DEAR BOOK CLUB MEMBERS,
Roughly five years ago, I worked as a horseback riding instructor in Orange County and later in Los Angeles. I taught riding fundamentals to the children of the rich and famous. I was fascinated by the parent-child dynamics.
My experiences inspired the question around which this book is based: Is it wrong to push your children? And beyond that, where is the line at which influencing another living thing becomes wrong or dangerous? Girls and Their Horses is filled with influential relationships, whether it be parent/child, teacher/student, rider/horse or between teenage girls. As you read, I invite you to think about how influence plays a part in your own lives.
Thank you so much for selecting this story for your book club. Should you so wish, my horse Tennessee and I are open to join in your discussion. I am also available to answer any questions you may have—or just talk horses! You can find me on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook.
Thank you for reading,
ElizaJaneBrazier
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Heather thinks she knows what is best for her daughters. Is it ever okay to push your children?
2. What do you think of Heather’s and Pamela’s parenting? Do you think it’s helpful or harmful to their daughters?
3. On the other side, Pamela allows Vida freedom to be herself, even when she makes wrong or dangerous choices. Is it possible to be too hands-off as a parent?
4. If parents don’t offer their children guidance, will they seek it elsewhere, through teachers, peers or other parents?
5. The novel looks at relationships where one living thing has influence over another. How do influential relationships play a part in your own lives?
6. Horses are so important to all the characters. Do you see any parallels with how the characters treat their horses and how the parents treat their children?
7. Why do you think Heather believes that horses can fix her relationship with her daughters?
8. Do you think Kieran is a compelling coach? Why or why not?
9. In the novel, Maple always feels like she is not as good as her older sister, Piper. Have you ever been jealous of someone close to you? How did it effect your behavior? Where do you think jealousy comes from?
10. Do you have any horse experience? What was it? What did you like or not like about working with horses?
11. Do you believe that horses (or other animals) can communicate with people?
