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5 City spent some DNC funding on companies without LGBT protections 5 S.C. ranked high for rate of rape, abuse in juvenile justice system 6 News Notes: Regional Briefs 10 Fifth Third Bank reaches out 10 Errata 21 Charlotte Pride kicks off The White House

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12 Restaurant Guide, Reviews 14 Playing the Field 18 Out in the Stars 19 Tell Trinity 22 Fabulance 22 Jane’s World 22 Community Resources 23 Q events calendar

On June 13, qnotes publisher Jim Yarbrough and editor Matt Comer attended President Barack Obama’s LGBT Pride Month Reception at The White House in Washington, D.C. In 2009, President Obama became the first American president to welcome LGBT citizens to The White House for a reception commemorating Pride Month and the Stonewall Riots.

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‘The Charlotte Way’ is an Old South relic; It’s time to bid it adieu At the end of May, The Charlotte Observer and PNC Bank hosted an historic gathering of several former Charlotte mayors. There, former mayors Richard Vinroot and Gov. Pat McCrory bemoaned what seemed to them to be the death of “The Charlotte Way.” Most Charlotte natives and those who have lived long enough know exactly what The Charlotte Way is, whether they can accurately describe it in words or not. Folks around these parts are simply accustomed to a certain way of life, of speaking, of civic engagement, of decision making and of “activism” and “advocacy.” Anything outside of that norm is usually ostracized and shunned — characterized as “fringe” and “militant.” Here in the Queen City, protests and pickets are rare. So are strong and public demands that seek to right long lists of grievances and wrongs. Holding elected officials accountable during and after campaign season? Don’t even count on it. Instead, the magic Charlotte Way is marked by closed-door, behind-the-scenes legislating with later rubber-stamped votes, if any votes at all are taken. Our special way means bureaucrats, not elected officials, can make decisions as our chosen representatives skirt the issues and refuse to take votes on important matters. It also means that a large portion of our communities here are relegated to the sidelines, oftentimes voiceless and powerless to effect change or see their full list of grievances given the public hearing and debate they deserve. The Charlotte Observer’s Mark Washburn described The Charlotte Way’s essence in a May 25 feature detailing a side of Charlotte’s Civil Rights-era history cast into the shadows of the more popular Charlotte Way version

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of events. He defined The Charlotte Way as “public-private partnerships” and the “willingness of civic and business leaders to step in for the betterment of the city” — “an unseen hand [which] guided growth through the unifying vision of powerful leaders with everything from commerce to philanthropy at their command.” Translation: Don’t rock the boat or make waves. Don’t speak out on controversial issues and, certainly, don’t let all those noise-makin’ radical riffraff have a voice at the table. We know what’s best for everyone else. We’ll pick and choose which issues and problems get addressed. We’ve got it all under control. Now, you just sit back and calm yourself down and stop worryin’ your pretty li’l head. Charlotte’s historic top-down approach to community change and empowerment has been harmful to our city’s growth. It has maintained power and privilege for those who already had it. It has kept traditionally marginalized and oppressed people firmly “in their place.” It has been a sweep-itunder-the-rug, lack-of-public-debate choice of discourse that has all-too-often silenced minorities and important voices for change. Leaders like Reginald Hawkins, of whom Washburn wrote in May, and his more outspoken pushes for change have been set to the side as the more popular white-washed and corporate-and-economy-friendly story of Mayor Stan Brookshire and The Charlotte Way has captivated our imaginations. I’d dare say that many folks have heard that “cleaner” version of events, but how many know more? How many folks think bombs only ever went off in Birmingham and burning crosses were relegated to Mississippi? How many know about Charlotte’s more rocky and embarrassing Civil Rights-era

past? Do they know about the sit-ins and marches that saw lunch-counters here integrated? I’m betting many don’t know about Dorothy Counts, the first African-American to integrate a local school. If they are aware of her, are they also aware of all the jeers, spittle and racial slurs she endured from white parents and their kids as she entered Harding High School in 1957? How many Charlotteans know about the Nov. 22, 1965, bombings that rocked the homes of four Civil Rights-era Charlotte leaders, including Hawkins? Do they know that Mayor Brookshire, too, was the victim of racist hatred, finding a burning cross in his front yard on Aug. 26, 1966? The Charlotte Way has clouded our history and our way of thinking. It has enabled a continuous trend of non-engagement and overly conservative caution. Ultimately, it has resulted in very, very little tangible change or discussion on a variety of social issues today — whether we’re talking about LGBT equality, an issue on which City Council last publicly voted, and defeated, 21 years ago, or whether it is neighborhood safety, employment, transit or any variety of issues that affected poor and largely African-American and Latino neighborhoods. So, while Vinroot and McCrory are mourning the decline of the Charlotte Way, I, for one, am rejoicing at what could finally be the death of Charlotte’s Good Ol’ Boy System. It has had a ridiculously long time in power, but now we can all finally say good riddance to this awful relic of the Old South. Millionaire bankers and sports team owners have had more than enough time at the table. It’s time for a new way, Charlotte — one that includes and empowers all people. This time, let’s build it from the bottom up. : :

LGBT inaction in Charlotte It’s ridiculous and political homophobia at its best that CLT CC still has not had a dais vote on anything in 21 yrs. Columbia, Charleston, Triangle/Triad…been there done that. The Carolinas biggest metro: 0. Seriously? — Forrest, June 12, in response to our editorial calling on LGBT-inclusive changes to Charlotte’s Commercial Non-Discrimination Ordinance (goqnotes.com/23430/). See story opposite page. ENDA is important I personally feel that ENDA is the more important of the two. Without marriage you can survive but without a job how can you live unless you are personally wealthy. My Momma taught me that I need a job before I can get married. — Janice Covington, May 25, in response to our QPoll (goqnotes.com/23102/) asking whether LGBT advocates are expending adequate attention and resources on the Employment Non-Discrimination Act. What Pride means Pride means that we have the responsibility to create a society where we can all be judged on the content of our character, not the gender identity/expression or sexual orientation we manifest. It is our role to stand up and be proud of ourselves. We should not be seeking approval from the larger society, but we should be demanding our civil inclusion in all laws and regulations. We are complete beings who are not diseased, depraved, or damaged. Intolerance, bigotry, and discrimination are what ails NC. Our Pride is our Voice. Not our silent retreat into stereotypes and hyperbole. Silence=Death. — Jack Register, May 28, Facebook, in response to our reader question, “What does Pride mean to you?”

