A celebration of 18 outstanding female leaders
By CHARlES SHAW cshaw@liherald.com
Over a dozen women in the 5th State Senate District were honored during ceremonies at the Plainview-Old Bethpage
Dennington-Chavez. Misbah Baig and Norma Gonsalves, both of East Meadow, were also honored, as were Dr. Batool Rizvi, from North Bellmore, Rabbi Rishe Groner, of Bellmore, Merrick’s Gina DeGregorio-Sonbert and Sehar Bham of
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cia Harrs were also honored, as were Rosemary ingdale, Rhoda Orenstein, of Old view resident Patti
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ing their goals while Kayla Knight, an attorney
mony, where each of the 18 women received a proclamation
“We were talking about children with special needs and what we could do,” Craig Greenseid said. “So, we talked about doing it as a family.”
“It’s brought our family together, it’s brought the community together,” his wife,
my husband, and all of our friends,” Rebecca Greenseid said. “We even have the grandmas and grandpas coming.” Craig Greenseid coached soccer for his children since his son, Zach Greenseid, was
fy the spirit of service and leadership that uplifts those around.”
Those honored were Wantagh’s Sofia Stipanov, Heather Hosek and Rena Gasparis, along with Karen Siler, of Seaford, and Levittown’s Marie
Baig, a committed educator and community leader in East Meadow, serves both as children’s program coordinator at the Sunday School of Jaam’e Masjid, in North Bellmore, and as a Woman Empowerment Coordinator with Progressive COnTinuEd On PagE 9
Courtesy Craig Greenseid
The volunteer team at TOPSoccer is made of local high school students. Each volunteer is paired with a child enrolled in the program as a ‘buddy’ to play soccer with and help socially inexperienced kids feel welcome.
TOPSoccer program takes off for young players with special needs
By JoSEPH D’AlESSANDRo jdalessandro@liherald.com
The Greenseids, a family of four from Bellmore, came together to combine their lifelong passions and begin a program for The Outreach Program for Soccer, also known as TOPSoccer that connects special needs children with peers and mentors for free.
The Greenseid family’s plans for TOPSoccer began in 2023 when they shared their interests in athletics, community, and education. Each member of the family shares the title of co-founder of the chapter, part of Bellmore PAL.
“We were talking about children with special needs and what we could do,” Craig Greenseid said. “So, we talked about doing it as a family.”
“It’s brought our family together, it’s brought the community together,” his wife,
Rebecca Greenseid, said. “This is our third season doing it, and it’s been an outstanding privilege to be part of this.”
Rebecca Greenseid, mother of two, has taught preschoolers, kindergarteners, and first-graders for 23 years. For the past 10 years, she has taught first-grade classes at Hewlett Elementary School using Integrated Co-Teaching — a method of education that specializes in teaching a classroom with a mixed group of students, some with disabilities and some without. She took that expertise to the field.
“I’ve been doing this for 23 years, and now I do it on the weekends with my children, my husband, and all of our friends,” Rebecca Greenseid said. “We even have the grandmas and grandpas coming.”
Craig Greenseid coached soccer for his children since his son, Zach Greenseid, was
A celebration of 18 outstanding female leaders
By CHARlES SHAW cshaw@liherald.com
Over a dozen women in the 5th State Senate District were honored during ceremonies at the Plainview-Old Bethpage Library in Plainview last month. Among the honorees were two women from East Meadow, two women from Bellmore and North Bellmore, one woman from Merrick, and one woman from Westbury.
The second annual event, hosted by State Sen. Steve Rhoads, served to pay homage to several women leaders in the district which includes Wantagh, Seaford, Levittown, Bellmore, Merrick and East Meadow.
Dennington-Chavez. Misbah Baig and Norma Gonsalves, both of East Meadow, were also honored, as were Dr. Batool Rizvi, from North Bellmore, Rabbi Rishe Groner, of Bellmore, Merrick’s Gina DeGregorio-Sonbert and Sehar Bham of Westbury.
Hicksville residents Rose Marie Walker, Linda Herskowitz, Annette Beiner and Patricia Harrs were also honored, as were Rosemary Trudden, of Farmingdale, Rhoda Orenstein, of Old Bethpage and Plainview resident Patti Silver.
I genuinely believe that women can change the world.
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More than 100 friends and family members of the honorees packed the library’s auditorium, where Rhoads spoke of the work these women have undertaken to uplift their communities.
Congregation Beth Ohr
Also speaking at the event was Nassau County Comptroller Elaine Phillips, who thanked the women for their work in the community, and for stepping up to challenges and accomplishing their goals while lifting those around them.
“These remarkable individuals not only excel in their respective careers,” Rhoads said, “and their community involvements, but also exemplify the spirit of service and leadership that uplifts those around.”
Those honored were Wantagh’s Sofia Stipanov, Heather Hosek and Rena Gasparis, along with Karen Siler, of Seaford, and Levittown’s Marie
Kayla Knight, an attorney and Miss Wantagh 2014, introduced the honorees at the ceremony, where each of the 18 women received a proclamation from Rhoads for their commitment to serving the community.
Baig, a committed educator and community leader in East Meadow, serves both as children’s program coordinator at the Sunday School of Jaam’e Masjid, in North Bellmore, and as a Woman Empowerment Coordinator with Progressive COnTinuEd
Sports program leaves parents in ‘happy tears’
2 years old. Zach, a senior, and his sister Brooke Greenseid, a freshman, are both student athletes at John F. Kennedy High School in the Bellmore-Merrick Central High School District.
The siblings learned how to play soccer, lead their peers, and understand people with learning disabilities from their parents.
“It’s one of my favorite sports and it’s given so much to my life,” Zach Greenseid said. “That kind of thought process went into founding TOP Soccer — I wanted to be able to provide the opportunity to these children who don’t have it in our area.”
TOPSoccer is a broader program, part of U.S. Youth Soccer, the largest sporting agency in the country. When the Greenseids’ program was in its infancy, the two siblings reached out to the sporting agency for guidance on how to organize a soccer program in their local community. Today, they manage equipment, scheduling, and coordinating the volunteers.
“I’ve loved it,” Zach said. “I like working with people and leading a group. I love it especially when it’s people that you care about, providing them an opportunity to get involved and get community service hours. I’m thankful for them wanting to make an impact.”
Brooke Greenseid is a junior varsity soccer player and instructs drills for
at a recent training session, the red team and blue teams clashed in a low-stakes soccer program for children with disabilities. the program is designed to teach social skills, confidence and perseverance in a safe environment.
TOP Soccer — bringing along her teammates to volunteer for the program.
The program runs for eight-weeks with a one-hour session on Saturdays, where players practice soccer drills and end with a full match.
“It’s probably the most rewarding hour of my week,” Craig said.
The program is a unique asset for families in Bellmore-Merrick, giving parents of special needs children an outlet for their children to make friends, exercise and be a part of a team in a way they may not have had a chance to
before.
“It’s really an opportunity for the parents to sit back and enjoy watching their children participate in the program, if they haven’t had that opportunity in the past,” Craig said.
More about the TOPSoccer
Location: Nassau BOCES Jerusalem Avenue School, 2351 Jerusalem Avenue, North Bellmore
Ages: 5 to 12-years-old
Time: 2:30 to 3:30 p.m. Saturdays
At the heart of the programs’ success is the “buddy system,” according to Craig. Each player with a disability is paired with a volunteer their age who would participate in the program with them during drills and matches. The volunteers are fellow high school students from districts across Bellmore and Merrick.
The reception over the past year has been overwhelmingly positive.
“The parents get pride and joy from watching their kids participate,” Craig Greenseid said. “The kids feel like they’re part of something, like they’re part of a team, and they’re part of a community.”
“There are parents who are in tears — happy tears — just seeing their kids out of the house, participating, communicating,” Rebecca said. “That’s what we want. We want them to come out, have fun and just have that cooperation and interaction with peers. It’s really been a positive experience.”
To learn more about TOPSoccer, and local programming, visit USYouthSoccer.org/TOPSoccer.
Courtesy Craig Greenseid
Parody group hits the stage at Beth Ohr
Congregation Beth Ohr’s community gathered for a special performance on Sept. 22 by the Retirement Village People, a group that performs song parodies of favorite hits from rock, pop and show tunes, from the 60s and 70s.
The performance was made possible by Beth Ohr’s Hazak. Hazak is the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism’s Organization for mature Jews, specifically designed for older adults, typically those aged 55 and above. The groups aim to enrich the lives of older adults through educational, social and religious programming.
Hazak is designed to address the needs of seniors in full-service congregations.
The Retirement Village People are a musical group that performs original, humorous song parodies. Featuring members Stevie GB, Joe Gelish, Anita Starlite, and Les Degen, their lively shows bring a comedic twist to beloved hits, offering an entertaining experience for audiences of all ages.
To learn more about Hazak, and upcoming events, visit CBOhr. org/Hazak.
— Jordan Vallone
Holden Leeds/Herald photos
Rabbi Rishe Groner, Laura Miller and Laura Silver at Congregation Beth Ohr’s Hazak concert, featuring the Retirement Village People.
The Retirement Village People perform song parodies of hits from the 60s and 70s.
Stevie GB, Anita Starlite, Les Degen, and Joe Gelish make up the Retirement Village People. Members of the congregation clapped along to
Addy Kalsmith enjoyed the show at Congregation Beth Ohr.
Investigation continues in Bellmore-Merrick schools
COMMUNITY with your
By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com
New details are available about the “shared ancestry” investigation taking place in the Bellmore-Merrick Central High School District by the U.S. Department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights.
According to a Newsday report on the investigation, the education department said a complainant alleged that their daughter was discriminated on the basis of color and national origin, and that the district did not respond promptly or effectively to the incidents. It is unclear which school the complainant’s child attended.
