humiliation? If it’s the latter, it will be easy enough to find a sports team willing to don women’s panties and dance, if you merely offer them YouTube fame. If the messy house is truly the issue, there’s a simpler solution: Get a fully dressed housecleaner to help clean, even if you can only afford it occasionally. Try to get a referral from someone you
know, instead of hiring a stranger from Craig’s List, who calls his cleaning “free,” but requires you to call him names and spank him. The cost of having your house professionally cleaned? About $60-$100. Not finding stray pubic hairs on your couch? Priceless. Dear Ms. Behavior: Is it wrong to practice cognitive behavioral-therapy techniques on someone you’re dating? Matt is wonderful in every way — except he’s a nightmare about germs. This morning we ordered bagels, and Matt asked the prep guy to wash his hands. He sanitized his own hands and held the bagel with a napkin. He also pays for everything with exact change (dropping the money on the counter), and only eats in a few specific restaurants. Sex is worse. As soon as we’re done, Matt leaps out of bed and runs for the shower. He gargles and scrubs himself until his skin turns red. He gets extremely anxious if he can’t go wash off. I do happen to be a therapist. Would it be wrong for me to treat him for this problem? — Not Germy Dear Not Germy: Treating Matt for his germ phobia isn’t necessarily “wrong,” but it may involve icky boundaries on your part. Anyway, are you assuming Matt wants to change? Oh wait, that doesn’t matter! This is obviously all about you. If Matt’s a germ freak, that’s inconvenient! And perhaps it hurts your feelings when he washes his mouth with Listerine after blowing you. So the best way around this is for you to try to cure Matt secretly ... like when he’s sleeping. All you need to do is lie down next to him and gently whisper these affirmations in his ear: “Your hands are clean, your mouth is spotless, your anus is pristine. Felching is a divine act.” If it works, please drop Ms. Behavior a note; she may need you to come and whisper a thing or two to someone she knows. ■ Meryl Cohn is the author of “‘Do What I Say’: Ms. Behavior’s Guide to Gay and Lesbian Etiquette.” E-mail her at MsBehavior@aol.com.
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Professional Portraits On this Merry Christmas day, I bring to you a gift from the suburbs. I recently was walking in the small town of Narberth when what to my wondering eyes should appear but a giant rainbow flag. In Narberth? In the heart of the conservative Main Line? I had to explore for myself and found a wonderful little shop run by business partners and spouses Patricia Harnett and Barbara Kase. Harnett was kind enough to take time away from the store at this busiest of seasons to chat with me for a while. PGN: Are you from this area? PH: No, I’m a native New Yorker. I was raised in Long Island and Rockland County. I came here in the mid ’80s to do my graduate work at Bryn Mawr College. I did a social-work program and then stayed here for a number of years after that. Then I moved back to New York for a while and returned to this area about 10 years ago. I’ve been doing clinical social work until I recently added gift-shop owner to my duties. PGN: What’s the name of the store? PH: Mood Swings! PGN: What was your family like growing up? PH: My mother died when I was relatively young, so I was raised primarily by a single father who remained a single parent the
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remainder of his life. I have two older brothers, who are both living now in South Carolina. PGN: That’s a little unusual, even today, for a man to raise a family as a single parent. PH: Yeah, my brothers were in high school and I was in fourth grade when my mother passed away. I finished the school year and then I went away to an allgirls’ boarding school the following year. We transplanted to Florida after that and I spent several years at Catholic schools before transferring to a public school. I grew up in a Democratic household with Roman Catholic beliefs. I had all the sacraments and everything that goes with being Roman Catholic. I guess it was a bit of a unique family system. There weren’t too many male single parents raising families. I don’t think there was anyone that I knew 40 years ago with a similar situation. PGN: Do you think the situation led you to doing social work? PH: I definitely believe that losing my mother at such a young age had a profound effect on me. I originally went into education and I became a teacher. I found that I became the teacher that everyone came to for help with their personal difficulties. I spent most of my free periods talking
to students and, during my lunch hour, I was running informal support groups for students. I think losing my mother made me very sensitive to other people and mental-health concerns. After a few years of teaching, I decided to go to school for social work. I began to do clinical social work and therapy, primarily with children and adolescents and young adults, and eventually opened up my own practice. PGN: Where did you do your school work? PH: I went to Hofstra University in Long Island for undergrad work and got a bachelor’s degree there, then I went to Bryn Mawr and got a master’s in clinical social work and a master’s in law and social policy. PGN: How do the two masters’ intersect? PH: Well, I always was drawn to the legal system and how it affects people but didn’t necessarily want to go to law school and practice law. There are a lot of legal issues that people have to navigate in social services, whether it be school issues or mental-health issues. There’s a lot of advocacy that has to be done with clients in need of help. PGN: How has it helped? PH: I’ve worked a lot in the
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education system — elementary, middle-school and high-school settings. And you really need to know what policies and legal statutes govern the work that you do. You have to know how to process child-abuse inquiries, what the legal ramifications are in family situations where drug and alcohol issues are involved, etc. There’s a great deal of overlap with legal structure. In working in the community metal-health field, there was also a lot of overlap. You might come across a situation that necessitates having a client
involuntarily committed. It’s very important to know how to navigate the legal system in order to assist the clients. More recently in my private practice, I’ve done work in and around lawsuits that involve discrimination or sexual harassment and things like that. In many cases, attorneys will come to me and ask me to make an assessment of the clients involved. More recently, I’ve been dealing with child-custody and co-parenting situations. I started doing work as a social worker in the mid-’80s so I’ve
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been in the business for about 24 years. It’s been an evolution.
Deborah and Jordan, and our daughter Emily, who’s now 11.
PGN: Jumping topics, how was your coming-out experience? PH: Growing up, as a child and adolescent, I always felt different from my female peers in the sense that I was never caught up in the things that they were caught up in, such as having a great deal of interest in the opposite sex. I dated and had men in my life, which is actually the reason I came down to Pennsylvania in the first place. I was engaged to a guy who lived in this area. It was during my graduate years at Bryn Mawr that I came out completely.
PGN: And you have another child in a sense with Mood Swings. When did you open that up? PH: On April 22, 2008. We both have an entrepreneurial spirit and liked the idea of opening a little gift shop that had a social conscience to it. I’ve run my own clinical practice for the last decade and, though it’s in a different field all together, the experience of running a business gave us the confidence to do it.