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City spent some DNC funding on companies without LGBT protections At least $1.1 million went to local companies and organizations without fully-inclusive LGBT employment policies by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com

CHARLOTTE – At least $1.1 million was spent during last year’s Democratic National Convention by the city of Charlotte on local companies and organizations that lack fullyinclusive LGBT employee protections, according to an expense report released by the city. The money came from a $50 million federal grant used by the city and CharlotteMecklenburg Police Department. The overwhelming majority went toward reimbursing city departments and paying for out-of-town law enforcement officers. The Charlotte Observer reported on some expenditures. Of the companies they highlighted, several had employment non-discrimination policies that lacked either sexual orientation or gender identity. The city’s own policies, as amended by City Manager Curt Walton, do include LGBT protections. Some of the largest expenditures were for food and lodging for out-of-town police officers. The city paid Compass Group, which contracts with Johnson & Wales University, $22,358.40 to feed officers. It also paid Johnson C. Smith University $202,761.50 for

meals and $726,289.97 for lodging. Compass Group and Johnson C. Smith both include sexual orientation in their policies, though both also exclude gender identity. The city also spent $181,874.55 on other meals with Jersey Mike’s, Firehouse Subs, Jason’s Deli, Chick-fil-A and Bojangles. Employment policy information for Jersey Mike’s and Firehouse Subs could not be found. Jason’s Deli and Chick-fil-A do not include sexual orientation or gender identity. Bojangles’ policy includes only sexual orientation. The city’s Commercial Non-Discrimination Ordinance requires businesses contracting to provide services for the city to certify that their non-discrimination policies match the city’s. Parts of the ordinance also set standards for procurement and purchasing. City Council has yet to amend and update the ordinance after Walton’s LGBT-inclusive additions to the city’s personnel policies. A full list of companies with which the city did DNC-related business can be found along with a commentary on the subject at goqnotes.com/23430/. : :

S.C. ranked high for rate of rape, abuse in juvenile justice system Gay youth reported substantially higher rate of youth-on-youth assault than heterosexual peers by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com

WASHINGTON, D.C. — A new U.S. Department of Justice survey has found a high rate of rape and sexual abuse in the country’s juvenile justice system. Additionally, South Carolina ranked second in a list of states with the highest rates of abuse. The new report found that teens were most often abused by staff at the juvenile detention facilities. Twenty percent of those abused by staff say they were violated 10 times or more. The new report also found that youth who identified as gay, lesbian, bisexual or some other non-heterosexual orientation reported a substantially higher rate of victimization from other youth, with 1.5 percent of heterosexual youth reporting youth-onyouth assault, compared to 10.3 percent of non-heterosexual youth. The report did not include specific data for transgender or other gender-non-conforming youth. South Carolina officials blame their high rate on one employee at the Birchwood

detention center. Larry Vanderbilt, general council for the state’s Department of Juvenile Justice, said the employee was linked to at least two incidents and is now being criminally prosecuted. South Carolina, which ranked second, is joined by Ohio, which ranked first, and Georgia and Illinois, which ranked third and fourth, respectively. Two facilities in South Carolina, the Birchwood center and the John G. Richards center, participated. States with the lowest incident rates including New York, Massachusetts and Delaware, where no assaults were reported. Read more about the report from Facing South at southernstudies.org/2013/06/rapeand-other-sexual-violence-prevalent-injuveni.html. To read the full Justice Department report, visit propublica.org/documents/item/709100svjfry12-emb-052813. : :

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Charlotte Champions awards noms open

CHARLOTTE — On June 6 Charlotte Pride announced the first-ever Champions of Pride Awards honoring outstanding dedication, service and commitment to the Charlotte area LGBTQ community. Any individual may be nominated for the awards until the July 15 deadline. The awards seek to recognize those whose work and dedication exemplify the spirit of Pride. Champions endeavor to empower and unite LGBTQ and allied people through their leadership, service and support. They understand the importance of celebrating the community’s past, present and future while advancing LGBTQ rights and visibility. The Charlotte Pride Executive Committee encourages a wide range of nominations in order to honor a diversity of our community achievements. Any individual or couple may be nominated in the following four categories: Harvey Milk Award: Given annually to an individual or a couple to honor exceptional leadership, service to the community and those who champion LGBTQ causes that impact the Charlotte community and beyond. Outstanding Ally Award: Given annually to an individual or a couple to honor those who do not identify as LGBTQ, but who have stalwartly supported the LGBTQ community with a demonstrated, ongoing passion and commitment to better LGBTQ lives. Young Catalyst Award: Given annually to an individual or a couple to recognize a young adult leader under the age of 30 who is an “up and coming” leader within the community and/ or whose contributions to the community have carried significant impact over the last year. Legacy Award: Given to an individual or couple to honor a lifelong commitment of outstanding leadership and service to the Charlotte LGBTQ community for an extended period of years; this special award may be presented from time to time by the committee. Each award will be presented at the 2013 Charlotte Pride Festival and Parade, Aug. 24-25, in Uptown Charlotte. Nomination details and nomination forms can be found online. Award recipients will be chosen and notified by July 18 by the committee and will be asked to participate in this year’s festival and this year’s Charlotte Pride Parade, the first held in the Queen City since 1994. Champions of Pride Awards coordinator is Shane Windmeyer. info: charlottepride.org/champions/. media@ charlottepride.org. — L.M. and from releases

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CHARLOTTE — The LGBT Community Center of Charlotte, 2508 N. Davidson St., is hosting monthly drag bingo events. Their most recent event, Beach Blanket Bingo, on June 15, featured Trixie Zenyon. The events are held once each month, with next month’s event scheduled for July 20, 7-10 p.m. The center has not yet announced entertainment or the host for the event. In other news, the center will host its Stonewall Celebration on June 29, Noon-8 p.m., in commemoration of the Stonewall Riots. The center says entertainment, music and food will be provided. Entertainers and other activities have yet to be announced. As reported last issue, the center is still seeking entertainers. In addition, vendor spaces are available at a variety of costs. For more information, email programs@gaycharlotte.com. info: gaycharlotte.com — M.C.

Symposium slated

CHARLOTTE — The Regional AIDS Interfaith Network’s (RAIN) Trinity Project will hold its third annual pastoral symposium, “Ministering Outside the Pulpit,” on June 29, 5:30 p.m., at CN Jenkins Presbyterian Church, 1421 Statesville Ave. The event speaks to the “importance of providing pastoral care to individuals infected and affected with HIV/AIDS within the faith and surrounding communities. Competent pastoral care is knowing when to speak, when to be silent and often providing more than ‘I’ll pray for you’ through tools of listening and empowering without judgment,” RAIN said. Church leaders and clergy, as well as faith communities will be assisted in understanding the “importance of preaching and teaching, from a biblical perspective, focusing on what Jesus spoke of often which is love, while teaching the value of each human-being with an understanding that we are to love all of God’s creation regardless of their sexual orientation, behaviors that stem from substance abuse, etc.” The symposium is free and open to the public. Dinner will be provided, preceded by a reception. Onsite HIV testing will be available. An RSVP is required to attend. Call Geneva Galloway, director of community services, at 704-372-7246, ext. 115, or email g.galloway@ carolinarain.org. info: carolinarain.org. — L.M.

