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news & features 6 News Notes: Regional Briefs
a&e / life&style 4 20 Questions 7 Playing the field 10 Holiday Shopping & Gift Guide, Part I 11 Deck the halls with innovative tips 12 On the eight days of Chanukah 13 On the map 14 Tell Trinity 16 Out in the Stars 18 Community resources 18 Fabulance 18 Jane’s World 19 Q events calendar Online Only
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20 Questions Chris Hood, Charlotte by David Stout :: david@goqnotes.com
town, but never in my life had my sexuality been viewed as a positive — instead of a hindrance — like it is here in Charlotte. The LGBT community accepted me immediately and I made a ton of new friends, who helped me be comfortable with myself.” Fabulous! We definitely love a happy ending here at 20Q. (So if anyone’s offering, text us!) Keep reading, dear reader, to learn more about our new Charlotte homeboy, Chris.
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Chris Hood loves living and working in Charlotte. “I don’t plan on leaving anytime soon,” he declares. We believe him — the guy puts down roots. Hood grew up in Rock Hill, where he was “very active in sports and the community.” He left the city to attend Clemson University and after graduating in 2010, he went back home, got a job with a financial firm and came out. “I worked there for about two years and realized I needed to get away from Rock Hill so I could truly find myself.” This past spring Hood landed a job with JHG Financial and made his big move. “Maybe it’s because I am from a small
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Do you prefer slapstick humor or witty repartee? I would say slapstick. While I enjoy a witty comeback as much as the next guy, I enjoy not having to think when laughing. What is your favorite food that comes in a can? Chef Boyardee spaghetti and meatballs. The nostalgia of childhood in a can. Which one of the following would get your vote for Prom King: Matt Bomer, Chris Colfer, Anderson Cooper or Neil Patrick Harris? NPH by a landslide. Is there anyone cooler than NPH? What’s the ideal color for a cat? Anything but black. I will literally turn around and take a different route to avoid crossing a black cat’s path. Which deceased musical artist do you most wish you had seen in concert? I would have loved to see Michael Jackson live. Best performer of all time. Are you more likely to be found working on a sudoku puzzle, a tan or your automobile? I try to stay a shade darker than Casper, but definitely Sudoku — even have an app on my phone. How do these films rank based on the number of times you’ve seen them: “The Bourne Identity,” “Casino Royale,” “Mission: Impossible,” “Salt”? “Casino Royale” (Daniel Craig is awesome); “The Bourne Identity”; “Salt” (surprisingly good movie); “Mission: Impossible” (not a Tom Cruise fan). On a scale from 1 (tepid) to 10 (scalding), how warm do you like your showers? I’m going to say 8 or 9. My skin is usually a little red when drying off. What was your favorite outdoor game as a child? Capture the flag — we used to have huge neighborhood matches with 20 or so kids. Of course, that was back when kids still played outside. Which artistic pursuit do you have the most talent for?
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I’m not a very artsy guy, but in the shower I am a pretty good lead vocalist. Do you own a baseball glove? Two. I played through high school. I have two because I used to chew on them and ruined one. Which decade seems like it was tailor made for teenagers? The ’90s, but that’s a biased answer. I guess because it was a time when parents seemed to still give their kids a little bit of freedom. Cell phones not being invented yet probably helped. What is your favorite condiment? Ketchup. I put it on just about everything. Are you more likely to watch a movie at home from a purchased disc, a Redbox rental or On Demand? On Demand. I have a wandering mind and somehow always end up paying $10 for a Redbox movie. Which TV show (past or present) has the most attractive cast? “True Blood” — game, set, match. How often do you wear a belt? Always! There is no excuse not to! I lost a good friend because he wasn’t wearing his. [Ed. Note: This one took us a minute. We couldn’t figure out how a person could die from not wearing a belt, until we realized you were talking about a seatbelt. We meant tanned leather with a shiny buckle. We’re sorry for your loss, in any case.] Corn Flakes, cornbread or corn on the cob? Corn on the cob. Corn has always been one of my favorite foods. My grandmother always used to make me get two vegetables at cafeteria-style restaurants and I would come back with two corns. She would just laugh and shake her head. When was the last time you jumped on a trampoline? It has been far too long. But, that reminds me: I broke my tailbone on a trampoline trying to do a fancy backflip and had to sit on a pillow at school for a few weeks. That was probably the last time. Do you like marshmallow peanuts? Gross! I always hated those things — not the biggest marshmallow fan. Have you ever been to the Grand Canyon? Unfortunately, no, but I would love to one day. Will qnotes fund a trip? It is long overdue. : : We want you to be the subject of a future “20 Questions.” If you’re interested, send your name, city and a few sentences about yourself to editor2@goqnotes.com. You’ll be asked to supply a photo of yourself suitable for publication later in the process. If you’d like to see a particular person featured here or have questions for us to use, drop us an email.
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Our job is to report Running an LGBT community newspaper, or any minority community newspaper for that matter, is no easy task. qnotes, like other minority press, operates in a sometimes uncomfortable middle ground between objective media and an instrument to build and empower community. Both missions are important and essential. On one hand, the newspaper acts to showcase our community’s strength, diversity and positive attributes to a wider and sometimes more general audience. On the other, we act, as all news agencies do, to report the news, good or bad. We report on the good things, those news items that make all of us smile — the concerts, community service, fundraisers, parties, political and legal successes and many more topics that instill in each of us a sense of pride and achievement. Yet, good news sometimes comes with a mix of bad news. We have an equally important obligation to report the maybe-not-sogreat actions and statements of individuals in our community, our community’s leaders and its non-profit organizations. We’ve reported on crimes committed by community members. We’ve reported on mismanagement, alleged embezzlement and federal investigations. We’ve documented organization leadership gone awry. It’s not always pleasant. Sometimes it’s downright ugly and both physically and emotionally exhausting. But, we do it because it is our job. And, it seems, whenever we must undertake reporting that seeks to hold community leaders or organizations accountable — to the law, to their constituents or to their own voluntary actions and statements — the newspaper receives charges that we are “unfair,” that we are “attacking,” that we are “bullying” or have a “personal beef” with whomever or whichever person or organization happens to be the subject of one of our reports. We take our mission to empower very seriously; indeed, we immensely enjoy it. But, we can never turn our backs on our doublyimportant mission to report the news — fairly, accurately and objectively. As members of the LGBT community, we wish it the best success on its continued endeavors for social, religious and legal equality. Even so, we must be as abundantly clear today as we have many times in the past: We are a newspaper. We are not a propaganda machine for community leaders or our community organizations. We are not campaign surrogates. It sometimes becomes easy to forget this because our reporting does, indeed, come from a decidedly pro-LGBT stance. Sometimes, it’s a bit advocacy-like in its nature. Nonetheless, if we are to remain true to our obligations, our staff must vigilantly guard against becoming an uncritical cheerleader for our community.
