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In this special issue, qnotes takes an in-depth look at our hometown as we roll out our “InFocus: Charlotte” edition taking a indepth look at the local diversity and flavor that makes our city special and beautiful. Additionally, we’ve got community resource listings including everything from social and support groups to nightlife and faith congregations. Thanks to the generous support of the LGBT Community Center of Charlotte, we are able to bring you these exciting features on our Queen City, kindly and sweetly bundled together for you in one nice package. One of these features is a slight follow-up on a story we published in March 2010 ahead of that year’s national census. At the time, we delved into numbers from the census 10 years prior, finding that Charlotte’s 28205 ZIP code had the highest number of same-sex couples than any other ZIP code across the state. Starting in 2000, the U.S. Census Bureau began tracking the number of households with unmarried same-sex partners. That same data was tracked in 2010 and provides
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I’m appalled that I’d never heard of Gad Beck. Not only was he an important figure in LGBT history, he was a hoot. Until his recent death just shy of his 89th birthday, Beck was the last known gay Jewish survivor of the Holocaust. Also a resistance fighter, Beck’s experiences during World War II were such that he quipped, “Only Steven Spielberg can film my life — forgive me, forgive me.” He’s forgiven. Because he’s right. Consider his attempt to rescue his Jewish boyfriend. According to Wikipedia, Beck donned a Hitler Youth uniform and entered a deportation center to free Manfred Lewin. Thereby setting a ridiculously high bar for standing by your man.
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a glimpse into the geography of LGBT life in the U.S. and locally. Ten years after the 2000 census, East Charlotte still leads the pack, but other parts of the city — portions of the South Blvd. corridor, the Steele Creek area and the Providence/ Ballantyne area — also have high concentrations of same-sex couple households, as well. The concentrations of same-sex households in Charlotte take on an interesting geographic shape. Stretching from East Charlotte up to NoDa, through Uptown and a slight move into West Charlotte, the distribution of gay families then spreads southward, moving down and out along South Blvd. and I-485. Other cities have one “gayborhood.” Some have two. Charlotte has many. NoDa, PlazaMidwood and other parts of East Charlotte might come out on top, but other popular areas of the city are nipping at their heels. It all goes to show, at least in part, that gay folks aren’t necessarily immune to changes in neighborhood demographics and dynamics. Ten years ago, East Charlotte still had some of its unique
Beck asked the commanding officer to release Lewin for use in a construction project and he must’ve been convincing, because the officer agreed. When they got outside, though, Lewin said, “Gad, I can’t go with you. My family needs me. If I abandon them now, I could never be free.” The two parted, not saying goodbye. “In those seconds, watching him go, I grew up,” recalled Beck. If you’re weepy already, don’t read the next sentence. Lewin and his whole family perished at Auschwitz. I warned you. Beck’s father was Jewish and his mother converted to Judaism. Under the Nazi racial laws, Beck was a half-breed and he and his
swagger left. The snapshot in time that was the 2000 census didn’t take into account the sweeping changes the Eastside would experience in the short few years to follow. No doubt, gay folk were not immune to the changes, finding themselves culling new and more areas of the city “home.” But the census numbers don’t necessarily tell the whole story. In neither the census nor their American Community Survey does the U.S. Census Bureau include demographic questions on sexual orientation or gender identity. Currently, there’s no way to track how many LGBT people actually live in the U.S. or track the places and neighborhoods they call home. It’s an unfortunate reality that leaves people like me and a whole slew of friends uncounted when demographers, media and community members start talking about gayborhoods and gay demographics. Take, for instance, my own neighborhood. Windsor Park sits adjacent to Country Club Heights, a neighborhood with one of the highest concentrations of same-sex couples in the city. Windsor Park itself has a fairly large number of same-sex couples. But, the current counting scheme will never do neighborhoods like mine justice. They do not count me or at least a dozen other single LGBT people whom I personally know live there. The U.S. government’s decision not to count all self-identified LGBT people is an injustice and disservice. The census bu-
reau’s current policies must be changed and groups like the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force and their “Queer the Census” initiative (queerthecensus.org) are working to create a more LGBT-inclusive count of American citizens and residents. “Without data that identifies the LGBT community, LGBT people are invisible in the eyes of our government,” the national group says. I agree. Just this past March, advocates testified before a House subcommittee on the importance of adding LGBT demographic questions to the U.S. Census and its annual community surveys. By 2013, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services will begin asking about sexual orientation on its National Health Interview Survey. What’s good for one government agency should be good enough for another, but researchers like the Williams Institute’s Gary Gates say the census bureau likely won’t consider real changes until 2017. By the time our next decennial census rolls around, odds are several more states will have legalized marriage for same-sex couples. It might even be possible that marriage equality is the law of the land for all Americans. And, if it all should come to pass, there’s no reason why the government can’t count both married and unmarried queer folk. It’s the right thing to do and the only way LGBT people will ever truly be visible. Simply put, unless we are counted, we don’t really count. : :
father landed in a holding compound on the Rosenstrasse in Berlin. He was released after the non-Jewish wives of inmates protested in the street. They set a pretty high bar, too. Beck learned from those women. He said, reported The Jerusalem Post, “The Rosenstrasse event made one thing absolutely clear to me: I won’t wait until we get deported.” He joined a resistance youth group and helped Jews in Berlin survive. Beck noted that “as a homosexual, I was able to turn to my trusted non-Jewish, homosexual acquaintances to help supply food and hiding places.” It helps to have friends in homo places. A Jewish spy working for the Gestapo betrayed Beck shortly before the war ended and he was held at a Jewish transit camp. After the war, he assisted Jews emigrating to Palestine and he himself lived in Israel from 1947 until 1979, when he returned to Germany. I don’t know why he returned. But at his death, he was survived by Julius Laufer, his partner of 35 years, which means the two men got together in 1977, two years before Beck went back to Europe. It would be gratifying to
think he returned to Germany for love, considering he left it for the opposite reason. But, if he returned just because he missed the beer, that’s okay, too. As the director of the Jewish Adult Education Center in Berlin, Beck organized gatherings of gay singles at the center. “He was open, sweet and would speak with everybody,” said the editor of Berlin’s Jewish magazine, who also recalled Beck’s fondness for waving the Israeli flag at Berlin’s annual Pride parade. He sounds like the kind of guy you’d want to have at a party. If he could keep the flagwaving to a minimum. Beck’s heart-centeredness combined with a notable wit. On a German talk show, he said, “The Americans in New York called me a great hero. I said no…I’m really a little hero.” Of his life as a homosexual Jew, Beck averred, “God doesn’t punish for a life of love.” He wasn’t the first to say that and he won’t be the last, but it’s tough to imagine the line suiting anyone better. : :
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The first time I stood outside of an abortion clinic was in the summer of 2010. Activists like me were spending the week defending a clinic in Charlotte that had been targeted for a national event by a rowdy anti-choice group called Operation Save America (OSA). The first time I saw these protestors harass people driving into the clinic and women as they walked to the door, it was completely overwhelming. After spending the week with other amazing people countering hate with supportive signs, I knew that I would always want to defend the rights of women seeking abortions and those that work to help them. Two years later, we are again forced to defend the right to abortion access in Charlotte. OSA has announced its second mass protest in Charlotte this July 21-28, calling the event “The King is Coming to the Queen City.” We anticipate that, like last time, OSA will call on masses of protestors to harass women and clinic staff that week. (Their website states that this event is also partly “in preparation for the DNC,” so we expect to be dealing with the similar clinic harassment when the Democratic National Convention meets in Charlotte this Sept. 4-6.) OSA is led by Flip Benham, who was convicted of criminal stalking of abortion providers in November 2010. These are not just “nice church folk” with religious convictions; these people use violent and intrusive behavior (like WANTED posters) to intimidate abortion providers, staff, and patients.
We are hoping to call on our amazing student and community activists in the Charlotte area and beyond to come out between July 21-July 28th and help defend these clinics. We need our community to show their support by maintaining a physical presence and holding pro-choice signs outside of the clinic with us during that week. The University of North Carolina- Charlotte Feminist Union (a Feminist Majority Foundation affiliate) has been defending these clinics for a while, and we need you to join them! Please spread the word that we are calling for all pro-choice folk to help defend Charlotte clinics. Come one day out of the week or the whole week; whatever you can do to help! We will also be calling on people to do other things like outreach and legal observation. We have principles that you will be briefed on and expected to adhere to (like non-violence and non-engagement) if you decide to come out. If you are interested, have questions, or want more information, please email us at charlotteclinicdefenders@gmail.com. We want to show the OSA and the city of Charlotte that we will stand up for women’s healthcare and their right to access abortion. Please join us to protect abortion access and show the community that we will not stand back and let our rights be taken away. See you in Charlotte! : : — This commentary originally published at feministcampus.org and is reprinted with permission.
About the cover Depictions and allusions to the City of Charlotte’s namesake appear all over the city. The city’s logo -— a crown — is inspired by her. Streets, schools and other places are named in her honor. At the airport, visitors are greeted by Queen Charlotte. And, as pictured on our front cover, Uptown workers, visitors and revelers see her at 5th and College Sts. Below is the text from the plaque which accompanies her: Queen Charlotte Walks in her Garden Graham Weathers, Sculptor, American, 1988 In 1761 Colonial Americans were fascinated by the royal wedding of England’s King George III to a 17 year-old German princess Charlotte Sophia of the Duchy of Mecklenburg-Strelitz. Setters here were rebellious toward the king and his agents, but named their town and county in her honor, in hopes of gaining royal favor. She was a small woman “easy, genteel, and agreeable,” who bore 15 children, played the harpsichord, learned botany, and took pleasure in Kew and Richmond Gardens. Her dogs, one named Presto, followed her on daily walks. Her appearance and informal apparel are modeled after portraits in English museums. King George III, plagued by recurring illness, called her “my physician, my friend.” She is remembered as a great benefactor of hospitals. Queen Charlotte was the grandmother of Queen Victoria. “She is full of sense and graciousness, mingled with delicacy of mind and liveliness of temper.” Fanny Burney, court attendant and novelist of the period. “A most agreeable countenance, vastly genteel, with an air, notwithstanding her being a little woman, truly majestic.” A noblewoman reports the queen’s coronation, 1761. — Queen Charlotte photos © Jimmie Cobb/JC Digital Photography Works
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Charlotte Pride fest seeks ‘peacekeepers’
CHARLOTTE — The LGBT Community Center’s annual Pride Charlotte Festival is currently seeking volunteers for its “Partners in Peace” service. The group works with Pride Charlotte to ensure minimal disruption from protesters and anti-LGBT groups. The center will host informational and orientation sessions every Wednesday and Friday evening in July, 6-8 p.m., at the center, 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11. The sessions include trainings to handle situations that might arise during the festival. The orientation lasts about 30 minutes and interested volunteers are encouraged to drop-in at any time during session hours. Contact Rebecca Payne at rrpayne1026@ gmail.com for more information or to schedule another orientation time if unable to make it to the Wednesday and Friday meetings. The Pride Charlotte Festival is slated for Saturday, Aug. 25 and Sunday, Aug. 26. For more information or volunteer opportunities, visit pridecharlotte.com. — M.C.
For more information, call 919-829-0342, ext. 112 or email kay@equalitync.org or visit equalitync.org. — L.M.
