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Kiss and sell
Diplomacy suddenly got a whole lot friendlier. Leaders of nations and leaders of faiths, instead of shaking hands, are kissing each other on the lips. Global warming, indeed. All this intimacy is courtesy of Benetton, the Italian clothing company, whose new ad campaign features unlikely duos smooching. In one image, President Obama kisses Chinese leader Hu Jintao. In another, Obama busses Venezuelan President Hugo Chavez. Needless to say, the pictures are fakes. So, it’s no use wondering whether Obama considered the Chinese or the Venezuelan a better kisser. The photos were expertly doctored. The men have their eyes closed, their lips meet meaningfully and noses stay out of the way.
Above their heads is the word — if it is a word — ”Unhate.” Clearly by pairing the leaders of countries that have tense relations, the ad sends a message about world peace. Clearly by pairing heterosexual men, the ad sends a message that at Benetton they know, when it comes to shock value, it’s hard to beat a gay twist. This is their variation on “Gay is Good.” During past ad campaigns, Benetton earned a reputation for shocking. Previous images included parents grieving over a man dying of AIDS, a priest and a nun kissing and a black woman breastfeeding a white baby. In recent years, various Obama-haters have depicted him as a Muslim, a chimpanzee, a zombie and the devil. That was to sell a philosophy, not Christmas bras.
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An amendment of many names
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One of the big challenges for caring and thoughtful North Carolinians in light of the General Assembly’s decision to place a constitutional amendment on next May’s primary ballot that purports to “define marriage” is: What in the heck should the proposal be called? Especially in light of the powerful messages that can be conveyed in just a few words, “naming rights” are likely to be extremely important in shaping the amendment’s reception by voters. How can one convey the extent of the havoc the amendment would wreak in a pithy phrase or moniker? Should advocates get specific or keep it generic? One thing is for sure: Don’t call it “the marriage amendment.” This is an easy one to slip into, but it definitely falls short — both in terms of accuracy and effectiveness. First of all, the proposed amendment does much, much more than impact marriage. Indeed, as constitutional scholars have noted, the proposed amendment would be one of the most far reaching in the nation. By saying that a heterosexual marriage is the “only domestic legal union that shall be valid or recognized in this State,” the proposal
goes well beyond marriage and would create all sorts of problems in other areas — many of which seem likely to trouble even the opponents of same-sex “marriage.” The amendment could jeopardize current state domestic violence protections for unmarried couples and child custody rights of domestic partners (even if they are heterosexual). The amendment would also pretty clearly prevent the state from adopting other protections for unmarried couples in the future that fall well short of marriage, including: the right to family hospital visitation privileges, the right to make medical decisions if a partner is incapacitated, the right for domestic partners to make funeral and burial arrangements for one another, the right to inherit when a partner dies without a will, and the right to be named guardian or conservator if one partner becomes incapacitated. Here are some names for the amendment that would be accurate: The marriage discrimination amendment — This one’s pretty obvious. By permanently limiting the definition of marriage in North Carolina, the amendment singles out a seg-
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It’s unknown whether this queer depiction irritates Obama any more than the others did; the White House expressed displeasure on a different score. Deputy press secretary Eric Schultz said in a statement, “The White House has a long-standing policy disapproving of the use of the president’s name and likeness for commercial purposes.” Presidents who died long ago, however, are available to sell cars in February. Obama, Hu and Chavez aren’t the only ones to get the Benetton treatment. In a momentary display of heterosexuality, French President Nicolas Sarkozy kisses German Chancellor Angela Merkel. Israel’s Benjamin Netanyahu plants one on Palestinian leader Mahmoud Abbas. In the image that has created the biggest uproar so far, Pope Benedict XVI locks lips with Egyptian imam Mohammed Ahmed al-Tayeb. The two haven’t been on the best of terms all year, but to see this “Unhate” ad is to assume one of them said, “Let’s kiss and make up.” The Guardian reported that after posters of this image went up around Italy, the Vatican responded unusually quickly, condemning
such provocative advertising and promising legal action to stop the use of a photo “in which the Holy Father appears in a way considered to be harmful, not only to the dignity of the pope and the Catholic church, but also to the sensibility of believers.” Who don’t want to see their pit bull of homophobia kissing another fella. Benetton immediately withdrew the image from everywhere. “We reiterate that the meaning of this campaign is exclusively to combat the culture of hatred in all its forms,” said the company. “We are therefore sorry that the use of the image of the pope and the imam has so offended the sentiments of the faithful.” Naturally they’re sorry. So, so sorry. So, so, so, terribly down-to-their-socks sorry. It never occurred to them that giant posters of the pope smooching a man might offend their fellow Italian Catholics. They’re surprised that the Vatican raised a stink. It never dawned on them that the uproar would generate free worldwide publicity. And, Julius Caesar founded Versace and Sophia Loren is in line to be the next pope. : :
ment of the population and etches in stone its second-class status. The anti-marriage amendment — In a strange bit of twisted logic, proponents of the amendment attempt to argue that forever limiting marriage to different sex couples is necessary in order to “protect” marriage from becoming “devalued” and to prevent those couples from becoming less interested in staying in marriages. But this argument flies in the face of the facts. Research in three states that permit samesex marriage or civil unions (Washington, Connecticut and Massachusetts) shows that the overall marriage rate has either stayed flat or increased. Meanwhile, the divorce rate in these states has either declined or stayed flat. Conversely, in Georgia, South Carolina and Virginia (states with amendments) marriage and divorce rates have experienced negative trends since passage. The anti-family amendment — Proponents also attempt to argue that heterosexual marriage is necessary for optimal child rearing results. But dozens of peer-reviewed scientific studies have been able to detect no disadvantage for children raised in same sex couples in such areas as mental health, social adjustment, school performance, and behavioral problems. The anti-economic competitiveness amendment — There is also compelling
evidence to support the common sense conclusion that adoption of a constitutional amendment would send precisely the wrong message to the creative classes (i.e., the smart and innovative people who create jobs and economic growth in the 21st Century) at a time in the world in which their presence is desperately needed. That some North Carolinians would want to exclude such people and dissuade them from staying and/or relocating to their state in these economic hard times is beyond amazing. No one knows at this point, of course, which name will end up as the name that the media and the public will latch onto in the weeks and months ahead. Given the general resistance to using “loaded” language in the mainstream news media, it may well be that opponents would simply do well to focus on the use of more generic terms like the marriage limitation amendment or amendment one. Whichever label ends up rising to the top, however, let’s hope all North Carolinians concerned about promoting freedom and equality and saying “no” to exclusion and discrimination get right to work helping their fellow citizens understand the truth that lies behind it. : : — Rob Schofield is the Director of Research and Policy Development at N.C. Policy Watch, ncpolicywatch.com.
