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Pat McCrory and Walter Dalton are engaged in a cutthroat battle to be the next governor of North Carolina. Up to this point, both candidates have focused their messages primarily on job creation and jumpstarting the economy, along with a healthy dose of personal and political attacks (e.g. McCrory’s tax returns and Dalton’s ties to Gov. Perdue). What they’re most assuredly not talking about are North Carolina’s children, and specifically children living in poverty. Irrespective of political philosophy, our elected officials have a responsibility to use their power and influence to ensure that all children are safe, healthy and welleducated. Unfortunately, neither McCrory nor Dalton appears all that interested in articulating a plan for children. Aside from a superficial debate about K-12 education, we haven’t heard how either candidate would address the range of serious problems facing children in North Carolina. Perhaps the starkest of these problems is childhood poverty. One in four of North Carolina’s children live below the poverty line and 11.5 percent live in “deep” poverty (for a family of four the poverty line is $22,350 per year and deep poverty is $11,100). Poverty means a lot more than struggling to get by in the present — it means limited opportunities and poor outcomes in the future. Children raised in poverty are less likely to graduate high school and more likely to be incarcerated than their peers from economically secure households. The National Center for Children in Poverty reports that, at four-years-old, children who grow up below the poverty line are already, on average, 18 months behind what is normal for their age group and that this gap is still present at the age of ten. If educational achievement is a key indicator for a child’s future success, then children in poverty are already starting out at a significant disadvantage. Short of eradicating child poverty, there are policies and programs that can close the achievement gap, particularly early education. Unfortunately, neither candidate is

talking about his ideas on this front. The implications of poverty stretch far beyond education. Research shows that children raised in poverty are more likely to experience mental health disorders, exhibit anti-social behaviors and suffer from physical health problems largely as a result of the stress caused by living in poverty. Like education, behavioral and physical health problems have serious implications for the child’s future success. By ignoring them, we’re jeopardizing the future health and prosperity of these children and our state. My question for Mayor McCrory and Lt. Governor Dalton is this: What’s your plan for North Carolina’s next generation, particularly children who are living in poverty? And, before you answer, I’m going to take away your stock answer — ensuring that every child has access to a high-quality education is important, but it’s not enough. Children aren’t educated in a vacuum. Just like nearly every other indicator of well-being, a child’s performance in school is directly correlated to his or her economic security, so that’s where we need to start. Perhaps McCrory and Dalton believe eliminating childhood poverty is unachievable and not worth talking about. If that’s the case, then let’s talk about how we can mitigate the impact of poverty by implementing smart policies and programs. Certainly, providing a first-class education to all children is a necessity, but we can’t stop there. Children from low-income families need health care and many need intensive mental health services. They need financial aid to access a higher education. They need child care, so their parents can work. They need a safety net to ensure that there’s always food on the table and always a roof overhead. What is the plan for North Carolina’s children? Our next governor should be willing to ask, discuss and ultimately answer that question. : : — Rob Thompson is the Executive Director of the Covenant with North Carolina’s Children, nccovenant.org.

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It’s that time I went on vacation expecting to visit old friends, see my brother get married and bake in the sun. I did all that — and watched my partner devour every lobster in three New England states. But, even more than that happened. Near the end of the two weeks, as Anne and I sat on the grass outside Provincetown’s town hall, eating linguica and egg sandwiches and fried dough, we talked about our future. Anyone who eats such a meal regularly would have no future, but we were on vacation. Just ask the lobsters. By the end of our conversation, I reached the decision I’ve been sneaking up on for a while now. It’s time for me to make a change. It’s time for me to stop writing this column. I’ve been hammering out “General Gayety” for a dozen years or so. When I began, Vermont was putting in place the nation’s first civil unions, which resulted in acrimony not seen in Vermont since Ben called Jerry a Chunky Monkey. Now assorted states offer samesex marriage; polls show a majority of Americans support same-sex marriage; and, for the first time, a sitting president endorses same-sex marriage. That’s social change moving at Mach speed. I’ve written about the landmark Lawrence v Texas decision, the death of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” the world’s first openly lesbian prime minister and LGBT teens with more leadership ability than George W. Bush ever thought of. I’ve also written about corrective rape in South Africa, gay domestic violence, murderous homophobia and fundamentalists blaming us for everything from 9/11 to cellulite. During this period, I’ve seen a lot of gay newspapers come and go — mostly go — and the explosion of online LGBT outlets. Now, major online purveyors of LGBT news

speak of their wobbliness. Place your bets now, ladies and gentlemen, on the future of gay journalism. For all the difficulties inherent in writing for gay publications — like low pay, low pay, and low pay — it’s one of the best things I’ve done. Writing “General Gayety” allowed me to combine my love of humor with my commitment to the LGBT cause. I extend my thanks to the editors and publishers from Charlotte to San Diego, Detroit to Dallas, Seattle to Philadelphia, who have run my column in their pages. And, I thank the readers from around the country and around the world who have let me know what they thought of my work. I even thank the homophobes who saw fit to drop me a line. Their venom provided me with column fodder. Really quite thoughtful of them. I’m not disappearing completely. Because so much is always happening in the LGBT sphere, I might find I simply have to write a column now and then. It’s a release for me. Beats exercise. But, mainly I intend to focus on two areas. The first is my blog. It’s a home for LGBT humor, so it now carries forward the “General Gayety” name. The blog is chockfull of cartoons, videos, photos that I don’t create — for which we can all be grateful — along with posts that I write. Dropping the column will allow me, perversely, to write more often and address issues more quickly in the form of pithy posts, so come visit me in blogdom at generalgayety.com. My second aim is to write a book. It won’t be a gay book, but I’ll sure enough be coming out in it — as a person with OCD. That’s my version of coming out as a never-ending exercise. So, wish me luck and strength and I wish the same for you. : : info:

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Charlotte’s time to shine The next couple of weeks in Charlotte will be buzzing. There’s almost too much going on. Between Pride Charlotte, the upcoming 2012 Democratic National Convention and so many new and progressive changes here at qnotes, I can barely contain my excitement. Pride Charlotte It’s been a pleasure having the privilege to once again sit on the organizing committee for the Pride Charlotte Festival. This year has been full of surprises and changes. An expanded two-day festival and an expanded 10-day Pride “Week” are just the beginning of the story. I’ve served on the committee in previous years, but the level of excitement and engagement coming from community members, organizations and businesses this year is like nothing I’ve seen before. It’s obvious that people are geared up for what will truly be a fantastic experience. Pride Charlotte’s growth is a testament to the city we call home. People sometimes deride Charlotte as a city with no history. Obviously, that’s not true. There is a history here, but there’s no doubt that Charlotte is a New South city on the move, making its own rules and challenging itself toward growth and future potential. Our LGBT community is no different: We are growing, changing the rules as we go, learning from our mistakes and, ultimately, becoming a bigger, better and stronger community. As we grow and change together, we also have the opportunity of being among the first communities to welcome the nation and the world to our Queen City. Just one week after Pride Charlotte takes over Uptown, 35,000 or more people will descend on our humble hometown for an experience of a lifetime. It’s an honor that we get to be the first to say, “Hey y’all!” Follow our DNC coverage Starting with this issue, qnotes ramps up its special coverage of the 2012 Democratic National Convention. Along with Pride Charlotte coverage, this issue contains a wealth of preview coverage of the national political event with its official activities hosted here Sept. 4-6. We’ll cover the convention with indepth and exclusive features in the days leading up to the event. During the convention, follow us for important updates and news multiple times each day at goqnotes.com/dnc/. We’re delighted to be in the midst of this history and have many to thank for helping to make it possible. We’ve partnered with several LGBT news publications across the country to syndicate our convention-related coverage to their readers, including The Advocate (advocate.com), LGBTQNation.com,

Denver’s Out Front (outfrontonline.com), Out In Jersey (outinjersey.net), San Diego Gay & Lesbian News (sdgln.com), Chicago’s Windy City Media Group (windycitymediagroup.com) and LGBT/progressive blogs Bilerico.com and TheNewCivilRightsMovement.com. Locally, we send a very special thank you to our special coverage sponsors, including Equality North Carolina, Chi Psi Omega Fraternity, the LGBT Community Center of Charlotte and Ken Badgett. Together with our news partners, our sponsors will enable us to give you the indepth coverage you expect and deserve. We hope you’ll send your thanks their way as well. It’s not too late to sign up as a sponsor. You can learn more at goqnotes.com/dncsponsor/. The New Q In this issue, you’ll also notice a few slight design changes. Everyone deserves a small makeover every now and then, newspapers not excluded. But, our biggest changes are online. If you haven’t taken a visit with us at goqnotes.com any time lately, I encourage you to sign on today. Our completely revamped website offers a cleaner, more organized design, but its true strength lies in its robust community features. The modern media landscape is always shifting and transforming. We’re changing with it. Starting today, you can sign up for an account on our website where you can submit press releases, photos and videos. If you’re the citizen-journalist type, you can even submit your own news stories and features. Gone are the days when media was a oneway street with some bland editor sitting at a desk and telling you what is and isn’t news. Our readers are the reason we’re here and your voices will be featured alongside ours — right where they should be. Learn more and explore the new online experience at goqnotes.com/TheNewQ/.