Triad Grant apps open

GREENSBORO — The Guilford Green Foundation has made its 2013 grant applications available. The applications are used to apply for the foundation’s community grants,

RALEIGH — The LGBT Center of Raleigh has announced that its Gay & Gray Initiative has received national affilation with SAGE (Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders) and will change names to SAGE Raleigh. SAGE Raleigh is a member of the national organization’s network of affiliates known as SAGEnet. Began in New York City in 1978, SAGE began as a local group dedicated to LGBT seniors. It has grown to become the leading national organization advocating for the rights and well-being of LGBT elders. The center’s SAGE Raleigh was begun three years ago as the Gay & Gray Initiative. The program has organized social events, drop-in hours dedicated to older community member, educational events and has held two monthly luncheon series at nearby restaurants, including a luncheon for elder lesbians. For two years, the initiative has also been a recipient of a City of Raleigh Human Resources Commission grant. “The power and prestige of being aligned with a national organization such as SAGE will help us achieve more success in terms of programming and fund-raising, which of course is the bread and butter of a non-profit,” SAGE Raleigh/Gay & Gray founder Les Geller said in a release. “After a year of working with the national organization to get our credentials in order, and having gone through a rigorous process of fulfilling many requirements to prove our ability and intent to carry on, we couldn’t be more pleased that SAGE has chosen our program to be the first in North Carolina, and one of the few in the Southeast, to be an affiliate.” — M.C. given each year to support LGBT people and organizations in the Greensboro area. For over 16 years, Guilford Green has disbursed more than $700,000 in funding to community groups, with projects ranging from advocacy, arts, culture, community organizing, education, housing and shelter, faith and social services. Eligible organizations must be 501(c)3 non-profits. Applications are available online. info: ggfnc.org/receive/apply-for-a-grant/ — M.C.

Triangle Library presents author reading

DURHAM — The Durham County Library, in celebration of LGBT Pride Month, will bring author LaToya Hankins in on June 24, 7 p.m., 300 Roxboro St., to read from her book “SBF Seeking.” This novel explores what happened when a woman decides to place a personal ad four months before her wedding. Her small town life in eastern North Carolina never prepared her for the personal journey she undertakes as she struggles to find her heart’s path. A book signing will follow the reading. — L.M.

ENC seeks survey participants

RALEIGH — Equality North Carolina (ENC) is requesting participations in its supporter survey.

They made a resolution at the end of 2012 to “serve our supporters, our communities and our state like never before.” ENC is committed to becoming a primary news, education and civic engagement resource on LGBT issues. They took a pledge to be more accountable to the needs of LGBT North Carolinians and allies. Survey responses are anonymous. To join in, visit equalitync.org/survey/. — L.M.

Kids group hosts enrollment

DURHAM — The Triangle chapter of Navigators USA has announced that enrollment for its 2013-14 season is now open. The group welcomes boys and girls regardless of gender, race, sexual orientation, ability, religious or lack of religious belief. It believes the greatest challenge for the future of the planet is whether people will learn how to get along with others different than themselves. An information session was held at the Eno River Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, 4907 Garrett Rd., on June 13. The organization began in New York and now sports nearly 50 chapters. The Triangle chapter was the fifth in the system. Michelle Kucerak serves as the contact person. “Navigators USA was created to provide a scouting experience for boys and girls who either can’t or don’t want to join the existing

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Third Tuesday of every month, except when there is specialized programming, plus monthly socials to promote networking and friendship A wide variety of topics of interest to appeal to the diverse LGBT community After work with a cash bar social and heavy hor d’oeuvres with dinner and program following Visit the website for application options and benefits. Call 704.565.5075 or email businessguild@yahoo.com for more details or write to The Charlotte Business Guild P.O. Box 33371 | Charlotte, NC 28233

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Secretary of the Army John McHugh testifies before the House Armed Services Committee about the Fiscal Year 2014 National Defense Authorization Budget Request during an April 25 hearing on Capitol Hill. Photo Credit: U.S. Army photo by Spc. John G. Martinez

White House objects to NDAA ‘conscience’ language WASHINGTON, D.C. — The White House on June 11 threatened to veto a defense spending bill that includes so-called “conscience protections” that critics say would allow service members to promote anti-gay beliefs without fear of discipline. The language was inserted as an amendment to the House version of the fiscal 2014 National Defense Authorization Act (NDAA) by Rep. John Fleming (R-La.) The amendment adding language protecting “actions and speech.” Opponents say that, as written, the amendment extends the current protections, resulting in situations where service members could go much further in promoting their anti-gay beliefs without fear of discipline. In a lengthy policy statement, the White House Office of Management and Budget (OMB) said the language would undermine a

commander’s authority to maintain discipline in his unit. “The Administration strongly objects to section 530, which would require the Armed Forces to accommodate, except in cases of military necessity, ‘actions and speech’ reflecting the ‘conscience, moral principles, or religious beliefs of the member,’” the statement read. “By limiting the discretion of commanders to address potentially problematic speech and actions within their units, this provision would have a significant adverse effect on good order, discipline, morale, and mission accomplishment.” Action on the NDAA was expected as this edition of the newspaper was heading to print. Get the most up-to-date news at lgbtqnation.com. — Brody Levesque, LGBTQ Nation

Pope: Vatican has ‘gay lobby’

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VATICAN CITY — Speaking to a group of Latin American and Caribbean priests and nuns on June 6, Pope Francis acknowledged the existence of what he described as a secret “gay lobby” inside the church hierarchy. The pope’s alleged comments were recorded in a summary of the group’s audience with the religious leader. “The ‘gay lobby’ is mentioned, and it is true, it is there,” the pope is quoted as saying. “We need to see what we can do.” Previous reports indicated that Benedict XVI, who served as pope before stepping down, had been investigating several leaks, including a supposed “network of gay priests inside the Vatican who used blackmail to gain influence and trade in state secrets,” The New York Times reported. — M.C.

— On openly gay British soldier is praising Prince Harry for preventing a gay bashing. The story appears in a memoir, “Out in the Army,” by British Lance Corporal James Wharton. more: dailym.ai/14xfuhz — U.S. Air Force Reserve Major General Patricia Rose has become the U.S. military’s highest ranking openly gay officer. more: bit.ly/13DG5qp — Gay man claims he was attacked and called gay slurs by New York City police. Two friends were with him and also arrested. One took video of the incident. more: bit.ly/13CtlC0 — French Prime Minister Jean-Marc Ayrault has directed members of his government to immediately take steps to dissolve a far-right extremist group believed to have neo-Nazi ties and linked to the beating death of 18-year-old gay rights activist Clement Meric, who died in Paris on June 5. more: bit.ly/12n8STH

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Fifth Third Bank reaches out Charlotte LGBT Business Resource Group wants to give back by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com

(left to right) Fifth Third Mortgage Loan Officer Dwight Crawford, Time Out Youth Executive Director Rodney Tucker, Fifth Third North Carolina CFO Chris Carmichael and LGBT Business Resource Group Vice President Brian Wolfe and President Kevin Patch.