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Naughty and Nice
Santa Claus is coming to town! And, he’s bringing switches and lumps of coal for some of the state’s meanest and most heartless anti-gay villains. At the same time, there’s plenty of folks in need of rewarding. No doubt, sugarplums and other delicious treats will await them in their stockings Christmas morn. Here now is qnotes’ 2011 Naughty and Nice List. Naughty State Rep. Dale Folwell Near the top of this year’s Naughty List sits Forsyth County Republican and state House Speaker Pro Tem Dale Folwell. Folwell led the push this year — even more so than its traditional cheerleader, the late state Sen. James Forrester, R-Gaston — for an anti-LGBT state constitutional amendment banning marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships for same-sex couples. As if Folwell’s mere outspoken support for the amendment wasn’t enough, he threw gasoline onto the fire when he invited anti-gay pastors into the press room of the North Carolina General Assembly. There, state media gathered, Folwell stood with pride as the pastors lambasted LGBT people with some of the most extreme homophobic language the legislature has ever heard. State Rep. Paul Stam Folwell wasn’t alone in his push this year for the anti-LGBT amendment. Standing shoulder-to-shoulder with Folwell and Forrester was House Majority Leader Paul Stam, R-Wake. But, it’s not Stam’s support of the amendment that lands him on this year’s Naughty List. Instead, it’s the exceedingly arrogant and nonchalant manner in which Stam behaved on the floor of the House during debate on the measure — a provision that would drastically alter our state’s most important governing document. Leaning back in his chair, relaxed and with a smirk on his face, Stam proceeded to pop pieces of popcorn into
his mouth while Democrats tried desperately to plead for common sense and caution. Such disrespectful behavior is unbecoming a public servant of this great state and its citizens. That act alone warranted resignation, but I doubt we’ll ever see that. Arrogance, after all, makes for a great bedfellow with ego. I doubt Stam will be giving up his status too soon, though I’ll have to just keep crossing my fingers. In the meantime, I’ll just take solace in knowing the bigger (ass) you are, the harder you’ll fall. Nice Alex Miller After the summer departure of longtime Equality North Carolina Executive Director Ian Palmquist, the group’s former contract lobbyist, Alex Miller, was tapped to shepherd the organization until a more permanent replacement could be found. Miller took on the role with phenomenal style and strength, setting the pace and tone of Equality North Carolina’s courageous fight against the Republican-led legislature’s push for the anti-LGBT amendment. Perhaps, Miller’s most brilliant moment came in his joint interview with Folwell on WFAE’s “Charlotte Talks” with host Mike Collins. After being called out by Folwell for calling opponents of marriage equality “bigots,” Miller didn’t skip a beat. “You invited some pastors to come to the Legislative Building and speak from the podium which is paid for in part by the tax dollars of LGBT North Carolinians and those pastors have been quoted as saying…variously, that gay and lesbian North Carolinians are not ‘gay.’ That we’ve got to use terms like ‘deviant’ and ‘abomination’ and that homosexuality is a ‘death-style.’ That’s Patrick Wooden from Raleigh who you invited to come speak from the General Assembly and you stood next time as he spoke.” Miller continued, “Another person you invited has been quoted talking about churches
that are open and affirming to gay and lesbian people and he said, ‘Faggots across the nation heading churches. Homos on the pianos. Faggots in the choir. What kind of spirit is that leading the church?’ and about politicians who oppose this amendment, ‘They want that little one percent of faggots to go vote.’ You might not be a bigot but that is bigoted language and you invited that into the General Assembly Building that is paid for by tax dollars including the tax dollars of gay and lesbian North Carolinians, so either you agree with them and you are a bigot or you don’t agree with them and you invited them for political purposes and honestly I’m not sure which is worse.” Equality North Carolina Miller might have been the face and voice of Equality North Carolian during the legislative phase of its fight against the anti-LGBT amendment, but there’s no doubt he couldn’t have done it without the ever-present, hard-working and intelligent staffers behind him. Development Director Kay Flaminio, Administrative Assistant Shawn Long, Communications Director Jen Jones, Director of Community Organizing Sam Parker and Human Rights Campaign staffers Jess Osborne, Chris Speer and Karin Quimby were just a handful among the many, many staff people, volunteers, donors and activists who helped to guide Equality North Carolina through this year’s legislative session. Though the amendment still passed, it did so with just one vote. That’s a testament to Equality North Carolina’s strength and influence, which we hope continues to play a defining role as the Coalition to Protect NC Families rolls forward into the ballot initiative campaign. : :
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Programs need more funding RALEIGH — North Carolina AIDS Director Jacquelyn Clymore (pictured) said in an interview on Dec. 1 with Chris Fitzsimon on NC Policy’s Watch’s “News & Views” radio show that although AIDS patients today are experiencing longer and better lives, more treatment and research funding is still needed. At this time last year, Clymore reported that the state’s AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP) would have to put a cap on how many it could serve in 2011, thus necessitating the need for a waiting list. It now has more than 6,200 individuals on its roster, with 106 more still on standby. The program dispenses anti-retroviral medication. The University of North Carolina on July 18 released details from a landmark HIV prevention trial, the HIV Prevention Trials Network 052 study at the 6th International AIDS Society Conference on Pathogenesis, Treatment and Prevention in Rome. Clymore shared these findings stating that if those who are HIV positive were to receive early treatment and care and would take their medications as directed that they reduce their transmission rate by 96 percent. It means that their viral load is so suppressed that they do not transmit virus to their uninfected partners. “This study represents the culmination of many years of work, and we are thrilled by its success and by the opportunity to share these data with our colleagues and the public,” said Dr. Myron Cohen, J. Herbert Bate Distinguished Professor of Medicine at UNC and principal investigator of the study. “This is the best news we’ve seen in years since AZT came out years ago,” Clymore added. She also said that it was the most effective prevention tool and was powerful. ADAP is funded jointly by state and federal monies and is designed to provide a resource for low income residents. Gross income must be at or below 300 percent of the federal poverty level. It is administered by the Department of Health and Human Services. It provides other lists of resources for those with HIV/AIDS, like information on the Ryan White Fund, legal and bilingual information services, local health departments and AIDS service organizations, as well as programs for those who are incarcerated. It also lists pharmaceutical assistance programs from a variety of programs and manufacturers. For more information, visit ncpolicywatch.com to listen to the entire interview. — L.M. visit salisbury-pflag.org.
Charlotte Scholarships offered by PFLAG
SALISBURY — Four $1,000 scholarships are being offered by the Salsibury/Rowan Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) for the 2012-12 academic year, The Salisbury Post reported. Rowan County lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender students and/or their straight allies are eligible. Applicants may be private, public or home-schooler seniors. Scholarships are awarded on an annual basis to honor four champions of LGBT equality. They are: the Anne Stanback-Charlotte Kinlock Scholarship; the Founder’s Equality Scholarship (which honors the chapter’s founder Michael Clawson); the Linda Ketner Community Service Scholarship; and the Bob Page-Dale Frederiksen Business Scholarship (which honors Replacements, Ltd. of Greensboro’s founder and CEO and his life partner). The Autumn Soirée helps to fund the scholarships, along with other supporters. Scholarship Advisory Committee Chair Carol Williams-Swoope shared that students do not have to go to a four-year school to qualify. Community colleges or trade schools are also included in the offering. Deadline for application is March 14, 2012. Notification will be made by April 14, 2012. To obtain an application or for more information, call Williams-Swoope at 704-2122215, email cwilliams138@carolina.rr.com or
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James seeks re-election
CHARLOTTE — Republican Mecklenburg County Commissioner Bill James announced on Dec. 2 that he intends to seek a ninth term on the board. James and other commissioners are up for re-election in 2012. In his announcement, James indicated that he will support an anti-LGBT state constitutional amendment banning marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships for samesex couples. “Next May’s primary election will include a Constitutional ballot amendment to limit marriage to ‘one man-one woman,’” James said. “I fully support this and hope that you will vote YES.” Last year, James made waves when he compared gay people to pedophiles. The outrage over his comments spread nationally, leading to a petition campaign that collected more than 20,000 signatures. Though censure was discussed by his county commission colleagues, they later scrapped the idea in favor of a weak “equality resolution” for which James himself even voted. — M.C..
Non-profit featured in documentary
CHARLOTTE — Campus Pride, a locallybased, national non-profit organization that works with LGBT college and university
students, is featured in a new documentary scheduled for release next year. “Legalize Gay: The Civil Rights Movement of a Generation” features interviews from a diverse array of young adult leaders and established LGBT community organization leaders, including Campus Pride’s Shane Windmeyer, current Pennsylvania State House candidate Brian Sims, former U.S. Rep. Gabby Giffords intern-turned-hero Daniel Hernandez and others. The film is scheduled for release on the national, gay and lesbian cable network Logo next year. A portion of the advanced screenings proceeds will benefit Campus Pride. For more information about the film, visit CampusPride.org/LegalizeGay. — M.C.
Triangle Center adds funding goal wish list
RALEIGH — The LGBT Center of Raleigh has surpassed its $10,000 Fall Fundraising Campaign goal by $75. In addition to the $10,000 one-time donation goal, the center hopes to meet a $2,500 challenge in pledges for monthly recurring donations. At press time, the group has raised $1,275. Board Treasurer Les Geller said that they want to meet the objective by year’s end. The funds will be used to cover basic operational costs and overhead. Salaries comes from other resources. They had hoped to reach the pledge challenge by Nov. 30, but that did not happen. For more information or to make a contribution, visit lgbtcenterofraleigh.com and click the “donate” button. — M.C. & L.M.
OutRaleigh event announced
RALEIGH — Volunteers and staffers with the LGBT Center of Raleigh announced on Dec. 1 that their annual OutRaleigh festival will be held on May 5, 2012. Organizers say the event’s date is significant, coming just three days before the scheduled vote on an anti-LGBT state constitutional amendment that would ban marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships for same-sex couples. “At a time when North Carolina is in the national spotlight, let’s make America’s LGBTQ and ally communities proud, and quash bigoted legislation with pride, fortitude, and solidarity,” the group said in a release. The group says they will be expanding the festival’s footprint in 2012 and include more entertainment, children’s activities and vendors. For more information, visit outraleigh.org or lgbtcenterofraleigh.com. — M.C.
CMF seeks donations
RALEIGH — Crape Myrtle Festival has announced its CMF32 Holiday Drive for 25 campaign. It hopes to raise $25,000 to provide support for those who are living with HIV/AIDS. Contributions can be made either online or by mail. One time or reoccurring payment methods are available.
Visit crapemyrtlefest.org and click over to the donations page to pledge support or download the sponsorship form and mail to Crape Myrtle Fest, Inc., P.O. Box 12201, Raleigh, NC 27605-2201. — L.M.