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Bittersweet departure For nearly a decade, qnotes has had the utmost and distinct honor of publishing the commentary of out lesbian columnist Leslie Robinson. Her witty and engaging thoughts on some of the toughest and most controversial issues of the day have filled the opinions section of our newspaper for far too long for us to see her go without a very fond and heart-felt thank you. This issue, we publish Leslie’s last column, at your left. We wish Leslie well on her future endeavors and, from the very bottom of our hearts, thank her for her tireless word wizardry on behalf of the LGBT community. Leslie, it’s been a blessing and a pleasure. Thank you. : :

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Charlotte Volunteer opportunities abound

CHARLOTTE — Time Out Youth has announced several volunteer opportunities for those it serves. Currently, they are hoping to find youth and volunteers to staff their booth at Pride Charlotte on Aug. 25-26. Also, when the Charlotte Pride Band begins their season in September, they need youth to assist them in telling stories relative to the musical offerings being shared. Volunteers narrate between the musical performances that address issues of social change and equality. Interested parties should contact Cody Weaver at weaverj4@winthrop.edu. Volunteers are also needed on a regular basis each month. Time Out Youth is also in their fall planning process and are looking for group topic ideas, along with facilitators. Training is available for those who wish to serve. For more information, email Laurie Pitts at lauriepitts@timeoutyouth.org or visit timeoutyouth.org. The Human Rights Campaign is also looking for new and experienced volunteers to staff its booth at Pride Charlotte. Various shifts are available throughout the two-day event. For more information, email marissa@ carolina.rr.com or visit hrc.org/events/entry/ charlotte-pride. Pride Charlotte is also seeking volunteers for both event days. All ages, skill level and backgrounds are welcome to help make the two-day event flow smoothly. For more information, visit pridecharlotte.com. — L.M.

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AF is all about eights

WINSTON-SALEM — The Adam Foundation is all set for their 8 in 8 Dash Bash on Aug. 26, BB&T Ballpark, 951 Ballpark Way, Broad St. Entrance, beginning at 1 p.m., with the game beginning at 2 p.m. The foundation is partnering with Winston-Salem Dash, the area’s minor league baseball team, for a family-friendly afternoon. A portion of the ticket price of $18 will benefit Adam Foundation’s grant process for 2013 and must be purchased by Aug. 25 through the foundation. The 8 in 8 is a newly formed, late summer fundraising effort. Businesses or individual may serve as hosts and create a fun-filled event for all to enjoy. Adam Foundation lends support to event organizers by providing PR, display materials, special speakers, video materials and more. Also, special “8 in 8” invitation, thank you notes and envelopes are made available. The aim is to earn as little as $8 or as much as $800, just so long as the number “8” is incorporated somewhere or in some way into the event. For more information, visit adamfoundation.org/always-fun/adamevents/8-8.

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Tickets give attendees a seat in the Blue Rhino Backyard with other foundation friends and straight allies. Enjoy a hot dog cookout with a side and soft drinks included. Beer and other alcoholic beverages will be available for purchase. Top off the “amenities” with a Dash cap. Kids Zone is free for the entire day, as well as rides. Tickets will be available for pick up at a special will call table at the main entrance. To order tickets, visit adamfoundation.org/ sunday-aug-26th-afs-dash-bash-tix-order-here. — L.M.

Gala seeks workshop proposals

GREENSBORO — The Equality North Carolina Equality Conference & Gala, slated for Nov. 17, is on the hunt for workshop ideas and leaders for the annual event. The theme this year revolves around community activism. As such, they are looking for workshops designed to equip participants with the skills they need to work strategically and effectively for positive change in North Carolina. Equality North Carolina is the leader for LGBT rights in the South and they want to maintain effective ways to combat anti-LGBT attacks from organizations and individuals who challenge the rights of LGBT community members and want to rock equality gains backward. Some of the participants may be new to activism and as such the presentations need to inspire them toward working for LGBT rights. Proposals are due by Aug. 30. To download a request form, visit equalitync.org. — L.M.

Triangle Scouting alternative forming

DURHAM — A chapter of the Navigators USA is now enrolling for its 2012-13 year on Aug. 20 at 7 p.m. at the Eno River Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, 4907 Garrett Rd., Commons Room. The organization, begun in 2003 in New York, is a co-educational alternative to the Boy Scouts and Girls Scouts. It is committed to providing a quality outdoor adventure experience that is inclusive and available to all children and families regardless of gender, race, religion, economic status, sexual orientation and social background. It’s “moral compass” reads: “As a Navigator, I promise to do my best to create a world free of prejudice and ignorance; To treat people of every race, creed, lifestyle, and ability with dignity and respect; To strengthen my body and improve my mind to reach my full potential; To protect our planet and preserve our freedom.” Children seven-years-old and up are invited to explore membership with the chapter. The group will engage in developing outdoor skills, as well as an “appreciation for the planet we need to protect,” coordinator Michelle Kucerak shared. For more information, email kucerak@ yahoo.com or visit navigatorsusa.org. — L.M.

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Author seeks book subjects DURHAM — Author E. Patrick Johnson is headed to the Tar Heel State to interview black southern lesbians for his upcoming book, “Honeypot.” He will be conducting his research from Aug. 23-26. Previously, he penned “Sweet Tea: Black Gay Men of the South — An Oral History” about black gay men in the south. Oddly, he had wanted to include lesbians, but the response from gay men was so great that he felt he could not do justice to the original work. The University of North Carolina Press published it. “After ‘Sweet Tea’ was published, I thought that, surely, someone would collect the stories of black southern lesbians and it didn’t happen,” Johnson told qnotes. He added, “In addition, as I traveled the country doing performances and readings from ‘Sweet Tea,’ women in the audience would always ask me when I was going to do a book about black lesbians. So, earlier this year I decided that I would collect these stories.” This follow-up historical piece will serve to complete the story of black LGBT southerners. Johnson felt it was important to have an archive of black southern lesbian women’s stories to affirm the Black lesbian experience in the south, especially while they were alive and able to share them. “I am hoping that with both black gay men’s experiences and black lesbians’ experiences recorded, the general public will come to recognize that there is a striving LGBT community in the South,” Johnson shared. Johnson, who received both his bachelor’s and master’s in speech communication from the University of North Carolina - Chapel Hill, is a Carolos Montezuma professor in the Department of Performance Studies and African-American Studies at Northwestern University in Evanston, Ill. He is a performance artist, ethnographer and scholar. His first book was the award-winning “Appropriating Blackness: Performance and the Politics of Authenticity,” which dealt with cultural, social and political battles over origin, ownership, circulation and performance. He also was a co-editor of “Black Queen Studies: A Critical Anthology,” a collection of essays written by an assortment of noteworthy scholars in African-American and queer studies. It was based on a University of North Carolina - Chapel Hill conference in 2000 that he co-organized. He toured his one-man show, “Strange Fruit,” around the country between 1999 and 2004. He is currently working on an anthology of black queer performance texts and researching queer sexuality and performance in the black church. To learn more or to be considered for the project, email Johnson at e-johnson10@ northwestern.edu or visit epatrickjohnson.com. — L.M.

Show showcases LGBT artists

RALEIGH — The juried “Love/Hate, Private/Public, Inside/Outside, Gay/Straight” art exhibit opened Aug. 10 and will run through Sept. 30 at The Durham Arts Place, 305 E. Chapel Hill St. As previously reported in qnotes (goqnotes. com/16099/) the show features a varied assortment of LGBTQ talent across a wide-range of mediums. The show is sandwiched between the North Carolina Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, which runs from Aug. 10-19, and North Carolina Pride, which will be held on Sept. 29. According to the [Raleigh] News and Observer, its creator, attorney Dan Ellison, said, “It is again a way for artists to participate in something bigger and political.” Ellison mounted a previous exhibit in 1981 during the first Pride march in Durham in the aftermath of a Little River murder when a group of people were attacked by two men who perceived them as gay. Over 40 items are on exhibit, but are not for sale, but should an artist decide to sell one, they are asked to contribute 25 percent to benefit the film festival. It brings LGBTQ art out of the closet and into the public sphere for a celebration of queer life and culture. It is open daily and irregularly, as well as being open most third Fridays of the month and by

appointment by calling 919-491-4625. For more information, visit durhamarts placelgbtq.wordpress.com/. — L.M.

Durham cited as friendly place

DURHAM — The Durham Convention & Visitors Bureau is making a big attempt to woo LGBT visitors to this Triangle city by launching a new website, OutinDurham.com. They want to let everyone know that Durham is a “welcoming destination,” the Examiner reported. The city has a large LGBT community that is “fully integrated.” It is was also rated as the most tolerant city in the nation in 2011 by The Daily Beast/ Newsweek magazine. The bureau decided to launch the site prior to the North Carolina Gay and Lesbian Film Festival which is being held from Aug. 10-19. Officials also said that “being gay in Durham is just not a big deal.” The Examiner also shared that the bureau’s president and CEO said, “Research has shown that Durham has a significant number of visitors who identify themselves as LGBT…Having this kind of portal into our [main] website has been in the plans for quite some time.”

One thing that led to this new informational resource was the situation leading up to and the aftermath of the passage of the anti-gay Amendment One. The Director of Marketing and Communications Sam Poley indicated that they were proud to offer this service and that Durham was where “great things happen — for everyone.” For more information, visit outindurham. com or durham-nc.com/visitors/lgbt/. — L.M.