CHARLOTTE — LGBT and straight ally employees and officers of Fifth Third Bank say they are committed to giving back to the local LGBT community. Several bank staffers, including North Carolina Affiliate CFO Chris Carmichael gathered at Time Out Youth on June 6 as they launched their efforts to support the organization and other LGBT community groups. Brian Wolfe, vice president of the North Carolina affiliate’s LGBT Business Resource Group, credited Carmichael’s and other top officers’ top-down support of the new efforts. “This is why we started our business resource group and are reaching out to the community,” Wolfe told his fellow employees and Time Out Youth staff. “Fifth Third is going to be here backing this effort for a long time to come.” Dwight Crawford, a Fifth Third mortgage loan officer, won the bank’s 2012 Star Award for Community Involvement. With the award, came a $1,000 prize. He opted to donate it to Time Out Youth. “There was no question in my mind what needs do be done with this money,” Crawford said. “You all do great work.” Fifth Third Bank’s Carolinas affiliate is among the last state affiliates to launch an LGBT employee group, said Wolfe. It started about two months ago. He said the bank plans to financially support a variety of local LGBT community groups and offer other support, such as volunteer hours. : :

Errata Scholarship winners

A version of our story on Equality Winston-Salem scholarship winners (goqnotes. com/23292/) in our June 7-20, 2013, print edition inadvertently excluded information about award recipient Melissa Black. We regret the error and have printed below what should have been included in the story: “Melissa Black, from Carver High School, is a strong advocate for LGBTQ rights. She established the first gay/straight alliance (GSA) at her high school. She will attend Forsyth Technical Community College.”

Pride Winston-Salem

A version of our story on upcoming Pride events (goqnotes.com/23271/)in our June 7-20, 2013, print edition included incorrect information for Pride Winston-Salem’s festival and parade times. These times have yet to be determined by organizers and will be announced at a later date. We regret the error.

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Wine & Dine: The Inaugural Qu Readers dish on their favorite Charlotte eateries Chima Brazilian Steakhouse 139 S. Tryon St. As soon as you walk through the door you get hit with the clean lines and contemporary look of a fine restaurant. The service is impeccable with a high level of excellence you find in restaurants where customer satisfaction is priority one. The food is delicious, starting with a very eclectic buffet that features fine cuisine, not the usual fair found at those chain buffets. Brazilian ambiance ensues as men dressed in traditional gauchos serve you delectable cuts of prime meat! Full bar, great food and friendly staff highly recommend. — David Avalos Copán Restaurant 3607 N Sharon Amity Rd. The best Latino restaurant I’ve tried! They serve breakfast, lunch and dinner, and offer dishes of various origins, including Mexican, Honduran, Salvadoran and Nicaraguan. The space itself is pristinely clean and pleasantly decorated, with a soft pastel color scheme and shiny wooden tables with comfortable seats. My first server didn’t speak English, but they soon found a bilingual waitress to help us. This tells me that they cater to a mostly Latino customer base. As a result, their food is authentic and delectable! The menu is huge with about a million options, including the regular quesadillas, tacos, and burritos, but also offering various platters and other options. Each menu option had a color photograph to go with it, which really helped with the selection process. Some of what I liked: The “tamales de elote frito,” which were served piping hot straight from the kitchen. This was a pastry of sweet, soft corn with a natural texture, served with a chilled, watered-down sour cream. This rendered a perfect combination of sweetness and heat with a hint of cool sourness. My favorite entrée was the Honduran platter, a large plate filled with grilled steak, fried pork skins, fried yucca, pico de gallo, and an empanada. The steak was magnificent — honestly the best steak I’ve ever had. It was grilled well and seasoned to perfection, juicy, salty and savory. — Maria Dominguez

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Dish 1220 Thomas Ave. Always a pleasure to have dinner with the gang. Rarely do I hear a complaint from anyone. We average 35 to 45 guys and they handle us with ease. My favorites: Chicken Dumplings, Deviled Eggs — shoot, everything I have ever eaten at Dish is great, southern food at its best! — Tor Froland/Charlotte Bear Dinner

The Fig Tree 1601 E. 7th St. The Fig Tree is an eclectic little restaurant that has all the comfort of home. Literally a renovated house, the Fig Tree offers a cozy ambiance with a full bar and great wine list. The food is delicious and offers a wide variety of traditional meals and other for gamey entrees. The desserts are delicious and end the meal just right. Staff is courteous and friendly. — David Avalos

The Friendly Moose 4320 Potter Rd., Matthews An accepting Cheer’s is the best way to describe The Moose. Owned and managed by two gay couples, The Moose has managed to create in Union County what I thought we might never see. The menu is incredible. I’ve not yet had a meal I have not thoroughly enjoyed. This survey forced me to decide to rate a restaurant or bar. Pick, they offer both! The menu is available in either. Food, dessert and drink specials nightly. Karaoke on most Friday and Saturday nights. Stop in once and you’re family for life. — Candi Bowen WOW Gay-owned and operated in Matthews! I have been two times. Both times the food was great. First was with the Charlotte Bear Dinner group with 30 guys. A few problems because of our group size, but overall great food and a great time. I had prime the first time and it was tender and delish! Second time, I had some chicken dish that was delish, but I can’t remember what it was called! — Tor Froland/Charlotte Bear Dinner Veit Thai Noodle House 8314 Pineville-Matthews Rd., #901 Great real Thai food at reasonable prices. I love going to eat here, but wish it was closer to my university location. But, when I’m in the area, I always stop in and they always remember me. Great food; drunken noodles with chicken, not spicy, is my favorite. — Tor Froland/Charlotte Bear Dinner

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ueen City Restaurant Guide Other top-picks Readers weighed in on several other of their top picks around Charlotte, including these favorites below. Lang Van Vietnamese 3019 Shamrock Dr. Popular with a diversity of Charlotteans, Lang Van offers some of the best and most original Vietnamese dining around.

Hartigan’s Irish Pub 601 S. Cedar St. One of Charlotte’s most unique LGBT establishments, Hartigan’s offers a laid-back, welcoming environment for quick and delicious meals for those diners who want to throw in a bit of nightlife with their evening out. The menu has a variety of choices, but best of all are the tater tots! Yes! Tater tots! In a world full of french fries, it’s nice to have a place serving that favorite childhood side item! The restaurant often hosts a variety of events throughout the week, including karaoke and trivia nights. So, if you’re in the mood for some good bar food, good music, good friends and a great night out in a comfortable, friendly and gay-owned environment, you can’t miss Hartigan’s! — Matt Comer

elcome to the inaugural edition of qnotes’ Queen City Restaurant Guide. With the help of our readers, qnotes staff chose some of the hippest and favorite eateries in the Charlotte area to feature this issue. The featured restaurants offer unique tastes and styles and comfortable, affirming environments for LGBT diners. Some, too, are LGBT-owned and operated. Charlotte is blessed with a plethora of locally-owned dining establishments. Our restaurant guide is, by no means, a complete representation of all the great options Charlotteans have for great nights and evenings out with family and friends. Use our guide here as your starting point for exploring the Queen City’s delectable dining options. Bon appétit!