Wolfson says legislation will tie hands
CHAPEL HILL — Executive director of the national Freedom to Marry, Evan Wolfson (pictured), had an opportunity to share his views on “Why Marriage Matters” and the impending anti-LGBT constitutional amendment with students at the University of North Carolina School of Law’s Center on Law and Government. on Nov. 28. This referendum, which will be on the ballot in May 2012, bans marriages, civil unions and domestic partnerships and would “tie the hands of future generations,” he said. The current measure will be an electoral, not a legislative, decision. A troubling prospect, Wolfson said. “Can you get the majority to vote with the minority” Wolfson asked, adding that it was a “tall order” and that the responsibility has to be to get the voters out that are persuaded to vote against the measure. Wolfson also spoke with NC Policy Watch and Equality North Carolina on Nov. 29. The subject was “Crucial Conversation: ‘What would the marriage discrimination amendment really mean for North Carolina?’” Other speakers included University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill Law Professors Maxine Eichner and Holning Lau, as well as Stuart Campbell, executive director of Equality North Carolina. Recent polls suggest that even though the referendum has significant support, there is growth among North Carolinians who express that they are okay with legal recognition of same-sex couples. For more information or to view the videos, visit goqnotes.com/13505. — M.C. & L.M.
Regional Ski weekend on horizon
BLOWING ROCK — In its fourth season, the Summit 2012 Gay Ski Weekend will be held Jan. 19-22, 2012. Tagged as a premier travel vacation and winter event in the Southeast, it welcomes attendees from across the region. Lodging will be available in the downtown area and at two properties closer to the slopes. Visit the event website to view room packages which include black diamond passes, as well as costs. Two types of passes are available for those who wish to enjoy the festivities, but will not be staying at the event resorts. For more information, call NC High Country at 855-234-6242, option 5, email barb@gonchigh country.com or visit ncgayskiweekend.com. — L.M.
National Youth groups secure major grants
LOS ANGELES, Calif. — Liberty Hill Foundation has selected five community organizations from around the country to receive $100,000 multi-year grants in an effort to end violence against LGBTQ communities and advance safety, self-determination and justice for LGBTQ youth. The grants will be made through the Queer Youth Fund, one of Liberty Hill’s donor advised funds. The 2011 Queer Youth Fund grantees are Brown Boi Project (Oakland, Calif.); Colorado Anti-Violence Program (Denver, Colo.); Make the Road New York (Brooklyn, N.Y.); The Theatre Offensive (Cambridge, Mass.); and Three Wings (Seattle, Wash.). The Queer Youth Fund was established in 2002. So far, more than $3.5 million has been awarded to groups in 21 states and Canada. Each grant is $100,000 and paid out over three to five years. — D.S.
HRC launches Jewish org index
WASHINGTON, D.C. — The Human Rights Campaign Foundation announced is launching the first-of-its-kind Jewish Organization Equality Index (JOEI) survey. Modeled after HRC’s Corporate Equality Index (CEI) and Healthcare Equality Index (HEI), JOEI is designed to measure LGBT inclusion in the programs and employment practices at Jewish non-profit organizations. Rabbi Hyim Shafner of the Bais Abraham Congregation in St. Louis, Mo., said, “It is my hope that the Jewish Organization Equality Index will serve as a strong step toward strengthening the important Torah value of
seeing all Jews as made in the image of God and deserving of the highest of human dignity and kavod, no matter their gender, gender identity, sexual orientation or background.” — D.S.
HIV study results troubling
ATLANTA, Ga. — Nearly three out of four Americans living with HIV do not have their infection under control, according to a Vital Signs report by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, released in conjunction with World AIDS Day, Dec. 1. The low percentage comes from the fact that 1 in 5 people with HIV do not know they are infected and, of those who are aware, only 51 percent receive ongoing medical care and treatment. Of the nearly 1.2 million people living with HIV in the U.S., only an estimated 28 percent have a suppressed viral load (defined as viral load less than 200 copies of the blood-borne virus per milliliter of blood) — meaning that the virus is under control and at a level that helps keep them healthy and reduces the risk of transmitting the virus to others. However, of those living with HIV who are in ongoing care and on antiretroviral treatment, 77 percent have suppressed levels of the virus. Effective HIV treatment and care benefit infected individuals by improving their health, and are also important for HIV prevention. Results from a recent study of heterosexual couples from the National Institutes of Health showed that consistently taking antiretroviral therapy, in combination with safer behaviors, can reduce the risk of spreading HIV by approximately 96 percent. The lesson here is clear: Get tested! — D.S.
President Barack Obama has made HIV/AIDS policy issues a top priority. Seen here, the president in a July 12 Oval Office meeting on AIDS policy with members of the Domestic Policy Council, including, from left: Greg Millett, senior scientist and Department of Health and Human Services/CDC liaison to the Office of National AIDS Policy; Domestic Policy Council Director Melody Barnes; Jeffrey Crowley, director of the Office of National AIDS Policy; and Senior Advisor Valerie Jarrett. Photo Credit: Official White House photo by Pete Souza.
Global Biased law moving forward
ABUJA, Nigeria — On Nov. 29, the Nigerian Senate unanimously outlawed same-sex marriages and civil unions, with penalties of up to 14 years in jail for participants and 10 years in jail for anyone who helps or witnesses such a marriage or union. The measure also bans public displays of affection between gay couples. During the bill’s third reading, which determined its passage, senators chided U.K. Prime Minister David Cameron’s October threat that aid might be withheld if the bill is enacted. Senate President David Mark said, “Any country that does not want to give us aid or assistance, just because we hold on very
firmly to our values, that country can (keep) their assistance.” He added, “No country has the right to interfere in the way we make our laws, as we do not interfere into others.” The bill was approved in a form that is even more restrictive than when it was read at a public hearing some weeks ago. Now, the bill additionally criminalizes the registration of gay clubs, organizations and “same-sex amorous relationships” in general. At press time, the bill is awaiting three readings in the House of Representatives, at which time it is expected to be approved. If it is, the measure will then be submitted to the president for final assent. — D.S.
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Charlotte activists invited to White House Local LGBT politicos to attend holiday reception, senior White House staff briefing by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com
CHARLOTTE — Roberta Dunn said she was pleasantly surprised when she opened her mail to find an invitation to attend The White House’s annual holiday party on Dec. 14. What’s more, she’s been invited to attend a briefing session with some members of President Barack Obama’s senior staff. Phil Hargett, a Mecklenburg LGBT Political Action Committee steering committee and former chair of the group, will join Dunn in Washington, D.C. Dunn, who is transgender, sits on the board of the LGBT Community Center of Charlotte. She’s also been active as a steering committee member for the Mecklenburg LGBT Political Action Committee and on a number of local, state and federal political fronts. This year, she served as a community advisor to Charlotte Mayor Anthony Foxx’s reelection campaign. Dunn is crediting the combined effect of her resume for her special invite. “I’ve known [local Organizing for America staffer] Kevin Brown and Mayor Foxx for a couple of years now,” she said. “That involvement and commitment to support LGBT equality in Charlotte and across the state and on the national level all added up.” Earlier this year, Dunn was named Creative Loafing‘s “Best Activist.” Dunn said she’ll keep the activist effort
up when she treks off to the nation’s capital. “First and foremost, I want to talk about the Employment NonDiscrimination Act and why it is necessary to get this passed and how much of a shame it is that it hasn’t been passed,” she said. “LGBT people are being discriminated against everyday of their lives and until this bill is passed, they always will be.” Next on her list is the anti-LGBT state constitutional amendment banning marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships for same-sex couples. “Something has to be done at the federal level to prevent this from happening,” Dunn asserted. Dunn also wants to highlight some of her concerns on local policy initiatives. “The federal government and White House staff need to hear that the LGBT community in Charlotte is united for LGBT equality,” she said. That message is all the more important as the Queen City continues to ramp up toward the Democratic National Convention (DNC) next September. “We really want something to happen
Transgender political activist Roberta Dunn, a member of the LGBT Community Center of Charlotte Board of Directors, is seen here leading the Charlotte Transgender Day of Remembrance observance on Nov. 20. Photo Credit: Nicole Oliver, NeaMatt Photography, NeaMattPhotography.com.
here before the DNC comes to town,” Dunn said. “We’ll be working with the DNC to make progress.” Dunn also hopes to engage DNC staffers and other Democratic Party officials in
working with Charlotte’s LGBT Community Center. She wants to provide local LGBT programming around convention time and in the months leading up to it. : :
Vaccine may prevent HPV-related anal cancer Popular vaccine for young girls now recommended for young men by Rob Rolan-Johnson :: Healthy Living News
Just days after the U.S. government recommended that young men be vaccinated against human papillomavirus infection (HPV), a new study shows that such a vaccination may prevent the development of anal cancer. The study, which was published in The New England Journal of Medicine, involved 602 men, ages 16-26 years, who have sex with men (MSM). The men got a placebo or the three-shot injection of the HPV vaccine known as Gardasil. Participants were then followed for three years after their last shot.