PGN: They say the Sisters schools are good for that. PH: [Laughs.] I guess so. Though I have to say that I’m not really into labels. Whether it’s labeling myself or others, as a clinician I try to stay away from boxing people in. We all have unique qualities and experiences. PGN: How did your family react? PH: I told my father in 1985-86 and that was a crucial part of my coming out. Once that took place, my life became a lot easier. I ultimately met my partner and we’ve been together for 19 years and have created our own blended family. PGN: How did you meet? PH: We met in 1990 and started dating in 1991. I was interviewing for a job at a college in New York. The first day I saw her I knew there was something special. Right away I knew she was someone who was bright and intellectually curious and also very compassionate and giving. We joke and say that in the beginning, I knew I was dating her, but she didn’t necessarily know that she was dating me. But we both immediately felt like we completed each other. I often think back on something she said very early on, she said that she felt that because of the way that we complemented each other, with our strengths and weaknesses, together we could conquer the world. We would go to peace rallies down in D.C. and to protest marches in New York and it just evolved. It was difficult at first because she had two older children and we went through some rocky times. But it turned out fine. We grew into a wonderful family and several years ago decided to add to our family by having another child. So now I have three kids: two step children,
PGN: What is special about the store? PH: We carry out-of-the-ordinary objects, fair-trade products, green-friendly items and gifts that have a witty and intellectual bent to them. PGN: Tell me three of your favorite products. PH: We have a product line from the “Unemployed Philosophers Guild.” They have a line of “Little Thinker Dolls” and a line of finger puppets with everyone represented, from Ghandi and Frida Kahlo to Karl Marx or Andy Warhol. And a variety of sticky notes that are clever, like their “Freudian Slips.” Or their collection of breath fresheners with names like Empowermints. I love their stuff. My second-favorite thing would be the fair-trade items we carry — things made of recycled products or sustainable materials. They come from places like South Africa and Chile, and the individuals who make them are treated fairly and paid a good wage. They also give back to the environment by using materials that are left over — old tin cans that have been thrown out that they make into jewelry, trash into various pieces of art, etc. My third-favorite product line would be the recycled wood pieces that we carry. I love the idea that the picture frames and wooden clocks represent pieces that were in someone’s life, whether it was as a barn or porch or what have you; that were not just thrown into a landfill somewhere but salvaged by someone who said, “This can be made into something for someone else.” Those are my favorites. PGN: A moment in your work life that really moved you? PH: As a social worker, there were so many moments that moved me, times where I feel I See PORTRAIT, Page 28
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Nothing warms a gay or lesbian parent’s heart like seeing representations of our families in children’s media. Two new kids’ CDs set those representations to music. The first, “The Super Secret Seashell Cave,” is an audio-only album by the team that produced Dottie’s Magic Pockets, the first live-action DVD for kids with lesbian and gay parents and their friends. “Seashell” brings back the cast of the DVD, including lesbian-mom Dottie and her puppet friends, to take children on a musical adventure in search of the eponymous cave. On the way, they meet new friends, including a squeaky squirrel, a beetle with two moms and a monkey adopted by a baboon. Creator and writer Tammy Stoner developed the storyline from a tale she made up for her own 6-year-old son. There is little specifically “about” lesbian or gay families in it, although there are clear gay and lesbian characters. Rather than feeling like a “special” album for kids of gay and lesbian parents that still sets them apart, Seashell feels like what the whole next generation of children’s music should sound like — inclusive, fun and revealing of the society around us. Actor Jen Plante, who plays Dottie, explains, “We’re really just trying to reflect the world that exists for kids right now. There are kids from different families who play together and go to school together. It’s simple. It’s not this big heavy-handed message.” Stoner adds that while they have screened the DVD to great response at LGBT film festivals and on two R Family cruises, many screenings have also been hosted by “traditional” families. She says lesbian- and gay-inclusive children’s media is just as needed, if not more so, by those families, “not for seeing their own images, but for explaining to their kids about the parents in their children’s classes and about their
other family members.” She also notes she is trying to reach out to the adoption community, both gay and straight, who likewise need more images to reflect their lives. Outreach and wide distribution is more possible with a CD than a DVD, she asserts. Indeed, the CD builds upon the standout feature of the DVD, composer Allyson Newman’s music. With its catchy beats, clever lyrics and light educational elements (e.g., counting by fives), it holds its own against any of the mass-marketed children’s music around. The one song that touches most overtly on family structure, “Who’s In Your Family?” speaks of many types of families: gay, straight, single-parented and more. If it feels a little anthemic, it is kept from cloying by silly lines like, “Who’s in your family? One dad or three aunts. Who’s in your family? A rooster who wears pants.” One need only imagine LGBT families and friends singing the song together on an R Family cruise or other LGBT gathering to realize that anthems, after all, are written for a reason. The other new album, singersongwriter Susan Howard’s “Warm Sun,” has a very different tone. It is a collection of disparate songs by a single artist, not a musical story with an ensemble cast. Songs like “Big Girl Bed” skew it toward a slightly younger audience than that of Seashell. Howard, a lesbian mom who was taught guitar by Dan Zanes (before he began his own epic career in children’s music), has created songs about everyday life that range from soothing to rockin’. Three of the album’s 12 songs are explicitly about gay or lesbian families: “Hanging with My Moms,” “Daddy, Papa
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and Me” and “I’m Adopting a Brother,” which features a two-dad family. (Single-parent families may feel a bit left out, though.) As with Stoner and Plante, Howard says she wanted to go light on the messaging, and instead focus on “cool songs that were upbeat and fun for kids to jump around to.” In that, she has succeeded. Her bouncy approach in the song about adoption is a particularly refreshing change from the sappiness often associated with media about the topic. The almost-punk “Pretzel Eater” is perfect for young rockers. “I’m Invincible,” contains the line, “Even strangers want to be near me,” which seems ill-advised. Both “Warm Sun” and “Seashell” represent a step forward in gay- and lesbian-inclusive kids’ media, however, by focusing on the fun that could happen in any family (some of whom have lesbian and gay mem-
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bers), rather than on “lessons” that often seemed designed to counter negatives that some children may not have run into yet. Indeed, the Dottie franchise, building on its existing fan base, could very well become the first gay- and lesbian-inclusive children’s media phenomenon. “It’s been this whole second life,” says Plante about playing Dottie. “I’m on Facebook [as Dottie], I’m emailing kids all over the world. It’s been crazy. We have this little teeny-tiny DVD and I’m getting notes from people all the time. I feel very lucky to be a part of it.” Purchase “The Super Secret Seashell Cave” from dottiesmagicpockets.com or amazon. com and “Warm Sun” from thenextfamily.com. ■ Dana Rudolph is the founder and publisher of Mombian (www. mombian.com), a blog and resource directory for LGBT parents.