Such has been the case with some of our recent reporting. That elected officials, including the city’s first and only openly LGBT official, would decline or refuse to go on-record with a condemnation of hatred which targets Jews, LGBT people or any other group, is newsworthy. That the city’s first and only openly LGBT official would continue to decline requests for comment is newsworthy. That the same official would mislead about how much time she spent speaking to a reporter and then accuse that reporter of misrepresentation when no misrepresentation occurred is also newsworthy. Unfortunately, none of this news is positive. It doesn’t make anyone, including anyone at this newspaper, feel good. It doesn’t cast our community in the brightest or best light. But, it is news. And, we’ve reported it. Charlotte Mayor Anthony Foxx and several city council and Mecklenburg County commissioners have responded with on-therecord statements to a simple question that any tolerant person can answer. “I condemn hate in any form,” Mayor Foxx told qnotes. Six short and simple words spoken plainly and on the record. When bad news is reported, it is often easier to blame the messenger than to examine the messenger’s source or its larger picture. We hate being the bearer of bad news. We’d like nothing better than to only ever report good news, but that doesn’t hinge on us. We can only report what people tell us or what they don’t. As this print edition hits the streets, a neoNazi group and a North Carolina chapter of the Ku Klux Klan gather in Uptown Charlotte. They do so against the backdrop of a city and a local political culture which is too often unable to take strong and public stands on behalf of people who need protecting — a city where elected leaders have yet to hold an affirmative and transparent public vote on any single matter of LGBT inclusion, a city where elected leaders and local community groups and foundations speak softly rather than candidly or forcefully on simple matters of right and wrong, a city where the dire concerns and needs of ethnic, racial, religious and sexual minorities and impoverished neighborhoods are glanced over while more well-to-do parts of town continue to grow, a city where simply drawing attention to decades-old problems in need of modernday solutions is likened to radical and militant activism, a city where constituents can find themselves quickly silenced or ostracized when they speak up and offer fair criticisms of their leaders’ actions or statements. Those are facts — easily observable truths of life in Charlotte. If they bother you, work to change them. Blaming the messenger and ignoring the problems will solve nothing. : :
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Gold to hit Broadway NEW YORK, N.Y. — Mitchell Gold, founder of Faith in America, will be a guest presenter at the post-performance TalkOUT for the musical “Bare,” on Dec. 5 Broadway World reported. Producers decided to organize the series to allow dialogue between “some of the foremost leaders in the fight for LGBT equality” and audience members at select performances. Among those who will take part in the series that begins on Nov. 19 and continues through Dec. 19 are Judy Shepard (The Matthew Shepard Foundation); Jane Clementi (The Tyler Clementi Foundation); Chuck Wolfe (The Gay & Lesbian Victory Foundation); Hudson Taylor (athlete ally); James Clementi (The Tyler Clementi Foundation); Paul Boskind (“Bare” producer, Human Rights Campaign board member and other board members); Travis Wall (“BARE” and “So You Think You Can Dance” choreographer); The Clementi Family, Joseph, Jane and James (The Tyler Clementi Foundation); and cast members of “Bare.” The production is mounted Off-Broadway at the New World Stages, 340 W. 50th St. It follows a group of teens wrestling with issues of identity, sexuality and religion at a co-ed Catholic boarding school, producers said. — L.M.
Charlotte Pride 2013 staffers, volunteers needed
CHARLOTTE — The LGBT Center of Charlotte, 820 St., Suite B11, has announced its call for 2013 Pride Charlotte volunteers and staffers. The two-day celebration begins its planning process months ahead of rollout in order to provide an enjoyable event for everyone. Committee and chair positions to fill are: •P arade — provides execution of and staging of parade, from development to implementation. • Development — oversees all revenue-generating activities of the festival and parade, including sponsorships, vendor fees, parade registration fees and individual contributions. Committee activities include sponsorship, vendors and fundraising. • Media/Marketing — oversees all aspects of media, marketing and public relations of Pride Charlotte. Committee responsibilities include printing and publication of all materials, Pride guide production, radio/television ad development and social media outreach. • Community Development — responsible for increasing and improving visibility and reputation within the Charlotte region.
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Committee activities include volunteer recruiting and training, event development, planning and implementation and diversity fostering and recruiting. Additional positions are: •S ecretary — responsible for recording votes and maintaining minutes and records of all meetings and proceedings, plus supporting all committee activity. • T reasurer — reports directly to the festival co-chairs and responsible for working directly with all committee chairs to develop a detailed annual budget for festival and parade operations. For those interested, submit resumes to Pride Charlotte Co-Chair Richard Grimstad at richard@pridecharlotte.com. — L.M.
Triad ‘Sordid’ to be mounted
WINSTON-SALEM — “Sordid Lives,” a Del Shores’ comedy, will be held at Theatre Alliance, 1047 Northwest Blvd., from Nov. 30-Dec 9. Produced with the support of a $3,000 grant provided by the Adam Foundation, this popular stage presentation tells the story of Peggy, a “good Christian woman, who hits her head on the sink and bleeds to death after tripping over her lover’s wooden leg in a motel room in Winters, Texas. It’s a bit chaotic and filled with a great deal of irreverence. Performances are at 8 p.m. on Nov. 30, Dec. 1, 5, 6, 8, 9 and at 2 p.m. on Dec. 2 and 9. Tickets are $12, senior/student and $14, adult on opening night and $14/senior/student and $16, adult for the rest of the run and may be purchased online at wstheatrealliance.org/ site/box-office. For more information on the Adam Foundation, visit adamfoundation.org. — L.M.
Triangle ENCF shares award winners
RALEIGH — Equality North Carolina Foundation has announced its legislative and champion awardees for 2012. They, along with keynote speaker Rev. William J. Barber, who will receive a special award for his efforts against Amendment One, will be honored at the Nov. 17 Gala event held at the Empire Room, 203 S. Elm St., on Nov. 17, 6:30-10 p.m. The Student Leadership Award will go to Sammi Kiley The Legislative Leadership Award recipient is Rep. Larry Hall (Dist. 29), Durham, N.C. The Bob Page Equality Champions,
awarded in five geographic regions are: Charlotte Region: Chris McLeod and Krista Tillman, Charlotte, N.C.; Eastern Region: Sherre Toler, Wilmington, N.C.; Triad Region: Rev. Julie Peeples, Greensboro, N.C. Triangle Region: Pam Spaulding, Durham, N.C. Western Region: Jasmine Beach-Ferrara, Asheville, N.C. Earlier in the day, from 8:30 a.m.-5:30 p.m., the Equality Conference will take place at the University of North Carolina at Greensboro’s Elliott Center. Workshops include, but are not limited to, “Using local grassroots efforts to build safer learning communities in NC;” “Rural organizing in the south;” “Faith-based reconciliation: reaching out and reaching in;” and “Overcoming diversity challenges in the LGBT community.” For rates, registration and information, visit equalitync.org. — L.M.