Gardasil, a vaccine designed to prevent the transmission of HPV, was originally approved only for girls. The U.S. government now recommends it for boys, as well — welcome news for men who have sex with men at increased risk of HPV-related anal and throat cancers. Photo Credit: Svenska Cellulosa Aktiebolaget (SCA), via Wikimedia. Licensed under Creative Commons.
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Gardasil is designed to protect against several “types” of HPV, including HPV types 16 and 18, which are commonly associated with anal cancer. In the study, Gardasil proved effective against these viral types by preventing people from being infected with them. Those vaccinated with Gardasil also had a 75 percent reduction in the number of precancerous lesions. For those in the study who were already exposed to one or more of the HPV cancer causing viral types the vaccine reduced the incidence of the precancerous lesions by 54 percent. “Almost six thousand people every year in this country are diagnosed with anal cancer and more than 700 people die from the disease,” said Joel Palefsky, M.D., who directed the clinic that led study. “What this trial showed is that those cancers and deaths could be prevented.” “A vaccine that can help prevent HPV types 16 and 18 related anal cancers, which account for approximately 80 percent of anal cancer cases, is an important tool to help prevent this disease,” added Richard M. Haupt, M.D., of Merck Research Laboratories. “These study data add to the large body of clinical trial data that support use of Gardasil in both females and males to help prevent certain HPV-related cancers and disease.” Human papilloma virus is one of the most commonly sexually-transmitted viruses. It is generally contracted when teenagers become sexually active. The virus can cause anal cancer, as well as other cancers, including cervical cancer in women. Two vaccines, including Gardasil, are already being given to young women to prevent these cancers. The study results suggest that the vaccine could protect women in addition to men from getting anal cancer. An underreported fact is that more women develop anal cancer than men. Though less common than other cancers, HPV related
anal cancer, along with HPV related head, throat, penile and cervical cancers, have been increasing in recent years (See sidebar: HPV and Oral Sex: A Risky Mix). Although less common than among women, anal cancer is also a problem for men who have sex with men and HIV-infected individuals. All these cancers evolve from precancerous growths associated with HPV cancer causing viral types. In theory, the vaccines should help prevent the development of all HPV related cancers specific to these cancer causing viral types. A related study, led by Dr. Palefsky’s coauthor Dr. Anna Guiliano of the Moffitt Cancer Center, also shows that Gardasil effectively protects both heterosexual men and MSM against the viral types that cause HPV related genital warts. Other studies show the vaccine does the same for women. With young girls already being widely vaccinated with one of the two existing HPV vaccines, the call has now gone out that young boys and young men should be vaccinated as well. “The new study adds to the body of evidence supporting routine HPV vaccination of young males,” said Palefsky. “The ideal time to begin vaccination would be before initiation of sexual activity, but vaccination may also be useful after initiation of sexual activity.” he added. The usefulness of vaccinating after the initiation of sexual activity it still being studied. But one reason for being optimistic over whether it will work is “herd immunity.” The idea that, overtime, as more become protected by either HPV vaccine, there will be a reduction in the population, or herd, of those infected with dangerous HPV viral types. It stands to reason that over time, older sexually active populations may then also benefit from vaccination as it will be less likely they will have
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Kinsey: Council will have votes for partners plan Domestic partner benefits, other protections long sought by community advocates by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com
CHARLOTTE — City Councilmember Patsy Kinsey said on Nov. 20 that the council will have the votes to pass a benefits plan for same-sex partners of city employees. The District 1 councilmember’s announcement came during an LGBT community memorial service for transgender hate-crime victims. “We’re almost close enough now that the city council will have the votes to pass domestic partner benefits,” Kinsey told an audience of about 75 gathered at the LGBT Community Center of Charlotte. Kinsey has been working with an ad-hoc group of community members pushing for a variety of changes in local policies and ordinances. This writer has been among the members of the informal group, which is seek-
Vaccine crosses gender lines continued from page 8 been exposed to these viral types. Doubtless with this in mind, the Department of Health and Human Services and the CDC’s Advisory Committee on Immunization Practices recently reviewed the clinical evidence on HPV vaccination, including the new anal cancer data. It then voted to change the vaccine from “recommended,” status to “routine” for boys up to the age of 21 years.
ing a domestic partner benefits plan similar to that approved by the Mecklenburg Board of County Commissioners in December 2009. “It has taken all of the community working together to get this done,” Kinsey said. Charlotte is the last major city in the state to take up consideration of LGBT-inclusive policies or ordinances. In addition to a domestic partners plan, activists have also been seeking a more inclusive employment non-discrimination ordinance. Last year, City Manager Curt Walton added sexual orientation to the city’s human relations non-discrimination policy. At the time, City Attorney Mac McCarley argued specifically against including protections for transgender workers. Activists have said they would prefer a council-approved ordinance inclusive of both sexual orientation and gender identity. “We have been very encouraged by this month’s election results and the election of our city’s first openly gay council member,” said Scott Bishop, a member of the ad-hoc policy group. “We hope this conversation can move forward quickly.” This newspaper has editorialized several times in support of increased LGBT protections in Charlotte. : : info: Keep up with the latest news from Charlotte and across the state at goqnotes.com.
HPV and oral sex: A risky mix One long-term effect of the HIV epidemic has been an oral sex free-for-all. Yet an unintended consequence of more people having oral sex has been an increase in the number of throat and head cancers. A 2007 NEJM study showed that having had oral sex with more than 6 different partners increased the risk of developing throat cancer by 3.4%. Performing oral sex with 26 or more partners further tripled that risk. That’s because having more sexual partners increases the chance of being exposed to HPV 16 and 18 — the specific viral types associated with HPV cancers. Fortunately the new vaccines protect against these viral types. Another study, published in the Journal of Clinical Oncology, shows that oral sex may increase the risk of developing throat cancer more than smoking. The study also shows that if trends continue, by 2020, HPV related throat cancer may be more common than HPV related cervical cancer. Happily, these cancer trends should change for the better if the HPV vaccines become widely adminstered.
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Positive Postings Winter ramblings…
by Dale Pierce ~ Practice Manager/Ryan White Program Director
So, I sat down to write my article for this issue and realized there were so many things to talk about, so I better just lump them all together in one session. First and foremost, thanks to all of you who supported and/or attended Rosedale ID’s Second Annual Evening of Hope and Inspiration on Nov. 13, 2011. We raised over $7,500 for the Jeanne White Ginder Food Pantry, which will help with emergency food needs of our clients in the upcoming year. The Martins were amazing and have already agreed to come back and perform again next year for us. Their energy, enthusiasm, harmony and testimony brought the crowd to their feet over and over again that night. Thanks to St. Luke Missionary Baptist Choir and all the presenters and exhibitors. It was also a great start to kick off the holiday season by honoring the community service
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works of Rev. Debbie Warren of RAIN and Tonia Bendickson of Elevation Church. More important than the music and the money raised was the feeling of fellowship and the call to action of those in attendance. Rosedale Infectious Diseases is looking forward to a busy upcoming few months. On the agenda for 2012 is the addition of a new medical provider, Wesley Thompson, PA. Wes will be with us after the first of the year and you can call now to schedule your appointments with him at our office for your 2012 calendar. With Wes coming and the physical expansion, be on the look out for more support staff additions and other changes in 2012. We have put some great people and programs in place for this transition. We hope that you can bear with us during this time of growth and be mindful of the “growing pains” that may go along with it. In the end, it will all pay off in a bigger and better and maybe even a little brighter Rosedale for all of us. Don’t forget that we have our own pharmacy at Rosedale. By getting your drugs mailed to you by our pharmacy partner Kerr Health, you may be able to save yourself on co-pays this new year. Be sure you always stay in touch with us on Facebook or check in at our website at rosedaleid.com. Don’t forget that Dec.1, 2011 was World AIDS Day. There are still lots of great events go-