Triangle LGBT art show seeks participants
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DURHAM — The Durham Arts Place, 305 E. Chapel Hill St., has announced that it will hold a juried LGBT art show from Aug. 10Sept. 30 and are seeking pieces to include in the presentation. Theme is “Love/Hate, Private/Public, Inside/Outside, Gay/Straight” and will begin during the North Carolina Gay and Lesbian Film Festival run, as well as through the week of the North Carolina Pride Festival. Deadline is July 23. Artwork can be two or three dimensional and cannot exceed 36 inches in width and 60 inches in height. Dan Ellison, Lindsay Gordon and Jennie Carlisle, curators, will make the selections. For more information and to request an application, email entriesdurhamartsplace@ gmail.com or visit durhamartsplacelgbtq. wordpress.com. — L.M.
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Gala on the horizon
GREENSBORO — The Equality NC Foundation 2012 Equality Conference & Gala will be held on Nov. 17 in the Triad. The day begins with the conference at the University of North Carolina at Greensboro Elliott University Center and continues with the gala at the Empire Room, 203 S. Elm St. The signature event will be especially important in the wake of the passage of Amendment One in 2011. Organizers expect upwards of 500 attendees at each event. The foundation is currently seeking sponsors. Through this show of support, students are able to get subsidies to help with registration. “This year we will also extend special admission rates for those who qualify based on income,” said Kay Flaminio, director of development for Equality North Carolina. “The Equality Conference is designed to foster activism and leadership within the LGBT rights movement in North Carolina, and we keep admission fees as low as possible to encourage maximum attendance from every part of the LGBT community. Attendees start the day with our annual State of Equality Report, attend their choice of hands-on workshops covering a variety of topics, come together for lunch, learn more about our sponsors through their exhibits, and wind up the day with our keynote speaker,” she added. The gala is the foundation’s annual fundraiser. It also serves as a way to celebrate the work that the foundation does with supporters from across the state. Awards are presented for legislative leadership and for individual achievement. Originally called Equality Champion Awards, the named changed in 2011 and is now called the Bob Page Equality Champion Awards to honor the vision and leadership of Page, chairman and CEO of Replacements, Ltd., on behalf of LGBT North Carolinians.
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RALEIGH — The 32nd Annual Crape Myrtle Festival Grand Gala will be held on July 28, 7-11 p.m., at the Memorial Auditorium Lobby, Progress Energy Center, 2 E. South St. The evening will feature a silent auction, as well as heavy hors d’oeurvres. Crape Myrtle Festival is constantly seeking contributions to support the financial needs of local HIV/LGBT organizations. This year it has raised $50,000 with only about $3,000 in expenses. Ninety-four percent of donations received are awarded to designated recipients. Chairs are Kurt Hurelbrink and Dan Woodard. The court is comprised of Kevin Barker, Ryan Blackwell, Burton Buffaloe, Brad Deaton, Jill Donovan, Michael Evans, Andrew Farr, Paul Finger, Joshua Grice, T. L. Hall, Arthur Jordan, Steven Norris, Pink Persons, Gary Roundtree, Beren South, Coleman Temple, Melissa Williams, William “Rabbit” Wood and LiChun Young Tickets are $25, advance and $30, at the door. Students may attend for $20. Purchases may be obtained online at crapemyrtlefest.org and visit the website to learn more about sponsorship, pledge and volunteer opportunities. — L.M.
Carolina researcher seeks subjects
CHAPEL HILL — Laurie Phillips, a University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill Ph.D. student, is conducting research with those who participated in the It Gets Better Project. Any U.S.-based individual may participate. Video chat interviews will take place at a later date that is convenient to the study subject. A brief background survey which lasts less than five minutes will be used to assess candidates. Visit unc.qualtrics.com/SE/?SID=SV_ 6RuR15AxxqH2zKA to complete the survey.
Models strut their stuff for charity CHARLOTTE — BRIEF! A Fete for Fashion returns to the runway and the Queen City on Aug. 11 at Extravaganza Depot, 1610 N. Tryon St. Doors open at 7 p.m. Over the past two years, it has raised more than $50,000 for the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation (CFF). And, over 800 attendees watched models strut their stuff for charity. In his third year, BRIEF! will partner with the foundation and will add another beneficiary, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network (RAIN), a local HIV/AIDS non-profit. Dan Mauney, who created the event, was inspired to action in 2009 by Oliver, the son of a close friend. Oliver, age 2, was born with Cystic Fibrosis, a lifethreatening genetic disease. Mauney says, “We have created an incredible runway to educate and raise the awareness of CFF and RAIN while sending the area’s hottest male models down the catwalk.” They don underwear and swimwear from a host of top designers. Tickets are now available: VIP table of four, $600; VIP single, $125; general admission seated, $50; and general admission standing, $25. VIPs receive preferred seating, five drink tickets each, light appetizers and a free BRIEF! calendar. General admission attendees receive cash bar, free calendar while supplies last. Promoters expect a sell out, so secure a spot now. Sponsorships are also being sought. Presenting sponsors who contribute $5,000 will have their logo/name appear on all marketing materials for one year, receive 10 VIP tickets to the event, five drink tickets to each person, a free 2013 calendar and best placement of tables at the end of the runway. Gold sponsors ($2,500) receive a similar package, but only receive six VIP tickets and preferred placement on the floor. Silver sponsors ($1,000) get four VIP tickets. And, bronze sponsors receive two reserved tickets and three drink tickets to each person and a calendar. Email Mauney at danmauney@gmail. com or call him at 704-906-6531. For more information, to be a sponsor or to purchase tickets, visit briefafeteforfashion.org. — L.M. Photo Credit: Jon Mullen
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Group launches new site
RALEIGH — Reconciling United Methodists of North Carolina (RUM) has recently launched its new website. RUM is an affiliate of the Reconciling Ministries Network, based in Chicago, a national organization promoting fuller inclusion of LGBT members and people of color in the United Methodist Church. The organization meets to discuss issues and concerns at various conferences and worship services, shares personal stories, as well as provides support to the LGBT community, families, pastors, and congregations. On a national level, it is seeking applicants for two positions, regional organizers and a communications and technology coordinator. For job descriptions and instructions on how to apply, visit rmnetwork.org/jobs. They are also launching in the fall a new organization plan that will utilize process coaches to train local volunteers to shepherd a prospective reconciling communities through a Reconciling Methodist process. They will work directly with congregations, classes and campus ministries to offer support, encouragement and experience within the Reconciling community. Training for process coaches will be facilitated by regional organizers and the Institute for Welcoming Resources. Send a cover letter, resume and list of references by July 23 to careers@rmnetwork.org. For more information, visit rum-nc.org. — L.M.
Western ALFA presents gospel festival
HICKORY — AIDS Leadership Foothillsarea Alliance will hold its 1st Annual Joyful Noise Gospel Festival, United Voices with a Vision, on July 21 at 4 p.m. at First Presbyterian Church, 237 2nd St., N.W. Church choirs and gospel groups will perform music to lift voices, hand and hearts. Attendees are asked to donate at least two non-perishable food items at the door which will help to restock the agency’s food pantry. ALFA is a United Way Partner Agency serving Alexander, Allegahany, Ashe, Burke, Caldwell, Catawba, Lincoln, Watauga and Wilkes counties. For more information, visit alfainfo.org. — L.M.
Legal seminar slated
HENDERSONVILLE — A legal and financial seminar will be held on Aug. 30, 7-9 p.m., at MCC Sacred Journey, 135 Sugarloaf Rd., 2nd floor. Guest speakers will be Mary Hart, The Hart Law Group, and Amoreena Patrick, MetLife. It is presented in partnership between MCC Sacred Journey’s Board of Directors and Stella’s Place. Admission is free but seating is limited and is already filling up quickly. The informative session will offer attendees insight and professional expertise in the areas of estate planning, advanced healthcare directives, durable power of attorney and more. Questions specific to the LGBT community will be answered and addressed during the evening.
Refreshments will be served. For more information or to secure a spot, email stellasplace143@gmail.com. — L.M.
National/Global SLDN, OutServe plan to merge
NEW YORK, N.Y. — The boards of directors of Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN) and OutServe have announced plans to merge the two organizations by October 2012 with a new name and a newly configured board of directors led by a representative from each existing organization. In the intervening period, the boards and staff of both organizations will focus on unifying the two administratively, financially and organizationally. SLDN provides free and direct legal assistance to service members and veterans affected by the repealed “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” law and the prior regulatory ban on open service, as well as those currently serving. OutServe began as an underground network of LGBT service members connected via Facebook that now boasts more than 5,500 members worldwide. Just a few weeks after DADT repeal, OutServe hosted the first-ever conference of active duty LGBT service members. The merger is expected to be finalized at the next board meetings of the two groups, scheduled to take place Oct. 26-28 in Orlando, Fla. — D.S.
Episcopal Church votes for inclusion
INDIANAPOLIS, Ind. — At the Episcopal Church’s General Convention, held here earlier this month, attendees approved a new liturgy for blessing same-sex unions, two
proposals adding gender identity and expression to the Church’s nondiscrimination canons for ordained ministry and in the “life, worship, and governance of the Church,” and a resolution supporting legislation for equal immigration rights for same-sex couples. The votes were a long time in the making. Since the 1960s, many Episcopal clergy have provided private blessings to gay and lesbian couples, but the Church had no official practice. Following the 2009 General Convention, the Church said bishops may provide “generous pastoral response” to gay couples, especially in states that allow civil unions or gay marriages. The Church has been relatively silent on issues related to transgender clergy until this gathering. Despite the gains, progressives of faith say there is still more work to be done. For example, they point out that the Canons of the Church still define “marriage” as a union between a man and a woman. — D.S.
Pride in uniform
SAN DIEGO, Calif. — San Diego Pride officials say active duty service members have received approval from the Office of the Secretary of Defense and their commanding officers to march in the city’s America’s Pride Parade Military Contingent while wearing their uniforms. Veterans have long been allowed to wear their uniforms and now their active duty brothers and sisters will be able to march in uniform alongside them. In a videotaped message released in June, Defense Secretary Leon Panetta stated: “Before the repeal of ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’ you faithfully served your country with professionalism and courage. And just like your fellow
service members, you put your country before yourself. And now — after repeal, you can be proud of serving your country, and be proud of who you are when in uniform.” In 2011, San Diego made news by being the first city in the U.S. to have an active duty military contingent in a Pride Parade. A contingent of OutServe members at Tokyo Pride in April 2012. With this year’s Photo Credit: decayoftheangel, via Flickr. Licensed under CC. theme of America’s on Human Rights Day in December 2011 in Pride, San Diego Geneva, Switzerland, where she reaffirmed, Pride organizers say they are looking to push “Human rights are gay rights and gay rights even further in honoring service members, are human rights.” veterans and their families. Servicemembers While providing tangible assistance to wanting to walk in the military contingent can LGBT civil society groups around the world, register at sdpride.org/military. the Fund also serves to underscore the State — D.S. Department’s commitment to ensuring LGBT people worldwide are able to exercise their Text for global gay rights human rights with dignity. You can donate $10 WASHINGTON, D.C. — The U.S. State to the Global Equality Fund by texting the word Department has launched a donation camPRIDE to 80000. paign that allows Americans to help fund — D.S. programs and initiatives aimed at advancing human rights for LGBT people around the world just by sending a text message. info: Have news or other information? Send The Global Equality Fund was launched by your press releases and updates for inclusion U.S Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton in our News Notes: editor@goqnotes.com.
