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The weather was wet and the parade was canceled, but the East Rockaway football team defeated Carle Place, 36-19, to make it a happy Homecoming. More photos, Page 10.
WORD ON THE STREET IS you’re paying too much on your street.
Six standout ERHS students are honored
by JoSePH D’AleSSANDro jdalessandro@liherald.com
Six East Rockaway High School students performed so well on AP and PSAT exams that they were singled out by the College Board National Recognition Program, which honors outstanding students in the college application process.
To earn the accolade, students must be in the top 10 percent of test takers across the state on the PSAT, or score a 3 or higher on two or more AP exams by the end of their sophomore year.
The students were recognized for excellence in other areas as well as their test results.
Mezquita and Monteleone. DeCunzo plans to major in mechanical engineering, and is considering a career in aerospace design. “We had so many opportunities here, and we wanted to move up,” she said of the high school. “We’re all like, finally, I’m going to go to school — I’m going to go to college, and my sister will too, hopefully.”
I t makes me proud of my family.
SAr AH loNerg AN Senior, East Rockaway High School
The National First-Generation Recognition Program honored seniors Isabella DeCunzo, Tristen Latchman, Sarah Lonergan, Andres Mezquita and Mia Monteleone and junior April Macias for being the first in their families to pursue a college education. The National Hispanic Recognition Program also recognized Lonergan, Macias,
Lonergan is undecided on her major, but hopes to attend either the University of Tampa or Florida State University.
“It makes me proud of my family,” Lonergan said. Macias is not yet applying to colleges, but having these honors on her resume will help when she does. “I’m proud of myself and what I’ve done,” she said.
“I want to major in psychology and maybe neuroscience,” Monteleone said, “and I want to go to Stony Brook or Adelphi. I’m the first person in my family to go to college, so this is something very big to my family.”
“My parents had to leave
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Goodbye restaurants, hello condos in Lynbrook
A nearly four-year plan to replace a space where restaurants were located for the past half-century got under way last Friday.
What was the Japanese eatery Asahi at 161 Union Ave. in Lynbrook was being demolished.
The proposal by Long Island Building Corp. to buy the land and build an 18-unit condominium was not popular with the community and divided business owners and residents.
The two-condo buildings would be called Parson’s
Corners and include basement storage and 38 parking spaces for residents.
William Bonesso, the attorney for Long Island Building Corp., declined to comment, but explained at a past zoning meeting that the condos would fill a need for housing alternatives while bringing in new residents to patronize local businesses.
He brought an appraiser who said the complex would increase the value of local homes, and cited a traffic study that stated the new complex would have little to
no impact on the area.
Community members were unconvinced and nearly 19 months ago, a petition opposing the project collected more than 350 signatures.
“These developers don’t live here,” one Facebook post read. “In the long term more people more cars, more traffic, less parking, more kids in the schools.”
As of press time, multiple sources declined to comment.
— Jeffrey Bessen and Joseph D’Allessandro
Hundreds show support for cancer research
Heart of Gold Gala helps further foundation’s fundraising efforts
By ABIGAIL GRIECO
Herald Intern
More than 300 supporters gathered at the St. Agnes Parish Center on Sept. 14 for the Mary Ruchalski Foundation’s second annual Heart of Gold Gala, an event dedicated to raising awareness and funds for pediatric cancer research, particularly on Long Island.
The event, organized by Carol Ruchalski, honors the memory of her daughter, Mary Ruchalski, a seventhgrader at St. Agnes Cathedral School who died after battling rhabdomyosarcoma—a rare form of pediatric cancer that affects muscle tissue.
“We knew we had to do something to bring awareness to rhabdomyosarcoma,” Ruchalski said during the gala.
Since its inception in 2018, the Mary Ruchalski Foundation has raised more than $640,000 for pediatric cancer research initiatives at Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory and provided support to families dealing with cancer.
Ruchalski’s commitment to the cause stems from the challenges her daughter and other families with pediatric cancer have faced, noting that there has been no new treatment for childhood cancers since 1982.
“Mary’s treatment was harsh and toxic,” she said. “Our goal is to provide any aid we can for families that have a child stricken with pediatric cancer.”
In the past year, the foundation has provided $100,000 to families with sick children. Unfortunately, none of those children survived— a sobering reminder about the critical need for pediatric cancer research funding.
Ruchalski said the idea for the Heart of Gold Gala came about a year ago, when Assemblyman Brian Curran asked her if they could do more during September for Pediatric Cancer Awareness Month.
“We have collaborated closely ever since,” she said, expressing gratitude for Curran’s support, along with that of Lynbrook Mayor Alan Beach. “They both provide constant support, and I couldn’t ask for more.”
For the past six years, the Mary
Ruchalski Foundation has worked with local officials to host gold tree-lighting ceremonies, raising awareness for pediatric cancer research across Long Island.
The effort began in Rockville Centre and has since spread to neighboring communities including Lynbrook, Malverne, East Williston and Mineola, with each holding its own event.
Curran said he approached Ruchalski at the tree-lighting ceremony in Lynbrook last year to discuss additional efforts for Pediatric Cancer Awareness Month.
“I got to talking with Carol, and we decided to try to raise donations for the foundation,” Curran said. “There is such a discrepancy in funding for pediatric cancer, and we had to do something to make a change.”
According to the National Pediatric Cancer Foundation, only 4 percent of federal funding for cancer research is allocated to pediatric cancer.
Curran credited Ruchalski, along with the support of local elected offi -
cials, including Beach, Rockville Centre Mayor Francis X. Murray, East Rockaway Mayor Gordon J. Fox and Malverne Mayor Timothy Sullivan, for making the Heart of Gold Gala possible.
“Everyone’s been phenomenal, and there’s been so much work put into hosting this gala,” Curran said.
Beach echoed those sentiments, emphasizing the need for government support in pediatric cancer research.
“We want to ensure that pediatric cancer receives the help and funding it deserves,” Beach said.
Throughout September, the Mary Ruchalski Foundation sells gold bows and luminarias to further its fundraising efforts, along with hosting raffles and a 50/50 at the gala.
With sponsor support, the Heart of Gold Gala continues to further the foundation’s mission of funding lifesaving pediatric cancer research.
Teen girl rescued from Hendrickson Park Pond
Diving into Hendrickson Park Pond, Lynbrook Police Department officer Christopher Lopez rescued a teenage girl on Sept 26.
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Lopez and fellow Lynbrook officer Joshua Crowley were monitoring Lynbrook’s radio and neighboring areas received notice of a missing child in the area when on patrol from Nassau Police Department’s Fifth Precinct.
Responding quickly, the officers arrived on the scene and found the missing teen in the Valley Stream pond and unwilling to get out. Lopez, along with two Valley Stream firefighters — Ex-captains William Grace and Andrew Mihalick — dove in and swam to the girl and brought the teen to shore. She was not identified. Nassau police were on the scene as well.
“I’m just thankful the kid is safe,” Crowley said.
Lopez distinguished himself earlier this year by apprehending a suspect wielding a firearm, according to a May 4
post on the Lynbrook department’s Instagram page.
“Those two are exemplary cops,” Lynbrook Police Chief Brian Paladino said. “They went above and beyond, but that’s what I expect of them.”
The child was taken to a local hospital for evaluation by police ambulance and released later that Friday night. Valley Stream Assistant Chief Michael Colucci oversaw the rescue.
“We have a very good relationship with Lynbrook P.D., so we’re glad they helped,” Colucci said. “Valley Stream has a lot of water. Our guys are well trained for anything that could come.”
He had advice for the untrained.
“Water is no joke,” Colucci said, “better to stand back and observe.”
For those community members who have that urge to help, he them to look into joining their local first responder volunteer organizations.
— Joseph D’Allesandro
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east rockaway High School students, from far left, tristen Latchman, andres mezquita, Sarah Lonergan, april macias-freire, isabella deCunzo and mia monteleone have been singled out by the College Board’s national recognition program.
Students are first in their families to go to college
school early to move here, so my family really got big on education,” Mezquita said. “I plan on majoring in business, possibly marketing, and maybe a minor in psychology.”
“My parents were very, very proud of me,” he added of the programs’ recognition. “My mom always wanted a good education for me and my brother, and so for me to get this award means a lot to her.”
Latchman’s family came from Trinidad and Tobago, Caribbean islands off
the coast of Venezuela.
“My dad had only middle school education, and my mom had high school,” Latchman said. “My dad didn’t really know about any of this going on, so when we told him, he was really proud.”
The students’ success was made possible by the rigorous environment at the high school, John Madden, director of school counseling, said.
“We’re one of the smallest schools in Nassau County — we have less than 100 kids in 12th grade,” Madden said. “To
have five members of the senior class get this honor is definitely notable.”
The high school encourages students to aim high by offering a variety of Advanced Placement courses, in which they do college-level work instead of standard curriculum, giving them a head start on their post-high-school careers.
“Our school really is a supportive, safe environment for the students,” Madden said. “I think results like this show that we’ve been able to cultivate a culture where our students are able to
thrive and really develop themselves, socially and academically, and really mature into young adults.”