ing on in our community, if you want to volunteer or just attend an event. I always use Dec. 1 as an “official” kick off to my giving mentality for the holiday season. We all have so much to be thankful for and it is a great gift to be able to give back to the community. Take a few hours out of your busy holiday schedule to volunteer or make a special gift to a charity of your choice here in our community. So many non-profits, and especially AIDS service organizations, are struggling right now with the economy, federal funding cuts and a general “downsize” in our area. Reach out to these organizations and see what you can do to help. It may not always be a monetary gift that is most needed. Maybe you could help by delivering food to someone or giving them a ride to their doctor appointments. In this season of grateful giving, it is truly important to remember those that need our help the most. You can also “help” the awareness campaign of HIV and AIDS in the area by educating someone else about the crisis. Maybe someone at your church or workplace would never know that we were all struggling in this field if you didn’t speak up? Make sure that not only on Dec.1 but everyday you remind yourself of all of those who have gone before us in the field of HIV; patients, advocates, medical providers and other leaders that have set the stage for the great growth and change we see
in this field today. It is hard to imagine that HIV “appeared” on the scene some 30 years ago, and that so many have lost their battle, that so many struggles have been fought, and that we still are without a cure. Remember to never stop talking about it around your dinner tables, in your workplaces, and at your churches. Be the example you want to see in others. Together we really can make a difference in this fight. The Martins’ sang a song at our recent event that held the lyrics, “count your blessings.” I hope that all of us take time to count our blessings this holiday season. No matter how you celebrate, the entire staff at Rosedale ID wishes you a happy and safe holiday season. Remember to take time for yourself and your health, both mental and physical. Enjoy every minute of the holidays and don’t allow yourself to get caught up in the stress the season can sometimes bring. Drive around and look at the lights, take a long walk with a cup of hot cocoa in your hand, help a neighbor in need, or even better, look at the holidays through the eyes of a child. By doing that you may be able to re-capture the magic in the moments. Don’t forget to visit our website at rosedaleid.com and friend us on Facebook for community and clinical updates. — Sponsored Content —
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‘Don we now our gay apparel’ Style, Fashion and the Everyman by Daniel Stroupe :: guest contributor
Every morning — and on those afternoons before evenings out on the town — we dress ourselves and we make a presentation for the world to see. Shall this presentation be of style and grace or a “oh honey, no” sort of situation? Of course some guys think they don’t know how to be fashionable and stylish; or they have convinced themselves they don’t have the “gay gene” with clothes. That’s okay, darling. This is where I come in. First things first, though: There is a difference between fashion and style. Fashion and style are generally confused with one another, but for me there is a marked difference between the two. Fashion is reflective of what is going on right now and deals with trends and the looks of the moment. Trends are the playthings of fashion and the industry that thrives on what is in and what is out. Fashion is important, though. It keeps things alive and moving and can challenge us with how we think about dressing. That’s a good thing. Trends can come and go,
Trends: For the winter months we are beating the cold with bright colors against neutral tones. This is most definitely the most sartorially fun time of year. Now is the time to experiment with layers and rich fabrics. Basics: Always have a grey wool suit. You can wear it year round and can be the most functional piece in your closet. Shirt: Express; Tie: Dior; Vintage Sweater and Belt; Pants: Banana Republic; Glasses: Dolce and Gabbana
Trends: Slim fitting suits with narrow lapels are still going strong into next years’ trends. Basics: The New Basics staple — dark wash jeans makes a fabulous appearance here. Paired with a trusty grey suit jacket we are good to go! Jacket: Kenneth Cole; Shirt: French Connection; Vintage Belt; Jeans: Rockabilly; Robot Necklace: Custom Shop
so that bad idea five years ago may be a hot new ticket next year — you never know! Having a few “trendy” pieces is a good thing but I suggest you fill your wardrobe with timeless pieces that will last you for a good few years. These pieces are the building blocks to developing your personal style. Style is one’s basic manner of dress. It is ingrained through practice and self examination. Style is almost like a feeling — a natural instinct — a guttural aura that one exudes that is truly unique. It can be as simple as favoritism toward a color or shape or an elaborate scheme like a pension for pattern mixing. A major element of your personal style is knowing your body type and what flatters you. We all can have it whether we know it or not and, most importantly, your personal style best reflects how clothing serves you and how you would like to be perceived. Getting down to the basics is important — a black suit, navy blazer, perfect-fitting oxford shirt, classic shoes and the like. But also consider a list of “New Basics” — the dark wash jean,
Trends: Retro kick backs! Following the slim-fit trends with luxe details like this Prada cashmere sweater and fun detail like this vintage slim belt. Basics: The navy blazer is an absolute must for the Everyman! Sweater: Prada; Vintage Blazer and Belt; Jeans: Levis; Shoes: Calvin Klein
basic white tee and aviator glasses. Once you have your base, start to customize your collection and make it really reflect you. Mixing in the basics of style with hints of the trends keeps one looking relevant and new. I look to the runways for patterns in things like color selection and silhouette and then take those ideas and translate them to things you already own and a couple new items to refresh your wardrobe. I’m offering you some looks that start with the basic building blocks of style and mixes in this season’s trends. As a basic rule: Explore items from all price ranges and genres. Mix vintage, new, designer and thrift shop finds to create a personal look. Basics can always be bought at Target and discount clothiers. When you go cheap take it as an opportunity to have things tailored so your fit is perfect. What something looks like on you is far more important than who made it. : : Photography: David Lari Model and Styling: Daniel Stroupe
Trends: Color! Reds, purples in vivid viscosity are huge this year paired with blacks, tans, grays and other neutrals. Basics: A good military jacket is as timeless of the pea coat and trench. Choose wisely and it can last you forever. Jacket: Ben Sherman; Shirt: Burberry; Vintage Crocodile Belt; Pants: H&M
Trends: All about the accessory! Focusing your look on a fabulous acessory can make your look pop out of the crowd. Basics: Know and love black and what it can do for you. A simple black silhouette can do wonders for you. Scarf: Gap; Sweater: Armani Exchange; Pants: H&M
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women in music at the moment, have released must-have live DVDs in recent weeks. 2011 has been an incredible year for Adele. At the beginning of the year she scored a by david stout mammoth #1 hit with “Rolling In The Deep,” david@goqnotes.com which propelled her sophomore album to the Speaking of George Michael… top of the charts for a record-setting 12 weeks. That’s the longest run ever for a British female artist and ties the overall record set by…wait At press time, pop icon George Michael is hospitalized in for it…George Michael (for 1988’s “Faith”). Vienna, Austria, recovering from a severe bout of pneumonia. Second single “Someone Like You” was another multi-week #1, The openly gay star was in the country to perform a show on cementing Adele’s status as the artist of 2011. his successful Symphonica Tour when he fell ill. Things seemed Her new “Live At The Royal Albert Hall” (out on DVD and pretty dire for the first few days; Michael was listed in critical Blu-Ray) features a 90-minute performance of material culled condition and rumors about his worsening health were swirlfrom both of Adele’s studio albums, behind the scenes footage ing. However, the latest official news states that he is out of the shot the day of the show and a bonus live CD. Viewers will find ICU and getting better. the newly minted star in stunning, full-throated voice delivering Thank goodness for that. Michael is one of my favorite all of her best loved songs and two covers, including Bonnie artists, with one of the finest voices ever in popular music. Raitt’s “I Can’t Make You Love Me.” Driving home from Thanksgiving, I put on his two-disc “Live In Lady Gaga has issued her Emmy-winning HBO special London” concert DVD and marveled at his impeccable vocals “Lady Gaga Presents The Monster Ball Tour At Madison the whole way. Square Garden” for the home market. She offers up 19 songs Like all of us, George has his devils to wrestle; unlike most encompassing all the hits from “The Fame” and “The Fame of us, though, he has battled his in the glaring public spotlight. If Monster” albums as well as the smash singles “Born This you’re young enough to only know George for his addiction-fuWay” and “You And I” from her latest collection. eled public screw-ups or are an older fan who hopped off the In less than three years Gaga has sold an estimated 23 miltrain after one debacle or another, I highly recommend picking lion albums and 64 million singles worldwide. The four singles up “Live In London” to learn/remember what a pop treasure from her last album alone have sold a combined 6 million in the George Michael truly has been, is today and hopefully will U.S. Billboard magazine named Gaga the 2010 Artist Of The Year continue to be for a long time to come. and she has garnered five Grammy Awards on 12 nominations.