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The Queen City Count Census data shows high concentration of same-sex households in East Charlotte, Center City and southern suburbs by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com
Three years ago, Larry Ferri and his partner Barry Pettinato set East Charlotte out from Washington, D.C., to settle in Charlotte. They went through 10.9% * 250 couples ** all the usual motions any moving couple might. They found a real Mecklenburg estate agent, toured the city and ranked the pros and cons of the South Blvd. Corridor County neighborhoods they encountered. 7.9% 181 couples It didn’t take long for them to find the right house in just the Mecklenburg Steele Creek right area of town. County 7.7% 176 couples “I love Plaza Midwood,” Pettinato says. “It’s fantastic.” Ballantyne/Providence Ferri says he loves the area’s proximity. Their neigh7% 160 couples borhood is close to Pettinato’s work. It’s just a few short minutes drive into Uptown. They’re just blocks away from Uptown the central Plaza Midwood business district. 4.4% 101 couples “We don’t go out a lot but really do like to take Cotswold/Eastover/Myers Park advantage of what the city has to offer when we do,” 77 4.1% 95 couples Ferri says. Pettinato enjoys going out for quick dinners, drinks and coffee at the gay-friendly establishments Camp Greene/Wesley Heights that dot Plaza Midwood’s landscape. 2.8% 64 couples The couple’s experience has been repeated South End/Dilworth time and time again in Charlotte. According to 2.7% 62 couples 85 available data from the U.S. Census Bureau, Plaza NoDa Midwood and the surrounding East Charlotte * Percent of total area are the most popular neighborhoods for estimated same1.4% 32.73 couples 277 sex households same-sex couple households. in Mecklenburg The 2000 census was the first to collect initial County data on the geography of same-sex homes. ** Estimated number Eventually, that data was compiled and ranked by Charlotte-Douglas of same-sex 485 International ZIP code. East Charlotte’s 28205 came out on top of households Airport all other ZIP codes in the state. Ten years later, the U.S. Census Bureau’s American Community Survey r reveals similar data. This time, the numbers are Independence Blvd. ido orr drilled down to census tract, compiled from data d. C v l th B collected by The New York Times from the Sou 2005-2009 American Community Surveys. Providence Rd. Plaza Midwood and other East Charlotte neighborhoods aren’t the only areas of town with a burgeoning gay Steele Creek South Blvd. All other popularity. Though the concentration of neighborhoods estimated same-sex households remains and areas in highest in the east, plenty of other gay Mecklenburg homes are scattered about the city and Balla ntyne County county. Areas on the South Blvd. corridor, /Prov idenc including the neighborhoods of Madison e Park, Ashbrook and Sedgefield, rank second behind East Charlotte. The Steele Creek area ranks third. Portions of Providence and Ballantyne come in fourth. Alyssa Kibiloski and her partner Ann Gonzalez, both in their 20s, had at one time lived in Plaza Midwood. This February, they decided they needed a change of pace. They settled on Barclay Downs, situated next to Madison Park and near Myers Park. Top Individual Same-Sex % Total Tract Neighborhoods Households Households “Plaza Midwood had a great artistic and creative community and it was very LGBT friendly, but we moved here because it is a safe area of Charlotte that was also affordable for Southwest Steele Creek 97 2 the amount of space we have,” says Kibiloski. Steele Creek 80 2 Still, she says, they miss the activity of Plaza Midwood. Madison Park 69 3 “People were always out and about,” she says. “It was Ashbrook 65 2 Country Club Heights 50 2 extremely open and it was a younger area too and we’re both see next page u 77
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Be a part of your community center The LGBT Community Center of Charlotte is here for you by O’Neale Atkinson :: centeradministrator@gaycharlotte.com
The LGBT Community Center of Charlotte is proud to serve the local LGBT community and to increase our visibility to the greater Charlotte community. The center strives to promote diversity, acceptance and visibility of the LGBT community through original and collaborative programming and events and by providing an inclusive, welcoming and affordable environment for all. In the past year, The center has been able to expand its hours and availability to the community to six days a week and is constantly seeking feedback on how we can better serve the Charlotte community. Currently, there are a number of ways that you can get involved with the center. Each month, the center hosts ongoing groups, including support and social groups for the LGBT community, recreational activities, community forums and special events. The center encourages new groups and ally organizations to reach out and utilize our facility to ensure that events are able to be conducted in an environment that is inclusive and supportive of the LGBT community in Charlotte. If you are new to the Charlotte community or a longtime resident looking to get more involved, the center can help connect you with events, organizations and causes that
need volunteer support and leadership. The center can also help you connect with local resources to ensure that your experience in Charlotte is one in which you are treated with respect and dignity. As the center continues to grow, we want to know how we can better serve the local community and need your feedback in order to accurately reflect your needs. If you have an idea for a group, program or event that you think would be of benefit to the local LGBT community, we want to hear about it! If you are a local LGBT organization or business and have not worked with us in the past, we hope that you will work with us in the future as we move to solidify and empower the Charlotte LGBT community. The center is open Monday through Thursday from 5-8 p.m., Friday from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. and Saturday from 10 a.m. until 4 p.m. During these hours anyone is welcome to stop by and we encourage you to do so. Staff is also available to be reached outside of hours of operation. For more information about the center, visit our website at gaycharlotte.com, call us at 704-333-0144 or email info@gaycharlotte.com. : :
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as Colin grows older, but any new home won’t be in-state. “It’s going to be out of North Carolina,” she says about a potential future move. “We have our son and with the passage of Amendment One it doesn’t feel as comfortable as it used to. We’d move to the suburbs — just not the suburbs of Charlotte.” Until that day comes, Brock and her family will relax and enjoy the relative welcome and ease that comes with living in Charlotte’s gayest and hippest hood. Yet, don’t be fooled, Pettinato warns. Plaza Midwood is no Castro. “We see a lot of gay people, but it’s certainly not a little gay ghetto by any means,” he says. “The neighborhood association is mostly straight people and their families but we’ve never had one bit of homophobia coming from neighbors.” Despite the absence of a true “gayborhood” the size of those in larger cities, Pettinato says he and Ferri have managed to find a special niche. “We lived in San Francisco and Washington, D.C., so we’ve progressively moved into more conservative places but this is a really comfortable place for us to be,” he says. : :
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Trudging along: Charlotte’s path to LGBT equality More than a decade of local advocacy is shaping new LGBT-inclusive political culture as city leaders move to protect LGBT workers, offer benefits to employees’ partners by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com
hen Democrats from across the country come to Charlotte this September, they will experience a city that is increasingly moving in the right direction on matters of LGBT equality. After years of stalled progress, the city now protects employees on the basis of sexual orientation. In June, the council included domestic partner benefits in their 2012-2013 budget. These inclusive changes might seem like small potatoes to some. Arguably, they are. When other states are debating and approving same-sex marriage and the nation is ending its anti-gay military policies, one might think a city as large as Charlotte would have already protected its LGBT public employees. Yet, the City of Charlotte has reliably taken its own unique path to progressive change throughout its history, matters of queer equality not excluded. Progress has come easier at the county level. Mecklenburg County commissioners added “sexual orientation” to their nondiscrimination policy in 2005. They adopted domestic partner benefits in 2009. In 2008, the county-wide Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools adopted a fully-LGBT-inclusive anti-bullying policy a full year before the state School Violence Prevention Act mandated similar policies for school systems statewide. While county leaders forged ahead, Charlotte remained dutifully obstinate. Democrats held a majority on council, but they consistently faced a veto threat from former Republican Mayor Pat McCrory, rarely a friend to Charlotte’s LGBT citizens. Since McCrory’s departure just three years ago, Charlotte has become more comfortable with the LGBT community, making more inclusive changes under Democratic Mayor Anthony Foxx than any other mayor in the city’s history. There’s a variety of explanations behind the slow movement toward legall
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equality here. Ask 10 people, you’ll get 10 different responses — many as equally valid as the other. Two facts are immediately clear: The affirming political environment today is relatively new and years of dedicated and tireless advocacy work has made it possible. In the early 2000s, local attorney Connie Vetter and others with the Mecklenburg LGBT Political Action Committee (MeckPAC), established in 1998, attempted to have nondiscrimination policy changes and domestic partner benefits adopted by city council. Meetings, press conferences, a study group and competing legal memos abounded, but the requested changes never materialized. “The city manager wasn’t completely behind it,” Vetter says of former manager Pam Syfert. “The argument was that [domestic partner benefits] are useful to retain and attract employees. My sense was that she felt Charlotte was doing okay without it.” The lack of substantial LGBT employee interaction was another concern. “I also recall hearing at the time that there wasn’t any feedback coming from city employees that they wanted domestic partner benefits,” she says. “Of course people wouldn’t speak out either because they may not have known it was possible or because of fear of outing themselves and losing their jobs.” Tom Warshaur has worked for the city since 1990. Today, he’s a manager in the city’s neighborhood and business services division, but he began in the city’s economic development unit, where he worked at the time of the original domestic partner benefits discussion. He was among those invited to participate in the study group, tasked to research industry standards, legal questions, analyze costs and other matters. The committee included participants from other city departments like human resources and staff from large Charlotte
companies like Duke Energy, Bank of America and Wachovia. “That study committee helped people realize it wasn’t hard to do this, that it is not a hard thing or a costly thing for a large employer to offer these benefits to their workforce,” Warshaur says. But, the study group never issued a recommendation. “Other organizations felt it was inappropriate to recommend to another organization what they should or should not do,” Warshaur recounts. “Of course, that was disappointing to me.” After the study group completed its task, the domestic partner discussion faded. The city, Warshaur says, just wasn’t ready. A revision to human resources policies was not the difficult part — waiting on a change in people and their heats and minds was.
“What required changing was the people realizing that changes were happening in society and that [offering the benefits] was just the right thing to do,” he says. “That took some time for people to realize what they really wanted as a municipality was to make sure they were treating all their employees fairly.” A change in culture and attitude, says Vetter, was also required of the city’s LGBT community. Activists’ conversations with city leaders and others always went smoothly, but only because, “with the wisdom of hindsight,” she says, “our expectations were low.” “One of the things I’m happy to see now is how much more we respect ourselves as a community,” says Vetter. “I think we still have work to do today, but we expect to be treated fairly and equally rather than kind of asking ‘please.’ There’s a different mindset. We’ve grown up as a community and have started demanding instead of asking.” As the LGBT community grew up, so did its elected officials. Groups like MeckPAC and individual citizens continued their relationship-building with city council members. Comfort with LGBT issues grew tremendously. Inclusive and progressive change became increasingly possible.
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on the map nightlife Sunday
Barbeque & Bloody Marys, Bar at 316 free BBQ from 3-6 p.m. The Sunday Social Spades/Card Games & House Muzik, Nickel Bar from 5 p.m.-Midnight House Cast Show, The Scorpio with DJ 4Real. 11:30 p.m. Woodshed Sundays, The Woodshed free dinner buffet served at 6:30 p.m. karaoke, 9 p.m.
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Movie Night, Bar at 316 starts at 9 p.m. Monday Madness, Chasers pool tournament at 11:30 p.m. $25 cash prize and $25 bar tab. Boxing & Monday Night Football, Sidelines Free Pool, The Woodshed all day.
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Karaoke with Metro Mike, Bar at 316 starts at 9 p.m. Pool Tournament, Central Station Twisted Trivia, Chasers with Tiffany Storm & Brooklyn Dior. Showtime at 12:30 a.m. Trivia Tuesdays, Marigny hosted by Roxxy C. Moorecox 7 p.m.
Midwood Madness, Petra’s half-price bottles of wine Karaoke, The Woodshed starts at 9 p.m.
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House DJ and Dancing, Bar at 316 Free HIV Testing, Connections the 4th Friday of every month. 8-10 p.m. A-List Fridays, Marigny hosted by SugaWalls Entertainment. 10 p.m. Feel Good Fridays Dance Night, Nickel Bar from 9 p.m.-2:30 a.m. Live Performances, Petra’s Roxy’s Rainbow Review, The Rainbow In starts at 11p.m. Life’s a Drag, The Scorpio with Tiffany Storm. 11:30 p.m.