“The school has worked for years to really increase its college- and careerreadiness offerings,” he added. “We’ve expanded AP course offerings, dualenrollment courses, and the students have really been responding well to those opportunities.”
“I think this achievement by the six students, and the five seniors in particular,” Madden said, “is evidence of that.”
ANTHONY GRIMALDI
East Rockaway Senior Football
A RETURNING ALL-COUNTY selection, Grimaldi helped get the Rocks into the win column for the first time in 2024 on Sept. 21. He got East Rockaway’s 52-14 victory over Lawrence started with an 85-yard kickoff return for a touchddown and went on to make four more trips into the end zone. He had touchdown runs covering 45, 18, 75 and 1 yards and racked up 190 yards on the ground on 11 carries. He also leads the defense at linebacker.
GAMES TO WATCH
Friday, Oct. 4
Football: Seaford at Malverne
Saturday, Oct. 5
Boys Soccer: Academy Charter at Uniondale
Boys Soccer: Seaford at Lawrence 10 a.m.
Girls Soccer: Clarke at V.S. South 10 a.m.
Girls Soccer: Uniondale at Malv/East Rockaway 10 a.m.
Girls Soccer: Elmont at Freeport 10 a.m.
Boys Soccer: Bellport at Kennedy 10 a.m.
Football: Mepham at Carey
Football: New Hyde Park at Baldwin
Girls Volleyball: Plainedge at Elmont 11:45 a.m.
Girls Soccer: Lawrence at V.S. North 12:30 p.m.
Boys Soccer: V.S. Central at Mepham 2 p.m.
Football: MacArthur at Calhoun 2 p.m.
Football: Plainedge at North Shore 2 p.m.
Football: Oyster Bay at West Hempstead 2:30 p.m.
Football: Floral Park at Lynbrook 3 p.m.
Football: Oceanside at Freeport 3 p.m.
Football: Hempstead at Uniondale 3 p.m.
Football: Massapequa at East Meadow 3 p.m.
Football: Long Beach at Glen Cove 6:30 p.m.
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Defense leads Elmont over Lynbrook
By TONY BELLISSIMO tbellissimo@liherald.com
A driving rainstorm forced Elmont’s Homecoming halftime festivities inside the gymnasium last Saturday and greatly affected its offense as well as visiting Lynbrook’s, but two dynamic defensive plays by senior Nassir Edwards proved the difference for the Spartans.
Edwards returned a fumble 40 yards for a touchdown in the second quarter and brought back an interception 70 yards for a momentum-changing touchdown early in the fourth to propel Elmont to an 18-7 victory in a soggy Nassau Conference III game.
“Both felt great, kind of like dunking on someone in basketball,” said Edwards, who helped lead Elmont’s hoops team to county and Long Island championships as a junior. “The fumble was just one of those things when I saw the ball on the ground, I knew I had to make a play,” he added. “The interception I owe a lot to my coaches and film breakdown.”
The Spartans, who upped their record to 3-0, also got a pair of interceptions from senior Khalil Muhammad, a 21-yard touchdown reception from senior Arlyn Brown, and a stellar effort from senior interior lineman Julius Sylvain. Muhammad and Brown are also basketball standouts.
“Everyone talked about us going from Conference II to III, but this is a black-andblue conference,” Elmont head coach Tom Innes said. “Every week is a battle and every win you can get is important. Conditions made it tough for both teams today, but our defense came up huge.”
The Owls fell to 2-2 following back-toback home wins over defending county champion South Side and Mineola. Senior Joseph McHale scored their lone touchdown in the third quarter on a 6-yard run and the defense limited the Spartans to just 31 total yards and two first downs.
“They really didn’t gain too many yards, our defense played a great game and the kids played hard for four quarters,” Lynbrook head coach Dave Yaker said. “Came down to allowing two monster plays with our offense on the field. You’re not going to beat a good team like Elmont
with those kind of mistakes. We’re a young offense that’s not there yet.”
It was scoreless until Brown took a dump pass from junior quarterback Aiden Barnes late in the first quarter and avoided some tackles along the home sideline en route to the end zone for a 6-0 lead.
Edwards’ fumble return two minutes into the second quarter made it 12-0 at halftime.
“We have our share of incredible athletes and Nassir is one of them,” Innes said. “We needed every bit of those plays today.”
The Owls thwarted another Spartans’
drive late in the first half thanks to senior Brian Gilmartin’s interception and carried that momentum into the second half and had it all before Edwards’ pick 6. Lynbrook started the fourth quarter at the Elmont 42 and was poised to take its first lead when Edwards jumped a wheel route and was off to the races.
“We feel like we have a great team,” Edwards said. “We’re bought in and taking it week by week.”
Elmont hosts Floral Park next on Saturday at 3 p.m. The Owls have a 10-day break before facing Kennedy Oct. 10 at Marion Street Elementary at 4:30 p.m.
Ari Brown running for 2nd Assembly term
By PARKER SCHUG pschug@liherald.com
As he campaigns for re-election to the 20th District seat in the State Assembly, Ari Brown aims to tackle antisemitism, crime and other community issues while leveraging his experience in local governance, construction and business operations.
This will be Brown’s third election for the Assembly seat — a two-year term. The first was a special election in 2022, to fill the vacancy left by Melissa “Missy” Miller when she joined the Town of Hempstead board. Tina Posterli, of Long Beach, is running against Brown.
Brown, a construction business owner and Franklin Square native, moved to Cedarhurst 33 years ago, and is now deputy mayor and a 25-year village board member.
Brown is a part of the Assembly’s state education and small business committees, as well as a ranking member of the local governments committee.
“I think the reason why they put me so quickly as the ranking member for local governments, I run a very tight ship in Cedarhurst,” Brown, a father of seven, said.
Former Cedarhurst Mayor Andrew Parise asked Brown to run the business improvement district in Cedarhurst, before Brown was elected to the village board, he said, nearly 30 years ago. At the time, the district had a vacancy rate
of 20 percent vacancies, and now it’s down to zero, Brown added.
As the first Orthodox Jewish Republican assemblyman, Brown said he plans to keep combating antisemitism, which is at the forefront of his platform, with six specific bills, he introduced.
One bill would strip scholarships from students who engage in antisemitic acts, and another would mandate student sensitivity training related to antisemitism. Brown also created a bill to update the definition of the practice of antisemitism to protect its victims, he said.
“A lot of them have something to do with antisemitism, but they all defend good and decent people,” he said.
With still another bill, Brown said he hoped to designate certain offenses against law enforcement as hate crimes.
“Let’s say you’re at some rally,” he said. “They’re coming out against the Jewish people. Police defend the Jewish people. They go after the cops just for defending innocent protesters.”
Another big-ticket item for Brown is doing away with cashless bail, he said, adding it’s something that could be putting stores, such as CVS, Walgreens and Rite Aid, out of business.
“I don’t care if you steal a piece of gum — throw them in jail, let them have their day in court, it’s a crime,” Brown said.
His stance is modeled after former New York City Mayor Rudy Giuliani’s popularization of the “broken win -
dows” theory to crack down on minor crime, creating a sense of lawfulness.
“Unless we’re going to go after every single criminal, why should there be cashless bail?” Brown said. “I don’t even understand, ‘Oh people can’t afford it.’
Don’t commit the crime, I mean, that’s all.”
Brown also plans to work to reverse the regressive commuter tax, or congestion pricing.
“If people can’t afford to go to Manhattan, gas prices are so high and now you have this other layer, 20 to 30 dollars extra — that’s not going to happen,” Brown said, citing costs as just another
deterrent from visiting the city. When it comes to projects involving offshore wind, Brown said he has not been entirely against the idea, but has met with the leaders of these potential projects that would impact his constituents to propose alternative paths of travel for transmission lines. He has suggested less dense, non-residential areas for them, but to no avail, he said.
Brown added that the electromagnetic fields associated with offshore wind developments could damage infrastructure and cause cancer.
He said he believes he’s the most suited to return to his Assembly seat, because “I’m a Long Islander first and foremost.”
Based on Brown’s half-Italian, halfJewish background, diverse wealth of connections and decades of construction in the communities he represents, he’s well versed in the demands of his constituents, he said.
“I’m very well aware what’s needed,” he said.
District 20 includes the villages and hamlets of Cedarhurst, East Rockaway, Hewlett, Inwood, Island Park, Lawrence, Oceanside, Woodmere and the barrier island from Atlantic Beach to Point Lookout.
Tina Posterli aims to transform District 20
By PARKER SCHUG pschug@liherald.com
Long Beach’s Tina Posterli is preparing to shake up the political landscape as she vies for the District 20 Assembly seat, drawing on her experience in local governance.
“I developed my voice and my passion for this work, really, since I was in my 20s,” Posterli said, citing her first jobs in public policy and communications for healthcare and water.
Her previous positions on the Long Beach City Council and as president of the Long Beach Board of Education have prepared her for the Assembly, she said.
“These experiences really shaped me and showed me the real legislative priorities that our communities need,” Posterli said. “I’m dedicated to securing funding for education to ensure all our students get quality education and keep our property taxes from spiking, and securing funding for much-needed resources that will help with flood abatement and infrastructure to protect our communities against flooding and sea level rise.”