Lupie’s Cafe 2718 Monroe Rd., Charlotte 101 Old Statesville Rd., Huntersville If you’re in the mood for good, filling homecooked meals, Lupie’s has got you covered. Her menu is just like your mama’s southern kitchen, complete with the best meatloaf and chicken-n-dumplins around. Lupie’s also serves her iconic quiche and several varieties of chili. Those who choose to skip the meat have plenty of options, too, like vegetable platters, a vegetarian burger and vegetarian chili. With locations in Charlotte and Huntersville, Lupie’s offers laid-back, simple and affordable dining perfect for a simple evening out with family or friends. — Matt Comer

Zen Fusion 1716 Kenilworth Ave. This is an amazing restaurant and bar. The menu contains Asian as well as Spanish dishes and they are all delicious and big enough to share. In the mood for Sushi, Paella, Salmon or Chilean Sea Bass? You can get them all at this restaurant and they will all be delicious! The space also has a great bar that makes a mean cocktail. Try the “Blackout.” It is refreshing and light. The customer service is great and the desserts are limited but good. The best part? You can have a really great dining experience in Dilworth without breaking the budget. — Darrell & Glen Goldson-Materi

Mert’s Heart & Soul 214 N. College St. Down-home, Cajun-inspired southern cooking in the most creative, inspiring dining room you’ve ever seen. 300 East 300 East Blvd. A Dilworth icon for 25 years, with one of the most happening weekend brunches around. Carpe Diem 1535 Elizabeth Ave. Fine dining, local products and a style combine for a classic evening in Elizabeth. Common Market 2007 Commonwealth Ave. 1515 S. Tryon St. Part convenience store, part deli and part bar, Common Market’s two locations, including its original, iconic Plaza Midwood location, offer the best opportunities for hanging out with friends. Flying Biscuit 4241 Park Rd. 7930-A Rea Rd. This iconic restaurant chain offers some of the best new creations and twists on your favorite southern classics.

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Playing the Field Match-ups from across the Carolinas: Tournaments’ net wins, losses by Jon Hoppel :: qnotes contributor

First and foremost, I’d like to say congratuFla. Led by Charlotte’s own Shawn Carlton, lations to Jason Collins and Robbie Rodgers on who made several athletic defensive plays becoming the first openly gay active athletes at short stop and went 3-4 at the plate, the in the NBA and MLS, respectively. Collins is a Genesis were able to defeat the METZ 16-10. 7 ft., 255 lbs. graduate of Stanford University The most competitive this year was C and has played in the NBA for 12 years with 6 Division with 20 teams ranging from California, different teams. His twin Texas, Alabama, brother, Jarron Collins, Tennessee, who came out in supNorth Carolina, port of his brother, also Virginia and played in the NBA. Robbie Florida. Making Rodgers returns to the a surprising run MLS this year after a brief into the top three retirement on the heels of was the Carolina his coming out announceThunder out of ment in February on his Raleigh, N.C., blog. The former USA who finished national team member third this year, resumes his career with just edging out the LA Galaxy this season, the Knoxville taking the starting left outCyclones who side midfielder position, annually comvacated by the retirement pete for the title. of David Beckham. In the final, the Division C champs the Atlanta Menace. Also, Brittney Griner, Atlanta Menace Photo Credit: Katina Lear arguably women’s faced off against basketball’s best player, the Orlando and Megan Rapinoe, a starter on the women’s Fury. Buoyed by the home crowd and the win USA national soccer team, both announced by fellow Atlanta team, the Genesis, in the B to the public that they are lesbians, giving the Championship, The Menace rolled through the community two more role models to look to for final convincingly, winning 13-3. inspiration. Atlanta looked to make it a clean sweep in These athletes’courage and bravery should all divisions this year, but in the D division they not be underestimated or taken for granted. were denied when the Atlanta Aggression lost Hopefully, one day soon, they will be joined by to the Knoxville Cyclones in the third place other fellow athletes in theirs, and other sports, game. The LA Thunder Bolts then took on and sexual orientation will become less of a the Dallas Blue Devils in the championship divisive issue in American culture. game. This was the first time competing at this Now, on to the scores! tournament for both teams, so no one knew quite what to expect. But, both teams played Softball inspired softball and kept the game close until The Big Peach Softball Tournament in the very end, when the Thunder Bolts were Atlanta, Ga., took place over Memorial Day able to win the game on a walk off single to weekend and was one of the most competiright field in the bottom of the 7th. tive fields the event has ever amassed. Annual The next softball tournament in the World Series competitors filled out most of the Southeast is in Nashville, Tenn., July 6th-7th brackets, with teams coming from as far away at the MNSA Classic followed by the KTown as Los Angeles. Shootout in Knoxville, Tenn., July 27th. In the B Division, the Knoxville Cyclones, fresh off a tournament championship in Las Rugby Vegas a month ago, were upset in the semis Memorial Day also saw the Charlotte Royals by the eventual champions, the Atlanta travel up north to Chicago for their biennial Genesis. In the final, Genesis met up against the South Florida METZ out of Ft. Lauderdale, see Playing the Field on 20

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scouting organization in their local community. Whatever the reason, be it the local leadership, national policies, curriculum issues, gender separation, there should be more than one option for children and parents when it comes to scouting. Navigators USA is here to teach many of the same skills and values of traditional scouting while emphasizing diversity, inclusion, and group problem solving,” she said. Last year they learned campfire essentials, knot tying, first aid training and more. They also participated in a ropes course, camp out, rock climbing, creek clean up, hiking, volunteer opportunities, biking, boating and whitewater rafting. info: navigatorsusa.org. trianglenavigators@gmail.com. — L.M.

GCN unveils new site

RALEIGH — The Gay Christian Network (GCN) has announced that its long-anticipated revamp of its website has now come to fruition. GCN organizers said that the new design “makes the website easier to navigate and more delightful to use.” Staff web developer Matthew Reynolds was the force behind the project. In other news, the network’s scheduled podcasts are now available on Wednesdays and can be listened to via iTunes subscription or XML feed. Past episodes can also be heard from a list of shows available for download on the site.

GCN provides a resource for gay Christians to network through its online community, conferences, support options and more. info: gaychristian.net. — L.M.

Western Collective stages play

ASHEVILLE — Different Stokes! Performing Arts Collective is presenting “Incongruence” through June 29, 7:30 p.m., at ACT/35below, 35 Walnut St. to benefit Blue Ridge Pride. Advance purchase of tickets is strongly recommended and are available online at eventbrite.com/event/6745416723?ref=ebtn. Singles are $15 plus fee and groups of eight or more are $12 each plus fee. info: differentstrokesavl.com. — L.M.

Org offers workplace workshops

ASHEVILLE — Just Us For All (JUFA) has announced that it is offering LGBTQIA workshops for businesses and non-profits. JUFA’s facilitators can give staffs a run down on the “LGBTQIA spectrum, definitions of identities, answer all questions and teach people how to advocate in the workplace,” JUFA’s leader Basil Soper said. A strong emphasis on trans identity will be part of the educational process. Businesses and non-profits can receive certification as an LGBTQIA-friendly business. Those names will be added to a public list available on the JUFA website and Facebook page. Stickers for placement in windows allow patrons and current and future employees know that equality is taken seriously. A sliding scale fee of $20-35 is currently being requested for businesses and nonprofits can obtain the training for free. JUFA was founded on Aug. 2, 2010, in response to bias-related incidents that occurred in the Montford community. info: justusforall.org. — L.M.