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Thursday Night House Party, Bar at 316 Pool Tournament, Central Station Rockin’ Well Thursdays, Chasers with Valerie Rockwell. Show starts at 12:30 a.m. Free HIV Testing, Connections the 2nd Thursday of every month. 8-10 p.m. Karaoke Night, Hartigan’s hosted by Roxxy C. Moorecox. 9 p.m. Team Boystown, Marigny starts at 10 p.m. $10 cover after 11 p.m. Drink-n-drown. SpeakEasy Thursday Open Mic Night, Nickel Bar from 9 p.m.-2:30 a.m. Karaoke Night, The Rainbow In free for members. $5 guests. $6 under 21.
House DJ and Dancing, Bar at 316 The Angela Lopez Show, Chasers show starts at 12:30 a.m. Live DJ, Hartigan’s Krewe Saturdays, Marigny Sexy Saturdays Special Events, Nickel Bar from 9 p.m.-2:30 a.m. Live Performances, Petra’s Urban Variety Show, The Scorpio with Elaine Davis. Midnight showtime.
Congregations MCC Charlotte Worship service every Sunday, 10:45 a.m.
Bible study every Tuesday and Wednesday, 7 p.m. New Life MCC Worship service every Sunday, 7 p.m. Monthly covered dish dinner and coffeehouse-style worship service on the first Sunday of every month, 6 p.m. Unity Fellowship Church of Charlotte Worship service every Sunday, 10:45 a.m. Bible 101: second and fourth Sunday of every month, 9 a.m. Wednesday night Bible study and discussion, 7 p.m.
Community The LGBT Community Center of Charlotte Promoting the diversity, acceptance and visibility of the LGBT community through programming and events. gaycharlotte.com White Rabbit North Carolina’s LGBT everything store. Complete line of Pride merchandise, plus books, magazines, DVDs, T-shirts, underwear and more. info: Don’t see your bar listed here? Submit your regularly scheduled events to editor@goqnotes.com
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Charlotte LGBT Community Resources
Advocacy Campus Pride 704-277-6710 campuspride.org Charlotte Rainbow Action Network for Equality rainbowaction.org Equality North Carolina equalitync.org HRC Carolina northcarolina.hrc.org Mecklenburg LGBT Political Action Committee (MeckPAC) meckpac.org
Queen City Theatre Company queencitytheatre.com
Media Creative Loafing clclt.com Charlotte Observer charlotteobserver.com Pocket Rocket Guide pocketrocketguide.com QNotes goqnotes.com Visit Gay Charlotte visitgaycharlotte.com
Arts
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Actor’s Theatre of Charlotte 704-342-2251 atcharlotte.org
Charlotte Atheists and Agnostics charlotteatheists.com
Carolina Actors Studio Theatre 704-455-8542 nccast.com Charlotte Pride Band charlotteprideband.org Gay Men’s Chorus of Charlotte 704-549-9202 gmccharlotte.org One Voice Chorus 704-529-2951 onevoicechorus.com
MCC Charlotte 1825 Eastway Dr. Charlotte NC 28205 704-563-5810 office@mcccharlotte.org mcccharlotte.org Myers Park Baptist Church 1900 Queens Rd. Charlotte, NC 28207 704-334-7232 mpbconline.org Havurat Tikvah 980-225-5330 havurattikvah.org
LGBT Community Center of Charlotte 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11 Charlotte, NC 28206 704-333-0144 gaycharlotte.com Gay Charlotte Film Festival & Series gaycharlottefilmfestival.com LOAFERS Social and support group for adult lesbians. Meets second Friday of each month, 6:30 p.m., at The Center. OASIS Facilitated monthly support group for gay, bisexual and questioning men. Meets third Tuesday of each month, 6:30 p.m., at The Center. Pride Charlotte pridecharlotte.com StillOut LGBT Photography Club stillout.org
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Holy Covenant United Church of Christ 3501 W. WT Harris Blvd. Charlotte NC 28269 704-599-9810 holycovenantucc.org Holy Trinity Lutheran Church 1900 The Plaza Charlotte, NC 28205 704-377-5439 htlccharlotte.org/ New Life MCC 1900 The Plaza Charlotte, NC 28205 704-334-0350 newlifemcc@bellsouth.net newlifemccnc.org Piedmont Unitarian Universalist Church 9704 Mallard Creek Rd. Charlotte, NC 28262 704-510-0008 puuc.org Seigle Avenue Presbyterian Church 600 Seigle Ave. Charlotte, NC 28204 704-338-1914 seigleavenue.org St. Martin’s Episcopal Church 1510 E. 7th St. Charlotte NC 28204 704-376-8441 stmartins-charlotte.org St. Peter’s Catholic Church 507 South Tryon St. Charlotte, NC 28202 704-332-2901 stpeterscatholic.org/ gay_lesbian_ministry Spiritual Living Center 1025 E. 35th St. Charlotte, NC 28205 704-665-1886 slccharlotte.com Temple Beth El 5101 Providence Rd. Charlotte, NC 28226 704-366-1948 keshet@beth-el.com beth-el.com Unitarian Universalist Church of Charlotte 234 Sharon Amity Rd. Charlotte, NC 28211 704-366-8623 uuccharlotte.org
Unity Fellowship Church 2127 Eastway Dr. Charlotte, NC 28205 704-567-5007 ufccharlottenc.org Wedgewood Baptist Church 4800 Wedgewood Dr. Charlotte, NC 28210 704-523-6108 wedgewoodbaptist.com
Giving Charlotte Gay and Lesbian Fund 704-973-4500 fftc.org/Page.aspx?pid=953 Southern Country Charlotte Queen City Stomp southerncountry charlotte.com Wesley Mancini Foundation 704-375-4275, ext. 11
HIV/AIDS Carolinas Care Partnership 7510 E. Independence Blvd. Suite 105 Charlotte, NC 28227 704-531-2467 carolinascare.org House of Mercy 701 Mercy Dr. Belmont, NC 28012 704-825-4711 thehouseofmercy.org Mecklenburg County Department of Health 704-432-TEST (8378) Pozitively Speaking pozitivelyspeaking.com Regional AIDS I nterfaith Network 501 N. Tryon St. 4th Floor Charlotte, NC 28237 704-372-7246 carolinarain.org Rosedale Infectious Disease 103 Commerce Centre Dr. Suite 103 Huntersville, NC 28078 704-948-8582 rosedaleid.com
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Sports Carolina Softball Alliance carolinasoftball.org Charlotte Front Runners charlottefrontrunners.com Charlotte Nude Yoga charlottenudeyoga.com Charlotte Royals Rugby charlotteroyals.org Queen City Rollers facebook.com/ groups/41825881558/ Queen City Tennis Club qctc.org
Social & Support Carolina Bear Lodge carolinabears.com Carolina Transgender Society carolinatransgender society.com Charlotte Bears charlottebears.com Charlotte Black Gay Pride charlotteblackgay pride.com Charlotte Business Guild 704-565-5075 charlottebusinessguild.org Charlotte Gender Alliance charlottegenderalliance. info Charlotte Tradesmen charlottetradesmen.org Chi Psi Omega Fraternity chipsiomegafraternity.org PFLAG Charlotte pflagcharlotte.org Prime Timers primetimersww.org/ charlotte/ Time Out Youth 704-344-8335 timeoutyouth.org TransFaith In Color Conference transfaithincolor.org
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to a full vote of council. Advocates at the time were unsure if they had the votes and a quieter strategy was proposed. In March 2010, City Manager Curt Walton announced via memo that he had amended his personnel policies to include “sexual orientation” in the city’s non-discrimination practices. With nary a substantial glance from local mainstream media, some community members didn’t know about the change for weeks. Some city employees were also kept out of the loop. The behind-the-scenes maneuvering rankled many including this newspaper, which editorialized against the move and for a more public and proactive approach. Those who had come to expect a council vote pointed out that such a public tally of elected officials’ support would have been an historic step for the city, which only once, in 1992, voted on, though ultimately rejected, a gay-inclusive policy. The city’s lack of public, on-the-record LGBT inclusion would take center stage in some activist circles when Democrats announced they would hold their 2012 convention here. Charlotte, trudging slowly along its own path, ranked dead last when compared to other past convention host cities and 2012 finalists. Cities like Minneapolis, Cleveland, St. Louis, Los Angeles, Boston and Denver each had fully-LGBT-inclusive non-discrimination policies or ordinances. Most already had domestic partner plans in place. North Carolina furniture-maker and philanthropist Mitchell Gold was determined to hold elected officials’ feet to the fire. So, last June, Gold invited Foxx and a dozen local LGBT community leaders, including this writer, to dinner. “The mayor had been calling me to support his election and the Democratic National Convention,” says Gold. “I took advantage of that opportunity. I said we can’t have this convention come to a city that doesn’t extend full equality to LGBT people. [Foxx] was very open and willing to talk about it and have dinner.” Current MeckPAC Chair Scott Bishop, who was at the dinner with Foxx and Gold, says progressive changes were already on their way, though the DNC created a new sense of urgency. “I don’t think that dinner was primarily sparked by the DNC, but I don’t think that meeting would have happened in that way and at that time if the DNC were not coming,” he says. That night’s dinner served as a sort of rallying point for those who attended. The challenge had been set. In the weeks following, representatives of a variety of organizations set out upon the work needed to lobby council members and secure the votes needed for fully-inclusive ordinances and domestic partner benefits. “The community really got together,” says Gold. “I was thrilled with all the people who came to that dinner and then afterward taking the ball and running with it. It says a lot about Charlotte and its leadership that they could take one dinner and make it into something.”
Community members’ advocacy work would continue on for the next year, even in the face of an anti-LGBT constitutional amendment threat. Meetings were set. A poll was commissioned; conducted by the Durham, N.C.-based Public Policy Polling, it was funded by a variety of private citizens and the Denver, N.C., security risk mitigation firm The Threadstone Group. The results were positive. Fifty-six percent of those Charlotte voters surveyed favored extending domestic partner benefits to employees’ same-sex partners. An astonishing 83 percent of those in favor of the benefits said they would support the use of taxpayer funds to pay for the benefits extension. More meetings followed as citizens and city employees alike shared the polling results, their personal stories and their desire to see their city move forward. Finally, a strategy for adopting the benefits was crafted and MeckPAC’s action alert was issued. On May 29, MeckPAC members, citizens and several LGBT and straight ally city, police and fire department employees asked council to approve their 2012-2013 budget complete with the included domestic partner benefits. The partner plan also garnered the public support of the Charlotte Fire Fighters Association, a local affiliate of the AFL-CIO International Fire Fighters Association. On June 25, the years of advocacy work finally paid off, as council approved their new budget and extended authority to City Manager Curt Walton to develop and implement a domestic partner benefits plan. “The city manager has supported this for a long time and I think it was a stroke of genius to just build it into the budget,” says Councilmember Patsy Kinsey (D-District 1). The decision not to hold a separate, up-ordown vote on the partner plan was strategic, says Bishop. “Not risking controversy was the right decision,” he says. “There are some policy changes you want enacted publicly in order to shed a light on a situation that is unjust. If that was our primary or only objective this time, we might have taken a different approach. What I had in mind was the people it would most benefit and that was the city workers. Our strategy to get it enacted needed to have that end in mind.” Others agree that it worked. “I think that sort of kept it out of the limelight,” Kinsey says, noting the relatively little controversy stirred up by the proposed measure. “Some people would have liked a separate vote, but I think the important part was to get it passed.” Now that the measure is enacted, defending the new benefits from potential threats caused by the recently-passed anti-LGBT amendment will take dedication and resolve. At press time, Charlotte and other municipal and county governments across the state were awaiting an official advisory from North
Carolina Attorney General Roy Cooper. Councilmember John Autry (D-District 5) and LaWana Mayfield (D-District 3) have both said they’d be willing to defend the plan if legal challenges should arise. “We should stand up for what is right and just and fair,” Autry says.