While on the City Council, Posterli said she helped to secure over $200 million to close the sewage treatment plant that was discharging millions of gal -
lons of effluent into Reynolds Channel. The funds were also used to improve Long Beach’s water treatment plant and repave 60 of the city’s roads.
Posterli said she also had a part in bringing the North Shore Critical Infrastructure Project, which added bulkheads, water pumps and flood mitigation, to fruition, after not being pushed through for decades.
One of her major agenda items, if elected to the Assembly seat, would be to again secure funds for flood mitigation and combating sea level rise, she said.
Another of her accomplishments, she said, was navigating the Long Beach district through Covid-19.
“I was president of the school board during the pandemic, so (I handled) crises, working across agencies — state, federal — to obtain funding to work within intergovernmental to keep our schools open and functioning,” Posterli said.
In the Assembly, she plans to advocate to change the school foundation aid formula to encapsulate many variables to ensure that Long Beach, Oceanside and other communities receive their “fair share,” of the primary state funding for schools, Posterli said.
She also hopes to tackle antisemitism in schools, by passing bipartisan
legislation, and advocating for education to start as young as possible in academics.
Another item at the forefront of Posterli’s campaign is reproductive rights, she said. She was once the assistant vice president of governmental affairs and advocacy for a Planned Parenthood affiliate.
“We have Proposition One that’s going to be the Equal Rights Amendment, and it’s on the back of the ballot, and it is going to help enshrine things like abortion into our state’s Constitution, and that’s really important at a time when political whims across the country take away those rights in one fell swoop,” she said.
Despite having the Reproductive Health Act in the state, which protects abortion rights, the proposition would ensure that reproductive rights are solidified, in case of an extremist legislator or a governor looking to take them away, Posterli said.
In terms of offshore wind, and a project she voted down during her time on the City Council, Posterli said she understands the need for renewable energy, but not cables that would run through densely populated communities. She said community input on a route for such a project is necessary.
Her track record of connections with
diverse stakeholders is her strong suit in representing the communities she would serve, she said.
“I’ve driven action toward common goals and been able to get people on the same page, and I do that all the time in all of my positions,” Posterli said.
Making friends during ‘Start With Hello Week’
Taking a stand against social isolation and aiming to promote unity, Lynbrook’s North and South middle schools and Marion Street, Waverly Park and West End elementary schools took part in “Start With Hello Week” from Sept. 16 to 20.
Students participated in activities such as wearing Hello stickers to meet new faces in their school building, spreading positive messages through “Positive Note Tuesday” and taking part in a “Welcome Wednesday” photo booth to connect with new peers.
At both schools, the principals and
social workers visited all sixth grade classes with a read aloud of the book “Invisible Boy” by Trudy Ludwig, beginning a discussion about social awareness, kindness and the importance of reaching out.
Each year, thousands of schools and youth organizations nationwide participate in the Sandy Hook Foundation’s Start With Hello Week. The week is a national call to action dedicated to making new social connections and creating a sense of belonging among youth. The goal is to help students understand the signs of social isolation and feel encouraged to reach out with a simple hello.
The students displayed and celebrated themes of empathy and unity. Random acts of kindness helped spread positivity, while students learned to say hello in other languages. The children also invited someone new to
play during recess and shared positive notes with teachers, friends and family members.
The kids also wore vibrant colors and shirts with positive messages to brighten
others’ days. Elementary school students signed Promise Pledges, signaling their commitment to foster a culture of inclusivity and empathy.
—
Jeffrey Bessen
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Soggy but successful East Rockaway homecoming
It was a soggy Saturday that saw the East Rockaway Homecoming Parade canceled because of the wet weather, but the football show went on.
It was a good day on the gridiron for the home team as the Rocks defeated Carle Place 36-19 to up their record to 2-1.
— Jeffrey Bessen
NUMC opens its doors to the community
By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com
Nassau University Medical Center held its first Open House, inviting members of the community to come out and get an inside look at how the hospital is delivering high-quality health care to Nassau County residents.
“Whether you’re a patient, family member, or just curious about our services, this event offer a welcoming environment to explore and connect with NUMC’s team,” the hospital said.
Attendees enjoyed a tour of NUMC’s state-of-the-art facilities, where they met our dedicated health care professionals and learned about our comprehensive health care services and specialty clinics. They took advantage of free health screenings and flu shots, ensuring access to vital care. Guests discovered recent improvements, including extended visitation hours, revamped patient care areas, and a variety of new offerings designed to enhance their experience. Many participated in Narcan training and obtained educational materials to empower themselves and others. The event concluded with refreshments, allowing everyone to connect with the community in a welcoming atmosphere.
The Open House came just a week after the hospital opened its new Outreach Center — the first of its kind at
NUMC showed off its first Care-a-Van, which will enhance access to care for everyone. In front of the van are Sarah
Abraham, Shannon Costello, Dr. Grace Ting, Megan Ryan, Saiful Md Islam, Vincent Pinkney, Sasy Salomon and Guillermo
NUMC. It will run a food pantry, provide assistance for Medicaid enrollment, offer career development initiatives, prescription education, among many other programs and services. The new center will also provide services to those impacted by the criminal justice system, assisting them in making a smooth transition back into society.
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NUMC is the only public hospital on Long Island, which means it serves all patients — regardless of their ability to pay.
“I am proud to host our first Open House at (the) Nassau Health Care Corporation, showcasing over 25 services, Narcan trainings, flu shots, health screenings, the debut of our first care-a-
van,” Megan Ryan, the interim chief executive and president at NUMC said at the event. “We are grateful to the Children’s Music Orchestra for playing tonight — another great event for our community, highlighting our great work and staff.”
Additional reporting by Steve Sachs
OPEN HOUSE
Sunday, November 17 at 1 PM
Voting primer: A guide to making sure you’re counted
By Anjolique Powell Correspondent
With Election Day, Nov. 5, as well as early voting, Oct. 26 to Nov. 3, rapidly approaching, this guide offers essential information about voting in Nassau and Suffolk counties as well as details on voter eligibility, registration, voting procedures, and absentee voting.
Information for this guide was collected through the League of Women Voters of Nassau County and the Nassau and Suffolk County boards of elections.
Am I eligible to vote?
In order to be eligible to vote, you must:
■ Be a United States citizen.
■ Be at least 18 years old (you can pre-register at 16 or 17).
■ Live in the county, city, or village for at least 30 days before an election.
■ Not be incarcerated for a felony conviction
■ Not claim the right to vote elsewhere.
How do you vote in the general election?
In order to vote in a general election in the U.S., you must be registered before Election Day. To find your polling place in Nassau, go to NassauCountyNy. gov/566/Board-of-Elections. In Suffolk, SuffolkCountyNy.gov/Departments/BOE.
Where/how do I register?
You can register to vote by:
■ Filling out a voter registration form found on either county’s Board of Elections website or the New York State Board of Elections website (at least 25 days before the election)
■ Registering in person at some public agencies.
■ Visiting the Nassau County Board of Elections from Monday to Friday between 9 a.m. and 4 p.m. You’ll receive a confirmation card within two to six weeks. If you don’t receive it, call (516) 571-2411 to check on your application.
There are three ways for voters to cast a ballot in this year’s elections:
■ In person, during early voting, at any one of the 28 early voting locations or on Election Day at your designated polling place.
■ By mail – By early mail ballot or by absentee ballot. To request a ballot, go to Eections.Ny.Gov/request-ballot.
■ For military and oversees voting, go to Elections. Ny.Gov/military-and-overseas-federal-voting.
Do I need to register every year?
No, you’re permanently registered once you’ve registered. However, you need to submit a new application if your name, address, or party changes. If you move, notify the County Board of Elections and re-register.
Should I register with one political party?
You are not obligated to join a political party, however, according to the League of Women’s Voters, “Declaring a party allows you to vote in that party’s primary election, which in New York State is open only to party members.” Enrolled party members can also sign nomination petitions. It’s also important to mention that registering with a party doesn’t mean you have to vote for that party’s candidates. You’re always free to vote for any candidate in general elections.
What is early voting?
Early voting allows people to cast their ballots before Election Day. Early voting also allows voters to go to locations that are closer, like public libraries, public buildings, or community centers. However,
these locations will be different from your assigned Election Day polling place.
When and where does early voting take place?
Hours are:
■ Most days: 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.
■ Oct. 28: 7 a.m. to 6 p.m.
■ Oct. 29 and 30: 10 a.m. to 7 p.m.
Check each county’s Board of Elections website for specific locations or location changes.
How do I know where to vote on Election Day?
In order to know where to vote you must look up your polling place, which can be found by entering your county, first and last name, date of birth, and zip code on the New York State Poll Site Search website. This site also tracks voter registration and absentee ballots.
Linda Devin-Sheehan, a board member of the Suffolk League of Women Voters, at the voter registration drive on the Stony Brook University campus on Sept. 11.
Can I still vote if I won’t be able to go to a polling place?
