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Dems, LGBTQ candidates win big!

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4 Transgender Day of Remembrance arts. views. 5 entertainment. Democrats &news. LGBTQ big wins 6 News Notes: Regional Briefs 8 News Notes: U.S./World Briefs 30 Changing My Reflection

Across the Carolinas and the U.S., progressive candidates fought the good fight and came out victorious.

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Sponsor Profiles Historic first in HIV battle The Hidden Epidemic Free HIV testing sites MeckPAC & PrEP Mental Health & HIV AIDS Service Organizations World AIDS Day Events

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Changing My Reflection

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Transgender partner shares her perspective. page 30

Favorite movies to watch during the winter 32

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Transgender Day of Remembrance 2017 events in the Carolinas Remembering the trans and gender non-binary people lost to violence in 2017 by Jeff Taylor :: qnotes staff

ransgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) offers the community a chance to honor those who have been lost to violence during the year. So far, 2017 is the deadliest on record for those known to be transgender or gender non-binary or gender non-conforming in the U.S. Read about them in qnotes “Remembering the transgender people killed in 2017” article published in the previous issue (goqnotes. com/55063).

North Carolina Charlotte Nov. 20 Comic Girl Coffee 516 E. 16th St., Charlotte 7-10 p.m. A candlelight vigil will be held for those lost, with candles provided. Attendees are encouraged to bring food or drinks if they please. facebook.com/events/290068994814477. Nov. 20 Time Out Youth 3800 Monroe Rd., Charlotte 6:30-8:30 p.m. Join community members for a remembrance of those lost with musical expression and artistic creations. Food will also be available. facebook.com/events/969661753182204.

Asheville Nov. 20 Pritchard Park 4 College St., Asheville 6-7:30 p.m. Meet at 5 p.m. at the U.S. Cellar Center, 87 Haywood St., to march to Pritchard Park, where community members will take turns reading the names of those lost this year, and will light candles. Warm beverages will be provided. Organizers Tranzmission, Blue Ridge Pride and Campaign for Southern Equality have set up a support group to take place after the event. Raleigh Nov. 20 North Carolina State Capitol 1 E. Edonton St., Raleigh 6-9 p.m. The LGBT Center of Raleigh is hosting a candlelight vigil at the North Carolina State Capitol building, with a reception at the center, 324 S. Harrington St., starting at 7 p.m. lgbtcenterofraleigh.com. Nov. 20 North Carolina State University Campus Wolf Plaza 5-6 p.m. The GLBT Center will host a candlelight vigil as participants read the names and stories of

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South Carolina Columbia Nov. 19 Washington Street United Methodist Church 1401 Washington St., Columbia The Harriet Hancock Center, Midlands Area Transgender Support and Washington Street United Methodist Church are holding a vigil the night before TDOR at the S.C. Statehouse, where attendees will then walk to the church, where the names of those lost will be read. facebook.com/events/1448080538578288. Editor’s note: Know of an event we missed? Send an email to editor@goqnotes.com to let us know so we can add it to the online version of this article.

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Democrats, LGBTQ candidates win big on Election Day, in N.C. and beyond Vi Lyles wins the Charlotte mayoral race, and the state now has 20 LGBTQ elected officials by Jeff Taylor :: qnotes staff

Democrats and the LGBTQ community got much needed good news as results came back on Election Day, Nov. 7, with big wins in Charlotte, N.C. and beyond. Vi Lyles becomes Charlotte’s first African-American female mayor Democrat Vi Lyles won a decisive victory against Republican Kenny Smith, who outspent her but could not overcome his party’s two-to-one voter registration disadvantage in the city. With this win, Lyles becomes the city’s first African-American female mayor. She will also be Charlotte’s seventh mayor in only nine years. In addition to negative ads from the Smith campaign, she was also smeared by the NC Values Coalition for her stance in support of LGBTQ rights. Lyles voted in favor of the LGBTQ non-discrimination ordinance in 2015 and 2016 and has pledged to continue standing up for equality. Smith, on the other hand, said during the campaign that if elected he could use the mayoral veto power to put a stop to LGBTQ rights even after the moratorium put in place by HB142 expires in 2020. She admits she was tempted to go low in retaliation against Smith, but stuck to her values and to the issues. “I committed to a positive campaign,” she told The Charlotte Observer. “You have to be who you are.” Charlotte City Council Democrats maintained their 9-2 control of the Charlotte City Council, sweeping all four at-large seats. Five newcomers will join the council, four of them Democrats, and all of them under 40. Larken Egleston, 34, will now represent District 1, Matt Newton, 38, will represent District 5, and Justin Harlow, 29, will represent District 2. All three are Democrats and newcomers. Braxton Winston, 34, another Democrat and newcomer, won an at-large seat, finishing second overall behind incumbent and Democrat Julie Eiselt, and ahead of James “Smuggie” Mitchell, another Democratic incumbent. Democrat Dimple Ajmera, 31, who was appointed earlier this year to replace John Autry, won the final at-large seat. Republican Tariq Scott Bokhari is another new face under 40 joining council. He will be taking the seat vacated by Smith. Democrat LaWana Mayfield and Republican Ed Driggs also won their re-election bids. Winston has grabbed considerable attention for his victory, having gained attention and headlines as one of the main activists during the Keith Lamont Scott protests, often referred to as the Charlotte Uprising. Chelsea Clinton used her first 280 character tweet to shout him out. “Mr. President, @BraxtonWinston is a superb example of an actual ‘very fine’ person,” she tweeted. “And, yes I know he won an election in Charlotte, not Charlottesville. Still, please learn more about him @realDonaldTrump @potus.” Rapper and actor Common also noted Winston’s win, calling it inspiring. School board and bond The school board, technically apolitical, will maintain the same makeup of six Democrats and two Republicans. Rhonda Lennon won reelection in District 1, Thelma ByersBailey in District 2 and Ruby Jones in District 3. Newcomers Carol Sawyer, Margaret Marshall and Sean Strain were elected to represent districts 4, 5 and 6, respectively. Sawyer and Marshall were both endorsed by Equality North Carolina. Voters also approved the school bond. Over 70 percent of voters supported the $922 million bond package that will go toward building 17 new schools, as well as renovating those in need of repairs and additions.

Democrat Vi Lyles speaking at a press conference Wednesday morning, Nov. 8, the day after she defeated Republican Kenny Smith to become Charlotte’s first African-American female mayor. Photo Credit: Davie Hinshaw, The Charlotte Observer.

Across North Carolina North Carolina is now home to 20 out LGBTQ elected officials, Equality North Carolina noted, as six newcomers won on Election Day. The newly-elected LGBTQ officials are Vernetta Alston in Durham, Michelle Kennedy in Greensboro, Jane Campbell in Davidson, Karen Stegman in Chapel Hill, Tamara Sheffield in Salisbury, and Jerry Windle in Morrisville. (Learn more about these candidates online at goqnotes.com/55220.) “The wave of newly elected openly LGBTQ candidates will be vital in our efforts to keep the state moving forward,” said Matt Hirschy, interim executive director of Equality North Carolina. “In a state that still suffers the legacy of HB2 and the very real effects of HB142, out-elected and pro-equality representation have never been more important.” Eight transgender candidates win elections Eight openly transgender candidates won on Election Day, making history. Andrea Jenkins joined the Minneapolis City Council, becoming the first openly transgender black woman elected to public office in the U.S. Another transgender candidate won a seat on the City Council as well, Phillipe Cunningham, whose race went down to the wire. Danica Roem unseated Bob Marshall in Virginia to become