Website launched

ASHEVILLE — A new online resource for the Western North Carolina area has been launched. Organizers have pulled together information on organizations, gay-welcoming places of worship and a calendar into one. A full list of resources is available online, complete with a description and contact information. At the end of the year, any monies remaining after expenses, will be contributed to a different LGBT non-profit in the area. They are also resurrecting the Asheville gay newspaper, Community Connections, which was produced in the 1980s. The publication is an online-only magazine. It is currently in the development stage and will flesh out over the next few months. Site sponsorships and supporters are being sought. There is also a form that visitors can fill out to request information about the area prior to venturing there. Additionally, they have generated an iPhone app for those with Apple phones. info: gayashevillenc.com. — L.M.

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June 21 - July 4 Your emotions can overtake your better judgment when the Sun enters sensitive Cancer. Will you lead with your heart or your head? Whatever you do, be sure to pack a roadmap…and avoid low ceilings. GEMINI (05.22-06.21) If money has been tight, this may be the time to loosen up your purse strings and enjoy some of your gotten gains. Pink Twins can enjoy life to the utmost and get great satisfaction in knowing they don’t have to rely on anyone — they are paying their own way. But, don’t waste your money on foolish short term jollies. Invest it for a rainy day. And, no, it is not raining! CANCER (06.22-07.23) You may be making a rather interesting first impression. So, carefully prepare for your big entrance and make a big splash. Pink Crabs might consider a fashion update or some other way to enhance their appearance. This is also a good time to start new projects and plant seeds for your future success. It is a new beginning and a new you. So, nu? LEO (07.24-08.23) Vexing secrets that have been keeping you wary and uncertain are suddenly revealed to you. Despite the news, it will be a good thing because now you know exactly what you need to do to go forward. Proud Lions find that offering a helping hand to others will also help build your own good gay karma. You can never have enough of that. VIRGO (08.24-09.23) Friends want to get into your act. So, let them. Queer Virgins resolve to increase their popularity quota by getting more involved in group activities, by joining new clubs and organizations and reconnecting and bolstering their current circle of compadres. How many get-togethers can you attend in one week? Let’s see if you can set a personal record. LIBRA (09.24-10.23) Examine where you are in your career path and where you want to go. There are some proud Libras who are content to glide along on their charm and allow the fates to carry them to wherever, whenever. But, it might be good to grab an oar and steer your own ship for a while. Opportunities abound for savvy sailors who know the waters. Go overboard in retirement. SCORPIO (10.24-11.22) Travel is highlighted right now and why not? You have been itching to expand your horizons and learn a thing or two. So, don’t sit at home and think of what might be. Go out and see what is. Queer Scorps with a wicked sense of adventure can go so far afield and it can change their entire global outlook. Who knew all the great things you could do with a durian? SAGITTARIUS (11.23-12.22) Deep and sensual

relationships become even more intense. You become more emotional and possessive about them. Try not to let jealousy get in the way of any shared happiness. You are very sexy and demonstrative now and are not afraid to show your vulnerabilities. Choose wisely, gay Archer. Some vulnerabilities are best kept secret. CAPRICORN (12.23-01.20) Are you ready to cement relationships? Yes! But, you need to feel secure that a certain partnership is in it for the long term. For those pink Caps who are seeking their soulmate, this is the time to get out there and look. Not only are you open to all possibilities, you are also especially charismatic now. Blend this love potion and spray it liberally in the right direction. AQUARIUS (01.21-02.19) Work not only goes more smoothly, it might actually feel like fun! Well, maybe not fun, but certainly easier than usual. You get a helping hand when you need it and can find a sense of accomplishment as things get crossed off your “to do” list. But, all work and no play can make Aqueerians dull and listless. Be sure to exercise, eat right and get into plenty of mischief. PISCES (02.20-03.20) Guppies are inspired and full of great creative ideas. Showcase your talents, expand your artistic vision and build your personal masterpiece — whatever that might be. Dance, paint, ramp up the drama. Even throwing a great event can give you an outlet for your creative expression. You will have the party circuit sparking for weeks! ARIES (03.21-04.20) There is nothing more comfortable and comforting than to nuzzle with a certain you-know-who at home. In fact, proud Rams may become happily domesticated now. Before you pull in the welcome mat, consider expanding your hospitality to include some good pals or even some family members. Make your home a destination. But, be sure visitors have a round trip ticket. TAURUS (04.21-05.21) If you have something to say, you are bound to say it with passion. You are a storehouse of feelings and it all comes directly from your heart, queer Bull. That is why it is best to carefully think about what and how you want to sound before you actually say it. Life will have its emotional moments. Let the fireworks begin so we can enjoy the show. : : © 2013 Madam Lichtenstein, LLC. All Rights Reserved. Entertainment. info: Visit TheStarryEye.com for e-greetings, horoscopes and Pride jewelry. My book “HerScopes: A Guide To Astrology For Lesbians” from Simon & Schuster is available at bookstores and major booksites.

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Baby, I’m through cause life is too short for you Dearest Trinity, I’ve been going after this guy for over a year now. Even though he’s friendly and sweet, he still won’t date me. I know I’m not his type, but how can I get him to fall for me? Dream Chaser, Seattle, WA Dearest Dream Chaser, If there ain’t no lovin’ under the stars, then this affair is from Mars. If he’s not callin’ or writin’ anymore, then he ain’t worth fightin’ for. And, if he ain’t got dinner for two, then tell this man, “Baby, I’m through with you.”

‘Cause girl, life is too short to play a losing sport. This Romeo is making your life a yo-yo! So, sweetie, start movin on, ‘cause this drama is makin’ me yawn! Dear Trinity, You talk about religion and spirituality. I’m confused. Do you believe in God? Searching, Peoria, IL Dear Searching, You mean, do I believe in a higher consciousness that would obviously look like Patti Labelle or a big black woman who can belt out a tune? Would this God be forgiving, giving and accepting, granting all wishes just for the asking, judging no one and creating outrageous, over-the-top human beings to lead people into the light, singing “Somewhere Over the Rainbow?” Honey, I believe I do! (My cartoon shows you how I “sing” my take on the Gospel and faith.) Hello Trinity, I’m a very shy gay man and being shy gets in the way of meeting people. Help! Shy, Oklahoma City, OK Hello Shy, First, start by going out in a costume or some

form of drag, i.e., leather, military or police officer. Hiding behind a uniform works wonders, not suggesting that all uniformed gay men are shy! Second, start approaching easy prey like people you’re not intimidated by. Third, when you’re out socially, have a drink of alcohol, it helps! And, lastly, there’s a shyness drug called Paxtin. Ask your doctor. It’s a drug, so be careful. Shyness never completely goes away, but, pumpkin, taking control of your life is definitely a great feeling! Hey Trinity, I was dating this woman for two months when she suddenly stopped being interested. I’ve called and sent gifts, but nothing. Now she says, “She’s being stalked by me and if it doesn’t stop, she’ll call the police.” What should I do? Would Be Stalker, Harrisburg, PA Hey Would Be Stalker, When someone says, “You’re stalking me,” a huge siren should go off in your head, before a police siren goes off in your front yard. Whatever she feels is the way she feels. So, darling, stop right now and let her go! And, if you’re confused, heres: Trinity’s Suggestive Tips For Knowing If You’re Obsessing 1. Even though months have passed since he dumped you, you still park outside his apartment, late at night, waiting to see him.