Yes, you can vote by absentee ballot if you’re unable to vote in person due to:
■ Not being in the county or New York City on Election Day
■ Temporary or permanent illness or physical disability
■ Primary care duties for ill or physically disabled individuals
■ Being a patient or inmate in a Veterans’ Administration Hospital
■ Detention in jail/prison (awaiting trial, grand jury action, or serving time for a non-felony conviction).
What is an absentee ballot?
An absentee ballot allows you to cast your vote if you can’t make it to your polling place on Election Day. It’s the same ballot you would receive if you voted in person. However, you can fill it out at home and mail it back or drop it off at the County Board of Elections or at an early polling place.
How do I request an absentee ballot?
To request an absentee ballot you can:
■ Download and fill out the Absentee Ballot Application from the New York State Board of Elections website.
■ Send a letter by mail to: Nassau County Board of Elections at P.O. Box 9002, Mineola, NY 11501 or Suffolk County Board of Elections PO Box 700, Yaphank, NY 11980.
■ In the letter, you must include:
■ Your name and date of birth.
■ The address where you are registered.
■ The reason for the request.
Remember, the Nassau County Board of Elections will take absentee ballots up to 10 days before the election. Under normal circumstances, the Suffolk County Board of Elections will send out ballots between one and three days after receiving an application.
Anjolique Powell is a reporter with The SBU Media Group, part of Stony Brook University’s School of Communication and Journalism Working Newsroom program for students and local media.
Many attend job fair seeking new opportunities
By MohaMMad Rafiq mrafiq@liherald.com
The Town of Hempstead job fair at the Freeport Recreation Center on Sept. 19 was bustling with activity, as nearly 2,000 job seekers packed the venue in search of new employment opportunities.
Hosted by Town Supervisor Don Clavin, Freeport Mayor Robert Kennedy and the Village of Freeport, the event featured close to 100 employers with jobs in a wide range of industries, including civil service, construction, health care, banking, emergency services, solar energy and publishing.
HempsteadWorks, part of the town’s Department of Occupational Resources, which has been organizing job fairs since 2021, has seen significant growth in attendance, with this year’s turnout rivaling an event last March. The fair was wellorganized, with a time slot-based registration system to cut down on wait times — a system that has proven effective at previous events. Job seekers without time slots were still welcome to attend, and in the afternoon, the line of applicants stretched down the sidewalk outside the building.
For many attendees, the fair offered a rare chance to meet employers face to face, something that is becoming less common in today’s largely online jobsearch environment.
“I feel like it gives you a better chance of getting the job,” Steven Kaegen, a
23-year-old from East Meadow, said. Kaegen came to the fair looking for opportunities in the U.S. Postal Service and the heating, ventilation and air conditioning industry, and he appreciated the personal interaction. “I don’t like sitting behind a desk or working with other people too much,” he added, noting that some of the “hands-on” jobs at the fair were more appealing to him.
Barbara Florence, representing Harbor Child Care, shared the sentiment that events like this one connect job seekers and employers in ways that the online application process simply can’t. Harbor Child Care, a program that supports early-childhood education, has taken part in the Hempstead job fair for the past five years.
Florence described it as an opportunity to make meaningful connections with potential hires, many of whom have gone on to work for the organization. “We receive a lot of resumes to follow up and get people from job fairs,” she said. “It’s great to be able to support the community, so we’re happy to be here.”
One of the main attractions of the fair was the diversity of opportunities that were available. Attendees could explore careers ranging from public safety positions with the Nassau County Police Department to educational roles with Soccer Shots, which hires coaches to teach children the fundamentals of soccer.
Herman Franco, a representative of
Soccer Shots, said the organization is always looking for enthusiastic applicants who enjoy working with children. “We teach kids soccer from the ages of 2 to 8,
so we’re always looking for coaches that are very good with kids, patient and outgoing,” Franco explained.
The fair gave Jose Melendez a chance to explore government-related jobs. “I was looking more government-wise, like NYPD or Nassau County P.D.,” the 18-year-old Hempstead resident said.
Melendez said he appreciated the ease of attending the fair, noting that it was better than applying online. “You just come in person and talk to people,” he said, adding that he received valuable advice about the NCPD’s hiring process.
Fern Summer, who works with Long Island Cares’ veterans program, was on hand not only to promote job opportunities, but also to share information about support services. “I work with veterans, but most of the people who come through are civilians,” Summer said. “We collect information and give out information, so it’s whatever they want.”
The job fair has become an essential part of many job seekers’ search for employment. Nene Alameda, a business representative for HempsteadWorks, previously noted that the rapid growth of the event reflects the increasing need for such opportunities, particularly as pandemicrelated financial assistance dwindles and more people enter the job market.
Despite the challenges, Alameda remains optimistic about the job market. “For every job seeker that’s out there, there (are) two positions,” she said.
ANNIVERSARY
Celebrating 10 years of serving our community as The Safe Center!
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 24, 2024
Nassau County Museum of Art in Roslyn, NY
INDIVIDUAL TICKETS COST $250 SPONSORSHIPS AND TICKET PACKAGES AVAILABLE!
If you are unable to join us, please consider making a donation in honor of our 10th Anniversary!
Scan QR code, visit TSCLIGala.org, or call 516.465.4774 to donate or purchase tickets.
STEPPING OUT
Mandy Patinkin talks
‘The Princess Bride’
A gourd-geous display:
Journey with jack-o’-lanterns
Spectacular pumpkins light up the night for the Great Jack
O’ Lantern Blaze at Old Bethpage Village Restoration.
By Danielle Schwab
As Halloween approaches, jack-o’-lanterns are making their appearance throughout our neighborhoods with their unique carvings once again. While we think of it as fall fun, in fact pumpkin carving dates back centuries as a way to ward off evil spirits with their spooky faces.
The beloved tradition gets a unique twist at the Great Jack O’ Lantern Blaze, opening tomorrow at Old Bethpage Village Restoration. See pumpkins transformed into magnificent jack-o’lantern creations, illuminating a trail through the historic restored village for all to admire.
It all began in the Hudson Valley — at Van Cortlandt Manor in Croton-on-Hudson 19 years ago — conceived by the Westchester County cultural organization Historic Hudson Valley.
“About 20 years ago, we hit upon this idea of a display of jack-o’-lanterns, and we weren’t sure how people would respond to it. It was hugely popular. And so it has just expanded in a big way since then,” says Rob Schweitzer, Historic Hudson Valley’s vice president of communications and commerce.
• Friday through Sunday, Oct. 4-Nov. 3.
• Adult tickets start at $32; $10 children (ages 3-17)
• With limited capacity, entry is available only through advance online purchase of timed tickets or FLEX anytime tickets; no tickets are sold at the venue
• Purchase tickets at pumpkinblaze.org
Certainly a must-see during the season, the pumpkin trail is now in its fifth year on Long Island, with over 30 different installations. Over 7,000 jack-o’-lanterns carved by local artisans resulting in a larger-than-life themed pumpkin showcase — a mix of real and carvable foam — spanning a half-mile loop, enhanced with synchronized lighting and an original soundtrack for a fully immersive experience.
• Old Bethpage Village Restoration, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage
“We have a team, 10 to 12 of us, that work together to make sure that we’re keeping the same consistency, the same quality, throughout the carvings,” Carol Hough, lead pumpkin carver, says.
Her team carves each week, swapping out old pumpkins with fresh ones. Carvers are creative with their tools to accommodate the high volume of pumpkins, using sheetrock knives and ice cream spades to get the job done, according to Hough.
Long Island history and culture are incorporated into the Blaze experience. Guests are welcomed by a 12-foot tall retro-style “Greetings from a Long Island” postcard made up of individually carved jack-o’-lanterns.
“What we like to do is really focus on the heritage of the location,” Schweitzer says.
Ever wonder what your favorite Long Island celebrity looked like as a pumpkin? The Blaze is the place to check out some pumpkin-face renderings of local personalities. Icons such as Billy Joel, Joan Jett, Jerry Seinfeld and Natalie Portman are on display.
“We have a Long Island Hall of Fame. These are large portraits, rendered in jack-o’-lanterns , of folks from Long Island that have done great things,” Schweitzer explains.
Among the locally themed installations, a functioning lighthouse replica of the Montauk Point Lighthouse, complete with a flashing beacon to light the way, is sure to attract attention. With history as a focus, it comes to no surprise that the Blaze would find its way to the historic village.
“We’ve looked at a lot of sites over the years and a lot of them have some good characteristics, but don’t have everything. Old Bethpage Village Restoration really had
everything,” Schweitzer says.
Of course, there are plenty of what one would consider Halloween staples that celebrate the spirit of the season, such as a 25-foot giant spider web and the Day of the Dead installation.
Hough is particularly fond of the Day of the Dead jack-o’-lantern tribute, among the new displays along this year’s trail.
“There are some skeletons and some sugar skulls. It’s really beautiful. I absolutely love it,” Hough says.
Other showstoppers include a thrilling pumpkin circus, a glowing Statue of Liberty, a pumpkin-filled Ferris wheel, and a planetarium. Plus, see a tribute to First Responders. This display involves carved jack-o’-lanterns depicting a firefighter heroically putting out a flame, honoring the bravery and dedication of our local heroes.
