August 2023 Special Needs Living Akron/Canton

ABCs of IEPs - Fresh Beginnings

BY REBECCA MCCLARY, PARENT MENTOR

I am just as shocked as you, but yes, it is back to school soon! In this submission, I want to share some tips and advice to make the start of the new school year a fresh beginning rather than a stressful transition. So, as you breathe in the scent of new crayons, take time to breathe in a fresh start.

TIP #1 - ASK FOR A PRIVATE TOUR

This is a specific tip I recommend to parents of kids who are starting at a new school building or who get overwhelmed with crowded open houses. Think of what will make this time as comfortable as possible for your child. Would they be better off wearing headphones to block out new or loud noises? Maybe a visual aide with pictures of their teachers/aides, classroom, gym, and lunch room will be most helpful. Some of our kiddos thrive on knowing “what is next.” Asking for a schedule and practicing their daily transitions could provide a sense of calm.

TIP #2 - TRACK PATTERNS

Grab yourself a notebook. Take a few minutes to create a quick chart. Include a row for each day (for the first two weeks of the school year), and a row for notes. Keep track of any issues, or concerns that you notice. Watch for behaviors, concerns your child is sharing, tiredness, anxiety, or even stress. After two weeks, look for any patterns and try your best to determine what may be triggering these challenges for your child. If you notice anything, it’s best to contact your IEP team as soon as possible. Tracking patterns can help your child thrive during this transition time.

TIP #3 - REQUEST AN IEP MEETING

One of the most common misconceptions of parents is that school staff are the only ones able to schedule a meeting. This is a myth. Parents, you can request meetings too! I should know … we had 14 IEP meetings last year for my daughter (yes, all were necessary). We discussed updating goals, new accommodations, or even new goals once a goal was achieved. Even if you think it is little, don’t hesitate to ask for an IEP meeting. Remember, you are part of your child’s IEP team.

I hope these tips will help make the beginning of the school year feel like a fresh start. I know it can be stressful, but you are strong! You are your child’s #1 advocate. Listen and be proactive. Let this be the fresh beginning yet!