2. You turn down yet another dinner invitation just to spend your only night off on Facebook reading his posts. 3. Because of your religious devotion for him, your friends, relatives and ex-lovers have all disowned you, but you still feel very loved. 4. You constantly badger her friends with questions as to her well-being, her whereabouts and her favorite places to go! 5. After she got a restraining order, you still spend lunch breaks sitting 501 feet near her office and you don’t even get lunch breaks. 6. Excessive/compulsive patronizing supermarkets, restaurants, gas stations and any place she may suddenly appear. 7. You hire a detective to find out all of his addresses, phone numbers and favorite hangouts. 8. You live 10 minutes from work, but take 50 minutes to get there because she lives 20 minutes in the other direction. 9. You’ve built an altar to him, complete with pictures and an old hairbrush stolen from his garbage. 10. Lastly, you’ve given up a high paying job just to take a minimum wage job because it’s nearer to her. info: With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend

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rugby tournament called Combustion 2013. Eight teams competed for two days in the cold, wet and windy conditions for the title. Charlotte was joined by the Madison (Wisconsin) Minotaurs, Chicago Dragons, Ottawa Wolves, Nashville Grizzlies, New England Valkyrie, DC Scandals and the Minneapolis Mayhem. The first day was comprised of round robin games, with each team playing three other teams. At the end, only Charlotte and New England had won all three of their seeding games, with the Valkyrie taking the number one seed on point differential. Leading the way in those first few games for the Royals were rookies Sam Behrend and Karl Wagner, both backline players, who scored multiple tries in Saturday’s games. As always, the Royals trademark defense was in full effect, not allowing any team to score more than one try against them. The second day, Charlotte was able to beat an undermanned Ottawa squad in a contest that was much more competitive than the previous day’s 28-5 win. From there, the Royals faced off against the Chicago Dragons in the semifinals. This was a rematch from the semifinals in Nashville just a month ago in which the Dragons edged Charlotte 10-7.This game was the best one of the tournament by far. Both teams were evenly matched, had become familiar with each other’s playing

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styles and knew what it was going to take to win…100 percent effort. Chicago took a 7-0 lead into the half and then quickly scored to start the second half. Charlotte fought hard, but was stymied at the goal line several times by the Dragon stout defense. With five minutes left in the game, the Royals were finally able to score and had clearly gained the momentum against the exhausted-looking Chicago team. But, there just was not enough time left to even the match, and Charlotte lost to the eventual champions (Chicago over New England) 14-7. They didn’t have long to sulk about the loss, however, because immediately after the game, Charlotte played Minneapolis for third place. Given that this was the 7th game for both teams in two days, the rugby played was not the prettiest to watch, but the effort and desire was clear to onlookers. Each team scored on long runs from their inside centers, resulting in the game being tied 7-7 at the end of regulation. To decide the winner, the referee called for a penalty shootout, with three kickers from each team, taking a 30-meter kick up and through the uprights, much like in soccer. This was a huge advantage for the Royals who have three kickers on their roster, while Minneapolis only had one on theirs. Danny Wadsworth sealed the win for the Royals on the third and final kick to win another third

Devin Baez (Ieft) with Arthur Milne looking on, battles against the Chicago Dragons. Photo Credit: Chris Perardi

place victory this season. Earning man of the tournament for Charlotte was Coty Webb, whose phenomenal work in the scrums, rucks and lineouts, along with his outstanding and aggressive tackling, did not go unnoticed by the team, fans and other players. This puts a cap on the Royals season, which by all accounts was a great success. Two

third-place finishes in two major tournaments puts Charlotte on the map as one of the best teams in the Southeast. Next season, the team will look to improve even more, and hopefully breakthrough with championship soon. For information on when the next season will begin or how to join, go to their webpage at charlotteroyals.org. : :

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CHARLOTTE â&#x20AC;&#x201D; Charlotte Pride will host the first-ever Canine Couture fundraising event on June 29, 2-5 p.m., at Triple C Brewing Company, 2900 Griffith St., who will sell craft beers, along with food truck vendors â&#x20AC;&#x153;slinging some grub,â&#x20AC;? organizers said. Categories for the contest include: Best Butch; Best Wiener, or Wiener Substitute; Best Fem; Best Hair; Best Dressed; Best Tail; Mr./Mrs. Congeniality; Best Swagger; Best Magnet; and Best in Show. The Animal Adoption League, American Pit Pull Rescue and the Humane Society of Charlotte will be on hand with dogs available for adoption. Pet retailers will showcase their wares, as well as The Dog Salon with their mobile pet grooming van.

Only pets that are not aggressive and are well-socialized can enter. A waiver must be signed. Cover is $5/person. Pet contest entry is $15. A special Charlotte Pride kick-off event will also be held that evening. The Bar at 316, 316 Rensselaer Ave., will host â&#x20AC;&#x153;A Night in the Village,â&#x20AC;? June 29, 9 p.m., commemorating the June 28, 1969, Stonewall Riots and jumpstarting this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Charlotte Pride festivities. The events will help usher in this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Charlotte Pride Festival and Parade, to be held in Uptown on Aug. 24-25. Those interested in sponsoring or attending the Charlotte Pride Festival and Parade as a vendor or parade participant can find more information online or via email to Richard Grimstad at richard@charlottepride.org. Volunteers for the two-day festival

are also in demand. Especially needed are volunteers for community outreach and for the parade. Email media@charlottepride.org or parade@charlottepride.org for more information on these volunteer positions. Sponsors and contributors are always welcome. info: charlottepride.org.

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Regional AIDS Interfaith Network 501 N. Tryon St. 4th Floor Charlotte, NC 28237 704-372-7246 carolinarain.org Rosedale Infectious Disease 103 Commerce Centre Dr. Suite 103 Huntersville, NC 28078 704-948-8582 rosedaleid.com Social & Support Carolina Bear Lodge carolinabears.com

Carolina Transgender Society carolinatransgender society.com Charlotte Bears charlottebears.com Charlotte Black Gay Pride charlotteblackgay pride.com

Charlotte Business Guild 704-565-5075 charlottebusinessguild.org Charlotte Gender Alliance charlottegenderalliance.info Charlotte Tradesmen charlottetradesmen.org Chi Psi Omega Fraternity

chipsiomegafraternity.org PFLAG Charlotte pflagcharlotte.org Prime Timers primetimersww.org/ charlotte/ TransFaith In Color Conference transfaithincolor.org

Stonewall Remembered June 29 • Charlotte Stonewall Celebration The LGBT Community Center of Charlotte hosts its annual celebration of the Stonewall Riots. Music, food and entertainment. Vendor spaces available. For more information or to book, email programs@ gaycharlotte.com. LGBT Community Center of Charlotte, 2508 N. Davidson St. Noon-8 p.m. gaycharlotte.com.