National/Global Bullied student barred from schools

INDIANAPOLIS, Ind. — Dynasty Young (pictured), a gay, gender non-conforming 17-year-old, will not be allowed to return to his former high school officials for Indianapolis Public Schools (IPS) have decided. Young, a former Arsenal Technical High School student, was expelled in the Spring 2012 semester of his junior year for incidents arising from the relentless antigay bullying he endured. In a letter signed by Chief of Staff Dexter Suggs, the district said Young could not return to Arsenal Tech or attend any traditional high school in the district. Instead, he was assigned

to the New Horizons Alternative School, which describes itself as a school for “students who cannot adjust to a traditional school setting.” Rather than attend New Horizons, Young has recently enrolled in Indianapolis Metropolitan High School, a charter school not affiliated with IPS. He said, “As excited as I am to be starting school, I am worried about all the kids who are still in IPS schools and experiencing the same type of daily verbal and physical attacks that I experienced with no help from school leaders. No one should be treated the way I was treated, and the district needs to do something to keep all students safe.” — D.S.

Obama, Romney support gay scouts

WASHINGTON, D.C. — Both President Barack Obama and Republican presidential candidate Mitt Romney have announced their opposition to the Boy Scouts of America’s policy of banning LGBT scouts and scout leaders. White House spokesperson Shin Inouye offered the president’s position in a statement to The Washington Blade while a Romney aide confirmed the candidate’s stance in an Associated Press story. Inouye told the Blade: “The president believes the Boy Scouts is a valuable organization that has helped educate and build character in American boys for more than a century. He also opposes discrimination in all forms, and as such opposes this policy that discriminates on the basis of sexual orientation.” President Obama currently serves as Honorary President of the Boy Scouts of America, as is the tradition for sitting presidents. Romney is a former member of the Boy Scouts of America’s National Executive Board. — D.S.

Gay workers fight for equality

DETROIT, Mich. — The American Civil Liberties Union is representing five gay and lesbian public employees in a federal court challenge of a new state law that bans many public entities from providing domestic partner health insurance benefits. The plaintiffs’ long-term partners have already lost their health insurance or will shortly as a result of the discriminatory law. The measure only bars domestic partners from receiving health care coverage, while allowing government employers to offer these benefits to all other family members, including parents, siblings, uncles and cousins. The ACLU has asked the judge to block the ban until a decision is issued. “The governor tried to pass this unfair statute off as a cost-cutting measure,” said Kary L. Moss, executive director of the ACLU of Michigan. “Yet, this law will have no impact on state spending, but will have a huge impact on families who have lost the security of caring for their loved ones.” — D.S.

HRC ponies up for ballot battles

WASHINGTON, D.C. — The Human Rights Campaign has established a special ballot measure PAC to aid funding in the four states facing marriage-related popular votes in November — Maine, Maryland, Minnesota and Washington. A recent $1 million cash infusion brings HRC’s contributions to legislative and electoral marriage issues in the 2011-2012 cycle to $4.8 million. In Maine, voters will be asked for the first time in the country to legalize marriage for gays and lesbians at the ballot box. Voters in Maryland and Washington are being asked to

affirm legislatively passed marriage equality laws. In Minnesota, voters will consider a constitutional amendment to ban gay and lesbian couples from marriage. Public polls in Maine, Maryland and Washington show majorities of voters favoring marriage for committed gay and lesbian couples and polls in Minnesota also show voters there opposing the discriminatory constitutional amendment. — D.S.

Madonna challenges biased law

ST. PETERSBURG, Russia — Iconic popstar Madonna reasserted her decades-long support for the LGBT community by asking fans and concert attendees to “Go Pink for St. Petersburg” during her recent concert in the city. The campaign, which advocated wearing a pink wristband to show LGBT support, is illegal under the “Gay Gag Rule” law that originated here and has now spread to five other regions in the Russian Federation. “We salute Madonna and celebrate her courage to stand up to St. Petersburg’s outrageous and homophobic censorship law. Her music and message have provided solace for isolated and marginalized gay men and women across the Russian Federation,” said LGBT rights activist Polina Savchenko. She added that “people around the world have already taken a stand with us against this law. This kind of international scrutiny ensures Russian authorities know that the world is watching them. For Madonna to reassert her ideals of love and expression live and in-person is an inspiration to us all.” — D.S.

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Unity party organizers want to showcase community LGBT DNC event meant to welcome delegates, leave local legacy by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com

CHARLOTTE — In 2008, LGBT delegates and guests to the Democratic National Convention in Denver, Colo., were treated to a special welcome when they got to the Mile High City. When nearly 500 LGBT delegates and hundreds more LGBT and straight ally guests arrive in Charlotte, they’ll be treated no differently. Charlotte locals have come together to present the Unity Through Community, Charlotte 2012 event on Sunday, Sept. 2. Open to the public, tickets are on sale now at unitycharlotte2012.com. Organizers say they expect upwards of 2,000 attendees, including delegates, other convention guests, elected officials and business leaders. The 2008 DNC was one of the first political conventions to welcome LGBT visitors in such a grand and special way. There, organizations like the Human Rights Campaign and National Stonewall Democrats came together to present a special party, also named Unity. Obviously, Charlotte couldn’t be left out of the action. Some are even calling it a “new

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tradition.” Others say they hope rolling out the red carpet proves just how hospitable Charlotte can be, especially after the passage of Amendment One. “North Carolina broadly is an anti-gay state,” admits Unity Fellowship Church of Charlotte’s Bishop Tonyia Rawls, a member of the Unity party’s organizing committee. “I hope this [event] shows that one can never assume anything as it relates to how in a democracy every individual feels or thinks.” Rawls and other organizers want to draw clear distinctions between the LGBT community’s still-stinging defeat in May and the forward movement places like Charlotte are seeing. “This is a unique opportunity for Charlotte, which is in the midst of taking so many incredible steps forward,” Rawls says. “Our mayor has shown himself to be very supportive of LGBT rights and inclusion.” Keith Alyea, another Unity organizer, agrees and anxiously awaits the days leading up to the event when he gets to show off his new hometown.

“Charlotte is a fantastic city,” says Alyea, an I.T. consultant originally from New Jersey. “I love living here and brag about it all the time to my New Jersey friends. They think I’m crazy.” The national narrative painting North Carolina as backward is wrong, Alyea adds. What happened in May, isn’t reflective of his experience. “Charlotte is a very accepting place and a wonderful place for gay people to live,” he says. Organizer Craig Snider, a native of nearby Greensboro, N.C., was among several key organizers who nearly a year ago first began pushing the initiative and several other local projects. It’s taken a long time to build the resources necessary for the event, but he’s happy with the results so far. “I’m impressed with the number of people who are active in the effort — people from all different organizations in town who have never worked together before,” Snider says. “I think we’re doing quite an amazing job.” The organizers say the event’s lasting legacy will come from the relationships built among its dozens of volunteer organizers. “Charlotte is a medium-sized gay community trying to become a large gay

community,” says Snider. “The convention has allowed a lot of the LGBT leaders to get involved in ways that were not possible within the larger Charlotte community. We’re building really good relationships that will last and we’re also better understanding what the different organizations are capable of and what they need.” Rawls says she sees particular value in the diversity represented at the table. “We have straight and gay, multi-racial and varied ethnicities,” she says. “We get a chance to have a stronger, more unified community as we welcome all these people to our home.” When the event is said and done, Snider says he’s taking a vacation. But, he’s also looking forward to the social capital currently being built — energy and momentum he hopes will last long after the convention leaves town. “We’ve learned a lot about ourselves as a community,” he says. “This will bring us together and do something really special the community has never seen before.” : : info: Learn more about the Unity Through Community event and purchase admission tickets at unitycharlotte2012.com.

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The PPL offer home to alternative media As Charlotte’s local LGBT community prepares to welcome their LGBT brothers and sisters from across the country, other locals are working hard to ensure a whole slew of independent bloggers, citizen journalists and artists find a comfortable place to land while they call Charlotte home for the few days of the Democratic Convention this September. The PPL (internet shorthand for “people”) organized last year. They hope their efforts will aid independent media which might not have received official credentials to cover the convention. Desiree Kane, one of the group’s key organizers, says she and her team are excited about the response they’ve received. “We’re getting really, really good response,” Kane says, noting a recentlyannounced partnership with the progressive Netroots Nation Foundation. “There’s been a huge influx of people who want to be involved as sponsors or registering for the event. It has definitely picked up since we crossed over the 30 day mark.” Locally, the effort has meant building relationships. Kane wants that ethos to carry over into the days of the convention. At The PPL’s event space, where bloggers, videographers and other media will be treated to coworking space and special events, volunteers will be working hard at keeping each day’s activities running smoothly. Kane foresees special moments for real friendship making. “I look forward to the day in a couple of years when I hear somone say, ‘Oh, I met you back in 2012 at The PPL and we volunteered together,’” she says. Learn more about The PPL at theppl.us and follow goqnotes.com/dnc/ throughout the convention for special coverage of both The PPL events and official convention activities.

