Getting Him to Focus on You var seo_sids = new Array();var seo_osids = new Array(); [imaioVideo v=1] Some men have their addictions. Be it with drinking, hanging out with his buds, or games, there are days when getting him to spend an afternoon with you is next to impossible. He craves for his own me-time. That’s perfectly alright because you also need privacy. Just know that when you ask him to spend his spare time with you, you’re also not being irrational. You may also be the type of women who asks for too much. Ask your friends opinions and if they’re on your side, then you know you have a point. Leading separate lives is healthy up to a certain extent, but when you do plan to have a future together, it’s time to take the bull by his horns and start being in charge. You don’t have to be a witch when you confront your man. Men, in general, like being wooed. Be sweet and let him see reason. Talk to him calmly because you’re not going anywhere if you’re too passionate and high-strung. Let him see that you’re also willing to hand him the reigns and learn the value of compromise. Let him see why you’re complaining. Appeal to reason and let him decide what needs to be done. If he’s unwilling to meet you halfway, then it may be time to think about moving on. Other than that, being tactful should be extremely helpful for you. Always keep in mind that you’re only thinking about what’s best for the relationship and that your intentions are pure. Keep your conscience clean and try not to coerce anyone else in this problem. You may have asked your friends for advice, but then again, you’re dealing with your own relationship, and this means that you also need to value your privacy as a couple. Let your man be for a while, and then choose the time to confront him about his ways. Change isn’t always easy to accept. Just get the issues off your chest and keep your emotions in check. Again, it’s all about appealing to his reasonable side. Be gentle and let him know that you’re also willing to give into his wants just as he should be willing to give into yours. You’ll definitely feel better when you’ve aired out your thoughts. Don’t leave any stone unturned. Say what you feel, be honest, and tell him that you’re only doing this so that everything addressed. Don’t keep your emotions close to your vest and you can do this as long as you also make him feel loved. Talk to your man and hear him out as well. He may be spending too much time on a hobby to get away from all the pressures he has to deal with. Encourage him to face his problems and be there for him every step of the way. When he knows that he has the support he needs, he’ll actually have the guts to make the change. With your constant support, your man can do anything, and at the same time, give you what you need.
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