The complaint was sent to the department in November of last year.
other district on Long Island with an open investigation — is being looked into because of a complaint about antisemitic and anti-Black graffiti at a district school.
A list of the investigations became available to the public last November, at the direction of the Biden-Harris administration, in response to an “alarming” rise in antisemitism, antiMuslim and anti-Arab discrimination nationwide after the start of the IsraelHamas conflict in the Middle East.
“Hate has no place in our schools, period,” Secretary of Education Miguel Cardona said of the administration’s decision. “When students are targeted because they are — or are perceived to be — Jewish, Muslim, Arab, Sikh, or any other ethnicity or shared ancestry, schools must act to ensure safe and inclusive educational environments where everyone is free to learn.”
Shared ancestry investigations focus on possible violations of Title VI of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, which requires federally funded institutions to protect students from discrimination based on race, color or national origin. The Education Department has said that includes people of Jewish faith, Muslims and other ethnic and religious groups with shared ancestry.
According to the department’s website, Ed.gov, the Bellmore-Merrick investigation was opened on Aug. 26.
Integrity and Gratitude
If we had to choose only two concepts as a prescription for a good life, they would be integrity and gratitude. While we usually associate integrity with honesty, the word also means “fits together” as in integrated or integration. Oddly enough, both meanings are also interrelated. When someone is honest, their life tends to “fit together”. It works. As one sage put it, if you’re honest you never have to remember what you said. People who have integrity are consistent. You can count on them. Wikipedia says “the word integrity evolved from the Latin adjective ‘integer’ meaning whole or complete. In this context, integrity is the inner sense of ‘wholeness’ deriving from qualities such as honesty and consistency of character.”
If you or someone you know finds their life is “not working” there may be a lack of integrity somewhere that needs to be sought after and rooted out.
Gratitude has to do with appreciation. Appreciation means to add value to. Things that appreciate tend to grow, just as being
grateful for something or someone raises its or their value in our estimation. Even though, at any given time, countless more things are going right than going wrong in most of our lives, too many of us focus more on what’s going wrong and take for granted what’s going right — our health, our loved ones, our resources.
Grateful people tend to be giving people —and giving people are the happiest among us. Takers can never be as happy as givers because takers can never get enough. Givers already have more than enough, which is why they have some to give away. But having enough is not a state of fact, it is a state of mind. Once you can cultivate that state of mind you are on your way to a happy life. One of the best ways to rewire your brain from focusing on the negative to focusing on the positive, is to keep a “Gratitude Journal”, examples of which may be easily googled.
The elusive “holy grail” of being happy can be found by cultivating integrity and gratitude in your life.
The website explains that civil rights laws “protect all students from discrimination on the basis of race, color, national origin, sex, disability, and age.” The Education Department’s Office for Civil Rights can investigate complaints that students were subjected to ethnic or ancestral slurs; harassed for how they look, dress or speak in ways linked to ethnicity or ancestry; or stereotyped based on perceived shared ancestral characteristics. Students of Hindu, Jewish, Muslim or Sikh faiths are examples of those who may be discriminated against based on shared ancestry or ethnic characteristics, according to the department.
There’s over 150 open investigations for shared ancestry complaints in school districts and universities across the country, and Commack — the only
Bellmore-Merrick’s Superintendent Michael Harrington said the district had “no knowledge” of the complaint, in a letter sent to families on Aug. 29. He added the district was in contact with the Office of Civil Rights to obtain more information.
“Discrimination of any kind is strictly against our values and policies, and we are dedicated to addressing any concerns that may arise,” he said.
In the Newsday report about the investigation, Harrington did not address specific allegations, but said the district is aware of the complaint and has been working with the Office of Civil Rights to provide all requested materials.
As previously reported by the Herald, if the Office for Civil Rights moves toward resolving a complaint, it will do so with a resolution agreement that holds its recipients accountable to make changes the office mandates. The office can also offer a resolution agreement to a district or college before an investigation concludes. If the recipient rejects the agreement or fails to comply with its terms, the office can refer the case to the U.S. Department of Justice for judicial proceedings.
“The
—George Karatzas, James Cress Florist, Smithtown
Unoccupied business spaces are an opportunity to help bring vitality to downtown areas. For George Karatzas, owner of James Cress Florist, staying downtown was a priority, but costs were prohibitive. Then George applied for our Vacant Space Revival Program, which has provided $2,462 in bill credits to help offset his overhead.* And Smithtown continues to have a business that brings warmth and charm to the area. It’s a beautiful thing to see come together—just like George’s floral arrangements.
*Incentives, grants, and savings will vary with every project. psegliny.com/EcoDev
NASSIR EDWARDS
Elmont Senior Football
A MAJOR PART of Elmont’s run to the Nassau and Long Island boys’ basketball championships last winter, Edwards is also one of the county’s top football wide receivers. Although he didn’t have a catch Sept. 28 in a driving rainstorm against Lynbrook, he did more than his share of damage on the defensive side of the ball. Edwards had a 40-yard fumble recovery for a touchdown and a 70-yard interception return for a score to lead an 18-7 victory.
GAMES TO WATCH
Thursday, Oct. 10
Football: V.S. North at Floral Park 2 p.m.
Football: MacArthur at Carey 2:15
Football: Jericho at Mepham 2:15
Football: Sewanhaka at Calhoun 2:15 p.m.
Football: South Side at Garden City 3 p.m.
Football: Plainedge at Wantagh 3 p.m.
Football: Kennedy at Lynbrook 4:30 p.m.
Football: New Hyde Park at Long Beach 4:30 p.m.
Football: Roosevelt at Baldwin 4:30 p.m.
Football: Malverne at Lawrence 4:30 p.m.
Football: East Meadow at Hempstead 4:30 p.m.
Boys Soccer: Hicksville at Freeport 5 p.m.
Boys Soccer: Lawrence at Plainedge 5 p.m.
Boys Soccer: Syosset at Uniondale 5 p.m.
Girls Soccer: Oceanside at MacArthur 5 p.m.
Girls Soccer: Malv/East Rockaway at Lynbrook 5:30 p.m.
Football: Elmont at Manhasset 6:30 p.m.
Football: Herricks at V.S. Central 6:45 p.m.
Girls Soccer: Seaford at Plainedge 6:45 p.m.
Girls Volleyball: Wantagh at Long Beach 6:45 p.m.
Girls Volleyball: Mepham at Lynbrook 6:45 p.m.
Girls Volleyball: Mineola at South Side 6:45 p.m.
Boys Volleyball: Calhoun at Roslyn 6:45 p.m.
Girls Volleyball: Plainedge at MacArthur 6:45 p.m.
Football: East Rockaway at Island Trees 7 p.m.
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Mepham optimistic as playoffs near
By MICHELLE RABINOVICH sports@liherald.com
Following a county final appearance last year, the Mepham girls’ volleyball team has every reason to be optimistic as the season goes on, inching towards playoffs.
“Last year we made it to the county final, we lost to Long Beach,” coach Tom Wildeman said.
To spearhead the offense, the leader that Wildeman first name dropped was senior Sam Raikos, already with AllCounty accolades last year after notching 236 kills and 11 blocks; this season she already has over 80 kills.
The setter shoulder-to-shoulder with Raikos is senior Makayla Daube, who put up 272 assists on top of 131 kills last year and 27 blocks. She’s as dominant off the court too, as she’s Mepham’s valedictorian this year according to Wildeman. Senior Paige Cahlstadt is a returning setter with 55 assists and 12 aces.
There’s also senior Abby Palmer to keep in mind, the team’s libero, an allcounty honorable mention after 250 digs and 40 aces last season.
“She’s phenomenal defensively, she’s like the anchor on the defensive,” Wildeman said.
Also on the back line is senior Grace Brassil, described as someone who is always on top of digs and aces, and is one of the main girls on serve-receive.
There’s the elementary off-the-court leader, the one that helps bring the girls together after tough losses, or celebrate extra hard after good wins, and that’s senior Sam Bremer.
“If anybody’s down or if anybody needs [a friend], because they’re not always talking to a male coach, she’s the one that goes and gets everybody up,” he acknowledged. “So if they need to talk to somebody, it’s usually Sam.”
With all this mention of seniors, it’s natural to inquire about the underclassman presence, or lack thereof.
“I’d say most of our starters and our production comes from our seniors, [juniors] are filling roles like serving here and there, an occasional back row
player, somebody needs a break or if we need a fill-in player it’s usually one or two of those juniors,” Wildeman said. “Sienna Linekin has filled in nicely, and KaIley Harrison as well, and they’re our future too, they’re be our starters next year.”
While there’s still an entire season to play, Wildeman is already thinking about the future of Mepham’s program. He expects juniors like Linekin, Harrison and Kelly Caiaccia to be the next leaders on and off the court, to be the production in kills, blocks and digs, but also be the support when the shoes come off.
“They’re gaining more confidence and learning from the seniors,” he said. “So as they continue to get better, and hopefully one or two of them play club in the off-season, they’ll come to me [next season] more improved, taller, bigger, better than ever, I hope.”
With that, back to the present for a moment: “We gained some players and got better, and I not only expect to get back there but even further,” Wildeman said. “Maybe win the county championship, hopefully move on from there on the Long Island championship; my goal is to the states. Shoot for the stars.”
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Senior setter Paige Cahlstadt is a returning starter who’ll look to help the Pirates overcome a mediocre start and do damage in the playoffs.
In October 2022, Tamar Lemoine of Valley Stream felt a lump in her right breast and was diagnosed with late-stage breast cancer. She had previously put o a biopsy after a mammogram in 2021 detected a suspicious mass, so she knew that this time she would need to act fast.