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CHARLOTTE – Two years ago, Charlotte was one of four cities vying to capture the 2012 Democratic National Convention (DNC). When the news hit home, locals began putting their dreams and hopes into plan. For many, hosting the national political event would be a defining moment for Charlotte, a city that had been hit hard by the uncertainty caused by the financial and economic collapse in 2008. The excitement poured into rallying around Charlotte and its DNC bid finally paid off. Last February, convention organizers announced that the Queen City had won out over other host city finalists, Minneapolis, Cleveland and St. Louis. Tracy Russ and Scott Bishop, two openly gay men long involved in local civic and LGBT community affairs ,both had a gut feeling Charlotte would get the prize. “I believed we’d get it as soon as I heard we were a finalist,” Russ says. “It’s been so much like Charlotte to either compete for opportuni-

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ties or to seek opportunities and get them.” The men now work for the Charlotte in 2012 host committee, the local, non-partisan group charged with raising more than $37 million to support the convention and its activities. For Bishop, the decision to bring the DNC here was a two-fold blessing. Originally from Boston, he’s lived in Charlotte for 17 years and says he’s thrilled his new hometown will be at the center of the nation’s and world’s attention in September. The convention also gave him a job. “I had just recently been laid off at Bank of America three months before that [announcement],” Bishop says. “I wasn’t working at the time and I said to [my partner] Ron that very day that somehow I wanted to be involved with that and hopefully it will be a paying position.” Bishop got his resume together and began networking. Months later, he landed in his current role as a project manager for

the committee and says the group is as prepared as ever to host the largest and most attention-grabbing event the city has seen. “There’s a lot left to do, but I feel confident we all have our arms around everything,” he says. “There’s nothing in that list that would keep me up at night.” Russ’ and Bishop’s presence on the local DNC host committee is indicative of a greater purpose convention organizers set out to accomplish once they landed on Charlotte as their pick for host city. Diversity has been at the top of their agenda, ranging from supplier needs and contracts to outreach and engagement. “I think that one of the great stories we have to tell about Charlotte and really about the entire state is that this is a very diverse

community,” says Russ. “It’s a place that welcomes everyone. That really has been a part of our history and its definitely not just important to our future but it’s critical.”

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Russ says convention delegates, media and guests will get a crash course in what it means to be a Charlottean and North Carolinian. “When people come, many of them will not know what to expect,” he says. “Charlotte is a relatively unknown city for most of the media and for many of the delegates and I think they are going to be very pleasantly surprised and they’ll find that there is a rich culture here that reflects the diversity of the population.” As chief marketing officer, Russ has been the go-to man for telling Charlotte’s stories. He managed the “Carolina Stories” video series on the Charlotte in 2012 committee’s website and says they were designed to give people an “appetizer” before they head down south. “The intent is to show in bite-sized pieces the aspects of the community through real people, real places and real efforts — what this community is all about and to focus on aspects that are the most surprising,” Russ says. “You’ll see a lot of diversity and a lot of culture that really is beyond what the stereotypes are of what a southern city is all about.” Dan Murray, a straight ally, local surgeon, business leader and former at-large Mecklenburg County commissioner, says the convention will allow Charlotte and its people to showcase who they are. “For a while, Charlotte has sort of been a teenager trying to figure out what it wants to be,” Murray says. “I think we’re really coming into adulthood and defining ourselves.” The Queen City has often been compared to Atlanta or other cities across the South. Murray says he hears little of that now. “Charlotte is getting its own identity,” he says. “While it is a large, progressive southern city that’s attractive to outsiders just like Atlanta is, the feel here is very different. When people come down here to live or to work they find that it is a very different place.” The city’s civic pride helps to set it apart. “This is a community where people are used to being involved and getting connected to any kind of major effort,” Russ says. “Part of the success in our volunteer effort has been a drive by the community wanting to get involved. People are very proud to live here and so many newcomers want to tell others about this great place to live and the opportunities that are here and their way of doing that is by getting directly involved.” The local LGBT community has also

stepped up. Bishop, Russ and Murray all agree that the state’s recent approval of an anti-gay marriage amendment was important, but they say it hasn’t overshadowed anticipation and potential for the future. “I definitely saw an uptick immediately after the vote,” Russ says, noting a common response from friends and acquaintances: “My resolve has been strengthened.” Murray says he was proud of the stance Charlotte voters took. Mecklenburg County was just one of a handful of mostly urban counties to vote against the discriminatory proposal. “As an individual, I did my part to try to get the word out about what the issues were,” Murray says. “We have an opportunity to show people when they come that the South is just as diverse and heterogeneous as the rest of the country is.” That diversity will be on full display as the city prepares to welcome thousands. One week before the convention, community members will present their annual Pride Charlotte Festival. The very next week, the community will hold a special welcome party for LGBT convention delegates and guests. Russ says the energy behind the local gay community is a mainstay of the city. “To me, it’s reflective of what Charlotte is all about,” he says. “The LGBT community is pulling together the way Charlotteans do. We’ve hosted large LGBT events before and we will again.” Russ adds, “We’re not manufacturing an LGBT community or presence here that wasn’t already here. People are doing what they do and have done and will do in the future. The real story is we’re here, we have been and we will be and this community is proud of us being here and it will continue to be that way.” : :

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[Ed. Note — A version of this article was originally published at qnotes’ website at goqnotes.com on Aug. 3. Read more indepth and breaking DNC 2012 coverage at goqnotes.com/dnc/.] CHARLOTTE — Walk into Steve Kerrigan’s office on the 13th floor of the old Wachovia Center in Uptown Charlotte and you’ll get a sense that this is a man on the move. He has no choice. The countdown clock mounted firmly across from his desk says it all. The 2012 Democratic National Convention used to be months away, but time is ticking. Nine months after qnotes first spoke with Kerrigan (goqnotes.com/12785/), the openly gay CEO of the Democratic National Convention Committee, we sat down with him again on July 31, just 37 days from when President Barack Obama will take the stage at Bank of America Stadium to give his acceptance speech for a shot at another four years in the White House. When that time comes, Kerrigan says, he’ll consider his job done. What a job it has been. Kerrigan has lived and worked in Charlotte since last June. It’s long enough, he says, to make Charlotte feel like home. “I travel an awful lot for work and you get one of those ‘it’s nice to be back home’ feelings when you touch down at the airport and you’re driving back into Uptown which is where I live,” Kerrigan says. Uptown is also where he works, managing over 150 staff members and collaborating with partners like the local Charlotte in 2012 host committee and local police. “There really isn’t a typical day,” Kerrigan says. “My days are really working with the staff both here in Charlotte, our team in Chicago with the campaign and our team in D.C. to make sure we fulfill the president’s vision in making this the most open and accessible convention ever.” That vision calls for some special touches and Kerrigan says his planners are working to make this convention unique. It’s the first time convention organizers have placed limits on corporate, lobbyist and political action committee contributions. Kerrigan says the goal is to engage more Americans and the grassroots of the Democratic Party. More convention activities will also be open to the public. “This is the first convention ever where our number one focus has been to engage more Americans in convention planning and what we’re doing here,” he says. “It’s the first convention in history to open and close the convention with events that are open to the public that provide tens of thousands more Americans an opportunity to get involved and get engaged.” The openness is a departure from past conventions. The 2008 convention in Denver was one of the first to use its presence in a state to actively organize voters and volunteers for a candidate’s campaign. Charlotte — the largest city in a battleground state the Obama campaign hopes to keep in their column — will be no different. “In the past, we hadn’t really used conventions for organizing tools and for engaging Americans,” Kerrigan says. “You can’t just put a convention in a state and expect to impact the election in that state just by physically being there. It’s how you use the convention and how you engage them.” Kerrigan is quick to point out just how much his party’s convention will differ from his political opponents’ gathering in Tampa, Fla., one week prior to the DNC. “Our friends down further south … chose to put their convention in a battleground state as well and instead have chosen to do the exact same convention they do every four years — closed-door sessions, political elite [and] attendees, nothing open to the public,” he says.

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Party of Inclusion “End this talk of boycott,” Kleinschmidt The DNC will differ from the Republican wrote at The Huffington Post, drawing National Convention in other ways as well. attention to progressive areas of the state Members of the Democratic Party’s platform where the amendment failed, his town and drafting committee has included proposed Charlotte included. “Visit North Carolina, language for a marriage equality plank (goand help us have the conversations necesqnotes.com/16248/). The exact wording isn’t sary to move this state forward. None of us known, but should be finalized in a second can do this alone.” meeting in Detroit prior to the convention. The notion that North Carolina is unSome pundits have said the plank could friendly to LGBT people doesn’t reflect reality. cause rifts. Debates on marriage equality and When LGBT delegates and guests show up in anti-gay state constitutional amendments Charlotte, Kerrigan says they will have nothing have ripped through communities across to fear. the nation for a decade. In North Carolina, “It’s an incredibly warm place,” Kerrigan the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender says. “The hospitality is great. I’ve really (LGBT) community is still feeling the sting enjoyed every aspect of it.” after voters decided Kerrigan to adopt their own also notes the anti-gay amendment local LGBT in May (goqnotes. community’s com/15012/). active role in Movement leadhelping bring ers on convention the convention committees say this to their city. year’s convention will “From the highlight progressive very beginning and LGBT caucuses during the bid, like never before (see the commustory on page 10). As nity was very for division or controinvolved with versy? Kerrigan and pushing for the others think it won’t bid,” he says. be in issue. The local “In this party, community has I don’t think that it also stepped Photo copyright Jimmie Cobb/ will be divisive,” up during JCdigitalPHOTOGRAPHYworks Kerrigan says of the the planning new marriage plank. process. “Certainly, it’s something I support. The presiSeveral openly gay locals either work for dent supports it. It’s another step for this party the Charlotte in 2012 host committee or are to really prove that it is the party of equality planning welcome events and other activiand inclusiveness and, frankly, civil rights.” ties for convention guests. Obama announced his position on full “I think the delegates and guests will find marriage equality for same-sex couples one it as I did which is very warm and welcoming day after North Carolina’s amendment vote. and diverse,” Kerrigan says. “The LGBT comKerrigan says that election was the first time munity here is just as diverse as every other he voted outside of of his native Boston. aspect of community life here. And, so I think “The next day, I was touring the Time that is what will be really surprising to people Warner Cable Arena when the president came but wonderful as well.” out in support of marriage equality,” he says. “I think those moments, as hard as that Tuesday, Get Involved May 8 vote was, those moments when the Kerrigan hopes the DNC will provide local leader of a country, the leader of a party and citizens and members of the LGBT community a people stands up and says, ‘Enough, this is opportunities to get involved. He encourages about equality and everyone should have the people to follow the convention on Twitter right to marry the person they love’ — that’s a and other digital platforms. One of 13 caucus moment that I think, this year, will always go and council meetings open to the public will down in history as a significant moment.” be an LGBT caucus held during the first two In an election season where other presidays of the event. The local host committee’s dential candidates and conservative leaders “Carolina Fest” on Labor Day offers more optook the opposite position, Kerrigan says the portunities for engagement. president’s position draws distinct contrasts. “I would encourage folks … to get involved “I’m thrilled to have that president come in Carolina Fest and work with our host commithere to accept our party’s nomination for a tee partners to get involved with that and show second term because his brand of leaderfolks the great opportunities we have here in ship and his brand of courage in standing up Charlotte and to attend the caucus meetings and saying what others might not say in an and really become a part of the process and a election year is really what makes me proud part of this convention,” Kerrigan says. to be a Democrat and proud to work for the Community members also have the president,” he says. chance to sign up at demconvention.com/ community-credentials/ to volunteer and A Welcoming City receive community credentials to attend The May amendment vote attracted Obama’s speech on Sept. 6. national attention. When it passed, LGBT “There are lots of opportunities for the enactivists across the country began to call tire community to get involved in what we’re for boycotts of the state. Some asked DNC doing here in Charlotte,” Kerrigan says. organizers to pull out of Charlotte. When they do, they’ll be fulfilling what Those calls urged a response from Kerrigan says has been the convention’s openly gay Chapel Hill, N.C., Mayor Mark most important focus since planning began: Kleinschmidt, an at-large convention delegate “Engaging Americans and Americans coming for the state (goqnotes.com/15766/), who said together toward the single purpose of moving talk of boycotts should be set aside. our country in the right direction.” : :

