Cover Story! Meet Grady!

THE STORY ABOUT 12-YEAR-OLD GRADY BENDER, A FIFTH-GRADER FROM COPLEY- FAIRLAWN MIDDLE SCHOOL WHO IS CHANGING THE WORLD.

Written by Melissa Klatt Photography by Michelle Herdlick

Grady loves to be around his peers, but they also need to be around Grady!

GRADY’S DIAGNOSIS Grady was diagnosed at 1 week old with Down syndrome, since none of the tests during his mom’s pregnancy indicated any cause for concern. Being that he was on the smaller side, they made the decision to deliver early.

Since his birth, Grady was monitored through his regular doctor visits, progressed with recorded milestones, and completed various therapies (physical, occupational, and speech). He was in the Help Me Grow program until age 3, a program that provides support to families with new babies and young children. From there, he was able to participate in the integrated preschool through the Summit County Developmental Disabilities.

He’s been through a lot throughout his years: lots of doctor appointments, bloodwork, therapy appointments, glasses, orthotics for his feet, and intervention for school. However, he’s here for a mighty purpose.

INSPIRATION FOR A POWERFUL STORY

“I loved seeing little ‘miracles’ in my son that parents of typical kids might take for granted as just expected,” she reflects. “As Christians, we believe he has no limitations.”

Grady’s story, their Christian upbringing, and the love they share inspired her to write a book titled I AM EXCEPTIONAL. The story is Christian-based and shows how God sees someone who may appear to have limits.

“Children with special needs can teach you a lot about patience, kindness, and forgiveness — gifts that the world needs,” says Elaine.

THE REAL MVP: GRADY! Since 2017, Grady has been playing baseball and loves it! He’s been involved with activities such as Challenger baseball, Empower basketball, Special Olympics, and FCA all-abilities camp. Grady and his family love the social and physical aspects of sports, but the community is what makes it worthwhile. Everyone at the events cheers the kids on to show their love and support!

ELAINE SHARES A TREASURED MEMORY OF GRADY DURING HIS FIRST SPECIAL OLYMPICS: “The first time his class participated in the Special Olympics, the school made ribbons for all of the students that lined the hallway. Even better was the day of the event! All of the teachers and students went to the gym to ‘send them off.’ They announced each student, and everyone cheered and held up posters as they came in. Grady was such a ham that he ran in blowing kisses like he was on a TV show!”

ELAINE’S ADVICE TO OTHER FAMILIES IN THE SPECIAL NEEDS COMMUNITY: “Things are hard sometimes, and many people will not understand, but you are not alone. Find out about organizations in your community and meet other parents. There are so many valuable resources available. It’s okay to ask for help, and when you do, you will meet some of the most amazing people that just want the best for your child too. Don’t be afraid to question or stand up for changes needed to support your child. You know your child best and are their best advocate. You are doing a great job!”