“The concept for that really came out of the early period of the pandemic, there was a lot of focus on First Responders and our healthcare workers and those on the front lines of dealing with the pandemic. It’s something that we’ve continued to celebrate,” says Schweitzer.
There’s so more to the trail than just carvings. Lighting and sound are integral to the Blaze experience. Each installation is depicted with an original score to create the perfect ambience.
Volunteers from local scout troops and high school honor societies are also involved, assisting in lighting the lanterns that line the path.
Also new this year, the Blaze is offering custom-made pumpkins to order. Surprise a special someone with a custom-carved pumpkin, displayed at the new Celebration Arch. Reservations are limited and must be made seven days in advance.
So carve out some time, there’s a pumpkin creation for everyone at the Blaze.
As Schweitzer says: “It’s really an event you can just go and relax and smile at. It genuinely is something that appeals to all ages.”
For an extra fall treat, stop by the Café Blaze for some yummy cider donuts and pumpkin beer. And check out the nightly pumpkin carving. It may inspire you to do create you own special seasonal décor at home.
Photos courtesy Historic Hudson Valley Thousands of hand-carved jack-o’-lanterns light up the night as the Halloween spirit is all a-glow, with Old Bethpage Village’s 19th century buildings and historic barns as a backdrop.
One of Mandy Patinkin’s memorable roles — certainly one that lives on as beloved piece of pop culture — is his turn in the 1987 fantasy “The Princess Bride.” He played a man bent on revenge (“Hello, my name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die!”). It performed only so-so at the box office back then, but it’s come to be one of the most beloved movies of the 1980s. Relive all the fun — and Patinkin’s masterful portrayal of the Spanish swordsman — when the actor pops by Tilles Center for a special film screening, followed by a 45-minute conversation. His son Gideon Grody-Patinkin — who has contributed to the family legacy since he began filming his father and mother, actress-writer Kathryn Grody, during the pandemic and posting their interactions on TikTok — moderates.
Saturday, Oct. 5, 7 p.m. Tickets start at $35. Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, 720 Northern Blvd. Brookville. Tickets available at tillescenter.org.
Everclear
Everclear, one of the leading alternative rock bands to emerge from the ‘90s, led by vocalist-guitarist-founder Art Alexakis, is back on the road. The band is joined by special guests Marcy Playground and Jimmie’s Chicken Shack. The setlist for this tour includes all the hits from their extraordinary three decades-long catalog, spotlighting tracks off their album “Songs From An American Movie Vol. One,” to be released on vinyl later this year for the first time via Intervention Records. Since forming in 1992, Everclear has enjoyed a lengthy career by any measure, beginning with their major-label debut, 1995’s platinumselling album “Sparkle and Fade,” and its massive chart-topping hit “Santa Monica,” Everclear was soon a household name and catapulted into the masses.
Sunday, Oct. 6, 7 p.m. $70.50, $50.50, $30.50, $25.50. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. Tickets available at ticketmaster.com or paramountny. com.
THE Your Neighborhood
Tom Colicchio on ‘why he cooks’
Get an unprecedented look insights into the life of America’s top chef when Tom Colicchio brings his “Why I Cook” book tour to the Paramount stage, Saturday, oct. 12, 2 p.m. Part memoir-part cookbook, Colicchio’s newest book shares an exclusive look inside the mind and kitchen of the beloved restaurateur multipleJames Beard and Emmy Award-winning chef, restaurateur, and television personality. Colicchio cooked his first recipe at 13-years-old — a stuffed eggplant from an issue of Cuisine magazine that he picked up out of boredom — and it changed his life. Through 10 memoir chapters and 60 recipes, “Why I Cook” shares Tom’s personal reflections of more than 40 years behind the stove. From pre-dawn fishing excursions with his grandfather to running the flat-top at the snack shack of the local swim club, to finding his way as a young chef in New York City, Tom chronicles the dishes and memories that have shaped him as a person and chef.
Through these meaningful dishes, gorgeous recipe shots, and images from Tom’s childhood, “Why I Cook” is the most personal look into Tom’s life yet. He recounts the extraordinary personal journey that brought him from his working-class Italian background in Elizabeth, N.J., to the award-winning kitchens of New York City’s best restaurants, to the set of “Top Chef” and the stage of the Emmy Awards, among his many endeavors. $95, $65, $54, $35. The Paramount, 370 New York Ave., Huntington. Tickets available at ticketmaster.com or paramountny.com.
Chi Gong
Participate in Chi Gong with Marianna Farina, on Thursdays, oct. 10, 31 and Nov. 7, 14, and 21, 10:30-11:30 a.m., at Lynbrook Public Library. Chi Gong is an ancient Chinese meditative practice, which uses slow, graceful movements and breathing techniques to enhance the immune system, promote relaxation, and reestablish balance and harmony of the mind, body and spirit. 56 Eldert St. Lynbrook. Visit lynbrooklibrary.org for more.
Annual Rabies Clinic & Pet Adoption Fair
Looking to adopt a furry friend or have your companion vaccinated? Town of Hempstead residents may have their dogs and cats vaccinated against rabies at no cost, Saturday, oct 5., 10 a.m.-4 p.m. All dogs must have a current dog license, or you will need to purchase a new license ($10 for spay/neutered dogs; $18 for non-spayed/non-neutered dogs). The Town Clerk’s Office staff will be on-site to issue licenses. If applicable, owners must have a spay/neuter certificate. No preregistration is required.
All dogs must be on leashes; cats must be in pet carriers. Also loving dogs and cats housed at the shelter are waiting for their forever home. All adoption fees and will be including age-appropriate vaccinations, spaying/neutering, and microchipping with every adoption. 3320 Beltagh Ave., Wantagh. Call the shelter at (516) 785-5220, ext. 4613 for information.
Storybook
Stroll
Bring the kids to Old Westbury Gardens for another storybook adventure, Saturday, oct. 5, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Stroll the gardens and listen to Beth Ferry’s “The Scarecrow.” Later create a unique take home craft. The stroll starts at the Beech Tree (next to Westbury House), ending at the Thatched Cottage. For ages 3-5. Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. For information visit OldWestburyGardens.org or contact (516) 333-0048.
Hempstead House tour
Sands Point Preserve is the backdrop to explore the elegant Gold Coast home that’s the centerpiece of the estate, Wednesday, oct. 9, noon-1 p.m. Visit the grand rooms inside the massive 50,000-square-foot Tudor-style mansion, the former summer residence of Gilded Age financier Howard Gould and later Daniel and Florence Guggenheim. Tours are limited in size and tend to sell out. Arrive early to purchase tickets. $10. Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road. For information, visit SandsPointPreserveConservancy. org or call (516) 571-7901.
Spooky Fest is back
A Halloween experience not to be missed, Spooky Fest is an outdoor adventure perfect for families, whether you want to be scared — or prefer seasonal fun of the non-scary kind. Join in the fun at the Center for Science, Teaching and Learning, every Friday, Saturday and Sunday throughout October. Along the way in the updated and beautifully lit up Enchanted Walk you will see dinosaurs, aliens and friendly witches, costumed characters and more, including the Mystical Garden. Get your fortune told, make a craft and dance with the Halloween DJ, along with face painting and the Amazing Glow tent.
For those who want a scare, venture into the Haunted Woods, where zombies and dinosaurs hang out. Admission starts at $22. 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre. Visit CSTL.org for call (516) 7640045 for more information.
Bird walk
See some birds with the South Shore Audubon Society. All are welcome to join members for the next in its series of bird walks, at Point Lookout
Town Park, Sunday, Oct. 6, starting at 9 a.m. Meet in the southeast corner of the large parking lot on the south side of Point Lookout
Town Park and will walk east along the beach toward Jones Inlet. After the beach walk, everyone will return to the parking lot, and drive west on Lido Boulevard to Lido Beach Passive Nature Preserve to walk through the bay marsh. Walk leaders, other birders and nature enthusiasts are happy to share their knowledge and experience with you. Bring binoculars. To register, text your name and contact information to (516) 467-9498. No walk if rain. Text regarding questionable weather. For more information, visit SSAudubon. org.
Having an event?
Art explorations
Converse, collaborate and create at Family Saturdays at Nassau County Museum of Art. The drop-in program returns for a new season, Saturday, Oct. 5, 9, noon-3 p.m. Get inspired by the art and objects in the galleries and then join educators at the Manes Center to explore and discover different materials to create your own original artwork.
Kids and their adult partners connect while talking about and making art together. A new project is featured every week. $20 adult, $10 child. Registration required. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. Visit NassauMuseum.org for more information and to register or call (516) 484-9337.
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On exhibit
Nassau County Museum of Art ‘s latest exhibition
“Seeing Red: Renoir to Warhol,” reveals the many meanings, connotations, and associations of this powerful color in art. Evoking strong emotion, red can represent the human condition. Its myriad variations have come to signify authority as well as love, energy and beauty. Red warns us of peril and commands us to stop, but it can also indicate purity and good fortune. Red boldly represents political movements and religious identities. From the advent of our appreciation for this color in antiquity to its continued prominence in artistic and popular culture, this exhibition spans various world cultures through a range of media.