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Pride Charlotte set to rock Uptown for two days Event guides, entertainers and stage line-ups announced [Ed. Note -— qnotes is a sponsor of this year’s Pride Charlotte and editor Matt Comer serves on the event’s organizing committee.] Organizers of this year’s Pride Charlotte say their newly-expanded, two-day festival in Uptown Charlotte will offer extended opportunities for entertainment and community engagement. The largest of its kind in the Carolinas, the Pride Charlotte Festival is the culmination of more than a week-long slate of events highlighting the social, cultural, ethnic, artistic and political diversity of the Carolinas and Metro Charlotte area’s LGBT communities. A 10-day Pride “Week” will run Aug. 17-27 with the Pride Charlotte Festival slated for Saturday, Aug. 25, Noon-10 p.m., and Sunday, Aug. 26, Noon-6 p.m. on S. Tryon St. between 4th and Stonewall Sts. Festival Co-Chair Dave Webb says the 2012 events are expected to draw far more interest than years past, especially as Charlotte prepares to host the Democratic National Convention just one week after the festival. “I would say I’m most excited about the opportunity for the LGBT community here in Charlotte and in the Carolinas just to be able to get togher in this

wonderful, two-day festival,” says Webb. “It’s an opportunity for the community to celebrate and enjoy itself with all the events going on during Pride Week.” Entertainers at this year’s event include Hip Hop recording artist Trina, who was nominated for Best Female Hip Hop Artist at the 2012 BET Awards. Other entertainers include Club/Dance singer Erika Jayne, singer/songwriter Justin Utley and Charlotte’s own DJ Peter Presta. Several contestants from Logo’s “RuPaul’s Drag Race” are also scheduled to perform, including Chad Michaels, DiDa Ritz and Jiggly Caliente. You can see a full list of entertainers and an entertainment stage schedule at pridecharlotte.com. Presenting Sponsors for this year’s Pride Charlotte are The Scorpio and Wells Fargo. Leadership Sponsors include: Flying Biscuit and Monkey Joe’s (Park Road Shopping Center), Marigny Dance Club, Time Warner Cable, qnotes and White Rabbit. The festival is a project of the LGBT Community Center of Charlotte, raising funds for the group’s activities. The event also offers other local nonprofits a chance to be seen and connect with potential clients and supporters. For more information on Pride Charlotte, its annual “Pride Week” from Aug. 17-27 or how you can get involved as a vendor or volunteer, visit pridecharlotte.com. : :

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Media Relations (a.k.a. Free Advertising) 101 — PR and Marketing Training for Non-Profits and Small Businesses Monday, Aug. 20, 6:30-8 p.m. LGBT Community Center of Charlotte 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11, Charlotte, NC 28205 Presented by qnotes (goqnotes.com), this short media training will cover how to write and distribute press releases and media advisories, how to communicate and follow-up with journalists and local media and how to take advantage of the exposure a well-crafted media strategy can create for your non-profit or small business. Light refreshments provided.

Pride Charlotte Family Night Tuesday, Aug. 21, 5-9 p.m. Flying Biscuit — Park Road Shopping Center 4241 Park Rd., Charlotte NC 28209 Flying Biscuit and Monkey Joe’s team up for a special Pride Charlotte Family Night for all ages! Parents enjoy a special dinner for two for just $30, while kids eat and play at Monkey Joe’s for only $4 per child! Bring the entire family out to Flying Biscuit starting at 5 p.m. Monkey Joe will pick kids up each half hour and escort to the Monkey Joe’s facility for food and fun!

TransFaith in Color Conference Friday, Aug. 17-Sunday, Aug. 19 University Place Hilton 8629 JM Keynes Dr., Charlotte, NC 28262 Free registration, with nominal cover charge for Saturday, Aug. 18 “Sweet-T” party featuring a “mini-ball” with local houses and trans rapper Rocco Katastrophe. For more information, visit transfaithincolor.org. ••• Sunday, Aug. 19 Southern Country Pride Tea Dance Sunday, Aug. 19, 3-7 p.m. Hartigan’s Irish Pub 601 South Cedar St., Charlotte, NC 28202 Free parking and no cover. Southern Country

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Flying Biscuit Pride Night Monday, Aug. 20 Flying Biscuit — Park Road Shopping Center 4241 Park Rd., Charlotte NC 28209 Enjoy a dinner for two for just $30 including one appetizer, two entrees (soup or salad

GayCharlotte Film Series Film Screening Tuesday, Aug. 21, 6:30 p.m. LGBT Community Center of Charlotte 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11, Charlotte, NC 28205 The Gay Charlotte Film Series presents two documentaries. Admission is Free. “After Stonewall” chronicles the history of lesbian and gay life from the riots at Stonewall to the end of the century. “Making The Boys” explores the drama, struggle and enduring

legacy of the first-ever gay play and subsequent Hollywood movie to successfully reach a mainstream audience. ••• Wednesday, Aug. 22 2012 Pride Charlotte Charity Texas Hold’em Poker Tournament Wednesday, Aug. 22, 2012 5 p.m. registration, 6:30 p.m. dealing begins. Comedy Zone, NC Music Factory For more detailed information and ticket purchases, visit pridecharlotte.com/poker. ••• Thursday, Aug. 23 The Sounds of Pride Thursday, Aug. 23, 7:30 p.m. Charlotte Pride Band, Gay Men’s Chorus of Charlotte and One Voice Chorus Mint Museum Uptown For more detailed information, visit pridecharlotte.com/concert. Shiprocked at Snug Harbor Thursday, Aug. 23, 10 p.m. Snug Harbor 1228 Gordon St., Charlotte, NC 28205

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Update on International AIDS Conference 2012 by Dale Pierce ~ Practice Manager/Ryan White Program Director

Practice Manager and Ryan White Program Director Dale Pierce and Nursing Manager Linda Strand all attended the D.C. conference. The six-day event served as a great opportunity for those of us at Rosedale ID to learn, network, and share with other HIV/AIDS providers, patients and advocates from all around the globe. Check out the photos I took along the way. There was so much happening in the brief time that the conference was going on it is hard to fit all the highlights into a short column here, This year the International AIDS Conference but we wanted to try to share with you as much was held in the United States for the first time in as we could. over 20 years, primarily thanks to Presidents’ The opening plenary was highlighted by amGeorge W. Bush and Barack Obama repealing fAR Global Fundraising Chairman Sharon Stone the laws/bans on HIV travel into our country. presenting the first Elizabeth Taylor Human Rights Washington, D.C., our nation’s capital, was the Award to Drs. Kamiar and Arash Alaei. We also host city to this monumental and historic conferheard from Jim Young Kim, president of the World ence and gathering. From July 22 through July Bank, Congresswoman Barbara Lee, Ambassador 27, the district was alive with activism, research Mark Dybul, Secretary of Health and Human and gatherings surrounding the theme of “AIDS Services Kathleen Sebelius and too many others 2012, Turning the Tide Together.” This year the to mention. Every day was highlighted by great event focused on several key issues around creatspeakers and breakout sessions. Many national ing an AIDS-free generation, including treatment and international political leaders, scientists, advoas prevention, voluntary male circumcision, and cates and celebrity speakers were in attendance. preventing mother to child transition. There was a great energy and buzz at the conferIn our efforts to stay on the cutting edge of the ence and a sense of true community with all of us community, Rosedale ID was proud to send four from different backgrounds coming together for a delegates to the conference. Medical Director Dr. common purpose around finally having a converFrederick Cruickshank, Wes Thompson, PA-C, sation about an AIDS-free generation. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton gave a rousing speech on facing the AIDS-free generation. She promised that the U.S. would continue an unwavering and relentless assault on this disease by whatever means necessary. She also mentioned that it is time for governments to start addressing the hard policy questions around making these changes. Former President William J. Clinton addressed the crowd and called for global action and responsibility on increasing testing and making lower cost medications and treatment programs to all those that need it. Former First Lady Laura Bush echoed everyone’s concerns as she talked to the plenary Dale Pierce hits the exhibit hall and enjoys a visit with on the issues of women and HIV award-winning actress and AIDS activist Sheryl Lee Ralph. health. Whoopi Goldberg talked