Virginia’s first openly transgender lawmaker, and the first openly trans state representative in the country. Marshall is a self-described homophobe, put forward a transphobic “bathroom bill,” misgendered Roem on the campaign trail and refused to debate her. Gerri Cannon won a seat on the Somersworth School Board, and has said she has plans to run for New Hampshire State Representative. Lisa Middleton became the first openly transgender member of the city council in Palm Springs, now made up entirely of members of the LGBTQ community. Middleton is also now the first openly transgender nonjudicial elected official in the state of California. Stephe Koontz won a spot on the Doraville City Council, just northeast of Atlanta, becoming the city’s first transgender elected official. Raven Matherne won a seat on the Stamford Board of Representatives, making her the first out trans lawmaker in the city. Tyler Titus will join the Erie School Board, making him the first out transgender person elected to office in Pennsylvania. Democrats also celebrated wins across the country, especially in Virginia, where Democrat Ralph Northam beat Republican Ed Gillespie and the party grabbed a number of House seats. At time of writing, it is still possible for them to take control of the House. These Democrat and LGBTQ wins are being seen as many as a rebuke of the Trump administration and its policies. : :

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Carolinas companies, cities ranked by HRC WASHINGTON, D.C. — The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) has released its 2018 Corporate Equality Index and Carolinas companies either ranked perfectly or fell short of a top score. In its 16th edition, the organization had a record-breaking 609 employers from across the U.S. that earned a perfect 100 percent score, ensuring that workplaces are fully LGBTQ inclusive. HRC also saw that major businesses ensured that transgender employees could expect equal protections under their non-discrimination policies, gender transition guidelines and access to inclusive healthcare. Scores were based upon four key components: non-discrimination policies across business entities; equitable benefits for LGBTQ workers and their families; internal education and accountability metrics to promote LGBTQ inclusion competency; and, public commitment to LGBTQ equality. Carolinas companies who received a 100 percent ranking/rating are: BB&T Corp., Winston-Salem, N.C.; Delhaize America Inc., Salisbury N.C.; Duke Energy Corp., Charlotte, N.C.; GlaxoSmithKline LLC, Research Triangle Park, N.C.; Ingersoll-Rand Company, Davidson, N.C.; Laboratory Corporation of America Holdings, Burlington, N.C.; Lenovo (U.S.) Inc., Morrisville, N.C.; Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams, Taylorsville, N.C.; Moore & Van Allen PLLC, Charlotte, N.C.; Ogletree, Deakins, Nash, Smoak & Stewart, Greenville, S.C.; Replacements Ltd., McLeansville, N.C.; VF Corp., Greensboro, N.C.; and Womble Carlyle Sandridge & Rice LLP, Winston-Salem, N.C. Those who did not receive a perfect score are: Alliance One International, Morrisville, N.C., 55; Bank of America Corp., Charlotte, N.C., 75; Blue Cross Blue Shield of North Carolina, Durham, N.C., 75; Compass Group USA Inc., Charlotte, N.C., 90; Denny’s Corp., Spartanburg, S.C., 75; Hanesbrands Inc., Winston-Salem, N.C., 90; Lowe’s Companies Inc., Mooresville, N.C., 75; Nelson Mullins Riley & Scarborough LLP, Columbia, S.C., 85; Quaintance-Weaver Inc., Greensboro, N.C., 60; Reynolds American Inc., Winston-Salem, N.C., 95; and Sonoco Products Company, Hartsville, S.C., 80. Replacements, Ltd., which is gay owned and operated, is one of only eight U.S. companies who have scored perfectly for all 16 years that HRC has been monitoring American corporations. “Danica Roem’s victory … in Virginia is a great win for the LGBTQ community,” said Replacements Founder and CEO Bob Page. “While her election is a huge step forward, unfortunately it’s become very clear that corporate leadership must set the example in protecting LGBTQ employees, especially the transgender community. Recent proposed actions seem to specifically target transgender Americans, and that absolutely needs to stop — no person, for any reason, should be made to feel singled out or picked on. That’s why we must loudly continue to let Washington know it’s past time for Congress to pass comprehensive workplace non-discrimination legislation to protect all people.” HRC and the Equality Federation partnership also released their Municipal Equality Index (MEI) selections which demonstrates the ways that many cities can — and do — support the LGBTQ individuals who live and work there, even where states and the federal government have failed to do so. North Carolina ratings are: Carrboro, 71; Cary, 18; Chapel Hill, 66; Charlotte, 73; Durham, 69; Fayetteville, 23; Greensboro, 82; Raleigh, 60; Wilmington, 21; and Winston-Salem, 48. South Carolina ratings are: Charleston, 67; Clemson, 0; Columbia, 75; Greenville, 22; Mount Pleasant, 18; Myrtle Beach, 21; North Charleston, 47; and Rock Hill, 17. According to Chapelboro and WCHL, the national average is 57 and the average in North Carolina is 53. Cities are ranked on 44 different criteria which “fall under five broad categories, those being city-wide non-discrimination laws, the city’s policies towards city employees, city services, law enforcement and the city’s leadership on LGBTQ equality.” Greensboro had the highest score for North Carolina. The city has “trans-inclusive healthcare benefits for city employees, LGBTQ liaison in the police department and administrative policy that requires city contractors not to discriminate in employment on the expressed basis of sexual orientation,” Xavier Persad said. Persad is the author of the report and legislative counsel for HRC. Complete information is available online for both the CEI and MEI. info: hrc.org.

Charlotte Mag names top allies

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Financial Times’ Outstanding has announced its 2017 Leading LGBT & Ally Executives and Bank of America’s Chief Operations & Technology Officer Cathy Bessant is one of them. In fact, she made the number six spot ahead of Facebook Founder

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and CEO Mark Zuckerberg. Bessant serves as executive sponsor for the LGBT Executive Council at the bank, comprised of global LGBTQ executives and established to encourage visibility of leaders who are out at work. She also serves as the executive sponsor of the LGBT Pride Global Ally program, which includes more than 21,800 members across the company globally, and in 2013, she received the Out & Equal Champion

Award, which recognizes a non-LGBTQ person who played a pivotal role in championing equal treatment of LGBTQ employees on the job. When HB2 was introduced, Bessant spoke on behalf of the bank and helped lead the way for other companies to express their opposition. She is also a recognized leader in financial services and technology, where she is ranked number one among the 25 Most Powerful Women in Banking by American Banker magazine. info: out-standing.org.

Thanksgiving service approaches

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — The 42nd Annual Community Thanksgiving Service will be held on Nov 21, 7 p.m., at Friendship Missionary Baptist Church, 3400 Beatties Ford Rd. Sponsored by MeckMIN, the gathering brings together a cornucopia of faiths to celebrate the holiday.The theme this year is “And Still We Rise: A Gathering for Confession, Consolation and Courage.” Attendees will be able to pray for Charlotte’s community challenges in mind and reflect on the past, progressively moving in faith, toward a better future, organizers shared. Special presenters include Hannah Hassan, Rev. Greg Jarrell and Bishop Tonyia Rawls. In partnership with Crisis Assistance Ministry and Loaves & Fishes, canned goods will be collected. Faith leaders who wish to be part of the processional should contact Frederik Robinson at fred.robinson@meckmin.org or call 770-3448002 for more information. And, registration is open for participants in the interfaith adult choir, children’s choir and instrumental ensemble. Singers and instrumentalists of all ages, abilities and faith backgrounds are encouraged to participate. An optional $5 cash contribution is encouraged to cover the cost of music. Rehearsals will be at the church on Nov. 19, 6:30-8:30 p.m., adult choir and instrumental ensemble and Nov. 20, 6-7:30 p.m., children’s choir, 6:30-8:30 p.m., adult choir and instrumental ensemble. Email Linda Flynn at flynnlin7@aol.com to learn more. A reception will follow. In other news, MeckMIN is looking for individuals who have stories to share about building bridges across differences in Charlotte that are not being told, not being heard and from a faith perspective. Photographs, video or other media via MeckMIN’s Interfaith blog will be included. Email meckmin@meckmin.org for more details. info: meckmin.org.

Chorus welcomes holiday season

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — One Voice Chorus of Charlotte invites the community to “Imagine, Dream and Wonder” at its holiday concert, “a child will Imagine,” on Dec. 1-2, 7 p.m., and Dec. 2, 2 p.m., at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Charlotte, 234 N. Sharon Amity Rd. This concert kicks off the 2017-2018 season and will be followed up with two more concerts during the year — April, “the man behind the DREAM, the story of Bayard Rustin; and June, “one hit WONDER,” game-show-with-atwist concert. Tickets range from $65-$115 and are available for purchase online. info: onevoicechorus.com.