Tamar was referred to Dr. Christine Hodyl, Director of Breast Health Services at Mount Sinai South Nassau, who created a comprehensive treatment plan that included chemotherapy and breast-conserving lumpectomy surgery along with the removal of several lymph nodes. Her treatment ended with a month of radiation therapy sessions. Now cancer-free, Tamar urges women to get their annual mammograms.
Mount Sinai South Nassau’s cancer program is accredited by the Commission on Cancer and the National Accreditation Program for Breast Centers, o ering patients a multidisciplinary approach to fight cancer without having to leave Long Island.
Abrahams returns for town special election
By CHARLES SHAW cshaw@liherald.com
Former county legislator Kevan Abrahams is returning to politics to help make the Town of Hempstead an affordable place to live for generations both young and old.
Abrahams, 50, retired last year from the Nassau County Legislature after a 21-year run. Throughout his time serving District 1, Abrahams, a Freeport resident, said he helped restore financial stability to the county. His time in Nassau politics focused on making sure parks and communities were safe, along with maintaining roads.
“I’m happy to say, during my time in the Legislature, I probably have done well over $200, $250 million in road projects,” Abrahams told the Herald during a Roundtable interview.
Now Abrahams is running as a Democrat in the special election for the seat in the town’s 5th Councilmanic District. The seat was previously occupied by Chris Carini, who died unexpectedly in July, at age 49.
For Abrahams, getting back into politics was an obvious choice. “Why I want to get involved is that I still see the needs and the issues that are confronting town residents,” he said. “They’re still there.”
His main priority is affordability. It has become a struggle to live in the town, he said, and it doesn’t offer enough opportunities for affordable housing for young people.
“My whole message, in terms of running for the town council, is tied to affordability,” he said. “Not just for that young family or that young person that’s looking for that affordable housing. It’s also for families that are middle-aged, that are struggling to pay the taxes and the fees that keep being increased by the Town of Hempstead.”
When Abrahams announced his bid for office in
Brendan Carpenter/Herald
Kevan Abrahams, former Nassau County legislator, is running in the special election for the Town of Hempstead’s 5th Councilmanic District, and focusing on the affordability of living in the town, among other issues.
August, he expressed concerns about the town’s recent $2 million tax levy increase and rising fees for essential services. He criticized the fee hikes, noting that they affect everything from pool passes to parking permits and sports leagues, and argued that taxpayers are unfairly shouldering the burden of the town’s fiscal mismanagement.
Discussing infrastructure, Abrahams highlighted past efforts to mitigate flooding in Freeport, referencing a $7 million project to fund a flood plan on Guy
Lombardo Avenue. It’s important, he said, to ensure that town roads are properly maintained, especially when it comes to water flowing into catch basins. He added that addressing infrastructure is crucial to prevent disrepair and to manage excess water on the streets.
Quality of life, Abrahams said, is essential for residents, and he wants to make sure the town has proper services, whether roads, police stations or parks. He emphasized the need for careful oversight when it comes to fiscal decisions, particularly those that impact residents.
“I think there needs to be an alternative voice there that’s going to scrutinize, before any tax increase happens, before any housing project happens, before any fee is increased, that we are looking to figure out how this benefits the residents of the town of Hempstead and lowers their costs,” he said.
Throughout his campaign, Abrahams wants voters to know that he plans to be a councilman for everyone, and looks to help people find the resources they need to resolve any issues, whether related to schools, businesses or villages.
“We’re at a moment in this country where everything is going up,” Abrahams said. “We’ve seen inflation impact things, and that’s impacting our residents. And at the same time, we cannot have a blind eye to what we do in the town, in regards to the increasing of taxes or park fees or anything along those lines. We have to lessen the burden, not add to it.”
Schneider is looking to keep his board seat
By CHARLES SHAW cshaw@liherald.com
For over two decades, Chris Schneider has given back to his community. Now, as a newly appointed Town of Hempstead Councilman, he wants to continue serving people in the 5th Councilmanic District. Schneider, 44, of Seaford, is a graduate of Wantagh High School, and began his journey in government in 2002, when he became a legislative assistant in the Nassau County Legislature. Two years later, he began working in the State Senate, and served under former Senators Charles Fuschillo and Elaine Philips, and current Sen. Jack Martins, until 2017.
After those years in government, Schneider worked in a senior leadership role for the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America.
At an Aug. 6 Town Board meeting, Schneider was unanimously appointed councilman for the 5th District, filling the seat of his late friend Chris Carini.
For Schneider, his new responsibilities are another way for him to get involved in public service, and he is looking to win the special election in November and start a full term next year.
“The thing that really appealed to me the most about this is it just gives me another way to take that service and giving back to another level,” Schneider said of his appointment, “and it’s been really exciting so far.”
Taking on the job, however, he said, was bittersweet, because Carini, a Seaford resident, was a close friend for years. Schneider served on the Wantagh/ Seaford Homeowners Association board for 20 years, which Carini was also involved with. Prior to his
appointment to the Town Board, Schneider was Seaford vice president of the association.
“One of the things that makes this extra special for me is being able to carry on the work that (Carini) was so passionate about,” Schneider said, “because we shared a lot of the same passions in terms of different issues.”
One of Carini’s legacies that Schneider supports is the town’s Quality of Life Task Force, which removes illegal ads and graffiti and cleans up litter throughout the town. Schneider looks to expand and enhance the task force if he elected.
“When you start seeing things like graffiti and vandalism and signs and zombie homes, it has a negative impact on the community,” he said, “and I think taking care of that stuff, to preserve our quality of life and being aggressive with it, is important.”
Schneider has also represented Seaford on the Nassau County Police Commissioner’s Community Council since 2022, and has served on the 5th District Graffiti Watch Task Force. Working hand in hand with police, he said, is important, because it includes making sure law enforcement is aware of community concerns, such as school safety and illegal smoke shops.
When it comes to affordability, Schneider said the town has done a good job of being fiscally responsible while balancing the needs of taxpayers. The town is continually trying to do more with less, he added, despite the rising cost of living, materials and gas.
“I fully support any kind of efforts to do more with less and be fiscally responsible,” he said.
Schneider said he would prioritize communication as councilman. To serve his district, he noted that he has spoken with civic leaders in his community, as
councilman for the 5th District,
seat
a special election next month. He wants to keep up the work of the Quality of Life Task Force.
well as local fire departments, clergy members and American Legion groups.
“We’re happy to work with you however we can,” he said. “I think it’s important that people know where to turn, and I’m accessible if they have a problem.”
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Chris Schneider, newly appointed Town of Hempstead
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Recognized for contributions to communities
American Community Empowerment, a nonprofit that collaborates with communities to champion equitable access to fundamental necessities such as food and healthcare. She also teaches early childhood education at Children’s Nest in Merrick, enriching lives through her dedication to service and advocacy.
Gonsalves had served nearly 20 years as a Nassau County legislator and in 2010, she took on the role of presiding officer of the county legislature, helping to further bipartisan cooperation to address residents’ needs in the county.
As the founder of Families for Inclusion, a Merrick nonprofit, DeGregorioSonbert aimed to educate young students about autism so they can better understand their peers with developmental disabilities. She started the organization in 2021 after her son, Teddy, was diagnosed with autism.
“I’m very proud,” DeGregorio-Sonbert said. “It’s really a big honor to be recognized for the work that I’m doing.”
Dr. Rizvi, a practitioner with Holistic Dentistry and Wellness Center, in North Bellmore, was honored for her contributions to society and holistic healthcare. She’s also been involved with several community organizations, such as the Al-Khoei Foundation, a religious charity based in Jamaica, New York, and the Islamic Center of Nassau County.
As the spiritual leader of Congrega-
tion Beth Ohr in Bellmore, Rabbi Groner has guided her members through crucial moments in their lives, whether celebrating births, facilitating B’nai Mitzvah, or providing support during times of bereavement. She is also a writer, speaker and educator, and is invested in community building and environmental sustainability.
Groner expressed hope that, through this event, she can make connections with other women to help make a difference in the community.
“I feel very inspired by all the women that I heard tonight being honored,” the rabbi said. “I genuinely believe that
women can change the world.”
Stipanov, an advocate for education and special needs support, has served as co-president of both the Wantagh 6-12 Association and Wantagh SEPTA. She also founded Our Journey – Long Island Special Needs Families, creating a supportive network for parents and children with special needs through regular meet-ups and community-building activities.
For more than 20 years, Hosek has taught middle school science in the Babylon School District, while also coordinating its district STEAM events and chairing its health and safety commit-
tee. Her passion for teaching extends to Bellmore, where she teaches religious education at St. Barnabas the Apostle. Her dedication to connecting with young people and encouraging them to discover their potential is what made her a deserving woman of distinction, according to Knight.
“This is an extraordinary honor,” Hosek said, “and I am so fortunate to have the opportunity to contribute to our community.”
Gasparis’s journey to becoming a woman of distinction began with a tragedy in 2020, when her daughter, Kyriakoula Gasparis, was killed in a car crash as a passenger. The driver, who was unlicensed, was charged with a misdemeanor for aggravated unlicensed operation of a motor vehicle and received no jail time. Since then, Gasparis has dedicated herself to raising awareness, advocating for updates to outdated traffic laws, enhancing roadway safety, and holding dangerous drivers accountable.
As a founder of Karen’s Hope, Inc., a non-profit assisting individuals with disabilities, Siler has helped develop empowerment and skill-building classes to improve the quality of life for those with special needs. Her experiences of caring for her brother with Down syndrome, along with raising a son with autism, influenced her to help other families raising individuals with special needs.
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Honorees at the 2024 Women of distinction ceremony, held at the plainview-old Bethpage Library on Sept. 26, were recognized for their outstanding contributions to the community.
Steps of hope at Alzheimer’s Association walk
By JOSEPH D’ALESSANDRO jdalessandro@liherald.com
The 2024 Walk to End Alzheimer’s — the Alzheimer’s Association’s largest annual fundraiser — returned to East Meadow on Oct. 6 to support breakthrough research and quality-of-life care for people with dementia.