to the crowd on issues surrounding access to practice manger, to meet with you and discuss TB testing and treatment in co-infected patients. your concerns if they are not being met. Her sentiments were heartfelt and poignant as In our effort to serve the community better, she questioned the crowd on why we are still we have expanded services this year, impleseeing a rise in both HIV and TB when we know mented online access for patients to their own that they are preventable through outreach and electronic healthcare records, increased Ryan education. Elton John was there to talk about White and ADAP accessibility, made it easier for how we need to eradicate stigma in the U.S. patients to access their medications, launched a and around the world if we really want to cure new website, Facebook page and even started the pandemic that is AIDS. He made the point a monthly support group and free testing. Please that the virus does not spread the epidemic as visit us on Facebook or at our website at www. much as ignorance, stigma and hate do. rosedaleid.com for all the latest updates on our With so many great speakers, sessions, facility and services. Visit us at Facebook or on our website posters and things to take in, it was a little at rosedaleid.com for all the latest updates overwhelming, but in a good way. I can speak on our facility and services. for all of us at Rosedale ID by saying that we — Sponsored Content — walked away not only with new knowledge and information to incorporate into our daily care, but we also were reminded of a bigger lesson — that the work we do as healthcare professionals in the field of HIV is not just a job, but a calling. It takes special people to do what we do. It takes a determination and genuine level of compassion that is not found in all fields of medicine. Not to “toot” our own horn, but that is what we feel sets Rosedale ID apart from many other agencies that serve the HIV population. Every person that works at Rosedale ID has a desire to make a difference in healthcare and in the lives of those infected and affected by HIV. From our friendly An AIDS activist shares a conversation with front desk staff, to our knowledgeable and RAIN’s Rev. Debbie Warren. highly-awarded medical staff and our support staff, we all chose to make a difference. I feel lucky to be a part of an organization that sees beyond the disease and treats the human side of this epidemic. I pledge to you that your experience at Rosedale ID will be the best possible Dr. Frederick Cruickshank, Dale Pierce and Linda Strand at the international and I am always ‘AIDS 2012: Turning the Tide Together’ conference. available, as the

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Match-ups from across the Carolinas: From fields to lanes, athletes burn it up in Charlotte by Jon Hoppel :: qnotes contributor

Softball The Carolina Softball Association (CSA) wrapped up their spring season on July 29 with their championship tournament. Five Charlotte area teams battled the hot and humid conditions for the title of Top Team. In the play-in game, fifth seed MCC Angels upset the fourth seed, Unity Conquerors, and advanced to the semifinals with slick fielding from shortstop Shawn Carlton and timely hitting from coach, Carla Kimrey. In semifinal number one, the two-seed, Charlotte Pride, took on the three-seed, Hartigans. Carrying a 12-4 record into the game, Charlotte Pride looked poised to move on to the finals easily versus the 6-10 Hartiganâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s team. But, Hartiganâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s played smart and stayed close throughout the game, never being down more than a couple of runs at any point. In the end, however, the defensive prowess of Pride proved to be better, highlighted by stellar plays from right fielder Richard Huggins and left fielder Kristin Knox. Semifinal number two featured the newly rejuvenated MCC Angels, and the number one seed, the Sidelines Sluggers. The Sluggers were 14-2 during the regular season and were

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heavily favored to win against the 2-14 Angels. But, like with most tournaments, the regular season stats can be throw out the window. This game came down to the final inning, the last at-bat and the game tied. The sometime contentious thriller was ended when the Sluggers were able to score the winning run on a single from Mark Herring, advancing them to the finals to face the Pride. The championship was decided by a high scoring battle between the two best teams. Pride jumped out early in the first, plating 10 runs in their opening at bat. Sluggers answered with five runs of their own in the bottom half of the first, but were not able to overcome the

Good Game:Â (l to r) Dustin Summerfield, Mark Herring

deficit by the end of the game, losing 20-18. Kristin Knox continued her outstanding play by making a dive into a catch in left field on a line drive off the bat of John Nikolovski in the fourth inning that ended a promising run for (l to r) Umpire Ron Tessner, Angela Thomas, Jason Ray. Foreground Wes Caulder

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Midwood Madness, Petra’s half-price bottles of wine Karaoke, The Woodshed starts at 9 p.m.

Sunday

Barbeque & Bloody Marys, Bar at 316 free BBQ from 3-6 p.m. The Sunday Social Spades/Card Games & House Muzik, Nickel Bar from 5 p.m.-Midnight House Cast Show, The Scorpio with DJ 4Real. 11:30 p.m. Woodshed Sundays, The Woodshed free dinner buffet served at 6:30 p.m. karaoke, 9 p.m.

Friday

Game Night, Bar at 316 Team Trivia and Line Dancing, Hartigan’s starts at 8 p.m. Karaoke, Petra’s hosted by Rachel Houdek. 9 p.m. Wicked and Wild Wednesdays, The Scorpio featuring Tiffany Storm with DJ 4Real. 11 p.m. Pool Tournament, The Woodshed starts at 10:30 p.m.

House DJ and Dancing, Bar at 316 Free HIV Testing, Connections the 4th Friday of every month. 8-10 p.m. A-List Fridays, Marigny hosted by SugaWalls Entertainment. 10 p.m. Feel Good Fridays Dance Night, Nickel Bar from 9 p.m.-2:30 a.m. Live Performances, Petra’s Roxy’s Rainbow Review, The Rainbow In starts at 11p.m. Life’s a Drag, The Scorpio with Tiffany Storm. 11:30 p.m.

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Movie Night, Bar at 316 starts at 9 p.m. Monday Madness, Chasers pool tournament at 11:30 p.m. $25 cash prize and $25 bar tab. Boxing & Monday Night Football, Sidelines Free Pool, The Woodshed all day.

Thursday Night House Party, Bar at 316 Pool Tournament, Central Station Rockin’ Well Thursdays, Chasers with Valerie Rockwell. Show starts at 12:30 a.m. Free HIV Testing, Connections the 2nd Thursday of every month. 8-10 p.m. Karaoke Night, Hartigan’s hosted by Roxxy C. Moorecox. 9 p.m. Team Boystown, Marigny starts at 10 p.m. $10 cover after 11 p.m. Drink-n-drown. SpeakEasy Thursday Open Mic Night, Nickel Bar from 9 p.m.-2:30 a.m. Karaoke Night, The Rainbow In free for members. $5 guests. $6 under 21.

Tuesday

Karaoke with Metro Mike, Bar at 316 starts at 9 p.m. Pool Tournament, Central Station Twisted Trivia, Chasers with Tiffany Storm & Brooklyn Dior. Showtime at 12:30 a.m. Trivia Tuesdays, Marigny hosted by Roxxy C. Moorecox 7 p.m.

Community

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LGBT Community Center of Charlotte Seeks to promote diversity, acceptance and visibility of the LGBT community through original and collaborative programming and events and by providing an inclusive, welcoming and affordable environment for all. 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11 Charlotte, NC 28206 704-333-0144 gaycharlotte.com

House DJ and Dancing, Bar at 316 The Angela Lopez Show, Chasers show starts at 12:30 a.m. Live DJ, Hartigan’s Krewe Saturdays, Marigny Sexy Saturdays Special Events, Nickel Bar from 9 p.m.-2:30 a.m. Live Performances, Petra’s Urban Variety Show, The Scorpio with Elaine Davis. Midnight showtime.

White Rabbit North Carolina’s LGBT everything store. Complete line of Pride merchandise, plus magazines, books, DVDs, T-shirts, underwear, swimwear, athletic shorts, hats, hoodies, socks, and more. 920 Central Ave. Charlotte, NC 28204 704-531-9988 . phone 704-531-1361 . fax info@whiterabbitbooks.com

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The Shiprocked crew presents a special Pride Week party. More information: facebook.com/shiprockedclt Hartigan’s Karaoke Contest Thursday, Aug. 23, 9-11 p.m. Hartigan’s Irish Pub 601 South Cedar St., Charlotte, NC 28202 Finalists compete! $100 grand prize. hartigans.com International Night Thursday, Aug. 23, 9 p.m. Blue Bar 2906 Central Ave. Charlotte, NC 28205 Live DJ spinning around the world top hits,

drink specials and free cover. facebook.com/BlueBarOnCentral

More information: facebook.com/ events/248568798579956/

••• Friday, Aug. 24

Hartigan’s Drag Diner & Drag Show Friday, Aug. 24, 9 p.m.-1 a.m. Hartigan’s Irish Pub 601 South Cedar Street Charlotte, NC 28202 Buff Faye and a cast of local entertainers present their Drag Diner, 9-11 p.m. Followed by Roxy C. Moorecox’s Pride Drag Show, 11 p.m.-1 a.m. hartigans.com

Red Frog Basketball Tournament Friday, Aug. 24, 6-10 p.m. Covenant Presbyterian Church 1000 E. Morehead St., Charlotte, NC 28204 More information: facebook.com/redfrog1 Pride Charlotte Westin Takeover Friday, Aug. 24, 7-11 p.m. The Westin Charlotte 601 S. College St., Charlotte, NC 28202