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out in print by terri schlichenmeyer :: qnotes contributor
‘Remembering Christmas’
It happens every year. First, you start seeing Christmas decorations. Then you notice yourself mouthing the words to songs while you’re shopping and you start to get nostalgic, missing family and remembering this gift and that dinner and holidays through rose-colored glasses. It’s ho-ho-horrible, almost as if you’re homesick for something you never had. Seriously, who ever had a “perfect holiday,” anyhow? In the new book “Remembering Christmas,” featuring three novellas by three premier authors, the only things perfect are the ghosts of Christmases past. It’s funny how we remember special things we got for Christmas at the same time we remember things we didn’t get. In “Away, in
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a Manger” by Tom Medicino, middle-aged James is empty-handed and empty-hearted. Life as a gay man in New York was good once. There was always another party, another summer in Fire Island and another trip with Ernst, James’ lover and mentor. But times change: Ernst is now an old man with fusty habits, the summer house is a tired tradition that needs to be retired and James wants…something. Then, on his way to spend Christmas with his family, car trouble strands James in a tiny town where his future is hiding, covered in snow. Remember wishing for that one special thing to show up beneath the tree? No matter how old you are, it’s hard not to have a specific gift in mind when you see piles of gifts and in
been released and here are the finalists in the Big 4 categories plus three more. The Grammys will be broadcast live Feb. 12 at 8pm on CBS. Album Of The Year: “21” — Adele; “Wasting Light” — Foo Fighters; “Born This Way” — Lady Gaga; “Doo-Wops & Hooligans” — Bruno Mars; “Loud” — Rihanna Record Of The Year: “Rolling In The Deep” — Adele; “Holocene” — Bon Iver; “Grenade” — Bruno Mars; “The Cave” — Mumford & Sons; “Firework” — Katy Perry Best New Artist: The Band Perry; Bon Iver; J. Cole; Nicki Minaj; Skrillex Song Of The Year: “All Of The Lights” — Jeff Bhasker, Malik Jones, Warren Trotter & Kanye West, songwriters (Kanye West, Rihanna, Kid Cudi & Fergie); “The Cave” — Ted Dwane, Ben Lovett, Marcus Mumford & Country Winston, songwriters (Mumford & Sons); “Grenade” — Brody Brown, Claude Kelly, Philip Lawrence, Ari Levine, Bruno Mars & Andrew Wyatt, songwriters (Bruno Mars); “Holocene” — Justin Vernon, songwriter (Bon Iver); “Rolling In The Deep” — Adele Adkins & Paul Epworth, songwriters (Adele) Best Pop Solo Performance: “Someone Like You” — Adele; “Yoü And I” — Lady Gaga; “Grenade” — Bruno Mars; “Firework” — Katy Perry; “F***in’ Perfect” — Pink Best Pop Duo/Group Performance: “Body And Soul” — Tony Bennett & Amy Winehouse; “Dearest” — The Black Keys; “Paradise” — Coldplay; “Pumped Up Kicks” — Foster The People; “Moves Like Jagger” — Maroon 5 & Christina Aguilera Best Dance Recording: “Raise Your Weapon” — Deadmau5 & Greta Svabo Bech; “Barbra Streisand” — Duck Sauce; “Sunshine” — David Guetta & Avicii; “Call Your Girlfriend” — Robyn; “Scary Monsters And Nice Sprites” — Skrillex; “Save The World” — Swedish House Mafia : : info: audiophile@goqnotes.com
“A Christmas to Remember” by Frank Anthony Polito, all Jack Paterno wants is a boyfriend. Specifically, Jack wants Kirk, his old pal from high school. There’s so much history between them, so many mutual friends and boyhood memories in common. But, even though Jack is pretty sure Kirk’s gay, Kirk isn’t so sure himself… And, sometimes, especially if Christmas loses its magic, lost love feels keener. When Neil broke up with Theo just before the holidays, Theo decided that he might as well do what he said he’d never do and go home for Christmas. But, in “Missed Connections” by Michael Salvatore, a chance encounter with an old love becomes an odd gift. Though my mother always told me not to judge a book by its cover, I have to admit that I did. The cover of this book looked like it was going to be fun. I should’ve listened to Mom. “Remembering Christmas” is awfully darkmooded. It pouts and mutters, feels sorry for itself, gets morosely introspective and wallows in pity for pages and pages and pages. There are occasional bursts of good tidings and great
joy, but the melancholy and angst overpowers it. I think I could have handled that in one story, but the similar theme of all three tales made me want to drown my sorrows in spiked egg nog. I think that if you’re single, hating it and want some paper commiseration, then this book will be good company this season. But, if you’re looking for a holiday book that makes you feel all Christmassy, this one is a perfect disaster. : : info: “Remembering Christmas” by Tom Medicino, Frank Anthony Polito and Michael Salvatore © 2011, Kensington $15.00 / $16.95 Canada, 250 pages
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Chic holiday entertaining for less Tips and tricks to make any holiday party a blast
A beautiful holiday table can be the centerpiece of any celebration. However, many hosts and hostesses are discouraged by the idea and potential cost of fancy linens, expensive serving ware and a perfect centerpiece. “A beautiful tablescape doesn’t have to be costly,” says Target Style Expert for Home and HGTV designer Sabrina Soto. “Layering in key holiday trends to your everyday pieces can be a cost-effective way to create a one-of-a-kind dinner table.” Soto, together with celebrity TV chef and Target culinary partner Giada De Laurentiis, offer the following tips for creating a festive, yet affordable holiday setting. Set a beautiful foundation :: Instead of feeling compelled to use traditional red and green hues, any color combination can be the basis for a festive table, says Soto. She favors soft, season-less colors for decorating with added touches of gold and silver, which work with any color scheme and interior aesthetic. You can use everyday dinnerware, but create a holiday feel by adding glamorous metallic chargers, chic beaded placemats or napkin rings. Add elegance with a striking center-
piece :: Centerpieces are the focal point of an elegant table but don’t need to be expensive to be beautiful. A single silver or metallic accessory can increase the glam factor of your centerpiece or try clustering several accessories for a sparkling effect. Polish up grandma’s old silver vases or purchase some inexpensive mercury glass items such as hurricane or votive candle holders — the season’s hottest trend. A crystal vase for the centerpiece can elevate the table’s elegance quotient. Fresh flowers can be pricey during the holidays; Soto suggests filling the vase with small glass ornaments. Mixing mirrored ornaments with fresh pine cones or seasonal fruit can make for a festive yet sophisticated decorative piece. Plan a stress-free menu :: A beautiful table sets the stage for an evening of delicious food and warm conversation. Plan ahead and prepare most of the food in advance, rather than trying to cook everything at once. You’ll feel less stressed and will be able to enjoy the party. “Try to leave only one item for last minute
prep — this brings everyone into the kitchen and sets the tone for a cozy, comfortable evening,” says De Laurentiis. “I prepare most dishes in my ceramic bake ware because it can go directly from the oven to the table, and still look great.” To further simplify the menu, De Laurentiis suggests selecting foods that can be served at room temperature. Try a red pepper or basil cheese cake that can be made ahead of time, and will be fine sitting out before the party even begins. While foods like fish or shrimp are delicious, they are hard to keep fresh if you are serving food buffet-style. By combining beautiful pieces that you love with classic elements, anyone can create an exquisite look for the holidays. : : — ARAContent Tips galore For more holiday decorating ideas and affordable design that will add elegance to any table, visit Target. com/Christmas. Still need more tips and inspiration, try MarthaStewart.com/entertaining or HGTV.com/light-up-the-holidays/package/index.html. The Charlotte Observer has regular local and national entertaining, home decorating, food and other features at CharlotteObserver. com/living/.
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Being gay is a gift from God
Hello Trinity, Very simply, I’m gay! There it is! I said it. Am I going to Hell! Gay, Gainsville, FL Hello Gay, Congratulations on saying it. Life’s a bunch of baby steps with some big steps thrown in. Gay people are strategically placed on the earth for very specific reasons, i.e., controlling population, creating beauty, balancing out the over-male domination problem, creating homes to foster children, saving straights from killing each other and much more. Being gay really is a gift from God! As far as going to hell? Seriously! Purgatory and condemnation are biblical marketing tools to keep the masses in fear of the church. You’ll never go to hell for loving or being loved. And, remember, honey, “Homosexuality is found in over 450 animal species. Homophobia is found in only one.” To Trinity, What makes you think that you’re equipped to give advise? Curious, Madison, WI To Curious, Well, I have a Bachelors degree in communication, a hospital chaplaincy certificate and a Masters of Divinity, which means I’ve spent years helping sick people, physically and psychologically. I also spent five years hitchhiking around
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the country getting into all sorts of adventures. I’ve been a prostitute, been raped and been held at gunpoint by the KKK. I also spent 20 years as a massage therapist massaging everyone from amputated marines to pregnant mothers. Oh, yes, and I put together a 10-piece swing band, produced three albums and toured Europe in drag. Now, I am opening a gay ministry called WIG Ministries.org. Check it out on Facebook. So, darling, I’ve worked very hard getting prepared to give “advise” and, I’ve only just begun. (With so much to do, a girl has to take a respite, so that’s what you’ll see when you read my cartoon.) Dear Trinity, I can’t help thinking that something’s wrong with me! Why are some of us cursed with being forever single, while everyone else gets to be in love or married? Forever Single, Raleigh, NC Dear Forever Single, If you look real closely at people who are in love or married, you’ll notice plenty of troubled moments hidden in between all those public displays of bliss. Being in a relationship truly is not any easier than being without that special someone to hug and hold and kiss and, and…forget what I just said! Single sucks, sucks, sucks, sucks, but, being single does give you lots of time to develop yourself. When one equals two it suddenly becomes much harder to develop yourself. The grass is always greener, sweetie, so take this time of being single to work on yourself, cause when love comes a knockin’, the personal time you once dreaded eventually becomes your best friend.