It features more than 70 artists, both established and emerging, ranging from the classical to the contemporary. American portraitists such as Gilbert Stuart imbued red in their stately paintings of prominent individuals to conjure authority. Robert Motherwell, Ad Reinhardt, and other major abstract painters displayed a deep fascination with red in their commanding compositions that evoke a sense of chromatic power. And, of course, Andy Warhol is known for his bold and imposing silkscreened portrait of Vladimir Lenin saturated in bright red to his signature Campbell’s Soup Cans. On view through Jan. 5. Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Dr., Roslyn Harbor. (516) 484-9337 or NassauMuseum.org.
Capital Fools
Washington, D.C.’s premier political satire group Capitol Fools bring their musical parody show to the Adelphi University stage, Wednesday, Oct. 9, 7 p.m. The Capitol Fools hold up a mirror to today’s crazy political culture, providing hilarious song parodies and reflections that continue to inspire laughter amid the contentious presidential election season. Former members of the Capitol Steps perform all their beloved bits, along with backward-talking spoonerisms, breakneck costume changes, over-the-top impressions and all-new song parodies reflecting today’s news headlines. $20. Adelphi University Performing Arts Center, 1 South Ave., Garden City. (516) 877-4000 or Adelphi.edu/ pac.
Gooden, residents combine for a winning walk
By JORDAN VALLONE jvallone@liherald.com
Community members in Nassau County laced up their walking shoes last weekend to join the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America for its annual Alzheimer’s Walk in the Park, held on Saturday, Sept. 28, from 9 a.m. to noon in Eisenhower Park. The event, filled with community spirit, saw New York baseball icon Dwight Gooden participating in the opening ceremonies, signing autographs, and taking photos with walkers.
The walk, held at Field 6 of Eisenhower Park, was a free event open to all, with participants encouraged to raise funds either individually or as part of a team. Funds raised through the walk will support AFA’s programs and services for families affected by Alzheimer’s disease and contribute to research for better treatments and a cure.
Gooden, a former Cy Young Award winner and World Series champion with the Mets and Yankees, served as the event’s honorary Alzheimer’s Ambassador.
“When I was invited to be an ambassador for this walk, I immediately said yes because I know about the impact that Alzheimer’s disease has on many families,” he said. “I’m grateful to have helped raise awareness and support families impacted by this disease.”
Participants who raised at least $100 had the opportunity to meet Gooden and receive an autographed baseball. Those who raised $250 or more enjoyed a professional photo opportunity with the baseball legend.
Sponsorship opportunities were also available for businesses and individuals who wanted to support the cause, contributing to the overall success of the event.
Alzheimer’s disease continues to be a pressing public health issue, with over 6.9 million Americans currently living with the disease — a number expected to more
The Nassau County community took part in the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America’s annual walk at Eisenhower Park on Sept. 28 — taking steps, and raising funds, for research into the deadly disease.
than double by 2060. In New York alone, approximately 410,000 residents, including an estimated 60,000 Long Islanders, are affected.
The funds raised from the walk will make a tremendous difference for families affected by Alzheimer’s and related dementias.
“The funds and awareness raised will make a tremen-
dous difference for families affected by Alzheimer’s disease and other dementia-related illnesses in their time of need,” Chuck Fuschillo, the foundation’s president and chief executive, said. “We are grateful to Dwight Gooden for serving as our honorary Alzheimer’s Ambassador for the event and invite everyone to help us strikeout Alzheimer’s.”
First-ever boy’s soccer game for junior high
The final score didn’t matter as much as that the East Rockaway Junior High boys’ soccer team played its inaugural game on Sept. 19.
Coached by Alex Weingarten, the squad showed determination to play hard, a lot of heart battling a more experienced opponent and team spirit despite the 7-0 less.
Along with the athletes’ parents, athletic director Gary Gregory, Superinten-
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dent James DeTommaso, and Junior/ Senior High School Principal Richard Schaffer were at the game to show their support.
The historic premiere is the beginning of an exciting new chapter for East Rockaway athletics, with everyone wanting to see the team grow and develop.
— Jeffrey Bessen
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NOTICE OF SALE SUPREME COURT COUNTY OF NASSAU WILMINGTON TRUST, NA, SUCCESSOR TRUSTEE TO CITIBANK, N.A., AS TRUSTEE F/B/O HOLDERS OF STRUCTURED ASSET
MORTGAGE INVESTMENTS II INC., BEAR STEARNS ALT-A TRUST 2007-3, MORTGAGE PASSTHROUGH CERTIFICATES, SERIES 2007-3, Plaintiff AGAINST SONIA F. GARNES AKA SONIA GARNES, ORLANDO FINDLAYTER
INDIVIDUALLY AND AS SURVIVING SPOUSE OF YVETTE FINDLAYTER, ET AL., Defendant(s)
Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale duly entered September 23, 2019, I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction at the North Side steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY 11501 on October 22, 2024 at 2:30PM, premises known as 67 Lawrence Avenue, Lynbrook, NY 11563. All that certain plot piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and
improvements erected, situate, lying and being in the Incorporated Village of Lynbrook, Town of Hempstead, County of Nassau and State of New York, Section 38, Block 54, Lot 219. Approximate amount of judgment $516,776.20 plus interest and costs. Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index #003213/2017. The aforementioned auction will be conducted in accordance with the NASSAU County COVID-19 mitigation protocols and as such all persons must comply with social distancing, wearing masks and screening practices in effect at the time of this foreclosure sale. If proper social distancing cannot be maintained or there are other health or safety concerns, then the court appointed referee will cancel the foreclosure auction. Foreclosure Auctions will be held “Rain or Shine”. George Esernio, Esq., Referee Gross Polowy, LLC 1775 Wehrle Drive Williamsville, NY 14221 17-000730 82244 148978
LEGAL NOTICE NOTICE OF SALE SUPREME COURT COUNTY OF NASSAU THE BANK OF NEW YORK MELLON FKA THE BANK OF NEW YORK AS TRUSTEE FOR THE CERTIFICATEHOLDERS OF THE CWABS, INC., ASSETBACKED CERTIFICATES, SERIES 2005-4, Plaintiff AGAINST NATASHA GAY SWAN, ET AL., Defendant(s) Pursuant to a Judgment of Foreclosure and Sale duly entered August 1, 2023, I, the undersigned Referee will sell at public auction at the North Side steps of the Nassau County Supreme Court, 100 Supreme Court Drive, Mineola, NY 11501 on October 29, 2024 at 2:00PM, premises known as 570 Broadway, Apt. 19B AKA 570 Broadway, Apt. 19B, Unit 116, Lynbrook, NY 11563. All that certain plot piece or parcel of land, with the buildings and improvements erected, situate, lying and being in the Incorporated Village of Lynbrook, Town of Hempstead, Nassau County, State of New York, Section 42, Block E, Lot 134.11/116.
Approximate amount of judgment $372,223.43 plus interest and costs. Premises will be sold subject to provisions of filed Judgment Index #611022/2018. The aforementioned auction will be conducted in accordance with the NASSAU County COVID-19 mitigation protocols and as such all persons must comply with social distancing, wearing masks and screening practices in effect at the time of this foreclosure sale. If proper social distancing cannot be maintained or there are other health or safety concerns, then the court appointed referee will cancel the foreclosure auction. Foreclosure Auctions will be held “Rain or Shine”. Ellen Durst, Esq., Referee Gross Polowy, LLC 1775 Wehrle Drive Williamsville, NY 14221 18-003883 82413 149122
East Rockaway Junior/Senior High School Principal Richard Schaffer, Superintendent James DeTommaso and athletic director Gary
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VALLe Y STR e AM DISTRICT #30 Immediate Position Available
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We have openings for teacher aides for the 2022/23 school year. 10-month positions available immediately, starting at $15.00/hr.
School Nurse, Part-Time
• Facilitate connections between families, students, and various community agencies and government offices to ensure families receive the support they need.
• Assist families and students in navigating social services and community resources, providing guidance and support throughout the process.
• Conduct outreach to our school community to ensure equitable access to services and resources.
• QUALIFICATIONS: As per Civil Service
• SALARY: $40,525 - $55,000
We have an opening for a P/T school nurse, 2 days/wk mostly Wed & Thurs. Pro-rated salary, approx. $240.00/day. RN cert. required.
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Q. We have a large deck that finally needs to be repaired, and some parts replaced. It is wood with some steel beams, and we wanted to do the boards that look like wood but are made from plastics and supposedly last longer. We looked at several brands and aren’t sure what is best, but it probably doesn’t matter now. The prices came in very high for the work, and each contractor we have spoken to said we were only going to save money if we use all wood, including the beams. The beams are steel, as we understand, since they extend farther without as many columns. The funny thing is that we were replacing the wood because it started rotting and twisting after 15 years, bad enough that we don’t feel comfortable using the deck — it’s on our second floor, which is why we want fewer columns, so we can continue to use the ground level as an outdoor dining space. What can you recommend that we do? The costs make it impossible to move forward, and we really want our deck back.