Group to visit Stowe

GASTONIA, N.C. — The Charlotte Lesbian Kindred Spirits Meetup Group will ring in the holidays with a visit to the Daniel Stowe Botanical Gardens, 6500 S. New Hope Rd., on

Dec. 2 at 5 p.m. Members will gather at the entrance and walk through the gardens as a group. Organizers shared that the “garden glows with holiday spirit from the twinkling trees to the sparkling fountains and is transformed into a natural winter wonderland filled with unique festive décor including a towering tree of orchids, more than 600,000 lights, and illuminated displays.” Participants will be able to enjoy live music, holiday shopping at the garden store, warm fires and roasted marshmallows, as well as model train displays. Also, Southern Breezes Carriages will offer horse-drawn rides from 5:30-8:30 p.m. at $6/adult, $4/child ages 3-10 and free for those under 3. A tram will be available for rides free of charge with admission if the carriage is not available. Tickets can be purchased online or at the gate. Cost is $14.95/adult, $13.95/seniors over 60, $8.95/children ages 2-12 and free for children under 2. info: dsbg.org.

Band hosts concert

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — The Charlotte Pride Band will hold its annual free winter concert on Dec. 17, 3 p.m., at Temple Beth El, 4101 Providence Rd. It will feature the band’s brass and woodwind ensembles. The groups will perform traditional holiday music, as well as other selections arranged for small instrumental groups. As in prior years, the Temple Beth El is collecting donations for Sterling Elementary School. The band asks audience members to bring one or more of the following items: playing cards, Frisbees, bubbles, coloring books, sidewalk chalk, crayons, markers, jump ropes and/or Uno games. info: charlotteprideband.org.

Center adds staff

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — The Freedom Center for Social Justice has announced the addition of two new team members. Resa Baudoin was named as the new operations manager and was formerly with the Lupus Foundation of America. Jamila Reddy joined the staff as the communications manager. She is a writer, public speaker and personal development coach. The center is seeking to fill its faith coordinator position and is accepting applications online. Applicants must be able to identify needs and provide targeted support for highest impact in the area of culture shifts between the LGBTQ community, communities of color and communities of faith. The person selected will engage clergy and laity and be responsible for training and organizing efforts that will help increase the number of safe spaces, protections and access for LGBTQ individuals in North Carolina. info: fcsj.org.

Triad Guilford leadership transitions

GREENSBORO, N.C. — The Guilford Green Foundation has announced that its executive director, Nancy Vaughan, has transitioned into a volunteer and advocate role, effective Nov. 1. The organization is currently searching for a new executive director with a start date in early 2018. Guilford’s Co-Chairs Amy Holcombe and Gordon Locke said, “Nancy has led this organization with the utmost professionalism and dedication to the LGBT community. We are excited that she will remain with the organiza-

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tion as a volunteer and strong advocate. Our entire board is thankful for her hard work.” info: guilfordgreenfoundation.org.

Student wins scholarship

ELON, N.C. — AT&T and the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) selected three grand prize winners of the first-ever AT&T Live Proud on Campus scholarship contest. The contest called on college students 18 and older to

submit a video pitch for an LGBTQ-supportive project they would like to see at their schools. The public voted on 15 semifinalist videos, narrowing the field down to six finalists, with HRC choosing the three grand prize winners. The winning projects support the LGBTQ community and focus on LGBTQ equality, visibility and/or acceptance on college campuses. Ryan Wells from Elon University was one of the winners. He will receive a $10,000 scholarship, $2,500 in funding to execute his campus project, a semester-long mentorship experience with HRC to help develop

his project, and more. He was also flown to Washington, D.C. to attend the HRC National Dinner on Oct. 28. Wells is a 2020 Class Fellow at the university. Born and raised in Sterling, Va., he was an advocate for mental health and LGBTQ rights at Potomac Falls High School. An avid swimmer, he spent summers as a lifeguard and was on the varsity swim team. According to Elon, Wells hopes to work for a policy studies major with a concentration in leading and communication policy change, along with minors in leadership studies and political science. He also hopes to study abroad and become involved in political advocacy on campus. Additionally, AT&T is contributing $25,000 to HRC. The gift will support the organization and their continued efforts to uplift the LGBTQ community. To view Well’s video, visit liveproud.att.com/ oncampus/?entry=rwells. info: hrc.org. liveproud.att.com.

Triangle Town nets stripes

CARRBORO, N.C. — The Carolinas will have their first rainbow-striped crosswalks when Carrboro begins painting them on a mid-block

crossing on E. Main St., The Herald-Sun reported. The Board of Aldermen were unanimous when they voted on it at a recent meeting. The stripes, however, will also be joined by a black and brown stripe to show support for people of color. The cost to paint the crosswalk will be between $600-$1,000 and will be facilitated by public works staff. info: heraldsun.com.

Chorus brings holiday cheer

RALEIGH, N.C. — The Triangle Gay Men’s Chorus will hold its 23rd annual holiday concert, “Christmas with a Twist,” on Dec. 2, 7 p.m., at Pullen Memorial Baptist Church, 1801 Hillsborough St., in Raleigh; Dec. 3, 3 p.m., at Calvary United Methodist Church, 304 E. Trinity Ave., in Durham; Dec. 9, 7 p.m., at Binkley Baptist Church, 1712 Willow Dr., in Chapel Hill; and Dec. 10, 3 p.m., at Fairmont United Methodist Church, 2501 Clark Ave., in Raleigh. Artistic Director Michael J. Kroeplin will lead the chorus with remixes of old favorites, as well as turbo boosted songs from Disney’s “Frozen.” “This year’s concept is a true blend of music inspired by the holidays and this time of year,” Kroeplin said. “It’s a bit traditional, a bit wacky and campy, but all very uplifting and inspiring.” For his debut concert with the chorus, Kroeplin has encouraged the group to “sing outside the box” and tackle new and challenging pieces surely to delight audiences. “We’ve worked really hard and are very proud of this one,” said Marqui Johnson, chorus board secretary. “I think people will be surprised at how much TGMC has grown.”

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Tickets are $10 and are available online. Shows will feature refreshments and a raffle drawing for prizes. info: tgmchorus.org.

Western PFLAG hosts Sarvar

HENDERSONVILLE, N.C. — The Hendersonville Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays will hold its monthly meeting on Dec. 4, 6 p.m., at the Hendersonville Library, Kaplan Room, 301 N. Washington St.. Guest speaker will be Aaron Sarvar from Southern Equality who will lead a discussion on North Carolina’s HB2/HB142 and Mississippi’s HB1532. He will also touch on Donald Trump’s controversial attempted ban of transgender troops. Sarvar stated, “Yes, Mississippi law HB1523 is definitely something I’ll talk about and put it into context along with HB2/HB142 here in N.C. as a backlash to the gains that have been made for LGBTQ rights.” info: pflag.org/chapter/pflag-flatrockhendersonville.