Pride Paint Party Friday, Aug. 24, 9 p.m. Blue Bar

2906 Central Ave. Charlotte, NC 28205 Free neon body paint and glow sticks, live guest DJ mixing club-rockin’ music and only a $3 cover! facebook.com/BlueBarOnCentral ••• Saturday, Aug. 25 Pride Charlotte Festival Saturday, Aug. 25, Noon-10 p.m. S. Tryon St. between 4th and Stonewall Sts. pridecharlotte.com/festival Pride Charlotte After Party: Marigny Saturday, Aug. 25, 10 p.m. Marigny Dance Club 1440 S. Tryon St., Suite 110, Charlotte, NC 28203 More information: marignycharlotte.com ••• Sunday, Aug. 26 Buff Faye’s Drag Brunch Sunday, Aug. 19, Noon Hartigan’s Irish Pub 601 South Cedar St., Charlotte, NC 28202 hartigans.com Pride Charlotte Festival Saturday, Aug. 25, Noon-6 p.m. S. Tryon St. between 4th and Stonewall Sts. pridecharlotte.com/festival Pride Charlotte After Party: Scorpio The Scorpio 2301 Freedom Dr., Charlotte, NC 28208 More information: thescorpio.com ••• Monday, Aug. 27 Flying Biscuit Pride Charlotte Wine Down Monday, Aug. 27 Flying Biscuit — Park Road Shopping Center 4241 Park Rd., Charlotte NC 28209 Flying Biscuit presents a special “Wine Down” event. Now that Pride Charlotte is over, come and relax with a delicious meal and half-priced bottles of wine. A portion of proceeds benefit Pride Charlotte.

More events and details to be announced via Pride Charlotte’s website at pridecharlotte.com/events. — Event information courtesy Pride Charlotte

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David Sewell aka Starla DaVinci, Charlotte

Becoming a drag star wasn’t enough for David Sewell, so he became a drag starla instead. Starla DaVinci, that is. The 26-yearold Aquarius is a native Charlottean and popular member of the city’s vibrant drag scene. He tells 20 Questions that his favorite quote is: “Love of beauty is taste, the creation of beauty is art!” He also says he knows who would make an ideal boyfriend for Charlie Brown’s bestie, Linus Van Pelt. Keep reading to learn who the lucky toon is, as well as much more. Which do you have more of in your home: tools or bobby pins? Even though a queen can never have too many bobby pins, I have to say that my boyfriend has an extensive tool collection that includes many power tools. He wins this round. Did you play any organized sports growing up? When I lived in Okinawa, Japan there were soccer tryouts at my high school and, as I do most things, I jumped in head-first with my eyes closed. I somehow made it onto the junior varsity team. I was good, but there were no “Rudy” moments. If blondes have more fun, what do brunettes have more of? Blondes do not have more fun; they just get

more attention! Trust me, I change the color of my wig all the time. How do these films rank based on the number of times you’ve seen them: “The Breakfast Club,”“Fight Club,”“The First Wives Club,”“The Joy Luck Club”? “Wives” is definitely first. I love anything with Bette Midler singing in it; Diane Keaton is one of my favorite actresses and you have to adore Goldie Hawn. Anyone who could push Kate Hudson out of her lady parts and deal with her for 18 years is my hero! “Breakast” is second and the others I haven’t seen. Do you know by heart the number of days in each month? Not at all — but I know something about the second Sunday of each month. It’s the day of my new show at Marigny, called “Glamazar Sundays.” The club will open at 3 p.m. with the show starting at 5 p.m. Wink. Which Olympic sport had the hottest male athletes overall? This is a sticky situation, but I think it’s no secret that Danell Leyva of the U.S. Men’s Gymnastics Team was sent here by the Goddess Cher to bring the world together in admiration of all the hot iPhone pics he takes of himself. How would you finish this sentence: “I have a booking tonight so I have to be sure to…” “…live in the moment.” When I’m onstage I ask myself, “How can I make this about the audience and I?” In the performance industry you are only as good as your last show. To be good, you must be present and in the moment for every beat of the show. Who were the first three musical acts you saw in concert? The first one was unforgettable! I was in first grade when my mother took me to Janet Jackson’s Velvet Rope Tour. Then there was Hanson at a festival uptown. The next concert was Cher when I was 16!

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a&e Can I know more than my doctor? Dear Trinity, I’ve been ill for months now. And, I’ve been telling my primary doctor that I know what’s wrong with me. But, he keeps saying, “The tests don’t prove it.” But, I’m sure I know what’s happening to me. What do I do? No Relief, Chattanooga, TN Dear No Relief, People of authority, i.e., ministers, doctors, judges and queens, don’t always have the right answer and/or do the right thing. Remember the joke, “What’s the difference between God and a doctor? God knows he’s not a doctor.” You must realize that you may know more about yourself than your doctor. Not everyone with more credentials than you knows more about you than you. So, honey, go get some more opinions until you can get the results you need. Don’t give in, but rather give ‘em hell! Hey Trinity, I’ve been with the same person for years. We have a nice life, but our sexual experiences have diminished with time. How can I make our life more sensual, before it ends up senseless? Too Practical, Santa Barbara, CA Hey Too Practical, Everything, everyone and every relationship eventually needs new chains and chokers, I mean changes and challenges. Like a home that needs to be redecorated every so often, so does a relationship. When I want to make a good relationship even

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better, I add some adventure into our lives. And, sometimes, sweetie, that means giving your nice life a naugty twist! Think sexy. Think naughty. Think outside the box. And, think tight uniforms. (Marriage! It’s like the “Tale of Two Cities” — the best of times and the worst of times. Check it out via my cartoon.) Hello Trinity, After a year of dating the same guy, I’m getting more and more uncomfortable with the fact that he still lives and owns a home with his ex-lover. Am I crazy for being concerned that their friendship could cause future problems in our relationship? Crazy/Concerned, Provincetown, MA Hello Crazy/Concerned, Feeling concerned about anything is healthy and normal. Never avoid your feelings. It’s not uncommon in gay life that ex-couples stay friends, roommates and even business/property owners. So, don’t become a rifle-swinging madman over their relationship. However, if they also share a bed, vacations and leather accessories, then I’d call a mortician, I mean a meeting between you and the guy you’re dating. But, for now, accept their strong friendship. Pumpkin, there will always, be problems to deal with and hopefully this wont be one of them! Dearest Trinity, For the first time in my life, someone I once dated is stalking me. It’s now affecting everything I do. I’m even having nightmares! Help! Stalking Dilemma, Montréal, QC Dearest Stalking Dilemma, Being stalked is awful. It’s ruined people’s lives. So, darling, besides getting a watchdog try reading:

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Trinity’s Strategic Tips For Being Stalked 1. First, be very clear and direct. Be tough, stern and aggressive. Insist that he/she stop stalking you! 2. Continually use the word stalking whenever you deal with this person! 3. Tell the authorities. Making a report today may save you the burden of proof tomorrow. 4. If you get letters, threaten to publicly print these letters and/ or send them to everyone connected to this stalker. 5. Get support from a councilor, a big, tough thug and/or a security alarm! 6. Be strategic and creative! Say things that turn this person off to you emotionally and sexually, i.e. my herpes sores are out of control. 7. Unfortunately, you may have to change your phone number(s) and possibly your address. 8. Call all of his/her friends and family to let them know what is happening. Tell them to do something or you will see them all in court! 9. Go to his/her workplace and publicly make a big scene! 10. L astly, don’t let yourself get as obsessed as your stalker. Try to conduct your life in as normal a fashion as possible, until it’s over! : : — With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend Trinity hosted “Spiritually Speaking” a weekly radio drama performed globally and is now minister of WIG: Wild Inspirational Gatherings. info: www.telltrinity.com . Trinity@telltrinity.com Sponsored by: WIG Ministries Gay Spirituality for the Next Generation! www.wigministries.org

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August 18 - 31 If you are running on all four engines, try to coast a bit. Energetic Mars enters passionate Scorpio and trines retro Neptune in Pisces. That means that seemingly inconsequential small actions can take us further than we ever thought possible… in an entirely different direction! But, don’t panic. Enjoy the ride and expect to take the scenic route. LEO (07.24-08.23) It is time to make your household an entertainment empire. Improve your surroundings and expand your social circle into a sphere. Increase the home bonhomie. Also, be prepared to deal with some intense issues regarding money and the psychology behind it. Be an open book, proud Lion. But, will you be a paperback, hard cover or just virtual? VIRGO (08.24-09.23) Honesty is the best policy, at least right now. Be outspoken and prepare to take command of the group dynamic. A star is born! You manage to impress the masses and compel compadres and acquaintances to do your bidding. But, is it all for altruistic motives or are you motivated by purely petty selfish motives? Come clean, queer Virgin. LIBRA (09.24-10.23) Don’t let your over-riding greed and urgent need to succeed derail your carefully constructed job responsibilities This is the time to survey the field, wait and re-evaluate. Proud Libras can overreact when they really should relax and let things roll off their backs. There will be plenty of time to capitalize on your smarts later this summer. So, for now, ride the waves. SCORPIO (10.24-11.22) Queer Scorps seek a connection. There is something magnetic about you as the adoring crowds gravitate into your orbit. Don’t be content to rotate in the same circles though. Your persona burns brightly in a global arena. Meet and greet the entire fleet. There is someone waiting for you who has a few tricks up their sleeves. Expect to get shocked…or is it buzzed? SAGITTARIUS (11.23-12.22) Secret admirers do more than send you anonymous love notes. They quickly pounce! Suddenly, everything that has been hidden is revealed, along with a few things that you would prefer to continue to keep under wraps. There is nothing to fear, gay Archer. Nothing should be hidden. Use the time to cash in on your considerable animal magnetism and let it all hang out! CAPRICORN (12.23-01.20) Pink Caps are veritable social bees. Friends and friends of friends fly to your hive. Relationships that you make now have impact through the summer and beyond. You are the mover and shaker of any group. Cause a few earthquakes that change the landscape. Revealed are a few gems ready to be mined, errr, or something like that. AQUARIUS (01.21-02.19) Conceptually, you have some pretty good long-term plans. You know where you want to be professionally and have the energy to put your goals into action. In practice however, Aqueerians are apt to overdo it. You could waste energy with unbridled efforts. Don’t get caught up in the swirl of the nitty gritty. Relax and enjoy daydreaming of glory a little longer. PISCES (02.20-03.20) Just when you thought things had quieted down, this is the time to make your mark on the world. Push a small effort into a grand scale, Guppie. Will you be able to adequately control your own press? There you are at every party, every A-list event and every hot-totrot spot. You could actually run the risk of being horribly over exposed…uh, if you call that a risk. ARIES (03.21-04.20) Domestic affairs will have an air of mystery. But, this is not the time for any major changes in your routine or home design. It is a time to relax, recharge and attend to… ahem…intimate projects. Proud Rams not only enjoy the sexy intrigue around the house, they also enjoy putting a bit of their own mischief into