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hough policies and practices are becoming more inclusive, Charlotte City Council still has yet to take a public vote on an LGBT-inclusive measure. MeckPAC Steering Committee member Roberta Dunn says a focus on strategy, rather than results, is misplaced. “There’s always a tremendous amount of effort behind the scenes to get everyone to agree,” she says. “Going through the city manager and adding [the domestic partner plan] to the budget was a lot easier. Sometimes the path of least resistance is best to get the job done. And, in reality there was a motion to exclude domestic partner benefits [in a budget meeting]. It never got a second.” If that motion had been seconded, Kinsey says the plan still would have passed. “We had the votes even if someone had been able to pull it out,” she says. “We had the votes to make it happen. We knew we had [the mayor’s] support. The community came forward and they did a phenomenal job talking to council members and to the leadership of the community.” With protections for gay workers and partner benefits complete, MeckPAC says vote-counting, strategy-making and community conversations must continue. More work is left, like employment non-discrimination protections for transgender workers. Bishop expects future goals will come more easily than in the past. The relationships built over the past several years are strong. “What I’ve found is that each [elected official] is very open to meet with citizens and hear their concerns,” he says. As a longtime city employee, Warshaur finds the recent progress comforting. More openly LGBT city employees are creating a culture change. Straight allies are speaking up. The city, he says, is moving forward. “The important thing for people to remember is that change takes time,” he says. “People have worked on this for years. This has been a revolution. There will always be setbacks but we will continue to move forward as we create a better society.” Years after the first volley toward local LGBT equality was made, Vetter, too, is relishing the progressive momentum. “I don’t buy the whole ‘Charlotte is the buckle of the Bible Belt’ bit,” she says. “Charlotte has many open-minded, progressive people. We might not march in the streets or hold signs in city council meetings, but there is growth and as we’re more open and out and we welcome more straight allies into our movement, we will grow together.” : :
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Playing the field: Brits welcome Royals
Charlotte Royals visit UK for international Bingham Cup tourney and rugby matches by Jon Hoppel :: qnotes contributor
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he Bingham Cup is the largest amateur international rugby tournament in the world. That’s right, in the world. And, this year, the Charlotte Royals joined in on the fun and went to Manchester for a cold, wet weekend of rugby, camaraderie, brotherhood and Queen Elizabeth II’s diamond jubilee in jolly ol’ England. The biennial gay tournament has been held since 2002, when San Francisco hosted the first cup with a total of eight teams competing. In 2012, 39 teams, in three tiers, fought for their respective trophies. That’s 11 countries, three continents and 1,000 players, coaches and supporters from all over the world. The Royals competed in the second tier of the tournament, made up of 16 teams with mostly moderate experience. Round-robin play began on Friday, June 1, with two 40-minute round-robin games. That morning, Charlotte met five players, from the U.S., Denmark, Canada and Australia, who had been assigned to them from the tournament’s board to give them some substitutions for the three-day event. New players, new countries — no problem. First up for Charlotte was Straffe Ketten (SK) from Belguim. A relatively new team, SK provided a good opening game match up for the Royals, looking to get their feet wet in their first international game, let alone tournament. The game started a little sluggishly, with both teams trying to get a feel for the other. Then about 10 minutes into the first half, the backs for Charlotte broke through after a couple of penalties lead to the flyhalf and captain of SK to be sent off with a yellow card. Less than a minute later fullback, Phillip Butterfield slashed up field and scored on a handoff from flyhalf Thomas Southerland. Then flood gates opened, with Belgium not crossing midfield for the rest of the game. At the end, the Royals walked away with a 26-0 win and a big boost of confidence for the rest of the tournament. Box Score: Butterfield (7 pts.), Southerland (5 pts.), Hoppel (14 pts.). Man of the Match: Jon Hoppel Next up for Charlotte was the tier 2 tourney favorite, King’s Cross B side of London. It was a much tougher test and it would tell whether the Royals’ first game performance was for real or just a fluke. Both teams came out ready and played to a stalemate the first 10 minutes. Charlotte got on the board first with a penalty kick conversion from 35 meters out, 3-0. But right before
half, King’s Cross took control of the ball and pushed down field for a long methodical drive that ended in a try. In the second half, the teams traded scoring tries, leading to a 12-8 with 7 minutes left in the game. The Royals gained momentum the longer the game continued, but ran out of time before they could score again and take the game. It was a tough loss, but if any loss could give you confidence heading into the next match, it was one like that. A physical, hard-fought game against one of the better gay rugby teams in the world that came down to the very end before it was decided. Box Score: Southerland (5 pts.), Joseph Boswell (3 pts.). Man of the Match: Phillip Butterfield Day two saw the Royals facing off against their third and final team from the round-robin section, the Newcastle Ravens from England. The top two teams, in each of the four groups, advanced to the winner’s division of the tournament. This meant Charlotte needed a win after going 1-1 the day before. Newcastle, coming off two losses, was playing for pride. And, that they did. Most of the game was spent in Newcastle’s half of the field, but they were resolute in their defense and the Royals couldn’t get on the board. The game went to half with the teams tied at half, 0-0. Ten minutes in the second half, Charlotte finally got on the board with a try and then a penalty conversion. That would prove to be all the Royals needed, winning their second game 8-0. Box Score: Coty Webb (5 pts.), Butterfield (3 pts.). Man of the Match: Coty Webb. Charlotte entered the elimination phase that afternoon as a number-two seed, after King’s Cross won the group with three wins and earned the top spot. They drew Los Valents from Montpellier, France, the winner of group two. This game would provide a different type of match for the Royals since the LCF played a much more finesse/kicking style game rather than the rough, plodding style of the other European squads. It took the Royals a little over half, to finally figure out how to attack the French team with a try coming from inside center, Zachary Anderson. When the final whistle blew, Charlotte had pulled out another 8-0 nailbiter, proving they can win close games against high caliber competition. The next game in the semifinals, Sunday morning, the Royals would play the only team to beat them, King’s Cross.
From left to right: Coty Webb, Matt Soden, Zachary Anderson, and Thomas Southerland making the tackle
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Box Score: Anderson (5 pts.), Butterfield (3 pts.). Man of the Match: Joseph Boswell Sunday morning was a dreadful day weatherwise. Forty-degree weather and downpours of
From left to rightL Coty Webb and Alex Mauldin
rain made for muddy fields and miserable conditions to play high caliber rugby. But, both King’s Cross and Charlotte were ready and played one of the best games of a long three-day tournament. King’s Cross had the early advantage — being from the U.K., they were used to the weather. Unfortunately in Charlotte, the parks and recreation department forbid anyone from using their fields if there is even a drizzle, so most of the Royals had never played in conditions like that. KC scored in the first five minutes, making it 5-0. They continued to put the pressure on the Royals, keeping the ball firmly planted in Charlotte’s end. But, the Royals showed tremendous heart and will in keeping the London squad out of the try zone, even as they threatened on the door step, for a straight 10-minute stretch right before half. Both teams carried over their intensity of the first half, with game ebbing and flowing between both ends of the pitch. Players from each side were making game-saving tackles on nearly every play since one mistake in these rainy conditions could easily make a score. Finally, after 38 minutes of playing to a stalemate, the King’s Cross team was able to put one more try up on the scoreboard, effectively putting the game out of reach. 10-0 was the final score, which meant the Royals ended their tournament in third place. King’s Cross, who were the only team to score against Charlotte the entire tournament and was only scored on by Charlotte, went on win tier 2 over the Melbourne Chargers fairly easily 16-0. Man of Match: Phillip Butterfield Man of the Tournament: Brian Henriksen All in all, the Charlotte Royals exceeded all expectations, as did the tournament, and the city of Manchester. It was a phenomenal opportunity that led to earning the respect of our fellow rugby players, bonding with others from around the world over a great sport and representing the city of Charlotte to the best of their ability on the international stage. I am damn proud to have been a part of it. : :
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Pride Charlotte crowns its new queen and king
The Queen City has a new queen and king. Miss Pride Charlotte 2012 London Dior was crowned at The Scorpio on July 11 after beating out three other contestants. The next night, My’Kel Knight Addams was crowned Mr. Pride Charlotte 2012. The pageants were hosted this year by The Scorpio and Chasers. The annual Pride Charlotte festival is slated this year for Saturday, Aug. 25 and Sunday, Aug. 26. Learn more at pridecharlotte.com.
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Videos highlight local hotspots Collection of 30 videos meant to introduce Charlotte to Dem Convention visitors by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com
CHARLOTTE — Community members from three local production crews have unveiled their collection of 30 two-minute-long videos documenting the Charlotte region’s diversity, entrepreneurship and quality of life. The videos, available for viewing at charlottein2012.com/charlotte/stories/, are meant to highlight Charlotte’s uniqueness as the Democratic National Convention prepares to roll into the Queen City this September. Three teams of two videographers worked together to create the videos. The teams include Charlotte Video Project’s Scott Lazes and Kevin Beaty, CLTBlog.com’s Justin Ruckman and Matt Tyndall and Darling Media Group’s Tonya Jameson and Lashawnda Becoats. Tracy Russ, marketing director for the Charlotte in 2012 Host Committee, said the videos “showcase the culture of Charlotte.” Jameson, a former reporter for The Charlotte Observer, told the daily newspaper that she learned a great deal from the project.
Working with the Latin American Women’s Association and their dance lessons in local schools was particularly memorable. “It’s an opportunity to highlight local people and individuals who are coming together outside the typical media spotlight,” Jameson told The Observer. Ruckman said he enjoyed profiling the local startup scene, including an interview with Igor Jablokov of automated speech recognition developer Yap. “Third Places,” a highlight of local coffee shops and other hang outs, is among the videos on currently available. The video profiles several LGBT-friendly hotspots across the city including the South End and Plaza Midwood Common Markets, Caribou on East Blvd., NoDa’s Amelie’s and Plaza Midwood’s Central Coffee Co. Watch the video at goqnotes. com/15907/ or visit the Carolina Stories website for more. : :
xuu on the DNC Law enforcement agencies make security preparations As the days draw ever closer to the DNC, law enforcement agencies from the local to the national levels are taking steps to prepare for the security the city will need to keep convention-goers, demonstrators, businesses and citizens safe. “The city is going to be open,” Charlotte-Mecklenburg Police Chief Rodney Monroe told the Charlotte Chamber in a video interview posted on YouTube. “There will be very few things that will be closed down. The closer you are to one of the venues [such as Bank of America Stadium or the Time Warner Cable Arena] expect some delays as it relates to going through checkpoints.” Monroe said he is asking all citizens for patience. “We’re going to facilitate everyone,” he said. “In some cases, it might take some time, but for most pedestrians that are moving about they’ll see little-to-no affect.” Law enforcement agencies are also encouraging businesses in and around Uptown to undertake their own security measures, including keeping tabs on who is coming and going from their buildings and premises. Overall, Monroe said he expects few problems and says Charlotte police are working hard to make this year’s convention the best it can be. “First and foremost, this is our city,” he said. “A city we’re all very proud of.” You can watch Monroe’s full video interview on YouTube at youtu.be/Hn5gK3SaF-w. — Compiled by Matt Comer from press releases and other reports.