Women host dance

ASHEVILLE, N.C. — The Dance Divas will hold a women’s dance on Nov. 18, 7:30 p.m., at Eleven on Grove, 11 Grove St. DJ Esella will spin and participants will be able to enjoy snacks, filtered water and a cash bar. Admission is $10 and includes free entry

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HRC gives and takes away covered that Walmart’s lacked enforcement of the policies that are considered under the CEI. Pride at Work Executive Director Jerame Davis stated, “We applaud TLDEF for their extraordinary work representing transgender Walmart employees who have been mistreated by the company and thank them for their efforts to get Walmart’s score in the CEI suspended. Pride at Work has, for years, pointed out the flaws in the CEI’s scoring model because it doesn’t consider the lived experience of the working people employed by these corporations. A policy that isn’t enforced — or that is enforced haphazardly — is not really a policy an employee can count upon.” He added, “While HRC deserves credit for doing the right thing in this case, it is unfortunate that so many LGBTQ people had to face discrimination at the Walmart’s hands before they took action. In the last CEI, Walmart received a perfect score despite the fact that the company had just settled a class action lawsuit brought by LGBTQ people who had been denied spousal benefits. “In light of this development, it is our sincere hope that HRC will take the necessary steps to ensure the CEI is an accurate measure of a corporation’s commitment to LGBTQ equality. Until the CEI includes a mechanism to ensure these policies are followed and enforced, it is impossible to consider these scores as anything other than aspirational. The strongest way to enforce workplace protections for LGTQ people is with a contract where employees can negotiate a fair return for their work, rather than relying on corporate-sponsored policy and enforcement mechanisms. … We believe the CEI can be made better and that it could become a true indicator of corporate commitment to the dignity and respect of LGBTQ working people.” info: prideatwork. hrc.org. transgenderlegal.org.

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WASHINGTON, D.C. — The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) has released their 2018 Corporate Equality Index (CEI) and one company made the grade, then was “suspended from school” over their treatment of employees. Walmart, it seems, has mistreated its transgender employees. Instrumental in the effort to flush this situation out was the Transgender Legal Defense and Education Fund (TLDEF). The suspension came when it was dis-

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QUICK HITS —————————————————————————————— A CivicScience survey reported that LGBTQ unemployment may be three times the national average. info: fastcompany.com. The Gay Christian Network will hold its annual conference in Denver, Colo. from Jan. 18-21 and registration is now open. info: gaychristian.net. Lambda Literary has announced details of its 2018 Writers Retreat for Emerging LGBTQ Voices. The retreat will be held Aug. 5-12, 2018 on the campus of Otis College of Art and Design in Los Angeles, Calif. info: lambdaliterary.org. “The Laramie Project” returned to New York after a 10-year absence and is playing at the Access Theatre through Nov. 19. info: accesstheater.com. The California State Board of Education has adopted 10 LGBTQ-inclusive history and social studies textbooks for K-8 classrooms and rejected two which failed to include LGBTQ people. info: lgbtweekly.com. Tyler Titus won his race for the Erie School Board, becoming the first out transgender person ever elected in the state of Pennsylvania. info: victoryfund.org. New York City’s Lighthouse launched in October and gives LGBTQ visitors access to information on LGBTQ-friendly healthcare and professional providers. The initiative will expand to other cities across the U.S. info: out.com. lighthouse.lgbt. “Made by Raffi” was selected as the first children’s book campaign for Merge for Marriage. Inspired by a true-life incident, “Made by Raffi” is the story of a little boy who likes to knit and sew. At first he is teased for his hobby, but in the end he becomes a hero to his class. The book promotes diversity and embraces differences, as well as children who seek to fit in. info: craigpomranz.com/made-by-raffi. Out2Enroll, a joint project of the Center for American Progress, the Sellers Dorsey Foundation and the Federal Agencies Project, is seeking to enroll LGBTQ individuals in insurance plans under the Affordable Care Act. info: thegavoice.com.

Olympic gold medalist and 2015 WNBA MVP Elena Delle Donne and fiancée Amanda Clifton were married on Nov. 3 compliments of The Knot Dream Wedding. Fans were able to watch the festivities via social media. info: theknot.com. Hong Kong was awarded its bid to host the 2022 Gay Games by the Federation of Gay Games. It becomes the first Asian city to stage the event. info: reuters.com. The Daily Dot reported that Russia and Egypt are attempting to block protections that would prevent anti-gay discrimination at next year’s Olympic games, advocacy groups shared. info: dailydot.com. NBC News reported that three local foundation donors to a Big Brothers Big Sisters chapter in West Virginia recently pulled up to $80,000 in funding after the chapter signed up for an LGBTQ awareness training program, according to the chapter’s executive director. The organization is now accepting contributions to help shore up its efforts and help maintain its vital programming and survival. info: nbcnews.com. biglittlewv.org. Funders for LGBTQ Issues will host its Funding Forward 2018 from March 14-16 in New Orleans, La. info: lgbtfunders.org. “RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars” has announced its cast. Competing will be Aja, BenDeLaCreme, Chi Chi DeVayne, Kennedy Davenport, Milk, Morgan McMichaels, Shangela, Thorgy Thor and Trixie Mattel. The show will begin airing this winter. info: vh1.com. The Point Foundation has opened up its annual scholarship application season. Deadline for submittal is Jan. 29, 2018. info: pointfoundation.org. Kevin Bryant, a 10-year former executive director of PALS, a gay Atlanta, Ga. non-profit that cares for pets for those who are critically ill, was arrested in Boiling Springs, S.C. on Oct. 17 and charged with theft by taking while in a fiduciary capacity (embezzlement) of more than $56,000 from the organization. He was arrested after having been indicted by a Fulton County grand jury on May 9. info: projectq.us.

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guest commentary by Christina Adeleke :: guest contributor

Fight On! What a year this has been! Unless you have been living under a rock, or even worse, offline, you know that since the start of this year, a majority of our country has been under attack. We have seen relentless attacks on Muslims, immigrants and undocumented individuals, women, communities of color, the NFL, Gold Star military families and the LGBTQ community, specifically the transgender and gender non-conforming communities, just to name a few. People have been made aware that there is an orchestrated effort to pit Americans against each other, and most Americans are not having it. In response to these vicious attacks, we have marched, rallied and protested in streets all across this state and country; either in solidarity or out of sheer self-preservation. It did not matter if the specific attack was against a small group or a large group. We, as a broader social justice movement and a country, came together and fought back. One brilliant example from this past year that demonstrated this is the recent fight to protect the Affordable Care Act. In the seemingly continuous fight to save healthcare, the traditional method of pitting Americans against each other along ideological lines proved to be difficult because 1) healthcare impacts everybody, and 2) no one wants to die. When people were literally left to fight for their lives and the lives of their friends and family, they quickly realized that despite any differences that we may have, we all had a stake in this fight and we were all in this together.

When the pressure was on, advocates from every contingent of the social justice movement, in addition to ordinary everyday Americans, all rallied together and played a role in the fight to save healthcare as we know it. By calling and emailing legislators, writing to the local newspapers, and by going to protests and rallies, we collectively stood together as one and said no. We did not witness the resolve of one particular cause or movement, but the resolve of millions of Americans who came together to fight and save healthcare. Now what would happen if we all came together and fought just as tirelessly and just as passionately to address HIV and AIDS like we did healthcare? Think of the strides that could be made in addressing the epidemic here in North Carolina and all over the world! The South has the highest HIV diagnosis rate of any U.S. region, with almost half (49 percent) of all new HIV diagnoses occurring in the region. Right here in North Carolina, we currently have two cities, Charlotte and Greensboro, on the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s (CDC) list of the top 25 U.S. cities and metropolitan areas with the highest rates of new HIV transmissions. While it may be disheartening that our state and region bear a substantial burden of the epidemic in the United States, there have been historic strides in the worldwide effort to address HIV. This year, the CDC joined hundreds of experts and HIV organizations in releasing a memo in support of the science behind

“Undetectable = Untransmittable” (“U=U”) stating that people who are living with HIV and are virally suppressed, meaning their HIV treatment has reduced their viral load to an undetectable level, are not able to transmit HIV to another person. The CDC’s release of this statement was a game-changer because it used science to dismantle the false public narrative that people living with HIV are “infectious” or “contagious,” which often leads to heightened stigma and limited access to HIV testing, treatment and services. Now, people living with HIV will be encouraged to get in treatment and become virally suppressed, knowing that they will be able to keep themselves, their partners and the general public healthy, which will be an instrumental tool in eradicating HIV and AIDS. Every year, we designate World AIDS Day as a time to celebrate those who are living with HIV and to honor and remember the people who we have lost, but it is also an opportunity for people all over the world to be a part in the fight against HIV and AIDS. We must collectively do our part to accurately educate the people in our communities about HIV and AIDS, be more open about regularly getting tested for HIV and be vocal when we uplift and support the people who are living with HIV around us. Some people may know someone impacted by HIV or AIDS, while others may know no one at all, but we all have a stake in this fight and we can all play a role in ending HIV and AIDS. Fight on! : :