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worth watching: FRIDAY Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man’s Chest The second installment of the pirate epic. 8 p.m. on ABC. Saturday Night Live Presents: A Very Gilly Christmas Some of the show’s best holiday sketches. 8 p.m. on NBC.
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repeat. 11 p.m. on Fox. Saturday Night Live Repeat of the episode starring Taylor Swift. 11:30 p.m. on NBC. SUNDAY The Sound of Music The Von Trapps vs. the Nazis. Surprisingly, there’s singing and dancing. 8 p.m. on ABC. Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew Look for the gay cast member, writer-director Duncan Roy. 10 p.m. on VH1.
Disney/Matt Stroshane
SATURDAY Mariah Carey: The Adventures of Mimi The superstar performs. 8 p.m. on Logo.
Queer TV you can always see:
Suze Orman Show The out money expert gives advice. 9 p.m. on CNBC.
One Life to Live
Graham Norton Show The out personality hosts his own talk show. 10:30 p.m. on BBC America.
How I Met Your Mother Openly gay Neil Patrick Harris stars as skirt-chaser Barney in this repeat. 8 p.m. on CBS.
The Wanda Sykes Show The out comedian has a drag-queen sidekick in this
The Decorating Adventures of Ambrose Price The out design guru’s real-
PARADE OF STARS: Celine Dion (above) and the Jonas Bothers get in the spirit of the season at the 26th annual “Disney Parks Christmas Day Parade,” 10 a.m.-noon Dec. 25 on ABC. Photo:
Kyle and Fish are going to have sex at some point before the year is over, so stay tuned. Monday-Friday, 2 p.m. on ABC. Ellen
Monday-Friday, 3 p.m. on NBC. The Rachel Maddow Show
Monday-Friday, 9 p.m. on MSNBC.
PORTRAIT From Page 25 was able to have an impact on clients’ lives, and there were many instances where they’ve had an impact on me. I’ve learned and gained something from every client I’ve worked with. But I’d have to say that one of the moments in my life that really moved me was something that occurred in my personal life. In my father’s final years, when he knew he was dying, he shared with me the fact that he felt he got the best daughter-in-law through me. You have to understand that this was a man who was a devout Roman Catholic. If he were alive today, he’d be almost 90 and, for him to say that, after all the years of struggling with my coming out, was amazing. That he came to accept and embrace me and my family, including Barbara’s two children, and that he felt that my wife was his best daughter-in-law, meant the world to me. He came to
adore her, and at the end of his life she took very good care of him. In fact, he chose to remain longer in this life because of our daughter Emily. He stayed alive to see her first year and a half. It’s a story that I’ll always carry and share with friends. Barbara and I got married on the beach this summer in Provincetown and I wish he could have been there, but he was there in spirit. We had a picture of him, and of my mother and Barbara’s parents, who are also deceased, there with us. PGN: Any hobbies? PH: I love films — movies on film, television — I’m just really big into Hollywood. [Laughs.] I know it’s a little odd: I’m supposed to be this grounded social worker, but obviously, opening a store called Mood Swings gives a hint that there’s a whimsical side to me. Had I not been a teacher, social worker and business entrepreneur, I would have chosen a way to do something
behind the scenes in movies or television. I’m very interested in that whole arena. Of course, my biggest hobby is our daughter Emily and our two grandkids. They occ upy a lot of our time. We’re very invested in family things these days. PGN: So you’re a film buff. What actor would you want to portray your life story? PH: Oooh, good question. I don’t know who could play me. I love Meryl Streep and I guess I’m old enough now that she could play me. Of course, she’s so good she could portray anyone. I’ve also always admired Katharine Hepburn. PGN: What’s a scent that makes you stop and reflect? PH: Cinnamon. Apples and cinnamon. I think the scent of them always brings back memories of my childhood. Apple cider bringing back thoughts of Thanksgivings past and cinnamon brings thoughts of Christmas. I have wonderful
MONDAY Pirates of the Caribbean: At World’s End The third installment of the pirate epic. 8 p.m. on ABC.
memories of those early holidays. PGN: When it comes to family, what’s something your daughter has taught you? PH: Patience. As Barbara would tell you, I’m not the most patient person in the world. But having had Emily, I have had to adopt a more patient perspective on the world. PGN: What sort of things try your patience? PH: I would say, generally, I have a very difficult time with people who lack intelligence, who have limited insight into things. Those brick walls who have a stubborn view of things and aren’t willing to take anything else in. They don’t want to open themselves up to the world and explore new things or ideas. That mentality tries my patience. PGN: Any holiday family traditions? PH: Our family at this point has
ity show spruces things up. 10:30 p.m. on Logo. TUESDAY Jessica Kirson: My Cookie’s Gone The out comedian performs. 8:30 p.m. on Logo. Kennedy Center Honors Sting, Aretha Franklin, Melissa Etheridge, Sharon Stone and more are scheduled to appear on the show honoring Bruce Springsteen, Robert DeNiro and Mel Brooks. 8 p.m. on ABC. WEDNESDAY The New Adventures of Old Christine Look for out comedian Wanda Sykes in this sitcom repeat. 8 p.m. on CBS. Glee Two repeats of the musical comedy. 8 and 9 p.m. on Fox. Modern Family Watch for gay couple Mitchell and Cameron in this repeat. 9 p.m. on ABC. THURSDAY It’s New Year’s Eve. Why are you watching television? See you in 2010. become a mini United Nations. For the last six-10 years, the family has shifted and expanded with the birth of Emily and the marriage of our children, all the family that comes with their spouses, and the birth of our grandchildren, Kweon 3rd and Jolie. I look forward to the holidays because of the diversity of our family. We go to New York and all celebrate together. We celebrate both Hanukkah and Christmas: It’s really beautiful. PGN: So, did you ever write a letter to Santa? PH: Yes, I did. Many, in fact. ■ Mood Swings 2 Station Circle Narberth (610) 668-0148 www.moodswingsthings.com To suggest a community member for “Professional Portraits,” write to: Professional Portraits, 505 S. Fourth St., Philadelphia, PA 19147 or portraits05@aol. com.