The walk in Eisenhower Park was one of about 600 happening nationwide.
The Alzheimer’s Association Long Island Chapter continues to provide a community and support system for people with Alzheimer’s, their families, friends, and caretakers, while raising awareness of the importance of brain health, said Community Educator Francesca Todaro.
“I feel like a lot of people that have Alzheimer’s or are confused about Alzheimer’s and other dementias, really could use the education and resources that the association can help them with,” Todaro said.
Before the walk, a Promise Garden ceremony was held, displaying solidarity where walkers carried color-coordinated flowers that represented how Alzheimer’s affected their lives and the people around them.
“It is very touching to hear the stories of how people are personally affected by this disease,” Nassau Walk Committee Member Michele Targovnik said in a news release. “The Promise Garden Ceremony is special because when you see everyone around you holding different color flowers it makes you feel so supported and wonderful to be standing next to the person next to you.”
Ed Miller, the vice chair for the Alzheimer’s Association Long Island Chapter Board of Directors, played a leading role in making the past two year’s walk a success in Nassau County.
Miller joined the Long Island chapter after his father was diagnosed with dementia in 2019. Miller, his sister, and mother faced challenges in providing the care an individual with dementia requires, so he began to participate in fundraisers like the Walk to End Alzheimer’s.
“I did my first walk in 2022 — it moved me, and it kept moving me,” Miller said. “It’s an absolute honor to come together at Eisenhower Park for this
event, and to walk together and to see a sea of purple.”
There are 426,500 people in New York aged 65 and older with Alzheimer’s Dementia, and over 7 million across the country, according to the Long Island Chapter. While symptoms become severe later in life, the brain changes that cause Alzheimer’s can begin decades before symptoms start. This period of time is a critical opportunity for people at risk of Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia to reduce the risk of the disease and catch its symptoms as early as possible.
Alzheimer’s researchers have made significant progress in treatments that improve the quality of life of Alzheimer’s patients and caretakers. The breakthroughs — such as a blood test that can help identify Alzheimer’s early — allow for intervention before symptoms escalate.
“There’s been a lot of breakthroughs that have come out in the news over the course of the last couple of years,” Miller said. “These are treatments that aren’t going to eradicate the disease at this point, but they are treatments, and there is hope.
For more information on the Walk to End Alzheimer’s, the Long Island event, or to view other events, visit Alz.org or call (800) 272-3900.
Brittany Krilov/Herald photos
Walkers took steps for a brighter future at the Alzheimer’s Association annual Walk to End Alzheimer’s in Eisenhower Park.
A Promise Garden ceremony, which features a variety of colored flowers to signify why people are walking, is held before the walk begins.
Barbara and Amedo Discipolo of East Meadow held up a blue flower, signifying a battle with Alzheimer’s or dementia.
Frank, Kaitlyn, Maddie and Mary Pitkewicz of Merrick took part in this year’s event.
Armando D’Accordo, the Nassau County event’s co-chair, spoke during the ceremony.
STEPPING OUT
Fl!ppin’ out at the circus
It’s all a thrill with daredevils under the Big Top
By Danielle Schwab
The Big Top has sprung up on Long Island once again for a Fl!p Circus spectacular that brings audiences up close to the action.
The circus spectacle, which wowed audiences here earlier in the spring, brings its intimate Big Top experience back, now through Oct. 15, to Hicksville’s Broadway Commons.
Fl!p Circus was started by the Vazquez family, a long line of circus performers dating back over 50 years. Its older counterpart, the Circus Vazquez, originated in Mexico City in 1969 and has since ventured to the U.S.
While Circus Vazquez has one of the largest tents in America, Fl!p Circus has one of the smallest with around 800 seats. It brings a refreshing, more intimate look at the circus experience with no seat more than 50 feet from the ring.
“It makes it very different and very unique. We wanted to create a show that appealed more to the traditional side of the circus,” says Alexa Vazquez, a fourth-generation performer.
“The seats are made for a 360-degree view, so wherever
• Now through Oct. 15
• Weekdays, 7 p.m.; Saturday, 1 and 4 p.m.; Sunday, noon, 3 p.m., 6 p.m.
• Tickets start at $50 adult, $30 children; available at flipcircus.com or can be purchased in person at box office
• Broadway Commons, 358 N. Broadway, Hicksville
you’re sitting, you’re getting the best view. You feel like a part of the performance,” she continues.
Training since she was 15, Vazquez showcases her acrobatic skills in her mesmerizing Hula Hoop gymnastics act. She weaves various hoops together simultaneously, including a giant hoop, the Cyr Wheel.
“It’s something where, if you lose concentration very quickly, it can go very wrong,” Vazquez explains.
“But at the same time it’s fun because people see a gigantic wheel, but then they see a smaller one. It’s confusing for them, but fun at the same time.”
Fl!p Circus takes traditional acts and gives them a contemporary twist with — in the grand circus tradition — an international flair. Jugglers, trapeze artists and daredevils from throughout the world — including Brazil, India, Chile, Ukraine, the Czech Republic, Mexico, and the U.S. — live and travel together from location to location.
That global flavor is led by Brazil’s favorite clown, Bubi Guiner, who brings his classic comedic routines and side-splitting antics to the U.S. for the first time. He may even invite you on stage as part of the show.
From India, watch as Hasan Ansari thrills audiences with his flexibility, performing body-bending maneuvers on a wooden pole, leaving you wondering how a human body can do that. Ukraine’s Anastasia & Misha present a stunningly synchronized and poetic presentation of dance and acrobatics. Also Pavel Valla Bertini, a fifth-generation performer from the Czech Republic, keeps everyone on the edge of their seats
with his unparalleled one, three and even 15-wheeled unicycle skills.
Others delight audiences with their fast-paced juggling skills, energetic roller skating feats, graceful dancing and acrobatics.
There’s always something new to enjoy, no matter how many times you go, according to Vasquez.
“Every year that it comes to town, you’re going to see a different show,” she says.
Every act brings a different culture to the stage. Each is accompanied by a special musical score, played by the Fl!p Circus Band. The versatile soundtrack ranges from classic instrumental to upbeat rock.
“I always like to say, with Flip to expect the unexpected,” says Vazquez. “As you walk into the stands — (with) the music, the lights, and the way the atmosphere is set — you’re inside a different world, and it’s something that you have to experience yourself.”
And, of course, there’s an assortment of tasty circus treats to munch on from the concession stand.
Capturing over 200 years of circus tradition into high-energy show, Fl!p Circus invites everyone to immerse themselves in the experience.
“We just want the audience to enjoy the show, and we want them to be transformed into what we’re doing,” says Vasquez. “We want the audience, when they come in, to feel welcome, to feel like they’re a part of the family.”
Tom Colicchio on ‘why he cooks’
Get an unprecedented insights into the life of one of America’s top chefs when Tom Colicchio brings his “Why I Cook” book tour to the Paramount stage. Part memoir-part cookbook, Colicchio’s newest book shares an exclusive look inside the mind and kitchen of the beloved multiple-Awardwinning chef, restaurateur, and television personality. Colicchio cooked his first recipe at 13-yearsold — a stuffed eggplant from an issue of Cuisine magazine that he picked up out of boredom — and it changed his life. Through 10 memoir chapters and 60 recipes, “Why I Cook” shares Colicchio’s personal reflections of more than 40 years behind the stove. From pre-dawn fishing excursions with his grandfather to running the flat-top at the snack shack of the local swim club, to finding his way as a young chef in New York City, into Tom’s life yet.
Saturday, Oct. 12, 2 p.m.$95, $65, $54, $35. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. Tickets available at ticketmaster.com or paramountny.com.
Anthony Pascal and Anthony Rapp
Get ready to be swept away with Adam Pascal and Anthony Rapp, the original stars of “Rent.” Their enduring friendship, spanning three decades, forms the heart and soul of this duo show, promising an evening filled with music, anecdotes and laughter. Pascal and Rapp’s friendship and history create an unforgettable evening of music, stories and fun. Expect songs from highlights throughout their careers, music that has influenced their lives, and of course some of the iconic hits from where it all began — meeting on the stage of “Rent.” Jonathan Larson’s iconic show, remains an international phenomenon, contuing a trajectory that began with it’s Off-Broadway opening all those years ago.
Thursday, Oct. 17, 7:30 p.m. $69, $64, $54. Jeanne Rimsky Theater at Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Port Washington. Visit landmarkonmainstreet.org for tickets and information, or call (516) 7676444.
Photos courtesy Fl!p Circus Modern yet vintage describes the Fl!p Circus experience.
Oct. 19
Steve Martin and Martin Short
Icons, collaborators and dos amigos Steve Martin and Martin Short have a relationship that’s evolved in unexpected ways since their SNL days. Their comic prowess has surely reached new heights since their involvement in Hulu’s smash hit “Only Murders in the Building.” The pair takes another comic turn as special guest performers at Tilles Center’s 2024 Gala, Saturday, oct. 19, 8:30 p.m. These two funnyman display their impeccable talents as “The Dukes of Funnytown!” — a show that redefines the form in unexpected and profound ways, from two of the most influential and acclaimed talents of the past century.
Their humor is often subversive, but it is always a joyous self-deprecating romp from two comedy masters driven to make each other laugh as much as the audience. The jokes come at you at a rapid-fire pace with little set-up and big punch lines as they mock Hollywood and the fickle nature of celebrity, but the comedy truly soars when they lovingly (and relentlessly) roast each other. Martin and Short’s chemistry and timing on stage reflects a friendship forged over three decades which developed when they met for the first time on the set of the 1986 film “Three Amigos.” These two titans of comedy have been touring together since 2015, when they launched their first live show entitled “A Very Stupid Conversation.” Tickets start at $70. LIU Post campus, 720 Northern Boulevard, Brookville. Tickets available at TillesCenter.org or (516) 299-3100.