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Three historic firsts achieved in 2017 in the battle against HIV/AIDS worth celebrating Dec. 1 is World AIDS Day by Jeff Taylor :: qnotes staff As World AIDS Day approaches, taking place on Dec. 1 each year, there is as always much work to be done, but there is also cause for celebration. Each year it seems we get closer to the ultimate goal of controlling and eradicating this global epidemic that first began making headlines over 30 years ago. Three historic firsts are among the victories that can be celebrated this year. HIV vaccine heads to large-scale trial An HIV vaccine able to treat all strains of the virus is heading into large-scale human efficacy testing for the first time. The announcement came at the Global Citizen Festival, in New York City, on Sept. 23. “For the past ten years, we have been working on an HIV vaccine, using an innovative technology platform, the same technology we

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are using to make vaccines for Ebola and Zika,” said Paul Stoffels, Chief Scientific Officer, Johnson & Johnson. “In early stage clinical studies, we have seen 100 percent immune response in 350 healthy volunteers who participated in the study,” he noted, adding the results make him “more optimistic than ever” that a vaccine will be achieved in our lifetime. You can watch the announcement at youtube.com/watch?v=Qz5lAV3gguQ. CDC declares that undetectable means untransmittable Coming in line with what many advocates have been saying for years, the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) finally came out publicly to declare that those who are HIV positive but undetectable due to antiretroviral therapy cannot pass on the infection.

This is true even of unprotected sex, although safer sex practices are still encouraged. “This is the moment we have been waiting for! The CDC agreed today there is ‘effectively no risk’ of sexually transmitting HIV when on treatment and undetectable,” Bruce Richman, executive director of UequalsU.org and the Prevention Access Campaign, told Plus. Over half of all HIV positive people are now receiving treatment For the first time in history, over half of those living with HIV are now receiving treatment. 19.5 million of the estimated 36.7 million people living with the virus now receive lifesaving antiretroviral drugs, according to the Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS (UNAIDS).

The Middle East, North Africa, Eastern Europe and Central Asia remain trouble spots where deaths are on the rise as patients lack access to treatment. Still, the picture nationwide has never been this encouraging. “Communities and families are thriving as AIDS is being pushed back,” UNAIDS Executive Director Michel Sidibe said. “As we bring the epidemic under control, health outcomes are improving and nations are becoming stronger,” he added. Treatment not only allows people to live longer, but as described above, it can help prevent the infection from spreading, as the virus becomes undetectable over time. : :

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The Hidden Epidemic African-American community hit hard by HIV/AIDS by J. Wesley Thompson, MHS, PA-C, AAHIVS, DFAAPA :: guest contributor

“He has cancer.” “He has hepatitis.” “House In Virginia”. “Hi-Five. (Hi-V)” “The virus.” Society today has developed many euphemisms to not say HIV. HIV is ravaging the African-American community nationwide, and no one is listening. It’s a problem from within the African-American community, especially when the lifetime risk for HIV is 1 in 2 for African-American men who have sex with men compared to 1 in 99 for all Americans. These men face an unacceptably high risk for HIV. Another disparaging factor impacting the African-American community is living in the South. Forty-four percent of all Americans living with HIV live in the South, while 37 percent of American live in the South. Diagnosis rates for people in the South are higher than the rate for Americans overall. Eight of the 10 states with the highest rates of new HIV diagnoses are in the South, as are the 10 metropolitan statistical areas (MSAs) with the highest rates. African-Americans are severely impacted in the South and nationwide, accounting for 54 percent of individuals living with HIV. AfricanAmerican men who have sex with men account for 60 percent of all African-Americans living with HIV. African-American women face an equally disproportionate burden of the disease, accounting for 69 percent of all HIV diagnoses among women in the South. Thanks to the success of antiretroviral medications pioneered more than 30 years ago and education, HIV positive patients can lead full, healthy lives. HIV new case rates have plummeted in recent years overall and are now down to about 36,000 new cases annually. However, in certain communities in this country, HIV is ravaging the population. Early HIV research and literature did not include the African-American community and especially African-American men who have sex with men and could have made an impact on the understanding of the origins of HIV along with earlier outreach and prevention. The early success of the HIV advocacy and the financial power of the LGBT community, did not include the African-American community which was and is burdened with poverty and an inadequate healthcare infrastructure.

Pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP), Postexposure prophylaxis (PEP) and Treatment as Prevention (TasP) have positively impacted the rate of new cases and the health of those living with HIV. An undetectable viral load is the new negative with little or no chance of passing the virus on during a possible exposure. Truvada, the only medication currently approved for the prevention of HIV is > 99 percent effective. Yet less than 10 percent of “at risk AfricanAmericans” are taking Truvada. Most AfricanAmericans either can’t afford it or don’t know about it. The negative attitude of rural health care settings also plays a role. History should never forget the “Tuskegee Study of Untreated Syphilis in the Negro Male,” which was started in 1932 and was projected to run for six months and ended up running for 40 years. The study only ended in 1972 when the situation was exposed by an Associated Press story. These men were told they had “dirty blood” and were being treated for various ailments, but were not given effective treatment. According to records, the American Medical Association was aware of the study and did not interview. It is no wonder the African-American community has a general distrust of the practice of medicine and the cultural misbelief that HIV was created to kill African-Americans. Can we turn things around for the community? In the current political climate, there is not the leadership, money and political will to effect change. One of the greatest success stories for HIV/AIDS is the 2003 President’s Emergency Plan for Relief (PEPFAR) which provided $15 billion internationally but none for America, over a five-year plan. There are pockets in America which have experienced the same and higher rates than Africa for HIV while funding remained flat or declined. During the 1990s the U.S. government spent billions of dollars on abstinence until marriage sex education. Effective sex education and condom use were discouraged and agencies who attempted to provide science-based, effective sex education were harassed with federal audits. It is no surprise that the rates of new HIV cases rose sharply during this antiscience campaign. Ignorant ideology made

effective HIV prevention nearly impossible for some of our most vulnerable Americans. Research indicates that African-Americans are not having condomless sex at higher rates than others. It is a numbers games. If HIV has hit the African-American population harder and more African-Americans are positive and either don’t know it or are not linked in care and taking their medications, then those detectable viral loads are driving the epidemic. The nation and society have failed the African-American community. The AfricanAmerican community must take care of itself. And it must start with the homophobia and transphobia mentality that permeates much of the African-American community. Until it is acceptable for a African-American man to love a African-American man, the epidemic will decimate the African-American community. General discomfort with public sexual discussion is more widespread in the South. The African-American community has long turned to its houses of worship for guidance. Sexual discussions, reducing stigma and a willingness to be tested for HIV, must start in the pulpit. I am a white male with privilege who has had the honor of being welcomed in to the African-American community. My patients have helped me recognize my privilege that has not been afforded to the African-American community. My African-American brothers and sisters are suffering. Words have power. These words have power. We need to help. What can I do to help? : : — J. Wesley Thompson, MHS, PA-C, AAHIVS, DFAAPA, is the medical director for Ballantyne Family Medicine.

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Free HIV testing locations in the Carolinas Regular testing among vulnerable populations is a key component in the fight against HIV/AIDS by Jeff Taylor :: qnotes staff

pproximately half of the population has never been tested for HIV, and around 13 percent of those currently infected are estimated as being unaware of their status, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). In addition, the CDC states that of the thousands of new HIV diagnoses every year, many likely transmitted by those unaware that they are HIV-positive. There are a number of free HIV testing sites across North Carolina and South Carolina. Many also offer testing for other STDs, as well as vaccines for hepatitis and HPV. Call for information on days, times and for information on all the services they offer. You can also visit gettested.cdc.gov to search for more testing sites in your area.