Dearest Trinity, I really appreciate your way of dealing with questions. You should think about teaching classes or giving lectures. But, my question is, “If you had your own finishing school, what would you teach your students.” Admirer Dearest Admirer, I’ve given lectures and taught classes, but finishing school, I love the idea. So, pumpkin, here’s: Trinity’s Fastidious Finishing School Tips From Head To Toe 1. Walk with your head up high, not your nose. Beware of nose hair. 2. Going for a job interview? Hair up. Going on a first date? Hair down. 3. A splash of cologne is a nice added touch. Smelling like a department store is way too much. 4. Mile for mile, good looks are less important than class, charm and style. 5. Going to buy milk? Dress down. Going on the town? Dress up. 6. A wanton tongue brings home sour fortune cookies. 7. If cleavage is meek, a pushup bra promises much more than a free drink. 8. Obviously it’s all about you, but saving that fact ‘til much later helps make one equal two. 9. Flats are fine when with husband and child, but heels turn heads for miles and miles. 10. If you think that finishing school finishes, then you’re never finished with finishing school. : : — With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend Trinity was host of “Spiritually Speaking,” a weekly radio drama, and now performs globally. info: www.telltrinity.com . Trinity@telltrinity.com Sponsored by: Provincetown Business Guild 800-637-8696 . www.ptown.org
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out in the stars by charlene lichtenstein qnotes contributor
December 10-23
The world begins to become a bit more manageable as three retrograde planets — Mercury, Jupiter and Uranus — redirect. Not a moment too soon! Expect the expected surprises, fewer gaffs and a more relaxing environment. Feeling bored already? SAGITTARIUS (11.23-12.22) Ideas and other creative impulses ferment and pop. Massage your gay muse and see what can happen and who you can inspire. Gay Archers make surprisingly great first impressions, knowing just what to say and attract some fairly extraordinary people. Don’t waste a moment. Make things happen. You break through low ceilings and hit the heights. CAPRICORN (12.23-11.20) There is something delicious in the air. Could it be the goings on of the pink Cap as happy homemaker? Domesticity reigns and so do you when a confluence of happy events spices your stew. Make your surroundings comfortable and relaxing. But, life is not just home and hearth right now. It is time to tend to your family garden. Are there a few weeds among the roses? AQUARIUS (01.21-02.19) Stray thoughts take you far. Charge your brain cells and pump out a number of excellent theories and opinions. But, don’t just sit there and contemplate your navel, Aqueerius. Take it to the streets, take it to a political power base, take it to the media. Use that fabulous mouth for more than creating a stiff breeze. Whoosh and it’s gone! PISCES (02.20-03.20) Someone has short shrifted your major assets while you concentrated on the small change, Guppie. Step back and view the big picture when fate shines a spotlight on your finances. There is something fiscally funky that, upon further examination, can result in a nice windfall. Carefully review the bottom line and reach between the cushions for any spare change. ARIES (03.21-04.20) Proud Rams can bottle and sell their charm if they can capture every oozing drop. A confluence of luck and opportunity gives you great charisma and makes you a superstar with an adoring following. Better hurry and make all the friends and connections you can. Before you know it, the cosmos moves on and attentions turn elsewhere.…but, not if you wear cellophane suits. TAURUS (04.21-05.21) There is something in the air that catches your imagination and makes you rather prophetic. Take advantage of your sixth sense and go with your gut and intuition. Queer Taureans revel in their psychic power. While you channel the spirits, keep an eye on the rich and powerful who conjure up easy access to luxury, money and sex. Some Bulls have all the luck! GEMINI (05.22-06.21) Pink Twins need to spread their wings and make the most of every friendship. Sometimes you chaff at the trade-off between dependence and independence in relationships. But, now, each scenario seems to offer a happy balance. And, who knows? Something merely platonic can evolve to much more than a warm handshake. So, shake it up, baby! CANCER (06.22-07.23) If you have been plotting and planning your big move, this time period hints that a great opportunity is near. Grab the gusto and take a chance on a new professional challenge. Dance among the suits and make powerful friends, gay Crab. Then summon your courage and climb to the heights. Before you know it, everyone will be looking up your shorts. Better wear underwear. LEO (07.24-08.23) Proud Lions wax nostalgic at all their youthful high jinx. Ah, remember when? Ah, well nobody really cares who and what you did. Instead of lounging around thinking of the past, why not go out and create a little future? You are now commanded to explore and experience life to the fullest. Explore who and
experience what? Well let’s just see. VIRGO (08.24-09.23) Queer Virgins find that they possess more sizzly magnetism than usual when the fates stir their hot sauce. Sex finds you at work, at the supermarket, around the neighborhood or even at the dentist. You do not have to go out and trawl for it. But, don’t waste your sweet tooth on penny candies. Be discerning for a change and select from international high-end confectionary. LIBRA (09.24-10.23) Sitting at home on another Saturday night? Don’t worry, compadre, this time period guides you to a new, happy relationship. But, do not sit at home and wait for it to be delivered to you like a bag of chicken. Fortune smiles upon you if you go out and seek it. Travel far afield. Pick up a copy of “The Field Guide to Rare Birds” and check out the plumage. SCORPIO (10.24-11.22) Little pebbles pile up and make impressive monuments if everything is in balance. You are in a position to make your molehills into great mountains if you muster the desire and drive. Gay Scorps are given a rare opportunity to show what they can do on a small, detailed level and have their efforts magnified and appreciated. What else can be magnified and appreciated? : : © 2011 Madam Lichtenstein, LLC. All Rights Reserved. Entertainment. info: Visit www.TheStarryEye.com for e-greetings, horoscopes and Pride jewelry. My book “HerScopes: A Guide To Astrology For Lesbians” from Simon & Schuster is available at bookstores and major booksites.
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Party planners give back continued from page 1
The annual holiday party, held at the Visulite Theatre on Dec. 10, is unlike other Just Twirl events. The company makes zero profit off the event. Johnson, his partner Jason McCraw and a larger group of friends and community members come together to pay for the full cost of the event, including entertainment, the event venue and decorations. “We all contribute our own funds,” says party co-host Scott Bishop. “All of the proceeds at the door and gifts donated at the door go directly to charity.” This year, the party will support Charlotte’s Crisis Assistance Ministry and the U.S. Marine Corps Toys for Tots. “With everything going on in the word with the economy and people losing their jobs, there’s still time to celebrate and give back to those less fortunate — to make the holiday season brighter,” Johnson says. The party’s 14 hosts hope their party sends a message of inclusion into the broader com-
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munity. Choosing non-LGBT charities this year was by design, Johnson says. “We are more than just that one part of ourselves,” Johnson says. “We’re demonstrating that to our community, that it goes both ways. We give to the LGBT community and we also go beyond that.” Twirl to the World’s first party in 2009 collected teddy bear donations for Share-A-Bear Foundation, a group that distributes teddy bears to children infected or affected by HIV and AIDS. “We collected 1,100 teddy bears,” Johnson says. Last year, the party supported Toys for Tots and Time Out Youth. The continued support this year of the Marine Corps’ signature holiday charity program was intentional. “We reached out directly to the local U.S. Marine Corps Toys for Tots coordinator,” says Johnson. “With the repeal of ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’ we really wanted this to be a part of it
— a primarily LGBT event planning company Johnson says he hopes even those who donating toys.” were unable to attend Twirl to the World will LGBT-inclusive holiday giving has think about donating to the cause. Those become a hot-button issue in recent times. who missed the event can contact the group Washington, D.C.-based blogger Bil Browning at info@justtwirl.com to learn how they can caused a firestorm last month when he posted have their gifts combined with other Twirl to his annual warning not to give to the Salvation the World participants’ donations. : : Army, a group that maintains antiLGBT discriminatory employment policies and religious doctrines. Bishop says Twirl to the World put in extra effort to ensure its partygoers’ donations wouldn’t end up in the hands of organizations with anti-gay causes. Keeping costs low for attendees, organizers say, was also intentional and meant to increase attendance and participation. An already-low entry fee was lowered to just a few bucks when a party-goer came with Twirl to the World’s inaugural party collected 1,100 teddy bears for the Share-A-Bear Foundation. gift in-hand.
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Holiday Cooking Sausage Stuffed Mushrooms and Molasses Cookies by Robert Penry :: guest contributor
Sausage Stuffed Mushrooms
1/4 t. Salt 1/4 t. Black Pepper
Ingredients: 25 medium Fresh White Mushrooms 1/2 lb Italian Sausage, casings removed 1 Small Onion, finely chopped 2 Cloves Garlic, minced 1/4 C. Parsley, chopped 1/4 C. Italian Seasoned Bread Crumbs 2 T. Parmesan Cheese, grated 1 Egg White
Method of Preparation: 1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Spray baking sheet with cooking spray. 2. Remove the stems from the mushrooms and finely chop. 3. To make the filling, heat a medium skillet over medium-high heat. Add the sausage and cook, making sure to break it up into small pieces. Add the chopped mushroom stems,
It’s that time of year — friends and family gather for reunions, dinners and parties. And, no get-together is complete without a great dish. Robert Penry is an admissions classroom presenter for the College of Culinary Arts at Johnson & Wales University in Charlotte. He’s providing some great culinary inspirations for your holiday gatherings this year. Log on to goqnotes.com/to/ arts-entertainment/cooking/ if you missed Robert’s holiday-inspired creation from last issue. Be sure to pick up our Dec. 24 print edition for ideas for your New Year cooking extravaganza.
onion, and garlic. Cook for 8-9 minutes, stirring occasionally. 4. Transfer sausage mixture to a bowl and allow to cool for 5 minutes. 5. Add parsley, breadcrumbs, parmesan, egg white, salt, and pepper. Mix thoroughly. 6. Stuff each mushroom with about 1 tablespoon of the filling and place in a single layer on the baking sheet. 7. Bake until mushroom caps are tender and filling is slightly browned. About 20-25 minutes.