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Diversions
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Your guide to arts and entertainment
Theater
PGN
The Adventures of Harold and the Purple Crayon The classic children’s book comes to life through Jan. 3 at the Prince Music Theater, 1412 Chestnut St.; (215) 893-1999.
Pick
Body Worlds 2 & The Brain The Franklin Institute presents an eye-opening journey through the inner workings of the human body through a broad collection of authentic human specimens, through Feb. 20, 222 N. 20th St.; (215) 448-1200.
Crawling Fish Mummer Play Walking Fish Theatre presents a moveable play based on the Wantage Mummer Plays dating to medieval times, through Jan. 2, 2509 Frankford Ave.; (215) 427-9255.
Clublife The William Way LGBT Community Center hosts an exhibition by photographer Kalina Isato featuring transgender women, through Dec. 31, 1315 Spruce St.; www. transvamp.com/gallery.
Oliver! Walnut Street Theatre presents one of the world’s most-beloved musicals, through Jan. 10, 825 Walnut St.; (215) 574-3550. The Moon is a Mirror Within Me Firebird-Light Productions presents a series of dramatic readings both ancient and contemporary, through Jan. 10 at Walnut Street Theatre’s Studio V, 825 Walnut St.; (215) 574-3550. Peter Pan The timeless story of Peter, Tinker Bell, Captain Hook and the Lost Boys hits the stage through Jan. 24 at Arden Theatre Company’s F. Otto Haas Stage, 40 N. Second St.; (215) 922-1122. Red, White & Tuna Walnut Street Theatre presents two comic masters bringing to life 24 characters from Tuna, Texas, through Jan. 3 at Independence Studio on 3, 825 Walnut St.; (215) 5743550. Scapin Lantern Theater Company presents Molière’s classic farce, through Jan. 3 at St. Stephen’s Theater, 923 Ludlow St.; (215) 829-
ornaments and holiday cards by select artists, through Dec. 31, 623 N. Second St.; (215) 2381557.
Hopefully by now, all your shopping is done so you can kick back and enjoy the holidays. When it comes to storybook visions of Christmas, it’s hard to compete with Longwood Gardens. Their Christmas Wonderland features 20 indoor rooms and acres of outdoor gardens with ornate and festive living floral displays, ornaments, trees, a half-million lights and dancing fountains. In addition, ice skaters perform daily in a fairy-tale setting and holiday music abounds with strolling carolers, organ sing-alongs, choral groups, madrigal singers and handbell choirs, through Jan. 10, 1001 Longwood Road, Kennett Square; (610) 388-1000.
0395. World of Jewtopia The smash comedic off-Broadway hit stars Bryan Fogel and Sam Wolfson, through Dec. 27 at Kimmel’s Perelman Theater, 240 S. Broad St.; (215) 790-5847. When You Comin’ Back, Red Ryder? New City Stage Company presents the revival of Mark Medoff’s dark dramacomedy, through Jan. 10 at the Adrienne Theater, 2030 Sansom St.; (215) 5637500.
Music classical New Year’s Eve Broadway and television star Audra McDonald
joins members of the Philadelphia Orchestra to ring in 2010 at 7:30 p.m. Dec. 31 at Kimmel’s Verizon Hall, 240 S. Broad St.; (215) 790-5847.
Music other
Real Diamond The Neil Diamond tribute act performs at 3 and 8 p.m. Dec. 26 at Sellersville Theater 1984, 24 W. Temple Ave.; (215) 257-5808. The Roots The Philly R&B group performs at 8 p.m. Dec. 26 at the Borgata Hotel Casino and Spa Music Box, 1 Borgata Way, Atlantic City; (609) 317-1000. Gandalf Murphy and the Slambovian Circus
of Dreams The punk-progressive folk band performs at 7:30 p.m. Dec. 30 at World Cafe Live, 3025 Walnut St.; (215) 2221400. Christine Havrilla The out singer-songwriter performs at 10 p.m. Dec. 31 at World Cafe Live, 3025 Walnut St.; (215) 222-1400.
Exhibits
Agulhas Gallery 339 presents an exhibition of works by Edward Dimsdale through Jan. 23, 339 S. 21st St.; (215) 731-1530. Annual Holiday Show ArtStar Gallery hosts an exhibition of handmade
Common Ground: Eight Philadelphia Photographers in the 1960s and 1970s The Philadelphia Museum of Art presents an exhibition examining a critical period for the art of photography and for the Philadelphia art scene, through Jan. 31, 2600 Benjamin Franklin Pkwy.; (215) 763-8100. Diana: A Celebration The National Constitution Center presents an exhibition exploring Diana’s childhood, her engagement to Prince Charles, their royal wedding and Diana’s life and work as a global humanitarian, through Dec. 31, 525 Arch St.; (866) 917-1787. 8x10 and Under: Small Landscapes Gallery 339 presents a new photography exhibition through Jan. 23, 339 S. 21st St.; (215) 7311530.
Lace in Translation The Design Center at Philadelphia University presents a new exhibition of contemporary work inspired by historic lace, through April 3, 4200 Henry Ave.; (215) 951-2860. Naughty AxD Gallery presents grownup holiday drawings by out artist Michael Broderick, through Dec. 31, 265 S. 10th St.; (215) 627-6250. Ragas and Rajas: Musical Imagery of Courtly India The Philadelphia Museum of Art presents a diverse selection of paintings and sculptures from across the subcontinent, through Feb. 28, 2600 Benjamin Franklin Pkwy.; (215) 763-8100. Rockwell’s America The largest 3-D Norman Rockwell exhibit in the world takes visitors on a unique journey that includes segments from the Academy Award-winning film “Norman Rockwell’s World,” 20 theatrical environments, 35 three-dimensional life-sized depictions of Rockwell’s characters and dozens of interactive educational experiences, through March 14 at King of Prussia Mall’s Lower Level
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Plaza, 256 Mall Blvd.; (610) 7680710. Step Right Up Bahdeebahdu presents the talented mixed-media work of Ryan Wilson Kelly, Melissa Stern and Ricky Boscarino, each bound by a circle of light to produce a single circus theme, through Jan. 30, 1522 N. American St.; (215) 627-5002.