704-336-6500 charmeck.org/mecklenburg/county/ HealthDepartment/ClinicServices. RAIN 601 E. 5th St., Ste. 470, Charlotte 704-372-7246 carolinarain.org. Rosedale Medical 103 Commerce Centre Dr., #103, Huntersville 704-948-8582 rosedaleid.com. Quality Home Care Services Inc. 3552 Beatties Ford Rd., Charlotte 704-394-8968 qhcsnc.org. University of North Carolina at Charlotte Student Health Center 9530 Poplar Terrace Dr., Charlotte 704-687-7400 studenthealth.uncc.edu.

North Carolina Charlotte Ballantyne Family Medicine 6010 East W.T. Harris Blvd., Charlotte 16147 Lancaster Hwy., Ste. 140, Charlotte 704-208-4134 ballantynefamilymedicine.com. Carolinas Care Partnership 5855 Executive Dr., Ste. 101, Charlotte 704-531-2467 carolinascare.org. CMC-NorthPark Family Medicine 251 Eastway Dr., Charlotte 704-446-9991 carolinashealthcare.org. Lake Norman Free Clinic 14230 Hunters Rd., Huntersville 704-316-6611 lnchc.org. Mecklenburg County Health Department Southeast Campus 249 Billingsley Rd., Charlotte 704-336-6500 charmeck.org/mecklenburg/county/ HealthDepartment/ClinicServices. Mecklenburg County Health Department Northwest Campus 2845 Beatties Ford Rd., Charlotte

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Urban Ministry Center 945 N. College St., Charlotte 704-347-0278 urbanministrycenter.org. Walgreens Specialty Pharmacy 1500 E. 3rd St., Charlotte 704-526-4651 bit.ly/2zwQgVt. Asheville Buncombe County Department of Health 53 S. French Broad Ave., Asheville 828-250-6169 buncombecounty.org/Governing/Depts/Health. Asheville VA Medical Center 1100 Tunnel Rd., Asheville 828-298-7911 asheville.va.gov. Eligibility requirement: Only open to veterans.

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919-245-2400 orangecountync.gov/health. Durham CAARE Incorporated 214 Broadway St., Durham 919-683-5300 caare-inc.org. Durham County Health Department 414 E. Main St., Durham 919-560-7600 dconc.gov/publichealth. Samaritan Health Clinic 507 E. Knox St., Durham 919-407-8223 samaritanhealthcenter.org.

Guilford County Health Department 1100 E. Wendover Ave., Greensboro 336-641-3245 myguilford.com/humanservices/health. Nia Community Action Center Self Help Building 122 N. Elm St., Ste. 1000, Greensboro 336-617-7722 niacacinc.org. Piedmont Health Services and Sickle Cell Agency 1102 E. Market St., Greensboro 336-274-1507 piedmonthealthservices.org. Triad Health Project 801 Summit Ave., Greensboro 336-275-1654 triadhealthproject.com.

Western North Carolina AIDS Project 554 Fairview Rd., Asheville 828-252-7489 wncap.org.

Samaritan Health Clinic 4300 Garrett Rd., Ste. C, Durham 919-407-8226 samaritanhealthcenter.org.

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Triangle Empowerment Center 931 E. Main St., Ste 1A, Durham 800-806-3558 triempowerment.org.

Guilford County Health Department 501 E. Green Dr., High Point 336-641-3245 myguilford.com/humanservices/health.

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Piedmont Health Services and Sickle Cell Agency 401 Taylor St., High Point 336-886-2437 piedmonthealthservices.org.

Piedmont Health Services 299 Lloyd St., Carrboro 919-933-8494 med.unc.edu/shac. Chapel Hill Orange County Health Department 2501 Homestead Rd., Chapel Hill

Alcohol and Drug Services 301 E. Washington St., Ste. 101, Greensboro 336-333-6860, ext 250 adsyes.org/free-hiv-testing.

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The immediate need for PrEP in Mecklenburg County Following their intensive participation in the 2017 municipal elections, MeckPAC releases plan to advocate for PrEP funding in Mecklenburg County by Jerry Yelton :: qnotes contributor

o capitalize on of the momentum of political and community organizing throughout the 2017 election cycle, MeckPAC has released the following statement to introduce their next advocacy issue, PrEP funding in Mecklenburg County: “MeckPAC has worked since 1998 to ensure the equality of our local LGBTQ community. We’ve done so through public policy work on a variety of non-discrimination measures. We also recognize that continued progress for our community means tackling important, intersectional issues of health and equity. When individuals are empowered to take control of their own health and wellbeing, we know that individual and commu-

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nity health benefits increase. It falls to the county commission and health board to ensure that full health outcomes are realized for all members of our community, including those who cannot access traditional prevention and treatment methods. As we move toward World AIDS Day this year and throughout 2018, we are activating a new campaign to ensure Mecklenburg County provides support for PrEP, one of the most effective ways to end new HIV diagnoses. Mecklenburg County has the highest number of new HIV diagnoses in the state, but we know we can end all new local HIV diagnoses by 2020. In order to do so, Mecklenburg County must expand its support for PrEP access, in addition to its current work on HIV prevention.” For further information about the upcoming campaign to increase PrEP funding and resources in Mecklenburg County, visit: meckpac.org/prep. : :

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life, positively Personal Wellbeing

We need to talk about HIV and mental health A look at the intersection of mental health, HIV status and stigma in North Carolina by Jerry Yelton :: qnotes contributor

very so often, HIV will make the news, and, sometimes, a story about mental health will break through the noise. Rarely — if ever — are stories about the intersection of mental health issues with HIV status heard. Individuals living with HIV have a far greater likelihood of experiencing mental health problems than the general population. To explore this connection and hear the stories of HIV positive mental health in North Carolina, qnotes spoke with local leaders who work directly with HIV and mental health. Sarah Yum, LMFT, is the mental health specialist with RAIN in Charlotte, N.C., and she thinks the struggle with conversations about HIV and mental health starts with a lack of education. “A lot of people grow up uneducated about the disease. Unless you know someone who is positive or if you are at risk of becoming positive, there is not a lot of information unless you go out and hunt for it yourself.” A common thread throughout the stories of people living with HIV (PLWH) rang true with Sarah’s words: their positive status and

feelings of isolation had come about through misinformation and lack of education. Yum told the story of a cisgender, straight woman (this demographic information noted here to break stereotypes of who is affected by HIV) who had recently received an HIV positive diagnosis. This client’s story reflected that of many HIV positive clients. “How did this happen to me?” was her question. Yum worked with the client through her history, including family members lost to AIDS, and came to understand that a pent up anger and sense of shame surrounding her identities and HIV status had lead to the aggressive behavior the client had displayed. To the client, HIV held such a stigma that she was unable to comprehend where her own sense of self could mesh with this diagnosis. Yum worked with her through stories of incredible resilience, but also suppression of grief, loss issues and “self-identified shame.” Yum helped her client learn “how to write an ending to a chapter, so that [she] can start writing the beginning of a new one.” Developing one’s story, to

Yum, is essential to moving through the shame associated with trauma. Traumatic experiences, both related and tangential to clients’ HIV diagnosis, are often at the root of mental illness for PLWH. House of Mercy, a sponsored AIDS ministry of the Sisters of Mercy of the Americas and Sisters of Mercy South Central Community, is a family care home in Belmont, N.C. able to serve low-income individuals and communities living with HIV and AIDS. Sister Carmelita Hagan, a Sister of Mercy who provides pastoral care as requested, chats with a resident during one of her visits to the House of Mercy. Director of Nursing Shirley Stowe discussed how House of Mercy’s clients come to them, often via complex backgrounds rife with stigma and prejudice from family, friends and their communities.