‘The Birthday Party’
Looking for something to do this Halloween season that isn’t just for kids? Visit Sands Point Preserve for an exclusive, immersive theatrical production, “The Birthday Party,” held in a secluded, opulent mansion, Saturday, oct. 12, 7-8:30 p.m. and 9-10:30 p.m.; also oct. 18-19, oct. 25, oct. 31, and Nov. 1. For those who attended Archie’s last “Birthday Party,” rest assured, there are new surprises in store.
Guests will be blindfolded and escorted to a secret location on the property, Villa Vanitas, to celebrate the enigmatic Lord Archibald Axel Von Finkelshorn Chatterton’s 30th birthday. He is a witless charmer on the cusp of a life-changing revelation, and everyone’s invited to witness his journey on a night that promises to be unforgettable and delightfully unpredictable. Cocktail attire preferred. $175 per person. Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road. For information, visit SandsPointPreserveConservancy. org or call (516) 571-7901.
Adelphi’s Best of Broadway: Decades
Jump into the dazzling world of Broadway as Adelphi’s talented students bring to life the magic of shows that opened 10, 20, 30 or more years ago, Sunday, oct. 20, 4 p.m. Enjoy modern and classic Broadway hits from shows like “Suffs” (2024); “Beautiful: The Carole King Musical” (2014); “Sunday in the Park with George” (1984) and “Anything Goes” (1934). Adelphi University Performing Arts Center, 1 South Ave., Garden City. (516) 877-4000 or Adelphi. edu/pac.
Bellmore Chamber General Meeting
The Chamber of Commerce of the Bellmores holds a general meeting, Wednesday, oct. 16, 7 p.m., at the Vamps Club in North Bellmore. Open to anyone interested in joining and all members. No fee for dinner if you’re a member; $10 per person for nonmembers. 1500 Newbridge Road, North Bellmore. Visit BellmoreChamber.org or call (516) 679-1875 for more.
Spooky Fest is back
A Halloween experience not to be missed, Spooky Fest is an outdoor adventure perfect for families, whether you want to be scared — or prefer seasonal fun of the non-scary kind. Join in the fun at the Center for Science, Teaching and Learning, every Friday, Saturday and Sunday throughout October. Along the way in the updated and beautifully lit up, Enchanted Walk you will see dinosaurs, aliens and friendly witches, costumed characters and more, including the Mystical Garden. Get your fortune told, make a craft and dance with the Halloween DJ, along with face painting and the Amazing Glow tent. For those who want a scare, venture into the Haunted Woods, where zombies and dinosaurs hang out.. Admission starts at $22. 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre. Visit CSTL.org for call (516) 7640045 for more information.
Merrick Chamber of Commerce Meeting
Merrick Chamber of Commerce holds its general meetin, Wednesday, Oct. 16 at noon. Members can learn about the upcoming Fall Festival. The meeting will take place at the Outback Steakhouse in the Merrick Mall, starting at noon. Fee for admission is $20. 2124
Merrick Mall. For more, visit MerrickChamber.org.
Merrick Fall Festival
The Merrick Chamber of Commerce’s Fall Festival returns this year, Friday through Sunday, Oct. 25-27
Rides open on Friday night at 6 p.m. in the LIRR parking lot in Merrick. The street fair is open on Saturday and Sunday on Merrick Ave., beginning at 10 a.m. Stop by to shop for local goods, and meet dozens of local faces. Visit MerrickChamber.org for more information.
Art explorations
Converse, collaborate and create at Family Saturdays at Nassau County Museum of Art. The drop-in program returns for a new season, Saturday, Oct. 12, 9, noon-3 p.m. Get inspired by the art and objects in the galleries and then join educators at the Manes Center to explore and discover different materials to create your own original artwork.
Kids and their adult partners connect while talking about and making art together. A new project is featured every week. $20 adult, $10 child. Registration required. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. Visit NassauMuseum.org for more information and to register or call (516) 484-9337.
Having an event?
Items on The Scene page are listed free of charge. The Herald welcomes listings of upcoming events, community meetings and items of public interest. All submissions should include date, time and location of the event, cost, and a contact name and phone number. Submissions can be emailed to thescene@liherald.com.
On exhibit
Nassau County Museum of Art ‘s latest exhibition
“Seeing Red: Renoir to Warhol,” reveals the many meanings, connotations, and associations of this powerful color in art. Evoking strong emotion, red can represent the human condition. Its myriad variations have come to signify authority as well as love, energy and beauty. Red warns us of peril and commands us to stop, but it can also indicate purity and good fortune. Red boldly represents political movements and religious identities. From the advent of our appreciation for this color in antiquity to its continued prominence in artistic and popular culture, this exhibition spans various world cultures through a range of media.
It features more than 70 artists, both established and emerging, ranging from the classical to the contemporary. American portraitists such as Gilbert Stuart imbued red in their stately paintings of prominent individuals to conjure authority. Robert Motherwell, Ad Reinhardt, and other major abstract painters displayed a deep fascination with red in their commanding compositions that evoke a sense of chromatic power. And, of course, Andy Warhol is known for his bold and imposing silkscreened portrait of Vladimir Lenin saturated in bright red to his signature Campbell’s Soup Cans. On view through Jan. 5. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.
Tribute concert
Plaza Theatricals’ tribute series continues, Sunday, Oct 20, 2:30 p.m., with Shades of Grey. From his best-remembered role as the iconic Master of Ceremonies in “Cabaret,”both on Broadway and in the film version, to his more recent portrayal as the Wizard of Oz in “Wicked,” Joel Grey continues to entertain audiences of all ages. And now, continuing his own tradition of creating unique and memorable performances, Bob Spiotto takes to the boards once again, in both story and song, to educate and entertain, as he pays tribute to this legendary performer. See the concert at 700 Hempstead Tpke., Elmont. $40, $35 seniors. Elmont. For tickets, call (516) 599-6870 or visit PlazaTheatrical.com.
Harvest Fair
Grace Evangelical Lutheran Church in North Bellmore invites all to a Harvest Fair, Saturday, Oct. 19, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Enjoy vendors, raffles, food and more. 1294 Bellmore Ave., Bellmore. For more, email gelcnb@aol.com.
Honoring Long Island’s best in health care
By Melissa Berman
Health care professionals traded their scrubs and lab coats for suits and cocktail dresses at the third annual Herald Excellence in Healthcare Awards at the Heritage Club, in Bethpage, on Sept. 18, which honored the best in their field.
The event, organized by the RichnerLIVE team at the Long Island Herald, drew more than 300 attendees, and recognized more than 10 health care professions.
“Tonight is not only a celebration of achievement, but also a sincere expression of gratitude to those who tirelessly safeguard the health and well being of our community,” Amy Amato, Richner Communications’ executive director of corporate relations and events, said. “Your dedication, resilience and passion are truly inspiring.”
Awards were presented to 46 health professionals, including three special honors: Distinguished Visionary, Organization of Excellence and Excellence in Nursing Advocacy.
“From dedicated doctors and nurses to visionary hospital executives and inspiring educators, these honorees are the backbone of our communities’ health,” Stuart Richner, chief executive of Richner Communications, said.
Michelle Ballan, of the Stony Brook University Health Sciences Center, who received an Excellence in Healthcare award, expressed her gratitude for being recognized for her hard work.
“It’s a tremendous honor to be here and to be celebrated, because I’m just a liaison for individuals with disabilities to eradicate and minimize the health care disparities that exist in different settings,” Ballan said. “To be honored for the health care award, it’s really just an extension of the work that my team does for individuals with disabilities, who are the true experts.”
Having worked in the home care field for 20 years, Joseph Verdirame, CEO of Alliance Homecare/TrustHouse, has learned that there are no shortcuts, and you need to provide exceptional care for the patient, he said.
“We’ve spent a lot of time building and developing our business model to really enhance the way home care is provided in the industry,” Verdirame, who also won the Excellence in Healthcare award, said. “We’re very proud of what we’ve accomplished today for all the work we’ve put in.”
According to Luis Fandos, of Alluring Age: Anti-Aging and Wellness Center, who won an Excellence in Healthcare award, it was a dream come true to be honored, and he finally feels that all the effort, sweat and tears he put into his work has come to fruition.
“When you have other people recognize what you do, and appreciate that, it’s priceless,” Fandos said.
The keynote speaker was Stanley M. Bergman, chairman of the board and chief executive officer of Henry Schein and the winner of the Distinguished Visionary Award. “Health care is local, and it is critical that we maintain an outstanding quality of health care system here on Long Island,” Bergman said, and
told the crowd, “Thank you for what you do, being amongst the nation’s best health care systems.”
The major sponsors of the awards included Alliance Homecare, Henry Schein, Nassau University Medical Center, the New York State Nurses Association, Northwell Orthopedics, Stony Brook Medicine, The Aspen Group and Trusthouse.
Muriel Donnelly, VP of PR at Parker Jewish Institute for Health Care and Rehabilitation, with Stuart Richner of Richner Communications.
Honoree Jennifer Lazzaro, of Hearing and Brain Centers of America, Long Island.
Honoree Denis Nankervis, of Peconic Bay Medical Center Northwell Health.
Honoree Dr. Howard Goodman, the Long Island Weight Loss Doctor, with Jessica Kleiman of the Long Island Herald.
Jason Thomas/Herald photos
Honoree Michelle Ballan, of Stony Brook University Health Sciences Center, with her family and friends.
Jason Thomas/Herald photos
Honoree John McGuigan, of AHRC Suffolk, right, with Stuart Richner.
Honoree Dr. Brian Mayrsohn, of Maywell Health.
Dr. Jill Kaman, of the Donald and Barbara Zucker School of Medicine at Hofstra/Northwell.