Center selling posies
RALEIGH — The LGBT Center of Raleigh, 411 Hillsborough St., is getting in the Christmas spirt and has developed a fundraiser to support its 2013 OutRaleigh Festival by selling potted poinsettias. Plants are fresh and live and come in six inch pots. They are normally more than 12 inches tall. Cost for each is $15 contribution. All orders must be placed by Nov. 30. Pickup is available at the center as soon after Dec. 14 at 1 p.m. Additional contributions to the center are also welcome at the time of order placement. In other news, the center is hosting a Transgender Day of Remembrance memorial reception on Nov. 20 from 7-9 p.m. as part of the 14th international event. Partnering with Equality North Carolina and North Carolina State University, they hope to be able to raise public awareness of hate crimes against transgender people. On Nov. 22, the center will welcome attendees to its second annual TransGiving Dinner Party at 5 p.m. Turkey will be provided. Bring a side dish with serving utensils and enjoy the camaraderie. A short non-denominational grace will precede the meal. RSVP through the center website if requested for those who plan to attend. To participate in the fundraiser or for more information, visit lgbtcenterofraleigh.com. — L.M.
South Carolina Holiday party slated
COLUMBIA — South Carolina Black Pride will hold its 2nd Annual Red Rendezvous on Dec. 14, 8 p.m.-12:30 a.m., at the Columbia Music Festival Association, 912 Pulaski St. Dress to impress for this holiday celebration at this festive event. On hand will be a live funk band. Attendees will be able to enjoy a cash bar and hors d’oureves. Door prizes will also be awarded.
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goqnotes.com/to/news A local charity drive includes donations of canned foods and small toys. Cost is $25 couples, $15 singles. For tickets, visit southcarolinablackpride. com under the “Donate” PayPal link. — L.M.
National/Global OutServe-SLDN name first director
WASHINGTON, D.C. — OutServe, the association of actively serving LGBT military personnel, and Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN) have tapped Army veteran Allyson Robinson (pictured) to lead the newly combined organization, which will be known as OutServe-SLDN. The two organizations finalized their merger at the beginning of the month. The plan to join was announced in July. Robinson, who is transgender, is a 1994 graduate of the United States Military Academy at West Point. She was commissioned as an officer and served with distinction before resigning her commission in 1999 to pursue a calling to Christian ministry. She subsequently served as pastor-teacher to churches in the Portuguese Azores and central Texas and earned a master of divinity degree in theology from Baylor University in 2007. Most
recently, she was the first Deputy Director for Employee Programs of the HRC Foundation’s Workplace Project. She lives with her wife of 18 years and their four children in Gaithersburg, Md. “I am honored to lead the new OutServeSLDN into this next phase of advocacy and action on behalf of our brave LGBT service members, veterans, and their families. Until they are guaranteed equal opportunity, recognition, support, and benefits, our mission is incomplete. We cannot and will not leave them behind,” said Robinson. — D.S.
NOM strategist turns hate into $
WASHINGTON, D.C. — According to the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), National Organization for Marriage strategist Frank Schubert is making substantial profits at the expense of LGBT Americans. Schubert is the man behind NOM’s misleading ads that advocate against LGBT equality. Public filings show that he has netted nearly $3 million this year for his work in five states where marriage equality has been put up for vote. The profits go to Schubert’s company, Mission Public Affairs. Schubert collected $958,594 for his anti-equality work on N.C.’s Amendment One earlier this year. In the remaining four states, Schubert has collected $967,567.88 in Washington; $492,680 in Maryland; $303,307.69 in Minnesota; and $200,043.46 in Maine. “Frank Schubert is making a lucrative
living off of promoting discrimination against LGBT Americans,” said HRC Vice President of Communications Fred Sainz. “As he gets richer, hundreds of thousands of LGBT Americans face economic hardship, enormous obstacles in starting families and an inability to marry the person they love — all because of Schubert’s lies.” — D.S.
Lesbian minister wins in PCUSA court
LOUISVILLE, Ky. — The highest judicial commission of the Presbyterian Church (USA) has ruled that the Rev. Laurie McNeill did not violate the denomination’s constitution by marrying her same-sex partner in 2009. The General Assembly Permanent Judicial Commission, headquartered here, held that since there is no direct evidence proving sexual activity, McNeill may still serve as a Teaching Elder or Minister within the church. McNeill married her partner Lisa Lynn Gollihue while vacationing in Massachusetts. A few months later she was voted out by the congregation of the Central Presbyterian Church in Newark, N.J., where she served on staff. The church maintains it was due to personnel matters, specifically leadership and administrative abilities, but McNeill observed, “I think the congregation could have lived with me being gay. Announcing I was married pushed it over the edge.” At the 220th General Assembly of the PCUSA, delegates declined to amend the denomination’s official definition of mar-
riage from a “man and a woman” to “two people.” Instead, the Assembly called for additional study. — D.S.
More LGBT depictions on TV
NEW YORK, N.Y. — GLAAD, the nation’s LGBT media watchdog, recently issued Where We Are on TV, a comprehensive review of scripted LGBT primetime characters in the new 2012-2013 television season. After a decrease last year, the number of regular LGBT characters on broadcast networks has risen to the highest ever recorded, while the overall LGBT character count also increased on cable television. According to the report, ABC has 10 out of 194 of their regular characters identifying as LGBT. Fox is in second with six LGBT characters out of 118 total series regulars. The CW will feature four regular LGBT characters out of 81 total, while NBC will feature seven regular LGBT characters out of 166. CBS will feature four LGBT characters out of 142 series regulars, an improvement over last year. The report also calculates the ethnic and racial diversity of all scripted regular characters on primetime broadcast television and found an increase in the number of Black characters while Latino/a representations declined. — D.S. info: Have news or other information? Send your press releases and updates for inclusion in our News Notes: editor@goqnotes.com.