Dance
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Trocadero Theatre, 1003 Arch St.; (215) 922-5483.
Books
Sarah Schulman and Eileen Myles The authors of “The Mere Future” and “The Importance of Being Iceland: Travel Essays on Art,” respectively, host a reading at 7:30 p.m. Dec. 28 at Giovanni’s Room, 345 S. 12th St.; (215) 923-2960.
The Nutcracker The Pennsylvania Ballet performs the holiday classic through Dec. 31 at Kimmel’s Academy of Music, 240 S. Broad St.; (215) 790-5847.
Voluptuous Spirits Poet Peter Covino and essayist Mary Cappello host a reading at 5:30 p.m. Dec. 27 at Giovanni’s Room, 345 S. 12th St.; (215) 923-2960.
Film
Cabaret
A Miracle on 34th Street The holiday classic is screened at 2 p.m. Dec. 27 at The Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; (610) 917-0223.
Etc.
Elf The 2003 holiday film is screened at 2 p.m. Dec. 26 at The Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; (610) 917-0223.
The Polar Express The animated holiday film is screened at 2 p.m. Dec. 28 at The Colonial Theatre, 227 Bridge St., Phoenixville; (610) 917-0223. The Hangover The outrageous comedy film is screened at 8 p.m. Dec. 28 at
Andy Prescott The local piano-bar entertainer performs from 6-10 p.m. Dec. 28 at Bowman’s Tavern, 1600 River Road, New Hope; (215) 862-2972. Kwanza Extravaganza The William Way LGBT Community Center and Beta Phi Omega Sorority host a free cultural event, at 6 p.m. Dec. 26, 1315 Spruce St.; (215) 732-2220. Mitch Fatel The quirky comedian from Comedy Central performs at 8 and 10:30 p.m. Dec. 26 at Helium Comedy Club, 2031 Sansom St.; (215) 496-9001. ■
WEEK-LINGS: Tony Braithewaite (left) and Steven Wright in a segment of 1812 Productions that shines the comedic light of truth on the new administration, local politics and the economic shake-down with “This Is the Week That Is,” through Jan. 3 at Plays & Players Theatre, 1714 Delancey St.; (215) 592-9560. With Tony at the news desk, Patsy from South Philly and a script that changes nightly, this hilarious show is the perfect stimulus package for those who are looking for more than traditional yuletide entertainment this holiday season. Photo: Mark Garvin
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Enjoying the new Q By Larry Nichols PGN Staff Writer A new look, new menu, new leadership and a new attitude have done wonders for the establishment formerly known as Bump. Q Lounge, 1234 Locust St., boasts a sleeker décor worthy of its status as one of the better places to kick back and relax in the Gayborhood. But it’s the lounge’s menu that has had the most dramatic transformation, with lower prices and far more adventurous fare. The martinis are still a great reason to stop by, with the Vendetta Martini (Absolut Pear, Domaine de Canton ginger, lime and pear juice) and the Madame Q (Grey Goose, elderflower liqueur and Brut Rose champagne) being standout favorites.
The fact that they are twice as big as they used to be — up to 8 ounces from 4 ounces — and only $1 more in price doesn’t hurt either. Brunch still packs the place on Sundays, which finds patrons clamoring for favorites like the eggs Benny, Belgian waffles and turkey BLT (all $9.95 each). But that doesn’t mean you should skip the dinner menu, which is superb. On the dinner menu, the appetizers are real crowd pleasers. The wasabi calamari ($10) was a spicy treat made even better by the sweet chili sauce that accompanied it. The Philly spring rolls ($9), loaded with seasoned steak and presented with a side of spicy ketchup, are tasty enough to make most people forsake the traditional (and far greasier) cheesesteaks offered around town.
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Vegetarians and carnivores alike could definitely get hopelessly hooked on the tasty and addictive tempura sweet potato fries ($7). Vegetarians can also rejoice that the menu offers more than just the tasty hummus — previously the only non-meat option. Q Lounge offers a handful of salads and pasta dishes to satisfy those who prefer something meatless. And the dinner menu is chock full of artfully executed dishes. Some of the standouts include the Mediterranean chicken ($15) and the succulent pork chops ($16). The wasabi-crusted yellowfin ($22) was an incredible dish with a wonderful and artsy presentation that made brilliant use of negative space on the plate and flavors that played out like a deconstructed sushi roll. The perfectly cooked tuna was crunchy and flavorful. The Asian flavors
of the sticky rice, seaweed salad and soy reduction complimented the dish well. The accompanying pickled ginger was a pleasant surprise, as it eschewed much of the pungent flavor that lessrefined portions seem to suffer. As good as the entrées were, dessert completely blew us away. The chocolate cake was an excellent example of how something simple can be a sinful experience. When it first arrives, it looks like an unassuming but tasty and small chocolate cake with whipped cream, fresh strawberries and strawberry reduction on the side. But you have no idea what’s about to hit you. Cutting into the cake, it started to slowly ooze the hot liquid chocolate goodness contained inside. Even if you’re not the biggest chocolate fan, watching the thick, rich stream of decadence gliding across your plate is not
unlike watching someone you want to have sex with slowly undress. And that’s before you even taste it. And believe us when we say it tastes better than it looks. If you can’t close the deal after this dessert, you need to find somebody new. ■ Larry Nichols can be reached at larry@epgn.com.
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Meeting Place A community bulletin board of activities, facilities and organizations
Community centers ■ The Attic Youth Center: For LGBT and questioning youth and their friends and allies. Groups meet and activities are held from 4-8 p.m. Wednesdays and Fridays; case management, HIV testing and smoking cessation are available Monday through Friday. See the Youth section for more events. 255 S. 16th St.; (215) 545-4331 ■ Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Center at the University of Pennsylvania 3907 Spruce St.; (215) 898-5044; center@dolphin.upenn.edu, Summer hours: 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday through Friday. ■ Rainbow Room — Bucks County’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning and Allies Youth Center: 6-8 p.m. Wednesdays: Doylestown Planned Parenthood, The Atrium, Suite 2E, 301 S. Main St., Doylestown; (215) 348-0558 ext. 65; rainbowroom@ppbucks.org. ■ William Way Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center: 1315 Spruce St.; (215) 732-2220; www.waygay.org. Peer counseling: Monday through Friday, 6-9 p.m. Library hours: Mondays 3-9 p.m., Tuesdays 3-6 p.m., Wednesdays 3-9 p.m., Thursdays 3-9 p.m., Fridays 3-9 p.m., Saturdays noon-6 p.m., Sundays noon-6 p.m. Volunteers: New Orientation: First Wednesday of the month at 7:30 p.m.; Volunteer Velada, third Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m.