Keynote and Distinguished Visionary recipient Stanley Bergman, of Henry Schein.
Honorees Roxanne Carfora, of AgelessMD, and Dr. Luis Fandos, of Alluring Age: Anti-Aging and Wellness Center.
Honorees from Aspen Dental, Lina Patino, DDS, and Roumiana Tzvetkova, DMD.
Honoree Megan C. Ryan, of Nassau University Medical Center.
Honoree Catherine Canadeo, center, of Catherine Canadeo Health & Wellness Corp.
Holden Leeds/Herald photos
Dr. Todd J. Cohen, of New York Institute of Technology College of Osteopathic Medicine.
Melissa Schachter, of the Speech Language Place.
Public Notices
LEGAL NOTICE
SUPREME COURT OF THE STATE OF NEW YORK INDEX NO. 605027/2024 COUNTY OF NASSAU
DEUTSCHE BANK
NATIONAL TRUST COMPANY, AS TRUSTEE FOR HARBORVIEW
MORTGAGE LOAN TRUST
MORTGAGE LOAN PASSTHROUGH CERTIFICATES, SERIES 2007-7, Plaintiff, vs.
WENDI OFFSEY, AS HEIR AND DISTRIBUTEE OF THE ESTATE OF STEPHEN L. SINGER A/K/A STEPHEN SINGER; JOSHUA SINGER, AS HEIR AND DISTRIBUTEE OF THE ESTATE OF STEPHEN L. SINGER A/K/A STEPHEN SINGER; UNKNOWN HEIRS AND DISTRIBUTEES OF THE ESTATE OF STEPHEN L. SINGER A/K/A STEPHEN SINGER, any and all persons unknown to plaintiff, claiming, or who may claim to have an interest in, or general or specific lien upon the real property described in this action; such unknown persons being herein generally described and intended to be included in the following designation, namely: the wife, widow, husband, widower, heirs at law, next of kin, descendants, executors, administrators, devisees, legatees, creditors, trustees, committees, lienors, and assignees of such deceased, any and all persons deriving interest in or lien upon, or title to said real property by, through or under them, or either of them, and their respective wives, widows, husbands, widowers, heirs at law, next of kin, descendants, executors, administrators, devisees, legatees, creditors, trustees, committees, lienors and assigns, all of whom and whose names, except as stated, are unknown to plaintiff; PNC BANK, NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, SUCCESSOR BY MERGER TO NATIONAL CITY BANK; NEW YORK STATE DEPARTMENT OF TAXATION AND FINANCE; UNITED STATES OF AMERICA; HECTOR CHAVEZ, “JOHN DOE #2” through “JOHN DOE #12,” the last eleven names being fictitious and unknown to plaintiff, the persons or parties intended being the tenants, occupants, persons or corporations, if any, having or claiming an interest in or lien upon the premises, described in the complaint, Defendants. Plaintiff designates NASSAU as the place of trial situs of the real property
SUPPLEMENTAL
SUMMONS
Mortgaged Premises: 25-33 PARK PLACE, BELLMORE, NY 11710
Section: 63, Block: 203, Lot: 155
To the above named
Defendants YOU ARE HEREBY SUMMONED to answer the Complaint in the above entitled action and to serve a copy of your Answer on the plaintiff’s attorney within twenty (20) days of the service of this Summons, exclusive of the day of service, or within thirty (30) days after service of the same is complete where service is made in any manner other than by personal delivery within the State. The United States of America, if designated as a defendant in this action, may answer or appear within sixty (60) days of service. Your failure to appear or to answer will result in a judgment against you by default for the relief demanded in the Complaint. In the event that a deficiency balance remains from the sale proceeds, a judgment may be entered against you.
NOTICE OF NATURE OF ACTION AND RELIEF SOUGHT
THE OBJECT of the above caption action is to foreclose a Mortgage to secure the sum of $520,000.00 and interest, recorded on March 09, 2007, in Liber M31644 at Page 1, of the Public Records of NASSAU County, New York., covering premises known as 25-33 PARK PLACE, BELLMORE, NY 11710.
The relief sought in the within action is a final judgment directing the sale of the premises described above to satisfy the debt secured by the Mortgage described above.
NASSAU County is designated as the place of trial because the real property affected by this action is located in said county.
NOTICE YOU ARE IN DANGER OF LOSING YOUR HOME
If you do not respond to this summons and complaint by serving a copy of the answer on the attorney for the mortgage company who filed this foreclosure proceeding against you and filing the answer with the court, a default judgment may be entered and you can lose your home.
Speak to an attorney or go to the court where your case is pending for further information on how to answer the summons and protect your property.
Sending a payment to the mortgage company will not stop the foreclosure action.
YOU MUST RESPOND BY SERVING A COPY OF THE ANSWER ON THE ATTORNEY FOR THE PLAINTIFF (MORTGAGE COMPANY) AND FILING THE ANSWER WITH THE COURT.
Dated: September 19th, 2024
ROBERTSON, ANSCHUTZ, SCHNEID, CRANE & PARTNERS, PLLC
Attorney for Plaintiff
Orit Avraham, Esq.
900 Merchants Concourse, Suite 310 Westbury, NY 11590
516-280-7675
149295
LEGAL NOTICE
SUPREME COURTCOUNTY OF NASSAU
Cascade Funding RMI Acquisitions Grantor Trust, Plaintiff v. Richard W. Ross a/k/a Richard Warren Ross as Executor of the Estate of Evelyn Ross, deceased, et al., Defendants.
Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale (the “Judgment”) entered on January 19, 2023. I, the undersigned Referee will sell in one parcel at public auction to be held at the North Side steps of the Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, New York on October 17, 2024 at 2:00p.m., the premises described by said Judgment to be sold and therein described as follows: ALL that certain plot, piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements thereon erected situate, lying and being at Bellmore, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau and State of New York, known and designated as Lots No. 58 in Block 284 on a certain map entitled, “Map of Ocean Village Section No. 8, situated at Bellmore, Nassau County, New York, surveyed August, 1959 Baldwin & Cornelius Co., Civil Engineers and Surveyors, Freeport, N.Y.”, and filed in the Office of the Clerk of the County of Nassau May 9, 1962 as Map No. 7580. Said Premises known as 3142 Shore Road, Bellmore, New York 11710.
(Section 63 Block 284 Lot 58)
Approximate amount of lien $2,301,533.06, plus interest and Plaintiff’s advances, costs and expenses, all due as per the Judgment. The Premises will be sold subject to provisions of the Judgment and terms of sale.
Index No.: 000119/2014; Tony L. D’Anzica, Esq., Referee Windels Marx Lane & Mittendorf, LLP
Robert J. Malatak, Esq. Attorney(s) for Plaintiff Cascade Funding RMI Acquisitions Grantor Trust 156 West 56th Street New York, New York 10019 Tel: (212) 237-1000 149060
LEGAL NOTICE NOTICE OF SALE
SUPREME COURT COUNTY OF NASSAU U.S. BANK NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, NOT IN ITS INDIVIDUAL CAPACITY BUT SOLELY AS TRUSTEE FOR THE RMAC TRUST, SERIES 2016-CTT, Plaintiff AGAINST SHAWN WHALEN, JANET WHALEN, ET AL.,
Defendant(s) Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale duly entered March 7, 2024, I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction at the North Side steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY 11501 on October 22, 2024 at 2:30PM, premises known as 402 Marle Place, Bellmore, NY 11710. All that certain plot piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements erected, situate, lying and being at Bellmore, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau and State of New York, Section 56, Block 351, Lot 87-89. Approximate amount of judgment $417,139.32 plus interest and costs. Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index #600417/2020. The aforementioned auction will be conducted in accordance with the NASSAU County COVID-19 mitigation protocols and as such all persons must comply with social distancing, wearing masks and screening practices in effect at the time of this foreclosure sale. If proper social distancing cannot be maintained or there are other health or safety concerns, then the court appointed referee will cancel the foreclosure auction. Foreclosure Auctions will be held “Rain or Shine”. Ronald J. Ferraro, Esq., Referee Gross Polowy, LLC 1775 Wehrle Drive Williamsville, NY 14221 19-007424 82376 148980
LEGAL NOTICE
NOTICE OF SALE SUPREME COURT COUNTY OF NASSAU U.S. BANK NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, AS TRUSTEE, SUCCESSOR IN INTEREST TO BANK OF AMERICA NATIONAL ASSOCIATION AS TRUSTEE AS SUCCESSOR BY MERGER TO LASALLE BANK NATIONAL ASSOCIATION, AS TRUSTEE FOR CERTIFICATEHOLDERS OF BEAR STEARNS ASSET BACKED SECURITIES I LLC, ASSET-BACKED CERTIFICATES, SERIES 2007-AQ2, Plaintiff AGAINST NEIL ASTROW, ANDREW J. WEILAND, MD, ET AL., Defendant(s)
Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale duly entered March 9, 2018, I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction at the North Side steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY 11501 on October 29, 2024 at 2:00PM, premises known as 915 Iris Drive, North Bellmore, NY 11710. All that certain plot piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements erected, situate, lying and being at
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Man facing assault charges
An East Meadow man was arrested following an assault that took place on Oct. 3 at 5:30 p.m. in Mineola.
Nassau County detectives said Robert Vitiello, 53, of 399 Merrick Ave., was being arrested by Nassau County Probation Officers on an open warrant while at 400 County Seat Drive. Vitiello refused to comply with officers’ commands and began to resist violently. He charged at an officer, who deployed a taser, which proved ineffective. A struggle ensued, during which Vitiello lunged for another officer’s taser while making physical threats. Officers eventually subdued and arrested him.
Vitiello was taken to a nearby hospital for evaluation and treatment.