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Playing the field Match-ups from across the Carolinas: Fall season off to active start by Jon Hoppel :: qnotes contributor
Here at the sports news desk of qnotes, we are hoping you are enjoying the cool fall weather and taking in some of the exciting sporting events happening around the Carolinas, (even the Panthers are plagued by injuries and Cam is going through his sophomore slump). So, here is a rundown of what you might have missed and what things you shouldn’t miss in the next month! Rugby On Oct. 13, the Charlotte Royals participated in a threeteam tournament down in Atlanta during Pride weekend hosted by the Atlanta Bucks. This rivalry between the Bucks and Royals goes back to 2004 when Charlotte was first starting their team and lead to many memorable, if not heated and controversial, matches. After a three-year hiatus between the two teams, the Royals traveled south to prove they are the best gay rugby team in the southeast. Joined in Atlanta by the St. Louis Crusaders, the Royals watched the Bucks easily defeat the Crusaders 33-8. In a game that was closer than the score indicated, St. Louis fought valiantly, staying close to Atlanta through the first half. In the second half, they ran out of steam and the Bucks pulled away. Charlotte had the advantage of playing St. Louis shortly after their loss and took no pity on them by walloping the Crusaders 39-0 in the second game of the tournament. The Royals dominated every facet of the game, earning their first shutout of the season.
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In the final/championship game of the tournament, the Royals and Bucks faced off in the marquee matchup to determine southern supremacy. A gritty, tightly tested affair, the game was a major departure from the first two of the tourney. Ball control and hard tackling were staples of both teams throughout which lead to a rightful, although somewhat unsatisfying, 10-10 final score. Earning Man of the Match honors during the weekend were J.T. Wentz, Zach Anderson and Danny Wadsworth. Officials named both teams co-champions, with Charlotte having a higher aggregate J.T. Wentz battles the St. Louis Crusaders in tourney play. Photo Credit: Alex Aguilar score from the two games they played. This leaves Come out and support them as they try to finish the season Charlotte still undefeated on the season with a 3-0-1 record undefeated for the first time in their existence. For game times as they prepare for their three-game home stand to end the and locations, check them out on Facebook or go to their season with games on Nov. 3, 10 and 17 against the Nashville website, charlotteroyals.org. see next page u Grizzlies, the Columbus Coyotes and Table Rock respectively.
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goqnotes.com/to/life Softball The Knoxville Cyclones hosted their second annual KTown Klassic tournament on Oct. 13. One of the smaller tournaments in the southeast, it still featured some of the best teams around the area in both C and D divisions, as well as a women’s division. The Louisville Derby City Devils stormed through the weekend in the C division, winning almost all their games by at least five runs, earning a trip to the finals against the Atlanta Rampage, a team that struggled early in tourney, but were able to find their mojo on the second day. The championship was well played and mostly error-free. The Devils were able to overcome an early game deficit with a rally in the fifth inning and maintained their advantage to the last out claiming the victory. The D division was a good bit more exciting since it featured
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the hometown team, the Cyclones, in a matchup against the Columbus XXX in the last game of the tournament. The crowd was rowdy, excited and, yes, a little drunk, as they cheered on their Knoxville team. Buoyed by the fans’ support and energy, the Cyclones were able to come up with big play after big play and came through victorious, led by pitcher Danny Turner, outfielder Justin Maguire and second baseman Brad Hurst who all played excellent defense all tournament long. Tennis Raleigh hosted the Crape Myrtle Tennis Classic Oct. 24. Unfortunately, the sports news team was unable to attend this event, but here are the results from what we are sure was an outstanding and competitive event.
Winners Men’s Singles Open Jamar Wright def. Stephen Arnold Men’s Doubles Open Stephen Arnold & Gustavo Parra def. John Bane & Jamar Wright Have a happy Thanksgiving from everyone at qnotes. Be sure to work off all that turkey and dressing by getting out and supporting your local gay athletes and athletics! : :
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White Rabbit is located at 920 Central Avenue. We’re actually the only store dedicated to the LGBT community in the entire state of N.C. Our product lines span from rainbow flags and stickers to gift items and all-occasion cards to gay-themed books and DVDs to clothing and adult novelties and more in between. One particular line we introduced this year to great success is high-end underwear and swimwear for men. In fact, we are told that White Rabbit has one of the largest selections of men’s designer underwear on the East Coast. A remarkable change for White Rabbit this year — our 18th year of operation in the Queen City — is the creation of the LGBT Community Art Mural that was painted on the exterior of the building this past summer. The striking wrap-around piece — the brainchild of local artist Gil Croy — was a Plaza-Midwood landmark before it was even completed. Now, visitors to the neighborhood are met with an unmissable image that cements the area’s reputation for being a great place for LGBT people to live, shop, eat and play. As we move into the holiday season and beyond, White Rabbit will continue its campaign to expand product lines with new and unique items that appeal to LGBT customers and straight allies looking for something different. Stop by and pick up some incense, check out our rings and necklaces, or look for a new keychain. We’ll see you soon…
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Holiday Shopping & Gift Guide Part I: Cool gift-giving ideas from some of Charlotte’s hippest stores by David Aaron Moore :: qnotes contributor
It’s that time of year again. Doesn’t matter if you’re celebrating Christmas, Chanukah or Winter Solstice, most Americans like to join in for the merriment of the holiday season by exchanging gifts with family members, good friends and their spouse or significant other. We took a look around town, and after careful consideration picked six stores from among our favorites in the heart of Charlotte that have some of the best and most interesting gifts to offer. Check them out…and don’t forget to tell them qnotes sent you! Best of all, stay tuned for our Nov. 24 and Dec. 8 print editions for more holiday gift-giving, shopping and decorating ideas.
Boris and Natasha 1214 Thomas Ave. 704-375-0079 Look for Boris & Natasha on Facebook
A long-time Plaza-Midwood staple for funky clothing and accessories, Boris and Natasha boasts a bevy of just about everything a fashionista could desire and is clearly a definite must see if you’re shopping for a hard-to-buyfor closet hoarder. Look for high-end alternative clothing from such celebrated labels as Double Zero and French Connection. For affordable style with a funky flair, be sure to check out the store’s collection of inspired scarves and other accessories. When it comes to high style foot wear for both men and women, Boris and Natasha is the place to go for Jeffrey Campbell shoes. Don’t miss out on the Dec. 8 trunk showing of leather goods and knitted and crocheted items (by local artists) to pick up a gift like no other. City Supply Company 1219 Thomas Ave. 704-347-2489 citysupplycharlotte.com City Supply Company is a long-time Plaza-Midwood business specializing in unusual items, ranging from original retro furniture, to new retro-inspired and minimalist home furnishings and accessories. In addition to a large assortment of unusual and comedic seasonal cards, you’ll find much more that’s suitable for anyone on your holiday shopping list: Voluspa candles, a vast assortment of unique Christmas ornaments, stunning jewelry for both men and women and a selection of prints by local artist David French.
