A Creative Ceremony

expressing individualism

Creating unique weddings is a timely trend. The individuality of our age is an opportunity for eloquence at this most meaningful of ceremonies. Self-written vows or symbolic silence, music from tribal drums to electric guitars, festive clothing from leather to lace, and food from old family recipes to outrageous gourmet fare epitomize the one-of-a-kind wedding.

Traditions are not always bound by law. Your only legal requirement may be a marriage license obtained from the county clerk, and signed by the witnesses you choose. The person officiating need not be a minister or judge, and the vows may reflect your version of the commitment that marriage entails.

Explore and amplify each other’s ideas. Chaplains and others with creative credentials can help customize your approach to this highly-symbolic ceremony.

You will gain strength as a couple from every individualized aspect of your wedding. Originality in vows and guest participation, and details reflecting you as a couple, such as setting, dress, music and festivities, are a sign of sharing as a pair. With individual tastes intertwined, you will own your wedding, rather than it owning you.

The process of creative exploration will also be one more way to know each other better and assume a unified identity. All weddings take courage. A creative ceremony makes a bolder statement still.