A. I like to quote the oil filter commercial we used to hear all the time: “You can pay me now or pay me later.” In this case, you can spend the money on the less-costly wood, and then spend more money on re-treating the wood and repairs. As for the steel beams being replaced, it should be understood that steel is more compact for its strength, and the equivalent ability to span longer distances with wood requires much more wood, and it will more than likely be taller, meaning the beams will extend lower.
The synthetic decking materials are a much better choice, and the ones that are recycled resinbased, without the wood component parts in their composition, are at the top of the list of low maintenance, deterioration and replacement that you have with wood mixtures and wood deck materials. I have seen the difference many times over the years, including the landing deck in my own yard.
I originally built it out of cedar, which was supposed to be resistant to insects and, if stained properly, would last a long time, or so I thought. After just four years, the wood posts and the properly stained decking had become distorted with warping, twisting and some end rotting. I replaced the materials with synthetic decking and rails, and after 24 years, it’s still in great condition.
This problem of not factoring in the cost of maintenance, accessibility and the increase in material costs over time has often led to much greater expense in the life of buildings. You have to question yourself as to which is more affordable, the continued maintenance or initial costs. Remember that the people you are speaking to will do either system, wood or synthetic, because for them it’s a current job that they will leave behind and that you have to live with. Good luck!
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America’s support of Israel is vital —
now more than ever
Last Oct. 7, Israel was plunged into a crisis that has demanded both our attention and our action. As a rabbi and a proud Zionist, I’ve traveled to Israel twice since that tragic day — once to volunteer, and once to witness the devastation firsthand.
The scale of loss is staggering.
Israel’s top priority must be the rescue and safe return of the hostages, who have endured unimaginable trauma, and Israel must do everything in its power to secure their release. This aligns with pikuach nefesh, the Jewish principle that preserving life overrides almost all other considerations. Still, the mission of rescuing the hostages cannot justify widespread destruction. Ensuring the safety of innocent people on all sides of this conflict is essential for Israel, not just strategically but morally.
America’s support for Israel, especially in this moment, must be resolute but also thoughtful. Historically, the U.S. has
The
Abeen Israel’s strongest ally, providing military, financial and diplomatic backing. That partnership has helped Israel withstand threats, grow as a nation and secure its future. But in this current conflict, American support should also reflect the shared values of democracy and human rights. While Israel defends itself, it must do so in a way that seeks to minimize harm to civilians. The U.S. can play a role in pushing for that balance.
Its fight for survival must not lead it down a path that betrays its core values.
The American Jewish community is wrestling with this tension. For decades, many American Jews have offered unconditional support for Israel, rooted in a deep connection to the land and the need for Jewish survival. But in recent years, there’s been a shift. Many, especially younger generations, are questioning Israel’s policies, particularly in relation to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. This doesn’t mean turning away from Israel, but rather engaging in more critical conversations about its actions, while still standing firmly against terrorism. We cannot ignore the growing divide within the American Jewish community, where progressive voices are demanding
that Israel adhere to the same human rights values they champion in other contexts. These concerns are real and important. Yet it’s possible to support Israel’s right to defend itself while also holding it accountable to ethical standards. This dual approach — support coupled with honest critique — strengthens, rather than weakens, the bond between Israel and American Jews.
America’s involvement is more than just providing military aid and diplomatic cover. It’s about ensuring that Israel’s fight for survival doesn’t lead it down a path that betrays its core values. The principle of tohar haneshek, the purity of arms, demands that Israel’s military actions avoid unnecessary harm. It’s a concept deeply rooted in Jewish tradition, calling for restraint even in the heat of conflict. American influence, if used wisely, can help Israel stay true to this principle.
In a broader sense, America’s continued support for Israel must remain strong, but it also needs to reflect the complexities of the situation. This isn’t a black-and-white conflict, and American leadership should encourage Israel to
seek not just victory but a path to lasting peace. The rescue of hostages is crucial, but so is preventing a cycle of violence that further destabilizes the region.
At the same time, America must recognize that support for Israel isn’t just about defense. It’s about protecting a democratic ally that shares common values of human rights and justice. While military might is necessary, it must be tempered by the moral responsibility to minimize harm to civilians — Israeli and Palestinian alike.
In the end, America’s support for Israel is essential not just for Israel’s survival, but for upholding the values we hold dear. This is a moment of reckoning, when the stakes are high and the consequences of every decision are profound. The U.S. must stand by Israel, but also guide it in a way that ensures the preservation of life and the pursuit of peace. The hostages must come home, and this conflict must end with the preservation of the values that have always been at the heart of both nations’ aspirations.
Rabbi Michael Cohen is the clergical leader of Central Synagogue-Beth Emeth in Rockville Centre. He served in the U.S. Army for over a decade, and is a member of the Long Island Board of Rabbis, the New York Board of Rabbis and the Central Conference of American Rabbis.
best of times, the worst of times for women
s women ascend, does misogyny spike?
Let’s start with a quiz: Exactly what part of their bodies are men willing to enlarge or remove or bleach or burn or exfoliate or liposuction or disfigure with waxes and curling irons and injections and dyes? How many guys spend their time and money putting fat in and taking fat out in a never-ending pursuit of physical perfection? Do they obsess about injecting fat into their thinning lips or sucking fat out of their expanding behinds? The answer is, not that many, especially when compared with the number of girls and women who willingly undergo painful medical procedures to meet standards of beauty promulgated by social media and a hard-to-change culture in which men often decide how women should look. Some women say they were miserable growing up because boys called them flat-chested. Others say all the guys did was stare at their big breasts. Some wanted enhancements. Some wanted reductions. But the frame of reference often was the approval of
boys and men.
This is not a new story, but there are new threads.
Now, apparently, small breasts are “in.” According to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, in 2023, more than 76,000 American women had elective breast-reduction surgery, a 64 percent increase from 2019. Who sets the standard? Often the values come from men rather than the women themselves. Influencers who have enormous power over our teenagers send messages subliminal and overt, saying: You are not OK as you are. Something needs fixing.
TI hope the increasing numbers of patients are seeking the surgery for sound reasons, not as a fashion statement.
hey are empowered like never before, and being attacked like never before.
The New York Times ran a story last week, “The Power (and Relief) of a Smaller Bosom,” reporting that the number of women seeking breast-reduction surgery has increased, especially among those under 30.
Why are more and more young girls choosing surgery?
To be clear: Breast reduction is often necessary. Ultimately, it is a decision between a woman and her doctor. It’s a big deal; the procedure can cause scarring and loss of sensation, and it requires anesthesia. For many teenagers and women, it greatly changes their life for the better, but results are not guaranteed.
Looking out at the political and cultural panorama at this time and date, I see women empowered in unprecedented ways. And perhaps because of that new power, they are being attacked, also in unprecedented ways. As women ascend, as we elect women to Congress and perhaps the White House, there is a companion piece: a significant movement to keep women down, to deny them their rights, especially reproductive freedom. Much of the misogynistic rhetoric begins at the top, with a presidential candidate and his acolytes who demand laws that control women’s bodies and choices.
When I was 24, married three years, I became pregnant, had a miscarriage and a D and C — dilation and curettage — at a local hospital. Emotionally, it was wrenching. But from a medical point of view, it went smoothly. The doctor met us at the hospital. He did the procedure and I went home. I was healthy enough to have two healthy children in the following years.
Today, because of draconian abortion bans passed by mostly male politicians
in a number of states, and the overturning of Roe v. Wade, which guaranteed the right to abortion, women who miscarry risk bleeding to death or suffering for hours before they can access basic life-saving treatment. Doctors are afraid to treat them. These measures are antiwoman, archaic and cruel.
By an accident of the time in which I lived my reproductive years, I had a safe post-miscarriage D and C. Now, 50 years later, we have fallen back to restrictive practices controlled by politicians, led by Donald Trump.
These threads connect in a tapestry of what it feels like to be a girl or woman today.
We need to be strong within ourselves to reject any messaging that tells us our bodies need fixes and surgeries. We have to be fiercely committed to women’s freedom to choose if and when to have children.
Pay attention to the messaging targeting women. Don’t sign up for surgery that alters your body without thoughtful screening and counseling. Don’t go for shortcuts, or any other kind of cuts, to achieve someone else’s standard of beauty.
Support individuals, and vote for individuals who see the ascendancy of women as fulfilling the promise of democracy.
Copyright 2024 Randi Kreiss. Randi can be reached at randik3@aol.com.
HeraLd editoriaL
Even in a deep blue state, your vote matters a
s the Nov. 5 election approaches, we urge every eligible Long Islander to exercise his or her fundamental right, and fulfill a crucial civic duty, by voting. The importance of registering to vote and casting your ballot cannot be overstated, especially in an election year when so much is at stake — from immigration policy to a woman’s right to choose.
While it’s easy to assume that New York state’s presidential electoral votes are a foregone conclusion for Vice President Kamala Harris — the state has not voted in the majority for a Republican presidential candidate since Ronald Reagan in 1984 — this election is about far more than just the race for the White House. Our state and local races have profound implications not only for our daily lives and communities, but also for the future of the country.