Green With Envy 1111 Central Ave. 704-344-8774 envycharlotte.com Formerly known as D.I. Central, the company’s owners and address are the same, but now they’ve got a new name, as well as a collection of new goods, including clothing and jewelry for both men and women, bath supplies, garden supplies, stationary and original works by local artists. Among the many good gift ideas available for the personthat-has-everything are candles, clear stained glass picture frames, a tasty selection of standard and exotic chocolates, gourmet popcorn, Moravian cookies and (get this) microwaveable pork rinds (available in cinnamon and barbecue flavors)! Paper Skyscraper 330 East Blvd. 704-333-7130 paperskyscraper.com
Paper Skyscraper has been a favorite holiday shopping destination in the LGBT community for many years. Home furnishing accessories, kitschy parlor games and quirky novelty toys for adult kids, fun gift cards and a huge library of stylish coffee table books and tomes on unusual, hard-to-find topics are just a portion of what Paper Skyscraper has to offer. Check out this selection of store favorites: a shoe wine caddy, designed to hold one bottle of wine and shaped like a full-sized lady’s high heel pump; handmade soy candles made by the Charlotte-based Ella B. Pure Soy Candles with scents and names inspired by Charlotte’s favorite ‘hoods and Charlotte skyline marble coasters and ornaments made exclusively for Paper Skyscraper, which feature a color rendering of the skyline screen-printed onto marble.
The Rat’s Nest 442 East 36th St. 704-371-3599 See The Rat’s Nest on Facebook The Rat’s Nest is a relative newcomer to the lineup of unique and unusual retail stores in Charlotte. Located in NoDa, the store carries a collection of all things funky and vintage: furniture, clothing and accessories, household items ranging from kitchen appliances to electronics such as working antique televisions, radios and even record and eighttrack tape players. And, if you’re looking for vintage kicks, The Rat’s Nest’s collection of men’s and women’s cowboy boots will give your spurs a nice complement. If you want to take a loved one back in time for the holidays, The Rat’s Nest is the place to go. White Rabbit 920 Central Ave. 704-377-4067 whiterabbitbooks.com For nearly three decades, White Rabbit has proudly served North Carolina’s LGBT community as the premier shopping destination for those seeking LGBT-themed books, clothing, Pridewear and more. With its new and brightly-painted building on Central Ave., you can’t miss this store. Stop in to peruse through its massive selection of stylish underwear from brands Andrew Christian, Cell Block 13, Timoteo, Private Structure, Greg Homme, Pistol Pete, Nasty Pig, Junk Jeans and more. If you have a movie lover on your list, check out the store’s selection of unique LGBT-themed DVDs. Rainbowinspired gifts and other odds and ends round out the store’s products, along with their selection of movies, toys and magazines of a more adult-like flair.
David Aaron Moore is a former editor of qnotes, serving in the role from 2003 to 2007. Moore is a native of North Carolina and the author of “Charlotte: Murder, Mystery and Mayhem” from History Press. Moore has worked for several mainstream and LGBT publications as editor, staff writer, contributor and freelancer. Store and product photos: Matt Comer • Illustration: vectorcard.com, licensed under Creative Commons.
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Deck your halls with innovative tips and techniques Merchandiser for locally, gay-owned Replacements, Ltd., dishes on holiday decor The holiday season doesn’t have to always involve the same old, same old when it comes to decorating your home. Take a few ideas from John Griffith. As the lead visual merchandiser for gay-owned, Greensboro-based Replacements, Ltd., he spends the entire year scouting and developing innovative tips and techniques to deck the halls and trim the perfect tree. So far, Griffith’s team has adorned nearly a dozen trees throughout company’s retail store. Each tannenbaum is a story in itself, defined by color and style and unique looks created by combining ornaments with what some might consider nontraditional trimmings. “So many people settle for simply hanging ornaments on their trees, but there is so much more you can do by adding fillers that really reflect your own personal taste and style,” says Griffith. “Mixing in ribbon, fabrics, florals, feathers and other natural elements create flair and personality. Adding extra flourishes in the right places can make the difference between a pretty tree and an extraordinary tree.” Griffith says the hot colors for holiday 2012 range from soft pastels to rich jewel tones. Popular ornaments this season reflect the
Victorian era, with glittering gemstones and rhinestones being extremely popular. And, don’t be afraid to forgo the traditional tree topper. Instead, consider using twigs or other natural elements arranged out of the top of your tree. Griffith has even strategically placed a tree beneath a chandelier for extra glow. If you don’t have enough room for a traditional sized tree, corner trees or the flatter profile trees are an excellent fit for smaller spaces. Or, Griffith suggests you may want to go in an entirely different direction. “I am into repurposing and recycling, so I took the branches of an old artificial tree and wired them together to create swags and then decorated those with combinations of fabrics, bows and ornaments,” he says. “You can hang swags on a mantel or place them on top of a door frame. They’re a fun family project, and you can even create them with different color stories or themes for each room in your home.” Griffith literally has thousands of ornaments at his fingertips. While most people know Replacements as the world’s largest retailer of old and new china, crystal, silver and collectibles, the company has a vast selection
of ornaments from around the globe. These range from colorful blown glass to crystal and highly collected silver. “As individuals, we chose ornaments for so many different reasons. Decisions may be driven by color or theme, but many choices are shaped by past and future traditions,” says Keith Winkler, the company’s product marketing manager. “Many people reach back to ornaments that remind them of their childhood, while others are looking to start their own traditions with annual collectible ornaments. For instance, Wallace Silver makes an annual sleigh bell, while Gorham Silver releases an annual snow flake. These have been in production for more than four decades and are a great tradition to add every year.” Winkler says popular dinnerware manufacturers including Lenox, Wedgwood and Waterford all offer ornament lines. For those looking for popular blown glass, he suggests
Fashion tree branches to create decorative swags.