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Fast and prayer meeting to precede DNC Organizers say event meant to lead city, country back to God by Michael Gordon :: mgordon@charlotteobserver.com
In what they call a nonpartisan, nonjudgmental effort to turn their city and country back to God, a group of business and religious leaders has called for a 40-day fast leading up to the Democratic National Convention that will culminate with a prayer meeting the night before the convention begins. “Charlotte714,” is the brainstorm of brothers David and Jason Benham. It gets its name from Scripture: In 2 Chronicles 7:14, God says he will forgive his people’s sins and “heal their land” if they “shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways.” At a July 10 press conference at Verizon Amphitheater, where the Sept. 2 prayer and music worship will take place, David Benham said the Democrats, though they support abortion rights and may add a same-sex marriage plank to their convention platform, are not the target. Rather, he said, the convention offers organizers a national stage for their message: that churches and individual Christians take personal responsibility for the “desperate financial, political and spiritual condition” of the country. Restoring the city’s and the country’s relationship with Jesus Christ, the Benhams say, is the first step toward recovery. “We as Christians must admit that our nation is hemorrhaging morally and spiritually,” David Benham said. “Although blaming the president and either political party is the popular thing to do, Christians must understand that the blame for the spiritual and moral decay … rests solely on our shoulders.” About a dozen ministers and other church leaders stood with the Benhams. A press release lists about 20 congregations — including Hickory Grove Baptist, the county’s largest Protestant church — that have agreed to take part. The fast is to begin July 25. It can take many forms, David Benham said, with participants sacrificing anything from food to, say, texting. The prayer service is open to residents and convention visitors alike. The Benhams, both former professional baseball players, are the twin sons of Flip Benham, the controversial minister and antiabortion activist headquartered in Concord. Benham Companies, which the brothers run, specializes in foreclosure liquidations, real estate and financial consulting. According to its website, the businesses are run from a Christian point of view. Their foundation, they say, is underwriting Charlotte714. According to the company website, the foundation is designed “to impact local communities and the world for the purposes of Protecting Life, Rescuing the Abused, Feeding the Hungry, and Loving the Afflicted.” Flip Benham is the national director of “Operation Save America.” Last year, he was convicted of stalking a Charlotte doctor. He reportedly was part of a group that interrupted services at St. Martin’s Episcopal Church in Charlotte when openly gay Bishop Gene Roberts spoke there in February. An item on the Operation Save America
website called for a three-day fast in early July “to prepare the way” for the Democratic convention and what is later described as “its culture of death.” Flip Benham also put this headline on his recent post about Charlotte714. “The DNC’s biggest nightmare — North Carolina is turning to Christ.” “The DNC felt that it would be shoring up its victory in North Carolina by selecting Charlotte as its convention city. Big mistake! God is shaking North Carolina to its core – turning it right-side-up in Jesus’ magnificent name.” When asked by email if his father had any role in Charlotte714, Jason Benham replied: “My dad is not involved with this event in any way other than supporting his sons in something God has called us to do.” Charlotte714 is one of several religious events that will take place while the Democrats are in town. A national Muslim group plans to hold a public midafternoon prayer in Marshall Park on the Friday before the convention. During the convention’s stay in Charlotte, the Muslims hope to hold a series of activities throughout the city. : : — Originally published by The Charlotte Observer on July 10, 2012. Reprinted via the Charlotte News Alliance.
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Herb Cohen and José Fumero celebrate long, happy life Mint Museum of Art celebrates underappreciated talent by Lawrence Toppman :: ltoppman@charlotteobserver.com
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he white Hebrew letters march around the rim of the elegant brown bowl in a declaration never to be refuted: “I Will Be What I Will Be.” The ceramicist didn’t mean that as a personal manifesto: It’s a slight alteration of the words Moses heard God speak from the burning bush. Yet “Sophisticated Surfaces: The Pottery of Herb Cohen” proves Cohen was destined to produce the complex and deceptively simple art in this seven-decade retrospective at the Mint Museum of Art. And in a larger sense, Cohen has been destined to spend the last 56 of those years with fellow artist José Augustín Fumero, while their personal and professional lives intertwined like colorful fibers in a Fumero painting. Together they worked in the 1960s and ’70s at the Mint’s Golden Circle Theatre. Together they abandoned well-paying whitecollar jobs to bolt for Blowing Rock, committing themselves to uncertain (if eventually successful) lives as artists. There, they helped jump-start the Blowing Rock Art and History Museum, on whose board they still serve as “founders emeritus.” Together they returned to Charlotte two years ago, filling a condominium in Cotswold with pots and paintings and bonhomie. (An interview is likely to lead to lunch, perhaps with a Fumero pâté or handmade Cohen ice cream.)
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And together, in their 80s, they have launched careers inspired by obstacles. A hand tremor prevents Cohen from controlling clay on a wheel, so he builds up pieces by hand. (You’ll see a few in the Mint show, through Jan. 8.) The design-oriented Fumero, whose vision has deteriorated throughout his life, aims to create a simple, multiple-use computer keyboard for people who have similar conditions. They have distinct identities. Cohen is the introvert who created subtle glazes and says without false modesty that he’s not sure he merits a solo show at the Mint. Fumero is the extrovert whose bold paintings grab your lapels: His portrait of a nun, a work his friends covet, reveals a woman who has guessed all your secrets. But you can understand why those friends almost speak of them as “HerbandJosé.” “I’ve often told them they’re my uncles of choice,” says June Watts-Mistry, who (with husband Adi Mistry) has bought pieces by both. “I didn’t have any real uncles I liked that much. I have never heard Herb and José say a negative thing about another person, and that makes them a joy to be around. “Their generosity is astounding in every way, whether having people over for dinner or having an artist stop by for a critique. It seems you can’t ask them anything and get a ‘no.’ ”
Herb Cohen, left, and José Fumero in their condominium in Charlotte. On the wall are Fumero’s paintings ‘Misty Mountains,’ left, and ‘Phoenix.’ On the table are pottery pieces of Cohen. Photo Credit: Deidra Laird, dlaird@charlotteobserver.com
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Ask Dr. C…HIV and healthcare advice
Helping to keep you in the know with up-to-date information by Frederick Cruickshank ~ Medical Director
After many installments of “Ask Dr. C,” this is yet another opportunity to offer our readers information about HIV from basic questions to more in-depth explanations. We are still receiving many of your questions and are working to provide responses to as many questions as possible to provide answers for you and the community. The questions have provided us with a forum to debunk myths and remove stigma from those living with HIV and AIDS. It is important to educate yourself, get tested and protect yourself. We appreciate every question we receive! Dr. C looks forward to responding to as many emails as possible. I have heard there are some new hepatitis C drugs that may interfere with HIV medications, is this true? — Andrew from Charlotte Andrew, your question brings up an important issue with two of the new hepatitis C drugs. Two drugs, Victrelis and Incivek, work as hepatitis C virus protease inhibitors and are not recommended with
some HIV medications. The FDA and respective pharmaceutical companies making the drugs have announced interactions between these hepatitis C drugs and some types of HIV treatments. Although the FDA does not recommend patients who are co-infected with HIV and hepatitis C who are taking drugs for both infections stop any of their medications, they do recommend patients consult their physicians. So, in answer to your question, yes the new hepatitis C drugs may interfere with some HIV drugs. The medications may work too well and cause damage to healthy cells or they my not work well enough by allowing one or both viruses to remain unregulated. The only way to be sure if it is an issue with your current treatment plan is to speak with your health care provider. If you have any questions regarding your medication plan, providers here at Rosedale would be more than happy to set up an appointment to discuss the best plan of treatment for HIV and hepatitis C positive patients. Do all male condoms protect you from HIV, I have heard certain types may be less effective and I want to be sure I am protecting myself. — -Rory from Mint Hill Rory, I am glad to hear you are doing everything you can to take control of your sexual health. This is a great question; all condoms are not created equal and it is important to know which it the most effective! Latex condoms can prevent HIV, while male condoms made from natural animal materials have small pores
that can allow for HIV to be transmitted. Another important consideration when you are using condoms is the type of lubricant used. Water-based lubricants should always be used with latex condoms; oil-based lubricants, like petroleum jelly, can lead to condom failure by weakening the latex. Storing condoms in a cool, dry place can also help to prevent condom failure. Although no method, other than sexual abstinence, is 100 percent effective against HIV and sexually transmitted infections (STIs), it is important to always use a condom when engaging in any type of sexual activity in order to reduce your risk. Finally, it is also vital to make sure that both you and your partner get tested for HIV and other STIs. Free, latex condoms can be received from your local health department, free clinic or here at Rosedale ID. There are so many HIV drugs offered, can you explain how the different drugs work? — Sarah from Concord Sarah, with all of the different drugs now available, HIV has become more manageable, but may be confusing for patients. Treatment plans should be discussed with a physician to determine what is best for each patient. The main goals of treatment are to lower the HIV viral count for as long as possible and to keep CD4 count as high as possible. Different drugs and combination of drugs will be more effective for some patients than others. Important factors your doctor may use to determine a treatment plan include your overall health, viral load, CD4 count, any
resistance to drugs your virus may have, medications you’re currently taking and other medical conditions you may have. There are five classes of HIV drugs, each of which block a certain step in the life cycle of the virus. The first CCR5 co-receptor antagonist helps to block HIV from entering CD4 cells; another, the fusion inhibitor, helps prevent HIV from fusing with the CD4 cells. Nucleoside and non-nucleoside reverse transcriptase inhibitor work to help to keep HIV from changing into a form that is able to harm human cells. Protease inhibitors (PIs) help to stop HIV from making more copies of itself that can then infect cells. The final type of drug is called integration inhibitor and helps prevent HIV from taking over the CD4’s cell command center. Your doctor will prescribe a combination of different types of drugs to fight your infection the most effective way possible. Always remember that this is an advice column based on your questions and the best possible knowledge out there. We need your questions to help educate the community, so email them to info@ rosedaleid.com and be sure to include a first name and location. All respondents will remain anonymous. We will try to do our best to answer, educated and inform from your responses to this column. Visit us at Facebook or our website at rosedaleid.com for updates on the conference. — Sponsored Content —
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Of course, without one loud “No!” to conformity, Cohen and Fumero would not be where they are today. Different paths, one goal The two men arrived in the South — and each other’s lives — quite by accident, more than half a century ago. Cohen, a pottery prodigy, commanded a wheel at the famed Henry Street Settlement on Manhattan’s Lower East Side at age 6. (The Mint show includes sophisticated flour and sugar bowls he made for his mother at 9.) He graduated from Alfred University (home of the New York State College of Ceramics), served two years in Korea in the
U.S. Army, got a master’s degree in ceramics from Alfred and took a job designing pieces for Hyalyn Porcelain Co. in Hickory. Fumero emigrated from Cuba with his family just months before his fifth birthday and the start of The Depression. They didn’t speak English, so he was the family translator — “to my benefit,” he laughingly recalls — after learning the language from movies, often hearing British actors who left a faint impression on the accent he has today. He graduated from Cooper Union for the Advancement of Science and Art in New York and took a job designing car and airplane fabrics for Collins & Aikman, which sent him to its plant in Albemarle.