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life, positively “The majority of people are doubly or triply diagnosed — meaning they have mental illness or issues with substance abuse along with their HIV status,” Stowe shared. “When someone moves into a group setting, such as House of Mercy, we recognize that people come from all walks of life…There’s a certain amount of walls built up with people.” Stowe and Dr. Sally Duffy, a retired psychotherapist who volunteers at House of Mercy, work with residents to help them feel secure and as if they have a place to thrive at House of Mercy or, in the case of hospice care residents, somewhere to live out the remainder of their lives. One resident, who had been out of care for multiple years, came to House of Mercy in March of this year to live out the remainder of his life. He was an active fisherman whose main mode of transportation had been a bicycle. Though it was not typical for House of Mercy residents to have bicycles, Stowe made an exception for this resident to ensure his comfort. Even though he was at House of Mercy for just over half a year, Stowe says that he passed away knowing “he was loved, and he had wanted to die somewhere knowing that he was loved.” Stories like this resident’s are important to hear because of the action they can inspire within those currently living with HIV. “People are carrying that old idea about HIV and it frightens them,” Duffy said. “It is no longer a death sentence.” Though HIV is a chronic disease, it is manageable and people can live long, expansive lives if they get themselves into care. What exactly care looks like is different for every person, and, as Stowe put it, “Until the person themselves is ready for care, there’s not a lot that we can do other than keep offering.” This perpetual reminder of resources and networks of encouragement is one of the most important ways that allies to PLWH can articulate and demonstrate their support. Duffy and Stowe believe that allies to PLWH should be reminded to allow space for the PLWH to talk about their struggles and experi-

ences or to let them be silent. Being an ally in these moments presents itself as breaking down misinformation with kindness and compassion and offering oneself as a validating ear to PLWH. Proposing resources and seeking out educational opportunities for both allies and PLWH can be a liberating and insightful way to strengthen communities and develop bonds. Hector Salgado of the Alliance of AIDS Services-Carolina in Raleigh, N.C. echoed the search for a sense of community among those at risk for HIV or those living with the disease. Salgado told stories of people who are unaware of the interplay of their HIV status and its impact on their lives and mental health. “If you can’t take care of yourself, you’re not going to make the best choices that affect other individuals.” Salgado continued, “Without the access to professional counseling or medication, they have no reason to try and become better for themselves or others.” The concept of isolating behaviors and lack of community rang constant as a concern for HIV care providers. When an HIV test result is delivered, the recipient can feel as if they are entirely alone, and this sense of loneliness can factor into mental illnesses like depression and anxiety that are commonplace among those living with HIV. Stories like those shared by House of Mercy and Salgado show the need for support groups and spaces that allow PLWH to be open and vocal about their successes and struggles. In North Carolina, isolation in regards to HIV status can be further exacerbated by the stigma surrounded the disease and conversations about mental health, sex and sexuality in

general. In these times, it is vital that the stories and lived experience of those living with HIV are heard. “We need their voices,” said Shannon Frady, the executive director of Carolinas CARE Partnership. Being LGBTQ in North Carolina is difficult enough, Frady continued, but dealing with intersectional issues of institutional racism, socio-economic status and physical health/HIV status adds more layers of difficulty to the lives of PLWH. “There is stigma at every turn.” Part of fighting stigma, according to Frady, is educating oneself and others. “It is important to learn the new language; that we are not dirty or clean — we are living with or not living with HIV. This isn’t an infection, it is a chronic, manageable disease.” Too often, this duty of educating others lies with the PLWH. In dating situations, familial relations and friendships the struggle of disclosure can further a PLWH’s feeling of not being understood, and that is where Frady and the other North Carolina leaders in HIV advocacy believe allies should step into the conversation. “We need to make mental health a part of the treatment. Professional health can help make the adjustment [of being aware of your HIV status] smoother,” Stowe says. Duffy added, “You don’t have to do it alone. There are more resources than you realize. This is not something to be ashamed of.” Allowing space for PLWH to know their value alleviates the mental burden of seclusion and loneliness, which can assist with depression, PSTD related to trauma and other mental illnesses. Marjorie Storch, the director of development at House of Mercy, says, “The focus at

House of Mercy has always been on spiritual and emotional wellbeing.” The care given at House of Mercy can function as a model

see Mental Health on 28 HIV/AIDS Awareness Action Steps What can you do now to become more engaged in the process of understanding and helpfulness? • Get tested and get treated. Being aware of your status and understanding treatment possibilities is the best way to improve your health and the health of others. • Educate yourself. Now that you know more about the intersection of mental health issues and HIV, you can learn more by reading up online, subscribing to newsletters and staying in the know on new developments connected to HIV and mental health research and activism. • Contribute. Just after Thanksgiving, Black Friday, and Cyber Monday is Giving Tuesday. Giving Tuesday an annual opportunity to get directly involved in your community by donating and volunteering with local organizations, non-profits and community coalitions dedicated to causes you are passionate about. qnotes encourages you to support one of the wonderful organizations doing important work in HIV and mental health advocacy in any way that you can.

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AIDS service organizations and agencies throughout the Carolinas Assistance provides a vital lifeline to increase quality of life for those affected by HIV/AIDS by Lainey Millen :: qnotes staff [Ed. Note: qnotes has prepared this comprehensive list of ASOs, etc., for our readers. To that extent, organizations and agencies may have been omitted. If readers will email editor@goqnotes.com with other listings (must have full name, address, phone number and website), qnotes will be happy to add them to the compilation. List accuracy and integrity are vital. Please report any errors or changes that need to be made.]

Different Roads Home 2320 N. Davidson St., Suite B, Charlotte, NC 28205 704-237-8793 differentroadshome.org. Established in 2012. Different Roads Home is a non-profit organization serving individuals with HIV/AIDS, cancer and children’s chronic illnesses. Services include support and social programs, a food pantry, testing initiatives and more.

The Carolinas has a variety of community organizations, resources and services for those living with HIV/AIDS or those seeking to get involved in HIV/AIDS prevention, education and advocacy.

House of Mercy P.O. Box 808 (304 McAuley Cir.), Belmont, NC 28012 704-825-4711 (administration) 704-825-3000 (residence) thehouseofmercy.org. Established in 1991. House of Mercy provides housing and compassionate care for persons living with AIDS. In addition to room and board, House of Mercy coordinates medical care and therapies plus a variety of supplemental services to enhance the physical, emotional and spiritual lives of its residents.

Asheville Western North Carolina AIDS Project 554 Fairview Rd., Asheville, NC 28803 828-252-7489 wncap.org. Established in 1986. WNCAP provides case management, prevention and education programs, outreach, HIV testing and other services throughout Western North Carolina. In addition to its main office in Asheville, the group also has offices and a presence in Bryson City and Shelby.

Charlotte Ballantyne Family Medicine 6010 East W.T. Harris Blvd., Charlotte, NC 28215 16147 Lancaster Hwy., Suite 140, Charlotte, NC 28277 704-208-4134 ballantynefamilymedicine.com. Established in 2015. Ballantyne Family Medicine provides fullservice, primary care medical treatment, as well as HIV/AIDS managed care under the direction of Dr. Richard Wynn, J. Wesley Thompson, MHS, PA, AAHIVS, DFAAPA and Kristi Dougan, nurse practitioner. The practice also has an onsite pharmacy operating under the umbrella of Rx Clinic Pharmacy with Olivia Bentley, PharmD, CFts, AAHIVP as the director of clinical pharmacy services, provides free/confidential HIV testing, case management and prescribes HIV/AIDS medications. Its offices are open to the community as a part of a collaborative effort to provide care and access to agencies and services outside its doors. Carolinas Care Partnership 5855 Executive Center Dr., Suite 101, Charlotte, NC 28212 704-531-2467 carolinascare.org. Established in 1990 as Regional HIV/AIDS Consortium. Carolinas CARE Partnership provides free HIV/STD testing and counseling, housing assistance, peer training, case management and other services, prevention and education.