the Merck Family’s Old World Christmas line. Those ornaments run the gamut from traditional holiday figures, to birds, sports teams, and pretty much any theme you can imagine. If you are interested in more ideas, you can find decorating and entertaining tips at replacements.com, while Replacements will post additional ideas throughout the upcoming holiday season on its Facebook page. : : — Content courtesy BrandPoint
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On the eight days of Chanukah . . . there is not a partridge in a pear tree by Lainey Millen :: lainey@goqnotes.com
Contrary to popular belief here in the South, Chanukah is not Jewish Christmas, even though it’s celebrated in proximity to it. It does celebrate the miraculous Maccabean victory over its Grecian oppressors back in the second century BCE (Before the Common Era). It also commemorates the rededication in Jerusalem of the Holy Temple during which time there was only enough oil for one day and it lasted for eight. Jews the world over bring out their menorahs (candelabrum) each year and light candles during the eight-day celebration which include prayers. The light from the flickering candles is used for enjoyment and not for utilitarian purposes. Practice says that the menorah be placed in the window for all to see. Of course, it might not find itself there in many homes. Photo Credit: Gobigpicture via stockfreeimages.com
Every family, community, congregation or denomination within Judaism has its own minhag (Hebrew for custom) on how this time is spent. Many folks take this time to adorn their homes with festive decorations. Some have parties, some give gelt (money in Yiddish) to the kids every night and some play games associated with the holiday, like the dreidel (a four-sided top of sorts that is spun). One thing you will certainly find at some time, especially at the beginning, is a big plateful of latkes (potato pancakes), applesauce and sour cream to put on them, donuts and other customary foods. My congregation has a latke-making contest. A wide assortment are brought from sweet potato to more spicy versions. At any rate, it’s a lot of fun and throughout the holiday, we certainly enjoy ourselves. You may have heard or think that we give presents every night. For some that might be true, especially if there are young children in the household. Popular gifts include Judaica (Jewish-oriented gifts and ritual objects), as well as jewelry, housewares, books, CDs, games, collectibles and more. One thing that is high on the list is chocolate coins for the kids. They always love them and usually sort of expect them (again, a minhag). Many of my friends really enjoy getting a box of beautiful, decorative Chanukah candles. Some come in rainbow colors, others in shades of blue and white. Don’t forget that special pet. They’ll like a new toy to play with or a spiffy bandana to make them look even more adorable. Charitable contributions are a huge tradition during this season, as well as other times throughout the year. Whatever your choice, the internet is loaded with a host of websites that will satisfy every palette. Explore to find one that matches your taste and needs. : :
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Midwood Madness, Petra’s half-price bottles of wine Karaoke, The Woodshed starts at 9 p.m.
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Barbeque & Bloody Marys, Bar at 316 free BBQ from 3-6 p.m. The Sunday Social Spades/Card Games & House Muzik, Nickel Bar from 5 p.m.-Midnight House Cast Show, The Scorpio with DJ 4Real. 11:30 p.m. Woodshed Sundays, The Woodshed free dinner buffet served at 6:30 p.m. karaoke, 9 p.m.
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Game Night, Bar at 316 Team Trivia and Line Dancing, Hartigan’s starts at 8 p.m. Karaoke, Petra’s hosted by Rachel Houdek. 9 p.m. Wicked and Wild Wednesdays, The Scorpio featuring Tiffany Storm with DJ 4Real. 11 p.m. Pool Tournament, The Woodshed starts at 10:30 p.m.
House DJ and Dancing, Bar at 316 Free HIV Testing, Connections the 4th Friday of every month. 8-10 p.m. A-List Fridays, Marigny hosted by SugaWalls Entertainment. 10 p.m. Feel Good Fridays Dance Night, Nickel Bar from 9 p.m.-2:30 a.m. Live Performances, Petra’s Roxy’s Rainbow Review, The Rainbow In starts at 11p.m. Life’s a Drag, The Scorpio with Tiffany Storm. 11:30 p.m.
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Movie Night, Bar at 316 starts at 9 p.m. Monday Madness, Chasers pool tournament at 11:30 p.m. $25 cash prize and $25 bar tab. Boxing & Monday Night Football, Sidelines Free Pool, The Woodshed all day.
Thursday Night House Party, Bar at 316 Pool Tournament, Central Station Rockin’ Well Thursdays, Chasers with Valerie Rockwell. Show starts at 12:30 a.m. Free HIV Testing, Connections the 2nd Thursday of every month. 8-10 p.m. Karaoke Night, Hartigan’s hosted by Roxxy C. Moorecox. 9 p.m. Team Boystown, Marigny starts at 10 p.m. $10 cover after 11 p.m. Drink-n-drown. SpeakEasy Thursday Open Mic Night, Nickel Bar from 9 p.m.-2:30 a.m. Karaoke Night, The Rainbow In free for members. $5 guests. $6 under 21.
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Karaoke with Metro Mike, Bar at 316 starts at 9 p.m. Pool Tournament, Central Station Twisted Trivia, Chasers with Tiffany Storm & Brooklyn Dior. Showtime at 12:30 a.m. Trivia Tuesdays, Marigny hosted by Roxxy C. Moorecox 7 p.m.
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Underwear Night, The Woodshed
LGBT Community Center of Charlotte Seeks to promote diversity, acceptance and visibility of the LGBT community through original and collaborative programming and events and by providing an inclusive, welcoming and affordable environment for all. 1 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11 Charlotte, NC 28206 704-333-0144 gaycharlotte.com
House DJ and Dancing, Bar at 316 The Angela Lopez Show, Chasers show starts at 12:30 a.m. Live DJ, Hartigan’s Krewe Saturdays, Marigny Sexy Saturdays Special Events, Nickel Bar from 9 p.m.-2:30 a.m. Live Performances, Petra’s Urban Variety Show, The Scorpio with Elaine Davis. Midnight showtime.
White Rabbit North Carolina’s LGBT everything store. Complete line of Pride merchandise, plus magazines, books, DVDs, T-shirts, underwear, swimwear, athletic shorts, hats, hoodies, socks, and more. 920 Central Ave. 2 Charlotte, NC 28204 704-531-9988 . phone 704-531-1361 . fax info@whiterabbitbooks.com
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Finding your spirituality really isn’t complicated Hello Trinity, After not doing anything spiritual for years, I feel like it’s time to start doing something spiritual and find some sort of personal path to follow. Any suggestions? On A Path, Milwaukee, WI Hello On A Path If you’re alive and living, then you’re on a spiritual path. As for finding a stronger connection to that path, here’s three hints from what the Buddhists call, “Being Mindful” — 1) Notice the beauty in all things, especially things you can’t find beauty in; 2) Acknowledge that what seems bad now will inevitably seem good; 3) Have faith in your intuition, your gut and your sixth sense. Also, darling, think rituals, i.e., lighting a special candle, making a group meal, having a special place you visit regularly, etc. Do something spiritual and something spiritual will happen.
Dear Goin’ to the Chapel, This is one of the world’s greatest, unanswerable questions. Commitment in one day, one week, two months, six months, one year? Pumpkin, living together, facing regular problems and letting time teach you both about each other is a ceremony in itself. In the end, I would save your wedding for at least your year anniversary. This way you get to save money for it. Remember, sweetie, slow and steady wins the race. (Besides, you may want to take a clue from my cartoon on marriage.)