play. Should we dust you for fingerprints? TAURUS (04.21-05.21) Don’t be afraid to make demands of pals and partners. Queer Bulls have more than the usual amount of diplomacy. For those in the meet market, you not only manage to wend your way into selective circles, you also make your intentions known and accepted in no uncertain terms. You finally get what you wish. Oh, be careful of what you wish! GEMINI (05.22-06.21) Pink Twins feel their oats and think nothing of jumping into any detailed job task head first. But, look before you leap. You may not only dive in at the shallow end, there is the risk of wasting and dissipating your energies. You risk losing momentum on projects that look simple, but require long-term application. Climb every mountain, but be sure to pack a big lunch. CANCER (06.22-07.23) Gay Crabs are poised for a lot of fun and “gaymes.” Opportunities abound to paint the town hot pink with your Pride parade. Inspiration strikes and you become the epicenter of excitement wherever you go. Remember, first impressions are memorable. (Perhaps, too memorable right now.) How much is too too much? Hey who really cares? : : © 2012 Madam Lichtenstein, LLC. All Rights Reserved. Entertainment. info: Visit www.TheStarryEye.com for e-greetings, horoscopes and Pride jewelry. My book “HerScopes: A Guide To Astrology For Lesbians” from Simon & Schuster is available at bookstores and major booksites.

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Can you spell your own name in sign language? Yes, I can. It’s about the only thing I know how to say besides “thank you” and “beautiful.” What’s the first item of clothing you put on in the morning? I sleep naked and have for years! The first thing I grabbed this morning was a clean pair of boxers for some reason. Usually I wear briefs all the time. Have you read “Fifty Shades of Grey”? No, although I’ve been meaning to. I want to know what in gay hell that skanky Anastasia Steele lets that (un)Christian Grey character do to her. With a spatula at one point, I hear! What is your favorite variety of bean? It would have to be the soybean. Actually, soybeans have given my digestive system new life, if you know what I mean. Hint: Never bounce back and forth between whole milk and soy milk. It only leads to trouble at inopportune moments. Trust me. Have you ever lost your wig onstage? Countless times. I used to have an ex-boyfriend who would tell me every time I left for a show, “Don’t get drunk and lose your wig!” Who was your “WTF was I thinking” celebrity crush? When I was younger, I remember thinking Brad Pitt in “Interview With The Vampire” was the hottest guy I had ever seen. Now I look at that man and think WTF!? Mashed potatoes, fried potatoes or potatoes au gratin? My boyfriend was raised in Ireland, so you know potatoes are a staple at the Haus of DaVinci. With my mother working at The Diamond [Restaurant] most of my life, mashed potatoes have always been my favorite — and I love the soy variety they have now.

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Have you ever assembled a model of any sort? I put together a couple of toy train sets when I was younger. I secretly had hopes that if I showed my mother I could do it, she might cave and get me Barbie’s Dream House, which also required assembly. Which pageant category is your strongest? Talent has always been my strongest category. In case you were wondering, it’s not coincidence that all of my routines have the same theme of being an outsider. How many albums do you own by Katy Perry, Lady Gaga and Rihanna, added together? Katy Perry’s albums have no room on the shelf beside my dear Mother Monster’s three CDs and even more reference materials. Rihanna, on the other hand, I have loved since “Pon De Replay” and have four of her albums. Which two of the following would make the best couple: Tommy Pickles, Bamm-Bamm Rubble, Bart Simpson, Linus Van Pelt? Tommy Pickles is my homie and he needs someone he could stay with for a long time. Linus is definitely the right choice. He would keep Tommy safe and out of trouble with his security blanket. Bart and Bamm-Bamm are way too violent. If you had the power to replace Barack Obama as president with any other living person, would you? Not a chance! President Obama has publicly committed to his stance for broader equality and has passed legislation benefiting the LGBT community. The Democratic National Convention coming to our city the same year is a gift to our community. : :

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the Sluggers. Bobby Shaw kept the Sluggers in the game by going 4-5 with two homeruns and clutch hitting from Tammy Benfield. In the end, the Sluggers could not overcome the 12 walks given up by their team and the exceptional play of Pride’s pitcher and coach, John Rukavina. The fall CSA softball season starts up September 16. Go online to carolinasoftball.org to find out how to register. Rugby On Sept. 15, the Charlotte Royals will welcome to Charlotte the internationally renowned World Barbarians rugby team coach, Gus Ventura. He will be in town to help run their Rugby 101 clinic. The team is looking to build on their incredibly successful spring 2012 season, with an even better fall one. Any interested parties who want to find out more about rugby, learn how the game is played or just meet the team, are encouraged to check it out. For more information, charlotteroyals.org. Bowling The Charlotte Rainbowlers League is excited to kick off another season of bowling for fall 2012. Kick-off Information/sign-up meeting for the upcoming season will be held at AMF Centennial Lanes on South Blvd., which is also where the league competes, on Aug. 27 at 7:30 p.m. If you cannot make that, and are still interested in bowling, contact them on Facebook at facebook.com/ groups/26087579212/. : :

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Thru Sept. 30 Durham ‘Love/Hate’ “Love/Hate, Private/Public, Inside/Outside, Gay/Straight” juried art exhibit showcasing varied assortment of goqnotes.com/qguide/events LGBTQ talent across a wide range of of mediums. Opened Aug. 10 and runs through Sept. 30. The Durham Arts Place, 305 E. Chapel Hill St. durhamartsplacelgbtq.wordpress.com.

lesbian women. Events include a pool party and an after party. Holiday Inn Express, 2707 Little Rock Rd. $20/VIP. $15/general. soakinwet-zvents.eventbrite.com.

Aug. 19 • Salisbury Salisbury Pride fundraiser Organizers of Salisbury Pride invite you to a fundraising brunch at Sweat Meadow Cafe, 118 W. Innes St. salisburypride.com.

Leslie Jordan visits Petra’s Aug. 26-31 • Charlotte ‘Stories I Can’t Tell Mama’ Comedian Leslie Jordan comes to Charlotte’s Petra’s for a whole week featuring his live performance, “Stories I Can’t Tell Mama.” Performances Aug. 26-28/30-31, 8:30 p.m. Performance Aug. 29, 7 p.m. Petra’s, 1919 Commonwealth Ave. Tickets are $25 online at tickets.reactionshows.com. reactionshows.com. petraspianobar.com.

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Aug. 25 • Charlotte Soak HER Wet Sumthin Nu, Golden Productions, Sugawalls Entertainment & Holly J Events presents a special weekend full of events specifically for

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Aug. 25 • Charlotte Murder & Mystery The Murder Mystery Company Presents:” Of Sound Mind and Dead Body.” Murder, mystery and magic take center stage at The Murder Mystery Company’s most popular show. Beauregards, 3030 Freedom Dr. 7-10 p.m. Tickets are $60 and includes a threecourse meal. grimprov.com/Murder-MysteryDinner-Charlotte-/.

Aug. 26 • Charlotte DNC delegate preaches Democratic National Convention delegate Janice Covington, the first transgender member of the North Carolina delegation, will preach at Wedgewood Church, 4800 Wedgewood Dr. 11 a.m. wedgewoodbaptist.com. Aug. 26 • Winston-Salem 8 in 8 Dash Bash The Adam Foundation teams up with the Winston-Salem Dash for a special night at the ballgame. A portion of ticket proceeds will benefit The Adam Foundation. BB&T Ballpark,

951 Ballpark Way. Entrance at 1 p.m. Game at 2 p.m. adamfoundation.org. Sept. 2 • Charlotte Unity Through Community Community members present a special welcome party for LGBT and straight ally Democratic National Convention guests and delegates. Open to the public. General admission tickets are $25 before Aug. 20 and $40 thereafter. VIP tickets are $75 before Aug. 20 and $100 thereafter. N.C. Dance Theatre, 701 N. Tryon St. 8 p.m.-2 a.m. unitycharlotte2012.com.

Aug. 18-31 . 2012

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Aug. 18-31 . 2012