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Mecklenburg County Department of Health 249 Billingsley Rd., Charlotte, NC 28211 704-336-6500 704-432-TEST (8378) mecknc.gov/healthdepartment/communityhealthservices/pages/hivstdservices.aspx. Provides testing, case management, awareness, education and other services at various locations, events and times throughout the county and year. The PowerHouse Project 1420 Beatties Ford Rd., Charlotte, NC 28216 704-626-6680 powerhousecharlotte.org. facebook.com/ThePowerhouseProject/. Established in 2005 under Quality Home Care Services umbrella. The Power House Project is a drop-in center and safe space for Black and Latino gay or bisexual men or men who have sex with men. The group offers a computer lab, weekly empowerment programs and workshops, retreats for men over 25 years old, social events, monthly discussion groups for men 18-29 years old and free and confidential HIV testing, which is always available during hours of operation. The PowerHouse Project is a program of Quality Home Care Services. Quality Home Care Services 3552 Beatties Ford Rd., Charlotte, NC 28216 704-394-8968 qhcsnc.org. Established in 1992. Quality Home Care Services provides a variety of services for those living with HIV including case management, HIV/AIDS prevention programs and testing, substance abuse treatment, community-based rehabilitation services for those with mental development disabilities and other services.

RAIN 601 E. 5th Street, Suite 470, Charlotte, NC 28202 704-372-7246 carolinarain.org. Established in 1992. RAIN, engages the community to transform lives and promote respect and dignity for all people touched by HIV through compassionate care, education and leadership development. Services include CARE Management, Peer2Peer support and outreach, support groups for youth, faith-based training, chaplain services and caring volunteers who provide practical support to persons living with HIV and AIDS. RAIN also provides HIV awareness and prevention education programs to thousands of people each year and is the only HIV non-profit in the Charlotte metropolitan area providing direct client services. Rosedale Medical 103 Commerce Centre Dr., Suite 103, Huntersville, NC 28078 704-948-8582 rosedaleid.com. Established in 2006. Rosedale Medical, formerly Rosedale Infectious Diseases, is a full-service HIV/ infectious diseases clinic that offers a variety of medical services. Staff, under the direction of Dr. Frederick Cruickshank, work closely with medical case management organizations and engage in clinical trials, among other services. It houses a Walgreen’s Specialty Pharmacy to support the needs of its clients and patients.

Eastern PiCASO (Pitt County AIDS Service Organization) 3219 Landmark St. Suite 1B, Greenville NC, 27834 252-830-1660 picaso.org. Established in 1991. Starting as a grassroots organization focused on supporting those living with HIV/ AIDS, providing buddy programs, nutritional support and healthcare advocacy, the agency changed over the years to a case-management-focused agency working with long-term client support. Currently, the group provides HIV testing, education and advocacy and emergency funding for those living with HIV/AIDS.

Triad Positive Wellness Alliance 400 E. Center St., Lexington, NC 27292 336-248-4646 704 Brooktown Ave., Winston-Salem, NC 27101 336-722-0976 positivewellnessalliance.org. Established in 1992. Positive Wellness Alliance is a communitybased organization that provides medical case

management, financial assistance, life skills management classes, support groups and housing assistance. It serves Davidson, Davie, Forsyth, Iredell, Rowan, Stokes, Surry and Yadkin Counties. Triad Health Project 801 Summit Ave., Greensboro, NC 27406 336-275-1654 620 W. English Rd., High Point, NC 27261 336-884-4116 triadhealthproject.com. Established in 1986. Triad Health Project provides case management and other client support services, HIV testing and prevention outreach, medical, social service and legal referrals, food pantry and nutritional resources and education, support groups and education, art and exercise programs.

Triangle Alliance of AIDS Services – Carolina 1637 Old Louisburg Rd., Raleigh, NC 27604 919-834-2437 aas-c.org. Established in 1999. Alliance of AIDS Services-Carolina provides case management, HIV/STD testing and counseling, emergency assistance for rent and utilities, transportation assistance, housing information and referrals, mental health, substance abuse and support group resources, referrals and programs.

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life, positively Healing with CAARE (Case Management of AIDS and Addiction Through Resources and Education) 214 Broadway St., Durham, NC, 27701 919-683-5300 caare-inc.org. Established in 1995. Healing with CAARE’s mission is to provide effective prevention and case management services to at-risk persons and their families in Durham by referring health and social resources that can alleviate isolation yet foster independence; to empower the population with preventative health education, counseling, and testing by establishing and maintaining networks and utilizing resources that address the health and social needs of the community; and to provide decent housing that is affordable to low- to moderate-income people.

Coastal New Hanover Regional Medical Center 2131 S. 17th St., Wilmington, NC 28401 910-662-9300 nhrmc.org/services/hiv-aids. Established in 1967. New Hanover Regional Medical Center provides comprehensive care for patients of all ages and throughout each stage of HIV, from acute HIV to latency to AIDS. Satellite clinics are in Whiteville, N.C., Jacksonville, N.C. and Burgaw, N.C.

Western ALFA 1120 Fairgrove Church Rd. S.E., Suite 28, Hickory, NC 28602 828-322-1447 alfainfo.org. Established in 1987. ALFA, formerly known as AIDS Leadership Foothills Area-Alliance, has provided supportive services to those infected and/or affected by HIV/AIDS. ALFA currently provides

supportive and medical case management, prevention education, and outreach to a nine-county service area. ALFA’s service area consists of Alexander, Alleghany, Ashe, Burke, Caldwell, Catawba, Lincoln, Watauga and Wilkes Counties.

South Carolina Affinity Health Care 500 Lakeshore Pky., Rock Hill, SC 29730 803-909-6363 affinityhealthcenter.org. Established in 1994 as Catawba Care Coalition. Affinity Health Care, formerly known as Catawba Health Care, provides primary care and specialist referrals, nutritional counseling, counseling and mental healthcare/ services, dental care, case management and support, HIV specialty care and HIV/STD testing. It serves York, Chester and Lancaster Counties with satellites in Clover, Fort Mill and York, S.C. AID Upstate 13 S. Calhoun St., Greenville, SC 29601 864-250-0607 aidupstate.org. Founded in 1987. AID Upstate provides supportive services to people affected by HIV/AIDS in Anderson, Greenville, Oconee and Pickens Counties of South Carolina. Its medical needs are handled in partnership with New Horizon Family Health Services (Greenville, S.C.) and ANMED Infectious Disease Clinic (Anderson, S.C.).

Careteam + 100 Professional Park Dr., Conway, SC 29526 843-234-0005 careteamplus.org. Established in 1993. Careteam provides supportive services for individuals living with HIV, including medical care, case management, HIV testing, counseling and education, risk assessment and counseling and screening in Horry, Georgetown and Williamsburg Counties. Lowcountry AIDS Services 3547 Meeting Street Rd., Charleston, SC 29405 843-747-2273 aids-services.com. Established in 1990s. For more than two decades, Lowcountry AIDS Services has been serving those living with HIV/AIDS in Berkeley, Charleston and Dorchester Counties. It provides case management, access to medical care and housing, financial, nutritional and legal assistance along with other supportive services in the Charleston area. LAS also works to prevent the growth of the epidemic through education, media campaigns, community outreach and free, daily HIV/STD testing. PALSS (Palmetto AIDS Life Support Services) 2638 Two Notch Rd., Suite 108 Columbia, SC 29204 803-779-7257 palss.org. Established in 1985.

Palmetto AIDS Life Support Services offers free services to individuals who have been diagnosed with or are at risk of contracting HIV/ AIDS, as well as providing support to its clients’ loved ones. It offers HIV testing, among other healthcare needs, along with support groups and adjunct assistance. PALSS maintains a food pantry for its clients. South Carolina HIV/AIDS Council 1813 Laurel St., Columbia, SC 28201 803-254-6644 schivaidscouncil.org. Established in 1994. The South Carolina HIV/AIDS Council works to reduce the spread of HIV/AIDS statewide. It provides this through community mobilization, prevention, education and advocacy, while improving the quality of life for those affected by HIV/AIDS.

Regional/Advocacy/ Information AIDS Legal Project at Duke School of Law law.duke.edu/aidsproject/. The AIDS Legal Project provides confidential legal representation to low-income HIV-infected clients with legal problems relating to their diagnosis. Legal assistance is provided by law students under the supervision of attorneys.

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