Dear Trinity, After knowing about each other for three years and now dating and living together for six months, my girlfriend and I want to have a wedding ceremony. But, some of our friends and family say wait a while. Trinity, when is “a while” long enough? Goin’ to the Chapel, Washington, DC
Dearest Trinity, I’m a single, 30-year-old youthful dresser. But, my friends say I dress more immature than youthful and I won’t get a serious date with the way I dress. What should a 30-something person wear? Thirty Or Thirteen, Spokane, WA
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Dearest Thirty Or Thirteen, I’d like to say, what do your friends know, but if they’re your friends then they may know something about you. Thus, get rid of those oversized grunge pants, Eminem T-shirts and toss your platform sneakers. Being 30 and single may mean accepting your maturity and being comfortable with it. It may also mean dressing comfortably, being less interested in fitting in and more interested in having your clothes fit well. So, honey, be yourself, but shop somewhere else! Hey Trinity, It seems like every time I go out some sloppy, uncontrollable drunk hits me on. I don’t mind drinkers. I drink. But, when they get pushy and drooly, I get upset. Help! Pushy/Drooly Troubles, Amarillo, TX Hey Pushy/Drooly Troubles When I go out for a drink, not that I go out for a drink that much, I mean not that I sleep around that much, I mean, oh God, I wish I was married already. But, until then, pumpkin, here are… Trinity’s Witty Tips For What To Say To A Pushy/ Aggressive Drunk 1. “Repeat after me. I’m too drunk to pick up anyone!”
2. “Do you know you’ve told me that exact same story four times!” 3. “By the time my husband, the pro-wrestler, returns, you better be gone!” 4. “I must bring you into the bathroom mirror so you can see just how drunk you look.” 5. “You’ve got blood coming out of your nose. I’m sorry, I’ve got to go!” 6. “Repeat after me five times, I’m a dirty, drunken fool who needs to go home.” 7. “Honey, a) Stop spitting on me and b) pour your drinks on someone else. I’m leaving!” 8. “Sloppy, Drunk, Dopey and Disgusting are the only dwarfs you’ll be taking home tonight.” 9. “Please pick yourself up off the floor. Wipe the barf off of your face and go away!” 10. And, lastly, when all else fails, try this line, “Get lost, Buddy!” : : — With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend Trinity hosted “Spiritually Speaking” a weekly radio drama performed globally and is now minister of WIG: Wild Inspirational Gatherings.
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out in the stars by Charlene Lichtenstein :: qnotes contributor
November 10 - 23 Lust compels us to action, or at least we think so as Mars moves into earthy Capricorn and conjuncts shocking Pluto. Actions have reactions. Will it be everything we desire or just another case of heartburn? Better pack the Pepto. SCORPIO (10.24-11.22) Proud Scorps are apt to call ‘em as they see ‘em. You may find that your usual bon mots are lobbed with greater intensity. They not only hit their mark, but also leave a few rosy bruises. Thankfully, folks see that you are not your usual strategic self and forgive, and maybe even forget. This means you should speak up while you have the soapbox. SAGITTARIUS (11.23-12.22) The greedy green gremlins have you in their clutches and insist that you grab all the loot that you can while you can. Gay Archers are usually fiscally inclined,
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but now it becomes an obsession. Why fight it? Indulge your expensive tastes for now. Too soon the fates reverse their fortunes and you go back to perusing the close out sales rack. CAPRICORN (12.23-01.20) Gay Caps are not usually publicity hounds, but now the world clamors for your face. And, such a face! If you have a few choice things to say, you find an appreciative audience to hang on to each syllable. It is almost too easy to make headlines. The trick is to be prepared with a few sage sound bites. Ouch. Better ask someone for sage advice instead. AQUARIUS (01.21-02.19) Paranoid? They say that paranoia is simply having all the facts. Aqueerians fact check as their imagination goes into overdrive. It may surprise you to find that not all of it is in your head. There happens
to be many hidden things — obstacles and opportunities — that suddenly come to light. Tackle each one as it comes. Come to think of it, isn’t that your dating style? PISCES (02.20-03.20) Guppies are suddenly extremely popular as their presence is required all over town. It just won’t be a top tier event without you. RSVP. Enjoy the popularity surge. But, rather than dance in the same circles, expand your orbit into new spheres. This may be one of your few chances to enter and impress the elite. Most of the time you invade and gorge. ARIES (03.21-04.20) If you have been planning a certain professional course, move forward on it now. You have the extra oomph you need to get what you want, when you want and from who you want. Proud Rams cannot fade into the corporate background hoping that someone will recognize their worth. Your gold is rising and the dross is worried. And, it’s about time! TAURUS (04.21-05.21) It suddenly hits you — there has been too much time wasted on planning without much action. Get going. Burst onto the scene and into magnificent adventures. Make your move, queer Bull. There are a great many opportunities ready to be plucked and plumbed. Yet, there is so much stimuli that you may become overly stimulated and even frizzled. And, this is a bad thing? GEMINI (05.22-06.21) What is it that makes pink Twins so sexually sizzling now? You are in high broil. It seems that anyone you meet is raw meat ready to be cooked. You are rough, ready and just itching to have a good time. Scratch away! But, before you bite off more than you can chew, remember to be a bit discerning. Anything more than a mouthful is wasted, or so they say. CANCER (06.22-07.23) Relationships un-
dergo tremendous volcanic change. Hint — most of this change is of your own doing. Unexpectedly, you become bored, smug and self-absorbed. The world will come to you, or so you think. And, so, pink Crabs may find that they are no longer be satisfied with the status quo. That is now. What about later? LEO (07.24-08.23) Stress builds to a tipping point now. Proud Lions usually take on more than they can handle, but now all of your assorted projects suddenly go to deadline. Don’t panic — this is just a passing thunderstorm. If you can maintain your balance and good common sense, you find that your efforts are not only timely, they are timeless. But, watch those sweeping hands! VIRGO (08.24-09.23) Queer Virgos gravitate to the high life now. Your appearance is required at every social event. Fun takes on a wild, zany energy that gains in velocity and intensity. Suddenly, too much is just not enough and the usual routine just won’t do. So, plan your time with enough stimulation to keep you on your toes while not hitting the ceiling too often. LIBRA (09.24-10.23) If you blow a few fuses around the house, blame the surge on all this swirling energy going on. Expect to have a few domestic mishaps and a few out of control family altercations that reach the boiling point. A few kabooms in every room. But, this is all good. Sometimes the tried and true is tired and blue. Get out of your funk, proud Libra. And, then what? Hmmm. : : © 2012 Madam Lichtenstein, LLC. All Rights Reserved. Entertainment. info: Visit TheStarryEye.com for e-greetings, horoscopes and Pride jewelry. My book “HerScopes: A Guide To Astrology For Lesbians” from Simon & Schuster is available at bookstores and major booksites.