A probation officer suffered an injury to the right side of his body and was also transported to a hospital for treatment and evaluation.
Vitiello was charged with second-degree assault, resisting arrest, second-degree menacing, and an open warrant.
He was scheduled to be arraigned Oct. 4 at the First District Court in Hempstead.
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Following incident, N. Merrick men are facing arson charges
Two North Merrick men were arrested for their involvement in an attempted arson that occurred Tuesday, Sept. 17, 2024, at 2 a.m. in Uniondale.
Nassau County detectives said an unknown suspect placed propane tanks near the Nassau County Department of Social Services building, located at 60 Charles Lindbergh Blvd., before throwing lit flares toward the tanks and fleeing the scene.
After an extensive investigation, James Luca, 46, and Jayson Anthony
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Q. We want to replace our cedar siding, and you wrote about not using cedar. Is that just for decks, or also for siding? Our community in Massachusetts insists on cedar siding, but has been accepting lookalikes if they meet their appearance standards at the community review. It wouldn’t make sense for us to consider cedar if it’s as much of a problem as you stated. Please let us know your opinion on what we should do, since we want to try to get the siding done before the winter.
A. In my column, answering the question about decks, I wrote that I don’t recommend cedar as either a structural material or finish board material because of its instability and maintenance issues, for decks, specifically. Natural wood is more reactive to the environment, because it used to be in the middle of a tree, and wasn’t intended to be exposed to the weather in its natural state.
The stronger, solid hardwoods are less reactive, but cedar is a soft wood that easily expands and contracts. Although it’s resistant to insects, it doesn’t last as long as other products. As a siding material, it’s not as big a problem, and it’s reminiscent of the original New England historical architecture it was employed for. It’s very attractive, and the issue of stability and durability is different for its use as a siding material.
There are two basic kinds of natural cedar siding, cedar shakes and cedar shingles. Shingles are cut with blades and shaped uniformly, while shakes, also called “split” shakes, are cut to size at double the thickness (or more) and then split in half. That mimics the rustic and non-uniform look our first settlers developed for making the homes and meeting houses they constructed as weatherresistant as they could manage. The techniques and original tools are still used today.
You may want to reconsider when to do the work, whichever style you choose, because cedar is generally harvested in the winter and early spring, and you’ll get better-quality material to work with in the spring than in the fall. The reason the wood is harvested when it is is because the ground around cedar trees is boggy and swampy, and heavy equipment can’t get to the trees until the ground is hard and stable. (Incidentally, foresting requirements dictate that for every tree harvested, two trees must be planted, and about 1 percent of all cedar trees are taken in a season, meaning there will be plenty of cedar for you when you need it.)
Make sure you have an installer who knows to use a waterproofing membrane and drainage filter fabric first, before the cedar is applied, so the shingles or shakes don’t constantly sit against a wet wall after they’re attached. The original settlers understood this, and used strips of cedar to keep the shakes off the wall to drain and dry. Wetting and drying cycles cause accelerated decay. Good luck!
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Remembering a cherished friendship with Nelson DeMille
The bestselling, superbly gifted novelist Nelson DeMille recently died. The author of 23 books, including 17 bestsellers, DeMille was so much more than a brilliant writer. He was first and foremost an outstanding human being and a loyal friend.
The first book of his that I read was “Cathedral,” in the early 1980s. It was a gripping tale of an attack on the St. Patrick’s Day Parade and St. Patrick’s Cathedral. I was hooked. Among all of Demille’s books, I found “Gold Coast,” a satiric depiction of Long Island’s North Shore, to be a true classic. My wife, Rosemary, became an almost obsessive reader of his works.
I didn’t actually meet DeMille until the early 2000s, when I was privileged to be invited to several lunches hosted by Mets owner Fred Wilpon and New York jurist Sol Wachtler at which DeMille was also a guest. I was struck immediately by what a regular guy he was. Totally unassuming and down-to-earth. Humorous. Extremely intelligent, and
knowledgeable on so many topics. Never once telling us how many bestsellers he authored, or mentioning his service in Vietnam as an infantry commander, for which he was awarded a Bronze Star.
Those early gatherings opened the way for lunches, dinners and social gatherings at which Rosemary and I would see Nelson and his wife, Sandy, as well as get-togethers he and I would have with guys we each knew. I distinctly recall the wonderful evening Rosemary and I enjoyed at DeMille’s home, celebrating his 75th birthday with his family and a multitude of friends.
TRosemary, who, in what turned out to be Sandy’s final social event, invited her to a formal congressional lunch in Washington honoring then first lady Melania Trump.
That evening, Sandy joined Rosemary, our daughter, Erin, and me for dinner at a Capitol Hill restaurant, and she was as outgoing and upbeat as ever. Just months later, in September 2018, she died. As devastated as he was, Nelson never showed even the slightest bit of self-pity.
he bestselling author was still the blue-collar guy who grew up in Elmont.
Conversations with him ran the gamut of his varied interests, including dedication to his family and his concern for others. Nothing was more saddening or distressing than when Sandy, a nonsmoker, was stricken with lung cancer. The years following her diagnosis in 2014 were marked by peaks of hope, but then by the darkest valley in 2018, when Sandy succumbed after waging a courageous, uncomplaining struggle.
She was an absolute delight to be with. Intelligent and always upbeat. Sandy was the center of her husband’s life. She was especially friendly with
TRosemary and I continued to get together with DeMille and, if anything, our friendship and admiration for him only deepened. More than ever, I realized that, with all his fame and success, he was, at heart, still the blue-collar guy who grew up in Elmont. Though he moved easily with the socially upscale and the movers and shakers, he very much identified with cops, firefighters, construction workers and military veterans. Those were the people who, through guts and dedication, make our nation work with little recognition or acclaim.
DeMille also never left Long Island. His roots were here, and this was where he stayed.
He continued his literary efforts,
writing, as always, in longhand on yellow legal pads, and rushing feverishly to meet his publisher’s deadlines. His final work was “Blood Line,” published in 2023, which he co-wrote with his son, Alex. Last Oct. 11 I had the privilege of moderating a discussion of “Blood Line” with the two of them before a large audience at LIU Post.
Weeks later, on Oct. 28, Rosemary, and I got together with DeMille at the Paramount, in Huntington, at a reception prior to a performance by Bill O’Reilly and Sid Rosenberg. DeMille was in good spirits, and seemed entirely healthy, but that was the last time we were with him. Soon after, he let us know he was being treated for cancer, but was confident all would be well.
This went on for months. On June 6, Rosemary received an email from him, saying he had just one procedure left, and then we’d be getting together for dinner. That was the last we heard from him. Nelson died of esophageal cancer on Sept. 17.
His wake and funeral, attended by hundreds of admirers and friends, were a celebration of a wonderful man of great accomplishment. He will be missed. Nelson DeMille, R.I.P.
Peter King is a former congressman, and a former chair of the House Committee on Homeland Security. Comments? pking@ liherald.com.
A historic election for all the wrong reasons
his has been a political year like no other in my lifetime. It may be the only year that was dominated by mean-spirited and ugly conduct, all in the name of winning an election. I am not naïve, having run 12 successful campaigns for public office. But the desperate campaign being run by Donald Trump, in his quest for renewed power, will stand out in the history books for many years to come.
Let’s start with this backdrop.
Trump lost the 2020 election by 7 million votes. His years of claims that his success was “stolen” are fake by any measure. He admitted that he was beaten by challenging the election results in Georgia. If you lost an election, why would you be asking the Georgia secretary of state to “find 11,780 votes”? What is sad is that there are millions of Americans who have fallen for that charade.
The second historical event that
taints the Trump re-election effort is the Jan. 6, 2021, riot on Capitol Hill. Trump once told Americans that they shouldn’t believe what they saw with their own eyes. Whether you’re blind or able to see, at Trump’s urging, hundreds of people broke down the doors to the Capitol and destroyed government property, and their actions contributed to the death of five people. That is not my conclusion. It is the findings of countless jurors who heard the facts after weeks and weeks of criminal trials.
Donald Trump’s vision of the nation is depressing and false.
And so, with the blemish of a torrent of facts that would undo any reelection effort, Trump commenced his 2024 campaign. He once claimed he would “drain the swamp,” but instead he has created a new swamp by conducting a campaign heavy with racial undertones, vicious personal attacks and attacks on the American court system.
There have been so many vitriolic assaults that it would take more than one column to adequately describe all of them. One of the current ones that deserves public scorn is his attacks on
the Haitian community in Springfield, Ohio. Despite the pleas of the Republican governor of Ohio, the mayor of Springfield and many other elected officials, both Trump and his running mate, Sen. J.D. Vance, have continued to spread false charges about Haitians eating dogs and cats.
I long ago learned that personal attacks on your opponent don’t get much voter applause. Trump has decided that calling his challenger, Vice President Kamala Harris, “mentally impaired” is a way to get voter support. He also thinks that attacking her appearance is a way to win over skeptical women voters. These tasteless tactics are not the way to get the support of the fast-shrinking independent vote.
One of the winning ways to get voters to be your boosters is to offer solid policy proposals and to give the public a chance to hear your vision for the next 10-plus years. Trump has offered little in way of new ideas, but has Project 2025 as his policy proposal. That 900-plus-page volume, drafted by former officials of his administration, calls for
dismantling the federal government as we know it and turning it over to prescreened loyalists who will complete a menu of bureaucratic horrors. Perhaps the most vexing part of the current Trump effort is his constant harping on what he thinks our country looks like. He describes America as a “failed state.” His vision of the nation is depressing and false. He claims that many thousands of the migrants who have come to America have committed major crimes. Any honest presidential contender would not tear down the country at a time when it wants a leader with a brighter view of the nation. Obviously, my view of the Trump campaign is not a flattering one. Am I a partisan? I have spent all of my life cultivating relationships with my Republican counterparts, and have succeeded because of our mutual respect. But I draw the line when it comes to Donald Trump. I just don’t think he is the true face of America.