Health Anonymous, free, confidential HIV testing Spanish/English counselors offer testing 8:30 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday at Congreso de Latinos Unidos, 166 W. Lehigh Ave.; (215) 763-8870 ext. 6000. AIDS Services In Asian Communities Provides HIV-related services to Asians and Pacific Islanders at 340 N. 12th St., suite 205; (2215) 536-2424. Gay and Lesbian Latino AIDS Education Initiative Free, anonymous HIV testing from 9:30 a.m.4:30 p.m. Monday through Wednesday and 9:30 a.m.-7 p.m. Thursdays at 1207 Chestnut St., fifth floor; (215) 851-1822 or (866) 222-3871. Spanish/English. HIV testing Free, anonymous testing and counseling is offered from 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday through Friday and by appointment at AIDS Resource, 520 W. Fourth St., suite 2A, Williamsport; (570) 322-8448.
Key numbers
HIV treatment Free HIV/AIDS diagnosis and treatment for Philadelphia residents are available from 9 a.m.noon Mondays and 5-8 p.m. Thursdays at Health Center No. 2, 1720 S. Broad St.; (215) 685-1803. HIV health insurance help Access to free medications, confidential HIV testing available at 17 MacDade Blvd., suite 108, Collingdale; Medical Office Building, 722 Church Lane, Yeadon; and 630 S. 60th St.; (610) 586-9077. Mazzoni Center Free, anonymous HIV testing; HIV/AIDS care and treatment, case management and support groups; 1201 Chestnut St.; (215) 563-0652. www. mazzonicenter.org. Washington West Project Free, anonymous HIV testing. Walk-ins welcome 9 a.m.-9 p.m. Monday-Friday and 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Saturday; 1201 Locust St.; (215) 985-9206.
Casarez@phila.gov; Fax: (215) 686-2555
■ AIDS Law Project of Pennsylvania: (215) 587-9377
■ Mazzoni Center: (215) 563-0652; www. mazzonicenter.org
■ AIDS Law Project of Southern New Jersey: (856) 933-9500 ext. 221
■ Mazzoni Center Family and Community Medicine: (215) 563-0658
■ AIDS Library: (215) 985-4851 ■ ACLU of Pennsylvania: (215) 592-1513
■ Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (Philadelphia): (215) 572-1833
■ AIDS Treatment hot line: (215) 5452212
■ Philadelphia Commission on Human Relations: (215) 686-4670
■ Barbara Gittings Gay and Lesbian Collection at the Independence Branch of the Philadelphia Free Library: (215) 685-1633
■ Philadelphia Lesbian and Gay Task Force: (215) 772-2000
■ The COLOURS Organization Inc. 112 N. Broad St., 11th floor; (215) 4960330. ■ Equality Advocates Pennsylvania: (215) 731-1447; (866) LGBTLAW ■ Equality Forum: (215) 732-3378 ■ Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Peer Counseling Services: (215) 732-TALK ■ Mayor’s liaison to LGBT communities: Gloria Casarez, (215) 686-2194; Gloria.
■ Philadelphia Police Department liaison — Chief Inspector James Tiano: (215) 685-3655 ■ Philadelphia Police Liaison Committee: (215) 600-0627; ppd.lgbt@gmail.com ■ Philly Pride Presents: (215) 875-9288 ■ SPARC — Statewide Pennsylvania Rights Coalition: (717) 920-9537 ■ Transgender Health Action Coalition: (215) 732-1207 (staffed 3-6 p.m. Wednesdays, and 6-9 p.m. Mondays, Thursdays and Saturdays)
Activism/Politics
ACT-UP (AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power) Meets at 6 p.m. every Monday at St. Luke and the Epiphany Church, 330 S. 13th St.; (215) 386-1981; www.critpath.org/actup. Delaware Valley Chapter, Americans United for Separation of Church and State Seeks activists and supporters of church-state separation. Holds monthly meetings and events; (856) 863-3061; www.dvau.org. Equality Advocates Philadelphia Holds a volunteer night second Tuesday of each month at 5:30 p.m., 1211 Chestnut St., Suite 605; (215) 731-1447; www.equalitypa.org. Green Party of Philadelphia Holds general meetings fourth Tuesday of each month (except April) at 6:30 p.m., 4134 Lancaster Ave.; (215) 243-7103; www.gpop.org. Log Cabin Republican Club of Philadelphia Meets at 7 p.m. third Wednesday of the month at the William Way Community Center; (215) 4655677; www.phillylogcabin.org. Liberty City LGBT Democratic Club Meets seasonally; (215) 760-7184; www. libertycity.org.
Arts
Gay Men’s Book Discussion Group Meets at 6:30 p.m. first Wednesday of the month at the Independence Branch of the Free Library of Philadelphia, 18 S. Seventh St.; (215) 685-1633. Library Book Club Meets to discuss a new book at 7 p.m. on third Wednesday of the month at the William Way Center. New Jersey Gay Men’s Chorus Chorus rehearses at 7:30 p.m. Mondays in Princeton, N.J.; (609) 675-1998. Philadelphia Gay Men’s Chorus Chorus rehearses from 7-9:30 p.m. Wednesdays; (215) 731-9230; auditions@pgmc.org. Philadelphia Gay Men’s Opera Club Meets to share and listen to recordings at 6:30 p.m. on last Saturday of the month; (215) 224-6995. Philadelphia Voices of Pride Philadelphia’s first mixed GLBT chorus rehearses at 7:30 p.m. Tuesdays at the William Way Center; (888) 505-7464; www.pvop.org. Queer Writer’s Collective Workshop and discussion group meets 4-6 p.m. on fourth Saturday of the month at the William Way Center. Women’s Book Group Meets first Thursday of the month at 6:45 p.m. at Giovanni’s Room, 345 S. 12th St.; brassygrrl@hotmail.com.