“I thought ‘Where am I?’ ” he says. “They rolled up the streets at 6. But Spanish people ate pork and rice and beans, and so did Southerners.” A mutual friend introduced them in 1956. They were a couple at once. For about 15 years, Fumero commuted 45 minutes a day, while Cohen joined the Mint’s staff: first as a part-time worker, then as exhibitions director — where he shined a light on the regional pottery movement — and as acting director. Charlotte, more conservative then than now, made the pair comfortable. “We were never flagrant, but we never thought of (our relationship) as unusual,” says Fumero. Adds Cohen, “I came into
contact with the Belks and Iveys through the Mint, and José was always invited to events with me. We were always thought of as coming together.” But they weren’t comfortable in a world where other creative people made most of the art. So in 1972, they quit their jobs simultaneously and moved to Blowing Rock, to live on a property bought from painter Philip Moose. A voyage into the void “We were a couple of middle-aged dropouts,” says Cohen, who was 40. “We didn’t start from scratch: I had acquired a wheel and kiln. But we had to make a living through our art.” Says Fumero, who was 47, “It was a hard choice, but we couldn’t do both things at the same time. I had always supported my family — my parents, my sister and her child — and we were very close. Now I had to tell them, ‘The golden goose has died.’ ”
Herb Cohen Age: 80 Artistic debut: Making pottery at Manhattan’s Henry Street Settlement at age 6. A Henry Street publication years later shows the 14-year-old Herb turning the wheel for a fascinated little girl with the caption, “He will become a ceramic artist.” Most utilitarian job: Developing items sold in gift markets and florists’ shops for Hyalyn Porcelain Company in mid1950s. (He also designed ashtrays and lamp bases.) As his own toughest critic: “I look at all my pots and think, ‘If I did this over again, I’d do it all differently.’ ” José Fumero Age: 87 Artistic debut: In third grade, to avoid writing a long report on Africa, he drew the animals instead. His teacher encouraged him; after a false start in business courses, he studied professional design. Most utilitarian job: Designing seat fabrics for Collins & Aikman. He sometimes had to work three years ahead, yet supply design decisions in one day. He once moved into a textile mill to show weavers how to work faster. As his own toughest critic: “When artists work on something for a long time, they can’t see it anymore. If I leave a painting for a while and then come back to it, I see these glaring errors.” The Exhibit “Sophisticated Surfaces: The Pottery of Herb Cohen” runs at the Mint Museum of Art, 2730 Randolph Rd., through Jan. 6. Hours: 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. Tuesdays, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Wednesdays through Saturdays, 1-5 p.m. Sunday. Admission: $10 ($8 college students and seniors 65 and older, $5 ages 5 to 17, free for children younger than 5 and 5-9 p.m. Tuesdays.) Details: 704-337-2000 or mintmuseum.org.
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But they mined a different kind of gold. Cohen alternated between mainstays of the potter’s trade, utilitarian mugs and plates, and more elaborate bowls and intricate objects meant for display. Fumero painted and wove and created pieces realistic and fantastic. Their studios stood on a lane called Artists Alley; a staircase split the downstairs level, with Fumero’s workspace on the right and Cohen’s on the left. (“We designed it so we wouldn’t get on each other’s nerves,” Cohen once said.) Occasionally, they gave each other advice. “Herbert would work on a design and say, ‘This doesn’t look right,’ ” Fumero recalls. (Only he calls his partner Herbert. Cohen usually goes by Herb.) “I can see flat designs immediately, much more quickly than I do in three dimensions, so I’d say, ‘Maybe a repetition of this pattern will work.’ “Then I’d ask Herbert about my piece: ‘Does this give you a sense of space?’ And he’d talk about lightening or darkening an area to do that.” “I don’t know that they influenced the physical ethic of each other’s work,” says Amber Smith, the curatorial assistant who
wrote the catalog to accompany the Mint exhibit. “It’s more how supportive they are of each other.” “They complement each other,” says Brian Gallagher, the Mint’s curator of decorative arts. “José works in two dimensions, Herb in three. With the (Mint) Drama Guild, Herb worked behind the scenes; José went onstage. José is outgoing; Herb’s private but eloquent.” Their fine work could sometimes be overlooked. When Gallagher was planning the exhibit “A Thriving Tradition,” which opened in October and broadly covers 75 years of North Carolina pottery, he expected only to borrow a few pieces from Cohen and Fumero. Better acquaintance with Cohen convinced Gallagher he needed his own show. “Herb should have had a solo exhibition long before this,” Gallagher says. “His work has an immediate appeal, whether you know anything about pottery or not. But another potter would marvel at the beautiful glazes, the time-consuming work of … making the incised lines in a bowl resemble a leaf.” Adds Smith, “Herb doesn’t talk about the way he affected other potters, but he did.
Michael Sherrill, a wonderful ceramic artist, considers him an influence.” (Sherrill recalls in Smith’s catalog that his first exposure to contemporary craft came when Cohen organized a Mint show. Cohen later gave him his first solo outing.) Looking to the future In their own quiet ways, both were just a bit revolutionary. Cohen made his own glazes, exploiting a dark color palette from noble reds to rich umbers. Fumero had lost an eye as a teenager and suffered a failed cataract operation on the other eye in his 80s. So he found a new way to paint: He scanned images into Photoshop, magnifying them to examine small portions. He painted these images with digital brushes, then painted them again on canvas with acrylics or oils and handheld brushes, keeping his face a foot from the canvas. “I’m proud to have one of his last big woven pictures,” says Charlotte dermatologist John Thompson, who owns works by both. “It’s a double panel of Grandfather Mountain, called ‘The Ultimate Grandfather,’ and it’s
a collage of multiple photographs he took, printed on strips and then wove together. I’d never seen this technique before. “When José pulls out sketches he did many years ago, they’re traditional. They make you think of … Toulouse-Lautrec, maybe. I think a lot of really good artists change over time: They experiment with things, and he has always done that.” Fumero says he “can’t see the pieces I’ve painted” anymore, including large, potent swaths of color hanging behind the couch. So he is working on that computer in his home studio, trying to create a keyboard that can be operated with one hand by a visually impaired person. And Cohen? He used to go through two tons of clay each year on the wheel and says, “During these last two years, when I haven’t had a studio — when I haven’t even had my hand in clay — I’ve felt guilty. But I took my tools over to Clayworks (on Monroe Road), and I look forward to getting into it. We can’t see a time when we won’t make art.” : : — Originally published by The Charlotte Observer on July 13, 2012. Reprinted via the Charlotte News Alliance.
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What helps grown-ups grow up
Hey Trinity, I slept with my best friend’s partner. It just happened! Now, the partner wants to do it again and is being very persistent. Help! Caught In A Triangle Miami, FL Hey Caught In A Triangle, Here’s a little tale called, “How Grown-Ups Deal with Life.” Grown-ups mess up, make bad investments and sometimes drive too fast. And, occasionally, they have an extramarital affair. But, grown-ups do one thing different than little children, they learn from their mistakes! That’s what helps grown-ups, grow up! So, darling, if a married person asks you to be part of their extramarital affair, a one-word answer is all you need, “No!”
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Dearest Trinity, I really like this girl, so I call her and she calls me. But, then she says, “You sometimes call too much.” So, I stopped. And, then she says, “You don’t call enough!” What is too much or not enough? Confused Detroit, MI
Dear One Night Stand, I haven’t experienced a one-night stand in years, well, months, alright weeks. OK, it’s been at least two sunsets and a booze cruise. So, sweetie here are:
Dearest Confused, She sounds like an air sign to me. Always remember, in relationships no one wins or loses, it’s about playing the game. The best thing to do is follow your instincts, practice being secure in your thoughts, tell her she confuses you when she does, and don’t start taking pills to control your anxiety. Oh, and lastly, pumpkin, never call when you have nothing to say, you’re in a hurry or it’s very early in the morning. (Some really smart advice can be gathered when you take a look at my cartoon.) Hello Trinity, I just started going to the gym with a new guy I started dating, but it seems like what I wear is different than everyone else. I also think I’m being stared at. What’s up? Gym 101 District of Columbia Hello Gym 101, If you’re forgetting that styles change and
Dear Trinity, Now that I’m single once again, I find that having one-night stands is not so uncommon. But, I’m out of practice. Any ideas? One Night Stand Plymouth, MA
Trinity’s Fast Tips For Being An Excellent One-Night Stand 1. Be prepared for an overnight guest, just in case this one’s not like the rest. 2. You may be “Romeo of the Night,” but, please, in the morning be just as polite! 3. If at 12 a.m. you suddenly start a crush, at 2 a.m. you may have to rush. 4. Soft music, candles and a clean, comfortable bed promises more than a just peck on the forehead. 5. If on their skin you must leave a mess, use a hot towel to wipe them off. They deserve nothing less. 6. Keeping lubricants, contraceptives and hand towels close by, leaves a lot more time to moan and sigh. 7. If caught with a screamer, a moaner or even a yeller, use pillows, loud music or do it in the cellar! 8. If ever you’re thinking, “I’m not good enough,” act proud, have fun, even fake it just this once. 9. If it’s late at night and she’s too drunk to drive, her safety and well being must be part of your sex drive. 10. When the bumping and grinding has reached a home run, a little hugging and caressing makes the evening much more fun. : : — With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend Trinity hosted “Spiritually Speaking” a weekly radio drama performed globally and is now minister of WIG: Wild Inspirational Gatherings. info: www.telltrinity.com Trinity@telltrinity.com Sponsored by: WIG Ministries Gay Spirituality for the Next Generation! www.wigministries.org
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out in the stars by charlene lichtenstein qnotes contributor
July 21 - August 3
Are you talking to yourself? Consider doing so while Mercury retrogrades and screws up communications for the next few weeks or so. Havoc reigns from missed calls to errant tweets. Every musing can become bruising if we don’t think carefully before we speak. We can all do that…can’t we? Oops! CANCER (06.22-07.23) If you think that your finances are out of control, you are right. The time period brings confusion and miscommunication where money is concerned. This means that you might waste a few bucks on a scheme that you think is fail safe, but is really failure prone. Nothing is guaranteed, so hold on to your hard-earned dough gay Crab. There is plenty of time to waste it later. LEO (07.24-08.23) Every faint impression becomes an indelible mark. Every proud Lion thinks they are quite the charmer, but what you say may not be what you really mean. Chances are that you will rub certain folks the wrong way. Rather than rubadub elbows why not take a rest from socializing and find comfort and solace in quiet personal growth. Err, how personal? VIRGO (08.24-09.23) While you are convinced that spirit guides have your best interests at heart, they could, in fact, lead you astray. That is because there is static on the psychic line and what you hear is not what they are transmitting. Avoid getting caught up in mystery and intrigue, queer Virgin. Keep things crystal clear and save the fog machine for the next party. LIBRA (09.24-10.23) Plans gone awry? Chalk it up to an innocent miscommunication and give friends a little extra latitude. Proud Libras find themselves
in one place and their posse in another. It seems that even best laid plans become whipped and scrambled. Why go crazy? Enjoy the unexpected serendipities that come with chance and just make an omelette. SCORPIO (10.24-11.22) This is not be the best time to push for that promotion or pivotal interview. Things right now make almost every professional attempt a political gaffe. It is not worth the risk to try now. Retreat to your cubicle and rearrange your paperwork while you bide your time. Queer Scorps will have their chance at success soon enough. Meantime, is that spinach in your teeth? SAGITTARIUS (11.23-12.22) If you think that travel nowadays is annoying, try not to travel now. Reservations get lost along with your luggage. Gay Archers may prefer to roam the house rather than the world, but if you cannot contain yourself, be sure to check and recheck all details of the trip. It would be a shame to have your suitcase relaxing in Rome while you cool your tootsies in Podunk. CAPRICORN (12.23-01.20) There is now another way to leave your lover — with lots of miscommunication. No matter how much you would like to wax poetic and declare your love, it is best to let your actions speak louder and prouder than your words. Pink Caps are apt to inadvertently say just the thing to scuttle their love boat. Better keep all hands on deck…among other places. AQUARIUS (01.21-02.19) Ever politic Aqueerians can come down with a case of foot-in-mouth. This will be especially true in any one-on-one conversation that is intended to help solidify and
strengthen relationships. You are just not getting your point across. Nor are you listening. Perhaps this is a good time to let things simmer quietly. Let it become a potboiler next month. PISCES (02.20-03.20) What a great time to catch up on backlogged projects! Guppies are infused with energy and determination. However, as you tackle everything with verve, you stray from your initial intent and wind up with results far different from what you need or expect. Read all instructions, carefully listen to advice and take copious notes now. Or, just relax and let things pile up. ARIES (03.21-04.20) One could say that you can never have too much fun. Usually, that is true, but too much fun can indeed be too too much. Gay Rams pile so much on their plates that things begin to spill. Be discerning and enjoy in moderation, as difficult as that may be. Gluttony is often your fall back position, but now you should savor one thing at a time. And, no names please! TAURUS (04.21-05.21) Leave yourself plenty of “to do” reminders on sticky notes around the house. You may forget to do things. Queer Bulls find that their domestic agenda does not make sense (Sound familiar?). Confusion reigns and details get lost in the general melee. The next couple of weeks will teach you to handle and harness an array of loose ends. Loosey gets goosey, so don’t get cooked. GEMINI (05.22-06.21) You talking to me, pink Twins? Your more outrageous opinions are blasted across the cyberspace. This may not be a bad thing. It can bring change and attention. But, will it have lasting power? You can’t move a big boat on a gust of hot wind alone. Turn up the motor mouth and be sure that your propeller doesn’t get caught in a buoy… unless that is your thing. : : © 2012 Madam Lichtenstein, LLC. All Rights Reserved. Entertainment. info: Visit www.TheStarryEye.com for e-greetings, horoscopes and Pride jewelry. My book “HerScopes: A Guide To Astrology For Lesbians” from Simon & Schuster is available at bookstores and major booksites.