Take for instance the race in the 4th Congressional District, right here on the South Shore of Nassau County, where incumbent U.S. Rep. Anthony D’Esposito, a Republican, faces former Town of Hempstead Supervisor Laura Gillen, a Democrat. Experts consider this race to be one of the — if not the — most competitive in the entire country. The outcome of this single race could determine which party controls the House of Representatives. Yes, you read that correctly: Your vote in this local race could have national ramifications,
Letters
Peter King on the ‘horse race’
To the Editor:
Re Peter King’s column last week, “After all the drama, it’s a dead heat”: After a list of “totally unexpected” events, Mr. King, seemingly surprised, declares the presidential campaign to be a “horse race.” It is not, however, despite these events but because of them that the race is too close to call. The issues that are on the ballot have been submerged by the media’s excessive focus on those that are not.
Mr. King’s call for voters to focus is correct, though his recitation of the issues omits many and misplaces others. Missing, for example, are abortion, gun legislation, disinformation, voter suppression/ballot diversion, Project 2025 and DeSantis-Blakeman-style personal militias. Crime is real, Mr. King says, an indisputable statement, but as the evidence shows, ought not to head the list.
I share Mr. King’s sentiment about living up to “the responsibilities and challenges of living in a democracy” which should begin
helping determine the makeup of the legislative body that decides both national and international policies.
And your influence doesn’t stop there. State Senate and Assembly races, as well as local elections, will shape policies that affect our schools, taxes, infrastructure, and quality of life. These are the decisions that impact us most directly, yet they often receive the least attention from voters.
The power to influence these outcomes is in your hands, but only if you’re registered and ready to vote. If you haven’t registered yet, or if you need to update your registration, visit vote.gov by the registration deadline, Oct. 26. Not sure if you’re registered? Vote.gov can tell you that, too. The userfriendly website simplifies the process, ensuring that you’re prepared to make your voice heard on Election Day. You can also register at the county Board of Elections, at 240 Old Country Road in Mineola.
For those who can’t make it to the polls on Nov. 5, New York offers several alternatives. Early voting runs from Oct. 26 to Nov. 3, providing ample opportunity to cast your ballot at your convenience. Early voting locations can be found at voterlookup.elections.ny.gov.
If you’re unable to vote in person, absentee voting is an option. You can request an absentee ballot by Oct. 26, at elections.ny.gov/request-ballot, or in
person, at the county Board of Elections, and return it by mail (postmarked by Nov. 5), or in person, at a polling location, by 9 p.m. on Election Day.
Democracy thrives on participation. When voter turnout is low, a small minority ends up making decisions for the entire community. By registering and voting, you ensure that your interests and values are represented at all levels of our government. Moreover, voting is a hard-won right that generations before us fought to secure and expand. Participating in elections honors their sacrifices and continues the work of strengthening our democracy.
In these politically charged times, it’s easy to believe that our individual votes don’t matter. Nothing could be further from the truth. Close races are sometimes decided by handfuls of votes, and every ballot cast sends a message about the issues that matter to our community.
You can educate yourself on the local issues and the candidates by reading the Herald. In the coming weeks, we will publish interviews with all of the candidates that are seeking your vote, so that you can cast an informed one.
Make your voice heard. Register to vote, encourage your friends and family to do the same, and show up to cast your ballot. Whether you choose to vote early, by mail or on Election Day, what matters most is that you participate.
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When will we finally say, ‘Enough’?
iwas a junior at plainedge High School, in North Massapequa, in 2018, when 17 people died and 17 others were injured in the Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School massacre in parkland, Florida.
After the shooting, we wore orange to school — the color for protesting gun violence — and staged a walkout in solidarity with the school. We ran a fundraiser through the National Honor Society, from plainedge to parkland, to help a grieving community over a thousand miles away. And yet, it didn’t seem like enough. What words do you have to offer, thoughts you have to think, when something so senseless happens to people your age?
That year, everything changed. When we returned to classes in the fall of 2018, the front doors at plainedge High had been changed to fortify the exterior. We weren’t permitted to enter or leave through any entrance except the main one, and we carried I.D. cards at all times.
But as demonstrated earlier this
month at Apalachee High School in Winder, georgia, sometimes no level of security is enough. It wasn’t enough at the Covenant School in Nashville last spring; it wasn’t enough in uvalde, Texas, the year before. The list of schools and communities tarnished by acts of violence against children goes on and on, and at some point, I think we all can’t help but wonder: How many more?
Many will argue that guns aren’t the problem in America, and that instead we have a mental health crisis. I agree — we do. But the two are not mutually exclusive.
erus pandemic, 1 in 5 children had a diagnosed mental health disorder. After 2020, surveys showed that 71 percent of parents said the pandemic had taken a toll on their child’s mental health — and things haven’t gotten much better since.
verything changed at Plainedge High in 2018 — but security isn’t enough.
gun violence, and deaths related to it, have been on the rise. In 2020, gun violence claimed more lives than it had during any other year on record — more than 45,000. In 2022 it was the leading cause of death among u.S. children and teens between ages 1 and 19. guns are a problem. But so is mental health.
The “mental health crisis” has long been Republicans’ scapegoat — their explanation for school shootings — and yet the party has done almost nothing to address their supposed concerns.
According to the American psychological Association, before the coronavi-
Letters
Congressman D’Esposito’s ‘last straw’
To the Editor:
Soon after Anthony D’Esposito was sworn into Congress, I wrote to him, suggesting that he take a leadership role by introducing legislation to require universal background checks to purchase guns, and ban assault weapons and high-capacity magazines. I assumed that as a former police officer with direct knowledge of the frequency of gun violence and the understanding that the majority of his constituents favor gun control, he would consider my proposal.
I was wrong. In his response, D’Esposito circumvented the issue entirely. Obviously, he is more beholden to the NRA than to his constituents. That has not stopped him from asking for donations from me every day.
Now I read that, contrary to House of Representatives ethics rules, he hired his mistress and his fiancée’s daughter to positions in his local congressional office. That’s the last straw. I doubt he will resign, but certainly he should not be re-elected to Congress.
DOuglAS MElzER Merrick
Is D’Esposito vulnerable to a House probe?
To the Editor:
It appears that the Herald may owe u.S. Rep Anthony D’Esposito and your readers a correction and an apology. last week’s issue had a story with the headline “D’Esposito faces ethics probe over hiring.” It cited the House of Representatives’ code of conduct’s list of relatives who cannot be hired by anyone serving in the House. Neither a former fiancée (no longer a fiancée at time of hiring) nor an alleged mistress is on the list.
Why did the Herald have an incendiary headline that was contradicted in the sixth paragraph of the story?
Because D’Esposito’s holier-than-thou opponent, l aura g illen, needed an opportunity to pontificate?
g illen identifies as a Catholic who worked with Mother Theresa for about five minutes long ago. g illen is proabortion because of her “own experience.” As she wrote in a Daily News op-ed piece in 2022, she had a medically necessary dilation and evacuation. Her experience was most unfortunate. But apparently she doesn’t know the difference between the termination of a human life through abortion and the removal of an already dead child.
Despite the fact that the data supports what we already know, 193 House Republicans voted against the Bipartisan Safer Communities Act, which provided $2.35 billion to expand vital school mental health services; 210 voted against the American Rescue plan Act, which provided $12 billion to address mental health needs arising from the pandemic; and 205 voted against the Mental Health Matters Act, which would provide grants for schools to hire more mental health experts and grow their mental health services.
America has a problem, and the longer we wait to address it, the more people will die. School shootings should have ended after Columbine, after Sandy Hook, after Oxford High School in Michigan. Students shouldn’t be afraid to go to school.
“life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness” is written in our Declaration of Independence, codifying the unalienable rights of all Americans. But as it turns
out, the children who have been senselessly murdered while their government stood by didn’t have those rights. Because if they did, they’d still be alive. Right?
Colt gray, the 14-year-old charged with four murders for the shooting in georgia, shouldn’t have had access to a gun. He displayed serious mental health concerns and had made threats in the past, and yet he carried out an act of extreme violence, with a weapon his father purchased for him.
The problem isn’t isolated to georgia. Two weeks ago, right here on long Island, a Bayville man was arrested because his 11-year-old son wandered out of his house carrying his father’s shotgun.
We can no longer afford to sit on the sidelines and hope things will change. The time for thoughts and prayers has passed. What we need is decisive action — action that addresses both gun control and mental health, because either one without the other is no solution.
The safety of children, the preservation of their future, depends on our ability to enact meaningful reforms. The question is no longer how many more tragedies we can endure, but when we will finally say, “Enough.”
Jordan Vallone is a senior editor of the Herald Community Newspapers. Comments? jvallone@liherald.com.
As with her quick condemnation of D’Esposito for supposed violation of House ethics rules that do not apply, gillen is ignorant of science and the law with regard to abortion. We do not need another addition to the idiocracy in D.C.
gillen must not be elected. And the Herald apparently owes some apologies.