June 29 • Charlotte A Night in the Village Charlotte Pride and The Bar at 316 join forces to celebrate the anniversary of the Stonewall Riots. Commemorate the community’s past, present and future, with a Stonewall “birthday” cake, good music, raffles and friends! The Bar at 316, 316 Rensselaer Ave. 9 p.m. charlottepride.org.

The Stonewall Inn in October 1969. Photo by Diana Davies/New York Public Library.

June 21 • Charlotte Pride Beach Party The Scorpio hosts a beach-themed fundraiser for Charlotte Pride. Swimwear contest and performances by Miss Charlotte Pride titleholders. The Scorpio, 2301 Freedom Dr. 10 p.m. charlottepride.org. June 22 • Salisbury Salisbury Pride Downtown Salisbury, 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Fisher & Lee Sts. After party at Cooper’s-The Gathering Place. salisburypride.com.

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nist Ethan Uslan providing the soundtrack to Charlie Chaplin’s classic, “The Kid.” Petra’s, 1919 Commonwealth Ave.

7100 Statesville Rd. 9-5 p.m. each day. $5/entry. Free parking. icashows.com.

June 28 • Charlotte June Barn Dance Southern Country Charlotte hosts its monthly barn dance. Hartigan’s Irish Pub, 601 S. Cedar St. 9 p.m.-1 a.m. Free/SCC members. $5/general cover. southerncountrycharlotte.com.

July 13 • Charlotte Pride Splash Day Charlotte Pride presents its fourth annual Pride Splash Day at the U.S. National Whitewater Center. Enjoy good food, good drinks and phenomenal outdoors activities and challenges with friends and fellow community members. Purchase event and attraction tickets using Charlotte Pride’s group code and a portion of proceeds will benefit this year’s Charlotte Pride Festival and Parade. U.S. National Whitewater Center, 5000 Whitewater Center Pkwy. For more information and ticket purchases, visit charlottepride.org/splashday/.

June 27 • Charlotte Dr. Henry Louis Gates, Jr. The Harvey B. Gantt Center welcomes Dr. Henry Louis Gates, Jr., as its inaugural speaker for the 2013 Gantt Symposium. Dr. Gates will speak on “Finding Your Roots,” a lively discussion about individual lineage and American history. Following the symposium, guests are invited to attend a special opening preview of “The Kinsey Collection: Shared Treasures of Bernard and Shirley Kinsey” during a reception. Knight Theatre, 430 S. Tryon St. 6:30-8 p.m. $10-$50. 704-547-3700. ganttcenter.org.

July 15-21 • Charlotte Charlotte Black Gay Pride Celebrate with Charlotte Black Gay Pride and a week-long series of special events. Stay tuned for our July 5 print edition for more information on this year’s Charlotte Black Gay Pride. For more information, visit cbgp.org.

June 23 • Raleigh ‘Torn’ author speaks Justin Lee, executive director of the Raleighbased Gay Christian Network, will speak about his new book, “Torn: Rescuing the Gospel from the Gays vs. Christians Debate.” LGBT Center of Raleigh, 411 Hillsborough St. 4-5:30 p.m. lgbtcenterofraleigh.com. June 24 • Durham Author reading The Durham County Library celebrates LGBT Pride Month with author LaToya Hankins who will read from her book, “SBF Seeking.” For more information, see News Notes on page 6. Durham County Library, 300 Roxboro St. 7 p.m. Free. June 26 • Raleigh Polyamory discussion Triangle Polyamory hosts a monthly discussion group, providing a safe space to discuss topics about polyamory and ethical nonmonogamy. Held the last Wednesday of each month. LGBT Center of Raleigh, 411 Hillsborough St. 8 p.m. lgbtcenterofraleigh.com. June 27 • Charlotte Charlie Chaplin’s ‘The Kid’ Petra’s presents its Silent Movie Night with award-winning pia-

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June 29 • Charlotte Canine Couture Charlotte Pride hosts its first-ever Canine Couture, featuring good drinks, good food and a pet contest for your furry little friend! Triple C Brewing Company, 2900 Griffith St. 2-5 p.m. $5/ cover. $15/pet contest entry. charlottepride.org/canine/. June 29 • Charlotte Ministering Outside the Pulpit The Regional AIDS Interfaith Network hosts its third annual pastoral symposium on the importance of pastoral care to those infected and affected by HIV/AIDS. For more information, see News Notes page 6. CN Jenkins Presbyterian Church, 1421 Statesville Ave. 5:30 p.m. Free. carolinarain.org. June 29-30 • Charlotte NoDa Summer Musicfest The 2nd Annual NoDa Summer Musicfest is being hosted once again in NoDa with Charlotte’s best collection of galleries and performance venues and some of the funkiest full service restaurants. The 2012 Summer Musicfest attracted more than 900 unique visitors to the NoDa district and featured performances by more than 40 artists and bands crossing all genres of music! Featured performers include Jonas Sees in Color and more. Hosted at The Chop Shop, 399 E. 35th St and Roux at Bordeaux, 3306-A N. Davidson St. nodasummermusicfest.com. July 4-7 • Charlotte Metrolina Expo Enjoy four full days of shopping bliss at the Metrolina Expo Marketplace, featuring collectibles and antiques, home decor, art, jewelry, crafts and more. Metrolina Tradeshow Expo Center,

July 20 • Charlotte Center Bingo The LGBT Community Center of Charlotte hosts its monthly bingo. July theme and guest bingo diva yet to be announced. 2508 N. Davidson St. 7-10 p.m. gaycharlotte.com. July 25- 28 • Durham Triangle Black Pride Shades of Pride presents the fourth annual Triangle Black Pride. Stay tuned for our July 5 print edition for more information and visit shadesofpride.org. July 27 • Charlotte Campus Pride Pool Party Come out and support Campus Pride, the Charlotte-based national non-profit serving LGBT college students, at a special pool party featuring 2012 Athlete of the Year Jack Mackenroth, all-American swimmer, HIV activist, celebrity fitness model and “Project Runway” fashion designer. Home of Greg Jenkins and Shawn Rawleigh, 447 Wonderwood Dr. 1:30-4 p.m. Minimum $75 donation requested. Drinks & hors d’oeuvres. Pool attire. For more information, visit campuspride.org.

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Be sure to mark the dates for these exciting upcoming events: July 29-Aug. 4: Charleston Pride, charlestonpridefestival.org. Aug. 24-25: Charlotte Pride, charlottepride.org. Sept. 14: Triad Pride, triadpride.org. Sept. 14: Upstate SC Pride, upstatepridesc.org.

You can now submit your event to a special comprehensive community calendar presented by qnotes, the LGBT Community Center of Charlotte and Visit Gay Charlotte. Submit your event at goqnotes.com/eventsubmit/ and get a three-for-one entry. All Charlotte-area events will appear on each of the three calendars at qnotes (goqnotes.com), the LGBT Center (gaycharlotte.com) and Visit Gay Charlotte (visitgaycharlotte.com).

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