Recreation
Diversity Dancers Ballroom dancers meet the first Sunday of the month for tea dance and lessons. Other events scheduled throughout the year; (215) 922-2129; DiversityDancers@aol.com. Gay Bridge Club Non-beginners group meets Monday afternoons at the William Way Center; (215) 985-4835. Gay-friendly Scrabble Club Meets from 6-11 p.m. in the P.I.C. Building, 42nd and Locust streets; (215) 382-0789. Gay and Lesbian Scrabble Players in the tri-state area gather for socializing and friendly/competitive games; ScrabbleGroup@excite.com. Gay Opera Guys of Philly New group for opera appreciation meets last Sunday of the month at 2:30 p.m. in Roxborough/ Andorra area; (215) 483-1032. Humboldt Society: Lesbian and Gay Naturalists Meets second Thursday of the month at the William Way Center; (215) 985-1456; www. humboldtsociety.org. Indepedence Squares GLBT square dance club, modern Western square dancing. Monthly open house. Tuesday classes in the fall; Lutheran Church, 2111 Sansom St.; (215) 735-5812; www.independencesquares.org. Male Oenophile Group Male group forming to discuss, appreciate and taste various wines. Will meet once a month to investigate the nuances and glories of the fermented grape. Call (267) 230-6750 for more information. Mornings OUT LGBT Senior Social Activities for sexual-minority seniors are held
DEC. 25 - 31, 2009 every Tuesday from 10:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. at the William Way Center. PhilaVentures Philadelphia’s GLBT outdoor group meets for a hike in Wissahickon Valley Park on Sundays at 2 p.m. at Borders Books, Music and Café, 8701 Germantown Ave.; (215) 271-8822. Rainbow Room A meeting/activity night held for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and questioning youth and their friends Wednesdays from 6-8 p.m. at the Rainbow Room of Planned Parenthood in Doylestown; (215) 348-0558.
Sports
Brandywine Women’s Rugby Club Meets for Tuesday and Thursday practice at Greene Field, Howell Street and Moore Road, West Chester; www.brandywinerugby.org. City of Brotherly Love Softball League GLBT softball league serves the Philadelphia metropolitan area. Games are played Sundays, beginning in April, in Fairmount Park; (215) 4622575; www.cblsl.org. Frontrunners Running club meets Saturday mornings at 9:30 for a run and brunch. Lloyd Hall, No. 1 Boathouse Row; www.frontrunnersphila.org. Gay and Lesbian Bowling League Bowls at 8 p.m. Thursdays in the Norristown area; call Doug Schneidig; (716) 864-4393.
BiUnity Philadelphia area social and support network for bisexuals, their family members and friends meets at 7 p.m. the first and third Tuesdays of the month at the William Way Center; www. biunity.org. Boomers and Beyond A support and event programming group for sexual-minority seniors meets at 7:30 p.m. every first and third Monday at The Pride Center of New Jersey. Global A political, community and social group that also works to promote Bordentown as a gayfriendly community meets on the first Saturday of the month at Firehouse Gallery, 8 Walnut St., Bordentown, N.J.; jerseyglobal@yahoo.com. Delaware Pride Meets at 7 p.m. on first Thursday of the month at the United Church of Christ, 300 E. Main St., Newark, Del.; (800) 292-0429. Delaware Valley Pink Pistols For LGBT people dedicated to legal, safe and responsible use of firearms for self-defense; meets at 2 p.m. on third Saturday of the month at Classic Indoor Range, 1310 Industrial Blvd., Southhampton; (267) 386-8907; www. pinkpistols.org. Friday Feast and Fun Dinner hosted by St. John’s Lutheran Church at 6:30 p.m. second Friday of the month, 24 N. Ridge Ave., Ambler; (215) 576-8008.
Philadelphia Falcons Soccer Club GLBT and allied soccer club; practices Saturdays 10 a.m.-noon and Wednesdays 6-8 p.m. at Edgeley Fields in Fairmount Park;www.falcons-soccer.org.
Haverford College’s Sexuality and Gender Alliance Open meetings 10-11 p.m. Mondays in the lounge in Jones Basement at Haverford College, 370 Lancaster Ave.; (610) 896-4938.
Philadelphia Fins Swim Team Male and female swimmers meet at 7 p.m. Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays and 10 a.m. Saturdays in Center City; (610) 564-6661; www. philadelphia-fins.org.
Latina/o Virtual Community Local listserv offers various information and resources; (215) 808-2493; Zorros_mail@yahoo. com; LatinPhillyLGBT@yahoogroups.com.
Philadelphia Gay Bowling League Meets 8:30 p.m. Wednesdays September through April at Brunswick Zone, 1328 Delsea Drive, Deptford, N.J.; (856) 889-1434; www. philagaybowling.com.
LGBTQ and Friends Activity Group Meets at 7 p.m. on third Friday of the month to plan outings and potlucks at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Delaware County.
Philadelphia Gay Flag Football New group forming. Contact Jered at gayflagfootball@gmail.com or (214) 770-5373.
Long Yang Club Philadelphia Social organization for gay Asians and their friends holds monthly socials; P.O. Box 401, Philadelphia, Pa. 19105; www.longyangclub. org/philadelphia.
Philadelphia Gryphons Rugby Football Club Team seeks players; all skill levels welcome; (215) 913-7531; info@phillygryphons.org.
Metropolitan Community Church Christian education program is held Wednesdays from 6-10 p.m. at the William Way Center.
Philadelphia Liberty Tennis Association Meets at 7 p.m. every third Monday at William Way Center; into@plta.us.
Our Night Out A casual social networking party of LGBT professionals, allied communities, friends and colleagues meets in a different Philadelphia hot spot each month. To receive monthly event invitations, send email to OurNightOutPhilly@gmail.com; PhillyGayCalendar.com/org/OurNightOut.
Philadelphia Phoenix Women’s football team seeks players; (267) 6799535; www.philadelphiaphoenix.org. Philly Gay Hockey Association Philadelphia Phury seeks players; (917) 656-1936; phury@gayhockey.org. Rainbow Riders of the Delaware Valley Motorcycle club meets regularly; (215) 836-0440; www.groups.yahoo.com/group/rainbowridersdv/. Rainbow Rollers Gay and lesbian bowling league meets 9 p.m. on Tuesdays September-April at Laurel Lanes, 2825 Rte. 73 South, Maple Shade, N.J.; (856) 778-7467. South Jersey Gay Bowling League Gay and lesbian bowling league meets 7 p.m. on Fridays September-April at Laurel Lanes, 2825 Rte. 73 South, Maple Shade, N.J.; (856) 778-7467. Spartan Wrestling Club The gay wresting team meets from 7-9 p.m. Mondays at the First Unitarian Church, 2125 Chestnut St.; (215) 732-4545; www.phillyspartans. com. Team NJ Meets at 7:30 p.m. third Thursday of the month at the Pride Center of New Jersey; (908) 234-1481.