Jerry Kremer was an assemblyman for 23 years, and chaired the Assembly’s Ways and Means Committee for 12 years. He now heads Empire Government Strategies, a business development and legislative strategy firm. Comments about this column? jkremer@liherald.com.
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Calling for fire safety, honoring local volunteers
With Fire Prevention Week — Oct. 6-12 — upon us, it’s important to reflect on the significance of fire safety in our communities, and to recognize the extraordinary contributions of the volunteer firefighters and emergency medical technicians who keep us safe.
These men and women are truly local heroes, but they are also neighbors just a phone call away who risk their lives in hazardous situations that include fires and floods. They should never be taken for granted, and this annual observance serves as a reminder that we all have a role to play in preventing fires and responding to emergencies of all kinds.
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Fire Prevention Week is a nationwide campaign aimed at raising awareness of fire hazards and promoting practices that can saves lives. President Calvin Coolidge proclaimed it a national observance in 1925 to commemorate the Great Chicago Fire of 1871, which devastated much of the city and claimed hundreds of lives.
“Smoke Alarms: Make them work for you!” is this year’s theme. The goal is to
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educate people about the crucial role smoke alarms play in preventing injury and death when a fire breaks out in a home.
Three of every five home fire deaths occur in properties without working smoke alarms, and the risk of dying in a house fire is cut in half when there are functioning alarms, according to the National Fire Protection Association. This underscores the fact that fire prevention isn’t just about avoiding accidents — it’s about saving lives.
The American Red Cross also stresses the importance of installing smoke alarms. At the organization’s Sound the Alarm events, volunteers install smoke alarms for free. For more information, go to RedCross.org.
Education is paramount, too. Children, adults and seniors benefit from learning how to prevent fires and to respond appropriately if one breaks out. Teaching children not to play with matches, encouraging adults to avoid being distracted while cooking and reminding seniors to be mindful of electrical appliances are just a few essential lessons that can reduce the likelihood of fires.
It’s also important to honor the brave people who respond when fires and other emergencies occur. Volunteer firefighters often juggle full-time jobs and family responsibilities, yet they still make time to respond to calls for help — whether it’s a house fire, a car accident or a medical emergency.
Letter writer defending D’Esposito was ‘splitting hairs’
To the Editor:
In his letter last week, “Is D’Esposito vulnerable to a House probe?” Christopher Kane complained that the Herald owes Congressman Anthony D’Esposito an apology for an article about the hiring of his mistress and the daughter of his fiancée that was headlined “D’Esposito faces ethics probe over hiring.” Kane argued, in part, that D’Esposito didn’t violate any ethics rules because he wasn’t married to his fiancée.
However, according to a Sept. 23 article in The New York Times, “The House code of conduct prohibits members of Congress from employing spouses or relatives, including stepchildren. Though Mr. D’Esposito has never married, congressional ethics experts said that employing a woman akin to his stepdaughter, who shared a home with him, could breach the requirement that members of Congress ‘adhere to the spirit and the letter of the rules.’”
The Times article continued, “A separate provision adopted in the wake of the #MeToo movement explicitly states that lawmakers ‘may not engage in a sexual relationship with any employee of the House who works under the supervision of the member.’”
They undergo extensive training to ensure that they are equipped to handle the myriad dangerous conditions that can arise in an emergency, and they are often the only line of defense when a home catches fire and lives are on the line. It’s no wonder that so many people find firefighters’ dedication so inspiring.
The same is true for volunteer EMTs, who provide critical care during medical emergencies, administering life-saving treatment before a victim can be transported to a hospital. Their swift action and expertise often mean the difference between life and death.
A former Suffolk County volunteer firefighter and EMT who continues to serve as a paid paramedic and a New York City police officer explained why he became a first responder.
“I wanted to participate in something that allowed me to help my neighbors at their most vulnerable points in life, while also providing me with valuable life experience and training,” he told the Herald. “The fire department put me on a path to serve the people and communities that I live and work in, as well as (having) a second family I know would come to my aid should my family or I need it.”
We strongly urge you to be there for your local fire department’s next fundraiser or open house, salute the volunteers at their next holiday parade and, if you’re able, consider becoming one of them.
Although D’Esposito was not married to his fiancée, with whom he was allegedly cohabiting, it appears that in his letter, Kane was doing nothing more than splitting hairs!
Lastly, while he criticizes Laura Gil-
len, who “identifies as a Catholic,” apparently Kane is not that troubled by D’Esposito’s reported affair with a married woman (which ended her marriage) while he was engaged to someone else.
opinions After reforms, NUMC is on the upswing
For decades, Nassau university Medical Center has towered above the landscape, representing our community’s commitment to quality health care — for everyone. Public hospitals across the state face enormous challenges, and NuMC is no different. but as we close in on two years of executing substantial reforms, this irreplaceable institution is proving resilient and improving. at long Island’s largest public safety-net hospital and level 1 trauma center, each year the unwavering dedication of our staff provides $1 billion in services to more than 270,000 patients. Many of those patients are from our most at-risk populations, who can’t afford to pay for care and otherwise wouldn’t receive treatment.
leveraging new financial standards and practices, more-efficient systems and a renewed commitment to the patient and visitor experience, we are proving that we can be a model for success. our dedication to strengthening the foundations of the facility has recently been recognized by top health care organizations.
In august, after a rigorous evalua-
tion, NuMC earned the Joint Commission’s Gold Seal of approval for Hospital accreditation by demonstrating continuous compliance with its high-performance standards. to achieve this accreditation, NuMC underwent an indepth, multi-day, unannounced onsite review by a team that judged compliance standards in several key areas, including patient rights, infection control, surgical services and patient safety.
the hospital received two prestigious awards from the American Heart Association.
Just days later, NuMC’s team was again recognized, receiving two prestigious awards from the american Heart association. the hospital was honored with aHa’s Get With the Guidelines and Mission: lifeline achievement awards, reflecting our team’s adherence to the latest evidence-based treatment guidelines for heart disease and stroke. the aHa also noted that our efforts have led to improved patient outcomes, including more lives saved, shorter recovery times and reduced hospital readmissions. these awards come as we prepare for the construction and opening of a new Cath lab in 2025 that will enable the hospital to perform more lifesaving heart procedures on site. our emergency Room staff also continues to demonstrate excellence and success under the stress of a growing patient population. In September, after an in-depth investigative report by
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Abortion rights must be enshrined in N.Y.’s Constitution
to the editor:
I was unclear about Proposition 1, and my concern grew when I learned that women in states with abortion bans are dying. I wondered if New York’s abortion laws could withstand the radical extremists influencing our Supreme Court, Congress and potentially the White House. Despite Republican assurances against a national abortion ban, I remain skeptical, especially since the Supreme Court previously deemed Roe v. Wade settled law.
Moreover, the G o P made no effort to block the proposed ban on the abortion pill. While an outright abortion ban may not be imminent, without enshrining abortion rights in New York’s Constitution, it’s plausible that there will be attempts to erode women’s rights gradually. For these reasons, it’s crucial to condemn the fearmongering falsehoods spread by the radi-
Newsday on the crisis of long emergency room wait times on long Island, NuMC’s was ranked second out of all hospitals for average patient wait time, despite the fact that we serve more than 65,000 emergency patients each year. these recognitions required strategic planning, rigorous training and a culture of excellence that permeates every level of our organization. our staff of more than 3,600 undergo continuous evaluations and specialized training to ensure that we meet the highest standards of care, which is particularly crucial because we serve a diverse community with unique health needs.
While previous leadership spent money on new executive offices, we’re focusing on enriching the patient experience and expanding our services. We recently extended our onsite clinical office hours on tuesdays and Wednesdays until 9 p.m. for our pediatric, women’s health, general medicine and physical therapy services. Starting this month, we will have Saturday clinic hours as well for the first time.
this expansion helps make prevention and treatment more convenient for working families, and reduces emergency room visits. our first NuMC van was just delivered to help those with transportation needs. the opening of our
cal right about the ballot initiative and to vote “yes” on Proposition 1.
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Now Trump will approve the SALT deduction?
to the editor:
then-President Donald trump and the Republicans limited our income tax deduction for state and local taxes. For two years the Republicans have controlled the House, so why haven’t Congressman a nthony D’esposito and the MaGa Republicans in the House introduced legislation to give us back our Salt deductions?
Now, in a desperate attempt to help D’ e sposito keep his House seat, t rump comes to New York and tells us he’s going to give us back the Salt deduction. He’ll do that right after he finishes building the wall and Mexico pays for it. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. It won’t be all bad when D’esposito loses the election. His friends in the town of Hempstead will give him a good job.
DeNNIS PatRICk bRaDY Rockville Centre
new Community engagement Center, our first public open house, our recent back-to-School program and other initiatives are also part of our effort to ensure that NuMC remains a hub for the broader community.
NuMC has long been a cornerstone of health care in Nassau County — more than just a hospital, we are a trusted partner and a critical lifeline for our neighbors. our hospital is often the first place people turn in times of need. We take our unique responsibility very seriously.
these certifications, initiatives and facility upgrades are just a small sample of the exciting results from nearly two years of management and operational reforms.
While NuMC continues to face financial challenges due to drastic state funding cuts that have not been restored, we are committed to building on the success of our recent fiscal reforms to safeguard this vital community resource.
NuMC is a beacon of hope and a testament to the strength of our community. It represents our commitment to caring for one another. our collective support for the hospital means that our area will avoid the health care crises that plague other communities across the nation. Residents will have the peace of mind knowing they have a public hospital ready to meet any challenge.
Megan C. Ryan is interim president and CEO of Nassau University Medical Center.
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At the Family Street Festival — Bellmore
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