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Community Resources [Ed. Note — Each issue, qnotes will rotate various community resources and list them here. These community groups are here to serve you and we know of no better way to simply inform the public of their good works than by giving you the opportunity to connect with them and get involved. Don’t see your group listed and want to join in? Shoot us an email with “InFocus addition” in the subject line to editor@goqnotes.com.] Mecklenburg LGBT Political Action Committee (MeckPAC) meckpac.org
Advocacy Campus Pride 704-277-6710 campuspride.org Charlotte Rainbow Action Network for Equality rainbowaction.org Equality North Carolina equalitync.org HRC Carolina northcarolina.hrc.org
Arts Actor’s Theatre of Charlotte 704-342-2251 atcharlotte.org Carolina Actors Studio Theatre 704-455-8542 nccast.com Charlotte Pride Band charlotteprideband.org
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Gay Men’s Chorus of Charlotte 704-549-9202 gmccharlotte.org One Voice Chorus 704-529-2951 onevoicechorus.com Queen City Theatre Company queencitytheatre.com Giving Charlotte Gay and Lesbian Fund 704-973-4500 fftc.org/Page.aspx?pid=953
Southern Country Charlotte Queen City Stomp southerncountry charlotte.com Wesley Mancini Foundation 704-375-4275, ext. 11 Media Creative Loafing clclt.com Charlotte Observer charlotteobserver.com
Pocket Rocket Guide pocketrocketguide.com
Charlotte Nude Yoga charlottenudeyoga.com
Visit Gay Charlotte visitgaycharlotte.com
Charlotte Royals Rugby charlotteroyals.org
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Queen City Rollers facebook.com/ groups/41825881558/
Carolina Softball Alliance carolinasoftball.org Charlotte Front Runners charlottefrontrunners.com
Queen City Tennis Club qctc.org
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Nov. 17 • Greensboro ENC Conference and Gala Equality North Carolina hosts their annual Equality Conference and Gala in Greensboro. During the day, attend workshops and seminars to build your community advocacy and outreach skills hosted at the Elliott University Center on the campus of the University of North Carolina-Greensboro. In the evening, the annual Equality Gala will honor several leaders across the state with featured speaker, the Rev. Dr. William J. Barbar II, president of the NAACP of North Carolina. For more information or to register, visit equalitync.org/conference/.
Thru Nov. 17 • Charlotte ‘Bent’ One of the most powerful and provocative shows on the tragedies of the Holocaust and of its gay victims will be staged by Queen City Theatre Company. “Bent” is an inspiring, compelling and powerful drama set in Germany during WWII at the time when homosexuals were sent to concentration camps. Considered worldwide a theatrical masterpiece, “Bent” explores love, hope and dreams in the face of persecution and terror. For mature audiences. Adult content. Duke Energy Theatre at Spirit Square, 345 N. College St. Various dates. Various times. $22$24. Student and senior discounts available. queencitytheatre.com. Thru Nov. 17 • Charlotte ‘Matt & Ben’ Written by Mindy Kaling and Brenda Withers, “Matt & Ben” tells the “true” story of how Matt Damon and Ben Affleck received their inspiration to write “Good Will Hunting.” This feel-good comedy is all about friendship and is best shared with your closest friends. Petra’s, 1919 Commonwealth Ave. Various dates. 7:30 p.m. $10/advance. $15/door. For more information and for tickets, visit carolinatix.org/default.asp?tix=59&objId=3523. Nov. 10 • Charlotte Pride Band: Fact or Fiction? Join Charlotte Pride Band as they use some of the most moving and exciting music written to discover whether events and people we all know are fact or fiction. They’ll use music to pay tribute to monumental historic events. Or, are they? With works such as “A Movement For Rosa” and “Vesuvius,” they’ll take you back through history to look
at people and events that have shaped our world and inspired change. And with pieces like “Of Sailors and Whales” and “Gandalf,” they’ll look at some not-so-historical events that have created a reality in the minds of millions. Park Road Baptist Church, 3900 Park Rd. 7 p.m. $13. Tickets available for purchase at Paper Skyscraper, White Rabbit, Sir Speedy Printing (5th and Caswell), from band members or online at charlotteprideband.org. Nov. 14-18 • Davidson ‘The Pride’ Three characters. Two eras. One winding story of self-discovery. In his award-winning debut, acclaimed British playwright Alexi Kaye Campbell masterfully juxtaposes the gay expereince in 1958 and 2008 London. A moving portrait of betrayal, loyalty and identity, The Pride brings to light an important part of our shared history and explores the power of love and friendship in all its forms. Winner of the John Whiting Award for Best New Play and GLAAD Media Award. Recommended for ages 17 and up. Contains adult language and content. Barber Theatre, Cunningham Theatre Center, Davidson College, 310 N. Main St. Various dates. Various Times. $5-$10. For tickets, visit davidson.edu/tickets or call 704-894-2135. Nov. 15 • Charlotte Madonna-rama Two events to stoke your
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Madonna fandom as the Queen of Pop comes to the Queen City. First, hit up the Hyatt House Uptown for a free and special Madonna PreParty Takeover, 5-8 p.m., 435 E. Trade St. After the concert, head out to Marigny Dance Club, 1440 S. Tryon St., Suite 110, for a Madonna after-party. Free entrance with a Madonna concert ticket stub. $5 cover without. Nov. 17 • Salisbury Pride fundraiser Salisbury Pride holds a special drag fundraiser for their upcoming 2013 event. Featuring Jamie Monroe as hostess and performers Cierra Nicole, Cinnamen and Lita Alexander. Cooper’s, 122 E. Fisher St. 8 p.m. $10 cover. salisburypride.com. Nov. 18 • Charlotte ‘Confessions of a Praire Bitch’ Alison Arngrim will present her one-woman show benefiting Time Out Youth. Arngrim is best known for her performance as “Nasty” Nellie Oleson on the hit television series “Little House on the Prairie.” Time Out Youth guests will be treated to a pre-show reception with Alison, appetizers and a cash bar. The reception will start
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at 6:30 p.m., show at 8 p.m. Tickets are $50 and limited seating available, please contact Time Out Youth to reserve your seat: 704-344-8335. Other shows will be presented Nov. 19 and Nov. 20. Petra’s, 1919 Commonwealth Ave. For more information, visit petraspianobar.com or reactionshows.com. Nov. 18 • Columbia Soul Food Sunday South Carolina Black Pride hosts its 4th Annual Soul Food Sunday with a yummy table full of tasty southern and soulful treats. Family affair. Open to everyone. Games. Music. Sweet Potato Pie Cookout with $50 first-prize gift award to winner. info@lgbtcentersc.org. Nov. 20 • Charlotte The Voices Project The Regional AIDS Interfaith Network shares the stories of men and women infected and affected by HIV and AIDS in this collaborative theater production developed with the Mecklenburg County Health Department. Actor’s Theatre of Charlotte, 650 E. Stonewall St. 6-8 p.m. carolinarain.org. Dec. 8 • Charlotte Twenty-Twelve Presented by Wells Fargo, Twenty-Twelve is a fundraising anniversary event celebrating 20 years of compassion, empowerment and hope the Regional AIDS Interfaith Network has brought to Charlotte. CenterStage at NoDa, 2315 N. Davidson St., Suite 26. 7-10 p.m. carolinarain.org.
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