Philadelphia Bar Association Legal Advice Offered from 5-8 p.m. on third Wednesday of the month; (215) 238-6333. Philadelphia Prime Timers Club for mature gay and bisexual men and their admirers meets regularly; (610) 344-0853; www. primetimersphiladelphia.org. Philadelphians MC Club for leather men and women meets 7:30 p.m. first and third Mondays of the month at The Pit at The Bike Stop, 201 S. Quince St.; (215) 627-1662. Philly Paw Pals Gay and lesbian dog owners and their dogs meet on first Saturday of the month at a dog park; (215) 618-5290; PhillyPawPals@aol.com. Rainbow Amateur Radio Association ARRL affiliated; private; weekly HF nets, monthly newsletter, e-mail server; (302) 5392392; www.rara.org.
Team Philadelphia Meets at 8 p.m. second Wednesday of the month at the William Way Center; www.teamphiladelphia. org.
Silver Foxes Social and educational group for gays and lesbians 50 and older meets from 3-5 p.m. on fourth Sunday of the month at the William Way Center.
Women’s Table Tennis New group forming. Interested women are encouraged to e-mail michelesimone19144@yahoo. com.
Stonewall Model Railroad Club Meets monthly; (215) 769-4230; k3k@yahoo. com.
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AIDS Law Project Provides free legal assistance to people with HIV/AIDS and sponsors free monthly seminars on work and housing; 1211 Chestnut St., suite 600; (215) 587-9377; www.aidslawpa.org.
Temple University Lambda Alliance Meets from 7-8 p.m. on Thursdays at The Village outside the Lambda office, SAC 205, 1755 N. 13th St. Thirsty Third Tuesdays Collingswood Out in the Neighborhood meets at 7 p.m. on third Tuesday of the month for coffee, dessert and conversation at Three Beans, 40 N. Haddon Ave., Haddonfield N.J.; (215) 439-8337.
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Loosening up: a decade in home decor and design By Kim Cook The Associated Press Goodbye to the armoire and the dining room (in many cases, the living room too). Hello to the home office. Repurposed rooms, recycled materials and an increasingly relaxed decorating style characterize the end of a decade that began as a party on a grand scale. These are among the home decor trends cited by experts as the 2000s draws to a close. Over the past 10 years, the formal living room in most homes has been reinvented — it’s now a library, workspace, perhaps a music or game room. Many are now willing to buy a new home without a living room at all, according to a survey last spring by the American Institute of Architects. What we want is some combination of kitchen and great room where the family can interact. Homes are more laid back and user-friendly. The most well-liked rooms now are the home office, mudroom and media room, the survey indicated. What we don’t want so much anymore? Threecar garages, guest rooms and formal
living rooms. While the economic downturn has caused people to scale back their dream-home wish lists, “households are using their homes as intensely as ever,” AIA chief economist Kermit Baker noted in the group’s newsletter this fall. Technology has continued to transform the home. At a recent housingindustry conference, Steven Bomberger of Delaware-based Benchmark Homes said, “Ten years ago, baby boomers didn’t know how to program their VCR. Now they want computers, structured wiring, programmable thermostats and security systems.” We’re also getting comfortable with terms like low-VOC paint, sustainable flooring, home-energy management and wireless telecommunication. Some trends over the past 10 years: — Living large At the start of the 2000s, many jumped on the real-estate thrill ride. McMansions, gobblers of space and energy dollars, became ubiquitous. Now, we’re rethinking how we live, says Jennifer Boles, founder of The Peak of Chic design blog and
contributing editor to House Beautiful. “Some homes had five or six rooms dedicated to living and relaxing, despite the fact that most of us really only spend time in two or three,” she says. Oversize furniture like sectionals and big coffee tables, popular at the start of the decade, are being scaled down. — Living al fresco “The outdoor room’s really been one of the biggest changes. Everyone has an outdoor space now, even if it’s tiny,” says Elle Decor’s Cheminne TaylorSmith. “With seating, dining, even kitchens and sleeping pieces, these rooms are treated like their indoor counterparts.” Firepits, weather-resistant fabrics and furniture and commercial-quality heaters extend the outdoor season. — Living green After a long fallow period, gardening took off in the past few years. From containers to victory gardens, we’ve got our hands back in the dirt. We’re concerned about the provenance of produce, and about our carbon
footprint — how many thousands of miles did that tomato travel? Renewed interest in environmental stewardship starts literally in the backyard. We’re digging up the lawn and planting native greenery that requires little maintenance or water. We’re putting down less pesticide. More of us are composting. Indoors, notes Boles, “being green moved from the fringe into mainstream design.” We started demanding paint and other home products that were enviro-friendly. Sustainably harvested wood became a selling feature. Many designers embraced the trend, giving us beautiful art and furniture made of recycled materials. Now your kitchen counter may have once been a truckload of soda bottles, your sheets may be bamboo and solar panels can power everything from hot-water heaters to patio lighting. — Living creatively We’re spending about $260 billion a year on home-improvement projects, according to the Housing Industry Research Council. That’s up about $90 billion from 2000. Empowered by informative blogs, magazines and TV shows, the DIY boom continues.
We’re turning linen closets into offices, embellishing IKEA stock furniture and repurposing what we already own in clever, practical ways. Designing on a dime, or close to it, has become a hobby. With more creative freedom now to express our personalities at home, the world became our inspirational marketplace. Global crafts found a wider audience. Mainstream stores like Target and Pottery Barn brought decorative pieces from every corner of the planet to our doorstep and design became more eclectic than ever before. — Living relaxed We’ve loosened up. It’s OK to have the computer and TV in the heart of the home. There’s been a shift toward a more practical, casual lifestyle over the past decade. As designer Mark Hampton says, “Real comfort, visual and physical, is vital to every room.” Suites of furniture? Passe. Untouchable formal rooms? Over. We’re comfortable mixing and matching — a major shift from the ’80s and ’90s when people mostly picked one style for the whole home. ■
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