Molasses Cookies Ingredients: 1-1/2 C. Shortening 2 C. Sugar 1/2 C. Molasses 2 Eggs 4 C. All Purpose Flour
4 t. Baking Soda 2 t. Cinnamon, ground 1 t. Cloves, ground 1 t. Ginger, ground 1 t. Salt
Method of Preparation: 1. In a medium pot, melt the shortening over medium heat. Allow to cool. 2. Add sugar, molasses, and eggs. Mix well to combine. 3. In a medium bowl, sift all of the dry
ingredients together. 4. Mix well to combine. Chill for 4 hours. 5. Preheat oven to 375 degrees. 6. Form the dough into 1-inch balls. Place on a greased baking sheet making sure to space out about 2-inches apart. 7. Bake for 8-10 minutes. Cool and serve. 8. Store any leftover cookies in an airtight container.
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Thru Dec. 17 • Durham Edith Can Shoot Two teenage boys begin to fall in love in Manbites Dog’s new show, “Edith Can Shoot Things and Hit Them,” a regional premiere that takes a frank and funny look at the way kids cope with a sometimes hostile adult world. All but abandoned in the American heartland, these kids struggle to create a makeshift family. And when the outside world barges in, the only things that can protect them are love, loyalty, and marksmanship. A hilarious, heartbreaking, and gently subversive story of real family values. Manbites Dog Theater, 703 Foster St. $17/ Fridays-Saturdays. $12/weeknights. $2 senior discount. $5/students. 919-682-3343. manbitesdogtheater.com/384/. Dec. 10 • Charlotte Twirl to the World JustTwirl’s annual holiday party featuring New York City’s DJ David Marc and benefiting Crisis Assistance Ministry and the U.S. Marine Corps’ Toys for Tots. Sponsored by Charlotte Pocket Rocket and CBM Design. Visulite Theatre, 1615 Elizabeth Ave. 9 p.m. $5/with new, unwrapped toy. $15/without toy. justtwirl.com. Dec. 10 • Charlotte Cookie swap The LGBT Community Center of Charlotte hosts a Christmas cookie and brownie swap. LGBT Community Center of Charlotte, 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11. 1 p.m. Free. 704-333-0144. gaycharlotte.com. Dec. 10 • Winston-Salem Ever Green Triad Pride Men’s Chorus presents an encore performance of their annual holiday show, “Ever Green,” in celebration of winter greenery, lasting youth and life and hope through music. Wait Chapel, Wait Chapel, Wake Forest University, 1834 Wake Forest Rd. 8 p.m. $10/advance. $15/door. 336-589-6267. triadpridemenschorus.org. Dec. 10 • Durham Ye Merry Gentlemen The Triangle Gay Men’s Chorus presents a festive musical sleigh ride brimming with seasonal cheer, lush harmonies and holiday classics.
Eno River Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, 4907 Garrett Rd. 8 p.m. Free. tgmchorus.org.
$3 at the door. Hartigan’s Pub, 601 S. Cedar St. 10 p.m. hartigans.com. southerncountrycharlotte.com.
Dec. 11 • Raleigh Ye Merry Gentlemen Triangle Gay Men’s Chorus presents a matinee performance of their holiday concert. St. Mark’s Episcopal Church, 1725 North New Hope Rd. 3 p.m. Free. tgmchorus.org.
Dec. 16 • Lake Wylie Rainbow In Christmas Party Join Nicole Paige Brooks, Jamie Monroe, Big Shirli Stevens and Roxy C. Moorecox for this special Rainbow In Christmas party. Rainbow In, 4376 Charlotte Hwy. 8 p.m. 803-831-0093. therainbowin.com.
Dec. 12 • Charlotte All American Goddess Scorpio hosts the Miss NC All American Goddess and NC All American Goddess At Large pageant with Kelexis Davenport and Tiffany Storm. A fundraiser will be held to benefit Toys for Tots. Attendees are encouraged to bring a new, unwrapped toy for donation. Scorpio, 2301 Freedom Dr. 9 p.m. 704-373-9124. northcarolinaaag@ yahoo.com. thescorpio.com. Dec. 14 • Charlotte Messiah The Charlotte Symphony and Oratorio Singers of Charlotte perform the annual holiday classic, Handel’s “Messiah.” Belk Theater, 130 N. Tryon St. 7:30 p.m. $24-$58. 704-372-1000. blumenthalarts.org. Dec. 16 • Charlotte Holiday Barn Dance Southern Country Charlotte holds their monthly barn dance with a special holiday theme. All members get in free. Guests pay
Dec. 16 • Charlotte Architecture + Film The Charlotte chapter of the American Institute of Architects and the Bechtler Museum of Modern Art present their Architecutre + Film series. The museum and organization will screen the French film “Koolhaas Houselife.” Bechtler Museum of Modern Art, 420 S. Tryon St. 6 p.m. $15. 704-353-9200. info@bechtler.org. bechtler.org. Dec. 16-17 • Chapel Hill A New World Christmas Voices, one of the Triangle’s oldest and most distinguished choral groups, will warm up the holidays with Latin American melodies spanning from the Caribbean Islands to the Andes Mountains. Special guests include tenor Timothy Sparks from UNC’s music department, classical guitarist Joseph Pecoraro from UNC School of the Arts, and
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Creekside Chorus, a children’s choir. Hill Hall, 145 E. Cameron Ave. Dec. 16, 8 p.m. Dec. 17, 3 p.m. $18/adults. $6/students. voiceschapelhill.org.
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Dec. 17 • Charlotte Sleepers, Wake! Join Charlotte Pride Band for a holiday event unlike any other when storytelling, art and music combine for “Sleepers, Wake!”, the second part of the bands 2011-12 “The Journey Home” season! Park Road Baptist Church, 3900 Park Rd. 7 p.m. $10. 704-299-8384. charlotteprideband.org. Dec. 17 • Raleigh Holiday Potluck Bring a dish and join the LGBT Center of Raleigh for a holiday potluck dinner celebrating Christmas, Hannukah and Kwanzaa. Contact Paul Hammer at phammer001@att. net with information on the dish you will bring. LGBT Center of Raleigh, 411 Hillsborough St. 7 p.m. Free. 919-832-4484. info@lgbtcenterofraleigh.com. lgbtcenterofraleigh.com. Dec. 17 • Charlotte Men of Petra’s III Petra’s amateur drag competition continues in its third season. Sixteen contestants are accepted in the contest, with a first-place prize of $500. Petra’s, 1919 Commonwealth Ave. 10 p.m. petraspianobar.com.
arts. entertainment. news. views. Dec. 18 • Charlotte LezView Live The women of “LezView,” Charlotte’s local lesbian talk show, tape live at the LGBT Community Center of Charlotte. This show’s topics: Would you date outside your race? Guest book author James Tanner (“My Girl Got a Girlfriend”). 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11. 5-9 p.m. $10 donation benefiting LezView and the LGBT Center. 980-428-9172. gaycharlotte.com. Dec. 18 • Raleigh Drag Brunch Crape Myrtle Festival hosts a drag brunch with entertainers Purina Chow, Stephanie Scott, Ebony Summers and Alexandra Vittz. The Mint, 219 Fayetteville St. Noon. $10 (does not include meals or drinks). To make reservations call 919821-0011. themintrestaurant.com. crapemyrtlefest.org. Dec. 20 • Charlotte Support group OASIS (Offering Affirming, Safe, Inclusive Space) is a new social and support group for gay, bisexual and questioning men held at the LGBT Community Center of Charlotte, 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11. 6:30 p.m. Free. gaycharlotte.com.
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Third Tuesday of every month, except when there is specialized programming, plus monthly socials to promote networking and friendship A wide variety of topics of interest to appeal to the diverse LGBT community After work with a cash bar social and heavy hor d’oeuvres with dinner and program following Visit the website for application options and benefits. Call 704.565.5075 or email businessguild@yahoo.com for more details or write to The Charlotte Business Guild P.O. Box 33371 | Charlotte, NC 28233
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