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Since I started this column, a few regular readers (hush your mouth, they exist!) have asked me when I plan to feature myself. I’m really not one to demand attentio‌Hey! Sit down, sister! You’re blocking my spotlight! ‌ Like I was saying, I’m most comfortable behind the scenes, but if this is something my adoring fans want, how can I say no? I’m a people pleaser. Plus, this is column number 13, so maybe the time has come. Okay, fine, I’ll do it. Keep reading, dear reader, while I bare my naked soul.
list for me — somewhere between wax lips and marshmallow peeps.
Do you like candy corn? I can eat it, but it’s waaay down on the candy
What variety of bug freaks you out the most? Centipedes! I stayed in a cheap motel once
What type of underwear do you have on right now? I’m not wearing any. I always go commando unless there’s a specific reason not to. If your life was a TV show would it be a sitcom or a drama? My life is a Mexican telenovela. Where’s that option?
and found one in the bed with me. I’ve hated them ever since. Are you accomplished at any form of skating? No. I’ve never even worn a pair of ice skates, so that’s definitely out. I owned a skateboard as a kid and roller blades in my 20s, but was never better than passable with either.
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20 Questions
How do these films rank based on the number of times you’ve seen them: “Carrie,” “Misery,” “The Shining,” “Stand By Me”? I love Stephen King, so I’ve seen them all, probably in this order based on number of viewings: “Stand By Me,” “The Shining,” “Carrie” and then “Misery.” Have you ever shaved your body? I’ve never shaved my arms and legs, but I keep my chest and pubic hair shaved all the time. I don’t have much, so it’s pretty easy. What’s your earliest memory? I can recall fragments of my third birthday party. I got a red bowling set that had a plastic grapefruit-sized ball and five pins. I have no memories of ever playing with it, however. Do you know which color family puce is in? No. I know it’s a color, but have no idea what it looks like.
What is your all-time favorite video game? It’s probably Galaga, with Donkey Kong as a close second.
Can you still sing your school song from high school? Hang on…Yep, still know every word.
but don’t eat many things that call for it. On the other hand, I use ketchup all the time, so it wins.
Which cartoon boss would you least like to work for: Mr. Slate, Mr. Spacely or Mr. Burns? The dinosaurs do the real work at the quarry, so Mr. Slate shouldn’t be too hard to please. Mr. Spacely apparently pays his employees to push buttons all day, so that’s not bad either. I guess that leaves Mr. Burns.
What is your favorite song that has a person’s name in the title? I can think of several great tracks that fit — “Oh Sherrie” and “Sister Christian” among them — but I’ll go with “Darling Nikki.”
Who is the sexiest “Ryan” of all time? OMG, how does one choose between Ryan Reynolds and Ryan Gosling? Oh, I know…they can flip me for it!
How many albums do you own by Michael Jackson, Madonna and Prince, added together? Collectively, 57 — 6 by Michael Jackson, 14 by Madonna and 37 by my all-time fave Prince. What household appliance do you own that you’ve never used? I have a very nice juicer that I’ve never even plugged in. If I pulled it out from the back of the pantry, I might think to use it sometime.
Which reality show would you most like to be part of? “American Ninja Warrior.” The athleticism of the guys who compete on the show is insane. I’d love to get a crack at the course and see how I do. Do you know how to dip snap? Growing up, I had a redneck neighbor who did it all the time, so I basically know how it’s done, but I can’t do it. Ketchup, mustard or mayonnaise? I don’t like mayo, so it’s out. I love mustard,
Have you ever visited a nude beach? No, but I’ve been to a naked Christmas party. Does that make me a Ho Ho Ho? —–—–—–—–—–—–—–—– We want you to be the subject of a future “20 Questions.” If you’re interested, send your name, city and a few sentences about yourself to editor2@goqnotes.com. You’ll be asked to supply a photo of yourself suitable for publication later in the process. If you’d like to see a particular person featured here or have questions for us to use, drop us an email.
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New Orleans prepares for Decadence
Less than two months from now the streets of old New Orleans’ French Quarter will be full of happy revelers celebrating the craziness that comes with each year’s Southern Decadence. Bourbon Pub & Parade, a New Orleans landmark named one of the world’s Top 10 Gay Bars and Clubs by GayTravel.com, is at the epicenter of the Labor Day Weekend excursion, slated this year for Wednesday, Aug. 29 through Monday, Sept. 3.
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The annual “Gay Mardi Gras” is a draw for people across the country and world, including folks like Kannapolis’ Tony Baker. “It’s one of the best parties in New Orleans, other than Mardi Gras,” Baker says. “The men, music and awesome food make for a great weekend. I have been three times and had a blast each and every time.” In standard fare, Bourbon Pub & Parade will be offering weekend passes and VIP passes. The tickets, affordably priced between $60 and $100, are already on sale at bourbonpub.com. For more information about Southern Decadence or Bourbon Pub events and offerings, visit southerndecadence.net and bourbonpub.com. — Matt Comer
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July 28 • Raleigh 32nd Annual Crape Myrtle Fest Gala The Crape Myrtle Fest hosts their gala with silent auction, heavy hor’s d’oeurves and more at the Memorial Auditorium Lobby, Progress Energy Center, 2 E. South St. Tickets are $25 in advance online at crapemyrtlefest.org and $30 at the door. Student tickets are $20. Proceeds from the annual event benefit local HIV/AIDS and LGBT community organizations.
July 19-22 • Charlotte Charlotte Black Gay Pride Annual celebration at various venues across the Queen City. Festivities include a town hall, reception and workshops. For more information, visit charlotteblackgaypride.com. July 20 • Raleigh HIV education Crape Myrtle Festival, Gilead Sciences and the LGBT Center of Raleigh’s Gay & Gray Initiative offer an educational program on HIV and aging. Discussion topics include treating HIV as a manageable chronic disease and how care providers can integrate care for aging populations. 11 a.m.-Noon. Free. 919-832-4484. lgbtcenterofraleigh.com. July 20 • Raleigh Singles Mixer The LGBT Center of Raleigh presents “Single and the City,” a non-intimidating, comfortable social mixer and networking event with adult and non-adult beverages, snacks and mingling. Be prepared for social ice-breakers! LGBT Center of Raleigh, 411 Hillsborough St. 8-10 p.m. 919-832-4484. lgbtcenterofraleigh.com. July 20-29 • Winston-Salem ‘Spring Awakening’ The Winston-Salem Theatre Alliance presents 2007 Tony Award winner for Best Musical, “Spring Awakening,” a classic coming-of-age tale intertwined with themes of adolescent sexuality, teen pregnancy, abortion and trauma. Features full-frontal nudity; 18 and up only. 1047 W. Northwest Blvd. Various Times. $14-$16. 800-838-3006. wstheatrealliance.org. July 25 • Chapel Hill Trans Discussion Group A twice-monthly meeting for people who
identify as transgender, gender-queer or gender-questioning, co-hosted by the NC Harm Reduction Coalition and Internationalist Books, 405 W. Franklin St. 8-10 p.m. Free. 919-370-0671. nchrc.org. July 26-29 • Raleigh Triangle Black Gay Pride Annual celebration across the Triangle area with event venues in Raleigh and Chapel Hill, including receptions, workshops, community exp and more. For more information, visit triangleblackpride.org. July 27 • Charlotte Community Law Workshop Join the Coalition for Southern Equality for a free legal workshop about what Amendment One does and doesn’t mean now that it’s gone into effect. Led by Asheville attorneys Diane Walton and Meghann Burke and Charlotte’s Connie Vetter. Free childcare provided. ReBirth Church Charlotte/MCC Charlotte, 1825 Eastway Dr. Free. southernequality.org. Aug. 11 • Winston-Salem Film Screening OUT at the Movies Winston-Salem presents the German film “Echte Kerle” (“Regular Guys”). German with English subtitles. Admission is $5. Proceeds benefit the UNC School of Arts’ School of Filmmaking. ACE Theatre Complex, 1533 S. Main St. 336-918-0902. outatthemovieswinston.org. Aug. 9-12 • Charlotte nuVoices play festival Actor’s Theatre of Charlotte presents its inaugural New Play Festival, nuVoices for a nuGeneration, showcasing four new plays with each receiving two staged readings.
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Productions include “Summer on Fire” by Mike Bencivenga, “Cygnus” by Susan Soon He Stanton, “Narrow Daylight” by Sevan Kaloustian Greene and “Scenes of Dreams Bar and Grill, NoLa” by James Marlow. Tickets currently on sale via 704-342-2251, ext. 21, or online at actorstheatrecharlotte.org. Actor’s Theatre of Charlotte, 650 E. Stonewall St. Various times. $10 per performance. Aug. 16-25 • Charlotte Honest Abe get his groove on Queen City Theatre Company presents Aaron
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Loeb’s comedy, “Abraham Lincoln’s Big, Gay Dance Party.” The production follows Illinois schoolteacher Harmony Green after she tells her fourth-grade class that Menard County’s most famous native, Abraham Lincoln, was gay. Tickets on sale soon at queencitytheatre.com. Performance times and locations to be announced.
Register to win a pair of tickets to Dralion by Cirque du Soleil Cirque du Soleil will present Dralion in Raleigh from Aug. 15-19, 2012. QNotes has partnered with the PNC Arena to give away a PAIR of FREE tickets to our readers. Fill out the ticket giveaway submission form below and mail it back to us to enter for your chance to win two, free tickets to the show. All entries must be postmarked by Aug. 3, 2012. Winners will be notified by email and/or phone. Just complete the form below and mail to: QNotes. PO Box 221841. Charlotte, NC 28222.
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